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Zero Waste, Zero Fuss

Learn how to make the green movement work for your family—it’s not as hard as you think!

Family Activities Calendar

Find something fun to do with your family every day of the month!

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Protecting Your Child’s Future Special Needs Directory Special Education Resources Special Education Resources at-a-Glance

Potty Training 101

Here’s how to make the frustrating task of getting your kids out of diapers as smooth as possible.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Advocating for Peri 12 Helping Teens Through Mental Health Struggles 44 Potty Training 101 46 Awkward Talks 48 Camps for Older Kids 50 Camps at-a-Glance Chart 52 Meet the Health Care Professional 52 Professional Services and Open Houses 53 Party Planner and Advertisers’ Index 54 I Will Not Fail This Child

22 Family Fun in Manhattan 23 Family Activities Calendar 36 Spring has Sprung

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raising kids editor’s note APRIL 2019 • Vol.18 • No.8

A Season to Celebrate

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e have a little spring in our step, and the change in seasons has (almost) nothing to do with it. In early March, we attended the annual Parenting Media Association conference, and NYMetroParents was honored with five awards for digital and editorial excellence—including a silver award for our Weekend Scoop newsletter! Sign up at nymetroparents.com/register if you don’t already get it!

Children always seem to have a little spring in their step when their birthdays roll around. So, to help you plan the ultimate birthday bash without breaking the bank, check out Madeleine Burry’s article on pg. 14. It’s full of ideas to earn you double-taps on Instagram without tapping into your savings.

Spring is also a time when we think of how we can help Mother Earth and do good for our environment (who else is excited to visit baby animals at the zoo?). Check out “Zero Waste, Zero Fuss” for 10 easy things you can do to limit the amount of trash your family creates (pg. 20).

April is Autism Awareness Month, and in honor of it, you’ll want to read Stella L. Spanakos’ heart-wrenching essay about how she turned a tragedy into a way to help her son and others on the spectrum (pg. 54). And in keeping with our goal to help you make better decisions for your kids, we’re bringing back Special Parent in digital editions full of advice, resources, and inspiring stories—all for parents of children with special needs. It’s launching Monday, April 8, so check it out then!

We’re also continuing to help you make better decisions for your kids when it comes to summer camp. If you haven’t already, make sure you read our 2019 Summer Camp Guide at nymetroparents.com/campguide/westchester. Whether you’ve already chosen a camp or are still looking, the Camp Guide is full of advice for working with camp staff, ensuring your child has an amazing summer, and local camp descriptions. It’s a must-read for every parent of a camper.

Wishing you a prosperous and productive spring!

Katelin Walling Editorial Director

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Who: Challenge Camp What’s New: More than 40 new classes for ages 4-15, which are slated to begin June 27.

Classes include 3D Printing Unleashed, Climate Control, Doodlematic Game Maker, Edison Robotics, Fantastic Beasts and How to Make Them, Graphic Design Studio, Platform 9¾, Spy Kids, Woody’s Toy Workshop, and theater productions of Annie and The Legend of Mulan.

This summer’s first session will run from June 27-July 26 and the second session will run from July 29-Aug. 16. Kids can attend both sessions or just one.

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Who: Studio B Dance Center What’s New: Camp Jojo and Rainbows & Unicorns, both beginning this month.

Rainbows & Unicorns drop-in spring break camp (ages 3-5) will feature pre-ballet, creative movement, jazz, and hip-hop, followed by themed arts and crafts, friendship building activities, and educational games.

Camp Jojo (ages 6-10) incorporates music, choreography, and art projects all inspired by the tween pop sensation.

All campers are encouraged to dress up in their favorite rainbow, unicorn, or Jojo shirt. Lunch is provided in both camps and you don’t have to be a studio member to attend. The studio offers flexible options to sign up for a single day, two days, or all three.

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In partnership with Athletic Parties of Westchester, the club aims to combine the fun of rock climbing with the excitement of athletics. The party package will offer a 2-hour birthday party event for up to 15 kids.

The first 45 minutes will be spent experiencing field-day games including tug of war, relay challenges, parachutes, and other team bonding activities.

After, children will rock climb for 45 minutes before heading to the private party room. Parties are customizable with moveable walls, cabinet space, backlight climbing, paper goods, and more.

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Advocating for Peri ››

Although the past 18 years have been full of challenges, I’ve always believed my daughter could do anything she put her mind to. By Lori Finkelstein, as told to David Paone

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’ll start at the beginning: I was born in Queens in 1965 and moved to West Hempstead about two years later.

I met Paul while we both attended Queens College, but he repulsed me, in true romantic comedy fashion. Eventually we became best friends, but when I set him up on a blind date, I knew I had made a mistake and wanted him for myself.

We were married on Dec. 31, 1989. I had told him if we didn’t get married in 1989, we were never getting married. Beginning a marriage with an ultimatum is always a good idea.

Our first child is Katy, born in 1990. Our second is Joel, born in 1995. We weren’t planning on a third child, at least Paul wasn’t, but in 1999 I heard on the radio that if we were to conceive a child within the next few days, we would most likely have a millennial, born by Dec. 31. We got on that right away. Peri was born on our 10th anniversary.

Much of Peri’s young life has included medical emergencies and hospital stays that last for months. By the time she was 2, she had both CPR and the Heimlich maneuver performed on her twice, including by Paul.

Sometimes I have flashbacks of them cutting her dress open in the ER and pounding on her.

Many children born with nemaline rod myopathy, a form of muscular dystrophy, don’t survive past the age of 7. Peri has survived one muscle biopsy (at 9 months old), nearly 25 sets of ear tubes, more than a dozen bronchoscopies, a tracheotomy, the removal of her tonsils and adenoids, a broken femur, two broken tibiae, and eight scoliosis surgeries.

Physically and medically, Peri’s obstacles were immense. But one early piece of advice we took heed to was to “maximize her potential.” We’ve always been very positive with Peri. We haven’t said, “she’s never going to do this.” We always assume she can do it.

That approach has worked. Peri made honor roll every quarter in sixth grade. The year before, she won the excellence award for her class at graduation. More recently she was salutatorian at her graduation from Henry Viscardi School in Albertson.

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Lori Finkelstein with her daughter Peri, who was born with nemaline rod myopathy, a form of muscular dystrophy

I didn’t know it at the time, but all during my young life I was learning the skills that enabled me to care for such a child.

My sister was book smart. It was her job to study all the time and I took care of the house. I cooked and cleaned while my parents were at work. But I also learned how to call companies on the phone if I had a problem with their products. I learned what to say to get them to send me a replacement at no charge.

All of this repeated itself when I had to deal with insurance company appeals and the uncooperating public school system.

My knowing how to finagle has gotten Peri services she wouldn’t otherwise have had.

In 2013, we had the opportunity to meet David Wright of the New York Mets at Citi Field. I love David Wright; he’s a mensch.

David walked over to his locker, produced an All-Star game jersey, signed it, and gave it to Peri. I would have been happy with a sock.

This past September he actually called Peri on the phone to talk about a gift she had sent him. Then he mailed her a signed baseball bat. Gotta love David Wright. He didn’t have to do any of that.

Currently, Peri is a freshman at Adelphi University in Garden City, as a business marketing major. I attend class with her some days and a nurse we hired on other days.

It’s like I’m going to college again. At first, I paid attention to the lessons and even asked questions, which really bothered Peri. So now I sit in class, next to Peri, watching Netflix on my phone. I watched all of Orange Is the New Black and now I’m up to Mad Men. Sometimes the teachers will talk about something from 1912 and give me a nod and I’ll give them one back. The worst part, however, is while Peri is on a feeding tube and losing weight, I think I’m gaining the freshman 20.

The plan is for Peri, and probably me, to go all the way to an MBA. I’ve been helping her with her papers, but I can see her getting stronger and stronger and soon she won’t need any help.

One day Peri will rule the world.

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Helping Teens through Mental Health Struggles ›› By Melissa Wickes

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early 20 percent of teenagers have a diagnosed mental health disorder, according to Robin Seymour, LCSW, clinical director of Newport Academy, a series of evidence-based healing centers for adolescents struggling with mental health issues. She says teens often exhibit internal mental health struggles by acting out and partaking in risky behaviors. So, to help your teen through these difficulties and limit risky behaviors, Seymour shares five effective ways to navigate your child’s mental health crisis.

Make communication a priority. Many teens say their No. 1 issue with their parents is a lack of communication, according to Seymour.

Stay present in your child’s life, ask questions without being interrogative, and, most importantly, listen to what she has to say. When approaching these conversations, recognize your child may be struggling and acknowledge that her outlandish behaviors may be a result of a deeper struggle. Approach the situation with love and understanding and ask yourself, ‘why is my child doing this?’

Let your teen know he is not alone. Teens in general struggle a lot because they often feel as though they are the only one dealing with certain things, whether it’s anxiety or depression—or just the feeling of receiving a bad grade on an exam. And with the stigma of mental health disorders, your child may feel very alone in his fight. Reassure your teen that he is not alone by discussing struggles you may have had as a teenager.

Don’t overreact to the situation. Blowing small problems out of proportion will only make the situation worse. In order to help your teen through what may or may not be a mental health crisis, be patient and find your own middle ground. If you overreact, your teen will be less likely to come to you for help in any situation.

Reach out to other adults in your child’s life. While you know your child better than anyone else, it can always help to get the perspective of other adults that spend a lot of time with her. If you have a concern, ask her teachers, coaches, and any other adults she may be spending a good chunk of time with if they have noticed an abnormality in your daughter’s life.

Access professional help. Mental health is a delicate and serious topic that needs to be treated with empathy and often professional help. Seymour suggests looking into mental health treatment options that use evidence-based practices and those that are specific to helping adolescents.

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You don’t have to break the bank to throw a memorable party for your child. Party planners and parents who’ve been there share their top tips for keeping costs down. By Madeleine Burry

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birthday and the accompanying party are a big deal for kids.

That’s no surprise—after all, what’s not to love about cake and presents? Thanks to the Internet (and especially Instagram and Pinterest), you can find plenty of inspiration when it’s time to plan out your child’s annual celebration.

But some of those stunning decor, activity, and food options you’ll spot online require hours of painstaking work—and often, hefty price tags, too. It can be easy to DIY yourself to exhaustion or exceed your budget, but that’s not necessary. “Children will have fun no matter what,” points out Rehaab Zohny director of operations at Gymtime Rhythm and Glues on the Upper East Side of Manhattan, who notes that few kids will notice if the cake has one tier or two.

If you’re on a budget (of time or money…or both) you can still throw a blowout party—we spoke with moms and dads, along with party planning pros, to get their very best tips for hosting a birthday party that’ll deliver Instagram double-taps without breaking the bank.

Take advantage of your location.

If you live in New York City (or nearby) and your child was born in a temperate month, you’ve hit the jackpot. “For twenty-five dollars plus a processing fee you can get a permit for various locations across NYC parks and dress the party to any theme you like,” says Manhattan mom Noelle Pileggi.

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unlimited rides), suggests Louise Simon, a Brooklyn mom of two.

For years, Paul Lyren checked the calendar for Brooklyn street fairs scheduled near his son’s birthday—especially ones with bouncy castles. “For a smoking ten-dollar bill you buy your kid a wristband that lets them bounce all day. So, a ten-kid party costs a hundred dollars, plus a cake and pizza and you are out for under a hundred and fifty dollars!” Lyren says. You can also petition the city to close down your street, then rent a bouncy castle yourself, he adds.

There are still plenty of options for kids born in colder months: try the skating rink, a bowling alley, or hand out a roll of quarters to each attendee at an arcade. Or, go DIY-free and head to a party destination. This can offer some real perks. For one, Zohny notes, “you are a guest at your own party!” That means you don’t need to worry about setup—or cleanup, she says.

Another option is to host at home. (If you live in an apartment, your building may have a common area you can use if space is tight.) An indoor, at-home party means you won’t need to have a weather back-up plan. And, there’s no venue charge.

Figure out a theme.

A theme really ties the party together, says Julie Ontaneda of My Classic Party, an event planning and styling company in Rye. That’s true even it’s a very simple one, like a color or your kid’s favorite things (think: unicorns, trucks, dinosaurs, or just “favorites” for older kids), she says. “A theme allows for simple

touches, like theme-named food items, that are Pinterest-worthy and memorable without breaking the bank,” Ontaneda says.

Save by going all out in only a few select areas, she recommends.

Simple touches still have a big impact. “Balloons are also a very cheap yet festive addition,” Ontaneda adds.

You can also encourage guests to get involved, suggests Amy Spielholtz, a Manhattan mom. For her daughter’s birthday, the theme was The Enchantment Under the Sea Dance, and guests were encouraged to dress as their favorite Back to the Future character or sea creature. “We were surprised by how many people got into it and it made things so much more festive as a result,” Spielholz says.

Choose an activity.

An activity is often the priciest aspect of a party, Ontaneda says, so start there, then see what’s left in your budget for food and decorations. If you’re doing the event at a destination—your local pool, a bowling alley, an indoor gym, etc.—this step may already be taken care of.

If not, you can hire someone, or figure out a fun, ageappropriate activity parents can lead. “When it comes to entertainment, do a treasure hunt. It can last a long time, the treasure can be things on the less expensive side, and the children will have a ball. Play musical chairs or musical statues—fun doesn’t have to be expensive,” says Lucy Harris, mom and CEO of Hello Baby Bump, which is based in Queens.

In fact, doing too many activities, and overly complicated ones, can lead to a party that feels rushed and chaotic, Zohny says.

Parents tend to want to have everything—the magician, the face painter, a tea party, and so on. “Keep it basic and simple for the best outcome,” she recommends.

And keep in mind that an activity can sometimes outlast the big event. “I wanted some type of activity, but I wasn’t looking to pay for an entertainer or rent equipment,” Spielholtz says—so for around a hundred dollars, she bought a ball pit holder and hundreds of balls to fill it up online. She says she sees it as an investment—the ball pit is stashed at her daughter’s grandparents for occasional play, and it will be available to use again at birthday parties for several years to come.

Trim your guest list.

Who should be invited to your child’s party? It’s tempting to say everybody and invite all your friends, along with your kid’s whole class.

Resist! Keeping the guest list trimmed down means less of everything— fewer decorations, fewer cupcakes, and fewer supplies, Harris says.

“Your child doesn’t need every kid in the class to come. Keep the guest list small, figure out the maximum number you want, and talk with your child about who they want,” Harris says. Ontaneda agrees:

“It is better to have a smaller party that is put together nicely than inviting too many people and having to skimp on things like food.”

But if you really crave a big bash (or if your kid’s school or day care requires that every kid get invited) join forces. “Consider a joint party with a friend—half the cost and double the fun!”

Ontaneda recommends.

Consider skipping paper invites, too, Harris urges, and opt for text messages and Facebook invites instead.

Benefit from other parents’ parties.

Party supplies await on Facebook marketplace and local Facebook groups, says Kristin Fuerst, mom of two. “You can often find someone unloading their used (but perfectly fine) party stuff at a big discount, and you might be able to score some cool things you might not otherwise have been able or willing to spring for,” Fuerst says. As well as decor from themed events, some parents will post unopened packages of napkins and plates, she says: “Lots of moms just want to help out another mom—or just get stuff out of the house and not in a landfill.”

Let your friends lend a hand, too. Nearly any parent will understand that you don’t always have the space to stash endless chairs and other big items. Go ahead and borrow items from friends and family, Harris recommends. And take people up on their offers if they ask what they can bring, she says. “When people offer to help out, there is nothing wrong accepting it. You will more than likely offer it back in return at one point or another,” Harris says.

Create a keepsake item for memories down the road.

Photos are a big path to a memorable party for guests. But Harris suggests having guests craft and sign a keepsake item, too. It can be simple, she says, like a canvas board with attendees’ handprints with their names below. “This is very personal and great when your child has a best friend or two for a couple of years and you can see the difference in their writing from their name,” Harris says.

Don’t forget to enjoy yourself!

If you’re stressed, it’ll show. Same goes if you’re having fun and enjoying yourself. “If you’re having a good time, your guests will have a good time,” Zohny points out. Bottom line: few people— especially the kids—will remember the decor and cake. What’ll stick is if the event is fun. “Remember, it’s for the children! Make sure they are having fun and you are there every step of the party enjoying just as much as they are. They only turn this age once!” Zohny says.

Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents. com, Scholastic, and About.com. Burry lives in Brooklyn with her husband and their cat.

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Proudly Serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000, 718-971-5862 clowns.com At Clowns.com, our goal is to create an unforgettable and memorable party experience for you and your family. We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.

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Dave’s entertainment services include more than 100 costumed characters from princesses and superheroes to pirates and tea parties. We feature DJs, clowns, magicians, face painters, balloon sculptors, photo booths, food carts, spectacular inflatable attractions, water slides, and new robotic animals.

K & A House of Bounce Party Rentals

845-825-6617 kahouseofbounce.com “We bring the party to you.” We have one of the largest selections of themed bounce houses along with dry and wet slides, obstacle courses, dunk tanks, and other interactive inflatables as well as cotton candy, popcorn, and additional fun concession foods.

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Outdoor Laser Tag, USA

914-413-7138 oltusa.com lasertagisfun@gmail.com Tired of the same old party? Experience laser tag in the 21st century.

We bring the fun to you, transform your property, and use hi-tech laser tag equipment you can’t find elsewhere. This is good, clean, outdoor fun that brings video games alive where players “live the game!”

Steam Works Studio

700 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 845-790-8132 steamworksstudio.com/westchester westchester@steamworksstudio.com Having a birthday? Grab your friends and have a STEAM-powered party with us! Enjoy two hours of fun activities based on your choice of a variety of STEAM themes!

Birthday Party Gifts Affordables A quality children’s consignment store

10 Main St., Dobbs Ferry 914-627-9462 affordablechild.com We are a quality consignment store, offering children’s clothing, maternity clothes, baby equipment, and toys. A great place to shop for a birthday gift! Open Monday through Saturday 10am5pm and Thursday 10am-6pm.

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Girl AGain

4 Martine Ave., free parking at the Seasons garage, White Plains 914-358-1460 girlagain.com girlagain@yesshecaninc.org American Girl fans and collectors have a Westchester destination to indulge their passion at discounted prices. Girl AGain is a resale boutique for gently used American Girl dolls, AG furniture, outfits, and accessories that make great birthday gifts. Not sure what the birthday girl wants?

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‘Tilly...A Deer’s Tale’

914-764-5564 tillyadeerstale.com Tilly...A Deer’s Tale is about a real deer that lives in upstate New York and faces challenges after an accident. This powerful story is meant to inspire children living with physical challenges or limitations. The book makes a great birthday gift!

Birthday Party Places A-Game Sports

856 Main St., New Rochelle 914-278-9477 agamesports.net info@agamesports.net A-Game Sports offers fun-packed 90-minute birthday parties for children of all ages. Choose up to three activities such as soccer, dodgeball, kickball, wiffleball, and flag football. Parties include 60 minutes of coached play on a private section of turf, followed by 30 minutes for pizza and beverages.

Artistree Performing Arts

114 W. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-835-2200 artistreearts.com jeanette@artistreearts.com Have your next child’s birthday party at Artistree Performing Arts!

Themes include Hip-Hop, Princess Spectacular, Space Adventure, Superhero, Hamilton, and Karaoke. We are happy to customize our parties. If you want your child to have a party he or she will never forget-plan one with us!

Bach To Rock Mamaroneck

130 Mamaroneck Ave., Mamaroneck 914-341-1457 mamaroneck.b2rmusic.com mamaroneck@bachtorock.com Our Rock City Birthday Party (ages 3-6) is action packed and allows kids to explore rock and roll instruments. Play like a rock star (Rock Birthday ages 7 and older) or sing like a superstar (Karaoke Birthday ages 6 and older) in our state-of-the-art recording studios.

Chelsea Piers Connecticut

One Blachley Road, Stamford 203-989-1100 birthdays chelseapiersct.com/birthday info@chelseapiersct.com Birthday parties at Chelsea Piers are action-packed! Options include gymnastics, dance, basketball, volleyball, soccer,

ice-skating, ninja warrior, and water slides. New to Chelsea Piers is a gymnastics party option for toddlers and a pool party!

Creative Corner of Larchmont

7 Addison St., Larchmont 914-833-2880 creativecornerlarchmont.com creativecornerlarchmont@gmail.com Creative Corner is the perfect place to celebrate a birthday! In our space stocked with awesome art projects, the birthday child and friends will have a fun and engaging time led by professional artists. Art party options include wood toys, treasure boxes, canvas bags, ceramic piggy banks, and canvas paintings.

Funfuzion at New Roc City

29 LeCount Place (Exit 16 off I-95), New Rochelle Party Central: 914-637-7575, option 1 funfuziononline.com Calling all birthday superstars!

You will be dazzled by a unique, interactive party experience!

Act one begins with a dazzling interactive show where everyone is a star! There will be eating, singing, dancing, and prizes! Act two is filled with your choice of action-packed amusements!

Great Play of Scarsdale Interactive Gym for Kids

969B Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-713-3470 greatplay.com/scarsdale Our award-winning, high-energy parties are spectacular events! Your guests will have a blast and your child will receive all-star treatment in our amazing Interactive Gym™.

We offer six great themes, and endless customization! Themes include Championship Day, Olympic Party, Super Hero Party, Fun & Games, and Dance Party.

Hommocks Park Ice Rink

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Jodi’s Gym

25 Hubbels Drive, Mount Kisco 914-244-8811 244 E. 84th St., Manhattan 212-772-7633 jodisgym.com Kids run, jump, climb, tumble, slide, bounce, and giggle to their hearts’ delight at Jodi’s Gym, where action-packed parties have won children’s hearts for 35 years. Teachers guide the children on bars, beams, rings, slides, tunnels, bounce house, and tumble track. Then, it’s off to a separate area for refreshments.

Lil Chameleon

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Musical Munchkins

167 Scarsdale Road, Tuckahoe 914-771-7000 musicalmunchkins.com Musical Munchkins is the perfect birthday party activity for babies through age 5! Enjoy group drumming, funny favorite sing-along songs, fabulous dancing scarves, maracas, chikitas, bubbles, buddy bands, sweet and funny puppets.

When adults join and play along, their kids love it, and even the grown-ups are entertained!

The Play Group Theatre

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The Rock Club at Pine Brook Fitness

130 Rhodes St., New Rochelle 914-633-7625 pinebrookfitness.com/the-rock-club Parties at The Rock Club literally rock! Rock climbing is an incredibly social sport and a great way to bring excitement and engagement to your next special event.

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Sportime USA

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Studio B Dance Center

277 White Plains Road (entrance on Prospect Avenue), Eastchester 914-793-2799 studiobdance.com Each party at Studio B is uniquely designed to give the birthday child an exciting, personalized experience. Boys and girls ages 2 and older enjoy dancing and playing games to their favorite music.

Party rooms are filled with colorful hula-hoops, wands, scarves, and bean bags, to engage children and stimulate their creativity.

Westchester Children’s Museum

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Cutting the amount of landfill trash your family creates isn’t as difficult as it sounds.

Here’s how to make this green movement work for your family. By Emma Steven

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ero-waste living has become a lifestyle movement. There are now hundreds of books, blogs, and videos about it, and even a number of zero-waste stores opening in New York City. For a beginner, becoming a zero-waste household looks time consuming and difficult. So just how do you do it, and is it even possible for a busy, urban family?

Bea Johnson is a mother of two, blogger, author of the best-selling book Zero Waste Home, and the founder of the zero-waste lifestyle movement. Her family of four famously collects less than a glass jar’s worth of waste a year, and she travels the world talking about it. Her passion and conviction for zero waste is the driving force behind the lifestyle’s growing popularity. “To me it’s a life hack,” she sums it up.

“It’s a way of saving time and money in so many different areas, so that all you regret is not having started earlier.”

But before you panic about having to throw away your trash can, it’s important to remember the world is not currently set up for us to be 100-percent zero waste. “Pretty much no one is completely zero waste,” says Celia Ristow, a zero-waste writer, organizer, founder of the blog Litterless. “You can still make some trash and that’s perfectly fine,” she reassures. “It’s less about making zero waste and more about zero-waste principles.”

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• It reduces your landfill. New Yorkers create an average of 12,000 tons of waste each day (not including commercial waste), and the majority of it ends up in landfill, according to the Mayor’s Office of Sustainability.

• It reduces greenhouse gases. Landfill is the third biggest source of methane gas, which is more potent than carbon dioxide and contributes significantly to climate change, according to the United States Environmental Protection Agency.

• It reduces plastic waste, a global problem that is poisoning our oceans and waterways. By 2025 we will be dumping 16 million metric tons of plastic waste into the sea, per year, according to a 2015 study by the UC Santa Barbara’s National Center for Ecological Analysis.

• It conserves natural resources. Creating single-use items uses precious resources (e.g. plastic forks), and those items can’t be re-used or recycled.

• Recycling isn’t enough. Although the EPA estimates that Americans recycle more than 87 million tons of waste a year, plastic is usually recycled into something that can’t be recycled, so it eventually ends up in landfill. Recycling also takes up a huge amount of resources, including shipping overseas.

• It can improve your health. It reduces your exposure to

plastics and chemicals in conventional consumer products and forces you to eat fewer processed foods.

• It can save you time and money. “When you eliminate over consumption and buying disposables, then all of a sudden it’s more time and money in your life to do what’s important to you,” Johnson says. You’ll spend less time and money on cleaning, buying, repairing, and disposing of things.

Getting Started

“When people get started, they think, ‘Oh boy, this sounds so complicated. It’s so different from what we’re doing,’” Johnson says. “But it actually isn’t. We’re talking about things that your grandparents used to do, really quite simple.” She gives the example of replacing tissues with handkerchiefs. Instead of spending time and money going to the store to buy tissues and disposing of them once used, you carry a handkerchief (like Grandma) that you wash and reuse.

Johnson also wants to dispel the myth that you need to spend all of your time making zero-waste replacements for things. While some people may enjoy it, this isn’t necessary. Instead of making your own toothpaste, breakfast cereal, or five different types of homemade kitchen cleaner, make low-waste swaps instead.

“If you can find the ingredients zero waste and you have the time and the curiosity then great,” Ristow says. “If not, someone probably already makes it and so you can save yourself time.” For example, if your grocery store only stocks packaged bread, you don’t need to make it yourself; look around for a local bakery and bring your own bag. Ristow’s blog has a great shopping directory (litterless.com/wheretoshop) to help you find low-waste alternatives.

“Zero waste becomes a lifestyle—not a short-term project— when you let it simplify your life, not complicate it,” Johnson says. “It’s all about finding super-simple solutions that you can see yourself sticking to for life.”

In her book, Johnson introduces five zero-waste rules: refuse, reduce, reuse, recycle, and rot. Read on to discover how to implement them, as well as further tips to get you started.

Refuse what you do not need, especially single-use items. Say no to the plastic bag, coffee cup, plastic fork, freebie pen, hotel shampoo, and toy at the dentist. This simple step will drastically reduce the waste you are bringing into your home. Then you can start working on what is already there.

Reduce your belongings to make you more aware of what you are bringing into your home. Do you need three different types of moisturizer? Do you have a full closet but keep buying clothes?

Do your kids play with all of their toys or could you donate some?

Go slow and start with easy areas. You can then see where you need to make zero-waste swaps.

Switch to reusables. Bring a reusable coffee cup to the coffee shop, a lunch box to work, a handkerchief in your bag, and reusable bags to the grocery store. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to do this, just use what you have at home. Make produce bags and handkerchiefs out of old sheets and use glass jars to transport your lunch or wet food like meat and cheese from the store. Need to buy something? Reuse by buying second hand items.

Go slow to avoid burn out and overwhelm. Ristow recommends replacing items one at a time, for a more sustainable change. “Start small, and start where you can make a big impact,” she says. “You don’t have to change everything at once. You’ll feel really good when you notice your small changes making a difference, which will motivate you to keep going.”

Recycle correctly. Don’t just put it all in and hope for the best.

Approximately 77 percent of New Yorker’s trash could be recycled, donated, or composted instead, according to the New York City Department of Sanitation. Read your borough’s recycling rules carefully to avoid contaminating your collection (causing it to end up in landfill). NYC has an excellent program in place. With a little research you can find a home for most things, even if they can’t be left at the curb.

Rot what you can’t recycle, reuse, or refuse. The simple act of composting will reduce your trash by 34 percent and you don’t need a garden to do it. Visit grownyc.org for more information about local collection and drop-off locations.

Shop at a farmer’s market, which is a great way of reducing waste. You’ll buy more fresh produce, support local farms, and you can bring your own bags and containers. There are more than 50 farmer’s markets in NYC, visit grownyc.org or downtoearthmarkets.com to find one near you.

Buy unpackaged foods. Once you get started, you’ll realize there are lots of options you aren’t using. Check out the bulk aisle of your local health food or grocery store, go to the bakery for your bread and cookies, get meats and cheeses from the deli counter, and stock up on lunch items at the salad bar. In some cases, you’ll even save money doing this. Find a bulk store near you with the Bulk Finder tool zerowastehome.com.

Switch cleaning and beauty products. You don’t need five different cleaners and rolls of paper towels for a clean house. All you need is baking soda, vinegar, some soap, and old rags. In the bathroom you can switch to soap bars and refillable shampoo. There are now many companies offering refillable, package free products such as Brooklyn’s own Package Free Shop, set up by zero-waste blogger Lauren Singer of trashisfortossers.com.

Focus on what’s important. “People think [zero waste] is about reducing your trash, but ultimately it actually translates into a simpler life: a life that is based on experiences instead of things and a life focused on being rather than having,” Johnson says. “For us, that’s what makes life richer.”

The zero-waste lifestyle movement began in one woman’s kitchen in California and has grown into something with the power to influence corporations. In May 2019, eight of the biggest plastic polluting companies in the world, including Procter & Gamble and Unilever, will start trialing a new venture called LOOP, in which their products are shipped to consumers in refillable packaging that they then return. The future, we hope, is zero waste.

Emma Steven is a British freelance writer living in Manhattan with her husband, two small kids, and two cats.

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This year’s Earth Day Bazaar will be Grand Bazaar NYC’s second annual event with more vendors creatively using recycled materials and educational nonprofits.

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Support local artists and businesses while showing the Earth a little love at the NYC Earth Day Bazaar. Shop from a variety of independent dealers who use recycled materials to make jewelry, fashion, furniture, art, and home goods, as well as beauty and skincare products, clothing, and children’s toys and accessories made with sustainable, fair-trade materials. Plus, take time to learn how to reduce your footprint and about environmental programs available in the area. Sunday, April 21, 10am-5:30pm. Ages: All. Free. Grand Bazaar NYC, 100 W. 77th St., Upper West Side. grandbazaarnyc.org.

The Jazz Standard Youth Orchestra was founded to bring children from all backgrounds into New York’s famous club for a unique, live jazz experience.

Jam Out to Jazz

What better way to establish an appreciation for music than by starting at a young age? Inspire your little ones to learn an instrument by watching kids close to their age play at Jazz for Kids. The Jazz Standard Youth Orchestra, a group of musicians ages 11-18, take the stage and jam out while you and your family dance and enjoy a Blue Smoke barbecue brunch. Often, band members will be joined by guest artists from the New York City jazz scene. Sundays, 2pm. Ages: All. Suggested donation: $5. Jazz Standard, 116 E. 27th St., Flatiron; jazzstandard.com.

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The Jewish Museum

Deemed one of the oldest Jewish museums in the world, this institution connects Jewish culture and art for people of all religions and backgrounds with more than 30,000 works of art, objects, and media. Take the kids to the Archaeology Zone where they can learn about artifacts and take on the role of archaeologists to search for clues about objects from ancient times to the present day.

Visit it: 1109 Fifth Ave., Upper East Side; thejewishmuseum.org Can’t-miss event: Freedom Art Jam (for Passover): Sunday, April 7, 11am-4pm Directions: Approximately a 55-minute drive or a 50-minute Metro-North and subway ride from White Plains

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Pip’s Island combines stimulating audiovisual content with original narrative and various exploratory spaces.

Pip’s Island

This one-of-a-kind, immersive experience for kids of all ages combines gaming, animation, and fantasy with actors, puppets, interactive set-pieces, and animated characters. Follow the cast of Pip’s Island as they save the island from darkness using various aspects of STEAM. Kids can ride Pebble’s Cloud Rover, travel underground to outwit moles, or indulge in a treat from Grumble Plum’s Bakery.

Visit it: 400 W. 42nd St., Times Square Can’t-miss event: Grand re-opening on April 12; see website for tickets and more Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive or 1-hour, 10-minute Metro-North and subway ride from White Plains

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the ten events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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Lard Dog & The Band of Shy Kid Koncert and Workshop

WHEN: Saturday, April 6, 11am and 1pm WHERE: Tarrytown Music Hall, 13 Main St., Tarrytown AGES: 5-12 WHAT: With their quirky lyrics and infectious tunes, the band has drawn comparisons to Devo, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Pee Wee Herman, and the B52’s.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The concert features a pre-show workshop for kids ages 6-10.

WANT TO GO? $25. 914-631-3390. tarrytownmusichall.org.

Laurie Berkner, Solo! The Greatest Hits Tour

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WHEN: Saturday, April 13, 11am WHERE: Wall Street Theater, 71 Wall St., Norwalk, CT AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Bestselling children’s recording artist and preschool television favorite Laurie Berkner brings her Greatest Hits Solo Tour to Connecticut.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Berkner will perform lots of tunes with simpler arrangements, hand motions, and a cappella singing, such as “Bottle Caps” and “Drive My Car.” WANT TO GO? $20-$75. 203-831-5004. wallstreettheater.com.

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Kids in the Kitchen: Cassatedde

WHEN: Saturday, April 13, 12:30pm WHERE: Westchester Italian Cultural Center, 1 Generoso Pope Place, Tuckahoe AGES: 3-12

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WHAT: Have fun creating Sicilian, half-moon shaped pastry with sweet filling.

WHY WE LOVE IT: You can make these traditional Italian Easter treats for your family.

WANT TO GO? $40; $35 members; $70 parent and child; $60 parent and child members. 914-771-8700. wiccny.org.

Signs of Spring Family Play Date

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WHEN: Sunday, April 14, 10am-12pm WHERE: Audubon Center in Greenwich, 613 Riversville Road, Greenwich, CT AGES: 3-8, adult WHAT: Bring the family for a puppet show, games, music, a scavenger hunt, and more.

WHY WE LOVE IT: A great way to spend the morning outdoors with spring-themed fun!

WANT TO GO? $8; $5 members; free for children younger than 1.

203-930-1353. greenwich.audubon.org.

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Great Green Eggstravaganza

WHEN: Sunday, April 14, 11am-3pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a day of egg-themed activities, including an environmentally friendly egg hunt and seasonal crafts.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Families can also meet animals on the great lawn and join a naturalist to discover signs of spring throughout the property.

WANT TO GO? $10; $5 for members; $15 day of event; $8 for members day of event. 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

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Spring Birding

WHEN: Sunday, April 14, 9:30am WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Explore the gardens and woodlands on a quest to spot both resident and rare birds.

WHY WE LOVE IT: A once-a-year opportunity to welcome migratory birds back for the spring.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $10; $6 students and seniors ages 65 and older; $4 children ages 6 and older; free for members and children younger than 6. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Parade for the Planet

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WHEN: Saturday, April 20, 2pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Take part in a colorful tribute to the natural world and march alongside the giant Earth ball and larger-than-life puppets during this lively parade.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Dress in your own unique costume in honor of Mother Nature for a chance to win special prizes.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $28; $25 seniors 65 and older and students with ID; $12 children ages 2-12; free for children younger than 2 and members. 718.817.8700. nybg.org.

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‘Rosie Revere, Engineer’

WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 11am and 1:30pm WHERE: Emelin Theatre, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Andrea Beaty’s beloved characters come together to save the day when a class trip takes an unexpected turn. Ages 5-9.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This show brings STEM topics to life in a fun way!

WANT TO GO? $20; $15 children. 914-698-0098. emelin.org.

Sheep Shearing Fest 2019

WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 10am-3pm WHERE: Stone Barns Center, 630 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the arrival of spring with farm activities, crafts, live music, and seasonal fare from local vendors.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Children dance around the Maypole and, when the shearing is done, can help herd the sheep out to pasture for the season.

WANT TO GO? $60 adult (tax-deductible amount: $48); $25 children ages 2-15 (tax-deductible amount: $13). 914-366-7905. stonebarnescenter.org.

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Peekskill Rotary’s 2nd Annual Cherry Blossom Festival

WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 10am-5pm WHERE: Peekskill Riverfront Green, Requa Street, Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: Usher in the warmer months with a festival full of children’s activities, craft and food vendors, cherry blossom tree guided tours, raffles, and silent auctions.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids’ activities include flower pot painting, bouncy castles, an educational scavenger hunt, face painting, and candle making.

WANT TO GO? admission is free, prices for goods vary. peekskillrotary.com.

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WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the six no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Caregiver Workshop: Parenting: One Step at a Time FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 3, 11am-12pm WHERE: White Plains Public Library, 100 Martine Ave., White Plains AGES: 3-5, adult WHAT: Learn hands-on approaches to use at home with your child while learning what positive parenting is all about.

WANT TO GO? 914-422-1476. whiteplainslibrary.org.

Free Information Session FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 8, 6:30-8pm WHERE: Port Chester-Rye Brook Public Library, 1 Haseco Ave., Port Chester AGES: Adult WHAT: Learn about the domestic adoption process and meet the staff of Forever Families Through Adoption.

WANT TO GO? 914-939-1180. foreverfamiliesthroughadoption.org.

Easter Egg Hunt Eggs-Travaganza FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 9, 4-6pm WHERE: Stew Leonards, 1 Stew Leonard Drive, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Children can collect eggs from costumed characters throughout the store and win prizes such as plush toys, activity books, or season passes to Rye Playland.

WANT TO GO? 914-375-4700. stewleonards.com.

Pajama Shabbat FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 12, 5:30-6:30pm WHERE: Temple Sholom, 300 E. Putnam Ave., Greenwich, CT AGES: 3-5 WHAT: This spirited introduction to Shabbat features singing, dancing, and storytelling with dinner to follow.

WANT TO GO? 203-869-7191. templesholom.com/pj-shabbat.

Big Truck Day FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 16, 10am-12pm WHERE: Chappaqua Library, 195 S. Greeley Ave., Chappaqua AGES: 3-8, adult WHAT: Explore big trucks in the library’s parking lot.

WANT TO GO? 914-238-3938. chappaqualibrary.org/special-programs.

How do you spell fun? B-I-N-G-O! FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 17, 2pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join the library for an afternoon of BINGO fun and win prizes.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com. ››

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Saw Mill River Audubon Second Saturday Walk FREE

THE GREAT OUTDOORS

WHEN: Saturday, April 13, 9?11am WHERE: Brinton Brook Sanctuary, 1339 Albany Post Road, Route 9A, Croton-on-Hudson AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Join the monthly walk at the area’s largest sanctuary, Brinton Brook in Croton-on-Hudson.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-6503. sawmillriveraudubon.org.

Family Nature Walk

WHEN: Friday, April 5, 10am and 2pm WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 Route 100, Katonah AGES: 3-8, adult WHAT: Learn all about sheep, hear a story, take a short walk, and make a craft. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $25. 914-864-7282. muscootfarm.org.

WHEN: Sunday, April 14, 1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join naturalist and educator Gabriel Willow on a family-friendly walk through the gardens or woodlands.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $10; $6 students and seniors ages 65 and older; $4 children ages 6 and older; free for children younger than 6 and members. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Earth Day Geology Project FREE

Pre-K Caretaker and Me: All About Chickens

Pre-K Caretaker and Me Series: All About Sheep

WHEN: Sunday, April 7, 11am-1pm WHERE: Bartow-Pell Mansion, 895 Shore Road, Bronx AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Young geologists will make their own marbleized rock and use their new knowledge to create a modern-day map of the landscape.

WANT TO GO? 718-885-1461. bpmm.org.

Project Feeder Watch FREE

WHEN: Through April 7: Sundays, 9-11am WHERE: Croton Point Nature Center, 1 Croton Point Ave., Croton-on-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: Try to ID and count birds at the bird feeders from inside the center.

WANT TO GO? 914-862-5297. projectfeederwatch.org.

First Signs of Spring

WHEN: Sunday, April 7, 1-2pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Explore the trails with a naturalist and identify the different signs of spring.

WANT TO GO? $8; $5 for members. 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

April Fool’s Bigfoot Hunt

WHEN: Sunday, April 7, 10-11am WHERE: Sheldrake Environmental Center, 685 Weaver St., Larchmont AGES: 3-12 WHAT: You hear strange noises at night. Could it be a Sasquatch? Bring your family to help look for clues.

WANT TO GO? $5; free for members and children younger than 2.

914-834-1443. sheldrakecenter.org/events.

Counting Eels at The Center for the Urban River at Beczak

WHEN: Sunday, April 7, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Collect data on migrating eels and their ecosystem.

WANT TO GO? $10; members save 10 percent. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Pre-K Caretaker and Me: Goats

WHEN: Friday, April 12, 10am and 2pm WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 Route 100, Katonah AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children will learn all about goats as they hear a story, take a short walk, and make a craft.

WANT TO GO? $25. 914-864-7282. muscootfarm.org.

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WHEN: Friday, April 19, 10am and 2pm WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 Route 100, Katonah AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children learn all about chickens as they hear a story, take a short walk, and make a craft. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $25. 914-864-7282. muscootfarm.org.

Wildflower Walk

WHEN: Saturday, April 20, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Audubon Center in Greenwich, 613 Riversville Road, Greenwich, CT AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn about the natural history and identification of early spring wildflowers on this walk. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $8; $5 members; free for children 2 and younger.

203-930-1351. greenwich.audubon.org/events/wildflower-walk.

Kids Count!

WHEN: April 20-21, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Learn about a teen-led, three-season project to document leaf, flower, and fruit development in native plants growing in the Adventure Garden.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $15; $7 seniors 65 and older and students with valid ID; $4 children ages 2-12; free for children younger than and members. 718.817.8700. nybg.org.

Budding Botanists

WHEN: April 20-22, Saturday-Sunday, 1:30-5:30pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Become a plant champion in the Children’s Garden this spring.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $15; $7 seniors 65and older and students with valid ID; $4 children ages 2-12; free for children younger than and members. 718.817.8700. nybg.org.

Plants for Pollinators Potting Activity

WHEN: April 20-22, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Plant your own native seedling and attract local pollinators to your neck of the woods.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $15; $7 seniors 65and older and students with valid ID; $4 children ages 2-12; free for children younger than and members. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

Let’s Celebrate Earth!

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 10am-2pm WHERE: Friends of Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Experienced environmental educators will help children differentiate between native and invasive plants, which will be used to create wonderful pieces of natural art. Children will collect natural artifacts including forsythia and daffodil flowers.

WANT TO GO? $80; $70 for members. 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org.

Young Discoverers: It’s Earth Day!

WHEN: April 3-24, Wednesdays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-5 WHAT: How can we keep the Earth clean? Check out the huge “Earth” poster, read The Earth Book by Todd Parr, and make your own Earth pictures to take home.

WANT TO GO? Free with museum admission. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Naturalist in Your Neighborhood FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 26, 10am-2pm WHERE: Friends of Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 3-12 WHAT: A Rye Nature Center naturalist will visit your property and provide suggestions on how to make it more welcoming to wildlife.

WANT TO GO? 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org.

Exploring Play: It’s Earth Day!

WHEN: April 5-26, Fridays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Sing a new song, take a look at the “Earth” poster, listen to a story, and then use markers and water to make your own Earth pictures.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for children younger than 1, members, and active duty military families.

914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Pond Exploration

WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 1pm WHERE: Friends of Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Be prepared to get dirty as a naturalist accompanies you to one of the many bodies of water with dip nets in tow. Sort through the muck in hopes of finding fairy shrimp, tadpoles, and even salamanders.

WANT TO GO? $8; $5 members. 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org.

Junior Arborist Station

WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 11am-3pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Don harnesses and hardhats and ascend into the canopy of the old black cherry tree to get a birds-eye view of Wave Hill.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $10; $6 students and seniors ages 65 and older; $4 children ages 6 and older; free for children younger than 6 and members. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Earth Week Celebration

WHEN: Sunday, April 28, 12-4pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Join Greenburgh Nature Center for a day of volunteer projects and workshops where you’ll learn ways to care for the Earth.

WANT TO GO? 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

Party for the Planet Earth Day Project FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 28, see website for details WHERE: Stratford Point, Prospect Drive, Stratford, CT AGES: All WHAT: Help clean and restore the shoreline environments and enjoy special family fun, including live music and face-painting.

WANT TO GO? 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org.

Family Walk: Totally Trees

WHEN: April 27-28, Saturday-Sunday, 1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: 6 and older WHAT: Discover how trees grow by looking at a tree’s parts and the role each part plays in a tree’s life cycle.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $10; $6 students and seniors ages 65 and older; $4 children ages 6 and older; free for children younger than 6 and members. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Mommy & Me

WHEN: Through May 20: select Mondays, 9:45-10:45am WHERE: Friends of Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 18 months to 4 years WHAT: Make crafts and meet animals while learning about the natural world.

WANT TO GO? $10-$15 per family. 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org.

SPECIAL NEEDS The Especially Everyone Ensemble featuring Jewels Harrison

WHEN: Sunday, April 7, 3pm doors; 3:30pm show WHERE: Garcia’s at The Capitol Theatre, 145 Westchester Ave., Port Chester AGES: Adult WHAT: An inclusive show considering those with special needs and their families.

WANT TO GO? $15. ticketfly.com.

Caring Bunny Easter Photo Experience FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 7, 9-10:30am WHERE: The Westchester Mall, 125 Westchester Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Caring Bunny provides an exclusive, subdued, and welcoming environment for children with special needs and their families.

WANT TO GO? 914-683-8600. eventbrite.com.

Sensory-Friendly Bunny Event FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 7, 9:30-10:30am WHERE: Galleria White Plains, 100 Main St., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: People within every spectrum of special needs and their families are invited to a private photo session with the Easter Bunny.

WANT TO GO? 914-682-0111. eventbrite.com.

Common Senses

WHEN: Sunday, April 28, 1pm WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: Participants will take part in guided activities to explore the five senses while discussing how it may be similar or different when compared to the animals they see around the center. Developed for individuals with diverse needs and abilities.

WANT TO GO? Call for information. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org. ››

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ANIMAL LOVERS Evening Howl for Pups of All Ages

WHEN: Saturday, April 6, 5:30pm WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: Guests will take a short sunset hike to howl with the wolves.

WANT TO GO? $16; $13 children younger than 12. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org.

Tales for Tails FREE

SHOW TIME! ‘The Wizard of Oz, Jr.’

WHEN: April 6-7, Saturday, 2pm and 7pm; Sunday, 12pm and 4pm WHERE: Irvington Town Hall Theater, 85 Main St., Irvington AGES: All WHAT: Dorothy, Toto, and friends are transported Over the Rainbow to adventures in Munchkin Land, the Haunted Forest, and Emerald City.

WANT TO GO? $18-$22. 914-591-6602. irvingtontheater.com.

Mystic India: Colors of India

WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 8-10pm WHERE: Westchester Community College, Academic Arts Theatre, 75 Grasslands Road, Valhalla AGES: All WHAT: This intimate version of the Bollywood dance spectacular features live musicians, dancers performing breathtaking acrobatics.

WANT TO GO? $24; $22 non-WCC students, seniors, faculty, and staff; $18 children younger than 13. 914-606-6262. sunywcc.edu/about/smartarts.

Magic of Scott Jameson FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 28, 2-4pm WHERE: White Plains Public Library, 100 Martine Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy family fun at this magic show.

WANT TO GO? 914-422-1476. whiteplainslibrary.org.

‘Annie, Jr.’

WHEN: Sunday, April 28, 10am, 12:30pm, 3:30pm, and 5:30pm WHERE: The Emelin Theatre, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: All WHAT: See Artistree Performing Arts’ second-fifth grade production of Annie, Jr.!

WANT TO GO? $25; $20 students in advance; $20-$30 the day of the show. 914-698-0098. emelin.org.

‘The Bodyguard’

WHEN: April 26-May 12, see website for schedule WHERE: White Plains Performing Arts Center, 11 City Place, White Plains AGES: 13 and older WHAT: See the musical based on the popular Whitney Houston and Kevin Costner film.

WANT TO GO? $35-$57. 914-328-1600. wppac.com.

‘Newsies’

WHEN: March 28-May 26, see website for schedule WHERE: Westchester Broadway Theatre, 1 Broadway Plaza, Elmsford AGES: 9 and older WHAT: See the smash-hit musical based on real events!

WANT TO GO? $53 and up. 914-372-6491. broadwaytheatre.com.

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WHEN: April 4-6, Thursday, 6pm; Saturday, 12pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Read to a specially trained dog WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Morning Farm Chores

WHEN: Saturday, April 13, 8-9am WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 Route 100, Katonah AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Work up close and personal with chickens, cows, sheep, and more.

WANT TO GO? $6; $20 for family of four. 914-864-7282. muscootfarm.org.

Family Birding Walk

WHEN: Saturday, April 13, 9-10am WHERE: Sheldrake Environmental Center, 685 Weaver St., Larchmont AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Learn how to use binoculars and your ears to identify birds.

WANT TO GO? $10; $5 members. 914-834-1443. sheldrakecenter.org.

The NY Metro Reptile Show

WHEN: Sunday, April 14, 9am-4pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: More than 150 breeders display live reptiles, amphibians, and arachnids.

WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 7-12; free for children younger than 7. 914-995-4050. countycenter.biz.

Pet Photos with the Easter Bunny

WHEN: April 7-14, Sundays, 6:30pm WHERE: The Westchester Mall, 125 Westchester Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Bring your furry friend for photos with the Easter Bunny.

WANT TO GO? Photo packages available to purchase. 914-683-8600. simon.com/mall/the-westchester.

Read to Rover FREE

WHEN: April 4-25, Thursdays, 5-6pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Children can practice reading to a furry friend.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Sleeping with Wolves

WHEN: April 27-28, Saturday, 5pm to Sunday, 8:30am WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: A chance to camp out overnight with more than 40 wolves WANT TO GO? $299 per four-person tent. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org.

Daddy-and-Me Animal Show

WHEN: Through May 4: select Saturdays, 9:15am WHERE: Friends of Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Fathers can drop in with their children for an animal adventure.

WANT TO GO? $10-$15 per family. 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org.

ONCE UPON A TIME Storytime FREE

WHEN: Thursday, April 4, 11:15-11:45am WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 18 months to 5 years, adult WHAT: Storytime for children and their grownups.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Story & Craft FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 5, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 2 and older WHAT: Enjoy story time followed by a special craft!

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Listen and Draw Afternoon FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 8, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 6-10 WHAT: Listen to a fun story and then draw a picture depicting it.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Book Group Discussion FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 17, 1:30-2:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: Adult WHAT: Discuss a book chosen by the library.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Book Babies FREE

WHEN: April 3-17, Wednesdays, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3 and younger WHAT: Enjoy stories, songs, puppets, and play time.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

A SUMMER SAILING EXPERIENCE Shattemuc Sailing Academy 2019

One of the top sailing programs on the Hudson, we offer comprehensive Sailing instruction and boating safety for youngsters ages 9-16.

Sailing Sessions Session 1: July 1 – July 26, 2019 Session 2: July 29 – August 23, 2019 www.boathudson.com (Open Houses on website) sailingacademy@shattemucyc.org 46 Westerly Road, Ossining, NY (Next to Boathouse Restaurant)

Bilingual Storytime FREE

WHEN: April 3-24, Wednesdays, 11:15-11:45am WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Enjoy stories, songs, and rhymes in English and Spanish.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

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Writer’s Workshop with AG Author Jennifer Castle

WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 11am-12pm WHERE: Girl AGain, 4 Martine Ave., Store 2B, White Plains AGES: 5-12 WHAT: American Girl author Jennifer Castle will read from her new book and then guide participants through a short writing workshop.

WANT TO GO? $15. 914-358-1460. girlagain.com.

Bilingual Book & Author Fiesta! FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 29, 6:30pm WHERE: Warner Library, 121 N. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Susie Jaramillo will present her books, puppets, videos, apps, and more.

WANT TO GO? 914-631-7734. warnerlibrary.org.

Mother Goose Storytime FREE

WHEN: Through May 18, Saturday, 11-11:30am WHERE: White Plains Public Library, 100 Martine Ave., White Plains AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: A half hour of rhymes, songs, and stories that encourage early literacy skills.

WANT TO GO? 914-422-1476. whiteplainslibrary.org. ››

Discover the joy of making music together with your family!

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Hopping with the Bunny FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 19, 5:30-7pm WHERE: FunFuzion at New Roc City, 29 LeCount Place, New Rochelle AGES: All WHAT: Visit with a bunny, play games, and enjoy crafts, snacks, and prizes.

WANT TO GO? 914-637-7575. funfuziononline.com.

Community Seder

WHEN: Friday, April 19, 7:15pm WHERE: Chabad of Rivertowns, 303 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry AGES: All WHAT: Discover and learn holiday rituals and enjoy gourmet Passover cuisine, and Hebrew and English readings. Plus, special activities for kids.

WANT TO GO? $54 adult; $13 children younger than 14; subsidized cost: $25 adult; no one will be turned away due to lack of funds. 914-693-6100. chabadrt.org.

Family Seder

WHEN: Friday, April 19, 7pm WHERE: Chabad of Bedford, 16 Old Village Lane, Katonah AGES: All WHAT: Join members of the community for a warm, interactive Passover Seder. RSVP by April 5.

WANT TO GO? $54; $25 children. 914-666-6065. chabadbedford.com.

Easter Bunny Photos

HOLIDAY FUN PizZaZzles Easter Extravaganza!

WHEN: Sunday, April 7, 12-3pm WHERE: Jefferson Valley Mall, 650 Lee Blvd., Yorktown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Expect a 6,000 Easter egg hunt for the kiddos, a spring garden creation station, DJ music, games, tons of giveaways and prizes, and more.

WANT TO GO? $25 per child. 914-245-4688. eventbrite.com.

Breakfast with the Easter Bunny

WHEN: Saturday, April 13, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: Galleria White Plains, 100 Main St., White Plains AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Have breakfast with the Easter Bunny!

WANT TO GO? $5. 914-682-0111. eventbrite.com.

Easter Egg Hunt!

WHEN: Sunday, April 14, 12-4pm WHERE: Monteverde, 28 Bear Mountain Bridge Road, Cortlandt AGES: All WHAT: Take part in the Easter Egg Hunt, decorate cookies, take photos with the Easter Bunny, and more.

WANT TO GO? $25. 914-737-6555. eventbrite.com.

Bunny Breakfast, Brunch & Lunch

WHEN: April 13-14, Saturday-Sunday, 10am, 12:30pm, and 2:30pm WHERE: Stew Leonards, 1 Stew Leonard Drive, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Families can sign up for a special Bunny Breakfast, Brunch, or Lunch and take photos with the Easter Bunny.

WANT TO GO? $16.95; $14.95 children ages 2-12. 914-375-4700. stewleonards.com.

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WHEN: March 29-April 20, Monday-Thursday, 11am-8pm; Friday-Saturday, 10am-9pm; Sunday, 11am-7pm WHERE: Cross County Shopping Center, 8000 Mall Walk, Yonkers AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Bring the family for Easter Bunny photos and gifts.

WANT TO GO? Prices vary for photo packages. 914-968-9571. crosscountycenter.com.

American Girl Kit’s Easter Basket

WHEN: Saturday, April 20, 11am-12pm WHERE: Girl AGain, 4 Martine Ave., Store 2B, White Plains AGES: 7 and older WHAT: Bring your doll for Easter egg crafts and treats to fill your baskets.

WANT TO GO? $15. 914-358-1460. eventbrite.com.

Ride a Vintage Train to Visit the Easter Bunny

WHEN: April 13-20, trains every 30 minutes; Saturday, 10:30am-2:30pm; Sunday, 12:30-2:30pm WHERE: Danbury Railway Museum, 120 White St., Danbury, CT AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Ride in a vintage train through the historic railyard to visit the Easter Bunny.

WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 2. 203-778-8337. danburyrailwaymuseum.org.

Egg Hunt with Wolves

WHEN: Sunday, April 21, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: Help hide eggs for Ambassador Wolves Alawa, Nikai, and Zephyr WANT TO GO? $14; $11 children 12 and younger. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org.

Passover: Elijah’s Cup

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 3:15-3:45pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 18 months to 4 years WHAT: Celebrate Passover and craft your very own decorative Elijah’s Cup. WANT TO GO? $20. 914-346-5148. LilChameleon.com.

SMARTY PANTS Teen Science Café: How Dogs Experience the World FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 3, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teen Science Café will meet with Madelyn Baker of the Horowitz Dog Cognition Lab at Barnard College, Columbia University.

WANT TO GO? 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

STEAM Team FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 15, 2pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Flex your brain with some hands-on STEAM activities and games.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Mad Science FREE

WHEN: Thursday, April 25, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join in for some fun, kid-friendly science experiments and challenges.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

STEAM Team Jr. FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 26, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Little ones can explore shapes and patterns with geometric tiles and build crazy structures with magnetic tiles.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Drop in for Tech Help FREE

WHEN: April 2-30, Tuesdays, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: All WHAT: Drop in for help with any of your technology devices.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

A SUMMER CAMP FOR KIDS WHO ARE FUNNY. Why can’t we just spend our summers writing jokes, getting on stage, and making each other laugh? Wait, we can!!

At Kids ‘N Comedy, you child will: • Learn to write and perform stand-up • Meet new people, • Hear from successful comics, • Play improv games, • Act out your favorite comedy sketches.

Cap it all off with your own stand-up show at Gotham Comedy Club.

No poison ivy, no canoeing.

For kids & teens ages 10–18.

Monday–Friday Noon–4 PM Campers can take 1, 2, or 3 sessions!

SUMMER CAMP 2019 Session 1 July 8–19 Session 2 July 22–August 2 Session 3 August 5–16

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Join us at The Play Group Theatre ®

Babies & Bagels FREE

WHEN: Through May 21: select Tuesdays and Thursdays, 9:15-10:30am WHERE: Temple Israel Center, 280 Old Mamaroneck Road, White Plains AGES: 0-2 WHAT: Share breakfast and join discussions on topics including sleep issues, nutrition, dealing with in-laws, and separation. April 11.

WANT TO GO? 914-948-2800. templeisraelcenter.org.

Westchester Children’s Museum Pop Up Shop

May 5-12

June 2-16

Tix: $18, $15 children order online at playgroup.org

G e t I N o n t h e A C T ! R e g i s t e r f o r PGT’s

WHEN: Through May 31: Wednesday-Sunday, 10am-4pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: All WHAT: The museum will offer a colorful, enriching selection of toys and books for infants through middle school-aged children.

WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1.

914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Tech Tuesdays FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 6: Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: White Plains Public Library, 100 Martine Ave., White Plains AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Activities will include coding, computer animation, robotics, video game design, and augmented reality.

WANT TO GO? 914-422-1476. whiteplainslibrary.org. ››

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The Golf Fair: Demo Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 13, 9am-5pm WHERE: Turtle Cove Golf and Sport Entertainment Center, 1 City Island Road, Pelham Bay Park AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Try the newest golf products and more.

WANT TO GO? 718-885-1129. turtlecovegolfcenter.com.

Chloe’s Baby Gym

WHEN: April 4-25, 2:30-3:15pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Learn fun and useful ways to play with your little one in baby’s first gym class! Ages 2-9 months.

WANT TO GO? $20 per class. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Stroller Tours

ON SCREEN ‘Ratatouille’ FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 7, 2-4pm WHERE: White Plains Public Library, 100 Martine Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: See the Pixar film about a rat who dreams of becoming a great chef.

WANT TO GO? 914-422-1476. whiteplainslibrary.org.

Movie Screening in Honor of Earth Day by White Plains BID FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 17, 10am-12pm WHERE: City Center 15 Cinema de Lux, 237 Martine Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: In celebration of Earth Day, attend a free showing of Disneynature’s Penguins. Reserve tickets online.

WANT TO GO? eventbrite.com.

‘The Lego Movie’ Days

WHEN: Through April 18, Saturday, 10am-9pm; Sunday, 10am-7pm WHERE: Legoland Discovery Center Westchester, 39 Fitzgerald St., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Join Emmet, Wyldstyle, and the gang during for building activities, character experiences, and interactive photo opportunities.

WANT TO GO? $29.95; free for children 2 and younger. 866-243-0770. legolanddiscoverycenter.com/westchester.

Backyard Wilderness

WHEN: April 19-25, see website for schedule WHERE: Jacob Burns Film Center, 364 Manville Road, Pleasantville AGES: All WHAT: Join Katie as she learns an imporant lesson about the world outside her front door.

WANT TO GO? $14; $9 members; $7.50 children ages 13 and younger.

914-747-5555. burnsfilmcenter.org/jbfc-kids.

WHEN: Friday, April 26, 9:30-10:30am WHERE: Katonah Museum of Art, 134 Jay St., Route 22, Katonah AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Pop your little one into a stroller and join other parents and caregivers for an interactive tour of current exhibitions.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission; members free. 914-232-9555. katonahmuseum.org.

Trains & Tracks FREE

WHEN: April 2-30, Tuesday, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Enjoy a program of free play with a huge collection of Thomas and Friends trains!

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

KINDNESS CRUSADERS Earring Making with Joan Lloyd FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 16, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: All WHAT: For every pair of earrings you make, make another pair that will be donated to a battered women’s shelter.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

DIY Kindness Rock FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 26, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 7 and older WHAT: Create inspirational messages when you decorate a ‘Kindness Rock.’

WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

WCS Run for the Wild

MOVERS & SHAKERS Gallery Nite Out: Yoga Night

WHEN: Thursday, April 4, 6-8:30pm WHERE: ArtsWestchester Gallery, 31 Mamaroneck Ave., White Plains AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Grab a mat and head to the gallery for a group yoga session for all levels.

WANT TO GO? $15. 914-428-4220. artswestchester.org.

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WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 7am-12pm WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Join the WCS Run for the Wild 5K and Family Run WANT TO GO? $30 and up. 718-220-5100. my.wcs.org.

Red Cross Blood Drive FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 30, 12-5pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 13 and older WHAT: One donation can save up to three lives! Walk-ins welcome.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org. ››

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MUSICIANS April First Friday

WHEN: Friday, April 5, 6-8pm WHERE: Bartow-Pell Mansion, 895 Shore Road, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the music, explore the museum, and stroll the garden.

WANT TO GO? $15; $5 Friend Members; $10 seniors and students; free for Heritage Members and above. 718-885-1461. bpmm.org.

Nathan Lee

WHEN: Sunday, April 7, 4pm WHERE: Emelin Theater, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Nathan Lee, a 17-year-old piano virtuoso, will give his New York Concerto Debut at Lincoln Center’s Alice Tully Hall.

WANT TO GO? $25-$40; $15 with student ID. 914-698-0098. emelin.org.

The Jazz Ambassadors of The United States Army Field Band FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 10, 7pm WHERE: Tarrytown Music Hall, 13 Main St., Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Hear the Jazz Ambassadors play classic big band standards, instrumental and vocal solo features, patriotic favorites, and more.

WANT TO GO? 914-631-3390. tarrytownmusichall.org.

WANT TO GO? $50; $35 seniors ages 65 and older; $15 students.

914-654-4926. thesymphonyofwestchester.org.

Family Fiesta with Flor FREE

WHEN: Saturdays, April 13 and 27, 12-12:30pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Join Flor Bromley for a fun bilingual (English/Spanish) music program designed for the whole family.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Songwriting Workshop

WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 2-4pm WHERE: The Rye Arts Center, 51 Milton Road, Rye AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Songwriters of all levels who want to learn how to harness their melodies and lyrics into a great song.

WANT TO GO? $30. 914-967-0700. ryeartscenter.org.

Learning Life Through Music

WHEN: April 2-30, 3:30-4:00pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 3 months to 5 years WHAT: Join Frank as he helps teach important life skills and ideas through music.

WANT TO GO? $20. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Performing Families

WHEN: Saturday, April 13, 7-9pm WHERE: ArtsWestchester Gallery, 31 Mamaroneck Ave., White Plains AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Celebrate the bonds of music with four family ensembles WANT TO GO? $10; free for children younger than 10. 914-428-4220. artswestchester.org.

Spring Break Groove JAM

WHEN: Tuesday, April 16, 9:30am and 10:30am WHERE: Groove @ KORYO Martial Arts, 13 Addison St., Larchmont AGES: 6 months to 4 years, adult WHAT: Join GROOVE for an immersive, 45-minute music experience.

WANT TO GO? $35 first child; $20 siblings. 914-834-3383. findgroove.com.

Celebrate Earth Day with GROOVE

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 9:30am and 10:30am WHERE: GROOVE @ JCC Mid-Westchester, 999 Wilmot Road, Scarsdale AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Celebrate Earth Day with songs about sunshine and more.

WANT TO GO? $35 first child; $20 siblings. 914-834-3383. findgroove.com.

Musical Tots FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 24, 11:15am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Join Lori Cohen for an interactive program of music and movement.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

The Symphony of Westchester All-Mozart Concert

WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 8pm WHERE: Christopher J. Murphy Auditorium, 715 North Ave., New Rochelle AGES: 9 and older WHAT: An all-Mozart program featuring pianist Alon Goldstein.

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CRAFTY KIDS DIY Cork-Stamped Flower FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 2, 4:30-5:30 pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 3-10 WHAT: Create some stamped flowers using cork, paint, and buttons.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Free Arts Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 6, 1-3pm WHERE: The Rye Arts Center, 51 Milton Road, Rye AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Dabble in STEAM programming, including painting, drawing, ceramics, 3-D printing, and creative building.

WANT TO GO? 914-967-0700. ryeartscenter.org.

Floral Weaving Family Workshops

WHEN: April 6-7, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Lyndhurst, 635 S. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Learn floral weaving in this family workshop.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $25; $20 seniors ages 62 and older; $15 children ages 6-16. 914-631-4481. lyndhurst.org.

DIY Unicorn Hand Puppet FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 9, 4:30-5:30 pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Make an adorable unicorn hand puppet for National Unicorn Day. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Lego Club FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 10, 4-6pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Bring your imagination and see what you can create with Legos.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Family Art Project: Roots and Routes Portraits

WHEN: April 13-14, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Respond to the artwork on display by using your own silhouette as the canvas to map out your personal and cultural relationship to the land.

WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors ages 65 and older; $4 children ages 6 and older; free for children younger than 6 and members.

718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

DIY Cut and Paste Poetry Making FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 15, 4:30-5:30 pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 3-12 WHAT: To celebrate National Poetry Month kids will cut and paste printed words of a line from classic stories and poems onto construction paper.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

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WHEN: Tuesday, April 16, 10am-12pm WHERE: Creative Corner of Larchmont, 7 Addison St., Larchmont AGES: 4 and older WHAT: Your child will use acrylic paint on a 9-by-12-inch canvas board during this drop-off art class.

WANT TO GO? $40. 914-833-2880. creativecornerlarchmont.com.

School’s Out/Art’s In

WHEN: April 16-19, Tuesday-Friday, 10am-3pm WHERE: Katonah Museum of Art, 134 Jay St., Route 22, Katonah AGES: All WHAT: Landscapes, natural worlds, imagined lands and materials from nature are explored in this spring-break series of drop-in activities led by teaching artists.

WANT TO GO? $10; free for members. 914-232-9555. katonahmuseum.org.

Family Art Project: The Earth on the Turtle’s Back

WHEN: April 20-21, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Honor the history of our planet, and all that it has given us, by screen-printing a turtle image and building layers of earth atop its shell.

WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors ages 65 and older; $4 children ages 6 and older; free for children younger than 6 and members.

718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Earth Day Craft FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Show your love for our planet with a special Earth Day craft!

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Earth Day Upcycled Flower Craft

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 4-4:40pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Create a beautiful flower arrangement using recycled egg cartons and other fun materials. For ages 3-6 years.

WANT TO GO? $20. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Nature Art

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 10am-12pm WHERE: Sheldrake Environmental Center, 685 Weaver St., Larchmont AGES: 5-17 WHAT: A morning of drawing artistic inspiration from the nature of Sheldrake.

WANT TO GO? $20; $15 members. 914-834-1443. sheldrakecenter.org.

Build a Fairy House for Earth Day FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Use your imagination to create a fairy house for Earth Day. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Abstract Art Painting

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 10am-12pm WHERE: Creative Corner of Larchmont, 7 Addison St., Larchmont AGES: 4 and older WHAT: Your child will use acrylic paint on a 9-by-12-inch canvas board during this drop-off art class.

WANT TO GO? $40. 914-833-2880. creativecornerlarchmont.com.

Trash to Treasure FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 23, 4-5pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill

AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids can make a fun craft using recycled materials.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

DIY Earth Day Slime FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 24, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 6 and older WHAT: Celebrate Earth Day by creating slime using glue, glitter, and other materials.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Children’s Book Day FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 6:30pm WHERE: Warner Library, 121 N. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a special musical performance by Amita Ajmera, while participating in dances, learning about culture, and tasting a traditional treat.

WANT TO GO? 914-631-7734. warnerlibrary.org.

White Plains ComicFest FREE

WHEN: April 3-24, Wednesdays, April 3 and 24, 4:30pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join a teen volunteer and channel your inner artist.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 11am-6pm WHERE: Galleria White Plains, 100 Main St., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy special guests, independent artists, digital animation workshops, cosplay, video games, face painting, and a “Who Is This Super Hero?” contest.

WANT TO GO? 914-682-0111. theconatwp.com.

Artful After School

47th Annual Strawberry Festival

Mad Art! FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 26, 3-5pm WHERE: Katonah Museum of Art, 134 Jay St., Route 22, Katonah AGES: All WHAT: Activities inspired by the art on view pop up around the KMA campus.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $10; $5 seniors and students; free for children younger than 12 and members. 914-232-9555. katonahmuseum.org.

Nature Origami

WHEN: Sunday, April 28, 12-5pm WHERE: College of New Rochelle, 29 Castle Place, New Rochelle AGES: All WHAT: Fun attractions, games, inflatables, a live DJ, and dance performances, plus, strawberry- and carnival-themed food available for purchase.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 914-654-5488. calendar.cnr.edu. ››

WHEN: Sunday, April 28, 1pm WHERE: Cranberry Lake Preserve, 1609 Old Orchard St., North White Plains AGES: 5-12, adult WHAT: Create spring-themed works of art out of paper. Registration required WANT TO GO? $4. 914-428-1005. parks.westchestergov.com/cranberry-lake.

Lego My Library! FREE

WHEN: Mondays, April 1 and 29, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Free play with a huge Lego collection!

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

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Historic Grounds & Modern Gardens: Juried Exhibition

WHEN: April 11-June 23, Monday-Friday, 9am-5pm WHERE: Lockwood-Mathews Mansion, 295 West Ave., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: See the Historic Grounds & Modern Gardens exhibit.

WANT TO GO? 45-minute tours: $10; $8 seniors 62 and older; $6 students; free for children younger than 8 and members. 90-minute tours: $20; $18 seniors 62 and older; $16 students; free for children younger than 8 and members. 203-838-9799. lockwoodmathewsmansion.com.

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Japanese Cherry Blossom Festival FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 7, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: Pelham Art Center, 155 5th Ave., Pelham AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the arrival of spring with a Japanese Taiko drum performance, flower arrangement and origami workshops, and more.

WANT TO GO? 914-738-2525. pelhamartcenter.org.

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Spring things to do

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Has Sprung

Now that it’s finally warming up you can take this time to enjoy all the best parts of the season: the blooming flowers and the nottoo-hot and not-too-cold weather. Take a family trip to a botanical garden to revel in the newly sprouted greenery, or a take a ride on the wild side with a carousel. On a sunny day, you can “putt” each other to the test with a friendly game of mini golf! And if the April showers seem unending you can try for a strike at a bowling alley!

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Palisades Center Mall Carousel Exit 12 off Route 303, West Nyack 845-353-2595; palisadescenter.com Hours: Monday-Saturday, 10am-9:30pm; Sunday, 11am-7pm Price: $2.50 per ride; $11 for five tickets; $20 for 10 tickets.

Palisades Mall is the 10th largest mall in the United States. The carousel, a double-decker Venetian model by Bertazzon, is located in the food court next to the Ferris wheel.

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BOWLING ALLEYS Jefferson Valley Lanes 3699 Hill Blvd., Jefferson Valley 914-245-7771; jeffersonvalleylanes.com Hours: daily, 9-12am The center includes 24 lanes and leagues for all ages and genders.

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Greenburgh Nature Center 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale 914-723-3470; greenburghnaturecenter.org Hours: Grounds: daily, dawn to dusk. Indoor exhibits: MondayThursday, 9:30am-4:30pm; Fridays (April-October), 9:30am-1pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-4:30pm.

Admission: $7; $6 seniors and students; $5 children ages 2-12; free for children younger than 2 The Greenburgh Nature Center is a nonprofit nature preserve and wildlife refuge with a mission to ignite passion, curiosity, and respect for our natural world. Its 33-acre property includes hiking trails, a pond, organic garden, nature discovery playground, native plant meadow, and more than 100 rescued and rehabilitated animals. It also offers nature and sustainability education programs, seasonal camps, and weekly programs for kids.

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MINI GOLF Glow Mini Golf at FunFuzion at New Roc City 29 LeCount Place, New Rochelle 914-637-7575; funfuziononline.com Hours: Monday-Thursday, 12-11pm; Friday, 12pm-1am; Saturday, 10-1am; Sunday, 11am-7pm (holiday hours are subject to change) Price: Monday-Thursday and Friday before 5pm $9.95 per game; Friday after 5pm, Saturday-Sunday, and holidays $10.50 per game This indoor, glow-in-the-dark course features 18 holes and a Yucatán jungle theme. Every Tuesday, play one round of mini golf and receive a Fuze Card to access any activity for 30 minutes. The center also has laser tag, glow-in-the-dark bowling, billiards, and fun house rides and games.

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Parents of children with special needs must plan for the years ahead in important ways.

Here’s where to begin. By Christina Vercelletto

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arenting is challenging no matter what. But as Nicole Johnson of Port Washington in Nassau County puts it, “parenting a severely disabled child is just very different. Our concerns are not ordinary.”

Johnson’s daughter, Josie, 7, has FOXG1 syndrome, a neurological disorder caused by a mutation in the FOXG1 gene.

“I worry about lifting her as she gets older,” Johnson continues.

“She’s 50 pounds, and it’s getting very hard.” Josie could have a life-threatening seizure at any time, so “it’s critical she is always with someone. I worry about her care,” shares Johnson, who is a co-founder of the FOXG1 Research Foundation.

Johnson’s worries about how her child will be taken care of when she’s no longer able to do it are likely familiar to many parents of children with special needs. Exactly what legal and financial steps need to be taken to ensure your child’s care and well-being down the road will be dictated by the specifics of your family’s situation and your child’s diagnosis.

A one-size-fits-all approach doesn’t exist, but consulting with an attorney who specializes in estate and guardianship law to discuss your unique situation is an essential step. Seeking the guidance of a financial planner with expertise in family matters could also be necessary. Given the personal, emotional nature of the topics you’ll 38

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be discussing, it’s important you feel very much at ease with him or her. If you enlist a large firm, make sure the person you first met with and liked is actually the one who will be working with you through the conclusion of the process.

When you’ve selected your planning “team,” prepare to discuss these key points, and go to your initial meetings with a list of specific questions in hand.

Government Services

Is Social Security Income (SSI), Social Security Disability Insurance (SSDI), Medicaid, or any other state or federal benefit available to your child, and what are the respective qualifications to receive them? This is the first thing to look into, and ask your attorney about, says Wendy Gildin, a special education lawyer in Garden City.

Income and Asset Limitations

Is there a limit to how much money your child can have in his or her name in order to receive the maximum amount of available benefits and services? “The answer is yes for many. For example, to qualify for SSI, your child must have less than two thousand dollars in assets,” Gilden explains. And it’s about more

than financial concerns. You will likely want to make sure there would be the least upset to your child’s current arrangements as possible, adds Naomi Becker Collier, Esq., of Pashman Stein in Purchase. Losing benefits can necessitate switching caregivers and disrupt your child’s routine.

Special Needs (or Supplemental Need) Trusts

Setting up a SNT for the benefit of the child with special needs is vital, says Michelle Peretz, counsel to Rivkin Radler’s Trusts & Estates Practice Group, with offices in Manhattan and Uniondale.

“By utilizing a special needs trust, you can protect the assets from claims and creditors, while retaining the disabled child’s eligibility for government services. Then the funds are used to pay expenses,” Peretz says. “Note, though, that the money in the trust cannot be given outright to the beneficiary, but [only] be used to pay expenses on their behalf.”

Try to set up a budget for your dependent’s needs, so you can get a rough estimate of what those expenses would be. “Once you have an idea of how much money will be needed for him or her, then you can evaluate how you are going to fund that need in a trust,” Collier says.

Guardians and Trustees

Consider carefully who will be the people to provide support for your child, Gildin urges. “Some adults with disabilities will require a guardian who has the legal ability to make decisions for him or her, while someone [else] may need to act as a trustee to oversee the special needs trust,” Gildin says.

She encourages parents to involve their child in this planning process as much as is practical.

Trustees have complete control of the finances and assets in the SNT. Parents do not need to give this control over to one relative or close friend; they can choose co-trustees instead. Peretz recommends three: “This will avoid the autonomy associated with having one trustee appointed, and the potential for deadlocks between an even number of trustees,” she explains.

Guardians, rather than controlling the financial side of your child’s life, will make decisions such as living arrangements, doctor selection, and transportation arrangements. Although it can be helpful if a trustee is also the guardian, Peretz notes, it’s quite possible that a person perfectly suited to making financial decisions isn’t necessarily the ideal caretaker. If you do decide to split up those responsibilities, make sure the respective parties’ temperaments and perspectives on such practical matters align. You may love and trust both your sister and your childhood best friend, but if the two don’t usually see eye-to-eye, it may not be wise to pair them in these important roles.

it’s smart to have health care proxies and related directives in place, she adds.

Properly Executed Life Insurance

Parents should make sure life insurance will be payable to the special needs trust, not directly paid out to the child, which could negate any government benefits for him or her. Lou Cannataro, partner at Cannataro Park Avenue Financial in Manhattan, advises purchasing separate life insurance policies for the spouse and any other children in the family. He points to “second to die” coverage as the most efficient life insurance for this type of situation. “Second to die is one policy that covers both parents.

There is no payout until the second parent dies, for typically this is when the child is truly on their own.”

Planning for a child’s future is important for all parents, but for parents of a child with special needs, the conversation is taken to another level. “We all nurture and plan for our child with the hope that our responsibility wanes once they begin to build their own lives,” Cannataro observes. “For parents with a [child with special needs], this role never ends.” So, while thinking ahead to a time when you won’t be able to care for your child as you do now is unsettling, even overwhelming, the best thing you can do for your child, and your own peace of mind, is to get started now.

Christina Vercelletto is a former editor at NYMetroParents, Parenting, Scholastic Parent & Child, and Woman’s Day. She lives on Long Island with her kids, a chiweenie, Pickles, and a 20-pound calico, Chub-Chub.

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Potty Training 101

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Getting your kids out of diapers can be a frustrating—but ultimately rewarding—task.

Here’s how to make the experience as smooth as possible. By Barbara Russo

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otty training is a big step in your child’s development. It’s a very important milestone for both you and your toddler. But how do you know it’s time for your little one to make the transition from diapers to toilet?

We spoke to some potty-training experts, and they agree that watching for the signs is key.

“The biggest factor contributing to the success of potty training is the readiness of the child. The average age of readiness varies between twenty-two and thirty months,” says Devan Van LanenWanek, M.D., of Cohen Children’s Medical Center in New Hyde Park. “Some subtle signs that your kid wants to learn how to use the toilet are showing interest in other people’s bathroom habits and expressing disgust at their dirty diapers.”

Additionally, your child needs to be able to hold her bodily functions, communicate her need to go, undress and redress, and wash her hands on her own, Dr. Van Lanen-Wanek says.

So now that you’ve established a solid foundation of readiness, here are some tips to keep in mind for making the potty-training experience a smooth one for both you and your child.

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Don’t Force It

Pressuring your child to begin potty training before he’s ready can be disastrous.

“One study found that initiation of toilet training before twentyseven months was not associated with earlier completion of toilet training success,” Dr. Van Lanen-Wanek says. “This suggests there is little benefit to starting before this age.” But if your child shows signs of readiness before, there’s no harm in starting then.

Don’t Get Frustrated

Keep in mind that the process of potty training can take a long time and have many ups and downs.

“The average length of toilet training is six to seven months, tends to be longer for boys than girls, and also longer in first-born children than subsequent children,” Dr. Van Lanen-Wanek says. “Remember that every kid is unique and develops at their own pace.”

Be Consistent

Once you make the move from diapers, it’s important not to go back, says Wendy Goldstein, a teacher at the 92Y Parenting Center in Manhattan.

“Know that there will be accidents, and it’s not a big deal,” Goldstein says. “When a child does have an accident, it helps her understand what it’s like to be wet. The goal is to try to get her to understand what’s happening. Children don’t generally like the feeling of being wet, so this trains them for what their bodies need.”

Jody Bernstein, another teacher at the 92Y Parenting Center, adds that when accidents do happen, encourage your child to help you clean up.

“You may need to set aside some time to focus on toilet training for a weekend or holiday break,” Bernstein suggests. “Stay close to home as you work on this. Let your child be naked or wear just underpants.”

Make a Tool Kit

One of the biggest challenges of potty training is figuring out how to prevent accidents. They’re messy, time-consuming situations that no parent is thrilled to deal with.

“To alleviate this, parents need to make sure they have all the supplies needed to be successful, as well as a clear plan of action before they begin, rather than the ‘let’s just wing it’ approach,” says Kaylee Sallak, founder of Parenting Made Joyful Lifestyle, and teacher of parenting classes at Buy Buy Baby.

Sallak recommends the following supplies for your tool kit: • A small potty chair • An insert for the big potty • A squatty potty stool to go under a big potty • Thick cloth underwear • Lose pants that have no zippers or buttons • A timer • Potty books • Potty songs • Tangible rewards (like candy) • Cleaning supplies ready for messes • Plastic bags with you always • Spare clothes with you always And as for the plan of action? “It needs to be decided upon ahead of time and agreed upon by both parents and any caregiver so there is consistency across the board,” Sallak says. “Whatever approach is selected, it should be a solid three days of no plans whatsoever to focus completely on getting a strong start to potty training.”

Bedtime Considerations

Nighttime should have special considerations, according to the experts. Craig Hammond, founder and CEO of Peejamas, functional pajamas designed to eliminate the need for nighttime diapers, recommends establishing a routine at night that includes going to the bathroom before bed and limiting fluid intake in the evening.

“Parents don’t need to force their child to completely fast from water or fluids at night, but definitely start winding it down after dinner,” Hammond says. “This helps to limit fluid building in the bladder, potentially leading to a release during the night. Coupled with the routine of going potty prior to bed, this will help your child learn.”

Hammond also recommends—if possible—not using a diaper at night, just as your child wouldn’t in the day time during potty training.

“Putting a child back in a diaper during the night, is inconsistent and contrary to the daytime training recommendations,” Hammond says. “Of course, this can lead to potential messes, which there are solutions to avoid that, and may not be realistic for children with individual needs. But if you can do it, it is a much better way to help them really nail the nighttime phase of potty training.”

Potty training your child can be fun and rewarding, but as with all things, should you have any concerns or questions, call your child’s doctor or health-care provider.

Barbara Russo is a freelance writer who holds a bachelor’s degree in communications.

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Experts suggest taking cues from your environment to broach uncomfortable topics with your teens. For example, if characters in a show or movie you’re both watching are smoking or drinking, it’s an opportune time to talk to your teen about drugs and alcohol use.

Awkward Talks

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As our kids get older, it’s time to have conversations that make us uncomfortable.

Here’s how to approach those topics—and get your teens to open up. By Lambeth Hochwald

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f it feels like your heart-to-hearts with your teen have ground to a halt, take solace in the fact that this is very much par for the course at this age and stage.

Blame it on the teenage brain that’s going through incredibly important changes that ultimately help prepare kids to function in the adult world, says Teodora Pavkovic, a psychologist and parenting coach in New York City. “Not only does this have a psychological impact, but a physical one, too, which can be really scary for kids,” she says.

Get ready for these changes to take several years to shake out.

“The brain won’t stop going through this rollercoaster of a ride until kids are about twenty-five and brain change stabilizes,” Pavkovic says.

To help us navigate through this awkward time, we asked top experts to sketch out what kids are going through at this age and then offer some key tips for getting your child to actually open up and talk about even the most uncomfortable of topics.

York, an organization in NYC that counsels survivors of intimate partner violence. “At the same time, their personalities haven’t been fully formed.

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If your kids haven’t hit the teen stage quite yet, here’s some good news: Now’s the time to build trust with them. “Make sure the children in your household feel comfortable talking to you,” Nilva says. Then, when they’re older, make sure your overall concern with their health and safety comes first. “In other words, urge them to talk to you even if you’re upset that your teen violated an understanding you had whether it’s about violating a curfew or anything else—that trust is what’s most important.”

Another change that comes with parenting teens—and it’s one that can be quite shocking—is that your kids may prefer to talk to their

peers instead of you, suggests Amy Alamar, a parenting expert in Avon, CT, and author of The Parenting Project: Build Extraordinary Relationships with Your Child Through Daily Conversation. “It can be awkward to talk to your teen if the conversation feels forced or inauthentic,” she says. “It’s natural for teens to prefer to talk to their peers and keep some things private. That’s okay and healthy for your teen but don’t give up. You always want to keep working on better ways to communicate one-on-one with your teen.”

Be Direct About Hygiene

The best way to talk about almost anything with your teen is to be open and direct, Alamar says, and this comes into play, especially, broaching an awkward topic such as personal hygiene. “Don’t beat around the bush,” Alamar says. “Of course, with hygiene and other touchy topics you’ll make the most impact if you broach it in a positive or lighthearted way and avoid sarcasm. You can say things like, ‘This is normal,’ ‘Everyone has body odor,’ or ‘Have you thought about using deodorant?’ Help your teen to see that this is a state of humanity and not a reflection on who they are as a person.”

Speak Up About Vaping and Drugs

When it comes to the topic of alcohol, smoking, vaping, or drug use of any kind, you have two goals: Be clear about why you’re concerned and don’t shelter your child from the subject. “It’s better your child learns about risky behavior from you as it offers you the ability to share your values and expectations,” Alamar says. “It also shows your child that you are a trusted adult they can come to and they shouldn’t be afraid to. It’s very possible that your teen has experimented with vaping, drugs, or alcohol or at least been exposed to it. Rather than judge them and come down hard with punishment, open up the conversation.”

While this doesn’t mean you should avoid consequences, Alamar suggests the conversation should be more about the experience than punishment. “Your goal is to help your child to understand the real dangers and your concerns,” she says. “Listen to find out why your child chose to do this or is thinking about it. Ask questions like ‘Why do you like it?’ and help your child to find alternative behaviors and/or help him or her to feel comfortable coming to you.”

independent adult who can sustain meaningful relationships, then you have to offer opportunities for your child to explore relationships—even ones you are suspect of.”

If you judge your teen’s friends, she may take personal offense so tread lightly. “If you’re having trouble accepting your teen’s friends, consider inviting them to your home or see if you can get to know their families,” Alamar suggests. “In the end, your child is going to choose their friends, and the more you judge, the less likely they are to come to you with questions, concerns, or things to celebrate. They should have the opportunity to experience great friendships they’ve cultivated on their own and also experience disappointments and conflicts.”

Remember: You Won’t Have All the Answers

When you’re parenting during this phase, give yourself permission to be vulnerable, Pavkovic says. “Be kind to yourself by going into this phase knowing that you don’t know all the answers,” she says. “The important thing is to get the conversation going and to be able to say, ‘You know what, this is a tough one and I may not know what to tell you, but let’s talk it out anyway.’”

It’s also key to keep your child’s strengths in mind. “This is your most powerful tool,” she says. “As you try to help them with each challenge they face, if you know their strengths you can coach them through using these strengths to resolve these issues.”

No pressure, but the steps you take now will forever make a difference in your teen’s life. “What you are also doing then is not only helping your child make healthier decisions, but you are hitting the parental bingo by teaching them how to help themselves once they are living out there in the world without you,” Pavkovic says.

Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

‘The Talk’ Looks Different from When We Were Teens

When it comes to talking to your kids about sex, the easiest to-do tip is to use the environment around you for these conversations, like a poster you come across, a song you hear, a character from a film, etc., Pavkovic suggests. “Ask your teen very open-ended questions—imagine that you are their university professor and they are your grad student and you want their thoughts on a subject,” she says. “The two most important things here are that one: they feel you are emotionally calm and stable while you speak to them, and two: they feel your respect for their subjective experience.”

In other words, time your talk. “Don’t start these conversations…right after coming back from work exhausted or right after finding inappropriate texts on your child’s phone,” she adds. “You need to be the stabilizing factor for them—remember there’s a storm going on inside of them.”

If You Don’t Like Your Child’s Friends, Be Supportive Anyway

Remember: The core struggle for teens is, again, their immeasurable need to belong to their peer group, Alamar says. “This means you should try to support friendships as best you can so your child can learn to have intimate relationships and build trust outside of just the immediate family,” she says. “If you want to raise an

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Multiple locations in Westchester County 888-909-2822 destinationscience.org info@destinationscience.org Is your teen looking for something new and exciting to do this summer, while adding real leadership experience to their school resumes? Destination Science Leader-in-Training program is a hands-on leadership experience for kids in seventh through 11th grade. This is perfect for any students interested in gaining real-world leadership experience.

Golf Camps at the Mitchell Spearman Golf Academy

Located at the Doral Arrowwood in Rye Brook 800-733-1653 spearmanjuniorgolf.com joanna@spearmangolfacademy.com The premiere golf experience in Westchester and voted Best Junior Golf Instruction in New York! Camps are designed for juniors ages 4 to older teens, with all skill levels welcome. From putting and short game training to swing development and oncourse play, we provide a fun and exciting learning environment.

Mosholu Day Camp

261 Arden Valley Road, Southfields 845-243-0751 mosholudaycamp.com Mosholu Camps offer a quality program at a low cost. With a strong emphasis on developing new relationships and experiences, our traditional camp day is filled with dynamic activities. Campers

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participate in activities such as swimming, music, arts, trips, archery, boating, dance, and sports.

At Mosholu, we make memories!

Oasis Summer Day Camp

Alla Zaydman, director Mercy College, 555 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry Masters School, 49 Clinton Ave., Dobbs Ferry 646-519-5057 oasischildren.com dobbs@oasischildren.com Teen Travel is for seventh-ninth grades and provides amazing experiences and friends forever! Daily trips to destinations in Long Island and the New York area include: museums, go–karts, theater performances, sporting events, overnight trips, late-night socials, inter-camp challenges, amusement parks, and workshops. All trips on air-conditioned buses with mature staff.

Penny Lane Dance Academy

80 Route 6 Unit #608, Baldwin Place 914-248-8822 pennylanedance.com info@pennylanedance.com Since 2003 Penny Lane Dance Academy’s camps and classes have been known for being magical and inspirational in the world of dance.

We offer summer camps for ages 2½ to 16, from Fairy Academy where your little one will earn her very own wings to Artists in Motion for older campers.

training in a one-of-a-kind family atmosphere. With seven different programs, Summer Theatre is designed for young actors with every level of experience, ages 4-17. Our conservatory-style camp is located in its own air-conditioned performing arts complex which includes two theatres, rehearsal studios, scenic, and costume shops.

Purchase College Learn-to-Swim Program

J. Brian Hansbury, director 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase 914-251-5938 purchasecollegeathletics. com/sports/2011/6/14/ GEN_0614112216.aspx john.hansbury@purchase.edu The Purchase College Aquatics Program runs year-round in our sparkling, six-lane pool and features children’s group lessons, parent and child classes (6 months and older), and specialty programs including adult lessons, private and semi-private lessons, and Pre-Competitive Swimming Group workouts. Summer lessons offered daily with morning and afternoon options.

Purchase College Summer Youth and Precollege Programs in the Arts

130 Rhodes St., New Rochelle 914-636-1019 pinebrookfitness.com Adventure begins here! Join us this summer for our annual rock climbing and tennis summer camps. Have a blast climbing or playing tennis in our indoor air-conditioned facility or experience the thrill of real rock and fresh air with our outdoor climbing camp Rockout! Ages 5-16.

Purchase College, 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase 914-251-6500 purchase.edu/academics/ youth-and-precollege-programs youth.pre.college@purchase.edu, laura.vuli@purchase.edu For more than 40 years, students have been inspired by our scenic campus to learn new skills and create with others who share their passion. Immersed in a variety of exciting, fun, and enriching learning activities, students gain new skills in acting, architecture, creative writing, digital arts, filmmaking, photography, journalism, and music.

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1 N. Broadway, Suite 111, White Plains 914-946-4433 playgroup.org info@playgroup.org We offer professional-quality

Westerly Road, Ossining 914-941-8777 shattemucyc.org sailingacademy@shattemucyc.org From beginner sailing skills to competitive racing techniques,

Shattemuc offers young people an unforgettable summer experience on the majestic Hudson River. The Academy’s goal is to turn novices into skillful, confident, safety-conscious sailors. You will be amazed at how much your son or daughter learns in just one four-week session.

joy, entertainment, enlightenment, and playful fun for boys and girls ages 3½-14. Stop by and see our sports field, basketball court, and playground!

Swim instruction and recreational swim are major components of the program. Door-todoor transportation and lunch included.

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Twin Lakes Farm

SPORTIME Lake Isle 660 White Plains Road Lake Isle Country Club Tennis Courts, Eastchester 914-777-5151 sportimecamps.com/lisle campslisle@sportimeny.com SPORTIME Harbor Island Tennis Courts in Harbor Island Park, Mamaroneck 914-777-5050 sportimecamps.com/lisle campslisle@sportimeny.com sportimeny.com/summercamps camps@sportimeny.com SPORTIME’s tennis and JMTA Tennis Training camps are designed for youngsters who want to focus their camp days on playing and learning tennis. Campers will be taught proper tennis technique and strategies while participating in competitive drills, games, and match play. Camp days include field sports, special events, and swimming.

Summer Kids College at Westchester Community College Extension Centers

Multiple Locations in Westchester Ossining 914-606-7400, ossining@ sunywcc.edu Peekskill 914-606-7300, peekskill@sunwcc.edu sunywcc.edu/locations/extension-centers-course-schedules Westchester Community College Center for the Arts, located at the Westchester County Center, offers art classes for children and teens. All classes can be taken as full-day or halfday. Programs include the Teen Art Institute, and Art Classes for Kids. Contact our Ossining location for information on our science camp.

Thornton-Donovan School

100 Overlook Circle, New Rochelle 914-632-8836 td.edu Founded in 1969, the Summer Challenge has been a source of

960 California Road, Bronxville 914-961-2192 twinlakesfarm.com camp@twinlakesfarm.com Summers are filled with riding lessons, horsemanship, mounted games, Camp Olympics, paint the pony, scavenger hunt, games, and activities! Offering full- and half-day options Monday-Friday. Open to all riding levels. Students not currently riding at Twin Lakes Farm should schedule an evaluation lessons or join us prior to camp.

The Whale Camp

610-399-1463 whalecamp.com The Whale Camp provides experiential marine biology programs and facilities for learning about the dynamic ecologies of the Bay of Fundy and Grand Manan Island. Our goal: use hands-on activities to increase awareness and understanding of natural systems. Campers build confidence, connect with the natural environment, and make lasting friendships.

Wildlife Conservation Society (WCS) Zoos and Aquarium

1-800- 433-4149 The Bronx Zoo: 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx Central Park Zoo: 830 Fifth Ave., Manhattan Queens Zoo: 53-51 111th St., Corona Prospect Park Zoo: 450 Flatbush Ave., Brooklyn New York Aquarium: 602 Surf Ave., Brooklyn wcs.org/camps Summer just got wild! Send your animal lover to summer camp at the Bronx Zoo, Central Park Zoo, Prospect Park Zoo, Queens Zoo, and the New York Aquarium! Campers will enjoy up-close animal experiences, special access to our amazing exhibits, and age appropriate, hands-on STEM activities.

Children's Swimming Progam Upcoming Sessions Summer Session Dates 1.6/10-6/21 2. 6/24-7/5 3. 7/8-7/19 4. 7/22-8/01 5. 8/05-8/16

Lessons will held on Saturdays and Sundays for all upcoming sessions. Levels 1-2-3-4 and Stroke Technique available Saturday Lessons 9:00/10:00/11:00 am Sunday Lessons 10:00/11:00 am

All of our instructors are American Red Cross-trained Water Safety Instructors For more information contact: lorena.peralta@purchase.edu | 914-251www.purchasecollegeathletics.com

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Caring for Kids Dr. Ivis Getz 140 Lockwood Ave., Suite 315, New Rochelle 914-355-2265 caringpediatricdentistry.com caringpediatricdentistry@gmail.com

Dr. Ivis Getz, a board-certified pediatric dentist, is committed to providing the highest quality dental care to infants, children, adolescents, and those with special needs. Dr. Getz recognizes that each child is a unique individual who deserves compassion and respect, which is evident in her friendly manner and calm demeanor.

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Your local guide to tutors, teachers, lawyers, financial planners, and other professionals FOSTER CARE & ADOPTION BERKSHIRE FARM CENTER AND SERVICES FOR YOUTH

Serving all of Westchester County 631-420-4444 berkshirefarm.org Berkshire Farm Center & Services for Youth helps children find safety and comfort in the homes of foster parents. Become a foster parent and give the gift of family!

LICE LICE CLINICS OF AMERICA - WESTCHESTER

9 Freight Way, Scarsdale 914-996-4315 liceclinicswestchester.com Lice Clinics of America will remove lice in just one hour! All lice and eggs—even Super Lice—are eliminated in a single, one-hour treatment. Affordable treatments, no toxic chemicals.

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Ms. Neeru Bhambree, director of education 340 Quaker Ridge Road, New Rochelle 914-636-6202 hudsoncountry.org Tours are available weekdays. Please call to schedule a visit and see how we inspire a love of learning.

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I Will Not Fail This Child ›› How I turned a tragedy into opportunities for young adults with special needs By Stella L Spanakos

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hen people ask what it’s like to have a child with special needs, my response is: It’s like dark chocolate, bittersweet. My beautiful, healthy 9-pound baby boy was diagnosed with autism at age 3, from that day forward a revolving door of therapists came to our home every day until 6pm.

To make matters worse, Nicholas never developed speech and started having seizures at age 17.

When Nicholas was young, we wanted to believe he would “outgrow” autism, or science would find a “cure” for the diagnosis. But, as the years passed and reality set in, we started dealing better with the “what is” and “what needs to happen.”

Three years before Nicholas was going to transition from high school to the real world, I started looking toward the next chapter of his life. What were his options? Day-hab, residential, supported employment? I visited many programs but started crying when I returned to my car after the tour. A tsunami of young adults on the autism spectrum would be transitioning in three years, with more going forward every year and New York state was most definitely not prepared.

To discuss Nicholas’ future with my husband was painful. He could not accept that we had to carve out a different future for our son; one without a driver’s license, college, marriage, children, and grandchildren, but one that needed much thought and financial planning. Autism broke my husband’s heart, and then my heart was broken for a second time on June 7, 2010 when my husband boarded a business flight to Vegas, suffered a massive heart attack, and died at the age of 55.

Kobi Yamada wrote a book called What Do You Do with a Chance? The moral of the story is, when given a chance, you always take it “because it just might be the start of something incredible.” And that’s precisely what I did.

I had an opportunity to make the worst day of my life become

Stella L. Spanakos with her son Nicholas, who was diagnosed with autism at the age of 3

the beginning of something incredible to help Nicholas, his classmates, and many others. I decided to close my husband’s business, sell everything, and use the proceeds from his life insurance to start the Nicholas Center and Spectrum Designs Foundation, both located in Port Washington. The Nicholas Center supports individuals with autism to lead full and productive lives in the community. Spectrum Designs Foundation is an apparel customizing business, specializing in screen printing, DTG (Direct to Garment), and embroidery.

My co-founders, Nicole Sugrue and Patrick Bardsley, and I experimented with our first DTG machine in my barn and never looked back.

The relationship between the Nicholas Center and Spectrum Designs is the perfect example of how business can work with agencies to support employees with intellectual disabilities.

Eighty percent of individuals with disabilities are unemployed but very capable of work.

We started with both organizations in the same building, and one DTG machine printing 75 T-shirts a day. I used to pray that I could pay the bills and support our payroll during our first two years but as the saying goes: “build it and they will come,” and so they did.

At the close of 2018, just eight years after opening our doors, Nicholas Center serves 85 families with vocational and community experiences, and Spectrum Designs’ client list has grown to include Uber, Google, NYU Langone Medical Center, Northwell Health, St. John’s University Law School, Town of North Hempstead, and MTA Metro-North. Spectrum Designs has impacted the lives of 70 individuals and their families and created more than 15,000 paid hours of meaningful work for individuals with autism.

Stella L. Spanakos co-founded The Nicholas Center Ltd., where she is the director of development, and Spectrum Designs Foundation. For more information about the Nicholas Center and Spectrum Designs Foundation, or to help change the world “one t-shirt at a time,” visit nicholascenterusa.org or spectrumdesigns.org.

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