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april 2020 16 Erasing Autism Misconceptions

Organizations share what they wish the world knew about people with autism

18 Does My Child Have a Learning Disability?

Where to start if you expect the answer is “yes”

38 Is it Time for Day Camp?

Why camp is important for your child’s development

42 Tackling Toddler’s Screen Time Recommendations for young children

44 Bulldozer Parents How parents’ involvement in kids’ lives has escalated to an extreme

COLUMNS 6 Editor’s Note 9 News: What’s happening in the community 12 Baby: Baby-Proofing Basics 14 Advice: Ask DadandBuried 50 Last Word: What is your favorite parenting hack?

THINGS TO DO 25 Family Activities Calendar

RESOURCES 22 Special Needs Directory

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editor’s note APRIL 2020 • Vol.19 • No.7

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ear Moms & Dads, As I write this, most of us are scrambling to make plans since schools are closing, we’re being told to work from home, and fun family events are being canceled or postponed because of the coronavirus. Our everyday goal is to help you make the best decisions for your family—and we are thinking of new ways to do so during this time.

You can find tons of fun things to do at home—from building rockets out of materials you already have, to learning how to enjoy pizza for every meal, to revisiting low-fi activities from your childhood—on our website. Even better? You can download our interactive e-book, 50 Ideas for At-Home Fun, at nymetroparents.com/home-fun!

And, if you find yourself in need of a sitter to keep your kids entertained while you work from home, our friends at Mommybites.com shared eight resources for where to find last-minute child care. You can find them, plus tips for ensuring your new sitter is reliable, at nymetroparents.com/emergency-sitters.

Within this issue, we’re continuing to help you make the best decisions for your children with advice from experts about what to do if you suspect your child has a learning disability (p. 18), why day camp is so important for children (p. 38), how to avoid being a bulldozer parent (p. 44), and tips for reducing your toddler’s screen time (p. 42). And in honor of Autism Awareness Month, we’re shedding some light on common misconceptions about individuals on the spectrum (p. 16).

Above all, we hope you and your family stay safe and healthy!

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LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester is transforming into the ultimate Troll-tastic playground to celebrate the premier of ‘Trolls World Tour’.

Through May 3, LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester in Yonkers is launching an all-access pass, Troll-tastic adventure to celebrate the upcoming premiere of Trolls World Tour. The indoor LEGO playground will transform into a world full of Trolls, where kids can “perfect their air guitar skills, embrace their inner superstar, and become ‘Trollformed’—hair and glitter included.” The experience will also include new, colorful LEGO Trolls sets for kids to play with.

Other activities to get excited about include a Troll Stomp Dance Party, where kids can boogie to their favorite Trolls music in a glitter-filled party with a custom DJ turntable made entirely out of LEGO; Rock Star Rides, bringing kids to concert by plane, party bus, hot air balloon, or whatever their imagination conjures up; the opportunity to build your own Troll-tastic instruments out of LEGO; Troll tour buses; and Troll stop-motion videos.

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Time for Spring Cleaning Did you know 41 percent of Americans can’t remember the last time they cleaned out their fridge? Now is the time to tackle it because spring cleaning season is here. We asked cleaning experts for other oftenforgotten spots when cleaning, plus their tricks to easily get the job done, at nymetroparents.com/ spring-clean.

Sibling Bonds

Growing up with a sibling makes for countless fun (and sometimes not-so-fun) memories. And getting kids to share without fighting? Forget about it. If your kids need to share a room, check out 10 tips for keeping the peace at nymetroparents.com/ room-sharing.

Considering adopting a pet?

April is National Pet Month, and, much like with a sibling, your child can create a special bond with Fido. But did you know having a pet can have health benefits? A pet can boost your child’s emotional health, according to Jeanne Clune, behavior and enrichment coordinator of the SPCA of Westchester. Considering adopting a pet? Let us help you pick which animal at nymetroparents.com/ pets-for-families.

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Ilana Wiles, the mom behind MommyShorts.com, with her two daughters

Celebrating ‘Remarkably Average Parenting’

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etting laid off from her advertising job, shortly after returning from maternity leave no less, was the best thing that ever happened to Ilana Wiles, the Manhattan mom behind MommyShorts.com. “I started the blog because I thought it would be hard to find another job at my level without it. Then the blog took off and advertising became more focused on social media, so instead of getting a job at another agency, I was able to turn my blog into my own business. It felt great to feel super-relevant and ahead of the curve, instead of like becoming a mother had somehow ended my career.”

What’s the best parenting advice you ever received?

What’s your favorite book about parenting?

[It] was from my mother, who said to take advantage of her willingness to help. I don’t know why, but when my first baby was born, I felt this need to prove to her that I could do it all on my own. ...She made me realize that her volunteering to help didn’t mean I was doing anything wrong. It was more about her desire to be involved. Ever since, I accept any help I can get. …When you monopolize all of your kid’s needs, you actually do a disservice to everyone.

All moms need a break, and kids should learn to be comfortable with others. Especially Grammy!

I have to give a shout out to my book, The Mommy Shorts Guide to Remarkably Average Parenting. It’s a fun read that combines real advice with fun anecdotes and parenting memes. It was my attempt to combat the whole perfect parenting thing. There is no right way to do anything (especially parenting!) and sometimes the best thing we can do is forgive ourselves a little and acknowledge that becoming a parent means things are way less in your control.

Read more at nymetroparents.com/mommyshorts.

Why follow @mommyshorts? Wiles treats you like a good friend—ordering you to skip a playdate for lunch and a massage—but can advise on almost every major mommy issue, from pregnancy to politics.

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New Places, New Programs Bilingual School Hosts Summer Camp

Summer Program Emphasizes Art This summer, Blue Rock School in West Nyack plans to emphasize arts in its Summer Arts and Play program. Children will explore a variety of hands-on and playful art-making activities, including ceramics, music, sewing, puppetry, and drama. Under the guidance of experienced educators, children can develop their imagination and creativity at the school’s 5-acre, wooded campus. For open house dates, email summerarts@bluerockschool.org. 110 Demarest Mill Road, West Nyack; 845-6270234; bluerockschool.org.

Mandarin Discovery School will hold its summer camp at the Westchester Community Center for the first time this summer. Five one-week sessions will run June 29-July 31 for children ages 2-10. Students will learn Mandarin and about Chinese culture and take field trips to the Museum of Chinese in America and the Brooklyn Children’s Museum. Groups for the camp are preschool (ages 2-5), High Beginner (ages 5-10), and Advanced Group (Ages 5-10). 515 North St., White Plains; 914-3516788; mandarindiscov.org.

An Inclusive Gym for All We Rock the Spectrum, a sensory gym for neurotypical children ages 1-14 and individuals with special needs of all ages, opened in New Rochelle at the end of last year. The space aims to provide a safe, nurturing, and fun environment for kids through support and sensory gym equipment. The gym has a zip line, zip box with a slide trampoline, a variety of swings, a rock-climbing wall, and a calming room. Guests can play pretend in the imagination station with grocery shopping, a baby changing table, a diner, and a puppet station. We Rock the Spectrum offers birthday parties, private play dates, and field trips. 606 Main St., New Rochelle; 914-365-2585; werockthespectrumnewrochelle.com.

Greenify Your Lunch Earth Day is Thursday, April 23, and (now more than ever) we should be cutting waste and thinking as green as possible. We’re doing our part by sharing tips for making your kid’s lunch ‘greener’—from lunchboxes to thermoses to reusable snack bags. One of our editors has been using a set of To-Go Ware’s reusable bamboo utensils for years and swears by the eco-friendly and convenient product. For our full list, visit nymetroparents.com/ green-lunchbox.

Teach Your Kids to Love the Earth Teaching our kids to love and respect the environment from a young age will help them grow up to live sustainably and positively contribute to Earth. Susan Bartell, Psy.D., Long Island-based child psychologist, suggests showing your little ones the importance of caring for nature, saving water, and recycling. Seemingly small decisions like using reusable dishware rather than paper or plastic and explaining can go a long way in developing their habits.

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Baby-Proofing Basics 16 things you need to do before bringing home your bundle of joy

By Katelin Walling

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ringing baby home from the hospital is scary for first-time parents for many reasons, so baby proofing your home in the month before your due date will give you a little extra peace of mind. And you don’t even have to go crazy baby proofing the whole house; focus on the rooms where your child will be.

Courtney Ilarraza, co-founder of Baby Bodyguards, a full-service baby and child safety company in New York City, shares how to make your home safe for baby. Make sure baby-proofing items are Juvenile Products Manufacturing Association-certified, she advises. Also, you’ll want to register all items with the manufacturers to receive recalls, so avoid using any hand-me-downs.

Secure furniture to the walls. This is the most important thing, Ilarraza says. Once drawers are pulled out, the weight is redistributed.

When a toddler or child climbs into the drawers, the piece can topple.

Put padding on sharp corners. “A lot of times parents have this misconception that [padding] should be around every edge,” Ilarraza says. “But it is really just the sharp corners that could cause a laceration if a toddler were to fall into it.”

Install sliding outlet plates. When an appliance is unplugged,

Run cables and cords through a cable management box.

“All the bundles of wires that are a mess go into this box that then closes off, so it is not an eye sore and it also takes it away from the child’s attention,” Ilarraza says.

Wrap shade blind cords around a blind cleat.

Install hardware-mounted gates at the tops and bottoms of stairs. “Never use a pressure-mounted gate on the top of the stairs,” Ilarraza advises—they aren’t as secure.

Stop using tablecloths when your toddler starts pulling herself up on things.

Rearrange bookshelves, putting heaver items on bottom shelves and lighter items on higher shelves.

Install window guards if your windows can open more than 4 inches.

Make sure bannister and balcony slats are no more than 4 inches apart. If they are, add slats in the spaces or install a guard

the outlet cover automatically slides into place. It’s aesthetically pleasing, you don’t have to remember to put an outlet cap back on, and the child can’t remove it.

on the inside, especially if the slats are horizontal, creating a ladder.

Anchor the TV, either to the wall or the media stand.

from entering unattended. “We don’t believe in toilet locks, because it normally ends up being disabled by a grown-up at two in the morning, and there are much more dangerous things in the bathroom than the toilet,” Ilarraza cautions. “Make it so that a child couldn’t gain access to a bathroom without a grown-up.”

The No. 1 thing is to anchor anything that could fall over onto your child, Ilarraza says, referring to the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission’s Anchor It campaign.

Put coat hooks on the wall near the entryway, if you don’t have a coat closet. This keeps coats and bags out of baby’s reach, preventing him from finding choking hazards or medications.

Screw latches into drawers and cupboards containing dangerous items, such as cleaning products and sharp objects.

Though Ilarraza suggests leaving a latch off of one drawer or cubboard that contains child-friendly items such as tupperware.

Put a child-proof knob cover on the bathroom door handle and other off-limits rooms to prevent the toddler

Set the hot water heater to 120 degrees or lower, if you have access, preventing your toddler from being badly burned if he can reach the hot-water faucet.

Take an infant-child CPR and safety class with your partner. You never know when you’ll need these skills that could save your child’s life.

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s bringing a nanny or a grandma with you an option? I’m assuming no—because, sadly, this is not fantasyland. However, the good news is you’re not traveling with a baby, so you don’t need to drag along that anvil that doubles as a car seat. The bad news is toddlers are mobile. And vocal. And scream almost as much as babies (sometimes more; damn you, terrible 2s!). And they’re much less likely to sleep the whole time.

The best news? They can be distracted by screens.

I know, I know, I’m a terrible parent: Screen time should be limited, especially for toddlers; you should bring coloring books instead; blah blah blah. But this is the one time we condone screens for toddlers.

Look: Airplanes are no time to screw around. You’re stuck in a metal box with 200 strangers who are irritated and stressed. They’re predisposed to hate anyone who sits next to them, regardless of age, and the minute they notice they’re in the vicinity of young children—and on a plane, everyone is in the vicinity—they stop being polite and start being real. And they hate kids.

What they fail to realize is no one is less happy about traveling with rambunctious, excitable kids than their parents. Moms and Dads lugging their children on a flight that cost them a thousand dollars— if they’re lucky!—are more frustrated than the people sitting in the seats those kids are kicking. Nobody escapes that flight unscathed!

Plane rides should be fun for kids, and they are no time to experiment with screen-free activities. You can get back to your rules when you land. But when you’re 35,000 feet up? Cut everybody, and yourself, some slack.

So, your mission, Gabriela, should you choose to accept it: Keep your toddler as occupied and as quiet as possible. In my experience, screens are the best way to do that. Two hours of staring at the seatback TV isn’t going to kill him. Six hours of playing on an iPad won’t melt her brains. Get in, get bingeing, get out of the plane; everybody wins. And by “wins” I mean “survives”!

Mission No. 2 is getting Grandma to fly back with you.

Unfortunately, I can’t help with that one.

Our advice column features the wise and humorous commentary of Mike Julianelle (aka @DadandBuried), a 40-something influencer with a popular podcast who lives in Brooklyn with his wife and two kids.

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Erasing Autism Misconceptions

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any misconceptions still exist around autism spectrum disorder. So, in honor of Autism Awareness Month, we asked people from organizations throughout the New York metro area to describe what they wish the world knew about people with autism, both to help erase some of those misconceptions and shed some light on how autism cannot define individuals. Our sources want you to know: People with autism can do anything they put their minds to. But we’ll let them tell you!

“From my perspective as a social worker who is an educational advocate for families

“I wish people knew that

seeking special education services, I would want everyone to know how broad the

people with autism are our

diagnosis is and that no one person diagnosed with autism is the same as another. Even

brothers and sisters that have

though the assessments are uniform and standardized, the way the diagnosis intertwines

a bright light that shines with

with the person is so individualized. It is nearly impossible to have a set image of what a

love and beauty.”

diagnosis of autism looks like on each person. So, to answer your question, I would want

–Ana Dimas, Bronxville Ballet founder, Westchester

everyone to consider a person with autism as an individual exhibiting characteristics that are unique to them. A diagnosis does not relegate someone to a group, nor does it define them, but it does provide a window into who they are, their wishes, dreams, and aspirations. And, it’s precisely this uniqueness that helps to define their diagnosis.”

–Monica L. Mandell, LMSW, a bilingual social worker at MLM Advocacy, Westchester

“Many people who fall somewhere on the autism “I wish people knew that some [people with autism] who struggle with social communications are also emotionally intelligent.” –Lori Podvesker, Brooklyn

spectrum are extremely observant. This often leads to having sharp-witted senses of humor. I am constantly laughing when I am around one friend in particular.”

“I have been supporting individuals with autism for 13 years now. During my time,

–Maggie Downham, Brooklyn

I have met some of the most talented, passionate, and hardworking people who thrive when they are included. If we took the time to educate ourselves and create individualized environmental supports to enhance inclusivity, society would not only benefit economically, we would become more compassionate and understanding people.” –Jeremy Scalchunes, vocational supervisor at the Nicholas Center, Long Island

“With the support they need, they don’t have limits!

They can be whatever they want to be. It may take

“That they are unique and should not be stereotyped based on outdated depictions

longer, but they will.”

shown in the media. Also, that each of them is unique in their own way and they

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deserve compassion and respect.” –Kpana Kpoto, an INCLUDEnyc staffer, Bronx

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Does My Child Have a

Learning Disability?

Where to start if you suspect the answer is “yes”

By Jacqueline Neber

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lthough many kids may struggle with schoolwork throughout their academic careers, it’s often hard to know if your child has a learning disability. There is no one behavior or learning difficulty that equals a diagnosis and learning disabilities can affect nonacademic areas of your child’s life, too.

So, what happens when you suspect your child might have a learning challenge? Educators and experts have shared their thoughts on how to get your child evaluated and how you can support her in school and at home.

What are the symptoms?

A learning disability can present in many different ways, says Colin Montgomery, a family educator at INCLUDEnyc and a former special education teacher. A learning disability is simply a disorder in one or more of the processes kids use in understanding and using language, and can express itself in reading, writing, or 18

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math, according to the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act. It can also be nonverbal or look like an attention issue because your child has an auditory processing difficulty.

The many issues that might arise because of a learning disability make it difficult to figure out if your child has one. After all, it’s common for kids have trouble with certain units in science class or resist doing their homework. Sometimes, you need to puzzle it out to see if a learning disability is to blame.

“Inside the classroom you can see kids struggling. Then you can see them come home and be unhappy to do their homework,” says Cassie Reilly, the transition coordinator at Northport High School.

“Homework gives parents a chance to see if kids are able to apply the skills they’re learning at school, at home independently. And if they’re not able to, that’s a sign to reach out to the teacher.”

Another sign of a learning disability, Reilly says, can be that your child is trying so hard to get something right but is making no

progress. When you hear “needs to be working more toward potential” or “not trying hard enough” from your child’s teacher, that’s a warning.

Unlike children with intellectual disabilities, kids with learning disabilities often have average or above-average IQs that aren’t reflected in their grades. When your child’s intellectual abilities do not match up with his ability to do schoolwork, that’s a red flag, says Erica Maltz, founder and CEO of WhizKidz Tutoring LLC in Westchester and a former educator. Poor executive functioning can also come into play with learning disabilities.

“If you hear from a teacher that your child is disorganized, disengaged, not completing assignments…it might be a sign of learning troubles,” Maltz says.

Maybe it’s something else?

“With some students, you might think it’s a learning disability, but they could be moving from another school or district in New York, or another state, and they just didn’t have good instruction [before],” Montgomery says. “[Learning issues] might be a function of being a multilingual learner, or the student wasn’t given appropriate instruction in the past.”

Transitioning between grades can pose challenges for some students, Reilly says, and sometimes anxiety is just anxiety.

Parents and educators need to consider the big picture of the child and evaluate her educational strengths and weaknesses against each other.

Harold Levinson, M.D., director of the Levinson Medical Center

for Learning Disabilities in Great Neck, points out that some symptoms of learning disabilities can be attributed to inner ear and cerebellum problems—issues that can be fixed with medication. If your child is finding learning difficult but also has memory and speech problems, uncoordinated balance, poor concentration, high activity levels and impulsivity, and was late to walk and talk, he might have an inner ear issue.

Now what?

If you’ve exhausted alternative explanations and still suspect a learning disability, you should begin the process of getting help. While many parents proceed directly to getting their child evaluated for an Individualized Education Program, there are some other options to consider first. For example, many schools offer intervention programs such as extra help in certain subjects that kids can participate in without an IEP. Completing a year of extra programming in areas where she’s struggling might be enough to get your kid up to speed.

“The [New York City] DOE is supposed to provide at-risk services [called Response to Intervention] for students who are behind academically,” Montgomery says. “There should be opportunities to get that foundational instruction, repeated instruction, without needing to automatically get an IEP.” In fact, the New York State Department of Education mandates all schools offer RTI, though districts have the freedom to design their own programs as long as they meet basic state criteria.

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levels at the beginning of the year. If you’ve previously been concerned about your child, now is a good time to check with her teacher and see if she has progressed from last year.

The City, a nonprofit news outlet, recently reported that two Brooklyn elementary schools will implement a basic screening for dyslexia that will hopefully help diagnose more kids, earlier.

Start by talking to your child’s teacher, Maltz says, and other professionals involved in your child’s life—school specialists, mental health professionals, and tutors. And if a teacher says your child is fine, but your gut tells you he is not, you should still proceed in getting help. Another tip? If you don’t have one already, get your child a tutor. Working 1-on-1 with children, tutors can help tremendously in terms of skills and confidence, Maltz says, and you can always switch to a tutor who specializes in a specific learning disability, if necessary, after your child is evaluated.

The Individualized Education Program If interventions have not helped your child progress, you have every right to ask for an IEP evaluation. The biggest factor in a successful evaluation and IEP formation is communication.

“Two things parents should think about: advocacy and trust,” Maltz says. “An IEP is the most beneficial way for students to get the services they need in order to learn successfully in the classroom. And parents need to be involved in every part of the process.”

Your district’s head of the Committee on Special Education should be listed on the school district website. Make your request to have a CSE meeting in writing. Ask for a full evaluation for your child— educational, psychological, speech and language, and occupational and physical therapy, if necessary. While you can pay for a private evaluation by a psychiatrist, psychologist, or neurologist, it’s very expensive and many evaluators don’t take insurance, Maltz says.

Even if you decide to evaluate privately, get a school evaluation done anyway. It’s free and having more information can only help.

When going through an evaluation, ask questions. Know who is conducting the different parts of the evaluation and where it will take place—some kids will benefit from seeing the testing room before the evaluation. And always make sure your child has gotten a good night’s sleep and had a healthy breakfast before testing, Maltz says.

Throughout your child’s evaluation and beyond, especially if she is classified, remain her supporter and cheerleader, Maltz says. Encourage him to take an active role in understanding his learning disability and advocating for himself. Many students have recently started attending their IEP and CSE meetings. If your child understands his IEP, he can notice when standards are not being met in the classroom.

“It’s important to remember, also, that it is not [you] and your child against ‘the system,’” Maltz continues. “Everyone sitting at the table [during a CSE meeting] does want what’s best for your child so [she] will become an independent learner in the future.

And when you go in prepared, it’s a different ballgame.”

Why Can’t My Child Learn?

With expertise and a soft touch, Monica Mandell, LMSW, helps families navigate through the special education system. As an experienced bilingual social worker, Monica is able to diagnose and understand the causes of your child’s learning problems. Working together, she will map an advocacy plan to ensure your child’s access to the tools needed for success in school.

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Creative Wonders Therapy Center

David Green, clinical director 470 Mamaroneck Ave., Suite 204, White Plains 914-421-8270 x1 101 South Bedford Road Suite 404, Mt. Kisco 914-373-6823 creativewonderstherapy.com Creative Wonders is a pediatric therapy center located in White Plains and Mt. Kisco. Seasoned occupational, physical, and speech therapists are trained in specialties including sensory integration, PROMPT, and therapeutic listening. We collaborate with families to provide activities at home to maximize progress. Our state-of-the-art facility features a sensory gym.

Green Chimneys

400 Doansburg Road, Brewster 845-279-2995 33 Clearpool Road, Carmel 845-225-8226 greenchimneys.org Green Chimneys School is an accredited special education program for students kindergarten-12th who need a highly structured, supportive setting. Therapeutic day and residential programs include an enriched curriculum for individualized academic, behavioral, and emotional support, and experiential learning. An innovative, nature-based approach integrates animal-assisted activities into treatment and education programs.

The Institute for Children with Autism and Related Disorders, Inc.

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in Riverhead, Melville, and White Plains, ICA’s mission is to provide state-of-the-science consultation directly to students, their families, and the school districts and community agencies that serve them.

Little Dreams Dentistry

245 N. Broadway, Suite 105, Sleepy Hollow 914-920-3070 littledreamsdentistry.com info@littledreamsdentistry.com Little Dreams Dentistry provides pediatric dental care under anesthesia to children with special and medical needs. We perform procedures in the office and in the hospital operating room. We consult with families, doctors, and dentists to create the best plan for your child.

Main Street Pediatric Dentistry

Dr. Penny Resnick-Graulich 115 Main St., Suite 302, Tuckahoe 914-633-4440 mainstreetpediatricdentistry.com drpennydds@aol.com Main Street Pediatric Dentistry’s experienced staff has specialized training to work with special needs patients and those with disabilities. They focus on behavior management, working closely with the patient and their families to make the experience as comfortable as possible. Patients of all ages are welcome.

MLM Advocacy

914-308-0751 mlmadvocacy.com The mission of MLM Advocacy is to help families understand and access all the special education services that their child is entitled to. With expertise, compassion, and knowledge of educational law, Monica Mandell helps to navigate this process. The goal is to develop the framework for a master plan for academic success.

Music Conservatory of Westchester’s Music Therapy Institute

Serving Multiple Disabilities and Offering a Variety of Services and Creative Arts Therapies 216 Central Ave., White Plains 914-761-3900 musicconservatory.org info@musiced.org Since 1986, the Music Conservatory of Westchester’s Music Therapy Institute has provided professional music

Project Explore

70 Columbus Ave., Valhalla 914-328-1578 easterseals.com/newyork We serve children with and without disabilities in inclusive, integrated, small classrooms. We offer high quality full- and part-time programs, school year and year-round, for children ages 18 months to 5 years, from 8:30am-2:30pm. Beforeand after-school care, vacation clubs during school breaks, and summer camp are available options.

Sportime USA

380 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-2111 x2 sportimeusa.com Sportime USA offers activities for all ages, including a 4-D motion theater, Laser Tag, rock climbing, batting cages, bumper cars, kiddie rides, video and prize games, Ballocity Ball Arena, and kiddie play zone. We are ADA compliant and able to help everyone with any special needs to enjoy all the attractions.

We Rock The Spectrum Kid’s Gym

606 Main St., New Rochelle 914-365-2585 werockthespectrumnewrochelle.com info@werockthespectrumnewrochelle.com We Rock the Spectrum, a fun and safe gym for children, with and without special needs, to run, jump, play, and climb, provides a nurturing environment to foster learning, exploration, and sensory-safe experiences! We are the only sensory-safe kids’ gym with trampoline fun, a zip line, swings, games, and music.

Yale Child Study Center – Autism Research Program

230 S. Frontage Road, New Haven 203-737-3439, Erin MacDonnell autism.fm autism@yale.edu If you or your child are between 6 and 40 years of age, you can participate in our study to help learn about brain development. The McPartland Lab at the Yale School of Medicine is seeking individuals with autism spectrum disorder or typically developing individuals. Participants receive an evaluation and compensation.

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Annual Easter Egg Hunt

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WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 10am-1pm WHERE: Bartow-Pell Mansion, 895 Shore Road, Pelham Bay Park, Bronx AGES: 2-12 WHAT: Hunt for eggs, enjoy arts and crafts, and have photos taken with the Easter Bunny. Please bring your own basket. Purchase tickets online.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This is the one day when it’s okay to put all your eggs in one basket!

WANT TO GO? $16; $12 members. 718-885-1461. bartowpell. z2systems.com.

WHEN: Sunday, April 19, 2pm WHERE: Tarrytown Music Hall, 13 Main St., Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Rick Thomas continues to entertain millions of people across the world with the breathtaking and spectacular magic!

WHY WE LOVE IT: He weaves magic, music, comedy, and dance into a seamless spectacle.

WANT TO GO? $25-$35. 914-631-3390. tarrytownmusichall.org.

Great Green Eggstravaganza WHEN: Sunday, April 5, 11am-3pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a day of egg-themed activities, crafts, an environmentally friendly egg hunt, and more.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids can meet animals on the great lawn and join a naturalist to discover signs of spring throughout the property.

WANT TO GO? $15; $8 members; $10 early registration before April 5; $5 members early registration before April 5. 914-7233470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

Family Passover Seder WHEN: Wednesday, April 8, 7pm WHERE: Chabad of Bedford, 100 S. Bedford Road, Suite 300, Mount Kisco AGES: All WHAT: Join members of the community for a warm, interactive Passover Seder that is family style, English friendly, and alive with humor and insights. Register online.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The deliciousness includes an elegant dinner and crispy hand-made matzo.

WANT TO GO? $54; $25 child. 914-666-6065. chabadbedford.com.

NY Metro Reptile Expo WHEN: Sunday, April 19, 10am-4pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Breeders and vendors will have thousands of live pet reptiles, amphibians, and arachnids on display and for sale at discounted prices.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s better than any trip to the pet store!

WANT TO GO? $10; $5 kids ages 7-12; free for children 6 and younger. 845-526-4845. reptileexpo.com.

Peekskill Rotary’s 3rd Annual Cherry Blossom Festival FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 10am-5pm WHERE: Peekskill Riverfront Green, 36 Hudson Ave., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the beginning of spring, when the 100 cherry trees planted along the riverfront walkway start to bloom!

WHY WE LOVE IT: This year’s festival will be held on the same day that several businesses along Water Street have special events.

WANT TO GO? peekskillrotary.com.

Run for the Wild WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 8am WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: More than 5,000 runners and walkers are expected to participate in this year’s event and all are welcome to stay after the race to take part in post-run activities and visit the Bronx Zoo.

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WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s an active way to help WCS’s conservation work at the Bronx Zoo and around the world.

WANT TO GO? $30-$50 to register. 718-220-5100. bronxzoo.com.

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Earth Day 2020 At NYGB WHEN: April 22-26, daily, 10am-6pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the 50th anniversary of Earth Day with music and art, and channel your inner scientist to help save the plants of the world.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Families can experience a series of engaging workshops and tours.

WANT TO GO? Monday-Friday: $23; $20 seniors 65 and older and students with valid ID; $10 children 2-12; free for members and children younger than 2; Saturday-Sunday: $28; $25 seniors 65 and older and students with valid ID; $12 children 2-12. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

‘Llama, Llama’ Live!

WHEN: Sunday, April 26, 12pm and 3pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: This hilarious new musical based on the bestselling books by Anna Dewdney will warm every Llama and Llama Mama’s heart.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Little ones will love seeing a favorite character in a whole new way!

WANT TO GO? $15-$29. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

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WHAT: Celebrate Passover with a community Seder. RSVP online.

WANT TO GO? $54 per adult; $13 per child. 914-693-6100. chabadrt.org.

Passover Craft FREE WHEN: Thursday, April 9, 2pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Celebrate Passover with a decoupage craft.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Easter Worship Service and 8th Annual Community-Wide Easter Egg Hunt FREE WHEN: Sunday, April 12, service: 10:30am; egg hunt: 12pm WHERE: First Baptist Church of White Plains, 456 North St., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Search for candy- and toy- filled eggs and get your face painted.

WANT TO GO? 914-949-5207. firstbaptistwhiteplains.org.

Egg Hunt with Wolves WHEN: Sunday, April 12, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: Instead of looking for eggs, guests will hide them for the wolves WANT TO GO? $14; $11 children younger than 12. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org.

Breakfast, Brunch, or Lunch With The Easter Bunny

Holiday Fun Passover Crafts FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 1-3pm WHERE: Andersons Larchmont, 96 Chatsworth Ave., Larchmont AGES: All WHAT: Have fun making some Passover crafts!

WANT TO GO? 914-834-6900. andersonsbooksny.com.

Hopping with the Bunny FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 5:30-7pm WHERE: FunFuzion, 29 LeCount Place, New Rochelle AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Visit with the bunny, play games, and enjoy crafts, snacks, and prizes.

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Breakfast, Brunch, or Lunch With The Easter Bunny WHEN: Saturday-Sunday, April 4-5, 10am, 12:30pm, or 2:30pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1 Stew Leonard Drive, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Join Stew Leonard’s for a special meal hosted by the Easter Bunny, Wow the Cow, and their friends.

WANT TO GO? $16.95; $14.95 children 2-11. 914-375-4700. stewleonards.com.

Community Passover Seder WHEN: Wednesday, April 8, 7:15pm WHERE: Chabad of Rivertowns, 303 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry AGES: All

Good Deed of the Month Club: ‘Michael Recycle’ by Ellie Bethel WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Learn about the importance of recycling and go home dressed up in a superhero cape.

WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for members, children younger than 1, and active duty military personnel and their families within the same household. 914-420-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Young Discoverers: It’s Earth Day! WHEN: Wednesdays, April 1-29, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 2-5 WHAT: Check the huge “EARTH” poster and then read The Earth Book by Todd Parr and paint your own earth pictures to take home.

WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for members, children younger than 1, and active duty military personnel and their families within the same household. 914-420-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Fairs, Festivals, & Markets Unity Quilt Sewing Day WHEN: Saturday, April 11, 12-4pm WHERE: Hudson Valley Museum of Contemporary Art, 1701 Main St., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: Create art using fabrics, patterns, colors, and designs WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6-18; free for children younger than 6

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Mamaroneck Winter Farmers Market FREE WHEN: Through April 18: Saturdays, 9am-1pm WHERE: Down to Earth Markets, 1 Harbor Island Park, Mamaroneck AGES: All WHAT: Shop with local farmers and artisan food makers WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 914-923-4837. downtoearthmarkets.com.

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WANT TO GO? $10. 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org.

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Nature Lovers Geocaching and Orienteering WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 10-11am WHERE: Connecticut Audubon Society at the Roger Tory Peterson Estuary Center, 90 Halls Road, Old Lyme, CT AGES: All WHAT: Join a teacher-naturalist from the RTPEC to search for treasure and learn compass orienteering! Register online.

WANT TO GO? $10; $5 members; free for children 6 and younger.

203-259-6305. ctaudubon.org.

First Sunday Science: Microbes as Sentinels of Water Quality in Long Island Sound FREE WHEN: Sunday, April 5, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: The Bruce Museum Seaside Center in Greenwich Point Park, 7 Tods Driftway, Old Greenwich, CT AGES: All WHAT: Learn how tracking microbial indicators of water quality is key to monitoring the health of the ecosystem we live beside.

WANT TO GO? 203-869-0376. brucemuseum.org.

Spring Birding WHEN: Sunday, April 12, 9:30-11am WHERE: Wave Hill, W. 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Explore the gardens and woodlands on a quest to spot both resident and rare birds as they pass through on their northern journey or settle down for the season.

WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6 and older; free for children younger than 6; NYC Audubon members pay two-for-one admission. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Family Nature Walk WHEN: Sunday, April 12, 1-2pm WHERE: Wave Hill, W. 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join naturalist and educator Gabriel Willow on a familyfriendly walk through the gardens or woodlands WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6 and older; free for children younger than 6.

718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Hike & Seek for 5th and 6th Graders WHEN: Friday, April 17, 5-6:30pm WHERE: Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Children will be assigned to a team and work together to hide 30 April 2020 | nymetroparents.com

WHEN: Saturday, April 18, 9:15-10:15am WHERE: Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Fathers (or other caregiver) and children can join Rye Nature Center for this fun-filled animal adventure.

WANT TO GO? $15 per family; $10 per member family. 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org.

Earth Day Event FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 10am-2pm WHERE: Temple Israel of New Rochelle at Glen Island Park, Weyman Avenue, New Rochelle AGES: All WHAT: Help get the park ready for the spring season by helping to paint, rake, prepare, and plant flower beds, clear trails, and more.

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WANT TO GO? 914-235-1800. tinr.org.

Animals that Lay Eggs WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 1pm WHERE: Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Children will learn how egg-laying animals hatch from eggs and change throughout their lives.

WANT TO GO? $8; $5 members. 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org.

Start Composting!

WHEN: Sunday, April 26, 12-4pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Join Elisa Zazzera in this introductory, hands-on demonstration that will give you the know-how to start composting at home.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $8; $5 seniors 62 and older, students, veterans; $4 ages 3-18; free for members and children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Shark-Feeding Demonstrations WHEN: Through April 26: Sundays, 10:30am WHERE: The Maritime Aquarium At Norwalk, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: 5 and older WHAT: There’s just a railing between participants and the sharks as the predators snap at food presented to them on a long pole.

Reserve tickets online.

WANT TO GO? $26.95 admission plus $12; $24.95 ages 65 and older admission plus $12; $19.95 ages 3-12 admission plus $8.

203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org.

Mommy & Me WHEN: Mondays, April 13-June 1, 9:45-10:45am WHERE: Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 1½-4 WHAT: Make crafts, meet animals, and learn about the natural world on a short hike.

WANT TO GO? $15 per family; $10 per member family. 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org.

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AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Using polymer clay you will learn how to make simple shapes with clay and put them together to form a cute sculpture.

WANT TO GO? $20. 914-967-0700. ryeartscenter.org.

Blackout Poetry Workshop FREE WHEN: April 4-20, see website for schedule WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Piece together words on the page to create a poem and add designs to surround your new masterpiece!

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Kids Workshop: Laser Cutting With Glowforge Collaging Our Everyday: Multimedia Art Workshop

Little Makers Story Time FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 1, 11am-12pm WHERE: Showcase Cinema de Lux Ridge Hill, 1 Ridge Hill Blvd., Yonkers AGES: 3-5, 5-8, adult WHAT: Listen to a story and follow along with a larger than life version of the book projected on the movie screen.

WANT TO GO? 914-207-2917. ridgehill.com.

Collaging Our Everyday: Multimedia Art Workshop WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 1:30pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Create a mixed-media collage about your daily experiences.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $8; $5 seniors 62 and older, students, veterans; $4 ages 3-18; free for members and children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Teen Studio WHEN: Friday, April 10, 4pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Create a multimedia representation of your favorite leisure activity.

WANT TO GO? $5. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Open Studio for Kids: Landscapes with Chalk Pastels like Georgia O’Keeffe WHEN: Thursday, April 16, 4-5:15pm WHERE: Neuberger Museum, 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Make art inspired by Georgia O’Keeffe. Register online.

WANT TO GO? $20; $5 members. 914-251-6100. eventbrite. com/e/open-studio-for-kids-tickets-48742343662.

Kids Workshop: Make A Koala Bear With Polymer Clay WHEN: Saturday, April 18, ages 5-8: 2pm; ages 9-12: 3pm WHERE: Rye Arts Center, 51 Milton Road, Rye

WHEN: Thursday, April 23, 4:30-6pm WHERE: Rye Arts Center, 51 Milton Road, Rye AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Students will create a clock face that will then be laser-cut and engraved and assemble the clock to take home. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $25. 914-967-0700. ryeartscenter.org.

Bookmark Craft FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 10:30am-4:30pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Drop in and decorate your very own bookmark, and pick out a free book to use it with!

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Family Studio: Art WHEN: Saturdays-Sundays, April 4-26, 1-4pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Make a collage of your daily experiences, inspired by artist Derrick Adams’ installation We Came to Party and Plan WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $8; $5 seniors 62 and older, students, veterans; $4 ages 3-18; free for members and children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Super Hero Crafts FREE WHEN: Sunday, April 26, 1-3pm WHERE: Andersons Larchmont, 96 Chatsworth Ave., Larchmont AGES: All WHAT: Calling all superheroes to celebrate National Super Hero Day with superhero crafts! Crafts available while they last.

WANT TO GO? 914-834-6900. andersonsbooksny.com.

Family Art Project: Three-Ring Mandalas WHEN: Saturday-Sunday, April 25-26, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, W. 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Count the years of your own life to create a mandala that speaks to your growth and the growth of the community around you.

WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6 and older; free for children younger than 6 and free admission to grounds on Saturday until noon. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

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‘Fish Tales’

Educational Activities Science-Palooza School’s Out Workshop WHEN: Friday, April 10, 10am-2pm WHERE: Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Put on your lab coats, goggles, and thinking caps and spend the day testing various science experiments WANT TO GO? $80 per child; $70 per member child. 914-9675150. ryenaturecenter.org.

Teatown Summer Camp is where kids unplug, disconnect, and have a wild time!

We spend our days on our 1,000-acre preserve learning by exploring, discovering new things about ourselves, each other and the earth, and developing friendships and respect for all living things.

June 29—August 21, ages 4—14 Register at teatown.org 1600 Spring Valley Rd Ossining, NY 10562 (914) 762-2912

Explore The Life & Times of Frederick Douglass FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 11, musical performance: 12pm; event: 2pm WHERE: St. Paul’s Church National Historic Site, 897 S. Columbus Ave., Mount Vernon AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Dr. David Blight of Yale University explores the life and times of Frederick Douglass. Arrive early for a musical performance.

WANT TO GO? 914-667-4116. nps.gov.

Positive Parenting FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 11, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: Adult WHAT: Explore strategies to deal with some of your most challenging parenting issues.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

‘Fish Tales’ WHEN: Through April 24: Fridays, 10:15-11am WHERE: The Maritime Aquarium At Norwalk, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Stories, songs, and games that encourage children’s emerging language skills, followed by a play time.

WANT TO GO? $26.95; $24.95 ages 65 and older; $19.95 ages 3-12. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org.

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WHAT: This dynamic tribute spans more than a decade of classics where every song is culture-defining in pop music history.

WANT TO GO? $28; 26 seniors, faculty and staff, and non-WCC students; $18 children younger than 13. 914-606-6262. sunywcc.edu.

‘Judy Moody & Stink’ WHEN: Sunday, April 19, 11am and 1:30pm WHERE: Emelin Theatre, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: 4 and older WHAT: Judy Moody and Stink are the perfect brother and sister pair for their imperfect capers.

WANT TO GO? $15-$20. 914-698-3045. emelin.org

Dare 2B Free Fundraiser Nai-Ni Chen: ‘Song of the Phoenix’

Theater, Concerts, & Movies Open House and Circus Show FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 10am-2pm WHERE: Harvey Cavalier Camp, 260 Jay St., Katonah AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Treat the kids to a fabulous Westchester Circus Arts performance at a special open house event.

WANT TO GO? 914-232-0581. harveycavaliercamp.org.

Nai-Ni Chen: ‘Song of the Phoenix’ WHEN: Thursday, April 9, 8pm WHERE: Academic Arts Theatre, Hankin Academic Arts Building at Westchester Community College, 75 Grassland Road, Valhalla AGES: All WHAT: Original and unique choreography seamlessly blends ancient rituals and modern ideas.

WANT TO GO? $28; $26 seniors, faculty and staff, and non-WCC students; $18 children younger than 13. 914-606-6262. sunywcc.edu.

Tony Award-Winner Marc Shaiman: A Performance & Conversation WHEN: Thursday, April 16, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Music Conservatory of Westchester, 216 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Broadway fans will experience an intimate performance and conversation with the maestro behind Hairspray, Charlie & the Chocolate Factory, Catch Me If You Can, and more incredible musical stage and screen favorites.

WANT TO GO? $30 VIP tickets; $20 general admission. 914-761-3900. musicconservatory.org.

‘The Magic of Motown!’

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WHEN: Sunday, April 19, 6:30-8:30pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Mama Foundation for the Arts, Ladies of Hip Hop Festival and Battery Dance Company, and others will be on hand WANT TO GO? $35. 914-997-6700. uwwp.org.

‘Little Mermaid, Jr.’ WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 10am and 12:30pm WHERE: Emelin Theater, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: All WHAT: See this cast of kids perform The Little Mermaid, Jr. WANT TO GO? $20; $10 children in advance. 914-698-0098. emelin.org.

‘Scooby-Doo! And the Lost City of Gold’ WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 4pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Scooby-Doo and his mystery-solving friends will embark on a new adventure to solve a brand new mystery brought to life WANT TO GO? $29.50-$69.50. 914-995-4050. countycenter.biz.

Reel Talk with JBFC Kids Curator Emily Ohara: ‘Penguins’ WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 12pm WHERE: Jacob Burns Film Center, 364 Manville Road, Pleasantville AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A penguin named Steve joins millions of fellow males in the icy Antarctic spring on a quest to build a suitable nest, find a life partner, and start a family. After the film, join Emily for a discussion.

Ask questions, answers the ones provided, and get to know your fellow moviegoers!

WANT TO GO? $15; $10 members; $8 children age 13 and younger.

914-747-5555. burnsfilmcenter.org.

Disney’s ‘Frozen, Junior’ WHEN: April 25-26, Saturday, 2pm and 7pm; Sunday, 12pm and 4pm WHERE: Irvington Town Hall Theater, 85 Main St., Irvington AGES: All WHAT: Frozen Junior’s cast of beloved characters and loaded with magic, adventure, and plenty of humor, is sure to thaw even the coldest heart!

WANT TO GO? $15. 914-591-6602. irvingtontheater.com.

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USC Summer Sports Camp Weekdays (9am-4pm) ENJOY A FUNTASTIC SUMMER OF FUN CENTERED AROUND THE EXCITING WORLD OF GYMNASTICS & BASEBALL!

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AGES: 1½-2 WHAT: Toddlers and parents/caregivers are invited for half an hour of songs, moving, and fun! Sign ups begin when the museum opens at 10am.

WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for members, children younger than 1, and active duty military personnel and their families within the same household. 914-420-5050. discoverwcm.org.

1st Annual Ground Glass Mentorship Exhibit FREE WHEN: Thursday, April 30, 5-7pm WHERE: The Rye Arts Center, 51 Milton Road, Rye AGES: All WHAT: See this exhibit which is the result of a joint educational and artistic endeavor between The Ground Glass Photography Group, The Rye Arts Center, and selected students from Rye High School’s AP photography class.

WANT TO GO? 914-967-0700. ryeartscenter.org.

Museum Minis

Museums & Exhibits Teen Tour of Derrick Adams: Buoyant FREE WHEN: Wednesday, April 8, 3pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Discover artist Derrick Adams’ vivid, joyful Floaters and We Came to Party and Plan series.

WANT TO GO? 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

School’s Out, Stars Are In WHEN: April 6-10, daily, 12pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy activities for families, demonstrations in Hudson Riverama, tours of Glenview, and free planetarium shows!

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $8; $5 seniors 62 and older, students, veterans; $4 ages 3-18; free for members and children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Family Studio: Science WHEN: Saturdays, April 4-25, 1-4pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Build a bird or squirrel nest, make a model plant leaf or a bee habitat, and take a look at the microscopic life in water and soil.

WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $8; $5 seniors 62 and older, students, veterans; $4 ages 3-18; free for members and children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Museum Minis WHEN: Through April 30: Thursdays, 10:30-11am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye 36

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Get Active!

Family Yoga Time FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 11am WHERE: Ossining Public Library, 53 Croton Ave., Ossining AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Young yogis, along with caregivers, can enjoy easy yoga activities, including movement, stories, and crafts.

WANT TO GO? 914-941-2416. ossininglibrary.org.

Movers and Shakers FREE WHEN: Through May 29: Wednesdays and Fridays, 9:30am WHERE: Chappaqua Library, 195 S. Greeley Ave., Chappaqua AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Music and motion for walkers with an adult. And bubbles, too!

WANT TO GO? 914-332-0133. chappaqualibrary.org.

Glow WHEN: Through May 30: Fridays-Saturdays, 9pm-12am WHERE: Sky Zone, 33 Lecount Place, New Rochelle AGES: All WHAT: Lasers, music, and blacklight transform the whole park into a crazy jumping dance club.

WANT TO GO? $29.99 for 3 hours; $25.99 for 2 hours; $22.99 for 1 hour. 914-365-7370. skyzone.com.

Rock n’ Roll Babies & Toddlers FREE WHEN: Through Aug. 28: Fridays, 10:15-10:45am WHERE: Croton Free Library, 171 Cleveland Drive, Croton-on-Hudson AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: It’s time for great stories, classic kids’ songs, new rock n’ roll music, and lots of dancing!

WANT TO GO? 914-271-6612. crotonfreelibrary.org.

Shining Lights Yoga for Kids FREE WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Wednesdays, 11am WHERE: The Westchester, 125 Westchester Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Stay active with your little and have fun doing yoga exercises.

WANT TO GO? 914-421-1333. simon.com.

Special Needs Sensory-Friendly Evening WHEN: Thursday, April 2, 5:30-8pm WHERE: Maritime Aquarium, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: Accommodations will be made to give guests with sensoryprocessing differences a fun, comfortable, and accepting experience.

WANT TO GO? $15; $13 for seniors 65 and older; $10 for children 3-12. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org.

Ecology Club for Families with Special Needs FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 18, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children with special needs are invited to bring a family member or caregiver with them to the Nature Center to enjoy animal programs, hikes, and other fun science and sensory adventures. Pre-registration required.

WANT TO GO? 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org.

Together in Music WHEN: Saturday, April 18, 4pm WHERE: Chappaqua PAC, 480 Bedford Road, Chappaqua AGES: All WHAT: This interactive and inclusive family concert spotlights people with special needs who play in the orchestra.

WANT TO GO? $20; free for kids on laps. 914-238-4771. chappaquaorchestra.org.

Champs for Autism Ausome Reading Program FREE WHEN: Through April 18: Saturdays, ages 7-10: 10:30-11:15am; ages 11-13: 11:30am-12:15pm WHERE: Woodstock New York Public Library, 761 E. 160th St., Bronx AGES: 5-12, adult WHAT: Learn how to enhance reading skills for children on the autism spectrum. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 855-411-0271. bit.ly.

Wheelchair Basketball Tournament FREE WHEN: Monday, April 20, 5:30-8:30pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: This year’s wheelchair basketball tournament features CPW’s Barrier Breakers with the NY Rolling Fury and WSSC’s Wildcats.

WANT TO GO? 914-937-3800. cpwestchester.org.

Children and Adults with ADD (CHADD) Meetings WHEN: Through Dec. 7: first Monday of each month, 6:30-8:30pm WHERE: Select Human Services, 17-19 Marble Ave., Pleasantville AGES: Adult WHAT: Help you or your child manage ADD for success and discuss different topics at meetings on the first Monday of the month through the school year.

WANT TO GO? $5. 914-741-6300. chadd.net.

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WORTH THE TREK TO THE CITY Annual Shearing of the Heather Celebration FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Fort Tryon Park, 741 Fort Washington Ave., Fort Washington, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the park’s 75th anniversary with crafts, a community parade, and more fun spring activities!

WANT TO GO? 212-795-1600. forttryonparktrust.org.

Sakura Hanami (Cherry Blossom Viewing) WHEN: Sunday, April 5, 1-2pm WHERE: Japan Society, 333 E. 47th St., Midtown, Manhattan AGES: 4 and younger WHEN: Experience the beauty of the cherry blossoms with playtime and sakura crafts under the trees?

WANT TO GO? $12; $8 members. japansociety.org.

Freedom Art Jam: Passover Family Day WHEN: Saturday, April 5, 11am-4pm WHERE: The Jewish Museum, 1109 Fifth Ave., Upper East Side, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Join the Jewish Museum for a Passover extravaganza featuring art, music, and dancing!

WANT TO GO? Included with museum admission: $18; $12 seniors; $8 students; free for children 18 and younger.

New York City Easter Parade FREE WHEN: Sunday, April 12, 10am-3pm WHERE: Fifth Avenue between 49th and 57th streets, Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Make a fancy bonnet and join in on the Easter fun, or simply watch the parade—one of the best vantage points is St. Patrick’s Cathedral!

WANT TO GO? nycgo.com.

‘Magic Shadows’ WHEN: April 3-19, see website for showtimes WHERE: New Victory Theater, 209 W. 42nd St., Midtown, Manhattan AGES: 5 and older WHAT: CATAPULT will stretch your imaginations in Magic Shadows through shadows, cinematic scenes, and more!

WANT TO GO? $17 and up. 646-223-3010. newvictory.org.

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Is It Time for Day Camp?

Why summer camp is important for kids’ development—and how to choose the best one for your child

By Jess Michaels

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t’s hard to know when to send your kids to day camp—are they ready to be away from home, join a community, and engage in new activities? Renee Flax, director of camper placement for the American Camp Association, New York and New Jersey, who has been helping parents navigate camp for more than 20 years, offers her advice.

What’s so great about day camp?

Camps are one of the last unplugged environments, which is invaluable at a time when kids spend so much time alone on electronics without communicating face-to-face. Day camp is a place where kids can socialize and work together as a group.

And while counselors are on hand to help them, children learn how to handle situations on their own, and consequently develop confidence in their ability to make decisions and solve problems.

Camps also teach practical skills, like swimming, and psychological skills, like learning to share and listening to directions.

Day camp encourages healthy competition and safe risks— jumping in a pool, singing on stage, climbing a ropes course, meeting a new friend. With perseverance, kids learn they can conquer their fears and learn to love activities they would never otherwise have been exposed to.

Why not just go to the pool?

While lazy days at the pool or even half-day sports classes are certainly fun, they don’t offer the valuable experience of being part of a closeknit group of people. Camp is more than just individual activities; it provides a family of friends and a home-away-from-home. Events like color wars inspire a sense of comradery because kids have to work together. Learning songs and cheers together gives young children the feeling of belonging. It’s a tremendous growth experience and teaches kids to believe in themselves.

What should I look for in a day camp?

Asking friends and neighbors about their experiences is a good start but do your own research at open houses and camp fairs. Choose a camp that is accredited by the American Camp Association, which means it is living up to the highest standards, and consider the following questions: •

Inquire about the director: Is she seasonal or full-time?

Make sure you have a good rapport.

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Do you need a full-day camp with transportation and extended hours, or is a half-day camp enough for you and your child?

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Does the camp offer activities your child will enjoy?

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Are you comfortable with your child on a bus or are you looking for a closer option?

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Are you looking for a small, nurturing camp or a larger camp with a wider range of activities?

Even if you’re not quite ready to take the plunge, it’s a good time to start exploring options—there are so many great day camps in the New York area that will provide your kid with an exceptional and meaningful summer (check out the next page to see what the camps in our area offer).

Jess Michaels is the director of communications for the American Camp Association, New York and New Jersey. She believes every child should have a summer camp experience.

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Tackling Toddler’s Screen Time Many parents are concerned with how much time their older kids are spending with screens, but what are the recommendations for young children?

By Misha Valencia

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ost parents have put on a video or a show to distract their toddler while they washed dishes, made a phone call, or took a break. Even before we constantly talked about tablets and cellphones, parents used the TV to entertain children when they needed to get something done. While screen time is a concern for children of all ages, the toddler and preschool years are a crucial time for developing language and social skills—and excessive screen time can impact children’s development in these areas.

So, how much screen time is too much for toddlers?

The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends children ages 2-5 have no more than 1 hour of educational screen time daily. For toddlers ages 18-24 months, the AAP recommends limited use, with adult supervision, and children younger than 18 months are recommended to have no screen time (except video chatting).

Striking a Balance Young children with greater screen time exposure have decreased expressive language and language processing speed, according to study published in JAMA Pediatrics in November 2019. Plus, a January 2020 study published in The Lancet noted that 3 (or more) hours of daily screen time can decrease young children’s physical activity level and the quality of their sleep.

Nicole Beurkens, Ph.D., a child psychologist and author of Life Will Get Better: Simple Solutions for Parents of Children with Attention,

Anxiety, Mood and Behavior Challenges, also points out that toddlers learn through interactions with people, and screens decrease this face-to-face time.

But this doesn’t mean that all screen time is harmful.

“Striking a balance is important,” Dr. Beurkens says. “Most caregivers have situations where they may need to use a device at times, but if this has become the norm and every time they try to go somewhere the children are upset or complaining unless they have a device, it can be a red flag that [the kids] are not able to occupy themselves in other ways.”

Emily Skeen, a pediatric nurse in NYC, adds that it’s important to monitor the accumulation of screen time throughout the day.

“A few minutes here and there while children are stuck sitting in a waiting room or doing errands with their caregiver is probably fine, but if they’re using devices intermittently throughout the day and then coming home and using it for another hour or two, the time can really add up.”

Reducing Screen Time It may be nearly impossible in our device-filled digital world to completely shield toddlers from electronics, but families can take steps to reduce usage, encourage other activities, and safeguard children from any potential damaging effects of excessive screen time.

It’s important to start an age-appropriate dialogue with young children about screen time. Telling (and showing) them that devices are something that we don’t play with all the time helps them begin to understand what the expectations around screens are. Give them a tangible example—such as cookies and ice cream are a fun treat, but we don’t eat them for snack every day—and explain that screen time is also something done in moderation.

Set specific times for the whole family (children and caregivers) when screens are not used in the home, such as during meals and the evening routine, Dr. Beurkens recommends. And to avoid temptation during device-free time, keep devices in a separate location where kids can’t access them, and be careful not to leave devices in children’s bedrooms overnight.

Another helpful tip is using visual aids. Create a chart outlining different activities your children can do that don’t involve screens (coloring, painting, playing with toys, etc.), and include when and where devices can and can’t be used.

Because toddlers learn quickly how to navigate different programs, it’s important to pay attention to not just how long a child is on a device, but how they use the device. The AAP recommends parents install parental controls and participate in screen time with their toddlers to help them understand and process what they are seeing.

Misha Valencia is a journalist whose work has appeared in numerous publications, including The New York Times, Washington Post, Marie Claire, Huff Post and Healthline.

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Bulldozer Parents How parents’ involvement in kids’ lives has escalated to an extreme

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n 2019, Lori Loughlin and Felicity Huffman were indicted for paying thousands of dollars to secure their daughters’ admission to top U.S. universities through lying, cheating, and manipulation. These days, it’s not uncommon to hear about a parent trying to coerce a teacher to raise her daughter’s grade or to see a fourth-grade science fair project that was clearly done by a 40-year-old. These types now have a name—bulldozer parents—and professionals believe their behavior is getting in the way of their children’s success.

What is a bulldozer parent?

These are the parents who go above and beyond to make their child’s life easier, according to Victoria Turner Turco, founder and president of Turner Educational Advising. While parents almost always have the best intentions when helping their kids succeed, their tactics can often cross ethical or even legal boundaries, like in the instance of Operation Varsity Blues (the college admissions scandal of 2019).

This trend likely started in the 1980s: When the country faced a heightened fear of stranger danger, parents began more closely organizing and monitoring their kids’ activities, according to Julie Lythcott-Haims, author of How to Raise an Adult and former dean of freshmen at Stanford University. Playdates became popular—instead of letting kids run around outside with neighborhood friends, and parents were more present and involved in their kids’ social lives.

“It’s like a snowball running downhill,” says Turner Turco, who wrote about preparing students for post-college life in 2019 for LINK for

Counselors Magazine. “Once parents started organizing their children’s play, it wasn’t much longer until they were involving themselves in their children’s play.”

Soon parents were choosing what instruments and sports the child should play, what hobbies they should have, what extracurriculars they should participate in, and of course, how and when they should do their homework.

Lythcott-Haims told The New York Times that while she was at Stanford, she saw students rely on their parents to set up “play dates” with other college students. “The point is to prepare the kid for the road, instead of preparing the road for the kid,” she says.

When Helping Isn’t Helpful Parent’s extreme efforts to ensure their child’s success is, it inevitably makes the child helpless, according to Turner-Turco.

While no parent wants to see their child struggle, it’s important for kids to learn how to face failure, says Julie Morison, Ph.D., licensed psychologist and owner and director of HPA/LiveWell.

“If all adversity is taken from a child, they never learn how to problem solve, how to fail, or how to lose gracefully…bottom line is they don’t develop resilience,” Dr. Morison says. “It is thought that this type of parenting is causing an increase in depression and anxiety in college kids.”

In fact, kids raised by bulldozer parents develop low self-efficacy as they get older because they don’t believe in their own ability to manage challenges or difficult situations. And when that child is on his own in college and is faced with meeting his needs for the first time, he will likely struggle and become anxious or depressed.

Changing Bulldozer Behavior Dr. Morison encourages parents to ask kids if they want help before offering it. Useful questions are: “Do you need me to help you solve this or do you want me to just listen?” or “What do you think you can do about this situation?” or “What are your options?” Allow your child to brainstorm solutions on her own and encourage her to ask others for what she needs.

“Parents who act as bulldozers want to get all adversity out of the child’s way and this implies that we see failure or struggle as bad,” Dr. Morison says. “Really, it can be reframed as an opportunity to grow.”

Instead, focus your attention on being your child’s support system, encouraging her as she encounters challenges. The “I can do this myself” attitude doesn’t change as children grow into teens, according to Dr. Morrison. In letting your child face her challenges on her own, you are teaching her to learn life skills she will need through adulthood.

Turner Turco recalls the time her oldest daughter was cut from her middle school basketball team. That evening, she received a call from a concerned parent in the class deeming the decision unfair and offering to call the coach for her.

“Actually, it is fair. Katie isn’t as strong of a player as some of the other girls, and the coach wasn’t picking on her by not picking her,” Turner Turco recalls telling the concerned parent.

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