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16 Birthday Party Directory 22 Birthday Planner

October Chills & Spooky Thrills

Get in the Halloween spirit with some ghoulish fun and light-hearted haunts

‘Sharental’ Advisory

Which moments with your baby you should share, and which ones you shouldn’t

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 11 How to Help Your Teen Be Active & Healthy 12 The Road to Happy Motherhood 36 ‘Sharental’ Advisory 40 Teen Milestones You Need to Know 44 Party Central 46 Parochial Schools and Private Schools 46 Meet the Doctor 47 Professional Services and Open Houses 49 Party Planner and Family Resource Guide 49 Advertisers’ Index 50 Quotables

10 Dream Catcher

38 Babyprooﬁng 2.0

24 Family Fun in Manhattan

42 401K vs. IRA vs. Nothing

25 Family Activities Calendar 35 October Chills & Spooky Thrills

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Helping Parents Make Better Decisions ON THE COVER ›› 14 What Your Child Really Wants at Her Party 16 Venues, Entertainment, and Resources 35 Get in the Halloween Spirit 36 Welcome to ‘Sharenthood’ facebook.com/nymetroparents

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OCTOBER 2018 • Vol.18 • No.2

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love every issue of Westchester Parent we publish, but there’s something extra-sweet about the months when we cover kids’ birthday parties. After all, who doesn’t love a celebration? It’s a blast seeing your child so happy, and it’s also a terrific chance to put your parental pride on display. But when it comes to kids’ parties, is bigger always better? What do our children actually remember about their special day? We asked writer Lambeth Hochwald to investigate. The result: “What Kids Really Want at Their Birthday Parties” on p. 14, an unflinching look at the gotta-haves, nice-to-haves, and don’t-really-needs, through the eyes of those who know children the best. Read this insightful piece right now—it may significantly change the way you go about your party planning in the future. Speaking of public shows of parental pride, do you run to social media and share the news each time your baby does something cute or new? There’s a name for that— ‘sharenting’—and we’re almost all doing it. Dasha Kofman examines our motives, as well as this trend’s pros and cons, in her report “‘Sharental’ Advisory” (p. 36). It may make you think twice about safeguarding your little one’s privacy. Meanwhile over on p. 38, Anja Webb’s story, “Baby Proofing 2.0,” will have you thinking about how to safeguard your little one in general. It gives a terrific rundown of ways to keep active and curious toddlers safe at home; you’ll want to make sure you take every tip to heart. Then there’s a story near and dear to my own heart: “Teen Milestones You Need to Know,” on p. 40. As the mom of two teenage daughters, I know kids make some real quantum leaps in their adolescent years, especially when it comes to cognitive and emotional development. No, these milestones aren’t Insta-worthy—sorry, sharents!—but they’re important signs that your child’s growth is right on track. Read on and you’ll see why it’s actually a good (if annoying) thing that your teen is embarrassed by you or disagrees with your politics. While you’re focused on your child’s well-being (and what decent parent isn’t?) it’s easy to forget your own. That’s why Melissa Wickes’s article, “Saving for Retirement” (p. 42), is so vital to read. It demystifies the most common types of savings vehicles, and explains painless ways to build your nest egg now so it’s ready when you need it most. And don’t miss my essay, “The Road to Happy Motherhood” on p. 12. I share the “selfish” decision that helped me escape a dreary bout of postpartum blues, and made me a happier, better mom—I guess it wasn’t so selfish doing something for myself after all. Would you like to share your personal essay about parenthood with us? We’re always looking for great new submissions for our Voices page. Feel free to send yours to editor@nymetroparents.com! Of course, no October issue of our magazine would be complete without a celebration of my favorite holiday: Halloween! There’s something about the sight of little kids in costumes (and, I’ll admit, mounds of candy) that makes me so happy, and you too, I bet. For some chills and thrills, turn to p. 35, where we share information on pumpkinpicking spots, haunted houses, and more. Wishing you a boo-tiful month ahead! Deborah Skolnik Director of Content

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Going to bed alone can be scary for children, especially those who tend to have nightmares or difﬁculty getting settled down for the night. One thing that can help relieve bedtime anxiety is the reassurance a dream catcher can provide. Because they were made to protect children from bad dreams, you can help your kid get some shut-eye by making this dream catcher craft from Laura Minter and Tia Williams’s “The Big Book of 100 Outdoor Activities.” This dream catcher is made from the center part of an embroidery hoop, which you can find in most craft stores. A dream catcher is traditionally woven to resemble a spider’s web. You will need some feathers, which you can search for on a woodland walk, and some beads to decorate. You will need

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1. To make the weave on the embroidery hoop, begin by tying the end of the twine onto the hoop. Pull the twine about 1½ inches along and fold it over the top of the hoop from the front. Bring the twine in through the loop and pull tight. Continue all the way along the hoop. 2. When you get to the beginning, continue to loop the twine and go forward, but instead of looping around the hoop, loop through the previous row of twine, in the center of each loop. Pull tight each time. 3. Keep going round, looping and pulling tight, until the gaps become too small to continue easily. Tie the twine in the center and trim the loose ends. 4. Tie three pieces of twine onto the bottom of the hoop, evenly spaced out. Add beads to each one, then cut to your preferred lengths (this one was about 10 inches in the center). Glue two feathers onto the bottom of each piece of twine. Add another length of twine to the top of the hoop to enable you to hang your dream catcher. Extract reprinted here with permission from GMC Publications, The Big Book of 100 Outdoor Activities by Laura Minter and Tia Williams, RRP $19.95, published July 2018

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ood exercise and eating habits are vital and are best established at a young age. By teaching your teen effective and enjoyable ways to exercise and stay well, you are setting her up to live a healthy, happy life. Here are five ways you can help your teen get excited about fitness and wellness, according to Christian Palmer, strength and conditioning coach and personal trainer at Equinox Mamaroneck. Make sure his focus isn’t the scale. In a world dominated by social media and superficial mindsets, teens are very conscious of how they look versus how they feel. Palmer suggests the first thing to teach your child when it comes to exercising is not to focus on the scale, but instead on the way exercising makes him feel.

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Help her eat healthy, but don’t enforce a strict diet. Developing a healthy and well-balanced diet is important, especially in growing teenagers. But, giving a strict, structured diet to a teen may not be necessary or the best option for her. Instead, Palmer suggests encouraging her to make the best choices she can and emphasize eating from the ground (unprocessed, natural foods). Don’t be afraid of weights. A lot of parents are afraid their child will stunt his growth if he begins lifting weights at a young age. The reality, Palmer says, is most kids aren’t strong enough to lift weights that would negatively impact their growth in any way. Teach him the proper form for motions such as squatting, deadlifting, and pressing. “Strength is typically what translates to better movers, better athletes, and ultimately more confidence,” Palmer says. Help your child develop a structured weightlifting plan, and keep it simple! Make sure she loves what she’s doing. Forcing your kid to work out in a way she doesn’t find enjoyable can be the easiest way to make her hate exercising, Palmer warns. Instead of making her go for a run when she really doesn’t want to, find out what she loves and integrate it into the exercise plan. “Take your daughter to the field, invite her friend, and make it a competition. Make it fun but add a challenge so she gets the cardiovascular benefit as well,” Palmer says

Lead by example. “A lot of kids come to me and say, ‘my dad wants me to go to the gym but he doesn’t really do it so I don’t really think it’s that important,’” Palmer says. Parents are the strongest influence on their children. If you are implementing healthy eating and exercise habits in your own life, it will not only be easier for your teen to do so, but it might make him want to.

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one friend voiced the true sticking point: “It’s a two-seater. Where will you put the kids?” she pressed, even knowing we were keeping the minivan and the Buick. I was disappointed in, or rather for, my friends. We mothers have only come so far. We urge one another to do things that affirm our individuality—provided they tie into our families. We cheer each other on to assert our financial power—so long as our purchases can be stashed in the closet, away from judgmental eyes. It’s fine for a dad to buy himself a sports car— in fact my neighbor just had—but if a mom buys herself one, it’s unseemly. Rattled, I called my oldest friend, Matt, for advice. “You’re in a full-fledged midlife crisis!” he teased. Then he grew serious. “My buddy used to drive me around in his sports car,” he mused. “On the highway, it felt like all four wheels had lifted off the ground.” He paused. “Buy the car.” So I did. I had to learn to drive stick, which was intimidating. It takes finesse to start a manual transmission car from a dead stop. At first I either stalled out or hit the gas too fast, sending the engine into frenetic revolutions. Yet each day, my driving improved, and so did my blues, until both miraculously smoothed out. Who knew a car had healing powers? Okay, it wasn’t really the car; it was the fact that I had done something solely for myself. Some shifts, I came to see, are automatic—girlhood’s dreams give way to motherhood’s realities. But figuring out how to be a mom while still asserting your individuality? That’s a conscious shift, but one worth making. After weeks of practice, I drove my daughter to preschool in the Miata. As I pulled out of the parking lot, several mothers gathered around. One stroked the Miata’s door. “Looks fun,” she said. I smiled. Then I prayed, Please God, don’t let me stall out in front of everyone. I pulled out smoothly. I was barely going 10 miles per hour, but it felt like all four wheels had lifted off the ground.

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Bigger isn’t always better—learn what will make the celebration truly special.

ake it from parents who know: Your kids may say they want a huge birthday blowout at the local arcade, but what they really want is a celebration that’s far more meaningful—and less chaotic. “A birthday is a time to enter your child’s world,” says Julie Morganstern, author of several books, including her latest, Time to Parent: Organizing Your Life to Bring Out the Best in Your Child and You. “All kids want is for someone to see [them] and to understand [them] and that’s what I think a birthday celebration is really about.” In fact, keeping the party smaller and simpler may make a bigger impression on your kid in the long run. “The most memorable experiences are those that incorporate multiple senses, evoke an emotional connection, and incorporate an element of novelty,” says Chrissy Khachane, an educational consultant and parenting coach. “Slowing down a bit to focus on some of life’s simple pleasures—family, good food, and laughter—affords children a party that incorporates the most important parts of childhood.” So this year, instead of getting into a frenzy planning your child’s party, consider tapping into your sense of nostalgia. Plan a day that involves playing tag in the backyard, tossing a ball, gathering on a beach or in the park, or playing board games or Duck, Duck, Goose. And whatever you do, consider taking a few cues from these parents and experts as they share their take on rethinking our kids’ birthday parties.

Step Away from the Competition

It’s super easy for birthday parties to become competitive, or all about status, where parents are one-upping each other over everything from the venue to just how deluxe the goodie bags are, Morganstern warns. Instead, “you want to establish values and make sure your kids 14 October 2018 | nymetroparents.com

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don’t get caught up in all that external pressure to compete,” Moganstern says. “You also want to focus on redefining what the real value is of a birthday party. In my book it’s all about celebrating who you are, it’s connecting with the people you really love and the ones who care most about you. That’s your family and friends. It’s not about impressing anybody. If it’s about competition with other parents then the party isn’t about [your child], it’s about other people.”

Let Your Child Play Party Planner

If your child insists on helping out with the party planning, don’t hesitate to invite him to play an important role—depending on how old he is, of course. “One way you can let your child take the lead is picking out the party theme,” says Amy Horta, owner of AEH Events, a custom event planning and design firm in Westchester County. Horta let her own 3-year-old son have a hand in creating his construction-themed birthday party. “He went with me on a trip to Home Depot (his favorite place!) for décor,” she says. “He also helped paint toolbox favors for all his guests.”

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If you have a toddler who doesn’t love big crowds, having a party with lots of guests just won’t be fun for her. “If there are loads of family and friends who want to shower the birthday boy or girl with good wishes, consider inviting family over for cake the weekend before the birthday and then have a small kids’ party the weekend after,” Horta recommends. “It may be a little more work planning two events, but it helps make sure that the birthday boy or girl don’t get completely overwhelmed on their big day!”

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Teens, too, may feel that a crowded bash isn’t right for them. They may prefer to do a special activity with couple of friends in place of a bustling party. “Think indoor rock climbing, a trapeze class, a double feature at the movies—with popcorn—or even a day out in Manhattan,” Horta says. “A birthday celebration doesn’t always have to mean a big party with lots of people.”

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“We keep our daughter’s birthday parties pretty low key,” says Raakhee Mirchandani Singh, a Hoboken, NJ mom of Satya, 5, and author of the forthcoming kids’ book, Super Satya Saves the Day. “For Satya’s second, third, and fourth birthdays, we’ve had a story time at our local bookstore,” she says. The owner “reads some of Satya’s favorite titles, and some new ones too. And Satya and her friends love it,” Singh says. Instead of receiving goodie bags, “the kids go home with a book,” Singh adds. “I feel awesome knowing we’re...encouraging the next generation of bookworms!”

Honor Your Kid’s Passions

“When my daughter was seven, we decided to focus her birthday party around her interest in dance,” Morganstern says. “I invited a woman who did dance parties to come and lead the kids in a series of dances. It was so wonderful to watch our daughter share something she loved with her friends.” Incorporating your child’s interests is a great way to make a party special, Khachane agrees: “Through focusing on something that is important to the birthday girl or boy there is a strong connection that takes the experience beyond what one might find at a [generic] party.”

See a Party as a Way to Build Community

A birthday party should absolutely focus fully on the birthday boy or girl, but it can also serve another purpose, especially if you’re new in town. For Cherie Corso, a Westchester parent expert, blogger, and mom of a 15-year-old daughter, birthday parties through the years have been wonderful ways to meet other families in town. “My daughter always wanted to invite her whole class so these gatherings were a great way for me to get to know the parents,” Corso says. “Best of all, my daughter has wonderful memories of those gatherings and I got to meet so many other families, too.”

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After Fort Lee, NJ mom Zaida Khaze’s daughters spent their sixth and seventh birthday parties with close friends, they both announced that for their next birthdays they’d rather go somewhere special. “With all the money that was spent per party for ninety minutes of fun and a goodie bag, I didn’t object,” Khaze says. “The next year, my older daughter opted for a weekend visit with the immediate family to [Great] Wolf Lodge and my younger daughter wanted to go to Six Flags.” Khaze says she was happy to not spend the time or money planning parties. “I would rather spend that money on their birthday presents. I was very impressed how my kids figured this out on their own.”

Focus on the Love

“Satya just wants to feel loved and celebrated,” Singh says. “I don’t think she cares about the specifics of the venue, the cake, or anything else...As for gifts, we’re pretty aggressive in our ‘no gifts’ policy and have been since her first birthday as Satya is a cancer survivor. Our friends bring gift cards to the party that we donate to the Tomorrows Children’s Fund in Hackensack,” she says. “Truth is, the kid has everything a little girl could want and then some: good health, sneakers that light up, parents who adore her, and more Wonder Woman junk than I ever thought humanly possible. So we encourage her to share with others.” And isn’t that the point of an awesome birthday party after all? Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

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917-903-1451 amyrosencookingbydesign.com amyrosencookingbydesign@gmail.com Have a cooking party for your child’s next birthday. From ‘Cupcake Wars,’ ‘Chopped’ styled cooking, and Pizza Creations to chocolate melting, molding, and decorating, your kids will enjoy the fully hands-on experience. Amy Rosen is a fun, enthusiastic cooking coach who has been running parties for the past five years. She comes to your home with everything needed for the party. There is no downtime and the kids are active from start to finish. You can visit her website at amyrosencookingbydesign.com or call 917-903-1451.

Clowns.com

Proudly Serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000; 718-971-5862 clowns.com At Clowns.com, our goal is to create an unforgettable and memorable party experience for you and your family. We provide the highest quality children’s entertainment and rental services in the industry. If you’re looking for a professional, dependable, and enthusiastic team, you’ve come to the right place! We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.

Dave’s Cast of Characters

914-235-7100 davescast.com Make your party a special one! Dave’s entertainment services include more than 100 costumed characters. From princesses and superheroes to pirates and tea parties, there’s something for everyone. We feature DJs, clowns, magicians, face painters, balloon sculptors, photo booths, and food carts. Spectacular inflatable attractions include Wild One and Kong’s Revenge obstacle courses, Cliffhanger Slide, and Mickey Park. Water fun includes the Big Kahuna and the gigantic Polar Plunge slides. New robotic animals. Frozen and Katy Perry parties. Enjoy bouncers, Spiderman velcro wall, gladiator joust, sports inflatables, robots, and racecars.

BIRTHDAY PARTY GIFTS Affordables A quality children’s consignment store

10 Main St., Dobbs Ferry 914-627-9462 affordablechild.com We are a quality consignment store, offering children’s clothing, maternity clothes, baby equipment, and toys. A great place to shop for a birthday gift! Open Monday-Saturday 10am-5pm and Thursday 10am-6pm. We accept all major credit cards.

Girl AGain

4 Martine Ave., White Plains free parking at the Seasons garage

914-358-1460 girlagain.com girlagain@yesshecaninc.org American Girl fans and collectors have a Westchester destination to indulge their passion at discounted prices. Girl AGain is a resale boutique for gently used American Girl dolls including historical characters, justlike-you dolls, and Girl of the Year, plus AG furniture, outfits, and accessories that make great birthday gifts. All merchandise is restored to nearly new condition. The bookshelves are stocked with new and used books about girls from history and advice books. Not sure what the birthday girl wants? Treat her with a Girl AGain gift certificate.

Tilly...A Deer’s Tale

914-764-5564 tillyadeerstale.com Tilly...A Deer’s Tale is about a real deer that lives in upstate New York and faces challenges after an accident. This powerful story is meant to inspire children living with physical challenges or limitations. The book makes a great birthday gift!

BIRTHDAY PARTY PLACES A-Game Sports

856 Main St., New Rochelle 914-278-9477 agamesports.net info@agamesports.net A-Game Sports offers a variety of birthday party packages for children of all ages. Each 90-minute party includes supervised playtime with two coaches on a private section of turf. Choose up to three activities, including soccer, wiffleball, kickball, dodgeball, capture the flag, relay races, tug-o-war, flag football, and tag games. Customized packages, bounce house, gaga, inflatable obstacle course, and baseball HitTrax available at an additional charge. A-Game Sports is located at 856 Main St. in New Rochelle. Visit agamesports.net or call 914-278-9477 for more information.

ABC Cakes

414 Mamaroneck Ave., Mamaroneck 914-630-2858 abccakesny.com info@abccakesny.com ABC Cakes specializes in birthday parties for all ages. Guests decorate cupcakes, cakes, or cookies. For our budding bakers we offer a ‘Cupcake War’-style party. Guests are divided into teams to create their own specialty cupcakes from scratch. Book your party today. Also, ask about our private classes and custom cakes for all occasions.

Artistree Performing Arts

114 W. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-835-2200 artistreearts.com jeanette@artistreearts.com Have your next child’s birthday party at Artistree Performing Arts! We have a wide variety of themes to choose from! Themes include but are not limited to: Hip Hop, Princess Spectacular, Space Adventure, Superhero, Hamilton, and Karaoke. We are happy to customize our parties to fit exactly what your child is looking for. If you want your child to have a party he or she will never forget…plan one with us!

Bach To Rock Mamaroneck

130 Mamaroneck Ave., Mamaroneck 914-341-1457 mamaroneck.b2rmusic.com mamaroneck@bachtorock.com Looking for a birthday party to remember? B2R offers birthday parties for kids ages 3 and older! Our Rock Band and Karaoke Birthday Parties (ages 7 and older) consist of a recording session in our state-of-the-art recording studios where everyone becomes a superstar for the day! Rock Star guests record pop and rock tunes prearranged for a birthday performance. Rock City Birthday Party (ages 3-6) is action packed and allows kids to explore rock and roll instruments and see how music is made! No experience necessary. Book your party today!

Bronx Zoo Treetop Adventure

Bronx River Parkway at Boston Road 347-308-9021 bronxzootreetop.com bztreetop@wcs.org Celebrate your special occasion with an outdoor aerial adventure. Climb, balance, swing, and zip through the trees on a variety of unique elements like ropes, bridges, and spider webs. Soar 800 feet across the Bronx River and back on our dueling zip lines offering thrills and unforgettable experiences. Get outdoors and make some special birthday memories. Choose from a variety of party packages designed for all abilities. Climb, zip, and connect at the best new experience in New York. Open select days through December. Visit bronxzootreetop.com.

Central Park Dance

450 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-723-2940 centralparkdance.com centralparkdance@gmail.com Voted Best of Westchester 2013, Central Park Dance has been offering Westchester’s highest quality programs to dancers at every level for more than 30 years. Have the birthday party of your dreams! Choose from Fairytale Ballet, Hip-Hop, and Fun-n-Fit party games. Our dance party team is regarded as one of the finest in the area, for the best parties of your choice. We provide a beautifully decorated studio, a separate space to serve food, paper goods, and an experienced, professional staff. Rentals also available. For more information, call or visit our website.

Chelsea Piers Connecticut

1 Blachley Road, Stamford, CT 203-989-1100 chelseapiersct.com/birthday info@chelseapiersct.com Birthday parties at Chelsea Piers are action-packed, entertaining, and hassle-free. We help plan the party, supervise the activities, serve the food, and clean up afterward. Pick one of our specially designed parties or create your own based on your child’s favorite activities. Options include gymnastics, dance, basketball, volleyball, soccer, T-ball, ice-skating, ninja warrior, gaga, and water slides! New this fall is an inflatable obstacle course and bounce house party option! All party packages include 75 minutes of the selected activity with 45 minutes celebrating in a party room. continued on page 18 ››

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Creative Corner of Larchmont

7 Addison St., Larchmont 914-833-2880 creativecornerlarchmont.com creativecornerlarchmont@gmail.com Creative Corner is the perfect place to celebrate a birthday! In our space stocked with awesome art projects, the birthday child and friends will have a fun and engaging time led by caring and professional artists. Art party options include wood toys, treasure boxes, canvas bags, ceramic piggy banks, and canvas paintings. We will help every step of the way. You can also add a piñata filled with fun prizes. We have toddler through adult classes. Ask about oaur daytime drop-in classes and after-school studio art classes.

Dance Cavise Studios

273 Halstead Ave., Mamaroneck 914-381-5222 dancecavise.com joe@dancecavise.com; jamie@dancecavise.com Be our guest at a Dance Cavise birthday party where your child and her friends will feel like stars. In this funfilled hour and a half, the birthday “star” and his or her friends will dance, sing, and play to their hearts delight, all under the supervision of our trained instructors. There is time for a break for refreshments which our staff will help set up, serve, and clean up for you. Just bring your camera. If you choose, your party will culminate with a special performance starring the birthday child.

Funfuzion at New Roc City

29 LeCount Place (Exit 16 off I-95), New Rochelle Party Central: 914-637-7575, option 1 funfuziononline.com Calling all birthday superstars! You will be dazzled by a unique, interactive party experience! Our dedicated emcees and party hosts provide an unforgettable birthday experience within a theatrical, interactive party room atmosphere. As “The Birthday” leading man or lady, you are center stage for your spectacular birthday production! Act one begins with a dazzling interactive show where everyone is a star! There will be eating, singing, dancing, and prizes! Act two is filled with your choice of action-packed amusements! It is a standing ovation every time for the birthday star!

Great Play of Scarsdale: Interactive Gym for Kids

969B Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-713-3470 greatplay.com/scarsdale Great Play is the “Best Birthday Party Place” Family Favorites Winner for 2015 and 2014! Our award-winning, high-energy parties are spectacular events! Your guests will have a blast and your child will receive all-star treatment in our amazing Interactive Gym™. We offer six great themes, and endless customization! Themes include Championship Day, Olympic Party, Super Hero Party, Fun & Games, and Dance Party. We customize each party based on your child’s interests, using some of our most popular Great Play games. It’s a memorable, fun-filled event for everyone involved!

GymCats Gymnastics and Birthday Party Center

Alyssa Fay, gymnastics and birthday party director 1 Odell Plaza, at Equalize Fitness, Yonkers 914-965-7676 gymcats.net We are famous for our unique private birthday parties. Our enthusiastic, interactive staff will have partygoers laughing and yelling as they swing on rings, jump, bounce, climb, and roll through our super obstacle course. Not to mention foam-filled pits, trampolines, an air castle, climbing ropes, and a giant inflatable slide that make your child’s party a memorable one. Call for more information about parties, gymnastics classes, private lessons, cheerleading, camps, or events.

Hommocks Park Ice Rink

Boston Post Road and Weaver Street, Larchmont 914-834-1069 hommocksparkicerink.org Have your birthday party on ice! Host your next special party at the coolest place in town, Mamaroneck’s popular enclosed Hommocks Park Ice Skating Rink. Held during public sessions, our 2-hour package is guaranteed fun! The package includes admission, skate rental, and lunch. The guest of honor will receive free admission and skate rental. Additional food items and packages available. Please provide your own cake and party favors. We also have a community room to rent for private parties. Don’t forget to visit our full menu concession.

Upper East Side, Manhattan 212-787-1124 tlguppereastsideny.com 28 Franklin Turnpike, Waldwick, NJ 201-445-4444 tlgwaldwicknj.com A private party at The Little Gym is a perfect way to celebrate your child’s next birthday. The 1½-hour parties are supervised by our trained, professional staff from beginning to end. Gymnastics, games, obstacle courses, trampoline, sports, and music are tailored to your child’s interests. Parties at The Little Gym mean exclusive use of the gym and party room. At The Little Gym, your child’s birthday bash will be the easiest party you’ll ever throw!

ISG Gymnastics

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Annie Pipia and Joann Distler, directors 151 Crotona Ave., Harrison 914-835-0010 isggymnastics.com Gymnastics classes, summer camp, cheerleading tumbling, birthday parties—ISG has got it all! From babies to teenagers, beginner-advanced, we have the program that’s right for you! You’ll flip over this professional facility with certified instructors for all levels. And ISG is a fun-filled, unique way to celebrate a birthday complete with trampoline, balance beams, bars, vault, tumbling, and air castle. All ages, 1 through teens. Age-appropriate programs and equipment. Fun for all!

JCC of Mid-Westchester

999 Wilmot Road, Scarsdale 914-472-3300 jccmw.org Have your child’s next party at the JCC of Mid-Westchester. Entertain up to 20 children with a sports or gymnastics party, or a fun and fantastic pool party! Parties are available on Sunday afternoons. Enjoy supervised activities the first hour, followed by a half hour in the party room to enjoy food, cake, and games as supplied by parent or guardian. Customized sports and gymnastics parties are also available for children with developmental learning needs. Visit jccmw.org or call 914-472-3300.

Jodi’s Gym

25 Hubbels Drive, Mount Kisco 914-244-8811 244 E. 84th St., Manhattan 212-772-7633 jodisgym.com Kids run, jump, climb, tumble, slide, bounce, and giggle to their hearts’ delight at Jodi’s Gym, where action-packed parties and unmatched experience have won children’s hearts for 35 years. Our bright, spacious facility is every child’s dream. Teachers guide the children on bars, beams, rings, slides, tunnels, a bounce house, and tumble track. Next, it’s off to a separate area for refreshments that we are happy to supply. Teachers set up, serve, and clean up. At Jodi’s, the whole place is yours! You sit back and enjoy.

Lil Chameleon

29 Elm St., Tuckahoe 914-346-5148 lilchameleon.com Come party with Lil Chameleon! Book our Silver or Gold package and choose from truly unique experiences in our bright and stylish space.

The Little Gym

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1923 Palmer Ave., Larchmont 914-630-7338 larchmont@macinspires.com 37 W. Putnam Ave., Greenwich, CT 203-531-5720 sayhello@macinspires.com macinspires.com education@macinspires.com MacInspires parties are a wonderfully creative, collaborative, and educational way to celebrate special days! Parties feature fun STEAM activities such as 3D design, robotics, and coding. If you have a budding maker with specific hobbies, we can plan a party around your child’s interests!

MSquash Accelerator

23 Waterfront Place, Port Chester 1-844-MSQUASH (677-8274) msquash.com; info@msquash.com Celebrate your birthday in a totally new way! MSquash is the newest and coolest squash facility, with a brand-new way to play sports. Its first two InteractiveSQUASH courts in the U.S. have players play videogames on a front wall while working out. Play interactive squash, soccer, wall ball, and have fun in the most amazing running contest! MSquash offers after-school programs and birthday parties for kids of all ages. Start playing squash in clinics or have the best birthday party ever.

Musical Munchkins

167 Scarsdale Road, Tuckahoe 914-771-7000 musicalmunchkins.com Musical Munchkins is the perfect birthday party activity for babies through age 5! Enjoy group drumming, funny favorite sing-along songs, fabulous dancing scarves, and more! When mom, dad, or grandma join and play along, their kids love it, and even the grownups are entertained! Maracas, chikitas, bubbles, buddy bands, and sweet, funny puppets—whatever your child would love, we will do. Our experienced, guitar-playing teachers warmly welcome and engage party guests. Free CD for the birthday child. Party favor CDs available. Call for more information.

Pine Brook Fitness

130 Rhodes St., New Rochelle 914-636-1019 pinebrookfitness.com Pine Brook Fitness, awarded as “Westchester’s Best Multi-Sport Family Fitness Facility,” provides a fitness experience for you and your family to have fun, improve skills, and test limits in a safe, friendly, and rewarding atmosphere. We are home to the New Rochelle Racquet Club, The Rock Club, and The Studios, offering tennis, rock climbing, specialized fitness classes, and personal training. We offer a variety of programs for children and adults, hold annual summer vacation camps, and provide an exciting venue for birthday parties and bar or bat mitzvahs. continued on page 20 ››

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380 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-2111 x2 sportimeusa.com Birthday parties? That’s our specialty! Celebrate your birthday at Sportime USA, the coolest place to have a party in Westchester. You can experience tremendous fun in our 50,000-squarefoot indoor Fun Center. We have laser tag, monster 4-D motion theater, a rock climbing wall, Superfly Ride, ballocity arena, bumper cars, Himalaya coaster, mini twister, soft adventure zone for little tykes, batting cages, more than 200 video and redemption games with a large prize counter, plus a restaurant. “Leave absolutely everything to us.” Ask about our private parties, bar and bat mitzvahs, and Sweet 16s.

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Studio B Dance Center

277 White Plains Road (entrance on Prospect Avenue), Eastchester 914-793-2799 studiobdance.com Each party at Studio B is uniquely designed to give the birthday child an exciting, personalized experience. Boys and girls ages 2 and older enjoy dancing and playing games to their favorite music. Parents can entertain their adult guests in the adjacent room with windows into the party room to watch all the fun. Party rooms are filled with colorful hula-hoops, wands, scarves, and bean bags, to engage children and stimulate their creativity. Older partygoers are wowed by the studio’s talented and enthusiastic hip-hop instructors. Visit their informative website.

Westchester Children’s Museum

100 Playland Parkway, Rye 914-421-5050 discoverwcm.org; info@discoverwcm.org Places to build, explore, and discover, the Westchester Children’s Museum is Westchester’s newest, most creative place for birthday parties! Have the museum’s exhibits, MakerSpace, and party room to yourself-our parties offer exclusive use of the museum space when the general public has gone home.

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amyrosencookingbydesign.com

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clowns.com

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davescast.com

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tillyadeerstale.com

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Artistree Performing Arts

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Central Park Dance

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dancecavise.com

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jccmw.org

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jodisgym.com

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Sportime USA

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Studio B Dance Center

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Westchester Children’s Museum

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The Harvest Festival will have live music, pumpkin decorating, and more.

See butterflies from all over the world in this special exhibit where it’s always summer.

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‘Animaniacs’ in Concert

See your favorite Animaniacs characters sing live on stage, and introduce your kids to the wacky, unforgettable tunes you grew up with.

A Cartoony Concert

Animation lovers across multiple generations will get a huge kick out of Animaniacs in Concert, a special performance featuring live orchestra music from Emmy-winning composer Randy Rogel and the beloved characters and songs of Animaniacs as voiced by legendary voice actor Rob Paulsen, as cartoons are screened. Paulsen, whose return to these roles follows a recovery from throat cancer, is the voice of many popular characters on The Powerpuff Girls, The Fairly OddParents, and Transformers. Sunday, Oct. 7, 1:30pm. Age: All. $45. Joe’s Pub at the Public Theater, 425 Lafayette St., Noho. 24

This NYC park offers more than 60 fields, a world-class track and field facility, tennis, golf, waterfront pathways, and more. The Randall’s Island Park Alliance works to restore and renovate the island’s natural resources including the freshwater wetlands, salt marsh, and Urban Farm. The island itself offers a variety of special events each year. Visit it: 20 Randalls Island Park, New York; 212-860-1899; randallsisland.org Can’t-miss event: Harvest Festival, Sunday, Oct. 14, 12pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive or a 1-hour Metro-North ride from White Plains

The Skyscraper Museum

Get up close and personal with more than 500 species of free-flying tropical butterflies from the Americas, Africa, and Asia at the Tropical Butterfly Conservatory! Housed in a vivarium that features nectar-producing plants and is designed to mimic the butterflies’ natural habitat, these beautiful creatures are diverse in color, size, and shape. Plus, learn about the anatomy, metamorphosis, and evolution of butterflies. Oct. 6-May 27, 2019; daily, 10am-5:45pm. Age: All. $28; $22.50 students and seniors; $16.50 children ages 2-12. American Museum of Natural History, Central Park West at 79th Street, Upper West Side.

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At Building Blocks, kids will explore and learn about different materials architects use as well as construct towers and recreate famous New York Skyscrapers.

The Skyscraper Museum

This museum in downtown Manhattan celebrates the city’s beautiful architectural history and examines the progression of its skyline. Learn about the buildings through exhibitions, programs, and publications as sites of construction and products of technology, design, real estate, places of work, and residence. The museum shares a building with the Ritz Carlton in Battery Park City. Visit it: 39 Battery Place, New York; 212-945-6324; skyscraper.org Can’t-miss event: Building Blocks, Saturday, Oct. 27, 10:30-11:45am Directions: Approximately a 40-minute drive, or 1-hour Metro-North and subway ride from White Plains

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Heritage Applefest

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 9am-4pm WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: All WHAT: Featuring live music, sweet and hard cider sampling, and press-your-own cider. Dig into apple cider doughnuts, apple cider butter, and apple cider syrup from local vendors. WHY WE LOVE IT: The Historic House Museum will also be open to explore at your own pace with expert guides stationed to offer insight and information. WANT TO GO? Pay-as-you-wish admission. 845-265-3638. boscobel.org.

Harvest Fest

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 10am-3pm WHERE: Stone Barns, 630 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy activities, crafts, live music, seasonal fare from local vendors, hayrides, cooking activities, educational tours throughout the property, and farm demonstrations. WHY WE LOVE IT: Families can even catch a close-up look of the animals and plants that thrive on the pastures and in the fields WANT TO GO? $60; $25 children ages 2-15; free for children younger than 2. 914-366-6200. stonebarnscenter.org.

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WHEN: Through Oct. 18: Wednesdays, 2-2:30pm and 4-4:30pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx

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AGES: All WHAT: Cooking demonstrations encourage families to get hands-on with healthy cooking using seasonal vegetables, fruits, and herbs. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids and adults will learn how garden-to-table cooking is not only nutritious, but fun too! WANT TO GO? $23; $10 children ages 2-12. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

Cirquetacular: Spooktacular

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 8-10pm WHERE: Westchester Community College, Academic Arts Theatre, 75 Grasslands Road, Valhalla AGES: All WHAT: Spooks, specters, and scaredy-cats contort and cavort through a high-flying circus of scare. WHY WE LOVE IT: Come dressed to impress as costumes are encouraged! WANT TO GO? $24; $22 students and seniors; $18 children younger than 13. 914-606-6262. sunywcc.edu.

‘The Book of Life’

WHEN: Oct. 20-21, Saturday and Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Jacob Burns Film Center, 364 Manville Road, Pleasantville AGES: 5 and older WHAT: In a small Mexican town, three childhood friends find themselves on different paths and an incredible adventure. WHY WE LOVE IT: Families can partake in a 5- to 10-minute discussion following the film. WANT TO GO? $14; $7.50 children ages 13 and younger. 914-747-5555. burnsfilmcenter.org.

Family Art Project: Día de los Muertos

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Artist Paulina Perera-Riveroll helps visitors recognize when the spirits of the beloved come home and visit. Create a group “altar” honoring the tree that stood in the Shade Border. WHY WE LOVE IT: A good introduction to an important Mexican cultural holiday for kids. WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Oktoberfest

WHEN: Through Oct. 28: daily, 12-6pm WHERE: Anthony Wayne Recreation Area in Harriman State Park, Exit 17 off the Palisades Parkway, Bear Mountain AGES: All WHAT: Bring the family for German food and beer, entertainment, craft vendors, and live music. WHY WE LOVE IT: A fall tradition that you can catch at any point throughout the month. WANT TO GO? $10 parking. 845-786-2731. visitbearmountain.com.

Boo at the Zoo

WHEN: Through Oct. 28: Saturday-Sunday, 10am5:30pm WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a spooky hayride, magic and mentalist shows, a costume parade, an extinct animal graveyard, pumpkin carvings, and a candy trail. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids can build forts and nests, jump like a frog, and make animal tracks in the sand. WANT TO GO? $36.95; $31.95 seniors; $26.96 children; free for children younger than 2. 718-220-5100. bronxzoo.com.

Jay Ghoul’s House of Curiosities: The Mystery of the Pharaoh’s Curse

WHEN: Oct. 19-31, see website for dates, 6-9pm WHERE: Lyndhurst Mansion, 635 S. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Your group must determine the cause of the deaths—is it the Pharaoh’s curse or a cold-blooded killer? WHY WE LOVE IT: The performance takes place exclusively at night when the mansion comes alive, but the scariest thing may just be the bad puns. WANT TO GO? $25; $20 children younger than 12. 914-631-4481. lyndhurst.org.

The Great Jack O’ Lantern Blaze

WHEN: Through Nov. 24: see website for times WHERE: Van Cortlandt Manor, 525 S. Riverside Ave., Croton-on-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: Meander through an 18th-century riverside landscape and see a display of jack-o’-lanterns. WHY WE LOVE IT: What better way to celebrate fall than a thousand hand carved pumpkins? WANT TO GO? $22-$27; $16-$20 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. 914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the six no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Play Day! FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 5, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Join us for a program of free play with building blocks, a huge Lego collection, and other fun toys. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Pumpkin Carving FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 14, 10am-4pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1 Stew Leonard Drive, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Pumpkin carver Lenny Calvin will demonstrate his Halloween-themed carvings. WANT TO GO? 914-375-4700. stewleonards.com.

Spooky Stories Hike FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 1pm WHERE: Trailside Nature Museum, Reservation Road, Cross River AGES: All WHAT: Join a naturalist for a hike and tales that will give you goose bumps! WANT TO GO? 914-864-7322. friendsoftrailside.org.

Halloween Hayride Spooktacular FREE

WHEN: Oct. 1-31, Monday-Thursday, 3-7pm; Friday, 3-8pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-8pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1 Stew Leonard Drive, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Take your family on a kid-friendly hayride. WANT TO GO? 914-375-4700. stewleonards.com.

Summer Geocache Challenge: Treasure Hunt FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 11: daily, sunrise to sunset WHERE: Rockefeller State Park Preserve, 125 Phelps Way, Pleasantville AGES: All WHAT: Embark on a real-world, outdoor treasure-hunting game while hiking with your family. WANT TO GO? 914-631-1470. geocaching.com.

Babies & Bagels FREE

WHEN: Oct. 23-May 21, 2019, select Tuesdays and Thursdays, 9:15-10:30am WHERE: Temple Israel Center, 280 Old Mamaroneck Road, White Plains AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Share breakfast, converse with other parents, and listen to speakers about topics including sleep issues, nutrition, dealing with in-laws, and separation. WANT TO GO? 914-948-2800. templeisraelcenter.org. ››

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Evening Howl for Pups of All Ages

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 19, 6pm WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: Guests will take a short sunset hike to howl with four ambassador wolves and potentially behold critically endangered red and Mexican wolves. WANT TO GO? $16; $13 children younger than 12. 914-400-5551. nywolf.org.

Spooktacular Night Walk

ANIMAL LOVERS Tales for Tails FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 12pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children are invited to read to a specially trained dog to gain confidence and develop a love of reading. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Live Owl Walk FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 5pm WHERE: Trailside Nature Museum, Reservation Road, Cross River AGES: All WHAT: Join a resident naturalist on an early evening walk around the reservation with her live owl. WANT TO GO? 914-864-7322. friendsoftrailside.org.

Pack Chat for Kids

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 2pm WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: Kids will learn about the mythology surrounding wolves and the important role of wolves in the natural world. WANT TO GO? $14; $11 children younger than 12. 914-400-5551. nywolf.org.

Falconry Presentation: Skyhunters in Flight

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 8, 1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Watch hawks, falcons, and owls sharpen their hunting skills during an exciting outdoor flight demonstration. WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Sea Turtle Nursery

WHEN: Oct. 6-27, Saturdays, 5-7pm WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a visit from some animals and then dig into a pizza before heading out for a night walk in the zoo. WANT TO GO? $35-$45. 800-433-4149. bronxzoo.com.

Slithering Serpents FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 1pm WHERE: Trailside Nature Museum, Reservation Road, Cross River AGES: All WHAT: Join a resident naturalist for an eye-opening program and get close to some snakes. WANT TO GO? 914-864-7322. friendsoftrailside.org.

‘Wild Life’: Carnivores of Rockefeller State Park Preserve FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 11: daily, 9am-4:30pm WHERE: The Art Gallery at Rockefeller Preserve, 125 Phelps Way, Pleasantville AGES: All WHAT: This multimedia exhibit features photographs by 10 photographers, trail camera images, lifelike mounted animals, and a touch table. WANT TO GO? 914-631-1470 x107. eventbrite.com.

KINDNESS CRUSADERS Annual Support-A-Walk for Breast and Ovarian Cancer FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 7, 9am-12pm WHERE: FDR State Park, 2957 Crompond Road, Yorktown Heights AGES: All WHAT: A 3-mile walkathon to bring attention to the needs of people affected by breast and ovarian cancer. WANT TO GO? 914-962-6402. supportconnection.org/support-a-walk-overview.

1st Annual Smart Walk for Smart Kids with Learning Disabilities

WHEN: Oct. 1-14, daily, 10am-5pm WHERE: Maritime Aquarium, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: Bid farewell to a young loggerhead sea turtle that has been living in the Sea Turtle Nursery. WANT TO GO? $24.95; $22.95 seniors; $17.95 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 21, 12pm WHERE: Sherwood Island State Park, Sherwood Island Connector, Westport, CT AGES: All WHAT: Help raise funds for educational programs, youth mentoring, parent networking, and extensive resources by walking the 1.5-mile scenic route at your pace, then enjoy additional children’s activities. WANT TO GO? $15. 203-226-6831. smartwalkforskld.dojiggy.com.

Read To Mr. Pickles FREE

Good Deed of the Month Club

WHEN: Oct. 2-16, Tuesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Mamaroneck Public Library, 136 Prospect Ave., Mamaroneck AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Mr. Pickles, a registered therapy dog, is a very patient listener. Your child can bring a book or select a title from the library to read to him. WANT TO GO? 914-630-5890. mamaronecklibrary.org. 28

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WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 11am-12pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Get ready for a kindness-themed book reading and discussion, followed by an art-educator led good deed project. WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

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MUSICIANS Story Garden with Alexia FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 19, 11:30am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join Alexia for stories, songs, and her magic ukulele. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Family Fiesta with Flor FREE

WHEN: Oct. 13-20, Saturdays, 12-12:30pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: An English-Spanish music program designed for the whole family. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Musical Tots FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 24, 11:15am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Kids can join Lori Cohen for a program of music and movement. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Exploring Play

WHEN: Through Oct. 26: Fridays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children can learn through activities, songs, stories, and more. WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 914-4215050. discoverwcm.org.

Evnin Rising Stars I

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 8pm WHERE: Caramoor Center for Music and the Arts, 149 Girdle Ridge Road, Katonah AGES: 5 and older WHAT: An opportunity to witness musicians on their way to becoming legends. WANT TO GO? $25-$40; free for students 18 and younger. 914-2321252. caramoor.org.

Evnin Rising Stars II

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 28, 3pm WHERE: Caramoor Center for Music and the Arts, 149 Girdle Ridge Road, Katonah AGES: 5-17 WHAT: An opportunity to witness musicians on their way to becoming legends. WANT TO GO? $25-$40; free for students 18 and younger. 914-2321252. caramoor.org.

Sing-Alongs with Chloe FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 13: Tuesdays, 9:30am WHERE: Port Chester-Rye Brook Public Library, 1 Haseco Ave., Port Chester AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Have fun with songs, instruments, bubbles, and more. WANT TO GO? 914-939-6710. portchester-ryebrooklibrary.org.

LIVE! At 650 Lee FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 21: Fridays, 5-7pm; Saturdays, 2-4pm WHERE: Jefferson Valley Mall, 650 Lee Blvd., Yorktown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Features blues, soul, rock, reggae, and jazz from various local musicians. WANT TO GO? 914-739-1224. fordpiano.com.

DANCE PARTY Tot Shabbat FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 19, 4pm WHERE: Chabad of the Rivertowns, 303 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Hip-hop with Bobby Doowah and his Shabbat music program before enjoying challah, matzah ball soup, and a story. WANT TO GO? 914-693-6100. chabadrt.org/totshabbat.

Museum Minis

WHEN: Oct. 4-25, Thursdays, 10:30-11am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Meet up in Toddler Beach for social play, muscle and brain builders, tumbling and jumping, music and instruments, dancing, and story time. WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Pajama Shabbat FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 26, 5:30pm WHERE: Temple Sholom, 300 E. Putnam Ave., Greenwich, CT AGES: 3-5 WHAT: This introduction to Shabbat features singing, dancing, and storytelling. Children can wear their pajamas and enjoy a family-friendly dinner afterward. WANT TO GO? 203-869-7191. templesholom.com.

Groove Family Music Halloween JAM FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 31, 4pm WHERE: Sound Shore Market, 2214 US-1 (Boston Post Road), Larchmont AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: There will be live music, sweet treats, and a groovy time for the whole family. Costumes encouraged! WANT TO GO? 914-834-3383. findgroove.com.

Sing, Dance and Have Fun with Dawny Dew FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 5: Mondays, 11:30am WHERE: Port Chester-Rye Brook Public Library, 1 Haseco Ave., Port Chester AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Sing songs and rhymes, listen to stories and meet puppets Sonny, Goo Goo, and Gaga. WANT TO GO? 914-939-6710. portchester-ryebrooklibrary.org. ›› WestchesterParent 29

BROWSE & BUY Farm Market FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Saturdays, 9am-1pm WHERE: John Jay Homestead, 400 Jay St., Katonah AGES: All WHAT: Purchase locally produced food and enjoy musical entertainment, community organizations, and demonstrations. WANT TO GO? 914-232-5651. johnjayhomestead.org.

Farmers Market FREE

LITTLE FOODIES

Horah with the Torah Cupcake Workshop for Tots FREE

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 1, 4pm WHERE: Chabad of the Rivertowns, 303 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Participate in Horah with the Torah featuring a holiday cupcake workshop, games, dancing, and a Simchat Torah parade. WANT TO GO? 914-693-6100. chabadrt.org.

Dig! Plant! Grow! The Three Sisters: Corn, Beans, Squash

WHEN: Through Oct. 5: Tuesday-Saturday, 1:30-5:30pm; Sunday, 10am-5:30pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Learn about the Lenape Native Americans and make your own corn husk doll, grind corn, sort beans, and identify squash fruits and seeds. WANT TO GO? Weekdays: $23; $10 children ages 2-12; weekends: $28; $12 children ages 2-12. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

Honey and Harvest Weekend

WHEN: Oct. 6-8, Saturday-Monday, 10am-6pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Learn about bees and honey with a live hive viewing, sample honey and honey comb, and take home honey-inspired recipes with cooking demonstrations. WANT TO GO? Weekdays: $23; $10 children ages 2-12; weekends: $28; $12 children ages 2-12. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

Kids in the Kitchen: I Fantasmi

WHEN: Through Oct. 28: Saturdays, 9:30am-2:30pm WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 Route 100, Katonah AGES: All WHAT: Shop and eat local by browsing and buying goods from more than 20 unique vendors. WANT TO GO? 914-864-7286. muscootfarm.org.

Experience Greenwich Week FREE

WHEN: Oct. 22-28, see website for schedule WHERE: Greenwich Avenue, Greenwich, CT AGES: All WHAT: More than 150 merchants will offer in-store promotions, experiences, and restaurant specials throughout the week, plus live music on Friday. WANT TO GO? 203-531-3047. experiencegreenwichweek.com.

Hastings Flea FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 11, Sundays, 10am-4pm WHERE: Hastings-on-Hudson MTA Commuter Parking Lot, 131 Southside Ave., Hastings-on-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: A specialty flea market with live music and entertainment, and vendors selling crafts, clothing, vintage furniture, handmade jewelry, and food. WANT TO GO? hastingsflea.com.

TaSH Farmers’ Market FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 17: Saturdays, 8:30am-2pm WHERE: Patriots Park, Route 9, between College Avenue and Cobb Lane, Sleepy Hollow AGES: All WHAT: Expect farm-fresh foods, craft spirits, and cheeses, as well as chef demos, art projects, children’s activities, and live music. WANT TO GO? tashfarmersmarket.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 12:30pm WHERE: Westchester Italian Cultural Center, 1 Generoso Pope Place, Tuckahoe AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Fill your mini pies with chocolate and top with powdered sugar and chocolate chips to create a spooky treat. WANT TO GO? $40. 914-771-8700. wiccny.org.

Gosset’s Farm Market FREE

Halloween Trick or Treat Brunch with Characters

Hudson Valley Regional Farmers’ Market FREE

WHEN: Oct. 27-28, Saturday-Sunday, 10am, 12:30pm, and 2pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1 Stew Leonard Drive, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: A Halloween meal with beloved costumed characters including Wow the Cow. WANT TO GO? $14.99; $9.99 children ages 12 and younger. 914-3754700. stewleonards.com.

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WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Saturdays, 9am-1pm WHERE: Gossett Brother’s Nursery, 1202 Old Post Road, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: A year-round market featuring locally produced, organic vegetables, meats, eggs, breads, seafood, cheeses, fair-trade coffee, and wines. WANT TO GO? 518-642-3270. localharvest.org. WHEN: Through March 31: Sundays, 10am-2pm WHERE: Hudson Valley Cerebral Palsy Association, 15 Mount Ebo Road S., Brewster AGES: All WHAT: Peruse local vendors selling vegetables, fruit, meat, jams, baked goods (gluten-free, too!), eggs, and specialty items. WANT TO GO? 845-629-2824. hvcpa.org.

MOVERS & SHAKERS SHOW TIME! Glow in the Park

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 5, 6-11pm WHERE: Boundless Adventures, 735 Anderson Hill Road, SUNY Purchase Campus, Purchase AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Challenge yourself as you maneuver through nature in a range of obstacle courses that offer self-esteem building activities. WANT TO GO? $39. 914-893-4550. boundlessadventures.net.

Jay And The Americans

Pajama Night!

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 5, 10am-8pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: All WHAT: Wear your PJs because the museum will stay open late with full access to activities and exhibits. WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 914421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 8-10pm WHERE: Westchester Community College, Academic Arts Theatre, 75 Grasslands Road, Valhalla AGES: All WHAT: Inspired by the McCarthy era, this classic comes to vivid new life in the National Player’s bare-knuckle staging. WANT TO GO? $24; $22; students and seniors; $18 children younger than 13. 914-606-6262. sunywcc.edu.

Nights in the Lights

Andy Grammer: The Good Parts Tour

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 5, 8pm WHERE: Tarrytown Music Hall, 13 Main St., Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: See a reunion of some of the biggest hit-makers of the ’60s. WANT TO GO? $49 and up. 877-840-0457. tarrytownmusichall.org.

‘The Crucible’

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 6-11pm WHERE: Boundless Adventures, 735 Anderson Hill Road, SUNY Purchase Campus, Purchase AGES: Adult WHAT: Challenge yourself as you maneuver through nature in a range of obstacle courses that offer self-esteem building activities. WANT TO GO? $39. 914-893-4550. boundlessadventures.net.

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 14, 7pm WHERE: Paramount Hudson Valley Theater, 1008 Brown St., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: Grammer has taken the music world by storm with a succession of pop hits. WANT TO GO? $50 and up. 914-739-0039. paramounthudsonvalley.com.

All Together Now: Family Workshop

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 14, 11am and 1:30pm WHERE: Emelin Theatre, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Cailin Green has been lobbying her parents for a puppy, but they’re unsure she is responsible and mature enough to care for this pet. WANT TO GO? $15-$20. 914-698-0098. emelin.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 2-3:30pm WHERE: The Rye Arts Center, 51 Milton Road, Rye AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Get silly while learning about improv through creative games, exercises, and activities. WANT TO GO? $30. 914-967-0700. ryeartscenter.org.

Baby Discovery Boxes

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 24, 10:45-11:30am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Baby-safe balls with different textures, stuffed friends, safe household objects, and musical instruments are just a few of the surprises baby will uncover in the discovery box. WANT TO GO? $20. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Toddler Time with Ms. Tee FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 7, Wednesdays, 11am WHERE: Port Chester-Rye Brook Public Library, 1 Haseco Ave., Port Chester AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Parents and children will participate with finger plays, songs, stories, musical instruments, and other parent-child activities. WANT TO GO? 914-939-6710. portchester-ryebrooklibrary.org.

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WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Sunday-Thursday, 10am-5:30pm; Friday-Saturday, 10am-8:30pm WHERE: Bronx Zoo Treetop Adventure, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Zip across the Bronx River and try some climbing courses. WANT TO GO? $24.99 and up. 718-220-5100. bronxzootreetop.com.

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‘Fun Home’

WHEN: Oct. 12-28, see website for show times WHERE: White Plains Performing Arts Center, 11 City Place, White Plains AGES: 13 and older WHAT: The winner of five 2015 Tony Awards including Best Musical, Fun Home is based on Alison Bechdel’s best-selling graphic memoir. WANT TO GO? $35 and up. 914-328-1600. wppac.com.

‘The Real Wicked Witches of Hollywood Hills’

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 28, 11am and 1:30pm WHERE: Emelin Theatre, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: 5-12 WHAT: See this musical filled with loveable witches and Halloween goblins, written by Westchester’s own John Treacy Egan and Robert Hager. WANT TO GO? $15-$20. 914-698-0098. emelin.org.

‘PHANTOM’

WHEN: Through Nov. 25: see website for show times WHERE: Westchester Broadway Theatre, 1 Broadway Plaza, Elmsford AGES: All WHAT: PHANTOM, based on the same Gaston LeRoux novel as Phantom of the Opera, is more of a traditional Broadway musical with dialogue and songs throughout. WANT TO GO? $59 and up. 914-592-2222. broadwaytheatre.com. ››

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Home of the ‘Legend’

WHEN: Sept. 29-Oct. 28, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-3:30pm WHERE: Washington Irving’s Sunnyside, 3 W. Sunnyside Lane, Irvington AGES: All WHAT: Explore Irving’s home and hear stories about what inspired him to write his most famous short story, then enjoy historic games and Headless Horseman art activities. WANT TO GO? $16; $12 seniors and students; $8 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. 914-366-6900. hudsonvalley.org.

Halloween Party with Wolves!

WHEN: Oct. 27-28, Saturday-Sunday, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: Holiday-appropriate goodies will be offered to guests and wolves. Costumes encouraged! WANT TO GO? $14; $11 children younger than 12. 914-400-5551. nywolf.org.

Ghosts from the Civil War Halloween Tours

HOLIDAY FUN Spooktacular Night Walk For Adults

WHEN: Oct. 12-19, Fridays, 5:30-7:30pm WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: Adult WHAT: Gather in the program space for a visit from some animal guests, then head out on a night walk in the zoo. WANT TO GO? $70-$85. 800-433-4149. bronxzoo.com.

Grace Pumpkin Parade FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 11am-3pm WHERE: Grace Smith House at Pulaski Park, 162 Washington St., Poughkeepsie AGES: All WHAT: Dress up in costume, build a float to launch down the street, and enjoy local cider. WANT TO GO? 845-452-7155. gshpumpkinparade.org.

Trick or Treat

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 24, 4-6pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1 Stew Leonard Drive, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Children are invited to dress in their costumes and come to Stew Leonard’s to go trick-or-treating throughout the store. WANT TO GO? $14.99; $9.99 children ages 12 and younger. 914-3754700. stewleonards.com.

Halloween Magic Show FREE

WHEN: Oct. 19-28, Friday-Sunday, 5:20-9:20pm WHERE: Lockwood-Mathews Mansion Museum, 295 West Ave., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: Listen to the tales of ghosts who haunted battlefields, and the words of Abraham Lincoln who predicted his own demise. Ghosts will wander throughout the first and second floors of the mansion. WANT TO GO? $20. 203-838-9799. ockwoodmathewsmansion.com.

Spooky Tales

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 30, 3:30pm WHERE: Caramoor Center for Music and the Arts, 149 Girdle Ridge Road, Katonah AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Begin your Halloween festivities with a storytelling performance, followed by hot cider and cookies. Costumes encouraged and prizes given to all. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 children. 914-232-1252. caramoor.org.

Horseman’s Hollow

WHEN: Oct. 5-31, see website for schedule WHERE: Philipsburg Manor, 381 N. Broadway, Sleepy Hollow AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Visitors begin walking a haunted trail and navigate a maze inspired by the Headless Horseman. WANT TO GO? $20-$25. 914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

Classic Tours with a Halloween Twist

WHEN: Sept. 27-Oct. 31, Thursday-Monday, 10am-4pm WHERE: Lyndhurst Estate, 635 S. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: View Lyndhurst mansion decorated with trimmings for Halloween. WANT TO GO? $20; $18 children ages 6-16; free for children younger than 6. 888-718-4253 x1. lyndhurst.org.

Halloween Party for Tiny Ghouls & Ghosts FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 25, 7pm WHERE: Warner Library, 121 N. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy Halloween-themed magic with Pete and Chris Amusements. WANT TO GO? 914-631-7734. warnerlibrary.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 31, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Grab your costume and get ready for a not-too-scary Halloween party with cookie decorating, a spooky craft, and some Halloween treats. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Halloween Hay Bale Theater FREE

Halloween Party

WHEN: Oct. 12 and 26, Fridays, 7pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1 Stew Leonard Drive, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Stop by the Hay Bale Theater for a children’s Halloween-themed movie. WANT TO GO? 914-375-4700. stewleonards.com. 32

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WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 31, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Expect games, a shadow hunt, music, costumes, and new friends. WANT TO GO? $10. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Play Days @ Jay FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 26: Fridays, 12-2pm WHERE: John Jay Homestead, 400 Jay St., Katonah AGES: All WHAT: Pack a picnic and enjoy six discovery centers, chickens, and a short hands-on activity. WANT TO GO? 914-232-5651. johnjayhomestead.org.

‘Just Add Water’ Exhibit

WHEN: Oct. 1-31, daily, 10am-5pm WHERE: Maritime Aquarium, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: Trace a path from desert to rain forest and meet animals from those environments. WANT TO GO? $24.95; $22.95 seniors; $17.95 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org.

SMARTY PANTS THE GREAT OUTDOORS Mr. Lunetta Explorer Bag Walk FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 2, 4:30-6pm WHERE: Hendrick Hudson Free Library, 185 Kings Ferry Road, Montrose AGES: All WHAT: Learn simple ways to observe and explore nature. WANT TO GO? 914-739-5654. sawmillriveraudubon.org.

The Wild Within: Holistic Herbalism and Wild Medicine

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 7, 2-5pm WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: 13 and older WHAT: This multi-sensory workshop will explore our relationship to the land through edible and medicinal plants. WANT TO GO? $40. 914-400-5551. nywolf.org.

Saw Mill River Audubon Second Saturday Walk FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 9-11am WHERE: Brinton Brook Sanctuary, 1339 Albany Post Road, Croton-on-Hudson AGES: 9 and older WHAT: These monthly walks will continue year-round on second Saturdays at the sanctuary. WANT TO GO? 914-666-6503. sawmillriveraudubon.org.

Family Nature Walk

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 14, 1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join naturalist and educator Gabriel Willow on a family-friendly walk through the gardens or woodlands. WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Saw Mill River Audubon Third Sunday Walk FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 21, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Pruyn Sanctuary, 275 Millwood Road, Chappaqua AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Enjoy a family-friendly walk for adults and young people. WANT TO GO? 914-666-6503. sawmillriveraudubon.org.

STEAM Team FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 11, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Flex your brain and your fingers with some hands-on STEAM activities and games. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Science Sunday

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 14, 11:30am and 1:30pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Drop in for Science Sunday. WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 914421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Battle of Pell’s Point Encampment FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 10am-4pm WHERE: St. Paul’s Church National Historic Site, 897 S. Columbus Ave., Mount Vernon AGES: All WHAT: Take in talks on the American Revolution, musket firing and militia drill, period music and dancing, dramatizations, crafts and cooking, and historic children’s games and toys—all with costumed re-enactors. WANT TO GO? 914-667-4116. nps.gov/sapa.

Calming the Spirit: Foods to Manage Stress with Drew DiVittorio

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 25, 7-9pm WHERE: Eileen Fisher Learning Lab, 50 S. Buckhout St., Suite 102, Irvington AGES: Adult WHAT: This class explores exercises, foods, spices, and herbal remedies to alleviate insomnia, panic attacks, anxiety, stress, and depression. WANT TO GO? $35. 877-523-3433. eileenfisherlifework.com.

Art & Science Sundays

WHEN: Through Oct. 28: Sundays, 2-4pm WHERE: The Science Barge, 99 Dock St., Yonkers AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Come aboard to learn about everything from growing hydroponic plants to making pop-up plants. WANT TO GO? $5 suggested donation. 914-513-7354. groundworkhv.org. ››

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CRAFTY KIDS First Saturday Art Workshop

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 11am-1pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: All WHAT: Drop in for a hands-on art workshop led by fine arts and crafts specialist. WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Family Art Project: Raptors Take Flight!

WHEN: Oct. 6-7, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Make your own movable raptor puppet or windsock, then participate in an outdoor group-soar. WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6; admission is free on Saturday until 12pm. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Let’s Fold Paper: Simple Origami Made Fun

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 10am-12pm (ages 6-9) and 12:30-2:30pm (ages 9-12) WHERE: The Rye Arts Center, 51 Milton Road, Rye AGES: 6 and older WHAT: Learn the art of Japanese paper folding. Students will learn to make three to four figures, as well as a box to carry their projects home. WANT TO GO? $35. 914-967-0700. ryeartscenter.org.

Family Art Project: Papermaking with Lavender

WHEN: Oct. 13-14, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Make paper from scratch. Add a bit of the natural material of your choice or sprinkle in a few lavender buds. WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6; admission is free on Saturday until 12pm. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Mad Art! FREE

WHEN: Oct. 1 and 15, Mondays, 4:30pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join a teen volunteer and channel your inner artist. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

WHAT: Artist Mike Leggett demonstrates the artistry, skills, and secrets of expert woodworking before power tools. WANT TO GO? Pay-as-you-wish admission. 845-265-3638. boscobel.org.

Family Art Project: Wormy, Squirmy Decomposers Parade

WHEN: Oct. 20-21, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Listen to Up in the Garden and Down in the Dirt and hear about the critters at work beneath the ground, then make a related craft. WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6; admission is free on Saturday until 12pm. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Young Discoverers

WHEN: Oct. 3-31, Wednesdays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children will learn the parts of a plant before hearing Seed Sprout Pumpkin Pie. Then everyone will do an activity that shows the growth cycle and retrieve pumpkin seeds to take home and plant. WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 914421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Kids Arts & Crafts Lab FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 26: Wednesdays, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Croton Free Library, 171 Cleveland Drive, Croton-on-Hudson AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Learn how famous artists worked, make your own art, and take it home. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 914-271-6612. crotonfreelibrary.org.

Nature-Themed Programs FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 20: Saturdays, 11am-12pm WHERE: Center for the Urban River at Beczak, 35 Alexander St., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Each week will feature nature-themed lessons and craft activities. WANT TO GO? 914-377-1900. centerfortheurbanriver.org.

Woodworking Demonstration Day

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 10:30am-4:30pm WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: All 34

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Coming up next month: NOV. 23: Saw Mill River Audubon Turkey Mountain Hike at Turkey Mountain Nature Preserve, Yorktown Heights NOV. 23-25: Holiday Opening Weekend at Lyndhurst Mansion, Tarrytown NOV. 27: The Very Hungry Caterpillar at The Palace Theatre, Stamford, CT

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October Chills & Spooky Thrills Compiled by Anja Webb

Get in the Halloween spirit and get ready for a fun-filled fall! Whether you’re looking for some ghoulish fun to scare the pants off your teens or some more light-hearted haunts for the little ones, we’ve got you covered with our ultimate Halloween guide. Keep the thrills going with escape rooms that allow you to embrace your inner Houdini and give your kids the perfect opportunity to show off their detective skills. Or, if you’d rather take it easy, try taking a family day trip to the farm for some pumpkin picking. Now if it’s already a little too chilly outside, you might want to stay indoors and go for a skate at your local roller rink instead. Whatever you’re looking for, we’ve got what you need to get ready for the Halloween season and make it a great October with your family!

PUMPKIN PICKING Hurd’s Family Farm

2187 State Route 32, Modena 845-883-7825; hurdsfamilyfarm.com Open daily, 9am-5pm U-pick pumpkins, veggies, and apples, plus family-friendly mystery corn mazes, storybook corn maze, and hayrides; big apple bounce pillow, rubber duck derby, apple launcher, cow train, giant slide, fish feeding, farm animals, nature trails, and gem mining daily. Educational school tours and birthday parties available. Check website for themed weekends, music, and special events. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/pumpkins

HALLOWEEN FOR KIDS Scared by the Sound, Rye Playland

1 Playland Parkway, Rye 914-813-7010; scaredbythesound.com Oct. 12-28, Friday-Sunday. Hours vary; see website for details. Admission: $20 per person The park closes down its rides for this event, back for its 19th year. More than 100 actors help to make the crypt walk, morgue, and haunted wine cellar creepy without lots of gore. Don’t miss the giant outdoor graveyard behind the haunted house. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/Halloween

ROLLER RINKS The Castle Fun Center

The Puzzle Parlour

131 Court St., White Plains 914-368-8222; thepuzzleparlour.com There are four rooms to choose from: The Heist Part 1, The Surgery, The Alien Conspiracy, and Vampire.

109 Brookside Ave., Chester 845-469-2116; thecastlefuncenter.com The Castle Fun Center is the perfect destination for roller-skating for all ages and every occasion. The venue features a 10,000-squarefoot roller rink complete with a light and sound show, as well as gokarting tracks, a multi-level laser tag arena, miniature-golf courses, an arcade, and rock-climbing wall. Once you have worked up an appetite, enjoy a bite to eat at the Jester’s restaurant and pub, which is conveniently located within the facility.

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Posting about your little one’s life on social media is big-time fun—but is it smart? And safe?

n parenthood, there are moments of mayhem we don’t want anyone else to see and moments we want to highlight on Instagram—and, if we’re being honest, moments of mayhem that are totally worthy of a post on Instagram. If this is something you know all too well, welcome to ‘sharenthood.’ It is no secret that as we scroll through our various social media feeds, most (if not all) of what we see is staged. Everyone has a different motive for posting their children on social media, and some choose to keep their babies off Facebook and Instagram completely. The 38,000-follower Instagram account @thispugslife, winner of The Ellen DeGeneres Show’s Ellen Rate My Baby, began as an account showcasing Charlie, a black pug. Account creator Meredith Kreuger’s daughter was added to the mix when she was born. “Followers tell me all the time that the two of them make them smile and make them happy,” Kreuger says. “My goal is to make people laugh via Instagram and blogging. I love captioning photos and I love to write!” There are parents who post pictures to keep their families in the loop, some who use Instagram as a scrapbook of sorts, others who are aiming to send a greater message, and in some cases, to receive a sense of validation. This all leads us to the question: to post or not to post?

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of parents: those who claim they use social media to keep friends and family involved and develop content for future scrapbooking projects (87 percent) and those who have no shame in saying ‘it just feels good to show off my kid’ (13 percent). Although parents link their posting motives to being about their kids, it turns out it’s more about appeasing themselves, according to Ida Jeltova, Ph.D., a licensed psychologist in Rockland and Bergen counties with more than 14 years of clinical experience working with children, youths, and families. “Social media provides a perception, if not actual validation, of ‘my child is liked and doing well. I am a good parent’,” she says. There is a small population of parents who are competitive due to insecurity, Dr. Jeltova adds, which forces the child to develop an extension of parental ego and self-esteem. “The parent needs the child to be liked to feel likeable themselves,” she says. At the end of the day, every parent is different, and there’s nothing wrong with feeling validated, whether you’re helping others by sending a message or it gives you an extra boost—as long as it’s all in good spirit.

Sending a Message

A national survey conducted by Edison Research, as a part of Minute Maid’s this is GOOD campaign, revealed that 94 percent of sharents stage their social media posts. Although this might seem shocking, it is important to remember that social media is meant for an audience and the photos are staged to project a motive, whether it’s clear or ambiguous.

For example, the Instagram account @papaanddaddy, which has 44,600 followers, is clear in its message and role in the social media world: to normalize same-sex parenting. “There’s a lot of work left to be done in normalizing same-sex parenting. This is our small way of paying it forward,” says James Loduca, one of the dads behind the account. “At the end of the day, representation matters. It’s hard to dream about what you can’t see. As kids, there weren’t gay families represented in media. We want to do our part to change that for generations to come.”

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Circling back to the Mac & Mia survey, 42 percent of parents say they have planned posts of their children in advance and have spent up to 2 hours to get the perfect shot. As with all things when it comes to parenting, it’s ultimately up to you to weigh the pros and cons of sharing snapshots of your children on social media, but think beyond safety and look into your true motive for posting a photo of your child. Remember: There is a definitive line between remembering a moment and wasting time.

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Christine Di’Amore, a Youtuber with nearly 300,000 subscribers, is best known for her videos about makeup and lifestyle. Despite her Internet presence, she has chosen to keep her daughter out of the public eye for now. “While hateful comments don’t hurt me, a lot of people who aren’t conditioned to the harsh world that social media can be (like my daughter) might be more affected by those words, regardless of how ridiculous or untrue they are,” Di’Amore says. “If my daughter does come across any negative comments, she knows I will have a conversation with her and try to help her understand the psyche behind those who bully others, and the reason they want to bring others down to their level.” As children grow older and have more access to the Internet they will come to realize cyber bullies are everywhere. While their hurtful comments can be ignored, they might be hard to brush off. On the flip side, being exposed to cyber bullying at a young age can help children understand how to deal with it as they enter their teenage years. “Another reason for not sharing that I often hear is a desire to protect child’s privacy. The child has the right to be growing up in a protected, emotionally safe environment,” Dr. Jeltova says. “Having his or her images posted is inviting feedback and judgment and potentially jeopardizes the privacy and emotional safety.” When you place yourself in the public eye, whether it’s to express a message to thousands of followers or you’re sharing your child’s preschool graduation, there is a safety concern and a leeway for hatred. “There are a ton of people out there that are looking to do harm in a variety of ways,” says Amaliya Makarovskaya, a Manhattan mom of two. “I find that there is very little to be gained from social media in general, especially through my kids posts.”

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Make sure to put child-proof latches on all cabinets and drawers containing hazardous materials, such as household cleaners, to keep your toddler safe.

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hen your little one starts walking and begins exploring in greater depth, you may start to wonder what the next step is for child proofing your living space. It’s a good question to ask yourself: “As you prepare your home for the toddler stage, every part of the home should be reviewed to ensure the safety of your newly and very mobile little one,” says Geneuviève Thibault, founder of bblüv, a baby and toddler accessory retailer. “As your toddler grows and develops strength and ability, some tools, such as gates and play yards, can become obsolete as they triumphantly climb right over them. Now, the little things we can easily overlook, like outlet covers, cabinet door locks, door handles, potentially hazardous house plants, pets, and cleaning products, become critically important as your toddler expands and explores his environment.” With this in mind, here are five areas you’ll want to scrutinize.

Bathroom

There are so many things a child could get into—and make a major mess with—in a bathroom, from lipstick to toilet-paper rolls. “The toddler stage finds little ones still testing every object with their hands and mouth,” Thibault says. As a result, parents should lock all cabinets with a child-proof latch to keep any cleaners and medications out of reach. It’s also important to keep your poisons and sharps “well out of reach…high up above the reach of the child,” in case someone forgets to relock the cabinet after use, says Carolyn Ziegler, a child proofer with 35 years of experience and founder of Dreambaby, a child safety company. 38

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There’s another potential danger lurking in your bathroom: the toilet. Besides the obvious sanitary issues surrounding children playing in the toilet, they could also drown, according to the Consumer Product Safety Commission. The water may seem shallow enough to us, but it’s the perfect height and depth for a toddler to fall in face first and get stuck with his head underwater. “You have to be very careful that your child does not have access to the toilet,” Ziegler says. “There are a number of products that can be used to close your toilet and make sure it is fully closed.” You can either purchase a latch specifically for the toilet, or use a childproof safety lock like the ones on your cabinets.

Windows

Nearly 5,000 children fall out of windows annually, with urban children being the most frequently affected, according to the CPSC. Though most modern homes have windows with screens and locks, those measures just simply aren’t enough. Screens are meant to stop insects, not children, so they are not a means of preventing falls. “When living in an apartment you need to understand the height of your apartment. You do not want children to have access to fall out of those windows,” Ziegler says. “So you must make sure you have a restrictor on [windows] so they will only open four inches, no more. You want to be able to make sure you can get a bit of fresh air, but the children are secured within.” Though there’s no substitute for parental supervision, parents can’t keep a watchful eye 24/7. “Window and door alarms also alert par-

ents quickly to potential dangers and are especially helpful during times when parents are sleeping,â&#x20AC;? Thibault recommends. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Avoid putting shelves or climbable furniture under windows.â&#x20AC;? Falling isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t the only window-related danger for children. A study by the Center for Injury Research and Policy shows that nearly 17,000 children younger than 6 are hospitalized annually for injuries caused by window blinds, which can be a potential strangulation hazard. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Many blinds have got long cords,â&#x20AC;? Ziegler says. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Make sure you keep those well out of reach of children.â&#x20AC;? In order to prevent injury, replace traditional blinds with cordless blinds, or get a retrofitting kit that allows you to tie up cords in spaces that are out of reach of children. â&#x20AC;&#x153;If you canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t screw things in because youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re renters, donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t do it. There are plenty of products that are adhesive, or work on handles that you can slide over,â&#x20AC;? Ziegler says.

the same time,â&#x20AC;? Ziegler advises. Of course, on a busy day itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not always convenient to wait until nighttime to prepare dinner or do the weekâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s meal prep. When waiting isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t an option, try to cook on the back burners so children canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t reach up and grab anything. Additionally, â&#x20AC;&#x153;make sure you always turn [potsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; and pansâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;] handles inwards,â&#x20AC;? Ziegler says.

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Teen Milestones You Need to Know ›› This tumultuous time of life is full of firsts—here’s how to roll with some of your child’s big changes.

t seems like only yesterday your child was a baby and you were cooing over his every breakthrough. From first smile to first laugh to first wobbly step, your days were filled with scrapbook-stuffers and Insta-worthy occasions. Guess what? As your child enters the teen years, she’ll be launching into a period of all-new milestones. No, they’re (mostly) not so cute— no need to pull out that scrapbook again!—but they are important signs that he’s growing up and branching out in healthy new ways. While children develop at their own pace, we asked leading experts to identify some of the leaps forward you might experience soon, and offer advice to help you cope with the challenges they may present.

Peer-Group Preference

Remember the good old days when your child wanted you to accompany her everywhere, and fought with her siblings and even your partner for the right to sit next to you at dinners out? Steel yourself: Your days at the top of the A-list may be numbered. “One [milestone] I think is common is shifting to your peer group instead of your family as a source of guidance and companionship,” says Rachel Annunziato, Ph.D., an associate professor of clinical psychology at Fordham University in the Bronx. “That can be hard for us as parents, but it can be a normal part of adolescent development,” Dr. Annunziato says. Teens “are being given more autonomy, and it’s a time when there’s more experimenting. It’s more of a chance to socialize on their own terms.” Your best response? Give your child some of the space he’s craving. “This is where they are working things out in a way that will be helpful before going into the college environment,” Dr. Annunziato explains. It doesn’t mean you have to retreat entirely—plan parent-kid activities scheduled around his other obligations. “I sometimes call it ‘calendaring backwards,’ where you set up the 40

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stuff that’s fixed and you can’t change in the calendar, and then put in the stuff that you want to prioritize,” says Mark Bertin, M.D., a developmental pediatrician in Pleasantville and author of How Children Thrive and Mindful Parenting for ADHD.

Social Calendar Commandeering

It can be a little distressing when your child’s social plans no longer include you. But if you’re at least consulted, you’re better off than many parents! That’s because the day may come when your kid makes plans for herself without asking your permission at all. (It may happen sooner in the city and in areas where there’s good public transportation.) In part, your child has become his own social director because he’s developing a better sense of time management. But for you it can be “very fear-inducing,” Dr. Annunziato says, especially if your child’s plans involve new friends you haven’t met yet. Your greatest ally, she says, is social media; thanks to it you may have more of an opportunity to get to know your kids’ friends’ parents, not to mention the friend herself. Alternatively, you can suggest the kids come over before going out. Don’t be afraid to nix a plan that seems unsafe or involves unsavory people, or a locale or return time that breaks family rules.

Extreme Embarrassment

Times were, you could be yourself around your child and his friends. Doing your victory dance at sports games will send her into a red-faced tizzy. And singing? Don’t even try. Why are you suddenly such a disgrace, no matter what you do? “That sense of being embarrassed by your parents is kind of exactly what you’d expect from teens. It’s because of the kind of tightrope they’re trying to walk, of staying connected to their parents—which you know is still the goal even though they’re trying

to become individuals—while also becoming more and more involved with their peers for support,” Dr. Bertin says. “That sense of embarrassment is probably just a natural reflection of a situation that’s confusing to them. They’re trying to be their own person and that puts them in a situation where they’re still connecting to you and connecting to their social group and trying to find a place that fits for all of that.” Again, the solution is to give your child some space (and tone down any of your embarrassing behaviors). Of course, adds Dr. Bertin, “know as a parent that there are still going to be times when you need to set a boundary and do something even if it’s embarrassing,” such as being stricter than everyone else’s parents (according to your child).

Real Romance

Sure, your child may have given a valentine to Jane a few years ago, and then had a crush on another girl the next year. But sometime in your kid’s midteens, you may start to realize that you’re no longer his main squeeze. “Certainly [there’s] more interest in dating; that will start around then, whether it’s with the opposite sex or the same sex,” Dr. Annunziato says. While pairing off can stem from genuine interest, it can also be a result of dating pressure. How do you help your child resist the urge to follow the crowd in forming couples? “To the extent you can, keep communication open,” Dr. Annunziato recommends. Let your child know she can always come to you for guidance. As for when to allow your child to date, Dr. Annunziato says it’s all a matter of individual maturity—make sure he understands what it means, and is prepared for potentially getting hurt. And set ground rules and stick to them.

Philosophical Pushiness

Your child’s been learning a lot in school, and from you, lately. “Maybe empathy for others is changing and increasing,” Dr. Annunziato says. “This is a time

when moral reasoning really amps up and cognitively a lot is happening.” These changes may manifest themselves in strident ways: Your child could proclaim that meat is murder or argue with your politics heatedly. This is a positive transformation, Dr. Annunziato says. “It’s great to foster teens’ expression...to teach them how to respectfully disagree,” she explains. Acknowledge your teen’s opinions, and accommodate his wishes whenever possible without necessarily backing off of your viewpoints.

Future-Facing Planning

No one’s saying your child didn’t plot out her future when she was younger. Perhaps she planned on being a rock star, but now her dreams may come down to earth and start taking on a more realistic slant—she may say she wants to become a physician or a mechanical engineer. Teens “begin to become more goal oriented,” Dr. Annunziato says. “I think that it’s something that I am seeing even younger, and it lasts into the college years.” As teens’ sense of time becomes refined and their cognitive skills

develop, planning for the future seems more doable. “If someone is showing an interest in [their future], run with it, make sure their plans make sense, let them take the lead if they’re showing maturity in that way,” Dr. Bertin says. But not all kids will be laser-focused on their life after school, he cautions.” And don’t be disappointed if your child’s desire ultimately peters out: “A lot of us are a lot different in college than in high school... Things are going to keep changing,” he says—an apt description of the teen years.

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hether you’re just starting your career, switching jobs, or you’ve been working for three decades, making sure you’re saving for retirement is one of the most important things you can do to set yourself up for the future. And the sooner you start saving, the better off you’ll be financially. After all, of those who participated in the Charles Schwab 2018 401K Participant Survey, 60 percent said their 401K will be their main source of income in retirement. In that same survey, though, 40 percent said saving enough money for a comfortable retirement was their most significant source of financial stress. And with all of the savings options available, you may be feeling the stress too. It can be difficult to navigate what retirement savings vehicle is best for you. The two most-common ways to save for retirement are a 401K and an Individual Retirement Account. Both are great tax-advantaged options, but it is a common misconception that you have to choose one. Those who are aggressively saving may have both a 401K and an IRA.

What is a 401K?

A 401K is an employer-sponsored program that allows eligible employees of a company to save and invest a percentage of their salary for retirement without paying taxes on it, according to Rosanna Guardavaccaro, financial advisor with Strategies for Wealth in Rye Brook and The Guardian Life Insurance Company of America. A 401K allows you to put away up to $18,500 each year. Only an employer can sponsor a 401K for its employees, and this includes if you work for yourself. If you work for a company that offers a 401K, especially one that will match contributions, Daniel D’Ordine, CPF, founder of DDO Advisory Services in Rhinebeck, suggests taking advantage of it and 42

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contributing at least the matching percentage, if it’s financially feasible. For example, if your employer will make a matching contribution of up to 6 percent of your salary, you should contribute that amount. There are a handful of benefits to a 401K. “Contribution limits are so high that you can really lower your current income tax bill by taking money and putting it into your 401K,” D’Ordine says. If you live in a high tax area, this is especially valuable because you are lowering your tax bracket by contributing. For example, if you pocket $12,000 of your paycheck, you will have to pay up to 40 percent of taxes on that amount. However, if you put that same $12,000 into your 401K, it’s tax-free money and you have the opportunity to have a portion of that matched by your company (aka free money). Another advantage is a 401K is ‘automated invisible savings,’ D’Ordine says. “Once you can adjust to this slight reduction in your paycheck, the savings are happening automatically,” he says. “You forget about it and it takes away the emotional component of saving.” Another great benefit of investing in a 401K is dollar-cost averaging, which means you are investing a fixed dollar amount on a regular schedule and any market fluctuations will not affect this investment, D’Ordine says. Should your salary or your financial situation change, you can change your investment contributions on a quarterly or yearly basis, depending on your company’s policy.

What is an IRA?

An IRA is a mini-federal retirement account you can set up on your own, without sponsorship from an employer, according to D’Ordine. An investment custodian, bank, mutual fund company, or advisor can help you set up a traditional or Roth IRA. With both IRAs, you

can put away up to $5,500 each year, plus an additional $1,000 if you’re older than 50. The difference between the two is in contributions. When you contribute to a traditional IRA, you can claim the contribution on your tax return. This means you will pay taxes on the money when you retire, Guardavaccaro says. But you might not get the full amount back in your refund. If your employer offers a retirement plan and your income exceeds certain levels, your deduction may be limited; if your employer doesn’t offer a plan, your deduction is allowed in full, according to the Internal Revenue Service. Roth IRA contributions are not tax-deductible, and you will receive that sum of money tax-free when you retire. If your modified adjusted gross income (the total income you report that is eligible to be taxed, minus some adjustments you can make) is more than $120,000 as a single or $189,000 as a couple, you may no longer qualify for an IRA. It’s best to consult your accountant or tax advisor if you think this may be the case.

Some small business owners may put away money for employees in their own plan in lieu of a paying a larger salary. Things get a little jumbled when your company doesn’t match or doesn’t begin to match until after a few years of employment, or if your company doesn’t offer a 401K. At that point, look into an IRA. When opening a traditional or Roth IRA, D’Ordine suggests working with an investment professional who can give you advice, as well as a CPA who can double check all of the numbers for you.

It is important to know the difference between an investment shop, which can help you set up your plan, and someone who is in the business of giving tax advice because there is a huge tax component to investing for retirement, according to D’Ordine. An IRA is a great option for anyone, whether your company offers a 401K plan or not, so why not have both if you can afford it?

Is it okay to have neither?

“It’s always a better decision to save than not,” Guardavaccaro

says. “Retirement is an important goal and individuals should continuously save for it.” This is subject to the individual, D’Ordine says. If you are saving toward a shorter-term goal (like a down payment on a house), it may be best for you to stop 401K contributions for that period of time. A lot of companies will allow you to pause your 401K or easily adjust your contribution, according to D’Ordine. Your IRA is up to your discretion. The most important thing is making choices that make sense for you.

Choosing a Retirement Fund

Determining which plan is best for you is easier than you may think. If your company will match any amount of your 401K contribution, D’Ordine suggests to do that. A matching contribution should be your number-one priority when determining how to invest for your future since it is a 100-percent return on investment. Many people believe 401Ks are not the most beneficial options due to fees and investment selections, however having access to one is actually a huge benefit of working for a company, D’Ordine says. “Put in enough to get your match, and if you don’t love the idea of solely investing in a 401K, invest in other stuff as well,” D’Ordine says. While most large companies offer 401K plans, ‘mom and pop shop’ businesses may not, D’Ordine says. However, this doesn’t mean your boss doesn’t have a retirement plan in place.

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969 Lake Ave., Greenwich, CT 203-302-3900 whitbyschool.org admissions@whitbyschool.org Whitby School was founded 60 years ago on the principle that each child must be seen, valued, and understood for achievement to happen with heart. Our school has come a long way since then, but that core belief is still what drives us every day. Is your standard for education as high as ours? Come say hello. Located in back country Greenwich, CT, Whitby is an independent school for students ages 18 months to eighth grade. Visit whitbyschool.org to register for a fall admissions event or to schedule a personal tour.

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Dr. Ivis Getz, a board-certified pediatric dentist, is committed to providing the highest quality dental care to infants, children, adolescents, and those with special needs. Dr. Getz recognizes that each child is a unique individual who deserves compassion and respect, which is evident in her friendly manner and calm demeanor. The dental team truly enjoys working with kids and will treat your child with warmth and compassion. The practice participates in many dental insurance plans and has convenient after-school and Saturday appointments available.

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Serving all of Westchester County 631-420-4444 berkshirefarm.org Berkshire Farm Center & Services for Youth helps children find safety and comfort in the homes of foster parents. Become a foster parent and give the gift of family!

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9 Freight Way, Scarsdale 914-996-4315 liceclinicswestchester.com Lice Clinics of America will remove lice

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Eye Level of Rye Brook 27 Rye Ridge Plaza, Rye Brook 914-933-0566, Piers MacDonald Eye Level of Briarcliff 501 North State Road, Briarcliff 914-741-0407, Margaret Mak myeyelevel.com Math and English programs for ages 3-14. Whether the immediate goal is for early learning, remedial education, or academic advancement, Eye Level is the answer.

OPEN HOUSES 2018 German International School New York (GIS)

50 Partridge Road, White Plains 914-948-6513 gisny.org admissions@gisny.org Visit us to learn more about GISNY, an independent, pre-K to 12th grade, bilingual, college preparatory program. Open houses on Fridays, Sept. 28, Oct. 19, Nov. 16, and Jan. 25, 2019.

Hudson Country Montessori School

Ms. Neeru Bhambree, director of education 340 Quaker Ridge Road, New Rochelle 914-636-6202 hudsoncountry.org Tours are available weekdays. Please call to schedule a visit and see how we inspire a love of learning.

Iona Preparatory School K–12

Brother Thomas R. Leto, C.F.C., Ed.D., president Lower School (grades pre-K-4 to eighth grade) 173 Stratton Road, New Rochelle 914-633-7744 Upper School (ninth to 12th grades) 255 Wilmot Road, New Rochelle 914-632-0714 ionaprep.org ionaprep.org/openhouse Discover the Iona Prep Difference at an open house Sunday, Oct. 21, 12-3pm, or Wednesday, Oct. 24,

6-8pm for ninth to 12th grades; and Thursday, Oct. 25, 6-8pm for pre-K to eighth grades.

King School

1450 Newfield Ave., Stamford, CT 203-322-3496 x350 kingschoolct.org/visit Join us for an open house Sunday, Oct. 14 (sixth to 11th grades) or Sunday, Nov. 4 (pre-K to fifth grades) both from 1-4pm.

Come learn from our experienced Montessori teachers who provide an individual, hands on learning environment. We offer a variety of toddler and pre-K programs! Extended hours are available.

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