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Safety Tricks (and Treats) for Halloween

Halloween Fun in NYC

Prepare your kids, so Halloween is safe and stress-free for everyone

14 Wild and Wilder 16 Birthday Party Directory 46 The (Not-So) Sweet Season

Events to kick off the spooky season and guides for other fall events

Can You Afford to Stay Home?

What to consider when deciding whether to go back to work or become a stay-at-home parent

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Safety Tricks (and Treats) for Halloween 12 Working with Your Nanny—When You Work from Home 20 Back-to-School Resources 38 Baby’s Wish List 41 Open Houses 42 The Disaster Zone 43 Professional Services 45 Advertisers’ Index

24 Halloween Fun in NYC

40 Moving Right Along

25 Family Activities Calendar

44 Can You Afford to Stay Home?

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Helping Parents Make Better Decisions ON THE COVER ›› 10 Keeping kids safe while trick-or-treating 14 Three major party trends 16 Planning Resources 24 Haunted houses, pumpkin patches, and more 38 Crafting the Perfect Baby Registry 46 Surviving the Sweet 16 facebook.com/nymetroparents

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OCTOBER 2019 • Vol.19 • No.2

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It’s Spooky Season

risp air, cooler temperatures, and (soon) the changing of the leaves. Those are a few of our favorite things, but nothing beats our favorite fall holiday: Halloween! Some people celebrate their birthdays for the whole month, but we celebrate Halloween all month long—and affectionately refer to it as Spooky Season. (Though, if we’re being honest, we officially started celebrating on Friday the 13th.) In this issue, you’ll find a roundup of the best Halloween events in the community (p. 32), from spooky movie screenings to Halloween scavenger hunts, as well as a few can’t-miss celebrations in Manhattan (don’t miss the dogs in costumes!), to get you in a ghoulish mood (p. 24). Plus, you’ll find tips to keep your kids safe while trick-ortreating (p. 10). Bonus: We’re creating a Halloween e-book just for you, full of advice, 2019’s hottest costumes, places to celebrate, and more! Look for it on nymetroparents.com in early October. Speaking of celebrating birthdays all month long, this also happens to be our birthday issue! We spoke to moms, party planners, and trend experts to find the three most-popular party themes that break the mold—and provide tips for throwing them (p. 14). I didn’t have a huge bash for my Sweet 16—they weren’t really a thing in Maine. We likely celebrated with dinner at my favorite restaurant, followed by blueberry pie and presents at home. Looking back, I don’t mind that the affair was low-key— especially after reading about Suzanne Bergen’s experience. In “The (Not-So) Sweet Season” (p. 46), Bergen compares organizing her daughter’s Sweet 16 to planning her own wedding. Ultimately, though, it was all worth it. If you’re getting ready to plan a birthday party, make the best decisions for your child’s celebration by checking out the birthday party resources directory (p. 16). However you choose to celebrate (Halloween or birthdays), we hope it’s a blast! Katelin Walling Editorial Director

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Safety Tricks (and Treats) for Halloween

alloween is one of kids’ favorite nights of the year, but it can also present some scary situations. Walking in the dark, wearing costumes, and receiving candy from strangers can make kids vulnerable to danger. Fortunately, there are ways to prepare your kids so Halloween is safe and stress-free for everyone.

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When it comes to Halloween safety, there’s no substitute for parental supervision, says Chris Hughes, the chief of police at Northport Police Department in Suffolk County. Kids younger than 12 should not go trick-or-treating without an adult, adds Debra Holtzman, J.D., M.A., author of The Safe Baby, and a national child safety expert. “Always look left, right, and left again when crossing, and keep looking as you cross. Hold the hands of young children and accompany them to the door of every home they visit,” she says.

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When kids are ready to go out on their own, they should not trick or treat in any unfamiliar part of town, Hughes says. Knowing where they are, how to get home safely, and who to go to for help—such as a neighbor or other trusted adult in the neighborhood—is crucial. They should only go up to houses with lights on, keep their cellphones fully charged, and never go inside any home, Holtzman advises. 10

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Make sure your child knows to never eat anything that is unwrapped or appears to be homemade, Hughes says. You should “discard any candy that is a choking hazard, or that your child is allergic to, or that is not in its original wrapper, or looks as though it has been opened,” Holtzman adds. “Children are more than twice as likely to be hit by a car and killed on Halloween than on any other day of the year,” Holtzman says. Crossing the street carefully can help prevent car accidents—but costumes matter too. Kids should wear reflective tape on their costumes, and costumes should allow for 100-percent visibility. “Should something happen, you want to be able to see it coming,” Hughes says. Consider face-paint instead of masks, Holtzman suggests, because it ensures kids can see and it won’t restrict breathing. Costumes should also be flame-resistant, and short enough that kids won’t trip or fall.

Don’t Be Spooked

Halloween is and should remain a fun and festive holiday—as long as a few safety rules are in place. In general, Hughes says, kids should stay aware of their surroundings and avoid engaging with strangers. This will help everyone have more fun—even parents, who won’t have to worry while their kids trick or treat.

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of animals and the kids are going to zone out.” Favors: Try this Pinterest favorite: Put animal crackers in mini mason jars or clear bags and decorate them with homemade tags. Or have the kids create mini terrariums, which double as favors, says Seri Kertzner, founder of Little Miss Party, a New York events company. Another idea: stuffed animals the kids can “adopt” and take home.

Kidchella

Throwing your own festival became a popular trend after Kim Kardashian celebrated her daughter North’s first birthday party with a kids’ version of the famous music festival Coachella. (Etsy has recently seen a 33 percent increase in searches for festival-themed items, Johnson says.) Kardashian’s bash featured a Ferris wheel, food stands, tents, and a stage, but fear not! You don’t need to have her budget to throw your own Kidchella. Tips: Festivals are all about the music. There are DJs out there who specialize in kids’ parties, and will do dance games and give out prizes. If a DJ isn’t in the budget, create a great playlist. You could also hire a face painter or use a tool like Blinger to decorate hair and clothes with sparkles. When it comes to décor, hang outdoor fairy lights and make your own festival signs. Favors: Set up a craft station and make flower crowns (Little Miss Party has a great online tutorial).

Enchanted Forest

One of Pinterest’s biggest party trends of 2019 (searches jumped by 238 percent since last year, according to Johnson) is fairy forests. Think: fairy and elf costumes, toadstool seats, and lots of natural decorations like flowers, wood, grass, and moss. With all this magic, it’s a great theme to inspire little imaginations. Tips: Summer Ticas, a Manhattan mom, brought the enchanted forest inside for her daughter Andrea’s fourth birthday party. She used online tutorials from Pinterest to create trees out of twisted green and brown craft paper, and fairy lanterns using jars and glitter. She then sourced fairy garden miniatures (think mini-houses and toadstools) to decorate. For activities she set up craft stations for kids to make fairy dust necklaces and mini terrariums they could take home. Favors: Ticas made fairy tutus, wands and wings, elf hats, and capes for her daughter’s guests. The kids loved running around the enchanted forest in their fairy garb. Plus, Pinterest has some great DIY fairy houses, which could work as favors. Emma Steven is a British freelance writer living in Manhattan with her husband, two small kids, and two cats.

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Creating themed party décor looks easy enough on social media, but it can be overwhelming to do yourself. You could consult a party planner, or you could try one of these tricks: • U tilize Etsy. It’s a great place to find creative décor, favors, and invitations that look like you made them yourself. • F or DIYers, start early and stay organized with a timeline. Manhattan mom Summer Ticas, who often creates all the décor herself, says she starts planning six months out. • Plan with Pinterest. “I look at all the ideas that come out of the themes and I do spend quite a bit of time creating a board,” Ticas says. • S ource from wholesalers. In order to save money, Ticas says she sourced fairy gardens for her daughter’s enchanted forest party direct from wholesalers rather than the craft store. • C reate a balloon garland. It’s one of the most requested items but very easy to do yourself, according to Seri Kertzner, founder of Little Miss Party. “They can be enormous or much more low-key,” Kertzner says, but anything around 10 feet long (approximately 30 balloons) looks fancy and is affordable because there’s no helium. For instructions, check out Little Miss Party’s YouTube tutorial.

Entertainment

Now that you’ve decided to host your own party, figuring out the entertainment is key to happy partygoers. • M ake the theme age-appropriate. Tarantulas might be great for older kids, but choose something a little easier to handle for toddlers. • D o your research. Irvington mom Stephanie Minkoff used word of mouth recommendations and Facebook reviews to help her choose a wild animal handler for her sons’ party. “I probably contacted ten different people, and I got prices from four hundred dollars to four thousand dollars,” she says. • B ook early. “These guys get booked quickly!” Minkoff says. • C onsider low-cost options that fit with the theme. Think: a scavenger hunt, an epic game of hide and seek, or DIY party favors.

Favors

If you’ve settled on giving favors to each guest, consider these tips: • D on’t give a favor that’s just going to end up in the trash. “I will always do something that is seasonally related or something that’s going to be useful to the parent or child,” Kertzner says. For example, personalized water bottles in the summer and mittens in the winter. • B ring spares in case an extra guest turns up. “I always have extra favors on hand now,” Kertzner says. “If I end up with extras at the end of the party, I use them as gifts or return them.”

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590 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-723-0777 achieve914.com achieve914@gmail.com Achieve Martial Arts offers amazing martial arts themed birthday parties with games and actual board breaking. Instructors lead the 90-minute party, taking care of the details, allowing parents to enjoy the festivities. The birthday child becomes Master martial artist for the day! The party package also includes pizza, and beverages.

Artistree Performing Arts

114 W. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-835-2200 artistreearts.com jeanette@artistreearts.com Have your next child’s birthday party at Artistree Performing Arts! Themes include Hip-Hop, Princess Spectacular, Space Adventure, Superhero, Circus, and Karaoke. We are happy to customize our parties. If you want your child to have a party he or she will never forget-plan one with us!

Bach To Rock Mamaroneck

130 Mamaroneck Ave., Mamaroneck 914-341-1457 mamaroneck.b2rmusic.com mamaroneck@bachtorock.com Our Rock City Birthday Party (ages 3-6) is action packed and allows kids to explore rock and roll instruments. Play like a rock star (Rock Birthday ages 7 and older) or sing like a superstar (Karaoke Birthday ages 6 and older) in our state-of-the-art recording studios.

Central Park Dance

450 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-723-2940 centralparkdance.com centralparkdance@gmail.com Have the birthday party of your dreams! Choose from Fairytale Ballet, Hip-hop, and Fun-nFit party games. We provide a beautifully decorated studio,

a separate space to serve food, paper goods, and an experienced, professional staff.

Chelsea Piers Connecticut

One Blachley Road, Stamford 203-989-1100 chelseapiersct.com/birthday info@chelseapiersct.com Birthday parties at Chelsea Piers are action-packed! Options include gymnastics, dance, basketball, volleyball, soccer, ice-skating, ninja warrior, and water slides. New to Chelsea Piers is a gymnastics party option for toddlers and a pool party!

Chocolations

607 E. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-777-3600 chocolations.com maria@chocolations.com Have your child’s next party at Chocolations. Steph’s Sweets, known for its creative and delicious cookies, is now at Chocolations! We offer chocolate-making and cookie-decorating parties for a sweet and memorable experience.

Creative Corner of Larchmont

7 Addison St., Larchmont 914-833-2880 creativecornerlarchmont.com creativecornerlarchmont@gmail.com In our space stocked with art projects, the birthday child and friends will have a fun and engaging time led by professional artists. Art party options include wood toys, treasure boxes, canvas bags, ceramic piggy banks, t-shirts, and cloth animals. We also offer painting, melted crayon, and fashion design parties.

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Great Play of Scarsdale Interactive Gym for Kids

969B Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-713-3470 greatplay.com/scarsdale Our award-winning, high-energy parties are spectacular events! Your guests will have a blast and your child will receive allstar treatment in our amazing Interactive Gym. We offer six great themes, and endless customization! Themes include Championship Day, Olympic Party, Super Hero Party, Fun & Games, and Dance Party.

Hommocks Park Ice Rink

Boston Post Road and Weaver Street, Larchmont 914-834-1069 hommocksparkicerink.org Have your party on ice! Host your next party at the coolest place in town, Mamaroneck’s popular enclosed Hommocks Park Ice Skating Rink. Held during public sessions, our two-hour package is guaranteed fun! Silver and Gold packages available; both include admission, skate rental, lunch, and fun!

Kids In Sports

365 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-358-9732 scarsdaleny.kidsinsports.com scarsdaleny@kidsinsports.com We design the party to suit your child’s sports interests and abilities. Parties are 90 minutes. The first hour consists of sports activities, and the remaining half hour is designated for food and cake. You will have our entire location dedicated to only your party, hosted by our expert coaches.

Lil Chameleon

29 Elm St., Tuckahoe 914-346-5148 lilchameleon.com Party with Lil Chameleon! Book our Silver or Gold Package and choose from truly unique experiences in our bright and stylish space. Pick from age-appropriate crafts with face painting or balloon sculptures, not your typical cupcake decorating, princesses or super heroes, a tea party, rainbows and unicorns, or live animals.

The Little Gym

777 White Plains Road, Scarsdale 914-722-0072 tlgscarsdaleny.com 2121 Broadway, 2nd floor (between 74th and 75th streets) Upper West Side, Manhattan 212-799-1225 tlgupperwestsideny.com A private party at The Little Gym is a perfect way to celebrate your child’s next birthday. The 90-minute parties are supervised by our trained, professional staff from beginning to end. Gymnastics, games, obstacle courses, trampoline, sports, and music are tailored to your child’s interests.

Musical Munchkins

167 Scarsdale Road, Tuckahoe 914-771-7000 musicalmunchkins.com Musical Munchkins is the perfect birthday party activity for babies through age 5! Enjoy group drumming, funny favorite sing-along songs, fabulous dancing scarves, maracas, chikitas, bubbles, buddy bands, sweet and funny puppets. When adults join and play along, their kids love it, and even the grownups are entertained!

Matthews Park, 303 West Ave., Norwalk 203-899-0606 x208 steppingstonesmuseum.org/parties With so much to explore and do, rain or shine, Stepping Stones turns a birthday party into a celebration! Go big, go small, or go after hours and get the whole museum to yourself! When it is time to go home, leave the mess to us. Book your party today!

Studio B Dance Center

277 White Plains Road (entrance on Prospect Avenue), Eastchester 914-793-2799 studiobdance.com Each party at Studio B is uniquely designed to give the birthday child an exciting, personalized experience. Boys and girls ages 2 and older enjoy dancing and playing games to their favorite music. Party rooms are filled with colorful hula-hoops, wands, scarves, and bean bags, to engage children and stimulate creativity.

Sugar Factory

130 Rhodes St., New Rochelle 914-633-7625 pinebrookfitness.com/the-rock-club Parties at The Rock Club literally rock! Rock climbing is an incredibly social sport and a great way to bring excitement and engagement to your next special event. Events can range from a birthday party, to a networking event, to a bar or bat mitzvah. Let us know what event you have in mind!

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380 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-2111 x2 sportimeusa.com Celebrate your birthday at Sportime USA, the coolest place to have a party in Westchester. We have laser tag, monster 4-D motion theater, rock climbing, Superfly Ride, Ballocity arena, bumper cars, Himalaya coaster, mini twister, a soft adventure zone, batting cages, video and redemption games with prizes, plus a restaurant.

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Back-to-School Resources CLASSES ACADEMIC ENRICHMENT/ LANGUAGE Alcott Montessori School

535 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry 914-693-4443 27 Crane Road, Scarsdale 914-472-4404 46 Fox Meadow Road, Scarsdale 914-725-7551 alcottschool.org After-school enrichment classes are provided for ages 3-5. Offerings include yoga, dance, mad science, super soccer stars, golf, karate, and Spanish. Kidz Club, a social skills group for ages 3-5 meets from 4-5pm twice a week at the Crane Road location. Call to arrange a tour.

Ann and Andy Child Care

2170 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-3027 annandandychildcare.com annandydca@aol.com Ann and Andy, family-owned and -operated for more than 30 years, offers a wide variety of fun activities for children 2 months to 14 years. We are state licensed, with an extensive campus, and offer flexible schedules, reasonable rates, nutritious lunches, a caring staff, individualized attention, and age-appropriate field trips.

Mathnasium

Mathnasium of Arsdsley-Irvington 875 Saw Mill River Road 914-295-2252 Mathnasium of ChappaquaMount Kisco 350 Lexington Ave. 914-725-MATH (6284) Mathnasium of Cortlandt 50 Dayton Lane 914-502-MATH (6284) Mathnasium of MamaroneckLarchmont 1009 W. Boston Post Road 914-725-MATH (6284) Mathnasium of Rye 275 Purchase St. 914-967-MATH (6284) Mathnasium of Scarsdale 747 White Plains Road 914-725-MATH (6284) Mathnasium of ScarsdaleCentral Avenue 450 Central Park Ave. 914-725-MATH (6284) mathnasium.com At Mathnasium Learning Centers, we make math make sense! Whether your child started out far behind or already ahead in math, Mathnasium will help them leap ahead because we know that any child can be successful in math—it’s a matter of teaching it in a way that makes sense to them.

Project Explore

70 Columbus Ave., Valhalla 914-328-1578 easterseals.com/newyork We serve children with and without disabilities in inclusive, integrated, small classrooms. We offer high-quality full- and part-time programs, school year and yearround, for children ages 18 months to 5 years, from 8:30am-2:30pm. Before- and after-school care, vacation clubs during school breaks, and summer camp are available options.

COOKING Lil Chameleon

29 Elm St., Tuckahoe 914-346-5148 lilchameleon.com Join Lil Chameleon for our popular cooking program for ages 3-6. Kids enjoy cooking and baking with Chef Jen while building fine motor, creative problem solving, math, and science skills. Students take home what they make each week. Register early!

DANCE Central Park Dance

450 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-723-2940 centralparkdance.com centralparkdance@gmail.com Central Park Dance offers more than 200 classes a week, in all levels, for children and adults. CPD has a preschool program, introducing children as young as age 2 to dance, CPD has earned a reputation for being the most thorough and rewarding dance experience for students for more than 36 years.

The Dance Gallery

25 Main St., 2nd floor, Tuckahoe 914-255-4092 thedancegalleryny.com info@thedancegalleryny.com At The Dance Gallery, our mission is to offer quality dance instruction by experienced professionals who possess a passion for teaching students of all ages in a disciplined and nurturing environment. We offer ballet, jazz, tap, modern, musical theatre, hip-hop, Irish, Bollywood, and fitness.

The Little Gym

777 White Plains Road, Scarsdale 914-722-0072 tlgscarsdaleny.com 2121 Broadway, 2nd Floor (between 74th and 75th streets) Upper West Side, Manhattan 212-799-1225 tlgupperwestsideny.com The Little Gym is an exercise and motor development center for children, offering gymnastic classes, sports skills development, dance, cheerleading, and karate classes for children ages 4

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months to 12 years, in a loving, non-competitive environment. Qualified instructors implement programs designed to build self-esteem and confidence.

Studio B Dance Center

277 White Plains Road (entrance on Prospect Avenue), Eastchester 914-793-2799 studiobdance.com Voted one of the top dance studios in Westchester. Their modern facility has two waiting rooms with viewing windows into three cheerful classrooms. Knowledgeable staff make it easy to find classes for siblings to dance at the same time. Convenient, friendly, nurturing, and open seven days-a-week, for ages 2-18.

FOREIGN LANGUAGE French-American School of New York (FASNY)

Nursery to third grade: Manor Campus, 111 Larchmont Ave., Larchmont Grades fourth-eighth: Village Campus, 145 New St., Mamaroneck Grades ninth-12th: Harbor Campus, 320 E. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-413-3665 fasny.org; info@fasny.org FASNY’s Extension Program offers bilingual recreation and language programs for children and adults. From sports to arts to cooking, stimulating after-school activities, where children and adults are exposed to different languages and cultures, are a hallmark of our Extension Program. Learn more and register at fasny.org/afterschool.

German International School New York (GISNY)

50 Partridge Road, White Plains 914-948-6513 gisny.org; admissions@gisny.org Bilingual education opens a world of opportunities. German International School New York is an independent, pre-K through 12th, college preparatory program. No German knowledge required for pre-K and kindergarten.

MOMMY & ME Musical Munchkins

167 Scarsdale Road, Tuckahoe 914-771-7000 musicalmunchkins.com Musical Munchkins, Westchester’s original early childhood music program is celebrating more than 30 years of makin’ music and memories. We continue delighting our youngest musicians and their families with the wonderful world of mommyn-me music. Our curriculum, filled with awesome activities, is geared for children 6 months to 4 years.

MUSIC Belle School of Music

1088 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 283 Tarrytown Road, White Plains

1537 Central Park Ave., Yonkers 914-961-5511 belleschool.com The Belle School of Music, voted the No. 1 music school in Westchester in 2015, has a unique, effective, and fun way of teaching music to children, (ages 3 and older), and adults. Children will learn to play and develop an appreciation for music. Call for free lesson and consultation.

Hoff-Barthelson Music School

25 School Lane, Scarsdale 914-723-1169 hbms.org; hb@hbms.org Westchester’s premiere music school offers lessons and classes for babies, children, teens, and adults, including Suzuki and summer programs. Students receive not only weekly private lessons, but also musicianship classes, ensemble instruction, and numerous performance and practice opportunities with accompaniment. This all-encompassing approach catalyzes learning, enabling students to fulfill their potential.

Musical Munchkins

167 Scarsdale Road, Tuckahoe 914-771-7000 musicalmunchkins.com Musical Munchkins, Westchester’s original early childhood music program is celebrating more than 30 years of makin’ music and memories. We continue delighting our youngest musicians and their families with the wonderful world of mommy-n-me music. Our curriculum, filled with awesome activities, is geared for children 6 months to 4 years.

THEATER The Music Hall Academy Tarrytown Music Hall

13 Main St., Tarrytown 914-631-3390 x117 tarrytownmusichall.org/academy The Music Hall Academy provides young people with an artistic home where they learn from theater professionals, theater educators, and from each other. Providing arts education in a real working theater, Academy students explore all the different parts of the theater in an open, nurturing, and creative environment.

FITNESS Great Play of Scarsdale Interactive Gym for Kids

969B Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-713-3470 greatplay.com/scarsdale Great Play is a Family Favorites Winner three years in a row, and kidsoutandabout.com’s Top Place to Take Kids in Westchester for 2016. Great Play makes it insanely fun for kids, ages 6 months-fifth grade, to develop motor and sport skills, fitness, and coordination!

The Rock Club at Pine Brook Fitness 130 Rhodes St., New Rochelle 914-633-7625 pinebrookfitness.com/the-rock-club Whether you are new to climbing or a seasoned after-school pro, young climbers will discover adventure at The Rock Club. Our after-school programs not only teach the basics of rock climbing, they promote confidence, focus, team building, and general fitness. All ages and skill levels are welcomed.

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MARTIAL ARTS Achieve Martial Arts

590 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-723-0777 achieve914.com achieve914@gmail.com Achieve Martial Arts is a martial arts school with instructors offering more than 20 years of teaching experience. The facility is brand new, beautifully designed, clean, spacious, and sunny, with state-of-the-art equipment. The school provides challenging programs for children ages 3 and older, teens, and adults.

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Sportime USA

380 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-2111 x2 sportimeusa.com Sportime USA is the ideal place to visit after school! With a restaurant and activities for all ages including a Superfly Thrill Ride, four-dimensional motion theater, laser

tag, rock-climbing wall, a Ballocity Arena, batting cages, bumper cars, Himalaya coaster, kiddie rides, video and prize ticket games, billiards, and soft-adventure play area.

TENNIS New Rochelle Racquet Club at Pine Brook Fitness

130 Rhodes St., New Rochelle 914-636-1003 pinebrookfitness.com/nrrc-home Keep your kids active and having fun after-school at the New Rochelle Racquet Club at Pine Brook Fitness. The New Rochelle Racquet Club offers junior tennis programs for children ages 5-15 filled with age appropriate tennis, fitness, and fun.

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DENTISTS & ORTHODONTISTS Main Street Pediatric Dentistry Dr. Penny Resnick-Graulich

115 Main St., Suite 302, Tuckahoe 914-633-4440 mainstreetpediatricdentistry.com drpennydds@aol.com Dr. Penny Resnick-Graulich has been practicing children’s dentistry in Westchester for more than 25 years. Dr. Penny and her staff pride themselves on making the dental experience a positive one for children and parents. They help anxious children feel secure during dental treatment and make every patient feel calm and confident.

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Listening Partners, Inc.

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STORES & RESOURCES Affordables A quality children’s consignment store

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Mathnasium of Arsdsley-Irvington 875 Saw Mill River Road 914-295-2252 Mathnasium of Chappaqua-Mount Kisco 350 Lexington Ave. 914-725-MATH (6284) Mathnasium of Cortlandt 50 Dayton Lane 914-502-MATH (6284) Mathnasium of Mamaroneck-Larchmont 1009 W. Boston Post Road 914-725-MATH (6284) Mathnasium of Rye 275 Purchase St. 914-967-MATH (6284) Mathnasium of Scarsdale 747 White Plains Road 914-725-MATH (6284) Mathnasium of Scarsdale Central Avenue 450 Central Park Ave. 914-725-MATH (6284) mathnasium.com At Mathnasium Learning Centers, we make math make sense! Whether your child started out far behind or already ahead in math, Mathnasium will help them leap ahead because we know that any child can be successful in math—it’s a matter of teaching it in a way that makes sense to them.

EDUCATION DAYCARE & CHILDCARE Lil Chameleon

29 Elm St., Tuckahoe 914-346-5148 lilchameleon.com Lil Chameleon launches dropoff childcare starting September 2019. Book individual babysitting sessions or buy a package for discounted rates. Children ages 2-6 enjoy our play café, arts and crafts,

music, cooking, and other enrichment while cared for by loving, CPR-certified childcare providers. Transportation options available. Learn more at lilchameleon.com.

PAROCHIAL & RELIGIOUS SCHOOLS Carmel Academy

270 Lake Ave., Greenwich 203-983-3503, Danielle Cohen carmelacademy.com admissions@carmelacademy.com Carmel Academy is a TK-eighth grade private school for children of all Jewish affiliations. Located on a beautiful 17-acre campus in Greenwich CT, Carmel offers every child rigorous and differentiated academics, award-winning social emotional learning, and broad enrichment opportunities–all wrapped in deep commitment to Jewish learning, values, and community.

Iona Preparatory School K–12

Lower School (grades pre-K-4 to eighth) 173 Stratton Road, New Rochelle 914-633-7744 Upper School (grades ninth- 12th) 255 Wilmot Road, New Rochelle 914-632-0714 ionaprep.org An Iona Preparatory education is one of the best investments you can make for your son’s development, beginning with prekindergarten and setting the stage for a lifetime of success. Westchester’s only Catholic, all-boys, PK-12 school blends rigorous academics and small classes allowing faculty to actively engage students in learning.

PRESCHOOLS Alcott Montessori School

535 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry 914-693-4443 27 Crane Road, Scarsdale 914-472-4404 46 Fox Meadow Road, Scarsdale 914-725-7551 alcottschool.org Alcott School provides children ages 2-6 a supportive, multicultural, learning environment where they develop independence, self-confidence, and pride in their abilities. All sites offer a developmentally appropriate curriculum with Montessori materials, music, creative movement, and nature enrichment programs.

Ann and Andy Child Care

2170 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-3027 annandandychildcare.com annandydca@aol.com Ann and Andy, family-owned and operated since 1973, offers a variety of fun activities for children ages 2 months to 14 years. We are licensed by NYSOCFS and the health department. We offer flexible schedules, reasonable rates, nutritious lunches, a caring staff, individualized attention, and age-appropriate field trips.

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Mazel Tots Early Childhood Program at Scarsdale Synagogue

2 Ogden Road, Scarsdale 914-723-3001 bit.ly/metrosummer mazeltots@sstte.org Mazel Tots helps children grow! They serve ages newborn through kindergarten-bound. Featuring a wide variety of developmentally appropriate activities including sports, music, sign language, yoga, science, art, and the study of Jewish holidays. They also have fully equipped indoor and outdoor play spaces.

The Milestone School

70 W. Broad St., Mt. Vernon 914-667-3478 themilestoneschool.com Founded in 1979 on the premise that “the first years of a child’s education are the most important,” The Milestone School is an independent, non-sectarian, nursery-fourth grade school. Celebrating 40 years of excellence, our unique, stimulating academic environment emphasizing early reading prepares students to continue on to top private schools.

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Blue Rock School

110 Demarest Mill Road, West Nyack 845-627-0234 bluerockschool.org Blue Rock School offers a unique, progressive, educational approach based on hands-on experiences. Our creative academic curriculum is infused with the arts, nature, and play from kindergarten through eighth grade. By nurturing children’s love of learning, developing their skills, and encouraging critical thinking we prepare them for a changing world.

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French-American School of New York (FASNY)

Nursery to third grade: Manor Campus, 111 Larchmont Ave., Larchmont Grades fourth-eighth: Village Campus, 145 New St., Mamaroneck Grades ninth-12th: Harbor Campus, 320 E. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-413-3665 fasny.org; info@fasny.org Open your child to the world. FASNY is a coeducational, international, and bilingual day school for children in nursery through 12th grade. We offer the best of Ameri-

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When it comes to October, all we can think about is Halloween. What better way to enjoy the crisp fall air, the changing colors of the leaves, and decorating for the ghoulish season than getting outside with the family and picking the perfect pumpkin to take home and carve. And if carving pumpkins isn’t your thing, but you want to see epic jack-o’-lanterns, why not meander through a display of 1,000 of them on Governors Island?

The Carl Schurz Park event invites families to bring their decked-out dogs on Sunday, Oct. 20.

Happy Howl-oween!

We love kids in Halloween costumes, but there’s nothing cuter than dogs in Halloween costumes! Carl Schurz Park invites more than 200 uniquely dressed pups to show off in front of a bluechip fashion industry board of judges at the Howl-oween Howl Healthy Hound Fair. Watch, gush, and cheer on the four-legged friends as they wag their tails and strut their stuff. Careful, your little one might be asking for a dog of his own by the end of the day! Sunday, Oct. 20; 12-3pm; Ages: All; Basketball and Hockey Court and John Finley Walk at Carl Schurz Park, 86th Street and East End Ave., Upper East Side; carlschurzparknyc.org

PICK PUMPKINS Decker Farm

435 Richmond Hill Road, Staten Island 718-351-1611 historicrichmondtown.org/ deckerfarm Hours: Saturday-Sunday, Oct. 5-26, 12-5pm Admission: $6 per person or $20 for a family of four. Additional cost for pumpkins Self-guided tours and hayrides offered. Cornfield on-site. Free shuttle bus service available from the Historic Richmond Town parking lot to the farm.

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>> For more places to pick pumpkins in your area, visit nymetroparents.com/pumpkins.

Night of 1,000 Jack O’Lanterns NYC

The Halloween-themed weekends at Boo at the Zoo incorporate wildlife while highlighting the best parts of the season.

Lions and Goblins and Gouls, Oh My!

The Bronx Zoo’s annual Halloween favorite Boo at the Zoo is back with spooky fun for the whole family. Favorites include magic shows, the extinct animal graveyard, a corn maze, a costume parade, pumpkin carving demos, mind reading, and (who could forget) a candy trail! Special events, including the Dinosaur Safari and Spooktacular Night Walks, are available with the purchase of extra an ticket on the website. Saturday-Sunday, Sept. 28-Nov. 3, including Monday, Oct. 14., 10am-5:30pm; Ages: All. $39.95; $34.95 ages 65 and older; $29.95 ages 3-12; free for children 2 and younger. Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx; 718-220-5100; bronxzoo.com/boo-at-the-zoo 24

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Courtesy Rise of the Jack O’Lanterns

GET IN THE SPIRIT OF THE SEASON

Governors Island; ferries leave from 10 South St., Lower Manhattan 718-351-1611 therise.org Hours: Thursday-Sunday, Oct. 17-27, 7-10:30pm Admission: $26; $22 children ages 3-17; free for children 2 and younger See 1,000 jack-o’-lanterns carved by professional artists from the tristate area staged along an illuminated, scenic walking path among the backdrop of centuries-old buildings. Advanced tickets are required. >> For more fun Halloween events like this, visit nymetroparents.com/halloween-fun.

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OCTOBER CALENDAR

26 Editor’s Hot Tickets

31 Mini Musicians,

27 We Can’t Believe It’s FREE!

28 Crafty Kids

32 Holiday Fun

29 Animal Lovers

34 Once Upon a Time,

30 The Great Outdoors,

35 Show Time!

Fun Fairs & Festivals

On Screen

Little Foodies

36 Smarty Pants

EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the ten events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Chappaqua Children’s Book Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 10am-4pm WHERE: Robert E. Bell Middle School, Intersection of Allen Place and South Greeley Avenue, Chappaqua AGES: 3-12, adult WHAT: Enjoy author readings, illustrator demos, book signings, and a gourmet food court. WHY WE LOVE IT: Fun activities for the day will include the Bubble Bus, mural painting, juggling and walking the tightrope, hair braiding, and learning a musical instrument. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for books. 914-263-5566. ccbfestival.org.

New York Renaissance Faire

WHEN: Through Oct. 6: Saturday-Sunday, 10am-7pm WHERE: Sterling Forest, 600 Route 17A, Tuxedo AGES: All WHAT: The Faire is a rollicking romp through Elizabethan England, set within the Majestic Groves of Sterling Forest. Join Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth I on a grand visit to a beautiful 16th-century English village. Cheer your favorite knight at the Joust Tournament. Feast on savory sweets and tempting treats. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids will be amazed by acrobats, magical fairies, swashbuckling pirates, and more! WANT TO GO? $29.95; $25.95 seniors and military; $13 children. 845-351-5171. renfair.com/ny.

Heritage Applefest

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 6, 11am-3pm WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Hudson Valley harvests with cider pressing, apple preserving, and sweet and hard cider sampling. WHY WE LOVE IT: Renowned entertainer Mark Rust will enthrall families and guests with a spectacular array of music and tales. WANT TO GO? $22 adults; $18 members; $13 children; $12 child members; free for children younger than 5. 845-265-3638. boscobel.org.

Fall Carnival FREE

WHEN: Oct. 2-6, Monday-Friday, 4-10pm; Saturday-Sunday, 12-11pm WHERE: Sts. Peter & Paul and St. Ursula Church, 129 E. Birch Street, Parking Lot, Mount Vernon AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Enjoy carnival rides, games, and plenty of great food. WHY WE LOVE IT: Choose any of five days to attend! WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 914-668-9815. stspeterpaulandstursula.org.

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Yorktown Festival & Street Fair FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 11am-5pm WHERE: Jack Devito Veterans Memorial Field, 208-294 Veterans Road, Yorktown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Bring the whole family for a day of food, music, exhibitors, rides, musical performances, and fun. WHY WE LOVE IT: The fun includes a White Castle eating contest, Dog Costume Parade, and open mic! WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 914-218-3968. yorktownchamber.org.

Nyack Street Fair FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 10am-5pm WHERE: Downtown Nyack, Main Street, Broadway and Cedar Street, Nyack AGES: All WHAT: The whole family will have fun shopping at this unique street fair. WHY WE LOVE IT: The fun includes a Kid’s Zone with inflatables, delicious festival foods, and live music. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 845-358-9126. acadaofnyack.com/nyack-street-fair.

Artistree Performing Arts Spooktacular!

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 5:30-7:30pm WHERE: Artistree Performing Arts, 114 W. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck AGES: 4-12 WHAT: An annual Halloween Party complete with games, crafts, dancing, pizza, cookie decorating, spooky stories, and a famous Haunted House! The party is a drop-off event. Call to RSVP. WHY WE LOVE IT: The kids can enjoy an early evening of fun, free from parents! WANT TO GO? $35; $20 siblings. 914-835-2200. artistreearts.com.

Festifall

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 27, 11am-3pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Families can take part in an exciting scavenger hunt, play fun games, meet animals, and enjoy live music. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids will love dressing up for the costume parade! WANT TO GO? $15; $8 members; $10 in advance; $5 members in advance. 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

Boo at the Zoo

WHEN: Sept. 28-Nov. 3, Saturday-Sunday and holidays, 10am-5:30pm; Monday-Friday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: This year’s Boo at the Zoo has family favorites like magic shows, costume parades, pumpkin carvings, a candy trail, animal treats, crafts, and mentalism shows, plus the Dinosaur Safari exhibit. WHY WE LOVE IT: Animal aficionados will appreciate meet and greets with vultures, owls, ravens, and more! WANT TO GO? $35.95; $31.45 seniors; $26.95 children 3-12; free for children younger than 2. 718-220-5100. bronxzoo.com.

Home of the ‘Legend’

WHEN: Sept. 28-Nov. 3, see website for schedule WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 639 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Take a spooky tour of Washington Irving’s cottage, learn about the history of hair-raising stories and 19th-century crazes—like the vampire scares and séances. WHY WE LOVE IT: Families can create Halloween-themed art activities, explore the grounds on a literature-themed scavenger hunt, play historic games, pose for a photo op, and listen to some spooky tales. WANT TO GO? $16; $12 seniors 65 and older and students 18-25; $8 children 3-17; free for members and children younger than 3. 914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

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The Chair Show FREE

WHEN: Oct. 1-19, Tuesday-Friday, 12-5pm; Saturday, 12-6pm WHERE: ArtsWestchester Gallery, 31 Mamaroneck Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: The Chair Show explores the creativity, forms, and traditions of seating. WANT TO GO? 914-428-4220. artswestchester.org.

Lecture: Why Some Children Struggle to Read FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 24, 7:30-9pm WHERE: The Windward School Westchester Middle School, 40 W. Red Oak Lane, White Plains AGES: Adult WHAT: Dr. Devin Kearns will explain how children with this languagebased learning disability have brains that process specific tasks differently. RSVP required. WANT TO GO? 914-949-6968. thewindwardschool.org/lecture.

Trains & Tracks FREE

Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

WHEN: Oct. 1-29, Tuesdays, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Join the library for a program of free play with their huge collection of Thomas & Friends trains! WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Battle of Pell’s Point Encampment FREE

Larchmont Farmers Market FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 10am-4pm WHERE: St. Paul’s Church National Historic Site, 897 S. Columbus Ave., Mount Vernon AGES: All WHAT: See an encampment commemorating the Battle of Pell’s Point, fought on October 18, 1776, with a special ceremony. WANT TO GO? 914-667-4116. nps.gov/sapa.

WHEN: Through Dec. 28: Saturdays, 8:30am-1pm WHERE: Down to Earth, Metro North Parking Deck off Chatsworth Avenue, Larchmont AGES: All WHAT: This market brings together small farms and artisan food makers with cooks and eaters. WANT TO GO? 914-923-4837. downtoearthmarkets.com. ››

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Family Art Project: Compost Herbaria

WHEN: Oct. 12-13, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Create a backyard herbarium and DIY flower press with everyday materials. WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6-18; free for members and children younger than 6; free admission to grounds until 12pm on Saturday. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Trash to Treasure FREE

CRAFTY KIDS ArtsFest Fun: Art in the Courtyard FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 11am-3pm WHERE: Pelham Art Center, 155 Fifth Ave., Pelham AGES: All WHAT: Participate in community art projects. WANT TO GO? 914-738-2525. pelhamartcenter.org.

Exploring Art Through the Artists: Art Workshop

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 11am and 1:30pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Expect a lot of color, imagination, and surprises as you create your own masterpieces! WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; $3 per person presenting an Electronic Benefits Transfer Card with ID for up to four individuals; free for members, active duty military personnel and their families within the same household, and children younger than 1. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Family Art Project: Cephalopod Prints

WHEN: Oct. 5-6, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Create your own wearable octopus arms and squid tentacles. WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6-18; free for members and children younger than 6; free admission to grounds until 12pm on Saturday. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Monster Masks

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 10, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 2-5 WHAT: Make seasonal silly masks for pretend play. WANT TO GO? $20; $18 additional siblings. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Bilingual Family Art Class

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Create a floating river sculpture, or escultura del rio, to launch on the river along with a message of environmental action. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors 62 and older, veterans, and students; $4 children ages 3-8; free for members. 914-963-4550. hrm.org. 28

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WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 16, 4-5pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Make a fun craft using recycled materials. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Vampire Spoon Puppets

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 16, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 2-5 WHAT: Transform ordinary spoons into spooky vampires! Ages 2-5. WANT TO GO? $20; $18 siblings. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Make A Dragon With Polymer Clay

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, ages 5-8: 2-3pm; ages 9-12; 3-4pm WHERE: The Rye Arts Center, 51 Milton Road, Rye AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Use polymer clay to make simple shapes and put them together to form a sculpture. WANT TO GO? $20; RAC members receive discount. 914-967-0700. ryeartscenter.org.

Family Art Project: The Walking Snag

WHEN: Oct. 19-20, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Outfit yourself as a snag and cover yourself with fungus, lichens, and other decomposers that you create! WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6-18; free for members and children younger than 6; free admission to grounds until 12pm on Saturday. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Witches Potion STEAM Project

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 23, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 2-5 WHAT: Whip up your very own witches brew! Ages 2-5. WANT TO GO? $20; $18 siblings. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Family Wheel Night

WHEN: Saturdays, Oct. 5 and 26, 6-8pm WHERE: Clay Art Center, 40 Beech St., Port Chester AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Get messy and play with clay in this one-time class to learn how to use the potter’s wheel. Register online. WANT TO GO? $45. 914-937-2047. clayartcenter.org.

Family Studio: Art

WHEN: Oct. 5-27, Saturday-Sunday, 1-4pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Create a miniature landscape out of clay. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors 62 and older, veterans and students; $4 children ages 3-8; free for members. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Family Art Project: Preserving Past and Future Fossils

WHEN: Oct. 26-27, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Use clay and imprinting to bring awareness to how animals and plants are affected by, and adapt to, climate change. WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6-18; free for members and children younger than 6; free admission to grounds until 12pm on Saturday. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Halloween Workshop Laser Cutting with Glowforge

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 29, 4:30-6pm WHERE: The Rye Arts Center, 51 Milton Road, Rye AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Students use CAD to create a spooky Halloween pendant or pin that will then be laser cut and engraved. WANT TO GO? $25; RAC members receive discount. 914-967-0700. ryeartscenter.org.

ANIMAL LOVERS Tales for Tails FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 3, 6pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children in 1st grade and up are invited to read to a specially trained dog. Sign-up required. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Feeding Time: A Behind the Scenes Program

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 8:30-10am WHERE: The Maritime Aquarium at Norwalk, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Help aquarium staff feed an amazing assortment of hungry animals. Advance registration required. WANT TO GO? $40; $38 members; $20 children 12 and younger; $18 members’ children 12 and younger. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org/events.

Feeding Fun

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 1-2pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Learn how Greenburgh Nature Center keeps their critters healthy. WANT TO GO? $8; free for members. 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

Marine Life Encounter Cruises

WHEN: Oct. 20-27, Sundays, 1:15pm WHERE: The Maritime Aquarium at Norwalk, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: Meet an amazing variety of fish, crabs, mollusks, and other creatures that live in the Long Island Sound. WANT TO GO? $31.50; $26.50 for members. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org/events.

Shark-Feeding Demonstrations

WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Sundays, 10:30am WHERE: The Maritime Aquarium at Norwalk, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: Predators snap at food presented to them on a long pole! WANT TO GO? $12; $8 ages 3-12, plus admission: $24.95; $17.95 ages 3-12. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org.

Wildlife Expert Peter Gros

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 27, 1pm WHERE: The Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 E. Ridge Road, parallel to Main Street, Ridgefield, CT AGES: All WHAT: See friendly exotic animals live on stage! WANT TO GO? $20-$45. 203-438-5795. ridgefieldplayhouse.org.

Halloween Party with Wolves!

WHEN: Oct. 26-27, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-12:30pm and 2-3:30pm WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: The Ambassador wolves don’t do tricks, but sharing a howl is always a treat. Costumes are strongly encouraged! Pre-registration required. WANT TO GO? $14; $11 children younger than 12. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org.

Pack Chat for Kids

WHEN: Oct. 6-29, select Saturdays, 2-3:30pm; select Sundays, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: Kids will learn about the mythology surrounding wolves and the important role of wolves in the natural world. Pre-registration required. WANT TO GO? $14; $11 children younger than 12. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org. ››

Vulture Culture: A Live Bird Presentation

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 2pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Observe vultures and other scavenging birds of prey and hear about their adaptive behaviors. WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6–18; free for members and children younger than 6; free admission to grounds until 12pm on Saturday. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Creatures of the Night

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 1-2pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Meet nocturnal animals and learn why they only come out at night. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 members. 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org. WestchesterParent 29

Decomposer Detectives Family Walk

WHEN: Oct. 19-20, Saturday-Sunday, 12pm and 1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn all about the activities of the organisms that help break down dead leaves, wood, and other organic matter in Wave Hill’s Abrons Woodland. WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6–18; free for members and children younger than 6; free admission to grounds until 12pm on Saturday. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Play Days @ Jay

WHEN: Through Oct. 25: Fridays, 12-2pm WHERE: John Jay Homestead, 400 Jay St., Katonah AGES: All WHAT: Visit the chickens, then enjoy a hands-on activity. WANT TO GO? $10; $7 students and seniors; $7 highlight tour; free for members and children younger than 12. 914-232-8119. johnjayhomestead.org.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Family Nature Walk

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join naturalist and educator Gabriel Willow on a family-friendly walk through the gardens or woodlands. WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6 and older; free for members and children younger than 6. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Apple Cidering

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 14, 1-2pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Children will use an old-fashioned screw press to make apple cider, and participants will also learn about the colonial experience of cider making. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 members. 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

Decomposition Central

WHEN: Oct. 19-20, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Visit the Scavenger and Decomposer Petting Zoo to see and touch some friendly scavengers and decomposers, and observe scavenging dermestid (flesh-eating) beetles at work. WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6–18; free for members and children younger than 6; free admission to grounds until 12pm on Saturday. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

The Boneyard

WHEN: Oct. 19-20, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Learn about osteology, the study of bones and skeletal elements, then team up to try to reassemble a skeleton! WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6–18; free for members and children younger than 6; free admission to grounds until 12pm on Saturday. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

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Farmers Market FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 22: Fridays, 9am-2pm WHERE: New Rochelle’s Down to Earth Farmers Market, 20 Sicard Ave., New Rochelle AGES: All WHAT: The market showcases produce raised near the Sound Shore. WANT TO GO? 914-923-4837. downtoearthmarkets.com.

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Green Meadow Fall Fair

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 10am-4pm WHERE: Green Meadow Waldorf School, 307 Hungry Hollow Road, Chestnut Ridge AGES: All WHAT: Activities include candle dipping, face painting, hayride, tree climbing, the Dragon Run, pumpkin carving, caramel apples, and much more. WANT TO GO? Activity and food prices range from $1-$7. 845-356-2514. gmws.org.

Baseball Card and Memorabilia Show

WHEN: Oct. 4-6, Friday, 2-7pm; Saturday, 10am-5pm; Sunday, 10am4pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Visit 300 tables at this sports card and memorabilia show. WANT TO GO? $10; free for children younger than 12. 914-995-4050. nyshows.org.

21st Annual Teddy Bear Clinic FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 6, 12-3pm WHERE: Greenwich Hospital, 49 Lake Ave., Greenwich Medical Building parking lot behind the hospital, Greenwich, CT AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Children can bring a favorite stuffed animal or doll for an exam. Depending on the diagnosis, dolls, bears, and other fuzzy patients may receive splints, stitches, surgery, or X-rays. WANT TO GO? 203-863-3627. greenwichhospital.org.

Farmers Market FREE

Rock n’ Roll Babies & Toddlers FREE

TaSH Farmers’ Market FREE

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WHEN: Through Nov. 18: Sundays, 9:30am-2:30pm WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 Route 100, Katonah AGES: All WHAT: Visit the farm and buy foods and products from more than 20 local vendors. Then check out the animals, historic buildings, and exhibits. WANT TO GO? 914-864-7282. muscootfarm.org. WHEN: Through Nov. 23: Saturdays, 8:30am-2pm WHERE: Patriots Park, Route 9 (between College Avenue and Cobb Lane), Sleepy Hollow AGES: All WHAT: Expect farm-fresh fruits and vegetables, artisanal breads and baked goods, meats, poultry, fish, craft spirits, farmhouse cheeses, and more throughout upwards of 30 vendor stalls. The market also hosts chef demos, art projects, children’s activities, and live music. WANT TO GO? tashfarmersmarket.org.

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MUSICIANS Music Conservatory of Westchester 90th Anniversary Kick-off FREE WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 11am-3pm WHERE: Music Conservatory of Westchester, 216 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: The event will offer free demo classes, showcase Conservatory student performances, and more. WANT TO GO? 914-761-3900. musicconservatory.org.

Hispanic Heritage Month Celebration FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 2pm WHERE: Yonkers Riverfront Library, 1 Larkin Center, Yonkers AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Enjoy delightful bilingual children’s play with music. WANT TO GO? 914-375-7941. ypl.org.

Family JAM

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 14, 9:30am and 10:30am WHERE: Groove Family Music, 158 Larchmont Ave., Larchmont AGES: All WHAT: Family JAM is a groovy, authentic, immersive, live 45-minute music experience featuring the Music for Aardvarks song collection. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $35; $20 sibling. 914-834-3383. findgroove.com.

Family Fiesta with Flor FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 12-12:30pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: Flor teaches Spanish through music, movement, and puppetry. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

WHEN: Through Aug. 28, 2020: Fridays, 10:15-10:45am WHERE: Croton Free Library, 171 Cleveland Drive, Croton-on-Hudson AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: It’s time for great stories, classic kids’ songs, new rock n’ roll music, and lots of dancing! WANT TO GO? 914-271-6612. crotonfreelibrary.org.

Movie Night FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 4, 6:30pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1 Stew Leonard Drive, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the annual hay bale movie night. Reserve tickets via eventbrite.com WANT TO GO? 914-375-4700. stewleonards.com.

Short Films for Short People FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 15, 11-11:30am WHERE: Chappaqua Library, 195 S. Greeley Ave., Chappaqua AGES: 3-5 WHAT: See films based on beloved children’s picture books. WANT TO GO? 914-238-4779. chappaqualibrary.org.

The Highway Rat & Zog

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 12pm WHERE: Jacob Burns Film Center, 364 Manville Road, Pleasantville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: See these two animated shorts based on the much-loved children’s books by Julia Donaldson and illustrator Axel Scheffler. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 members; $8 children age 13 and younger. 914-747-5555. burnsfilmcenter.org.

Harry Potter Films

WHEN: Oct. 5-26, Saturdays, 12pm WHERE: Jacob Burns Film Center, 364 Manville Road, Pleasantville AGES: 13 and older WHAT: See a different Harry Potter film each week, including Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince, and Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows: Parts 1 and 2. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 members; $8 children age 13 and younger. 914-747-5555. burnsfilmcenter.org.

SuperPower Dog

WHEN: Through Dec. 15: see website for schedule WHERE: IMAX Theater, Maritime Aquarium, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: Meet remarkable dogs that save lives and discover the powerful bond they share with their human partners. WANT TO GO? $24.95; $22.95 seniors; $17.95 child. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org. ››

The Rock and Roll Playhouse Plays the Music of Phish for Kids WHEN: Oct. 20-26, Saturday-Sunday, 11:30am WHERE: The Capitol Theatre, 149 Westchester Ave., Port Chester AGES: All WHAT: During each fun-filled show, children explore live music, movement, and collaborative creativity. WANT TO GO? $15. 914-934-9362. therockandrollplayhouse.com.

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Teen Night: Nightmare at the HRM

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 25, 5-8pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: 13-17 WHAT: See the Night Frights planetarium show, enjoy spooky tours in the Gilded Age mansion, strut your look in a costume contest, sing a karaoke tune, and dance the night away to fang-tastic music. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors 62 and older, veterans, and students; $4 children ages 3-8; free for members. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Creepy Carnival FREE

HOLIDAY FUN DIY Rosh Hashana Apple Suncatchers

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 1, 4:15-4:45pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 3-6 WHAT: Craft DIY apple suncatchers from scratch. WANT TO GO? $20. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Diwali: Festival of Lights FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 6, 2-4pm WHERE: Pelham Art Center, 155 Fifth Ave., Pelham AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy an ancient Indian classical dance performance, audience participation, traditional hands-on art workshops, and henna body art. WANT TO GO? 914-738-2525. pelhamartcenter.org.

Halloween Movie Night FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 17, 6pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join the library for some thrills and chills with a spooky Halloween movie night! WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Simchat Torah Tot Parade and Horah with the Torah FREE

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 21, 4pm WHERE: Chabad of the Rivertowns, 303 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy a holiday cupcake workshop (gluten- and dairy-free), games, dancing, and a Simchat Torah Parade. WANT TO GO? 914-693-6100. chabadrt.org.

Tot Simchat Torah FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 22, 10:45am-12pm WHERE: Temple Sholom, 300 E. Putnam Ave., Greenwich, CT AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Introduce your little ones to this joyous holiday through music, story time, and arts and crafts. RSVP required. WANT TO GO? 203-869-7191. templesholom.com.

Stew Leonard’s of Yonkers Trick or Treat FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 23, 4-6pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1 Stew Leonard Drive, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Children are invited to dress in their costumes and go trick-ortreating throughout the store. Free, but requires tickets via eventbrite.com. WANT TO GO? 914-375-4700. stewleonards.com.

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WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Warner Library, 121 N. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Come in costume for games, crafts, snacks, and treats. WANT TO GO? 914-631-7734. warnerlibrary.org.

Halloweekend

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 12-5pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the spookiest weekend of the year with fun programs and projects for all ages! WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors 62 and older, veterans, and students; $4 children ages 3-8; free for members. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Mexican Day of the Dead FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 27, 2-4pm WHERE: Pelham Art Center, 155 Fifth Ave., Pelham AGES: All WHAT: Renowned artist Zafiro Romero-Acevedo shares the history of one of Mexico’s richest traditions. WANT TO GO? 914-738-2525. pelhamartcenter.org.

Haunted: Victorian Ghost Stories at the Mansion

WHEN: Oct. 18-27, Fridays-Sunday, 5:30pm, 6:30pm, 7:30pm, and 8pm WHERE: Lockwood-Mathews Mansion Museum, 295 West Ave., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: These tours will focus on ghost sightings as they relate to the house during the 19th century as well as its more recent history. Children younger than 16 must be accompanied by guardian. WANT TO GO? $10. 203-838-9799. lockwoodmathewsmansion.com.

Halloween Character Trick-or-Treat Breakfast, Brunch, and Lunch

WHEN: Oct. 26-27, Saturday-Sunday, 10am, 12:30pm, and 2pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1 Stew Leonard Drive, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Have a Halloween-themed meal with Stew Leonard’s most beloved costumed characters including Wow the Cow! Purchase tickets via eventbrite.com. WANT TO GO? $14.99; $9.99 ages 2-11. 914-375-4700. stewleonards.com.

Halloween Party for Tiny Ghouls & Ghosts! FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 30, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Grab that costume for a not-too-scary Halloween Party featuring cookie decorating, a spooky craft, and more. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Classic Mansion Tour with Autumnal Decor

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WHEN: Sept. 26-Oct. 31, Thursday-Monday, 10am-4pm WHERE: Lyndhurst, 635 S. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: See the mansion decorated with trimmings for the fall season. WANT TO GO? $16-$24. 845-331-7900. lyndhurst.org.

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Halloween Party

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., 1st Floor, Tuckahoe AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Dress up, make crafts, do the monster mash, freeze dance, and play fun games. WANT TO GO? $25 per child with one adult. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

A Creepy-Crawly Halloween

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 10am-4pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: All WHAT: Join WCM in full costume and get creative with a creepy-critter themed day. WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; $3 per person presenting an Electronic Benefits Transfer Card with ID for up to four individuals; free for members, active duty military personnel and their families within the same household, and children younger than 1. 914-4215050. discoverwcm.org.

Halloween Party FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 2-5pm WHERE: St. Paul’s Church National Historic Site, 897 S. Columbus Ave., Mount Vernon AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy games, activities, and prizes, including ghost bowling, historic dress up, and a special visitor from the past. WANT TO GO? 914-667-4116. nps.gov/sapa.

Halloween at The Field Library FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 11:30am-7:30pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Drop by in costume for a free book and a treat—no tricks! WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Jay Ghoul’s House of Curiosities

WHEN: Oct. 17-31, Thursdays and Sundays, 6-9pm; Friday-Saturday, 6-10pm WHERE: Lyndhurst, 635 South Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The scariest thing may just be the bad puns during this interactive event. WANT TO GO? $25; $20 ages 10-16. 845-331-7900. lyndhurst.org.

Monster Mash FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 5:30-7pm WHERE: FunFuzion, 29 LeCount Place, New Rochelle AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy indoor trick-or-treating, a costume party contest, crafts, snacks, games, and prizes! WANT TO GO? 914-637-7575. funfuziononline.com.

LEGO Halloween Party and Brick-Or-Treat

Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Explore LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester like never before with special Halloween experiences. WANT TO GO? $29.95-$37.95. 866-243-0770. legolanddiscoverycenter.com/westchester.

Horseman’s Hollow

WHEN: Oct. 4-Nov. 3, See website for schedule WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 381 N. Broadway, Sleepy Hollow AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The undead, the evil, and the insane rule this terrifying landscape, all paying homage to the Hessian who forever hunts his head. Enter the foreboding gates and make your way through haunted landmarks like the cemetery, tavern, and Old Dutch Church. WANT TO GO? $28 Saturdays; $22; $15 fast track pass; members receive $5 discount. 914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

Sleepy Hollow Experience

WHEN: Oct. 4-Nov. 3, see website for schedule WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 639 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Meet Ichabod Crane and Katrina Van Tassel, along with a certain headless Hessian, in the very place where Washington Irving imagined them. Follow the characters from scene to scene with live music and a little bit of mayhem. Sip seasonal drinks and enjoy tasty treats at the Van Tassel’s harvest party. WANT TO GO? $45 and up; $25 and up for children 3-17; members receive 10-percent discount/ticket; free for children younger than 3. 914631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

Irving’s Legend

WHEN: Oct. 4-Nov. 3, Thursday-Friday, 6:15pm, 7:30pm, and 8:45pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11:30am, 1:30pm, 3:30pm, 5pm, 6:30pm, and 8pm WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 639 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Master storytellers offer dramatic performances of Washington Irving’s classic tale, featuring the Headless Horseman, Ichabod Crane, Brom Bones, and Katrina Van Tassel. Flavored with live spooky music, the spellbinding storytelling captivates all audiences. WANT TO GO? $28; $22 child; members receive a $5 discount. 914-6318200. hudsonvalley.org.

The Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze

WHEN: Through Nov. 30: see website for schedule WHERE: Van Cortlandt Manor, 525 S. Riverside Ave., Croton-on-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: See more than 10,000 individually hand-carved, illuminated jacko’-lanterns in this elaborate walk-through experience. WANT TO GO? See website for prices. 914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org. ››

WHEN: Sept. 28-Nov. 2, Saturdays, 10am-9:30pm; Sundays, 10am-7:30pm WHERE: LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester, 39 Fitzgerald St.,

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Storytime

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 23, 11:30am WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Move with the waves and sounds of the Hudson River in this interactive and playful story time. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors 62 and older, veterans and students; $4 children ages 3-8; free for members. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Preschoolers with Ms. Tee FREE

ONCE UPON A TIME Rhyme Time by the Hudson

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 4, 9:30am WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Joyful learning through nursery rhymes, songs, parachute play, and storytelling will spark your little one’s curiosity and imagination. WANT TO GO? Pay what you wish. 845-265-3638. boscobel.org.

Sing-a-Story

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 6, 10-11am WHERE: Groove Family Music, 158 Larchmont Ave., Larchmont AGES: All WHAT: Two engaging themed books are specially selected and presented with live musical accompaniment. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $35. 914-834-3383. findgroove.com/.

Bilingual Storytime / Cuentacuentos Bilingüe FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 7: Mondays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Yonkers Public Library, Riverfront Branch, One Larkin Center, Yonkers AGES: 1-5 WHAT: Enjoy interactive stories, action songs, and crafts in English and Spanish! WANT TO GO? 914-969-6660. ypl.org.

Storytime

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 9, 11:30am WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Active youngsters and their caregivers are invited to a playful and music-filled story time, as they learn about the life and music of Cuban legend Celia Cruz during Hispanic Heritage Month. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors 62 and older, veterans, and students; $4 children ages 3-8; free for members. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Tot Yom Kippur FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 23: Wednesdays, 10:30-11am WHERE: Port Chester-Rye Brook Public Library, 1 Haseco Ave., Port Chester AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Participate with fingerplays, songs, stories, musical instruments, and other related parent-child activities. Pre-registration required. WANT TO GO? 914-939-6710x3. portchester-ryebrooklibrary.org.

Story & Craft FREE

WHEN: Oct. 18-25, Fridays, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Join the library for story time followed by a special craft. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Pajama Storytime FREE

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 28, 6pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Put on your pajamas and join the library for a special “late night” story time! WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Spooky Tales

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 30, 3:30pm WHERE: Caramoor Center for Music and the Arts, 149 Girdle Ridge Road, Katonah AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Dress in costume and begin your Halloween weekend with a riveting storytelling performance, followed by hot cider and ghostly treats. Prizes given to all! WANT TO GO? $15; $10 child. 914-232-5035. caramoor.org.

Toddler Time with Ms. Tee FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 6: Wednesdays, 9:30-10am WHERE: Port Chester-Rye Brook Public Library, 1 Haseco Ave., Port Chester AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Participate with fingerplays, songs, stories, musical instruments, and other parent-child activities. Pre-registration required. WANT TO GO? 914-939-6710x3. portchester-ryebrooklibrary.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 9, 1:45-2:30pm WHERE: Temple Sholom, 300 E. Putnam Ave., Greenwich, CT AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Listen to a holiday story and sing some holiday songs. WANT TO GO? 203-869-7191. templesholom.com.

LITTLE FOODIES

Book Babies FREE

Kids in the Kitchen: Italian Desserts

WHEN: Oct. 2-16, Wednesdays, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Enjoy stories, songs, puppets, and play time. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

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WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 12:30-2pm WHERE: Westchester Italian Cultural Center, 1 Generoso Pope Place, Tuckahoe AGES: All WHAT: Become dessert masters while creating sweet treats! WANT TO GO? $40. 914-771-8700. wiccny.org.

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New England Chowdafest

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WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 6, 11am-3pm WHERE: Sherwood Island State Park, Sherwood Island Connector, Exit 18 off I-95, Westport, CT AGES: All WHAT: People travel from all over the country to Connecticut to determine the best chowder, soup, and bisque in New England. WANT TO GO? $20; $5 kids ages 6-12. 203-216-8452. chowdafest.org.

Dig! Plant! Grow! The Three Sisters: Corn, Beans, Squash

WHEN: Through Oct. 11: Tuesday-Saturday, 1:30–5:30pm; Sunday, 10am–5:30pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Learn about the Native Americans who grew corn, beans, and squash, and participate in food-related activities. WANT TO GO? Included in All-Garden Pass: Monday-Friday, $12-$28; Saturday-Sunday, $10-$23. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

Edible Academy Fresh from the Garden Tastings

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: Wednesdays, Saturdays and Sundays, 2-2:30pm and 4-4:30pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Learn how garden-to-table cooking is nutritious and fun. WANT TO GO? Included in All-Garden Pass: Wednesdays $12-$28; Weekends $10-$23. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

SHOW TIME! Aquila Theatre 1984

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 8pm WHERE: Academic Arts Theatre, Hankin Academic Arts Building at Westchester Community College, 75 Grassland Road, Valhalla AGES: 13 and older WHAT: George Orwell’s cautionary novel is brought to the stage by Aquila’s signature bold, ensemble-driven, physical style. WANT TO GO? $28; $26 students, seniors, faculty and staff; $18 children younger than 13. 914-606-6262. sunywcc.edu.

Acrobats of Cirque-tacular

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 6, 4:30pm WHERE: The Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 E. Ridge Road, parallel to Main Street, Ridgefield, CT AGES: All WHAT: Cirque-tacular features an ever-changing cast of elite aerialists, acrobats, contortionists, jugglers, specialty acts, and world-record holders from Broadway and Las Vegas stages. WANT TO GO? $30. 203-438-5795. ridgefieldplayhouse.org.

WHAT: This award-winning rock musical tells the captivating story of Hedwig, a fourth-wall smashing, genderqueer, East German rock ‘n’ roll goddess. WANT TO GO? $36; $28 students and seniors. 914-747-6206. arcstages.org.

National Dance Company Of Siberia Russian Souvenirs

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 8pm WHERE: Academic Arts Theatre, Hankin Academic Arts Building at Westchester Community College, 75 Grassland Road, Valhalla AGES: All WHAT: See this ensemble transcend regional folk dance, elevating a rich heritage from the provincial to a world class level of artistry. WANT TO GO? $28; $26 non-WCC students, seniors, faculty and staff; $18 children younger than 13. 914-606-6262. sunywcc.edu.

American Revolution Demonstration FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 11am-4pm WHERE: Stony Point Battlefield State Historic Site, 44 Battlefield Road, Stony Point AGES: All WHAT: Join the 2nd New York as they demonstrate how an American unit in the first year of the American Revolution would march, drill, charge bayonets, and fire in unison. WANT TO GO? 845-786-2521. parks.ny.gov.

‘Aida’

WHEN: Oct. 11-27, Friday and Saturday 8pm; Sunday 2pm WHERE: White Plains Performing Arts Center, 11 City Place, White Plains AGES: 9 and older WHAT: AIDA is an epic tale of love, loyalty, and betrayal, with an exhilarating Tony and Grammy Award-winning score by Elton John and Tim Rice. WANT TO GO? $37-$59. 914-328-1600. wppac.com. ››

‘Moon Mouse’

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 11am and 1:30pm WHERE: Emelin Theatre, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Moon Mouse is a glorious, glow in the dark, cosmic adventure about celebrating differences, from the acclaimed Lightwire Theatre. WANT TO GO? $15-$20. 914-698-3045. emelin.org.

‘Hedwig and the Angry Inch’ at Arc Stages

WHEN: Through Oct. 12: Friday-Saturday 8pm; plus, Sunday, Oct. 6, 2pm WHERE: Arc Stages, 147 Wheeler Ave., Pleasantville AGES: 13 and older WestchesterParent 35

Rhyme & Read

WHEN: Oct. 12-19, Saturdays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Join in playing sound games, hear a story, watch a nursery rhyme video, and make a craft to take home! Limited to 10 participants. WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; $3 per person presenting an Electronic Benefits Transfer Card with ID for up to four individuals; free for members, active duty military personnel and their families within the same household, and children younger than 1. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Chem-Palooza

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 11:30am-12:15pm and 1:30-2:15pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Kick off the start of National Chemistry Week and jump from station to station and experiment with different chemistry concepts! WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; $3 per person presenting an Electronic Benefits Transfer Card with ID for up to four individuals; free for members, active duty military personnel and their families within the same household, and children younger than 1. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

SMARTY PANTS Bruce Beginnings

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 1, 11-11:45am and 1-1:45pm WHERE: Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Dr., Greenwich, CT AGES: 2½-5 WHAT: Children will explore the museum, hear a story, and enjoy a hands-on activity. Space is limited. WANT TO GO? Included with admission: $10; $8 students 5-22 with valid ID and seniors 65 and older; free for members and children younger than 5. 203-869-0376. brucemuseum.org.

STEAM Team Jr. FREE

Exploring Play: Whose Shadow Is That?!

WHEN: Oct. 4-25, Fridays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 2-4 WHAT: Use a screen to sing, dance, and create fun and silly shadows with your bodies. Sign up when museum opens at 10am. WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; $3 per person presenting an Electronic Benefits Transfer Card with ID for up to four individuals; free for members, active duty military personnel and their families within the same household, and children younger than 1. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Family Studio: Science

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 4, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Flex your brain and your fingers with some hands-on STEAM activities and games! WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

WHEN: Oct. 5-26, Saturdays, 1-4pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the 50th anniversary of the first two Apollo missions to the moon’s surface with moon-related activities. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors 62 and older, veterans and students; $4 youth ages 3-8; free for members. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Shellfish Research in Connecticut FREE

STEAM Team FREE

Science Sunday: Marvelous Metals

Young Discoverers: Whose Shadow Is That?!

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 6, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Bruce Museum, 10 Tod’s Driftway, Old Greenwich, CT AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy family activities all afternoon and learn about the importance of the University of Connecticut and NOAA shellfish research projects. WANT TO GO? 203-869-0376. brucemuseum.org. WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 11:30am-12:15pm and 1:30-2:15pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Make wacky magnetic slime, real batteries, and watch Science Educator Harmon make a spoon magically disappear with his mind...or is it just science?! Sign-up begins when the museum opens and is limited to the first 10 children. WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; $3 per person presenting an Electronic Benefits Transfer Card with ID for up to four individuals; free for members, active duty military personnel and their families within the same household, and children younger than 1. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org. 36

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WHEN: Oct. 1-29, Tuesdays, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Flex your brain and your fingers with some hands-on STEAM activities and games! WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com/. WHEN: Oct. 2-30, Wednesdays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Explore how shadows can change or grow, and create a special shadow craft to take home! Sign-ups begin when the Museum opens at 10am and are limited to the first 12 children. WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; $3 per person presenting an Electronic Benefits Transfer Card with ID for up to four individuals; free for members, active duty military personnel and their families within the same household, and children younger than 1. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Stepping Stones Museum for Children

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UPCOMING EVENTS AT WHITBY SCHOOL

October 25 – October 31

Early Childhood Exploration

Come see what our Boo Squad has conjured up for frightfully-fun tricks and treats around the BOO-seum.

18 months – age 5 October 1 and October 17 at 9:30 a.m.

Middle School Exploration Grades 5-8 September 26 and October 16 at 9:30 a.m.

All School Open House 18 months – Grade 8 October 27 at 1:00 p.m. and November 14 at 9:30 a.m.

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Baby’s Wish List ›› Don’t be overwhelmed by all the doodads and cute outfits—here’s how to streamline the process of creating a baby registry By Madeleine Burry

abies may arrive in their birthday suits, but these tiny humans need a whole lot of gear, products, and clothing on hand from day one. The task of creating a baby registry for all that stuff can be overwhelming. “And it doesn’t help that the market is oversaturated and ever-changing,” says Molly Pross, a baby gear expert and founder of Bump Bestie, a baby-planning service. Parents should register for 85-120 items, according to Pross. But which items are must-haves, and which can you safely skip? We asked experts—along with parents, the ultimate pros—to identify their picks for registries, along with advice for crafting a just-right list for your growing family.

Do you need a registry?

If you’re planning to have a baby shower—or anticipate that friends and family will gift your little one with presents—it’s a good idea to have a registry or wish list in place. That way, you can avoid receiving multiple sets of bassinet sheets when you don’t have a bassinet (or getting sheets that don’t fit your particular bassinet). You don’t want to worry about complicated exchanges and returns after baby’s arrival. Creating a registry also helps you get clear on what you’ll want and need to have on hand.

Where should you register?

Thanks to the Internet, registering is easier than ever. You can choose from any number of brick-and-mortar stores or online establishments, such as Target or Amazon. You can also create a registry that pulls in options from several retailers with sites such as babylist.com and myregistry.com. In general: Be mindful of the store’s return policy (just in case you change your mind), as well as

perks the store may offer to parents who register with them. In addition to registering online, Pross recommends registering at a local boutique. That way, people can touch and feel items, and you’re supporting a local business.

How do you make your wish list?

Try thinking in categories, Pross suggests. “Organizing into buckets gives you a much better picture and helps you prioritize. For example, nursery furniture can have a ten- to fourteen-week lead time [for delivery], so it’s best to get the big items ordered first,” she says. And while it may be tempting to add tons of items to your list— every single adorable outfit and every might-be-helpful product— Pross suggests a better strategy is to keep your list focused. “If you have everything on there, guests may end up buying things that you don’t need immediately,” Pross notes. It can be helpful to create a private section of your wish list—that only you and your partner can see—to save items you’re considering and to track the items you’ve purchased yourself, Pross suggests. Safety is an important consideration as you add items to your registry, says Joe Shamie, president of Delta Children. “Parents should check that the products they are interested in are Juvenile Products Manufacturers Association-certified,” he advises. Products with that certification meet the standards of the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, as well as ASTM International, which develops standards used around the world. And don’t shy away from practical essentials, says Liz Jeneault, vice president of marketing for Faveable, and a Philadelphia-based mom of a toddler. Diapers, she says, are especially critical (since you’ll go through so many) as well as baby laundry detergent.

Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents.com, Scholastic, and About.com. Burry lives in Park Slope, Brooklyn, with her husband and their cat. You can follow her on Twitter @lovelanewest.

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AN IDEAL REGISTRY ››

The list of specific purchases varies from one parent to another. If you are planning to take advantage of a lot of hand-me-downs, for instance, your needs may be slimmer. A mom who plans to breast-feed will have different needs than a parent who’s opting to bottle- feed. That said, these are the most important items to consider. Nursery and Sleep A safe place for your baby to sleep is the No. 1 registry must-have, says Joe Shamie, president of Delta Children. “Portable cribs and play yards are the next best place for a baby to sleep if a crib isn’t available, making them great for short vacations or trips to Grandma’s,” he says. q Crib, along with a mattress and sheets q Changing table—or a changing table topper that you can fit on top of a dresser q Baby monitor q Rocker or gliding chair

q B aby bottles, a breast pump, and bottle cleaning supplies, including a drying rack: Check whether your health insurance plan covers the cost of a breast pump before adding it to your registry. q Formula q N ursing bras and supportive pillows: Liz Jeneault, vice president of marketing for Faveable and a Philadelphiabased mom of a toddler, recommends the My Brest Friend pillow. “It definitely helped me when I was super tired and struggling to stay awake! I feel it also helped my baby latch on better,” she says.

q S torage: closets, drawers, and other organizational systems. “Baby clothes are small, so it’s easier to have drawer separators or boxes to keep things organized,” says Molly Pross, a baby gear expert and founder of Bump Bestie.

Bath Time What will you need for bathing your infant?

q B aby swing and bouncy chair: These will allow you to put baby down in a comfortable—and safe—space, says Eva Klein, certified infant and child sleep consultant, mom of three, and owner and founder of My Sleeping Baby. “Otherwise, [parents] could find themselves holding the baby all day, which is exhausting!” she adds.

q Bath toys

q S waddle blankets: Klein notes that infants sleep best when they’re properly swaddled.

q A baby-sized towel and washcloths

q A soft cover for the bathtub faucet q An infant tub q S hampoo, soap, and lotion: Look for products specifically made for baby.

q W hite noise machine: Opt for one that won’t automatically shut off, Klein advises.

Transportation Even city parents who only rarely drive should get a car seat, says Sarah Haverstick, safety advocate at Evenflo. “You never know when you may need to utilize a taxi or ride-share vehicle,” she notes.

q S oothing and play items: Think: pacifiers and blankets, Pross says. And, you’ll want to have some toys and books for baby’s first six months, too.

q C ar seat: “Infant car seats are often compatible with strollers—which can make walking around town or getting in and out of ride-share vehicles even easier,” Haverstick says.

Clothing and Diapering What will baby wear? You may be surprised by how many times in a day you’ll change baby’s outfits—and diapers.

q Stroller

q A n outfit for coming home from the hospital—remember, you’ll be buckling your baby into a car seat, so choose something slim fitting with legs.

Safe to Skip q O utfits: Yes, you do need clothes for baby, but it might be a good idea to keep the number included on your registry low. “They grow out of them quickly, and I had so many left over,” Jeneault says.

q C lothing—including footed pajamas, bodysuits, side-snap tops, socks, and booties q Burp cloths q Sleep sacks q H ats, sweaters, swimsuits, snowsuits: These, of course, will vary depending on the season q Diapers, diaper cream, and wipes Feeding Your needs here will vary depending on if you’ll be breast-feeding or bottle-feeding.

q Wearable baby carrier

q C ar seat covers and accessories: These can present a health risk, Haverstick says, who recommends avoiding extra inserts, cushions, or fluffy harness covers. “You should only use items that are approved by your car seat manufacturer,” she says. Using ones that are not approved may compromise the performance of the car seat in a crash, she adds. q P illows and soft crib items: These are also best avoided for safety reasons, Shamie says, who advises parents to skip baby pillows, crib bumpers, plush toys, and other decorative items destined to live in the crib. “To keep your child safe, we recommend keeping a completely bare crib,” he says. WestchesterParent 39

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Moving Right Along ››

10 ways to make a move easier on the whole family By Lambeth Hochwald

oving is considered one of the most stressful life events, and anyone who has done it knows why. The packing, organizing, re-organizing, and (literal) heavy lifting are always harder than anyone anticipated. Then there are the emotional detachments and re-attachments. “A move is a huge transition even if you’re going down the street,” says Nicole Black, who runs Coffee and Carpool, a parenting advice site. She should know—she has moved her three school-aged kids to three different states in three years because of her husband’s career. “While a move away from friends, family, and the only home a child has known can be traumatic and overwhelming, when you take the time to focus on helping your kids through this process, it becomes a smoother, more positive experience for everyone.” It’s never easy, but experts have found 10 time-tested ways to cope with a big move and ease the journey to a new home.

Focus on the Future

“Moving means two things: You want to be open with your kids about what they’re leaving behind, but you also want to get them focused on new adventures to come,” says Liz Tenety, co-founder of Motherly, a site for millennial moms, and a mom of three who has moved 10 times as a parent due to graduate schools, changing careers, and a growing family. “My husband and I know that our moves were hard on our kids, but by focusing on new people and experiences, they were able to stay resilient.”

Savor the Memories

“One way for your kids to adjust to this big move is to create a picture book about the house you are currently living in, especially if it is the home your kids were brought home to as infants,” Stitt says. “Have them go around and photograph or video a tour of the house, the neighborhood, and even their school. If they are moving more than an hour or two away, having pictures of their old life will give them something to share with their new life, and a younger child might even be able to bring the book to school for show-and-tell.”

Make Decluttering Fun

“When it came time to move, I created a ‘toy store’ so my kids could be part of decluttering their toys and books,” says Ali Wenzke, author of The Art of Happy Moving: How to Declutter, Pack, and Start Over While Maintaining Your Sanity and Finding Happiness. “We bring every single toy into one space and we display it like a toy store. Then the kids can ‘buy’ all of the toys they want to keep, and we donate whatever remains. Since we create toy store sections such as dolls, cars, puzzles, and board games, everything is already organized in sub-categories. Decluttering by sub-category makes the items easy to pack and unpack when you get to your new place.”

Don’t Forget to Supervise

“Especially if your kids are very little, you want to make the timing of a move very specific,” says Elisabeth Stitt, a parenting coach at Joyful Parenting Coaching. “This means you should put dates on the family calendar (even if they might change). Refer often to how much more time you have. For toddlers and preschoolers, make it as concrete as possible by tying the date to their regular routine, as in, ‘two more library visits before we go to the new library.’”

“It’s easy to get overwhelmed the days before and during a move,” says Sarah Drennan, a realtor at Terrie O’Connor Realtors in Allendale, NJ. “All the more reason to keep an eye on your kids to avoid what happened to me. I left my toddlers in a room with crayons and packing paper while I was cleaning, only to return to the room to find their art covering every wall. They drew on every wall the night before we were to close and hand our home over to the new buyers. Thank goodness for Mr. Clean Magic Eraser!”

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Be Specific About Timing

“Your goal is to make sure your kids are involved in the process from beginning to end,” says Lisa Jacobs, a professional organizer in New York City. “Have a conversation with them about how exciting it is to move into a new home with a brand-new room, while assuring them that all of their favorite toys will go wherever they go.” 40

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“Kids can easily get freaked out by the frantic scene that occurs when the movers arrive,” says T.J. Peterson, digital media coordinator at Oz Moving & Storage. “When parents hire a sitter, the kids will stay calm during the chaotic moving day scene, and your movers will be able to handle tasks unfettered.”

Focus on a Cool, New Bedroom

“If your child is especially stressed about an upcoming move, recast it and focus on how cool his or her new room will be,” suggests Kristen Wilkenson, founder of Mom Managing Chaos, a site that focuses on helping families stay organized. The mom of three children has moved 11 times in the last 15 years to facilitate job changes. “Is there a paint color he or she has in mind for the room, and how does he or she want it to be decorated? Make it fun by looking through décor magazines and Pinterest to get ideas. Start making the idea of the new place an exciting one.”

Get the Kids Settled First

“The first day you get to your new home will be very stressful, but it’s most important that you arrange your child’s space first,” Wenzke says. “Set up the bedding and create a quiet spot where he or she can be alone, if needed. This way, your child will have a private oasis to escape to during the moving chaos. Plus, you may even get a few minutes to unpack some of your own boxes.”

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“Having moved my own children several times, I found that it was very important for my kids to meet other kids their age,” Drennan says. “Ask friends of friends if they know of any families with kids the same age or check out local mom groups. I noticed that once my kids had a friend or two nearby, they were better able to settle in.” Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in NYC.

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The Disaster Zone

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If your teen can’t seem to keep her room clean, no matter how much you nag her, we’ve got expert tips to help! By Lambeth Hochwald

f the last time you walked into your teen’s bedroom you walked right out, shocked by the sheer disarray, you’re not alone. Whether due to hormones or disinterest in cleaning, your teen’s bedroom can easily become tornados of dirt and mess. But is it her fault? “Teenagers’ brains are full,” says Jennifer Snyder, a certified professional organizer and owner of Neat as a Pin Organizing and Cleaning, who works with teens and their parents on ways to keep their rooms tidy. “They have school, driving, tests, sports, work, and other activities. Keeping their rooms clean is usually at the bottom of their priority list.” Another factor is parents are often the ones who design the layouts of their kid’s rooms—often without the child’s input—which is usually not consistent with how the teen wants to live. So, without letting your teen too far off the hook, how can you help him maintain some order?

Set Her Up for Success

Leslie Josel, an academic/life coach for teens and a parenting coach in Westchester, says parents have a responsibility to help their teens keep clean. “When parents ask me how to get their kids to organize their room and keep it that way, I lob a question right back at them,” she says. “I ask if their child’s bedroom is set up in a manner that makes it easy for them to create and maintain an organizing system. If they can’t answer that, I send them on a tour of the room.” Then she asks parents to answer the following questions to help them configure a neater space: • Can your teen open his closet door easily or is it partially blocked? • C an she reach the rod and shelves? • A re the dresser drawers hard to open? • I s his dresser crammed full? • Is there enough room for your teen to store all of her clothes? • Does he have enough hangers, hooks, storage bins, and boxes? • D oes she have adequate shelf space for books, memorabilia, electronics, etc.? • I s there a bulletin board or cork squares on the wall? • I s there a trash can and hamper? Are they in good condition and easy to use? • I s there a nightstand for a phone charger, tissues, lamp, water bottle? • A re there items that belong to other family members stored in your teen’s room? • D oes your teen know where everything in her room goes?

Tackle the Mess

The first rule of thumb when organizing is everything needs a home. “It’s really that simple,” Josel says. “No matter what your organizing style, if you don’t know where something lives in your room, you’re more apt to let it sit wherever it lands. That partially explains the landmine that is their floor!” Josel

offers 10 steps to get the cleanup underway. Before organizing begins, purge. Is the room loaded with empty water bottles, food wrappers, cords to electronics he doesn’t own anymore? Grab a garbage bag and out everything goes. Start designating specific “homes” for all her belongings. And make sure these spaces are clearly labeled. When your teen is tired after a long day, visual reminders make cleaning up that much easier. If your teen needs to see his stuff, remove the closet door. If you hate looking at his crowded closet, hang curtains above the opening so he can close it off when friends come over. Replace her dresser with bins lined against a wall to store shirts, jeans, socks, and underwear. This gives her an easy and simple way to get and stay organized. Hang hooks if he can’t seem to grasp the concept of putting clothes on hangers. Put all essentials in your teen’s “prime real estate,” which means these items should be stored between his shoulders and knees for easy access. If you have to reach high or move several items out of the way in the closet to put something away, then the likelihood of your teen doing it is super slim. Leverage the walls. If there’s ample wall space in your teen’s room, hang a bulletin board, cork squares, or even a peg board. They all come in fun colors, are easy to hang, and provide space for notes, invites, and anything else that is hard to organize. Maximize space with a clear shoe bag. Hang one in her closet or behind the bedroom door and stash small items, like device chargers, jewelry, socks and underwear, belts, and toiletries, for an instant catch-all. Clear is king: If your teen can’t see it, it doesn’t exist. Don’t stop at clear shoe bags! Consider purchasing transparent bins to help your teen remember what he owns and strategize where it goes. Pair like with like. This means storing printer paper, ink, toner, and even batteries together. The fewer places your teen needs to look for things, the more likely she will be able to find what she’s looking for quickly and efficiently.

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Can You Afford to Stay Home? ››

Financial advisors outline what to consider when deciding whether to go back to work or become a stay-at-home parent. By Jacqueline Neber

any new parents wonder if one of them can stay at home with the kids without straining their finances and current lifestyle. There are several factors at play in that decision, including salary, retirement outlook, and plans for education. It’s a stressful analysis, but financial advisors can offer families crucial feedback about the potential consequences of a parent leaving work, and if stay-at-home parenting makes sense for them. Sheraz Iftikhar, a managing partner at Arch Global Advisors in New York City, uses several different metrics to figure out how much time at home families can afford. If one parent stays home, he says, the family should ideally be able to afford the same lifestyle as before. Sometimes staying home with your child is more important than the potential revenue from going back to work, but before making that decision, you must consider all of the variables.

Planning for Retirement

If one parent leaves work, the couple should still be able to contribute the same amount to their retirement fund. Iftikhar says 5-10 percent of disposable income made by a couple between the ages of 30-40 should go into retirement savings; that number should increase by 5 percent for a couple between 40-50. “Now why is that important?” Iftikhar asks. “If you are in your thirties and you’re not able to put away five to ten percent, because now one spouse decides to stay at home, that becomes a difficult decision. Our advice then would be, yeah, you may be able to survive today, but what happens five years down the road and ten years down the road?”

College Tuition

Saving for college is another big issue to consider. Inflation in education is just north of 6 percent for private institution tuition— which means a private college’s current tuition will double in 1213 years. Parents must be aware that if one stops working, they might not be able to save comfortably for their kids’ college. However, parents can take some of the anxiety out of the college situation by talking about what kind of college they are targeting, Iftikhar says. Private tuition can be incredibly expensive and public schools can be much more affordable. In fact, the price disparity is so large, Iftikhar suggests parents make the discussion a priority. Brian Cohen, a principle investment advisor at Landmark Wealth Management in Melville, agrees it’s vital that parents are on the same page about education. Beyond public versus private schools, 44

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both should agree on whether they want to pay for their children’s entire education or make the kids contribute. “What I wanted [my kids] to do is at least have skin in the game. I said, ‘I’ll pay for a SUNY—anything above a SUNY cost is on you if you really want that,’” Cohen says. On the other hand, if parents want to pay the entire tuition cost at whatever their child’s dream school may be, they may not be able to afford to have one parent stay at home. “There are tradeoffs on both sides,” Cohen says.

Re-Entering the Workforce

Chris Congema, a certified financial planner at Landmark, raises another potential consequence of one parent leaving the workforce—it’s difficult to get back into it. “If someone’s going to be leaving the workplace for ten years or five years as they’re raising their children…as technology and time pass them by, do they lose some of the skills that made them employable?” Congema asks. “Do they have to change careers? Will their education still make sense now? Getting back into the workforce can be a challenge after you’ve been out for so long.”

Making Difficult Decisions

Despite these challenges, Cohen and Congema have noticed a shift in how parents are able to continue working and be with the kids by keeping flexible schedules or working from home. They have also seen an increase in stay-at-home dads with moms remaining in the workforce. And they’ve noticed that as couples marry and have kids later in life, they are more aware of the preciousness of watching their kids grow up—and of being around for early milestones. When making the difficult stay-at-home decision, having a financial planner can be vital. At Landmark, Cohen and Congema help couples figure out how much disposable income they have each month, whether they can go without one person’s income, and whether there is any “fat” in their spending that can be cut to mitigate losing one person’s salary. But even when all the numbers are in, some parents will still decide to buck the financial repercussions in order to spend more time with the kids. This is a decision that ultimately only parents can make. As Congema says, “[Spending time with the kids] during this important time when they’re forming a personality and who they will be in the future…that’s something that can’t be overlooked or understated.”

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The (Not-So) Sweet Season ›› One mom’s account of surviving the planning of the epic birthday blowout By Suzanne Bergen

y daughter, Kasey, just had her Sweet 16. That thing sucked up more time and energy than my wedding did. The extravaganza, from what I can tell, is a phenomenon unique to our area and coastal California. Relatives and friends in Florida, Michigan, Pennsylvania, Maryland, Rhode Island, North Carolina, Ohio, and, for that matter, Canada, were all like, “What are you talking about…?” Kasey has been invited to six Sweets (as the girls call them) in as many months, with plenty more in the pipeline. Not a one is what we might remember from our high school days, i.e., a backyard barbecue in summer or a sleepover. Among them was a Vegas Night blowout of 150 guests at country club. Another invitation, to an Under the Sea gala, came wrapped in an aquamarine tulle ribbon adorned with a real sand dollar that had been sealed to keep it from breaking in the mail. Yes, this is all nuts for a seemingly random birthday. But as a mom, you want your kid to have and do what her friends have and do. It’s a hard emotion to resist, even if your brain knows the money could be better spent. Here’s how Kasey’s fete compared to my 1994 wedding: Wedding: The caterer asked what color flowers I wanted on the tables, since they came with the standard wedding package. “Red, I guess, since the bridesmaids are wearing red.” The End. Sweet 16: To come up with the perfect centerpieces for Kasey’s Fashion theme, we evaluated 8,997 Pinterest images. We settled on square glass jars with Chanel labels and a drop of pink food coloring in the water (One drop! Not too dark!) so they look like perfume bottles, but with light pink, white, and blush wildfloweresque flowers in them. No roses. (Even the florist didn’t know the difference between blush and light pink.) I had to go to a craft store to buy the exact right glass jars…well, two craft stores, because the first one didn’t have enough. Then we downloaded and printed out Chanel perfume labels, changing No. 5 to No. 16 (get it?), bought food coloring, and picked up strands of fake pearls to drape over the flowers, because wasn’t Coco Chanel famous for her pearls? After presenting all of this to the florist, he informed me I had to Mod Podge the labels in case water splattered on them. Wedding: I ordered the second dress I tried on. It came in. It fit fine…I didn’t really love the sleeves, but I didn’t want to complain because the lady was nice. The End. Sweet 16: I took Kasey to nine stores over the course of six Saturdays before she found The Dress. These outings were always accompanied by Kasey’s BFF, Molly, who would buzz around fishing out about a dozen dresses she thought Kasey would like.

Kasey wound up trying on eight to 10 of Molly’s dozen at each of the stores, so you do the math. At the end of each exhausting expedition, the three of us were hungry, and given Molly’s undying patience, I felt the least I could do was treat her to the diner. I spent I don’t know how much on diner meals capping off fruitless dress searches, listening to the girls discuss high-level matters (should the boyfriends of Kasey’s friends get their own invitations?). We finally secured The Dress at a shop 50 minutes away, and Kasey needed not one, not two, but three fittings at this far-flung locale. Wedding: The best man gave a short, nice speech. The End. Sweet 16: The candle ceremony, during which the birthday girl recites a short poem in honor of each important person in her life, has more moving parts than 16 candles (Sorry; 17. I kept forgetting the one for good luck). Kasey decided on floating candles, so there were canisters of varying heights. Don’t even ask about the water. A specially decorated candle lighter was needed, as was her name spelled out in big sparkling letters in front of the candles. Then there was the matter of drafting 17 poems that not only, obviously, rhymed, but suitably encapsulated Kasey’s history with and feelings for that person, yet wouldn’t take longer than 45 seconds to recite. One candle had two people attached to it (her Girl Scout co-leaders), so that poem alone took an entire evening to craft. Then the DJ reminded us that Kasey needed to pick a song snippet for him to play as each person was called up. Seventeen song snippets that suitably encapsulated Kasey’s history with and feelings for that person (or Girl Scout co-leaders). I asked one sympathetic veteran mom, “Please tell me it will be worth it?!” She said it would be when I saw how happy Kasey was. She was right. My Kasey was beaming all night long. The restrained, quiet, hard-to-read teen was gone, replaced by a silly, laughing girl, clapping, spinning, and jumping up and down—and not just on the dance floor. The last candle lit that night was for me. Kasey said she saved the best for last and thanked me far more eloquently than I had ever heard her speak. The feeling I couldn’t shake in the weeks running up to the big day, that I had done all this, and she wouldn’t appreciate it, was unfounded. My song snippet was from “Wind Beneath My Wings:” It might have appeared to go unnoticed; But I’ve got it all here in my heart; I want you to know I know the truth, of course I know it; I would be nothing without you. Now I’m among the veterans. Molly’s Sweet is up next. Kasey’s been running around with her dress shopping (payback is…well, you know). Her mom asked if she could use our floating candle canisters. When I dropped them off, she said, “This is a lot!” I said, “Yep…Let me know how I can help. But it will all be worth it.”

Suzanne Bergen is Long Island writer who marked her son’s 16th birthday with bagels and new sneakers.

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