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The Problem with Processed Foods

Are they really that bad for you? + the best local health care providers

SensoryFriendly Shows Inclusive performances in NYC for children with special needs

Kids & Politics

How to get your children interested

HELPING PARENTS MAKE BETTER DECISIONS

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14 Processed Foods 101 16 Health & Wellness Directory

5 Ways to Instill Gratitude in Children

How to encourage your kids to show their thanks all year long, not just during this season of giving

Sensory-Friendly Theater in NYC

A roundup of inclusive performances in New York City for children with special needs

Speed-Clean Your House

Holiday guests are on the way, so make sure you hit these spots when you tidy up.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 The Quiet Child 13 5 Ways to Instill Gratitude in Children 34 Kids & Politics 36 Out and About with Baby 42 Party Central 43 Professional Services and Open Houses 43 Meet the Doctor 44 Preschool Directory and At-a-Glance Chart 45 Party Planner 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Quotables

12 String of Stalactites

38 Stay Safe While Shopping Online

18 Sensory-Friendly Theater in NYC

40 Speed-Clean Your House

22 Family Fun in Manhattan 23 Family Activities Calendar 33 Activities to be Thankful For

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NOVEMBER 2018 • Vol.18 • No.3

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EDITORIAL DIRECTOR: Katelin Walling ASSISTANT EDITORS: Anja Webb, Melissa Wickes DIRECTOR OF CONTENT: Deborah Skolnik

Giving Thanks A

hh, fall. The delightfully crisp weather before Old Man Winter rolls in, the start of the NHL season, and pumpkin spice everything (is my millennial showing?) makes it my favorite time of year. Let me take a minute to introduce myself: I’m NYMetroParents’ new editorial director, though you may recognize my name, as I’ve been with Westchester Parent for almost seven years now. While Deborah Skolnik will return with her editor’s letter next month, I wanted to take advantage of this season of showing gratitude to share what I’m thankful for.

First and foremost, I’m thankful for my health; I’ll bet most of you are as well. While I try to eat a well-balanced diet, I’ll inevitably grab a granola bar as a snack on the go.

Usually I end up thinking I should have chosen an apple instead of a processed treat, but Emma Steven’s article “Processed Foods 101” on pg. 14 tempered my food guilt. She spoke to nutrition experts to get the low down on processed foods and how you can cut back the amount of it your family eats.

I’m also thankful for my best friend who is more like a sister. She’s planning to come stay with me for Thanksgiving, which I’m very much looking forward to. What I’m not looking forward to? Cleaning my apartment before her arrival. That’s why I’m going to take the advice given in Deborah Skolnik’s “Speed-Clean Your House” (pg. 40), in which professional cleaners give pointers on the areas you should tackle in your home first for minimal effort but maximal results. (As someone who isn’t fond of cleaning, I’m also thankful for these tips.)

Family is another thing for which I’m thankful. I have seven nieces and nephews, with one on the way, so I’ll be taking a look at “Out and About with Baby” (pg. 36) for some ideas on what to get the expecting parents in my life. And I know these products are good because local parents recommend their favorite gear to make a day out with the kids as smooth as possible.

I learned that I should express my gratitude to those I’m thankful for in Melissa Wickes’s “5 Ways to Instill Gratitude in Children” (pg. 13), so, dear readers, please know that I’m especially thankful for you.

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Who: Westchester Jewish Center What’s New: ShaJam, a monthly music and movement program that started in October, and Ann Pardes, who was appointed director of the Early Childhood Center in September.

In the style of mommy-and-me classes, the free music and movement program was made possible by a grant from PJ Library, a program of the Harold Grinspoon Foundation. Sessions take place once a month on Thursday mornings from 9:30-10:15am. The next session is scheduled for Nov. 8. For more information on ShaJam, contact Aleza Kulp at educdir@wjcenter.org or 914-698-2960.

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The Larchmont location will offer full-day programs for children ages 3 months to 3 years, Monday-Friday, 7:30am6:30pm, year-round.

The New Rochelle location is now offering after-school programs for kids in kindergarten-first grade. Programs include cooking, yoga, piano, and Adventures in Wisdom life coaching for kids.

The Nurtury offers transportation from Larchmont and New Rochelle public schools to the New Rochelle location for its afterschool programs.

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The Quiet Child ››

How learning what to listen for helped me hear my daughter’s voice

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braced myself for our third grade parent-teacher interview.

By this time, I had come to expect the usual comments from teachers and other adults who came into contact with my daughter. “We wish she would speak up more,” or the slightly accusatory, “We’re wondering if there’s a reason she’s so quiet?” or the cheerier, “We want to get to know your daughter better!” Sometimes well-meaning people try to connect with her, (and use the word I’ve come to strongly dislike), “I was shy like you too, when I was young.”

Since my daughter has been very little, I’ve been perplexed by the assessment made by many of the (again, wellintentioned) adults she encounters. Though in my gut I’ve always known she was fine just the way she is, there was something about her entering school—her first large group setting—that started making me second-guess everything.

My 3am spiral went something like this: Would she actually “grow” out of this? (There was usually an implication that she would, that she should, mature beyond this, that it was at worst some sort of inadequacy, and at best just a phase of growing up.) Maybe she wasn’t comfortable at her current school? Maybe she should be in another environment where the classes were smaller and she received more individual attention, which in turn would make her feel more at ease, which in turn would make her speak out more, which in turn would make her more accepted by her teachers and peers, which in turn would make her life easier? Obviously, this got me nowhere.

Then I picked up Susan Cain’s brilliant book, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking.

Although I thought I knew a lot of what the author wrote about already, the way she broke everything down was a Rosalind Muggeridge lives in Prospect Heights, Brooklyn with her husband and two children.

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By Rosalind Muggeridge

revelation for me. The gist of the book is so-called quiet people (those with introverted tendencies) have calmly gotten down to the business of accomplishing a lot of the real work done in the world: inventions, scientific breakthroughs, brilliant novels, etc. In other words, introversion isn’t a shortcoming that needs to be overcome; it’s simply a type of personality that lends itself to different pursuits—some really useful ones as it happens. The problem is not with people who fall into that category, but with the world we live in that seems to reward and most value the loudest voices in the room.

Now when I’m met with the usual comments about how quiet my daughter is, I try to honor her character without being defensive. I try to emphasize her strengths: She flourishes in very small group settings and loves individual work. I also try to check in now and then to make sure her environment isn’t causing her to withhold at all.

Beyond that, I try not to stress. Now that she and I both have the language and tools to better frame her character, we can do our best to ignore any expectations about how outspoken she needs to be. I can get out of her way, and she can get on with whatever contribution she chooses to make to the world.

It’s the most important lesson I’ve learned as a parent (and one I evidently need to learn over and over): Following your child’s lead is usually the smoothest and happiest way toward growth and development. Obviously, that doesn’t mean feeding her chocolate cake for breakfast when she asks for it or buying her every random can of slime she wants. For me it means learning to stay quiet for a moment, take a beat, and let my kid not do the talking.

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String of Stalactites With the kids home from school for a few days at Thanksgiving, why not take the time to do some hands-on learning? Consider making a craft that gives you and your child an opportunity to spend time exploring science and creating together. Get ready for some parent-child quality time with this experiment from Jonathan Adolph’s “Mason Jar Science!”

You think growing bigger takes a long time? Try being a stalactite. Those drippy columns you see in caves grow just a few inches every thousand years! You can observe how they do it by growing your very own string of stalactite crystals. The best part is, it won’t take a thousand years! (More like a week.) Set up your experiment where no one will touch it, check your drip bowl every day, and watch what happens.

Materials 2 pint-size mason jars Piece of yarn, about 4 feet long Scissors 2 bendy straws Skewer or pipe cleaner

Hot tap water Baking soda, about ½ cup Spoon or other stirrer Food coloring (optional) Bowl for drips

Instructions 1. Fold the yarn in half and twist it together to make a thick strand.

Cut the bendable “elbows” from the straws, leaving about an inch of the straight part on each end. Thread the straws on the yarn, using a skewer or pipe cleaner to push the yarn through.

2. Fill the jars about two-thirds full with hot tap water. Spoon in baking soda, a tablespoon at a time, to each jar and stir to dissolve it.

Keep adding baking soda and stirring until the powder no longer dissolves and instead starts to gather on the bottom of the jar (it should take 3-5 tablespoons for each jar). You’ve created a saturated solution. Add a few drops of food coloring if you want.

3. Set up the jars up as shown, with the bowl between them. Remember: The crystals are delicate and will fall easily if jostled, so set up your experiment in a place where you can leave it for several days.

4. Soak the yarn in the solution, making sure it’s wet all the way through the straws. Hang it between the jars using the elbows to hold it in place as shown. The ends of the yarn must be in the solution and the center of the yarn must be lower than the level of the solution in the jars, forming a drip point.

What to Watch For The solution should start dripping into the bowl right away. You’ll begin to see crystals form after a day or so. Over the next few days, observe how much they grow. When the bowl gets full, carefully pour the solution back into the jars.

Excerpted from Mason Jar Science © by Jonathan Adolph. Used with permission from Storey Publishing. Photo by © Mars Vilaubi

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5 Ways to Instill Gratitude in Children ››

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By Melissa Wickes

ovember is a time when we tend to think about gratitude; your family is likely familiar with the ‘what are you thankful for’ exercise at the Thanksgiving dinner table. But it is vital to instill the importance of gratitude in your children year-round. Alan Daniel Schlechter, M.D., clinical assistant professor at the department of child and adolescent psychiatry at NYU Langone Health, director of outpatient child and adolescent psychiatry at Bellevue Hospital, and instructor of the course The Science of Happiness at New York University shares five ways you can instill gratitude in your children.

Model being grateful. As is the case with most traits you want to instill in your children, the best way to do so is by modeling this behavior.

Dr. Schlechter, co-author of U Thrive: How to Succeed in College (and Life), emphasizes the importance of taking the time to thank the people around you. “Thank [your] waiter... Write handwritten thank-you notes instead of emails to make sure your kids see you doing it,” he suggests.

Play Best, Best, Worst. At Dr. Schlechter’s dinner table, everyone in the family says their two best moments of the day and their one worst. What makes this exercise unique in his house, though, is each family member also states a time someone helped them. “Sometimes the best parts of your day can be when someone else supported you,” Dr. Schlechter says. “If the best part of your child’s day was scoring a goal in soccer, ask ‘who helped you score that goal?’”

Write gratitude letters and journals. Jotting down the things you’re grateful for increases your well-being, according to Dr. Schlechter. So try keeping a family gratitude journal in which each member writes down what they are thankful for. Or encourage your kids to write gratitude letters to those they are thankful for (and let them see you do this, too).

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Point out examples of gratitude. When you’re reading, watching TV, or just going about your everyday life, point out people who do a great job of expressing gratitude to those around them, Dr. Schlechter suggests.

Ask how it makes them feel. Many people get into the habit of saying thank you because it’s the right thing to do. But expressing gratitude toward someone makes you feel happy, and that should be the reason to do it, Dr. Schlechter says. “What you want to do with all of these exercises is make sure that it makes [your children] feel good and that they know it makes them feel good,” he says. Feeling happy when you’re giving gratitude encourages you to keep doing it.

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Experts say it’s okay to eat some processed foods, but the bulk of your diet should consist of whole foods.

Processed Foods 101

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We spoke to nutrition experts to get the skinny on processed foods and your kids’ health, so you can make smart choices in the grocery store. By Emma Steven

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or parents today there is an overwhelming amount of information available on what we should and should not be eating. The everyday job of grocery shopping or planning meals for our families is a maze of choices. One food group we hear a lot about is processed foods, but what exactly are they and why are they bad for us?

First, let’s clear things up. Processed foods are defined as any foods that have been changed before they reach the consumer, according to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics. Unless you grow and raise all of your own food, this means almost everything.

“All foods undergo some level of processing. The level falls on something of a spectrum, from minimally processed to more heavily processed,” says Malina Malkani M.S., R.D., C.D.N., registered dietician nutritionist and spokesperson for AND. “To call all processing unhealthy is a bit of a misnomer.”

Processed foods typically fall into 1 of 5 categories: • Minimally processed: prepared fruits and vegetables, bagged salads, nuts, and coffee • Processed to preserve freshness at harvest: canned food, frozen fruits and vegetables, and jarred purees • Packaged foods with added ingredients to improve vitamin content, taste, color, texture, and shelf life: rice, jarred tomato sauce, and boxed pasta and mashed potatoes • Ready-to-eat foods: soda, cereal, snack foods, deli meats, yogurt, and ice cream • Pre-made meals: toaster pastries, microwave meals, and frozen pizza

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The healthiest foods are whole foods and those on the minimally processed end of the scale. The unhealthiest are the hyper- or ultra-processed foods, which are “foods that really don’t resemble their original state and have a lot of ingredients, a lot of additives,” says Sally Kuzemchak, M.S., R.D., author of The 101 Healthiest Foods for Kids and founder of RealMomNutrition.com.

Low in Nutrients, High in “Bad” Stuff

A high intake of ultra-processed foods has been linked in studies to obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease, and cancer, according to BMJ Open, American Institute for Cancer Research, and National Institutes of Health. “The more heavily processed foods tend to be higher in the nutrients that we want to limit, namely added sugars, sodium, saturated fat, and artificial trans fat,” Malkani explains. “These, when eaten in large qualities over time, do lead to more detrimental health effects.” Yet because these foods are convenient and taste good, we eat a lot of them.

A 2016 study published in BMJ Open revealed that ultra-processed foods make up more than half of Americans’ diets. The same study found that as we eat more of them, we consume fewer essential nutrients (protein, fiber, vitamins, and minerals) and more added sugar, salt, carbohydrates, and saturated and trans fats overall.

Because they contain very little protein, fiber, and whole grains, ultra-processed foods can be unsatisfying. This means you eat more than you should, and are more likely to go over the recommended daily allowance of salt, sugar, and saturated and trans fats.

The Hidden Additives

In July 2018, the American Academy of Pediatrics made a statement warning of the dangers to children of chemicals from additives, colorings, preservatives, and packaging of many processed foods. These include artificial colors in foods, preservative nitrates (found in processed meats), and BPA, phthalates, PFCs, and perchlorate in packaging.

“There are critical weaknesses in the current food additives regulatory process, which doesn’t do enough to ensure all chemicals added to foods are safe enough to be part of a family’s diet,” said Leonardo Trasande, M.D., M.P.P., F.A.A.P. “As pediatricians, we’re especially concerned about significant gaps in data about the health effects of many of these chemicals on infants and children.”

Small Steps, Big Impact

Experts suggest doing the following to reduce the amount of processed foods you and your children eat: Choose the products with the fewest ingredients. “The lower the amount of ingredients, usually the better,” says Natalie Monson, R.D.N., C.D., registered dietitian and co-founder of Super Healthy Kids. Anything with a long list of ingredients you cannot pronounce means it’s ultra processed.

Pick whole grains. Even if the front of the package says whole grain, check the ingredients for refined or enriched flours. These are white flours stripped of their nutritional value.

Read the ingredients list. “Ingredients are listed in descending order by weight. If you look at the first three and they are white flour and sugar, then you know that these are going to predominantly make up the food,” Malkani says.

Avoid artificial colorings. Studies have linked them to behavioral problems in some children. While the effects aren’t seen in all kids, there are plenty of natural options.

Don’t eat processed meats, especially when pregnant. Unless marked nitrate-free, nitrates—a known carcinogen—are used as preservative.

Check how much of the recommended 2,300mg of sodium a day a product contains. “The vast majority of our sodium comes from processed foods and restaurant foods, only ten percent comes from the salt shaker,” Kuzemchak says.

“A quick tip is to compare grams of sodium and calories,” says Bridget Murphy, R.D.N., registered dietitian at Hassenfeld Children’s Hospital, NYU Langone. “If a food has more grams of sodium than calories, it’s probably very salty.”

Beware trans fats, which are listed as hydrogenated or partially hydrogenated oils. Since the U.S. Food and Drug Administration announced in 2015 that trans fats were “not recognized as safe,” food companies are being forced to remove them. But it will be several years before all of the foods that contain those oils disappear from circulation. If a product has 0.5g of trans fat or less per serving, manufacturers can round down to zero, so it’s important to look at the ingredient list, not just the nutrition label.

Look for added sugar. Government dietary guidelines recommend consuming no more than 10 percent of our daily calories from added sugars. There are many different names for sugar, including natural sounding ingredients such as honey and maple syrup. By 2021 manufacturers will have to list added sugars on labels to make it easier for us to identify them. To keep your daily consumption on track, a trick is to remember that 4 grams equals 1 teaspoon. Children should only be eating 6-11 teaspoons a day, depending on their age.

A good rule? Choose processed foods that are higher in fiber and protein, and lower in sodium, sugar, and saturated fat, Malkani says.

Finding a Balance

think you should have hard rules surrounding foods. There are different options that are definitely healthier for us. Try to eat the majority of your foods as whole foods, but you really can’t avoid processed foods,” Monson says.

A practical tip is to use Murphy’s 70-30 rule. “If seventy percent of our food is high antioxidant food, so high protein, good vegetables, lots of vitamins and minerals, then [it] will be able to take care of the thirty percent of the ‘bad’ diet,” she says.

By feeding your family nutrient-dense foods you’ll automatically reduce the amount of processed foods they eat, without having to obsess. “All meals and snacks should have a variety of the main food groups,” Monson suggests. “A grain, a fruit or vegetable, and a protein. If you do that it becomes less of a big deal because they are getting that other nutrition.”

Remember: Every day doesn’t need to be perfect. It’s all about creating a healthy food environment at home, not banning foods.

“Ultra-processed foods are everywhere and kids need to exist in a world that has them because they’re not going to go away,” Kuzemchak says. “Denying your kids sets them up to want them even more. When they have their own money in their pocket, when they have some freedom, they’re going to seek out those foods. There is research to back up that for certain children, if you deny them certain types of food, when you present them with those foods then they will overeat them. ” As Pulitzer Prize-winning investigative reporter Michael Moss said in his book, Salt Sugar Fat: How the Food Giants Hooked Us: “They may have salt, sugar, and fat on their side, but we, ultimately, have the power to make choices. After all, we decide what to buy. We decide how much to eat.”

Emma Steven is a British writer living in Manhattan with her husband, two kids, and two cats.

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3 Huntington Quadrangle, Melville 866-621-2769 alliedphysiciansgroup.com The more than 120 physicians that comprise Allied Physicians Group are among the top pediatricians throughout Long Island, New York City, Westchester County, the Hudson Valley, and beyond. When you bring your children to an Allied pediatric practice, you know they are getting the very best care. Our doctors have access to resources, technology, and support that other stand-alone pediatric practices simply cannot offer.

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Serving the tri-state area 631-420-4444 berkshirefarm.org Many children in our communities are placed in foster care due to an unhealthy environment. For the emotional and psychical well-being of a child, it’s important that children who come into care be placed in an environment in which their needs can be met. Currently, Berkshire Farm Center is looking for families to open their homes and hearts to children in need. We work as a team to plan for a successful stay in foster care and to help children reach their goals of returning to a safe, healthy environment, or becoming available for adoption.

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Psychology for Growth, P.C. The Institute for Children with Autism and Related Disorders Inc.

646-831-0378 icawestchester@gmail.com The Institute for Children with Autism and Related Disorders Inc. was founded in 2000.

With offices in Riverhead, Melville, and White Plains, ICA’s mission is to provide state-of-thescience consultation directly to students, their families, and the school districts and community agencies that serve them. Presently, ICA is working with the majority of school districts on Long Island, and several in Westchester County, providing technical assistance and training to administrators, educators, and related staff.

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914-619-3360 psychforgrowth.com Psychology for Growth, P.C., provides comprehensive psychological evaluations of children and adolescents. Dr. Elizabeth Donovan is a licensed clinical psychologist and certified school psychologist with more than 15 years of experience working with children, adolescents, and families. She is passionate about identifying your child’s strengths and weaknesses, and equipping you with knowledge and recommendations for success. Dr. Donovan has post-doctoral specialization in evaluating autism and developmental delays, learning differences, and social-emotional challenges, as well as counseling and behavior support training. Evening and weekend hours are available in Harrison.

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145 Huguenot St., Suite 200, New Rochelle 914-235-1400 pasw4kids.com Pediatric Associates of Southern Westchester provides quality, comprehensive health care for ages newborn to 21. We are recognized at the highest level of distinction by the National Committee for Quality Assurance as a Patient Centered Medical Home practice.

Our physicians are affiliated with Montefiore New Rochelle, and Albert Einstein College of Medicine/Montefiore Children’s Hospital.

We accommodate same-day sick visits, have extended hours, and Saturday morning hours.

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Our practice is designed specifically for your child’s comfort. The open bay treatment areas, child-friendly themes, and parent-friendly atmosphere are designed to enhance your family’s dental experience. We take pride in caring for our community by providing high quality, conveniently accessible, compassionate oral health care in a nurturing environment. Dr. Benjamin Dancygier and team specialize in laser treatment of tongue, lip, and buccal ties to help newborn and infants overcome breast-feeding issues. Visit valleypediatricdentistry.com or call 914-245-7100 for more information.

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Participants will receive a clinical evaluation and report, as well as compensation up to $350. To learn more, contact Erin MacDonnell at autism@ yale.edu or 203-737-3439.

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FROZEN: the Musical will perform its sensory-friendly show Sunday, Nov. 4; tickets are currently on sale at tdf.org/autism.

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or families affected by autism or sensory sensitivities, going to see a show or theater production can seem impossible. The good news is many top venues in NYC are now trying to be more accessible and inclusive. We found the best autism- and sensory-friendly shows for the 2018-2019 season at New York City theaters and venues. The list includes Broadway shows, kids’ theater and music, the circus, and those famous blue men! Buy your tickets soon, as these shows tend to sell out.

TDF

This nonprofit aims to bring the performing arts to everyone, regardless of their special needs. Its autism-friendly season of Broadway shows is now in its eighth year. Each show is performed in a fully supportive environment, with adaptions to noise and light where possible. Fully staffed quiet and play areas are provided in the lobby for anyone who needs to leave their seats. Tickets sell out quickly and can only be purchased via tdf.org/autism.

Sign up early to get alerts when the tickets go on sale, at a discounted price of $55-$80.

These are full-length Broadway shows, so may not be suitable for younger kids.

FROZEN: the Musical When: Sunday, Nov. 4, 1pm Where: St. James Theatre, 246 W. 44th St., Times Square Theater District Ages: 8 and older What: The Broadway version of the Disney movie you know and love.

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Aladdin When: Sunday, March 3, 2019, 1pm Where: The New Amsterdam Theatre, 14 W. 42nd St., Times Square Theater District Ages: 6 and older What: The award-winning show about a genie and a magical lamp (and other things).

Lerner and Loewe’s My Fair Lady When: Sunday, May 5, 2019, 1pm Where: The Vivian Beaumont Theater, 50 Lincoln Center Plaza, Upper West Side Ages: 8 and older What: A lavish revival of a beloved musical.

Autism Speaks

This nonprofit has partnered with two shows this fall to offer adapted productions. It also has a national calendar of autism-friendly events on its website (autismspeaks.org).

Big Apple Circus When: Saturday, Oct. 27, 11am

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Where: Damrosch Park, 60 Lincoln Center Plaza, Upper West Side Ages: All What: The famous circus will come back to Lincoln Center! This show will feature modifications to sound and lighting, a calming/break out area, trained staff, fidgets, signage, and earplugs. Information about the show is available before you go.

Tickets: $25 and up Blue Man Group When: Saturday, Nov. 3, 2pm Where: Astor Place Theatre, 434 Lafayette St., East Village Ages: 7 and older What: This version of the unique show will be calmer, with less audience interaction, and sound and light modifications. Earplugs and a calming zone in the lobby will be available.

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Elizabeth Donovan, Ph.D., is passionate about identifying your child’s strengths and weaknesses, and equipping you with recommendations and stategies for success.

Comprehensive psychological evaluations for children and adolescents, providing knowledge and support for families Autism & Developmental Delays

Dr. Donovan a is a licensed clinical psychologist and certified school psychologist with over 15 years experience working with children, adolescents, and families.

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One of the first venues to offer autism-friendly shows every season, this children’s theater offers lots of support to parents and kids. There are break out zones, trained staff, show information, family bathrooms, help with transitions, and fidget toys.

Tickets: $25; visit newvictory.org or call 646-223-3010 for more information. 209 W. 42nd St., Times Square Theater District.

Beauty and the Beast When: Sunday, Nov. 4, 11am Ages: 6 and older What: A re-telling of the familiar story with a Jazz Age score.

Circus Abyssinia: Ethiopian Dreams When: Friday, Dec. 14, 7pm Ages: 5 and older What: The New Victory’s circus show is always a crowd pleaser.

Emily Brown and The Thing When: Saturday, Jan. 26, 2019, 3pm Ages: 4-7 What: Musical adventure based on the much-loved book.

Ajijaak on Turtle Island When: Saturday, March 2, 2019, 7pm

Ages: 7 and older What: Aongs, puppetry, and dance tell the tale of a whooping crane facing her first migration.

Lincoln Center

There are a few shows on this venue’s schedule that are adapted for neuro-diverse audiences.

Adjustments have been made to sensory stimuli, and there are no restrictions to sound, movement, leaving, or re-entering the theater. Tickets: $25; visit lincolncenter.org or call 212-721-6500 for more information; Clark Studio Theater, 165 W. 65th St., 7th Floor, Upper West Side.

9 When: Sunday, Nov. 4, 11am Ages: 6 and older What: The popular Quebecois dance company’s show about Beethoven’s Ninth Symphony.

You and Me and the Space Between When: Sunday, March 17, 2pm Ages: 6-12 What: An adventure using storytelling, choreographed projections, and live-drawn animation.

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Offering ongoing training and support to school staff and district personnel on the principles of applied behavior analysis and the hands-on implementation of positive behavior supports. We collaborate with school personnel to guide the functional behavior assessment process and develop behavior intervention plans in compliance with New York State regulations.

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With the goal of creating successful, positive, long lasting behavior change across environments, we gladly support families in the home and community settings.

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Celebrate 90 years of Mickey Mouse’s influence on art and pop culture in an immersive experience that explores the Disney icon’s status as an anything-but-mousy muse. The exhibit will feature historic and contemporary artwork, and highlight Mickey’s contributions to fashion, commerce, media, and beyond—one of the first pieces of Mickey merchandise, a wristwatch from the Ingersoll-Waterbury Company, was so popular it helped save the company from bankruptcy! See it and more at Mickey: The True Original Exhibition. Nov. 8-Feb. 10, 2019, Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-8pm. Age: All; no strollers. $38; free for children 3 and younger. 60 Tenth Ave., Chelsea. disney.com.

Macy’s Great American Marching Band is comprised of the country’s finest highschool musicians, accompanied by nearly 40 flags and dancers.

The Ultimate Turkey Trot

Everyone’s favorite Thanksgiving tradition is back! The 92nd Annual Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade promises its awe-inspiring classic balloons—Charlie Brown, the Macy’s Stars, and more—plus marching bands, performers, floats, and clowns. Arrive early to snag a spot with a view, or turn your TV to NBC and watch in your PJs. Keep an eye out for some new additions, including the Three Baby Dinos ballonicles and the newly designed Tom Turkey float. Nov. 22, 9am-12pm. Age: All. FREE. Central Park West and 77th Street, moving south via Central Park South and Sixth Avenue, to Macy’s Herald Square on 34th Street. macys.com/parade.

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Mickey: The True Original Exhibition follows the 90-year history of Walt Disney’s little mouse that danced, sang, and waved his way to an empire.

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This exhibition explores the traditions of folklore and magic at the heart of the Harry Potter stories.

New-York Historical Society

Established in 1804 as New York’s first museum, the New-York Historical Society aims to educate visitors about the history of New York and America. Its DiMenna Children’s History Museum is the first history museum in the U.S. designed for kids, and it features interactive exhibits, games, and programming for toddlers to teens.

Visit it: 170 Central Park West, Upper West Side; nyhistory.org; 212-873-3400 Can’t-miss event: Harry Potter: A History of Magic; through Jan. 27, 2019: See website for hours.

Directions: Approximately a 45-minute drive or a 1-hour, 30-minute Metro-North and subway ride from White Plains.

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This 1912 American-LaFrance Tractor-Steamer, a coal-fired steam engine, was dubbed “Old 93” upon its retirement in 1933 when it was used as a parade vehicle.

New York City Fire Museum

Located in the former quarters of Engine Company No. 3, this museum takes you through the history of firefighting by displaying techniques, equipment, and more. Climb on a fire truck for the perfect Instagram photo or visit one of the permanent exhibits.

Visit it: 278 Spring St., Hudson Square; nycfiremuseum.org; 212-352-3117 Can’t-miss event: NYC Fire Museum Cook Off; Thursday, Nov. 8, 6pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive or a 1-hour, 15-minute Metro-North and subway ride from White Plains.

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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Night at the Museum Family Benefit

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 9, 5-7:30pm WHERE: Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Drive, Greenwich, CT AGES: All WHAT: Children can explore the galleries in their pajamas, go on a scavenger hunt, and participate in craft projects. Proceeds from the event will benefit the Bruce Museum’s children’s education and scholarship program.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This year’s Night at the Museum will have a tool theme inspired by the museum’s current exhibition ReTooled: Highlights from the Hechinger Collection.

WANT TO GO? $85; $30 children; free for children younger than 3.

203-505-9897. brucemuseum.org.

Fall Forest Weekends

WHEN: Nov. 3-11, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Visitors can explore the Thain Family Forest and enjoy a birds of prey demo, take a tour of the Forest, or go for a canoe ride.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a great chance to explore New York City’s largest remaining old-growth forest.

WANT TO GO? $28; $12 children ages 2-12. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

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The Big Bad Fox and Other Tales

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WHEN: Nov. 17-18, Saturday-Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Jacob Burns Film Center, 364 Manville Road, Pleasantville AGES: 5-12

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WHAT: Underneath the gags, the stories offer a sensitive portrayal of family and the anxieties of modern life.

WHY WE LOVE IT: If you go on Saturday, you can join for a 5- to 10-minute discussion following the film.

WANT TO GO? $14; $7.50 children ages 13 and younger. 914-747-5555. burnsfilmcenter.org.

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Celebrate Party Showcase FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 12-4pm WHERE: Westchester Marriott, 670 White Plains Road, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: From DJs and favors to invites and decor, you will find everything you need for the perfect celebration. Sample food, try games, meet DJs, and find the perfect logo and decorations for your party.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Vendors will also offer exclusive discounts to attendees!

WANT TO GO? $10 at the door; free if you pre-register online.

646-652-7512. celebrateshowcase.com.

Random Farms Kids’ Theater Presents ‘High School Musical’

WHEN: Nov. 7-20, see website for show times WHERE: Tarrytown Music Hall, 13 Main St., Tarrytown AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Basketball team captain and resident jock, Troy, discovers that the brainy Gabriella, a girl he met singing karaoke on his ski trip, has just enrolled at East High.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This production features kids in third-eighth grades, and is good for audiences as young as 3 years.

WANT TO GO? $10-$14. 877-840-0457. tarrytownmusichall.org.

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The Wizards of Winter: Featuring Former Members of The Trans-Siberian Orchestra

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 23, 8-10pm WHERE: Paramount Hudson Valley Theater, 1008 Brown St., Peekskill

AGES: All WHAT: The Wizards of Winter perform a holiday rock opera titled “Tales Beneath a Northern Star.”

WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids and adults alike will enjoy stunning stage theatrics and the amazing string instrumentation, percussion, and keyboard work of the 12-member ensemble.

WANT TO GO? $40 and up. 914-739-0039. paramounthudsonvalley.com.

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WHEN: Through Nov. 24: See website for schedule WHERE: Van Cortlandt Manor, 525 S. Riverside Ave., Croton-on-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: Meander through an 18th-century riverside landscape and see a display of jack-o’-lanterns.

WHY WE LOVE IT: What better way to celebrate fall than a thousand hand carved pumpkins?

WANT TO GO? $22-$27; $16-$20 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. 914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

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Family Art Project: Natural Weavings for Harvest Time

WHEN: Nov. 24-25, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Weave fall materials together to create a decorative wall hanging celebrating the bounty and beauty of the season.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It will make for a beautiful centerpiece for your Thanksgiving feast.

WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Twilight Tours

WHEN: Nov. 23-Dec. 9, Saturday-Sunday, 3:30-7pm WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: All WHAT: With the mansion lit by candles, decorated for a 19th-century Christmas, and resonating with live string music, Twilight Tours offer an especially beautiful view of Boscobel House and Gardens.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Stick around for a post-tour reception in the gorgeously decorated gallery, live holiday music in the Visitor Center, and a reimagined Design Shop.

WANT TO GO? $26, $16 children; free for children younger than 5.

845-265-3638. boscobel.org.

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Westchester’s Winter Wonderland

WHEN: Nov. 23-Dec. 31, Thursday, 5-9pm; FridaySaturday, 5-10pm; Sunday, 5-9pm WHERE: Kensico Dam Plaza, 1 Bronx River Parkway Road, Valhalla AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the season with ice-skating, rides, a holiday circus, magic shows, a musical light show and Christmas tree, and a Santa experience!

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a fun, festive night out on the town for the whole family.

WANT TO GO? $18-$20; free for children 3 and younger. 914-2314600. wwinterwonderland.com.

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the seven no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Nature Origami FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 10, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Cranberry Lake Preserve, 1609 Old Orchard St., West Harrison AGES: All WHAT: Create your very own frogs, fish, and flowers out of paper.

WANT TO GO? 914-428-1005. parks.westchestergov.com.

Sensory Friendly Storytime with Miss Paulene FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 13, 10am WHERE: Andersons Larchmont, 96 Chatsworth Ave., Larchmont AGES: 3-8 WHAT: A special story time for children with autism and their caregivers.

WANT TO GO? 914-834-6900. andersonsbooksny.com.

Pajama Shabbat FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 16, 5:30pm WHERE: Temple Sholom, 300 E. Putnam Ave., Greenwich, CT AGES: 3-5 WHAT: This spirited introduction to Shabbat features singing, dancing, and storytelling.

WANT TO GO? 203-869-7191. templesholom.com.

Stamford Downtown Parade Spectacular FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 12pm WHERE: Stamford Downtown, Summer, Broad, and Atlantic streets, Stamford, CT AGES: All WHAT: This is one of the largest helium balloon parades in the country, featuring balloon characters, marching bands, and floats.

WANT TO GO? 203-348-5285. stamford-downtown.com.

Thanksgiving Story Craft FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 1-3pm WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 NY-100, Katonah AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Listen to a Thanksgiving story followed by a craft activity.

WANT TO GO? 914-864-7282. sawmillriveraudubon.org.

Saw Mill River Audubon Turkey Mountain Hike FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 23, 9-11am WHERE: Turkey Mountain Nature Preserve, Locke Lane, Yorktown Heights AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Walk off your Thanksgiving feast with a 2-hour hike up Turkey Mountain.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-6503. sawmillriveraudubon.org.

Babies & Bagels FREE

WHEN: Through May 21, 2019: Tuesdays and Thursdays, 9:15-10:30am WHERE: Temple Israel Center, 280 Old Mamaroneck Road, White Plains AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Share breakfast, converse with other parents, and listen to speakers on topics including sleep issues, nutrition, dealing with in-laws, and separation.

WANT TO GO? 914-948-2800. templeisraelcenter.org. ››

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Family Art Project: Local Birdies for Wave Hill House

WHEN: Nov. 10-11, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Make bird drawings with colored pencils, oil pastels, and templates.

WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Zoo Tots

WHEN: Nov. 13-14, Tuesday-Wednesday, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Beardsley Zoo, 1875 Noble Ave., Bridgeport, CT AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: This program may include theme-related songs or games, live animals, and a simple craft.

WANT TO GO? $10-$15. 203-394-6565. beardsleyzoo.com.

ANIMAL LOVERS Tales for Tails FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 12pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children are invited to read to a specially trained dog.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

National Bison Day

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 9am-4pm WHERE: Beardsley Zoo, 1875 Noble Ave., Bridgeport, CT AGES: All WHAT: Learn more about America’s largest mammal.

WANT TO GO? $15; $11 seniors; $12 children ages 3-11; free for children younger than 3. 203-394-6565. beardsleyzoo.com.

Bears, Coyotes, and Bobcats - Oh My! FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 4, 4-5pm WHERE: Lewisboro Library, 15 Main St., South Salem AGES: Adult WHAT: Staff discuss why we are seeing more wildlife in our backyards and what to do should you encounter a wild animal.

WANT TO GO? 914-875-9004. lewisborolibrary.org.

Seaside Center’s Fred Elser First Sunday Science Series: Greenwich Shellfishing FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 4, 1:30-4pm WHERE: Bruce Museum Seaside Center, 10 Tods Driftway, Greenwich, CT AGES: All WHAT: Join the Greenwich Shellfish Commission to learn how to harvest your own clams and oysters in local waters.

WANT TO GO? 203-413-6756. brucemuseum.org.

‘Wild Life’: Carnivores of Rockefeller State Park Preserve FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 11: daily, 9am-4:30pm WHERE: The Art Gallery at Rockefeller Preserve, 125 Phelps Way, Pleasantville AGES: All WHAT: This multimedia exhibit features photographs by 10 photographers, trail camera images, lifelike mounted animals, and a touch table.

WANT TO GO? 914-631-1470 x107. eventbrite.com.

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KINDNESS CRUSADERS A Taste of Westchester

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 12, 6:15pm WHERE: Renaissance Westchester Hotel, 80 W. Red Oak Lane, West Harrison AGES: Adult WHAT: Cerebral Palsy of Westchester presents an evening filled with food, wine, desserts, a silent auction, and raffle.

WANT TO GO? prices vary. 914-937-3800 x353. cpwestchester.org.

Freezin’ For A Reason: 9th Annual Westchester Polar Plunge FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 17, 10am-12pm WHERE: Glen Island Park, Weyman Avenue, New Rochelle AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Help raise money for the athletes of Special Olympics New York by asking those around you to support you in taking the plunge.

WANT TO GO? 212-661-5217. events.nyso.org.

Share The Warmth Clothing and Toiletries Drive FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 19: Monday-Wednesday, 9:30am-6pm; Thursday-Sunday; 9:30am-8pm WHERE: Westchester Broadway Theatre, 1 Broadway Plaza, Elmsford AGES: All WHAT: Clothing in new or nearly new condition and unopened toiletries are being collected to benefit two great organizations: Midnight Run and Vietnam Veterans Of America.

WANT TO GO? 914-592-2222. broadwaytheatre.com.

Good Deed of the Month Club

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 24, 11am-12pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Head to the Book Nook for a kindness-themed book reading and discussion followed by a good deed project.

WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 914421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Christmas Tree Sale FREE

WHEN: Nov. 23-Dec. 23, Friday, 4-8pm; Saturday-Sunday, 9am-6pm WHERE: North White Plains Firehouse, 621 N. Broadway, North White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Find your family’s holiday tree at this annual sale and fundraiser for the firehouse.

WANT TO GO? 914-949-3575. ncsfd1.com. ››

Tim Kubart & the Space Cadets Kid’s Concert

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 3

Musical Theater Technique & Audition Prep Workshop/Masterclass

Elf Interactive Movie Screening SATURDAY, DECEMBER 8

with Derek Klena & Lindsay Mendez MONDAY, NOVEMBER 26

Visit www.chappaquapac.org for registration and tickets Presented by Standing Ovation Studios and Soups On Entertainment

SPECIAL PRICING: $50 per workshop

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SHOW TIME! The Symphony of Westchester All-Romantic Concert

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 10, 8pm WHERE: Christopher J. Murphy Auditorium, 715 North Ave., New Rochelle AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Cellist Inbal Segev will open the Symphony of Westchester’s 22nd concert season.

WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 914-654-4926. thesymphonyofwestchester.org.

MOVERS & SHAKERS HRM Teen Night: Glow Party

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 2, 5-8pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Enjoy glow-in-the-dark activities, art projects, and glow fashion.

WANT TO GO? $4. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Riverlovers Pot Luck and Movie FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 16, 6:30-8:30pm WHERE: Croton Point Nature Center, 1 Croton Point Ave., Croton-on-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: Join for a potluck supper followed by a presentation of What Darwin Never Knew.

WANT TO GO? 914-862-5297. riverlovers.org.

‘Taylor 2’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 4, 8:45am and 9:30am WHERE: Green Chimneys, Clearpool Campus, 33 Clearpool Road, Carmel AGES: 5-17 WHAT: The 5K course has just about every type of terrain. Kids can enjoy a one-mile “Fun Run.” WANT TO GO? $10-$50. 845-279-2995. greenchimneys.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 17, 8pm WHERE: Academic Arts Theatre at Westchester Community College, 75 Grasslands Road, Valhalla AGES: 9 and older WHAT: TAYLOR 2 introduces the athleticism, humor, and range of emotions found in Paul Taylor’s work.

WANT TO GO? $24; $22 seniors and students; $18 children younger than 13. 914-606-6567. sunywcc.edu/smartarts.

Toddler Time with Ms. Tee FREE

‘Mary Poppins, Jr.’

Conquer the Forest Trail Run

WHEN: Through Nov. 7: Wednesdays, 11am WHERE: Port Chester-Rye Brook Public Library, 1 Haseco Ave., Port Chester AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Parents and children will participate with finger plays, songs, stories, musical instruments, and other parent-child activities.

WANT TO GO? 914-939-6710. portchester-ryebrooklibrary.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 11am and 1:30pm WHERE: The Emelin Theatre, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: All WHAT: See Artistree’s production of Mary Poppins, Jr. for a supercalifragilisticexpialidocious time!

WANT TO GO? $25-$30; $20 students. 914-698-0098. emelin.org.

Pizza Bingo Night

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 16, 5:45-7:15pm WHERE: C.C. Pieragostini Multipurpose Room, Leonard Park, Mount Kisco AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy socializing with friends while playing bingo and eating pizza.

WANT TO GO? $25. 914-666-3059. mountkiscony.gov.

WHEN: Nov. 16-18, Friday-Saturday, 7pm; Sunday, 3pm WHERE: Irvington Town Hall Theater, 85 Main St., Irvington AGES: All WHAT: Catch this local production of CATS. WANT TO GO? $20; $15 students and seniors. 914-591-6602. broadwaytraining.com.

Thunderbird American Indian Dancers Perform

Carnival of the Animals

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 1-2pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: This immersive and educational performance will feature traditional music, dancers, and stories.

WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 3pm WHERE: The Performing Arts Center at Purchase College, 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase AGES: All WHAT: Circa’s acrobats bring the music to life for a new generation of circus, music, and animal lovers.

WANT TO GO? $30 and up. 914-251-6263. artscenter.org.

Budding Buddha’s Yoga for Tots FREE

‘James and the Giant Peach’

WHEN: Through Nov. 28: Wednesdays, 11-11:30am and 11:30-12pm WHERE: The Westchester Mall, 125 Westchester Ave., White Plains AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Stay active and have fun doing yoga exercises.

WANT TO GO? 212-252-8881. simon.com.

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Broadway Training Center of Westchester Presents: ‘Cats’

WHEN: Nov. 17-25, see website for schedule WHERE: Yorktown Stage, 1974 Commerce St., Yorktown Heights AGES: All WHAT: A delightfully offbeat adaptation of the Roald Dahl classic.

WANT TO GO? $19-$26. 914-962-0606. yorktownstage.org.

Sunday Cinema @ the TROVE FREE

WHEN: Nov. 11-25, Sundays, 2pm WHERE: White Plains Public Library, 100 Martine Ave., White Plains AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This month’s movies include WALL-E and A Wrinkle in Time.

WANT TO GO? 914-422-1476. whiteplainslibrary.org.

‘The Very Hungry Caterpillar’

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 27, 4-5:30pm WHERE: The Palace Theatre, 61 Atlantic St., Stamford, CT AGES: 3-8 WHAT: This production features 75 lovable puppets.

WANT TO GO? $15.30-$32. 203-325-4466. palacestamford.org.

1940’s Radio Hour

WHEN: Nov. 30-Dec. 2, Friday, 8pm; Saturday, 2pm and 8pm; Sunday, 7pm WHERE: Arc Stages, 147 Wheeler Ave., Pleasantville AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This play transports the audience back in time.

WANT TO GO? $28; $22 seniors and students. 914-747-6206. arcstages.org.

CRAFTY KIDS

Contact The Program Director

Origami

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Hammond Museum, 28 Deveau Road, North Salem AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Learn to make origami pieces.

WANT TO GO? $5; free for children younger than 12. 914-669-5033. hammondmuseum.org.

Shape Painting

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 6, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Help your little one learn shapes and colors.

WANT TO GO? $10. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Open Studio for Kids

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 15, 3:45-4:45pm WHERE: Neuberger Museum of Art, 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids can make art inspired by the landscapes of Georgia O’Keeffe.

WANT TO GO? $15. 914-251-6100. neuberger.org.

Teen Paints

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 17, 5-7pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Inspired by the surrounding landscape, paint a Hudson River scene.

WANT TO GO? $5. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Westchester County Center

White Plains

December 14−16

$29 General $23 Children/Seniors (Ages 10 and under, 60+) $23 Groups of 20+ $33 Day of Performance All ticket prices include the WCC $2.00 ticket fee

Trash to Treasure FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 27, 4-5pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids can make a fun craft using recycled materials.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com. ››

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Thanksgiving Craft FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 20, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Give thanks with a fun Thanksgiving craft!

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Holiday Kick-Off

WHEN: Nov. 23-24, Friday and Saturday, 12-5pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Create art, listen to stories and enjoy a dance workshop.

WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors; $4 children ages 3-18; free for children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Festival of Laser Light

HOLIDAY FUN Gan Shabbat Services FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Bet Torah Nursery School, 60 Smith Ave., Mount Kisco AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: This interactive introduction to Shabbat songs, stories, and prayers is followed by a kid-friendly Kiddush of refreshments WANT TO GO? 914-666-7595. bettorah.org.

Diwali: A Celebration of Light FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 4, 2-4pm WHERE: White Plains Public Library, 100 Martine Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: A program with stories and traditional Indian dances to celebrate the triumph of good over evil.

WANT TO GO? 914-422-6989. whiteplainslibrary.org.

Thanksgiving Paper Mache Pumpkin

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 6, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Creative Corner of Larchmont, 7 Addison St., Larchmont AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Paint a paper mache pumpkin and decorate it for your Thanksgiving table.

WANT TO GO? $40. 914-630-0051. creativecornerlarchmont.com.

Thanksgiving with Beethoven FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 10, 3:30pm WHERE: Philipse Manor Hall, 29 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the spirit of Thanksgiving with crafts, snacks, Beethoven, and the Rivertown String Quartet.

WANT TO GO? 914-965-4027. rivertownstringquartet.org.

Fall/Thanksgiving Story Time, Activities, and Movie FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 16, 4-6pm WHERE: Andersons Larchmont, 96 Chatsworth Ave., Larchmont AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy stories, music, and activities followed by Thanksgiving Movie Night. Please bring a pet item to be donated to the Humane Society.

WANT TO GO? 914-834-6900. andersonsbooksny.com.

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WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 25, 4pm WHERE: White Plains Performing Arts Center, 11 City Place, White Plains AGES: All WHAT: The Hanukkah story becomes a duel of light beams.

WANT TO GO? $25; $20 children ages 12 and younger. 914-328-1600. wppac.com.

Special Chanukah Stories in Motion Program FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 30, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Andersons Larchmont, 96 Chatsworth Ave., Larchmont AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Music, stories, activities, and dancing. Please bring a new, unwrapped toy to be donated to Blythedale Children’s Hospital.

WANT TO GO? 914-834-6900. andersonsbooksny.com.

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Chappaqua Craft and Gift Fair FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 17, 10am-4pm WHERE: Robert E. Bell Middle School, 50 Senter St., Chappaqua AGES: All WHAT: Admire the work of more than 80 local artisans.

WANT TO GO? chappaquacraftfair.com.

3rd Annual Holiday Market FREE

WHEN: Nov. 23-24, Friday, 11am-5pm; Saturday, 10am-4pm WHERE: Ossining Public Library, 53 Croton Ave., Ossining AGES: All WHAT: A chance to meet and shop directly from local artisans and makers.

WANT TO GO? 914-941-2416. ossininglibrary.org.

Reptile Expo

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 25, 9am-4pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: More than 150 breeders will sell live reptiles, amphibians, and arachnids.

WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 7-12; free for children younger than 7. 845-526-4845. reptileexpo.com.

Baseball Card Show

WHEN: Nov. 23-25, Friday, 1-7pm; Saturday, 10am-5pm; Sunday, 10am-4pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Peruse autographed and game used inserts, modern and vintage cards, factory and hand collated sets, and set fillers for new or old sets.

WANT TO GO? $10; free for children 12 and younger. nyshows.org/ show-calendar.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Owl Talk and Owl Prowl FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 7-9pm WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 NY-100, Katonah AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Watch a short multimedia introduction and review of the owls of New York followed by a night walk to listen and look for owls.

WANT TO GO? 914-864-7282. sawmillriveraudubon.org.

Family Art Project: Dances with Leaves

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WHEN: Nov. 3-4, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Toss fall leaves in the wind or walk through a giant leaf pile.

WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

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Lewisboro Library’s Teen Adventure Hike

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 6, 10am-12pm WHERE: Ward Pound Ridge Reservation, Route 121, Cross River AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Hike to the cave where the Leatherman lived.

WANT TO GO? $10. 914-875-9004. lewisborolibrary.org.

Family Farm Tour

WHEN: Through Nov. 9: Saturday-Sunday, 11:15am-12pm WHERE: Stone Barns, 630 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Explore the farm and look at the animals and the vegetable gardens.

WANT TO GO? $10. 914-366-6200. story.stonebarnscenter.org.

Family Tour: Making Hudson Memories?

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 10, 2:30pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Interact with What is Missing by Maya Lin and the environmental gallery to discover Hudson River species.

WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors; $4 children ages 3-18; free for children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Soccer may be over but we’re just getting started!

Summer Geocache Challenge: Treasure Hunt FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 11: daily, sunrise to sunset WHERE: Rockefeller State Park Preserve, 125 Phelps Way, Pleasantville AGES: All WHAT: Embark on a real-world, outdoor treasure hunting game while hiking with your family.

WANT TO GO? 914-631-1470. geocaching.com.

It’s not too late to register!

Family Nature Walk

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 11, 1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join a family-friendly walk through the gardens.

WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Saw Mill River Audubon Third Sunday Walk FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Pruyn Sanctuary, Woodmill Road, Chappaqua AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Meet up for a family-friendly walk.

WANT TO GO? 914-666-6503. sawmillriveraudubon.org.

Pro-rated tuition, Ages 2 & up!

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SMARTY PANTS World War I and Veterans Day Commemoration FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 10, 11am-3pm WHERE: St. Paul’s Church National Historic Site, 897 S. Columbus Ave., Mount Vernon AGES: All WHAT: The ceremony will be followed by laying of wreaths and cemetary tour.

WANT TO GO? 914-667-4116. nps.gov/sapa.

Science Sunday

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 11, 11:30am and 1:30pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Learn about science!

WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1.

914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Mad Science FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 15, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids can join for some fun science experiments and challenges.

WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Thematic Tour: John Jay and John Adams

WHEN: Nov. 1-17, Thursday-Saturday, 2-3pm WHERE: John Jay Homestead, 400 Jay St., Katonah AGES: All WHAT: Take a tour of Bedford house focused on John Jay and John Adams.

WANT TO GO? $10; $7 seniors and students; free for children younger than 12. 914-232-5651. johnjayhomestead.org.

Engineering for Kids and their Parents FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Cranberry Lake Preserve, 1609 Old Orchard St., West Harrison AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Work as a team with your child to create engineering feats out of nature that challenge young minds and inspire big goals.

WANT TO GO? 914-428-1005. parks.westchestergov.com.

Family Gallery Tour

WHEN: Nov. 4-25, Sundays, 11:30am-12:15pm WHERE: Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Drive, Greenwich, CT AGES: 5-12 WHAT: An interactive, discussion-based tour of the museum’s exhibitions.

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 seniors and students; free for children younger than 5. 203-869-0376. brucemuseum.org.

Young Discoverers: Can Turkeys Fly?

WHEN: Nov. 7-28, Wednesdays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Hear the story Airplanes by Lois Lenski, and make an airplane.

WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1.

914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Exploring Play: Let’s Fly!

WHEN: Nov. 2-30, Fridays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Children will name things that fly, read a story, then play a game.

WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1.

914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Bruce Beginnings, Jr. FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 13: Thursdays, 9:45-10:45 am WHERE: Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Drive, Greenwich, CT AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: An experience through hands-on play and exploration.

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 seniors and students; free for children younger than 5. 203-869-0376. brucemuseum.org.

Coming up next month: DEC. 1: The Laurie Berkner Band in a Holiday Celebration Concert at Tarrytown Music Hall, Tarrytown DEC. 5-13: Holiday Tea Musicale at Caramoor Center for Music and the Arts, Katonah DEC. 21-JAN. 13, 2019: Disney’s Beauty & the Beast at White Plains Performing Arts Center, White Plains

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While you’re celebrating Thanksgiving, be someone else’s reason to give thanks by volunteering with the kids. And with the leaves finally changing, now is a perfect time to venture into the great outdoors and go leaf peeping with your family. On days when it’s a bit too chilly to hit the trails, round up the kids for an exciting evening of laser tag, an indoor activity that’s sure to beat any cabin fever boredom. However, if you’re on a budget, fear not! Check out our complete guide to finding when to visit the museum for free!

LEAF PEEPING Fort Tryon Park Just off Margaret Corbin Circle near 190th Street, Washington Heights, Manhattan 212-795-1388; forttryonparktrust.org Fort Tryon Park is most known for being the home of The Met Cloisters museum. However, during the fall, the 67-acre park, with some of the highest points of elevation in all of Manhattan, offers families spectacular foliage views. The most notable feature of the landscape is the 3-acre Heather Garden, which provides panoramic views of the Hudson River. In addition to the vibrant autumn leaves, the garden also offers blooming trees, shrubs, vines, bulbs, and showy fruits.

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VOLUNTEERING The Grove at Valhalla 61 Grasslands Road, Valhalla 914-681-8437; thegroverehab.com The Grove at Valhalla provides long term care and short term rehab for seniors. Parents and kids ages 14 or older can volunteer to help with board games, computers, painting and crafts, sharing stories, performing music, and visiting 1-on-1. Parents must accompany children younger than 16. Hebrew Hospital’s volunteer team has a comprehensive base of therapeutic recreation activities and an active group of residents who participate daily, and your help is needed to keep activities helpful, engaging, and fun.

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hen I was in sixth grade, my middle school held a mock election during the George W. Bush vs. Al Gore election in 2000.

Leading up to mock Election Day, social studies teachers taught the student body about the democratic process and educated us on the candidates’ political stances, so we could make well-informed decisions. While I don’t remember which candidate I voted for or who won the mock election, I do remember the anticipation my class buzzed with as we waited for the principal to announce the winner.

That was my first experience with politics. And while participating in my school’s mock election didn’t inspire me to pursue a career in politics, it, and the actual election’s hotly contested outcome (ultimately decided by the Supreme Court of the United States), cemented the importance of doing my civic duty. I knew that once I turned 18, I needed to register and vote in elections to make my voice heard.

I have since voted in three Presidential elections. The 2016 election cycle was the most contentious (but you don’t need me to tell you that) because how we consumed and shared information had evolved.

With the breakneck pace at which media is being shared and the tumultuous political landscape of today, how can we ensure our children will be well-informed, active participants in democracy?

Encourage an Informed Interest

Regardless of where you live, how much money you make, or what your career is, politics impact your day-to-day life whether you know it or not, says Anil R. Beephan, Jr., a town councilman at-large in East Fishkill in Dutchess County; he is a representative for a New York state senator for Dutchess and Putnam counties, and an active county committee member. He knows first-hand how politics and government can affect lives. As a first-generation American, Beephan watched his parents, who are from Trinidad and Tobago, go through a difficult immigration process. “I always thought that one day I’d like to get involved in government and see what it’s like to maybe 34

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help fix that process,” he says. Participating in government club in high school and the 2012 election solidified his interest in politics.

James Kuntz, a junior at the Dalton School in Manhattan, credits the 2016 election for his interest in politics. “There was something about the election cycle that really drew me to it, and I think it was also my age,” he says. “I was 13, 14 years old leading up to the election, so I was beginning to find my own interests and politics happened to be one.” That interest led him to found Teens in Politics, an organization to help teens find political internships in the NYC area.

Another reason Kuntz says he founded Teens in Politics? He says he’s noticing a lot of political apathy in his generation, and “it’s a real problem for democracy.” So how can you prevent that political indifference in your tweens and teens?

Read with your kids. From an early age you can encourage an interest in civics by reading political- and activism-related books to your children. Try reading Voting with a Porpoise, written by Rock the Vote board member Russell Glass and children’s book author Sean Callahan, which brings the election process to life under the sea. If You’re Going to a March, by Martha Freeman, illustrates what kids can expect if they’re attending a march with their parents.

For the elementary school set, Eleanor Roosevelt’s When You Grow Up to Vote explains how the government works for the people—from the police officers in your town all the way through the role of the SCOTUS—and instills the importance of voting in kids. Originally published in 1932, after Franklin D. Roosevelt was first elected as President, this book was updated and re-released in September.

Tweens and teens can read denser books, such as biographies about presidents, nonfiction works about history, or any of the number of recently released books about the current political environment.

Take them with you, Beephan suggests. If your kids are 18, carpool to the polls on Election Day, and if they’re not yet old enough to vote,

they can still see democracy in action. Considering attending a march or rally for an issue you feel passionately about? Bring your kids along (even if they’re young) and explain what you’re marching for, why you’re marching, and how it makes you feel to participate. After all, modeling a behavior for your children is the best way to instill it.

Watch the news together and talk about it. Kuntz and Beephan both suggest you start doing this when your kids are in elementary school. You should “really explain to them why [following current events] is important, what’s going on, and try to inform them at a very early age about the real facts behind each story and what’s going on in the media and government itself,” Beephan advises.

You can do the same with newspapers or credible online news sites. After all, encouraging an interest in following the news and current events fosters a curious intellectual mindset in children, Kuntz adds. And if listening is more your family’s style, there are a host of political and current event podcasts available.

Encourage your teen to pursue an internship. “If you’re in high school, you’re at an age where you can take internships at the state senate, state assembly, or congressional offices, or even help out at the local town level,” Beephan says.

Kuntz, who is a member of his district’s congressional youth cabinet, aims to make finding an internship in politics easy for teens: “I’m very interested in politics myself, and when I was looking for opportunities to get involved in politics—volunteer opportunities and internships specifically—I didn’t find any place where the information was centralized,” he says. “The only way that somebody my age would be able to find those opportunities would be to look at individual members of the city council or state assembly or state senate.”

“You can also get involved with the political party when you’re in high school, more so you could even actively participate in campaigns,” Beephan adds. If your teen knows which party she identifies with, encourage her to research internship opportunities with the New York Democratic or Republican national committees.

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Volunteer for a campaign together. If you’re introducing your younger children to politics or you and your teen agree on a party or candidate, find opportunities to put your boots to the ground.

Canvas neighborhoods and knock on doors to talk to other voters or sign up for a shift to make calls for a candidate.

In fact, Beephan says high school students have become more and more involved in campaigns. “It actually makes a difference because, when you’re at the door, people notice when a kid takes an interest in an issue, and it kind of makes them think twice. They question: aren’t you a little too young to be at the door?” he says. “But when a kid actually justifies why they’re there, why they’re doing what they’re doing, it kind of reinvigorates the person to pay more attention to what’s going on. I think kids sometimes underestimate the impact they have in the political realm, even if they can’t vote.”

Toe the Line

When encouraging an interest in politics, remember to let your teens form their own opinions. “I think it’s vital for the parent to not force their opinions on their kids,” Beephan says. “Trust that your kids are able to make a conscious decision on which side of the aisle they’d like to sit on certain issues.” Urge your teens to read opposing views of the same issue so they can figure out their own opinions.

And if your teen aligns with a different political party than you?

“I think it’s actually a good thing because being in an environment where your views are being questioned strengthens your own opinions and forces you to reconsider things with a more critical lens,” Kuntz says—a perfect opportunity to bolster your teen before he heads out into the world on his own.

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We asked the experts—all New York-area parents—to weigh in and everyone agreed: To have the best exploration experience you need to be ready for every scenario. Whether they shared their favorite products or just a little bit of advice that worked for them, these parents are enthusiastic about the benefits of exploring, baby in tow. Read on for their tried-and-true tips.

Take a Fun Walk Outside

With the weather changing and cool mornings on the horizon, you want to dress your baby in clothing that’s versatile and adapts to a chilly morning followed by bright midday sun, says Allison Chiaramonte, a real estate agent at Warburg Realty and mom of two kids.

“When I’m out and about with my kids I usually have a long list of errands,” she says. “This means we are constantly in and out of houses, offices, and stores. When it’s cold outside this can cause problems, but I have found the best thing ever for my son—a cute winter jacket with a hood. Easy on and off with the hood means I don’t have to keep track of where he left his hat, which he rips off as soon as we get inside. Also the jacket distracts from the fact I sometimes take him out in PJs when we are having one of those mornings!”

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of ‘what-if’ supplies makes a day outside a win-win. “I always pack a big park blanket folded tightly and placed at the base of my stroller—we opted for the Bugaboo Bee5 because it’s lightweight for the city,” she says. “I make sure to pack my Munchkin Arm & Hammer diaper disposal bags because as long as I have them I have somewhere to put a dirty diaper.”

Ride the Subway—and Bus

Public transportation is not only a quicker way to get from place to place, it offers its own share of amusement for kids of all ages.

But being prepared for the journey is ultra-important.

Loving the ride is half the fun, says Heath Fradkoff, a Brooklyn dad whose 2-year-old son, Hugh, adores public transportation. “Hugh has a little wooden MTA bus and subway car. When he plays with them he shouts, ‘Please exit through the rear door’ and ‘Stand clear of the closing doors, please,’ respectively,” he says.

As for gear, Fradkoff is a fan of his trusty Maclaren Triumph umbrella stroller. “It’s good on stairs, and it folds up easily so we can quickly get it out of the way of other passengers,” he says. For walks around town, Fradkoff has another fave method of toting Hugh.

“During the spring and fall weather I love taking Hugh around in an Osprey backpack,” he says. “This keeps my hands free to walk the dog or run errands and Hugh likes the higher vantage point.”

Marisa Pincas, who lives on the Upper East Side with her 2-yearold son, is also a big fan of taking public transportation for jaunts.

“My husband and I travel all over the city with our son,” she says.

The key to a smooth trip: a lightweight, easily foldable stroller. “New York City buses require you to fold up a stroller and, while I find most New Yorkers will help you carry a stroller up and down the stairs, it can be a real challenge if it’s just you and your child!” Pincas says.

All the more reason she suggests mapping out your route first.

“This way you can make sure you know how you will exit—escalator, stairs, or elevator. I also suggest making sure that the elevators are working before heading out, especially if you have an infant or a larger stroller that you can’t easily fold or carry,” Pincas says. (This information can be found at web.mta.info/mta/eles.html.)

Also, Pincas suggests parents always leave themselves extra time when traveling on the subway. “This way you can account for navigating the corridors in search of those elevators,” she explains. “I’ve forgotten to do this in the past and have missed my train out of Penn!”

In the end, the best tip might just be this: Be sure to take along plenty of hand sanitizer and baby wipes. “Pediatricians advise parents to avoid public transportation until your baby is at least two months,” Zak says. “After the two-month mark, we were happy to take the subway. We just made sure to cover our son’s hands with sanitizer.”

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Every parent we spoke to agreed: You’re better off going to dinner early-bird style, say, before 6pm or whenever the dinner rush commences. In addition, distraction is key when taking baby to breakfast, lunch, or dinner at your favorite restaurant. This becomes more and more important the older your little one gets.

“Always come prepared with toys or coloring books to keep them occupied,” Pincas says. “When you are waiting for a meal to arrive, having something for my son to focus on has saved me and my fellow patrons from witnessing a meltdown.”

Another way to plan ahead: Make sure the restaurant is actually baby- and/or child-friendly. “For example, some bars don’t let babies in past a certain hour or at all,” Zak says. “As a young mom I often take my son with us when we meet up with family or friends for a drink. We’ve taken him to plenty of bars/rooftops during the day and have had no problem doing so. Recently, however, when some family was in town we attempted to walk into a bar that had a strict ‘no baby’ policy. While at first we were offended on behalf of our baby, after reconsidering it we realized that after a certain hour this is as much for his safety as it is for the convenience of the patrons.”

No matter the restaurant you plan to dine in, bringing snacks will save the day, Chiaramonte adds. “It may seem counterintuitive to bring food to a restaurant, but this ensures there are no hunger-induced tantrums while waiting for your food!”

And believe it or not, it’s never a bad idea to opt for outdoor seating and have an escape route should the meal go south, Zak adds.

“Look for tables that are spacious and have easy access to head out the door in case your baby gets cranky,” she says. “Also, at any point, be okay with the fact that you may have to abandon your plans and get your food to go.” No matter what, you’ll have gotten a bit of fresh air—and had an adventure you can laugh about.

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Stay Safe While Shopping Online ›› Hackers and cyber-scams can spoil your holiday. Experts share what you need to know before you click “buy.” By Anja Webb

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hen I was in high school, one of my friends bought a prom dress online. She had never heard of the company before, but the dress was hundreds of dollars cheaper than retail value, and the photo in the advertisements looked beautiful. She took her parents’ debit card and bought the discount “designer” gown without telling anyone. When it finally arrived in the mail weeks later in a package from China, she was overjoyed. But once she put on the dress, her excitement quickly turned to disappointment: The fabric was cheap and poorly cut, and the dress fit her like a trash bag despite the precise measurements she had sent the company. The “Swarovski” crystals were nothing more than cheap, poorly adhered rhinestones. My friend had been the victim of an online shopping scam, and her parents had to pay the price.

Unfortunately, this isn’t an isolated incident. With Cyber Monday (the Monday after Black Friday, which falls on Nov. 26 this year) becoming one of the biggest days for online shopping, it’s important to know how to recognize Internet shopping scams and phishing, or the act of stealing private information through viruses or malicious computer codes. What may seem like the perfect gift for a great price could very easily be a sneaky way to rob you. And the methods of fooling people are getting more and more creative.

So how can you avoid these schemes and keep your family safe?

Here are a few things to look for when shopping online to help you recognize shady sites and keep your information private.

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Be Leery of Links

“You should never, ever trust a link in an email,” says Eric Cole, Ph.D., a consultant, author, and former CIA employee with more than 30 years of experience in cyber security. “[People] get an email from a store that says, ‘Hey, we have a seventy-percent-off sale, but it’s only good for the next two hours. Click on the link below to take advantage of it.’ And they’re so excited about the sale they never look at the link very closely.”

If you do get an unfamiliar email, “click on the name in the ‘sent from’ box to view the actual email address,” suggests Justin Lavelle, chief communications officer of BeenVerified, an online background check platform. “If you don’t recognize the sender, your best bet is to not open the email, period, and never click on a link, attachment, or file within.”

And, as obvious as it sounds, “if it seems to good to be true, it is,” says Alex Krush, a development operations engineer at Royal Bank of Canada. Finding $100 discounts or deals that are significantly below market value is a huge red flag, as are those 2-hour sales.

These incredible deals are a means of luring in customers to a shady site. “More than not, an item that has an incredibly low price tag or out-of-the-world features is probably part of a scam,” says Alayna Pehrson, manager of identity theft content for BestCompany.com, a consumer-review data company. You might think you’re saving money, but the potential savings are never worth the risk.

Learn to Spot Suspicious Sites

Of course, this is the season when some legitimate retailers do offer sweet deals. How do you know if the offer (and seller) you’re looking at is on the level? There are a few other factors to be wary of when visiting a potentially sketchy site. “If you think the website lacks some design skills, has a disorganized layout, and/or has several grammar and language mistakes, then you should probably not purchase anything from it,” Pehrson says. It’s important to keep in mind that retailers will care about their aesthetic, but a scam site likely won’t.

Dr. Cole advises you to “make sure you’re using an up-to-date browser that’s verifying the digital certificate of the site.” Most modern browsers will let you know if something is secure. On Chrome, there will be a green lock next to the URL; that’s an indicator that your information going in a secure manner, and it’s verifying and validating the digital certificate of that site to give a higher level of trust, Dr. Cole says. In other browsers the lock may be yellow or appear as a key.

If your Internet browser doesn’t have an icon to indicate security, “Look for ‘https’ in the website address,” says Jacob Lunduski, a financial industry analyst for Credit Card Insider, a site that helps people find the right credit card for their finances. “This means the website is ‘secure’ and provides credibility when purchasing an item.”

Think Twice About Third-Party Sellers

What if you’re shopping from a big company like Amazon? Even though the distributor is trusted, some of the retailers that operate on the site might not always be legitimate. For Amazon purchases, look out for third-party sales that are neither sold nor fulfilled by Amazon.

“When you click on an item it will tell you whether you’re buying it directly from Amazon or if it’s going through a third party,” Dr. Cole says. “Anytime you’re buying things from a third-party, your credit card is now being charged and sent to that third-party, and if they’re not legitimate…they could easily be able to steal your information.”

If you’re determined to purchase something from a third-party vendor, there are a few things you can do to minimize your risk. “Always read descriptions and reviews when possible,” Krush says. Predominantly bad reviews are a sign that something is fishy. And good reviews can be faked, so Will Geddes, author of Parent Alert, recommends you be wary of “a small number of short, generic, and positive reviews all posted within a short period of time and from the same country.”

Also try to check how long the retailer has been a vendor on Amazon. “If they’ve been a retailer for Amazon for five years, that’s probably an indicator that they’re somewhat legit,” Dr. Cole says.

Be Careful with Your Credit

Even if you take all possible precautions, fraud and identity theft are still possibilities. The reason for this is simple: Every day, hackers are getting better and better at what they do. “The number one thing families can do is to utilize a separate credit card just for online purchases that has a small balance,” Dr. Cole advises. “If fraudulent activity occurs or if it gets stolen, now all you have to do is get a new card and you don’t have to worry about if you’re using that card for bills.”

There are other good reasons to use a credit card for your online shopping. “With credit cards, the liability is with the credit card provider. With debit cards, the liability is with you,” Dr. Cole says. Additionally, it’s important to note that “credit cards offer many purchase and fraud protections where you’ll have time to report and manage the fraud before your bill is due,” Lunduski says. “With a debit card, fraudulent purchases leave your account immediately, causing you to have to work with your bank to get your money back.”

When it comes to safety features, you should always “go to your credit card’s website or call them, [and] turn [these features] on,” says Dr. Cole, who personally receives text messages every time his card is used. If somehow your credit card is compromised, he recommends that you activate this feature, so you can stay informed at all times.

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Speed-Clean Your House Holiday guests are on the way! Learn the pros’ secrets for tidying your home in a hurry.

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Even if you were a neat freak before you had a family, chances are these days you struggle to stay ahead of dirty laundry, strewnabout shoes, and that somehow-always-sticky refrigerator door handle.

You’ve probably made peace with a certain level of chaos (mostly because you have no choice). But how about when guests are coming over? Before you hit the panic button—or bolt the door—read on. We asked two cleaning authorities to explain how you can get your house company-ready in a rush.

Pre-Cleaning Plan of Attack

Conceal the clutter. Your first step is to put away all the jumbled-up stuff in any rooms your company might glimpse. “Hide the shoes, hide the coats, and take out any boxes from deliveries,” says Ann Harasim, owner of Ann’s Cleaning Service in New York City. In the kitchen, clear the countertops. Everything will instantly look better.

Concentrate on areas where guests will go. “If you’re in a jam and you need to do things quickly, you need to prioritize the most important spaces,” says Jennifer Gregory, marketing director of Molly Maid, a cleaning service with branches throughout the New York metropolitan area. Usually, after your initial de-cluttering, that means attacking the foyer, living room, kitchen, and bathrooms.

Foyer and Living Room

Freshen up the furniture. “Take a barely-damp microfiber cloth and wipe it down. It will catch any hair and debris, and does a re-

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ally good job of removing the dust from intricate carvings,” Gregory says. (She advises against furniture polish: “It tends to grab dirt faster and make it stick to the furniture,” she explains.)

Address areas above your eye level. “People tend to look around at where their height is [as they clean]. They forget to look up,” Gregory warns. Using a high duster, skim the place where the walls meet the ceiling, making sure to dust ceiling fans and light fixtures.

Fold and fluff. “If you have any blankets in the living room, make sure they’re folded,” Harasim says. Fluff up non-woolen throw pillows and smaller throw rugs by placing them in the dryer with a clean tennis ball and drying them on low for 5-10 minutes, Gregory recommends.

Shine up mirrors, windows, and glass-framed photos and paintings. Give them a quick once-over with a slightly damp microfiber cloth, Gregory says, or use a microfiber cloth and Molly Maid’s DIY cleaner: 1 gallon of water, ½ cup white vinegar, ½ cup rubbing alcohol, and about 2 squirts of Dawn dish detergent. For photos that aren’t covered in glass, dust them with an unused large paintbrush.

Dust the mantle. Use a microfiber cloth to dust the fireplace mantle (if you have one) and any knick-knacks that you keep on it. Clear away any wood debris in front of the fireplace, and if there’s tile in front of the hearth, make sure it’s dusted, mopped, and dried. If you have a gas fireplace, use your microfiber cloth to clean the outside.

Don’t forget the floors. Vacuum or sweep them, then mop them with a microfiber mop. “We use a little bit of degreaser—about a

quarter-cup of all-purpose cleaner in a gallon of water—as long as the floors are sealed. If not, use plain water,” Gregory says.

Kitchen

Remove the trash. Put out the garbage and recycling, Harasim says.

After that, “remove your stovetop burners, fill your sink with hot water and dish soap, and put your stove burners in that water and let them soak while you start moving around,” Gregory advises.

Work your way around the room. Clean the stovetop with a microfiber cloth and a degreaser, Gregory says. Then wipe down the countertops with a microfiber cloth and a solution of half white vinegar and half water, working your way around the room. (If your countertop is granite, simply use water or a cleaner specially formulated for this use.)

As you go, put away and straighten up any utensils and cookbooks.

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Fix up the fridge front. Move any magnets and other things on your refrigerator’s door or sides and then wipe down the front with your microfiber cloth and the vinegar-water mixture. Make sure you also wipe down any ledges formed by the doors and handles, Gregory adds.

Scrub the stovetop burners. Dry and replace them on the stove.

At that point the refrigerator will have dried, so you can (neatly) replace anything usually kept on the door or sides, Gregory says.

Mop the floor using a microfiber mop and a ¼ cup of degreaser mixed with a gallon of water, or just water for unsealed floors, Gregory says.

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one’s coming with their kids,” as they may pose a safety hazard.

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Focus on the floor. Remove all items from the floor, and shake any throw rugs in the hallway, just hard enough to remove dust and debris, Gregory says. Vacuum or sweep the floor quickly. Next, use a dampened microfiber mop on the floor. After the floor has dried a bit, replace the trashcan and rugs and vacuum the hallway.

Extra-Credit Cleaning

Got a little time left over? If you live in a house, go outside and “walk up [to your home] the way your guests would walk, and remove anything your guests would find,” Gregory suggests. Make sure your pathways are cleared (and salted, if it’s snowy or icy out). Use an outdoor broom to sweep the walkway and clear away any cobwebs. Clean the storm door and sidelight windows with glass cleaner and a microfiber cloth.

“If you have time, you’ll want to clean the bedroom along with the rest of the house,” Gregory says. “Worst case, shut the door, but absolutely make the bed.” That way, if anyone stumbles in, they’ll get an overall impression that—kids and all—you keep a tidy home.

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917-903-1451 amyrosencookingbydesign.com amyrosencookingbydesign@gmail.com Have a cooking party for your child’s next birthday. From Cupcake Wars, to Chopped Style parties, to Pizza Creations, to chocolate melting, molding, and decorating, your kids will enjoy the fully hands-on experience.

CLOWNS.COM

Proudly serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000; 718-971-5862 clowns.com We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.

DAVE’S CAST OF CHARACTERS

914-235-7100 davescast.com Make your party a special one! Dave’s entertainment services include more than 100 costumed characters. From princesses and super heroes to pirates and tea parties, there’s something for everyone.

BIRTHDAY GIFTS GIRL AGAIN 4 Martine Ave., White Plains

free parking at the Seasons garage 914-358-1460 girlagain.com girlagain@yesshecaninc.org Girl AGain is a resale boutique for gently used American Girl dolls and books which make great birthday gifts!

‘TILLY...A DEER’S TALE’ 914-764-5564 tillyadeerstale.com Tilly...A Deer’s Tale is about a real deer that lives in upstate

New York and faces challenges after an accident. This powerful story is meant to inspire children living with physical challenges or limitations. The book makes a great birthday gift!!

PARTY PLACES A-GAME SPORTS 856 Main St., New Rochelle

914-278-9477 agamesports.net info@agamesports.net A-Game Sports offers a variety of birthday party packages for children of all ages. Each 90-minute party includes supervised playtime with two coaches on a private section of turf.

ARTISTREE PERFORMING ARTS 114 W. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck

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FUNFUZION AT NEW ROC CITY 29 LeCount Place (Exit 16 off I-95), New Rochelle

artistreearts.com jeanette@artistreearts.com Artistree Performing Arts creates amazing birthday parties for children ages 1-12. Have your party in our beautifully renovated studio or let us come to you with just the entertainment.

Party Central: 914-637-7575, option 1 funfuziononline.com Calling all birthday superstars! You and your guests will be dazzled by a unique, interactive party experience!

BACH TO ROCK MAMARONECK 130 Mamaroneck Ave., Mamaroneck

GREAT PLAY OF SCARSDALE Interactive Gym for Kids

914-341-1457 mamaroneck.b2rmusic.com mamaroneck@bachtorock.com Looking for a fun birthday party at a reasonable price? We have three different parties: Rock Star, Karaoke, or Rock City, for an unforgettable experience!

BRONX ZOO TREETOP ADVENTURE Bronx River Parkway at Boston Road

347-308-9021 bronxzootreetop.com bztreetop@wcs.org Celebrate your special occasion with an outdoor aerial adventure. Climb, balance, swing, and zip through the trees on a variety of unique elements like ropes, bridges, and spider webs. Choose from a variety of party packages designed for all abilities.

969B Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-713-3470 greatplay.com/scarsdale Our award-winning, high-energy parties are spectacular events in our amazing Interactive Gym™. We customize each party based on your child’s interests, using some of our most popular Great Play games.

GYMCATS GYMNASTICS AND BIRTHDAY PARTY CENTER Alyssa Fay, gymnastics and birthday party director

CENTRAL PARK DANCE 450 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale

1 Odell Plaza at Equalize Fitness, Yonkers 914-965-7676 gymcats.net We are famous for our unique private birthday parties. Our enthusiastic, interactive staff will have partygoers laughing and yelling as they swing on rings, jump, bounce, climb, and roll through our super obstacle course.

CHELSEA PIERS CONNECTICUT

Boston Post Road and Weaver Street, Larchmont 914-834-1069 hommocksparkicerink.org Have your birthday party on ice! Host your next special party at the coolest place in town, Mamaroneck’s popular enclosed Hommocks Park Ice Skating Rink.

914-723-2940 centralparkdance.com centralparkdance@gmail.com Have the birthday party of your dreams! Choose from Fairytale Ballet, Hip-Hop, and Fun-n-Fit party games. We provide a beautifully decorated studio, a separate space to serve food, paper goods, and an experienced, professional staff.

1 Blachley Road, Stamford, CT 203-989-1100 chelseapiersct.com/birthday info@chelseapiersct.com Birthday parties at Chelsea Piers are action-packed! Options include gymnastics, dance, basketball, volleyball, soccer, T-ball, ice-skating, ninja warrior, gaga, and water slides! New is an inflatable obstacle course and bounce house party option!

CREATIVE CORNER OF LARCHMONT 7 Addison St., Larchmont

914-833-2880 creativecornerlarchmont.com creativecornerlarchmont@gmail.com Creative Corner is the perfect place to celebrate a birthday!

Art party options include wood toys, treasure boxes, canvas bags, ceramic piggy banks, and canvas paintings. We will help every step of the way.

DANCE CAVISE STUDIOS 273 Halstead Ave., Mamaroneck

914-381-5222 dancecavise.com joe@dancecavise.com; jamie@dancecavise.com Be our guest at a Dance Cavise birthday party where your child and friends will feel like stars. The birthday “star” and friends will dance, sing, and play, under the supervision of trained instructors.

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ISG GYMNASTICS

Annie Pipia and Joann Distler, directors 151 Crotona Ave., Harrison 914-835-0010 isggymnastics.com ISG is a fun-filled, unique way to celebrate a birthday complete with trampoline, balance beams, bars, vault, tumbling, and air castle. All ages, 1 through teens. Age-appropriate programs and equipment. Fun for all!

JODI’S GYM

25 Hubbels Drive, Mount Kisco 914-244-8811 244 E. 84th St., Manhattan 212-772-7633 jodisgym.com Kids run, jump, climb, tumble, slide, bounce, and giggle to their hearts’ delight at Jodi’s Gym, where action-packed parties and unmatched experience have won children’s hearts for 34 years.

LIL CHAMELEON

29 Elm St., Tuckahoe 914-346-5148 lilchameleon.com Come party with Lil Chameleon! Book our Silver or Gold package and choose from truly unique experiences in our bright and stylish space.

THE LITTLE GYM

777 White Plains Road, Scarsdale 914-722-0072 tlgscarsdaleny.com 2121 Broadway, 2nd Floor (between 74th and 75th streets), Upper West Side, Manhattan 212-799-1225 tlgupperwestsideny.com 207 E. 94th St. (between Second and Third avenues), Upper East Side, Manhattan 212-787-1124 tlguppereastsideny.com 28 Franklin Turnpike, Waldwick, NJ 201-445-4444 tlgwaldwicknj.com A private party at The Little Gym is a perfect way to celebrate your child’s next birthday.

Gymnastics, games, obstacle courses, trampoline, sports, and music are tailored to your child’s interests!

MSQUASH ACCELERATOR

23 Waterfront Place, Port Chester 1-844-MSQUASH (677-8274) msquash.com; info@msquash.com Join us for a fun-filled birthday party, with interactive sports games and happy faces as we learn about emotions in a fun, cool way!

MUSICAL MUNCHKINS 167 Scarsdale Road, Tuckahoe

914-771-7000 musicalmunchkins.com Musical Munchkins is the perfect birthday party activity for babies through age 5!

Enjoy group drumming, funny favorite singalong songs, and fabulous dancing scarves!

PINE BROOK FITNESS

130 Rhodes St., New Rochelle 914-636-1019 pinebrookfitness.com Pine Brook Fitness, awarded as “Westchester’s Best Multi-Sport Family Fitness Facility,” provides a fitness experience for you and your family and an exciting venue for birthday parties.

SPORTIME USA

380 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-2111 x2 sportimeusa.com Birthday parties? That’s our specialty! Celebrate your birthday at Sportime USA, the coolest place to have a party in Westchester.

STUDIO B DANCE CENTER

277 White Plains Road (entrance on Prospect Avenue), Eastchester 914-793-2799 studiobdance.com Each party at Studio B is uniquely designed to give the birthday child an exciting, personalized experience. Boys and girls ages 2 and older enjoy dancing and playing games to their favorite music.

WESTCHESTER CHILDREN’S MUSEUM

100 Playland Parkway, Rye 914-421-5050 discoverwcm.org; info@discoverwcm.org Places to build, explore, and discover, the Westchester Children’s Museum is Westchester’s newest, most creative place for birthday parties! Have the museum’s exhibits, MakerSpace, and party room to yourself—our parties offer exclusive use of the museum space when the general public has gone home.

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DENTISTS & DENTAL PROVIDERS BRIARCLIFF PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY

Dr. Renuka Bijoor 325 S. Highland Ave., Briarcliff Manor 914-762-4151 briarcliffpediatricdentistry.com Laser technology in our office has changed the way your children receive dental care.

No more shots or drills! Cavities can be treated with ease in no time. Please call for a free consult.

FOSTER CARE & ADOPTION BERKSHIRE FARM CENTER AND SERVICES FOR YOUTH

Serving all of Westchester County 631-420-4444 berkshirefarm.org Berkshire Farm Center & Services for Youth helps children find safety and comfort in the homes of foster parents.

Become a foster parent and give the gift of family!

LICE CLINICS OF AMERICA: WESTCHESTER

9 Freight Way, Scarsdale 914-996-4315 liceclinicswestchester.com Lice Clinics of America will remove lice in just one hour! All lice and eggs—even Super Lice— are eliminated in a single, 1-hour treatment.

Affordable treatments, no toxic chemicals.

TUTORS & TEST PREP EYE LEVEL

Eye Level of Rye Brook 27 Rye Ridge Plaza, Rye Brook 914-933-0566, Piers MacDonald Eye Level of Briarcliff 501 North State Road, Briarcliff 914-741-0407, Margaret Mak myeyelevel.com Math and English programs for ages 3-14.

Whether the immediate goal is for early learning, remedial education, or academic advancement, Eye Level is the answer.

OPEN HOUSES 2018 Meet the Hudson Country Montessori School

Ms. Neeru Bhambree, director of education 340 Quaker Ridge Road, New Rochelle 914-636-6202; hudsoncountry.org Tours are available weekdays. Please call to schedule a visit and see how we inspire a love of learning.

King School

1450 Newfield Ave., Stamford, CT 203-322-3496 x350 kingschoolct.org/visit Please join us for an open house on Nov. 4 (pre-K to fifth grade), from 1-4pm.

Purchase College Learn-to-Swim Program

J. Brian Hansbury, director 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase 914-251-5938 purchasecollegeathletics.com; john.hansbury@purchase.edu Come visit Purchase Aquatics Learn To Swim Programs. Open houses on Saturday and Sunday of each week during swim sessions. View classes and instructors as they enjoy swimming.

Whitby School

969 Lake Ave., Greenwich, CT 203-302-3900 whitbyschool.org; admissions@whitbyschool.org Explore Whitby’s revolutionary program for children ages 18 months through eighth grade. Sign up for a fall admissions event or personal tour at whitbyschool.org.

Health Care Professional

Caring for Kids Dr. Ivis Getz 140 Lockwood Ave., Suite 315, New Rochelle 914-355-2265 caringpediatricdentistry.com caringpediatricdentistry@gmail.com

Dr. Ivis Getz, a board-certified pediatric dentist, is committed to providing the highest quality dental care to infants, children, adolescents, and those with special needs. Dr. Getz recognizes that each child is a unique individual who deserves compassion and respect, which is evident in her friendly manner and calm demeanor.

The dental team truly enjoys working with kids and will treat your child with warmth and compassion. The practice participates with many dental insurance plans and has convenient after-school and Saturday appointments available.

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ages 11-14. We offer customized schedules, individualized attention, and hot lunches daily, as well as barbecue Fridays. All buildings are air-conditioned. Come see how much we care, and become part of our family.

from 8:30am-2:30pm. Before- and after-school care, vacation clubs during school breaks, and summer camp are available options. We follow the Creative Curriculum™ that is aligned with the NYS Common Core Learning Standards. We have special classes in art, music, and science, including interactive SMART Board activities. Our master teachers are New York state-certified in early childhood and special education.

NAEYC accredited.

The Milestone School

Temple Israel Center Nursery School

The United Preschool Center 456 North St., White Plains 914-946-4781 cpwestchester.org info@cpwestchester.org

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70 Columbus Ave., Valhalla 914-328-1578 eastersealsny.org We serve children with and without disabilities in inclusive, integrated, small classrooms. We offer high-quality full- and part-time programs, school year and year-round, for children ages 18 months to 5 years,

Ann Pardes, director 914-698-2767 Palmer and Rockland avenues, Mamaroneck (Use 175 Rockland Ave. for GPS purposes.) wjcenter.org WJC’s Reggio-inspired Early Childhood Center accepts preschoolers ages 2-5, and offers a co-teach model pre-kindergarten.

Our school supports children’s physical, social-emotional, and cognitive growth—all in the context of a caring environment. Children receive a solid Jewish foundation, including holiday celebrations and community and classroom Shabbat experiences. Structured days offered in newly renovated classrooms and nature–inspired playground. Small student-to-teacher ratio assures individualized attention. Extended day with special electives such as Dance and Drum, art, taekwondo, Fenom Fitness, and Mad Science.

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2170 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-3027 annandandychildcare.com annandydca@aol.com Ann and Andy, family-owned and -operated since 1973, offers a variety of fun activities for children ages 2 months to 14 years. We are licensed

by NYSOCFS and the Department of Health. We offer flexible schedules, reasonable rates, nutritious lunches, a caring staff, individualized attention, and age-appropriate field trips. We also have a tween travel camp for

Patty Goldstick, director 280 Old Mamaroneck Road, White Plains 914-948-2800 x126 templeisraelcenter.org Temple Israel Center Nursery School is dedicated to providing a warm and nurturing environment in which children can achieve their full potential—socially, emotionally, creatively, cognitively, physically, and Jewishly. We offer classes for children ages 2-4, mommy-and-me programs, after-school enrichment, Stay and Play Extended Hours until 4pm Monday-Thursday and until 2:30pm Friday, early drop-off, lunch programs, and summer camp. Our morning programs are enriched with music, creative movement, nature, and animal specialists. We embrace the Reggio Emilia approach, which complements our vision. For more information view our microsite at nymetroparents.com/listing/ temple-israel-center-nursery-school.

Dance / Yoga

Ann and Andy Child Care

70 W. Broad St., Mount Vernon 914-667-3478 themilestoneschool.com Founded in 1979 on the premise that “the first years of a child’s education are the most important,” The Milestone School is an independent, non-sectarian, nursery-fourth grade school. Celebrating 40 years of excellence, our unique, stimulating academic environment emphasizing “Early Reading” prepares students to continue on to top private schools in Westchester and NYC. Emphasizing the basics, our curriculum allows children to explore many areas, including music, Spanish, yoga, capoeira, and drama.

Milestone provides the enriching, nurturing experience every child needs and deserves to succeed.

Creative Arts

535 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry 914-693-4443 27 Crane Road, Scarsdale 914-472-4404 46 Fox Meadow Road, Scarsdale 914-725-7551 alcottschool.org Alcott School provides children ages 2-6 a supportive, multicultural, learning environment in which they develop independence, self-confidence, and pride in their abilities. All sites offer a developmentally appropriate curriculum with Montessori materials, music, creative movement, and nature enrichment programs. After-school enrichment classes are provided for children ages 3-5. Offerings include yoga, dance, mad science, super soccer stars, golf, karate, and Spanish.

Kidz Club, a social skills group for ages 3-5, meets from 4-5pm twice a week at the Crane Road location. Call to arrange a tour.

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Preschool Directory

Part of Cerebral Palsy of Westchester, the Day Care Program at the agency’s United Preschool Center is conveniently located in White Plains.

It provides high quality, developmentally appropriate learning experiences for preschool children ages 2.9-5, with or without disabilities. Half-day and full-day options, approved by the New York State Office of Children and Family Services. Children ages 2.9-5 may enroll. The program offers a comfortable learning environment designed to meet each child’s intellectual, physical, and social needs. Available from 8am-4pm, Monday-Friday.

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How to Have a Forgettable Thanksgiving

By Deborah Skolnik

If you want to have a turkey of a Thanksgiving, just follow these steps. (And in case you don’t, we have some suggestions for you!)

1. Before everyone arrives, bet out loud that your uncle will tell his same dumb jokes again. (Of course, you also won’t be laughing when your kids ask, “Is he the one who tells bad jokes, Mommy?” when he’s standing right in front of them.)

Instead: Be tolerant of your family’s flaws—after all, you’ll only be spending a few hours together. And remember that young kids pick up on what you say, but don’t always realize it isn’t nice to repeat it.

2. Apologize to everyone for everything—the state of your house, the size of the table, the overdone green beans…

Instead: Relax! Your guests can’t unwind unless you do. Focus on the positive and that will be what they—and you—remember.

3. Spend the entire meal fretting that one of the children will spill cranberry sauce on your best tablecloth.

Instead: Use a paper tablecloth and put out some crayons so the kids can color on it. (Then watch as an adult, not a kid, spills the cranberry sauce. Oops.)

4. Discuss politics over pumpkin pie and watch everyone get into a big ole Thanksgiving fight.

Instead: Go around the table and have everyone share what they’re most grateful for this year. Even little kids can participate.

5. Get pouty when people want to watch football rather than eating.

Instead: Realize that for some guests, football is a highlight of the holiday. Pick the game that matters the most to everyone, and schedule your meal around it.

6. Leave the kids to do their own thing during the football game or adult conversation time, then get upset because they made a mess or broke a vase.

Instead: Set up a dedicated play space—away from breakable items—with games, crafts, and other fun stuff for the kiddos to enjoy.

Kids Giving Back “‘I’ve always lived an incredibly fortunate life,’ [Hannah] Taylor says. ‘Always had a bed to sleep in, food to eat, and love and care. I didn’t realize that anybody in Canada had to live a homeless life. It hit me right in the gut. I think that everyone has a moment like that in life. A striking realization that you just cannot let go and forget about. For me, this was it.’”

—as told to Julia Hyman in “Making a Difference: Meet 5 Young Adults Who Started Nonprofit Organizations”; read the full article at nymetroparents.com/making-a-difference.

More NYMetroParents.com Highlights: CLOWNING AROUND: Find out what it takes to be in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade at nymetroparents. com/clowns.

GIVING THANKS: 10 Thanksgiving traditions you can start this year (nymetroparents.com/traditions) BEST FALL EVER!: See our list of 50 ways to make the most of the season at nymetroparents.com/fall.

DISH UP: Try these new spins on old Thanksgiving favorites (nymetroparents.com/thanksgiving-sides)

7. Let an overtired child throw a monster tantrum.

Instead: Make a bedroom, den, or other space available for napping.

POTTERHEADS REJOICE: Read about New-York Historical Society’s new Harry Potter exhibit at nymetroparents.com/harry-potter.

8. Heroically refuse offers to help with cleanup.

Instead: Say, “Yes, thanks!” You’ll get your kids (and yourself) to bed sooner.

COLLEGE BOUND: A grade-by-grade timeline for applying to college (nymetroparents.com/college-planning)

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BIRTHDAY PARTIES

Gymnastics, Trampoline, Air Castle & More. All parties are private, and our amazing staff will make your party one to remember!

151 CROTONA AVE / HARRISON 914−835−0010 / ISGGYMNASTICS.COM Gymnastics Classes

Private Birthday Parties

• Air castles • Trampolines • Giant Slide • Obstacles Courses, • Foam filled pit & more One Odell Plaza, Yonkers/Hastings border

Located at (Exit 9 off Saw Mill River Parkway)

gymcats.net 914-965-7676

• Boys & Girls • Ages 20 months & up • Beginner-Advanced • Tumbling • Private Lessons

Gymnastics benefits your child’s skills to enhance other sports, self esteem, coordination, strength, flexibility & more!

Ask About Our Toddler Open Gym Programs!

A walk in, noninstructional playtime for crawlers to 4 year olds

All of our famous parties are private!

Our interactive staff will make your child’s party a very special one.