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8 health 12 The Vaccine Debate 14 Stay Calm and Carry On 16 Health Directory

special needs 30 Do You Need a Special Education Attorney? 34 “We’re a Package.”

The Payoffs of Chores

Routine housework can help teach children vital life skills.

Family Fun in Manhattan

Safe and Sound

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 The Payoffs of Chores 39 Professional Services 40 Why Teens Drive Us Crazy 42 Education Directory 43 Open Houses 44 Party Central 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 If I Can’t See You, I Can’t Hear You

18 Family Fun in Manhattan 19 Family Activities Calendar

family life 38 Safe and Sound

36 Special Needs Directory

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A Season for Caring

chool’s been in session for two months now—how many times has your family gotten sick? Right now, the cold count for the edit team here at Westchester Parent is zero (knock on wood!). To protect your family from getting completely knocked out by the nasty bug, you’ve likely all already gotten your flu shots, but there are some parents who still choose not to vaccinate their kids (who could forget the measles outbreak that occurred earlier this year?). We took a dive into “The Vaccine Debate” (p. 12) to uncover why it is people still aren’t vaccinating their kids—and got straight answers from local doctors debunking some common myths. If you’re looking for a new provider to give your family the flu shot, need a teeth cleaning, or have another health care need, check out our Health Directory (p. 16). It’s full of health care providers in Rockland, so you can choose the best one for your family. We’re also shining a light on special education this month. If your child has a diagnosed special need and is struggling in school despite their school’s efforts, you might want to consider consulting with a special education attorney. We outline when it’s time to hire one and how they can help you secure the education your child is entitled to on p. 30. While raising kids means dealing with some serious topics (like the ones mentioned above), a lot of the time we’re looking for fun things to do with our family. So, turn to p. 19 for our November calendar of activities, where you’ll find more than 100 kidfocused events all month long. We’re positive you’ll find the best things to do with your kids—we can’t wait for the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade! Speaking of which…this month we all give thanks, and we here at Westchester Parent are thankful for you, dear reader! Happy turkey day! Katelin Walling Editorial Director

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Cooking School Expands Party Offerings Who: Amy Rosen Cooking By Design What’s New: Larger birthday parties (for 40-50 kids) are now offered, which began in the spring. The company previously provided at home cooking parties for 10-25 kids. Now, Rosen will also offer services to families having parties at much larger venues, such as country clubs, churches, or temples. Party themes include a Cupcake Wars-style party, chocolate making, pizza making, and Chopped-style cooking competition parties. Rosen also offers special parties for younger chefs during which she guides children through the culinary process step by step, as well as private cooking lessons in which the whole family can learn to cook together. Want More Info: 917-903-1451; amyrosencookingbydesign.com.

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The Payoffs of Chores

›› By Shana Liebman

hores have a bad rap among kids, tweens, and teens for a reason: They’re often boring, difficult, and cut into screen or social time. But parents have many good reasons to ignore the complaints. Routine housework can help teach children vital life skills—not just how to vacuum and do laundry, but habits and strengths that will serve them well in the future. Financial planner Gregg Murset, CEO of chores and financial literacy app BusyKid and a father of six, explains five benefits your children will get from chores.

Work Ethic

Your child may not have his first job until well into his teens, so chores can actually function as a first job—teaching him about accountability, quality of work, organization, and planning. Paying your child biweekly for chores can also help him understand how paychecks work.

An Appreciation of the Value of a Dollar

When kids see parents shopping online, it can look like they are just picking out items that show up at the house. In this increasingly cash-free society, it’s difficult for kids to understand our “invisible” transactions. Murset recommends parents download a chore management app, such as Chore Check, that is linked to a debit-type card that you put money on based on chores completed, to illustrate the concepts of receiving payments and paying for purchases.

The Ability to Budget

If your child wants a new toy or game, have her save money from chores to make the purchase. When kids are given freedom to spend their earned money, they quickly learn the value of hard work vs. the cost of goods.

Time Management Skills

Kids often aren’t in charge of managing their own busy schedules— school, sports, extra-curriculars—so give your child a sense of control by letting him set the schedule for getting his weekly chores done. Incentivize him by paying only for the chores that get done in a timely fashion.

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Kids who start chores young learn skills—say, pet sitting or lawn care—that they can turn into a neighborhood-wide job. By teaching her that hard work pays, you will inspire her to put down her phone and gaming controller in favor of earning an income.

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The Vaccine Debate

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Why are parents still refusing to vaccinate? We examine the myths and truths.

ew York City’s biggest measles outbreak in almost 30 years ended in September, according to Health Department officials, but the conversation about vaccinations is still raging. Headlines in the media, warnings at doctor’s offices, regulations by schools, and even celebrities’ social media posts have perpetuated the debate about the truths and myths of vaccinating. We spoke with pediatricians about this controversial issue that continues to baffle many parents.

Personal Choice or Civic Duty?

Vaccinations are classified into two groups, explains Harvey Karp, M.D., pediatrician, faculty member of University of Southern California School of Medicine, and author of Happiest Baby on the Block. The first group of shots includes rotavirus, hepatitis A, hepatitis B, and chicken pox. While Dr. Karp recommends all vaccines, he classifies these vaccinations as a parent’s choice because the risk you are imposing is limited to your child and family, not the community. That’s because those illnesses are either difficult for a child to pass onto another or are very common—and can spread quickly even with a vaccine. The second classification of shots (including those for whooping cough, flu, meningitis, pneumococcus, and measles) are given to protect your child and your neighbor’s child. “[These vaccinations] halt diseases that are so contagious that 12

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just one cough, one airplane flight, or one germy doorknob can spread them like wildfire throughout your town,” Dr. Karp says. “I believe giving this second group of shots is an important civic responsibility because delaying them creates a serious public health risk.” Specifically, these vaccines protect other kids who are too young to receive vaccinations, as well as people with cancer, those who are older than 60, and others who are considered especially vulnerable to these diseases. A minimum percentage of the population must be vaccinated against a virus to prevent its spread, according to Daniel Sinyor, pediatrician at Crystal Run Healthcare in Nyack. By ensuring that at least 95 percent of children are immunized against a certain virus, you are creating herd immunity, which “stymies the spread of disease the way that frequent rain keeps lightning strikes from starting raging forest fires,” Dr. Karp says.

The Major Misconceptions

Several misconceptions have surrounded vaccines for years, but perhaps the most disruptive one is that the MMR (measles, mumps, and rubella) vaccine causes autism. In 1998, Andrew Wakefield, a discredited British ex-physician, published a fraudulent paper suggesting there was a link between the MMR vaccine and autism. The data was found to be incorrect, and throughout the decade following the publication, many epidemiological studies proved there is no link between the two.

Still, the paper did its damage, and, combined with the fact that the MMR vaccine is given around the same time autism is usually detected (ages 1-2), many parents still believe there is a causal relationship between the two, according to Dr. Sinyor. Similarly, because children generally receive the flu vaccine at a time of year when they are picking up other illnesses, people have grown to believe the vaccine can cause the flu. That’s impossible, Dr. Sinyor says, because the vaccine does not carry the flu virus. Another common misconception is there is mercury in vaccines. However, in 1999 the Food and Drug Administration and the U.S. Public Health Service removed thimerosal (a mercury-containing compound used as a preservative) from all vaccines except multi-dose vials of flu vaccine. Aluminum, an element that is present in vaccines, has also caused worry among parents. Not only has aluminum been safely used in vaccines for more than 70 years, the amount used is similar to that found in 32 ounces of infant formula, according to Dr. Sinyor. Unfortunately, these myths are still widely circulating. The list of celebrities who have spoken out or expressed concern about vaccinations includes Jessica Biel and Jenny McCarthy. The latter has been claiming for more than 10 years that her son’s autism was caused by a vaccine. “I would venture a guess that the spread of false information through social media, celebrities, and anecdotal stories of friends who claim to have been harmed by vaccines all contribute to parental fear and distrust of vaccines,” Dr. Sinyor says.

Truths About Vaccines

The main misconceptions aside, there are potentially concerning aspects of vaccines that are valid. For example, some shots have an effectiveness rate as low as 30-60 percent, which has long upset parents. But, as Dr. Sinyor says, “if I told you I could give you a shot with minimal side effects that would reduce your chances of getting into a car accident by sixty percent—or even thirty—would you not take it?” Another upsetting truth? Not all children will develop immunity after a vaccination, according to Robert Segal, M.D., founder of Medical Offices of Manhattan. However, this does not discount the fact that 85-95 percent of children do. And finally, “in very rare cases, vaccines can cause allergic reactions. It’s important that parents tell their doctor of any history of allergies,” Dr. Segal advises. While vaccines are not perfect, they are still widely administered. In fact, in light of the recent measles outbreak, the list of doctor’s offices, day cares, schools, and other children’s facilities that will exclude your child if unvaccinated is growing, according to Dr. Segal. In August, the Supreme Court of the State of New York instated a ban on religious exceptions to vaccines for school attendance. New York is now 1 of 5 states that have banned religious vaccination exceptions. This is a good thing; all the doctors we spoke to agree. After all, vaccinations are our best protection against potentially life-threatening illnesses. Choosing to forgo them significantly increases the risk of making not only our own children sick, but also spreading illness in our community, Dr. Karp says.

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Stay Calm and Carry On ›› These baby ailments are common. By Madeleine Burry

or new moms and dads, an infant’s first few months of life are thrilling—and a little nerve-wracking. Everything is so new, and your infant seems so fragile. “Between birth and three months, there are a lot of things that new parents especially worry about,” says Victoria Riese, M.D., of Flatiron Pediatrics in Manhattan. These can include baby acne, constipation, noisy breathing, and other frequent—but not worrisome—conditions. So, when can you relax, and when should you reach out to your pediatrician?

Digestive Issues

Does your baby have gas? Constipation? Act a bit fussy when feeding? These are all normal things, Dr. Riese says, and don’t require a doctor’s call unless they start to interfere with baby’s development. “When babies are having so much trouble eating that they’re crying or losing weight, we want to make sure that it’s not something more serious,” she says.

Noisy Breathing

Your baby’s air passageways in the nose are quite small, Dr. Riese points out. This can lead to funny breathing or wheezing—it may even seem like your baby has a snoring problem. Not to worry! “Noisy breathing is not a sign that the baby is in distress,” Dr. Riese says. So long as your baby is acting normally while awake, and can eat and breathe at the same time, he’s most likely just fine.

Milia

Skin conditions are common in babies. For example, those little white bumps on her nose or face? “These are called milia and are caused by trapped skin debris near the surface of the skin. They are benign and will pass with time,” says Dyan Hes, M.D., F.A.A.P., pediatrician and medical director of Gramercy Pediatrics in Manhattan.

Baby Acne

Another skin ailment, baby acne can look red and inflamed—but it’s completely benign. “It can come out in the first month or two of life. It is due to hormonal changes in the baby, either from the birth itself or sometimes from breast milk,” Dr. Hes says. She recommends cleaning baby’s face daily with a mild hypoallergenic baby soap.

Jaundice

If your baby has jaundice—or slightly yellow skin—he’s far from alone. “About half of all babies have some amount of jaundice,” says Jennifer Janco, M.D., board-certified pediatrician and chairman of pediatrics at St. Luke’s University Heath Network in Bethlehem, PA. “The yellow color in the skin is a result of elevated bilirubin levels in the blood,” she adds, noting it can take a few days for a healthy baby’s liver to mature and handle bilirubin properly. If you are

breast-feeding, supplementing with formula for the first few days will often treat the condition, Dr. Hes says, but some babies require phototherapy in the hospital. Therefore, if your baby appears yellowish, it’s a good idea to reach out to a pediatrician, Dr. Hes advises.

Bluish Skin

A faint blue cast on your newborn’s hands or feet sounds like an alarming symptom—but it’s not necessarily a cause for worry. In fact, Dr. Janco says it’s quite common, because your baby’s body is still figuring out temperature and circulation regulation. Though, “a baby who appears blue in the face, tongue, or around the lips should prompt immediate evaluation,” Dr. Janco warns. Call your doctor or 911 if the situation does not resolve.

Heat Rash

Too much time in pajamas or a warm stroller can lead to heat rash, Dr. Hes says. Apply an over-the-counter baby eczema cream twice a day for a week. “If the rash spreads, let your doctor know,” she says.

Thrush

A yeast infection known as candida, thrush is also common in newborns, Dr. Janco says. The white patches on the sides of cheeks, inner lips, or tongue can’t easily be wiped off. “Let your doctor know if you suspect thrush,” she says—it’s easily treatable and not an emergency.

Cradle Cap

Does your baby have yellow or white crusty patches on his scalp? This benign condition is known as cradle cap or seborrhea capitis, Dr. Hes says. The biggest downside is your baby may lose some hair as it spreads. “Initially, I like to treat mild cradle cap with some olive oil on the scalp to loosen the flakes, and then comb it out with a fine baby comb,” she says. “Parents can also apply dandruff shampoo to the baby’s scalp, leave it on for two to three minutes, and rinse it, away from the baby’s eyes.” If neither of these options work, check in with your pediatrician.

When to Reach for the Phone

Your pediatrician expects you to have concerns and questions—after all, these curious symptoms are new to you. So, “in between visits, write down questions if they can wait,” Dr. Riese advises. When in doubt, call. And always get in touch with a doctor if your baby has a fever (any temperature above 100.3 in a newborn), Dr. Riese says. The other big warning sign: Your baby isn’t acting like herself, including not wanting to wake up, not interacting as usual, or not feeding. In these cases, contact your pediatrician immediately.

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245 N Broadway, Suite 108, Sleepy Hollow 914-332-1272 Port Chester Kid Smiles 55 South Main St., Suite 1A, Port Chester 914-939-2000 The offices of Dr. Ann Mitsumoto provide high quality pediatric dentistry to all children in our communities. We offer a fun, welcoming environment for families including those of children with special needs. When necessary, dentistry under sedation can be performed in our office or in the hospital setting.

The Tennis Club of Hastings

100 River St., Hastings-on-Hudson 914-478-4400 tennisclubofhastings.com info.tennisclubofhastings@gmail.com The Tennis Club of Hastings is dedicated to helping tennis players achieve their ambitions-be it for fun and healthy exercise, or being a competitive player, or both! Our passionate pros inspire boys and girls ages 4 and older to develop their tennis in an encouraging, energetic learning environment.

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The Prehistoric Safari features 22-foot animatronic dinosaurs, 13-foot tropical plants, and a color-changing volcano amidst an illuminated prehistoric environment.

Light Up Your Family’s Life

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Luminocity’s Light Arts Park at Randall’s Island Park offers three unique light art experiences—the Winter Fantasy, the Wild Adventure, and the Sweet Dream—spanning 12 acres, each featuring LED illuminated art displays within the theme. Nov. 23-Jan. 5, 2020; see website for dates and themed nights. $38; $30 seniors and students; $19 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. Book by Nov. 11 for a 15-percent early bird discount. Ages: All. 20 Randall’s Island, Randall’s Island; luminocityfestival.com.

A variety of fan favorites, including the Ronald McDonald balloon, will return to the parade, along with new balloons and floats.

Balloons and Floats and Clowns, Oh My! It’s that time of year again! The 93rd Annual Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade is around the corner with classic floats and balloons as well as new additions such as Astronaut Snoopy, Smokey Bear, and a Cracker Barrel Old Country Store. The best part? If you’re not up for the early rise to grab a spot on the sidewalk, watch it on TV from the comfort of your couch. Free. Thursday, Nov. 26, 9am-12pm. Ages: All. Central Park West and 77th Street, moving south via Central Park South and Sixth Avenue, to Macy’s Herald Square on 34th Street. macys.com/parade.

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The Washington Square Arch was built in celebration of the centennial of George Washington’s inauguration as President of the United States and is often used as an unofficial symbol of New York University.

Washington Square Park

This Manhattan oasis is a spot for artists to express themselves, chess players to battle, dogs to roam, and families to take it all in. Home to the renowned arch and fountain, Washington Square Park is known as a center for cultural activity and the place to enjoy a variety of monuments and statues to enjoy amid the hustle and bustle of NYC. Visit it: Fifth Avenue and Waverly Place, West 4th and Macdougal streets, Greenwich Village Can’t-miss event: Kids Bulb Planting Day; Saturday, Nov. 2, 12:302pm, and Thursday, Nov. 7, 3:30-5pm. Free. Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 30-minute drive or 1-hour, 10-minute Metro-North and subway ride from White Plains

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The annual Holiday Train Show will showcase new additions, such as One World Trade Center and Battery Maritime Building, as well as old favorites.

New York Botanical Garden Don’t let cooler weather keep you indoors this fall. New York Botanical Garden is the perfect haven for families to embrace the beauty and colors of fall in New York. Throughout the month, visit for a Fall Forest Weekend and take a walk through the Thain Family Forest for an unforgettable foliage experience (and, of course, the perfect Instagram!). Visit it: 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx; 718-817-8700; nybg.org Can’t-miss event: Holiday Train Show; Nov. 23-Jan. 26, 2020; $30; $28 students and seniors; See website for prices, purchase tickets by Nov. 1 for a 30-percent discount with the code Holiday30. Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 30-minute drive or a 1-hour, 5-minute Metro-North and subway ride from White Plains

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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the nine events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Boo at the Zoo

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: Friday 10am-5pm; Weekends 10am-5:30pm WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: This year’s Boo at the Zoo has family favorites like magic shows, costume parades, pumpkin carvings, a candy trail, animal treats, crafts, and mentalism shows, plus the Dinosaur Safari exhibit. WHY WE LOVE IT: Animal aficionados will appreciate meet and greets with vultures, owls, ravens, and more! WANT TO GO? $35.95; $31.45 seniors; $26.95 children 3-12; free for children younger than 2. 718-220-5100. bronxzoo.com.

Family Barn Dance

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 8, 7-9pm WHERE: Congers Lake Memorial Park Auditorium, 6 Gilchrest Road, Congers AGES: All WHAT: Renowned dance caller Eric Hollman will lead the way as guests keep step to live, traditional fiddle tunes from Ireland, New England, Appalachia, and beyond. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids of all ages are welcome, and there will be popcorn, cider, donuts, and apples for sale. WANT TO GO? $10; free for children 3 and younger. 845-627-0234. bluerockschool.org.

PAW Patrol Live!

WHEN: Nov. 9-10, 10am and 2pm WHERE: Palace Theatre, 61 Atlantic St., Stamford, CT AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: See Paw Patrol live on stage! WHY WE LOVE IT: Fans of the TV show will delight in seeing their favorite characters in a whole new setting. WANT TO GO? $19 and up. 203-325-4466. palacestamford.org/.

STEAMFest FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 12-3pm WHERE: Ruth Keeler Memorial Library, 276 Titicus Road, North Salem AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join the library’s annual celebration of science, technology, engineering, art, and mathematics. WHY WE LOVE IT: Expect tons of fun with Mad Science, rockets, dry ice, a wind tunnel, and more! WANT TO GO? 914-669-5161. ruthkeelermemoriallibrary.org.

Giant Balloon Inflation Party for the Stamford Downtown Parade Spectacular FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 3-6pm WHERE: Stamford Downtown, Hoyt at Summer Street, Stamford, CT AGES: All WHAT: Get a backstage look at the parade and watch the giant helium 20

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balloons come to life. WHY WE LOVE IT: There will also be performances, holiday characters, and a visit from Santa and Rudolph! WANT TO GO? 203-348-5285. stamford-downtown.com.

Celebrate Party Showcase

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 12-4pm WHERE: Westchester Marriott, 670 White Plains Road, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: The showcase will have more than 50 great vendors—from DJs and venues to favors and invitations—who can help you plan the bar/bat mitzvah, Sweet 16, Quinceañera, or wedding of your dreams. WHY WE LOVE IT: You can plan your whole party in one afternoon! WANT TO GO? $10; free with advanced registration. 646-652-7512. celebrateshowcase.com.

Holiday Kick-Off at the HRM

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 29, 12-5pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Kick off the holiday season at the HRM with a full selection of programs inspired by the wintertime. WHY WE LOVE IT: The fun includes crafting snow globes, painting wintery scenes using acrylics, tours, and an interactive magic show. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors 62 and older, students, veterans; $4 ages 3-18; free for members and children younger than 3. 914963-4550. hrm.org.

Westchester’s Winter Wonderland

WHEN: Nov. 29-Dec. 22, Fridays, 5-10pm; Saturdays, 4-10pm; Sundays, 4-9pm WHERE: Kensico Dam Plaza, 1 Bronx River Parkway, Valhalla AGES: All WHAT: Westchester’s Winter Wonderland provides fun and affordable holiday cheer for the entire family, including holiday circus performances, ice skating, visits with Santa, and holiday rides. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a truly special night out as a family! WANT TO GO? $20; $18 if purchased by 11/15; free for children 3 and younger. 914-231-4033. wwinterwonderland.com/.

Bronx Zoo Holiday Lights

WHEN: Nov. 21-Jan. 5, Sunday-Thursday 5-9pm; Friday and Saturday 5-10pm WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: The Bronx Zoo is bringing back this celebrated holiday tradition with dazzling light displays that will cover and sparkle acres of the zoo. WHY WE LOVE IT: Entertainment and activities will include holidaythemed music performances, caroling, ice-carving demonstrations, train rides, and seasonal treats! WANT TO GO? $29.95; $28.95 for seniors; $22.95 for children. 718220-5100. bronxzoo.com.

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the three no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Veteran’s Day Commemoration FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 11, 11am WHERE: St. Paul’s Church N.H.S., 897 S. Columbus Ave., Mount Vernon AGES: All WHAT: The program includes music and a talk about the history and significance of Veteran’s Day. WANT TO GO? 914-667-4116. nps.gov.

Promoting Early Child Development through Play and Shared Reading: A Parenting Perspective FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 18, 7pm WHERE: Port Chester-Rye Brook Public Library, 1 Haseco Ave., Port Chester AGES: Adult WHAT: Professor Carolyn B. Cates, Ph.D., will discuss how parents can promote early child development through play and reading. WANT TO GO? 914-939-6710. portchester-ryebrooklibrary.org.

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WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 21, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Make some special Thanksgiving decorations using real plants! Sign-up required. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com. ››

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AGES: All WHAT: Learn how to identify animal signs and tracks, then make a plaster print to take home. WANT TO GO? 914-835-4466. parks.westchestergov.com.

Tea & Trucks Pretend Play

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 11, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., 1st Floor, Tuckahoe AGES: 18 months-5 years WHAT: With princess dresses and tutus available, have a tea party, build a mini-city, and explore with various trucks. WANT TO GO? $15; $12 siblings. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Stained Glass Kites

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 11, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., 1st Floor, Tuckahoe AGES: 2-5 WHAT: Soar up and away making stained glass kites. WANT TO GO? $20; $17 siblings. 914-346-5148. LilChameleon.com.

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Exploring Art Through the Artists: Sandra Wong Geroux

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 11am-1pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: All WHAT: Expect a lot of color, imagination, and surprises as you create your own masterpieces! WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for members, children younger than 1, and active duty military personnel and their families within the same household. 914-420-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Design Election Day Signs! FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 4, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 East Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Design signs to put up in the library or home that will encourage people to get out and vote! WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Trash to Treasure FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 6, 4-5pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids 5 and older can make a fun craft using recycled materials. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com/.

Jungle Animal Masks

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 7, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., 1st Floor, Tuckahoe AGES: 2-5 WHAT: Pretend to be jungle animals with animal masks. WANT TO GO? $20; $17 siblings. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Animal Tracks ‘n’ Traces FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 10, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Marshlands Conservancy, 220 Boston Post Road, Rye 22

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WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, Ages 5-8 from 2-3pm; Ages 9-12 from 3-4pm WHERE: The Rye Arts Center, 51 Milton Road, Rye AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Using polymer clay you will learn how to make simple shapes with clay and put them together to form a cute sculpture. WANT TO GO? $20; RAC members receive discount. 914-967-0700. ryeartscenter.org.

Teen Studio: Watercolor Painting

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 4-6pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Whether you are new to painting or looking to fine-tune your skills, you will learn to paint step-by-step. WANT TO GO? $5. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Leaf Prints

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 18, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., 1st Floor, Tuckahoe AGES: 2-5 WHAT: Make colorful leaf prints. WANT TO GO? $20; $17 siblings. 914-346-5148. LilChameleon.com.

Open Studio for Kids

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 21, 4-5:15pm WHERE: Neuberger Museum of Art, 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase AGES: 6-10 WHAT: A teaching artist will coach each participant as they create their own artwork inspired by works in current exhibitions. WANT TO GO? $20; $5 per child of members. 914-251-6100. purchase.edu.

Art Making Studio for Preschoolers

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 21, 1-2:15pm WHERE: Neuberger Museum of Art, 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Explore Shape like Yto Barrada and enjoy a snack and juice. WANT TO GO? $20; $5 per child of members. 914-251-6100. purchase.edu.

Lil Ladybugs

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 21, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., 1st Floor, Tuckahoe AGES: 18 months-4 years WHAT: Make a special ladybug using handprints, fingerprints, and more. WANT TO GO? $20; $15 siblings. 914-346-5148. LilChameleon.com.

Family Wheel Night

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 6-8pm WHERE: Clay Art Center, 40 Beech St., Port Chester AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Get messy and play with clay while learning how to use the potter’s wheel. Register online. WANT TO GO? $45. 914-937-2047. clayartcenter.org.

Dream Catcher Workshop FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Marshlands Conservancy, 220 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: All WHAT: Make a dream catcher using natural materials and beads. WANT TO GO? 914-835-4466. parks.westchestergov.com.

Family Day: Express Yourself

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 12-4pm WHERE: Katonah Museum of Art, 134 Jay St., Katonah AGES: All WHAT: Spend the afternoon immersed in expressive and experimental forms of art, dance, music, and more. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 seniors and students; free for members and children younger than 12. 914-232-9555. katonahmuseum.org/.

Native American Painting & Drawing FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 25, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 East Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Draw Native American symbols and paint a picture. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

A-maize-ing Corn Art

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 25, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., 1st Floor, Tuckahoe AGES: 2-5 WHAT: Make a variety of corn prints using corn-on-the-cob and paints. WANT TO GO? $20; $17 siblings. 914-346-5148. LilChameleon.com.

Buttons Galore FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 27, 3:30pm WHERE: Warner Library, 121 N. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Drop in to the Teen Area and make a button or two. The library provides the machine and the materials, you provide the creativity! WANT TO GO? 914-631-7734. warnerlibrary.org.

Family Studio: Art

WHEN: Nov. 2-30, Saturdays and Sundays, 1-4pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Learn to make your own little book out of just a single sheet of paper, and fill it with stories and landscapes. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors 62 and older, students, veterans; $4 ages 3-18; free for members and children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Drop In Clay

WHEN: Through Dec. 21: Saturdays, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: Clay Art Center, 40 Beech St., Port Chester AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Adults and children explore their inner artist in this two-hour introduction to clay. WANT TO GO? $30; $20 children younger than 12. 914-937-2047. clayartcenter.org.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Love ‘Em, Leave ‘Em: Leaf Mulching Workshop FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 6, 6:30-8pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Learn how important mulch is to our soil. WANT TO GO? 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

Morning Farm Chores

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 8-9am WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 Route 100, Katonah AGES: 6 and older WHAT: Learn about farming in this hands-on workshop. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $20 per family of four; $6 per person. 914-864-7282. muscootfarm.org.

Primitive Fire Building

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 10-11am WHERE: Lenoir Nature Preserve, 19 Dudley St., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Learn how to start a fire by using a bow drill. Pre-registration required. WANT TO GO? $5. 914-968-5851. parks.westchestergov.com.

Owl Prow FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 7-9pm WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 Route 100, Katonah AGES: 6 and older WHAT: See a multimedia review of owls, followed by a walk on the farm to listen and look for owls. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 914-864-7282. muscootfarm.org.

Apple Cidering

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 10, 1-2pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Children will use an old-fashioned screw press to make apple cider and learn about the colonial experience of cider making WANT TO GO? $8; $5 members. 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

Fishing Day FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 11, All day fishing WHERE: New York’s public waters, see website for locations AGES: All WHAT: This is a great opportunity to try fishing for the first time or for experienced anglers to take friends fishing for the first time. WANT TO GO? 518-402-8845. dec.ny.gov.

2019 Westchester Polar Plunge

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, Registration 10-11:30am; Plunge 12pm WHERE: Glen Island Park, 1 Pelham Road, New Rochelle AGES: All WHAT: Raise money for the athletes of Special Olympics New York. WANT TO GO? FREE to plunge, prizes awarded for meeting fundraising goals of $150 and more. 212-661-5217. polarplungeny.org.

Turkey Mountain Hike FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 29, 9-11am WHERE: Turkey Mountain Nature Preserve main parking area, off of the west side of Route 118, Yorktown Heights AGES: 8 and older with an adult WHAT: Walk off your Thankgiving feast with a hike up Turkey Mountain. WANT TO GO? 914-666-6503. sawmillriveraudubon.org. ›› WestchesterParent 23

Indigenous American Folk Art FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 10, 2-4pm WHERE: Pelham Art Center, 155 Fifth Ave., Pelham AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Learn about New York City’s Native American history and perspectives. WANT TO GO? 914-738-2525. pelhamartcenter.org.

STEAM Team FREE

WHEN: Nov. 12-26, Tuesdays, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Flex your brain with some hands-on STEAM activities and games! WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Young Discoverers: National Aviation Month: Can Turkeys Fly?

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WHEN: Nov. 1-29, Wednesdays and Fridays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 2-5 WHAT: After pretending they are pilots, children will hear a story and get to make their very own airplane to take home! WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for members, children younger than 1, and active duty military personnel and their families within the same household. 914-420-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Ecology Day: Our Shared Landscape

Family Studio: Science

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 12-5pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Learn how to compost, explore water through scientific observation and art making, design with recycled materials, enjoy music and more. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors 62 and older, students, veterans; $4 ages 3-18; free for members and children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

WHEN: Nov. 2-30, Saturdays, 1-4pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Learn about the robotic explorer Surveyor III and make a holiday ornament of this forgotten robot pioneer. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors 62 and older, students, veterans; $4 ages 3-18; free for members and children younger than 3. 914-963-4550 hrm.org.

I Vote for...STEAM! FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 5, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: It’s Election Day! Cast your vote for STEAM challenges. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Bring the Kids! Second Saturdays-Laundry Time

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy a family-focused tour of the Historic House Museum and explore the past through hands-on activities and a craft. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 members. 845-265-3638. boscobel.org.

Scratch Coding! FREE

WHEN: Nov. 2-9, Saturdays, 2-3:30pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Children in grades 4-7 can join a teen volunteer for a two-week workshop to learn the basics of coding with Scratch! Sign-up required. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Science Sunday: Static Electricity

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 10, 11:30am-12:15pm and 1:30-2:15pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 7 and older WHAT: Explore the concept of static electricity with activities, awesome experiments, and fun facts presented by WCM’s very own science educator! WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for members, children younger than 1, and active duty military personnel and their families within the same household. 914-420-5050. discoverwcm.org. 24

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BROWSE & BUY THE CHAPPAQUA CRAFT & GIFT FAIR

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 10am-4pm WHERE: Robert Bell Middle School, 50 Senter St., Chappaqua AGES: All WHAT: Shop and meet local artists while supporting local community WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 914-747-2500. chappaquacraftfair.com.

33rd Annual JLCW Holiday Boutique

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 21, 10am-8pm WHERE: C.V. Rich Mansion, 305 Ridgeway, White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Jewelry, home goods, clothing, hostess gifts, and more! WANT TO GO? Suggested donation for admission is $10. 914-723-3160. jlcentralwestchester.org/hb.

Artisan Boutique

WHEN: Nov. 23-24, 1-5pm WHERE: The Rye Arts Center, 51 Milton Road, Rye AGES: All WHAT: Some of the region’s most talented artisans will gather to showcase handcrafted wares and unique creations. WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 914-967-0700. ryeartscenter.org.

Baseball Card Show

WHEN: Nov. 29-Dec. 1, Friday 1-7pm; Saturday 10am-5pm; Sunday

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10am-4pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: See 175 tables at this Sports Card and Memorabilia Show. WANT TO GO? $10; free for children younger than 12. 914-995-4050. nyshows.org.

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Lyndhurst Holiday Market

WHEN: Nov. 29-Dec. 1, 10am-5:30pm, daily WHERE: Lyndhurst Mansion, 635 South Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Historic mansion tours, seasonal snacks, activities for kids, and more. WANT TO GO? Included with mansion tour, $25; free admission for kids. 914-940-0099. lyndhurstmarket.com.

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MOVERS & SHAKERS Junior Rangers Rookie Series Try Hockey For Free FREE WHEN: Monday, Nov. 11, 10-11:45am WHERE: Evarts Ice Rink, 240 Jay St., Rt. 22, Katonah AGES: 5-9 WHAT: Girls and boys are invited to Evarts Rink for an exciting introduction to ice hockey. Equipment provided. WANT TO GO? 914-232-3618. harveyschool.org.

Conquer the Forest Trail Run

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 17, 8:45am and 9:30am race times WHERE: Green Chimneys, 400 Doansburg Road, Brewster AGES: All WHAT: Head back to the woods for this challenging 5K trail run across scenic forest trails. WANT TO GO? $35 trail run; $10 fun run. 845-279-2995x307. runsignup.com/Race/NY/Carmel/ConquertheForestTrailRun.

the little ones! We have classes for children 6 months and up!

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Preschoolers: Through games and instruction, preschoolers continue to develop fundamental motor skills - as well as introductory sport skills, coordination and agility - all while having a lot of fun! To the kids, it's all fun and games. But behind the fun is a carefully crafted curriculum of progressive motor skill acquisition that helps children reach their full physical potential.

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develop the skills that will start the ball rolling to lifelong success.

Access-ability FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 18, 2-5pm WHERE: Stepping Stones Museum for Children, 303 West Ave., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: A supportive, sensory-friendly experience for individuals with sensory processing differences and other special needs. WANT TO GO? 203-899-0606. steppingstonesmuseum.org.

Where every student is special.

Museum Minis

WHEN: Nov. 7-21, Thursdays, 10:30-11am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 18-24 months WHAT: Toddlers and parents/caregivers are invited for a half hour of songs, moving, and fun! WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for members, children younger than 1, and active duty military personnel and their families within the same household. 914-420-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Budding Buddha’s Yoga for Tots FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 25: Wednesdays, 11-11:30am and 11:30am12pm WHERE: The Westchester, 125 Westchester Ave., Connect Lounge, Level 4, White Plains AGES: 0-2 WHAT: Stay active with your little one and have fun doing yoga exercises. WANT TO GO? 914-421-1333. simon.com. ››

Nutcracker Performance:

December 15 1:00& 5:30 at the Capitol Theatre. thecapitoltheatre.com 450 Central Park Avenue, Scarsdale

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Sing-A-Story featuring ‘Thanks + Giving’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 17, 10am WHERE: Groove Family Music, 158 Larchmont Ave., Larchmont AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Two engaging books are specially selected and presented with live musical accompaniment. Reservations–and purchase of books–required. WANT TO GO? $35. 914-834-3383. findgroove.com.

Veterans Day Appreciation Thank You Cards! FREE

HOLIDAY FUN DIY Sugar Skull & ‘Coco’ Movie FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 1, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 East Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Day of the Dead with a sugary treat while watching the movie Coco. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

LEGO Halloween Party and Brick-Or-Treat

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 10am-9:30pm WHERE: LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester, 39 Fitzgerald St., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Explore LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester like never before with special Halloween experiences. WANT TO GO? $29.95-$37.95. 866-243-0770. legolanddiscoverycenter. com/westchester.

Horseman’s Hollow

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: See website for schedule WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 381 N. Broadway, Sleepy Hollow AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Enter the foreboding gates and make your way through haunted landmarks like the cemetery, tavern, and Old Dutch Church. WANT TO GO? $28 Saturdays; $22; $15 fast track pass; members receive $5 discount. 914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

Sleepy Hollow Experience

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: See website for schedule WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 639 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Follow characters with live music and a little bit of mayhem. Sip seasonal drinks and enjoy tasty treats at the Van Tassel’s harvest party. WANT TO GO? $45 and up; $25 and up for children 3-17; members receive 10 percent discount/ticket; free for children younger than 3. 914631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

Irving’s Legend

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: Thursday-Friday 6:15pm, 7:30pm, 8:45pm; Saturday and Sunday 11:30am, 1:30pm, 3:30pm, 5pm, 6:30pm, and 8pm WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 639 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Master storytellers offer dramatic performances of Washington Irving’s classic tale, featuring the Headless Horseman, Ichabod Crane, Brom Bones, and Katrina Van Tassel. Flavored with live spooky music, the spellbinding storytelling captivates all audiences. WANT TO GO? $28; $22 child; members receive a $5 discount. 914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org. 26

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WHEN: Monday, Nov. 18, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 East Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Draw and paint thank you notes for our veterans. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Thanksgiving Craft FREE

WHEN: Nov. 13-23, 11/13, 4pm; 11/23, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Give thanks with a fun craft! WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Good Deed of the Month Club

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 4-8 WHAT: Read the story of the first Thanksgiving and go home with your very own Thanksgiving craft. WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for members, children younger than 1, and active duty military personnel and their families within the same household. 914-420-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Mayflower Boats

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 27, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., 1st Floor, Tuckahoe AGES: 18 months to 4 years WHAT: All aboard to make Mayflower boats and learn about Pilgrims WANT TO GO? $20; $17 siblings. 914-346-5148. LilChameleon.com.

The Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze

WHEN: Through Nov. 30: Fridays-Sundays WHERE: Van Cortlandt Manor, 525 South Riverside Ave., Croton-on-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: See more than 10,000 illuminated jack-o’-lanterns. WANT TO GO? See website for picing. 914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

Twilight Tours

WHEN: Nov. 29-Dec. 1, Tours depart from 3:30-7:15pm WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: All WHAT: With the mansion lit by candles, decorated, and live string music, Twilight Tours offer an especially beautiful view of Boscobel House and Gardens. WANT TO GO? $26; $16 children; free for children younger than 5. 845265-3638. boscobel.org.

Holiday Bricktacular

WHEN: Nov. 23-Dec. 29, Sundays, 10am-7:30pm; Mondays-Saturdays, 10am-9:30pm WHERE: LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester, 39 Fitzgerald St., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Join the holly jolly fun as LEGOLAND Discovery Center transforms into a winter wonderland with magical builds and activities! WANT TO GO? $27.95-$33.95. 866-243-0770. legolanddiscoverycenter.com. ››

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Broadway Training Center of Westchester presents: ‘Newsies’ WHEN: Nov. 22-24, Friday and Saturday 7pm; Sunday 3pm WHERE: Irvington Theater, 85 Main St., Irvington AGES: All WHAT: Newsies is packed with non-stop thrills and a timeless message. WANT TO GO? $22; $18 students and seniors; $3 additional fee if purchased at the door. 914-591-6602. BroadwayTraining.com.

Disney’s ‘The Little Mermaid’

SHOW TIME! ‘Frozen Jr.’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 10, 10am; 12:30pm; 3:30pm; 5:30pm WHERE: Emelin Theater, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: All WHAT: See the most anticipated junior Disney musical of the season! WANT TO GO? $25; $15 students. 914-835-2200. artistreearts.com.

‘Mary Poppins’

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 12pm WHERE: Jacob Burns Film Center, Jacob Burns Film Center, 364 Manville Road, Pleasantville AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The life of the Banks family changes forever when a nanny flies into town. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 members; $8 children age 13 and younger. 914-747-5555. burnsfilmcenter.org.

ACT presents ‘Violet’

WHEN: Nov. 7-17, See website for schedule WHERE: Actors Conservatory Theatre, 20 Buckingham Road, Yonkers AGES: 13 and older WHAT: See this Tony-nominated musical featuring show-stopping anthems, ranging from American-roots bluegrass to folk to gospel. WANT TO GO? $20 Thursday; $27 regular admission Friday-Sunday and $23 for students, seniors, veterans; 914-391-6558. actshows.org.

Arch 8: Rising Tide

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 3pm WHERE: The Performing Arts Center, Purchase College, 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase AGES: 8 and older WHAT: Using poetry, play, partnering, and live music, the performers weave a world where we fall in love with nature, mourn its loss, and come to realize that our activism and engagement can turn the tide for the better. WANT TO GO? $15-$30; kids 16 and younger are 50 percent off of the regular price. 914-251-6200. artscenter.org.

National Players: ‘The Diary of Anne Frank’

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 8pm WHERE: Academic Arts Theatre, 75 Grasslands Road, Valhalla AGES: All WHAT: This multi-cast ensemble brings the true story of an incredibly insightful young girl to the stage, in hopes of inspiring the next generation. WANT TO GO? $28; $26 Seniors/Fac-Staff/Non-Wcc; $18 children younger than 13. 914-606-6262. sunywcc.edu/about/smartarts/.

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WHEN: Nov. 23-Dec. 1, 11/23 at 7:30pm; 11/24 at 2pm; 11/29 at 2pm; 11/30 at 7:30pm; 12/1 2pm WHERE: Yorktown Stage, 1974 Commerce St., Yorktown Heights AGES: All WHAT: See The Little Mermaid as a professionally produced Broadway musical performed by a professional cast. WANT TO GO? $21-$29. 914-962-0606. yorktownstage.org.

ANIMAL LOVERS Hibernation, Migration, Adaptation, Oh My!

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 1-2pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Meet some native animals to understand how they survive in winter. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 members. 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

Reptile Expo

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 10, 9am-4pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Breeders and vendors will have thousands of live pet reptiles, amphibians, and arachnids on display and for sale at discounted prices. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 kids 7-12; free for children younger than 7. 914-995-4050. reptileexpo.com.

Meet the Animals

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 11, 1-2pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Get up close with some of the Nature Center’s live animals! WANT TO GO? $8; $5 members. 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

Awesome Adaptations FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Edith G. Read Wildlife Sanctuary, One Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: All WHAT: Learn how an animal’s adaptations keep it alive. Meet live animals! WANT TO GO? 914-967-8720. friendsofreadwildlifesanctuary.org.

Bugging Out

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 1-2pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Explore the local wildlife on a bug hunt and complete a craft. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 members. 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

Turkey Talk FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 1-2pm WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 Route 100, Katonah AGES: All WHAT: Get up close and learn all about turkeys during this interactive program. WANT TO GO? 914-864-7282. muscootfarm.org.

Learning Together with Wonder

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Hiring a special needs attorney to get your child the education she deserves, which can make all the difference in her growth and happiness.

Do You Need a Special Education Attorney? ››

Hiring a lawyer can ensure your child’s rights are respected

By Jacqueline Neber

ou know when your child isn’t receiving the education that is right for him. Maybe he’s struggling in a class that’s not a good fit. Perhaps he’s not receiving the supports and services he’s entitled to outside of class. He might even be in the wrong school altogether. But going up against a school district and the New York State Department of Education to fight for your child can be a daunting task for any parent. That’s where special education attorneys come in. They can help you understand your child’s rights, fight for his free and appropriate education, reach an agreement with your school, or get him into a new one. In fact, a special education attorney can make all the difference.

district leaders do know the law. If they don’t, they have law firms to inform them. On the other hand, many parents get stuck on the difference between an appropriate education and the best education their child can receive, says Gerald Raymond, a managing partner at Tully Rinckey PLLC in Syracuse. If parents have their child evaluated by someone outside the district, they could walk into a planning meeting for their child’s services with an idea that’s completely different from what school representatives are prepared to offer. In that case, conflict arises not because school authorities don’t know what they’re meant to provide, but because parents have a different idea.

Why an Attorney is Necessary

How Lawyers Help

The special education system in New York is complex. Some attorneys claim school districts don’t know which services are required for students with special needs, while others say schools are deliberately not providing the services these kids deserve. Laura Adler-Greene, an associate attorney at the law offices of Andrew Cohen in Garden City, says she believes 30

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Often a lawyer is necessary to get your school district to do what it must, says Bernard A. Krooks, founding partner of Littman Krooks LLP and head of its special needs department. A lawyer can help you get your child into a different type of class, receive the right services as dictated by her Individualized Education Program, or transfer to a different type of school.

A lawyer can also help when your student has behavioral challenges, and help your student avoid the school-to-prison pipeline—a trend in which students with special needs are funneled out of public schools and into the criminal justice system. The American Civil Liberties Union reports that students with disabilities are disproportionately represented in the pipeline because of schools’ inadequate special education resources and a reliance on zero tolerance policies. Once you’ve retained a lawyer, she can be as involved in your family’s progress as you want. Your attorney can attend IEP, Committee on Special Education, or annual review meetings with you or call for an impartial hearing or mediation. In some cases, a lawyer will take a family’s case all the way to federal court. Raymond says having an attorney can make a big difference in your child’s well-being. In one case, after a student fell behind in school when the district took his 1-to-1 aide away, Raymond’s firm provided the CSE with documentation as to why the child needed an aide—and got the aide restored to the child. Having an aide can significantly increase a child’s wellbeing, performance in school, and safety. Laura Davis, director of the Special Education Unit at New York Legal Assistance Group, says sometimes the impact of a lawyer might not look like much to an untrained eye, but it can mean the world to parents. “I’m working with a family whose child spent four years in an inappropriate six-one-one [six students, one teacher, and one aide] class in a public school, and is now at Gersh [Academy],” Davis says. “[The mother says] her child can now look at her, sit in a chair for a couple of minutes at a time, wave goodbye.

This is all so meaningful to the parent. To somebody else it might look like nothing, but to her, her eight-year-old child is now, for the first time, making progress.”

Finding an Attorney

In his experience, the special needs community is a connected, supportive one, Krooks says. Information, such as lawyer recommendations, tends to get passed around quickly. “You can also use Facebook, discussion and support groups, or simply search online,” he adds. But at the end of the day, Krooks says, it’s not necessarily that difficult to find someone who has the knowledge needed—though it may be a challenge to find a good match. That’s why it’s important to vet each name. “You have to hire someone you can build a relationship with, someone who’s compassionate, who’s empathetic, who can represent your interests and your child’s, and who cares about your case,” Krooks says. “Trust your instincts. You have to feel comfortable.”

Affording Services

An attorney might be necessary to go up against your child’s school—especially in wealthier districts where schools often have big law firms on retainer. But affording a lawyer can be tricky no matter where you live—and, unfortunately, petitioners in education law cases do not get attorneys appointed for them by the court, as petitioners in family law cases do. As Davis explains, it is especially important for families making lower incomes and families whose native language is not English to understand their parental rights. Many of these families, however, don’t have the means to pay retainers and continued on next page››

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fees, according to Ashley Grant, supervising staff attorney at Advocates for Children in New York City. But these fees, she says, should not prevent parents from seeking assistance. For example, families can reach out to Advocates for Children, which is just one of several organizations in the city that connects families with lower incomes to legal resources. Some law firms will take on cases regardless of family income. As Krooks points out: “We’ll take on cases like this because we went to law school to help people.” When a lawyer helps a family win a case in New York, the firm can have their attorney’s fees reimbursed by the Department of Education, at no cost to the family.

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AN EDUCATION SUCCESS STORY Alicia Lewis’s* 6-year-old daughter has global developmental delays and is largely nonverbal. She needs a very small classroom, autism-specific methodologies, and an individualized teaching approach. When the New York City Department of Education placed her in an inadequate school last fall—twice—Lewis realized she needed the help of an attorney. Lewis had gone through an initial placement meeting, in which she says DOE representatives “did not seem to factor in our input and the evaluations we submitted, and did not allow the professionals who evaluated our daughter to testify.” Lewis asked for a reconvene, but the placement recommendations made at that second meeting were the same. “We were [finally] given a District 75 placement,” she says, “and we wanted to visit it, but it was a new site that wouldn’t be open until the first day of school. We were told to visit a similar site, and we did. But it seemed like none of our daughter’s needs would be met there. They had no autismspecific methodologies. We couldn’t even see any of the teachers or therapists. They hadn’t been hired yet.” That’s when Lewis knew she had to hire an attorney. “When the DOE fails completely to provide an appropriate educational setting for your child, and you have no other choice but to seek resolution through an impartial hearing, having a lawyer is imperative.” With the help of an attorney, Lewis informed the DOE she’d placed her daughter in a private special education school and would be moving forward with an impartial hearing. During the hearing, Lewis won the tuition for her daughter’s new school, meaning the DOE would handle all costs. Lewis also won at-home therapy for her daughter’s needs. Since then, her daughter has changed tremendously, both in school and at home. “She’s much more attentive and responsive. She has made a lot of progress. She’s really grown,” Lewis says. “She is so much more focused, she shows that she’s interested, she participates, she’s much more engaged with us at home.” Lewis attributes this success to having a lawyer. “The impartial hearing process is not something I would have been able to maneuver on my own,” she says. “Without an attorney, I would not have known the specific steps we needed to follow, the timeline, and the legal terminology.” *Name has been changed to protect the identity of the family involved.

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raising kids voices

“We’re a Package.” ››

The moment I realized my daughter understood—and accepted—the responsibility of caring for her twin brother. By Ceilann Neber

y twins were never in the same play group, class, or even grade. They were together only in the womb, the NICU and, later, our home. They were on complete opposite ends of the spectrum. Why couldn’t they meet somewhere in the middle? I often asked myself. Born 16 weeks premature, my baby girl had her struggles, but I knew she would prevail. My instinct was right; she did. Relentless in my efforts to somehow change the course of his outcome, I knew my baby boy’s struggles would be permanent. And they were—a mother’s intuition. Now, 23 years later, I still wonder what life would have been like. Seeing neurotypical twins is a reminder of what they (and honestly, I) did not have. It’s a reminder of everything that was missed, how nothing was typical—and, ultimately, how it has affected my daughter. What would it have been like to bring my healthy twins home, memorialize their milestones in their baby books, and open our home to visitors wanting to celebrate them? What would it have been like to take my babies to the store or a friend’s home, to smile rather than cry, to savor each moment rather than worry about the next? What would it have been like to experience my babies developing typically? What would it have been like for my baby girl to have a playmate, a best friend, a partner in crime—to grow up like I did with my brother, who is 15 months older than me? What would it have been like for her to grow up without the constant flow of nurses and therapists in our home, visits to the hospital, or doctor and therapist appointments? What would it have been like to not worry about my son’s future—or about my daughter’s, for that matter, as the only sibling of a brother with multiple disabilities? What would it have been like to not feel guilty? When they were 10 years old, I drove the three of us home from yet another doctor’s appointment—an appointment I was hoping would bring a different diagnosis for my boy. It was during that car ride that I realized my daughter already understood what her future was going to look like. “Mommy...do you think Matt will ever get married?” she asked. “I’m not sure, why?” “Well, while we were in the doctor’s office, there was something on TV that said kids like Matt will probably never get married or have children.” I held back tears. Ceilann Neber lives on Long Island with her husband and twins.

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The author’s twins, Matt and Jacqui (our assistant editor), dancing together when they were 5

“It’s okay, Mom,” she said. “He will live with me when you and Dad can’t take care of him anymore.” “Oh, Sweetie,” I said. “I know you love your brother. But you will have your own life and your future husband may not want your brother to live with you.” Without hesitation she said, “I wouldn’t marry anyone that didn’t want Matt, Mom. We’re a package. We’re twins!” In these 23 years, every one of my daughter’s accomplishments has been met with celebration and happiness—but deep down those same accomplishments were always bittersweet for me. She felt it, too, because she wanted her brother to be able to accomplish the same things. I knew she felt it, and it makes me sad still. She has watched me move through this journey, and she wants me to be wholly happy—not the half-happy I am because I wish her brother could be beside her. She gets it, and she always has. I sat down to write this essay about what it was like to raise twins when one has a disability. But, ultimately, it’s an essay about my daughter. My son is the happiest boy. His innocent smile is the most beautiful thing. He is our light. But my daughter understands and feels more than any mother would wish for her child. It’s been a long and complicated path, and yet despite this, or perhaps because of this, she has grown into an amazing young adult. Her journey, our family’s journey, has grounded and humbled her, given her strength and understanding, and taught her compassion and kindness firsthand. Will I ever stop wondering what it would be like if my twins were both neurotypical? Maybe. One thing I won’t have to question is who will take care of my son when my husband and I aren’t able to. My daughter chose to take on the responsibility of making sure her brother is safe in the future. That is a responsibility she has understood for a long time, though it’s not what I hoped for her future. It’s something I think about all the time, and I know she thinks about it, too. Despite these worries, I wouldn’t change either of my twins for anything. The reality of life and her future responsibilities can seem overwhelming, but my daughter will approach all of it with the same compassion and strength her brother has helped her learn from the beginning. My twins will always be on opposite ends of the spectrum in many ways. I will always worry about them equally, too. But they give light to each other. And while my intuition about my son was correct, it was also correct about my daughter. She will prevail, she will keep him safe, and she will be okay.

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Special Needs Directory Bronxville Ballet

646-379-7092 bronxvilleballet.com bbnotforsale.org info@bronxvilleballet.com

Bronxville Ballet offers ballet, tap, and jazz classes for dancers age 2 to adult. Special needs classes are for nursery school through high school ages. Aides are welcome to dance with students. We include all dancers in our spring recital which makes our school complete.

Creative Wonders Therapy Center

David Green, clinical director 470 Mamaroneck Ave., Suite 204, White Plains 914-421-8270 ext. 1 101 South Bedford Road, Suite 404, Mt. Kisco 914-373-6823 creativewonderstherapy.com

650 Central Ave., Scarsdale 914-946-7800 335 Downing Drive, Yorktown Heights 914-245-8882 58 East Route 59, Nanuet 845-624-6800 huntingtonhelps.com

Huntington is the leader in kindergarten-12th tutoring and test prep. Our certified tutors provide individualized instruction in all areas including executive functioning, ADHD, Dyslexia, and learning disabilities. We help students prep for the SAT, ACT, and state exams. Huntington also testifies on student’s behalf and attends IEP/504 meetings.

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Creative Wonders is a pediatric therapy center with seasoned occupational, physical, and speech therapists. Our therapists are trained in specialties including sensory integration, PROMPT, and therapeutic listening. Our professional team collaborates with families to provide activities for the home to maximize progress. Our state-of-the-art facility features a sensory gym.

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Green Chimneys

Listening Partners, Inc.

Green Chimneys School is an accredited special education program for students kindergarten-12th who need a highly structured, supportive setting. Therapeutic day and residential programs include an enriched curriculum for individualized academic, behavioral, and emotional support, and experiential learning. An innovative naturebased approach integrates animalassisted activities into treatment and education programs.

Our mission is to strengthen the lives of all children with special needs. We believe that working with the whole child, as opposed to just the diagnosed disorder, allows for greater success. We accomplish this by building self-esteem and self-advocacy. Our devoted therapists are part of your support team.

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Huntington Learning Center

Eastchester Eastchester Shopping Center 721 White Plains Road, Scarsdale 914-722-6100

The Institute for Children with Autism and Related Disorders, Inc. (ICA) was founded in 2000. With offices in Riverhead, Melville, and White Plains, ICA’s mission is to provide state-of-thescience consultation directly to students, their families, and the school districts and community agencies that serve them. 2975 Westchester Ave., Suite 202, Purchase 914-305-5345 listeningpartnersny.com info@listeningpartnersny.com

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be daunting. Littman Krooks can help you navigate the system, understand your child’s legal rights, and establish the financial foundation that will enable as much independence as possible. Our goal is to empower families with the tools they need.

Main Street Pediatric Dentistry Dr. Penny Resnick-Graulich

115 Main St., Suite 302, Tuckahoe 914-633-4440 mainstreetpediatricdentistry.com drpennydds@aol.com

Main Street Pediatric Dentistry’s experienced staff has specialized training to work with special needs patients and those with disabilities. They focus on behavior management, working closely with the patient and their families to make the experience as comfortable as possible. Patients of all ages are welcome.

Making Authentic Friendships LLC Everyone Deserves Authentic Friendships

Juliana Fetherman, founder and CEO 631-374-0518 makingauthenticfriendships.com fethermanjuliana@gmail.com

Our responsive web-based application helps individuals with special needs (age 13 and older) find friends at home or on the go, based off of their geolocation, diagnosis, age, and interests. It works like a game, is interactive, fun, and user friendly. It’s easy to sign up and use.

MLM Advocacy

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The mission of MLM Advocacy is to help families understand and access all the special education services that their child is entitled to. With expertise, compassion, and knowledge of educational law, Monica Mandell helps to navigate this process. The goal is to develop the framework for a master plan for academic success.

Music Conservatory of Westchester’s Music Therapy Institute

216 Central Ave., White Plains 914-761-3900 musicconservatory.org info@musiced.org

Serving multiple disabilities and offering a variety of services and creative arts therapies. Since 1986, the Music Conservatory of Westchester’s Music Therapy Institute has provided professional music therapy services and adapted instruction for children and adults onsite, as well as throughout the county.

Project Explore

70 Columbus Ave., Valhalla 914-328-1578 easterseals.com/newyork

We serve children with and without disabilities in inclusive, integrated, small classrooms. We offer high-quality full- and part-time programs, school year and year-round, for children ages 18 months to 5 years, from 8:30am-2:30pm. Before- and after-school care, vacation clubs during school breaks, and summer camp are available options.

Sportime USA

380 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-2111 x2 sportimeusa.com

Sportime USA offers activities for all ages, including a 4-D motion theater, Laser Tag, rock climbing, batting cages, bumper cars, kiddie rides, video and prize games, Ballocity Ball Arena, and kiddie play zone. We are ADA compliant and able to help everyone with any special needs to enjoy all the attractions.

Steffi Nossen School of Dance

216 Central Park Ave., White Plains Satellite locations in Chappaqua and Ossining 914-328-1900 steffinossen.org

We offer high quality, developmentally appropriate dance instruction and performance opportunities. Adaptive dance classes and camps for students of all abilities (wheelchair and stand up) are part of our preschool through preprofessional classes. Students have the opportunity to learn

modern, ballet, jazz, tap, hip-hop, composition, and creative movement.

Stepping Stones Museum for Children

Matthews Park, 303 West Ave., Norwalk 203-899-0606 x208 steppingstonesmuseum.org

All families are invited to play and learn at Stepping Stones with supportive programs that modify our environment to facilitate discoveries for children with special needs. Participate and learn every Thursday at 3:30pm with My Ability. ACCESS-ability is free with registration the third Monday of every month, 2–5pm.

Tappan Zee Kid Smiles

245 N Broadway, Suite 108, Sleepy Hollow 914-332-1272 Port Chester Kid Smiles 55 South Main St., Suite 1A, Port Chester 914-939-2000

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The Therapy Nest

14 Rye Ridge Plaza, Suite 242, Rye Brook 914-222-1326 thetherapynest.com rachel@thetherapynest.com

The Therapy Nest provides a full range of pediatric occupational therapy services in our newly expanded, state-of-the-art OT sensory gym. We strive to provide the highest quality, most individualized occupational therapy services to children of all ages. We work closely with parents, evaluating and developing strategies to help children be successful.

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PROJECT EXPLORE We offer a structured learning environment for children to grow in the areas of cognitive, motor and social development. Programs Offered: Toddlers 18 months - 2.9 years of age Integrated Pre-School Program 2.9 through 5 years of age If you are interested in touring our Program, please contact Asanchez@eastersealsny.org or call us at 914-328-1578. Easterseals Project Explore 70 Columbus Avenue Valhalla, NY 10595

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These tips from security experts will go a long way to keeping your home secure, especially during the upcoming holiday season. By Jaimie Seaton

ith the holidays just around the corner, apartment doormats and front stoops will soon be stacked with packages—and that means “porch pirates” will be out in full force. Many of us will be traveling and leaving our homes unattended during the holidays. Many residents have turned to video doorbells, such as Ring and Nest Hello, to give them an edge over the package-stealing crooks and burglars, but this latest craze in home security isn’t a cure-all. In fact, there’s a lot more to home safety than filming people who come to your door.

Mind the Basics

It’s hard to believe, but some people fail to take the most basic precautions, including locking their doors. “They may feel a false sense of security, and they may live in a safe area, but you can never be too certain,” says Cassandra Anderson, vice president of the New York Insurance Association, who adds that it’s a good idea to have a deadbolt lock. It can also be easy to overlook the door itself, but all doors are not created equal. An exterior door should be metal or solid wood, not the hollow-core type used for interiors. And remember, a lock is only as strong as the door and the door is only as strong as its frame. “You can have very good locks, but if your door frame is rotted, it defeats the purpose,” says Jessica Corey, commanding officer of the NYPD’s Crime Prevention Division. “Somebody can just push the door in. You can’t install a lock or a door without looking at the whole system.” Corey also notes that many people overlook the hinges. If the door’s hinges are on the outside and the pins exposed, someone can remove the pins and remove the door. She suggests either changing the door or installing non-removable pins. Another basic step many people forget about is to make a video inventory of your possessions. That way, if you are burglarized (or suffer a house fire or flood), you have a detailed record for police and insurance.

Secure the Perimeter

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make sure landscaping doesn’t block your windows, and that shrubbery can’t be used to shield an intruder from passing neighbors or a police patrol car. Corey also reminds people to secure their windows—particularly at ground level. When installing window air conditioners, make sure to secure them with the proper (and usually included) hardware so they can’t be pushed in. And use outside lighting. “It’s is one of the cheapest and most effective deterrents that you have,” Corey says. “Either lighting that comes on from dusk to dawn, or lighting that’s motionactivated. That’s something that’s easily installed.”

Keep Up Appearances

When you broadcast news of your vacation plans across social media (or to the clerk at the local store) you never know who else is watching and listening, including thieves. It’s best to be cautious about whom you talk to—and wait to post pictures of your trip until you return. Remember that scene in Home Alone, when Kevin rigs up mannequins and lights to make it look like his empty house is full of people? You don’t have to go quite that far, but when you’re away, you want your house to look lived-in. Ask the post office to hold your mail, ensure there won’t be any packages delivered, and arrange for someone to take out the trash and recycling. It’s also a good idea to put interior and exterior lights on timers. Then there are the not-so-obvious things, like putting a television or two on a timer and asking a neighbor to park one of their cars in your driveway if you normally park your car in your driveway. (Anderson actually advises people to park their car in their garage if possible, so people won’t know their habits of coming and going.) The key is to make your house look the way it does when you are home. “A lot of people think when they go away that they should close all their curtains. If you don’t normally close all your curtains, you shouldn’t do it when you’re away,” Corey advises. And don’t forget to have someone mow the lawn or shovel snow if you’re away for more than a week. Both Corey and Anderson say leaving your house to the elements while you’re away is a sure sign the home isn’t occupied.

Be Smart with Your Smart Home

Aside from all these low-tech strategies, both Anderson and Corey recommend installing a home security system and/or video doorbell. “There’s a lot of new types of technologies out there that create video display in real time, where you’re aware of what’s going on in your house when you’re away. I think that those are certainly things that individuals could consider, to increase the security at their house,” Anderson says. “I can’t speak to any one technology, but having multiple security features is always better,” Corey says. “If you have video, if you have lighting, if you have an alarm system, that’s going to be better than if you had none of those things.” She recommends an alarm system with motion detectors and installing video cameras connected to a phone app but cautions people to remember that online systems can be hacked. “Use two-factor authentication and anything else the security or doorbell company recommends to protect the system,” Corey says. Nothing will guarantee 100-percent safety and security, but taking a strategic approach and implementing the measures recommended by experts will reduce your chances of being victimized. Jaimie Seaton has been a journalist for more than 20 years and is the former Thailand correspondent for Newsweek. Her work on divorce, parenting, dating, and a wide range of topics has been featured in The Washington Post, The Guardian, Glamour, and numerous other publications. Follow her on Twitter @ JaimieSeaton.

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Having open and honest conversations with your teen can help prevent some bad choices from being made.

Why Teens Drive Us Crazy

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There is a reason your teen making bad or questionable decisions is the (unfortunate) norm in the adolescent years. But don’t worry! It’s just a phase. By Lambeth Hochwald

s a parent of a teenager, you probably know some vexing behavior often comes with this stage—whether it’s making choices without regard to consequences, questioning authority, or just becoming more distant. It’s a challenging time for both parent and child—and it’s often impossible for us to understand why our kids are acting out. One of the best ways to cope and communicate, however, is to understand the reasons for their behavior.

Their Brains Work Against Them

“While teenagers’ brains are growing at a rapid rate, they are still many years away from maturity—as brains typically complete growth at age twenty-five,” says David Ezell, founder and CEO of Darien Wellness, a counseling and psychiatry group in Darien, CT. “The last part of the brain to develop is the frontal cortex, which is the part that contains the executive functioning area and is involved with abstract thought, planning, and impulse control.” What does this mean for your teen who is juggling many new thoughts and emotions? “Executive functions allow us to plan and see consequences,” Ezell says. “So, what adults perceive to be obviously ‘risky’ behavior does not seem that way to teenagers because their brains have difficulty connecting today to tomorrow. The combination of a lack of experience and a developing brain sets young people up to put themselves in situations that most adults would consider to be very dangerous.” 40

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They Lack Experience

There’s another very important reason your teens are acting out, and it’s actually quite simple: Teenagers haven’t had anywhere near the life experience you’ve had. “As adults, we know that if we don’t pay the ConEd bill, the lights will be turned off,” Ezell says. “Most teens lack that experience of cause and effect, nor have they seen their peers experience a similar situation.” Remember: Being a teenager is a developmental stage, albeit one that may involve intense mood swings, lying, social media obsession, and trading communication with you for spending way more time with his friends. “This is a time when a child is going from being a child to becoming an independent adult, which is also why there is so much change happening in their body, minds, and actions,” says Shuli Sandler, Psy.D., a clinical psychologist in Teaneck, NJ. “A lot of this time is about figuring out who they are and part of that is pushing limits in the service of that exploration and discovery.”

Hormones are Surging

Along with changing bodies come changing hormones, which play a large role in what teens are feeling. “All of these new hormones can also contribute to a lack of impulse control,” says Nikita Banks, LCSW, a licensed psycho-

therapist in private practice in Brooklyn. “Think about all that your teen is juggling. She is both trying to figure out who she is as an individual and find her place in society, which is a very big transition. To do this, she may pull away or test the values of her family and adapt behaviors that will be seen as more desirable to her peer group. When you put all of these factors together it can make for one wild ride.” With this surge in independence, teens may push the envelope to see how far they can push you. “The goal you hope for as a parent is for your teen to ultimately end up in the middle where he takes appropriate risks but uses caution and prudence when indicated,” Dr. Sandler says. Though “it does take time for the two extremes to settle down in the middle.”

HOW TO MAKE THINGS EASIER We’re not going to sugarcoat it: This is a challenging phase in your life as a parent, but you can get through it in a healthy way—and keep your relationship as strong as it ever was—by following these three tips from Shuli Sandler, Psy.D., a clinical psychologist in Teaneck, NJ. Be open to hearing about anything. Try to have as many candid conversations as possible with your teenagers, in which you talk about everything, including, but not limited to, sex, drugs, friends, and school.

Make sure the rules are clear. Spell out your rules of conduct but understand your teen may not follow them. If she doesn’t, she needs to know exactly what the consequences will be. Be there to help him. Make sure your teen understands that he can and should ask for help whenever he needs it. He should also know that he will not be penalized for asking for help—even if he’s at a party and needs to call you for a ride at 1am because his ride has been drinking.

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What You Can Do

Given all of this change, keeping the lines of communication open with your teen is very important—especially when he makes bad or questionable choices. Plan regular outings together or eat meals as a family to bridge the gaps. “This time together is very important, and it serves another purpose, too. It’s actually a really good way to get an inside view of what is going on in their life,” Banks says. “Your goal should be twofold: You want to monitor their social interactions with friends to the best of your ability, but also give your child a voice.” After all, any strong connection you can keep with your teen is crucial and will help ease the very important transition she is moving through. “When teens feel that they are not only seen but heard at home, it helps them develop a greater sense of self-esteem,” Banks adds. “It also provides a strong foundation for them to be able to withstand the social pressures of this time of life.” Lambeth Hochwald is a NYC-based journalist.

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Ann and Andy Child Care

2170 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-3027 annandandychildcare.com annandydca@aol.com Ann and Andy, family-owned and operated since 1973, offers a variety of fun activities for children ages 2 months to 14 years. We are licensed by NYSOCFS and the Health Department. We offer flexible schedules, reasonable rates, nutritious lunches, a caring staff, individualized attention, and age-appropriate field trips.

UFC GYM Mamaroneck

300 Waverly Ave., Mamaroneck 914-835-4269 ufcgym.com/locations/mamaroneck dean.bellantoni@ufcgym.com Interested in working out or running errands for a couple of hours? Join our three-hour Knockout Kids Club, which is an open play/ daycare service. Available in two sessions am or pm, Monday-Friday for kids ages 3 and older. The daily rate is $50. Please note that pre-registration is required.

PAROCHIAL & RELIGIOUS SCHOOLS Westchester Jewish Center Early Childhood Center

Ann Pardes, director 914-698-2767 Palmer and Rockland Avenues (Use 175 Rockland Ave. for GPS purposes.) Mamaroneck wjcenter.org WJC’s Early Childhood Center (ECC) offers programs for children from birth to age 5. Our developmentally appropriate program provides a balance between preparing for the future and living fully in the present, in the context of a caring environment. Children learn through discovery, multi-sensory, child-centered, and rich adult-child interactions.

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Alcott Montessori School

535 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry 914-693-4443 27 Crane Road, Scarsdale 914-472-4404 46 Fox Meadow Road, Scarsdale 914-725-7551 alcottschool.org Alcott School provides chil-

dren ages 2-6 a supportive, multicultural, learning environment where they develop independence, self-confidence, and pride in their abilities. All sites offer a developmentally appropriate curriculum with Montessori materials, music, creative movement, and nature enrichment programs.

Ann and Andy Child Care

2170 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-3027 annandandychildcare.com annandydca@aol.com Ann and Andy, family-owned and operated since 1973, offers a variety of fun activities for children ages 2 months to 14 years. We are licensed by NYSOCFS and the health department. We offer flexible schedules, reasonable rates, nutritious lunches, a caring staff, individualized attention, and age-appropriate field trips.

Iona Preparatory School K–12

Brother Thomas R. Leto, C.F.C., Ed.D., president Lower School (grades pre-K-4 to eighth) 173 Stratton Road, New Rochelle 914-633-7744 Upper School (grades ninth-12th) 255 Wilmot Road, New Rochelle 914-632-0714 ionaprep.org An Iona Preparatory education is one of the best investments you can make for your son’s development, beginning with prekindergarten and setting the stage for a lifetime of success. Westchester’s only Catholic, all-boys, PK-12 school blends rigorous academics and small classes allowing faculty to actively engage students in learning.

Mazel Tots Early Childhood Program at Scarsdale Synagogue

2 Ogden Road, Scarsdale 914-723-3001 bit.ly/metromicrosite1819 mazeltots@sstte.org Mazel Tots helps children grow! They serve ages newborn through kindergarten-bound. Featuring a wide variety of developmentally appropriate activities including sports, music, sign language, yoga, science, art, and the study of Jewish holidays. They also have fully equipped indoor and outdoor play spaces.

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The Milestone School

70 W. Broad St., Mt. Vernon 914-667-3478 themilestoneschool.com Founded in 1979 on the premise that “the first years of a child’s education are the most important,” The Milestone School is an independent, non-sectarian, nursery-fourth grade school. Celebrating 40 years of excellence, our unique, stimulating academic environment emphasizing early reading prepares students to continue on to top private schools.

Westchester Jewish Center Early Childhood Center

Ann Pardes, director 914-698-2767 Palmer and Rockland Avenues, Mamaroneck (Use 175 Rockland Ave. for GPS purposes.) wjcenter.org WJC’s Early Childhood Center (ECC) offers programs for children from birth to age 5. Our developmentally appropriate program provides a balance between preparing for the future and living fully in the present, in the context of a caring environment. Children learn through discovery, multi-sensory, child-centered, and rich adultchild interactions.

PRIVATE SCHOOLS

Blue Rock School

110 Demarest Mill Road, West Nyack 845-627-0234 bluerockschool.org Blue Rock School offers a unique, progressive, educational approach based on hands-on experiences. Our creative academic curriculum is infused with the arts, nature, and play from kindergarten through eighth grade. By nurturing children’s love of learning, developing their skills, and encouraging critical thinking we prepare them for a changing world.

Iona Preparatory School K–12

An Iona Preparatory education is one of the best investments you can make for your son’s development, beginning with prekindergarten and setting the stage for a lifetime of success. Westchester’s only Catholic, all-boys, PK-12 school blends rigorous academics and small classes allowing faculty to actively engage students in learning.

Thornton-Donovan School

100 Overlook Circle, New Rochelle 914-632-8836 td.edu Thornton-Donovan School, located in the heart of New Rochelle’s Beechmont section, was founded in 1901. T-D is an independent, international, kindergarten-12th, coed school that attracts students from 40 different countries, and teaches French, Spanish, Italian, Latin, Greek, German, and Japanese.

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Green Chimneys

400 Doansburg Road, Brewster 845-279-2995 33 Clearpool Road, Carmel 845-225-8226 greenchimneys.org Green Chimneys School is an accredited special education program for students in kindergarten-12th who need a highly structured, supportive setting. Therapeutic day and residential programs include an enriched curriculum for individualized academic, behavioral, and emotional support, and experiential learning. An innovative nature-based approach integrates animal-assisted activities into treatment and education programs.

Project Explore

70 Columbus Ave., Valhalla 914-328-1578 easterseals.com/newyork We serve children with and without disabilities in inclusive, integrated, small classrooms. We offer high-quality full- and part-time programs, school year and year-round, for children ages 18 months to 5 years, from 8:30am-2:30pm. Before- and after-school care, vacation clubs during school breaks, and summer camp are available options.

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535 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry 914-693-4443 27 Crane Road, Scarsdale 914-472-4404 46 Fox Meadow Road, Scarsdale 914-725-7551 alcottschool.org Our next open house in November is on Wednesday, Nov. 13 from 9:30-11:30am both at our Dobbs Ferry (535 Broadway), and Scarsdale (27 Crane Road) site locations.

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955 Mamaroneck Ave., Mamaroneck 914-552-0521 sweetcharlies.com At Sweet Charlie’s we combine the art of making Thai inspired ice cream rolls with modern American showmanship. Roll out the red carpet for your next birthday or event with Sweet Charlie’s catering services!

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914-764-5564 tillyadeerstale.com Tilly...A Deer’s Tale is about a real deer that lives in upstate New York and faces challenges after an accident. This powerful story is meant to inspire children living with physical challenges or limitations. The book makes a great birthday gift!

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856 Main St., New Rochelle 914-278-9477 agamesports.net info@agamesports.net A-Game Sports offers a variety of birthday party packages for children of all ages. Each 90-minute party includes supervised playtime with two coaches on a private section of turf.

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ACHIEVE MARTIAL ARTS

590 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-723-0777 achieve914.com achieve914@gmail.com Achieve Martial Arts offers amazing martial arts themed birthday parties with games and actual board breaking. Instructors lead the 90-minute party. The party package includes pizza and beverages.

ARTISTREE PERFORMING ARTS

114 W. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-835-2200 artistreearts.com jeanette@artistreearts.com Artistree Performing Arts creates amazing birthday parties for children ages 1-12. Have your party in our beautifully renovated studio or let us come to you with just the entertainment.

BACH TO ROCK MAMARONECK

130 Mamaroneck Ave., Mamaroneck 914-341-1457 mamaroneck.b2rmusic.com mamaroneck@bachtorock.com Looking for a fun birthday party at a reasonable price? We have three different parties: Rock Star, Karaoke, or Rock City, for an unforgettable experience!

CENTRAL PARK DANCE

450 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-723-2940 centralparkdance.com; centralparkdance@ gmail.com Have the birthday party of your dreams! Choose from Fairytale Ballet, Hip-hop, and Fun-n-Fit party games. We provide a beautifully decorated studio, a separate space to serve food, paper goods, and an experienced, professional staff.

CHELSEA PIERS CONNECTICUT

One Blachley Road, Stamford 203-989-1100 chelseapiersct.com/birthday info@chelseapiersct.com Birthday parties at Chelsea Piers are action-packed! Options include gymnastics, dance, basketball, volleyball, soccer, ice-skating, ninja warrior, and water slides. New to Chelsea Piers is a gymnastics party option for toddlers and a pool party!

CHOCOLATIONS

607 E. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-777-3600 chocolations.com maria@chocolations.com Have your child’s next party at Chocolations. Steph’s Sweets, known for its creative and delicious cookies, is now at Chocolations! We offer chocolate-making and cookie-decorating parties for a sweet and memorable experience.

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29 LeCount Place (Exit 16 off I-95), New Rochelle Party Central: 914-637-7575, option 1 funfuziononline.com

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GREAT PLAY OF SCARSDALE

Interactive Gym for Kids 969B Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-713-3470 greatplay.com/scarsdale Our award-winning, high-energy parties are spectacular events in our amazing Interactive Gym™. We customize each party based on your child’s interests, using some of our most popular Great Play games.

HOMMOCKS PARK ICE RINK

Boston Post Road and Weaver Street, Larchmont 914-834-1069 hommocksparkicerink.org Have your birthday party on ice! Host your next special party at the coolest place in town, Mamaroneck’s popular enclosed Hommocks Park Ice Skating Rink.

KIDS IN SPORTS

365 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-358-9732 scarsdaleny.kidsinsports.com scarsdaleny@kidsinsports.com We design the party to suit your child’s sports interests and abilities. Parties are 90 minutes. You will have our entire location dedicated to only your party, hosted by our expert coaches.

LIL CHAMELEON

29 Elm St., Tuckahoe 914-346-5148 lilchameleon.com Book our Silver or Gold Package each with unique experiences: crafts with face painting or balloon sculptures, cupcake decorating, princesses, super heroes, tea party, rainbows and unicorns, or live animals.

THE LITTLE GYM

777 White Plains Road, Scarsdale 914-722-0072 tlgscarsdaleny.com 2121 Broadway, 2nd Floor (between 74th and 75th streets) Upper West Side, Manhattan 212-799-1225 tlgupperwestsideny.com A private party at The Little Gym is a perfect way to celebrate your child’s next birthday. Gymnastics, games, obstacle courses, trampoline, sports, and music are tailored to your child’s interests!

THE ROCK CLUB AT PINE BROOK FITNESS

130 Rhodes St., New Rochelle 914-633-7625 pinebrookfitness.com/the-rock-club Parties at The Rock Club literally rock! Rock climbing is an incredibly social sport and a great way to bring excitement and engagement to your next birthday party!

SPORTIME USA

380 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-2111 x2 sportimeusa.com Birthday parties? That’s our specialty! Celebrate your birthday at Sportime USA, the coolest place to have a party in Westchester.

STEPPING STONES MUSEUM FOR CHILDREN

Matthews Park, 303 West Ave., Norwalk 203-899-0606 x208 steppingstonesmuseum.org/parties Stepping Stones turns a birthday party into a celebration. Go big, go small, or go after hours and get the whole museum to yourself. When it is time to go home, leave the mess to us!

STUDIO B DANCE CENTER

277 White Plains Road (entrance on Prospect Avenue), Eastchester 914-793-2799 studiobdance.com Each party at Studio B is uniquely designed to give the birthday child an exciting, personalized experience. Boys and girls ages 2 and older enjoy dancing and playing games to their favorite music.

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Sugar Factory - Meatpacking District 835 Washington St., Manhattan Sugar Factory - The Row 700 8th Ave., Manhattan Sugar Factory - Upper West Side 1991 Broadway, Manhattan 212-414-8700 sugarfactory.com sfny@sugarfactory.com Party where the stars play! Here at Sugar Factory, we offer pre-fixed and customizable party packages for any celebration and budget! From private large-scale events to private dinners for two, a Sugar Factory celebration is one you will never forget!

UFC GYM MAMARONECK

300 Waverly Ave., Mamaroneck 914-835-4269 ufcgym.com/locations/mamaroneck dean.bellantoni@ufcgym.com It’s party time...this year celebrate your child’s birthday the UFC way! Great coaches-we have them! Obstacle courses-we got em. Ninja Warrior parties-check. Parties start at $499.

WESTCHESTER CHILDREN’S MUSEUM

100 Playland Parkway, Rye 914-421-5050 discoverwcm.org info@discoverwcm.org Places to build, explore, and discover, the Westchester Children’s Museum is Westchester’s newest, most creative place for birthday parties! Have the museum’s exhibits, MakerSpace, and party room to yourself-our parties offer exclusive use of the museum space when the general public has gone home.

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Shari Eberts and her family at a recent Hearing Loss Association of America Walk4Hearing

If I Can’t See You, I Can’t Hear You ›› The challenges of being a mother with hearing loss

“ s this the year we can finally get earbuds?” It’s a question my teenagers ask me every year on their birthday, but they already know the answer: No. And they know the reason why. I have an adult-onset genetic hearing loss passed down through my father’s side of the family. Thankfully, my children have healthy hearing so far, but I need them to guard it with a vengeance. If they develop problems with their hearing in adulthood, like I did, I want them to be starting off with as little residual damage as possible—hence, no earbuds. That’s not our first struggle triggered by my hearing issues. When you’re a mom with hearing loss, communication with your children is always a bit difficult. It’s just the nature of the challenge that changes as they grow. When they were infants, I would strain to hear their cries through the baby monitor. At night, with my hearing aids removed, I might sleep through the sound, even with the volume turned up to the max. Luckily, my husband would usually hear them and wake me up when necessary. If he was traveling for work, I slept fitfully, worried my babies might need me, but I wouldn’t hear them. In later years, I trained my children to seek me out at night if a problem arose, so I would be sure to respond. The struggles weren’t all bad. As toddlers, my kids reveled in the game hide-and-seek, probably because they were at such an advantage. I could hear their giggles and squeals, but had a hard

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time pinpointing the location of the sounds. When I walked past their hiding place, giggles would erupt, but I wouldn’t know exactly where to look. Circling back, I would hear laughter again. They enjoyed it so much, I made a point to wander back and forth calling, “Where are you?” for several minutes. I knew a limb would eventually poke out from their secret spot, and I would find them. When they started school, communication became even more important, and a few logistical rules were required: Remember to face me when you talk to me; speak slower so I can understand you; don’t cover your mouth with your hands; if I can’t see you, I can’t hear you. I know I sound like a broken record, but what choice do I have? Some days they remember, others they forget. They face me for one sentence but turn away for the next. It causes sadness and irritation on both sides. I wonder why they can’t consistently speak so I can understand them, and they get annoyed that their nagging mom can’t hear them. There are some tough moments, especially when they wave their hands at me in frustration and say, “Never mind.” That really brings me to a boil. The good news is, children can be very accepting. One day I asked my children if it bothered them to have a mom with hearing loss. They looked at me like they didn’t understand the question. It is all they have ever known.

Shari Eberts is a hearing health advocate, writer, and the founder of livingwithhearingloss.com, a blog and online community for people living with hearing loss and tinnitus. She serves on the board of trustees of Hearing Loss Association of America. Connect with Eberts on Facebook @livingwithhearingloss and Twitter @sharieberts.

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