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10 17 seasonal fun

14 Spectacular Staycations 16 Holiday Fun in NYC

Regift Without Regret

The do’s and don’ts of courteous regifting

Family Activities Calendar

Find something to do every day this month in Rockland County

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6 Editor’s Note 8 How to Be a Grinch 10 Regift Without Regret 13 The Best Back-up Sitter Options 36 Decoding Infant Reflexes 38 Don’t Let Go—Just Yet 40 Education Directory 42 Party Central 45 Open Houses, Professional Services, Advertisers’ Index 46 Trip of a Lifetime

17 Family Activities Calendar

32 Declutter Your Home 34 Get Insured

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Happy Holidays!

o matter which holiday you celebrate this month, the end of the year is typically the time many families have travel plans—to visit family, escape the cold for a week, or even just a few days away to take advantage of kids’ time off from school. But if holiday travel isn’t on your calendar yet, we’ve got just the thing for you: six out-of-the-box staycation ideas in Manhattan, plus our top picks for seasonal fun if you want to stay local (p. 14). Of course, there’s always the trusty calendar (p. 17), chock-full of ideas for every day of the month to keep your kids active, entertained, and having a blast for the rest of 2019! Speaking of holidays, have you ever been given a gift that, while thoughtful, wasn’t your style? Chances are you’ll get at least one more this year. Not to worry! It’s 100-percent acceptable to regift any presents you receive, says Lizzie Post, greatgreat-granddaughter of etiquette guru Emily Post. Just make sure you read Lizzie’s do’s and don’ts of regifting first (p. 10)! And while we’re thinking about gifts (and the season’s hottest toys your kids are begging for)…it might be time to purge the toy box and get rid of any toys your child has outgrown. Read expert organizers’ tips for decluttering your home on p. 32. This might not be the highlight of your holiday vacation, but it will benefit your family in the long run. Wishing you and yours a happy, healthy, and fruitful holiday season! Katelin Walling Editorial Director

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Regift Without Regret

s it rude to regift? Not at all, says Lizzie Post, great-great-granddaughter of the legendary etiquette guru Emily Post, author of numerous proper-behavior books, and co-host of the Awesome Etiquette podcast. Post says she prefers to be open and honest when she regifts. She once regifted a bracelet from an old boyfriend to her cousin on her 21st birthday. “I told her that I was given the bracelet by someone who really loved me and that I thought she would appreciate it, and she was thrilled,” Post says. “It became a piece that meant something to her and that I felt good about letting go of because I let her know the history.” But even if you want your gift’s origin to remain a secret, keeping useful items in circulation is not only good for the planet, but can make others happy. Here are Post’s do’s and don’ts for courteous regifting.

Use Original Packaging

The item shouldn’t look like it’s been open, tested, or used. If you’re not telling the recipient it’s a regifted item, then it really has to look brand-new. Reminder for gift bags: Remove the tag that’s inscribed to you.

Don’t Regift Personalized Items

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else, including a wedding date or inscription. Needless to say, this is not acceptable. Unless the new recipient has the exact same wedding date, keep the gift.

Let Time Pass Before Regifting

If you’re choosing to keep your regifting a secret, Post says you need to be 99-percent sure the person you’re giving it to and the person who gave it to you aren’t going to find out. Let some time lapse before immediately regifting the item—the amount of time, according to Post, is a personal decision and calls for good judgement.

Don’t Regift Unique or Handmade Items

If someone paints you a painting or gives you a particularly unique or memorable gift (such as an Octopus planter), there’s no way to regift these items within your family or circle of friends. Avoid hurt feelings and keep the gifts or regift to a friend or relative who will never cross paths with the original giver.

Be Thoughtful About Regifting

Only regift when you think the item will benefit the person receiving it. In other words, don’t thoughtlessly regift things simply to get rid of them or save money. If it’s not a good match, sell or donate the item, Post advises.

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hile employing a nanny can be a more flexible arrangement than other child care options, you’ll need a plan B. Nannies get sick, go on vacation, and have car, family, household emergencies like anyone else. Save yourself last-minute stress by thinking ahead. Here are smart back-up plans to consider.

Drop-In Centers

Some child care centers offer an occasional drop-in option for families whose kids don’t normally attend. Typically, no advance notice is required, but you have to be pre-registered. Check with some of your local child care centers to see which ones may offer this arrangement. Ask whether the fee is based on a membership, where you can drop in up to a certain number of times in a year, or if you only pay for the days you actually use the service.

Another Nanny

Do you have friends who employ a nanny for their children? If so, see if that nanny might be willing to watch your kids on the days yours is unavailable. Your nanny can then return the favor. Of course, you check with your nanny to make sure she’d be okay with this—and talk to your friend—before you’re in a jam.

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They’re busy too, needless to say, and should not be taken for granted. But that said, if you have a close friend nearby who stays home with her kids, she’d probably be willing to help you out. Again, you’ll want to broach the subject well before your hour of need.

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If none of these options pan out, and the type of job you have allows for it, you could plan to work from home on those days when your nanny can’t make it. Discuss this with your boss before the time comes.

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is the season to stay in town! That’s because New York City has some of the best staycation options—and we don’t mean a visit to the Met or a chilly walk through Central Park. In fact, once we started thinking outside the box, we discovered some extraordinary and innovative ways to spend your holiday.

in Hudson Yards, the Crowne Plaza HY36’s Hibernation Vacation Suite is stocked with cozy sleeping bags and plush throw blankets. Artificial candles, crackling fireplace sounds, and a mini chocolate fountain for deconstructed s’mores bring elements of camping into your room.

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Don’t just go to the theater. Book a night at the Row NYC hotel, just steps away from some of the biggest shows including The Lion King, which is just a block away. This year Row NYC is offering the Bloomingdale’s Shop & Stay package, which includes exclusive in-store savings, a branded duffle bag, and a $50 gift card to the store. For the perfect pre-theater or post-shopping treat, stop by City Kitchen, a food hall located right off Row NYC’s lobby, for snacks such as Dough’s famous doughnuts.

Glamp in the City

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At the new Conrad New York Midtown, the first-ever FAO Schwarz Holiday Suite comes decorated with the iconic store’s favorites for the season—including a mini gourmet kitchen, ride-on train tracks, and DJ turntables. Suite guests also get a private shopping spree and tour of the store by an FAO Schwarz toy soldier.

A Flavor for All Taste Buds

During an invigorating walk across the Brooklyn Bridge, it helps to know a cozy food hall awaits on the other side. That place is Dumbo’s Time Out Market New York, which serves Juliana’s Pizza (without the wait), and the now-legendary blueberry pancakes courtesy of Clinton Street Baking Co., alongside views of the East River waterfront and lower Manhattan skyline. Before you eat, take a spin on nearby Jane’s Carousel—which is not just for kids.

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Spend an afternoon at Madame Tussauds New York, where you can snap Insta-worthy pics of your kids with their favorite celebrities, comic heroes, and more—including Taylor Swift and the Hulk.

Locals as Tourists

Just blocks away from the Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree, The Knickerbocker, aka The Knick, is a boutique hotel that feels like an oasis even though it’s in busy Times Square. Relax over a meal at Charlie Palmer at The Knick, which offers a kids’ menu that’s as varied as it is healthy. (Salmon and veggies on a kids’ menu? Now we’re talking.) Plus, it’s steps away from popular destinations, such as Madame Tussauds, National Geographic Encounter: Ocean Odyssey, and Ripley’s Believe It or Not! Don’t forget to ask about the hotel’s holiday partnership with Shoott—which is offering an hourlong professional photoshoot to commemorate your special staycation. It could yield the perfect picture for next year’s holiday card.

Sweet Indulgence

There’s a new shake in town this holiday season, and you can find it at Black Tap 35th, the restaurant’s new flagship location in Herald Square. The Holiday Shake (available Dec. 1-31) is a cheesecake-flavored milkshake with a vanilla-frosted rim and white, gold, and silver sprinkles. As if that weren’t decadent enough—it’s topped with a slice of white-chocolate, macadamia-nut cheesecake, whipped cream, and a cherry. The kids will go bananas watching this and other shakes come to life at the Black Tap’s CrazyShake Bar.

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Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

Visitors of LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester’s Holiday Bricktacular can enjoy themed building workshops, a winter wonderland MINILAND, and plenty of photo ops.

TRADITIONAL TREATS IN WESTCHESTER You won’t feel like a tourist with seasonal activities at these local destinations. Marvel at Mini and Vintage Trains Stop by the Greenburg Nature Center in Scarsdale for one of its most popular events—the Holiday Train Show—to enjoy zooming freight cars, tooting whistles, and more! And at the New York Botanical Garden in the nearby Bronx, the Holiday Train Show features miniature model trains that zip through more than 175 mini landmarks, including the Brooklyn Bridge and the Statue of Liberty. Be Wowed by Lights For the first time since 2007, the Bronx Zoo is bringing back its dazzling light display as part of its Bronx Zoo Holiday Lights celebration. The event features custom Asian lanterns, animated light shows as well as ice-carving demos, train rides, and holiday-themed music performances. A Holiday Bricktacular Celebration LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester is transforming into a winter wonderland this season to celebrate the Holiday Bricktacular. The month-long event features themed building workshops, magical LEGO creations, and a visit LEGO Santa! Plus, MINILAND will be transformed into a wintery wonderland, and kids can enjoy a scavenger hunt to spot new wonders. Santa, and Skating, and Rides, Oh My! As Valhalla’s annual holiday tradition, Westchester’s Winter Wonderland has something for everyone, from ice-skating, photos with Santa, and a holiday circus to carnival rides, an extravagant light display, and a giant light-up menorah. The seasonal fun is happening at Kensico Dam Plaza from Nov. 29-Jan. 4, 2020.

Satisfy your sweet tooth with a decadent milkshake from Black Tap 35th, like the seasonal Holiday Shake.

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Celebrate Hanukkah the cool way at the Lasker Rink in North Central Park. At Chanukah on Ice NYC, the Chabad Family Programs of the West Side invites families to enjoy Jewish music under the stars, traditional treats such as latkes and doughnuts, and of course, the lighting of the 6-foot ice menorah. Dec. 22, 5-8pm. In advance: $32 with skate rental, $24 without skate rental. At door: $35 with skate rental, $28 without skate rental. Use code NYMetro for 10-percent discount online. Ages 3 and older. chanukahonicenyc.com

You can get a good view of the Rockefeller Center ChristmasTree from Rockefeller Plaza, the Channel Gardens, or on Fifth Avenue between 49th and 50th streets.

Let There Be Light!

Every year, New Yorkers look forward to the Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree Lighting. The ceremony begins Wednesday, Dec. 4 at 7pm and the lights come on at 9pm, but if you want a good view, we recommend you get there as early as possible (some people camp out starting early in the morning!). In addition to the illumination of the 77-foot tall Norway spruce, you’ll enjoy musical performances by Gwen Stefani, John Legend, Lea Michele, the Radio City Rockettes, and more! Free. rockefellercenter.com

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Enjoy holiday lights, take a ride on the holiday train, enjoy the music of carolers, watch an ice carving competition, and snap the perfect Instagram with a costumed character.

Bronx Zoo

The Bronx Zoo is a family favorite all year round. Enjoy the classics, like the sea lion feeding and penguin feeding, or get up close and personal with one of your favorite animals such as a cheetah, a giraffe, a penguin, or a sloth. Some exhibits are weather-dependent, so be sure to check which exhibits are open before visiting on the Bronx Zoo app. Visit it: 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx; 718-220-5100; bronxzoo.com Can’t-miss event: Holiday Lights; Nov. 20-Dec. 31, Jan. 3-5 (excluding Dec. 24-25). $29.95 ages 13 and older; $22.95 ages 3-12. $28.95 seniors. Free for children 2 and younger. Use code HOLIDAY10 for a 10-percent discount. Directions: Approximately a 25-minute drive or a 45-minute Metro-North and subway ride from White Plains

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Holiday Fun in

Visit the Bryant Park website for information on 2020 Kids Week, with skating, crafts, and more fun for kids.

Bryant Park

This winter wonderland is home to NYC’s only free-admission ice rink, a bar and food hall, a variety of winter-themed activities, and so much more. The Bank of America Winter Village at Bryant Park is Manhattan’s one-stop shop for holiday fun for the whole family. Browse unique gifts at the open-air market with artisans from NYC and beyond or cozy up with your loved ones at The Lodge for a snack and a warm drink. See website for schedule and admission pricing. bryantpark.org Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive or a 1-hour Metro-North and subway ride from White Plains

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DECEMBER CALENDAR

18 Editor’s Hot Tickets

25 Once Upon a Time

19 We Can’t Believe It’s FREE!

26 Holiday Fun

20 Crafty Kids

28 Movers & Shakers,

22 On Screen, Smarty Pants

23 Dance Party

29 Special Needs

24 Mini Musicians

30 Show Time!

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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 11 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Baseball Card Show

WHEN: Nov. 29-Dec. 1, Friday 1-7pm; Saturday 10am5pm; Sunday 10am-4pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains

AGES: All WHAT: See 175 tables at this sports card and memorabilia show. WANT TO GO? $10; free for children younger than 12. 914-995-4050. nyshows.org.

3 WHY WE LOVE IT: This show is short and sweet! WANT TO GO? $20; $5 children. 914-591-6602. irvingtontheater.com.

Sinterklaas Festival Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 10am-8pm WHERE: Village of Rhinebeck AGES: All WHAT: A day-long, colorful, non-denominational celebration that features children’s workshops, dance, theatre, and music all over the village of Rhinebeck. WHY WE LOVE IT: The spectacular Children’s Starlight Parade at 6pm features two-story tall, animated puppets carried by hundreds of volunteers! WANT TO GO? sinterklaashudsonvalley.com.

The Laurie Berkner Band in a Holiday Celebration Concert

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 11am and 3pm WHERE: Tarrytown Music Hall, 13 Main St., Tarrytown AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Hear holiday favorites and Laurie Berkner Band classics! WHY WE LOVE IT: Families will dance and sing along to everything from “Frosty the Snowman” to “We Are The Dinosaurs” and “Pig On Her Head.” WANT TO GO? $35 and up. 877-840-0457. tarrytownmusichall.org.

Jessica Lynn: A Very Merry Country Christmas

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 8-10pm WHERE: Paramount Hudson Valley Theater, 1008 Brown St., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: See country music star Jessica Lynn in a show that features dozens of dancers, singers, musicians, dazzling effects, and maybe even a visit from Santa himself. WHY WE LOVE IT: Please bring a new, unwrapped gift for Toys for Tots and you’ll be entered in the raffle to win a brand new guitar! WANT TO GO? $25-$35. 914-739-0039. paramounthudsonvalley.com.

‘The Nutcracker, An Amanda Kupillas Dance Production’

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 2:30pm WHERE: Irvington Town Hall Theater, 85 Main St., Irvington AGES: All WHAT: This show was created for families who want to bring their young kids to enjoy a stress-free and short production of The Nutcracker. 18

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Brunch with Santa

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 10am and 1:45pm WHERE: Westchester Broadway Theatre, 1 Broadway Plaza, Elmsford AGES: All WHAT: Join the North Pole crew for a terrific family gathering featuring a delicious brunch buffet! WHY WE LOVE IT: Bring your camera for pictures with Santa, and a new, unwrapped gift for Toys for Tots. WANT TO GO? $41; $28 ages 13 and younger. 914-372-6491. broadwaytheatre.com.

Chanukah Town @ Ridge Hill FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 22, 1-4pm WHERE: Ridge Hill, 1 Ridge Hill Blvd., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Ridge Hill is transformed into a magical Chanukah Town complete with rides, music and entertainment, and crafts. WHY WE LOVE IT: Families will enjoy seasonal refreshments and even a Dreidel Drop! WANT TO GO? 914-693-6100. chanukahtown.com.

Casey Carle’s BubbleMania

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 29, 3pm WHERE: Palace Theatre, 61 Atlantic St., Stamford, CT AGES: All WHAT: An amazing one-man show combining spontaneous comedy, jazzy music, and brilliant bubbling. WHY WE LOVE IT: The fun includes a cube bubble, bubble ping-pong, and audience participation! WANT TO GO? $15. 203-325-4466. palacestamford.org.

New Years @ Noon

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 31, 9:30-12pm WHERE: Mid-Hudson Children’s Museum, 75 N. Water St., Poughkeepsie AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the biggest party of the year with pop music, dancing, and cool activities. WHY WE LOVE IT: Every hour there will be a special surprise as we count down to noon! WANT TO GO? $14; $10 for members. 845-471-0589. mhcm.org.

10th Annual Ring in the New Year at Noon at New Roc City

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 31, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: New Roc City, 33 Le Count Place, New Rochelle AGES: 2-10 WHAT: An exciting holiday event for young families in the community! WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids will dig snacks, rides, balloon twisting, crafts, activities, a DJ, clowns, magic, face painting, and more! WANT TO GO? $10 donation per family of four; $5 individual ticket. 914-637-7575. 2019-riny.eventbrite.com.

Bronx Zoo Holiday Lights

WHEN: Nov. 21-Jan. 5, Sunday-Thursday, 5-9pm; Friday and Saturday, 5-10pm WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: The Bronx Zoo is bringing back this celebrated holiday tradition with dazzling light displays that will cover and illuminate acres of the zoo. WHY WE LOVE IT: Entertainment and activities will include holidaythemed music performances, caroling, ice-carving demonstrations, train rides, and seasonal treats! WANT TO GO? $29.95; $28.95 for seniors; $22.95 for children. 718-220-5100. bronxzoo.com.

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE

Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the 9 no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. ‘Frozen’ Themed Holiday Party FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 12-4pm WHERE: Cross County Shopping Center, 8000 Mall Walk, Yonkers AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Celebrate the new Frozen movie with a themed holiday party throughout the shopping center. Activities include character skating, photos with Santa, music, movie ticket giveaways, cotton candy, and more. WANT TO GO? 914-968-9570. crosscountyshoppingcenter.com.

Ask A Professional: Alan J. Wenderoff, Ph.D. FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 19, 5:30-6:30pm WHERE: Stepping Stones Museum for Children, 303 West Ave., Norwalk, CT AGES: Adult WHAT: Explore ways to promote kindness and caring in young children with Dr. Alan J. Wenderoff, Ph.D., of Everyday Parenting Psychology PLLC. Pre-registration encouraged. WANT TO GO? 203-899-0606. steppingstonesmuseum.org.

Drop in for Tech Help FREE

WHEN: Dec. 3-28, select Tuesdays, 3-4:30pm; select Saturdays, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: All WHAT: Drop in for help with any of your technology devices. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Red Cross Blood Drive FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 26, 12-5pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 13 and older WHAT: One donation can save up to three lives! WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

New Parents & Infants Support Group FREE

WHEN: Dec. 2-30, Mondays, 11am-1pm WHERE: Ossining Public Library, 53 Croton Ave., Ossining AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: Companionship, community, advice, and support for new moms and pregnant women. Dads and siblings welcome. WANT TO GO? 914-941-2416. ossininglibrary.org.

New Parents and Infants Support Group FREE

WHEN: Dec. 3-31, Tuesdays, 11am-1pm (*CLOSED 12/24*) WHERE: Desmond-Fish Public Library, 472 NY-403, Garrison AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: This warm and welcoming group is open to all parents and infants, as well as pregnant women, who are looking for companionship, community, advice, support, and to discuss new family challenges. WANT TO GO? 845-424-3020. desmondfishlibrary.org.

Croton Auto Park Coat Drive FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 31, Mondays-Thursdays, 8:30am-8pm; FridaysSaturdays, 8:30am-6pm; Sundays, 11am-4pm WHERE: Croton Auto Park, 1 Municipal Place, Croton-On-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: Help those in need stay warm this winter! WANT TO GO? 914-218-3968. crotonautopark.com. ››

Performance of Holiday Music & Wreaths Across America FREE WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 12-3:30pm WHERE: St. Paul’s Church National Historic Site, 897 S. Columbus Ave., Mt. Vernon AGES: All WHAT: Honor service members buried at St. Paul’s during this moving performance. WANT TO GO? 914-667-4116. nps.gov.

‘Star Wars’ Party FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 18, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: Star Wars fans of all ages are welcome to come in costume for Jedi Games, Star Wars crafts, and refreshments. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com. WestchesterParent 19

AGES: All WHAT: Find the perfect gift at this boutique featuring curated jewelry, ornaments, and works of art. WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 914-232-9555. katonahmuseum.org.

Science Sunday: Circuits and Greeting Cards

CRAFTY KIDS Family Art Project: Transformational Terrariums

WHEN: Dec. 7-8, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Create your very own mini terrarium from upcycled glass jars. WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6 and older; free for children younger than 6 and free admission to grounds on Saturday until noon. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Holiday Workshop: Miniature Arrangements

WHEN: Dec. 7-8, 11am-3pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Fashion a pair of miniature arrangements in tiny containers using fresh greens, pinecones, and other natural materials. WANT TO GO? $30 material fee per project plus admission: $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6 and older; free for children younger than 6 and free admission to grounds on Saturday until noon. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Holiday Workshop: Natural Wreaths

WHEN: Dec. 7-8, 11am-3pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Craft one-of-a-kind holiday decorations using fresh greens harvested from the gardens. WANT TO GO? $45 material fee per project plus admission: $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6 and older; free for children younger than 6 and free admission to grounds on Saturday until noon. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Holiday Workshop: Poured Beeswax Candles

WHEN: Dec. 7-8, 11am-3pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Mix and pour your own candles guided by expert beekeeper and candlemaker Pam Golben. WANT TO GO? $15 material fee per project plus admission: $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6 and older; free for children younger than 6 and free admission to grounds on Saturday until noon. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Jewelry Pop-Up Shop

WHEN: Dec. 7-8, Saturday 10am-5pm; Sunday 12-5pm WHERE: Katonah Museum of Art, 134 Jay St., Katonah 20

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WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 8, 11:30am-12:15pm and 1:30pm-2:15pm WHERE: Westchester Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Wire and decorate your very own greeting card! WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for members, children younger than 1, and active duty military personnel and their families within the same household. 914-420-5050. discoverwcm.org.

DIY Sled Ornament FREE

WHEN: Dec. 3-10, Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Get into the spirit of winter fun with your own sled ornament. Registration recommended. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Keepsake Ornaments

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 11, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., 1st Floor, Tuckahoe AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Get festive with keepsake ornaments. WANT TO GO? $20; $18 additional siblings. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Lego Club FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 11, 4-6pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 7-12 WHAT: A fun building club for students in grades 2 through 6. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Ornament Making Class

WHEN: Dec. 7-14, Saturdays, 1:30-3pm and 3:30-5pm WHERE: Clay Art Center, 40 Beech St., Port Chester AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Create a personalized holiday ornament! WANT TO GO? $30; $20 children younger than 12. 914-937-2047. clayartcenter.org.

Make A Polar Bear With Polymer Clay

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, ages 5-8 from 2-3pm; ages 9-12 from 3-4pm WHERE: The Rye Arts Center, 51 Milton Road, Rye AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn how to make simple shapes with clay and put them together to form a cute sculpture. WANT TO GO? $20; RAC members receive discount. 914-967-0700. ryeartscenter.org.

Candle Making Workshop

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 1pm WHERE: Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Make own candles in an assortment of colors. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 members. 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org.

Family Gingerbread House Making

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 12:30-2:30pm and 3-5pm WHERE: Pelham Art Center, 155 Fifth Ave., Pelham AGES: All

WHAT: Customize your candy land dream home and embellish with professional icing techniques. WANT TO GO? $50 includes two participants & one gingerbread house; $45 members includes two participants & one gingerbread house. 914738-2525. pelhamartcenter.org.

Weekends On The Wheel

WHEN: Dec. 8-15, Sundays, 12:30-2:30pm WHERE: Clay Art Center, 40 Beech St., Port Chester AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Treat yourself to some family fun as you get your hands dirty while creating memories and art. WANT TO GO? $45. 914-937-2047. clayartcenter.org.

Family Piñata Making

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 12-2pm WHERE: Pelham Art Center, 155 Fifth Ave., Pelham AGES: All WHAT: Learn the step-by-step instructions to make your own piñata! WANT TO GO? $35 two participants and one piñata; $32 members (two participants and one piñata). 914-738-2525. pelhamartcenter.org.

DIY Snowglobes FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 16, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Let it snow inside these snowglobes. Registration recommended. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Jr. Garden Club FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 16, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Make some holiday decorations using real plants. Sign-up required. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Knitting and Crocheting at the Library FREE

WHEN: Dec. 4-18, Wednesdays, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 10 and older WHAT: Bring needles and a skein of yarn and learn to knit or crochet at the library! WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Buttons Galore FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 18, 3:30pm WHERE: Warner Library, 121 N. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Drop in to the Teen Area and make a button or two. WANT TO GO? 914-631-7734. warnerlibrary.org.

Santa’s Sweet Shoppe

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 18, 9:45-10:30am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., 1st Floor, Tuckahoe AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Make edible Christmas trees and chocolate presents! WANT TO GO? $20. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Open Studio for Kids: Found Object Sculptures

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 19, 4-5:15pm WHERE: Neuberger Museum of Art, 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase AGES: 6-10 WHAT: A teaching artist will coach each participant as they create their own artwork inspired by works in current exhibitions. WANT TO GO? $20; free for household members. 914-251-6100. purchase.edu.

Art Making Studio for Preschoolers: Found Object Sculptures

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 19, 1-2:15pm WHERE: Neuberger Museum of Art, 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Create simple art projects inspired by objects in the museum. WANT TO GO? $20; free for household members. 914-251-6100. purchase.edu.

DIY Salt and Watercolor Snowflake Art FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 19, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Add some color to the season with stunning snowflake art. Registration recommended. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Family Wheel Night

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 21, 6-8pm WHERE: Clay Art Center, 40 Beech St., Port Chester AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Get messy and play with clay in this one-time class to learn how to use the potter’s wheel. Register online. WANT TO GO? $45. 914-937-2047. clayartcenter.org.

DIY Gingerbread Houses FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 21, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 2-5 with caregiver WHAT: Get creative and make a yummy treat out of gingerbread. Registration recommended. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Drop In Clay

WHEN: Through Dec. 21: Saturdays, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: Clay Art Center, 40 Beech St., Port Chester AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Adults and children explore their inner artist in this two-hour introduction to clay. WANT TO GO? $30; $20 children younger than 12. 914-937-2047. clayartcenter.org.

Family Art Project: Chasing-Light Poetry Catchers

WHEN: Dec. 21-22, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Tell stories and create poetry to welcome winter and create a three-dimensional light catcher. WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6 and older; free for children younger than 6 and free admission to grounds on Saturday until noon. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Puppets with Elizabeth FREE

WHEN: Dec. 5-26, Thursdays, 10:30-11am WHERE: Ruth Keeler Memorial Library, 276 Titicus Road, North Salem AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Puppets, songs, and crafts for kids of all ages. WANT TO GO? 914-669-5161. ruthkeelermemoriallibrary.org.

Bring the Kids! Winter Break

WHEN: Dec. 26-27, 9:30am and 1pm WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Explore the past through hands-on activities. Take a break with a snack and bring the memories home with a special craft. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 members. 845-265-3638. boscobel.org. ›› WestchesterParent 21

SMARTY PANTS Mad Science FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 5, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join the library for some fun, kid-friendly science experiments and challenges. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Trivia Tuesdays FREE

ON SCREEN Winter Movie Night! FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 12, 6pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy popcorn and a movie. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

‘It’s A Wonderful Life’

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 7pm WHERE: Tarrytown Music Hall, 13 Main St., Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: See the heartwarming story of how George Bailey finds the true Christmas spirit. WANT TO GO? $5. 914-631-3390. tarrytownmusichall.org.

SuperPower Dog

WHEN: Through Dec. 15: see website for schedule WHERE: IMAX Theater, Maritime Aquarium, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: Meet remarkable dogs that save lives and discover the powerful bond they share with their human partners. WANT TO GO? $24.95; $22.95 senior; $17.95 child. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org.

Movie: ‘Elf’ FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 18, 6-8pm WHERE: White Plains Public Library, 100 Martine Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Will Ferrell stars in this hilarious and heartwarming holiday comedy. Rated PG. WANT TO GO? 914-422-1476. whiteplainslibrary.org.

‘Madagascar’ Movies FREE

WHEN: Dec. 7-28, Saturdays, 2-4:30pm WHERE: White Plains Public Library, 100 Martine Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Each Saturday features a different film from the Madagascar series. WANT TO GO? 914-422-1476. whiteplainslibrary.org.

Short Films for Short People FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 31, 11-11:30am WHERE: Chappaqua Library, 195 South Greeley Ave., Chappaqua AGES: 3-8 WHAT: See films based on beloved picture books. WANT TO GO? 914-238-4779. chappaqualibrary.org.

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WHEN: Dec. 3-10, Tuesdays, 4:15-5pm WHERE: Ossining Public Library, 53 Croton Ave., Ossining AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Compete as a team answering rapid-fire trivia questions and win prizes! WANT TO GO? 914-941-2416. ossininglibrary.org.

STEAM Team FREE

WHEN: Dec. 3-10, Tuesdays, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Flex your brain and your fingers with some hands-on STEAM activities and games! WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

My Grandparent and Me Day

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 13, 9:30am-5pm WHERE: Mid-Hudson Children’s Museum, 75 N. Water St., Poughkeepsie AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate grandparents with free admission to grandparents when accompanied by their grandchildren. WANT TO GO? $10; free for members and grandparents when accompanied by their grandchildren. 845-471-0589. mhcm.org.

Gingerbread Cookie Decorating

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy a family-focused tour of the Historic House Museum, then decorate cookies. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 members. 845-265-3638. boscobel.org.

Hudson River Haiku

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Offer a topic and within 120 seconds you will have a short poem of your own to keep, written on vintage typewriters. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 seniors 62 and older, students, and veterans; $4 children ages 3-18; free for members and children younger than 3. 914963-4550. hrm.org.

Sunday Explorers

WHEN: Dec. 1-15, Sundays, 1-4pm WHERE: Stamford Museum and Nature Center, 39 Scofieldtown Road, Stamford, CT AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Catch a planetarium show, explore some wildlife artifacts like skulls and feathers, meet an animal up close, and create some great selfguided crafts. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors 65 and older; $8 students with valid ID; $6 children 4-17; free for members and children 3 and younger. 203-3221646. stamfordmuseum.org.

FIY: Winter Evergreen Swags

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 2:30-4pm WHERE: Stamford Museum and Nature Center, 39 Scofieldtown Road, Stamford, CT AGES: All WHAT: Learn to identify some basic evergreens and create your own evergreen swag to take home. WANT TO GO? $10; $8 members. 203-322-1646. stamfordmuseum.org.

Bruce Explorers: Weather Investigators

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 1-3pm WHERE: Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Drive, Greenwich, CT AGES: 7-16 WHAT: Kids will get to learn all about weather and create their own backyard weather station to take home. Ages 7-16. WANT TO GO? $60; $50 members. 203-413-6740. brucemuseum.org.

Young Discoverers: Trees, Wonderful Trees!

WHEN: Dec. 4-18, Wednesdays, 11-11:30 WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 2-5 WHAT: Learn about several species of trees. Plus, make your own beautiful trees to take home! WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for members, children younger than 1, and active duty military personnel and their families within the same household. 914-420-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Museum Minis

WHEN: Dec. 5-26, Thursdays, 10:30-11am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 18-24 months WHAT: Toddlers and parents/caregivers are invited for half an hour of songs, moving, and plenty of fun! WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for members, children younger than 1, and active duty military personnel and their families within the same household. 914-420-5050. discoverwcm.org.

‘The Tribe and the River’ with Turtle to Turtle

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 29, 3pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Avenue, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Watch a performance by Turtle to Turtle, members of the Ramapough Lenape Nation, and learn about their history and relationship to the Hudson River through stories, artifacts, music, and drumming. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 seniors 62 and older, students, veterans; $4 ages 3-18; free for members and children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

DANCE PARTY ‘The Nutcracker Suite’

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 11am, 12:30pm, 2pm WHERE: Stepping Stones Museum for Children, 303 West Ave., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: The Academy of New England Ballet Company will perform some of your favorite Tchaikovsky numbers as they present The Nutcracker Suite. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 seniors 62 and older; free for children younger than 1. 203-899-0606. steppingstonesmuseum.org.

Storybook Dancing FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 11, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: White Plains Public Library, 100 Martine Ave., White Plains AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Explore literature, music, and dance in this fun and engaging workshop. First-come, first-served starting 30 minutes before the program. WANT TO GO? 914-422-1476. whiteplainslibrary.org.

Westchester Ballet Company Presents ‘The Nutcracker’

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 13, 10am WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the thrill of this professionally produced live production, with exquisite choreography, stunning costumes, and special effects. WANT TO GO? $15-$35. 914-995-4050. westchesterballet.org.

‘The Nutcracker’

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 1pm and 5:30pm WHERE: The Capitol Theatre, 149 Westchester Ave., Port Chester AGES: All WHAT: Join Clara on her wild journey through a blizzard of ballerinas into a Land of Sweets filled with colorful characters and pure holiday magic. WANT TO GO? $25-$45. 914-937-4126. thecapitoltheatre.com.

Connecticut Ballet’s ‘The Nutcracker’

WHEN: Dec. 21-22, Saturday, 2pm and 6pm; Sunday, 1pm and 5pm WHERE: Palace Theatre, 61 Atlantic St., Stamford, CT AGES: All WHAT: Join Clara Stahlbaum as she travels with her Uncle Drosselmeyer through the Land of the Snowflakes to the Land of the Sweets and back! WANT TO GO? $50-$75; student and senior discount day of show only. 203-325-4466. palacestamford.org.

‘The Nutcracker’ Performed by New York Theatre Ballet

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 22, 3pm and 6pm WHERE: Tarrytown Music Hall, 13 Main St., Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: An enchanting hour-long production of The Nutcracker, created for younger audiences, yet sophisticated enough for adults! WANT TO GO? $35; $25 children. 914-631-3390. tarrytownmusichall.org. ›› WestchesterParent 23

Sing-A-Story: Let it Snow

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 8, 10-10:45am WHERE: Groove Family Music, 158 Larchmont Ave., Larchmont AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Two engaging picture books are specially selected and presented with live musical accompaniment by Groove. Advance registration required. WANT TO GO? $35 includes your choice of one of the featured books. findgroove.com.

Mamaroneck Chorus

WHEN: Dec. 12-13, 7pm WHERE: Emelin Theatre, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: All WHAT: See this multi-age musical event featuring musicians and singers from the Mamaroneck/Larchmont area. WANT TO GO? $10-$15. 914-698-3045. emelin.org.

Holiday Concert FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 2:30pm WHERE: Warner Library, 121 N. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: The Hudson Bells will perform a holiday concert featuring traditional and popular songs of the season. WANT TO GO? 914-631-7734. warnerlibrary.org.

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MUSICIANS Holiday Performance by the Bronx Opera FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 4, 7pm WHERE: St. Paul’s Church N.H.S., 897 S. Columbus Ave., Mt. Vernon AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a special holiday performance by the Bronx Opera Company, featuring arias and duets from classic operas, as well as seasonal carols. WANT TO GO? 914-667-4116. nps.gov.

The Rock and Roll Playhouse Plays the Music of The Talking Heads WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 11:30am and 2pm WHERE: The Capitol Theatre, 149 Westchester Ave., Port Chester AGES: All WHAT: During each fun-filled show, children explore live music and movement, and collaborate creatively. WANT TO GO? $15. 914-934-9362. therockandrollplayhouse.com.

Beatles vs. Stones: A Musical Showdown

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 8-10pm WHERE: Paramount Hudson Valley Theater, 1008 Brown St., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: Two of the greatest bands of all time face off in a high-energy, adrenaline-pumping musical showdown. WANT TO GO? $30-$60. 914-739-0039. paramounthudsonvalley.com.

Holiday Music Festival FREE

WHEN: Dec. 7-8, 10am-4 pm WHERE: Hoff-Barthelson Music School, 25 School Lane, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a weekend of music and fun for the entire family featuring student performances, food, and more. WANT TO GO? 914-723-1169. hbms.org. 24

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The Symphony of Westchester All Baroque Concert

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 3pm WHERE: Christopher J. Murphy Auditorium, 715 North Ave., New Rochelle AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Two Symphony of Westchester violinists will step out of their section to perform Bach’s Double Violin Concerto BWV 1043 in D minor. Snow date 12/14. WANT TO GO? $55; $40 seniors 65 and older; $15 students. 914-654-4926. thesymphonyofwestchester.org.

The Rock and Roll Playhouse Plays Motown for Kids

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 21, 11:30am and 2pm WHERE: The Capitol Theatre, 149 Westchester Ave., Port Chester AGES: All WHAT: During each fun-filled show, children explore live music and movement, and collaborate creatively. WANT TO GO? $15. 914-934-9362. therockandrollplayhouse.com.

Jingle JAM

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 21, 9:30am and 10:30am WHERE: Groove Family Music, 158 Larchmont Ave., Larchmont AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Sing, dance and jingle all the way to a family-friendly, holidayspirited wintry Groove JAM. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $35; $20 siblings. findgroove.com.

Holiday Concert on the Historic Erben Pipe Organ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 21, 2pm WHERE: St. Paul’s Church N.H.S., 897 S. Columbus Ave., Mt. Vernon AGES: All WHAT: Acclaimed organist Kathryn Jones performs a holiday recital on the 1830 Erben, among the nation’s oldest working pipe organs, accompanied by sopranos. WANT TO GO? 914-667-4116. nps.gov.

Music & Movement FREE

WHEN: Dec. 3-31, Tuesdays, 11:15-11:45am WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco

AGES: 2-5 WHAT: Little ones can move and groove to the music! WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Rock n’ Roll Babies & Toddlers FREE

rhyme video and make a craft to take home! Ages 3-6. WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for members, children younger than 1, and active duty military personnel and their families within the same household. 914-420-5050. discoverwcm.org.

WHEN: Through Aug. 28, Fridays, 10:15-10:45am WHERE: Croton Free Library, 171 Cleveland Drive, Croton-on-Hudson AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: It’s time for great stories, classic kids’ songs, new rock n’ roll music, and lots of dancing! WANT TO GO? 914-271-6612. crotonfreelibrary.org.

Pajama Storytime FREE

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Fish Tales Story Time at The Maritime Aquarium

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 23, 6pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Put on your pajamas and join the library for a special “late night” storytime! WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 4, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Enjoy stories, songs, puppets, and play time. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 10:15-11am WHERE: The Maritime Aquarium at Norwalk, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy stories, songs, and games that encourage children’s emerging language skills, followed by a play time. WANT TO GO? Included with admission: $24.95 adult; $17.95 children 3-12. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org.

Storytime FREE

Good Deed of the Month Club: ‘Sneezy The Snowman’

Book Babies FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 11, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Hear fairy tales like Hansel and Gretel and Snow White. WANT TO GO? 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Stories & Songs FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 16, select Mondays, 4pm WHERE: Warner Library, 121 N. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: 2 1/2-5 WHAT: Picture books, rhymes, and songs, followed by coloring. WANT TO GO? 914-631-7734. warnerlibrary.org.

Bouncing Babies FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 17: Tuesdays, 11:15am WHERE: Warner Library, 121 N. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Picture books, action rhymes, and songs, for babies who are not yet walking. WANT TO GO? 914-631-7734. warnerlibrary.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 28, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Hear Sneezy the Snowman by Maureen Wright, learn all about a group of clever friends who keep their snowman friend cozy without letting him melt, and make a cold-weather craft! WANT TO GO? $7.50; $6.50 seniors; free for members, children younger than 1, and active duty military personnel and their families within the same household. 914-420-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Here We Are Together: Story Time for Children FREE

WHEN: Dec. 2-30, Mondays, 11:15-11:45am WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: A story time for young children. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org. ››

Tales for Tots FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 17: Tuesdays, 3:30pm WHERE: Warner Library, 121 N. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Stories, rhymes, and songs for all ages, followed by a related craft activity. WANT TO GO? 914-631-7734. warnerlibrary.org.

Bilingual Storytime FREE

WHEN: Dec. 4-18, Wednesdays, 11:15-11:45am WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Enjoy stories, songs, and rhymes in English and Spanish. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Rhyme and Read

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Twilight Tours

WHEN: Nov. 29-Dec. 8, Friday-Sunday, tours depart 3:30-7:15pm WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: All WHAT: With the mansion lit by candles, decorated for 19th-century holidays, and resonating with live string music, Twilight Tours offer an especially beautiful view of Boscobel House and Gardens. WANT TO GO? $26; $16 children; free for children younger than 5. 845-265-3638. boscobel.org.

11th Annual Greenwich Holiday Stroll Weekend FREE

HOLIDAY FUN Lyndhurst Holiday Market

WHEN: Nov. 29-Dec. 1, 10am-5:30pm, daily WHERE: Lyndhurst Mansion, 635 South Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy historic mansion tours, seasonal snacks, activities for kids, and more. WANT TO GO? $25 included with mansion tour; free admission for kids. 914-940-0099. lyndhurstmarket.com.

Holiday Night at the HRM!

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 6, 5-8pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Explore Glenview historic home, which will be decked out for the holidays, as well as the exhibitions, permanent collection, and a free program with a fashion historian! WANT TO GO? Pay what you wish. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Holiday Opera in Glenview

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 2-3pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Travel back to Victorian times and celebrate the holiday season with costumed performers as they sing arias from operas. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 seniors 62 and older, students, veterans; $4 ages 3-18; free for members and children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

The Gabriella Boyd Memorial Foundation presents ‘Give with Gabby’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 10am-2pm WHERE: Boys and Girls Club of New Rochelle, 79 7th St., New Rochelle AGES: All WHAT: Bring a new, unwrapped toy to be given to Dr. Kevin Maloney’s Toys for Kids. Decorate ornaments, meet Santa, get your face painted, decorate cards for CARDZ for KIDZ, enjoy a bake sale and hot cocoa, and more. WANT TO GO? 914-813-8487. thegbmf.org.

Christmas Tree Decorating Party FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: Make a special ornament and help trim the library’s tree! WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com. 26

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WHEN: Dec. 7-8, Saturday, 10am-6pm and Sunday, 12-5pm WHERE: Greenwich Avenue, Greenwich, CT AGES: All WHAT: The Holiday Stroll will feature a live nativity, horse-drawn carriage rides, professional ice sculpture demos, a food truck village, letter-writing to Santa, and more than 140 participating retailers and restaurants offering promotions, refreshments, and holiday cheer. WANT TO GO? 203-531-3047. eventbrite.com/e/ 11th-annual-greenwich-holiday-stroll-weekend-tickets-75878403347.

Music at Asbury presents ‘Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer’ FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 8, 3pm WHERE: Asbury United Methodist Church, 167 Scarsdale Road, Tuckahoe AGES: All WHAT: Go back to 1964 for this holiday classic, presented with a hint of parody and vintage commercials. Stay after the show for seasonal treats, photos with Santa, and holiday shopping. WANT TO GO? 914-779-3722. musicatasbury.com.

Heights & Lights: Rappelling Santa and Holiday Tree Lighting FREE WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 8, 5pm WHERE: Stamford Downtown, Landmark Square and Latham Park, Stamford, CT AGES: All WHAT: Watch and cheer for Santa Claus as he makes his daredevil descent from 22 stories high, then follow Santa for live music and the lighting of Stamford’s Holiday Tree. WANT TO GO? 203-348-5285. stamford-downtown.com.

Chanukah Celebration FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 8, ages 3-5, 9:30-10:45am; ages newborn to 2, 10:45-11:45am WHERE: Congregation Emanu-El of Westchester, 2125 Westchester Ave. E., Rye AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Kids will celebrate the Festival of Lights! WANT TO GO? 914-967-4382 x12. congregationemanuel.org.

Chanukah Party! FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 11, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the Festival of Lights with dreidel games, a Chanukah craft, and some sweet treats! WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Holiday Crafts FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Make a festive craft for Chanukah, Christmas, or Kwanzaa. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Canadian Brass: Christmas Time Is Here

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 7pm WHERE: The Performing Arts Center, Purchase College, 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy this program of specially arranged holiday favorites, sure to get you in the spirit of the season. WANT TO GO? $35-$75; tickets for kids 16 and younger are 50 percent off the regular price. 914-251-6200. artscenter.org.

Holiday Fantasy Special Effects Make-Up Workshop

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 11am-3pm WHERE: Keeler Library, 276 Titicus Road, North Salem AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn how to create professional make-up just like they do for Comic Con or for films. WANT TO GO? $20. 914-669-5161. ruthkeelermemoriallibrary.org.

Holiday Train Show

WHEN: Through Dec. 15: Saturdays and Sundays, 10am-4:30pm WHERE: Greenburgh Nature Center, 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy zooming freight cars, flashing bells, tooting whistles, and more at one of Greenburgh Nature Center’s most popular events. WANT TO GO? $10; $9 seniors and students; $8 children ages 2-12; free for members and children younger than 2. 914-723-3470. greenburghnaturecenter.org.

Santa Visits the Rosen House

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 12pm and 3pm WHERE: Caramoor Center for Music and the Arts, 149 Girdle Ridge Road, Katonah AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Play I Spy a Santa or Two in The Music Room, followed by a concert of favorite holiday songs when Santa Claus will appear to delight the whole family. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 child. 914-232-1252. caramoor.org.

Ride a Vintage Train to Visit Santa Claus

WHEN: Dec. 7-22, Saturdays 10am-4pm; Sundays 12-4pm WHERE: Danbury Railway Museum, 120 White St., Danbury, CT AGES: All WHAT: Take a ride in a vintage train through the historic Danbury Railway Museum railyard to visit Santa and Mrs. Claus. WANT TO GO? $12 includes train ride, and all activities; free for children younger than 2. 203-778-8337. danburyrailwaymuseum.org.

‘The Polar Express’ in IMAX

WHEN: Nov. 29-Dec. 22, 11/29 and Saturdays and Sundays at 5pm WHERE: The Maritime Aquarium at Norwalk, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: See this holiday classic with your family in IMAX. WANT TO GO? $11.50; $10.50 for youths 13-17 and seniors 65 and older; $9.50 for children 2-12. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org.

Menorah Lighting with Chabad of Yonkers FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 23, 6-8pm WHERE: Cross County Shopping Center, 8000 Mall Walk, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: The Chabad Rabbi will light the menorah in celebration of the Festival of Lights, and guests will enjoy live music, cultural dancing and delicious treats. WANT TO GO? 914-233-0186. crosscountycenter.com.

Santa Photos at Cross County Shopping Center

WHEN: Through Dec. 23, see website for schedule WHERE: Cross County Shopping Center, 8000 Mall Walk, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Each child who visits with Santa receives a gift and candy cane. WANT TO GO? Cost varies. 914-968-9570. crosscountyshoppingcenter.com.

11th Annual Greenwich Reindeer Festival FREE

WHEN: Nov. 29-Dec. 24, Mondays-Fridays, 12-6pm and Saturdays, 9am-6pm WHERE: Sam Bridge Nursery & Greenhouses, 437 North St., Greenwich, CT AGES: All WHAT: Meet Santa and his reindeers, enjoy rides, face painting, dance demonstrations and more. WANT TO GO? 203-531-3047. greenwichreindeerfestival.com.

The Paper Bag Players: Here We Go!

WHEN: Dec. 26-27, 11am and 1:30pm WHERE: Emelin Theatre, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: 3-8 WHAT: A family holiday tradition filled with music and dance, largerthan-life characters, singalongs, and stories. WANT TO GO? $15-$20. 914-698-3045. emelin.org.

Nutcracker Dream

WHEN: Dec. 15-28, Dec. 15, 2,, and 28, 2pm and 5pm; Dec. 21, 3pm and 7pm WHERE: Emelin Theatre, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: All WHAT: This beautiful interpretation of the beloved holiday classic delights audiences young and old with its artistry and storytelling. WANT TO GO? $20-$25. 914-698-3045. emelin.org.

Noon Year’s Eve Party FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 28, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: All WHAT: Count down to the Noon Year with lots of fun and festivities. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Holiday Bricktacular

WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Sundays, 10am-7:30pm; Mondays-Saturdays, 10am-9:30pm WHERE: LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester, 39 Fitzgerald St., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Join the holly jolly fun as LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester transforms into a winter wonderland with magical builds and activities! WANT TO GO? $27.95-$33.95. 866-243-0770. legolanddiscoverycenter.com.

Holidays on the Hill Train Show

WHEN: Dec. 7-29, Saturdays and Sundays, 11am-4pm WHERE: Lasdon Park, 2610 Amawalk Road, Route 35, Katonah AGES: All WHAT: See the beautiful holiday trains on display. WANT TO GO? $5-$10. 914-864-7268. lasdonpark.org.

Noon Year’s Eve Party! FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 31, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Ossining Public Library, 53 Croton Ave., Ossining AGES: All WHAT: Count down to noon with the library and toast the New Year! WANT TO GO? 914-941-2416. ossininglibrary.org. ››

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ANIMAL LOVERS Tales for Tails FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 5, 6pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children in 1st grade and older are invited to read to a specially trained dog. Sign-up required. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Jingle Bell Run–Westchester

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 8:30-11am WHERE: Purchase College, 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase AGES: All WHAT: Strut your stuff in your favorite holiday costume. Your registration fee and fundraising go to The Arthritis Foundation! WANT TO GO? $35. 929-999-8603. JBR.org.

Kindful Mindful Yoga FREE

WHEN: Dec. 4-11, Wednesdays, 7-7:30pm WHERE: Ossining Public Library, 53 Croton Ave., Ossining AGES: 5-9 WHAT: Children can become calmer, stronger, and happier through easy yoga, breathing exercises, and stories. WANT TO GO? 914-941-2416. ossininglibrary.org.

Budding Buddha’s Yoga for Tots FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 25: Wednesdays, 11-11:30am and 11:30am-12pm WHERE: The Westchester, 125 Westchester Ave., Connect Lounge, Level 4, White Plains AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Stay active with your little one and have fun doing yoga exercises. WANT TO GO? 914-421-1333. simon.com.

Harlem Globetrotters

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 31, 11am and 4pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Have a ball with the iconic Harlem Globetrotters on New Year’s Eve! WANT TO GO? $30 and up. 914-995-4050. countycenter.biz.

Mommy & Me Fitness FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 3: Fridays, 11-11:45am WHERE: Croton Free Library, 171 Cleveland Drive, Croton-on-Hudson AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Enjoy your workout with your new baby! Bring your yoga mat or a towel. WANT TO GO? 914-271-6612. crotonfreelibrary.org.

Pop Up Holiday Ice Skating Rink

WHEN: Through Jan. 5: check website for schedule WHERE: Cross County Shopping Center, 8000 Mall Walk, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Skate around this pop-up rink, which is actually a synthetic floor and glides slower than real ice, making it perfect for first-time and young skaters. Throughout the season guests will enjoy a DJ, character skating, themed nights, and more! WANT TO GO? $10 per person and includes skate rentals and a one-hour session. 914-968-9570. crosscountycenter.com.

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Salute Norwalk Day

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 10am-5pm WHERE: The Maritime Aquarium at Norwalk, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: Santa Claus will be a special guest as part of the “Shark-Diving Santa” scuba program! WANT TO GO? $26.95; $24.95 seniors 65 and older; $19.95 ages 3-12; free admission for Norwalk residents with proof of residency. 203-8520700. maritimeaquarium.org.

Winter Birding

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 8, 9:30am WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: 10 and older WHAT: Explore Wave Hill’s tranquil gardens and woodlands with naturalist Gabriel Willow to observe birds in their winter habitats. Kids must be accompanied by an adult. WANT TO GO? $10; $6 students and seniors 65 and older; $4 children 6 and older; free for children younger than 6; NYC Audubon members enjoy two-for-one admission. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Zoo Tots

WHEN: Dec. 10-11, 10:30am WHERE: Beardsley Zoo, 1875 Noble Ave., Bridgeport, CT AGES: 22 months-4 WHAT: This program may include songs or games, live animals, and a simple craft. Pre-registration required. WANT TO GO? $15 adult and one child; $10 members. 203-394-6563. beardsleyzoo.org.

Outdoor Adventures: Family Night Hike

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 13, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Stamford Museum and Nature Center, 39 Scofieldtown Road, Stamford, CT AGES: 6 and older WHAT: Learn about how night vision works, discover who we might see or hear on nighttime trails, and even make a spark in the dark. WANT TO GO? $9; $6 members. 203-322-1646. stamfordmuseum.org.

Read to Rover FREE

WHEN: Dec. 5-26, Thursdays, 5-6pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Children can practice reading to a trained therapy dog. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Live Animals Presented By Nature of Things FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 27, 1-2pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: All WHAT: Get up close and learn all about some fun and fuzzy creatures during this wild program. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

Read to Rover Squared FREE

SPECIAL NEEDS Sensory Santa FREE

WHEN: Dec. 7-28, Saturdays, 11am-12pm WHERE: Mount Kisco Public Library, 100 E. Main St., Mount Kisco AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Children can register to read to a therapy dog to help practice their reading skills. WANT TO GO? 914-666-8041. mountkiscolibrary.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 1, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Abilis, 50 Glenville St., Greenwich, CT AGES: All WHAT: Sensory Santa is for children and teens who are sensitive to sensory overload and need a more tranquil and personalized interaction with Santa to enjoy his company. Please RSVP online. WANT TO GO? 203-531-1880. abilis.us.

Shark-Diving Santa

Sensory-Friendly Night of Play

WHEN: Dec. 5-29, Thursdays, Saturdays, and Sundays, 12:15pm and 2:15pm WHERE: The Maritime Aquarium at Norwalk, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: Santa will strap on his custom scuba outfit and enter the Aquarium’s 110,000-gallon “Ocean Beyond the Sound” exhibit, to hang with 7- and 8-foot sharks. Workload permitting! WANT TO GO? $26.95; $24.95 seniors 65 and older; $19.95 ages 3-12; free admission for Norwalk residents with proof of residency. 203-8520700. maritimeaquarium.org.

Noon Year’s Eve

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 31, 11am-2pm WHERE: The Maritime Aquarium at Norwalk, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: The Aquarium is planning fun midday activities for families with young children who want to celebrate the end of 2019 together, but not at the stroke of midnight! WANT TO GO? $26.95; $24.95 seniors 65 and older; $19.95 ages 3-12. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org.

Evergreen Express

WHEN: Through Jan. 26, 10am-6pm, daily; guided activities: Monday-Friday, 1:30-5:30pm and Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5:30pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Pretend to ride the rails, hike winter trails, and put on a winter woodland puppet show. WANT TO GO? Wednesdays $12-$28; Saturday-Sunday $10-$23; free for members. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 5, 5-7pm WHERE: Mid-Hudson Children’s Museum, 75 N. Water St., Poughkeepsie AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: The museum will be offering a modified environment with reduced sound, designated quiet spaces, and extra visual signage and sensory aids. WANT TO GO? $10; free for members. 845-471-0589. mhcm.org.

ACCESS-ability FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 16, 2-5pm WHERE: Stepping Stones Museum for Children, 303 West Ave., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: A supportive, sensory-friendly experience for individuals with sensory processing differences and other special needs. Registration preferred. WANT TO GO? 203-899-0606. steppingstonesmuseum.org.

Holiday Dance for the Disabled FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 17, 6:30-9pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Members of Westchester’s disabled community gather for an evening of dancing and fun! Pre-registration required. WANT TO GO? 914-347-4409. northeastspecialrec.org.

Abilis Holiday Dance

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 19, 6:30-8:30pm WHERE: Boys & Girls Club of Greenwich, 4 Horseneck Lane, Greenwich, CT AGES: All WHAT: Dance the night away to the festive music of a DJ and enjoy dinner at the Boys & Girls Club of Greenwich with Abilis. WANT TO GO? $25. 203-531-1880. abilis.us. ›› WestchesterParent 29

SHOW TIME! Disney’s ‘The Little Mermaid’

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 1, 2pm WHERE: Yorktown Stage, 1974 Commerce St., Yorktown Heights AGES: All WHAT: See the story of The Little Mermaid in a professionally produced Broadway musical performed by a professional cast. WANT TO GO? $21-$29. 914-962-0606. yorktownstage.org.

8th Annual Westchester All-Stars and Friends Christmas for Veterans Concert

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 6, 7:30-9:30pm WHERE: Paramount Hudson Valley Theater, 1008 Brown St., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: Kick off to the holiday season while supporting our true American heroes. WANT TO GO? $35 and up. 914-739-0039. paramounthudsonvalley.com.

‘A Christmas Carol’

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 13, 7:30pm WHERE: Palace Theatre, 61 Atlantic St., Stamford, CT AGES: All WHAT: See Charles Dickens’ most beloved holiday story. WANT TO GO? $35-$60. 203-325-4466. palacestamford.org.

‘Snow White’

WHEN: Dec. 19-21, 7pm WHERE: Theater O, 25 State St., Ossining AGES: All WHAT: This updated version of the classic story unveils the villain’s perspective. WANT TO GO? $10. 914-487-4322. theatero.org.

Mr. Dickens Tells ‘A Christmas Carol’

WHEN: Dec. 13-29, see website for schedule WHERE: Lyndhurst, 635 S. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Journey through the main floor of the beautifully decorated Lyndhurst mansion and meet different spirits and characters along the way. WANT TO GO? $40. 845-331-7900. lyndhurst.org.

Slazburg Marionette Theatre: ‘The Nutcracker’

‘The Magic Dreidels’

Disney’s ‘The Aristocats’

Disney’s ‘Newsies’

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 8, 3pm WHERE: Academic Arts Theatre-Hankin Academic Arts Building, Westchester Community College, 75 Grasslands Road, Valhalla AGES: All WHAT: Featuring live actors with their marionette friends! WANT TO GO? $26; $24 seniors; $18 children younger than 13. 914606-6262. sunywcc.edu. WHEN: Dec. 7-8, 12:30pm WHERE: Irvington Town Hall Theater, 85 Main St., Irvington AGES: All WHAT: A non-stop thrill ride of feline fun! WANT TO GO? $20; $16 seniors and students in advance, additional $3 per ticket at the door. 914-591-6602. irvingtontheater.com. 30

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By having your whole family sort through their belongings and deciding what to get rid of, you all are making room for new clothes, books, toys, and more— and giving new life to your old items.

Declutter Your Home

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Simple strategies that will make a big difference By Madeleine Burry

iles of papers, overstuffed closets, and toys scattered everywhere. Does this sound familiar? Clutter can seem like an unavoidable, but essentially harmless, way of life, particularly for families in tight quarters. But chaos and disorganization can have a negative impact, both physically and mentally. “As the clutter piles up, so do the feelings of anxiety,” says Elsa Elbert, professional organizer and owner of the Los Angeles-based personal organizing company Composed Living. And that’s true for kids, as well as moms and dads. “When kids are surrounded by clutter or too many things, they can have difficulty choosing what to play with and this can impact their attention span and ability to concentrate,” says Jane Stoller, professional organizer and author of Decluttering for Dummies. The reasons to declutter are clear, Stoller adds: an increase in productivity, happiness, and free time to spend with loved ones. And the actual process doesn’t have to be daunting if you do it right.

Get the Family Involved

Before you dive into a declutter project, keep in mind it will be less successful as a solo mission. “It is very important that everyone in the house is aware and on board with your decluttering mission,” Stoller advises. Start by having a conversation with your significant other. “Go through why decluttering will help the household and your 32

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relationship,” Stoller says. These benefits may include more time to spend together or less early-morning stress about locating the kids’ sports equipment before the school bus arrives. And get your kids involved, too. “Ask your children to go through their rooms and make two piles—the things they love, and the things they don’t love so much,” Elbert suggests. This will help them feel empowered, and far more willing to be part of the process. Another trick: Let kids know their toys will be donated to others—and by sorting through them, they’re clearing space for new toys. You can also gamify decluttering to encourage participation, Stoller says. Try setting the timer for 30 minutes, she suggests. If your kids declutter 20 items and put them into their boxes in 30 minutes, they get a small reward.

Follow Through

Even after you’ve sorted the mail and thrown out stained clothes, more mail will enter your home, and you’ll drip more coffee on your jeans. Decluttering is not a one-and-done project. “It should be an automatic part of your daily routines and lifestyle,” Stoller says. Her advice? Before you purchase an item or allow it into your space, question if it will provide value. If it won’t, don’t allow it inside your door. Avoid impulse purchases; a list or clearly defined purpose when you head into a store can help.

Marty Basher, home organization expert for Modular Closets, suggests making decluttering a routine. “Schedule a time each week, or even each day, to tidy up and get things in their place,” he says. That way, you won’t get overwhelmed by the volume of items in your home. If you find yourself avoiding the task, just remember, decluttering benefits you—and your family—in important ways. As Elbert says, “Decluttering, in combination with creating easyto-maintain systems, is a great way to turn your home into the sanctuary you and your family deserve.”

TIPS FOR DECLUTTERING SUCCESS Giving your whole house an overhaul in one day can be overwhelming, so start with these tips to get in the groove. Start small. If you are overwhelmed by the entire house, tackle one space at a time, suggests Jane Stoller, professional organizer and author of Decluttering for Dummies. For example, attack the kitchen junk drawer or an unruly closet. Alternatively, choose one category— papers, sweaters, or that Tupperware collection. Use a timer. “Set a timer for 15 minutes and see how much you can accomplish,” says Marty Basher, home organization expert for Modular Closets, who finds that 15 minutes is the perfect amount of time to bring order to a bathroom cabinet or a heaping pile of mail. Elsa Elbert, professional organizer and owner of Composed Living, says other easy-to-tackle spots are sock drawers and kids’ dressers, along with shelves of expired food in the pantry. Start with non-sentimental items. Going through the kids’ artwork or baby clothes can be hard because of all the emotions attached, so begin your decluttering with items that aren’t laden with sentiment, Basher says. Choose a donation spot. “Every time you find anything you don’t love or no longer use, immediately place it in the donation station,” Elbert says. Put an appointment on your calendar to drop things off monthly (or less frequently, depending on how much it piles up), Basher suggests. “If you want to make a little extra money, sell your items on eBay or your local Facebook marketplace,” he suggests. Go room by room. Divvying up the task makes it far more manageable. Once you’ve selected a room, be prepared to go through and categorize items into piles for toss, donate/sell, and keep, Basher says. Make sure to put an organizational system in place so closets and tables don’t revert to their pre-decluttering look. “The key is to make sure everything has a place or a ‘home,’” he adds. Cut down on keepsakes. Consider having a curated—not comprehensive—collection of your little ones’ arts-and-crafts projects. “For your own personal memorabilia and those of your kids, sort through your keepsakes and think hard about their importance,” Basher says. “Only keep items that you feel will be important to look back at years from now, or ones to share with your kids.” WestchesterParent 33

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How to choose and sign up for a health insurance plan if your company doesn’t offer one By Emma Steven

f you don’t receive health insurance from an employer, getting covered can be a daunting process, especially with dependents. Many people consult a broker or an agent, but before making any choices, it’s important to do your homework. To help you sort out the complex options, we spoke to health care experts about how best to choose a plan.

Know Your Timing

The most important thing to remember when it comes to buying health insurance is there is a limited period of time each year— open enrollment season—when you are able to enroll in a new plan (or make a change, such as being added to a spouse’s plan). One of the most common mistakes people make is they miss this window, says Lisa Zamosky, spokesperson for private online health insurance exchange eHealth and author of Healthcare, Insurance, and You: The Savvy Consumer’s Guide. “The window has shortened in the last two years. It’s now just a month and a half,” she says. In our area, open enrollment runs from Nov. 1-Dec. 15, 2019, with coverage beginning Jan. 1, 2020. Open enrollment periods for employer plans vary. Remember: It’s impossible to enroll at any other time, unless you have what qualifies as special enrollment—a change of circumstances, such as losing your job, getting married, or having a baby. New York is one of the only states in the U.S. that considers pregnancy a special enrollment event.

Decide What You Need

Some folks may qualify for Medicaid and/or Child Health Insurance Protection—visit health.ny.gov for more information. Most people, however, will have to choose a plan depending on their individual medical needs. This can get confusing. “One of the most common mistakes people make is focusing exclusively on the monthly premium,” Zamosky says. “That’s really important. It’s got to fit into your budget. But it’s also really important to understand how the things that you need are covered.” For example, consider how often you go to the doctor, your medications, and what you seek in preventative care. Brittney Castro, Certified Financial Planner and expert at Investopedia.com has this advice: “Anytime you shop for insurance…start with looking at the policy offer (what is it covering?) and the benefits you want,” she says. “Start there and see what the cost comes out to be, then compare it against your budget and see if that’s realistic. Then you can start to eliminate certain bits of the coverage to get that premium down to a level that you feel you could afford.”

Types of Plans

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Spouse Plans If you are married, check if your spouse’s employer offers coverage as part of his or her benefits package. You can be added to the plan during the open enrollment period or under special enrollment. If you aren’t married, many employers also offer domestic partner benefits to their employees. This can be tricky: Domestic partner benefits are not tax-free like the premiums paid for a spouse; on the other hand, employers may help cover the cost of these premiums. Before you go this route, Zamosky recommends checking the numbers. “More often than not, it’s a better and more cost-effective choice. But there are certainly scenarios where that may not be the case,” she says. “It costs you nothing to go online and take a look at the plans.” If adding everyone to one policy is too expensive, you can search for a new family plan on the Affordable Care Act marketplace, or private exchanges such as eHealth. You may qualify for financial help. Unfortunately, due to a rule colloquially called the “Family Glitch,” even if you qualify for subsidies based on your family income, the system may still count you as having access to an affordable plan because the calculation is based on the individual premium, not the family premium. This means you might not always be eligible for assistance, even if adding your whole family to the plan is unaffordable. COBRA If you recently quit or lost your job, you can keep your old insurance for a limited period thanks to the Consolidated Omnibus Reconciliation Act, COBRA for short. This federal law allows you to continue paying for your old plan. The catch? You now have to pick up the entire cost, so it is often very expensive. Plus, you only have 60 days to sign up after your job coverage ends, so you need to move quickly. You can also use COBRA to get coverage if you get a divorce, your insured spouse dies, or you become too old to be on your parents’ plan. The maximum amount of time you can get coverage this way is 18 months, and you can opt out at any time. Exchange Plans Another option is buying a plan on an exchange and, thanks to the ACA, every state now has an insurance marketplace (ours is nystateofhealth.ny.gov), where you can compare plans and choose the best one for you. Each is guaranteed to comply with the ACA’s rules, such as covering pre-existing conditions and preventative care, and no cap on annual benefits. There are also many subsidies you can apply for. You can buy a plan from the marketplace online, on the phone, via a paper form, through a private exchange, or direct from a broker or agent. Again, you can only do this during

open enrollment or special enrollment. What many people don’t realize is the state marketplace doesn’t include all ACA-compliant plans offered by insurers. “If you don’t qualify for subsidies, it’s a good idea to have a look at something like eHealth or speak to a broker, because there may be a plan that isn’t on the state marketplace that could be good for you,” Zamosky says.

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Small Business Owners One exception to the open enrollment period rule is available to small business owners. If you run a small business with two or more full-time employees, you can buy something called small business plan insurance. These are ACA-compliant and often work out to be very good value, Zamosky says. If you don’t have your own business, there are many business associations that offer health insurance plans. For example, if you are one of the 57 million freelance workers in the United States, you can buy a plan through the Freelancer Union (freelancersunion.org). There are 450,000 members nationwide, and it’s free to join. Association plans like this can only be joined during open enrollment or special enrollment. High-Deductible Health Plans With HDHPs, you pay a lower monthly premium because your deductible is high. They are often offered by employers alongside a Health Savings Account they contribute to, but HDHPs can be bought individually. Before deciding on one of these plans, it’s very important to figure out if it makes sense based on your specific medical needs. According to Zamosky, there are two types of people who this plan suits: those who rarely visit the doctor and so save money with the low premium, and those who anticipate high costs (such as people planning surgery in the next year) who benefit from the cap on the out-of-pocket expenses. Whatever path you choose, don’t opt out. No insurance means you won’t be able to take care of your health with regular checkups and preventative care. You won’t be prepared in the case of an accident if you need medical attention or hospitalization. Medical bills can quickly add up if you don’t have insurance, and are a leading cause of bankruptcy, according to a recent study by the American Public Health Association. “I would never recommend that as a financial planner—or as just a citizen,” Castro says.

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The Palmar Grasp reflex, which happens when you stroke your infant’s palm, is practice for mastering voluntary grasping.

Decoding Infant Reflexes ›› Here’s the breakdown on baby’s baffling—but totally normal—built-in behaviors

lmost everything about a newborn is overwhelming. On littleto-no sleep, you’re expected to assemble gear that requires an engineering degree. You can’t go out without carrying what feels like the entire contents of your home. Then you start to notice your baby is doing these...weird things. And your new-parent panic kicks in: What. Is. Happening!? No need to worry. Those fascinating, quirky little behaviors are natural, and actually serve a purpose.

What are reflexes?

Reflexes are involuntary, spontaneous movements that are part of normal infant development. Adults have them too; the “knee-jerk” reaction to a tap of your doctor’s hammer is probably the most familiar. Infant developmental reflexes are also known as primitive reflexes, and they arise from the brain stem and spinal cord. “They are generally believed to exist because they have offered a survival benefit to human infants from an evolutionary perspective,” says Lauren Levine, M.D., assistant professor of Pediatrics at Columbia University Medical Center in Manhattan. Primitive newborn reflexes will generally fade away between 1 and 6 months of age. “If you think that your infant’s reflexes persist past this age, you should let your pediatrician know,” Dr. Levine says. “But I tell parents not to stress about newborn reflexes. A good pediatrician will be assessing them at each well-baby visit without you even realizing it!” 36

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By Christina Vercelletto

The Rooting Reflex

What: When either side of a baby’s mouth is touched, he’ll turn his head in that direction, open his mouth, and root around. Why: This helps a baby find the nipple and be able to feed. “You can imagine how an infant without these primitive reflexes might not have survived after birth thousands of years ago,” Dr. Levine notes. In the first month of your baby’s life, when she’s learning how to eat and you’re learning how to feed her, you can leverage this reflex. “Stroking the baby’s face at the corner of the mouth can help encourage the baby to latch on or take the nipple in the mouth,” says Victoria Riese, M.D., of Flatiron Pediatrics in Manhattan. “Just be aware that a baby will root any time the cheek or corner of the mouth is stroked, so don’t mistake the reflex for a sign of hunger, especially if the baby has just eaten.”

The Sucking Reflex

What: When the roof of a baby’s mouth is touched, she immediately starts sucking. (Newborns also have a strong urge to put their fists in their mouths and suck on their own fingers.) Why: Newborns’ neurological systems are immature in the first six months of life. “There needs to be a fail-safe method for the baby to get nourishment without any purposeful behavior, and then growth and development can follow,” Dr. Riese says. (This particular reflex isn’t completely cemented in utero until about 36 weeks, which is

why preemies often have a compromised ability to feed.) Sucking in general is soothing to babies, a secondary function of this reflex that probably developed to motivate babies to suck to get milk. “When a baby is fussy, putting a clean finger or pacifier in her mouth is extremely soothing and will help calm her very easily, especially if she has recently eaten and is not hungry,” Dr. Riese says. “This is one of the most useful methods to calm babies.”

The Moro (aka Startle) Reflex

What: In reaction to a sound or nearby sudden movement, a newborn throws back his head, extends his arms and legs out, then pulls his legs and arms back in. He might cry as well. Some babies even display this reflex in response to their own cry. “They are often the reason babies wake themselves up from sleep,” Dr. Levine says. “This is why swaddling infants helps them to sleep better. Their arms are tucked in and can’t flail about.” Why: “The reflex movement adjusts the baby’s posture to keep him or her balanced. Once a baby develops more voluntary control over movements, these automatic responses fade away,” says Devorah Segal, M.D., Ph.D., pediatric neurologist at New York-Presbyterian Komansky Children’s Hospital and Weill Cornell Medicine in Manhattan. And a good sense of balance is quite useful for a new human to have. For one thing, it can make it easier to grab onto your mother if she should start to lose her grip on you.

The Tonic Neck (aka the Fencing Position) Reflex

What: When your baby is lying down, and his head is turned to one side, the arm on that same side extends out, while the other arm bends at his elbow, like a fencer would stand. Why: Much like the Moro reflex, Dr. Segal explains, this one likely originated as an automatic protective response to help maintain balance. After six months or so, “more purposeful balancing motions replace it,” she says.

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The Palmar Grasp (aka Grip) Reflex

What: Stroking your baby’s palm spurs her to close her fingers in a grasp. (A similar lesser-known reflex in the feet and toes usually lasts until babies are about 9 months old.) Why: It’s practice, essentially, for being able to master voluntary grasping, which will happen in a few months. Some experts call it a vestigial reflex, meaning its evolutionary purpose is no longer useful. It is thought to have originated as a way for babies to hang onto their mothers’ fur when humans were hairier. That alleviated the need for a mother to hold onto her baby while trying to, say, run from a predator.

The Stepping Reflex

What: Despite not being able to support his own weight, your baby moves his legs as though walking, even dancing, when you’re holding him upright with his feet touching a solid surface. Why: This reflex is pretty much what it looks like: preparation and training for the all-important ability of humans to walk upright. “The best thing for parents to do when it comes to their infant’s primitive reflexes is to know what they are,” Dr. Levine notes. “That way, they’re not alarmed when they see them, and they’re able to tell the pediatrician if any of them are asymmetrical.” For example, your baby only grasps with her right hand and not the left, or, when startled, flails her left arm but not her right. “Such asymmetries could indicate a nerve or musculoskeletal injury from the birth process and need further evaluation,” Dr. Levine says. But remember, the reflexes themselves are not harmful to your baby in any way. Dr. Segal agrees: “There is nothing parents need to do to ‘train’ their baby out of a reflex. They will go away on their own over time.”

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Your teens still need some guidance when it comes to healthy habits, such as eating a balanced meal, so try cooking together once or twice a week and enjoying a meal as a family.

Don’t Let Go—Just Yet

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Even though your teen is gaining more independence, you still need to do these four things. By Laura D’Angelo

“ ’m not a little kid anymore!” Those six heart-wrenching words are often what adolescents tell their parents, who may still view their teens as the babies they once were. It can be hard to let go, whether you are handing over the car keys, packing your “child” up for college, or accepting that your 13-year-old wants to start wearing make-up to school. No parent is fully prepared to come to terms with their teenager outgrowing certain childhood habits. However, society sometimes misconstrues what the actual meaning of adolescence is: an extension of childhood. Even though your teenager is beginning to gain independence, that doesn’t mean he is going to become a full-fledged, independent adult overnight. Here are four ways your teen still needs you, according to experts in adolescent psychology.

Set Rules and Boundaries

You’ve likely set guidelines throughout your teen’s life, relating to your family values and morals—and those of society and culture at large. But internalizing and acting according to those rules is a lot for her to take on by herself right now, according to Erin Jant, Ph.D., developmental psychology professor at Bing38

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hamton University. “They’ve had all these routines and rules throughout their life, but they might still need reminders on some things,” Dr. Jant says. This is especially true when it comes to the pressure your teen may feel from her peers or what she sees on social media, according to Alyson Cohen, LCSW, who works with adolescents and young adults at her private practice in midtown Manhattan. Your teen doesn’t need to be micromanaged in every aspect of her life, but gentle reminders here and there—especially when it comes to what’s okay to share and how to act on social media—will go a long way to ensuring your teen stays safe online, Cohen points out.

Remind About Dietary and Hygiene Habits

While your teenager may not need to rely on you entirely for meals and reminders about cleanliness anymore, it’s possible he still might need some help adjusting to becoming independently accountable for the many responsibilities that come with growing up. Check in on your teenager to make sure he’s practicing healthy food habits to balance the junk food he eats when you’re not

around. In many situations she deals with, Cohen finds it helpful when parents are involved in preparing their teenager’s food. Try cooking together once or twice a week, or give him more freedom to choose and prepare a meal for the family. When it comes to hygiene, it’s especially important to help young teens along with some gentle reminders—after all, needing deodorant and getting acne is new for them. Cohen suggests asking questions like: “Are you brushing and flossing your teeth at night?”; “Are you actually using body wash and shampoo when you take a shower?”; “When was the last time your sheets were changed?”; and “Are you making sure your favorite jeans are getting washed?” The important thing is not to come down on him for doing something wrong, but rather to reinforce his positive behaviors and habits through encouragement.

Allow for Natural Consequences

One of the most influential factors in whether a teenager becomes a self-reliant, confident adult is whether she has been allowed to face (and learn from) the consequences of her actions, Dr. Jant stresses. If you fix every single issue for him, he won’t ever get the sense of autonomy he needs to thrive in the real world. After all, if you keep bringing your teen her lunch at school because she always forgets to pack it, will she ever learn to remember? “[It’s important] that their parents are giving them rules, sending them off, and hoping that they’re learning from their own failures, while always providing support when necessary,” Dr. Jant says. “Natural consequences are very useful and impactful for teens especially.” So, consider letting your teens experience safe and natural consequences. For example, instead of emailing her English teacher asking if she can do extra credit to boost her grade, let her take the lower grade. It’s the only way she’ll realize writing her essays on the bus the morning they are due isn’t a great idea.

Show Emotional and Physical Affection

Even if your teenager tells you he can’t stand your smothering hugs, appropriate physical affection from a parent or guardian is something he’ll never outgrow, Cohen says. “There has been so much research in the last 25 years that there is no amount of love that you can give your child that’s too much,” Cohen says. “And when I say love, I don’t mean being overbearing, in their face trying to do everything for them, but [saying], ‘I love you. I care so much about you. I’m so happy you’re in my life.’” It is especially important to remember your teenager has not outgrown physical affection, according to Dr. Jant. Why? “The risk for depression in adolescence jumps up exponentially compared to middle childhood,” she says. So, it’s crucial that parents pay attention to behavior shifts in their children, and not take on a permissive parenting style just because they want to be liked, Dr. Jant says. “There are so many parents who feel that tension…so then they pull back. They just allow [their teen] to do whatever, and then that can lead to negative consequences for that child.” Even though it can be difficult, it’s important to remember to remain calm when your teenager is acting up or shutting you out. Even if she’s behaving like she wants nothing to do with you, what she really needs more than ever is your love, support, and affection. Laura D’Angelo, a former NYMetroParents editorial intern, is a junior at Binghamton University.

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Ann and Andy, family-owned and operated since 1973, offers a variety of fun activities for children ages 2 months to 14 years. We are licensed by NYSOCFS and the health department. We offer flexible schedules, reasonable rates, nutritious lunches, a caring staff, individualized attention, and age-appropriate field trips.

Butler Nursery School 100 Underhill St., Yonkers 914-779-7449 butlernurseryschool.org

Butler Nursery School provides your child with a preparatory curriculum in a safe, fun, nurturing place to thrive. Programs for twos, threes, and fours offered with extended day option available. Twos don’t need to be potty trained. Affiliated with Historic St. John’s Episcopal Church, Christians and non-Christian families warmly welcomed!

Christian Pre-School 43 Ashford Ave., Dobbs Ferry 914-693-0026 dfchristianpreschool.org dfchristianpreschool@yahoo.com

Christian Pre-School - nurturing families and faith in the Rivertowns for more than four decades. We offer children ages 2-4 a loving, nurturing environment in which to play, laugh, learn, and grow, celebrating social, emotional, and academic successes of each child. All are welcome to join the Christian Pre-School family!

Iona Preparatory School K–12 Brother Thomas R. Leto, C.F.C., Ed.D., president

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Lower School (grades pre-K-4 to eighth) 173 Stratton Road, New Rochelle 914-633-7744 Upper School (grades ninth-12th) 255 Wilmot Road, New Rochelle 914-632-0714 ionaprep.org

An Iona Preparatory education is one of the best investments you can make for your son’s development, beginning with prekindergarten and setting the stage for a lifetime of success. Westchester’s only Catholic, all-boys, PK-12 school blends rigorous academics and small classes allowing faculty to actively engage students in learning.

Mandarin Discovery School Classes in White Plains and Yonkers 914-351-6788 mandarindiscov.org shanshanli@mandarindiscov.org

Mandarin Discovery Preschool is an immersion program for children. We offer Mommy and Me classes, preschool classes, afternoon program, and Chinese Culture class on the weekend. We also offer tutoring to any age and adults. Our goals are creating a fun learning environment for children and helping them learn Mandarin.

The Milestone School 70 W. Broad St., Mt. Vernon 914-667-3478 themilestoneschool.com

Founded in 1979 on the premise that “the first years of a child’s education are the most important,” The Milestone School is an independent, non-sectarian, nursery-fourth grade school. Celebrating 40 years of excellence, our unique, stimulating academic environment emphasizing early reading prepares students to continue on to top private schools.

Project Explore 70 Columbus Ave., Valhalla 914-328-1578 easterseals.com/newyork

We serve children with and without disabilities in inclusive, integrated, small classrooms. We offer high-quality full- and parttime programs, school year and year-round, for children ages 18 months to 5 years, from 8:30am2:30pm. Before- and after-school care, vacation clubs during school breaks, and summer camp are available options.

Westchester Jewish Center Early Childhood Center Ann Pardes, director 914-698-2767 Palmer and Rockland Avenues (Use 175 Rockland Ave. for GPS purposes.) Mamaroneck wjcenter.org

WJC’s Early Childhood Center (ECC) offers programs for children newborn to age 5. Our developmentally appropriate program provides a balance between preparing for the future and living fully in the present, in the context of a caring environment. Children learn through discovery, multi-sensory, child-centered, and rich adultchild interactions.

PRIVATE SCHOOLS Archdiocese of New York- Catholic Schools of NY 646-794-2885 catholicschoolsny.org

Iona Preparatory School K–12 Brother Thomas R. Leto, C.F.C., Ed.D., president Lower School (grades pre-K-4 to eighth) 173 Stratton Road, New Rochelle 914-633-7744 Upper School (grades ninth-12th) 255 Wilmot Road, New Rochelle 914-632-0714 ionaprep.org

Thornton-Donovan School 100 Overlook Circle, New Rochelle 914-632-8836 td.edu

Thornton-Donovan School, located in the heart of New Rochelle’s Beechmont section, was founded in 1901. T-D is an independent, international, kindergarten-12th, coed school

that attracts students from 40 different countries, and teaches French, Spanish, Italian, Latin, Greek, German, and Japanese.

tors, parents, and non-Windward students.

The Windward Institute

Project Explore

40 W. Red Oak Lane, White Plains 212 E. 93rd St., Manhattan thewindwardschool.org/courses

70 Columbus Ave., Valhalla 914-328-1578 easterseals.com/newyork

The Windward Institute, affiliated with The Windward School, provides professional development based on scientifically-validated research in child development, learning theory, and pedagogy. Courses and workshops address a broad range of topics for mainstream and remedial education settings and are available throughout the year for educa-

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We serve children with and without disabilities in inclusive, integrated, small classrooms. We offer high-quality full- and part-time programs, school year and year-round, for children ages 18 months to 5 years, from 8:30am-2:30pm. Before- and after-school care, vacation clubs during school breaks, and summer camp are available options.

CHRISTIAN PRE-SCHOOL at Dobbs Ferry Lutheran Church 914-693-0026

Christian Pre-School has been nurturing families and faith in the Rivertowns for over 4 decades. We offer children ages 2-4 a loving & nurturing environment in which to play, laugh, learn & grow, celebrating the social, emotional & academic successes of each child! All are welcome here!

dfchristianpreschool.org 43 Ashford Avenue Dobbs Ferry, NY 10522

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Apply to REACH Prep! Seeking bright and motivated 4th grade black and Latinx students to apply for our FREE 12Ͳyear program. Apply at www.reachprep.org/admission REACH Prep provides access to transformative educational experiences to empower underserved, highͲachieving students to graduate from top colleges.

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The Ethical Society of Northern Westchester

LEARNING MANDARIN BROADENS THEIR WORLD

for ages 5-14 (grades K-8)

An immersive Mandarin language school

Sunday Ethics for Children Program Come explore our inclusive educational experience which focuses on the importance of individual worth and responsibility, respect for one another, respect for the earth, and becoming a vital part of the Community. Classes meet Sundays 11 am - 12:30 pm during our regularly scheduled Sunday Meetings. Please visit, or contact us: esnwsec@gmail.com or call 914.941.3544 Learn More at www.esnw.org ESNW • 108 Pinesbridge Road, Ossining, NY 10562

Mandarin Discovery School

Why is it important to learn Mandarin? It is the most widely-spoken language in the world! We teach all four language skills: speaking, listening, reading and writing. With an emphasis on SPEAKING and in a fun and creative environment Preschool • Mommy & Me Chinese Culture • Tutoring • In-school & After School Programs • Chinese Homework Help

Classes held in Yonkers and White Plains. MandarinDiscov.org • 914-351-6788 shanshanli@mandarindiscov.org WestchesterParent 41

PartyCentral Your local guide to entertainers, party places, activities, and other resources. PARTY ENTERTAINMENT AMY ROSEN CUPCAKE, COOKING, AND CHOCOLATE-MAKING PARTIES 917-903-1451 amyrosencookingbydesign.com amyrosencookingbydesign@gmail.com Have a cooking party for your child’s next birthday. From Cupcake Wars, to Chopped Style parties, to Pizza Creations, to chocolate melting, molding, and decorating, your kids will enjoy the fully hands-on experience.

CLOWNS.COM Proudly Serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000, 718-971-5862 clowns.com

We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.

SWEET CHARLIE’S 955 Mamaroneck Ave., Mamaroneck 914-552-0521 sweetcharlies.com

At Sweet Charlie’s we combine the art of making Thai inspired ice cream rolls with modern American showmanship. Roll out the red carpet for your next birthday or event with Sweet Charlie’s catering services!

BIRTHDAY GIFTS GIRL AGAIN 4 Martine Ave., White Plains free parking at the Seasons garage 914-358-1460 girlagain.com; girlagain@yesshecaninc.org

Girl AGain is a resale boutique for gently used American Girl dolls and books which make great birthday gifts!

TILLY...A DEER’S TALE 914-764-5564 tillyadeerstale.com

Tilly...A Deer’s Tale is about a real deer that lives in upstate New York and faces challenges after an accident. This powerful story is meant to inspire children living with physical challenges or limitations. The book makes a great birthday gift!

PARTY PLACES A-GAME SPORTS 856 Main St., New Rochelle 42

914-278-9477 agamesports.net info@agamesports.net

A-Game Sports offers a variety of birthday party packages for children of all ages. Each 90-minute party includes supervised playtime with two coaches on a private section of turf.

ACHIEVE MARTIAL ARTS 590 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-723-0777 achieve914.com achieve914@gmail.com

Achieve Martial Arts offers amazing martial arts themed birthday parties with games and actual board breaking. Instructors lead the 90-minute party. The party package includes pizza and beverages.

ARTISTREE PERFORMING ARTS 114 W. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-835-2200 artistreearts.com jeanette@artistreearts.com

Artistree Performing Arts creates amazing birthday parties for children ages 1-12. Have your party in our beautifully renovated studio or let us come to you with just the entertainment.

BACH TO ROCK MAMARONECK 130 Mamaroneck Ave., Mamaroneck 914-341-1457 mamaroneck.b2rmusic.com mamaroneck@bachtorock.com

Looking for a fun birthday party at a reasonable price? We have three different parties: Rock Star, Karaoke, or Rock City, for an unforgettable experience!

CENTRAL PARK DANCE 450 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-723-2940 centralparkdance.com centralparkdance@gmail.com

Have the birthday party of your dreams! Choose from Fairytale Ballet, Hip-hop, and Fun-n-Fit party games. We provide a beautifully decorated studio, a separate space to serve food, paper goods, and an experienced, professional staff.

CHELSEA PIERS CONNECTICUT One Blachley Road, Stamford 203-989-1100 chelseapiersct.com/birthday info@chelseapiersct.com

Birthday parties at Chelsea Piers are action-packed! Options include gymnastics, dance, basketball, volleyball, soccer, ice-skating, ninja warrior, and water slides. New to Chelsea Piers is a gymnastics party option for toddlers and a pool party!

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CHOCOLATIONS 607 E. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-777-3600 chocolations.com maria@chocolations.com

Have your child’s next party at Chocolations. Steph’s Sweets, known for its creative and delicious cookies, is now at Chocolations! We offer chocolate-making and cookie-decorating parties for a sweet and memorable experience.

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A private party at The Little Gym is a perfect way to celebrate your child’s next birthday. Gymnastics, games, obstacle courses, trampoline, sports, and music are tailored to your child’s interests!

MUSICAL MUNCHKINS 167 Scarsdale Road, Tuckahoe 914-771-7000 musicalmunchkins.com

FUNFUZION AT NEW ROC CITY 29 LeCount Place (Exit 16 off I-95), New Rochelle Party Central: 914-637-7575, Option 1 funfuziononline.com

Musical Munchkins is the perfect birthday party activity for babies through age 5! Enjoy group drumming, funny favorite sing-along songs, and fabulous dancing scarves!

GREAT PLAY OF SCARSDALE Interactive Gym for Kids 969B Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-713-3470 greatplay.com/scarsdale

The Play Group Theatre (PGT) is Westchester’s theater for children and teens. PGT shows make ideal birthday parties for a variety of ages. Enjoy the show, followed by a backstage tour.

HOMMOCKS PARK ICE RINK Boston Post Road and Weaver Street, Larchmont 914-834-1069 hommocksparkicerink.org

Parties at The Rock Club literally rock! Rock climbing is an incredibly social sport and a great way to bring excitement and engagement to your next birthday party!

FunFuzion is the only place where kids can “Fuze the Fun” for their fantastic day! Come celebrate at the home of the world’s greatest birthday party!

Our award-winning, high-energy parties are spectacular events in our amazing Interactive Gym™. We customize each party based on your child’s interests, using some of our most popular Great Play games.

Have your birthday party on ice! Host your next special party at the coolest place in town, Mamaroneck’s popular enclosed Hommocks Park Ice Skating Rink.

KIDS IN SPORTS 365 Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-358-9732 scarsdaleny.kidsinsports.com scarsdaleny@kidsinsports.com

We design the party to suit your child’s sports interests and abilities. Parties are 90 minutes. You will have our entire location dedicated to only your party, hosted by our expert coaches.

LIL CHAMELEON 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe 914-346-5148 lilchameleon.com

Book our Silver or Gold Package each with unique experiences: crafts with face painting or balloon sculptures, cupcake decorating, princesses, super heroes, tea party, rainbows and unicorns, or live animals.

THE LITTLE GYM 777 White Plains Road, Scarsdale 914-722-0072 tlgscarsdaleny.com 2121 Broadway, 2nd Floor (between 74th and 75th streets) Upper West Side, Manhattan 212-799-1225

THE PLAY GROUP THEATRE 1 N. Broadway, Suite 111, White Plains 914-946-4433 playgroup.org info@playgroup.org

THE ROCK CLUB AT PINE BROOK FITNESS 130 Rhodes St., New Rochelle 914-633-7625 pinebrookfitness.com/the-rock-club

SPORTIME USA 380 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-2111 x2 sportimeusa.com

Birthday parties? That’s our specialty! Celebrate your birthday at Sportime USA, the coolest place to have a party in Westchester.

STEFFI NOSSEN SCHOOL OF DANCE 216 Central Park Ave., White Plains Satellite locations in Chappaqua and Ossining 914-328-1900 steffinossen.org

Dance birthday parties arranged at our studio or your home, based on your child’s special interests and theme ideas!

STEPPING STONES MUSEUM FOR CHILDREN Matthews Park, 303 West Ave., Norwalk 203-899-0606 x208 steppingstonesmuseum.org/parties Stepping Stones turns a birthday party into a celebration. Go big, go small, or go after hours and get the whole museum to yourself. When it is time to go home, leave the mess to us!

STUDIO B DANCE CENTER 277 White Plains Road (entrance on Prospect Avenue), Eastchester 914-793-2799 studiobdance.com Each party at Studio B is uniquely designed

to give the birthday child an exciting, personalized experience. Boys and girls ages 2 and older enjoy dancing and playing games to their favorite music.

SUGAR FACTORY Sugar Factory - Meatpacking District 835 Washington St., Manhattan Sugar Factory - The Row 700 8th Ave., Manhattan Sugar Factory - Upper West Side 1991 Broadway, Manhattan 212-414-8700 sugarfactory.com sfny@sugarfactory.com

Party where the stars play! Here at Sugar Factory, we offer pre-fixed and customizable party packages for any celebration and budget! From private large-scale events to private dinners for two, a Sugar Factory celebration is one you will never forget!

UFC GYM MAMARONECK 300 Waverly Ave., Mamaroneck 914-835-4269 ufcgym.com/locations/mamaroneck dean.bellantoni@ufcgym.com

It’s party time...this year celebrate your child’s birthday the UFC way! Great coaches-we have them! Obstacle courses-we got em. Ninja Warrior parties-check. Parties start at $499.

WESTCHESTER CHILDREN’S MUSEUM 100 Playland Parkway, Rye 914-421-5050 discoverwcm.org info@discoverwcm.org Places to build, explore, and discover, the Westchester Children’s Museum is Westchester’s newest, most creative place for birthday parties! Have the museum’s exhibits, MakerSpace, and party room to yourself-our parties offer exclusive use of the museum space when the general public has gone home.

• Comprehensive Care from Birth to Age 21 • State of the Art Pediatric Office Schedule your annual • Convenient on-site parking • Spacious child-friendly waiting area physical • Extended evening & weekend office hours • Most Insurances Accepted Susan Meisler, M.D. • Hilary Smith, M.D. Lisa Mandelker, D.O. • Debra Etelson, M.D. 145 Huguenot St., Suite 200 New Rochelle, NY www.pasw4kids.com • 914.235.1400

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BUT LER NURSERY SCHOOL of St. John’s Episcopal Church, Tuckahoe

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Solid academic preparation for kindergarten and beyond

Fun Learning

Play-based curriculum Half-day programs for children ages 2-4 (2s/3s need not be potty trained to start). Extended day available. Enrollment for the 2020-21 school year begins in January, 2020. New to the area? Contact us about current openings.

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The Milestone School

Pre-School Kindergarten Primary Grades 1 – 4 Early Phonics Program Diaper Friendly Programs EXTENDED DAY 7:30am – 6:00pm Flexible Scheduling Conveniently located across from the Fleetwood Station (Harlem Line) in Mt. Vernon

The Milestone School 70 West Broad St, Mt. Vernon 914-667-3478 themilestoneschool.com Chartered by NYS Board of Regents

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BACHTOROCK.COM Mamaroneck 914.341.1457

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Come learn from our experienced Montessori teachers who provide an individual, hands on learning environment. We offer a variety of toddler and pre-K programs! Extended hours are available.

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OPEN HOUSES 2019 Professional services Butler Nursery School

100 Underhill St., Yonkers 914-779-7449 butlernurseryschool.org Historic Butler Nursery School offers tours on Tuesdays and Thursdays between 9:30am-12pm, or by appointment. We encourage parents to spend some time in our classroom and meet our teachers.

Christian Pre-School

43 Ashford Ave., Dobbs Ferry 914-693-0026 dfchristianpreschool.org dfchristianpreschool@yahoo.com Drop in tours available on Tuesdays from 10am-12pm. Or call 914-693-0026 to schedule an appointment anytime.

Iona Preparatory School K–12

Lower School (grades pre-K-4 to eighth) 173 Stratton Road, New Rochelle 914-633-7744 Upper School (grades ninth-12th) 255 Wilmot Road, New Rochelle 914-632-0714 ionaprep.org/openhouse Register for 8th Grade Days at the Prep, and parent tours by going to the “Gael-for a-Day” at the Prep and Parent Tours tab under admissions on the website.

Thornton-Donovan School

100 Overlook Circle, New Rochelle 914-632-8836 td.edu Join us for Thornton-Donovan School’s open house on Sunday, Dec. 9 from 2-4pm.

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Nate and Mack, the author’s sons, in the Mara with a Masai guide

Trip of a Lifetime ››

Despite every precaution, our family vacation turned tragic

insisted on the vaccinations. Typhoid, hepatitis A, MMR, polio. I even drove the kids upstate to a clinic because the yellow fever vaccine was in short supply. Their arms hurt for days. For malaria we had to take pills, which for a 7-year-old and a 9-year-old is virtually impossible. I sprayed our clothes with Deet and packed the extra anti-malaria pills along with six bottles of Off and a scarf that was supposed to repel mosquitoes. My husband thought I was crazy. “Bobby says it’s not necessary,” he said. Bobby is our friend who lives in Kenya. We were on our way to visit him for what was going to be—to use a cliched phrase that we found ourselves reluctantly repeating—the trip of a lifetime. “Why take a risk?” I argued. “Whatever you want,” my husband said. Finally, we were ready for what I thought was going to be the hardest part of our journey: a 17-hour plane ride. Instead, we breezed through the epic flight. “See?” My husband said. “It’s easy.” Bobby was there to greet us and drove us through the packed, dusty Nairobi streets to his home behind a guarded gate. That afternoon, the kids held mini bananas while monkeys jumped on their backs. We fed giraffes and drank wine beneath avocado trees. After three days, we flew to the Mara—the bush—where we watched a lioness kill a gazelle then offer the carcass to her cubs. We saw wildebeests, led by zebras, cross a river filled with crocodiles. Our kids gaped in awe from the back of the jeep and slept beneath mosquito nets back at camp. Then we hopped another plane to Watamu, a small town on the Indian Ocean where we found ourselves in a beachfront five-bedroom with a personal chef. I read an entire novel while the kids frolicked in the pool. I am happy, I emailed a friend. After snorkeling, we decided to check out the Crab Shack on the mangrove where we could watch a stunning sunset. It was 5pm, daylight just starting to fade. “Boys get your shoes,” I said. A few seconds later we heard a shatter like a planter had been knocked over and then I saw what had actually happened, a vision that still haunts me every time I close my eyes. Mack, my 7-year-old, who was running to get his shoes, had 46

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smashed right through the sliding glass door. Glass was everywhere and Mack was screaming. And then there was blood. So much of it. I thought of the gazelle in the Mara. I thought of the book I read where a boy walks through glass and dies. And I thought, is this it? I immediately started reassuring everyone, but for the first time as a parent, I thought: It’s not going to be okay. This is when the good times end. And then: What if? What if he had not left his shoes outside? What if we had decided to stay in that evening? My hands shook as I wrapped Mack’s wounds. The ambulance arrived. A doctor tried to give Mack an IV, but his veins had collapsed. We drove 2 hours through black night under pouring rain on dirt roads to a hospital where a young African girl was wheezing. Was this really happening? There were waves of nausea and blurry floors. Finally, the doctor said, “He’s going to be okay.” “He is?” I asked, still unsure. We spent the rest of our vacation in African hospitals, getting Mack sewn back together. The pain was so bad at times that he needed IVs and shots and nerve-blockers. He screamed and cried and vomited from the medicine. But after a week, we learned there would be no permanent damage, minus a few brutal scars. When we got home, there were notes and flowers from our friends. Exhausted, I unpacked our dusty clothes and saw the bottle of anti-malaria pills. I thought of all the shots I had made the boys get, the forms I carried with us in a sturdy plastic folder— proof of our exceptional health and fortitude. That was us before, I thought, before we knew what it felt like to see our tiny, precious child hurt so badly that time stops. I threw the pill bottle in the trash. We had shielded ourselves against deadly, crippling diseases, and yet life had thrown us a curveball that no vaccine could have blocked. Are we better for it? Who knows? But two months later, as I write this, Mack is kicking a soccer ball against the house, shaking the walls—something I’ve told him many times not to do. And I am grateful, so grateful for it.

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