KOEMPOELHAN STUDIEHANDLEIDING CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVE
WELCOME TO THE KOEMPOELHAN
“The gift of the east for humanity is to accept things. The gift of the west for humanity is to change things. That Yin and Yan, that duality we can accept totally and we can change it. That is total balance.� Marianne Williamson
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In a fixed mindset, people believe their basic qualities, like their intelligence or talent, are simply fixed traits. They spend their time documenting their intelligence or talent instead of developing them. They also believe that talent alone creates success without effort. They’re wrong. In a growth mindset, people believe that their most basic abilities can be developed through dedication and hard work-brains and talent are just the starting point. This view creates a love of learning and a resilience that is essential for great accomplishment. Virtually all great people have had these qualities. Carol S. Dweck, 2006 Mindset: The New Psychology of Success.
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Label 1. Hate the Status Quo
Label 4. You are a Rebel
It doesn't make sense to Guido that something has been done the time-honored way with no explanation why. Guido is not someone who wants to just go through the motions or sit by idly. Nor does he like following the pack.
Guido knows that greatness resides outside the lines of conformity and doesn't think that policies, laws and regulations apply to him. He can be described as a rebel and rule breaker and he will defy gravity if he can.Â
Label 2. Easily Bored Guido finds himself easily bored, and others start viewing him as a problem. But nothing is wrong with him except that he is bored with activities that aren't up to his abilities and aren't challenging. That's why he hated most of the classes he ever attended. Think Bill Gates who dropped out of college to become one of the richest men in the world.
Label 5. Resist Authority Guido has a lifelong record of resisting authority from his parents, teachers and bosses. He doesn't go along with the agreed upon norms of the group or community he works and lives in.
Label 3. Fired from Jobs
Label 6. Ready to Improve Everything
Guido is too creative for his own good when it comes to working for others, and he may have some history of losing jobs. Being just a cog in wheel is very difficult for him because he want to create something others can be inspired by and contribute to.
Guido always sees how he can do things better. In addition, he is opinionated and freely gives his two-cents about the better way of doing things--even when he’s not asked.
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Label 7. Bad at Making Small Talk
Label 10. Scared to Go Solo
Guido has difficulty making the kind of small talk that so many people get comfort from. This social pattern of relationship and rapport building seems like a waste of time to him and makes him uncomfortable.
The entrepreneur in Guido is scared of going out on his own—and also terrified of not doing so. This fear is so common in our society because we've been conditioned to think that entrepreneurship is much riskier than getting a "good job." The reality is there is instability in both.
Label 8. Bullied in Your Youth
Label 11. Unable to Unwind
Guido may have been heavily criticized, picked on and even bullied as a child or teenager. This has caused him to be driven to excel and to prove to the world that he is indeed a force to be reckoned with.
Guido can't go to sleep at night because he can't turn his thoughts off. An idea even manifests itself in his dreams. The next morning he finds himself still consumed with that idea, distracting him from the job he’s supposed to be doing.
Label 9. Obsessive
Label 12. Don't Fit the Norm
Guido may have been labeled obsessive/compulsive because when he gets started on something he has difficulty letting go. Don't try to convince him that this is a disease or deficiency. All of the great entrepreneurs become completely immersed in their vision.
Guido has always been a bit uncomfortable in his own skin. Until he gets used to the idea that he is in fact different from most people, it could prove to be a problem--or exactly the motivation he needs to acknowledge the entrepreneur screaming to get out.
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"It is time to speak your Truth. Create your community. Be good to each other. And do not look outside of yourself for the leader."
"It is time to speak your Truth. Create your community. Be good to each other. And do not look outside of yourself for the leader."
eyes open, and our heads above water. And I say, see who is in there with you and celebrate! At this time in history, we are to take nothing personally. Least of all ourselves. For the moment that we do, our spiritual growth and our journey comes to a halt.
"This could be a good time! There is a river now flowing very fast. It is so great and swift that there are those who will be afraid. They will try to hold on to the shore. They will feel they were being torn apart and will suffer greatly.
The time of the lone wolf is over.
Know the river has its destination. The elders say we must let go of the shore, push off into the middle of the river, keep our
Gather yourselves! All that we do now must be done in a sacred manner and in
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battle ground
Controlling tasks vs stimulating cooperation
playing ground
proving ground
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YOU WILL REAP WHAT YOU SOW “Your believes become your thoughts, your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your values, your values become your destiny.”
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“The new species in a forest, a rain forest they come from the borders of the forest. There where the forest meets other ecosystems for instance the forest and the desert or the forest and the sea. Well suppose you have a brown monkey who lives in the forest, meets red fish out of the sea, and out of their conversations a new idea comes, that’s what I call a red monkey.” Jef Staes, leading authority on Learning processes and Innovative Organization
Scientific evidence shows us that people are born as creative geniuses. Divergent thinking decreases dramatically over the years. The capacity for divergent thinking: with kids 3 – 5 years is on average 98 with kids 8 – 10 years is on average 32% with kids 13 – 18 years is on average 10% at the age of 25+ years, the capacity of divergent thinking is on average 2% 11
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THE POWER TO FLOWER
“Your believes become your thoughts, your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your values, your values become your destiny.” ‘Be the Change you want to see in the World’
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1. Thoughts
“When we dream alone it is only a dream, but when many dream together it is the beginning of a new reality.”
6. Destiny
2. Words
5. Values
3. Actions
4. Habits
“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” 15
1. Thoughts
6. Destiny
2. Words
5. Values
3. Actions
The God Molecule 4. Habits
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The God Molecule
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IN WHAT STATE ARE YOU IN?
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Be
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BE(COME) WHO YOU REALLY ARE
Head
Senses
Spirit
Soul
Hands
Heart
Consciousness
HEAD-HEART-HANDS 21
Share everything
Have a mission that matters
Spark with imagination, fuel with data
Be
Go for constant innovation not instant perfection
ENTREPRENEURIAL BEHAVIOUR
Think big, start small
Fail Forward Fast 22
Why-How-What Why do we need you?
Mission
Senses
What’s your life’s mission? How to write your own ! Manifesto, your reason for being and how to make it sticky!
How to trigger your fan base. Start storytelling. ! Define your own dictionary and pictionary.
This is me
Added Value
Products
Build and re-build the ! ‘character’ of your brand, it’s special features and how to keep it alive.
Sell your first product ! before you even thought about it. Than wrap it.
Portfolio
PERSONAL ENTERPRISE
Combine and wrap your products into special ! services, catered to make life good for your fanbase.
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Low Avoidance
Secure
Low Anxiety
Preoccupied
Be
High Anxiety
Fierful avoidant
Dismissing avoidant
High Avoidance
ATTACHEMENT THEORY 24
Novel and Adaptive thinking
Sense making
Design Mindset
Future work skills 2020
Cross cultural competency
Virtual Collaboration
Social Intelligence
FUTURE WORK SKILLS 25
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THE COLORS WITHIN
Red warm, positive, energizing, motivating, pioneering, strong willed, passion
Purple
Orange
imagination & spirituality, awareness, connecting to higher consciousness, transformation, selfless
instinct, warm, emotional strength, adventurous, social communication, independent, informal, new ideas
White complete, perfection, pure, innocence, blank canvas, neutrality, calm, balance of all colors, reflective, peace, youth
Blue
Yellow
trust, honesty, loyalty, sincere, reliable, order & direction, peace & tranquility, idealistic, enhancing self-expression, spiritual perspective
uplifting, illuminating, hope, happiness, fun, original, inquisitive, creativity, challenging
Green
COLOR CODES
balance & harmony, growth, spring, renewal, rebirth, love, helpful, mental clarity & optimism, abundance
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Red Thoughts May your thoughts be warm and positive. Let them excite and motivate your self and the people you meet. Direct them to strenghten your will and give confidence to those who lack in will-power. Let your thoughts lead you or follow with a smile. Connect your thoughts to your passion, expressing love. 28
Orange Words May you choose your words and imagination to be uplifting. Have them express the bright side of life. Let them be inviting for others to assimilate new ideas. Let words and images flow from your instinct and express the freedom to be your adventurous self.
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Yellow Actions May your actions be original and challenging. They will then resonate with and built on your wisdom. Let them offer hope, happiness and fun. Let your actions literally illuminate the world around you.
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Green Habits May your habits nurture yourself and others unconditionally. They will bring you balance and harmony. Let them tap into the abundance of nature to bring you mental clarity and optimism. 31
Blue values May your values be honest and sincere. They will bring you order and direction. Devote yourself to dive deep into your own waters. You will hear the voice to express yourself.
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Purple Destiny May your destiny inspire high ideals, they will bring you a higher consciousness. Seek for your own meaning of life and assist those who seek it. Escape reality, it’s just a temporary mental construct. Dream your own transformation.
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Be White May you be(come) who you really are. You’re the color of perfection, a blank canvas.
Be pure and open to create anything your mind can conceive. Reflect the comfort and peace of the people you meet.
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LEARNING JOURNEY
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“You cannot depend on your eyes when your vision is out of focus” Marc Twain
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My Life In Quotes - Quotes In My Life
Our lives are storybooks that we write for ourselves; wonderfully illustrated by the people we meet. ~author unknown
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It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are. ~ e. e. cummings
It's hard to be a bright light in a dim world. ~ Gary Starta
Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive. ~ Howard Thurman
Things do not change We do ~ Henry David Thoreau
The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts. ~ Marcus Aurelius 54
Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change. ~ Wayne W. Dyer
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It is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble, there lies your treasure. ~ Joseph Campbell
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