Biography
The Life and Times of Engr. Edward Ogoegbunam Onugha
Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. According to the Lord’s word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage one another with these words. - 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18
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Edward Ogoegbunam Onugha (2nd April 1952 – 23rd January 2018), popularly known as Engr. Eddy Onugha, a renowned engineer, devoted family man and a faithful follower of Christ has gone to be with the Lord.
Birth and Early Years
Edward Ogoegbunam was born on April 2, 1952 in Isala Aboh, a riverine town in Delta state, Nigeria. OG, as he was fondly called by family and later known as Eddy, was the fifth and last child and the second son of Late Ogbueshi Pa Edward Chukwunweike Onugha and Late Ogbueshi Nwanyi (Mrs) Bernice Nwabuogochukwu Onugha, Onwelego (nee Belonwu) of Ire village, Idemili North Local Government Area of Anambra state. His parents were of Umuogwii sub family clan in Umudualor family kindred, Ugamuma village, Obosi.
Eddy had his Primary School education at Christ Church Uwani, Enugu (19571963). In 1964 he enrolled into Union Secondary School, Uwani Enugu after passing the entrance examination with flying colours. His Secondary School education was soon interrupted by the Nigerian Civil war. At less than 16 years old, Eddy joined the Biafran Army in defense of his fatherland, initially just running errands for officers and eventually posted to work in the food store. In 1970, after the end of the war, he continued his Secondary education and in 1971 passed the West African School Certificate Examination (WASCE) with Grade 1 achieving the best result in his class. Eddy proceeded to study Mechanical Engineering at the premier University of Nigeria Nsukka in October 1972 and graduated in June 1977 with Second Class Honours.
Religious Activities
Eddy accepted Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savour and became born again 1970. He was led to the Lord by Brother Amechi Nwachukwu (now Bishop, Amazing Love Assembly) and followed up by the Scripture Union in Enugu. From 1970 till his death, he never looked back but grew in fellowship and service to God. He was a shining model of Christianity with his profession of faith matching his lifestyle and character. He is generally remembered by the brethren as an honest, reliable and dependable friend and a brother indeed.
Eddy was a lively member and a leading official in several Christian bodies and was active in church throughout his fruitful life as a bible believing and behaving Christian including: Member, Hall Leader and General Secretary, Christian Union, UNN (1972 – 1977); Member, Scripture Union Obosi (1970 till death); Member, Obosi Believers Fellowship; Member, Prayer Secretary, General Secretary and Leading Elder, Ajaokuta Interdenominational Christian Fellowship (1979 – 1990); Member, Prayer Director, 1st President of the Executive Chapter and Chairman Technical Committee, Full Gospel Business Men’s Fellowship (FGBMFI) Enugu (1990 – death); Member, People’s Warden and PCC Official, St Andrew’s Anglican Church, Trans-Ekulu Enugu; Bishop’s Nominee, Nike Diocese Anglican Communion. Eddy also served the Lord with his professional skills contributing to the design and construction of several church projects.
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Family Life
Eddy met the one and only love of his life, Ifeyinwa Uzoma Nwobi, daughter of Ogbueshi Sir Jabez and Ogbueshi Lady Dolly Nwobi of Ugamuma village, Obosi at UNN in 1972. Ifeyinwa, who was also a student at the university at the time and a member of the Christian Union recalls Eddy as ‘Praying Hyde’ who was a caring, disciplined and cheerful young man. They got married in 1979 and together became known as Edify, with a vision to build up others and raise godly seeds. They have been blessed with 3 daughters and a son who are all married and 7 adorable grandchildren. Eddy was known to have a loving relationship with Ify who he fondly called ‘Darling’. Together, they used their marital experience and biblical principles to counsel many other couples. Eddy also maintained a loving relationship with all his children and their spouses, and enjoyed many fun moments with his grandchildren. His warmth and love was however not reserved for only his family with Eddy and Ify raising many sons and daughters in the Lord within and outside their home.
Career
Eddy began his professional career as a Graduate Engineer at the Upper Benue River Basin Development Authority, Yola Gongola State (1977 -1978), where he was posted under the National Youth Service Corp programme. At the end of his service year, he secured a job with Ajaokuta Steel Company Limited, Ajaokuta, Kwara State (19791990) and was posted to the Steel Authority of India for industrial training at Bhilai Steel and Bokaro Steel (1978 - 1979). He returned to Ajaokuta Steel, as a Mechanical Engineer, later rising to Principle Engineer and Deputy Manager before resigning to pursue his engineering dreams. Over the next 28 years, Eddy transitioned into a proficient multi-disciplinary engineering construction and consulting professional through self-led training, grit and the grace of God and founded two successful engineering construction and consulting firms along the way, Edify Engineering and Bigzam Associates. Prior to his demise, Eddy was CEO and Principal Consultant of Edify Engineering Company Limited (1990); CEO and Principal Consultant of Bigzam Associates (1991); and Principal Mechanical / Electrical Consultant at Integrated Consultants Limited (2002). He was also a Corporate Member of the Nigerian Society of Engineers NSE (1983) and Council of Registered Engineers of Nigeria COREN (1984).
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Summary
Edward Ogoegbunam Onugha lived intentionally. He lived for God; for his family; and for his service to humanity through his profession, ministry and relationships. He will be deeply missed by the many whose lives he touched.
Eddy left his professional mark in several major projects and cities within the country including: design modifications to Ajaokuta Steel Plant and the installation of electrical and mechanical equipments, National Assembly Complex Phase 3 Part 1 Abuja, National Mathematical Centre Abuja, Ekwueme Centre for Multi-Disciplinary Research at Nnamdi Azikiwe University Awka, Cowbell Milk Factory Building and Office at Apapa Lagos, St Pauls University College Awka, Evangel Camp Ebonyi State, Institute of Petroleum Studies Port Harcourt, St Andrews Ultra Modern Church Building Enugu, CBQ Quarters at Nigerian Military School Zaria, CBN Renovation Projects at Calabar and Jos, FG/CBN Intervention Projects at University of Ilorin, Master Plan for Federal University Ndufu Ndike in Ebonyi State, and the construction of many residential, hotel and commercial buildings. Eddy also led the winning international competitive design for a modern airport landing lighting system.
Edward Ogoegbunam Onugha is survived by: • Mrs Ifeyinwa Uzoma Onugha (Wife) • Mrs Ogochukwu Umeh (Daughter) and Mr Bravo Umeh (Son-in-law) • Mrs Chinazam Gbaruko (Daughter) and Mr Emeka Gbaruko (Son-in-law) • Mr Obinna Edward Onugha (Son) and Mrs Dabeluchukwu Onugha (nee Orizu) • Mrs Ugo Joy Eke-okoro (Daughter) and Dr Chukwuemeka Eke-okoro (Son-in-law) • Grandchildren: Nodebe Umeh, Dumebi Umeh, Chikamso Gbaruko, Chikanma Gbraruko, Chikamdi Gbaruko, Anieze Iva Onugha and Bella Chiebere Eke-okoro
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Tributes& Thoughts The path of the righteous is like the morning sun, shining brighter and brighter till the full light of day Proverbs 4:18
EDWARD OGOEGBUNAM ONUGHA 02 APRIL 1952 - 23 JANUARY 2018
A TRIBUTE TO MY DARLING HUSBAND By Ifeyinwa Uzoma Onugha (Your Wify) My darling, I miss you soooooo much. I take solace in the love we shared, the peace we enjoyed, the beautiful memories we built together - especially the precious fruits of our love union and the priceless eternal abode we both looked forward to. I could ask for nothing more. So... “Go happy soul, thy days are ended Thy pilgrimage on earth below. Go, by angelic guard attended To God’s own paradise now go Go forth in peace, farewell to sickness May rest in paradise be thine. In Jesus presence, there is gladness. Light everlasting on thee shine.” (BBC Hymn 447) Nwachinemelu, you secured your family in the safest anchor, Jesus. We will be fine so, rest in perfect peace. Our God is faithful! You are my greatest treasure and I know you are now secure in Heaven. You worked so hard and you deserve a good rest so, rest in perfect peace. Goodnight my love. Farewell my perfect match, my “okwulu agbaro ngo”. Thank you so much darling. See you someday!
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A TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED DADDY DA
By Ogochukwu Chidinma Umeh (Your Daughter)
forgiving heart and your infectious hearty laughter and sense humour always reverberated in our house. Your selfless love and care tempered with discipline was next to none. You were selfless in giving to God and helping people in need. From bringing home stranded strangers and families to selflessly giving all that you had to the chagrin of my siblings and I. ‘Chei! School fees anyi alaaa!’ was a frequent exclamation amongst us. You not only helped people but always rallied us to help others (even people we felt were better than us, you persisted that we get involved. Though you were always busy with work, creating magnificent artistic designs and structures and trying to solve everyone’s problems, you always had time for us and your grandchildren. When I told Nody and Dumebi that you were gone, Dumebi asked me to take him to the fridge where they had put you and to that I had no response… Despite the fact I’m married, my family’s wardrobe was constantly filled with the beautiful outfits and things you bought for us each time you travelled. Dad, you’ve stamped and engraved yourself in our lives that everywhere we look we see your imprints.
Daddy Da, I still can’t believe I’m writing these words to you. It still feels like a dream. Minutes have rolled into hours, hours into days, days have turned to weeks and with each passing day I wake up to the reality that you are really gone. I never saw this and I doubt you did either cause even in your last moments, you promised mum that you’ll pull through this together. On the 22nd of January, when I stepped into Ituku Ozalla, I hailed you ‘Engr. Eddy Onugha!’ and you lovingly called back ‘O gi O! Little did I know that I had been given a gift… the privilege of sharing with mum, your last moments here on earth. Daa-ddy, I’m still at a loss. This was’nt what I asked for. You didn’t even say, good bye to us. These past weeks have really been hard, I’ve cried, gone from sadness to numbness and asked a lot of questions. I’ve gone through picture memories of you, re-read all your messages and chats with me, replayed in my mind, all our conversations this last Christmas looking for a clue. Still... You were a father and friend extraordinaire, my first love and BF, always strong, full of life and activity (Nwoke Ezuike! as Grandma always called you). You had a kind and
You were my greatest motivator, loudest cheerleader, and a pillar of support to me. ‘Write as many papers as is required by your career, I’ll pay the manuscript fees just become my Professor soonest was your deal with me but you did’nt stay long enough to watch that dream materialize. You always saw the best and wanted the best for me and my siblings. In everything you did, you were a hard-worker and a detailed organizer such that with your passing, it felt as if you were still around, giving clear instructions on how to keep the family and company running. Daddy, your love for God and the profession of your faith in all you did has been the testimony of many. Indeed, you were a man of strong faith who handled life’s issues and challenges in the place of prayer. What you couldn’t give enough of in money, you made up for in fervent prayers and supplication to heaven for the needs of people. Our family alter was next to none and God gave answers to the numerous prayer points raised there. Daddy, it will be most unfair to say that you died of sickness. No you did’nt, cause time without number in life, you defied and cheated death. From different robbery attacks, to fatal accidents and all, God preserved you. This time all I can say is that, like Apostle Paul, ‘You had fought a good fight, finished your course and kept your faith’. God wanted you home to rest and His will supercedes… Our loss has become Heaven’s gain.
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I love you daddy and will surely miss you a lot, but I know that you made it to heaven and you are resting in the arms of God. You have gone back to your Father and like He promised in John 14:16-18, the Holy Spirit will comfort us. So, I choose to draw strength and comfort from God who promises eternal rest to them that believe in Christ Jesus. I choose to carry as a badge of honour, your legacy and the values you instilled in us and pass it on to others. God made you special, you are truly one of kind and no one except God can fill your place in our lives. Thank you for being the best dad, I could have ever asked for and one of the best Christian anyone can emulate.
A TRIBUTE TO MY FIRST LOVE
By Chinazam Ifeoma Gbaruko (Your Daughter, Chichichi)
Nwoke ezu ike!! I jebe go nno izu ike. so I’m choosing not to say Good bye but ‘Good night, Dad! because I’m looking forward to seeing you on that glorious morning. Adieu my Daddy Da, Adieu Engr. Eddy Onugha, Nwachinemelu, Onugha ana jogu! Rest on.
A TRIBUTE TO NWACHINEMELU
By Bravo Umeh (Your First Son-in-Law) Dad, I miss you.
You were my dad. You were my first love. You were my confidant. You were my Number 1 fan. You were my partner in jokes. 30 days is gone and it’s becoming so real. You fought so hard to live for us Dad. I’ve gone through our chats over a hundred times. I’ve replayed videos of you. I have shed tears till my headaches. I’ll give anything to hear you say’ Hello my Baby’ once again. You were not just a father to me but my friend. I remember when mum had to go to work at UNN, I took over the role of your wife because I was the only one around and that was when our bond grew stronger. You made life so easy for me. Most times whenever I hail you, you always reply “What do you want my daughter? Even if it is half of my kingdom, I will give it to you”. Lol. I was moved to tears when you couldn’t walk me down the aisle because you were emotional. Mum had to hold your hands and you both walked me down the aisle together. Even as a married woman, you still fathered me ‘wella’. You supported my dreams with all you had. You send me cake pictures of all the events you attend just to make sure I know what is trending. You send business ideas to me almost on daily basis. Even in your sick bed you said you wished all the funds you were spending on your health was going into Chizz Cakes. You were also an awesome Grandpa to the 3 Ks.
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Daddymu, Daddyda. Death has given the biggest blow!!! It hurts sooo much Dad. Missing you hurts. My personal advisor. My business brain box. Really wish you had waited to see Chizz Cakes grow. I promise to make you proud Dad. I’m grateful I heard you say ‘I am soo proud of you baby’ during our last heart to heart talk in December. Daddy mu. Yadibalu chukwu. Jee nkeoma my super hero. Though you are physically gone, your place in my heart is still remains. Your grandkids love and miss you too. Love you much much daddyda.
A TRIBUTE TO MY FATHER-IN-LOVE
By Emeka Gbaruko (Your Son-in-Love) Dad, It still seems like a dream. A night-mare that I wish would never be a reality. The sad news of your demise was a huge blow that I have been asking God for grace to recover from but in everything we know it is well. You were more than a father -in-law, you were my mentor, life –coach and counselor. I cannot forget the warm smile you gave me the first time I stepped into your home and in that smile I knew I had a father in you. You were a true father indeed. You showered me and my family with so much care and even in your sick bed you still called to give your usual fatherly advice. I remember few days before you passed on, you heard about an issue with the banker and you called to inform me and also warned me to be careful. Allowing me to marry Chichi was the best gift I have ever received in life. I have heard so many complaint of issues from in laws, but you showed me so much love that I can’t help but call you FATHER IN LOVE (instead of father in law). Your simplicity cannot be over emphasized. Your diligence in whatever you put your hands to do is second to none. Daddy you modelled Christianity to us that I ask God for grace to maintain your legacy. The big shoe you left will be difficult for anyone to fit in and your foot-prints in the lives of many can never be erased. You affected so many lives that pages of books will not contain what God has used this great hero to achieve in the lives of many. We are not mourning like those that do not have hope. We know that you have fought the good fight and you are presently in that city whose streets are made of gold. Adieu Dad, till we meet in eternity, continue to rest in the bosom of our lord Jesus Christ - AMEN!!!!
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IN LOVING MEMORY OF MY DEAR FATHER - DADIDA! By Obinna Edward Onugha (Your Son, Obility)
humanity through his profession, ministry and relationships. He was a Christian long before I was born and he departed this earth proclaiming his faith in his simple, honest and humble way. He gave his life to provide for his family and inculcated priceless virtues of hardwork, discipline and perseverance in all his children. Among his kinfolk, he was a man of peace and a builder of bridges. In the Christian community he was a brother, father, friend, teacher, counsellor and mentor to many. Within his professional circle, he was a man of integrity, excellence and extraordinary competence. My father. My legend. The day after my father passed I struggled to make sense of his sudden death. I had called to speak to him the night before but the network service was poor. I would call again the following day - I said. Did he know he was dying? Why did he have to go so quickly? What would have been his final words to me? Where do we go from here?... Two days later, I found these words ‘from my father’ in the Bible.
“As a cloud vanishes and is gone, so one who goes down to the grave does not return. He will never come to his house again; his place will know him no more.” Job 7:9-10 NIVUK The finality of death never really sinks in until you lose a loved one. A few days before my beloved father passed we spoke for a few minutes. I hardly remember his last words but they must have been the same words he ended most of our conversations with, “I love you”. My father was never shy to express his love for others through words and actions. He would celebrate with those who rejoice, weep with those who mourn and never miss an opportunity to give. As a kid, I remember thinking my father’s benevolence and generosity were partly responsible for our financial difficulties - the rest I blamed on his integrity. My father was just too good a human - one I deeply loved. My father lived intentionally. He lived for God; for his family; and for his service to
“My child, never forget the things I have taught you. Store my commands in your heart. If you do this, you will live many years, and your life will be satisfying. Never let loyalty and kindness leave you! Tie them around your neck as a reminder. Write them deep within your heart. Then you will find favor with both God and people, and you will earn a good reputation. Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take. Don’t be impressed with your own wisdom. Instead, fear the Lord and turn away from evil. Then you will have healing for your body and strength for your bones. Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the best part of everything you produce. Then he will fill your barns with grain, and your vats will overflow with good wine.” Proverbs 3:1-10 NLT These words broke me and consoled me. Today as we celebrate the life of my father, all I can say is thank you Dadida. Thank you for the man you were. Thank you for the father you were. Thank you for the husband you were. Thank you for the brother you were. Thank you for the uncle you were. Thank you for the friend you were. Thank you for the Christian you were. Thank you for the professional you were. Thank you for being the best you. My father will never come into his house again. His place on earth will know him no more. Yet my father lives - in our hearts and with God.
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A TRIBUTE TO MY DADDY!!!
By Dabeluchukwu Ifeoma Onugha (Your Daughter-in-Law) My daughter has your head A narrow chin with a face that widens on its way up Until it accommodates an impressive brain It is my reminder of how much of a mark Those who go before have on those who come afterward She did not get to meet you But I would be wrong to assume that you don’t see her I could ring your number now I know you will not pick up If you did, you would shout, ‘My baby!’ No one else does that Probably no one else would, until Jesus comes You carved your niche in my life
Your granddaughter has your head And after all I’ve heard these past weeks Of how, though your physical presence might have been a whisper Your impact thundered I pray she has your heart too Normally my words would flow freely But very few things have left me as speechless as your passing has When I speak of you now I try to consciously speak of you in the present Because when an absence is so dear as yours is The only comfort is focus on your eternal presence My daddy!!! Anyi ga-afu
EDWARD EDWARDOGOEGBUNAM OGOEGBUNAMONUGHA ONUGHA
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A TRIBUTE TO DADDY – MY WAAYYY!! By Ugo Joy Eke-okoro (Your Baby)
The charred pot and smoke was enough indication that you had no idea what you were doing but I have never been happier to see a burnt pot of rice in my life. Daddy love, you were one of the biggest cheerleaders in my educational quest. After I overslept once before an exam, you took it upon yourself to call me almost every morning before exams to make sure I was up and ready for school. We spoke three days before you passed away and you were counting down to my graduation by the days. We even negotiated my graduation gift again and you reminded me that you were very proud of how far I have come and advised me to stay focused and finish strong. I was blessed to have spent 12 weeks with you before you passed away. I recall vividly how you waited up in the living room every single night when I went for my internship (sometimes till midnight) and no matter how tired or weak you were, you did not go to sleep until I came back and you asked about my day. You were so selfless daddy. When I came to visit you in the hospital after the chemoembolization procedure, the first thing you asked me was how my presentation in school went. You’ve always put us before yourself and you were the most amazing, most compassionate, most considerate and selfless father we could ever ask for.
If tears could bring you back, I am pretty sure you will be with us right now. I truly lack words to express how I feel because you were not just my father but my first love, my friend, my advisor, my prayer warrior and the list goes on because you were everything to me. You were my hero right from childhood. I remember how hilarious it was watching you learn and use some new slangs when my friends were around. It always made me so happy to have “the cool dad”. You were always very nice to everyone and our home was always open to all. You’ve always been present for all the big moments in my life. When I was pregnant, you took a 6-week break from your work to spend time with me and spoil me. You were there to comfort me through the bouts of morning sickness and make sure that I was not stressed. I remember the day my husband and I were delayed at an appointment and you decided to boil more rice to ensure we had enough to eat when we got back.
Daddy Daa!! I would do anything to relive my last 12 weeks with you. Nothing made me happy like watching you and my husband tease each other all the time and joke about random things, like watching you play with my daughter and hear her squeal in happiness. I really did not see this coming and honestly, I am yet to come to terms with it. Each day without you is a struggle because we have so many memories together and there are just way too many reminders of how amazing you truly were. We had so many plans for his year and it really hurts me that you wouldn’t be there as planned but I know that all things work together for good. Daddy, I love you very very very very very much and I will always love you. Thank you for being the best husband to mommy, the best father to us all, best father in-love to our spouses and the best grandfather to our children. Thank you for teaching us the values of love, generosity and selflessness. Thank you for practicing everything you preached and for living an exemplary life. I have so much to say and although I am limited by how much I can write, my love for you is limitless. Adieu my hero and first love. Adieu Daddy daaa!!! Adieu Waaaaaayy!! You will forever remain in our hearts.
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A TRIBUTE TO DADDY
By Chukwuemeka Eke-okoro (Your Son-in-Law) Once upon a time, there was a mischievous little boy that was just always up to no good. If there was an incident, he certainly had something to do with it. From Garri stuck to the ceiling, to stolen corn, to a burning bush, he had something to do with it. At some point he was so bad that you had to chase him up and down the stairs with a cane. Now fast forward 15 years later, this same person now comes to ask for your daughter’s hand in marriage and to his surprise, you agreed. You gave him a chance, even when there was every reason to suggest otherwise. You saw something in him that he didn’t even see in himself.
Daddy, it has been a great honor and privilege to be your son-in-law. I’m blessed to be a part of your life and to have someone that inspires me to be a better man every day. Many times, I’ve observed how you handled difficult situations gracefully and I ask myself, how do you do it? I admire how selfless you can be; putting other people’s issues ahead of your own. Despite being so busy with your work, you’ve never been too busy for family. You are above and beyond what a father should be. I will forever remember and cherish our moments of humor and laughter. I will never forget your words of wisdom and encouragement. After reading your last message to me repeatedly, I can’t express enough what it means to know that you were proud of me and that you couldn’t have asked for a better husband for your daughter. It is truly hard to understand why you’ve departed so soon, but I’m sure that you are with the Lord Almighty. Your impact in my life and that of my family cannot be overstated; I can never thank you enough. Farewell daddy, you are truly one of a kind. Your legacy lives on.
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OGOEGBUNAM: YOU WERE THE BEST By Mrs D. Jibunoh (Your Eldest Sister) My brother - you were the best. You were the best as a baby - because the spirit of the Lord was upon you, the spirit of wisdom, knowledge and understanding. You were anointed, nurtured and taught by the Lord Himself. He breathed life into you and set you apart for Himself. You were the best as a boy - because you were blessed with favour and were confident, secure, talented, creative, focused, happy and very positive. You were a royalty, and because you had a seed of greatness in your, you had big dreams. You were very hopeful as you were led, thought, guided and directed by the Lord. You were the best as a young man - because the favor of God was upon you. You were ambitious, hardworking, strong and talented. You were the best as a family man - because you know your responsibilities towards your family, relations ,in-laws, friends, colleagues and associates. We thanked the Lord that you worked very hard during your life time and many were blessed by your effort and glorified the Lord. My brother you were the best in sickness - because you surrendered all to Him who made heaven and earth. You laid still and remembered that He is God. You let go and remembered that He is God. He is the only one who knows the end from the beginning. My brother, we miss you but will continue to cherish your memory even onto eternity. Continue to rest in the Lord until we meet to part no more in the name of Jesus Christ who liveth and reigneth forever. Amen! Good night.
the young and the elderly ought to hold dear to their hearts and souls - the spirit of honouring God, at all costs to our comfortability in the marathon race of life, which we must also run to the end and win. Eddy loved and honoured his father and mother with unalloyed LOVE, OBEDIENCE and HUMILITY. He recognized and identified the sanctity of parenthood and God’s injunction on it. In resumé, he is the epitome of kindness, generosity and natural creativity and is the good manager of an amalgam of equities and realities in human and supernatural dimensions. We also say that Eddy is a proven Christian and followers of our Lord Jesus Christ and believes in Him; he has eternal life and he is indestructible. Therefore, please, do not go home in tears; thank God for the blessings that he poured upon him and God’s enduring favours in our lives. Eddy, cherio till we meet again! Gloria in excelsis dei: amen!
TRIBUTE TO MY ONE AND ONLY ENTERPRISING BROTHER By Michael Azubuike Chinaedum Onugha (Your Elder Brother) My dear brother, we are highly jolted by your sudden death. Most of your life, you were always enterprising, smiling, full of life and bustling with one activity or the other.
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Over the years, you have never suffered from any sickness that threatened your life and you have survived many auto accidents. Your sudden degeneration in health was unexpected and called for great concern just like a new lantern running short of fuel. We were really hopeful that come what may, you would pull through the storm.
The tribute which this young man has inspired and amassed in his rather short life span is very amazing and we can barely scratch a little part of its surface.
I find it difficult to believe and come to terms with reality that you are no more in this mortal life. You were very active in church and discharged God’s work with cheerfulness. It is with a sorrowful heart I mourn your exit.
By Sir, B. Iwuchukwu Jibunoh
It is our belief that Engr. Edward Ogoegbunam is one of the “vessels of honour” in God’s household. In his rather short span of life, he rose like a colossus and God used him to demonstrate his purpose and to teach us a few enduring life lessons, which both
I pray your gentle soul will rest in the bosom of the Lord until we meet to part no more. Adieu my brother and may your soul rest in peace. Amen
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TRIBUTE TO MY BROTHER-IN-LAW
By Dr (Mrs) Ebele Onugha (Your Sister-in-Law) The news of your demise came as a rude shock to all of us. We never knew our two week stay together last Christmas was going to be the last. We bade ourselves farewell and exchanged pleasantries as usual. We wished you quick recovery but none of us ever thought you would leave so abruptly. Eddy, you have been a brother to me. You shared the same birthday with my mother’s last child and you were also the last child of your mother, which endeared us the more. Every 2nd April, we always exchanged birthday wishes and you always sent your wishes to me on my birthdays. You were always there to celebrate with us in our moments of joy and our moments of grief. You identified fully with your presence and contributions. We know that our stay on earth is but temporary, but we never wished it to be so brief. God knows best and we cannot question Him. We take solace in the fact that you are resting in the bosom of our Lord. Adieu my beloved brother. Good night and goodbye.
TRIBUTE TO A GREAT BROTHER
By Uzoamaka Chijioke Onugha (Your Sister Anyi) 23rd January, 2018 is a day that will ever remain indelible in my mind, a day Engineer Edward Onugha, a lovely child of God, departed this world to be with his maker, whose decision is final and the best for us. Eddy, I thank God that the illness that led to your death was not a protracted one. The Lord in his infinite mercy did not want you to suffer any pain. You embraced Christ very early in life, which helped to shape your life into an excellent brother that you were. The light in your family altar never goes off. I really learnt a lot about the kingdom life style from you and your wife. You gave me spiritual gifts, that are more precious than gold. You won the hearts of many by your excellent interpersonal relationship, which is worthy of emulation. This has given rise to your having numerous God-children and friends that are hurting at this time, as a result of your demise. I thank God for your fruitful life and the privilege of having you as my
cherished brother. Forever smiling, ever so gentle, ever so loving, forever giving. You are so beautiful inside and out and I am so blessed to have benefited from your wise Godly counsel and tender loving care over the years. You provided me with shelter, comfort and protection. You were always there for me. Keep resting in the bosom of the Lord until that resurrection morning, when death shall be no more. Farewell sweet baby brother. Jee nke oma.
TRIBUTE TO A WONDERFUL BROTHER
By Nkem N. Onunkwo (Asiliago Nwannegi Nwanyi) Engr Edward Ogoegbunam Onugha popularly was my immediate younger brother. We were very close after our elder brother and sister entered secondary school with just our parents and the two of us in the house. Eddy and I ate from the same plate. He had a good appetite for food. When we finished the first serving he would say “let me go for more” and he was sure to come back with more food. Eddy was always there for me; he never heard my cry and stayed put. He was a big stay in my life. When I lost my son, Eddy and his wife Ify tactfully got me to come to them at Enugu where Eddy broke the news to me. It would have been terrible if I had heard that sad news otherwise. They managed those crises in my life effectively. Eddy visited me whenever he came to Obosi and I derived immense joy from those visits. Eddy welded everybody together. He hardly failed to honour an invitation. He knew his grand nephews and nieces by name. Eddy was a humble man who had no time to bear grudges or keep malice. Eddy loved humanity. Eddy loved God and believed in him. He always tried to obey God’s commandment and never indulged in vices common to some other young men. He was a highly disciplined man, alive to his responsibilities and a very brilliant man who made his mark in his every pursuit. Eddy was very prayerful. I believed in the efficacy of his prayers and benefited from them which was why I never dreamt that Eddy would leave us so soon. Eddy, my children and I are trying to console ourselves by the fact that you lived a good life that you are in heaven, that you set a goal for humanity that should we meet that goal we will one day meet again in heaven. We are therefore trying to stop crying and to focus on meeting the goal. May God help us? Rest in perfect peace my brother.
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TRIBUTE TO MY BROTHER-IN-LAW
By Sir Enoch Nwobi [on behalf of wife & children] My brother-in-law, Eddy passed away leaving both sides of the families devastated. We all had so much hope that Eddy would make it given his positive attitude and great will power. He had the will to survive and had so many reasons to live for. We all prayed for a miracle, but not even the best specialist could save him. No one could have saved him, except God himself. I was shattered the day I lost my brother-in-law. I am not sure why our prayers were not answered, perhaps this was all part of God’s grand plan or perhaps Eddy was way too good for us and he went on to do bigger and better things in his afterlife. My brother-in-law, Eddy had so much respect and love for my family. He was such fun to be with and generous. Eddy was a genius. He knew everything about electrical, mechanical and civil construction and repair works, the pros and cons on every aspect. Yes, Eddy had a lot of great qualities, but perhaps his most endearing quality was his ability to get people to open up. He made me comfortable enough to share my concerns and joys. With his encouragements, he gave me confidence to choose the road less travelled and reminded me that no matter what, I will be okay. I will always remember his advice. Eddy left mark on every single person who met him, especially towards his last days, and the absolute best thing about him was his everlasting love for my sister. Many people experience love in their lifetime, but “true love” happens only to a few lucky ones, and that was what they had. I would like to believe that true love never fades but rather lives on forever. My brother-in-law, Eddy accomplished so much at both a personal and professional level but unfortunately his life wasn’t long enough for us to see how far his excellence would have taken him. I do believe that wherever he is, he now fully understands how his purpose here on earth was fulfilled with love. Dear Eddy, wherever you are, I know you are in a much better place looking down at your wife and children. Although you are no longer physically with us, you will forever remain in our hearts. You are an amazing person. Thank you for coming into our lives and enriching all of us. Rest in peace! My brother from another mother!
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TRIBUTE TO MY DEAREST COUSIN By Lady Victoria Obinwa
It was with the rudest shock which spanned for weeks that I received the news of your passing on. We spoke barely a week before, from your voice there was no indication that the end was near and when I indicated intention to visit you at Enugu, you discouraged me and said you were just weak and was taking bed rest. I encouraged you to continue to confess the word of God that you are always in my prayers. It was therefore very difficult for me to accept your demise. Eddy nwannem, reminiscing on your relationship with people, your service to God and humanity, I am consoled that no doubt you are now at peace. There was nothing that needed to be done as children of God concerning your health that was not done but the WILL of God prevailed. The secret things really belong to the Lord. I have found solace and comfort from the word of God concerning the death of the righteous.
leave you nor forsake you. Every drop of tear you cried He holds in his palm, and He will transform those tears into a precious jewellery. He will give you beauty for ashes. Look up my sweet sister. You are the apple of His eyes. His countenance is upon you for good. He will continue to watch over the family Eddy has left behind. Farewell Eddy.
TRIBUTE TO AN UNCLE WITH A DIFFERENCE By Sir Dr Chinedu and Lady Ada Ilokanuno
I and my wife, Ada, have found it extremely difficult to put together this tribute as we hoped and prayed each passing day that we would wake up from this dream. But as the days rolled by, it dawned on us that our dearest Uncle has left us, gone to be with his maker.
By Mrs Uche Nwokolo
Oh death, where is thy sting? I met you soon after I started courting my wife as u were the first Uncle I was taken to for introduction and ‘examination’. You and Aunty Ify have remained very dear to us such that your home is like a second home to us when we are in Enugu. You took us like your own children and provided guidance and care to us in so many ways, always smiling, accommodating and full of ideas and wise counsels. You were an exemplary family man as I personally admired you and Aunty Ify and learnt a lot from you. A Christian in every sense of the word, loved and served God in diverse ways. Uncle, your demise is a big blow to us, unexpected at this time when your guidance is highly needed.
Eddy muoooo!!! I can still hear your voice calling me Auntie Uchemuoo, but I can’t see you. You told me you were getting better only for me to hear you have gone to be with the Lord. Eddy we miss you but God knows best. You will forever be in our hearts. Your smiling face is indelible from our heart. You have fought a good fight you have run a good race. You are resting in the bosom of our God. God will comfort us. Sleep on my Eddy, sleep and take your rest. We love you very very much; but God loves you best. One day we will unite and part no more.
A good man is gone! When this episode of your health challenge arose last year, we cried and prayed to God for help as I knew medical science could not, I kept rejecting that small still voice that told me you were simply answering God’s call. Little wonder, He never allowed you to pass through pains, agony and debilitation often seen in many with such health challenge. You rather transited calmly and peacefully to church triumphant. We are convinced that you have run your race and now await your crown of glory which we all look forward to on the last day.
lfy my cousin, my sister, and my best friend, it still feels like a bad dream that Eddy has gone home much too early and out of turn. He was my darling younger brother who looked after our precious lfy. There are too many memories but our God is on the throne forever. Jisie Ike. Our God will work out His purpose for your life. He will never
Our prayer is that God will give us the fortitude to bear your demise and grant your ever peaceful and gentle soul perfect rest in His Bosom Amen. Adieu Uncle, Adieu Ezigbo mmadu. God be with you till we meet again.
May your humble and always pleasant soul rest in perfect peace until the resurrection day when all righteous souls shall meet to part no more.
TRIBUTE TO MY DARLING YOUNGER BROTHER
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TRIBUTE TO MY FATHER
By Joshua Nnaemeka Ogbu Each time I tried to write this I went blank. I recall our last conversation on how you were certain you were going to come out of your ill-health. You assured me everything was ok and it was being taken care of; I never knew those were your last words to me. You modelled the ‘Christian Home’ to me. Reverence for God, unconditional love, faith and constant family devotions were the things I picked up from you. You bought me my first tie and shirt the day I resumed work. We cannot question God but I know you fought a good fight and won the race. My zeal for hard work, integrity and excellence all came from you. You were a blessing to me and inspired me a lot. Thank you for believing in me. I will forever miss you.
TRIBUTE TO UNCLE EDDY
You have always been a part of my life. You looked out for me and my siblings. I still remember how excited we get when you are visiting, not only will you bring us goodies but you will speak to our dad about things we could not. When I got married you still looked out for me and my family. You always call to find out how we were doing, praying for us and looking out for our wellbeing. You showed how wonderful you were in our period of trials, you stood firm and backed us in prayers, comforting words and care despite your own battle. I thank God for a wonderful uncle like you. You were a blessing to my family. You were hard working and tireless in your effort to provide for your family and every one in need. Thank you for the time you spent with us. We will always cherish you. In life you were loved and in death our heart got broken. You left for us a legacy to be proud of, and because of the love we have for you, we will work extra hard to always walk and live in Christ. May God grant your soul eternal rest - amen. Goodbye to my precious uncle.
MY FELICITATION
By Nneka Daisy Hawton
Chidi N. Onunkwo
It is heart-breaking to know that I would never see you on this earth. However, it is uplifting to know that I shall see you again in heaven with our Lord and Saviour Jesus, who by his will thought that it was time for you to come home, to leave this earthly suit behind and don a new suit that is incorruptible.
I have no words to express the sadness that I carry in my heart regarding the demise of my beloved uncle and dad. I remember when he used to treat me like his own child and serve us with love. Please take this comfort in knowing that we are with you. Please accept our heartfelt sympathies and condolences.
You had an excellent spirit and your love and relationship with God was laid bare for all to see. I shall miss you dearly till we meet again
TRIBUTE TO A GREAT MAN
TRIBUTE TO A GOLDEN HEART By Mrs Ada Ndukwe
My precious uncle; uncle grandpa as fondly called by my children; and my mom’s super brother. The realty that you are gone is still like a dream to me. Sometimes I think that a miracle should happen and you will come back to us. Your absence is already been felt by everyone that knew you.
By Jeffery & Cynthia Nwobi
This is hard to write. I write this in tears. Can’t believe I am writing this so soon. Uncle, words are inadequate to express how I felt looking at you lying down in the hospital on the faithful day death took you away from us. I was fortunate and privileged to have you as an uncle and the thought that you are no longer in this world with us is disheartening. I remember No. 7 North Fourth Avenue, Trans-Ekulu. Enugu as one of my favourite holiday destinations growing up. You always made sure we enjoyed our holidays with you
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and treated everyone the same way you did your children. During our university days in Uniport you always found time to stop by to visit us. I can’t forget our last conversation sometime in December 2017 and your words of assurance “Everything will be fine, it’s just a matter of time”. You are a role model to us all. You encouraged us to work hard and hated laziness hence your nick name Nwoke ezuike. You were also a man of peace. You lived a good life and I am convinced you are with all other saints in Heaven. We will surely mourn but not like those with no faith but like those that lost a saint. Uncle, aunty will miss her beloved husband. My cousins will miss their father. Your grandchildren will miss you. Your mother Ogbueshi Dolly Nwobi will miss you. We all will miss you. You will remain in our hearts and will never be forgotten. Journey well. Nwoke Ezuike ejebego izuike!!! ONYE NSO ANA!!!
TRIBUTE TO A GREAT MAN By Chukwunweike Onugha
I received the news of your demise with a great shock! For days, I was in a state of confusion. Never had I thought it will end this way considering you kept reassuring me each time I asked about your health, that you were getting better. Uncle, I will forever remember you. Memories of the times we shared will forever be felt in my heart. You will always be one of the greatest uncles I’ll ever have. Growing up as a kid, you inspired me in so many ways. I watched with keen interest as you built the things you built back then. You were good at so many things: Electrical, Mechanical and Civil works. You literally built your houses by yourself. It blows my mind how versatile you were. You inspired me to be creative. In you, I realized that there is no limit to what we can achieve so long as we are focused, determined and passionate about the things we aim for. You aimed for perfection in everything you did. “Just OK” wasn’t enough; you always had a great attention to detail; adding that unique touch to ensure your work stands out…and it sure did stand out. There’s this saying – “A life lived for others is a life worth living”. I can relate to this in the way you lived your life…your life is a life indeed worthy of emulation. You were gentle, kind and peace-loving. You were
caring and compassionate; always eager to offer a helping hand to anyone; young and old. You were a hardworking man; you stayed up late most nights working to meet project deadlines. I can remember one time we joked about 24 hours not being enough anymore to get work done. Uncle you may be no more here on earth, but you sure left your mark. Everyone speaks well of you. Often times when I visit places and introduce myself as “Onugha” I am always asked if I am related to you. It makes me feel proud of you. You were a blessing to me and you believed in me. I will miss you my dear uncle. I think of you each day - each time, I shed a tear. I only find consolation knowing that you are now in a better place; free from the imperfections of life on earth, and that someday, we will meet again. Goodbye uncle! May your gentle soul rest in peace in the bosom of our lord. Amen.
TRIBUTE TO UNCLE EDDY By Ebele V Onugha
My darling Uncle Eddy, How do I ever bring myself to say goodbye? How? The reality of your demise is a tragedy I am painfully forced to relive each time it hits me. Why do bad things happen to good people? Why? If being morally upright equated to longevity, you would have been immortal! I know! We shared a special bond - so did you with everyone else. But ours was extra special. So special that I was more than a niece to you. You loved me with a rare kind of love. Everyone could tell. I loved you right back in equal measure. My friends knew “Uncle Eddy” even before they met you. And at my weddings – you outdid yourself! Oh how can I ever forget? Should I grow grey and frail, Should my vision fail, That memory will never fade. Someday, I hope to pay it forward, as a final tribute to you. Chai!!! Uncle! Indeed the world lost something when you left it. Your kind is rare! I am consoled by the legacy you built in the short while that you were with us - the innumerable lives you touched are proof that you lived and made a difference! I am also consoled by the knowledge that you are in a better place - a place devoid of pain. I loved you in life, Uncle and I love you even more in death. Goodnight. Naa n’udo, na emesia anyi ga- afu.
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EDWARD OGOEGBUNAM ONUGHA
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02 APRIL 1952 - 23 JANUARY 2018
TRIBUTE TO MY DEAREST UNCLE By Arinze Onugha
My dear Uncle, I was so shocked when the news of your call back home hit me. I just couldn’t believe it. There were so many questions I wanted to ask but I believe God needed you for bigger tasks. You were a huge part of my progress in life. From my time in Federal Government College, Enugu, to my NYSC days. You taught me how to pray, you taught me how to live right, you taught me the fundamentals of being a practical civil engineer, and above all, you taught me kindness. That one year I spent with you during NYSC really made a lot of difference in my life. Just 5 days before your call back home, I called you to know how you were faring and you sounded all right and told me never to worry that you were getting better. I hoped and prayed that one day all will be well but as always, God has better plans. Looking back, I can only say thank you. Thank you for showing me that in this world of wickedness and evil, one man could be different. Thank you for showing me perfection in the midst of imperfection. Thank you for showing me the true definition of being a “real man” who would always apply wisdom in the midst of chaos and violence. Thank you for teaching me how to pray with the sick and the bereaved. Thank you, uncle. Thank you so much for your wonderful time on earth. May your soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
TRIBUTE TO UNCLE EDDY By Kamsi Nwobi
Uncle Eddy was one of the most cheerful people I have ever known. I do not recall ever seeing him sad or angry. He always had a smile whenever I saw him and that is one thing I will never forget about him. He was indeed an amazing person that had so much positive energy that it was infectious. He always tried to make people smile either through some of his witty jokes or with his teasing which you could tell came from his love for the person. He was truly a great person to have be a part of our lives. As such, I believe it is only fitting to celebrate the great person he was while he was with us and to know that he has gone back to God who sent him to us as a blessing. May his individual and general impact in
our lives never be forgotten and serve as blissful memories to get us through our lives in Jesus name. Amen. May his soul rest in peace.
TRIBUTE TO OUR IN–LAW
By Engr Tobenna and Dr (Mrs) Ifeoma Orizu We had always known you for your active involvement in the Church and Christian fold till God chose to further connect us with your warm, vibrant and gregarious personality as in-laws. We are immensely grateful to God for allowing us experience your warmth and your light, though so briefly. We reckon you are a father and husband that will be greatly missed. We however take solace in the fact that our heavenly father has comforted and will yet comfort all you have left behind. Rest in the bosom of the Lord.
TRIBUTE TO BROTHER EDDY By Eke-Okoro Family
“You can easily judge a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him.”Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe Bro. Eddy Onugha was a true definition of a man of virtue and exemplary character. As the quote above indicates, he was kind and selfless to everyone regardless of their status in life. He was a man of God not just by mouth, but by his deeds; and time spent with him was time well-spent. As a family, we wish to express our heart-felt sympathy to all of you on the departure of our beloved brother to be with the Lord. We will be missing him so much, but we draw our strength from the fact that we will eventually meet with him in the Kingdom of God. Remain strong in the Lord and continue the good work of faith that our beloved daddy, brother and friend exemplified on Earth. May the Spirit of Jesus guide you as you give him a befitting burial. Heaven has truly gained an angel.
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TRIBUTE TO MY BROTHER AND FRIEND By Ifeanyi Okoma
Is this a dream or am l hallucinating? Surely it can’t be true. No! I am right, it is not true. But this dream is lasting too long. Who will tell me that it is only a dream? l look at Aunty ify’s face to tell it is a big joke but nothing from her. What of Ogo or Chichi? Obinna! Where are you? Tell me it is a big joke that you are pulling my legs – instead Obinna sends me a poster. Where is my brother? Kedu Eddy? Eddy where are you? You never told me were going. You never told me it was time. Why have you brought me out and abandoned me? You should have left alone without the brother I am now used to. Who will l confide in? Who will understand my failures and inadequacies? Who will tell the truth without minding how l feel and yet with love? Who will care and take my problems as his and genuinely find a solution without my knowing it? Who will watch my back and be there for me? Who can I trek to his house when am bored in Obosi? Do you really mean you have gone? What of the love of your life? Are you leaving us? Pains, pains and pains!!! Streams of tears flowing uncontrollably But who can question the Lover of our soul? If HE has approved it and allowed it, so be it. All glory to Him and Him alone. My brother, you have fought a good fight of faith. You have finished your race. I am confident that a crown of glory is already yours. I know that you are now rejoicing in the bosom of the Lord. I know we shall meet you there to part no more....But WHERE IS E-----DDY? My brother where are you?
A TRIBUTE TO GOD’S GENERAL By Mrs. Emily Okoma
Engr. Eddy Onugha was not a renowned politician nor a trained military officer but heaven decorated him with everything that pertains to LIFE AND GODLINESS through his knowledge of Christ (2Peter 1:3-4). My husband, as I usually called him, simply accepted a REGENERATION of life that Jesus gives through the Holy Spirit. This acceptance made an outstanding difference in all aspects of his life which was evidenced by all that knew him.
Engr. Eddy, you never hid your calling and ministry in the Lord and your physical, academic, social and even material lives were controlled by the spirit of God that dwellth in you. You were a mentor, hero, devoted husband and a caring father. You touched and impacted lives national and internationally.I Oh, my daddy and brother, we would have wanted you to stay on with us and serve both God and humanity but God who has all power wanted you home. We can’t question Him. Though we would miss you physically, your transition remains precious in the sight of the Lord your God. Yours wasn’t a very long life but was quite fruitful, impactful and accomplished. Like the Apostle Paul would say, YOU HAVE FOUGHT THE GOOD FIGHT, YOU HAVE FINISHED THE RACE AND HAVE KEPT THE FAITH. 2 Timothy 4:7-8. Rest on my brother, as you wait for other saints to be crowned with the crown of righteousness at the appearing of our Lord Jesus Christ. Adieu God’s General! Adieu man of God! Adieu ezi di na ezi nna!
TRIBUTE TO MY BROTHER
By Lady Ada Ejeh for the family Eddy na soo!!. I am yet to accept it’s all over. I spent quite some time with you and your family on your last days on earth and we watched you helplessly as you continued to complain of weakness. When eventually the doctors at UNTH began to attend to you, we were all relieved and hopeful. The angels gathered around you including your darling wife Ify and your prayer warrior daughter Ogo. I had no doubt that you would be strong up again the next day. It however, pleases God to call you to His eternal rest. Eddy, your life is an evidence to the saying that “it is not how long, but how well”. At 65 years you achieved so much to God’s glory. The diligence and cheerfulness with which you served God was incredible. You toiling day and night to give the best to your family and others is worthy of emulation. Eddy, you edified and inspired many by your faith, love for God and humanity, humility, meekness, honesty, generosity and godly counsel. Gentleman Eddy, we miss you. I pray that our merciful God whom you served fervently will comfort, keep, guide, protect and provide for your family and others you left behind. Sleep on our beloved brother.
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TRIBUTE TO OUR DEAR BROTHER By Sir Chris and Dame Ngozi Ifezue
Your death came as a rude shock after we had been in close touch with your dear wife. We had no idea it would happen this way after a successful surgery and your miraculous healing. We thank God for the happy days we shared together with you and Ify, even as we celebrated our last wedding anniversary. You were the chairman at our daughter’s wedding reception not too long ago. Many testimonies abound as to how you impacted many lives for Jesus. We are consoled that you are in the presence of our Saviour, Jesus Christ, whom you love so much. Adieu our dear brother.
Edify 1, always dogged concerning the works of his hands, ever learning, widely read, and travelled. Had a wonderful and blissful experience at Ajaokuta before it went down to its deplorable state. Mechanical Engineer by training but added Electrical Engineering to it by experience and personal development. Not one to be held down by setbacks, created and harnessed networks of clients, associates, and partners. Edify 1 is greatly missed for his warmth, joviality and uncommon dedication to family, friends, and God’s work. Fought a good fight, finished his course, kept the faith. The Lord, the righteous judge laid for him a crown of righteousness as he rests in His bosom. And to all who love His appearing, the same crown awaits on that day, so Edify 2 (Ify), family and friends take heart.
TRIBUTE TO OUR FRIEND EDIFY 1 – DEVOUT, HUMANE, INTELLIGENT, AND VERSATILE By Okeoma & Neme Agu
To the honour of the memory of Late Engr. Edward Ogoegbunam Onugha - Edify 1 (added 1 & 2 to identify the couple), a devout, humane, intelligent, and versatile man. Edify 1, from a modest family background. Loved and cherished his heartthrob Edify 2 (Ify). Reared a close-knit and godly nuclear family that he loved so much - Ogo, Chinazam, Obinna, Ugo, their spouses, and his grandchildren. Highly esteemed his extended family. Edlfy 1, had a personal relationship with Jesus the Christ and was completely committed to Him. Worked committedly and responsibly through various churches and fellowship groups. Not easily tired, always ready to move for God’s work. Holy Spirit-led servant, a veritable disciple and discipler. Edify 1, connected to friends, colleagues, and acquaintances. Had mutually beneficial and healthy long-standing relationship with friends and colleagues. One that was trusted and relied on in personal, family, ministry, and professional matters. Okeoma & Neme attest to his dependability and thus miss him greatly.
By Chris and Onyii Onwuekwe This space is grossly inadequate to express our feeling to your family in this hour of your passing. We feel a big lump in our throat and tears in the corner of our eyes, as we remember the life and times of Engr Eddy Onugha as a mentor and family friend. You shall surely be remembered for what you have done. We remember how much you loved the Lord, your ministry and people around you. Eddy, we particularly miss you for your focussed desire to make a difference in the lives of those around you. In the year of the Lord 2010, when we were total strangers to you, you trusted us and facilitated papers from the bank worth millions of naira that saw our whole family through to Canada. Surely we are not the only family that benefited from your generosity, there are thousands out there that shared similar experience as ours. On few occasions we had the privilege of working with you in the ministry, we found support from your incredible strength and knowledge. Adieu, our brother, friend and mentor, you have fought a good fight, you have finished your course, and kept the faith; the Lord our righteous judge has laid up for you a crown of righteousness.
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EDWARD OGOEGBUNAM ONUGHA
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TRIBUTE TO OUR BELOVED FRIEND, BROTHER & BUSINESS PARTNER By Dn. Isaac with Chinyere Eke-Okoro, MNSE, FIRI
concerted effort to genuinely and wholly yield your lives to the Lord Jesus Christ because that is all that matters. Eddy, we love you but God loves you more. Adieu!
It was with very heavy heart that we left Abuja on the 24th January, 2018 to visit with our Sister Ify when we heard the shocking news, on the previous day, of the passing on to glory of our cherished and very beloved Brother Eddy.
EULOGY FOR LATE BROTHER
We were school mates at Union Secondary Awkunanaw, Enugu and that was before the Civil war; after the war, we connected at the University of Nigeria in 1972 and fellowshipped with Christian Union UNN where he was elected President in his penultimate year. After the NYSC, we found ourselves again as staffers of Ajaokuta Steel Company Limited (ASCL). When we left Ajokuta, our two families shared a duplex in Enugu. Although our surgeon in Enugu was brief as we relocated to Owerri, we maintained our relationship to the point that my nephew got married to his last daughter, Ugochinyelum.
It is with great sadness that I make out this short note for my brother. When I was told that my brother has passed on. I was not only horrified, but confused and devastated. What came to my mind was, “I wish I could bring him back for additional years”. Brother Eddy was my mentor, project manager, and my friend whom I cherished so very much and never believed he has left us. However, writing this eulogy has helped me deal with the grief and hope it helps you too.
Eddy was a special kind of human breed who was so kind and showed special interest in the progress and success of his fellows. Emphatically, Edward Onugha was a person of no mean integrity: He was a great man of influence and authoritative in his chosen profession. He was a renowned leader who demonstrated prowess in guidance and mentorship to as many as come to him with such a need. His perception of things was scintillating and definitive. He was very skillful and guided by wisdom of God in the exercise of his intellect. Eddy was always rationally alert and brilliant. He was sharp, smart and exceptionally clever. Eddy Onugha was soft spoken and exuded peace because he was at peace with God and had eternal confidence that the grace of God was sufficient for him. He lived a gentle, humble, unassuming, contented and fulfilled life. He cared for all who needed his assistance and never slighted anyone irrespective of the one’s social standing. Family members, brothers, sisters and friends of Bro Eddy may I appeal to all by the scriptures in Hebrews chapter 4 that, 14”…since we have a great high priest who has gone through the heavens, Jesus the son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess (which Eddy worked and lived for).15For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses…16Let us (continually) approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may have grace to help us in our time of need (such as this, as we wait for his imminent return)”. Our God is awesome and His ways unquestionable! May I therefore use this opportunity to appeal to all who are gathered here today to make
By Emaka Anene
Brother Eddy, was a very bright and well respected Mechanical Engineer whom I was privileged to meet at Ajaokuta Steel Company Limited. He executed his work with integrity, compassion, competence and diligence. He was hard working; even when he had no official work, he will retire at his little workshop at the north end of his house at Ajaokuta, and be designing, developing and implementing a project. He was also a fine Christian. My brother’s faith was simply remarkable and consistent. He lived it, with honor, day in day out. His Christianity was blameless and without pretence nor hypocrisy. The one thing I did learn, and enjoyed about his character was his calm demeanor under stressful conditions. He will always deescalate situation gone off hand and make it look as if nothing has happened; he possessed a calm, quiet spirit, that terminates anxiety and violence when confronted. Brother Eddy’s life was not without struggles, but when saddled with challenges he falls back on his heavenly Father. He hoped, trusted and believed God to resolve every life issues - especially during the health troubling times. His faith was undeniably, that of a mustard seed which can move mountains. It is so sad that my brother’s life ended so early although in a peaceful way. It is hard to accept that he will no longer be with us. He had a loving family, friends, and a brilliant career. He gave his very best to his family - education and investments. He was a giver. He gave to me when I needed it - time and time again. He was simply a good man. No one was prepared for this tragedy and it can be difficult to understand how life works sometimes. Take solace in knowing that my brother is now in heaven. His memory will live on in our hearts forever.
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EDDY – MY FRIEND FOREVER By Echi Nwogu
In late September 1972, SU Central Group sent forth these 3 - Azike, Eddy and Echi to UNN to study Engineering and Architecture. There they met Sister Ify who came to study Statistics. 42 years down, they are Grand Pas and Grand Ma and they are still friends and buddies who love and serve The Lord Jesus dearly with all their hearts Hallelujah. This photo was 4 years ago at the Thanksgiving for Bro Eddy. We had 4 more years to enjoy fellowship on this side of heaven. Now my evergreen “Young Man”, my best man for life, my twin brother by another mother has gone ahead of us to God’s celestial home. Brother Eddy is home in the presence of God. I can’t find the words to pour out my heart. Thank you Lord for giving me Eddy as a faithful, caring and loyal friend with the network of family and unalloyed love.
Eddy, only knowing you are now settled at rest and in royal residence in your eternal home with God, moderates the numbness of my pain and loss of present fellowship. I’ll cherish our brotherhood and friendship. You gave your life to Christ 48 years ago, you served with all your heart, you loved the brethren, so friendly and peaceful, so honourable, so brotherly and lovable. Now you finished well in the faith and to the glory of God. I look forward to joining you and other saints before The Lord to part no more. Wait for us. Wait for me. For now goodnight from the earth. Good morning in heaven. We are coming.
EDWARD OGOEGBUNAM ONUGHA
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TRIBUTE TO A FRIEND THAT STICKS CLOSER THAN A BROTHER By Olive Ugochi Nwogu
“There is a friend that sticks closer than a brother”. This phrase in the Bible describes you Eddy. Hearing of your home call on 23rd January was more than a shock. You were our own twin brother from another mother. Our Best Man at our wedding. Our children’s deputy Dad. Our flat mate at Ajaokuta Steel Company. The one who called me “O-viv Nwogu” (mimicking my children as infants trying to call my name). Our companion in Bhilai India. I can’t describe the relationship you and Echi built for our two families. Well, I believe God planned for you to come home at this time. Maybe you sent so much treasures and building materials up so fast that your mansion was finished very quickly and you were called home to rest and enjoy it. You will be remembered forever - those your smiles, your laughter, your kindness, the lives you touched, the needy you helped, the sound counsel you gave, the solid Christian relationships you built, the services you gave God with purity of heart, grace and faithfulness. Rest well Bro Eddy. May your rest be sweet. Adieu Eddy. We will miss your fellowship here till we meet in heaven. God is our comfort.
TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR FRIEND AND BROTHER By Meshack (for Justina & Ilobi family)
A brother is born for adversity but a friend loves at all times. There’s a friend that sticks closer than a brother. Eddy was that younger brother I did not have by my natural birth. My Heavenly Father gave him to me by my second birth in Christ. 1971-72 was a critical year for us in Christ through central SU Enugu. We grew together, fished for souls together as we stayed in the drama ministry, prayed all nights ahead of evangelist visits and distributed tracts as we got mistaken for Jehovah’s Witnesses at Ogbete market. The older pundits were sure we would soon settle down with maturity. No, thanks be to God, we did not settle down because Jesus only got sweeter the older we got.
Eddy and his mother fasted and prayed for me to get a job. God answered them and gave me a job in Warri. Eddy left for UNN where he met his sweetheart Ify. I met mine, Justy, in Warri and our friendship extended to these ladies in marriage. Eddy was son to my mother who was at home in his house in Enugu when she needed medical help. Edify were givers of themselves and theirs to the body of Christ. I was a chief beneficiary. Eddy you were my chief spokesperson at my first daughter’s traditional marriage in Lagos. Our paths stayed ever so close to each other. Eddy was apologizing for being absent from my late mother’s funeral on Jan 5, 2018 while he was struggling with his health and only a few short weeks from his own home going. Eddy, heaven is getting populated with dear and close faces and names and I await my turn to join our Lord Jesus and all of you brethren at rest.
CLEVER BOY!!!
By Effiong & Jioke (Nwanne Eduwo) Bassey At your departure, I recall brother Echi’s lament, “My twin brother has left me”. How true. Some easily become Special Public Persons (SPP), with whom many can claim unique relationships. That’s the kind of brother you were: amiable, faithful, true, fully engaging, and much more. Your love for Jesus was unmistakable. Your faith was real. Your friendship genuine, and your smiles authentic. Memories? I remember the nightcaps, certainly non-alcoholic, (in Rm 223 Awo) as you and Echi headed home from reading. I remember the times you “stood” with me in prayer, and how God came through for us. I also fondly remember the early recordings of the “Gospel Singers” on your AIWA boom box. As a matter of fact, I still listen to those recordings. Man, we had a lot of fun! Jioke and I are just glad to be among those who can claim a special acquaintance with an SPP like you. You’ve “fought the good fight, ..finished the race, .. kept the faith”. (2 Timothy 4:7) Clever Boy!! Now, you’ve stepped out to be seen and embraced by the King of kings! You’ve left a huge void in our hearts that only God can fill, and fill it He will! ADIEU BROTHER!!!
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TRIBUTE TO MY BROTHER By Professor Umunna Okoli
Brother Eddy was (can you imagine speaking of him in the past) indeed a ‘Man of God’. I recall my knowledge of him in the Scripture Union Enugu in the early 1970s. Then he came into UNN and into my department, Mechanical Engineering and also the Christian Union. He loved God and served the Lord with great zeal and humility; always willing to render service so that the Gospel of Jesus Christ would be propagated. Eddy was everyone’s delight. He trusted God in a very simple way and learned to rely on Jesus in very difficult and trying circumstances. You could rely on him to complete assignments and cheerfully.
We have no doubt Eddy’s name is in the book of remembrance. He left too soon but who are we to change the Lord’s scheduled home coming for your life. We enjoyed our fellowshipping together till his exit. We shall see him in the morning. Adieu our beloved Brother Eddy.
TRIBUTE TO A HUMBLE AND FAITHFUL SERVANT OF JESUS CHRIST By Rev (Dr) Basil C. Ukaere (A.K.A Bro. Basil)
A saint, role model and kingdom ambassador has obviously returned to his heavenly home and country. That fateful day I heard the news it was difficult to believe.
Never did it come to my mind that my dear Eddy..O..O.. would so soon leave to be with the Lord. How be it, God over rules in the affairs of men. So we yield to His determined times and seasons and ask for grace, nay abundant grace for his family and the Christian fold to hold firmly on this Lord Jesus Eddy cherished. That for sure would be his earnest desire and prayer.
Bro. Eddy you were everything a true child of God and representative of Christ could be. Your life of humility, friendliness, generosity and love for God and the brethren irrespective of age or rank etc, attracted many of us youths then at AICF to your home and your family became one of the best AICF families that role modelled us to become the parents and leaders we are today.
TRIBUTE FROM OUR HERITAGE GOSPEL CHURCH
I still remember how I felt the day you came back from Germany on official assignment, and handed me a gift of such a quality packet shirt I had never worn before. I was with you most of the evenings at your makeshift engineering workshop behind your house at the then FFN-AGM Quarters, Ajaokuta, helping you to pick/hold one thing or the other as you prepared materials for the first machine you invented; and sometimes when there was no help to render, I shared recent scriptures that touched my life or even new songs I composed, just to make the atmosphere enjoyable especially when you were not filing, cutting or welding. Oh, my beloved Bro. Eddy, many unforgettable events marked the moments and years we were together of which space will not permit to share here.
By Our Heritage Gospel Church, Ajaokuta Kogi State
Life is the most difficult exam. Many people fail because they try to copy others. They fail to realize that everyone has a different question paper. ‘Bro. Eddy’, as we all called him, came to this world not to spend his years but to invest them and they paid him good dividends. Bro Eddy’s days at Ajaokuta were days we cannot forget. His prominent contributions to raise Ajaokuta Interdenominational Christian Fellowship (AICF) to a good standing cannot be overemphasized. Light does not shout, it shines. That was Eddy’s life all through your few days on earth. He lived a simple but very impactful life. Some of his spiritual and professional inputs in the church at Ajaokuta are still helping the church till date. His brain was always full of designs even when quietly seated. Several people benefited from his God-given ability. If we knew his departure was so soon, we would have attached some disciples to tap from his wealth of experiences.
I was happy to see you at my mother’s funeral in 2013, and that was the last time we saw each other. Your blessed memories will never leave our mind and your godly legacy will continue to inspire generations to come. May God comfort your family and all the brethren, young and old your life impacted all through your Christian life’s journey on earth, in Jesus’ name. Amen. Rest in the bosom of the LORD till we meet to part no more.
EDWARDOGOEGBUNAM OGOEGBUNAMONUGHA ONUGHA EDWARD
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this country in the establishment of the iron and steel plant at Ajaokuta. A man highly respected by his colleagues.
We are today celebrating the life and times of a great man - our beloved daddy, Engr. Eddy Onugha. We have gathered to bid farewell and pay last respect to a man of integrity, a man full of achievements, a man of all seasons, and “a hero of our time”. I lived with him and I learnt a lot from his noble family. I learnt from him that it is possible to grow into a monumental being from almost nothing through hard work. He stressed sincerity, and truth has always been his watch word.
May the Soul of this humble servant of the Most High God rest in peace. May the soul of this highly responsible family man rest at the bosom of the Lord Jesus Christ. My dear Sister Ify it is well with you. It is well with the children. The Lord who has kept you all along will not fail you. It is well. We love you all.
By Dr. Charles O. Nwarukweh
Daddy you achieved a lot within your short stay on earth, you were a pillar of strength, a light that illuminated the path for all. An umbrella where many took shelter. Daddy you aimed at perfection in all your undertakings and expressed pride and delight in the progress of others. You laid the foundation of what I am today. You brought me to Ajaokuta as nobody and sent me to Russia to study. I remember with nostalgic feelings how you welcomed me in your family and took me as your own son. Daddy, God made your life in such a way that it will benefit others. A great vacuum has been created as a result of your departure from this world. What a loss! Time is man’s greatest enemy. It is the wish of the Almighty that you deserve a glorious rest. Daddy! We love you but we do know that God loves you more. He will grant your dear soul eternal rest. Adieu, Adieu Daddy Eddy.
TRIBUTE TO HIGHLY COMMITTED AND BRILLIANT PROFESSIONAL By Pastor (Engr) Bamigbola OA
Bro Eddy has gone home. So I got to know. Yes he was here on earth and surely made his mark. He made his marks as a servant of the Most High God. A sharp threshing tool with teeth he was in the hand of the one that called him. A strong pillar in establishment of the then AICF (the first Christian fellowship in Ajaokuta) where at the inception he served as the Secretary to the Constitution Committee ensuring a solid foundation for the Church of God. The evidence remains till this day. A highly committed and brilliant professional who gave his all to the service of
TRIBUTE TO A GENTLEMAN
By Pharm. & Mrs. Chinedu Arinze & Family We received with great shock the sad news of your demise on Tuesday, the 23rd of January, 2018. It was indeed difficult to come to terms with this ugly news because in human calculation and permutations, it is still far from being your turn now. After this news was confirmed, we were quick to re-adjust that God has the final say. As a family, we met you barely six years ago after we joined St. Andrew’s Anglican Church, Trans-Ekulu where we were privileged to be in the same Shiloh group with you and your family. You and mummy accepted us you’re your family. Within this period, you have proven to be a highly dedicated and committed servant of God, wonderful fam-ily man and a selfless gentleman - servant of humanity. Despite all your riches and blessings, you remained very humble, unassuming and ever ready to serve. You were a philanthropist of the highest order; being generous to the church and humanity and yet made yourself physically available for other services. You were an Engineer per excellence. Your works and constructions were always executed to perfection. No wonder people like late Dr. Alex Ekwueme never left you once they spotted you. Your personal residence in Enugu is another perfect job you did which you normally testified about. Mother’s Sunday is around the corner when you normally entertain all of us in the church; telling the mothers wonderful stories, messages and songs to their admiration. We are indeed pained by your sudden and untimely demise but it is not HOW LONG but HOW WELL? You have touched many lives here on Earth. Testimonies of your life and times have been pouring in since you left. Your residence has remained a pilgrimage centre since your departure. You have indeed fought the good fight of faith; you have finished the race and have kept the faith. The crown of righteousness awaits you. Adieu Daddy Onugha! Rest in the bossom of the Lord.
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TRIBUTE TO AN EVANGELIST
made large problems small and helped those around him to walk in wisdom. This quality is only one of the joys that came from his life.
Brother Engr. Eddy Onugha, well done sir. You are an epitome and an embodiment of a gallant soldier. You have fought a good fight. You have done your own bit, greatly. You have carried the battle against satan and its agents to the utmost. You have groomed disciples. You have produced fruits. You have left good legacies behind. You have touched lives. You have helped families. You have affected churches, physically, financially and spiritually. You have given hope to the hopeless. You have brought comfort and solace to people. You have preached the Gospel. You have evangelized perishing souls. You have supported the Great Commission. You have finally finished your race well. And you have answered your call from your Master and maker who made you and commissioned you for all these accomplished tasks.
Another distinctive marker of the life he lived was his generosity. A man’s greatest legacy can be seen by how he impacts those around him and Uncle lived a life being generous with his time, his resources, and his giftings. Serv-ing his friends, his wife, his children, his God, he walked with integrity and gave the best of everything he had. You will not meet another man who gave as openly and whole heartedly as Uncle and he does this whether he has known you for years or minutes.
By Rev Dr. & Mrs. Ndu & Nke Chiemelu
Though buffeted by that wicked one - who can only touch the body – severally and from diverse fronts, with adversities, yet you triumphed in all and like gold when tried through fire, you came forth more robust. Together with your dearest wife Ify, you taught love, you preached it, you practiced it. Daddy, we shall miss you, but we find solace in the fact that you died in the Lord. And of course the crown of Glory, which is kept for those who run the race to the end, is already there for you. And just like the word of the Angel of God to Cornelius in Acts 10:4, “Thy prayers and thy good deeds have gone up as a memorial before God.” It is for this reason that we urge Mummy Onugha and the children you left behind, to be comforted, because you have finished your work and gone to be with the Lord. Adieu Daddy Eddy Onugha.
TRIBUTE TO UNCLE EDDY By Ifeyinwa Anene
Uncle was gracious, warm, funny and above all generous. There was a unique humor that he had that he shared with those around him. During times of difficulty, there was a specific way that he would approach problems that would make a regular person run the other way and hide but Uncle emboldened those around him to view obsta-cles through the eyes of what God could do instead of what man could. His warmth and constancy
His legacy lives on through the lives of those he has blessed. We will deeply mourn him, but he will never be for-gotten. I am grateful to have gotten a chance to know him; his life was truly a blessing.
TRIBUTE TO OUR REVERED UNCLE EDDY By Chinenye Nwokedi (Nee Osigwe)
Growing up in the days when the footsteps of any “Dad” could send one hiding or make one rearrange the house in a split of seconds for fear of the shout or the cane. Uncle yo were different. I saw your children always flocking around you. From a distance, people would have thought you were all friends until a closer look revealed you were their Dad. Growing up in the times when successful Igbo men will drive a car first before giving it to their wife, yours’ was different. You bought a new classic car for Aunty which we all admired whenever we saw her. Uncle you made us proud. When I saw your picture on my sister Oge’s DP on WhatsApp, I quickly ignited my prayer for life and quick recovery until that news was broken. I felt so bad but what amazed me was the peace in your home at your demise. I still remember when I had my first child, with all the complications, and you visted me in the hospital with your children. When we came down for my Dad’s burial with your children and grandchildren, you made me think Obosi to Nnewi was a 5-minute drive. Ohhh wish I had time to appreciate that kind gesture but I can only breathe ”Thank you Sir”. Mhhhh I know you made Heaven, I melo Ofuma Uncle. God bless you Sir.
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A TRIBUTE TO A NOBLE MAN INDEED By Nne Obiefuna (nee Ekpunobi)
To confess this; when I heard of Bro Eddy’s departure, I took ill. When eventually I was told by Zua she was coming to Obosi for this incident, it developed into a very serious nerve pain on my leg. I ignored it and started walking to Ugwuenu; no problem, but as soon as I entered the parlour and saw my auntie, though she appeared calm the pain increased to a very serious level. The truth is that we were with Bro Eddy and Sis Ify in Ajaokuta. These people became more than big siblings to me. Eddy, who I must put my focus on, was like a father to me. He was the one that preached the powerful gospel that brought us into God’s Kingdom. We gave our lives to Christ. He didn’t stop there, you know. A time came he wanted to leave the Company. We couldn’t reason it along with him, but his mind was made up. We thank God that despite all the difficulties, he was able to come up tall. My testimony concerning Bro Eddy hardly has any end. At a time, Sis. Ify was even comforting me. I know this injury will take some time to heal. God will surely bless this Sis Ify, their children and the entire family in Jesus Name!!!! Bro Eddy was not in politics, yet he was a public figure. May his good qualities never ever die in Jesus Name!!!! Good Night to a noble man.
It is not often that you find a person who is so intelligent and yet so humble and unassuming, so wise and yet so patient, always smiling and ever ready to help anybody and everybody. In my opinion the word legend should be reserved for people like Eddy who are ‘complete’ in every respect, rather than those who excel in one aspect of life. Even a few days before his passing, when I spoke to him about his illness, he still had this self-assuredness that you only see in someone who is satisfied that he has nothing to worry about, despite his very clear understanding of the seriousness of his illness. Such was the man. What an example to all of us. To his children and his siblings, nothing I can say here will be enough to console you. But you should take heart in the knowledge that Ogo touched very many lives in his 65 odd years on earth, every one of whom hold him in very high esteem. It is not how long we live, but what we achieve with our lives that counts in the end. As we say in Igbo, ‘Ezi afa ka ego’ (A good name is better than wealth). Finally, to Eddy my namesake, I say, Adieu. Farewell my brother. You are a gem and have run a perfect race. May the good Lord keep you in His bosom and may your kind, brave and humble soul rest in Perfect Peace, Amen.
IN MEMORY OF A RARE GEM By Amaka Madubulum
A TRIBUTE TO MY COUSIN
There are moments when words are not enough to fully express one’s deep feelings such is the difficulty of realizing that Brother Eddy Onugha is no more.
It is with a very heavy heart that I write this painful tribute to my cousin and namesake, Engr. Edward (Eddy) Ogoegbunam Onugha whose untimely death has convinced me that the great beyond, that inevitable destination of all mortals, must be a good place. Otherwise, I cannot believe that God would allow such a peaceful man, to leave this world so untimely. By Ogo’s death, humanity has lost a perfect gentleman, Nigeria has lost one of her few honest and brilliant engineering contractors, Christianity has lost a staunch believer that practices what he preaches, Obosi has lost one her future leaders, and our family has lost a supporting pillar and a beacon of hope and stability.
You were indeed a brother to me. When you married my aunt who is also my godmother, you took me to Ajaokuta as a little girl and treated me like your daughter. The values I have today is what I imbibed from you and your wife.You are an embodiment of love, care, compassion, integrity and peace. In you is a deep well of wisdom from which many tapped from, you are always with a smile and I will remember you as a soft spoken man whose words weighed a premium. You touched so many lives especially my mum Ify Nwobi. Your service to humanity and God would be remem-bered always.
By Dr Eddy Onugha
I have every conviction that you are with your maker – there are no two ways about it. That is why I shed no more tears. Rest on…
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TRIBUTE TO OUR BOSS
TRIBUTE TO A GREAT MAN OF PEACE
Daddy you left us when we needed you most. How can we cope in the office without you? We are like a lost sheep. Who do we go to when we are faced with professional challenges? Your demise has created a big gap that will take a long time to fill.
“Precious in the sight of the lord is the death of His faithful ones” Psalm 116:15. Indeed dad, you fought the good fight, you finished the race and kept the faith. A great man of peace and interior, your love for God was true and unquestionable. Till your last breath, in the face of illness, your unwavering and strong faith in the Lord was so glaring. You always put HIM first and served HIM diligently
By Kelechi Chukwunyere & Edozie Anigbo (Edify Engineering & Bigzam)
Our boss, Engr Eddy Onugha was a teacher and mentor to us who taught us virtually all we know in this profession. He were the best boss anyone can have - very thorough, hardworking, intelligent, honest and just in all his dealings. To us he was a genius. He was also more than a boss to the staff. He never allowed any of us experience difficulties in life; was ever ready to listen and proffer solution to our personal problems. He unveiled us to opportunities that made us better in life both spiritually and physically. Daddy has left a legacy for us to follow and we promise to always follow his footsteps. May his gentle soul rest in the bosom of our lord
TRIBUTE TO OUR DEARLY BELOVED DADDY By Ugochukwu Iyeke
By Chinonso Nebechi
Daddy, your death was shocking and unexpected. Nevertheless, if God says yes, who are we to say no. It is quite unfortunate that you died at this time – yet, I will say that it is the will of God Almighty. Your life on earth was worthy of emulation. You were gentle, kind and above all loving. I cannot express how much care and love you showed to me, you nurtured me since I was a kid till now. I can never forget your advice and how you kept preaching Christ to me. When I was nobody you made me what I’m now. I am sad because you didn’t taste the fruit of your labour in my life. I don’t know what else to write or say because am still living in shock. I must make you proud. Go in peace and sleep well in the Lord till we meet to part no more. Daddy, jee ije gi nke oma, ka emesia.
It is just like a dream that you are gone. Daddy you were just like an angel that God sent to touch lives and you indeed touched every life you came in contact with. No wonder we all miss you dearly Sir.
CONDOLENCE MESSAGE
Each time I get to your door, I always knock waiting to hear that cheerful voice say COME IN. Oh Daddy! What about that wonderful smile that lightens every heart you come in contact with. We miss all these and more. Thanks for all your love for me. Thanks for your care and protection.
Warm greetings to you and your family! I still do not know how to begin to convey to you my heartfelt condolence, and personal feeling of loss regarding Brother Eddy’s departure. Our big and blessed assurance is that he is home; and resting with the Lord, awaiting our own return to join the happy throng.
Thanks for all your advice that I will cherish for the rest of my life. Thanks Daddy for being a father I never had for a very long time. God bless you Sir. I love and miss you Sir. In all this I am consoled that you lived the best life and gained many souls for God, now you have gained heaven too. Adieu Daddy. Farewell our dearly beloved daddy. Till we meet to part no more, good night Sir.
Please be assured that you are not alone in this grief process. You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Our love for you will always remain aglow. I bless the Lord greatly for the great reports we have heard of your steadfastness and faithful service to the Lord. Keep up the good work! (1 Corinthians 15:58). My wife (Olive) sends her sincere condolences too. Extend our greetings and condolences to the rest of your family.
Ben and Olive Nworie
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EULOGY TO MY DEPARTED BROTHER By Hon. Sir. Ifeanyi Okechukwu
My Brother Eddy, I find it very difficult to write this eulogy for you. Since I got the news of your demise, many thoughts about the lives you have touched disturbed my peace as to who else can. What of the less privileged you were taking care of or your ever ready support/contributions to the work of God and souls that Christ revived using you? In our kindred, you are always there to advise, encourage and help. How do we explain your demise to zone 4 members, women ministries and the entire church of God. Eddy, who will fill the vacuum your death has created and who will heal the wound it has inflicted on your loved ones? However, we only take solace in the Lord who knows the end from the beginning. As you served God and mankind, Jesus we know has finished the work of salvation and we are assured that you are resting in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Adieu the one that glows for others to see. Adieu Nwa-Onwelego. Greet our siblings over there. Continue with your deserved rest, until we see on the resurrection morning.
A TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED BROTHER By Sister Ify-uba Okonkwo
Brother Eddy who I fondly call “Nwannem Nwoke” is a brother in need and indeed. He is always encouraging me. The first among Obosi brethren to visit our church and worship with us despite the site and structure of the place. He was the first among the brethren to visit us when we moved to our new accommodation in 2013. Eddy nwan-nem is too caring. When I hosted the brethren meeting, the bitter leaf soup I cooked had a bitter taste which the brethren did not like it but Eddy nwannem ate it and asked for more. He did that just to encourage me because he could feel my pulse. He told them that bitter leaf soup should have a bitter taste and the brethren laughed. I have many good things to testify about him. Every last Sunday of the month, after Obosi brethren meeting, he would drop us off at our residence before driving home.
Eddy Nwannem, you are a transparent child of God. You are too down to earth, humane, soft spoken and amiable. I have no doubt where you will spend eternity. Good bye ezigbo nwannem. Fare thee well my encouragement. Rest on, in the bosom of the Lord till we meet to part no more.
IN MEMORY OF A SHINNING STAR By Nkiru Amuzie Nwabugwu
Daddy, you lived an exemplary lifestyle that reflected love, humility, dignity, civility, honesty and integrity. You were very magnanimous, compassionate, and selfless and loved everyone around you. You were a shining star that touched the life of everyone you met in a positive way. I call you daddy because such was your unflinching love and concern for me and my family which you demonstrated on several occasions needless to mention here. You were that man that made me feel I have a father in Enugu - a land far away from my home. You were that gentle man that encouraged me so much on the job and opened up the warmness of your heart to me whenever I approached you for anything.Surely, I miss this great friend and father whose disposition towards me made me feel I still have a dad after my own dad’s demise. Daddy was a fine child of God, he gave honest advice which is lacking these days in people. He gave encouragement in time of distress and weakness. If the world had onethird of the people like him, it would be a better place to live. In his endeavours in life, he maintained a suitable and happy family life. He was a man of reputable integrity. I have asked myself, why this death the enemy of man, why now? I have come to terms with this through the Word of God only. There is a better home for the people of God than this evil world, God has prepared a better home for you. As you sleep in the Lord, these values you lived, I cherish. You will always live in our hearts whenever these values are lacking. We thank God for the wonderful memories and admirable LEGACY which you left behind. A sincere golden heart stopped beating, hard-working hands at rest. Truly, this my loss is heaven’s gain. We are being reminded that “Nothing good lasts forever”. May God grant your family and loved ones the strength to carry on in your absence. God grant you eternal rest Daddy. Adieu!
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FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS
FAREWELL TO A WORTHY ZONE 4 MEMBER AND A CHILD OF GOD
Paul said, ‘I consider that what we suffer at the present time cannot be compared at all with the glory that is going to be revealed to us. (Romans 8:18)
When Eddy was alive, he maintained total devotion to the service of God with his resources, and contributions.
As a wife and a family it will hurt you. It will pain you. Certainly it will, but God has a better place for Him and has granted him the better one. Trust in that God continually and He will grant you the comfort and consolation you need in this trying moment. As believers we should see this as a temporary separation hence we shall meet again with our departed ones someday and never to part anymore.
Onochie Eziamaka (Secretary) and Nwokedi Uzowulu (Chairman)
It is on record that he never at any time failed to receive calls from his Zone for one financial appeal or the other in favour of St. Mary’s Church Obosi and for the work of God. As a matter of fact, he honoured all appeals addressed to him by the Church. During the General Harvest and Thanksgiving of 2017, Eddy sent his family harvest offering from his sickbed. This was a wonderful gesture which clearly demonstrated his love for the LORD. It is also well known to many people that he was kind to a fault, gentle, friendly, and had the will to help the needy who reached him at any given time. Zone 4 as a family loves Eddy and bids him farewell. He will certainly be missed but God is in absolute control of this situation and will grant his peaceful and organized wife, blessed children, relations, friends, and well-wishers the fortitude to bear his departure to stay with the Lord, in the name of Jesus Christ.... Amen. Goodnight, child of God.
CONDOLENCE MESSAGE
By Sir (Engr) Sam & Lady Nonye Emelugo “But righteous people are protected by God and will never suffer torment.” It is foolish mistake to think that righteous people die and that their death is a terrible evil. They leave us but it is not a disaster, in fact, the righteous are at peace. It might appear that they have suffered punishment, but they have the confident hope of immortality. Their sufferings were light compared with the blessings they will receive. God has tested them, like gold in a furnace and found them worthy to be with Him. He has accepted them” (Wisdom of Solomon chapter 3:1-5) The above verses sum up the blissfulness of the position of the righteous who have joined the church triumphant. Engr. Edward your beloved husband has joined that bliss where neither sickness nor pain nor sorrow nor suffering nor death is found. Apostle
Eddy has been my brother from another mother. We were builders of the Lord’s sanctuary together. While we were building St. Andrew’s Church Trans-Ekulu, he was the Construction Engineer while I served as the Electrical/Electronic Consultant in the same Church. He was a fine Engineer who maintained every detail in a drawing. May the good Lord grant him eternal rest and give you the courage to carry on now and in the years ahead. Amen.
TRIBUTE TO MY FRIEND By Mr Victor Obiefuna
Your death is still a shock to me. Not knowing of your departure I called your line that morning but it was not going through and after wards the news came. Oh it has really pleased the Lord to end it in praise. My most sacrificial and God fearing friend and brother continue to rest in the Bossom of our Lord Jesus Christ. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED BROTHER By Mr David Achebe
Eddy, you have passed on to glory leaving a fruitful life that touched so many people including family, frriends and strangers. You meant so much to me. After all our prayers concerning your health challenges, our Lord allowed this to happen and we cannot queustion God. So rest in the bossom of our Lord Jesus Christ till we meet to part no more. Goodbye nwanne nkem.
Biography & Tributes In loving memory of our dear husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, cousin, friend and follower of Christ, Edward Ogoegbunam Onugha (Nwachinemelu) who lived for God; for his family; and for his service to humanity through his profession, minsitry and relationships.