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SPECIAL NEEDS

47 Finding Your (Provider) Tribe Top tips for choosing the right care team for your child

50 Calendar / To New Heights 16 Sensory-friendly places to go this winter

Cover kid: Michael, age 9, from Flower Mound Photography: Nick Prendergast Hair/makeup: Amy Bjork / Kim Dawson Agency

FEATURES

22 Motherhood at 40 & Beyond

The risks, rewards and journeys to later-in-life parenthood

26 School Choice

How to choose the elementary school that’s right for your child

28 The 2025 Private School List

Our comprehensive directory of private schools across Dallas-Fort Worth

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9 Raising a Quitter

When to let kids walk away from an activity, and how to do it

12 By the Numbers / Hit the Books

8 New education laws in Texas

14 Sound Advice / When Toddlers Bite Expert advice on handling this pesky habit

REAL MOMS

17 Mom Next Door / Martha Neibling

The Gaylord Texan’s Marketing & PR director shares her adoption story

20 Briefs / Mom Picks

Places and products that make life easier for our Mom Next Door

PLAYBOOK

53 Things to Do

32 Family fun events this December and January

61 Family Fun / Now Showing The 5 coolest movie theaters for kids

COLUMNS

6 Hello / The Years Are Short Looking back on 40 years of DFWChild

66 Dad Amongst Dudes / The Night Before a Parents’ Christmas

A father’s relatable twist on this holiday classic

ABOVE // Amanda Collins Bernier with her sons Max and Owen.

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a THE YEARS ARE SHORT

S WE COME TO THE END OF 2024, I bet I know what you’re thinking: Oh, how time flies. We all know this phenomenon is even more palpable in parenthood, when time whizzes by in a haze of sleepless nights, school day mornings, massive milestones and little, everyday moments. No doubt you’ve looked up from the blur of it all and thought at some point, where did the time go?

That’s certainly how Joy Niebes Wommack is feeling these days, as the DFWChild publisher and mom of three sees her fourth baby—this magazine—turn 40 years old. Four decades ago, she launched The Children’s Pages as a new mom looking for things to do with her baby daughter and a more fulfilling career. As her children grew, so too did her publication, and today, Niebes Wommack, now a grandmother, wonders where the years went.

With this anniversary in mind, we’re taking a look at that 40th milestone and what it means for parents today. The average age at which women have their first baby continues to steadily rise, and now more women than ever are having babies in their 40s. What are the risks and rewards to middle-age motherhood? We dig in—and introduce you to local women who became moms at 40 and beyond—on page 22.

And keeping true to our roots, we give you things to do—lots of them—starting on page 53. This is the holiday season after all. We have ideas for helping you make it magical with Santa sightings, epic performances and giftable theater experiences.

This time with your child is precious, and we hope to continue being a resource with hands-on tips and advice to balance your life and make the most of these wearisome, wonderful years. The days are long and the years are short—and as we embark on our 40th year, no one knows that better than us.

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AS A PARENT, SOMETIMES IT SEEMS like there are no right answers—especially when it comes to a kid who wants to quit. Whether it’s an extracurricular activity, a tough class or a new hobby, quitting and sticking with it can both impart important life lessons. So how do you balance your child’s happiness with also building resilience and rising to challenges? How do you raise a kid who feels confident in their own decision making, even if you think they’re about to make a big mistake? It’s a tough balance.

When to let kids walk away from an activity, and the right way to do it

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No one wants to raise a quitter, but there are certainly healthy reasons for kids to want to quit something. When kids first start out, sports and other hobbies are often parent or sibling driven—they do soccer, choir, raising a quitter

My middle daughter plays soccer. She’s a midfielder, and she’s really good at it. She’s wiry but physical, and has a knack for breaking ankles, as the kids say. She asked to start playing when she was 5, before any of her sisters played. She even asked to play on indoor teams in the off-season, which we dutifully found and signed her up for. But now, one year away from being able to try out for high school, she’s decided she’s done with soccer. “It’s not fun anymore,” she told us, and that is all she’s said about it.

WHY KIDS QUIT

dance or band because a parent had an interest or because their friends or siblings did. Sibling rivalry or the desire to play with friends can work as the external motivator for a while before they don’t have anything in common with those friends anymore, or maybe the desire to compete with or impress an older sibling goes away.

If an entire family is really into an activity, kids might diverge from it just to be different, get noticed, or to have their own thing, says Chris Hayden, vice president and boys’ academy director for FC Dallas Youth Soccer. “There are kids that decide to rebel and just say, ‘I’m not going to do that. I don’t want to continue to be compared to my sister or my older brother. I want to play the flute or I want to run track, or I want to be in gymnastics or dance or whatever.’”

And sometimes kids just burn out, even if it’s an activity they really love. Hayden said this can be common in kids’ sports, where nonstop play and intense competition can keep it from being fun. “Until the age of 10, it really should be 100% about fun and at no point should it be about anything else,” he says.

Children might also want to quit an activity because other kids are better than they are, or they feel intimidated, but this can be a teachable moment. “You have a lot of moments in your life on the field and off the field where things aren’t going super well or it’s very difficult. If a player can develop tools of how to work through some of those challenges, then I think it is of benefit whether they quit later or not.”

And sometimes it’s as simple as they’ve found a new interest or just want some free time And those reasons are perfectly OK.

WHEN TO QUIT

Frisco mom Ashley Peebles says she would let her kids step away from an activity “when it’s clear they’re giving their best effort and still don’t excel, and it’s taking a mental toll on them. Making them continue is a waste of their time and talent that can and should be applied elsewhere.”

But there’s a right way to quit. Encourage your child to finish out their commitment before walking away from an activity; that means finishing out a season or lessons they’ve signed up for. Kids need to understand that team sports and activities like band and dance are dependent on everyone showing up, and that quitting can affect the whole group.

It’s worth having a conversation with kids about what sports, lessons or hobbies cost, how long it lasts, and what the commitment is, and making sure they agree to that. Put it in terms they can understand: Soccer lasts from the start of school until Halloween. Are you sure you want to play that whole time? Or, are you willing to

1. They have fulfilled their commitment and want to move on to another activity or interest.

2. They are complaining of physical pain like stomachaches or headaches.

3. They are stressed out or overwhelmed.

4. They have no time for free play.

practice cello for three days a week if we do lessons? Let’s put that in the calendar and you can pick the days you want to practice.

But if your child is responding to an activity in a way that’s out of the norm—unusually over-the-top complaining or even having a physical reaction like a stomachache—pay attention. “That would be a point for a parent to say, OK, maybe this is not the best thing for them,” says Cinda McDonald, child life therapist for Baylor Scott and White Health.

MOM GUILT

Sometimes when kids move on from an activity, it’s harder on Mom and Dad than on the child. How many times do you pass cars on the highway with kids’ team sports stickers on them? Soccer mom, swim mom, baseball mom, gymnastics mom—being associated with an activity can quickly go from a pastime to a lifestyle.

This can make their decision to walk away tough to swallow. If your kid spends seven years playing baseball, how can they just quit? What about all that time, money, friendships, skill, and progress they built? “I think sometimes as parents we may get ourselves too involved and start living a little vicariously through our kids,” says Dallas mom Kristine Tawater. “I think you have to step back and say, ‘Am I upset because she wants to quit or am I upset because I am going to miss it?’”

It can be hard to let them quit if we see how successful they could be if they keep going. McDonald says her sister went through something similar with her boys, when one who had played baseball all his life and was being scouted said he was done. “She had to give herself time to grieve,” she says. “That’s probably a really hard thing for parents to overcome when it is something they’re so invested in.”

LETTING GO

At the heart of it, we parents don’t want our kids to look back and have regrets. But there is power in giving them all of the information and allowing them to choose. “If they make the choice and nobody’s putting that additional stressor on them, they don’t feel regret and resentment,” says McDonald.

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New education laws in Texas

From tightening school security to revising dyslexia education, Texas laws passed in recent years are making changes in the classroom. We take a by-the-numbers look at eight laws that have gone into effect in the last two school years.

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Texas school districts and charter schools must teach students in grades 7 through 12 how to use an automated external defibrillator (AED), per a law that went into effect this school year

Texas law requires all students who do not achieve “approaches” or higher on STAAR grades 3–8 be provided accelerated instruction, which may include extra tutoring for 15 TO 30 HOURS

8TH GRADE

Parents can elect to have their child repeat a grade up to eighth grade; before, parents could only have their children repeat grade 3 or below

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WHEN TODDLERS BITE

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Dr. Kaylee Davis-Bordovsky

Pediatric Psychiatrist at Children’s Health in Dallas; childrens.com

Q: My toddler has started biting when he’s upset. How should I react? How can I make it stop?

A: As a mother who has had to sign a few daycare incident reports for my toddler biting (and being bitten!), I understand how this behavior can seem so exasperating. But parents should know first and foremost, infants and toddlers bite! This is developmentally appropriate behavior, and a parent need not feel excessive guilt whenever their child bites.

Infants may bite because they are teething or simply just exploring the new sensation. Toddlers, however, may have a more addressable motive. There is a rapid growth in brain development during toddlerhood—they are having big feelings and trying to conceptualize new experiences, but still lack the ability to communicate their needs to others. This stage of development is the perfect opportunity to help teach your child how to communicate their needs in an appropriate and safe manner. Here’s how: Check your reaction. Your first instinct may be to yell, lecture or punish your child. However, this will not help. First, separate the children and check on the safety of the child who was bitten. Next, you want to calmly yet firmly say, “We do not bite. Biting hurts.” Then, redirect the child to another activity and do not force them to play with the child they bit. Do not give them any more attention at that time. This is important, because the more attention you give the child afterward, the more the child may bite (the child may

feel that negative attention is better than no attention). You never want to bite your child back, as this teaches them that biting is OK. Identify why they are biting. Are they hungry? Tired? Bored and looking for attention? Mad that another child took their toy? Scared you are going to leave? Examine the warning signs your child exhibited or the actual events leading up to biting. If your child is routinely biting, there will almost certainly be a common denominator that leads to this unwanted behavior.

Modify the environment. Once you’ve identified why your child bites, take steps to prevent it. Does your child bite when sharing toys with other children? Model for them how to share and play with them when they are playing with others. Does biting occur before nap or snack time? Ensure your child is well fed and rested when playing with other children. Do they bite when angry or sad? Redirect them to another activity until their big feelings have passed.

Teach new skills. Most of the time, toddlers bite because they cannot communicate their feelings. It is important to teach them how to do this when they are calm and ready to learn, not right after a biting incident. Teach them how to express emotions and ask for help using words or gestures. Lastly, praise the child when they are not biting. If you notice them playing with another child appropriately, say, “Wow! That was so nice the way that you let your friend play with your toy,” or “I love how even though you felt angry, you didn’t bite. You are so big!” Paying attention to your little one when they are doing right instead of wrong will promote development of positive coping skills and self-esteem while diminishing unwanted behaviors.

Though most children just need to be taught alternative methods for meeting their needs other than biting, this behavior may persist even after strict behavioral modifications have been put in place. If this occurs, reach out to your pediatrician or health care professional for assessment and treatment recommendations.

Have a parenting question you’d like our experts to answer? Message us on Instagram @dfwchildmag or email editorial@dfwchild.com

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Director of Marketing & Public Relations at Gaylord Texan Resort

LIVES IN Irving

HAILS FROM Scottsdale, Arizona

AGE 46

ALMA MATER

Studied public relations and advertising at Texas Tech

CHILDREN

Daughter Grace, 22 months

"I am often told how wonderful it is that I adopted a child, but the one who is truly gifted in this is me," says Martha Neibling.

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MARTHA NEIBLING

AFTER SEVEN YEARS OF TRYING TO BECOME A MOM—years that included losses, heartbreak and doubt—Martha Neibling gave herself a deadline. At age 45 she would give up, but not before saying one last prayer, a week before she hit that milestone.

And then, just like that, everything changed. Neibling got a call from an adoption agency that she’d been matched with a baby—a little girl who was just born the day before. And by her birthday, she was holding her daughter, Grace, in her arms.

Neibling shares her story to give hope to other women for whom motherhood might not come easily. “Your path is not always what you imagine it would be,” she says. “But the unexpected and sometimes scary journey can turn out to be the most beautiful experience.”

DFWCHILD: IT TOOK A LOT OF TIME AND TEARS FOR YOU TO BECOME A MOM. CAN YOU TELL US ABOUT THAT JOURNEY?

MN: I always knew in my heart that motherhood was something I wanted, and shortly before I hit 40—I think as many women do—I went, oh no, I have to make a decision on this. I was single, so I started actively looking at options and trying different things. First, I learned I wasn’t able to have children on my own, and I had to go through the whole process of understanding and accepting that. Then I connected with an adoption agency; I got matched and then it failed. The mom decided she wanted to keep her baby. Then my older sister offered to be a surrogate. She got pregnant with twins, and that was kind of mind-blowing because I went into this as a single mom in her 40s to get a baby—and then it was two. You’re doubling up on the spreadsheet, like double daycare, double cribs. Also it was so exciting to think I could have two children, because I always wanted like five or six. But then they miscarried right after the third month.

I turned to adoption again and we were waiting, waiting, waiting. And my sister said, ‘Let’s just try surrogacy again, one more time.’ So we tried it again and that time she got pregnant with a baby boy. But sadly he died when she was 7 months along.

THAT MUST HAVE BEEN DEVASTATING. Yes. I hadn’t told a lot of people that I was expecting a little boy because I was afraid. I didn’t do the three-month announcement, I waited until six months to start telling people because I was so fearful that if I said anything something would happen. And then it did. I was so devastated and I started considering, is this what God wants? Because I want a baby so badly, but it just seems like every direction I go it’s not working, I can’t do it on my own, the adoption failed, surrogacy failed. I was heartbroken.

BUT YOU DECIDED TO TRY ADOPTION AGAIN?

I reconnected with Gladney [Adoption Agency] and it took a long time. The pandemic really slowed things down; it normally takes 12 to 15 months, and it ended up taking three years.

I WOULD TELL ANYONE CONSIDERING ADOPTION THAT ADDING A CHILD TO YOUR FAMILY BRINGS IMMENSE JOY AND PURPOSE TO YOUR LIFE. I CANNOT PUT INTO WORDS HOW EASILY A CHILD BECOMES YOURS.

Usually, they pair you with the birth mom and you get to know her and have months to prepare, but they said about 1 percent of the time, there’s a “stork drop baby,” like a right-now baby. But they told me that it never really happens, don’t worry about it.

BUT THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED?

Yes! Grace was born in January 2022, when we had that big ice storm in town. Everything was shut down. I had a big conference at the Gaylord and was there for meetings when I got a phone call. It’s Gladney and they said, ‘You just got matched and the baby was born yesterday. If you want her, she’s yours right now.’

THAT MUST HAVE FELT SURREAL.

I kind of paused actually, which is weird after all that time. I was like, ‘Can I call you back?’ They were probably thinking, really? (laughs) But I was processing it. The last leg of this journey I had decided to not mess with the universe and just buy nothing. Not even one outfit, no diapers, nothing. Well, then I get a baby that I need to take immediately and I don’t have anything! Walmart was shut down, Target was shut down, Amazon wasn’t delivering. So I had these sweet friends meeting me on scary, icy roads and in parking lots to give me baby stuff that I needed. TELL US ABOUT MEETING GRACE. They take you into this little room—it looks like your grandma’s living room—and they sit you on a sofa and you’re just waiting for a door to open. It’s a weird feeling. And then the

door opens and there’s just this little human. It took a minute for it to all set in. But gosh, the beauty in it. The second that you lay eyes on each other there’s just this soul connection. I really believe that she was created to be my daughter and I was created to be her mom.

DO YOU THINK THERE ARE MISCONCEPTIONS AROUND ADOPTION?

Anything you can’t control in life is scary. It’s unknown territory and you go in with a lot of what ifs and questions. Are you going to get picked? Will it be the right match? You worry about the situation the child comes from—there are just a million things to think about. You really have to take your hands off, which was hard for me, because I’m a planner. I think you have to be open-minded and trust in the process. Unfortunately, I think people tend to tell scary stories more than beautiful ones. And with adoption, people don’t talk enough about all the great things. I would tell anyone considering adoption that adding a child to your family—whether it be your first or fifth—brings immense joy and purpose to your life. I cannot put into words how easily a child becomes yours. There can be hardships and obstacles with adoption. Every child comes with their own unique set of circumstances. The beauty in that is that through adoption, parents have the opportunity help their children overcome those obstacles so they can live healthy and happy lives.

HOW HAS MOTHERHOOD SURPRISED YOU?

The amount of selflessness that just happens naturally. You go from taking care of yourself, doing the things you want, the things you need, and then without even knowing it just switches on you so quickly.

WHAT WOULD YOU TELL A WOMAN WHOSE JOURNEY IS SIMILAR TO YOURS?

I knew that motherhood was something I fiercely desired. I was of course worried about going into it single and with a demanding career, but I am so happy that I did not let those fears stop me. Sometimes people ask me how I juggle it all, but I think that I am doing what every mom does regardless of being single or married, working or staying home, and having one kid or six kids. You just figure out how to balance.

We are fortunate that today, there are so many ways that women can become mothers including adoption, embryo adoption, IVF, etc. If you are struggling, talk with people in your life who have been there. Family and friends want to be there for you. Even if you feel alone in the process, which is completely natural to feel, you are not alone.

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PLAY TIME

Neibling likes to keep it simple—a trip to grocery store with grandpa or to the pet store to look at critters can be just as much fun for Grace as an elaborate outing. But for dedicated playtime, PeeknPlay Grapevine is a local favorite. “We come here and can spend a couple of hours exploring the different areas of pretend-play fun, Lego building, or the slide with a ball pit. I like that it is spacious and clean— and right next door to Grapevine Mills Mall if I want to add a shopping stop to our day!”

When the weather is nice, the pair loves Fritz Park, where Neibling says the petting zoo and pony rides are especially toddler friendly.

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mom picks

Cool products and local finds that make motherhood more fun for Martha Neibling

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MOM HACK

What’s always in Neibling’s purse? “Phone, wallet, diapers, lots of snacks and a handy phone clip from Amazon that you can clip onto anything if you need some temporary assistance while you are out.”

Hands-Free Phone Holder Mount // $12.97; amazon.com

HOLIDAY TRADITIONS

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Neibling works at the Gaylord Texan Resort, so of course the extravagant ICE! is part of the yearly fun. “You can entertain your kids of all ages for days there,” she says. “In addition to the millions of holiday lights and decor, you can get photos with Santa, read stories with Mrs. Claus, build gingerbread houses, go snow tubing, ride a Christmas carousel, or experience the two-million-pound ice attraction which features Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer this year!”

Gaylord Texan Resort // 1501 Gaylord Trail, Grapevine; 817/778-1000; christmasatgarylordtexan.marriot.com

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FAMILY DINING

Going out to eat is a little different with a toddler in tow. Neibling recommends Hat Creek Burger for a casual dinner with friends and littles.

“The beauty of going there is they have clean outdoor playgrounds. You can sit on a bench by the playground to eat and chat while the kids are fully entertained in a safe, enclosed space,” she says. Hat Creek Burger Company // Multiple locations; hatcreekburgers.com

BY MY BEDSIDE

The task of filling out a baby book can feel daunting, so Neibling keeps Grace’s five-year book, The Story of You, on her nightstand to fill out here and there, when a milestone happens or she has some extra time. The Story of You // $29.95; amazon.com

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The risks, rewards & journeys to later-in-life parenthood

WORDS AMANDA COLLINS BERNIER

It’s no secret

that motherhood is life-changing. It shifts your identity, priorities and relationships, and brings about new stressors—and, of course, new love. But is there an ideal time in life to become a mom? A time when women have the emotional, financial and professional foundation, along with the energy to carry and care for a little one? For many women, that time changing.

The average age of a first-time mom in the U.S. has been rising for decades. The current average—nearly 28—is a record high, but even that is quite young when looking at other trends. About 20% of women in the U.S. now have their first child after age 35. And according to recent data from the CDC, more women than ever are having babies in their 40s.

“There is no rule that once you hit 40 that you are ‘too old’ to be a parent,” says Emily Morehead, a licensed professional counselor and co-owner at The Couch Therapy in Allen. Morehead, also a PhD student researching perinatal mental health, says women are letting go of expectations of what middle-age is “supposed to look like.” Plus, advancements in assisted reproductive technology are making motherhood later in life a possibility for more women.

Still, there can be roadblocks. As women age, fertility naturally declines, with this gradual decrease beginning around age 32. Women over 40 have just a 10-15% likelihood of getting pregnant in a given cycle, and by 45, that often drops below 5%, explains Dr. Leen Al-Hafez, an assistant professor in the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at UT Southwestern Medical Center who specializes in maternal-fetal medicine. “While there are exceptions, spontaneous conceptions that lead to live births are rare for women over 43,” she says.

There are risks, too. For women these include an increased risk of miscarriage, gestational diabetes, preeclampsia and C-section. And babies of moms over 40 may have a higher risk for chromosomal or genetic abnormalities, as well as preterm birth, which can lead to various health challenges.

Yet when it comes to maternal mental health, there are no increased risk factors for perinatal mood disorders an individual in their 40s versus in someone in their 20s or 30s, says Morehead. In fact, women in this age group may be more likely to seek treatment because they have more experience hearing the perspectives of other women and their motherhood journeys.

Despite any risks, Al-Hafez says most women in their 40s have favorable outcomes, and notes that there are several benefits, both medically and emotionally, to pregnancy and parenthood after 40.

“Later-in-life parents have lived experiences in managing life stressors, emotional regulation and may have built a community of resources, all which lead to supporting the balance of motherhood,” Morehead agrees. “Parents who start their parenthood journey in their 40s may experience gratitude for the here and now moments of parenthood because of their journey to parenthood.”

Having children in your 40s can be rigorous and rewarding in the ways that all parenting is, but it also comes with unique journeys and challenges. We talked to five local women who became mothers at 40 and beyond. Here are their stories.

AMANDA ENBERG

MOM AT 42

Hiring a doula to help her through childbirth, researching delayed cord clamping and newborn health. If Amanda Enberg had had a baby in her 20s, she’s certain she wouldn’t have made these priorities. But at 42 she says, “I know enough to know if I don’t know enough, and I know what I need to research.”

It’s one of many ways that Enberg looks at parenthood differently than she would have earlier in life. A divorce, a cross country move, and experience with loss add up to decades of life lessons that she says make her “more patient, grateful and understanding” as a mother.

Enberg always wanted to be a mom and suffered two miscarriages in her 30s. As she rounded up on her 40th birthday, she began to accept that motherhood might not be in her cards. With a focus on their own future, she and her husband, Travis, decided to take control of their health—losing weight, seeing specialists, taking vitamins and supplements. Then suddenly, after a whirlwind of life changes, she was pregnant at 41. “It was sort of like, ‘Oh, I don’t know when that happened. It was really exciting and it was a really big shock. We had kind of resigned to the fact that it might not happen.”

Enberg says the benefits of becoming a mom later in life so far outweigh the downsides. She’s more confident, financially stable, and has all those extra years of perspective. Still, there are some challenges. “My body,” she laughs.

MOM AT 41

When Sarah Heath married her husband, Carl, at age 35, she was in no real rush to start a family. The two wanted to settle in and build a foundation before having a baby, something she looks back on with gratitude and grief.

At age 38, Heath lost her first baby, a girl named Olivia, at 20 weeks. She then turned to in vitro fertilization (IVF)—three rounds with no success.

As she crept up on 40, Heath wanted “off the rollercoaster” and began to think of her options for starting a family: an egg or embryo donor, fostering, adoption. Then finally, after a fourth round of IVF, she got pregnant with a healthy baby girl.

Heath welcomed her daughter at age 41. “Because of the journey we went through, it has shaped us as parents and it’s going to shape how we parent her,” she says.

There are times when Heath looks back and wishes she had tried for a baby a little earlier. Pregnancy and parenthood are physically taxing, especially as you get older, she says. But emotionally, she’s stronger now. “I think that there is great value in having more confidence in who I am at this age … I have a better understanding of what really matters, and what doesn’t matter as much, so I don’t get caught up by the little things like might have done in my 20s.”

SARAH HEATH

ANGIE GETTYS

MOM AT 41

“It’s completely different than what I expected,” Angie Gettys says of motherhood. “I love it, I enjoy it, but it’s been really hard. At 41 years old you’ve had this whole life, and then absolutely everything changes.”

Gettys is being treated for postpartum depression after having her son Hunter a few months ago. The area mom believes the adjustment to parenthood is harder at her age than it might have been when she was younger because of the decades she lived as an adult in charge of only herself.

Gettys never longed to be a mother. In her 20s and 30s she felt if it happened it happened—and when it didn’t, she wasn’t dejected. Then, at 40, she got a big surprise: She was pregnant. “I was more scared than anything. Being older, I worried about what people would think. Everyone I went to school with has kids that are much older, so I thought about the social aspect of it,” she says.

Gettys and her partner, Kris, sometimes joke they’ll be “like the grandparents at Hunter’s graduation,” but overall, she’s glad motherhood came when it did. “I was able to enjoy being young, travel,” she says. “I was always go, go, go. Having to slow down isn’t a bad thing, but it’s an adjustment.”

“There is no rule that once you hit 40 that you are ‘too old’ to be a parent.”

CARMEN L. MOM AT 45

Carmen never expected to be a new mom at 45, time just got away from her. The local mom, who asked not to use her last name, got married at 35 and then moved around with her husband for his job. “It was one of those things where we were like, ‘We can wait, we have time.’”

But at age 40 Carmen was shocked to learn she was in menopause and was devastated when a fertility specialist told her she had “no follicles.” After coming to terms with the fact that she wouldn’t be able to have a genetic child of her own, she started to look into her options. She decided to use a donor egg.

“I feel I enjoyed it more now than I would have had I been 20 or 21,” Carmen says of her pregnancy. “Knowing all the things I went through, the struggles, to be able to carry myself just felt a little more special.”

Carmen says it’s difficult not having a circle of friends her age with babies but feels grateful to become a mom at a time in life when she has perspective and patience. She’s intentional in her parenting and the way she interacts with her daughter, something she says comes with age.

But looking back, Carmen is frustrated that fertility isn’t talked about it more. “I don’t remember being told you should check your follicles after 32, or you should test your AMH levels after a certain age. You do everything society tells you to do—go to college, get married, etc., then you decide to have a baby, and you can’t,” she says. “Women need to be better about educating ourselves; advocating for ourselves and our health.”

JEAN FOWLER

MOM AT 41

Jean Fowler always knew she wanted to be a mom, but she also knew that chapter might come later in life. A trauma surgeon, she didn’t finish her residency until she was 31. And as she worked through her 30s to establish her career, dating, marriage and family weren’t top of mind. So at 35 she froze her eggs.

At 39, Fowler got married and six months later she conceived naturally, then miscarried. Ready for a family and feeling the clock ticking, she turned to IVF but found no success there.

Then at 40, Fowler naturally got pregnant again. It was exciting and unnerving. As a physician, she knew the risks and statistics. So through most of her pregnancy she held her breath and prayed.

Fowler welcomed her daughter in September at age 41, the right time for her both personally and professionally.

“I’m not worried about my career, I’ve already had the chance to start it, get where I wanted. I don’t feel like I need to prove myself,” she says. “And my own personal growth—I think of myself when I was 30 and where I am now, and I’m a much more secure and confident woman. I have a lot more to give.”

Fowler would love to have another baby but says she has to be realistic—she’d be 43. “It’s all the same fears again—the genetics, am I physically fit enough? You question everything,” she says. “It’s all out of my hands. This journey has taught me there’s actually very little in life you can control.”

School Choice

How to choose the elementary school that’s right for your child

WORDS GINA MAYFIELD

HEN WE WERE GROWING UP, families typically sent their schoolage children off to the nearest elementary campus, one that was often in walking distance. Today we have many valuable public and private school options for our own children that go far beyond what’s offered within our zip code.

Navigating the educational landscape means deciding between elementary schools of all types—charter, magnet, Montessori, parochial, STEAM, dual language—there’s even that new biomedical prep school in Dallas that starts with preschool. So how do we make the right choice with mindfulness and intention, to set up our students with a foundation for a love of lifelong learning? Here, we take a look at some of those determining factors in the age of open enrollment and school choice.

WHERE DO YOU BEGIN? START WITH THE CHILD.

When parents seeking guidance reach out to Adina Rich, director and educational consultant at Rich Educational Consulting in McKinney, she starts with a simple question: What are you looking for in a school? Then she asks about the learner and the family’s goals for educating that child.

“Some people want their child in a singlegender environment, for other people, it might be that their child has a learning disability, or they’re neurodiverse, and maybe they need a different environment. Some people want to have some type of religion as part of the curriculum,” says Shannon DeVilbiss, an educational and therapeutic consultant with Wolf Strategic Advice in Dallas.

Think about those big priorities, then go from there. “Do you want a high-tech school with lots and lots of technology available? Some families want to go back to pencil and paper and low tech. Those are the kind of things that we look at when we’re trying to match schools with families,” DeVilbiss adds.

FAMILY DYNAMICS & SCHEDULE

Beyond determining the type of school, consider not just the cost, but the schedule. Some schools offer a hybrid environment with in-person classes only two or three days a week, and independent work at home or online on the other days.

Before you get your heart set on any particular school, it’s important to consider afterschool care, bussing and even the commute. “If your learner has extracurricular activities at night, say they want to participate in theater or a sports activity, you may be driving to school multiple times, not just at 8 and 3,” Rich notes about those rush-hour drives.

Also consider your lifestyle. Are you up for a

school with lots of family involvement, fundraisers and special dress-up days and events? When you make your decision, you want a school that reflects your family’s priorities, down to whether or not you’re comfortable with school uniforms.

ACADEMIC APPROACH

Beyond test score data, ask about curriculum, learning style and even how discipline is administered. Is it a STEAM school with tables for lots of group collaboration, a growing suburban public school with 30 kids per class, or a Montessori school with a garden out back? Also determine if the philosophy on homework will work with the demands of raising a young family, and the amount of time and patience you have each night.

Rich also recommends asking how the teachers are certified and what kind of professional development they’re offered, plus what kinds of clubs and communities they’re building for students. She also says that teacher turnover is a major issue right now in every academic arena, so be sure to inquire about those stats.

Look beyond elementary school for feeder-pattern middle and high schools that won’t require a whole new set of friends or academic standards, and ensure those schools are a good fit too.

EXTRACURRICULARS

As much as students need a strong academic program, be sure and inquire about opportunities beyond reading, writing and arithmetic. “Specials,” as we call them here in Texas, matter for both academic and socio-emotional growth, plus they provide a pathway for uncovering hidden gifts and talents that may serve your child well through adulthood.

Rich says it’s important to simply ask what the offerings are because many schools such as charters won’t have the same opportunities as a large urban or suburban school.

Tour the school and see for yourself. Is the art room a work of art and loaded with supplies? What condition is the gym and sports equipment in? Are there holiday concerts and plays?

“I look for what I call that well-rounded, big box approach. Even in a small school, I still want there to be access to things like art, foreign language and athletics,” DeVilbiss says, before suggesting to also ask about the school’s approach to recess and access to outdoor activity. “Make sure that kids are getting that very precious outdoor and rec time because that’s also where they develop those social skills.”

VIBE CHECK

Get to know the campus before making a final decision. “So much of school is, how do you feel when you walk in the building? Do you feel

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QUESTIONS TO ASK ON A SCHOOL TOUR

• What does a typical day look like?

• What are the class sizes and the teacher-to-student ratio?

• What is the school’s philosophy on homework?

• What specialty classes are offered?

• How is discipline handled?

• How much recreation time do students get?

• What curriculum does the school use and what topics are covered at each grade?

• What does parent involvement look like?

• Is there before- or after-school care?

• How long have staff been working there?

like this is a place where you could see your child?” DeVilbiss says, advising that an open house may not give you a full and accurate picture. “Get a tour during the off time, because then you’re going to see what’s really going down. Ask a lot of opinions of people that attend the school—the good, the bad, the ugly.”

And pay attention to the little things. “How are the students’ experiences? How do the teachers look walking down the hall? How open is the campus, are there opportunities for you to volunteer, to be a part of and integrate in that community?” she says. “If you’re able to go and observe a campus, sit down and meet with an administrator and see if their philosophy is aligned with your expectations.”

While you’re there, make sure you’re being honest about your family and your child, both with others and yourself. Sugarcoating who your child truly is can lead to a disappointing mismatch, and you want your decision to be the right one.

In the end, school choice comes down to a personal decision. “It all really depends on what you’re looking for and what your child’s needs are,” Rich says. “Finding a good fit for your learner is the most important thing you can do.”

As much as students need a strong academic program, be sure and inquire about opportunities beyond reading, writing and arithmetic.

Addison Greenhill School

2025 PRIVATE

4141 Spring Valley Road greenhill.org

Addison Trinity Christian Academy 17001 Addison Road trinitychristian.org

Allen Inspired Learning Academy 601 S. Greenville Ave. inspiredlearningacademy.org

Argyle Liberty Christian School 1301 South Highway 377 libertychristian.com

Argyle Selwyn School 2270 Copper Canyon Road selwynschool.org

Arlington Burton Adventist Academy 4611 Kelly Elliott Road burtonacademy.org

Arlington Children’s University 4621 Park Springs Blvd. childrensuniversity.com

Arlington Grace Preparatory Academy 3300 W. I-20 graceprep.org

Arlington Green Oaks School 500 Houston St. greenoaksinc.org

Arlington Merryhill School 711 W. Arbrook Blvd. merryhillschool.com

Arlington Northstar School 4620 Park Springs Blvd. northstarschool.net

Arlington Pantego Christian Academy 2201 West Park Row pantego.com

Arlington Park Row Christian Academy 915 W. Park Row Drive parkrowchristian.net

Arlington Saint Maria Goretti Catholic School 1200 South Davis Drive smgschool.org

Arlington St. Joseph Catholic School 2015 SW Green Oaks Blvd. stjosephtx.org

Arlington St. Paul’s Preparatory Academy 6900 US Hwy 287 stpaulsprep.com

Arlington Montessori Academy of Arlington, The 3428 W. Arkansas Lane tmaonline.org

Arlington Oakridge School, The 5900 W. Pioneer Pkwy. theoakridgeschool.org

Azle Azle Christian School 1801 S. Stewart St. azlechristianschool.org

Bartonville Harvest Christian Academy Lantana 2200 Jeter Road E. lantana.hcasaints.org

Bedford Midcities Montessori 209B Harwood Road midcitiesmontessori.com

Burleson Holy Cross Christian Academy 1233 Tarver Road hccaburleson.com

Carrollton Oak Crest Private School 1200 E. Jackson Road, Building 2 oakcrestschool.org

Carrollton Prince of Peace Christian School & Early Learning Center 4004 Midway Road popcs.org

Carrollton St. Anthony School, The 2040 N. Denton Drive thestanthonyschool.com

Colleyville Covenant Christian Academy 901 Cheek Sparger Road covenantchristian.net

Colleyville Crown of Life 6605 Pleasant Run Road colschool.org

Colleyville Inspire Academy Christian Private School 55 Main St. inspireacademytx.com

Colleyville Waypoint Montessori 1513 Hall Johnson Road waypointmontessori.org

Crowley Nazarene Christian Academy 2001 East Main St. nazarenechristianacademy.org

Dallas Acton Academy Lakewood 2443 Abrams Road actonlakewood.org

Dallas Akiba Yavneh Academy 12324 Merit Drive akibayavneh.org

Dallas Alcuin School 6144 Churchill Way alcuinschool.org

Dallas All Saints Catholic School 7777 Osage Plaza Pkwy. allsaintsdallas.org

Dallas Ann & Nate Levine Academy 18011 Hillcrest Road levineacademy.org

Dallas Bishop Dunne Catholic School 3900 Rugged Drive bdcs.org

Dallas Bishop Lynch High School 9750 Ferguson Road bishoplynch.org

Dallas Calvary Lutheran School 9807 Church Road calvarydallas.org/school

Dallas Cambridge School of Dallas, The 3202 Royal Lane cambridgedallas.org

Dallas Christ the King Catholic School 4100 Colgate Ave. cks.org

Dallas Coram Deo Academy, Dallas 6930 Alpha Road cdalions.org

Dallas Dallas Academy 950 Tiffany Way dallas-academy.com

Dallas Dallas Christian Academy 4025 N. Central Expressway dallaschristianacademy.org

Dallas Dallas International School, Lower 6039 Churchill Way dallasinternationalschool.org

Dallas Dallas International School, Upper 17811 Waterview Pkwy. dallasinternationalschool.org

Dallas Dallas Lutheran School 8494 Stults Road dallaslutheranschool.com

Dallas Fairhill School 16150 Preston Road fairhill.org

Dallas First Baptist Academy 7898 Samuell Blvd. fbacademy.com

SCHOOL LIST

Dallas Fusion Academy, Dallas 8128 Park Lane, Suite 125 fusionacademy.com

Dallas Good Shepherd Episcopal School 11110 Midway Road gsesdallas.org

Dallas Grace Academy of Dallas 11306A Inwood Road graceacademy.com

Dallas Highlands Christian School 721 Easton Road highlandschristianschool.com

Dallas Holy Trinity Catholic School 3815 Oak Lawn Ave. htcsdallas.org

Dallas Jesuit College Preparatory School of Dallas 12345 Inwood Road jesuitdallas.org

Dallas Campbell Christian Academy 6623 Villa Road campbellchristianacademy.com

Dallas Kingdom Collegiate Academy 1821 W. Camp Wisdom Road ourkca.org

Dallas Lakehill Preparatory School 2720 Hillside Drive lakehillprep.org

Dallas Lumin Lindsley Park Community School 7130 Lindsley Ave. lumineducation.org

Dallas Mount St. Michael Catholic School 4500 W. Davis msmcatholic.org

Dallas New Life Christian Academy 2626 Gus Thomasson Road newlifechristianacademy.net

Dallas Notre Dame School of Dallas 2018 Allen St. notredameschool.org

Dallas Oak Hill Academy 9407 Midway Road oakhillacademy.org

Dallas Our Redeemer Lutheran School 7611 Park Lane ordallas.org

Dallas Parish Episcopal School 4101 Sigma Road parish.org

Dallas Preston Hollow Presbyterian School 9800 Preston Road phps.org

Dallas Providence Christian School of Texas 5002 W. Lovers Lane pcstx.org

Dallas Santa Clara of Assisi Catholic Academy 4550 W. Davis St. santaclaraacademy.org

Dallas Scholaris Academy 6170 Sherry Lane scholaris.org

Dallas Scofield Christian School 7730 Abrams Road scofieldchristianschool.org

Dallas Shelton School & Evaluation Center 17301 Preston Road shelton.org

Dallas Southwest Adventist Junior Academy 1600 Bonnieview Road swaja.org

Dallas St. Bernard of Clairvaux 1420 Old Gate Lane stbernardccs.org

Dallas St. Cecilia Catholic School 635 Mary Cliff Road stceciliacatholic.org

Dallas St. Elizabeth of Hungary Catholic School 4019 S. Hampton Road saintspride.com

Dallas St. John’s Episcopal School 848 Harter Road stjohnsschool.org

Dallas St. Mark’s School of Texas 10600 Preston Road smtexas.org

Dallas St. Mary of Carmel Catholic School 1716 Singleton Blvd. smcschool.org

Dallas St. Monica Catholic School 4140 Walnut Hill Lane stmonicaschool.org

Dallas St. Patrick Catholic School 9635 Ferndale Road spsdallas.org

Dallas St. Philip & St. Augustine Catholic Academy 8151 Military Pkwy. spsacatholic.org

Dallas St. Philip’s School & Community Center 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. stphilips1600.org

Dallas St. Pius X Catholic School 3030 Gus Thomasson Road spxdallasschool.org

Dallas St. Rita Catholic School 12525 Inwood Road strita.net

Dallas St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic School 3741 Abrams Road staschool.org

Dallas Compass School of Texas, The 5414 W. Northwest Hwy. compassschooltx.org

Dallas Covenant School, The 7300 Valley View Lane covenantdallas.com

Dallas Episcopal School of Dallas, The 4100 Merrell Road esdallas.org

Dallas Hockaday School, The 11600 Welch Road hockaday.org

Dallas Kessler School, The 1822 W. 10th St. thekesslerschool.com

Dallas Lamplighter School, The 11611 Inwood Road thelamplighterschool.org

Dallas Saint Timothy School, The 4333 Cole Ave. thesainttimothyschool.org

Dallas Westwood School, The 14340 Proton Road westwoodschool.org

Dallas Winston School, The 5707 Royal Lane winston-school.org

Dallas Ursuline Academy of Dallas 4900 Walnut Hill Lane ursulinedallas.org

Dallas Vanguard Preparatory School 4240 Sigma Road vanguardprepschool.com

Dallas Wesley Prep 9200 Inwood Road wesleyprep.org

Dallas White Rock Montessori 1601 Oates Drive whiterockmontessori.org

Dallas White Rock North School 9727 White Rock Trail whiterocknorthschool.com

Dallas Zion Lutheran School 6121 E. Lovers Lane zlsdallas.org

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Denton Denton Calvary Academy 1910 E. University Drive dentoncalvary.org

Denton Immaculate Conception Catholic School 2301 N. Bonnie Brae St. catholicschooldenton.org

Denton Koan School 6441 Fishtrap Road koanschool.org

DeSoto DeSoto Private School 301 E. Beltline Road desotoprivate.org

Farmers Branch Mary Immaculate Catholic School 14032 Dennis Lane mischool.org

Flower Mound Coram Deo Academy, Flower Mound 4900 Wichita Trail coramdeoacademy.org

Flower Mound Grace Christian School 3200 Firewheel Drive gcapatriots.org

Fort Worth All Saints’ Episcopal School 9700 Saints Circle aseschool.org

Fort Worth Alliance Christian Academy 13105 Harmon Road acaknights.com

Fort Worth Anderson Private School for the Gifted, Talented and Creative 14900 White Settlement Road andersonschool.net

Fort Worth Bethesda Christian School 4700 N. Beach St. bethesdachristianschool.org

Fort Worth Cassata Catholic High School 1400 Hemphill St. cassatahs.org

Fort Worth Christian Cottage Prep 1140 Morrison Drive christiancottageprep.com

Fort Worth Covenant Classical School 1701 Wind Star Way covenantfw.org

Fort Worth Crossroads Christian Academy 5817 Waddell St. crossroadsftworth.org

Fort Worth Fort Worth Academy 7301 Dutch Branch Road fwacademy.org

Fort Worth Fort Worth Country Day 4200 Country Day Lane fwcd.org

Fort Worth Hill School of Fort Worth 4817 Odessa Ave. hillschool.org

Fort Worth Jane Justin School 1300 W. Lancaster Ave. childstudycenter.org

Fort Worth Key School 7950 John T. White Road ksfw.org

Fort Worth Lake Country Christian School 7050 Lake Country Drive lccs.org

Fort Worth Mercy Culture Preparatory 1401 Oakhurst Scenic Drive mcprep.org

Fort Worth Montessori School of Fort Worth 3420 Clayton Road East msftw.org

Fort Worth Mosaic Academy 1400 College Ave. mosaicacademyfw.org

Fort Worth Nolan Catholic High School 4501 Bridge St. nolancatholic.org

Fort Worth Saint Andrew Catholic School 3304 Dryden Road standrewsch.org

Fort Worth Saint Rita Catholic School 712 Weiler Blvd. saintritaschool.net

Fort Worth Southwest Christian School 6801 Dan Danciger Road southwestchristian.org

Fort Worth St. George Catholic School 824 Hudgins Ave. stgeorgecatholicschool.org

Fort Worth St. Paul Lutheran School 1800 W. Freeway stpauleagles.org

Fort Worth TCU Starpoint School 2805 Stadium Drive starpoint.tcu.edu

Fort Worth Temple Christian School 6824 Randol Mill Road tcseagles.org

Fort Worth Trinity Baptist Temple Academy 6045 WJ Boaz Road tbtchurch.org/tbta

Fort Worth Trinity Valley School 7500 Dutch Branch Road tvs.org

Fort Worth Holy Family Catholic School 6146 Pershing Ave. hfcsfw.org

Frisco Acton Academy Frisco 7110 Elm St. actonacademyfrisco.com

Frisco Kids USA Montessori of Frisco 8890 Meadow Hill Drive kidsusamontessori.org

Frisco Legacy Christian Academy 5000 Academy Drive legacyca.com

Frisco Starwood Academy of Frisco 3443 Lebanon Road starwoodacademyoffrisco.com

Garland Brighter Horizons Academy 3145 Medical Plaza Drive bhaprep.org

Garland Firewheel Christian Academy 5500 Lavon Drive firewheelca.org

Garland Garland Christian Academy 1516 Lavon Drive garlandchristian.com

Garland Good Shepherd Catholic School 214 South Garland Ave. goodshepherdcatholicschool.org

Granbury Grace Classical Christian Academy 910 Paluxy Road graceclassical.com

Grand Prairie Flint Academy 801 E. I-20 flintacademt.com

Grand Prairie Immaculate Conception School 400 N.E. 17th St. school.icgrandprairie.org

Grapevine Grapevine Faith Christian School 730 E. Worth St. grapevinefaith.com

Grapevine Holy Trinity Catholic School, Grapevine 3750 William D. Tate Ave. holytcs.org

Grapevine Southlake Montessori 1105 W. Wall St. southlakemontessori.org

Grapevine Novus Academy, The 3400 William D. Tate Ave. thenovusacademy.org

Haslet Legacy Classical Christian Academy

220 Main St. legacyclassical.org

Heath Fulton School, The 1626 Smirl Drive thefultonschool.com

Irving Cistercian Preparatory School 3660 Cistercian Road cistercian.org/school

Irving Holy Family Catholic Academy 2323 Cheyenne St. hfca-irving.org

Irving Islamic School Of Irving 2555 Esters Road islamicschoolofirving.org

Irving Redeemer Montessori School 2700 Warren Circle redeemermontessori.org

Irving Saint Francis Montessori 545 Iris Drive stfrancisirving.org

Irving Sloan School, The 3131 N. O’Connor Road thesloanschool.com

Irving StoneGate Christian Academy 1705 Esters Road sgca.net

Irving Highlands School, The 1451 E. Northgate Drive thehighlandsschool.org

Irving Humanist Academy, The 4441 W. Airport Freeway, Suite 100 thehumanistacademy.org

Keller DFW Performing Arts Conservatory 5700 Kroger Drive dfwpac.com

Keller Harvest Christian Academy, Keller 225 Keller Parkway keller.hcasaints.org

Keller Messiah Lutheran Classical Academy 1308 Whitley Road mlcatexas.org

Keller St. Elizbeth Ann Seton Catholic School 2016 Willis Lane seascs.net

Keller Trinity Preparatory Academy 12657 N. Caylor Road trinityprepkeller.org

Kennedale Fellowship Academy 1021 N. Bowman Springs Road fellowship-academy.org

Lewisville Lakeland Christian Academy 397 S. Stemmons Freeway lakelandchristian.org

Lucas Lucas Christian Academy 505 W. Lucas Road lucaschristianacademy.com

Mansfield School of Lexia 1200 Clover Hill Road, Suite 100 schooloflexia.org

McKinney Cornerstone Christian Academy 808 S. College St. ccawarriors.org

McKinney Acton Academy McKinney 105 New Hope Road actonmckinney.org

McKinney McKinney Christian Academy 3601 Bois D’Arc Road mckinneychristian.org

North Richland Hills Fort Worth Christian School 6200 Holiday Lane fwc.org

Plano Bethany Christian School 3300 W. Parker Road planochristianschool.com

Plano Challenger School, Independence 10145 Independence Parkway challengerschool.com/campus/texas/plano/independence

Plano Challenger School, Legacy 6700 Communications Parkway challengerschool.com/campus/texas/plano/legacy

Plano Coram Deo Academy, Plano 9645 Independence Parkway coramdeoacademy.org

Plano Faith Lutheran School 1701 E. Park Blvd. flsplano.org

Plano Great Lakes Academy 6000 Custer Road, Building 7 greatlakesacademy.com

Plano John Paul II High School 900 Coit Road johnpauliihs.org

Plano New Hope Christian Academy 5170 Village Creek Drive explorenewhope.org

Plano North Texas Performing Arts Academy 6121 W. Park Blvd., Suite B216 ntpa.org/academy

Plano Prestonwood Christian Academy Plano 6801 W. Park Blvd. plano.prestonwoodchristian.org

Plano Prince of Peace Catholic School 5100 W. Plano Parkway popschool.net

Plano Spring Creek Academy 6000 Custer Road springcreekacademy.com

Plano St. Mark Catholic School 1201 Alma Drive stmcs.net

Plano St. Timothy Christian Academy 6801 W. Park Blvd. staplano.org

Prosper Prestonwood Christian Academy, North 1001 W. Prosper Trail north.prestonwoodchristian.org

Prosper St. Martin de Porres Catholic School 4000 W. University Drive smdpcatholic.org

Richardson Bridge Builder Academy 1221 W. Campbell Road bridgebuilderacademy.com

Richardson I.A.N.T. Quranic Academy 840 Abrams Road myiqa.org

Richardson North Dallas Adventist Academy 2800 Custer Parkway ndaacademy.org

Richardson Saint Paul Catholic Classical School 720 S. Floyd Road spsdfw.org

Richardson St. Joseph Catholic School 600 S. Jupiter Road sjcstx.net

Roanoke E.A. Young Academy 608 Henrietta Creek Road eayoungacademy.com

Rockwall Heritage Christian Academy 1408 S. Goliad St. hcarockwall.org

Southlake Fusion Academy, Southlake 301 State St., Suite 200 fusionacademy.com/campuses/southlake/?crnt=southlake

Southlake Clariden School, The 100 Clariden Ranch Road theclaridenschool.org

The Colony Lakeside Montessori Academy 4995 Westport Drive dfwmontessorischool.com

Willow Park Trinity Christian Academy, Willow Park 4954 E. I-20 Service Road South tcaeagles.org

Wylie Wylie Preparatory Academy 4110 Skyview Court wylieprep.com

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PROFILE School

Are you looking for a school that’s as passionate about your child’s education as you are?

Get to know the institutions that excel in fostering a lifelong love of learning.

All Saints’ Episcopal School

All Saints’ Episcopal School is a leading college preparatory school in Fort Worth, serving students Age 3–Grade 12. As an Episcopal school, we believe in educating the whole person by developing discerning minds, healthy bodies, and lively spirits. All Saints’ 147-acre campus includes open space to grow and explore, as well as exceptional facilities like a state-of-the-art student Union, beautiful Chapel, and two maker spaces: Exploratorium and Tinkertorium.

At All Saints’, we pursue content mastery alongside character development. Our curriculum is continually evaluated to focus on the development and mastery of the values we believe contribute to the most successful graduate and human, which we refer to as Portrait of a Saint. Our seven Portrait of a Saint values are Guided by Integrity, Creative Problem Solver, Committed to Personal Growth, Empathetic Global Citizen, Faithful Community Member, Effective Communicator, and Valuable Collaborator. These values are built in the classroom, in Chapel, through service learning, Advisory and in SEL lessons. Our faculty are evaluated on these same values to ensure they are growing and modeling what we teach. See for yourself how our educational model blends the best of tradition and innovation by connecting with a member of our Admission team! Learn more and connect here: aseschool.org/dfwchild.

9700 Saints Circle, Fort Worth, TX 76108 817-560-5700 admission@aseschool.org aseschool.org/dfwchild

BASIS Texas Charter Schools

2025–26 open enrollment for BASIS Texas Charter Schools is happening now!

BASIS Texas Charter Schools is ranked the #1 school district in Texas. We offer a worldclass, tuition-free education, and the only school uniform we require is individuality and a desire to achieve!

We understand that choosing the right school for your child is a crucial decision. With a proven track record of 26 years and with BASIS Texas Charter Schools ranked the #1 school district in Texas, we create an environment where students thrive academically and personally.

2024 U.S. News & World Report Rankings:

• #1 School in the Country*

• 4 of the Top 10 STEM Schools in the U.S.

• 6 of the Top 10 Charter Schools in the U.S.

• 11 of the Top High Schools in the U.S.

*BASIS Peoria

BASIS Benbrook 8901 Vista Way Benbrook, TX 76126 817-662-7080

BASIS Plano

Opens: 2025–26 school year 4501 Hedgcoxe Rd. Plano, TX 75024 469-750-0046

BASIS Richardson

Opens: 2025–26 school year 2200 N. Greenville Ave. Richardson, TX 75082 469 998-0055

The Oakridge School

At The Oakridge School, we’re dedicated to empowering preschool through grade 12 students with the knowledge, skills, and character they need to thrive. Our dynamic learning environment, guided by passionate educators, fosters curiosity, creativity and resilience. Students engage in hands-on learning, from STEAM activities and music in early childhood through rigorous academic challenges in upper school, which prepare them for college and life.

Oakridge’s 100-acre campus fosters a sense of belonging and growth. From vibrant classrooms to beautiful gardens and national wetlands, students experience a nurturing environment where learning extends beyond the classroom.

We invite you to explore our community at one of our upcoming Experience Oakridge Live events. Come discover how Oakridge supports each child’s character, creativity, independence and growth.

Upcoming Visit Days

Saturday, January 25, 2025 • 9–11am

Wednesday, January 29, 2025 • 9–11am Saturday, February 22, 2025 • 9–11am

See firsthand how Oakridge is a place where students don’t just learn—they thrive. Visit our website to learn more or to schedule a tour.

Discover Oakridge: Where every child’s potential meets boundless possibility!

5900 West Pioneer Parkway Arlington, Texas 76013

enrollBASISTX.com

Parish Episcopal School

An inclusive Episcopal community, Parish Episcopal School focuses not only on educating children but building a child’s character through Wisdom, Honor and Service, and embracing families through partnership and fellowship.

Parish is devoted to helping students find balance and joy in their educational journey, discover their authentic self through meaningful, engaged learning and grow in Wisdom, Honor and Service. From programs unique to Parish in leadership, STEM, global studies and more, to specialized and individualized social/emotional and academic support ensuring students’ needs are met, to premier athletics and arts, the possibilities are infinite at Parish!

“Beyond the many great qualities of a college-preparatory experience at Parish, what is most evident to me is Parish’s commitment to the tenets of Wisdom, Honor and Service,” said Dr. Matthew “Matt” J. Rush, Parish’s Allen Meyer Family Head of School. “Woven into the School’s fabric, these tenets are the place from where student growth starts. They are a centerpiece to a foundational base that serves as the answer to the question ‘Why does Parish exist?’ In concert with our Mission and Episcopal Identity, Parish faculty and staff strive to model these tenets, and aspire to help students become young people of impact through Wisdom, Honor and Service.”

To learn more about Parish (PreK–12th grade) and the possibilities that await your family, visit parish.org/admission. Applications due January 10, 2025.

972-852-8737 parish.org

Hillcrest Campus

PreK (3 yrs old)–2nd Grade 14115 Hillcrest Road Dallas, Texas 75254

Midway Campus 3rd–12th Grade 4101 Sigma Road Dallas, Texas 75244

Preston Hollow Presbyterian School

Exciting news—we’re moving to a new campus!

Starting in the 2025–2026 school year, Preston Hollow Presbyterian School will move to our new home at 4000 McEwen Rd., Dallas 75244. As we enter this exciting new chapter, we remain dedicated to fostering a community where curiosity, compassion, and lifelong learning thrive. Our new space will allow us to further our mission of supporting students with learning differences while continuing our tradition of academic excellence and character development.

For over 60 years, Preston Hollow Presbyterian School has been dedicated to educating children of average to superior intelligence with mild to moderate learning differences in grades K–6th. We are committed to facilitating our students’ return to a mainstream learning environment.

The types of learning differences served by our school include reading disorder (dyslexia), auditory processing disorder, oral language disorder, written language disorder, and mathematical disability.

Est. 1962 I Proud Legacy, Bright Future.

9800 Preston Rd. Dallas, TX 75230

214-368-3886 phps.org

Prince of Peace Christian School & Early Learning Center

Prince of Peace Christian School & Early Learning Center serves engaged families with children from ages 6 weeks through Grade 12, who want an excellent educational experience in a diverse and caring environment. Our award-winning private school cultivates Christ-like character as we deliver academic excellence and inspire individual passions in students. At Prince of Peace, each child has the opportunity to courageously explore, develop and apply the gifts God has given them.

Students at POPCS are WELCOMED to explore their interests and aptitudes in academics, athletics, arts, leadership and spirituality in our warm Christian community. Students are KNOWN and supported by faculty and staff who are dedicated to each child’s individual success. POPCS offers countless opportunities for students to be CONNECTED through extracurricular offerings, service projects, leadership roles or in the classroom. At POPCS students are PREPARED academically through a robust curriculum plan that allows students to follow a path from preschool through high school that meets their own individual needs and goals.

POPCS boasts a beautiful 27-acre campus that includes exceptional spaces, such as our state-of-the-art SmartLab facilities, Fine Arts Center, Eagle Stadium, Athletic Performance Center, and Dining Hall, to name a few highlights.

Visit our campus and learn more about what makes POPCS so special!

4004 Midway Road, Carrollton, TX 75007 972-447-0532 admissions@popcs.org popcs.org

School of Science and Engineering at Yvonne A. Ewell Townview Center

Ranked as one of the top high schools in Texas by U.S. News & World Report , the School of Science and Engineering at Yvonne A. Ewell Townview Center is leading the way in STEM education. From day one, students dive into rigorous Advanced Placement courses, exploring advanced concepts in math, science and technology.

With dual-enrollment opportunities at local universities, students can earn college credit while building the skills needed for future careers in STEM fields. Our graduates are equipped to lead in science and engineering, with a strong foundation in critical thinking and innovation.

Applications for this premier school are now open. Apply by Jan. 31 at DallasISD.org/Discover 1201 E. Eighth St., Dallas, TX 75203 972-925-5960 semagnet.dallasisd.org

Shelton School & Evaluation Center

Since 1976, people have recognized Shelton as the premier school and resource center for intelligent children who have a learning difference. It is the largest independent school worldwide for students with learning differences. Shelton empowers students through a customized approach within a mainstream environment. We work with the student and the

• Individualized action plans for intervention

• A curriculum that emphasizes academics and self-esteem

• A social skills curriculum that spans all grade levels

• A division-specific organizational and study skills program

Shelton focuses on the student. In fact, we like to say that “we teach students, not subjects.” Our teachers are highly trained with specific expertise and experience in teaching students with learning differences. Of the 282 faculty and staff, more than half hold advanced degrees. Shelton is also a national training center for educators, parents, physicians and psychologists. Shelton’s business entities include an evaluation center, a speech/language center and an

The new campus provides unparalleled academic and extracurricular opportunities for every student. Shelton students are changing the way the world thinks about learning differences. Shelton School is accredited by Independent Schools Association of the Southwest (ISAS).

Grades: Early Childhood–12 17301 Preston Road, Dallas TX 75252 972-774-1772 • shelton.org

Fort Worth Academy

Fort Worth Academy is an academically advanced, project-based learning school focused on empowering young people to become the innovators and problem solvers of tomorrow. Through PBL, STEAM, and other real-world experiences, students expand their social-emotional skills, lead with empathy, think critically, and collaborate effectively in a diverse environment. With over 24 high-interest electives, creative fine arts, robust athletics, and one of the lowest student-to-teacher ratios in the DFW area, FWA ensures personalized attention for

each student ‘s gifts and talents to thrive. Head of School Shannon Elders explains, “We love to see students arrive curious and leave inspired.”

7301 Dutch Branch Rd., Fort Worth, TX 76132 817-370-1191 • admissions@fwacademy.org fwacademy.org

Grace Academy of Dallas

Grace Academy of Dallas is “Christ-Centered and Future-Focused.” Grace Academy is located in the heart of Preston Hollow and serves students in Pre-K3 through the sixth grade. We proudly partner with families to meet both the educational and spiritual needs of each child and offer a unique balance of an academically rigorous curriculum within a nurturing, Christian environment. Students are encouraged to maintain a balance of academic, spiritual, social, athletic, and artistic pursuits and to discover new gifts and talents.

Join Grace Academy for a campus tour and discover how your child can “grow with grace!”

11306A Inwood Road Dallas, TX 75229 214-696-5648 graceacademy.com

The Lamplighter School

The Lamplighter School embraces and celebrates the natural curiosity and exuberance with which young children explore their world. Our Pre-K through fourth grade program promotes academic excellence; engages children in the joy of learning; embraces diversity within an inclusive community; encourages creativity and discovery through hands-on learning including woodworking, drama, cooking, and entrepreneurial programs; and connects students with nature through our campus gardens, creek, and barn animals.

LEARN MORE 11611 Inwood Road

Dallas, TX 75229 thelamplighterschool.org

Lumin Lindsley Park Community School

Imagine a place where love and learning are one. A place where children’s minds and imaginations flourish in a nurturing environment where highly-trained educators inspire a lifelong love of learning in every child, setting them up for success today, tomorrow, and years down the road.

Lumin children, families, and educators are Luminauts: Explorers. Educators. Nurturers. Trailblazers. Luminauts are kind, loving, and respectful of themselves and others.

We serve ages 18 months through third grade. Tour our Montessori community today!

7130 Lindsley Ave., Dallas, TX 75223 214-824-8950

admissions@lumineducation.org lumineducation.org

Primrose Schools

Rigley Primrose Schools® is a national accredited private preschool that is committed to delivering a high-quality early learning experience to meet the needs of children and families.

Health and Safety: Primrose schools provide high standards of safety and cleanliness while maintaining a caring and nurturing environment where children can thrive.

Active Minds: Our Balanced Learning® approach provides hands-on learning and teacher guided lessons that help children develop natural curiosity, confidence, and build cognitive skills.

Healthy Bodies: Helping young children develop healthy habits takes time and consistency that are woven into classroom experiences every day through Physical Development and our Balanced Menus.

Happy Hearts: We believe who children become is as important as what they know. Our Happy Hearts Character Development, Music, and Life Skills programs teach the importance of values of belongingness.

We look forward to connecting with you at our Rigley Primrose Schools!

Primrose School of Prestonwood

Primrose School of Frisco West

Primrose School of Klyde Warren Park

Primrose School of Dallas at Kessler Park

Primrose School of Park Cities

Primrose School of Plano at Preston Meadow primroseschools.com

Hill School of Fort Worth

At Hill School, we create a supportive environment where students with learning differences can thrive socially, emotionally, and academically—unlocking their full potential. Our programs are tailored to meet the unique needs of students with ADHD, dyslexia, dysgraphia and a variety of other learning differences.

With rolling admissions, your child can start their journey at any point during the year. Schedule a tour today to learn how your child can find their

place and how Hill School can help make a lasting difference in your child’s education!

4817 Odessa Ave., Fort Worth, TX 76133

817-923-9482 • hillschool@hillschool.org

Admission’s Director: aolson@hillschool.org hillschool.org/enrollment

Jane Justin School

Jane Justin School provides state-of-the-art, evidence-based special education to children, adolescents, and young adults with learning and developmental disabilities. Our mission is to foster the knowledge and life skills necessary for our students to achieve productive and meaningful lives while respecting and embracing the individuality of each child.

We know that finding the right school for children with learning differences can be overwhelming.

We invite you to give us a call so we may help you navigate this difficult road and help your child get on the path to meeting his or her full potential.

1300 West Lancaster Ave., Fort Worth, TX 76102

Tiffany Bronner, Admissions Coordinator 682-303-9356 • childstudycenter.org

Key School and Training Center

Key School and Training Center celebrates the unique learning paths for students in grades K–12 with learning differences. Since 1966, our innovative programs have unlocked learning success through academic language therapy, low student-toteacher ratio and student advocacy. We offer open enrollment year-round, in addition to our Summer Program, to assist students in the community who need additional reinforcement and enrichment of academic skills. Where Education Goes Beyond One ksfw.org

7950 John T. White Road Fort Worth, TX 76120 817-446-3738 • ksfw.org

Montessori Children’s House and School

Montessori Children’s House and School (MCHS) provides authentic AMI-Montessori education for children 3 to 6 years of age when children are naturally enabled with the capacity to make substantial leaps in their academic, cognitive, and social development.

Discover how our Montessori environment and method can nurture your child’s curiosity, enhance their resilience, and build their confidence! Contact us today to learn more about our program

and tour our beautiful campus on a 3½-acre wooded expanse in northeast Dallas, Lake Highlands!

Mark your calendar for Montessori Information Night, January 30, 6–7:30pm Scan the QR code to sign up!

7335 Abrams Rd., Dallas, TX 75231 214-348-6276 • mchsdallas.org

The Novus Academy

The Novus Academy is a K–12 school serving children with unique learning challenges. We offer low student-to-teacher ratio in a creative, supportive and inspirational school environment. Students come to Novus when they are struggling to find success in a traditional school setting. Our students may have learning differences such as dyslexia, ADHD, autism spectrum disorder or may just need a place where they can grow, thrive and be accepted for who they are. Embark on a journey of empowerment and growth through

our individual approach to whole child education today and visit www.TheNovusAcademy.org.

3400 William D. Tate Ave. #1000, Grapevine, TX 76051 817-488-4555 www.TheNovusAcademy.org

Our Redeemer Lutheran School

Discover the difference at Our Redeemer Lutheran School, where strong foundations meet inspiring opportunities. Our STEM Lab and Outdoor Learning Center empower students with hands-on experiences, sparking curiosity and critical thinking. Enrichment programs, from the arts to athletics, cultivate unique talents, while our daily religion lessons and weekly chapel reinforce values and a sense of community. We’ve been educating students in North Dallas since 1961. Now enrolling 1-year-olds through 6th grade.

Schedule a tour today to see how our dedicated teachers and vibrant campus can help your child thrive academically, spiritually and socially.

7611 Park Lane, Dallas, TX 75225 214-368-1465 • info@ordallas.org ORDallas.org

Scholaris Academy

Scholaris Academy is a micro-school dedicated to maximizing potential for students in grades 1–8. Our individualized approach to education provides each student with a personalized learning plan and customized goals which drive their academic pacing. The small class size and dedicated educational experience equip students to flourish socially in this environment, cultivating meaningful friendships with peers.

We believe in the importance of family time and childhood. As a result, the university model

schedule, with core classes on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays creates extra time to pursue interests outside the classroom. We invite you to learn more about Scholaris Academy.

6170 Sherry Ln., Dallas, TX 214-377-8740 • scholaris.org

St. Mark Catholic School

St. Mark Catholic School in Plano, Texas, has proudly achieved the National Blue Ribbon Award three times, highlighting its commitment to academic excellence and faith formation. Established in 1982, the school serves prekindergarten through 8th grade, fostering spiritual, intellectual and social growth in a nurturing environment. St. Mark’s dedicated staff collaborates with families to promote a culture of respect and individuality, enhancing student performance. With impressive academic scores

and a rich array of extracurricular activities, the school continues to inspire students to reach their full potential.

1201 Alma Drive, Plano, TX 75075 972-578-0610 • stmcs.net

Trinity Christian Academy

Trinity Christian Academy (TCA) in Willow Park offers a distinctive educational experience for students from PreK 3 through 12th grade. Rooted in a Christ-centered philosophy, TCA emphasizes academic excellence, character development, and servant leadership. With a college preparatory curriculum, the school boasts a 100% graduation rate and a strong focus on nurturing each child’s unique potential. Small class sizes foster meaningful relationships between students and teachers, ensuring personalized attention.

TCA also provides a vibrant community with diverse extracurricular activities, promoting not only academic growth but also spiritual and personal development in a supportive environment.

4954 E. I-20 Service Road S., Willow Park, TX 76087 817-441-5897 • tcaeagles.org

Ursuline Academy of Dallas

An Ursuline graduate is a woman of faith and reflection. She embodies Serviam by using her gifts to learn from and serve others. She appreciates multiple perspectives and celebrates the uniqueness of all, locally and globally. She encourages and exemplifies integrity and resiliency. She is a lifelong learner who engages with others ethically, critically, and empathetically. She is an independent, innovative thinker who instigates and embraces change. She strives to build a strong sense of community. Join us at

Ursuline Academy of Dallas, an all-girls Catholic college preparatory school for grades 9–12. For more information, please contact the Office of Admissions at 469-232-1800.

4900 Walnut Hill Lane, Dallas, TX 75229 469-232-1800 • www.ursulinedallas.org

Fairhill School

Students with learning differences find success at Fairhill School. For over 50 years, bright students with various learning differences have been able to overcome learning obstacles to reach their full potential. Fairhill has the feel of a traditional school while utilizing a customized approach to learning with multi-sensory instruction, small student teacher ratios, and a college preparatory curriculum.

Please register for our upcoming Admission Preview Coffee February 6, 2025 | 10–11am | https://bit.ly/3yAOKjK

16150 Preston Rd., Dallas, TX 75248 972-233-1026 • cstanford@fairhill.org • fairhill.org

Inspire Academy

At Inspire Academy, we work to create a safe place to learn. Our instructors work with students of all abilities, providing both group and individualized attention that students with Learning Differences need. We focus on outside-the-box, multi-sensory techniques. Through our supportive community and unique instruction, students are able to reduce their anxiety and not only learn to be themselves but how to learn effectively.

55 Main St. #293, Colleyville, TX 76034 817-803-5010 inspireacademytx.com

St. John’s Episcopal School

At St. John’s, students are not only taught to embrace and celebrate learning as a joyous, lifelong pursuit but to confidently apply what they know across all aspects of their lives. As the first Episcopal school in Dallas established in 1953, we are dedicated to a program of academic excellence designed to train the mind, strengthen the character, and enrich the spirit of each student in a Christian environment. Located in East Dallas near White Rock Lake, our campus is

designed to foster dynamic learning, encourage academic excellence, and spur collaboration and community.

848 Harter Road Dallas, TX 75218 214-328-9131 stjohnsschool.org

Carla Stanford, M.Ed Executive Director

Dr. Dana Judd, M Ed., CALT, DLTx Head of School

special needs.

AS A PARENT, you naturally want the best of everything for your child—the best childcare, the best school, the best doctors. But when your child has a special needs diagnosis that requires numerous doctors, specialists and therapists, finding the best ones that align with your values can feel like an extremely daunting task—especially right after receiving that diagnosis.

Before digging into finding your child’s care team, Heisha Freeman, founder of the Special Needs Parents of North Texas Facebook group, suggests taking some time to absorb everything, as long as your child doesn’t need immediate medical treatment. Take a beat to feel all your feelings, digest the diagnosis and what it means for your child and family, and even have a mini mourning period for the parenting experience and life for your child that you envisioned.

Now it’s time to tackle the search for your child’s providers. Here’s where to start and how to ensure the providers are the best fit for your child and family.

UTILIZE YOUR NETWORK

First, determine whether you’re going through insurance or private pay, recommends Courtney Willis, a DFWChild Mom-Approved speech and language pathologist who is founder, CEO and clinical director of Speech Wings Therapy in Dallas. If you’re going through insurance, check whether your child can see out-of-network providers or if you’re limited to innetwork providers only. Does your child have Medicaid? Reach out to their case worker or managed care organization and ask which providers they’re hearing great things about.

WORDS KATELIN WALLING

From there, talk to your community. The best referrals are going to come from someone

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office have with my child’s specific diagnosis?

• How do you help children with special needs feel comfortable?

• As my child gets older, how do you envision being able to support us?

• Do you have well and sick areas in your waiting room?

• How long have you been practicing?

• What ongoing education do you participate in regarding my child’s diagnosis?

• Do you have any plans to make changes to the office?

• How soon are you planning to retire?

ALL? TRUST YOUR

who has been where you are, says Dr. Sara Feldman, a DFWChild Mom-Approved board-certified behavior analyst and licensed behavior analyst who owns The Helm ABA, with locations across Dallas-Fort Worth. So find your parent community—join in-person and online support groups, talk to friends or friends of friends, search for local and national associations and nonprofits specific to your child’s diagnosis—and ask about their recommendations, insights and experiences.

Don’t forget to check with your child’s pediatrician, if you have a great one that you’re going to stay with. They’re going to know which colleagues their other patients who have kiddos with special needs like, says Lisa Roberts, a DFW area mom whose son, Luke, has autism.

Another tip to suss out if a provider is right for your child? Freeman, whose adult son Austin has autism, suggests reading online reviews, but don’t look for just the good or bad. Look for comments of the same kind. “If tons of people are saying it’s a twohour wait to see the doctor, I have to decide, can I do that? Do I want to do that or do I need to find someone who doesn’t double and triple book appointments?”

VET POTENTIAL PROVIDERS

If you’re looking for a new medical provider or you’re evaluating a therapist or specialist, request an appointment to have a conversation with them. Ask them questions like:

• What is your care philosophy?

• Are you open to Eastern and Western medicine?

• What experience do you/does your

• Is the office willing to be flexible in procedures (like if your child needs to wait in the car or a separate room because of sensory overwhelm until a treatment room is available)?

• How do you individualize therapy/ treatment to fit my child’s strengths and needs?

• How do you involve families in the process/what does my involvement (in session and at home) look like?

• How do you measure my child’s progress?

• What strategies do you use with kids who struggle with traditional methods?

• How often can/will we communicate—about my child’s progress, any concerns I may have, etc.?

When having these conversations, Roberts stresses not sugarcoating your child’s diagnosis, challenges and behaviors. You want to make sure the provider is the right fit to give your child the support they need, and the best way to determine that is through open and honest communication.

TRUST YOUR GUT

After speaking with potential providers and visiting their offices, review their answers to your questions and reflect on your experience. Did you feel heard and understood? Did the provider seem transparent about the process or did it feel murky? Did you understand when they were explaining things? How did you feel in the office space? Did you feel comfortable asking questions? How comfortable did you feel about their answers?

Above all? Trust your gut. It’s the No. 1 piece of advice from both moms and providers. “While the medical professionals may know what’s in medical books and diagnoses and medications and all of that, you know your child better than anyone,” Freeman says. “Don’t let anyone override your knowledge of your child and what your child needs.”

Speech Hearing & CENTER

WORDS ELIZABETH SMITH

➽ ABOVE: Thanks to adaptive equipment, every kid can strap in and scale up this

during the Abilities Expo.

TO NEW HEIGHTS

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Sensory-friendly & fun places to go this winter

THE TRAINS AT NORTHPARK

Through January 5

NORTHPARK CENTER, DALLAS

While finishing up your Christmas shopping at NorthPark, stop by to see this classic mini train exhibit. Now, choo choo trains are known for their loud horns, but not here—at least during the new Sensory-Friendly Hours. From 6–8pm on Wednesdays and noon–2pm on Sundays, the lights go down and the simulated train sounds are clicked off. (This setup has been given the all-clear from the team at Callier Center for Communication Disorders.) Plus, this year the exhibit has moved to an even larger space, so your kids will have more room to run around and see it from every angle. $12 adults; $7 children; under 2 free. Proceeds benefit the Ronald McDonald House of Dallas. 214/6317354; trainsatnorthpark.com

PHOTOS WITH SANTA

December 6–7

AUTISM TREATMENT CENTER, FORT WORTH & DALLAS

No matter whether your child already seeks treatment at one of these centers, all on the spectrum and their families are welcome here to say hello to Santa. Sign up online for your preferred location and date: Fort Worth on Friday, December 6 from 4–7pm, or the next day in Dallas from 11am–1pm. At these holiday parties, the kids will also be treated to games and activities and to goody bags to take home. Admission is FREE 817/566-1100, 469/872-7720; atcoftexas.org/santa

ABILITIES EXPO

December 6–8

DALLAS MARKET HALL

This annual expo showcases the latest and greatest in adaptive technologies and offers free informative workshops for caregiv-

up, and even encourage dancing in the aisles during these 11am showtimes on select Saturdays. Check out the website as more movies and dates are announced throughout the year. These are all dine-in movie theaters too, so you can order from the kids’ menu. FREE 469/405-8529; studiomoviegrill.com

CARING SANTA

December 8

MULTIPLE LOCATIONS

Santa’s a very busy man this time of year, but he’d love to take the time to give a warm holiday greeting to your child on this Sunday morning. Come see him before the doors open to the public at several area shopping centers: Grapevine Mills, Irving Mall, Firewheel Town Center in Garland, North East Mall in Hurst, and the Shops at Willow Bend in Plano. Register online for your preferred location and time slot. Walkups are available too. Pricing varies. santacares.whereissanta.com

SENSORY-FRIENDLY FILMS

December 11 & 14

AMC THEATRES,

MULTIPLE LOCATIONS

ers—but it’s also full of free fun and activities for kids.

Go online to check out the full schedule, but some of the highlights are kids class by Ayita Wheelchair Dance and a dance workshop by Jasmine’s Beat. Come Saturday morning to cheer on the contestants in the Ms. Wheelchair Texas Competition. Plus, that adaptive climbing wall? It’s back again this year and will be open all weekend. FREE abilities.com/dallas

SPECIAL NEEDS SCREENINGS

December 7 & 14

STUDIO MOVIE GRILL, MULTIPLE LOCATIONS

Wicked and Moana 2 (both rated PG) are powerhouse movies to hit theaters recently, and you can see them both in comfort during these special screenings at all SMG theaters, which in North Texas include Arlington, Dallas, Fort Worth, Plano and The Colony. They all turn down the volume, leave the house lights

In partnership with the Autism Society of America, AMC is another big cinema chain that has heard the call and caters to families who would benefit from better accommodations. Expect the lights and sound at a more comfortable level for movie-goers of any age. You can generally expect to see familyfriendly shows on the second and fourth Saturdays and more mature films on Wednesdays, but check the lineup at your nearest theater (AMC has a dozen locations in DFW). Coming up next is Wicked on December 11 and Moana 2 on December 14. Pricing varies. amctheatres.com

DSPNT HOLIDAY PARTY

December 14

DOWN SYNDROME PARTNERSHIP OF NORTH TEXAS, FORT WORTH

What’s the holidays without hot cocoa and cookies? Come savor both and the joys of the season at this family party with fellow families of kids with Down syndrome. Sign up online to join and partake in cookie decorating, crafts and photos with Santa—all on a Saturday afternoon at the DSPNT offices. FREE 682/316-3121; dspnt.org

DINOSAURS QUIET

DECEMBER 14, JANUARY 11 & FEBRUARY 8

HEARD NATURAL SCIENCE MUSEUM & WILDLIFE SANCTUARY, MCKINNEY The dozen or so animatronic dinosaurs—here on display along

rock climbing wall, by climbing legend Mark Wellman,

the sanctuary’s nature trail through February 17—were made to look and move and sound like real dinosaurs. But these elements can also make them seem a bit too real for kids with sensory sensitivities. So they’ll be still and silent on these select Saturdays from 8–9am. And the dinos are only part of what there is to see here. You can spend the whole day exploring the indoor museum (the GeoGlobe is a hit) and visiting the Heard’s resident ambassador animals. Included in general admission: $15 adults; $11 children; under 3 free. Free for Heard members. 972/562-5566; heardmuseum. org/dinosaurs-live

SENSORY SUNDAYS

December 15

CHISHOLM CHALLENGE

January 13–15

WILL ROGERS COLISEUM, FORT WORTH

A few days before the Fort Worth Stock Show & Rodeo (January 17–February 8) kicks off, hundreds of equestrians with disabilities from therapeutic riding centers around the state will get their first shot at their own blue ribbons. Come cheer them on as they lead and ride on their horses, then take part in some of the fun yourself by joining riders and coaches for the dance party on the 14th. That’ll go down from 6–8pm in the coliseum atrium. FREE 817/877-2420; chisholmchallenge.com

SENSORY-FRIENDLY DAY

January 25

FRONTIERS OF FLIGHT MUSEUM, DALLAS

CRAYOLA EXPERIENCE PLANO

For your kids who love crayons and Christmas, pencil in this Sunday funday (and every third Sunday of the month, too). Under low lights and with no music, they’ll enjoy a calmer but enriching playtime at the different craft stations, like the Activity Studio. Lots of the crafts are themed after a “Colorful Christmas” through the early new year, with new themes to come after. All included with general admission, which is cheaper if you buy online: $26.99; under 3 free. 469/642-2901; crayolaexperience.com/plano

DALLAS ZOO LIGHTS

December 16

DALLAS ZOO

With the massive crowds expected for the zoo’s annual Christmas lights exhibit—and, of course, the lights themselves—this exhibit can be sensory overload, but thankfully the Dallas Zoo has set aside this Monday evening for its Sensory Friendly Night. There will be smaller crowds, and they’ll have lowered sound while you explore the animal lanterns. Sensory activities will be available through 8:30pm, but best of all, Santa will still be there to hear your kids’ Christmas wishes. Be sure to get your tickets online. $19 adults; $15 children; under 3 free. Add-ons are available for gift packages with cocoa and for a virtual reality show starring Santa’s elves. 469/554-7501; dallaszoo.com

THE NUTCRACKER

December 21

MOODY PERFORMANCE HALL, DALLAS Ballet North Texas makes it possible for your whole family to enjoy this most popular ballet during the most magical season of the year. During this sensory-friendly performance, guests are welcome to use any electronic devices they please and to talk, move or dance themselves during the show. They’ll have the house lights up too so you’ll be able to see better. Tickets from $20. Does your kid love the ballet? Book your tickets now for a similar Don Quixote performance in the spring. 214/871-5000; balletnorthtexas.org

A moon rock, Captain America’s uniform, the capsule from the historic Apollo VII mission—these are just some of the items and aircraft on display here at this aviation and space flight museum at the Dallas Love Field airport. To help kids on the autism spectrum take it all in, come visit during this third annual Sensory Day, a Saturday morning when they can explore in quiet and enjoy other additional resources. Register online in advance. 214/350-3600; flightmuseum.com

PETE THE CAT

February 1

DALLAS CHILDREN’S THEATER

This blue cat has got some great ideas. In this live musical, he helps his human Jimmy come up with a groovy art project for his second grade class. Also a great idea? DCT’s sensoryfriendly show (on February 1) when they’ll lower the volume and open up a quiet room if your child needs to step out, and DCT’s American Sign Language-interpreted show on February 2. Look online for social stories and a parents’ tip sheet. Plus, tickets for the sensory show are only $5. 214/740-0051; dct.org

NIGHT TO SHINE

February 7

MULTIPLE LOCATIONS

One week before Valentine’s Day, many thousands of teens and young adults with disabilities all over the world—and here in DFW—will be getting dressed up and feeling the love. Through the Tim Tebow Foundation, more than a dozen local churches open their doors to host this prom experience, with red carpet and all. You only need to be 14 or older to participate. Go online to find a host church nearest you and reach out directly to register as either an honored guest, a buddy or volunteer. FREE timtebowfoundation.org/night-to-shine

CHARLIE & THE CHOCOLATE FACTORY

February 9

CASA MAÑANA, FORT WORTH

Expect softer lighting and sound during a sensory-friendly performance of Roald Dahl’s original story on stage. This condensed musical for kids runs only 1.5 hours and has an intermission (so you can get up and get your wiggles out). A quiet room will be open, too, in case you need to step out of the theater. Tickets from $19. 817/332-2272; casamanana.org

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THE NUTCRACKER

Through December 8

WINSPEAR OPERA HOUSE, DALLAS

December 13–29

BASS PERFORMANCE HALL, FORT WORTH

DFW’s premier professional ballet company, Texas Ballet Theater, stages this annual production. If you’re coming to a matinee, show up an hour early to meet a real ballerina and see their gorgeous tutus up-close. This is a fancy show, so you’re welcome

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to dress up, but if you’re coming on December 5 or 19, feel free to dress down and wear an ugly Christmas sweater for a shot at winning the ugly sweater contests on those nights. Tickets from $25. 877/828-9200; texasballettheater.org

A CHARLIE BROWN CHRISTMAS Through December 22

DALLAS CHILDREN’S THEATER

An oldie but a goodie, this

sweet show starring the Peanuts gang and Snoopy is back on stage. See the show on weekends leading up to Christmas week. Want more DCT? Book your seats for Pete the Cat, opening January 25. Tickets from $20. 214/740-0051; dct.org

A CHRISTMAS CAROL Through December 28

WYLY THEATRE, DALLAS

If you’re prepared to hear your kids say, “Bah humbug,”

on repeat through the New Year (in my opinion, a much cuter alternative to their typical “no”), then don’t miss Dallas Theater Center’s staging of this classic story of how mean ol’ Scrooge was scared straight. Now, this is technically a ghost story, with special effects like haze and strobe lights, so they recommend this for ages 6 and up. Tickets from $25. 214/5228499; dallastheatercenter.org

DALLAS ZOO LIGHTS

Through January 4

DALLAS ZOO

Glowing silk lanterns in the shape of all sorts of animals—including dinosaurs in Dino Lumina: A Jurassic Adventure—light up much of the zoo during these nightly open hours. Reserve your timed admission and come say hello to Santa too. Tickets from $16; under 3 free. Add-ons are available for gift pack-

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Lights Festival through January 19.

ages with cocoa and for a virtual reality show starring Santa’s elves. 469/5547501; dallaszoo.com

THE LIGHT PARK

Through January 5

RIDERS FIELD, FRISCO

HURRICANE HARBOR, ARLINGTON

This drive-thru lights show at two locations is giving “Griswold family Christmas” on the go. To make all the lights shine even brighter, order a snack package to pick up on-site with items including 3D glasses. Tickets from $29 per vehicle. thelightpark.com

LIGHTSCAPE

Through January 5

FORT WORTH

BOTANIC GARDEN

These gardens are getting the holiday treatment. Come after dark to see them lit up with everything from oversized and illuminated flowers, to giant cowboy nutcrackers and a water fountain show. Santa will be there on select nights too. Pricing from $12. 817/463-4160; fwbg.org/ lightscape

ICE!

Through January 5

GAYLORD TEXAN, GRAPEVINE

Tickets are sold separately for the ice slides, carousel, and photos with Santa, but pricing varies by activity. 817/778-1000; christmasatgaylordtexan.com

HOLIDAY AT THE ARBORETUM

Through January 5

DALLAS ARBORETUM

This is one of the few times a year you can come to the Arboretum after dark, and it’s well worth the evening outing to see it lit up in a blaze of Christmas glory. The arboretum is bringing back its enormous German Christmas Pyramid in the cute-as-can-be German village, and the 12 Days of Christmas gazebos. You can see Santa through Christmas Eve. Tickets from $13; under 2 free. 214/515-6615; dallasarboretum.org

TIANYU LIGHTS FESTIVAL

Through January 19

TEXAS TRUST CU THEATRE, GRAND PRAIRIE

CHARLIE & THE CHOCOLATE FACTORY

Opens January 31

CASA MAÑANA, FORT WORTH

This is Roald Dahl’s original story of how Charlie Bucket wins it big with a Golden Ticket, and then how he really hits the jackpot. And thankfully, this isn’t a full-length musical. It’s condensed to 1 hour and 30 minutes, including intermission, so it’s easier for little kids to enjoy. Tickets from $19. 817/332-2272; casamanana.org

BUG SQUAD

Through February 8

RIVER LEGACY NATURE CENTER, ARLINGTON

Hey, bugs are superheroes too! (When you think about all their super abilities, it makes sense.) Here in River Legacy’s Discovery Room, your kids will get to talk to animatronic bugs, jump like a grasshopper on a trampoline, and join more superhero fun through different play areas. $10 adults; $7 children; under 3 free. 817/860-6752; riverlegacy.org

MERRY & BRIGHT DRONE SHOW

DALLAS HOLIDAY PARADE

December 7

DOWNTOWN DALLAS

Got a kid who’s gaga for balloons? Wait until they see these mega-sized holiday characters in balloon form floating heading down Downtown’s Commerce Street—not to mention the marching bands and dancers galore and other entries in this 36th annual parade. Don’t want to stand for hours on the sidewalk? Get a seat and the best view of the floats by reserving bleacher seats, which start at $30. Kids 2 and younger are free if they sit on your lap. dallasholidayparade.com

FAMILY CHRISTMAS POPS

December 7 & 14

MEYERSON SYMPHONY CENTER, DALLAS

Before this kid-focused concert starring the Dallas Symphony Children’s Chorus, come early to the lobby to let your kids join the instrument petting zoo—a chance for them to hold and play the exact instruments the professionals use to play the Christmas songs you know and love. The pre-show fun also includes crafts and photos with Santa. Tickets from $35. 214/849-4376; dallassymphony.org

FROZEN IN CONCERT

December 13–14

WILL ROGERS AUDITORIUM, FORT WORTH

Remember when Olaf (the magic snowman) sang his wishful ballad “In Summer”? Relive all the funny moments when the Fort Worth Symphony Orchestra screens from the original Frozen movie on the big screen and performs the score live on stage. Tickets from $46. 817/665-6000; fwsymphony.org

live band playing drums and guitar. Tickets from $32.50 for 2 and older. Like this venue? Get your tickets now for The Wiggles coming in June. 817/272-9595; utatickets.com

POLAR PAJAMA PARTIES

December 14 & 21

FORT WORTH MUSEUM OF SCIENCE & HISTORY

After several years, the museum is bringing back these holiday parties for kids. Dress them up in their PJs and come enjoy Christmas activities. Just be sure to go online to get your tickets in advance. See website for ticket pricing. And while you’re there, be sure to allot time to play in the Wild Kratts: Creature Power exhibit (open through January 5). 817/255-9300; fwmuseum.org

TEA WITH SUGAR PLUM FAIRY

December 15

OAK POINT PARK & NATURE CENTER, PLANO

A week after Allen Civic Ballet stages its own Nutcracker performances, you can meet the Sugar Plum Fairy in person by joining this special tea with lemonade and treats. Costumed characters from the ballet, like the Snow Queen and Clara, visit each table, while Mother Ginger retells The Nutcracker story. $28. 972/727-5959; allencivicballet.org

ZOO YEAR’S EVE

December 31

FORT WORTH ZOO

Follow your GPS to the Gaylord for a walk through this massive ice exhibit of Christmas scenes from Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer carved from colorful ice blocks. It’s as cool as it is literally freezing—and that’s just the start of the resort’s festivities.

Chinese lantern festivals are back. This lighted exhibit, open after dark, recreates a magical rainforest of animals. Take a walk through the nearly 20 scenes of lanterns, created from metal and LED lights wrapped in colorful fabric, plus acrobatic performances. They’ll have plenty of room to run around in the interactive playground for kids. Tickets from $16. 888/484-2698; tianyuculture.us

December 2 & 9

GRAPEVINE MAIN STATION

No, it’s not a shooting star but a fleet of 400 drones. Gather in the plaza to watch the show for free, or for an even better view, from the Grapevine Observation Tower 12 stories up. $25. It’ll be a short show, so stay afterward to ice-skate the Peace Plaza rink, open through January 7. $20. 817/410-3185; christmascapitaloftexas.com

BLIPPI: JOIN THE BAND TOUR

December 14

TEXAS HALL AT UT ARLINGTON

You may have heard that the Blippi-verse is expanding (with a third Blippi actor in a new TV show). So, whoever wears the orange suspenders in this live show, we hope you’ll welcome them with open arms. Meekah will co-star in this new musical with a

Kids ages 6 to 12 can enjoy this special overnight at the zoo, starting at 6pm on NYE, through 9am on New Year’s Day. Spots will surely sell out quickly, so call to register ASAP. $100 per child (discount for members) and that includes all meals: a pizza dinner, breakfast and snacks in between. 817/759-7555; fortworthzoo.org

DAY 1 DFW

January 1

IRVING CONVENTION CENTER

Though we might rather enter hibernation on New Year’s Day, alas—our kids keep us awake. For everyone else ready to get the 2025 party started, check out this 10th annual fest benefiting Vogel Alcove, a

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local nonprofit that serves homeless children and their families. Details are still in the works, as of press time, but you can expect a whole day of kids’ activities and entertainers. $15 adults; free for kids under 18. 214/3688686; vogelalcove.org

CIRQUE ITALIA

WATER CIRCUS

January 3–6

TOWN EAST MALL, MESQUITE

January 10–13

GRAPEVINE MILLS

Think of how tough it is to perform acrobatics in the first place—and now add water. This slippery show is always more than I can wrap my brain around. See it for yourself to appreciate the artistry and strength of the mermaid aerialists, pirates and, yes, lots of cool clowns showing us how it’s done. Tickets from $15. 941/7048572; silver.cirqueitalia.com

POLAR PLUNGE

January 4

LITTLE ELM BEACH

In perhaps the craziest thing you’ll do all year (so far), dress up in your crazy costumes (over your swimsuits) and take a dip in the chilly water at Little Elm’s beach. Then warm up with hot chocolate and join the afterparty. Costume contest winners get free membership to DFW Surf. $30. 972/7313296; lakefrontlittleelm.com

FORT WORTH STOCK SHOW & RODEO

January 17–February 8

DICKIES ARENA & WILL ROGERS COLISEUM, FORT WORTH

If you spend the whole day inside the petting zoo—cuddling baby goats and chasing after ducks—it’d still be a day well spent. But there’s so much more to see throughout this nearly month-long festival. I’m most anticipating the Horses & Horsemen of the World show (watch the video previews at mustangchampions. org/horseshorsemen, just wow). General grounds admission: $15 adults; $8 children; under 6 free. Rodeo tickets sold separately. 817/8772420; fwssr.com

TEXAS RANGERS

FAN FEST

January 18

GLOBE LIFE FIELD, ARLINGTON

Your family can enter and run wild on the here on the same field where this World Serieswinning team. Expect friendly competitions like running the bases, a Wiffle ball derby and lots of photo ops. Stay tuned for more details as they are announced. 817/533-1972; texasrangers.com/fanfest

DALLAS MLK

DAY PARADE

January 18

MARTIN LUTHER KING, JR. BLVD, DALLAS

The spirit of Dr. King’s message of hope and philosophy of nonviolence lives on forever. To show solidarity with your fellow citizens, families are welcome to take part in and watch this 43rd annual parade honoring the late civic rights leader on his birthday. This year, there’s some construction on the roads, so look online first for details about the new route. Hosted by the City of Dallas and nonprofit H.E.L.P (Hope. Encourage. Love. Protect). FREE 214/6708418; dallasmlkcenter.com

USA FILM FESTIVAL’S

KIDFILM

January 18–19

ANGELIKA FILM

CENTER, DALLAS

Move over, Sundance. This film fest is just for kids. And it’s extra special because these short films are largely based on children’s books too, and all attendees get a free book and author signing. Stay tuned for more news about the lineup and featured authors/illustrators as they’re announced. FREE 214/8213456; usafilmfestival.com

DOG MAN: THE MUSICAL

January 22

EISEMANN CENTER, RICHARDSON

Half dog, half man, all crimefighter. You can now experience the comic book hero on stage, singing his heart out. “Revenge,”

“The Evil ABC’s” and “Robo Dance Party” are just some of the songs in this live music, and as you can tell by the titles, the show will be a riot. Best for 5 and older. Tickets from $15. 972/744-4650; eisemanncenter.com

SING IT, SANTA

Of all the places to see Santa this season, these spots add a little extra magic. Find out below where he makes a grand entrance, breaks out his guitar, and where Mrs. Claus joins the fun with story readings too.

STORIES & SONGS WITH SANTA Through December 24

NORTHPARK CENTER, DALLAS

In addition to making toys, did you know that Santa loves to sing? While he says hello to kids at this cottage, once a day he takes a break and picks up his guitar to play and sing classic Christmas tunes. Catch him at NorthCourt at 11:30am on Sundays and 10:30am all other days. (No concerts on Fridays December 6 and 13.) FREE 214/363-7441; northparkcenter.com

COCA-COLA CLASSIC CHRISTMAS

Through December 24

CHOCTAW STADIUM, ARLINGTON

You’ve got to give it to Coca-Cola, their history of branding had a big hand in shaping our image of the modern-day image of Santa. And at this lights festival (with ice skating, snow tubing and lights maze), you can also meet Santa for photos and join Mrs. Claus for story readings—oh, and snap photos with the classic Coca-Cola polar bear. (The rest of the fest continues through December 29.) Tickets from $21; under 4 free. classicchristmas.com

SANTALAND

Through December 24

GALLERIA DALLAS

Once you arrive by car to the Galleria, you’ve still got a way to go until you make it to Santaland. Your whole family will need to hop aboard a vintage railcar that simulates a magical train ride from Dallas (past the high-rise buildings and over the mountains) to the North Pole. (Think The Polar Express.) Then you’ll

exit the train and walk through a snowy forest toward Santa’s cottage. The fun continues inside SNOWDAY (continuing through January 5), an immersive attraction with all sorts of rooms to explore. Combo tickets available. 972/702-7100; galleriadallas.com

SANTA DAY

December 7

FRONTIERS OF FLIGHT

MUSEUM, DALLAS

Hey Rudolph, you’re not needed today. Instead, Santa will be flying in via an Airbus Helicopter Come watch the spectacle on this Saturday morning and stay to snap photos with him and share some milk and cookies from the Great American Cookies. $15 adults; $10 children; under 3 free. 214/350-3600; flightmuseum.com

CHRISTMAS IN THE STOCKYARDS

December 7

FORT WORTH STOCKYARDS

NATIONAL HISTORIC DISTRICT

This is classic Stockyards style: Cowboy Santa, sharply dressed in a white cowboy hat, makes a grand entrance on top of a stagecoach in a Christmas parade also starring the herd of Texas longhorns. Catch this parade at 4pm and stay for more fun in Cowboy Santa’s Workshop, where he’ll be posing for photos and where Mrs. Claus leads story time through Christmas Eve. (An ice skating rink is open through January 5.) Free admission; photo package for Santa photos. 817/625-9715; fortworthstockyards.com

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Prince of Peace Christian School boasts two state-of-the-art SmartLab spaces, a 3,000-square-foot lab in the Lower School, serving students in K–Grade 5, and a 1,200-square-foot lab that serves Middle and Upper School students.

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Archives and Museum has it all! STEM, Invention Lab, History and so much more!

Open Wednesday–Saturday, 10am–4pm, and Sunday, 12–4pm Visitors have the opportunity to explore Irving’s pioneer past and multicultural present. IAM’s primary goal is to connect with the community in an environment that welcomes everyone. IAM also brings a first-of-its-kind to Texas, a Smithsonian Spark!Lab. In Spark!Lab, we believe everyone is inventive. Every day we provide opportunities for children and families to explore their inventive creativity—to create, innovate, collaborate, and problem-solve—because these experiences empower kids to develop the skills and confidence they need to succeed today and in the future.

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The 5 coolest movie theaters for kids

HOWEVER MUCH WE LOVE and appreciate at-home streaming services (we’ve got several in my household), there’s no replacing the experience of watching a movie on the big screen. But not all theaters are made with little kids or squirming toddlers in mind. So, we sought out DFW-area cinemas that are the most uniquely kid-friendly, which by our definition, is where they can have a thrilling, playful experience, watching child-appropriate content, and where parents can relax too. And what we found goes beyond 3D movies—to 4D-capable theaters with sensory elements, brand new immersive digital domes, and even theaters made for play.

LEGO 4D CINEMA

For your littlest kids who just wanna have fun, there’s LEGOLAND Discovery Center at Grapevine Mills. With already so much to do inside this attraction—its dozen play spaces range from rides to soft play—this 4D mini movie theater is just extra icing on the cake.

LEGO 4D Cinema shows only LEGO movies, as you can imagine, and they’re all short films (10 minutes or so), and in every show from every seat in the house, you’ll feel wind, rain or snow. Which element depends on what happens in the show. During this December and January,

these four shows are on the roster: LEGO City 4D: Officer Pursuit, LEGO DREAMZzz 4D: Z-Blob Rescue Rush, LEGO Friends 4D: Alien Invasion, and LEGO Ninjago 4D: Masters of the 4th Dimension.

Another thing we love about this theater is that you don’t have pay separately or time your arrival based on what you want to watch. The shows play on rotation every 15 or 20 minutes and are included with general admission, so there’s no need to think ahead or micromanage your outing. So you can choose one or catch them all, depending on when your child is ready

to move onto the next play space. Just grab a pair of plastic 3D glasses (not paper ones that easily rip) and head inside when you’re ready. // Grapevine, 469/444-3050; legolanddiscoverycenter.com/dallas-fw

JANE & JOHN JUSTIN FOUNDATION OMNI THEATER

You may remember the old Omni Theater at the Fort Worth Museum of Science & History, but this one is a whole new story. Renovations were in the works for 18 months and took a whopping $22 million to build this immersive digital dome—what they’re calling “the world’s largest LED dome display within a museum”— with Cosm technology. (You may recognize the name. Cosm opened its own dome attraction, too, at Grandscape.)

The Omni’s grand opening date is coming up on Saturday, December 14, and very soon, you’ll be able to go online to book tickets for specific films/times. Their winter/spring movie lineup is chock full of educational, documentary-style films, like Butterfly Journey, Great Bear Rainforest (narrated by actor Ryan Reynolds) and a half dozen or so more titles.

All of the shows run about 40 minutes long and are mostly made for kids in kindergarten and up, but all ages are welcome inside the theater. If you’re bringing a baby or toddler, note that stroller parking is outside the theater, and 2 and younger can sit on your lap for free. For everyone else, tickets will be $15 for adults; $11 for children 3 and older; $3 discount for museum members.

For extra fun this December, book your tickets for the Polar Pajama Parties on December 14 and 21, wthich include a movie screening. And here’s one special show you won’t want to miss: Cliburn Family Concerts: Voyager, coming February 22–23. Get your tickets now at cliburn.org for this show all about NASA and space exploration. // Fort Worth, 817/2559300; fwmuseum.org

➽ ABOVE // Pop on a pair of 3D glasses and head inside the LEGO 4D Cinema, where simulated wind, rain or even snow is part of the show.

➽ ABOVE // Opening December 14, the renovated Omni Theater with 8K resolution will be “the world’s largest LED dome display within a museum”—and lucky for us, it’s playing kid-friendly short films.

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CAMP CINEMARK

Inside Cinemark Allen 16 and XD, this specially designed theater feels like a trip to an overnight camp in the woods. Its cushy chaise lounges are more comfortable than traditional movie chairs and easier for curling up with your kids. For your other kids who’d rather sprawl out down in front, they too can lounge on large, rectangular bean bags.

Another feature that’s helpful (especially for breastfeeding moms or other parents who need to keep a constant eye out for their rambunctious ones) is the overhead string lights. They dim when the movie begins but never go out, so you can actually see.

To see showtimes and book your seats online, look for screenings labeled “Camp” with a flag. Tickets vary by showtime; under 1 free. As soon as the theater opens (about 10–15 minutes before the opening credits start rolling), you’re welcome to enter and let your kids explore the space. // Allen, 214/383-9712; cinemark.com/camp-cinemark-allen

SCREENPLAY!

When you want to go see a full-length, newrelease movie (Moana 2, for example) as a family, but you also know your kid will need to work their wiggles out before sitting somewhat still in their theater seat, this is the spot—or rather two spots. B&B Theatres locations in Wylie and Red Oak (about 20 minutes south of downtown Dallas) each have a screenPLAY! theater with an incredible, vertical playground built into the side of the auditorium.

A COSMIC DATE NIGHT

For a new date night destination, check out Cosm, immersive dome theater that opened at Grandscape in August 2024. It’s the same company and technology behind the Omni Theater renovation, but this location is more geared toward adults. You can grab dinner and drinks from its gastro pub, catch live sports or a prerecorded Cirque du Soleil show from inside the dome or more levels, and then hit up the rooftop lounge. // The Colony, ; cosm.com

This playspace with tubes and slides is designed for kids as young as 2, and a flat play area on the floor in front of the screen is great for your youngest. You’re welcome to enter the theater starting 30 minutes before the movie. Then, when it’s time to settle in for the movie (read: for parents to rest their feet for 1.5 hours), check the digital buttons on your seat and turn on the heated seats. Pricing varies by showtime. // Red Oak, 469/373-7473; Wylie, 972/419-8505; bbtheatres.com/screenplay

4DX

Again, B&B Theatres is really knocking it out of the park. In addition to its screenPLAY! theaters (see left) for littles, we think older kids will be game to try out B&B’s new 4DX theater, which is not only 3D capable but also offers a rollercoaster-esque experience. While the action on screen gets going, the bank of connected seats matches the action, rocking guests forward, backward and sideways. You’ll need to strap in with the seatbelt and hold onto your armrests. Keep the lids on those cups, too. A bar in front of you sprays bursts of air or water. Not keen to be splashed? Just tap the button on your armrest. And on the side walls of the theater, strobe lights, bubble machines and fans that blow wind, fog and even scents are ready for action. Which ones of these will you experience during your visit? That all depends on the movie you’re seeing. Luckily for families, upcoming kids movies—like Wicked, Moana 2 and Sonic the Hedgehog 3—are super fun in this 4DX theater.

To sit in these seats, kids need to be over 4 years old and at least 3.5 feet tall, and as with real rollercoasters, they advise women who are pregnant to sit it out. Go online to reserve your tickets and come early to check out all the other fun at the Red Oak location, like the arcade with a rock climbing wall. // Red

469/373-7473; bbtheatres.com/4dx

Oak,

➽ ABOVE // Climb in and around this happy hippo (in the foreground) and tube playspace (in the background) inside screenPLAY! theaters at two B&B Theatres locations.

➽ ABOVE // For every kid who loves to sit right in front of the screen at home, they’ll get the front row experience on these bean bags at the camp-themed movie theater in Allen.

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Allen Parks and Recreation lifeinallen.org/verymerry 214/509-4150

Beavers Bend Cabin Country beaversbendcabincountry.com

City of Ennis visitennistexas.com 972/878-4748

City of Irving irvingevents.org 972/721-2501

City of Mesquite cityofmesquite.com/realtexasholidays 972/288-7711

Dallas Arboretum and Botanical Garden dallasarboretum.org 214/515-6615

Dallas Symphony Orchestra dallassymphony.org/productions/familychristmas-pops-2

Dallas Theater Center dallastheatercenter.org/shows/a-christmascarol-2024 214/522-8499

Day 1 DFW day1dfw.com 214/368-8686

Downtown Dallas, Inc. downtowndallas.com 214/744-1270

It’s a very merry December in Allen! From the annual Holly Jolly Celebration, to pictures of pets with Santa, to festive activities, countless lights and family photo-ops—discover more magic for your holiday season!

'Tis the season for a great trip to Beavers Bend Cabin Country. The great outdoors is calling your name so book your cabin today and get here already. See ad on the back cover.

Create holiday memories in charming historic downtown Ennis! Enjoy snow tubing, carriage rides, a magical elf seek and find game and more. Stroll the streets of downtown while enjoying holiday music and photo-ops for pictures. See ad on page 63.

The Holidays at Heritage series kicks off in Irving on December 7 with the annual holiday parade and tree lighting. Enjoy free, family-friendly activities every weekend in the Irving Heritage District through December 21. See ad on page 19.

Get in the holiday spirit with the City of Mesquite’s festive family-friendly events. Enjoy a hometown holiday like none other in the Rodeo Capitol of Texas with Real. Texas. Holidays!

Holiday at the Arboretum, presented by Reliant, returns with over 1 million holiday lights, the popular Christmas Village, The 12 Days of Christmas and visits with Santa. The festival runs through January 5, 2025.

Bring the whole family to a special one-hour performance of the Dallas Symphony Orchestra's Christmas Pops with amazing soloists and the Dallas Symphony Children's Chorus. Enjoy activities like an instrument petting zoo and Santa photos.

Witness the enchanting journey of "A Christmas Carol" at the Wyly Theatre from November 29 to December 28. Three spirits guide Scrooge through a spellbinding performance that captures the true meaning of Christmas.

Day 1 DFW is North Texas’ largest family-friendly New Year’s Day event, featuring bounce houses, arts and crafts, obstacle courses, live entertainment and a stunning drone show finale to kick off your year in style! See ad on page 7.

Join the 6th Annual Downtown Stocking Stroll & Family Festival, December 21 from 3–8pm. Stroll through 30+ festive shops, enjoy a giant Ferris wheel, train rides and visit Santa. Free with RSVP—don’t miss out! See ad on page 15. 11

Fort Worth Stock Show & Rodeo fwssr.com 814/877-2400

Encounter tantalizing food, shopping, livestock shows, live music, carnival-midway, equestrian competitions, petting zoo and much more with a rodeo in the famed Dickies Arena that caps off an amazing experience. Visit fwssr.com to learn more. See ad on page 55. 12

Galleria Dallas galleriadallas.com/holiday 972/702-7100

Gaylord Texan Resort christmasatgaylordtexan.com

Ground Control Park LC groundcontrolparklc.com 972/354-6100

KidFilm Family Festival usafilmfestival.com 214/821-6300

North Texas Performing Arts ntpa.org/tickets 972/422-2575

The iconic 95-foot-tall Christmas tree makes Galleria Dallas recognized as one of the biggest, brightest, happiest holiday celebrations. Santaland is a must visit for everyone! Plus, the season’s most engaging immersive photo experience, SNOWDAY. See ad on page 8.

Don’t miss ICE! featuring Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer™ told in awe-inspiring ice sculptures. Unwrap timeless traditions, see millions of twinkling lights and discover Christmas magic around every corner at Gaylord Texan Resort in Grapevine. See ad on page 60.

Experience family fun at Grandscape! Whether you’re seeking engaging activities or a great spot for a delicious dinner, you’ll find everything you need for a memorable outing all in one place at Grandscape.

Experience family fun at Ground Control! From jousting and rock climbing to dodgeball, zip-lining, basketball, extreme slides and trampolines, there’s nonstop excitement for everyone. Create unforgettable memories and unleash your inner adventurer in every jump.

It's back! The all-free-admission KidFilm Family Festival will take place on Saturday and Sunday, January 18–19, 2025, at Angelika Dallas. Featuring appearances by children’s book authors and new films for all ages. usafilmfestival.com See ad on page 57.

Experience the magic of theatre! NTPA's annual production of Scrooge the Musical runs December 11–22. Find dozens of performances, camps and youth auditions monthly at NTPA's five locations: Plano, Fairview, Frisco, Dallas and Southlake. See ad on page 62.

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NorthPark Center northparkcenter.com/holiday 214/363-7441

OKANA Resort & Indoor Waterpark okanaresort.com 800/547-3928

Reunion Tower reuniontower.com 214/296-9950

Ripleys Believe It or Not! ripleys.com/grandprairie 972/263-2391

River Legacy Foundation riverlegacy.org 817/860-6752

The Cliburn cliburn.org/family-concerts 817/738-6536

Tianyu Lights Festival Dallas tianyuculture.us/dallas 888/484-2698

Visit Rockwall visitrockwall.com 972/771-5733

NorthPark Center invites you and your family to share the magic of the holidays this season with Visits with Santa, The Trains at NorthPark, Scrooge Puppet Theatre, Gingertown and so much more. See ads on pages 2 and 3.

OKANA Resort & Indoor Waterpark will be your new go-to dream getaway with poolside bites, unique swim-up sips and rooms perfect for every kind of stay. Experience the region's largest indoor waterpark in OKC. See ad on page 52.

The holidays are merry and bright at Reunion Tower! Get in the holiday spirit with Santa on December 21 and catch the annual NYE drones and fireworks extravaganza on December 31. Visit reuniontower.com for details. See ad on page 6.

Get ready to experience unbelievable family fun at the fascinating Ripley’s Believe It or Not! with five awesome indoor attractions under one roof. Ripley’s Grand Prairie is your one-stop destination for hours of family fun!

Bug Squad, produced by Omaha Children's Museum, features animatronic insects and interactive exhibits. Visitors explore insect superpowers, jump like grasshoppers and design butterfly wings, fostering love for nature and appreciation for biodiversity through hands-on learning. See ad on page 19.

Take a musical journey through the solar system! As spectacular images from NASA wow us on the brand-new OMNI screen—the most advanced LED display of its kind—a narrator will lead us on our spectacular voyage. See ad on page 13.

Experience the magic of Tianyu Lights Festival in Dallas, a family-friendly lantern show featuring stunning illuminated displays, interactive lanterns and captivating performances. It's the perfect journey for kids and parents to explore together!

Experience the holidays in Rockwall with festive parades, Christmas markets and live performances. Enjoy tree lightings, family activities, Santa photos and community warmth. Discover all events at visitrockwall.com. See ad on page 57.

the night before a parents’ christmas

‘Twas the night before Christmas

And all through my dwelling

My two creatures (kids) were stirring And the anticipation was swelling.

I ask them to sleep, Then demand, beg and barter. When I blurted out, “I’ll give you candy tomorrow,” I realized they’re smarter.

(Go to bed, Coop!)

So as these conmen settled down And finally nestled into bed Visions of sugarplums Danced in their clever heads.

(Or sugar-something. Don’t overthink it, Dad. They’re in bed. Take the win.)

The cookies were laid out Decorated earlier that day for several minutes For Saint Nick to have only. “Dad, for you, these are off limits.”

No matter.

Putting out the presents is now my concern. I need to stack them under the tree

Before Santa gets his turn.

We accumulated presents For the past dozen weeks From department stores, outlets And all conceivable Lego boutiques.

My bedroom looked like An Amazon box oasis. With so many deliveries  The driver and I were on a first name basis.

(Hey, John!)

The wrapping took days And as we gazed on the presents beside us.

With hands plastered with tape

This Christmas, I gifted myself into arthritis.

The clock struck midnight I’ve got a headache and am dead tired.

Only one gift left to finish But alas, “Assembly required.”

So on Tylenol! On caffeine! On sugar! On leftover cookie dough! To finish this yuletide mission And to bed, finally go.

But, oh, a sound! Has Santa landed on the roof? Nope.

Just Cooper wandering, looking for proof.

(Go to bed, Coop!)

The directions say “easy to follow”

But hope soon starts to slow As the directions unfold into

a room-sized tarp.

“Only 92 steps to go.”

The first three steps were a breeze

But Step 4 isn’t clear. Neither are Steps 5, 6 and 7 And the part for Step 8 doesn’t seem to be here.

So, you tinker. You toil. You make guesses. You try. And when none of that works You find a video to DIY.

And even the video barely helped.

But I’ve learned I did Step 3 wrong.

And I had Step 2 backwards. While the parts to Step 1 are not where they belong.

(At this point, breathe, Dad. Breathe.)

I grind out the directions Connecting Section 1 to Section 234.

As I curse the $11 I declined to pay For them to put it together for me at the store.

The hours fly by

But finally, it was worth saving that cash.

I have one leftover part That I intentionally bury deep into the trash.

(That probably wasn’t important, right? I am sure that was a bonus screw, right? Right??!!)

But I will tell you, for all the labor, For the exhaustion, pain and strainin’.

It’s then you realize  They’ll probably instead play with the box it came in.

No worries, because after all No matter how much of Christmas we edit We parents get the discarded paper. That jolly guy in red gets most of the credit.

And as your head hits your lush pillow And the sun starts to come into sight.

Merry Christmas to all you hardworking parents  And to all, a goodnight.

Well, tomorrow night, that is, for me.

It’s 6am, and my kids are ready to swoop!

With the last ounce of energy in my body…

“Please. Please. Go to bed, Coop!”

(You too, Milo.)

Josh Farnsworth is a nationalaward-winning parenting columnist who lives with his wife and two goofball sons. You can reach him for column ideas at josh.farnsworth@yahoo.com