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Why puberty is happening earlier and how to help your kids cope with the changes
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9 When Kids Play Favorites
Working through your child’s parental preference
12 By the Numbers / Immune Support
Keeping your kiddo healthy this cold & flu season
14 Ask an Expert / Sound Advice
Do kids need a multivitamin?
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17 Mom Next Door / Jennifer Scripps
Meet the mom with a vision for downtown Dallas
20 Briefs / Hot Spots
Our Mom Next Door shares her faves in Big D and beyond
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35 Things to Do
Solidify your family calendar for October & November
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5 Kid-friendly coffee shops around DFW
45 Family Fun / Get Lost
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6 Hello / It’s Fall, Y’all
Here’s the sweet spot for enjoying outside family time
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When dad’s working from home, there’s just something about that closed door that inspires kids’ curiosity
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But here we are at the sweet spot—fall. The weather is pleasant and mild, the State Fair is in full swing, and pumpkins are ripe for picking. There’s just something about this time of year that makes you want to don some boots, grab a spiced latte (more on that on page 41), and get outside with the family. And if that’s what you’re itching for, we’ve got plenty of options for you, starting on page 35 (corn mazes and fall festivals, anyone?).
Getting outside with kids does more than combat cabin fever; research shows that spending time outdoors is associated with good health and overall well-being. In kids, more outdoor time is linked with improved motor development, better critical thinking and lower rates of stress. And so what better time of year to bring you our annual health issue, where we dive into children’s wellness. After all, with autumn comes the start of cold and flu season, and if your house is anything like mine, the kids have already kicked things off with a few new viruses brought home from school.
So how can you “boost” their immune systems? Should they be taking a multivitamin? We answer those questions and more—like why are kids going through puberty so early?—in these pages.
There’s a lot to look forward to this season. Here’s to staying healthy to enjoy it all.
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PARENTHOOD CAN STIR UP BIG FEELINGS, but one Cate Wiggins never expected was rejection. So when her first child gravitated almost immediately to his dad, the Fort Worth mom wasn’t at all prepared for the hurt she felt when her child expressed such a clear preference for her husband. “That took an emotional toll on me, and feeling like he was mad at me all the time,” she says. “I was like, I went through so much pain having you, and I would just like you to be nice to me.”
Parental preference is normal, but that doesn’t mean it’s not hurtful when you’re not the chosen one. On the flipside, being the favorite can be taxing too. While it might sound like an honorific, it’s exhausting to be the go-to caregiver for everything.
Working through your child’s parental preference
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Here’s the good news: Kids playing favorite is often just a phase. It’s common in toddlers, who are beginning to “categorize their environment to make it easier to understand,” says Amy Henry, parenting coach at Big Picture Parenting in Dallas. “And that includes making a hierarchy out of people in their life.”
But older kids may have a preferred parent too. Children of any age can go through cycles of feeling closer to one parent or another. Here’s why it happens, and how to work through it.
CHILDREN OF ANY AGE CAN GO THROUGH CYCLES OF FEELING CLOSER TO ONE PARENT OR ANOTHER.
WHY FAVORITES EMERGE
A child’s favorite might be a parent who’s the same gender as them, who shares similar interests or personality traits, or who is perceived as being more fun. It could also be the parent who’s more predictable or emotionally stable.
Autonomy is another driver. “No!” is a common theme among 2- and 3-yearolds, because these kiddos just realized this newfound power. “They’re really in a phase of autonomy and trying to figure out, can I be in control? Can I be in charge?” explains Sarah Rees, a licensed professional counselor and registered play therapist at Brave Space in Plano. She says some toddlers choose a favorite parent at this age not because they really have a preference, but simply to exercise a choice.
For older kids, it’s common to have a parent they tend to go to when they need advice or to talk, says Dr. Cristina Sevadjian, licensed psychologist at Sparrow House Counseling in Dallas. “It might be the parent that’s more patient or more understanding or calmer, because a lot of times that’s what they’re looking for.” Surprisingly, it’s often the caregiver who they are least like. “The parent that can be tricky for them is the parent that’s more like them. That can be harder ... When personalities are similar, you get those clashes.”
IN THE FEELS
For moms, who are often the primary caregiver in those early weeks and months of life, being the preferred parent can feel overwhelming—like they never get a break. Wiggins’ fourth child is a steadfast mommy’s girl, which is new for her, and hard in a different way. “It’s exhausting being the favorite. I’m like, can you switch over to Dad just a little bit? That would be nice.” This constant on-call can lead to burnout.
But it can be just as hard for the other caregiver, who might feel slighted or miss out on bonding time. “I think for the parent who doesn’t feel preferred or favored, there can be a lot of sadness and frustration and resentment,” says Rees. “It’s important for that parent to know it’s not a personal attack against you. It’s a situation.”
Child preference can cause or deepen relationship rifts that already exist, says Henry. “Family tension can cause kids to choose a favorite parent. So if parents are bickering, fighting, going through a divorce ... a child will typically feel like they have to choose
sides.” This can leave one parent feeling like the whole family is against them.
ENCOURAGING EQUAL BONDS
When favoritism is clear, work out ways to ensure the non-preferred parent gets their share of quality time—and parenting responsibilities. When possible, trade off for things like bedtime routines, school pickups, sports drop-offs or running errands. With younger kids, be prepared to move through some protest. “Even though it’s going to be hard to stick with it, you’ll find value in it in the long run. And reassuring the child, I know Mommy usually does this, or I know Daddy usually does this, but tonight it’s my night,” says Rees.
5 WAYS TO SPREAD THE LOVE
1. Switch off bedtime duties
2. Swap out school pick-ups/sports drop-offs
3. Make a point to spend one-onone time together once a month
4. Plan an activity your child enjoys and let them lead
5. Invite the child to take part in an activity that you enjoy
Stay away from bribes to entice your child to spend time with the other parent. It can be tempting to calm a tantrum with a trip to the store for a toy or treat, but it’s not a long-term solution. Instead, offer them autonomy in other areas. “‘Which shoes are we going to put on today? Are we going to put on your left shoe first or your right shoe first?’ Some small, tangible choices help the child feel in control and move through the situation,” says Rees. “They’re looking for control, and then they’re trying to control and navigate two relationships at the same time, which is challenging.”
When it comes to older children, find common ground by doing things together that don’t require a lot of small talk. Instead of dinner, go to a movie you’d both enjoy. Car time is an easy time to bond with kids. Let them pick the music and ask open-ended questions or their opinions on pop culture or current events. Keep it light, and don’t be discouraged if they give you one-word answers. Kids need to know that parents won’t ever stop trying to connect with them, even if they’re not the favorite du jour.
IMMUNE SUPPORT
Keeping your kiddo healthy this cold and flu season
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ANY PARENT OF YOUNG CHILDREN KNOWS—those kids are little germ factories. Whether it’s at the playground, school or daycare, little ones are exposed to new pathogens all the time. Often, it can seem like they’re just getting over one sickness when another rears its nasty head.
With cold and flu season officially here, we take a look at some ways you can strengthen your kiddo’s immune system, and hopefully keep the bugs at bay. Remember, these figures are informational only, and you should always check with your child’s doctor before starting any new health regimens.
5 I MMUNE BOOSTING NUTRIENTS
VITAMIN C
Found in citrus fruits, berries, tomatoes and broccoli
VITAMIN D
Look for it in fatty fish, eggs, milk and fortified juices
ZINC
Eat seafood, beef, poultry, pumpkin seeds and beans
OMEGA-3 FATTY ACIDS
Found in fish, nuts, hemp and chia seeds
BETA-CAROTENE
Found in sweet potatoes, carrots, leafy greens and broccoli
6 MONTHS
The minimum age at which children can get a flu shot
60 MINUTES
20 SECONDS
The amount of time you should scrub your hands—with soap and water—to get rid of germs
6 TO 10
The average number of colds most kids get per year
The CDC’s recommended time children should spend each day in moderate-to-vigorous physical activity to help keep them healthy
9 TO
12
The number of hours of sleep recommended for school-age kids each night; sleep deprivation can weaken the immune system
Breastmilk provides babies with antibodies that help fight infection and boost their immune system. The CDC recommends breastfeeding for at least 1 year
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Q: “Does my child need a multivitamin? If so, what ingredients should I be looking for?”
A: Whether your child needs a daily multivitamin or supplement depends on their diet, health, and specific needs. Most children who eat a well-balanced diet do not need a multivitamin. However, in some cases, a pediatrician might recommend a multivitamin supplement. Typically, this might start after age 1, especially if the child has dietary restrictions, picky eating habits, or specific nutritional needs. Here are some general guidelines:
WHEN A CHILD MAY NEED
A MULTIVITAMIN:
Picky eating: If your child is a picky eater and isn’t getting a variety of foods.
Restricted diet: If they follow a vegetarian or vegan diet or have food allergies that limit certain food groups.
Medical conditions: Certain health issues may require additional vitamins or minerals. Your doctor will tell you if this is the case.
Limited sunlight: Lack of sun exposure can lead to vitamin D deficiency. Growth spurts: During rapid growth, a child’s nutritional needs may increase.
ESSENTIAL INGREDIENTS TO LOOK FOR IN A MULTIVITAMIN:
Vitamin D: Supports bone health and immune function.
Calcium: Important for bone development.
Iron: Essential for growth and development, especially in menstruating girls or kids who don’t eat meat.
Vitamin B12: Crucial for brain development and red blood cell production, especially in vegetarian or vegan diets.
Vitamin C: Supports the immune system and aids in iron absorption.
Omega-3 Fatty Acids: Supports brain development (not typically found in multivitamins, but in separate supplements).
Folate: Important for cell division and growth.
Zinc: Supports immune function and growth.
Iodine: Essential for thyroid function and brain development.
OTHER THINGS TO CONSIDER:
Avoid excessive doses; more isn’t always better. Some vitamins can be harmful in high doses, especially fat-soluble ones like vitamins A, D, E, and K. And when it comes to multivitamins, quality matters—look for reputable brands with third-party testing to ensure the supplements contain what they claim without contaminants.
Also know that the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that all breastfed babies receive a daily vitamin D supplement of 400 IU (international units) starting within the first few days of life, administered via liquid drops. This is crucial because breast milk alone may not provide enough vitamin D, which is essential for bone health and development. This supplementation should continue until the infant is weaned and consuming at least 1,000 mL (about 33.8 ounces) of vitamin D-fortified formula or whole milk per day.
Always consult with a pediatrician before starting any new supplements to ensure they are necessary and appropriate for the child’s age and health status. Your child’s doctor can provide personalized advice based on your child’s specific needs.
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The Scripps family at their Swiss Avenue home. Before taking her role at Downtown Dallas, Inc., Jennifer led the city’s Office of Arts & Culture for six years.
FOR JENNIFER SCRIPPS, there’s no place like home. She’s studied and worked in metropolises around the country, but the Dallas native found her most fulfilling role back in her hometown—leading Downtown Dallas, Inc. and raising her two boys here.
“My kids know that I love this city—they joke about it and draw pictures of mommy with Dallas T-shirts on,” Scripps laughs. “So I hope they really love the community that they’re blessed to be living in too.”
Here, Scripps shares her insider knowledge on what makes Big D special and how she’s raising her sons with gratitude and perspective.
DFWCHILD: TELL US A LITTLE ABOUT DOWNTOWN DALLAS, INC. (DDI).
JS: We are the chief advocate, champion and steward for the Dallas core—everything inside the highway loop. It’s one-and-ahalf square miles, it’s a huge downtown, and keeping it clean and safe is kind of the bedrock expectation. We provide 7-day a week clean and security teams—most people would recognize by the blue jackets and the green trucks. We have a 5-day a week homeless outreach team and downtown ambassadors. We also program all of the downtown parks and partner with the parks department.
We provide a lot of energy for economic development—everything from new hotels, offices, corporations, getting to Dallas. A lot of our planning has looked at good urbanism: how do we create a walkable, 7-day-aweek downtown?
HOW HAVE YOU SEEN DOWNTOWN CHANGE OVER THE YEARS?
When I grew up in Dallas, it was an office district, and we came downtown for a parade once a year and maybe to go to Neiman Marcus department store. There was no Arts District, there were no parks. Entertainment has become so much more of what people are seeking and I think it makes us more competitive for people going back to the office—if you have to go back to the office three or four days a week, wouldn’t you like to come to an authentic city rather than a suburban office park?
WHAT’S A GREAT HIDDEN GEM DOWNTOWN FOR FAMILIES?
First, the Dallas Farmers Market, which we have really watched grow and evolve. A lot of people think you go there and you get your pumpkins, but every single weekend there are things to do in the Famers Market. There’s live music, there’s the big sheds where you can get tacos, a grilled cheese, ceviche. The breadth of dining options, the people watching—it’s great.
Then just a couple of blocks north is the brand new Harwoord Park that opened last year. It has pickleball, an amazing playground with these really cool mammoths that look like giant Wooly Mammoths because those were
the prehistoric animals that were in this area. That district is just so rich for kids and families—you can eat, you can play, you can people watch. It’s not expensive and it’s not ticketed; you can just go anytime and you have to worry about naptimes and schedules.
DDI HAS SUCH A BROAD SCOPE. HOW DO MANAGE THE DEMANDS OF YOUR JOB THERE AND YOUR JOB AS MOM?
We’re really organized as a family. We do a lot of planning, every weekend we kind of break down the week ahead.
And also, just learning to say no. For example, we love Scouting; both boys are in it, Andy and I are both Den leaders. But we realized that our family does not like the Pinewood Derby (laughs). It was always an exercise in frustration, and so we’ve just not done it. We like hiking, we like games and camping, but we don’t build racecars in our family. And you know what? That’s OK. We had to remember, this is supposed to be fun. So we’ve figured out how our family ticks and those things to say no to.
WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE ANOTHER BUSY MOM?
I had a friend that said this and it really stuck with me: Find something each week to do for yourself. Whether it’s a workout, lunch with a friend, coffee after school drop-off. And, of course, it doesn’t always happen, there are times that you’re just too busy. But it’s so easy to skip that stuff all the time and then you wake up and your kids are at camp and you’re like, what am I supposed to do with myself?
WHAT’S IMPORTANT TO YOU TO INSTILL IN YOUR BOYS?
One thing that’s so important—and I never thought about it as a global thing—when somebody says stop it, respect that. If the issue is something you’re saying, close your mouth. If you’re poking somebody, stop doing that. When you think about the future, about having good judgement, being loving partners and fathers, being in tune with other people is what it’s all about.
I also want them to have empathy and perspective. We serve with our church at Austin Street Shelter and it’s fun and easy, but it also gets them out of their comfort zone. It’s really important to me that they build that perspective.
WHAT TRAITS DO YOU HOPE YOUR KIDS GET FROM YOU?
I hope they learn to laugh at themselves and not take life too seriously. Life is long and it can be hard. If you can’t find the humor or the ridiculousness in things, it feels longer and harder. And a real sense of gratitude—we are so lucky to wake up with our health and our loved ones. You can say it, but as a parent you have to live it and show it.
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Jennifer Scripps shares her favorites in downtown Dallas and beyond
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FAMILY DINNER
Cane Rosso is the go-to family restaurant for the Scripps family, who loves a good wood-fired Neapolitan pizza fresh out of the oven. Mom and Dad split a supreme and the kids opt for a classic cheese. Cane Rosso // Multiple locations; canerosso.com
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COFFEE SPOT
When she needs a pickme-up, Scripps grabs a beverage from White Rhino Coffee or White Rock Coffee
Her order? An oat milk latte. Adding flavors— lavender anyone?— is “mood dependent” she laughs.
White Rhino Coffee // Multiple locations; whiterhinocoffee.com White Rock Coffee // Multiple locations; wrcoffee.com
HOLIDAY TRADITION
It started with Family Christmas Pops with the Dallas Symphony Orchestra, then last year, the family saw A Christmas Carol at the Dallas Theater Center. “We call it our ‘dressy Christmasing,’” says Scripps. “We kind of dress up a little bit and do something that feels a little fancy, just the four of us. It’s not a Christmas party, it’s not Santa or consumerism. It’s an experience.” On deck this holiday season: Elf in Concert with a live symphony orchestra. Dallas Symphony Orchestra // Morton H. Meyer Symphony Center, 2301 Flora St., Dallas; dallassymphony.org Dallas Theater Center // 2400 Flora St., Dallas; dallastheatercenter.org
BEST FOR PLAYTIME
Scripps and family love the parks in downtown Dallas, including Harwood Park and Klyde Warren Park. “A lot of times we go to Main Street Garden Park, too,” she says. “My kids say, ‘That’s the eclipse park!’ because that’s where we watched the eclipse with about 7,000 other people. It’s a fun memory.”
Harwood Park // 408 S. Harwood St., Dallas; downtowndallasparks.org
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OUT OF TOWN
Klyde Warren Park // 2012 Woodall Rodgers Fwy., Dallas; klydewarrenpark.org Main Street Garden Park // 1902 Main St., Dallas; dallasparks.org
“We’ve gotten really into national parks,” says Scripps, whose family visited the Great Smoky Mountains a couple years ago then Mount Rushmore and Badlands and Theodore Roosevelt National Parks this past summer. “I really want the kids to see America before I feel the pressure to go farther afield. Our kids are at a great age to be doing this.”
“Glamping” is how they experience the great outdoors while also enjoying the comforts of a good hotel. “We stayed at a place called Under Canvas, and there are a lot of these near national parks. You have a comfortable bed, a hot shower but you’re in a tent. The best of both worlds.” Under Canvas // Multiple locations; undercanvas.com
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Early Bloomers
Why puberty is happening earlier and how parents can help kids cope with all those changes
WORDS AMANDA COLLINS BERNIER
ASHLEY VILLEDA REMEMBERS when her daughter Ellie first got her period. She was 8, and she was scared.
“She thought she was bleeding to death or dying,” Villeda, of Fort Worth, says. “I took her to the bathroom, I showed her a pad and explained to her that Mommy and all females go through these changes in life.”
While second or third grade may seem quite young for such changes—and to cope with monthly menstruation—it’s not entirely uncommon. Puberty is starting earlier and earlier, and the numbers are startling.
Here’s the statistics: Girls in the U.S. are getting their periods about 6 months earlier than they did in just the last few decades, according to a study published this year in the Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA). While that shift may seem small, consider that the same study found the percentages of early and very early first periods have increased almost two-fold among females born in 1950 versus 2005. And yet another study found that the age of first menstruation has fallen three years in the last century.
“The average now is 11 years, 9 months,” says Dr. Sonia Shukla-Ahluwalia, a pediatrician at Pecan Tree Pediatrics in Wylie who leads puberty workshops for kids and teens across Dallas-Fort Worth through the Turning Teen program. “But that’s just the average; the fiftieth percentile. That means many girls are getting their periods when they’re 10-something. Girls are indeed getting it very early.”
And that first period actually comes toward the end of puberty for girls; the “grand finale,” as Shukla-Ahluwalia puts it. Typically, the first signs of puberty in girls—the development of breast buds or pubic hair—happen about two years before menstruation. And these changes are happening earlier too. JAMA Pediatrics found from 1977 to 2013, girls showed signs of starting puberty about three months earlier every
decade, or about one year earlier every 30 years.
Today, the average age for the start of puberty for girls is between the ages of 8 and 13. This can vary by race; Black girls often experience puberty before most Caucasian girls.
And what about boys? They typically start puberty between 9 and 14. And at least one study suggests they’re trending earlier, too, though the pattern may not be as extreme as noted in girls.
WHAT’S CAUSING EARLIER PUBERTY?
Just why are our kids hitting puberty earlier than generations before them? There’s no one answer. But most experts agree the rise in childhood obesity is at least somehow related.
“Body weight seems to be one of the primary factors associated with the timing of pubertal onset,” says Dr. Soumya Adhikari, a pediatric endocrinologist at Children’s Health in Dallas and associate professor at UT Southwestern Medical Center. “Generally speaking, higher body fat content is associated with earlier onset of puberty.”
That could be because fat cells produce estrogen, explains Dr. Shanna Combs, a pediatric and adolescent gynecologist at Cook Children’s Medical Center in Fort Worth. “If you’re obese, you’re already making estrogen that’s not maybe in the traditional sense, coming from the brain and ovaries. You’re making it on your fat cells, which then might stimulate the brain and ovary process further.”
But this is just one piece of the puzzle, and the reason for earlier puberty is likely multifactorial. Other theories have to do with hormones in food or chemicals we come into contact with, known as endocrine disrupting chemicals. These may interfere with the production or function of natural hormones in our body. New research from the National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences recently identified a compound, musk ambrette, which could affect an area of the brain that triggers hormone production. Musk ambrette is a synthetic fragrance widely used in scented personal care products.
“Stress is another variable,” says Adhikari. “There is data suggesting an association between things which we might identify as ‘stressful’—socioeconomic status, non-intact households, etc.—and earlier onset of puberty. But are those independent factors, or are they associations because those are also contributing to higher risk of obesity and
“Kids who develop younger tend to think they are the only one experiencing these changes.”
ally ready for. “It can create an environment ripe for stress and anxiety, potentially affecting self-esteem and mental well-being,” says Adhikari. Some research suggests girls who develop early are more at risk for issues like anxiety and depression. Boys who mature earlier may be bigger and stronger than their peers, but also must cope with increased testosterone, which can be hard to manage at a young age.
other risk factors known to be associated with puberty starting earlier? We don’t have a definitive answer to this.”
MATURING EARLY
When puberty starts too early—a clinical condition called precocious puberty, in which girls younger than 8 or boys younger than 9 show pubertal signs—it can have a lasting impact on a child’s growth and development. “When puberty starts earlier than usual, a child’s bones may mature too quickly. This accelerated bone growth can lead to an initial growth spurt, but it also causes the growth plates to close earlier,” Adhikari says. “As a result, children who experience early puberty might end up shorter in height as adults, than they would have if puberty had occurred at the typical age.”
But children who begin puberty on the low end of what’s considered normal face challenges too. These early bloomers often confront a mismatch between their physical appearance and emotional maturity. Children who look older than their age may be treated differently by both adults and peers, leading to social isolation or increased pressure to behave in ways they may not be emotion-
HOW EARLY IS TOO EARLY?
Puberty comes with complex cerebral changes too, and the child’s emotions may feel more intense. “Children may not know where the emotions are coming from and can feel confused,” says Amy English, a licensed professional counselor at Let’s Talk Counseling in Carrollton. “Kiddos become more emotionally dysregulated without the skills yet to handle the emotions.”
Being the first among their friends to go these changes can also feel isolating. Children who develop earlier than their peers may feel out of place or self-conscious about their changing bodies. “Early bloomers may feel like they are the only one experiencing this and something is ‘wrong’ with them,” says English. “Kids who develop younger tend to think they are the only one experiencing these changes so it can cause confusion.”
That was the case with 8-year-old Ellie. “She started to struggle with self-confidence,” says Villeda. “Crying because her friends didn’t have the same issues … or if other girls did, they didn’t talk about it because they didn’t feel normal. We need to normalize it; have earlier chats.”
WHEN TO START TALKING
Breast development before the age of 8 in girls, or testicular enlargement before the age of 9 in boys could be a sign of precocious puberty, which can be associated with long-term health impacts. If you’re concerned about your child, start by talking to your pediatrician. They can examine your child, look over their growth, and possibly order X-rays or bloodwork to determine the best course of action.
“If puberty is truly starting early, whether due to simple early timing or something more complicated, there are hormonal treatments to slow it down that pediatricians and pediatric endocrinologists can help parents think through to determine whether what is right for their child,” says Dr. Soumya Adhikari, a pediatric endocrinologist at Children’s Health in Dallas. These treatments allow children more time to grow and develop emotionally and physically at a pace that’s right for them.
Experts recommend parents start having conversations about puberty before the changes start happening, so children know what to expect. And with more and more children maturing earlier, the time to talk might be sooner than you think. For girls, it might be around age 8 and for boys, age 9, but keep in mind your individual child’s development. Your pediatrician can offer guidance on whether your child is showing signs of being close to the start of puberty. These developments can feel uncomfortable to bring up, especially with younger children, but talking openly will help your child feel less awkward or stressed if they’re noticing changes in themselves or their peers. Plus, you’ll model that these topics are OK to talk about—not something that’s taboo or shameful. “Normalize these conversations as part of growing
up,” says Karen Abonza, a licensed professional counselor at Cook Children’s Medical Center in Fort Forth. “This can make kids more comfortable discussing more sensitive topics later on.”
Don’t worry about having a speech on puberty prepared; kids respond better to a conversation versus a lecture. This isn’t a one-time talk where you have to give them all the information at once. Talking about puberty should be small, age-appropriate chats that happen over the course of a few years.
To make it feel less awkward, talk shoulder to shoulder, not eye to eye. In other words, English says, “When having hard conversations, kids are more open if they are engaged in an activity with parent. They feel less embarrassed and put on the spot. Some great tricks may be use of card games, board games, or drawing.”
Use anatomically correct terms and be direct but age appropriate. You can start with tidbits about physical changes they will experience like growth spurts, body hair and hormonal changes and add in more information with each conversation. Explain that all of these developments happen at different ages and at different stages for everyone.
“Be curious and ask questions about what changes the kiddo has already noticed,” suggests English. “Most kiddos love sharing
about how are now taller or stronger. Parents can add on to the conversation over time, mentioning what other changes might occur. Bring up how a kid is continuing to get taller and now other body parts are changing as well.”
Be prepared to answer questions but keep explanations straightforward and broken down to their level. “Kids are really looking for just a quick one- or two-liner, not the whole science book,” says Shukla-Ahluwalia. “Keep it simple, and they’ll come back if they want to know more. The overall theme is just simply, your body is changing from a kid body to a grownup body.”
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
Much more research is needed to directly link any cause, lifestyle or substance to earlier puberty. However, there’s no harm in limiting kids’ exposure to synthetic fragrances, plastics and processed foods. And experts recommend an active lifestyle (at least 60 minutes of physical activity a day) and nutritious foods.
GUIDING THE EARLY BLOOMER
Early bloomers may need extra reassurance that these changes are normal, and though they might be the first among their peers to experience them, eventually everyone else will too. But remember these kiddos might be going through physical and mental changes before they’re mature enough to handle them, so make space for their emotions. Validate what they feel, whether that’s confused, uncomfortable or embarrassed. It can help to share your own experiences of growing up.
Don’t paint their early development as something negative or abnormal. Instead, you can say,
TURNING TEEN
Need help getting the puberty talk started with your kiddo? Turning Teen is a pediatrician-developed educational program where children come with a caregiver to talk about puberty and sexual health. Dr. Sonia ShuklaAhluwalia leads these workshops throughout DFW, including interactive, age-appropriate classes for girls ages 8–10 and 10 and up, and for boys 10 and up. Kids get medically accurate information in a safe—and even fun— setting. Learn more at turningteen.com
UPCOMING WORKSHOPS IN DALLAS
Body Basics for Girls: Sunday, October 27; for ages 8+
Body Talk: Learning About Body Image: Saturday, November 16; for ages 10+
Body Care for Girls: Sunday, December 8; for ages 8+
“It’s kind of like when you lose your teeth in elementary school and you don’t know when it’s your turn to see the Tooth Fairy,” suggests Shukla-Ahluwalia. “There might be kids in your class who got the visit from the Tooth Fairy first. But you all end up getting the same amount of visits, it just depends on when your body is ready.”
You can help your child feel surer of their changing body by giving them control of certain aspects of their health. “Give them choice in bra shopping, choosing the scent of their deodorant or skin care products, creating their own personal bag with sanitary napkins,” says English. “When kids feel like they are able to choose and have some sense of control in a confusing time, it helps them to navigate the situation easier.”
But be prepared for some strain as your kiddo maneuvers through these changes. Moodiness and outbursts are part of puberty, at any age. This is a time for social transition, too, when peer relationships become very important to kids. Expect them to want more independence and try to respect their desire for privacy.
You can’t control the changes that puberty will bring, but you can help your child through the transition. “As a parent, your role in providing emotional support is crucial,” says Adhikari. “Reassure them that what they’re going through is a normal part of growing up, even if it’s happening a bit sooner than expected. Ensuring they have a strong support system, both at home and among friends, can make a world of difference in how they navigate this challenging time.”
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UP IN THE AIR
GRACE FOR PRESIDENT
Through October 20
DALLAS CHILDREN’S THEATER
It’s election season in this season-opening show, starring an ambitious third grader running for class president. Come see this musical adaptation of the children’s book by Kelly DiPucchio on select weekends. And book your seats now too for A Charlie Brown Christmas, returning November 23. Tickets
typically start at $20; and only $5 for sensory-friendly shows. 214/740-0051; dct.org
STATE FAIR OF TEXAS
Through October 20
FAIR PARK, DALLAS
The Big Tex statue, fried foods, carnival rides—these are what the massive state fair is best known for. But did you know that they also have lighted parades and fireworks every night? Or that this year’s entertainers include
two Guinness World Record holders? House of cards and giant bubbles, here we come. General admission generally starts at $15 for adults, $10 for children, under 3 free. 214/565-9931; bigtex.com
¡CELEBRAMOS!
Through October 27
FORT WORTH BOTANIC GARDEN
Among the garden’s full schedule of events for Hispanic Heritage Month, some of them include stand-
out activities for kids: on October 5, a Family Fun Day with bounce houses and a blessing of the animals; and on October 12, a screening of the movie Wish. Plus, you’ll get free admission on the last day of the festival. Otherwise, it’s $12 for adults, $6 for children 6–12. 817/463-4160; fwbg.org
PUMPKIN NIGHTS
Through October 31
HOWELL FARMS, ARLINGTON
This time of year is a whirlwind. Here’s why to go to the State Fair of Texas and more fall festivities and shows.
This after-dark pumpkin trail is unlike the others. Not only for the fire dancers and live pumpkin carvers but for the fire-breathing pumpkin dragons, more themed scenes (we loved the Enchanted Forrest of gnome houses) and the Monster Mash playground. Get your tickets by October 3 for early bird pricing, which starts at $12; under 4 free. pumpkinnights.com
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AUTUMN AT THE ARBORETUM:
TEXAS TOWN
Through November 3
DALLAS ARBORETUM
The always gorgeous Arboretum is bringing back its showstopping Pumpkin Village this year but with a new Texas twist: a pioneer village recreated with 100,000 pumpkins, gourds and squash. Included with general admission: $22 adults; $13 children 3–12; under 3 free. Additional $3 for the Children’s Adventure Garden. 214/515-6615; dallasarboretum.org
AVIATION DISCOVERY FEST
October 4–6
DALLAS EXECUTIVE
AIRPORT
Hop in for a spin around the tarmac in a half-track military vehicle, let the kids play in the Discovery Zone, or even go up in a real airplane during this weekend fest hosted by the Commemorative Air Force. Admission is $35 for adults; under 18 free. 888/945-3008; aviationdiscoveryfest.org
RIVER LEGACY FALL FESTIVAL
October 5
RIVER LEGACY NATURE CENTER, ARLINGTON
Is your kid brave enough to enter the dunk tank? That’s just one of many activities planned for this annual fundraiser and outdoor festival. On entry and activities, you’ll save a few dollars by getting Family Fun Pack, which includes: four admission tickets and $20 in coupons
for food and games. 817/8606752; riverlegacy.org
CANINE STARS
STUNT DOG SHOW
October 5
COPPELL ARTS CENTER
Move over, Olympic long jumpers. This group of highly trained doggos—most of them rescues, too—are pro athletes. Come watch them show off their agility in frisbee routines, high jumping and more air stunts during two shows on Saturday. (Can you imagine the number of treats it took to train these dogs?) Look them up on America’s Got Talent, Animal Planet, and more TV shows for a peek at their talent. $30. 972/304-7047; coppellartscenter.org
KALEIDOSCOPE PARK GRAND OPENING
October 5–6
KALEIDOSCOPE PARK, FRISCO
After months of buzz, now’s the time to finally head to this brand new park and take an up-close look at the aerial sculpture called “Butterfly Rest Stop” inspired by migrating butterflies each fall. To mark the opening, expect a full weekend of entertainment, ranging from a petting zoo and lawn games, to live music. FREE 214/346-5531; kaleidoscopepark.org
DISNEY JR. LIVE ON TOUR: LET’S PLAY
October 6
WILL ROGERS AUDITORIUM, FORT WORTH
Get ready to dance in your seats as costumed SuperKitties, Ariel and Spidey
GARDENS AT HERITAGE PARK
This festival is a fun excuse for your kids to dress up again in their butterfly costumes. Come celebrate monarch butterflies as they begin their migration south and enjoy all sorts of butterfly-related fun, like science activities, crafts, and of course, butterfly releases. Creative kids can also enter an art contest, with winners announced at the festival. FREE 817/410-3185, grapevinetexasusa.com
GOLD OVER AMERICA TOUR
October 20
DICKIES ARENA, FORT WORTH
join Mickey and Minnie for this musical playdate on stage. Tickets start at $39.95. Book VIP tickets for the best seats in the house and access to the pre-show party with character meet and greets. disneyjuniortour.com
ROGERS & HAMMERSTEIN’S
CINDERELLA
October 11–27
CASA MAÑANA, FORT WORTH
Tickets for this youth edition show (about half the length of the original Broadway show) start at $19. And if you really want the princess experience, come before one of the Saturday matinees for Tea with Cinderella. $65 tickets include finger foods and a meet & greet with Cinderella herself.
Planning ahead for the holidays? Pencil in Casa’s ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas, starting November 29. 817/332-2272; casamanana.org
TRICK OR TROT
October 12
ALICE WALTON COWGIRL PARK, FORT WORTH
Need a reason to dress up as a cowgirl or cowboy for Halloween? Here’s one: the National Cowgirl Museum and Hall of Fame hosts its second annual family party at the grassy area right next door. Come expecting costume contests, candy stations and, even better for anyone not dressed up, face painting. FREE 817/3364475; cowgirl.net
BUTTERFLY FLUTTERBY
October 19
GRAPEVINE BOTANICAL
The G.O.A.T. is in the house! Simone Biles, fresh off her big wins at the Paris Olympics, will perform inperson along with more than a dozen fellow gymnasts. (Unfortunately, that doesn’t include pommel horse king Stephen Nedoroscik, while he’s busy with Dancing with the Stars). Tickets from $35. 817/402-9801; goldoveramericatour.com
SUGAR SKULL: A DÍA DE MUERTOS MUSICAL ADVENTURE
October 20
EISEMANN CENTER FOR PERFORMING ARTS, RICHARDSON
For fans of Coco—or anyone celebrating the Day of the Dead this year—don’t miss this bilingual show made for kids, in which a candy skeleton comes to life and assists 12-yearold Vita Flores in connecting with her ancestors and discovering the holiday’s true meaning. Tickets from $15. 972/7444650; eisemanncenter.com
The fest runs from 2–10pm, and at 7pm, the parade steps off with folklórico dancers and more community groups. FREE ddlmusa.com
THE NIGHTMARE BEFORE CHRISTMAS
October 26
KLYDE WARREN PARK, DALLAS
It’s the Halloween/Christmas mashup we come back to year after year. Come early for the trick-or-treating and for the park’s inaugural costume contest, then settle in for a movie screening on the lawn. FREE 214/716-4500; klydewarrenpark.org
FESTIVAL AT THE SWITCHYARD
November 2
HISTORIC DOWNTOWN CARROLLTON
This festival is so easy on your wallet because all the rides and games are free. Bring the kids for all-day fun or, Mommas, leave the kids at home with a babysitter and head up front by the stage to live out your ‘90s teen dreams. The Wallflowers are the headliners at this year’s concert. FREE 972/466-3000; carrolltonfestival.com
JAPANESE FALL FESTIVAL
November 2–3
FORT WORTH
BOTANIC GARDEN
DALLAS DÍA DE LOS MUERTOS PARADE & FESTIVAL
October 26
DALLAS CITY HALL
You’ll see more sugar skull face painting here than any other spot in town at this fifth annual party in downtown. Come early to get your face painting or to scope out a spot for the best viewing of the stage performances.
For the rest of us who can’t afford a flight to Mount Fuji, there’s the Fort Worth Japanese Garden. And the best times to visit are each spring and fall during these cultural festivities. Expect performances like taiko drumming and crafts like origami—all inside the walls of this gorgeous landscape. No visit is complete without a walk over the moon bridge and feeding the koi fish. Tickets from $6; under 6 free. 817/463-4160; fwbg.org
ENCANTO SING-ALONG FILM IN CONCERT
November 8–9
EISEMANN CENTER, RICHARDSON
For all the kids who can’t keep quiet in a traditional performance theater, here you don’t have to! Shout out and sing-along (toddler
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playbook / THINGS TO DO
babble welcome, too) during these two live shows. The film will be shown in English on Friday and in Spanish on Saturday. Tickets from $40. 972/744-4650; eisemanncenter.com
HOT WHEELS
MONSTER TRUCKS
LIVE GLOW PARTY
November 9–10
DICKIES ARENA, FORT WORTH
As a lifelong monster truck junkie myself, I’m always stoked when this show comes back around. Add glow-in-the-dark elements and pyrotechnics and boom! Dress up in white shirts to really let the glow lights work their magic for fans in the stands. And remember to bring ear protection for their little ears. Tickets from $30 for adults and from $10 for children. 817/402-9801; hotwheelsmonstertruckslive.com
ICE!
November 15–January 5
GAYLORD TEXAN, GRAPEVINE
Follow your GPS to the Gaylord for a walk through this massive ice exhibit of Christmas scenes carved from colorful ice blocks. It’s as cool as it is literally freezing—and that’s just the start of the resort’s festivities. Tickets sold separately for the ice slides, carousel and photos with Santa. 817/778-1000; christmasatgaylordtexan.com
the holiday treatment. Come after dark to see them lit up with everything from oversized and illuminated flowers, to giant cowboy nutcrackers and a water fountain show. Santa will be there on select nights too. Pricing from $12. 817/4634160; fwbg.org/lightscape
CAROL OF LIGHTS
November 25
HISTORIC DOWNTOWN
GRAPEVINE
The Monday before Thanksgiving, treat your family and out-of-town visitors to the Christmas Capital of Texas. Its big tree around Peace Plaza and all of downtown lights up when the mayor flips the switch and the festivities really kick off. FREE 817/410-3185; grapevinetexasusa.com
FORT WORTH
TURKEY TROT
November 28
THE SHOPS AT CLEARFORK
Sign up in advance for this early morning 5K or 8K, or the shorter 1K Gobbler Trot for the kids, and you’ll be home in time for Thanksgiving lunch. Costumes are welcome, so are jogging strollers and family dogs. $25 registration for the kids race; from $43 for adults. And it’s all for a good cause: funding the programs at YMCA of Metropolitan Fort Worth. 817/335-9622; fwtrot.org
HOW THE GRINCH
STOLE CHRISTMAS
November 19–24
BASS PERFORMANCE
HALL, FORT WORTH
Santa’s unofficial evil counterpart, the Grinch (or is that Krampus?!) is back to his old antics. And we get to relive them with this nationally touring live musical. Plus, we like that this is not a super long show, just 85 minutes and with no intermission.
Tickets from $44. 817/2124450; basshall.com
LIGHTSCAPE
November 22–January 5
FORT WORTH
BOTANIC GARDEN
These gardens are getting
THE POLAR EXPRESS CONCERT
November 30–December 1
FORT WORTH
STOCKYARDS STATION
The second installment of the Cliburn Family Concert series shines a light on this popular children’s book by Chris Van Allsburg. Meet in the Stampede Room for a symphonic concert that takes kids on a midnight run to the North Pole. Be sure to skate the ice rink and meet Cowboy Santa while you’re there at the Stockyards. $20; children under 2 free. 817/738-6536; cliburn.org
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Enjoy some social time out of the house with your babies and toddlers
PRESCHOOL DISCOVERY CLUB
October 4 and 18
FORT WORTH NATURE CENTER & REFUGE
Spiders aren’t all scary, are they? Give your 3- to 5-year-olds a chance to learn more about them (and prevent arachnophobia before it starts) by joining these morning programs with stories, lessons, crafts and a hike. Every month has a different theme, but this October, it’s all about spiders. $8, plus general admission: $6 adults; $2 children; under 3 free. Preregistration is required. 817/392-7410; fwnaturecenter.org
LITTLE FARMER FRIDAYS
October 4 and 25
HERITAGE FARMSTEAD
MUSEUM, PLANO
Kids 2 and up get the run of the farm on these select Friday programs, featuring themed story readings and craft-making in the Pole Barn. On October 4, come to meet the farmstead’s new sheep, Rita and Lambow. Later in the month, it’s all about trick-or-treating. Come early and stay all day, if you like, feeding the chickens and taking a wagon ride around the 4.5-acre property. Go online to get your tickets at least 24 hours in advance. $5 adults; $15 children 2–11; $7 for children under 2. 972/881-0140; heritagefarmstead.org
DAY OUT WITH THOMAS: BUBBLE TOUR
October 11–20
GRAPEVINE VINTAGE RAILROAD
Surprise your preschoolers with meeting a real-life and smiling Thomas the Tank
Engine. He’ll be blowing bubbles from his smokestack when he chugs through downtown Grapevine. Book your time slot online for a half-hour train ride on the antique railcars, pulled by Thomas, and stay for more fun like bubble play, live magic shows and of course, a big model train set. $26; free for lapsit kids under 1. 866/468-7630; ticketwebdowt.com
PAW PATROL LIVE!
November 2–3
TEXAS TRUST CU THEATRE, GRAND PRAIRIE
The absolute grip that Paw Patrol has on my 3-year-old nephew is a tight one. (“Chase is on the case!”) See them all on their next crusade in A Mighty Adventure. The oversized dog costumes look just like the characters from the cartoon and are operated by human puppeteers. Tickets from $25. VIP tickets from $110. 972/854-5076; pawpatrollive.com
PARENTS NIGHT IN
November 8
BB PIÑATA, DALLAS
This newly debuted playspace in Oak Cliff is a hot spot for baby and toddler play, but the fun isn’t only for them. During this Parents Night In, couples are welcome to eat snacks in the party room and get crafty with portrait painting while staff babysits the littles. Can’t go that night? Check their socials for more special events, or go anytime for the soft play areas, slide and a ball pit. An all-day play pass is $18.99 on weekdays and $21.99 on weekends. 214/242-8553; bbpinata.com
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STOP & SMELL THE COFFEE
5 Kid-friendly coffee shops around DFW
WORDS ELIZABETH SMITH
PUMPKIN SPICE LATTES are once again all the rage this fall, and picking up a little treat (aka our daily emotional support coffee) from your local café is one tasty way to keep your heads above the water as parents. But where can Mom go for her afternoon PSL with the kids in tow too? Where can they play or run around without side-eye glances from the baristas? Your neighborhood Starbucks likely isn’t it. That’s why we sought out some of the best DFW-area coffee shops that not only have room for your littles to stretch their legs but also offer amazing drinks and snacks for their young palates and for you.
GEORGE COFFEE & PROVISIONS
In the heart of Old Town Coppell, right across from the farmers market pavilion, there’s no missing this three-story farmhouse dream, painted a crisp white and with a wrap-around porch. The yard at George’s—named after the Town’s namesake, George Coppell—is enclosed with a darling white picket fence, vital for keeping your kids safe from traffic. We suggest ordering your goodies to-go and sitting outside on the patio’s rocking chairs or picnic tables or plopping down on the grass.
But first, coffee—right? Give the snickerdoodle latte a try, paired with a snickerdoodle cookie. The most requested kids’ drinks are the homemade lemonade and the JettPack, a cold chocolate milk with vanilla and topped with sweet cold foam and a dusting of cocoa powder and cinnamon—a recipe created by one of the sons of café owners Christian and Laura Hemberger.
Looking at the food options, parents will appreciate the breakfast tacos, and kids will no doubt go for the Nutella toast with berries or the bento boxes filled with fruit, veggies and nuts. When they’re ready to run, head across the street toward the playground and adjacent
➽BELOW // At George Coffee, ask the barista for a JettPack, kid-favorite drink of cold chocolate milk, topped with foam, cocoa powder and cinnamon. And don’t worry, they’ll put it in a to-go cup with a lid.
grassy fields. George is open 7am–8pm Monday–Saturday and closed Sundays. // 462 Houston Street, Coppell; 469/464-3107; georgecoffeeandprovisions
WHITE BOX ROASTERY CO. Even if you’re not local to McKinney, it’s 100%
➽ ABOVE // Grabbing a latte is the perfect excuse we need to get out of the house, but some coffee shops like George Coffee & Provisions in Coppell are more welcoming to families with kids than others.
worth venturing out here to this hidden gem of a coffee shop. Open since July 2023 in the historic McKinney Cotton Mill, White Box Roastery’s got it all: a spacious outdoor patio, an indoor kids play area, and all of the treats are pretty as well as tasty. Be sure to scoop up a pop tart: one for the kids and one for yourself. (It’s so delicious, you won’t want to share.) Your kids can choose from a yummy selection of kid’s drinks, like the cupcake latte or cotton candy frappe. Moms, order a work of latte art for yourself and have a seat on the couches or tables within an arm’s reach from the dedicated kids’ play area in the corner. This is a woodsy, whimsical spot with a play kitchen, books, kid-size table and chairs, even a tablet station for them to play educational apps. For more space to roam, exit to the patio with water features and a hidden garden that reflects the history of the Cotton Mill, originally built in 1910. White Box is open 7:30am–5pm Monday–Saturday and 8am–4pm Sunday. // 610 Elm Street, Suite 1340, McKinney; 469/270-9622; whiteboxroastery.com
B-SIDE COFFEE
This new coffee shop opened in early 2024 in the Elmwood neighborhood of Oak Cliff, about 3 miles from the Dallas Zoo. With its record player and dark, cozy décor, B-Side has a rock ‘n’ roll vibe parents can relax in, while the kids play in a dedicated area in the back. It’s loaded with toys, costumes, books and coloring pages at kid-size table, and even a little slide. For playtime with other littles, the best time to come is during the Saturday morning story times. Check their Instagram and Facebook for specific dates and times and more themed activities. The most kid-friendly drinks are the tried-and-true chocolate milk and hot chocolate (with any milk-alternative you may need) and grab-and-go protein milks. And for parents in need of a caffeine fix, check out their seasonal fall menu, including the maple cream cold brew or pumpkin chai, as well as their tacos, sandwiches and pastries, especially their croissants. B-Side Coffee is open daily 6:30am–4pm. // 2105 S. Edgefield Avenue, Dallas; 972/803-3527; follow on Instagram @ bsidecoffeedallas
CASA AZUL COFFEE
In the historic Northside neighborhood of Fort Worth, near the Stockyards, this spot showcases the Mexican heritage of owners Joseph and Anette Landeros and has the colorful aesthetic to show for it. Look for the bungalow-style house painted a rich cobalt blue with bright green shutters, and tall fencing that wraps around the large, partially shaded patio. Kids are welcome to play on the Little Tykes toys outside, and inside, they can
pick out books to read from the little library and sit at a kid-size table with coloring books. Your thirsty kids can choose from the lemonades or limeades with more fruit flavors you can add, flavored milks that can be made hot or cold, as well as several juices: from apple and orange to grapefruit.
For caffeine drinkers, even the drip coffee here is divine. Their house Café de Olla is brewed with cinnamon and sweetened with a flavorful and unrefined whole cane sugar called piloncillo. This pairs well with both the conchas, brightly colored Mexican pastries, and the breakfast tacos. Casa Azul is open 6am–4pm Monday–Friday and 8am–4pm Saturday–Sunday. // 300 W. Central Ave., Fort Worth; 817/386-0800; casaazulcoffee.com
PINK COFFEE
For your kids who proudly declare that pink is their favorite color, Pink Coffee in Garland is a treat. They’ve got pink drinks and freshly baked pastries, heart-shaped chairs, a pink rose wall for photo ops, white boards for kids to draw on and a spacious lounge.
And what Pink Coffee lacks in a dedicated play area or a grassy patio it makes up for with a photo op your Cinderella-obsessed kids won’t be able to resist: a pretty carriage you can climb inside. Up to about six people can fit at a time, and guests are welcome to cuddle
with the coffee shop’s resident pink teddy bear, Teddy, as you enjoy your treats. Kids will go for the spiced chai latte (don’t worry, it’s caffeinefree), the hot chocolate or—to stay on pink theme—the strawberry smoothie.
Pink Coffee is open daily 7am–7pm and a great first stop before heading a few miles over to the Kids Empire playplace at Firewheel Town Center. // 2334 W. Buckingham Road, Suite 210, Garland; 972/795-7974; pinkcoffee.love
➽ ABOVE // Climb into this Cinderella-inspired carriage and cuddle with a pink Teddy at Pink Coffee in Garland.
➽ ABOVE // For your kids who love puzzles, solve this one: how to escape hay mazes like this one at Preston Trail Farms’ Big Orange Pumpkin Patch. Here they can test their skills of working memory and spatial learning—and come out giggling.
GET LOST
WORDS ELIZABETH SMITH
SURE, YOU CAN PICK UP A PUMPKIN from your local grocery store anytime, but if you’re looking for an all-day authentic autumn experience and one that the kids won’t soon forget, that’s where these amazing pumpkin patches come in. These family farms do it big, most offering dozens of activities. One thing we noticed about our favorite destinations: They also offer a particular activity—mazes. Be they made from cornstalks or hay bales, these mazes offer another way for kids to run free and have fun getting lost in the joys of the season.
HAY MAZES
PRESTON TRAIL FARMS
This family-run farm, about 15 minutes north of Prosper, is a fab spot to visit any time of year for its petting farm, café and a hardware/feed store, but during the Big Orange Pumpkin Farm now through November 27, the hay maze is a fun challenge. At just under an acre, the 6-foot-tall hay maze has got zigs and zags, those dreaded dead ends and plenty of room to get lost.
With general admission, you’ll get unlimited adventures through the hay maze, tractor-pulled hayrides, one cup of feed for the goats, cows and longhorn cattle. $12 on weekdays (includes one small pumpkin); $15 on weekends (includes barrel train rides); free for children under 2. Love it so much you want to make it a weekend trip? Book an overnight at one of the silos, opening soon at the farm. // Gunter, 972/382-4995; prestontrailfarms.com
BLASE FAMILY FARM
You’ll find this pumpkin fest under the shade trees of this wooded farm (read: less worries about sunburns during these still-hot October days), and the hay maze here is just the right size for little kids. Parents can easily see over the
singular level of square straw bales, so you can be in and out in a jiffy and still have time for all the other fun: like the hayride, the petting the llamas, sheep and pigs, and walking through the wooded trail. Take a moment to read the storyboards to your kids, with anti-bullying message from Spookley the Square Pumpkin character. The $11 admission for 2 and older includes a small pumpkin on weekdays and an all-beef hot dog on weekends. And no one would blame you for blowing your budget on the pumpkin pies, muffins, popsicles or fudge. Blase is open every day now through Halloween, but before you come out, sign up online for your timed entry. // Rockwall, 972/772-3645; blasefamilyfarm.com
SUNSET TRAIL FARM
You may have visited this farm, about 5 miles north of Downtown McKinney, previously for blackberry or flower picking. Now Sunset Trail is opening for its first-ever pumpkin patch on weekends through October 27. Expect more than 30 varieties of pumpkins, some of which they grow right there on the farm, and lots of
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Though this one-day festival on Saturday, October 5 doesn’t have a real corn maze, we love this event for its inflatable one, a multi-room bounce house shaped like a giant corn maze. Free admission and games; $10 for all-you-can-ride carnival rides. // Murphy, 972/468-4444; maizedays.com
activities. The walls of their hay maze stretch only up to 3 feet tall, so parents can peer over and watch from afar, or join in with their kids. More fun like pumpkin bowling, rubber duck races and a ball pit are free with admission: $11 admission for 2 and older. Just book your timed admission in advance. Coming on the weekend? Don’t worry about eating before you come, they’ll have food trucks on-site. // McKinney, 214/450-6255; sunsettrail.com
TEAM FAMILY FARMS
We’re always overwhelmed (in a good way) by the sheer number of play activities at this annual pumpkin fest. Plan to be here all day exploring the farm games, animal feedings, and the HalfPint Homestead, an area for little kids to test their pioneer skills. You can even practice your cowboy and cowgirl yell with Cowboy Tex, performed by owner Scott Logan. (Your kids may also have seen him perform at their school as Professor Brainius.) And they’re still rolling out new activities each year, like the rolling pipe slide. (You’ll crawl through a spinning giant PVC pipe and land on a bale of hay).
But oh yes, the hay maze! The Team Family Farms’ kid-size maze is geared more toward younger children and stacked three bales high, which is still low enough for parents to see the top of their kids’ heads. For a greater challenge, middle schoolers are encouraged to wear blindfold while feeling their way through the turns. Come experience it all, and the dozens of photos ops, now through November 3. We plan to be there with one of their apple cider slushies. Admission is $12 weekdays and $18 weekends; under 2 free. $15 on Columbus Day Monday. // Aubrey, 940/343-5155, teamfamilyfarms.com
CORN MAZES
HALL’S PUMPKIN FARM & CORN MAZE
This family-owned farm since 1929, located on Hall-Johnson Road no less, is a beloved local destination in Grapevine for its simple pleasures of the season: beautifully presented pumpkins and pumpkins on the vine, hayrides through the pasture to visit the cows and donkeys and, the star of the show, its corn maze. This of course take months to cultivate and spans two acres of up to 9-foot-tall stalks. Hall’s
is open October 4–November 3, and open late too Wednesdays–Sundays, until 8pm or 9pm each night, so if you’re visiting after dark for an extra spooky experience, you’re still welcome to walk the corn maze, but bring a flashlight. But no matter when you visit, you’ll need to keep in step with your kids the whole time.
Note that this farm is cash only, so be sure to stop by the ATM before your drive out here. Weekend admission is $15 for adults, $10 for kids ages 4–11, under 3 free. If you’re on a tight budget, come on Wednesday or Thursday when admission is only $5. // Grapevine, 817/991-1052; hallspumpkinfarm.net
SHADOW CREEK PUMPKIN FARM
Texas History Comes to Life in Texas Town!
Step back in time, explore Texas heritage, and enjoy the perfect autumn experience surrounded by over 100,000 pumpkins, gourds, and squash.
For families eager for a day out in a pumpkin patch but not crazy about the heat, check out Shadow Creek. Much of the 25 acres at this family-owned farm and most of the activities are shaded by the tree canopy. Its two dozen-plus attractions
include jumping pads, climbing the hay pyramid, and petting the zoo animals like alpacas and goats.
But it’s all sunshine over the corn fields. Come walk through the maze of healthy green stalks on weekends October 5–27 and on select Mondays. Be careful around those corners though, lest you run into other explorers.
Want to go on a hayride but not keen to sit on itchy hay bales? No problem. Climb into Shadow Creek’s trailers with benches for a more comfortable spin around the fields to see the highland cows and longhorns. Most of these activities are included with the $18 admission; under 3 free. And when you’re thirsty or ready for a break, snack on treats (hello, apple cider donuts) and other hearty foods. // Midlothian, 469/389-2867; shadowcreekpumpkinfarm.com
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WHAT’S BETTER THAN YOUR CHILD’S SMILE?
Chew on these facts and stats about keeping those teeth clean and healthy.
4 MILLION
People in the U.S. need or already have braces
SPORTS MISHAPS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR UP TO 40% OF ALL DENTAL INJURIES IN CHILDREN
DID YOU KNOW?
Most kids lose their teeth in the same order they came in
35% 35% Of people are born without wisdom teeth
5X
The most common chronic disease in children, tooth decay affects five times more kids than asthma
7
7
The recommend age by which children get their first orthodontic check-up
SIGNS YOUR CHILD MIGHT NEED ORTHODONTIC CARE:
Early or late loss of baby teeth
Difficulty biting or chewing
Mouth breathing
Cheek biting
Jaw shifting or clicking
Facial imbalance
5 TO6 THE AVERAGE AGE AT WHICH KIDS LOSE THEIR FIRST BABY TOOTH
CHILDREN SHOULD SEE A DENTIST within 6 months of their first tooth coming in, or by their first birthday
1 IN5
Of U.S. children aged 5 to 11 have at least one untreated decaying tooth
DENTISTS Mom Approved 2024
PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY
ALLEN
Aubel, Jamilyn DDS
Allen Pediatric Dentistry
Chan, Justin DDS
Sprout Dentistry for Kids
Hunter, Jessie DDS
Allen Pediatric Dentistry
Yoo, Sage DMD
Sprout Dentistry for Kids
ARLINGTON
Ketchel, Jennifer P. DDS, MS Arlington Pediatric Dentistry
Witte, John DDS, PC
John B. Witte, DDS, PC
AUBREY
Lee, Karrie DMD
Windhaven Pediatric Dentistry
CARROLLTON
Holt, Jeffrey DDS, MS
Kids Dental
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Hutcheson, Candice DDS, MS
Children’s Dental Specialists
Rodriguez, Nick DDS
Burst Dental
COLLEYVILLE
Ta, Tuong DDS
Pediatric Dentistry of Colleyville
COPPELL
Coe, Karen DDS
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Jacob, George Jeryn BDS, MDS, MS Smile City Orthodontics
ORAL & MAXILLOFACIAL SURGERY
DALLAS
Schlieve, Thomas DDS, MD, FACS
UT Southwestern
Medical Center, Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery
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ENNIS
Franco, Pedro DDS
DFW Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery
IRVING
Franco, Pedro DDS
DFW Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery
MESQUITE
Franco, Pedro DDS
DFW Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery
PLANO
Fields, Arthur W. DDS, MS
Fields & Pavelka
Oral Surgery, PLLC
FAMILY DENTISTRY
ALLEN
Cox, Nicholas R. DDS
Cox Family Dentistry
BARTONVILLE
Artho, Matthew DDS
Country Lakes
Family Dental
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COLLEYVILLE
Metzger, Kyle DMD
Metzger Dentistry
DALLAS
Bhardwaj, Lalit DDS
Atlantis Dental
Lalangas, Tina DDS
Lalangas Family Dentistry
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Luna, Jordan C.DDS
Highlands Family Dentistry
Nguyen, Cung (Jeff) DDS
Henderson Family Dental
Ombrello, Jill DDS, AIAOMT, AIABDM, CIFM
Central Dentist
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Sauerwein, Andrea DDS
Highlands Family Dentistry
Vanderbrook, Drew DDS
Vanderbrook Family Dentistry
Venincasa, Mark DDS
Mark A. Venincasa, DDS
FAIRVIEW
McElvain, Justin DDS
Lone Star Family Dental
FORT WORTH
Brown, Jacob DDS
Brown Family Dentistry
Damon, Clark DDS
Texas Implant & Dental Center
Laska, Justyna DDS, PC
Justyna Laska DDS, PC
Parikh, Depal DDS
Mint Leaf Dental
Thorne, Charles (Matt) DDS
Thorne Family Dentistry
FRISCO
Mahmood, Sara DDS, MS, FAGD
Brush365
GARLAND
Acquaye, Elizabeth DDS
Acquaye Dental
Family Dentistry
KELLER
Angwin, Kristen DDS
Just for Grins Family
Dentistry & Orthodontics
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LITTLE ELM
Taylor, Yolanda DMD
Taylor Made Smiles
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MCKINNEY
Patel, Sam DDS
Sam Patel, DDS, PA
MESQUITE
Song, Tae G. DDS
Happy Teeth Dental Centers of Mesquite
MURPHY
Glazer, Brittaney DDS
Glazer Family Dentistry
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Jain, Anshu DDS, FAGD Smiles at Murphy
NORTHLAKE
Whinery, Catherine DDS
Northlake Dentistry
NORTH RICHLAND
HILLS
Thorne, Charles (Matt) DDS
Thorne Family Dentistry
PLANO
Grattafiori, David DDS
David A. Grattafiori, DDS
RICHARDSON
Aten, Susan DDS
Susan J. Aten DDS
ROANOKE
Antolin, Rhea DMD
Garden Valley Family & Cosmetic Dentistry
ROCKWALL
Hittson, Suzanne DDS
Hittson Dental
SOUTHLAKE
Dyer, T. Paul DDS
North Tarrant Family Dentistry
SPECIAL NEEDS DENTISTRY
GRAND PRAIRIE
Solomon, Glynn DDS Disability Dental Services
HOLISTIC/ BIOLOGICAL DENTISTRY
RICHARDSON
Badheka, Shaunak DMD
Flourish Dental Boutique
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Engram, Toni DDS, AIAOMT
Flourish Dental Boutique
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COSMETIC & RECONSTRUCTIVE DENTISTRY
SOUTHLAKE
Green, James DDS
StarImage Dental Boutique & Oral Surgery
Sandra Armstrong, DDS Amy K. Watts, DDS, MS
Alexis Capeci, DDS, MS
Pediatric Dentistry 10x Mom Approved
Giggles and Grins Pediatric Dentistry is an exceptional pediatric dental office that specializes in providing top-notch dental care to anxious young children and teenagers. What sets this office apart is that our three doctors are board certified; an extra credential that provides them merit and creates a warm and nurturing environment for patients and their parents.
With a deep understanding of the fears and anxieties children may have about visiting the dentist, the doctors at Giggles and Grins take a thoughtful approach to every patient. They are dedicated to making each visit as comfortable, efficient and stress-free as possible, ensuring that children feel safe and supported throughout their dental care journey.
The team of board-certified doctors at Giggles and Grins is highly skilled and experienced in the field of pediatric dentistry. They stay up to date with the latest advancements and techniques to provide the most effective and efficient treatments.
From routine check-ups to more complex procedures, the doctors at Giggles and Grins handle each case with utmost care and professionalism. They take the time to educate their young patients on proper dental hygiene practices and encourage them to take an active role in their own oral health.
Giggles and Grins Pediatric Dentistry
1480 Corporate Circle #200 Southlake, TX 76092
817-488-3533
gigglesandgrins.org
Pictured, left to right: Dr. Alexis Capeci, Dr. Sandra Armstrong and Dr. Amy Watts
Toni Engram, DDS, AIAOMT Shaun
Badheka, DMD
Holistic/Biological
Dentistry
Parents are increasingly mindful of their children’s health, from choosing healthier foods to getting more sunshine, to perhaps seeking out healthcare providers with a holistic mindset. For many families in the DFW area and beyond, Flourish Dental Boutique offers just that—a refreshing approach to dental care, rooted in holistic and biological principles.
Dr. Engram and Dr. Badheka believe that oral health is deeply connected to overall well-being, and their approach reflects that understanding. “We view each patient as a whole person, not just a set of teeth,” explains Dr. Engram. “This allows us to provide care that is as safe and as natural as possible, not just for children, but for their parents as well.”
For parents seeking more natural and minimally invasive treatments, the biological methods practiced at Flourish Dental Boutique are a perfect fit. The doctors focus on biocompatible materials and emphasize prevention over intervention, ensuring that every treatment supports the body’s natural healing processes. Dr. Badheka notes, “We’re proud to offer families fluoride-free, mercury-safe dentistry, ozone therapy, and other techniques that reduce the toxic burden on the body, especially for young, developing children.”
Dr. Engram, known for her calm, nurturing demeanor, focuses on personalized care for each patient, always keeping the big picture in mind. As an integrative health coach, her holistic philosophy emphasizes the importance of nutrition, oral hygiene, and natural therapies to promote healthy development from infancy through adulthood. Likewise, her experience as a mom has motivated her to seek extensive training in infant lip and tongue tie support. “We really want to empower parents with the tools they need to raise healthy, happy kids,” says Dr. Engram, “from pregnancy to infancy, and beyond.”
Meanwhile, Dr. Badheka, with his expertise in cosmetic and restorative procedures, complements this holistic philosophy with cutting-edge techniques that prioritize both aesthetics and function. With degrees from the University of Texas at Arlington and the Missouri School of Dentistry and Oral Health, families seek him out for his ability to incorporate biological principles into complex treatments. “It’s about giving families options that align with their needs and values, and making sure they feel comfortable and confident with their treatment plan,” says Dr. Badheka.
Together, Dr. Engram and Dr. Badheka have cultivated an environment where families can thrive, and children can develop positive associations with dental care. For families seeking a dental home that incorporates holistic and biological principles, Flourish Dental Boutique might just be the perfect fit.
Dental Boutique
Pictured, left to right: Dr. Shaun Badheka and Dr. Toni Engram
At myKIDSdds, our goal is to be the premier pediatric dental and orthodontic provider in Dallas, Texas. When you visit our practice, you can expect your child to receive the highest quality dental care in an award-winning office. Our team is dedicated to showing your kiddo just how much fun dentistry can be!
myKIDSdds 8325 Walnut Hill Lane, Suite 111, Dallas, TX 75231
Pediatric Dentistry: 469-315-9112
Orthodontics: 214-696-3085
mykidsdds.com
Kristen Angwin, DDS
Family Dentistry
4x Mom Approved
Just For Grins Family Dentistry and Orthodontics
466 N. Main St., Keller, TX 76248 817-741-4455
justforgrinskeller.com
Dr. Kristen Angwin and the team at Just for Grins Family Dentistry and Orthodontics focus on providing excellence in dentistry and gentle care for patients of all ages. Just for Grins is a family-owned dental practice whose goal is to help our patients feel loved and cared for in a fun, family-friendly environment.
Just for Grins dentists, Dr. Kristen and Dr. Samantha, provide pediatric dental services from infancy to the teenage years in a super fun, enjoyable environment. Both doctors love seeing their patients’ big smiles and excitement coming to the dentist!
Dr. Kristen is passionate about helping new moms navigate some of the challenges of nursing and feeding, including tongue and lip ties. She uses the latest technology in CO2 lasers to gently remove tight tissue with no general anesthesia and the baby is allowed to nurse immediately after in our comfortable nursing room.
Just for Grins even offers orthodontic treatment in one convenient location! Our amazing, fun-loving and caring orthodontist, Dr. Elisa takes pride in making beautiful, healthy smiles and providing exceptional care to all of her patients.
Luke Bailey, DDS, MSD & Brittany Spruiell, DDS, MSD Orthodontics
5x Mom Approved
At Bailey Orthodontics we are committed to providing not only the highest quality orthodontic care but also the experience our patients and their hard-working families deserve.
Here, we believe in fair prices. We believe in treating each person who walks through our door with kindness and respect. We believe in using cutting-edge technology bolstered by 100 years of combined orthodontic experience and a board-certified orthodontist. We believe in the benefit of going the extra mile.
Above all, we know the trust it takes to place your favorite smile in our hands, and our commitment to protecting that trust is at the heart of everything we do.
Dr. Diane Colter’s passion to be the most caring and compassionate pediatric dentist led her to open All About Kids Dentistry, which specializes in treating infants, children, teens and kids with special needs. She loves working with children and has a very caring and compassionate personality. It is of utmost importance to provide outstanding care along with an inviting atmosphere where both the parent and child will have a positive experience.
Dr. Colter grew up in Athens, Texas. She completed her degree from Baylor College of Dentistry, where she graduated in the top of her class. She completed a Residency in Pediatric Dentistry at the University of California Medical Center in Los Angeles, serving as chief resident.
Dr. Colter is a board-certified pediatric dentist recognized as a Diplomate of the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry. She also holds a staff appointment at Children’s Medical Center. Dr. Colter is a member of the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, American Dental Association, Texas Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, Texas Dental Association and Dallas County Dental Society. Dr. Colter has also been recognized many times by her fellow dental professionals as a top pediatric dentist in the area as published in D Magazine D Best and Texas Monthly’s Super Dentists.
Away from the office, Dr. Colter enjoys spending time with her husband, Dr. Shandon Colter, their beautiful children, Sydney and Landon. Dr. Colter also enjoys traveling, and time spent with friends and family.
A board-certified specialist in Pediatric and Adolescent Dentistry, Jeffrey Holt is the founder of KidsDental, a favorite of both kids and parents alike in the Dallas area. Dr. Holt has strategically changed the way children experience dentistry by providing positive and exciting atmospheres custom designed with children’s needs in mind. Kid-friendly diversions like SuperSlide PlayScapes, video games, trendy music, cool light shows, and inviting colorful dental chairs equipped with movies help keep each visit fun! With an emphasis on early childhood intervention, cosmetic restorative pediatric dentistry, and orthodontics, Dr. Holt and his expert team focus on specialized and preventive dentistry during the growth and development years. A commitment to the highest level of quality care assures a healthy smile for life.
Education: DDS, University of Oklahoma College of Dentistry; Post-Doctoral MS, Baylor University; Certificate of Pediatric Dentistry, Baylor College of Dentistry; Specialty Residency Programs, Children’s Medical Center of Dallas and Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children
Affiliations: American Board of Pediatric Dentistry; American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry; Texas Academy of Pediatric Dentistry; American Dental Association; Texas Dental Association; Dallas County Dental Society; Greater Dallas Society of Pediatric Dentists; former Clinical Director and Professor, Baylor College of Dentistry and Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children
Board Certified: Diplomate, American Board of Pediatric Dentistry
KidsDental
Plano: North Dallas Tollway @ Parker • 972-378-5437
Dr. Lalangas is passionate about her relationship-based family dental practice in North Dallas. Her greatest joys in life are her family and her work, and combining those two at Lalangas Family Dentistry is a dream come true.
As a family practitioner, she has the unique privilege of guiding patients of all ages—from her youngest visitors to her most senior patients—through every stage of their dental care. With each patient, she fosters a continuously evolving conversation centered around their growth, development, and specific dental needs.
Dr. Lalangas approaches her practice with compassion, taking the time to understand every patient’s emotions and concerns. With a mother’s touch, she empowers her patients to take control of their dental health, helping them feel confident about their smiles every step of the way.
Lalangas Family Dentistry
17475 Preston Rd. Dallas, TX 75252
972-930-1700
LalangasFamilyDentistry.com
Jill Ombrello, DDS, AIAOMT, AIABDM
Family Dentistry
8x Mom Approved
Dr. Jill Ombrello and Dr. Megan Snyder are highly respected dentists known for their expertise in holistic and family-friendly dental care. They prioritize creating a welcoming and comfortable environment for patients of all ages, especially children. Their approach integrates traditional dental practices with holistic methods, focusing on the overall health and well-being of their patients by identifying root causes to common symptoms.
Dr. Ombrello and Dr. Snyder understand that oral health is closely linked to overall health, and they emphasize the importance of preventive care and minimally invasive treatments. They utilize biocompatible materials and prioritize safe, non-toxic treatments to ensure the best outcomes for their patients.
Their dedication to patient education sets them apart, as they take the time to explain procedures and preventive measures to parents and children alike, fostering a trusting relationship. Both dentists are committed to continuous learning and staying updated with the latest advancements in dental care to provide the highest standard of treatment. With a compassionate and holistic approach, Dr. Ombrello and Dr. Snyder are trusted partners in promoting lifelong oral health for the entire family.
Dr. Jill Ombrello
Dr. Megan Snyder
Melissa Rozas, DDS
Pediatric Dentistry
12x Mom Approved
Dentistry for Infants, Children & Teens, P.A.
Melissa Rozas, DDS Dentistry for Infants, Children & Teens, PA
632 E. Sandy Lake Rd., Coppell, TX, 75019 972-393-9779 • info@rozasdds.com rozasdds.com
As a mother, Dr. Melissa Rozas knows firsthand how important it is for children to feel safe and comfortable at the dental office. She is passionate about creating a positive dental experience that is also fun and educational for the entire family. “Clear communication about health goals and concerns is my top priority in a loving and safe environment.”
Dr. Rozas enjoys seeing patients as infants or by age 1 year. “Seeing the babies early in life allow us the ability to help the parents establish proper oral hygiene techniques and asses the child’s risk for cavities. We are also able to evaluate potential problems such as tongue and lip-tie, mouth breathing and their effects on oral development.” She is passionate about working with special needs children and their families to customize an oral health plan that suites their dental needs.
Dr. Rozas is board certified by the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry and is an active member in the American Dental Association, the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, the Texas Dental Association, The Greater Dallas Pediatric Dental Society and the Academy Laser Study Club. Dr. Rozas is past president of the Texas Academy of Pediatric Dentistry and is currently serving as co-chairman of the Greater Dallas Pediatric Dental Society.
Nathifa Smith, DDS
Pediatric Dentistry
7x Mom Approved
Dr. Smith is a board certified pediatric dentist by the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry and is honored to be a DFWChild Mom-Approved dentist for another year. She understands that building trust with the parents is very important in pediatric dental care because parents are nurturers; therefore she ensures that all dental decisions for your child are made in a doctor-family network which encourages parents to ask questions regarding their child’s dental care. At Teeth R’ Us we have a phenomenal child friendly environment with TV’s mounted above each treatment chair, Netflix, video games and a selection of educational toys and books in the lobby to put your child’s mind at ease. Dr. Smith specializes in cosmetic pediatric dentistry and provides dental services for small children, adolescents, teens and children with special needs. If dental sedation is necessary for treatment we offer oral inhalation, IV sedation for patients in-office and general anesthesia at Children’s Hospital. Dr. Smith looks forward to making your children smile.
Education: Bachelor of Science Biology, Florida State University, DDS, University of Iowa College of Dentistry; Post-Doctoral Certificate of Pediatric Dentistry, Howard College of Dentistry; Specialty Residency Programs, Hospital for Sick Children in Washington, DC
Affiliations: American Board of Pediatric Dentistry; American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry; Texas Academy of Pediatric Dentistry; American Dental Association; Texas Dental Association; North Texas Dental Association
Teeth R’ Us Children’s Dentistry 4865 Hedgcoxe Rd., Ste. 100, Plano, TX 75024 972-820-2022 f 972-820-2024 teethruschildrensdentistry.com
Justin Warcup, DDS
Pediatric Dentistry
9x Mom Approved
Justin Warcup, DDS, is the owner of North Texas Smiles Pediatric Dentistry and Orthodontics. Dr. Warcup earned a doctor of dental surgery (D.D.S.) degree at Ohio State University (OSU), where he also was on the dean’s list, served as president of the OSU Dental Entrepreneur Society, and co-founded OSU’s La Clinica Latina to provide dental care to an underserved community.
Dr. Warcup is a member of the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, American Dental Association, Academy of Laser Dentistry, Texas Dental Association, Texas Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, and Fort Worth District Dental Society.
Dr. Warcup and his wife have four children. When he is not in the office helping patients or at home enjoying his family, Dr. Warcup serves in leadership capacities with youth groups in the community—where he coaches sports teams and leads scouting groups.
“At North Texas Smiles Pediatric Dentistry and Orthodontics, every member of The Smile Team aims to help our patients enjoy their trips to the dentist so much that they look forward to the next visit! We recognize that each patient is special and invaluable, and we celebrate them. I consider it both an honor and a privilege to provide Fort Worth’s youth the highest quality dental care in the best possible environment,” says Dr. Warcup. “I love what I do, and I truly believe I have the greatest job on this earth.”
North Texas Smiles Pediatric Dentistry and Orthodontics 3550-C Hulen St., Fort Worth, TX 76107 817-732-9341 • northtexassmiles.com
Mila Davis, DDS
Pediatric Dentistry
10x Mom Approved
Dr. Mila Davis is a cum laude graduate of Princeton University. She received her D.D.S. from Columbia School of Dental Medicine in New York City, with specialty training at New York Presbyterian Hospital, Columbia University, receiving Certification in Pediatric Dentistry. She was an Assistant Professor for Clinical Dentistry at Columbia University. In Dallas, Dr. Davis taught part time at Texas A&M School of Dentistry. After rigorous clinical and written examination, she was awarded Diplomate of the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry.
Dr. Davis has hospital privileges at Children’s Medical Center in Plano. She was co-chair of the North Texas Give Kids a Smile Program where dental members volunteer to screen underserved children 5–12 years old for dental decay. Dr. Davis is certified in basic life support and pediatric advanced life support. She is a member of the American Dental Association, American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry and Greater Dallas Pediatric Dental Society.
As dentist and owner of Country Lakes Family Dental in Bartonville, Dr. Matthew Artho has become widely known as the area’s trusted family dentist. Receiving not only the honor of a DFWChild Mom-Approved office, Dr. Artho is a 12-year voted recipient of Best of Denton County as the Best Family Dentist and Overall Family Dental Practice. Dr. Artho’s vision of providing elite, state-of-the-art care with the comfort of a hometown environment has been proven time and again. Come see for yourself knowing you can rely on the quality care for your entire family.
Country Lakes Family Dental 74 McMakin Rd., Ste. 200, Bartonville, TX 76226 940-455-7645 • countrylakesdental.com
Brittaney L. Glazer, DDS
Family Dentistry
7x Mom Approved
“One Doctor. One Office. Your Whole Family” is our motto and we mean it! Dr. Brittaney Glazer is the only dentist you will see and we believe that makes all the difference. We strive to maintain long-term relationships with our patients by providing personal care tailored to you and your family.
In addition to being “Mom Approved”, Dr. Glazer is also a 7x “Best Dentist” by readers of the Murphy Monitor and a 5x Nextdoor.com “Neighborhood Favorite.” Read our reviews online and come meet us!
Glazer Family Dentistry 119 North Murphy Road Ste. 500 Murphy, TX 75094 214-774-9906 glazerfamilydentistry.com
Greg D. Greenberg, DDS
Orthodontics
8x Mom Approved
Dr. Greenberg is an award-winning Frisco orthodontist and a leading innovator in advanced orthodontic technologies. He provides highly personalized, comprehensive orthodontic care in a fun, family-friendly atmosphere. He treats children, teens and adults using passive self-ligating braces and is an accredited Invisalign® Platinum Provider. He’s also an “Airway-Aware Orthodontist” who is uniquely qualified to recognize pediatric obstructive sleep apnea issues. RxSmile offers affordable braces pricing, flexible financing with low down payments and is “in-network” with most insurance plans.
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RxSmile Frisco Orthodontics
6801 Warren Pkwy., Suite 121 Frisco, TX 75034
972-335-1300 • rxsmile.com
Michael J. Delgado, DDS, MS
Orthodontics
12x Mom Approved
Dr. Michael Delgado believes that healthy, improved smiles can inspire confidence and change lives. His dedication and passion for orthodontics leads to personalized care and successful results for children and adults. Dr. Delgado grew up in the DFW area and has created beautiful smiles here for 15+ years. His favorite part of being an orthodontist is that exciting moment when a patient sees their new smile for the first time.
Delgado Orthodontics
9293 Huntington Square, North Richland Hills, TX 76182 817-282-1821 • delgadoorthodontics.com
Reena Kuba, DDS, MS & Alvin Michael, DDS
Pediatric Dentistry
8x Mom Approved
Dr. Reena Kuba and Dr. Alvin Michael are both native Texans! Both were educated in DFW and are board certified by the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry.
The best thing about their pediatric dental office is how they, with their outstanding team, create a warm, nuturing environment and provide high-quality, compassionate and customized care for their patients.
Children’s Dental Centre of Irving
8870 N. MacArthur Blvd., Ste. A101, Irving, TX 75063 214-484-3199 (call or text) • irvingchildrensdental.com
Zarmin Lalani, DDS, MS
Pediatric Dentistry
8x Mom Approved
Dr. Zarmin Lalani and staff are passionate about providing highest quality dental care in a fun, friendly and compassionate environment. Creating a strong foundation for a lifetime of healthy smiles begins with positive experiences! Dr. Lalani is board certified, a fellow of the AAPD, and a diplomate of the ABPD. She holds her DDS, Masters, and her Pediatric Specialty Residency certificate from Baylor College of Dentistry. She feels blessed to be able to bring beautiful smiles to kids every day!
Dr. Vernesha Lockhart is a board-certified pediatric dentist and DFW native who has served the DFW metroplex for over 15 years. Dr. Lockhart is the founder of Bee Kidds Pediatric Dentistry, where she and her team are dedicated to creating experiences for children in a warm, gentle and caring environment. They understand the importance of feeling heard and having every patient’s needs met, and are always willing to go the extra mile.
Aviator Pediatric Dentistry is an airway-focused practice that prioritizes the child’s overall health by assessing and addressing airway issues along with their dental needs. We feature a welcoming, child-friendly environment with specialized staff trained in airway management techniques. Our practice is equipped with advanced diagnostic tools and treatment options to ensure proper breathing patterns, promoting better oral and overall health from a young age.
Dr. Thomas Schlieve is an oral and maxillofacial surgeon practicing at UT Southwestern and Children’s Health. He is the only oral surgeon in DFW with fellowship training in the management of cysts, tumors, and cancers of the mouth and jaws privileged to operate at Children’s Health. He is an expert in the management of wisdom teeth and extra teeth. Dr. Schlieve aims to provide the highest level of patient safety and quality care.
Thomas Schlieve, D.D.S, M.D
UT Southwestern Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery 1440 Empire Central Dr. 1st Floor, Dallas, TX 75247 214-645-3999 • utswmed.org/doctors/thomas-schlieve drthomasschlieve.com
Saba Tareen, DMD, MSD
Pediatric Dentistry
Saba Tareen, DMD, is a board certified pediatric dentist and founder of Sweet Tooth Pediatric Dentistry. Dr. Tareen is passionate about upholding the highest standards in pediatric dentistry while creating a safe and fun environment for children. Our practice is proud to be a locally owned, private practice that values the importance of spending time with each patient to create a positive experience and set the tone for years to come.
Sweet Tooth Pediatric Dentistry
1012 S. Crowley Rd., Suite A, Crowley, TX 76036 817-200-4902 • sweettoothpedsdentistry.com
Yolanda J. Taylor, DMD Family Dentistry
Family is everything! My children, Saniya (10), Lazarus (8) and Zoe (3) are my world. My desire to be present for my children and serve my community led me to dentistry. My career began with primarily treating children and what I’ve enjoyed most is providing children with an exceptional experience and a positive perception of dentistry. We would love to be a part of your family’s journey to dental health!
Taylor Made Smiles Dentistry
407 W. Eldorado Pkwy., Ste. 355, Little Elm, TX 75068 214-984-3985 taylormadesmilesdentistry.com
P. “Dr. J” Theodorou, DMD
Orthodontics
2x Mom Approved
STOP using metal expanders and headgear for your 6–9-year-old child! Dr. J is using a revolutionary clear aligner orthodontic treatment that will save you time, money and pain. Dr. J graduated from the University of Pennsylvania and has been treating awesome patients for over 25 years. He speaks English, Greek and Spanish fluently. He owes everything in his life to the grace of Jesus Christ.
Stellar Smiles Ortho
2800 William D. Tate Ave., Suite 100, Grapevine, TX 76051 120 S. Denton Tap Rd., Suite 230, Coppell, TX 75019 817-562-2222 • stellarsmilesortho.com
Beavers Bend Cabin Country beaversbendcabincountry.com 580/584-3393
City of Carrollton carrolltonfestival.com 972/466-3084
City of Ennis visitennistexas.com 972/878-4748
City of Richardson huffhinesharvestfest.com 972/744-4584
City of Southlake visitsouthlaketexas.com/holidays
Experience Dr. Seuss’ How the Grinch Stole Christmas! The Musical for eight shows only, November 19–24. Featuring the hit songs and beloved holiday characters, this is The Grinch as you’ve never seen him before! See ad on page 37.
The leaves they are a-changin' in Beavers Bend Cabin Country, which means it's finally the best season for all things fall. Over 3,000 cabins are so close to Dallas, you're practically here already! See ad on back cover.
The 14th annual Festival at the Switchyard returns to downtown Carrollton on Saturday, November 2, from 11am–10pm. Enjoy free family fun with rides, games, face painting and concerts featuring The Wallflowers and Deep Blue Something.
Join us in October for fall fun in historic downtown Ennis at the haymaze and pumpkin patch! Have fun finding your way through the giant haymaze and taking your favorite family photos with the pumpkins. See ad on page 43.
Celebrate fall at Huffhines Harvest Fest! Shop the marketplace for unique gifts, enter the costume contest, run through the corn maze or take family photos in the pumpkin patch. See ad on page 39.
Embrace the holiday magic at Southlake Home for the Holidays—Christmastime in Southlake! Delight in an array of free activities that include photos with Santa, snow hills, fireworks and much more. See ad on page 39. 7
Clark Gardens Botanical Park clarkgardens.org 940/682-4856
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The Cliburn cliburn.org 817/738-6536
Clark Gardens Pumpkin Patch is open daily October 4–31. Enjoy fall in bloom with children’s activities, model trains, wildlife and more. It will be pumpkins galore! General admission applies for entrance. Additional fees for pumpkins.
Cliburn Family Concerts provide magical musical experiences for the whole family. Celebrate the holidays in the Stockyards or explore the solar system in the Omni Theater with our familyfriendly musical programs. Tickets on sale now. See ad on page 37. 9
Country Critters Farm, LLC countrycrittersfarm.com 817/477-3060
Dallas Arboretum and Botanical Garden dallasarboretum.org 214/515-6615
Join us at the pumpkin patch at Country Critters farm. Activities include a petting zoo, barrel train rides, pony rides, hay rides, a wooden maze, bounce pillow, playground, pumpkin patch, hay pyramid and much more!
Autumn at the Arboretum, presented by Reliant through November 3. Take a journey through Texas pioneer life in Texas Town featuring family-friendly fun including Mommy and Me Mondays and Tiny Tot Tuesdays children's activities weekly. See ad on page 47. 11
Dallas Museum of Art dma.org/programs/event/family-festival-make-1 214/922-1200
Discover the magic of creativity with your whole family at our fun-filled event! Enjoy free art activities, interactive tours and lively performances. Meet local artists and create together for an unforgettable experience. See ad on page 15.
The Dallas Opera dallasopera.org/seasons/2425season 214/443-1000
Dallas Theater Center dallastheatercenter.org/shows/dracula-acomedy-of-terrors 214/522-8499
Denton County Office of History and Culture dentoncounty.gov/chos 940/349-2850
Downtown Dallas, Inc. downtowndallas.com 972/897-6137
Plano International Festival planointernationalfestival.org 214/495-7838
River Legacy Nature Center riverlegacy.org 817/860-6752
Good stories + good music = opera fun for the whole family! Join us for these special performances of The Three Little Pigs: October 26 and March 1 at 2pm. All tickets $5. See ad on page 47.
Get ready for a hilarious twist on the Bram Stoker classic, Dracula: A Comedy of Terrors, at the Kalita Humphreys Theater from October 11–November 3.
Celebrate Texas Archeology Month at the Denton Dig It! Archeology Fair on Saturday, October 12, and get into the Halloween spirit with Park After Dark on Saturday, October 19, at the Denton County Historical Park. See ad on page 42.
Trick or Treat on Downtown Streets on Halloween night! Dress up in your scariest or silliest costumes and get ready for a night filled with treats, tricks and lots of laughter from 4–7pm. See ad on page 40.
The Fort Worth Botanic Garden, Texas’s oldest public garden, features themed gardens like the Rose and Japanese Gardens, offers community education, and conducts international research through BRIT®, showcasing diverse plant collections and native species.
Don’t miss ICE! featuring Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer™ told in awe-inspiring ice sculptures. Unwrap timeless traditions, see millions of twinkling lights and discover Christmas magic around every corner at Gaylord Texan Resort in Grapevine. See ad on page 48.
Get ready for a magical holiday experience at Lightscape 2024! Families can explore a longer trail filled with over 1 million sparkling holiday lights. Bring your loved ones and make unforgettable memories.
Tickets on sale now for exciting fall productions including On Your Feet!, Alice in Wonderland JR, Six: Teen Edition, Annie and more! Thanksgiving theatre camps for grades K–5 in Plano, Fairview, Frisco, Dallas and Southlake. See ad on page 18.
On October 11–November 3, NorthPark Center's CenterPark Garden will be transformed into a fall fairytale destination, filled with thousands of pumpkins, autumn plantings, a wishing well, gnome village and more. See ad on page 2.
OKANA Resort & Indoor Waterpark will be your new go-to dream getaway with poolside bites, unique swim-up sips and rooms perfect for every kind of stay. Experience the region's largest indoor waterpark in OKC. See ad on page 34.
Tour the world in a day in downtown Plano! Food trucks, music and dance, cultural displays, kids' activities and more await. Plus wellness fair with free flu shots and health screenings. Free admission and parking.
Discover nature at River Legacy Nature Center. Walk our trails, observe native wildlife and learn all about the environment. Visit us this fall to experience Bug Squad, our newest visiting exhibit! See ad on page 43. 24
From lifelong memory to family tradition, The Nutcracker is the gift that keeps giving. Join Texas Ballet Theater for our classic holiday production, running November 29–December 29 in Dallas and Fort Worth. See ad on page 37. 25
Tianyu Lights Festival Dallas tianyuculture.us/dallas 888/484-2698
Experience the magic of Tianyu Lights Festival in Dallas, a family-friendly lantern show featuring stunning illuminated displays, interactive lanterns and captivating performances. It's the perfect journey for kids and parents to explore together! 26
Visit Rockwall visitrockwall.com 972/771-5733
Fall in Rockwall is the place to be. We have many family friendly events throughout the season. The Rib Rub & Roll is Rockwall's annual BBQ contest featuring live music. See ad on page 44.
the man who works upstairs
HE TOILS IN SECRECY. His laptop is a portal to a world of seemingly majestic fortune and untold promise. He is, of course, the man who works upstairs.
That may not make the cut for the next “most interesting man in the world” promotion. However, for my goofballs, it accurately captures their intrigue at the one person it describes.
Who? Me (holding for shocking gasps and applause).
Working from home has become a way of life since the pandemic for writers like myself—cutting down drastically the number of humans I interact with during the nine-to-five grind. So, as a courtesy, my two goofballs compensate for that lack of company by being all up in my business. Literally.
My bedroom-turned-office is always the place to be when they get home from school until I finish work. Their intrusion doesn’t come from a place of mischief; there is just something about my closed door during work time that inspires mystery and curiosity.
Nothing is more fascinating than the room you aren’t allowed into.
This is especially true when I have a video meeting, where
the rest of my colleagues get a small glimpse into my home. And that glimpse always seems to be my goofballs working their way into my personal club when the VIP list is only one person long.
And the more important the meeting, the more likely they are to “happen to walk back and forth” in the laptop’s camera frame.
“Well, at least they are wearing pants,” I have thought to myself one too many times.
In the early days of working from home, their constant stopping by did drive me nuts sometimes. “GO. SOMEWHERE. ELSE,” I would say for the 13th time. It always felt like a con they were running. While they have been much better the last year about giving me my pseudo-privacy, they have already maxed out their “get on camera” checklists…
Walked in to ask a question I have already answered? Check.
NOTHING IS MORE FASCINATING THAN THE ROOM
Lingered on camera to solicit reactions from co-workers? Check (colleagues, don’t laugh, don’t encourage this!).
Heard a funny noise coming from downstairs? Check (turns out it was their own footsteps on the wooden floor).
Wondered aloud about
whether they actually had dessert or not? Check (and yes, they did).
Pretended to have an existential crisis only to forget 10 seconds into their closeup with the camera why they were there? Check (and it was because you didn’t know where you put your stuffed animal, which was sitting in plain view on top of your bed, dude).
I seriously thought about installing one of those red lights that recording studios have to alert everyone when I am “on air” and no one is to open that door. In reality, they would treat it more like a green light. Go!
So yes, working from home has its distractions. That said, my schedule has afforded me something that was just not possible prior to the pandemic during the workday—time. Specifically, little fragments here and there with them.
We can sneak in a quick lunch together. I can bear witness to the latest Lego-shaped fortress they built from scratch right at the moment of their greatest excitement. And I can attend one of the hundreds of stuffed animal birthdays my wife helps them throw, complete with cupcakes to the animal’s preference. (Missing the stuffed panda’s birthday would have stung twice as harshly knowing I also didn’t get to sample his requested cream cheese frosted cupcakes.)
I will admit, summers do pump a small shot of jealousy through my veins as the sounds of them playfully running through the first floor bounce off the walls. It hurts a little when they momentarily forget I am not able to, for example, run to the pool with them that day.
“Dad has to be the man who works upstairs today, but that is so we can all have other adventures on other days,” I explained this past year.
“Oh,” my youngest said with a tinge of sympathy in his voice.
But then came his…
“Thanks.”
And, really, that one word was all I needed. Because the man who works upstairs does what he does so the people downstairs can get extra moments of adventure everywhere else. So, on many weekdays, that is where you’ll find this man ... still toiling, still diving into his laptop portal of endless promise behind that alluring closed door.
Josh Farnsworth is a national-award-winning parenting columnist who lives with his wife and two goofball sons. You can reach him for column ideas at josh.farnsworth@yahoo.com
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