vol 4 Issue 9 | FRIDAY, June 17, 2016
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Cook Your Own Way
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Food Diary
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The Bong Momma
CONTENTS
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Volume 4 | Issue 9 | June 17, 2016 News
2 News 3 Meanwhile Editor Zafar Sobhan
Features 4 Tailored
Features Editor Sabrina Fatma Ahmad
Men’s fashion
5 Tempt
Asst Features Editor Farina Noireet Weekend Tribune Team Saudia Afrin Moumita Ahmed N Anita Amreen Sakib Mridha Saqib Sarker Mahmood Sadi Shuprova Tasneem
Make-up
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8 Coupons 12 Musings
Cook Your Own Way Kitchen chronicles
14 Ramadan Reflections Anger Management
15 Ramadan Special Planner
17 Ticket Mayasir
Cartoons Syed Rashad Imam Tanmoy Priyo
Colour Specialist Shekhar Mondal Advertisement Shahin Ahsan Production Masum Billah Circulation Masud Kabir Pavel Website dhakatribune.com/weekend facebook.com/WeekendTrib Email your letters to: weekend@dhakatribune.com
13 Getaway Hospitality
Contributors Minu Ahmed Karishma Rahman Farzana Romine Dina Sobhan
Graphics Md Mahbub Alam Alamgir Hossain Tahsin Momin
Food Diary
Regulars
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16 Tough Love 18 Stay In 19 Go Out 20 The Bong Momma
Photo Story
Flooding in Kutubdia
On the cover
Editor’s note Dear readers, Sliding into the second week of Ramadan, we bring you a sampler of reads to fill your hours. Since food is on everyone’s mind when they’re not eating it, we’ve got some healthy iftar options, as well as the story of a Bangladeshi Italian chef. This week, in addition to our fashion and makeup stories, we bring you word of Mayasir’s triumph abroad. Our handy Ramadan special planner should take a lot
of decision making off your fasting mind, while Ramadan Reflections talks about how to keep your cool when things get rough. If you want to take a break from the city, we have a special getaway reviewed for you. And don’t forget to take advantage of our coupons! Have a great week. Sabrina Fatma Ahmad
Photo: Syed Zakir Hossain
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2 News | This week Orlando gunman kills 49 people at a gay club
A
n American-born man gunned
club desperately called and messaged
down 49 people early Sunday
friends and relatives, police crashed
at a gay nightclub in Orlando,
into the building with an armoured
the deadliest mass shooting in the
vehicle and stun grenades and killed
United States and the nation’s worst
Mateen.
terror attack since 9/11, authorities said.
There has been no claim of responsibility for the attack on jihadi
The gunman, Omar Mateen, 29, of
Iran vows to burn nuclear agreement if US scraps it
I
ran’s top leader said Tuesday, last
tear the agreement up, we will light
week that if the next U.S. president
it on fire,” Khamenei said in remarks
tears up the nuclear deal, Iran will
published on his official website.
“light it on fire.”
Khamenei has the final say on all major
Supreme Leader Ayatollah Ali
forums, but ISIS sympathisers have
Khamenei’s remarks appeared to be
Fort Pierce, Florida, was interviewed
reacted by praising the attack on pro-
aimed at presumptive Republican
by the FBI in 2013 and 2014 but was
Islamic State forums.
not found to be a threat, the FBI said. Mateen called 911 during the
to say this was an
attack to pledge allegiance to ISIS
act of terror and
and mentioned the Boston Marathon
act of hate,”
bombers, according to a U.S. official.
President
Mateen carried an assault rifle
Obama said
and a pistol into the packed Pulse
in an address
club about 2 am Sunday and started
to the nation
shooting, killing 49 people and
from the White
wounding at least 53, officials said.
House.
After a standoff of about three
nominee Donald Trump, who
“We know enough
Photo: AP
has criticised the deal and
The world at a glance
it. Khamenei referred to a “U.S. presidential candidate
Weekend Tribune Desk
hours, while people trapped inside the
Huge number of people arrested during anti-terror drive
vowed to renegotiate
issues in Iran. He said Iran has fulfilled its obligations under the agreement but that the U.S. was dragging its feet on lifting sanctions in the banking and insurance sectors, and on unfreezing Iranian assets. “The Americans have not carried out an important part of their commitments,” he said. Iran’s Foreign Minister Mohammad
threatening to
Javad Zarif plans to meet with
tear the deal up.”
Secretary of State John Kerry in
“We do not violate the deal, but if the other party violates it, if they
Germany later this week to discuss the implementation of the deal, which went into effect in January. Photo: AP
NATO boosts eastern presence ahead of key summit complacency and into a major revamp to boost its readiness and resources to meet a host of new security challenges. NATO chief Jens Stoltenberg
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said ministers agreed to deploy four
aw enforcers have
“robust” multinational battalions to
arrested a total of 11,647
Latvia, Lithuania, Estonia and Poland --
people across Bangladesh
all once ruled from Moscow and deeply
in the last week during their drive
suspicious of Russian intentions.
against militants.
Additionally, “we will take tailored
A total of 5,287 people were
measures to enhance our defence and
arrested by the lawmen on the
deterrence in the Black Sea region,”
first and second day while 3,245
Stoltenberg said, citing a Romanian
people were held on the third day.
offer to host a similar unit.
According to a media
“This sends a clear message. If any
statement, 26 of the arrestees are
of our allies is attacked, the whole
suspected militants and 2,368 are
alliance will respond as one,” he said.
wanted in various cases. Of the rest, 295 are accused in narcotics cases, 38 in firearms cases and 388 were accused in different other cases. Source: Dhaka Tribune
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Stoltenberg stressed NATO did not seek confrontation with Russia and
ATO defence ministers last
a major build-up to counter a more
wanted a constructive dialogue but it
week approved sending
assertive Russia.
would defend the 28 allies against any
battalions to the three Baltic
Russia’s 2014 intervention in
states and Poland just weeks before a
Ukraine and its annexation of Crimea
landmark summit in Warsaw endorses
stung NATO out of its post-Cold War
threat. Photo: AP
. . . Meanwhile
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Photo of the week
Aerial view of Dhaka city’s Khilkhet area Photo: Mahmud Hossain Opu
Pigs go whole hog in race to predict brexit outcome
F
orget the opinion polls and
Britons to vote “Out” in the June 23
betting odds, one English farmer
referendum.
has his own way of predicting
As the latest polls show growing
the outcome of Britain’s looming
momentum for the “Leave” camp, the
referendum on whether to stay in the
farm in southwest England is putting
European Union or leave - racing his
four pigs to the test each afternoon on a
miniature pigs.
150 yard (137m) long course, with both
The pigs of Pennywell Farm in Devon successfully predicted the
say what?
sides represented. Racing for the “Remain” camp
outcome of Britain’s national election
are ‘David Hameron’ and ‘George
last year and are again fighting it out on
Hogsborne’, a play on the name of
the track in some political racing that
finance minister George Osborne. For
rival the “Remain” and “Leave” sides’
the “Leave” camp the racers are ‘Boar-
spectators cheered as David Hameron,
own campaign battles.
is Johnson’ and ‘Iain Duncan Sniff’, a
George Hogsborne and Iain Duncan
in the EU and just one for leaving,” the race compere announced.
“We’ve had three votes for staying
Prime Minister David Cameron is
reference to leading Eurosceptic and
Sniff rushed off, easily clearing the
leading the “In” campaign and former
Conservative ex-cabinet minister Iain
hurdles, while Boar-is Johnson trailed
London mayor Boris Johnson, also from
Duncan Smith.
behind. The result in the end was
races daily up until the vote.
decisive.
News and photo: Huffington post
the ruling Conservative Party, is urging
Once the starting gate was opened,
Pennywell Farm will conduct the
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4 Tailored | Men’s fashion
Style essentials summer 2016 It’s all about this fashionable essentials to keep you looking your best Mahmood Hossain
to remind you why
Inside the closet
closed-toed shoes, no hassle with
exactly we need
The choice of outfits is more about
laces, and firm enough to give the right
sunscreen in a country
functionality than pure style during the
amount of grip and support for your
like this. The next on
month of Ramadan. Doesn’t matter if
feet. And unlike the espadrilles, these
the list should be a
it’s raining or it’s scorching hot, there’s
don’t look too lazy, as if you weren’t
proper moisturiser.
a list of items that you’ll want to wear
giving enough attention or effort to
Nothing too thick or
this season. What’s in is not only trendy
your feet. Now, these obviously can’t be
rich, as your natural
but functional to total effect.
taken into the boardroom, but you can
oils in a city like Dhaka
A slim-fit button-down linen shirt
easily slip these off and hop into your
will do enough on its
should be your go-to for the everyday
own. A moisturiser
look. For obvious reasons, the fabric
D-frames are something you don’t
that has a matte finish
will feel great on you and leave you
hear often. You’ve got your staples, the
is the perfect product
with plenty of breathing room. Now,
Aviator and Wayfarer, but the d-frame
to keep and use.
for the design itself. It’s a classic
sunglasses are the preferred choice of
As usual, apply the
button-down look that can easily be
the countless stylish men in summer.
moisturiser lightly,
incorporated with chinos or dressy
D-frame has a thicker brow bar up top
we don’t want your
jeans, and let’s not forget about it
and thin lens edges. If you were to
pores unnecessarily
settling beautifully under a blazer
prop the shades vertically, you could
suffocating.
or sports coat. The shirt, however,
see the “D” silhouette. Here’s the cool
shouldn’t be used for formal events,
part, this design pretty much suits all
shaving basics. Always
given the natural wrinkles from the
face shapes. Don’t feel afraid to try a
have your trusty razor
fabric and casual design.
few pairs on before making the plunge.
You also have your
wherever you go. You
There are loafers, espadrilles and
traditional lace-ups after.
Every aspect of your face needs to
never know when
sandals that are perfectly fine for the
be protected, whether they be well
you’ll have that last
summer months. However, one must
groomed or not. Let’s not forget the
minute meeting with
take careful consideration towards
many leading men who have graced
people who make
function and comfort. The ideal shoes
us with these shades. Steve McQueen,
that it’s not just about the
Y
very important decisions. The razor in
to rock, your everyday pair, are some
Brad Pitt, Ryan Gosling ring a few
clothes. You must groom
your home can stay in your bathroom.
canvas slip-on sneakers. They are
bells? n
yourself accordingly.
Invest in a more sporty razor for the
ou should know by now
This season, we take a look at the
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gel. That’s right, gel, and not standard
wardrobe to your comfy wash bag.
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have to shell out thousands. Garnier
much as we can in your wash bag so
Men Oil Clear is one of the more ideal
leave some breathing room for those
face washes to have in your wash bag.
everyday essentials.
Sunscreen, on the other hand, might cost a tad more. We don’t need Illustrations: Priyo
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Make-up | Tempt
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Brows before Bros! Karishma Rahman
E
Photo: Courtesy
yelashes and eyebrows are
your eyebrows will end up looking
gel to brush the wild hairs into place if
two things that I always feel
like permanent marker doodles.
they aren’t behaving well some days.
pull together any make-up look. Everything just sort of
E) Try to match the shade as close
This helps me visualize the shape I will
Tips
1
For times when you’re not able to keep them in shape
to your original hair colour for
be drawing in and works as a wonderful
and have bits of hair here and
looks alien without them. Fill in your
best results. Always use whatever
guide.
there. Follow the above steps. Draw
brows and pop some lashes on and
product (pencil, pomade, powder,
voila! you look like a million bucks!
etc) LIGHT HANDEDLY. Don’t lose
Step 3:
would normally and naturally do.
patience. Please. You want this to
I use my Anastasia Beverly Hills
Then take a small lip brush and dip
to me. Starting from grooming
blend into your makeover as nicely
Dipbrow Pomade in Chocolate very
it into your concealer and carve
them properly to shaping them into
and naturally as possible.
light handedly to draw the outline as
your brows out. Your highlight
you can see in the picture. This can also
bone and above your brows, this
be done with a sharp eyebrow pencil in
will clean out any mess you’ve
Eyebrows are extremely essential
perfection, it’s a sensitive part of your
in and fill in your brows as you
makeover and a little always goes a
Grooming
long way. It’s necessary for you to
I don’t do super drawn in and carved
a colour close to your hair. Remember
made and also hide the small hairs
understand a few things before you
out, vividly prominent dark eyebrows.
to not make the lines too harsh or else it
making it look like your eyebrows
start your eyebrow journey,
I like to fill them in and shape them as
won’t blend in well.
have never been out of shape!
A) Don’t allow the parlour ladies to
lightly as possible so I use very minimal
thread your eyebrow too thin. They
products and techniques. They’re as
Step 4:
usually ALWAYS end up doing
simple as four little steps.
Blend. Blend. Blend! I take a bit more of
that and it looks very unnatural sometimes.
2
Use castor oil on your eyebrows before going to bed
the pomade and use my eyebrow brush
every night. It nourishes the hair and helps them grow thicker.
Step 1:
from Zoeva to very lightly fill in the
B) Allow your eyebrow to take its own
Keep my brows in shape. I make sure I
brows and any sparse area. I go in with
shape. Don’t try to force an arch or
thread them every 2-3 weeks or so and
a little more pressure towards the outer
shape onto it that it won’t naturally
before any makeover if there is any hair
ends and my arch and very light feather
take up. These are very prominent
sticking out, I’ll quickly grab a tweezer
strokes in the inner areas. This ensures
mascara and wipe as much product
and anything unnatural will look
and take care of them. Keeping them in
that my eyebrows are not looking too
as you can off the wand and VERY
extremely weird.
shape always helps a lot and it also cuts
fake or tattooed.
light brush it along your eyebrows.
C) The trick is to comb the inner 2/3 as
my makeover time into half.
wide as possible and slowly arch into
This is my go to eyebrow routine
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3. For times when you don’t have enough time, take any
They will still end up looking
and it is super simple. Practice always
groomed enough for you to last the
Step 2:
makes perfect and you will soon
day.
D) NEVER use a black pencil or powder
I’ll take a spoolie and brush the hair
develop your own go to routine once
because it will look too dark and
into place. Sometimes I’ll use a brow
you get the hang of doing it. n
a beautiful thin line towards the end.
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6 Cook your own way | Kitchen chronicles
Treats for iftar
Are you looking for something easy, quick and delicious for Iftar? These three recipes are very easy to make but doesn’t compromise with flavours. These are also great for any occasion, and not only for Iftar Farzana Romine
Stir fried chicken kabab Making kabab is hard work, specially over charcoal. This recipe doesn’t require charcoal, yet you will get almost all the smoky flavours of kabab with very little effort.
Ingredients: • 2 chicken breasts • 1/2 tbsp ginger paste • 1 tsp garlic paste • 1/4 tsp nutmeg powder • 1/4 tsp mace powder • 1/4 tsp roasted cumin powder • 1/4 tsp coriander powder • 2 cardamom pods, ground to a powder • 1/4 tsp cinnamon powder • 1/2 tsp red chili powder • 1/2 cup yoghurt or buttermilk • 1/4 cup mustard oil or vegetable oil • 1 cup onion thickly sliced. • Salt to taste
Directions:
Slice the chicken breasts thinly. Marinate the chicken with all the spices except onion, salt and the oil. Allow to marinate in the fridge for two to three hours or more if you have time. When you are ready to cook, add the salt to the chicken and mix well. In a wide heavy bottom frying pan, heat the oil on high. Put the chicken in the pan and stir fry it over high heat until it is cooked through and starts to get a little charred. Once the chicken is cooked through, add the sliced onions. Cook for another one to two minutes. Serve hot with paratha and raita.
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Grilled Corn Salad Ingredients:
cool a little. Take a sharp
• 2 fresh corn cobs
knife and cut the corn
• 1 cucumber
kernels off.
• 1 large tomato • 1/3 cup crumbled cheese (any cheese you like)
For the dressing:
To make the salad, cut the cucumber and tomato into cubes. Mix them with the corn. Mix half of the cheese and
• 2 tbsp olive oil
save rest to sprinkle over
• 2 tbsp balsamic vinegar
the top.
• 1 tbsp honey
In a separate bowl
• 1 tsp yellow mustard
mix the dressing
• Salt and pepper
ingredients. Pour
Directions: First you have to grill the corn. Take the fresh corn cobs and remove the husks.
over the salad and mix well, then serve immediately. Tip: You can use
Sprinkle olive oil, salt and a little chilli
canned corn kernels in this
powder.
recipe too. Just drain well, mix
You can grill the corn in two ways.
salt, oil and chilli powder and
You can char it over direct fire or you
fry in a very hot pan until some of
can grill it on a griddle pan. Once the
the kernels are charred and take on a
corn is nice and evenly charred, let it
smoky flavour.
Parmesan crusted chicken with honey mustard sauce Ingredients:
worcestershire sauce and salt. Set aside
• 2 chicken breasts
to marinate for 15 minutes.
• 1 tsp worcestershire sauce
Mix the cheese and breadcrumbs
• 1/2 tsp black pepper
together. You can also add some dried
• 1/2 cup bread crumb
herbs, like oregano, basil and thyme to
• 1/4 cup grated parmesan cheese
this mixture.
• 1 egg
Now lightly pat the chicken in dry
• Flour as needed
flour, then dip it in the beaten egg,
• Salt to taste
and finally transfer it to the bread crumbs. Coat the chicken in the bread
For the honey mustard sauce:
crumb mix. After all four pieces are
• 2 tbsp honey
crumb-coated, keep in the fridge for 30
• 1 tbsp Dijon or any yellow mustard
minutes. This helps the crumb stick to
• 1 tsp lemon juice
the chicken well.
• 1/2 tsp black pepper • 1/4 tsp salt
Heat 1/4 cup oil in a medium frying pan. Fry the chicken breasts over medium heat, until cooked through and golden brown on both sides.
Directions: Mix all the ingredients for the sauce
Serve hot with your favourite sides
and set aside.
like mashed potato, boiled vegetables
Slice each chicken breast into two
and salad. n
thin slices. Add the black pepper,
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Flooding in Kutubdia | Photo Story
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Standing against the rising tides For many of us, the monsoon rains bring some much needed respite from the sweltering summer heat. But in places like Kutubdia in Cox’s Bazaar, the heavy rains mix with the saline waters of the sea and pose serious threats to the fertility of the soil. This week, we look at how residents in Kutubdia struggle and survive against the rising tides and despite all odds, go about their daily lives.
Photos: Jahidul Islam Sajal
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10 Photo Story | Flooding in Kutubdia
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12 Musings | Food Diary
A perfect Italian dinner Conversations with chef Farhadur Rahman
Mahmood Sadi
T
o Italians, gesturing comes
Corleone was brought back from the
ingredients that were common in Italy,
naturally. Some Italians joke
hospital after suspected sabotage
and had to find alternatives instead.
that gesturing may even
from a rival group, and the security in
begin before birth. The chefs
his villa was enhanced. Amidst that,
from all quarters to adapt to different
of Italian cuisine however, don’t take
the guards were cooking pasta. It was
tastes. For example, Italian foods use
this habit so lightly. In fact, many think
like a festival, and they were talking
lots of wine but in a city like Toronto,
that this gesturing is related to their
about garlic, sauce. It struck me. I get
you will have lots of Muslim customers
food.
fascinated with the passion of Italian
who want good Italian food without
people for food.”
alcohol content. I have to make food for
“Italian food is so tasty that you cannot express its taste with mere
According to Rahman, the best
“Besides, there are innovations now
them without compromising the taste,” he explained.
words. You have to use gestures. There
part of Italian cuisine is its variations.
is a saying in Sardinia that the child
Every single region of Italy has its own
in the mother’s womb also learns to
recipe and the subtle differences in
for most Italian food. You have to cook
use gestures because of the food his/
ingredients and cooking style make an
with fresh ingredients and serve right
her mother eats,” said a chef of Italian
ocean of difference in taste. “I learnt
away.”
cuisine I happen to know.
from some very passionate chefs of
“However, one thing stays the same
At the dinner, Rahman greeted me
Italian cuisine of New York. I also
with a big smile and flour on his hands.
included one I was not familiar with -
worked in Atlantic City during summer
“I am making pasta from scratch. Pasta,
corkscrewing his index finger into the
to learn more about Italian cuisine.”
to be good, must be freshly made,” he
He gestured while saying this, which
cheek. “This gesture means ‘Delizioso,’” I
“I pride myself on having a profound understanding of what Italian food is
said. We started with oven-fresh
Photos: Courtesy
of Italian cuisine.” He cooked the chicken breasts for about two minutes per side, until they were golden brown. He then transferred
was informed. “It’s a gesture parents
and what makes it authentic. I know
garlic bread as appetizer, a fluffy yet
those to a baking sheet and topped each
use to encourage children to eat. I have
the difference between carciofi alla
wonderfully crispy creation that was
piece with tomato sauce, a few slices
three kids, and this is a gesture I often
giudea, twice-fried artichokes in the
only enhanced by slight taste of garlic,
of mozzarella, salt and pepper, and a
use when they don’t want to eat.”
style of the Roman ghetto, and carciofi
and a rich, slight spicy tomato-basil dip
tablespoon of parmesan.
alla romana, braised artichokes with
to go with it.
It is hard to believe that this is truly
“I love fresh basil,” shared Rahman,
These were then baked until the chicken cooked through and the cheese
the case in his home, since the chef in
garlic and mint in the style of Rome.
question is the Chef de partie of Italian
I know that acqua cotta, one of the
showing me the herb in a tub. “Its
melted, which took around 5 to 7
cuisine of Toronto Sheraton. However,
classics of Tuscan cooking, comes
flavour makes you feel like you are in a
minutes. To serve, he put the chicken
he is not an Italian, but a Bangladeshi.
in at least three radically different
garden.”
breasts over a fresh plate of pasta,
Chef Farhadur Rahman has been
versions depending on what part of
The bread was followed by
garnished with basil or parsley leaves as well some fresh salad.
living in USA since the mid nineties.
Tuscany you are in. I know that even if
bruschetta, with the taste of feta
Although he was a student of Applied
an Italian would never sprinkle grated
cheese along with minced beef and
Physics in Dhaka University, physics
Parmigiano over his shellfish pasta, he
sun-dried tomato slice balancing the
a wonder to taste, with the flavours
was never his passion.
would happily eat crostini with melted
toasted bread perfectly. “Bruschetta is
coming together like nothing I have
mozzarella and anchovies.”
a popular dish in Sicily and Sardinia,
had before. In answer to the chef’s
which are two islands that have
questions on the quality of the dish,
Rahman’s house at Victoria Park for
strong influences of Greek cuisine,” he
I could only nod with a mouth full of
a dinner, and the menu was chicken
explained.
food.
Even as a student in Dhaka, Rahman used to work in the kitchen of Pan Pacific Sonargaon in Dhaka, not just because of money but for his love for food. “It was a great experience though,
To demonstrate, I was invited to
parmesan and pasta. “It’s not a pure Italian dish, it’s an
I watched the chef at work while
This delectable Italian creation was
For dessert, Farhadur Rahman
he prepared the main course. After
brought out one of his prized
inside the kitchen of Sonargaon,”
Italian-American one. I have seen many
completing the pasta, Farhadur
possessions - a vintage coffee maker
recollected Rahman. “There was not
authentic Italian chefs cringe when
seasoned chicken breast pieces on both
and a wooden box with at least 20 types
that many eateries in Dhaka at the time.
Americans do strange things to their
sides with salt and pepper, dredged
of espresso shots. “You have to have
Sonargaon was the only five star ranked
classic Italian food. Dishes like Chicken
each breast in the flour, dipped in
good coffee after an Italian dinner,” he
hotel in Dhaka beside Dhaka Sheraton.
Parmesan or Spaghetti and meatballs
egg and let the excess drip off, then
said.
It was there that I learnt that I belong in
are never appreciated by the authentic
dredged again on both sides with bread
the kitchen.”
Italian chef,” shared Rahman.
crumbs.
Farhadur Rahman revealed that he
However, there is no denying
Then he poured olive oil onto the
I chose one named ‘Fortisio Lungo’. I didn’t know it was , but suffice to say, it was one of the best cups of coffee I
was always passionate about Italian
that Italian immigration to the US
pan. “Olive oil is so important to the
had ever had. A perfect ending to a true
cuisine, which has something to do
has influenced the way Italian food
Italians, they even love to write poetry
Italian meal. n
with the movie Godfather.
is cooked, since back when they
about it. I think olive oil, tomato and
emigrated they were unable to use the
basil are the three essential ingredients
“There was one scene where Vito
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Getaway | Hospitality
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Windy Terrace Hotel A relaxing boutique hotel in the bay of Bengal Moumita Ahmed holidays are just around the
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city life and exploring other beautiful
corner. People living in the
regions is usually the first option. And
city in this festive month are
what better way can one do so, than to
ummer is here and the Eid
Taking some time off from the hectic Photos: Courtesy
worried about the constant presence of
walk on the sandy and scenic beaches
city. One can choose from a wide range
special guests. The hotel is financed by
the chaotic traffic, and looking to buy
of the country? We’re of course talking
of well-known luxurious hotels to the
Dhaka Mercantile Co-Operative Bank
the best things for themselves and their
about the glorious 125km long beach of
more affordable ones, depending on
Ltd.
loved ones. It’s only fair that people
Cox’s Bazar.
their capability. Amongst them one
want to escape from all this, and this
In recent years, this place has
Windy Terrace is managed by an
that stands out is a brand new boutique
enthusiastic and experienced team
hotel, Windy Terrace Hotel.
under the supervision of Gustar
leads them to look around for places
seen such a great influx of visitors
to escape to and enjoy some peace and
from home and abroad that it is not
calm, either by themselves or with their
at all surprising that hotels have
set in the surrounding of the world’s
renowned hospitality management
closed ones.
mushroomed in every corner of the
longest sea beach. Strategically located
group of Switzerland.
Windy Terrace Hotel is a wonder
in an area which is most convenient
Hoteliers and Restaurateurs, a
Beyond the business, this boutique
for tourists, Windy Terrace is the a
hotel is keen to promote local and
combination of luxury, heart warming
traditional culture through arranging
hospitality, and admirable service.
cultural programs. It also has plan to
The hotel can be one of the best
train up local youth in the hospitality
destinations at Cox’s Bazar for both
industry by arranging different training
business and leisure travelers.
programs that can help them to find
It is a not only a hotel, it is a dream venture for M Hanifur Rahman,
employment. The hotel has sixty king and twin
Managing Director of Gustar Hoteliers
rooms. It has one restaurant, named
and Restaurateurs and Helvetia.
Chandradwip, located on the top floor
Rahman took it to the next level
(ninth), which serves quality food with
with his courage, long term vision,
a capacity to seat one hundred people.
and passion about the hospitality
The other one is Helvetia, located at the
industry. He has vast experience in
first floor.
the hospitality industry, both at the
The management of the hotel
local and international level. This
believe that they will set a bench mark
modern and chic hotel has been
in the business of the boutique hotels
craftily designed by one of the most
in Bangladesh through international
experienced architects of the country,
level service.
Ferdous Ahmed, the Director of the Prokalpa Upodeshta Ltd. The grand opening of Windy
Its services include Wi-Fi, complementary airport pick up and drop off, laundry services, spa,
Terrace took place on April 2nd, 2016.
complimentary mineral water in
The hotel was inaugurated by Group
rooms, tea/coffee maker, mini bar,
Captain (ETD) Abu Zafar Chowdhury,
complimentary toiletries and a lot
Vice Chairman of Dhaka Mercantile
more. Each room is entitled to two
Co-Operative Bank Ltd, and M Hanifur
complimentary breakfasts and two
Rahman, Managing Director of
children under five years.
Gustar Hoteliers and Restaurateurs
So if you are looking for a place
and Helvetia, delivered the welcome
to visit and pamper yourself this Eid
speech. Laurent Myter, Executive Vice
holiday, Windy Terrace Hotel would not
President, YTL Hotels, Malaysia; and
disappoint you and the lovely stay will
Liton Boul, GM, Bangladesh Brand
make your trip totally worthwhile. n
Forum, were present on the occasion as
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14 Ramadan reflections | Anger management
Reducing that rage Things to do to keep that anger at bay during Ramadan
Moumita Ahmed heat of the moment which we clearly do not mean at all. This does not necessarily make us bad people, but it also becomes pointless to contemplate, especially when it’s too late. Hence we should try to control our temper to the best of our possibilities. The best way of course would be self awareness. No one can guide us or control our emotions for us. We, who claim to be God’s greatest creations, and have been sent to this world with minds of our own, should take advantage of that. Think about the future consequences before you do something rash. If we can think and realise that our actions, when in anger will not lead to anything positive, then automatically our inner conscience will stop us from doing things that have unalterable consequences. When in anger, always try not to reciprocate, even when the other person is being very rude. You either walk away from the situation, or talk to that person after both of you have calmed down. Rather than proving your point right away, the ideal thing would be to have some patience and to explain your opinions at a later date. This will not only help you, but also make the other person realise his mistakes. If worst comes to worst, it is better not to interact with that person or on the issue any more and do what we think is best for all. One other solution to avoid getting angry at people or situations would be Photos: Bigstock
giving the other party the benefit of the doubt. This means that you should
deep reflections and
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this matter. Because let’s be honest,
we made. People promise to themselves
should put ourselves in other people’s
contemplation is upon us.
we have all been a victim of this sin.
to stay away from the cardinal sins, but
shoes and try to consider their situation
It is not easy for one to let
Be it bargaining with the shopkeepers,
many of us unintentionally commit
as well. Try not to consume yourself by
go of the vices and exercise control.
yelling at the rickshaw pullers, getting
one by not being able to control sudden
thinking about the matter over and over
But it becomes much harder when the
upset at unreasonable prices, or
outbursts of anger and rage.
again. But distract yourself with other
thermometers are boiling due to the
just cursing under our breath at the
scorching heat.
horrendous traffic on the narrow roads
advised his followers not to become
of the city, eventually we deeply regret
angry. “A strong person is not one who
control our emotions, however we
those actions of ours.
is able to wrestle others down but one
forget that only we can control our
who is able to control his anger,” said
emotions and feelings. We have to be
The Prophet.
strong and should not let the negative
he holy month of repentance,
We all try to do the best we can to restrain ourselves, however it is not uncommon to become easily agitated
not take things personally, and should We should not judge anyone on
Even though one cannot be fully
and the soaring temperatures and
blamed for not being able to control his
hunger aggravates the situation by
or her anger, we nevertheless, should
many folds.
not forget that in doing so, we are
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failing to fulfil the commitments that
overlook and be open to discussion. We
The Prophet Mohammad (PBUH)
It is true that we tend to take a lot of steps and say many things in the
work and activities that calm you down. We always assume that we cannot
energy overwhelm us in any way. n
Planner | Ramadan special
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Ramadan planner week 2
Amreen Rahman Visit your tailor
ready to set it all up next week.
The ultimate Eid conundrum is the
Book your tickets
dreaded problem of getting your Eid
If you’ve got plans to go to your
clothes from your tailor. There really
hometown or go for a family vacay,
is only one way to make sure you’re
book your tickets at the beginning of
getting your Eid outfits on time and
this week. Not only will you get better
that is by having all your three-piece
rates, you can also make sure you find
suits, loose materials and even ready-
the best airfare deals. Along with your
made outfits at his shop no later than
tickets, book your hotel and figure out
by the end of the second week of
your itinerary.
Ramadan. Although there is no such least you know he won’t be able to
Practice constraint – it’s Ramadan after all
pull the tried and tested excuse of not
Try to approach the second week
having enough time to alter/stitch your
with a goal-oriented mind. For Sunah,
outfits. Not only will you be able to
you may choose a number of actions:
have clothes fitted, this will also leave
preserving water while making wudu,
you time for last minute fittings and
saying dua upon entering Masjid,
touch-ups.
stopping eating before you are full,
thing as “ample” time for a tailor, at
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ith the second week
expenses. With bank Eid holidays set
of Ramadan well
around the first week of next month,
under way, we’ve
now is the time to get all your bank
finally started to
chores out of the way. Making deposits,
get ourselves accustomed to our
withdrawals and getting change notes
new routines. To ensure that you’re
for sadqa - get it sorted now. Also, if
making the most of this month and
you are planning a Eid vacation, you
getting things checked off your to-do
can get your travel expenses ready as
list, we’ve listed our go-to tips for the
well.
second week of Ramadan, allowing you to really be able to maximise the
Go gift-hopping
blessings of this month.
It may have seemed like the first
Try to approach the second week with a goal-oriented mind
using leftovers for next day’s Iftar
week of Ramadan went by in a blink.
Check on your fixtures and fittings
With the second week settling in, it’s
Ramadan usually means the house
night duaa’s, reciting 10 names of
Stepping into week two, try to keep a
time you begin to work on your Eid
is in a state of constant domestic
Allah, memorising a small dua or
tally of how much you’ve spent and
shopping list to relieve you of the last
chaos. New routines, meal plans and
even listening to Quran recitation. For
where. This is the time to keep your
minute shopping frenzy. Last week
schedules make managing your home
your Salah blessings, you can go for
budget in check to ensure that you
you may have listed out the shopping
a difficult task. If you do have plans to
salatul Jummah, read two rakats after
aren’t in a monetary crunch prior to
necessities, but this week it is time to
deck out your home in all its holiday
Isha or pray masjid salutaion prayer
Eid. Check back on your budget to
finalise it all to have a concrete plan.
glory, now is the time to give your
before Jumah prayer. As for Sadaqa,
see if you’ve overspent in any one
If you have children in the family - ask
home fixtures and fitting a check.
any plans you had to donate can be
area - if you have, find ways to cut
them for their wishlists too. This is the
The checklist should include A/C’s,
implemented this week. You can set
back on other areas. Once you’ve got
perfect time to get cracking since not
cupboards, your refrigerator and any
an amount for each member of your
your finances in check it’s time to plan
only will you have lighter traffic, you
bulbs or lights that may need to be
family and donate to a mosque or the
expenses - specifically any salaries
can also avoid the last-minute crowds
replaced. Look around and make a
needy. Sadaqa doesn’t necessarily
you need to pay, and any Eid bonus
that are commonplace during the last
list of what needs to be fixed, painted
have to mean donations - you can visit
you have to give to your employees.
week of Ramadan. If you can manage
or restocked. Depending on how you
an ill person or a newborn baby, help
It’s best to give it now rather than next
to get the Eid gift shopping out of the
want to decorate your house for Eid,
someone in need or volunteer your
week as many rely on their bonus and/
way this week, you can save yourself
just find out if you have everything you
time too. n
or advance payment to cover their Eid
from running to the malls last minute.
need (spare bulbs, batteries, etc) to get
Complete your banking chores
etc. For Thikr, you and your children can make a nightly routine of saying
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16 Tough Love | Dina Sobhan
Cranky aunty, cranky me Dear Dina, I have this paternal aunt who lives abroad. When I was completing my higher education abroad, she was kind enough to let me stay with her, and helped me out with some of the expenses when I went through a difficult time. After I graduated and moved out, and eventually got married and settled down, she started getting passive aggressive for some reason. She’d send me and my parents these toxic emails, vaguely hinting at my “selfish” and “manipulative” nature, and she’d keep reminding us about everything she did for us. Assuming that she was talking about the money she helped me out with, I have started paying her back in regular instalments. Rather than being appeased, she has stepped up her criticism of me. I personally am not bothered by the meanness, but my parents get very upset. When confronted, she doesn’t give us a straight answer either. How do I deal with this? This reminds me of the old fairy tale about the pregnant woman who stole a cabbage from the witch’s
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garden and had to repay her with her firstborn child. In other words, no amount of gratitude will ever be enough for your spinster aunt. You were meant to stay and remain her constant companion, playing games of canasta late into the early evening and spoon
Dear Dina,
angrier I get. It’s like I get a perverse
as closely resembling your poor, beat
I grew up around a father
sort of satisfaction at seeing him cower
down mother to enact the role of your
who was very emotionally
in front of me. After I’ve inevitably
father on. While you might wonder
abusive towards my mother.
driven him to tears, the anger fades to
why on God’s glorious green earth
While he never raised a hand to her,
guilt, shame, and self loathing, and I
anyone would want to act like that, the simple answer is: control. You
or any of us, he would undermine her,
realise that I have become the thing I
feeding her khichuri when
and later us, with constant criticism,
fear and hate the most - a bully, like
feel good taking it away from your
her strength failed her. The
negativity, snide comments and
my father. The question I have is - how
husband just like your dad did from
mistake you made was daring
veiled threats. By the time I was in
do I break out of this? How do I change
your mom. Now that you know what
to leave and start a life of your
university, my mother had gone from
and become the kind of wife that my
it’s about, are you going to stop doing
own, for which you must now
a carefree, smiling, and self-assured
dear husband deserves?
it? Probably not. You don’t respect
suffer her slights and insults.
woman, to a timid, self-doubting
Sincerely, Rawr
your husband and the power dynamic
However, if I were you, I would
mess. I told myself I would never let
stop snivelling and feel some
myself get into her situation. By the
Dear Rawr,
right itself. You need therapy – a lot of
sympathy for the old bird
grace of Allah, I married the sweetest,
I suppose I should be
therapy – to work through your daddy
instead. Your presence was
most considerate of men. My husband
happy that you are the
issues. And then the two of you will
probably the high point in her
wouldn’t hurt a fly, let alone do
aggressor and not the
need couples counselling. And then
lonely existence and she must
anything to upset me. I should be more
usual stereotype of the snivelling
maybe you’ll become the ‘kind of wife
now live out her ‘golden’ years
grateful, and I am. However, I find
bou, but somehow this all seems
your husband deserves’. But then that
eating with her cat while you
myself flying off the handle whenever
very unpleasant. Basic psychology
begs the question, why did he marry
frolic among your loved ones.
something goes wrong at home, and the
would dictate that you went and
you?
more he tries to accommodate me, the
deliberately found yourself someone
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between the two of you may never
Mayasir | Ticket
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Threads of heritage WT Desk
A
Photos: Courtesy
fashion event held in
in the textile regions of Bangladesh and
Bangkok, Thailand,
has inspired jewellers, artisans, metal
organised by Bangladesh
smiths, potters and many other master
Embassy in Bangkok on
craftsmen.
the May 30, showcased a collection
Her work revolutionised and opened
by Maheen Khan from her signature
new doors for the fashion industry in
Mayasir Couture.
Bangladesh. She believes her journey
Maheen Khan’s design vocabulary
as a designer has allowed her to
speaks about her roots. Her collection
reinvent her work every season with a
is eclectic with pieces that are three
renewed goal and objective. Currently
dimensional and playful. Shibori, a
she supports 3,000 rural women with
stitch resist dyeing and a reverse hand
income generating activities.
appliqué is applied on her designs to
She participated in many events
add a rhythmic story to her line. Saris
around the world. Her work has been
are inspired by her Bangladeshi folk
showcased in London, Paris, Zurich,
traditions called the “Nakshi Kantha.”
New York, Singapore as well as many
Maheen Khan expressed her
other SAARC countries. Maheen has
pleasure to be associated with this
also represented Bangladesh on the
fashion event and hopes that her
ramp at Bridal Asia for a number of
participation will further enrich the
years in New Delhi. She would like to
friendship between Bangladesh and
make a worthwhile contribution in the
Thailand.
development of the fashion industry in
Khan’s professional carrier spans over 30 years giving her a wealth of industry knowledge and experience to
Bangladesh that will positively support the design fraternity. A graduate of Parson’s School of
work from. She works with artisans,
Design 1992 and The Fashion Institute
which allows her to infuse Bangladeshi
of Design and Merchandising 1988,
craftsmanship and textile heritage with
Khan is the founder president of The
fashion silhouettes. Her signature style
Fashion Design Council Bangladesh.
is to combine traditional aesthetics with modern designs. Maheen Khan pioneered in
Maheen Khan has received the following awards: Textile Association of Los Angeles (TALA) in 1987, Nari
developing the fashion industry in
Persona in 2012, Ananya Shirsho
Bangladesh contributing greatly in its
Dash in 1995, Style Guru in 2011, and
growth and innovation. She has worked
Eisenhower Fellowships in 2012. n
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18 stay in Clues ACROSS 1 Exhibitor of bathroom equipment (6) 6 Engine part shown backwards and forwards (5) 7 The Spanish tie rearranged to be special (5) 8 Venerable month (6)
DOWN 2 Fish as woman’s jewellery (7) 3 Edit news and sit to observe (7) 4 Royal Academy depend on, but not often (6) 5 Iceman transformed film (6)
Sudoku
Aries (Mar 21-Apr 19)- You’ve been blaming yourself or feeling guilty for the way certain events have panned out. The key may be to take responsibility for what you can control and let go of the
Use the numbers 1-9 to complete each of the 3x3 square grids such that each horizontal and vertical line also contains all of the digits from 1-9
rest. Taurus (Apr 20-May20)- You may need to look at where you’re frittering away your cash. One area could be linked with your social life. Gemini (May 21-June 20)- The coming week could encourage you to connect and network and as a result tap in to opportunities that are very good for you. Allow your curiosity to lead you to websites, books, and groups that could make a difference in your life. Cancer (June 21-Jul22)- Time management could be crucial to your success in a number of ways. A continued focus on the private sector of your chart encourages you to get in touch with your heart’s desire. Leo (Jul 23-Aug 22)-Your social life continues to buzz as an active presence in your social sector brings opportunities to mingle. There is even a chance of an
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Virgo (Aug 23-Sep 22)- Connecting with those in your industry or associated with your professional goals could enhance your chances considerably over the week ahead. Libra (Sep 23-Oct22)- If you meet up with someone while on vacation, it’s equally possible that you could strike up a friendship or even romance. Later in the week, abandon tact and be blunt if someone asks you to do something you don’t want to do. Scorpio (Oct23-Nov21)- The present alignment could find you considering
ACROSS 1 Helsinki national not first in the end (7) 2 Piebald switches with two legs (7) 6 Sharing blood, red embracing dead (7) 7 Try and heal confused on this planet (7)
DOWN 1 Grab fee arranged for Russian jeweller (7) 2 US city write up of asian state (5) 3 Vacation with no top in long grass (7) 5 Get rid of shallow trench (5)
business ideas in your search for one that is just right for you. You may find a number of opportunities that look quite promising once you start looking. Sagittarius (Nov22-Dec 21)- You’ll need to do the groundwork in order to make the most of it. Start now and you’ll be in the perfect position to go ahead in a couple of weeks. Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan19)- Health and wellness issues continue to attract your attention. When it comes to exercise, the current backdrop suggests you’d do well to join a club or work out with a buddy. Aquarius (Jan 20-Feb 18)- Creative thinking could be at a peak, perhaps encouraging you to try something new. Problem solving might be a lot easier, too. Pisces (Feb 19-Mar 20)- Purchasing items for the home might be fun. You may snap up an item that has the potential to solve at least one domestic or kitchenrelated issue.
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Weekly Planner June 17 June 17
Exhibition | Era House Eid Exhibition XIII
Exhibition | Rabita Rashid’s Eid Al Fitr Collection 2016 Exhibition When 11am Where Meraki, House 188, Gulshan Avenue, Gulshan 2, 1212 Dhaka, Bangladesh What Eid-Ul-Fitr is at our doorstep and is the perfect reason and occasion that applauds the creativity and emotional thrill of filling your wardrobe with new, exciting attires. Rabita Rashid brings you the sophisticated fit-and-flare looks and exuberant cuts and trims of capes, jackets as well as long and short kameezes, bell bottom pants,
cigarette pants or straight pants. A wealth of heavy unique dapka and stone works will be available in the most desirable colours. The fashionistas that like to keep it simple yet classy will surely be delighted to afford pieces at the exhibition. Traditional silks and exclusive hand painted Muslins are waiting for the ones who are ready for an unstoppable fashion fiesta. Come early to grab your favorites for festivities of all kinds.
June 17-18
When 10am to 10pm Where All Community Club, Road 35, Gulshan 2, 1212 Dhaka, Bangladesh What Era House returns this time with one grand exhibition to give you a perfect shopping spree before the Eid-ul-Fitr. Many of you have witnessed and experienced their achievements with previous exhibitions. They have a pool of young talents to showcase the flair they have and meet the clients. Era is a collaboration of few online fashion houses with an intention to provide the young entrepreneurs an effective platform to meet a great deal of customers.
June 18
Exhibition | Summer and Eid Exhibition 2016 When 10am Where Bistro E, Bay’s Edgewater, 1st Floor, NE (N) 12, North Avenue, Gulshan 2, Dhaka, Bangladesh What Faizah Ahsan Designs are back with their brand new summer and Eid collection. This collection is filled with exclusive pieces specially designed to make you feel comfortable, yet trendy and stylish to survive this Eid. It includes casual wears, kurtis, formal wears, capes with intricate zardousi, stone, pearl, pipe, sequence, embroidery work to make you stand out among the crowd this Eid. Also, they will have another friend, AnaaqahBtq with her exclusive collections of hijabs, capes and abayas at the exhibition. For more information log onto https://www.facebook.com/ AnaaqahBtq/
June 17 - 25
Food | HungryNaki Presents: Sehri Deen! 2016
Food | Foodpanda presents Sehri Khann When 10pm Where International Convention City Bashundhara (ICCB), Kuril Bishwa Road, Dhaka, Bangladesh What Sehri Khann brings to you two nights of togetherness with family and friends. The best restaurants of Dhaka, 90’s arcade games, Euro Cup match screening and much more will be under one roof. A portion of your spendings of the two nights go towards providing for the less privileged this
Ramadan. Participating restaurants are Madchef. Nando’s, Glazed, Kiva Han, Kabab Factory, Chaap Station, Mezbaan Bari, Le Pizzaria, Barcode Cafe Gulshan, Asian Bistro, Dekchi, Lucknow, Dhaka Grand Nawab, Shakib’s, Rice & Noodle, Shawarma House, Paturi, and more. Grab your tickets at https://www. foodpanda.com.bd/restaurant/ s1uu/sehri-khann-tickets or http:// ticketchai.com/details/409/ Foodpanda-presents-Sehri-Khann
When 12:30am onwards Where www.hungrnaki.com What For every order over Tk1,000 placed on Hungrynaki.com throughout the month of Ramadan, someone less fortunate will enjoy a sehri treat. A lot of people get Iftar but not too many receive sehri and they fast without having any proper meal. The Hungrnaki team will be roaming around Dhaka, Chittagong and Sylhet along with their volunteer partner OBHIZATRIK Foundation to touchdown in areas where nobody ever went for distributing meal packs only to spread the joy on behalf of their valued customer as well as the restaurant owners.
June 21
Yoga | 108 Suryas When 4pm - 5pm Where Studio 107, House 14, Road 107, Gulshan 2, 1212 Dhaka, Bangladesh What June 21st is the International Day of Yoga. Come celebrate by doing 108 sun salutations with Ulfath of Inhale.Exhale- yoga for strength and balance and Anika YOGANIKA. This event is free for all, there is no need to register. Join in the spirit of yoga and don’t forget to bring a yoga mat! Love, peace and joy! Music by Shez’s Mooderupor Mixes
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20 The Bong Momma | Tales from a first-time mom
It’s a wild life!
(Part 1)
Minu Ahmed
I’
ve mentioned in my earlier
louvre windows, enclosed in wire
columns that I had spent
mesh to prevent entry of mosquitoes,
a chunk of my childhood
because The Island was renowned for
abroad, swinging from tree
malaria. In fact, we have had so much
to tree like Tarzan in the jungles of
quinine in those four years that I can
a sizeable island near the land down
still taste it from memory. Yuck! The first few weeks went away just
under.
converting my father’s bachelor pad
I refrain from mentioning exactly where I was, not for security reasons,
into a family home. We put up photos,
good God no – but to maintain the air
bought new furniture and curtains. We
of mystery that any unnamed item
discovered that, for some odd reason,
usually has.
The Town did not have a salon. I guess the locals just liked to grow out their
It’s a lot like You Know Who, a.k.a. He Who Must Not Be Named, but for
afros, perhaps? So for the entire time
keeping things simple, I’ll just call it
we were there, my mum, sister and I
The Island.
sported a similar “boy cut” or whatever it was that my father could manage.
So yes, I spent four long, wonderful years, growing up in The Island. I have
Hence my tomboy stage of life was
wanted to write about my days there
initiated, which pretty much carried
for the longest time, but the lazy arse
through to later years as well. The only good school around was
that I can be, I never really got around
the international school, and since it
to it.
was too expensive to afford right then,
So my mum, younger sister and I moved to The Island after my dad got a
my sister and I were homeschooled
job there and had already lived there for
by our parents until it was financially
a year. Two countries and two transit
feasible to do so. Things became better
stops later, we made it to the capital
when my mum got a job where my dad
city. The place we were supposed to go
worked (they are both doctors), and we
to was more towards the south of The
didn’t have to look back after that. I owe a great deal of my learning
Island, and the only way to get there
and personality to my years spent
was by a tiny plane which sat a mere Photo: Bigstock
ten people, and had noisy propellers
at the international school. I had friends from all over the world and the
on each side. At the end of my stay at The Island, I had ridden those little
underdeveloped, and much of its
measure. Wooden stairs led up to the
principal was a foreigner who was a
planes so many times, that I hear a
natural beauty was still intact. Needless
door, and we entered what was to be
great teacher as well. In fact, it was he
permanent crunch inside my ears every
to say the locals were in a similar state,
our home for the next four years.
who recognised my writing skills when
time I swallow. Air pressure from those
and we were warned about cannibals,
flights, you see.
but honestly, we never came across,
and there were pillars holding up the
years old, and regularly encouraged it.
nor witnessed any such occurrence in
roof. It was a modest little house, with
I lost all my childhood writing while
all the time we were there.
three tiny bedrooms and a toilet. I was
moving houses, but the memories are
just glad it had a high commode and
still there.
So our tiny plane carrying my five year old self, two year old sister and unmentionably aged mum, landed on
Entering The Town, I remember
Inside the floors were made of wood
a long, nondescript concrete patch of
the houses and buildings were made
not a pan. The bathroom even had a
an airstrip. A small building nearby
of wood and plaster, with slanted
hand shower, which to us deshi folk, is
(if you can call it a building, it was
corrugated steel roofs. The roads were
a top priority.
more like a house), happened to be
quite sparse, with shrubbery and metal
the airport/customs building. While
wire fencing surrounding the buildings.
led to the open living space front and
taxiing towards the building, I saw that
I imagine what they were trying to
left, which had a small sofa set, and a
a barbed wire fence held off the people
keep out of the properties. Dogs? Pigs?
dining table right behind it. Leading off
waiting for arrivals. Among them, I saw
Cannibalistic demonic vampires?
the living space towards the right of the
my father’s familiar face, looking grim,
A small road ventured downhill
room was a fridge and a small kitchen.
and at the end of the road we reached
On the right side of the main door, a
saw us in the plane.
a house on the left. It was made of
small corridor veered right towards the
wood and raised on metal poles, which
bedrooms and bathroom. My parents
our way from the airport to The Town.
were fastened into a huge concrete
took one bedroom, while my sister and
Crossing narrow asphalt roads around
foundation. I found out later that most
I stayed in the one opposite them. The
winding hills, with lush greenery
of the houses were made on metal
third bedroom was the smallest and
on either side, it was a beautiful
poles because there were frequent
used as a storage space.
sight. Back then, The Island was still
earthquakes and this was a safety
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When one entered the main door, it
but broke into a smile the second he Bundling us all into a jeep, we made
I started writing short stories at eight
Most of the windows were glass
Minu Ahmed is your not-so-average homemaker, normshirker and abomination of awesomeness, juggling a career in communication, motherhood and a fatter half. Questions? Send to thebongmomma@gmail. com