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1. Ask your physician about carrier screening.
One early checklist step is to do carrier screening which is a genetic test to discover whether you are a carrier of a genetic disorder that could be passed on to your child. The American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) and the American College of Medical Genetics and Genomics (ACMG) recommend that physicians should offer carrier screening to all women of childbearing age.
2. Discuss whether Preimplantation Genetic Screening is right as part of your IVF.
For couples pursuing In Vitro Fertilization (IVF), there have been advances in genetic testing that may help to improve your chances of a successful pregnancy.
Powered by next generation DNA sequencing (NGS), preimplantation genetic screening, or PGS, looks to identify embryos with the correct number of chromosomes to decrease the chance of miscarriage and improve the chances of a successful pregnancy. Good Start Genetics is proud to be the first company to use NGS technology for reproductive health.
Finding the path to pregnancy is a very personal journey for couples planning to start a family. Whether you are just starting out or receiving care from fertility specialists, this pre-pregnancy checklist can help you have a good start to parenting.
3. Be sure to take care of yourself along the way. It’s important to make sure you are getting enough rest, eating a nutritious diet and drinking water. Following your doctor’s advice and leading a healthy lifestyle can also help you get ready for a healthy pregnancy
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11 How Diabetes Affects You and Your Baby
If you need insulin in pregnancy, you’re more likely to develop type 2 diabetes
12 The Nursing Care You Deserve in Childbirth
A good relationship with your caregiver is vital to a healthy pregnancy experience
14 Am I at Risk for Maternal Depression?
1 in 6 moms suffer from depression during pregnancy; here’s what you need to know
15 Stillbirth & Its Ripple Effects
Meet a woman working to end suffering for those who experience stillbirth
19 Cold, Flu or Allergies?
Learn the differences and control the symptoms
20 Oh No, My Leaky Bladder!
Light bladder leakage is common; here’s how to cope with it
21 Can I Prevent Osteoporosis?
Prevent osteoporosis with this plan to promote bone health
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47 Why Is My Baby Crying?
Babies cry for your attention; here’s what it could mean
49 Newborn Jaundice
What is jaundice and how is it treated?
50 Diapering That Nurtures Your Baby
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25 Choosing the Right Prenatal Vitamin
Additional vitamins and minerals are essential for a healthy pregnancy
27 Trimesters, Zika and Kick Counts
Our nurses answer your questions
28 Why Is My Provider Sending Me to the Hospital Birth Unit?
What to expect if you get sent to your hospital birth unit during your pregnancy
31 Choosing a Childbirth Class
Explore the best childbirth classes for you
32 Post-Birth Warning Signs
Learning these warning signs could save your life
40 Which Breast Pump Should You Use?
Continue to feed your baby breastmilk— even when you can’t always be there
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53 Promote Baby’s Supple Skin
Nourish and protect baby’s skin with these tips
54 What’s New with Safe Infant Sleep?
Learn about the latest safe sleep recommendations
61 Car Seat Safety First
Use these checklists to help your child travel as safely as possible
63 It’s a Sign!
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66 Hello, My Name Is…
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Post-Birth Warning Signs
You might be surprised to learn that pregnancy-related deaths are increasing in the US, and that in fact we live in one of only a few countries worldwide where these types of deaths among women have been rising. Pregnancy-related deaths, what experts call “maternal mortality,” are the death of a mother from complications related to pregnancy and childbirth within the fi rst year after birth.
Learning to recognize these POST-BIRTH warning signs and knowing what to do may help save your life and ensure you have the healthiest and safest recovery possible from pregnancy. Most women who give birth recover without problems, yet any woman can have complications after the birth of a baby. Before you leave your birthing facility, please ask your nurse about the warning signs that can signal serious complications for which you may need care.
Protect Your Health After Baby’s Birth
By learning these POST-BIRTH warning signs, and asking your partner, family and friends to also know them and be ready to act on them, you can help protect your health as you recover from the birth of your baby.
Put the POST-BIRTH handout in this issue (p. 33) where you will see it, learn and recall the warning signs, and know how to act if any of these signs emerge. Many nurses ask moms to post this handout on their refrigerator so that everyone in the house becomes familiar with these signs.
POST-BIRTH stands for:
P: Pain in your chest
O: Obstructed breathing or shortness of breath
S: Seizures
T: Thoughts of hurting yourself or your baby
B: Bleeding, soaking through one pad/hour, or blood clots, the size of an egg or bigger
I: Incision that is not healing
R: Red or swollen leg that is painful or warm to touch
T: Temperature of 100.4°F or higher
H: Headache that does not get better, even after taking medicine, or bad headache with vision changes
When you seek care, tell every healthcare provider that you’re pregnant or that you’ve had a baby within the past year; this is a sign to them that this could be a pregnancy- or postpartum-related complication. Trust your instincts: ALWAYS get medical care if you’re not feeling well or if you have questions or concerns during and after pregnancy.
Rest assured that while pregnancy-related deaths are increasing, they’re still very rare. Your nurses are there for you with expert care, guidance, advice and support, and they welcome the opportunity to help you have the healthiest pregnancy, birth and postpartum recovery experience possible.
EMILY DRAKE, PHD, RN, FAAN, is the 2017 President of the Association of Women’s Health, Obstetric and Neonatal Nurses (AWHONN).
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If you’ve ever lost a wanted pregnancy, you know the physical and emotional pain that follows in the days and weeks after and the anxiety it brings to future attempts to conceive and carry a healthy baby to term and birth.
Losing a pregnancy—a baby—isn’t like breaking an arm or leg. Just as your hormones had to escalate to conceive and sustain a pregnancy, now they must also ramp down— which takes some time. This makes every day different, including the swirl of emotions compounded by grief and loss.
In this issue, meet stillbirth advocate Debbie Haine, who has walked this path many, many times in building her beautiful family. She’s now fighting for better outcomes for moms who experience pregnancy loss. Her story is on p.15.
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Bankroll Takes a Backseat to Work-Life Balance
BY SUMMER HUNTDo you fantasize about a flexible work schedule? You’re not alone. Most parents put work flexibility (84%) and work-life balance (80%) at the top of their lists when considering a job opportunity—compare that to those prioritizing salary (75%) and health insurance (42%), according to a FlexJobs survey of about 1,200 parents with kids aged 18 or younger.
The basic 9-to-5 is at risk as more moms and dads seek flexible work schedules, particularly flexible scheduling including full or part-time telecommuting, alternative scheduling and freelance work. Wanting to be more involved at their children’s schools and having more balance in their own lives topped the reasons why more parents are seeking flexible employment.
Shake the Salt from Your Diet
Americans need to shake the salt out of their diets: According to the updated 2015-2020 Dietary Guidelines for Americans , you should limit yourself to less than 2300mg per day. But cutting back goes beyond skipping the salt shaker—sodium sneaks its way into packaged foods including breads, crackers and ready-made sandwiches. Experts at JAMA offer these tips for skipping salt:
Ditch the drive-thru; cook more at home
Perk up foods with fresh herbs and new-to-you spices
Seek reduced-sodium options of your favorites
Check labels—better yet, cut down on packaged foods
Shop your store’s perimeter, filling up on fruits and veggies
OVARIAN CANCER SCREENING KITS UNRELIABLE
Don’t be fooled by medical tests marketed for ovarian cancer screening, warns the FDA. There are currently no ovarian cancer screening tests that have been cleared or approved. The federal agency also noted that research and data from clinical trials show existing ovarian cancer screening tests are not accurate or reliable.
If you’re concerned about ovarian cancer, talk to your healthcare provider and know:
There is no safe and effective ovarian cancer screening test at present
Avoid ovarian cancer screening tests when making health or treatment decisions
Your healthcare provider is your best ally with upto-date information and effective screening tools
How Diabetes Affects You & Your Baby
If you’ve wondered about whether you may be at risk for diabetes, pregnancy can be a crystal ball, allowing you to see what may be in your future.
UNDERSTANDING DIABETES
Type 2 diabetes—the most common form of diabetes—occurs when your body can’t properly manage blood sugar. Your body uses the hormone insulin to move sugars (glucose) from your bloodstream into your cells, where it’s used for energy. Insulin acts like a key, unlocking cellular walls to let sugar inside.
If your body doesn’t produce enough insulin, or if your cells can’t use insulin efficiently (called insulin resistance), you’ll be left with too much blood sugar circulating in your body. Although many women with type 2 diabetes develop it after they’ve had their children, some develop it before they’re done with childbearing.
If you have type 2 diabetes before pregnancy, talk to your healthcare provider before you’re pregnant to be sure your blood sugars are in good control. High blood sugars in the first 2 months of pregnancy put your baby at an increased risk for birth defects. Be sure any medications you may take will be safe during pregnancy. Use a reliable form of contraception until you have good blood sugar control.
EFFECTS OF GESTATIONAL DIABETES
When diabetes develops during pregnancy (usually diagnosed in the last 3 months) it’s called gestational diabetes. If you have gestational diabetes, your body can’t increase insulin production, leaving higher levels of blood sugars than normal in your bloodstream.
Some women can keep their blood sugars normal by changing their diets and increasing their physical activity. Others need medications, either pills or insulin injections, to keep blood sugar normal. If you need these during pregnancy, you’re at increased risk to develop type 2 diabetes within 5 years, research demonstrates.
Prevent diabetes by avoiding the unhealthy habits that increase insulin resistance in your body, including being overweight or obese, eating an unhealthy diet and avoiding exercise. Work with your nurses to adopt healthy lifestyle habits that will keep you on track to avoid diabetes in pregnancy and throughout your life.
EFFECTS OF DIABETES IN PREGNANCYFOR MOM FOR BABY
Too much amniotic fluid (polyhydramnios)
Preterm birth
Kidney infection (pyelonephritis)
Problems with labor
Cesarean birth risks
Damage to your retinas
Increased risks of metabolic syndrome
Poor organ development, including neural tube or heart defects
Increased risks of spontaneous abortion or stillbirth and intrauterine death
Abnormalities such as enlarged liver, pancreas or heart
Lifelong risks for obesity, high blood pressure and diabetes
Skeletal and limb abnormalities
Abnormal growth patterns—being too large or small, or growth restricted during development
Birth problems or trauma
CAROLYN DAVIS COCKEY, MLS, LCCE, is editor of Healthy Mom&BabyIf you needinsulin you’repregnancy,during morelikely to developtype 2 diabeteswithin 5 years.
The Nursing Care You Deserve in Childbirth
By Cathe R ine Ruhl, C nm , msYour relationship with your nurses—and other care providers—can have lasting effects on how you feel about your labor and the memories of giving birth that you’ll carry with you for a lifetime.
You’re 8 months pregnant with your second baby and are starting to think about labor. When you recall how your first labor went—a 24-hour marathon—you find yourself hoping you’ll have nurses like the ones who supported you through that marathon.
You recall your nurses really listened to you, asking what was important to you and your partner for labor and birth. You felt respected and had confidence that your nurses would help you meet your goal of a satisfying birth experience. You remember that your nurse never left your side while you were pushing, cheering you on and giving you confidence in your first hours as a mom as you began breastfeeding your new little one.
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Did you know that research shows women say their relationship with their nurses and other caregivers during childbirth was more important than their perceptions of labor pain?
Research also shows that women who feel they were involved with decisions during childbirth are more satisfied with their experience. The Association of Women’s Health, Obstetric and Neonatal Nurses (AWHONN)—the professional organization
for labor and delivery and postpartum nurses that publishes this magazine—says hallmarks the of the nursing care women and babies deserve are compassion, courage, humility, wisdom, and integrity. As a childbearing woman, you deserve care from nurses who truly engage with you, expertly guiding you as you navigate childbirth and new motherhood.
Finding Compassionate Care p roviders
How will the nurses at your chosen birthplace provide care for you? Make time to take a tour or classes at your chosen birthplace and ask to meet some of the nurses who work there. Reach out to other moms and ask them about their experiences with the nurses at the hospital or birth center where you are planning to have your baby. Ask if they felt respected, safe and listened to. Ask if they trusted their nurses to be knowledgeable guides, giving them confidence in their intuitive abilities as new mothers.
The nursing care you receive during labor and birth, and even through the early postpartum days and weeks, makes a lasting impression and can affect how you feel about your labor, birth and early days of motherhood. Wise, courageous and compassionate nurses who are fully present and engaged with you and your baby are providing the nursing care that all women and babies deserve in childbirth and beyond.
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Nobody likes to be rushed, especially babies.
Your baby needs at least a full 40 weeks of pregnancy to grow and develop. Inducing labor even a week or two early is associated with a host of risks, including prematurity, cesarean surgery, hemorrhage and infection.
While it may seem convenient for you or your health care provider, labor should only be induced for medical reasons.
Your baby will let you know when he’s ready to come out, so give him at least a full 40 weeks.
AM I AT RISK FOR Maternal Depression?
BY VALERIE M. KADING, NP, MSN1 in 6 moms experience some form of depression during pregnancy. Here’s what you need to know now.
Depression during pregnancy can affect not only your health but baby’s too, including baby’s birth outcomes. ere is no one single cause for depression in pregnancy, also called maternal depression.
MATERNAL DEPRESSION RISK FACTORS
Experts say the following factors increase your risks of depression during pregnancy:
Previous depression or anxiety: Depression in a past pregnancy or any time before pregnancy increases risk for experiencing depression during and after pregnancy
Stressful circumstances: Big life events, like losing a significant partner or loved one, divorce or losing a job can lead to depression
No support: Being on your own without support can lead to sadness, loneliness and depression
Struggling fi nancially: Especially if you have a low income
Ethnicity: African-American and Hispanic women experience maternal depression more so than women of other ethnicities
Being a teen: Pregnancy during the teen years can create family issues, lowering a teen’s self-esteem
WHAT IF I HAVE SOME RISK FACTORS?
Maternal depression is a complex health challenge. Discuss any of the mentioned risk factors with your pregnancy care provider; get mental health care if you have any risks for depression in pregnancy.
Secondly, replace risky behaviors such as using tobacco, alcohol or drugs with healthy habits, like seeking support from others.
Having risk factors doesn’t always mean you’ll experience maternal depression. If you’re concerned about any of the risk factors, ask your nurse for advice and specific actions you can take to reduce your risks.
WHAT ARE THE RISKS FOR ME & MY BABY?
Untreated, maternal depression can lead to postpartum depression and potential risks to your baby including premature labor and birth, poor bonding between you and baby and delays in baby’s development.
REDUCE YOUR RISKS FOR MATERNAL DEPRESSION
Be healthy: Eat healthy meals, avoid alcohol and illegal drugs, follow your pregnancy care provider’s recommendations for exercise and get at least 7-8 hours of good sleep each night
Be resilient: Promote healthy relationships, set appropriate boundaries with others, practice mindfulness, meditate, and try prenatal massage (as recommended by your healthcare provider)
Ask for support: Reach out to your partner, family and friends. Set regular dates with people that you’re close with; avoid isolation.
If you’ve experienced a recent stressful life event, seek the assistance of a counselor or therapist
Manage stress: Be as strong as possible emotionally and physically before pregnancy. Keep stress low
Find local support groups at postpartum.net
VALERIE M. KADING, NP, MSN, is the associate director of medical operations at Sierra Tucson, a hospital and behavioral residential treatment center in Tucson, AZ.
Stillbirth
TheSTILLBIRTH death or loss of ababy before or duringbirth. Miscarriage andstillbirth are both fetal lossbut at different stages ofpregnancy. Miscarriage is the loss of a baby before 20weeks; stillbirth is the loss of a baby after 20 weeks ofpregnancy.
And Its Ripple Effects
BY CAROLYN DAVIS COCKEY, MLS, LCCE“I have birthed two living babies and one dead baby. As a woman and a mother, this is something I never thought I would be able to say,” Debbie Haine Vijayvergiyha wrote in an Every Mother Counts blog post last year. Since that time she’s been telling her story again and again, advocating for awareness, support and accurate autopsy data when it comes to stillbirth.
Like most good connections, I met mom and stillbirth activist Debbie Haine Vijayvergiyha through a friend who spends her days working for healthy outcomes for pregnant women and their babies. Pregnancy and birth have never been easy for this New Jersey-native and her family. Following the birth of her fi rst child, a daughter, Debbie developed both a systemic infection and blood clot that nearly took her life. en, she suff ered 2 miscarriages.
With a fourth pregnancy, Debbie and her husband faced yet another devastating pregnancy reality at a routine 2nd trimester check-up: Her expectant daughter’s heart had
Debbie Haine Vijayvergiyha and familystopped beating; her umbilical cord had collapsed, cutting off her oxygen.
Yet hope prevailed. Nearly a year to the day after she had delivered her beautiful stillborn daughter, Autumn Joy, Debbie birthed a healthy baby boy. Her story includes incredible sorrow but more so courage and action driven by the desire to create much needed conversation regarding stillbirth.
EXPERIENCING STILLBIRTH
Can you take us to that moment when you learned Autumn had passed?
In that moment, the world stopped moving; everything came crashing down around me. I laid there on the examination table as my doctor looked at me and said, “I’m so sorry, we cannot fi nd a heart beat; your baby is dead.” She repeatedly apologized and then off ered to leave the room so that I could make my calls. irty minutes later, my husband found me on the exam table, frozen, unable to move.
We went home to wait for a hospital bed to become available. We were at a loss. What would we say to our three-and-a-half year old daughter? How would we tell people? What does one pack for the hospital to birth a dead baby? So many questions and no good answers. e hospital called soon after to let us know a bed was ready. I had never felt so scared in my life.
When we arrived at labor and delivery, everyone was expecting me. ey immediately put me into a room to get changed. As soon as the door closed, I heard a baby start crying; it was the most surreal moment—someone in a room next to me was bringing new life into the world as I was preparing to do the exact opposite. Within seconds a nurse appeared and ushered me to another room at the other end of the hall—away from the new life and joy that was otherwise happening.
Once I settled in, a series of healthcare providers came and went, talking to me, and medicating me. A social worker stood against the wall near the end of my bed, never coming close, and rattled off a list of questions: “Did I want to hold my baby?” “Have hand and footprints made?” “Save a lock of hair?” In that moment, the only response that came out was “no.” I didn’t want to believe that any of this was happening. In shock and on morphine, my senses were numb; I was in denial. I shut down; I didn’t know how else to cope.
I delivered Autumn at 4:59 the next morning. Hours later, I began to experience signifi cant pain in my abdomen. Testing showed I had contracted a uterine infection.
I was lying in bed, visibly uncomfortable, when the hospital’s psychiatrist came to see me. He explained that his
visit was hospital protocol following the loss of a child. He sat down, and without looking at my chart, said to me, “Do you think maybe all this pain is psychosomatic?” I looked at him enraged; we exchanged words. He left and never returned.
My experience at the hospital was seriously lacking. No one ever came to talk to me about what I was experiencing, to suggest how we should talk with our daughter about the loss of her sister, or to share bereavement resources. I left the hospital with a pat on the back, a handout on the 12 stages of grief, and a brochure for their monthly support group. My experience at the hospital wasn’t what I deserved, or what my daughter deserved. It took me
Debbie wants women to know stillbirth is a hidden maternal health crisis in the USa very long time to come to terms with what had happened during my stay.
MOVING BEYOND MEMORY
What about that experience brought you to where you are today as an activist working to raise awareness of the effects of stillbirth as well as create the support needed for families experiencing pregnancy loss? “Everything! I had always considered myself a worldly, educated person. And yet I never knew about stillbirth or that it could happen to me. After losing Autumn, it took me a very long time to come to terms with our new reality. e only way that I could make any sense of our heartbreaking tragedy was to give it purpose. I couldn’t sit by and let others suff er like we had. I felt compelled to help; not just for me but for Autumn too.
e fi rst time women learn about stillbirth shouldn’t be when it happens to them. We must break the silence and taboos around stillbirth. It’s essential that we fi nd ways to educate and empower expectant moms and families through their childbearing years about the importance of prenatal care, the risks and realities of stillbirth, and how to be an advocate for their unborn baby.
It’s also important that our healthcare providers understand that they play a vital role in the journey of the grieving family. e way they treat a patient and their family has a signifi cant impact on grieving families’ journeys.
PAIN INTO ACTION
Stillbirth affects about 1% of all pregnancies. Each year about 24,000 babies are stillborn in the US. That’s about the same number of babies who die in their first year of life. But even more shocking, it’s more than 10 times as many deaths as the number babies who die from sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS). Did you begin to tell your story as a way to create change?
Absolutely. I needed to believe that Autumn’s life wasn’t lost in vain. I knew what SIDS was before I ever had children but I had never heard of stillbirth. And we must find a way to improve our data collection; it’s imperative that we find a way to collect concise and consistent data, including perinatal autopsy data. In a perfect world, I would love to see all of this tied into a national stillbirth awareness campaign. Goals are important.
Once we do all of that, we can put together the kind
of information that can help us create real change beyond the numbers—it’s clear that the numbers don’t speak loudly enough. And once that is all said and done, then I would like to believe that stillbirth will begin to be recognized as the tragic maternal health crisis that it is. I know; I have big goals.
Without our voices our babies’ stories will never be told. If we don’t remove the taboo of stillbirth, no one’s ever going to know the truth behind the tragedy of stillbirth. e suff ering doesn’t end the moment you walk out of a hospital. What goes unnoticed is how surviving stillbirth is a life-altering event. People don’t talk about it or consider the negative impact stillbirth has on our society. e truth is that marriages fail, families fall apart, friendships dissolve, and careers are lost. I speak from experience.
We must create a greater sense of urgency around the unmet needs in stillbirth, raise our social conscience on this topic and help generate increased funding for stillbirth research. ere is no easy fi x but I have to believe that one day we will be able to improve stillbirth outcomes in this country. I know we can; we just need to fi nd the right people to support our cause because no one should ever know the pain of losing a child to stillbirth.
Learn more about Debbie’s work at stopstillbirthasap.org and e2degrees.org; and follow her on Instagram and Facebook at stillbornstillmatters and e 2 Degrees Foundation.
CAROLYN DAVIS COCKEY, MLS, LCCE is editor of Healthy Mom&BabyDebbie says thefirst time womenlearn about stillbirthshouldn’t be whenit’s happening tothem.
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BY CAROLYN DAVIS COCKEY, MLS, LCCECold, Flu or Allergies:
Here’s How to Tell the Difference
As the seasons change, your family faces new airborne and bacterial challenges. e next time you’re achy, stuff y and not sure what’s happening, use this quick guide to sleuth if you’re experiencing a cold, the flu or allergies.
You’ve got symptoms, and frankly your head is just too congested to think them through. You’re coughing with a burning feeling at the back of your throat. Could it be a cold? Allergies? Or even the flu?
Sometimes it’s hard to distinguish what your body is battling, especially when colds, flu and allergies all affect your respiratory system. Colds and flu tend to hang around for up to 2 weeks, but allergy symptoms will persist for as long as the allergen is present. Seasonal allergies tend to occur for about 6 weeks at a time.
Knowing what you’re experiencing helps you choose the right treatments and actions to get through recovery as quickly as possible. And, “If you know what you have,
you won’t take medications that you don’t need, that aren’t effective, or that might even make your symptoms worse,” says NIH’s Dr. Teresa Hauguel.
Read labels carefully when choosing over-thecounter medications or taking a prescription. Many treatments for colds, flu and allergies contain similar drugs, such as a decongestant and a pain reliever. You could accidentally get a double dose or worse if you don’t pay attention to how much of each drug is in the medicine you take.
CAROLYN DAVIS COCKEY, MLS, LCCE, is editor of Healthy Mom&BabyCOLDS ALLERGIESFLU
Respiratory illness caused by viruses; symptoms can linger for up to 2 weeks
Colds can also lead to sinus infection and middle ear infections or asthma
Respiratory illness caused by viruses; flu symptoms are like cold symptoms but come on more suddenly and more severely and can last for up to 1-2 weeks
Flu can lead to pneumonia, which can be life-threatening
A condition where your body’s immune system responds to a trigger, like dust, mold or pollen
Allergies can also lead to sinus infection and middle ear infections or asthma
HOW IT AFFECTS YOU
Sore throat
Congestion
Cough
Sneezing
Runny or stuffy nose
Typically no body aches or pains
Rest
HOW TO GET BETTER PREVENTION
Lots of fluids like water or herbal tea
Over-the-counter medicines for symptoms
Good handwashing
Avoiding people who act or appear to be sick
High fever (100-102⁰ or more)
Headache
Fatigue
Body aches, pains
Sore throat
Congestion
Cough, chest discomfort
Prescription anti-virals if caught early Rest
Lots of fluids like water or herbal tea
Over-the-counter medicines for symptoms
Annual flu vaccine
Good handwashing
Avoiding people who act or appear to be sick
Sneezing
Runny or stuffy nose
Congestion
Watery, itchy eyes
Typically no body aches or pains
Antihistamines
Decongestants
Nasal steroids
Avoiding allergens, such as pollen, house dust mites, mold, pet dander, cockroaches
Taking an over-the-counter anti-allergy drug is key to reducing flare ups
Leaking urine is common, and there are ways to cope with light bladder leakage. Maybe you’re on a jog or simply sneezing, and you feel a small amount of urine dribble out; you can’t stop it. What is happening? After all, you only had 1 vaginal birth—you might be asking yourself, “Should I be leaking urine at such a young age?”
e truth is light bladder leakage can happen at any age.
Light bladder leakage (LBL) is urine loss you can’t control. 1 in 4 women experience it. Don’t ever be embarrassed by light bladder leakage; it’s common.
Stress incontinence is leaking urine when there’s pressure on your bladder like with coughing, running, jumping or sneezing.
Urge incontinence is the frequent, sudden need to pee that often causes bladder contractions and leaking small or moderate
amounts of urine. Caff eine, alcohol, drinking too much water, medications like diuretics (water pills) or neurological conditions can irritate your bladder, leading to urge incontinence.
PELVIC FLOOR STRENGTH
During a pelvic examination, your healthcare provider may ask you to squeeze your pelvic floor muscles; they want to check how much your muscles resist stretching. Since your whole pelvic floor is supported by muscle, you can strengthen it. Maintaining good pelvic floor muscle tone is critical to preventing or improving bladder leakage.
Pelvic floor exercises are the easiest way to strengthen these muscles. According to the Mayo Clinic, perfecting pelvic floor exercises is key to making bladder leakage a thing of the past.
Create mental reminders to do these exercises daily—do a set at every red traffic light or during a commercial. At fi rst, squeezing these muscles may feel odd, but you’ll get used to it.
SUSAN PECK, MSN, APN, is an expert adviser to Healthy Mom&Baby.
If you’re doing pelvic floor exercises correctly no one will know. Make it your secret exercise!
• Find the right muscles. To fi nd your pelvic floor muscles, stop peeing midstream. If you succeed, you’ve got the right muscles. Once you’ve identified your pelvic floor muscles, you can do the exercises in any position, although you might fi nd it easiest to do them lying down at fi rst.
• Perfect your technique. Tighten your pelvic floor muscles, hold the contraction for 5 seconds, and then relax for 5 seconds. Try it 4 or 5 times in a row. Work up to keeping the muscles contracted for 10 seconds at a time, relaxing for 10 seconds between contractions.
• Repeat. Avoid holding your breath. Instead, breathe freely during the exercises. Aim for at least 3 sets of 10 repetitions a day.
pelvicPerfecting exercisesfloor is keyto making bladderleakage a thing ofthe past.PELVIC FLOOR
Can I Prevent Osteoporosis?
Here’s a 3-pronged plan to promote bone health and help prevent osteoporosis: calcium, vitamin D and exercise!
Sometime between the ages of 30 and menopause, your body stops adding bone density to your skeleton. is is why it’s so important to bone up on bone health—and build as much bone as possible from your late teens through early adulthood.
WHAT’S OSTEOPOROSIS?
Osteoporosis is a medical condition wherein our bones become brittle, thin and fragile. On X-ray pictures, bones aff ected by osteoporosis look like Swiss cheese, and they’re more likely to break if you fall or have an accident. Having weak, thin bones increases your chances of developing osteoporosis later in life. Osteoporosis is common: More than 54 million people have it, and 1 in 2 women will have a fracture or break a bone related to osteoporosis during her lifetime.
Just being a female in menopause makes you more likely to have brittle, thin bones. So does:
Being Asian or Caucasian
Being very thin or petite
Having a family history of osteoporosis
Having a mother who had a hip fracture related to thin bones
Smoking cigarettes
Drinking a lot of alcohol or caffeinated drinks
Using certain medications including steroids (for more than 3 months)
Taking some medications to treat breast cancer
CAN OSTEOPOROSIS BE PREVENTED?
As a woman, even if you’re age 30 or older and have already reached your peak bone mass, it’s important to get enough calcium in your diet to keep your bones strong. Dairy and dark leafy greens are your best food sources; supplements are effective too.
You’ve got 3 great tools to support your bones: calcium, vitamin D and exercise. Calcium is key to saving bones. Experts at the National Institutes of Health recommend 1,000 mg of calcium daily for women ages 19-50; bump up that recommended daily intake to 1,200 mg after you celebrate your 51st birthday.
Vitamin D is calcium’s partner, but unfortunately, vitamin D is a bit harder to get from food. While sunshine is a good natural source for vitamin D, even if you live somewhere like sunny Florida, wearing sunscreen or a hat blocks natural vitamin D. Consider taking a D supplement—600 IU each day up to age 70, when your RDA bumps to 800 IU per day. Some studies recommend more, but never exceed 4,000 IU per day.
Lastly, add in weight-bearing exercise (pretty much anything other than swimming) to keep your bones healthy and strong. Walking—even without holding weights—is an easy way to keep your skeleton strong.
SUSAN PECK, MSN, APN is a nurse practitioner in New Brunswick, NJ, and an expert adviser to Healthy Mom&Baby10 Tips for a Healthy Pregnancy
1. Learn about the wonderful ways your body is changing and how your baby is growing.
2. Eat nutrient-rich foods and learn the appropriate range for weight gain.
3. Take prenatal vitamins with folic acid before conception and during pregnancy.
4. Stay active! Continue exercising as you were before pregnancy or according to the recommendations of your health care provider.
5. Get plenty of rest.
6. Talk to your baby and enjoy your growing bond.
7. Manage the stress in your life. Keep communication open with your partner, and build your support system. Consider practicing meditation or taking a prenatal yoga class.
8. Think about whether you want to give birth at a hospital, at a birthing center, or at home and choose a health care provider who will be able to assist you in your chosen location.
9. Prepare for your baby’s birth. Based on your chosen birth location, consider your preferences and discuss these with your care provider.
10. Enjoy this special time in your life! Your partner, family and friends can help you make the most of this wonderful transition.
Online classes cover all stages of pregnancy, labor and early parenting at Lamaze.org/OnlineClasses.
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Are you expecting, or hoping to be soon? Learn how to plan for a healthy pregnancy and birth with Lamaze classes.
SOMETHING TO REALLY SLING ABOUT
Midwives in Minnesota are hoping a new birthing sling will shorten labor, decrease a mom’s need for an epidural, and potentially lower her risk of needing a cesarean. Leaning into a soft ribbon of fabric anchored into the ceiling, laboring women are supported in upright positions as labor progresses, rather than laboring flat on their backs. Upright positioning is proven to increase a woman’s movement in labor, make contractions more effective as baby makes an easier journey through the birth canal, and reduce labor pain scores. Birthing slings are new to the U.S. but more common in Europe. Experts say women who can support their own weight in labor and who desire to labor upright and birth normally can try using a birth sling. Women with high-risk pregnancies, such as those with high blood pressure, may not be able to use this tool. Ask your pregnancy care provider if your desired birth site has labor slings.
BY SUMMER HUNTMorning Sickness = Healthy Pregnancy?
Next time you’re kneeling over the porcelain, consider this: Researchers say that women who experience morning sickness are less likely to miscarry or go into labor prematurely. Additionally, babies born to moms who experienced nausea in pregnancy may have fewer birth defects and score higher on IQ tests.
This doesn’t mean that women who don’t experience nausea and vomiting in pregnancy should be concerned—routine retching doesn’t necessarily guarantee a perfect pregnancy. Lead author of the study Dr. Gideon Koren says momsto-be should take the sickness as a sign their bodies are producing the necessary hormones for better outcomes and some decreased risks during pregnancy.
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Manual or electric? When and where will you most likely pump? Options include manual and powered pumps, which run on batteries or electricity. Double pumps can extract milk from both breasts at the same time. Rent or buy? Most breast pumps are designed to be used by one person. If you’re
renting, make sure you’re receiving a commercial grade pump designed for multiple users over time. Easy to clean? Can you assemble and break down your pump with your eyes closed? Does it have tubing or flanges with hard-to-clean areas? Look for easy assembly and use, as well as dishwasher-friendly parts.
BRAIN, EYE AND NEUROPATHWAY DEVELOPMENT STARTS WITH MOM!
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The American Academy of Pediatrics found 7 of 10 kids deficient in Vitamin D and recommends 400 IUs of Vitamin D3 per day for babies and infants from BIRTH.* Vitamin D3 supports healthy, immune, respiratory and bone development.
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How to Choose the Right Prenatal Vitamin
During pregnancy, your body needs additional vitamins and minerals for you and your growing baby. A daily prenatal vitamin is your insurance against any deficiencies from conception through pregnancy and breastfeeding.
Start prenatal vitamins before conceiving to support baby’s earliest development. Your prenatal should have at least 400mcg of folic acid to prevent neural tube defects, which occur in the fi rst 28 days of pregnancy—often before you even miss a period.
VITAMINS, MINERALS & MORE
Folic Acid
Folic acid is the synthetic form of the B vitamin folate, which is found in leafy greens. Some prenatal vitamins have 800mcg of folic acid, which is safe and helps prevent birth defects. If you’ve had a pregnancy affected by a neural tube defect you may need even more folic acid.
DHA
Want to nourish a smarter baby? Many prenatal vitamins include DHA (docosahexaenoic acid), an omega-3 fatty acid that promotes baby’s brain and eye development. Salmon, walnuts and fl ax seeds are good sources of omega-3.
Vitamin D
You need 600 IU/day of vitamin D during pregnancy. Most prenatals have 400 IU, so you’ll need to supplement. Excessive amounts of vitamin D can be too much of a good thing—don’t exceed 2,000 IU to 4,000 IU a day.
Calcium
Calcium helps protect against bone loss during pregnancy—super helpful when you’re growing another skeleton! Get 1,000mg per day. If dairy’s not your thing, eat calcium-rich foods like broccoli, kale, white beans and oranges.
Vitamin B6
It ain’t easy being queasy. Vitamin B6 can ease nausea and morning sickness; experts advise 50mg of B6 daily.
What You Need from Your Prenatal Vitamin
VITAMIN AMOUNT
Folic acid 400 mcg
Vitamin D 400 IU
Vitamin C 70 mg
Vitamin B12 6 mcg
Vitamin E 10 mg
Thiamine 3 mg
Riboflavin 2 mg
Niacin 20 mg
Zinc 15 mg
Calcium 200 to 300 mg
Iron 27 mg
Iron
DOES YOUR THROAT CLOSE AT THE THOUGHT OF SWALLOWING A CAPSULE?
Look for a chewable, liquid or even gummy prenatal vitamin.
If you’re prone to iron deficiencies, choose a prenatal with a higher level of iron; just know iron can cause nausea and constipation. If you’re not anemic, get at least 27 mg/day. Find it in lean red meats, chicken, fi sh, dried beans and peas and prune juice. Absorb iron better when you eat these with vitamin C-rich foods including tomatoes and citrus fruits.
CHOOSE WISELY
Not all prenatal vitamins are created equally, and not all supplements have been tested for safety in pregnant women. Choose your prenatal carefully and stick to meeting your basic needs—think maximum impact with the minimum number of daily supplements.
For example, too much vitamin A can be harmful to your baby and is often reduced in prenatals, which is one reason why a regular multivitamin just won’t work during and after pregnancy.
And prenatal vitamins won’t make up for poor eating—get the nutrition you and your baby need each day through your food.
TAMERA YOUNG, RN, MSN, is an expert advisor to Healthy Mom&Baby
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WHAT’S A TRIMESTER—AND WHY DO I NEED SO MANY VISITS WITH MY HEALTHCARE PROVIDER?
A normal, full-term pregnancy is divided into 3 stages or trimesters.
e first trimester is from 0-12 weeks of pregnancy. e second trimester is from 13-28 weeks. e third trimester is from 29-40 weeks. Each trimester is unique—your baby’s growth, your body’s changes, how you feel, testing that is offered—are all different among the first, second and third trimesters.
Keep all of your prenatal visits. At each visit your midwife or doctor will check your health and the growth and health of your baby, as well as assess for any risk factors that could be an indication that you or your baby may be developing a problem. Research shows that keeping all of your prenatal visits gives you and your baby the greatest opportunity for the best outcomes possible. We know life is really busy, so use this time to enjoy listening to your baby’s heartbeat and gain peace of mind about your baby’s growth and health.
—Helen M. Hurst, DNP, RNC-OB, APRN-CNM
IS ZIKA STILL A THREAT TO MY PREGNANCY AND BABY?
e Zika virus continues to spread through the U.S., particularly in the southernmost states. As of the end of 2016, there were 32 infants born in the U.S. affected by the birth defects Zika causes and 5 pregnancy losses due to Zika.
Zika causes microcephaly, which includes baby being born with a too-small head, calcium deposits in a baby’s brain indicating possible brain damage, excess fluid in the brain, missing or poorly formed brain structures, abnormal eye development, and other problems resulting from damage to the brain that affects nerves, muscles and bones, such as clubfoot or inflexible joints, as well as hearing loss. Avoiding mosquitos and their bite is still the only way to prevent Zika, say experts at the CDC.
—Helen M. Hurst, DNP, RNC-OB, APRN-CNM
WHAT ARE KICK COUNTS—AND DO I NEED TO DO THEM?
How often your baby moves is a window into how she is doing and her overall health. Spend time getting to know your baby and her overall activity level so you’ll know if something changes or seems different. Kick counts help you make sure your baby is active throughout the day.
Kick counts should be done every day when your baby is most active. Take a break, put your hands on your growing belly, and count baby’s movements. You should be able to count 10 movements within 2 hours or less. Start kick counts from weeks 24-28 on, and call your healthcare provider right away if you’ve observed your baby for 2 hours or more without at least 10 distinct movements.
—Michele Savin, MSN, NNP-BC
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3rd Trimester: WHY IS MY PROVIDER SENDING ME TO THE HOSPITAL BIRTH UNIT
BY CATHERINE RUHL, CNM, MSAre you having a pregnancy emergency? Is birth imminent? ere are many reasons your healthcare provider may send you to the hospital birth unit for a quick check.
So what can you expect if you get sent to your hospital birth unit during pregnancy, whether you think you may be in labor or if you’re experiencing another problem, like bleeding?
OBSTETRIC TRIAGE AT THE BIRTH UNIT
At larger hospitals you’ll likely go to an area of the birth unit called OB triage. At a smaller or less busy hospital you may go straight into a birth room for care. You’ll fi rst see a nurse, and they’ll want to know why you’ve come; any labor signs like contractions or your water breaking, if you’ve had vaginal bleeding, how your baby is moving and how your pregnancy has been going.
Your nurse will review your medical records, if available. ey’ll check your blood pressure, pulse and temperature. If you’re in labor they’ll see how you’re coping with the contractions. Nurses working in this area are expected to see you as promptly as they can; their assessments typically take about 10 minutes.
PRIORITIES IN PREGNANCY & CARE
Based on their fi ndings, your nurse may assign you a priority level from 1-5, which rates how urgently you need care. Assigning a priority level is called triage. A woman at the highest priority (level 1) needs attention right away—for example, if her baby is about to be born. A woman who is assigned a 5 could be at the birth unit for a scheduled procedure. Someone at term and in
active labor needs to be seen promptly, so she’s likely a 3. e triage unit doesn’t work on a fi rst come, fi rst served basis. Someone who has a more urgent need for care will be seen fi rst. Call your midwife or doctor before you go to the hospital; they can advise if going in is needed, or if staying home is a better idea, for example, to wait for contractions to get closer and stronger. If you’re too anxious to stay home, tell them you would feel better to come in and be evaluated.
Once you’ve been checked out by your midwife or doctor, the two of you can make a plan about whether you need to be admitted to the hospital, be observed for a period of time or if you can return home. Getting all of your questions answered as you make decisions will help you have peace of mind, especially if the decision is for you to return home.
CATHERINE RUHL, CNM, MS, is director of women’s health at AWHONN and an expert advisor to Healthy Mom&Baby.
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e months leading up to the birth of your baby are fi lled with many questions. You might be wondering, “How do I prepare for birth? What type of birth experience do I want? What role will my partner play?” A childbirth class helps to answer your questions.
WHAT ARE CHILDBIRTH CLASSES?
Childbirth classes are as varied as the childbearing families who attend them: Some are online, some are an extension of group prenatal care, and many are the more commonly known series of weekly in-person classes led by a childbirth instructor who is trained in a particular technique, such as Lamaze, the Bradley Method or HypnoBirthing—to name a few. Some facilities will even jam all of the sessions into one super Saturday or weekend to help you prepare for birth.
In class, you and your partner or support person will learn how labor begins and progresses, practice coping techniques for managing labor pain and learn why it’s important to be upright and to change positions frequently throughout labor. Coping and comfort techniques include massage, relaxation and breathing techniques and positioning for comfort during labor and birth. Most importantly, in a childbirth class, you’ll learn that as a woman your body was designed to birth intuitively and that you can trust your instincts to guide you.
WHAT METHOD IS BEST FOR ME?
Look for a program taught by a certified instructor. Regardless of the class you choose, the most important thing is practicing what you’ve learned regularly with your partner as you prepare for birth. Birthing is intense—it’s a time to rely on what you already know and are comfortable with, which is why practice is so important.
Lamaze’s® Six Healthy Birth Practices are the foundation of its classes—promoting labor and birth practices based in research, including letting labor start on its own; standing, walking around and moving in labor; bringing a friend or loved one for support; avoiding non-medically needed interventions including birthing on your back; following your body’s own urges to push; and beginning breastfeeding at birth. Lamaze also encourages the support of doulas for you and your partner. lamaze.org
e Bradley Method® revolves around “husbandcoached natural childbirth,” or coach-supported labor
and birth and a healthy mom and baby. e 12-week series teaches natural childbirth and birth as a natural process. e core belief with the Bradley Method is that most women, with proper education and preparation and the help of a loving and supportive coach, can give birth naturally. bradleybirth.com
HypnoBirthing® focuses on addressing and reducing the fear associated with the pain of childbirth and creating a calm, trance-like state, which allows the muscles to relax and the woman to experience a calm and gentle birth. us.hypnobirthing.com
JAMIE VINCENT, MSN, RNC-OB, C-EFM, is an expert advisor to Healthy Mom&Baby.
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Post-Birth Warning Signs
IT COULD SAVE YOUR LIFE
Sarah Duckett had only been home from the hospital for a week with her second baby when she sensed something just wasn’t quite right. She didn’t feel like herself; something was off. Her heart was beating rapidly just from walking across a room. It was hard to get a breath in without coughing.
She remembered a handout her nurse had discussed with her— post-birth warning signs—could this really be happening to her? She never thought those warning symptoms her nurse discussed would apply to her. After all, hers had been a perfectly uneventful pregnancy and normal birth. She asked her mom to get the postpartum warning signs sheet from her stack of hospital discharge papers.
At fi rst, her mom thought that she was just overly tired and perhaps a bit anxious since she was caring for 2 children, but then they read the handout together. As Sarah describes it, they read “shortness of breath, 911” and said “we’re going in.”
Sarah’s mom took her to the ER. She received a blood pressure check, several lab tests and then a chest X-ray and CT scan, which revealed a small blood clot in her lung. She recalls having mixed emotions, and through tears she said, “I feared not knowing if I
was ever going to hold my baby again.” She struggled to believe that without risk factors, this was still happening to her and potentially threatening her life.
While Sarah was hospitalized for treatment, she made a point to thank her nurses, grateful they had told her that shortness of breath and difficulty breathing could be a warning sign of a serious post-birth complication. In this case, postpartum discharge education and trusting her instincts saved Sarah further complications, possible injury, or even her life.
DEATHS INCREASING AMONG NEW MOTHERS
Did you know that according to the CDC:
An increasing number of women are dying from pregnancyrelated problems before, during and after their babies’ birth.
More than half of all mothers’ deaths in the US happen after baby is born and goes home from the hospital.
At least half of all pregnancy-related deaths among mothers are preventable!
While some women may be at higher risk of developing complications than others, ALL women are potentially at risk of developing post-birth complications.
If you are surprised by these facts, you’re not alone.
WHY MATERNAL DEATHS ARE INCREASING
Many moms return home from the hospital tired and overwhelmed with the excitement of a new baby. Naturally, you’re more focused
Sarah and her newborn enjoy an early snuggle after an uneventful birth Images Courtesy of Sarah Duckett; AWHONNCall 911 if you have:
Pain in chest
Obstructed breathing or shortness of breath
Seizures
Thoughts of hurting yourself or your baby
Call your healthcare provider if you have:
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Bleeding, soaking through one pad/hour, or blood clots, the size of an egg or bigger
Incision that is not healing
Red or swollen leg that is painful or warm to touch
Temperature of 100.4°F or higher
Headache that does not get better, even after taking medicine, or bad headache with vision changes
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on caring for your new baby. But it’s important to pay attention to your own health and be diligent in looking for signs and symptoms that could mean you’re having a postbirth complication—especially if this is your fi rst baby.
You may not know what’s normal or not, what to do or who to call. For example, some bleeding after birth is normal and expected and should decrease over time, but do you know how much bleeding is too much bleeding— to the point it potentially puts your life in jeopardy?
e mother/baby nurses of AWHONN have created specific instructions for postpartum moms called “SAVE YOUR LIFE: Get Care for ese POST-BIRTH Warning Signs.” Learn these post-birth warning signs because knowing how to recognize and respond to these specific signs and symptoms may help save your life.
REDUCE YOUR RISKS FOR PROBLEMS IN AND AFTER PREGNANCY
Do you know the signs of potentially life-threatening complications that could aff ect you after you give birth?
Specific signs you should watch for during the fi rst year after birth include:
Pain in your chest
Obstructed breathing or shortness of breath
Seizures
oughts of hurting yourself or your baby
Bleeding that is soaking through one pad/hour, or blood clots the size of an egg or bigger
Incision that is not healing
Red or swollen leg that is painful or warm to touch
Temperature of 100.4° F or higher
Headache that does not improve, even after taking medicine, or bad headache with vision changes
If you think you are experiencing one of the post-birth warning signs, it’s important to get help and let the person responding to your needs know that you’ve just had a baby within the past year.
For example, if you call 911, tell the operator: “I just had a baby a week ago, and I have a really bad headache that won’t go away.” Or “I had a baby on [give the date], and I am having some chest pain and trouble catching my breath.” Do this with any encounter you have when seeking help, whether it’s with 911, an emergency room or urgent care provider or your own healthcare provider.
e sooner your nurse, midwife or doctor can identify your symptoms, the sooner they can make a diagnosis and provide the necessary care. Just as your nurse will share these instructions with you, please share this same information with your family and friends; you may not be able to act on your own, for example, if you’ve have had a stroke or seizure.
Share this information with other pregnant moms you may know. Together, we can help ensure that no mom suff ers injury or death because they didn’t recognize the signs of a post-birth problem. Sarah is a living testament to the old saying, “Knowledge is a powerful thing!”
LISA KLEPPEL, MPH, PMP, is the project manager for AWHONN’s Postpartum Discharge Education Project, a project aimed at reducing maternal injury and death through education. She is also a mom, a doula and an educator in Washington, DC.
ACT ON YOUR INSTINCTS: GET HELP!
You receive a lot of instructions when you leave the hospital with your new baby. Trust your instincts. If you feel something is wrong or you just don’t feel quite right, always call and get evaluated by your healthcare provider. If your symptoms worsen or you do not hear back from your healthcare provider, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room. Learning the most common post-birth warning signs can save your life or the life of someone you love.
Sarah’s pregnancy was uneventful—she never thought her own health would be at risk after birth
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Every newborn deserves a safe and happy start. Enter the WubbaNub! The trusted nursery essential combines the soothing properties of a pacifier with the warmth of a lovey. The adorable, intelligent invention was designed to lend peace of mind to parents thanks to a secure, plush animal attachment and BPA-free, medical-grade silicone pacifier. A cinch to clean and find, ‘Wubs’ ultimately become a child’s first friend.
Every newborn deserves a safe and happy start. Enter the WubbaNub! The trusted nursery essential combines the soothing properties of a pacifier with the warmth of a lovey. The adorable, intelligent invention was designed to lend peace of mind to parents thanks to a secure, plush animal attachment and BPA-free, medical-grade silicone pacifier. A cinch to clean and find, ‘Wubs’ ultimately become a child’s first friend.
Beginning its 18th year of business, WubbaNub continues to wow parents, pediatricians and hospitals everywhere.
Beginning its 18th year of business, WubbaNub continues to wow parents, pediatricians and hospitals everywhere.
Super-popular classic animal friends include Red Dog and Green Frog, while new limitededition styles, Birthday Bichon and Monster are now available.
Beloved Panda and Moose will also become “regulars.”
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You simply can’t go wrong; the cuteness factor for all picks is off the charts.
Visit www.wubbanub.com to choose from a variety of animal friends that promise to aid in a sweet beginning with lots of smiles!
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Milk?
Ditch the cords and dangling bottles, with the innovative Willow pump your breast pump fits discreetly inside a bra. A “best of” winner at the 2017 Consumer Electronics Show, where will you pump breastmilk untethered? Coming soon from $430 at Willowpump.com
From innovative breast pumps to car seats that keep your tyke rear-facing up to 50 pounds, we’ve got the roundup of some of the most fun and parent-beloved new mom and baby products.
Dress for Success
On trend split-sleeve nursing dress is fashion first but totally functional before and after baby is born. Only you know it’s also easy access for nursing baby. $56 at MilkNursingWear.com
Women Helping Women
Is it an infi nity scarf? Breastfeeding cover? Soft jersey wrap? Makeshift baby blanket? Yes to all of the great ways mom can use the Itzy Ritzy Nursing Happens Infi nity Breastfeeding Scarf. $25 at Itzyritzy.com
She may be a mom but she’s still a woman who likes to glam it up— especially when it helps other women. is beautiful choker, as well as other necklaces and earrings, from BraveChick.com benefit charities focused on ending domestic violence and sexual assault. From $25 at BraveChick.com
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Baby’s feet meet a naturaltreat that promotes healthyfoot development in thesebuttery soft shoes. From $30 atSoftstarshoes.com
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Baby will stay comfy and cool no matter the weather with this fun stroller liner that cools in three ways with a top layer to wick away moisture, a bottom mesh layer to allow air to flow, and quilted channels to move warm air away. From $20 at SkipHop.com
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Foolproof swaddling is guaranteed with the Easy Swaddle that features adjustable snaps and an open weave muslin to reduce risks of overheating. $25 from Adenandanais.com
Go Wild, Baby
Delight and entertain your littleone with the clever and adorablecreatures of Animal Ark, byNewbery Medal-winning authorKwame Alexander with photos fromNational Geographic photographerJoel Sartore. $15.99 at popularbooksellers including Amazon.com
Dash Out in Style
A beloved parentfavorite, the Dash Diaper Bag is stylishenough for mom andpractical for dads, too.$52 at SkipHop.com
Baby, Stretch Your Legs & Your Car Seat
Baby Joggers are perennial favorites with both moms and dads, and the City Tour convenience stroller doesn’t disappoint—“folds small for big adventures,” as they say. $199 at BabyJogger.com and online retailers.
For 9 months, all mom really wants to do is get comfortable, which makes a pregnancy pillow a must. Leachco’s Snoggle is a parent favorite from $50 at Amazon.com
Now all kids can ride rear-facing with ease through age 2! e Graco Extend2Fit™ 3-in-1 car seat provides another 5” of leg room and holds kiddos rear facing up to 50 pounds, ensuring you can meet the AAP’s safe travel recommendations. $279 at most online retailers including Amazon.com
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Where Learning Begins at Birth
SmartNoggin Toys has created a line of toys like no other in the industry. Every toy is research-based and designed by early childhood experts to develop critical early milestones through play, beginning at birth.
NogginStik® was designed to help parents, caregivers and early intervention therapists begin encouraging early milestones in infants. The NogginStik head lights up red, blue and green to stimulate a baby’s eyes and to encourage visual tracking. The base of the NogginStik makes a soft rattle sound to please the ears. It even has an easy-to-hold handle for mastering grasping. The toy’s fun textures delight baby’s sense of touch. Ages Birth+
NogginRings™ offers infants the chance to practice developing skills through play. The flexible rings encourage batting, reaching, grasping and transferring from one hand to the other. Give it a shake and the rattling sound encourages baby to turn in the direction of the noise. Ages Birth+
The NogginSeek™ is designed for babies ages 3 + months. It promotes gross and fine motor skills, cognitive and language learning. The toy features a clear sphere that baby can see and observe along with a textured handle that is sized for easy grasping. A striped tube slides in and out of the handle for visual interest and to encourage wrist rotation. Beads hide in the striped tube when the rattle is held upright piquing baby’s curiosity and encouraging awareness of object permanence. When baby shakes the toy, the movement of the wrist offers a lesson in physics, and ultimately, STEM learning.
A Parent Guide to Baby’s Milestones is included in every SmartNoggin product. Everyone knows the first three years of a baby’s life are a period of incredible growth and development. But those precious early months are also critical to achieving baby’s milestones. This guide will assure and alert parents (and grandparents) to monthly achievements from newborn to blowing out the candle on the first birthday cake!
How to Choose the Right Breast Pump for You
Congratulations on your decision to breastfeed your baby! You have made a thoughtful, healthy choice that research shows is best for you both. Now that you have decided to breastfeed, you’re also likely thinking of those times when you won’t be able to nurse your baby, like after you’ve returned to work, if you have to spend more than 2-3 hours away from baby, or if you develop a health condition that requires you to stop nursing for any period of time.
Having a pump to express your breastmilk will keep both you and baby happy and ensures baby is fed. There are several types of breast pumps available, and the best type for you will depend on how often you need to pump milk for your baby and how easy it is to use and clean.
Manual versus powered puM ps If you only need to pump breastmilk occasionally, a manual pump can be a good option. They’re portable and very affordable. These pumps work on only one breast at a time and do require “hand power.” We hear moms say they toss one of these in their purses or diaper bags “just in case.” Prices for these start at around $15 and go up.
If you need more frequent pumping but are still home most of the time, then a mid-range battery-powered or electric pump could be your best bet. These pumps are usually very lightweight and portable and have the advantage of no-hand pumping! Pumping can be time consuming, so pay attention to how long it takes to express the desired ounces of milk you want to express.
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ese pumps may or may not have adjustable suction or cycle length like their more expensive counterparts. Durability is also a concern if you’re using these pumps more frequently.
ey may not hold up to the use designed for hospital-grade breast pumps. Prices for these pumps are typically $60 to $150.
If you’re returning to work full-time or need to frequently pump and store milk for your baby, high-end electric pumps are best. After hospital-grade pumps, these are the most expensive pumps available; however, they’re also the most durable and customizable.
You can fi nd pumps that will express milk from one or both breasts at the same time. ey usually provide the fastest way to express your milk through variable cycle lengths and often the suction is also adjustable, which provides maximum comfort. Most models have battery backup available, as well as car adapters.
ey typically have attractive carrying cases for portability, breastmilk cooling and storage. Some of the latest devices on the market even have accompanying apps to help you track your pumping sessions!
Prices for these pumps start at about $300.
If you’re not ready to buy, hospitalgrade electric pumps are available for rent and are great for full-time pumping needs. Check with your hospital’s lactation consultant for more details. When renting pumps, you’ll receive your own accessory kit ensuring no other mom has used the pump parts that will come in contact with your breastmilk.
BUYER (OR RENTER) BEWARE
Don’t purchase or use a previously owned personal-use breast pump—this includes both manual and electric pumps. Most breast pumps aren’t designed to be used by more than one mother; used pumps can harbor bacteria or viruses. Avoid sharing your breast pump with another mom— even with someone you know. Hospitalgrade pumps are manufactured differently and are designed to be used by more than one mother over the pump’s useful life.
KEEP IT CLEAN!
Experts at the FDA recommend taking these steps to keep your pump parts—and your milk!—clean and free from contamination:
Use cool water to rinse pieces that come in contact with your milk as soon as possible after use
Wash each piece separately with dish soap and warm water
Rinse thoroughly with hot water
Allow all parts to air dry
If you notice tubing looking moldy or cloudy, replace it immediately
Regularly sterilize your pump parts as directed by the manufacturer’s instructions
FEATURE FINDER
DOES YOUR INSURANCE PROVIDE A PUMP FOR YOU?
Currently, the Affordable Care Act requires most health insurance plans to cover the cost of a breast pump for pregnant moms. Plans must also provide breastfeeding support, counseling and equipment while you’re breastfeeding. is applies to Health Insurance Marketplace plans and all other private health insurance plans, except for grandfathered plans. Contact your provider to see what specific equipment and breast pumps are covered under your plan. For more info, go to bit.ly/ACA_healthcare. Ask if you can acquire your pump during pregnancy—many plans will not make you wait until your baby is born to get a breast pump.
Which of these common features are important to you? Check all that applies and then compare your feature list to pumps you’re considering buying or renting:
Double electric pumps that pump both breasts at once
Battery backup in addition to a wall plug
Simulates the way a baby nurses at your breast
Easy to assemble, disassemble, and clean
Freezer tote to keep your breastmilk cool if you can’t use or access a fridge right away
Pump storage and transport bag
Minimal noise
TAMERA L. YOUNG, RN, MSN is an expert advisor to Healthy Mom&Baby.Storing Breastmilk
BY SUMMER HUNTNo more crying over spoiled (breast)milk! Use these tips to effectively store that precious liquid gold.
Breastfeeding is the best, most nutritious way to feed your new baby. For those times when you have to be away from your little one, you’ll want to pump and store breastmilk. When stored properly, you can even freeze a breastmilk stash for months to come.
Always wash your hands before pumping or handling breastmilk. Pump into clean bottles or storage bags designed for expressed breastmilk and that seal tightly. Always leave a little room at the top of the container because frozen liquids expand. This will help you avoid a big mess later. Clean your pump and storage equipment immediately after use with warm, soapy water and air dry.
FOR THE FRIDGE
Refrigerate breastmilk as soon as possible. Fresh breastmilk may be left at room temperature for 6-8 hours or stored in the back of your refrigerator for up to 5 days (120 hours). Date the containers, and if you’re sending breastmilk with your child to daycare, add their name. If you’re pumping at work or traveling and don’t have access to a fridge, bring a cooler bag with frozen ice packs to keep your milk cool for up to 24 hours.
FOR THE FREEZER
Store breastmilk in 1- to 4-ounce increments so you can get as much or as little milk as you need each time. Once frozen breastmilk is thawed, use it within 24 hours or discard. Never refreeze breastmilk.
Freeze breastmilk as soon as possible, and store it in the coldest part of the freezer—never the door. Use frozen
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breastmilk within 2 weeks if your freezer is inside of a refrigerator. Your breastmilk is good for up to 3 months in a separate freezer, such as a refrigerator/freezer where each compartment is separate either side-by-side or with the freezer draw below. You can safely store breastmilk for up to 12 months in a deep freezer.
Label/date your bottles or storage containers and bags with the date you pumped the milk. Use the oldest milk fi rst as you make your way through your stash. It’s also a best practice to never add fresh milk to already frozen milk; always pump and store fresh milk into a new container.
FEEDING YOUR BABY
To feed your baby pumped breastmilk, bring it to room temperature on the kitchen counter or in a breastmilk warmer. Never use a microwave to thaw or warm breastmilk; hot spots can form in microwaved foods and liquids and you risk burning your baby if that happens.
For refrigerated milk, let the milk come down to room temperature before feeding your baby. For frozen breastmilk, thaw in the fridge as time allows.
You can use a breastmilk warming device or try this simple method: Stand a bottle of pumped milk in a pan of warm, not boiling, water. Keep the water level above the milk but below the lid of the bottle to avoid contamination. is will also ensure heating throughout.
Always swirl the milk as it’s heating to ensure even heat distribution. Don’t worry if the milk fat separates out; swirl the milk to remix it.
Check the temperature of the milk on the top of your hand to ensure it’s safe for your baby. Discard any milk left in the bottle after feeding.
SUMMER HUNT is the editorial coordinator at AWHONN and a writer for Healthy Mom&Baby
The Pumping Professional: Success in 9 Steps
Brought to you byIf you are planning to pump at work, you are not alone. Every year millions of moms pump when they return to work.
As a breastfeeding mom headed back to work, one of the biggest transitions can be the switch from feeding at the breast throughout the day to pumping breastmilk at work. Lansinoh has a full line of products to help ease the transition including the Lansinoh® Smartpump™. Here are a few tricks to help get you in the swing of things.
Ask your insurance provider about getting your Lansinoh® Smartpump
1.
PICKING YOUR PUMP
Prior to choosing a pump, be sure to check out all your options to find the one that works best for you. Separately adjustable speed and suction allow you to better customize the settings your needs. A closed system pump prevents milk from entering the tubing or motor, and means fewer parts to clean.
2.
PUMP PREP
About two weeks before you return to work, if you haven’t already, open your pump and sanitize the parts. Take time to get familiar with your pump and the different pieces. Assemble and disassemble the pump a few times to get the hang of it. You’ll also want to download the Lansinoh Baby App to track your pumping sessions.
3.
PRACTICE PUMPING
Once your pump is assembled, practice pumping. Try out some different combinations of the suction and speed cycles to see what works best for you. This will help you figure out your pumping routine and help you identify any accessories you might need like Lansinoh® Simple Wishes™ Hands-Free Pumping Bra.
4.
MILK STASH
A couple weeks before returning to work, try to build up a freezer stash so that you aren’t pumping exactly how much baby needs for the following day. Trains get delayed and traffic happens. A little extra in the freezer gives you a lot of peace of mind.
5.
PACK YOUR BAG
Your pump bag should hold your essentials plus a few *oopsie* items. Don’t forget your pump pieces or clean bottles for each pumping session. You’ll also need your cooler bag and ice pack to get that precious milk home. Toss in an extra shirt in for unexpected leaks and a few nursing pads just in case.
6.
SET THE MOOD
At work, your body may need a little trickery to get in the pumping mood. A picture of your baby and a warm compress, like the Lansinoh® TheraPearl® 3-in-1 Breast Therapy Packs, wrapped around the pump flanges will get help get those let-down hormones flowing.
7.
PERFECT TIMING
Pumping on your baby’s schedule will help keep your milk supply where it needs to be. Set a timer in the Lansinoh Baby App and do what you can to ensure you’ll be able to take about 20 minutes per session to pump throughout the day.
8.
PUMP TRACKING
The Lansinoh Baby App connects directly to your pump and automatically tracks your pumping sessions along with your baby’s activities.
9. CONNECTION
For the twenty minutes you spend pumping, think about your baby as a reminder that you are doing the absolute best for your baby.
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Sharing with Baby
Hey parents: Meet your new roomie—your baby. That’s right, pediatricians are advising you share your room—not your bed—with your baby for at least 6 months, ideally for 1 year. Baby gets their own sleep surface, though, and should always be placed on their back for sleep on a firm surface such as a crib or bassinet, advises experts at the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) in recently updated sleep guidelines. And while those fuzzy toys and fluffy bumpers may look adorable, they
HOMEOPATHIC TEETHING TABLETS
Wailing babies sucking their fingers like nobody’s business are sure signs of teething discomfort, but skip the homeopathic teething tablets and gels as these are risky at best, the FDA has warned. In fact, the FDA has asked parents to stop using these products, which are sold by Walgreens, CVS, Hyland’s and others.
The FDA warns some babies have experienced seizures, difficulty breathing, lethargy, excessive sleepiness, muscle weakness, skin flushing, constipation, difficulty urinating and agitation after receiving these products. Seek emergency care if you’ve given your child teething tablets or gel and observe any of these signs in your baby.
have no place in baby’s crib as they can pose suffocation risks, the kids’ docs warn.
We know you’re struggling to keep your eyes open during those late-night feedings, so guidelines advise you to opt for nursing baby in your bed instead of a couch. AAP still recommends against bed-sharing, but your bed is safer for baby than a sofa should you fall asleep with baby in your arms. Get all of the new recommendations on p54.
MEASURE MEDICINE MORE PRECISELY WITH A SYRINGE
Give your baby the most accurate dose by using an oral syringe, rather than a measuring cup, says the National Institutes of Health, which measured that as many as 84% of parents give the wrong dose when pouring medicine into a measuring cup, especially when dosing instructions aren’t clear.
Next time you pick up any type of medication for your little one, toss the plastic cup that comes with the product and ask your pharmacist for a well-marked oral syringe.
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Active sleep
She appears to be dreaming. Her eyelids may flutter, facial expressions may change, and she may make sucking sounds. She may move and her breathing is not as regular as in deep sleep. Again, watch but don’t disturb or soothe baby unless it seems to help calm her.
BY CELESTE R. PHILLIPS, RN, MSN, EDDWhy Is MyBaby Crying?
Babies cry. Nature has designed your baby’s cry to be disturbing, to get your attention. Your baby is trying to communicate. Babies cry for lots of reasons. ey might be hungry or thirsty. Perhaps they’re uncomfortable, or having gas or other pain. Sometimes babies are lonely or just want to be held and loved. Other times a change in routine, a new experience or feeling tired is enough for a baby to start crying. When infants cry, it’s our challenge to fi gure out why and soothe them.
WHEN BABIES CRY
Babies typically cry during different stages of sleep and wakefulness. If you can recognize the stage your baby is in, you can use this information to follow her cues and better soothe and communicate with her.
PURPLE CRYING
Sometimes young babies tend to cry without reason—and just because you can’t soothe them, it doesn’t mean you’re doing a bad job. eir crying is perfectly normal. All babies go through a period of increased inconsolable crying between ages 2 weeks and 2 months and continue for a couple of months; it’s called the Period of Purple Crying. Experts consider it a normal stage of development for every baby. Don’t be surprised if what typically calms or comforts baby doesn’t work. Ask your partner or relative for extra help if you need to take 5-10 minute breaks from baby’s crying during these episodes.
Quiet sleep
Your baby is very still except for an occasional startle or twitch. Breathing is smooth and regular. This is no time to disturb her.
Quiet alert
Drowsy
Baby is sleepy, and she may be waking up or falling asleep. Watch for yawning, unfocused eyes, and droopy eyelids. Help her awaken or drift off to sleep to soothe her tears.
Active alert
Her eyes are open, as in the quiet alert state, but she has bursts of movement involving her whole body. Her breathing is irregular and she may be fussy. This state often occurs before a feeding; this may be your cue she’s starting to get hungry. Time to encourage interaction and distract her from her crying!
Baby is awake, alert and relaxed; her eyes are open and bright. Her breathing is regular. She will look into your eyes, respond to your voice and may even mimic your expressions. This is a great time to encourage interaction and distract her from her crying!
IMAGES CELESTE R. PHILLIPS, RN, MSN, EDD, is president of Phillips and Fenwick Inc., and a passionate expert and advocate on mother-baby nursing and care.Nobody likes to be rushed, especially babies.
Your baby needs at least a full 40 weeks of pregnancy to grow and develop. Inducing labor even a week or two early is associated with a host of risks, including prematurity, cesarean surgery, hemorrhage and infection.
While it may seem convenient for you or your health care provider, labor should only be induced for medical reasons.
Your baby will let you know when she’s ready to come out, so give her all the time she needs: at least the full 40 weeks.
NEWBORN
Jaundice
BY CANDACE CAMPBELL, DNP, RN, CNLIs your newborn’s skin yellowish? Do you see yellowing in your baby’s eyes? Newborn jaundice occurs in just more than half of all babies born at term and in most (80%) preterm babies. It typically appears around day 2 or 3 post-birth, peaks at day 5, and clears by the end of baby’s first week.
HOW JAUNDICE BEGINS
Imagine you’re a baby, floating happily in the safety of your mother’s womb. Since your lungs aren’t active during this zero gravity experience, oxygen circulates through your body via a special form of hemoglobin that attaches to your red blood cells (RBCs), which carry it out to your body through your blood superhighway.
At birth, your lungs inflate and you take your first breath. Since breathing is a much more efficient way to deliver oxygen, your brain sends a message to your liver (your recycling plant) to start breaking down extra RBCs.
As your RBCs start to break down, they produce a substance called bilirubin. Jaundice happens when bilirubin builds up faster than your liver can pass it through your intestines to exit your body. A newborn’s liver can get overwhelmed by the work (think traffic jam). Excess bilirubin shows up as a yellowish color in your skin or eyes.
WHAT IF IT GETS WORSE?
Jaundice is typically harmless. At low levels, jaundice may mean your baby has an infection or a thyroid problem, say experts at the Mayo Clinic. is is why experts at the American Academy of Pediatrics advise all newborns be screened for jaundice during their fi rst few days of life.
However, if the back-up of bilirubin in the blood reaches dangerously high levels, it can cross baby’s blood-brain barrier and cause severe, permanent mental delays. Other rare but serious side effects include cerebral palsy or deafness.
Your care provider will measure the bilirubin circulating in your newborn’s body with either a blood test or bilirubin meter. If your provider asks you to come back within a few days to have your baby’s levels checked, be sure to keep that appointment!
HOW IS JAUNDICE TREATED?
Low-level jaundice usually clears on its own within baby’s fi rst week of life. If your baby’s blood levels of bilirubin are in the high-risk range, the most common treatment is phototherapy under a light specifically designed to break down bilirubin. is may take a few days to accomplish. Jaundice is more common in breastfed babies; experts recommend that you continue to nurse your little one to help him stay hydrated.
RISK FACTORSFOR JAUNDICE
Premature birth
Bruising/birth trauma
Ethnicity (jaundice is most common in Asian babies)
Previous sibling with jaundice requiring phototherapy
Babies born to moms with diabetes or gestational diabetes
Blood incompatibilities between mom & baby
OTHER CAUSES OF JAUNDICE
Internal bleeding, hemorrhage
Viral, bacterial or blood infection
Liver malfunction
Enzyme deficiency
Red blood cell abnormality
CANDACE CAMPBELL, DNP, RN, CNL, is an expert advisor to Healthy Mom&Baby.
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Diapering
THAT NURTURES YOUR BABY
BY CHARLOTTE WOOL, PHD, RNWhat if you learned that the everyday act of diapering could promote and support your baby’s health and development? That the routine actions of moving, touching and caring for your baby and their skin during a diaper change could create trust, connection and a surge of positive emotions that support baby’s overall health and wellness?
Diapering can be enjoyed and beneficial for baby—not just endured—say the experts of the Huggies® Nurse Advisory Council. Their new program, Every Change Matters: A Guide to Developmental Diapering Care, explores the research regarding how the very simple act of diapering provides healthful and developmental opportunities for bonding, attachment, closeness, stress reduction and comfort between you and your infant.
ON-THE-GO DIAPERING
Keep that calm and clean mindset as you diaper on-the-go. First, choose a safe surface and wipe with cleansing wipes. Lay baby on a protective changing pad. While diapering, keep one hand on baby at all times to prevent falls. Keep a wellstocked diaper bag:
Hand sanitizer
Changing blanket or spread
Fresh diapers
Disposable wipes
Change of clothes for baby
Disposable bags to seal soiled diapers before discarding
Small, soft toy for baby to touch or hold
Before you ever change your baby’s first diaper, isn’t it nice to know you can also help baby grow stronger and healthier during these times? Initially, you’ll change up to 12 diapers a day—that’s up to 12 opportunities to hug your baby close to you, connect, bond and form fun rituals together that turn the ordinary diapering into something extraordinary.
MINDFUL MOMENTS DURING DIAPER TIME
Diapering is the perfect time for mindfulness in your care. Mindfulness means being completely engaged in the present moment. It’s taking your life off autopilot; paying attention to each and every second with your baby; and becoming aware of baby’s moods, movements, expressions and most importantly, baby’s cues.
DIAPERING THAT NURTURES YOUR BABY
Your baby benefits from every diaper change when you practice these 5 habits shown in research to benefit baby’s growth and development:
Create a calm and clean diapering experience with good hygiene and supplies at the ready
Change and check baby regularly, such as every 1–3 hours during the day, and at every feeding
Comfort baby by moving slowly through diaper changes to minimize any stress or discomfort
Champion sleep through skin-to-skin care at bedtime and using diapers with wetness indicators to avoid disturbing baby’s snoozing
Cherish confidence and closeness that come from learning your baby’s cues and responding to baby’s needs
Source: Adapted from Huggies® Every Change Matters: A Guide to Developmental Diapering Care
Diapering can be a time of healthful bonding between you and baby—and for baby’s development, it can mean so much more than just a clean, dry bottom.
Create a sensory symphony with your soft voice, gentle touch, slow and careful movements, and with a sing-song voice sweetly talk or sing to baby. Keeping one hand on baby during diapering is a safety measure but also becomes a reassuring touch, especially if baby should startle or move suddenly.
Smile at baby. Create calm and happiness by gazing into baby’s eyes—spend a few moments making that emotional connection. Babies love to look at and interact with others, and research tells us that they quickly recognize and enjoy seeing family members, especially their parents.
Regularly hug, touch and love your baby—every diaper change can begin and end with a hug! Research proves the power of touch is linked to positive feelings and uplifting emotions for both you and your baby.
When you’re relaxed and engaged, baby feels connected through your touch and attention. Your calm demeanor reassures and calms baby through the movements, cleansing and dressing of diapering. Your focused attention and touch are what baby needs to flourish and thrive!
Changing so many diapers may feel like an impossible task at first, but when every diaper change is approached with the physical and emotional desire to connect and bond with baby, it becomes another way you’re supporting baby’s best health and development.
PREEMIE POINTERS
Premature babies (born before 37 weeks of pregnancy) need extra attention and care. When it comes to diapering for a premature baby, a calm environment is especially important. Create a comforting diapering space for your preemie baby by:
Keeping loud noises to a minimum
Controlling the lighting to avoid a bright light
Maintaining a constant, comfortable temperature in all changing areas
Limiting unpleasant odors
NEWBORN SKIN CARE
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By AWHONN Edit O ri A l StA ffCheck Out OurNewborn SkinCarebit.ly/Zone: newbornskin
Caring for your baby’s skin is easy when you know the basics. Most babies enjoy having their skin gently rubbed and massaged. But they don’t come with owner’s manuals recommending how often they should be bathed, slathered and pampered.
Are lotions s A fe for b A by’s skin? Lotions made for babies can help moisturize your baby’s skin. Always choose lotions made for infant skin, say the nurses of the Association of Women’s Health, Obstetric & Neonatal Nurses in their latest Newborn Skin Care Evidence-Based Guideline.
When you apply lotion, use this time to massage and interact with your baby. Most babies crave this ritual and closeness with their mom or dad.
If baby’s skin feels rough or dry to you, use a small amount of infant-specific moisturizer. If the dryness in baby’s skin doesn’t clear up, ask baby’s healthcare provider if rash or another skin condition could be an issue.
To prevent irritation, use lotions that are fragrance-free, as some fragrances may irritate or cause a rash. It’s important to avoid using products that aren’t made specifically for baby’s skin as they may contain ingredients that could irritate baby’s sensitive outer layer.
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There’s nothing quite as wonderful and amazing as newborn skin. It protects baby from bacteria and germs, and helps their body hold a normal temperature. As you strive to keep your baby’s skin healthy, beautiful and soft, it’s important to use products made specifically for newborn or infant skin.
Through the first year of baby’s life, you may be shocked or surprised to find that your baby’s skin may be irritated by soaps or detergents used to wash their clothing or bedding. Opt for infant-friendly detergents and cleansers and double-rinse baby’s laundry for their first year of life. You may even choose to wash baby’s things apart from the rest of the family’s clothes.
As your baby grows, don’t hesitate to ask your nurses about baby’s particular skincare needs, such as if baby has a rash or if you’re unsure of what types of baby-specific products to use for cleansing, moisturizing or sun protection.
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What’s New With Safe Infant Sleep?
By Sharon h itchcock, MS n , rncAs a nurse, I am all about prevention. The latest safe sleep recommendations are based on what experts have learned are known risk factors for sleeprelated infant deaths. As a mom, I also get the need for sleep.
During my second pregnancy, I worked full time, chased around a two-year-old, and developed insomnia! Prior to going into labor, I was exhausted. I went home with my newborn even more exhausted, and I stayed that way for a long time. I understand the desperate need for sleep that parents feel.
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For families, some of these recommendations can create gut-wrenching dilemmas as not all of the guidelines are easy to follow, and babies don’t always cooperate.
Nevertheless, one fact keeps me passionate about promoting safe sleep: Every year in the US, 3,500 infants die suddenly and unexpectedly while sleeping. Many of these deaths are due to sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS), accidental suffocation, entrapment, and strangulation. This is almost 10 babies a day.
While some SIDS cases can’t be prevented, most sleep-related deaths occur in unsafe sleep environments—and these deaths are preventable. As a parent, there’s so much you can do to help your baby sleep safely. Most of the time, the parents I counsel simply don’t know all of the recommendations or understand the reasons for them.
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In October 2016, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) published updated safe sleep recommendations and guidelines that acknowledge the realities and
dilemmas parents face. We’ve got the full list of recommendations in this article, and here’s an overview of the changes since perhaps your last childbirth education or parenting class:
Back to S leep: This is still the most important safe sleep “rule.” Studies have proven babies don’t choke more on their backs because their feeding tube (esophagus) is positioned below/behind the airway tube (trachea). Thus, when a baby on their back regurgitates fluid, it will pool next to the esophagus, not the trachea.
The opposite is true when babies are on their tummies. And side-positioning isn’t recommended because infants may roll over too soon when put to sleep in this position. They may not be strong enough yet to move themselves out of danger, such as from blankets.
Swaddlin G : This is considered safe and can help calm baby as they fall asleep on their back. It can also be dangerous if not done correctly. Safe swaddling includes these actions:
• Baby must be on their back only—not their side or tummy
• Swaddle should be snug (but not tight) around the chest and hips
Once baby is trying to roll over, stop all swaddling— this can happen as early as age 2 months. You can purchase swaddle sacks; they’re a good alternative to swaddling with a thin blanket (as done in many hospitals).
Brea S tfeedin G : Nursing your baby is shown to reduce infant death risks—experts can’t emphasize and recommend breastfeeding strongly enough. Breastfeeding can reduce the risk of SIDS by as much as 50%! Exclusive breastfeeding is best, but some is better than none.
Skin-to- S kin: Going skin-to-skin with your little one is safe and highly encouraged as it promotes breastfeeding. Just make sure to return baby to their own sleep space when you first begin to get sleepy. It’s not safe if you fall asleep with your baby skin-to-skin.
PUT YOUR BABY TO SLEEP SAFELY EVERY TIME: AAP’S SAFE SLEEP RECOMMENDATIONS
Get regular prenatal care during pregnancy— this gives baby the best possible start
Don’t smoke during or after pregnancy and baby’s birth
Baby on their back to sleep for all sleep, starting at birth. Side and stomach positions are unsafe
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Baby sleeps on a firm sleep surface, such as a firm infant mattress in a safety-approved crib, play yard, or bassinet
Breastfeeding is protective; exclusive nursing is best, but any amount is better than none
Room-share without sharing a sleep surface: Couches and armchairs are more dangerous than an adult bed. No bed-sharing situations have been found safe
Avoid alcohol and illicit drugs during pregnancy and after baby is born
Baby sleeps in a cool room: Avoid overheating baby and covering baby’s head during sleep
Ensure baby gets all scheduled immunizations according to current recommendations
Skip monitors or devices marketed to reduce the risk of SIDS
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No blankets, pillows, and other loose items in baby’s sleep area
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Pacifiers are protective
Avoid commercial products, such as wedges or positioners, which are inconsistent with the safe sleep recommendations. These are not proven safe and have created hazards for baby
Provide “tummy time” when the baby is awake and supervised
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HIGHLY DANGEROUS BED-SHARING SITUATIONS
1. Baby is 4 months old or younger
2. Baby was born premature or with low birth weight
3. You or your partner smokes
4. You smoked during pregnancy
5. You or your partner take drugs
6. You or your partner take medications that cause drowsiness
7. If you or your partner have drank any alcohol
8. If your partner is not a parent
9. The sleep surface is soft, such as an old mattress, waterbed or a pillow-top mattress
10. The sleep surface is a couch, sofa, or armchair
11. There is soft bedding, like pillows or blankets, in the bed
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Room-sha R ing: Parents—you’ve got a new roommate. This is actually a recommendation that continues from previous advice—that baby should sleep in their own safe infant bed in your room, such as a safe crib, bassinet or play yard. Many parents tell me the play yard is more useful than a bassinet as it can accommodate a sleeping child up to age 1 and is portable, making room-sharing easier.
Room-sharing offers the same benefits as bedsharing, is safer than baby sleeping alone in their own room or nursery, safer than bed-sharing (or sharing the same sleep surface, such as on a bed, couch or armchair), and room-sharing decreases the risks of all sleep-related deaths by 50%!
The Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) has recently published safety standards for some of the new bedside sleepers that attach to the adult bed, though the AAP does not advise about their use.
i n-bed s leepe R s: These products, which are designed to give baby their own space in your bed, are still questionable. They haven’t been thoroughly studied, and the CPSC hasn’t created safety standards for their use. In time, we may learn more about whether in-bed sleepers are a safe option.
b ed-sha R ing: This is still a controversial topic that I find many parents would rather not discuss. What makes this topic confusing is the mix of research results. There is strong evidence that bed-sharing is not safe, and so the AAP recommends against it. There is also research that shows bed-sharing is good for bonding and comforting and makes nighttime feeding easier.
Most healthcare providers agree, however, that the risks of bed-sharing outweigh the benefits. While some parents will choose to sleep with their babies because of the benefits, research has shown that many will bed-share unintentionally by accidentally falling asleep with baby in bed.
It’s so hard not to fall asleep with your baby when feeding at night. The experts at the AAP recognize this and offer the following advice anytime you’re feeding your baby at night and you might fall asleep: Feeding baby in your bed is much safer than on a couch or armchair, both of which are highly dangerous.
To reduce the risks of bed-sharing, then, make sure your bed is as safe as possible for baby:
• Keep blankets, comforters and pillows away from baby in case you fall asleep
• Put baby back in their own safe crib or bassinet as soon as you get drowsy; if you doze off, put baby in their own bed as soon as you wake up
• Consider setting an alarm when you begin to nurse baby at night
Studies show that the longer you are asleep with your baby in your bed, the more dangerous it is. See the AAP’s
list here of highly dangerous bed-sharing situations that should be avoided at all times:
• Sleeping with an infant younger than 4 months of age
• Sleeping with a baby born preterm or with low birth weight
• Sleeping with a parent who smokes or is impaired by alcohol or drugs—even prescription or over-the-counter medications
• Sleeping together on a soft surface such as a couch, sofa or arm chair, or with loose bedding
pacifie R : Research supporting using pacifiers to reduce SIDS death is only growing stronger. Studies show that using pacifiers can decrease an infant’s SIDS risk by 50-90%! How pacifiers protect babies from SIDS isn’t fully known, but to gain the benefits, offer a pacifier as soon as possible after birth or after breastfeeding is going well, which is usually within the first 3-4 weeks of baby’s life. During sleep, once a pacifier drops from baby’s mouth, there’s no reason to put it back in place.
s oft o R loose bedding: Infants rolling into or getting covered by soft or loose bedding continues to be a common cause of death, especially in infants older than 3 months, when they are beginning to roll over. Make sure to continue to keep the crib empty of bumper pads and all soft, loose, or fluffy items until the infant is 12 months old.
i nfant seats o R R ecline R s: Finally, while no one is fond of disturbing a sleeping baby, infant gear including car seats, strollers, swings, bouncy chairs and slings aren’t recommended for routine sleep, especially for babies ages 4 months or younger. The pediatricians at AAP advise that if your baby falls asleep in one of these devices, move them to an infant crib or bassinet as soon as safe and practical.
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As a nurse, mom and new grandma, I want to do everything in my power to teach parents about safe infant sleep—and keep that conversation going, even when it’s controversial.
Do your friends and family know the recommendations and steps they can take to reduce a baby’s risk for sleep-related infant death? While some parents would rather not discuss the topic, the more we talk and help each other problem-solve unsafe sleep situations, the more deaths we can prevent.
Thankfully, the goal of the AAP has remained unwavering, and that is to ultimately eliminate sleeprelated deaths entirely.
Sharon h itchcock, MSn , rnc , is faculty for the University of Arizona College of Nursing in Tucson, AZ.First and only
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Car Seat Safety First
By Carolyn Davis Co C key, M ls , lCC e3 out of 4 babies and toddlers ride in car seats that aren’t properly installed—a statistic that both frustrates and scares many parents. Use these tips and checklists to help your child travel as safely as possible every time you roll down the road.
Our friends at SafeKids.org recommend these top 5 checks to ensure your child’s seat is safe and ready to protect your little one. The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration also lists car seat inspection stations.
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Right Seat: Is the seat appropriate for your child’s age, weight and height? Babies and toddlers grow fast; regular checks ensure your child is in the right seat for their size.
Right Direction: Experts recommend your baby ride rear-facing for as long as possible, which is typically around age 2. Once your child is ready for a forward-facing seat, use a top tether lashed to the back of the seat base in addition to the anchors or seat belt that firmly hold the seat in place.
Inch Test: After installing the seat, give it a good shake at the base—it shouldn’t move more than an inch, if any at all.
Pinch Test: With your tyke secured by a 5-point harness, and the chest strap aligned with their armpits, pinch the strap at your child’s shoulder—you should not be able to pinch any excess webbing.
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Right Place: The backseat is where all VIPs— very important persons—ride. This is where all of your children belong until at least age 13.
Car Seat Do’ S an D Don’t S
Buy new— a car seat that has been involved in a crash is no longer useful. Buy used only when you know the previous owner personally and can be certain the car seat has never been affected by an accident or problem
Check the expiration date on the car seat label.
Materials break down over time, and every car seat has a set useful life, which is typically no more than 6 years, says the Mayo Clinic
Sign up for recalls with the seat’s manufacturer, even on a brand new car seat
Don’t:
Buckle baby while bundled in their coat or a blanket; add soft items for warmth or comfort only after baby is safely buckled in without additional layers between them and their car seat straps
Use the car seat as a sleeping surface or crib replacement as depending on your own child’s development, sitting upright in a car seat might compress a newborn’s chest and reduce air flow
Install the seat without reading the manufacturer’s instructions as well as the instructions regarding car seats in your vehicle’s owner’s manual; when in doubt, have your seat checked for free by a car seat technician
Provide only soft toys during the ride; secure hard toys and any loose objects in the vehicle so that they can’t injure your little one in the event of a sudden stop or impact
Progress your child to forward-facing, booster or using the car’s seat belt only too soon; use the correct seat for your child’s height and weight until they’re big enough to use an adult seat belt, which is generally between ages 8-12, and at least 4 9 tall
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It’s a Sign!
By Awhonn Editori A l StA ffIt will take time before you and your baby can have a conversation—but that doesn’t mean you can’t communicate with baby signs!
When you first hold your baby in your arms, he feels how much you love him just by how you hug him close and shower him with kisses. You try your best to decipher his cries: Is he hungry? Does he need a diaper change? In the stages between itty-bitty baby and when your child can verbally ask for what he needs, you can make use of baby sign language.
If your baby follows your moves with her eyes or tries to mimic your actions, she’s probably ready to learn to sign. To teach your baby, do the sign with your hands as you say the word and do the action. Use the same sign with the same word and action every time. Even though your baby might not yet be able to sign back to you, it’s a good idea to start early. Here are some of the most popular signs to practice with your baby:
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with your hands fisted in front of you, extend your pointer fingers so that they are pointing at each other. Bring them together until your fingers touch, repeat.
Place your whole hand, fingers splayed, over your face—covering your eyes. Pull your fingers together in a pinch as you drag your hand down your face, ending with your fingertips on your chin, eyes closed.
hold your hand in front of you, fingers open and thumb extended; fold down the two fingers between your index and pinky fingers.
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with one hand, bring your pinched fingers to your mouth and tap your lips.
with both hands, tap your pinched fingers together in front of you.
hold both hands in front of you, palms facing toward you, then palms facing out, repeat.
MoMM y daddy SIS tEr Brot HErhold your open palm in front of your face, with your thumb pointing toward your chin. Bring your hand in toward your face, tapping your thumb to your chin.
hold your open palm in front of your face, with your thumb pointing toward your forehead. Bring your hand in toward your face, tapping your thumb to your forehead.
touch your thumb to your chin with your pointer finger raised and other fingers closed. Swoop your hand down to rest on the top of your other hand in front of you, repeat.
touch your thumb to your forehead with your pointer finger raised and other fingers closed. Swoop your hand down to rest on the top of your other hand in front of you, repeat.
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What hugs mean to baby.
Over 600 medical studies on the effects of human touch prove what moms have always known: Hugs are important.
In fact, more and more hospitals state that they are vital to the healthy development of a child. And the benefits of human touch for babies often extend throughout childhood.
The benefits of hugging.
Every hug sets off cascades of hormones that benefit health and help regulate body temperature. Oxytocin, the hormone released by touch, is even nicknamed the “bonding hormone.” A hug can stabilize heart rate, increase oxygen levels, strengthen the immune system, and reduce crying and stress.
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