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TENNESSEANS TO PARTICIPATE IN D.C. NATIONAL EQUALITY MARCH NASHVILLE PLANS PARALLEL RALLY ON JUNE 11 JERRY JONES
LGBT people from all over the United States will converge in Washington D.C. on the weekend of June 10 and 11, 2017, for two major national events. The Equality March for Unity and Pride will be held Sunday, June 11â&#x20AC;&#x201D;the same weekend as D.C. Pride (June 8 to 11)â&#x20AC;&#x201D;though the events are being planned by two separate groups. Details for the event are still being pinned down, as the march appears to still be in the planning stages. The website, equalitymarch2017.com, has been reserved, but as of late April the domain was still directing to godaddy.com. A Facebook page has been established as the main means of communicating information about the march. Organizers are hoping to capture the same â&#x20AC;&#x153;momentumâ&#x20AC;? as the Womenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s March. 7KH ÂżUVW VXFK GHPRQVWUDWLRQ WKH 1DWLRQDO March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights, took place in 1979, drawing around 125,000. The largest LGBT march on D.C. was held in 1993 and drew close to one million SHRSOH 7KLV \HDUÂśV HYHQW ZLOO EH WKH ÂżUVW ODUJH scale LGBT march on Washington since 2009. Several Tennesseans are attending the 1DWLRQDO (TXDOLW\ 0DUFK IRU 8QLW\ DQG 3ULGH including Ernie Hoskins, from Knoxville, Tennessee. Hoskins said the election of Donald Trump and the actions of his administration have motivated him to make the trip to the nationâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s capital. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I think itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s more important now than ever to stand up for who we are. We have a president who does not respect anyone, including the LGBT community, so we need to stand together and resist.â&#x20AC;? Hoskins said. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I know that the trip will give me a real sense of community. I hope that the march shows everyone that weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve fought too hard to go back and that we will not be silenced.â&#x20AC;? But the action wonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t just be taking place in D.C. Organizers of the Equality March for Unity and Pride are encouraging pride organizations across the country to hold simultaneous rallies and marchesâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;much like
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the recent womenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s march did. 1DVKYLOOH ZLOO MRLQ PDQ\ RWKHU FLWLHV including Chattanooga (Tennessee), Austin (Texas), Portland (Maine), Indianapolis (Indiana), Seattle (Washington), and Sydney (Australia), which have announced solidarity marches. You can view a google map that shows all of the cities with marches and rallies at goo.gl/RrB1ya. 3KLO &REXFFL SUHVLGHQW RI 1DVKYLOOH 3ULGH VDLG 1DVKYLOOH 3ULGH KDV ZRUNHG ZLWK WKHLU SDUWQHUV DW 7KH 1DWLRQDO 0DUFK IRU Equality and Pride, as well as Interpride, the organization of Pride planners, to host an event that works in line with our local Pride calendar. â&#x20AC;&#x153;We have decided to host a rally with our sister organizations in the LGBT and Ally community in solidarity with the march that will be taking place on Washington on June 11,â&#x20AC;? he said. â&#x20AC;&#x153;The plans are still coming together for the event and we will be announcing more details soon on our website and social media pages. If community members are interested in participating in the program, they should UHDFK RXW WR 1DVKYLOOH 3ULGH YLD HPDLO RU VRFLDO media.â&#x20AC;? &REXFFL VDLG WKDW 1DVKYLOOH 3ULGH ZRXOG also hold its annual Equality Walk as part of WKH 1DVKYLOOH 3ULGH )HVWLYDO RQ -XQH DW
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NASHVILLE CARES WORKING TO EXPAND ACCESS TO PREP â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;NAVIGATORSâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; ASSIST CLIENTS SEEKING HIV PREVENTION TOOLS JAMES GRADY
2YHU WKH SDVW IHZ \HDUV D ORQJ XVHG +,9 WUHDWPHQW 7UXYDGD KDV IRXQG QHZ OLIH DV D WRRO IRU +,9 SUHYHQWLRQ 6WXGLHV VKRZ WKDW WDNLQJ WKH RQFH D GD\ SLOO RQ D UHJXODU EDVLV VLJQLÂżFDQWO\ UHGXFHV WKH ULVN RI FRQWUDFWLQJ +,9²WR WKH SRLQW WKDW WKHUH DUH RQO\ D FRXSOH RI NQRZQ FDVHV ZKHUH WKH drug, when taken properly, has failed. Since this revolutionary discovery, WKH GUXJ KDV EHHQ ZLGHO\ GLVFXVVHG DQG VRPH FLWLHVÂś KHDOWK VHUYLFHV KDYH even made the drug free for all citizens. ,Q 1DVKYLOOH KRZHYHU WKHUH ZDV D ORQJ SHULRG ZKHQ LW ZDV QHDUO\ LPSRVVLEOH WR ÂżQG D SURYLGHU ZLOOLQJ WR SUHVFULEH 35(3 7KDW KDV EHJXQ WR FKDQJH LQ WKH ODVW \HDU WKDQNV WR WKH ZRUN RI 1DVKYLOOH &$5(6 LQ SURYLGLQJ 35(3 QDYLJDWLRQ VHUYLFHV²JXLGLQJ FOLHQWV WKURXJK WKH VRPHWLPHV confusing process. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Originally, we received a grant through Gilead for PREP navigation services and it started about March or April of 2016,â&#x20AC;? explained Jeff Tordiff, one of CARESâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; PREP navigators. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Starting in January we received an additional grant through the Tennessee Department of Health to increase our navigation services...â&#x20AC;? &XUUHQWO\ &$5(6Âś ÂżYH 35(3 QDYLJDWRUV DUH 7RUGLII DV ZHOO DV Zachary Papillion, Ronellis Tunstill, Sherman Megibben, and Jamie Regan. They are working to demystify the process and make sure that all interested parties have access to the information and, whenever possible, the medication they need. PREPâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s success has made programs like these across the country a priority, but PREP has limits. â&#x20AC;&#x153;When we talk to individuals about PREP, we talk about it as part of their tool belt for prevention: for most people PREP along with a condom is going to be your best barrierâ&#x20AC;Ś If a condom breaks, you have PREP as the backup.â&#x20AC;? In addition to the rare failure of the drug, Truvada alone doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t prevent STIs like gonorrhea, chlamydia, or syphilis, nor does it prevent pregnancy for female clients. While PREP is currently recommended for individuals who are having sex with multiple partners, who donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t consistently use condoms, intravenous drug users, or people with a positive partner, Tordiff said, â&#x20AC;&#x153;our approach is that if you think PREP is right for you, we are going to walk you through the process. Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re going to help you meet with a healthcare provider to decide for yourselfâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;we arenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t going to make the decision whether we think theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re a good candidate for PREP or not.â&#x20AC;? â&#x20AC;&#x153;Once we have an interested party,â&#x20AC;? Tordiff said, explaining the SURFHVV ÂłZHÂśUH JRLQJ WR PHHW ZLWK WKHP RQH RQ RQH VR ZH FDQ GLVFXVV PRUH LQ GHSWK QRW RQO\ ZKDW WKH 35(3 SURFHVV ORRNV OLNH EXW DOVR DERXW WKH medication and the importance of taking the pills at the same time every GD\ :H ZLOO DOVR GLVFXVV WKHLU LQVXUDQFH LQIRUPDWLRQ DQG ÂżJXUH RXW² whether or not they have insuranceâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;what they need to do from there.â&#x20AC;? Many resources are available, even for those without health insurance. â&#x20AC;&#x153;We have a good working connection with the Cayce Clinic as part of 1HLJKERUKRRG +HDOWK ZKHUH ZH KDYH D QXUVH SUDFWLWLRQHU .LP 5LYHUV ZKR is really familiar with PREP,â&#x20AC;? Tordiff explained, â&#x20AC;&#x153;so we can serve a lot of our people without insurance through her, because the visits are going to be
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on a sliding fee scale, we know the cost of the labs are going to be $25 and that will be billed later, so we can have them prepared for that.â&#x20AC;? â&#x20AC;&#x153;For individuals with insurance it takes a little longer,â&#x20AC;? he added, ÂłEHFDXVH ZH KDYH WR ZRUN ZLWK WKH VSHFLÂżFV RI WKHLU SODQ ZKDW SDUW LI DQ\ of the medication does their insurance cover, and how can we get them in contact with a provider willing to provide the prescription who is also JRLQJ WR EH D JRRG ÂżW 7KHQ ZH KDYH WR ZRUN RXW ZKDW ZH QHHG WR GR RQ WKH back end to make sure they can afford the medication.â&#x20AC;? Once the process is in motion, things move quickly: if a client goes through the Cayce Clinic, they can generally have their prescription within D ZHHN RU VR RI YLVLWLQJ 5LYHUV )RU WKRVH ZKR TXDOLI\ ÂżQDQFLDOO\ 35(3 navigators will also assist with applying to the Gilead Advancing Access program for copay assistance once the prescription is written. 1RW HYHU\RQH ZLOO EH DEOH WR WDNH WKH GUXJ +HDOWK EDUULHUV VXFK DV impaired kidney function or having hepatitis, can mean Truvada is not a JRRG ÂżW $QG ÂżQDQFLDOO\ WKHUH DUH JDSV LQ DVVLVWDQFH DV ZKHQ VRPHRQH KDV LQVXUDQFH ZLWK D GHGXFWLEOH RU RXW RI SRFNHW WKDWÂśV WRR KLJK HYHQ DIWHU the copay assistance, or when someone makes too much to qualify for Advancing Access. 1HYHUWKHOHVV &$5(6 ZLOO XWLOL]H DOO DYDLODEOH UHVRXUFHV WR KHOS clients get access to healthcare, and their services are still expanding. â&#x20AC;&#x153;As SDUW RI WKH JUDQW WKH &'& JDYH 1DVKYLOOH &$5(6 6WUHHW :RUNV DQG 1HLJKERUKRRG +HDOWK ZH DUH FUHDWLQJ 0\ +RXVH ´ 7RUGLII H[SODLQHG â&#x20AC;&#x153;which is a gay and bisexual menâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s health clinic and wellness center.â&#x20AC;? ,Q DGGLWLRQ WR +,9 DQG IXOO SDQHO WHVWLQJ 5LYHUV ZLOO EH LQ UHVLGHQFH D few days a week to offer PREP services, as well as basic health services, including treatment for common ailments. For more information about PREP navigation, contact jtordiff@ nashvillecares.org or visit the organizations website at nashvillecares. org.
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NASHVILLE SYMPHONYâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S ANNUAL FASHION SHOW FEATURES ZAC POSEN DESIGNS & MUSIC BY KELSEA BALLERINI MICHAEL CANTRELL
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runway. After the fashion show, all the models made their way back to WKH VWDJH IRU RQH ÂżQDO ORRN IROORZHG E\ 3RVHQ LQ VXLW DQG WLH Demarcus took the stage in a beautiful mermaid bottom gown and looked very stunning. She began to introduce the sponsors and gave special thanks for everything the sponsors did to support the event. She also took time to recognize local celebrities in the audience such as Savannah Chrisley from Chrisley Knows Best, who was wearing an original Zac Posen design, country music superstar Thomas Rhett, and the featured entertainer for the evening, Kelsea Ballerini. Ballerni is a country music sensation who, in a few short months, has taken the scene by. She sang three songs in front of her thousands of fans and Symphony supporters. One song, â&#x20AC;&#x153;Peter Panâ&#x20AC;? was DFFRPSDQLHG E\ PHPEHUV RI WKH V\PSKRQ\ 2QFH %DOOHUQL ÂżQLVKHG her performancesâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;while wearing a gown she joked would cost more than her carâ&#x20AC;&#x201D; Demarcus thanked everyone for attending and for their VXSSRUW RI WKH 1DVKYLOOH 6\PSKRQ\ $FFRUGLQJ WR 'HPDUFXV HYHQW chairpersons Shaun Inman and Sheila Shields raised more corporate support for the 2017 fashion show than any of the fashion shows in previous years. Gus Mayer, the presenter of the fashion show displayed and sold some of Posenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s fashion and agreed to donate 50 percent of the proceeds IURP KLV VDOH WR WKH 1DVKYLOOH 6\PSKRQ\ VR WKDW WKH\ PD\ FRQWLQXH their mission of providing free music education and performances for the many they provide outreach to each year. You too can support the Nashville Symphony and its mission: visit their website at nashvillesymphony.org for more information.
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Ty Herndonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s 2015 Concert for Love & Acceptance became one of the most talked about events of CMA week, and this year the HYHQW LV EDFN DQG ELJJHU WKDQ HYHU 7KH ÂżUVW Concert for Love & Acceptance received national attention from Boston Globe, Rolling Stone, Entertainment Tonight, People Magazine and more. $ JUDPP\ QRPLQDWHG DQG 'RYH $ZDUG ZLQQLQJ DUWLVW +HUQGRQ FUHDWHG DQG FR KRVWHG WKH ÂżUVW &RQFHUW IRU /RYH $FFHSWDQFH alongside GLAAD in 2015, when his 20th anniversary fan club party turned into a coalition of artists gathering in support of 1DVKYLOOHÂśV DW ULVN \RXWK 7KH GULYLQJ IRUFH EHKLQG WKH EHQHÂżW LV +HUQGRQÂśV GHVLUH WR foster positive cultural change and encourage 1DVKYLOOHÂśV \RXWK WR OLYH WR WKHLU IXOOHVW potential. â&#x20AC;&#x153;When I came out as a gay man in FRXQWU\ PXVLF LQ , ZDQWHG WR JHW P\ IRRWLQJ )RU PH LW ZDV WKH ÂżUVW WLPH , ZDONHG
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relationship to gun ownership. John Lee, who SOD\V ZLWK WKH 1DVKYLOOH *UL]]OLHV DQG LV DQ outspoken liberal, writes in his own piece (page XXX) on this topic, about his discomfort with guns. But he also writes about how his views have begun to involve, and he is not alone. Increasingly, liberals of all stripes and members of the LGBT community are embracing their Second Amendment rights in WKH QDPH RI VHOI HPSRZHUPHQW DQG VHOI GHIHQVH The movement isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t newâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;for instance the national LGBT gun advocacy group, the Pink Pistols has been around for nearly twenty years. vastly expanded. Interpretation of these rights has a direct, But membership is growing, as is interest in and deep, impact on how we live our lives groups like the Liberal Gun Club. Whatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s happened to fuel this movement? A together as citizens: what do we have the right to say, and when and how may we express it, how lot of things, but an increasingly openly hostile can we gather to voice our concerns about the environment that has sprung up in the wake government, how free are we to worship, and of LGBT gains has left many scrambling to how can we protect our own interests? These Âż QG ZD\V WR SURWHFW WKHPVHOYHV DQG WKHLU ORYHG issues are provocative not just because they RQHV 7ZR KLJK SURÂż OH HYHQWV LQ WKH ODVW \HDU immediately impact our personal lives but also were named by Lee and others as motivating because their implications are sometimes deadly IDFWRUV WKH 3XOVH 1LJKW &OXE VKRRWLQJ DQG WKH DQWL /*%7 UKHWRULF DQG YLROHQFH VXUURXQGLQJ serious. And because they are also questions of Trumpâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s rise to power. These events have shaken great philosophical importance, debates about the community, leaving many feeling like they constitutional rights, and in particular about are in the enemyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s sights. In March of 2000, Jonathan Rauch wrote First and Second Amendment rights, are at the center of our modern culture wars. Conventional LQ 6DORQ 0DJD]LQH Âł7KLUW\ RQH VWDWHV DOORZ DOO wisdom divides opinions about gun ownership TXDOLÂż HG FLWL]HQV WR FDUU\ FRQFHDOHG ZHDSRQV between those held by conservatives and those In those states, homosexuals should embark on held by liberals, with conservatives favoring less organized efforts to become comfortable with JXQ UHJXODWLRQ DQG Âż QGLQJ VHFXULW\ LQ DQ DUPHG guns, learn to use them safely and carry them. citizenry and with liberals promoting greater They should set up Pink Pistols task forces, gun control and putting the role of community sponsor shooting courses and help homosexuals get licensed to carry. And they should do it in a protection more in the hands of the state. Since LGBT peopleâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;because of their way that gets as much publicity as possible.â&#x20AC;? This is a philosophy that many are newly oppression at the hands of conservative ideologies and their reliance on the mechanisms adopting in the age of Pulse and Trump, a way of government to secure their own civil RI VHOI HPSRZHUPHQW LQ DQ DJH RI DQWL /*%7 rightsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;overwhelmingly identify as liberal or terror. According to their website, the Pink progressive, the communityâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s views on guns and 3LVWROV ÂłDGYRFDWH WKH XVH RI ODZIXOO\ RZQHG gun control have often fallen along traditional ODZIXOO\ FRQFHDOHG Âż UHDUPV IRU WKH VHOI GHIHQVH of the sexual minority communityâ&#x20AC;Ś We teach liberal lines. Even many native Southern LGBT, many queers to shoot. Then we teach others that we of whom were exposed to guns as early as have done so.â&#x20AC;? The last part is key to the Pink Pistolsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; they were to bicycles, have a long ambivalent ew aspects of United States law have drawn more interest from, or inspired more debate amongst, the American public than the Bill of Rights. Over time and through shifting interpretations by the Courts, the meanings of the rights granted to citizens have shifted, and, in many cases, their scopes have been
social and political goals, which rest on an aggressive and perhaps questionable assertion: â&#x20AC;&#x153;Armed queers donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t get bashed. We change the public perception of the sexual minorities, such that those who have in the past perceived them as safe targets for violence and hateful acts â&#x20AC;Ś will realize that that now, a segment of the sexual minority population is now armed and effective with those arms. Those arms are also concealed, so they do not know which ones are safe to attack, and which are notâ&#x20AC;Śwhich they can harm as they have in the past, and which may draw a ZHDSRQ DQG Âż JKW EDFN ´ 0XFK DERXW WKLV DUJXPHQW UDLVHV GLIÂż FXOW\ for those with qualms about the effectiveness of a heavily armed populace at reducing violence, but it represents a growing sentiment that the RQO\ WUXH GHIHQVH IRU VH[XDO PLQRULWLHV LV VHOI defense. It is not surprising that the Pink Pistols have openly worked with other aggressive gun ULJKWV DGYRFDF\ RUJDQL]DWLRQV OLNH WKH 15$ 1HDUO\ WZHQW\ \HDUV DIWHU WKH JURXSÂśV IRXQGLQJ WKHUH DUH DURXQG Âż IW\ FKDSWHUV RI WKH 3LQN 3LVWROV nationwide, including a new organization in Middle Tennessee and a newly revived Memphis chapter. Other groups, like the Liberal Gun Club, are more politically inclined to, well, liberalism. The Liberal Gun Club was founded in 2008 by a group of people who were â&#x20AC;&#x153;tired of feeling like a traitor for wanting to vote for President Obama.â&#x20AC;? This group recognizes that sensible gun regulation and sensible gun ownership are not mutually exclusive, and draw attention to the fact that gun ownership isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t the sole SURYLQFH RI WKH H[WUHPH ULJKW RU WKH IHDU GULYHQ 7KXV WKHLU PLVVLRQ ÂłWR SURYLGH D YRLFH IRU JXQ owning liberals and moderates in the national conversation on gun rights, gun legislation, Âż UHDUPV VDIHW\ DQG VKRRWLQJ VSRUWV ´ In addition to Leeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s article which follows this one, we spoke with local Brandon Edwards about his history with guns, and how he, as an LGBT person, feels about gun ownership, and why. Like Lee, Edwards grew up around guns. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I have had guns since I was 10,â&#x20AC;? he said. â&#x20AC;&#x153;My
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skills.â&#x20AC;? $IWHU 3XOVH WKH 1DVKYLOOH $UPRU\ VSDUNHG D FRQWURYHUV\ E\ RIIHULQJ a free concealed carry course to members of the LGBT community sponsored by an anonymous donor. Back then I spoke with Ryan Edwards and Jason Steen, who signed up for that course. Both of them professed that, like Edwardsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; friends, they had long considered taking such a course but that the shooting was a catalyst. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I dislike the fact that I now feel the â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;needâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; to have to carry,â&#x20AC;? Steen said back then. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve always felt comfortable out and being social, but now thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s this weird feeling that I have to be extra vigilant, to be prepared.â&#x20AC;? He added, â&#x20AC;&#x153;the violence rate for LGBT in general has seemingly skyrocketed, especially for trans [people], in the past few years. This is just the factor that made me act. Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m the last holdout in my family, everyone else, including my mom and sister, have their carry permit.â&#x20AC;? Since Orlando, tensions around the election and beyond have simply reinforced a new wave of fear, and a sense of defenselessness, and have further emphasized the importance of relying on oneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s on resources for empowerment. For many, increasingly, that means joining the ranks of a pink pistol toting citizen â&#x20AC;&#x153;militia.â&#x20AC;? So donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t be surprised, in the coming months and years, even some of your most liberal LGBT brothers and sisters start talking more than hypothetically about packing heat.
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he or she had been harassed. The night of the election brought it home. I remember typing this sentence on Facebook about midnight when it became obvious to me that Trump would win: â&#x20AC;&#x153;How do you make a liberal support the Second Amendment? Elect Donald Trump president.â&#x20AC;? By the next day, that simple post had over twenty replies, from other liberal friends who admitted they were feeling the same way to friends who knew a lot about guns, giving me their opinions on what kind of gun they thought would be good for a novice like me. I remember walking into the store the following Sunday. My hands shook and my throat was dry. I couldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t believe I was actually going to do it. I told the guy behind the counterâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;a really friendly guy named Charlieâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;that I was pretty much a total novice with handguns and was looking for something for personal protection. He asked PH WZR TXHVWLRQV UHYROYHU RU VHPL DXWRPDWLF DQG ZKDW was my price range. Charlie walked me through the rest of the process. I was worried that Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d feel totally conspicuous in the store, like all the rest of the people milling around would smell the â&#x20AC;&#x153;liberal stenchâ&#x20AC;? oozing out of my pores and theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d all turn on me. To my surprise, that never happened at all. Charlie was knowledgeable about his product, enthusiastic, and had a lot of great tips about things that never would have occurred to me. For instance, before I went to purchase, Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d assumed that a small gun that was HDVLO\ FRQFHDOHG ZRXOG EH EHVW 1RW DW DOO ,ÂśP Âś ´ DQG weigh 265, and I needed a gun with some size and weight in order to have the best control in my hand. The anxiety never really left me the whole time I was there, though. When I signed the slip on the receipt when I purchased my gun, my hand was still shaking. I kept it unloaded and in my closet for weeks, just getting used to the idea that I was a gun owner. But I ÂżJXUHG LQ IRU D SHQQ\ LQ IRU D SRXQG 7KH SODFH WKDW VROG me the gun also offered many classes, and I took one called â&#x20AC;&#x153;Handgun 101.â&#x20AC;? We learned the basics: what the individual parts of the gun were, how to properly load guns, stance, JULS WKH ZKROH ELW 7KH FODVV HQGHG ZLWK XV WHVW ÂżULQJ RQ the range. To my surprise, I was actually pretty good with it! Whoâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d have thought that someone who hadnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t touched
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a total 180 on personal ownership, especially of handguns. But I throw in education and training every time I give any encouragement for someone to think about getting a gun. Gun ownership, to me, carries grave responsibility. The ultimate purpose of any gun, to quote one of my instructors, is â&#x20AC;&#x153;to put holes in something.â&#x20AC;? If you handle a loaded gun, then you are taking responsibility for what happens with it. Terrible, sometimes irrevocable, damage can be done with a handgun. If you are going to keep a gun in your home, your vehicle, your workplace, then you must take responsibility for learning how to properly use it. Take training courses. Go
to the range and practice your shooting. Learn the rules of gun safety. Above all else, if you donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t feel that you are up to the responsibility that comes with gun ownership, then donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t get one. Just because people can do something, it does not automatically follow that they must. , JXHVV P\ OLEHUDO ERQD ÂżGHV DUH VWLOO there: safety, education, training, regulation. To me, theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re just common sense. We donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t allow unlicensed drivers to get behind the wheel of a car, right? They can do a whole heck of a lot more damage than a single handgun could. I know, the comparisons donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t totally jibe. But it does give you something to think about.
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students, practitioners, and leaders spoke to guests in attendance on how access and opportunity intersect with someone’s identity and our interactions with the community and one another, as well as how to remove those obstacles that keep us from being included. The conference’s presenting sponsor ZDV 1LVVDQ 1LVVDQ LV DQ DYLG VXSSRUWHU RI LGBT rights. The conference consisted of three days of keynote speakers such as Tara Prairie, Michael McDaniel, David Jay and Eric Watson. These speakers are experts in
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MICHELLE VISAGE HOSTS AT PLAY NASHVILLE DRAG RACE DIVA TAKES OVER HER FIRST TIME OUT
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Another year has brought another successful run for the Conductors. Each year the conductors put RQ D IXQ ¿OOHG ZHHNHQG FDOOHG D UXQ RU WUDFN LQ RUGHU WR KDYH ³D FKDQFH IRU XV WR LQYLWH RXU OHDWKHU EURWKHUV DQG VLVWHUV WR 1DVKYLOOH IRU D ZHHNHQG RI IXQ DQG IHOORZVKLS´ RI FRXUVH DQ RSSRUWXQLW\ IRU fundraising too. 7KH ¿UVW DQQLYHUVDU\ ZHHNHQG ZDV KHOG LQ DQG ZDV GXEEHG ³7UDFN , ´ 7KLV \HDU ZDV WKH WK DQQLYHUVDU\ GXEEHG ³7UDFN ;;;9 ´ 6RPH KLJKOLJKWV RI WKH ZHHNHQG LQFOXGHG )UHDN DQG Fetish Fashion Show hosted by the Music City Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, multiple cocktail parties hosted by Trax, Stirrup, Mr. Friendly, and the leather clubs, and lastly but certainly not least, the Run Show. The Run Show is partly a drag show, partly a variety show put on by members and friends of the Conductors, and is one of the biggest fundraisers of the weekend. This year with support from Stirrup, Trax, the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, and many other locals groups and people, the Conductors were able to raise over $2,200 for charity! The group is very proud of this yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s run, and is looking to make next yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s bigger and better than ever!
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GAIA House - New Hope, Pennsylvania Soulmate and I are here for a private matter. Something I have always wanted; a FRQÂżUPDWLRQ RI VRUWV , DOZD\V NQHZ , ZDV D ZRPDQ QRZ , ZRXOG ÂżQLVK WKH DIIDLU $OO KDV gone very well up until tonight. 6RXOPDWHÂśV ÂżUVW YLVLW WR D FODVVLF gayborhood has turned into a second honeymoon of sorts. Her purring Southern accent and manners entrances and ensnares even the most jaded Yankee specimen who comes across our path (I know how that one works). Then they took me off of the morphine... and couldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t switch me to codeine. Tylenol was to be my best friend for the next 72 hours, EXW WKH ÂżUVW RQHV ZRXOG EH WKH URXJKHVW Welcome to the longest night of my life. Far more people have it worse, I suppose. But pain is pain. I cannot sleep, therefore I must write. It is the only way to stay sane. I went to therapy. I took the hormones. I signed the forms. I underwent the procedure. I am legally female now... But I am not a strong woman, yet ... that honorable title was earned by heroes before me; it is never given ... and I have a lot to learn and a very long way to go. The reality only FDPH FUDVKLQJ GRZQ XSRQ PH GXULQJ WKH ÂżUVW days of after surgery. Radical change and no sleep will make anyone cry buckets. I did my share too, with Soulmate holding my hand. 7KH * GGHVV GLG QRW DEDQGRQ PH XSRQ WKH surgery table though. She was still protecting me ... but also desperately trying to impart a crucial fact. I could not pretend to be a guy anymore, DQG , PXVW OLYH DV ZRPHQ GR , PXVW learn right now, if not sooner. The rest of my life will depend upon how I adjust to my new reality, the reality I desperately sought with
all of my being, a reality I can no longer step back from. That reality suddenly just became YHU\ GLIÂżFXOW DQG VFDU\ WR DFKLHYH I do not miss my parts; I do miss what residual testosterone I was carrying prior to the event. This is part of the female reality my therapist has been trying to get me ready IRU 1HYHU KDYH , IHOW VR QDNHG DQG DORQH LQ my life, and so dependent upon Soulmate and female friends to help guide me across the border. I am an emotional train wreckâ&#x20AC;Ś I never thought I would ever say this, EXW , DP JUDWHIXO 7KH * GGHVV EURXJKW PH into this world as a biological male. I learned a lot from that existence, good and bad, and I will try to bring the good parts of that life over to my newer one. I always was female. ,W WRRN PH XQWLO P\ IRUWLHV WR ÂżQDOO\ DFFHSW that. Childhood experience especially made me want to discover the female identity that was denied me. I have always speculated that VRPHRQH ZDQWHG PH WR GR VSHFLÂżF WKLQJV RU learn something important before crossing the line. I hope that I have succeeded. I am also grateful for the soulmate who has stood beside me from day one. Even ZKHQ VKH ÂżJXUHG RXW LQ FROOHJH WKDW , ZDV QRW quite cisgender or heterosexual, she stuck by me. It took guts to walk down an aisle with someone who felt more comfortable in the twink world than straight. But she was bi too, and understood. We have always been a quiet OHVELDQ FRXSOH 1RZ DOO ZLOO NQRZ Some lucky kids are getting their opportunity to transition at a relatively young age. I had to wait until my late forties. I knew I was a girl. I told my parents. They told me they loved me, then they threw me into military school out of love. They thought I would wind up a homosexual pedophile otherwise. Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m an adult now, and I understand the culture my parents were brought up in. I have learned how to forgive, though I will never forget. I have declared war on that culture accordingly. For all of its bad points, a military school education does teach you how WR VWDQG DQG ÂżJKW 7KDW FXOWXUH VKDSHG P\
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early psyche. I will take my anger from a lost childhood and use it to fuel my resolve that this generationâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s LGBTQI kids will not have to endure the same. Let the forces of bigotry and darkness take notice: I have always been woman, and I am becoming a stronger one. 1RZ , DP D EXWWHUĂ&#x20AC;\ , KDYH QHYHU EHHQ D JLUO\ JLUO QRU KDYH , HYHU UHDOO\ GHVLUHG WR be. My heroes and role models were lesbians. I prayed every night of my childhood to be turned into one. And then, one early morning, kind people asked me to go to sleep, and upon awakening my body had been transformed. I was already a woman, of course, just hidden behind some mismatched parts. The therapist made sure I understood that before I did anything else. I was always a girl with boy parts, and I could have lived with that. But I chose to become D EXWWHUĂ&#x20AC;\ ZLWK ROLYH GUDE ZLQJV 7KDWÂśV MXVW ZKR , DP 1R UHJUHWV Let the adventure begin, while remembering itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s ok to cry.
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What was it like with your peers in school? I was bullied a lot and made fun of. They ZRXOG FDOO PH VWXII OLNH FDQG\ DVV RU SDQV\ I was jumped by several guys and even the teachers would make a joke of me. I talked to our guidance counselor, and he said the best thing for me to do was turn in my books and leave school
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+RO\ 8QWXFNHG :KDW D WUHDW ZH KDYH LQ VWRUH IRU \RX WKH 1DVKYLOOH OHJHQG 0LVV 7LQD /RXLVH 7KLV \HDU WKLV OLWWOH ODG\ FHOHEUDWHV IRUW\ Âż YH \HDUV LQ GUDJ 7R VD\ LW ZDV D SOHDVXUH WR NLNL ZLWK this lady would be a major understatement. Her experience is so incredible! Todayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s generation could learn a lot from her because itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s legends like her that really paved the way. Sit back and relax, because this is one for the books! How did you start doing drag, and what intrigued you into doing it? I started doing drag when I was 15 years old. I used to play with my momâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s clothes and jewelry. I started dressing up because I felt like I was a girl. Around 16, I met a friend named Regina Ray: she was one of the only two white queens LQ 1DVKYLOOH DW WKH WLPH 2QH GD\ VKH JRW SXW in juvenile for being caught out in drag, because back then it was illegal to cross dress. It was called masking. Tell us more about masking. What would the police do exactly? They would put you in jail: it was a misdemeanor. If you were a minor, they would just take you to juvenile for being out past curfew. But I never got arrested for masking. One night we got pulled over and DeeDee got arrested for contributing to a minor. They took me to juvenile for being out after curfew. I was the only one in drag that night. There I was subjected to having to walk up and down the hall naked, in front of all the RWKHU ER\V ZKLOH VWLOO LQ PDNHXS ,W ZDV P\ Âż UVW brush with the law but it taught me a big lesson. :KR GR \RX UHFDOO EHLQJ VRPH RI WKH Âż UVW drag performers in Nashville? Well one day I was at Reginaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s house and she showed me a newspaper clipping. In the corner was a picture of Roxanne the Latin Lovely DQG &KULV &URVV ZKR ZHUH WZR RI WKH Âż UVW SHUIRUPHUV KHUH LQ 1DVKYLOOH 7KDW ZDV DW WKH
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Watch Your Hat and Coat Saloon. I wasnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t old enough back then to get in, but I would stand outside and watch through a small window. What was the shade like back then? Well, since masking was illegal, people would call and tip you off that other queens would be out that night. Some girls who were jealous or what not would then call and turn you in for masking. Or they would see you out and call the law to turn you in. I would always run: sometimes the heels would pop off the backs of my shoes because I used to run track in high school. How was it for you as a child? I was the oldest of seven, and we lived in the projects on Shelby avenue. My father was in the military and my mom was a stay at home momâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;seven kids will keep you busy. In school the teachers always liked me, I was a good student. I was in choir, and band. Anything musical or plays, they always would put me in it because I stood outâ&#x20AC;Ś A couple of shows my dad would show up, but he would be drunk. What was it like with having your father battling alcoholism? It was hard you now, but it taught me to never be that way. He was abusive, and it was just a hard thing to deal with as a child. A lot of my friends struggled with it, but I never did because , JUHZ XS ZLWK LW DQG ZLWQHVVHG WKH HIIHFWV Âż UVW hand.
How did your family deal with you being trans? I was very lucky: my parents were very accepting and understood that was just how I was. They would let my friends that were kicked out or had to leave home come stay with us. I was very lucky: I never had to deal with the parental torment other people had to go through. Tell me more about gay culture back then. Was there a lot of hate towards the community? Oh yeah, there was stuff happening like that all the time. My dear friend Peanuts was murdered. She was stabbed 38 times and to this day her murder is unsolved. One girl didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t tell a guy she was a man, and he killed her, slit her throat. It was hard back then especially dealing with the loss of our friends and community. Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll tell you this as a trans woman I have never lied to a man about me; I always told the truth. Then in 1973 the Watch Your Hat and Coat Saloon burned. That year Miss Gay America was happening and there was a lot of backlash. A lot of people were not happy about it being here in 1DVKYLOOH 6R VRPHRQH VHW WKH EDU RQ Âż UH 6RPH think is was another bar owner and some think it was a jealous queen. The next year another bar was hosting the pageant, and someone burned it down the following day. Tell me more about gay culture back then. Was there a lot of hate towards the community? Oh yeah, there was stuff happening like that all the time. My dear friend Peanuts was murdered. She was stabbed 38 times and to this day her murder is unsolved. One girl didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t tell a guy she was a man, and he killed her, slit her throat. It was hard back then especially dealing with the loss of our friends and community. Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll tell you this as a trans woman I have never lied to a man about me; I always told the truth. How would you compare drag back then to how it is today? Well there are so many more types today then
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there were back then. Today with all these shows like RuPaulâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Drag Race, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s more mainstream. You donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have to go to bar to see a drag queen, you FDQ MXVW WXUQ RQ WKH 7 9 , WKLQN WKDW KDV FKDQJHG LW D ORW EHFDXVH LW PDNHV it hard for other queens to get bookings because bar owners target those queens from these television shows more. How would you describe your drag style? Oh, Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m very old school being from my era. Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m not saying I am vain, but I like to be pretty, to show cleavage and what not. I was always known for kinda being the R&B girl. I always did songs like the Supremes and stuff like that. Where can our readers keep up with you? Well, I am not doing any shows right now because a few years ago I had to have a mastectomy. I am recovered from that now and have had UHFRQVWUXFWLYH VXUJHU\ EXW LW KDV Ã&#x20AC; DUHG XS D ORW RI RWKHU SUREOHPV %XW , DP on Facebook as Tina Louise!
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AMY SULAM | @Amysulam I swear weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re time traveling, because Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m certain Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve woken up in the beginning of the French Revolution. The distance between rich and poor has QHYHU EHHQ JUHDWHU 7KH ZHDOWK\ ZKR UXQ WKH ULJKW ZLQJ SDUW\ KDYH JRQH IXOO French aristocracy. The president doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t pay taxes but weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re jailed if we GRQÂśW )RU SURÂż W LQFDUFHUDWLRQ LV WKH PRGHUQ GD\ GHEWRUVÂś SULVRQ , FDQÂśW IRU WKH OLIH RI PH Âż JXUH RXW KRZ SHRSOH GRQÂśW VHH WKLV 2K ZDLW <HV , FDQ 7KH\ XVH EDLW DQG VZLWFK WR FDUU\ RXW WKHLU FORDN and dagger schemes. Instead of plainly saying â&#x20AC;&#x153;weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re getting rich off your backs because, â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;f*** you, we canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;.â&#x20AC;? They get the media to tell us itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the fault of gays or black people or Mexicans or feminism. Theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve completely tricked WKH SRSXODWLRQ LQWR SRLQWLQJ Âż QJHUV DW HDFK RWKHU EODPLQJ ÂłWKH GLIIHUHQW ´ You know like in WWII. All this time travel has me wondering what the French peasants got so right that weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re getting so wrong. Well, for one, the poor knew they were poor rather than thinking of themselves as temporarily embarrassed millionaires. So let me help. Look, Cletus youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re never gonna be part of the 1% and hereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s whyâ&#x20AC;Ś The system is rigged to f*** you hard without lube. The chances youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll make it out of the working class are slim at best, so get comfortable. Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll never get rich screwing yourself or blaming minorities for your problems. If you could, Mississippi would be the wealthiest state in the nation. Seriously, look at the statistics, they vote for Jesus hardcore and theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re one of the poorest states. You wanna guess why? Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll give you a hint: a party run by the 1% doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t give a shit about you. If you think they do, bless your heart. The liberal party isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t much better because again itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s run by millionaires, but weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll tolerate them because they donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t make scapegoats out of the disenfranchised. But they use them just the same. 2XU WZR SDUW\ V\VWHP KDV JRWWHQ XV KHUH 7KDW DQG WKH HOHFWRUDO FROOHJH The sleight of hand the right... We live in a country where almost everything is becoming illegal. Wanna protest it? Cool. Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll go to jail. The government ZDQWV XV TXLHW DQG FRPSOLDQW RU WKH\ÂśOO SXW \RX LQ D IRU SURÂż W SULVRQ DQG throw away the key. People, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s guillotine time. If we start beheading the â&#x20AC;&#x153;let them eat FDNHUV´²¿ JXUDWLYHO\ RI FRXUVH², EHW WKH\ÂśOO VWDUW OLVWHQLQJ %XW OHWÂśV QRW pretend weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re above unsanitary street murders. Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d all be either taking video for social media or reposting it. If we all said, â&#x20AC;&#x153;F*** you, weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re not paying unfair taxes,â&#x20AC;? what are they gonna do? Lock us all up? We make less money but pay (by percentage) more of our wages into the government than the wealthy. By the way, my IDYRULWH LV VHHLQJ EURNH D HV FRPSODLQ DERXW ÂłWKH ULFK EHLQJ WD[HG WR GHDWK´ like they know the struggle. (Audible eye roll). When they make it us versus us, not only are they cloaking their bullshit by distracting us, but they also create a hostile, violent environment and put WKH ZHOO EHLQJ RI LQQRFHQW FLWL]HQV DW ULVN /LNH SXSSHWV ZH SOD\ ULJKW LQWR LW The French revolutionists had it right. We need to rise up and take our country ... not back, back is bad, take it forward. Forward is good.
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I swear, the way the media operates these days, the oppressors can take literally the clearest case of wrong versus right and make the most benign thing an evil. Just look at the way United try to use spin to vilify Dr.Dao after violently yanking him off a plane for a mistake THEY made. I swear, I ZRXOGQÂśW EH VXUSULVHG WR VHH *LUO 6FRXWV YLOLÂż HG IRU VHOOLQJ FRRNLHV EHFDXVH they contain gluten or Obama bought some once. The basis for the manufactured â&#x20AC;&#x153;outrageâ&#x20AC;? I see now a days is literally that baseless and stupid. We need to take our brains back. Show some human empathy. I get so sick of people saying, â&#x20AC;&#x153;I donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t want MY money going XYZ!â&#x20AC;? You know what? Screw you. I donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t want mine going to a public that uses religion to exclude to minorities or wars or bail outs. Guess whatâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;if we donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have social programs and a livable wage, we have more social problems. If youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re too stupid to realize that, then you FDQ JR OLYH EH\RQG WKXQGHUGRPH LQ ZKDWHYHU SRVW DSRFDO\SWLF KHOO KROH \RX want. You can hoard all YOUR money and enjoy having to home school your kids and drive a tank to literally wherever you want to go because weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll be living in a war zone. The Congo doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have a livable minimum wage or social programs, but hell, theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re doing great! :H KDYH JRW WR ZRUN WRJHWKHU WR Âż [ WKH VLWXDWLRQ ZHÂśUH LQ ZKLFK PHDQV we have to stop looking at whatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s different about us, stop judging others because their life choices arenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t the same as ours, band together, and start putting mice up the noses of the 1%. (I could come up with these ideas all day.) We arenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t each otherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s enemy: weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re in this together. The enemy is the palace dweller who doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t care about the harm they do as long as they make more money. Those people are scum. They get away with it and trick us into cheering them on by way of distraction. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s high time we put pixie sticks in WKHLU SHH KROHVÂŤ -XVW VD\LQÂś 9,9$ /$ 5(92/87,21
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