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early 300 couples celebrating one, 25 or 50 and more years of marriage renewed their wedding vows and received the blessing of their bishop during the Diocese of Trenton’s 2015 Bishop’s Anniversary Blessing Masses that took place Oct. 11 and 25. Hosted by St. Mary of the Assumption Cathedral, Trenton, and St. Robert Ken Falls photo Bellarmine Parish, Freehold, the annual celebrations brought out family and friends to share in the joyful occasion with the couples of honor. Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M, affirmed the men and women as “witnesses of a life well-lived.” He asked that God “will continue to pour down happiness and health and blessings for many, many more years.”
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Mary Anne and Frederick Bohn of St. Maximilian Kolbe Parish, Toms River, were married Nov. 8, 1955 in St. Patrick Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Patricia and Vito Azzollini of St. John Parish, Lakehurst, were married May 21, 1955 in Our Lady of Grace Church, Hoboken
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he Bishop’s Anniversary Blessing Masses, which were celebrated this year in St. Mary of the Assumption Cathedral, Trenton, and St. Robert Bellarmine Church, Freehold, Oct. 11 and 25 respectively, recognized nearly 300 couples hailing from Burlington, Mercer, Monmouth and Ocean Counties who marked milestones in their marriages this year. They are listed here and in the pages that follow according to parish. Many couples also responded to The Monitor’s invitation to send in their wedding photos, or a photo from another special occasion they shared together. Their photos can be found in alphabetical order running through page A12. The Monitor takes this opportunity to honor and celebrate the lived examples of love and fidelity that these milestone anniversary couples offer this diocesan community.
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Kim and Robert Bongiorno of St. Elizabeth of Hungary Parish, Avon-By-TheSea, were married June 16, 1990 in St. Frances Cabrini Church, Piscataway
Betty Lou and Carl Baldini of St. Barnabas Parish, Bayville, were married July 24, 1965 in St. Venantius Parish, Orange
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Corpus Christi, Willingboro • Nicholas & Jean Giovine, 50; Jacob & Kathryn Hutchins, 50; Robert J. & Judith A. Forte, 51; Earle & Barbara Hughes, 51; Stephan & Eleanor Nieuenfeldt, 51 Jesus, The Good Shepherd, Riverside • Edwin F. & Cecilia T. Shinn OFS, 63 Our Lady of Perpetual Help, Maple Shade • Domenic J. Marano, Jr. & Wendy A. Stroup Marano, 25 Resurrection, Delran • Richard & Theresa Lacey, 1; Donald & Barbara Bautz, 55; Deacon Daniel & Barbara Meehan 55 Sacred Heart, Mount Holly • Kevin & Margaret Buck, 25; Carlyle & Pearl Clark, 50; William & Katherine Mansfield, 60 Sacred Heart, Riverton • Anna Maria & Manfred Dickersbach, 50; Frank & Mary Ann Herron, 50; Marie Anna & Thomas J. Reinhart, 50 St. Charles Borromeo, Cinnaminson • Joseph A. & Elizabeth A. Jankowski, 50; Jack & Betty Hvizdos, 50; Charlie & Sylvia Barley, 50; Robert & Alice Furbee, 59 St. Francis & Clare, Roebling • Adriano & Elizabeth Marinelli St. Iassac Jogues, Marlton • Thomas & Elizabeth McDonald; 25 David & Mercedes Risso, 25 St. Joan of Arc, Marlton • George & Elizabeth Zink, 50 St. John Neumann, Mount Laurel • John & Carmel Leonard, 50 St. Katharine Drexel, Burlington • Amy Stella & David Vizzini, 1; Joseph & Rose Wallace, 50; George & Agnes Kozub, 50; Mr. & Mrs. Lorenzo Addari, 60 St. Mary, Bordentown • Patricianne & James R. Johnson, 55
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Incarnation-St. James, Trenton • Mary & Anthony Enourato, 50; Giacomo & Giovanna Alessi, 60; Harold & Grace Lanzoni, 60 St. Gregory the Great, Hamilton Square • Edward & Nancy Morin, 1; Benjamin & Andrea Suaco, 25; Nicholas & Geraldine Povio, 50; James & Joan Buckley, 56; Kyran & Lois Dormer, 56 St. Mary of the Assumption Cathedral, Trenton • Ricardo Morales & Aida L. Morales, 25
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Elaine and John Abels of St. Mary Parish, Colts Neck, were married Feb. 1, 2014 in St. Mary Church, Colts Neck
Elaine and Jon Adams, Sr. of Our Lady of SorrowsSt. Anthony Parish, Trenton, were married July 14, 1990 in Holy Cross Church, Trenton
Sylvia and Charles Barley of St. Charles Borromeo Parish, Cinnaminson, were married Sept. 18, 1965 in St. Jude’s Church, Mountaintop, Pa.
Jo and Hank Brickner of St. Aloysius Parish, Jackson, were married July 24, 1965
Teresa and Andrew Barr of St. Clement Parish, Matawan, were married Sept. 14, 1990 in Our Lady Star of the Sea Church, Staten Island, N.Y.
Giovanna and Giacomo Alessi of IncarnationSt. James Parish, Ewing, were married Sept. 25, 1955 in St. James Church, Trenton
Isabel and Robert Amling of St. Catherine Parish, Farmingdale, were married May 15, 1965 in Good Shepherd Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Annette and Gene Bryson of Holy Family Parish, Keyport, were married July 14, 1990 in St. Justin Church, Toms River
Barbara and Donald Bautz of Resurrection Parish, Delran, were married June 4, 1960 in St. Aloysius Church, Oaklyn
Margaret and Kevin Buck of Sacred Heart Parish, Mount Holly, were married Aug. 11, 1990 in St. Joseph Church, Beverly
Ruth and Tony Biele of St. Aloysius Parish, Jackson, were married June 19, 1965 in St. Michael Church, Palisades Park
Mary-Margaret and Ernest Andreoli of St. George Parish, Titusville, were married April, 21, 1990 in St. Magdalen de Pazzi Church, Flemington
Patricia and Claudio Bosa of St. Rose of Lima Parish, Freehold, were married Aug. 27, 1990 in Lady of Sorrow Church, Curitiba, Parana, Brazil
Elizabeth and Raymond Blajda of St. John Parish, Lakehurst, were married June 26, 1965 in Our Lady Queen of Peace Church, North Arlington
Joan and James Buckley of St. Gregory the Great Parish, Hamilton Square, were married July 18, 1959 in St. Hedwig Church, Philadelphia, Pa.
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Rose and Gary Chianese of St. Vincent de Paul Parish, Yardville, were married July 31, 1965 in Holy Angels Church, Hamilton
MaryLou and Charles Burden of St. Leo the Great Parish, Lincroft, were married Sept. 25, 1965 in St. James Church, Red Bank
Blanca and Edwin Chiriboa of Mother of Mercy Parish, Asbury Park, were married June 23, 1990
Deborah and Jason Burket of Our Lady of Sorrows-St. Anthony Parish, Hamilton, were married Oct. 11, 2014 in St. Anthony Church, Hamilton
Catherine and William Coyne of St. Denis Parish, Manasquan, were married Aug. 15, 1965 in St. Paul Cathedral, Pittsburgh, Pa.
Pearl and Carlyle Clark of Sacred Heart Parish, Mount Holly, were married July 31, 1965 in St. George Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Mary and John Burnetsky of St. Veronica Parish, Howell, were married Sept. 17, 1960 in Our Lady of Grace Church, Hoboken
Jane and David Clemens of Our Lady of Sorrows-St. Anthony Parish, Hamilton, were married Aug. 20, 2014 in Our Lady of Sorrows Church, Hamilton
Frances and Jimmy Byrne of St. Elizabeth of Hungary Parish, Avon-By-The-Sea, were married Feb. 13, 1965 in St. Anastasia Church, Teaneck
Maria Carmela and Walter Cucciniello of St. Gabriel Parish, Marlboro, were married June 19, 1990 in St. Patrick’s, Staten Island, N.Y.
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Ascension, Bradley Beach • Richard & Julie Mensel, 54; Joan & George Bachar, 55 Christ the King, Long Branch • Antonio Solar & Miriam Alvarado, 1;
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Nancy and William Conforti of St. Robert Bellarmine Parish, Freehold, were married Sept. 2, 1990 in Our Lady of Guadalupe Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Yvonne and Eugene Cautillo of Visitation Parish, Brick, were married Mar. 28, 1965 in St. Elizabeth of Hungary Church, Linden
Catherine and Howard Crawley, Jr. of St. Robert Bellarmine Parish, Freehold, were married May 19, 1990 in St. Thomas Aquinas Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Susan and James Coleman of St. Mary Parish, Colts Neck, were married June 19, 1965 in St. Catherine of Siena Church, Cincinnati, Ohio
Patricia and Gary Cademartori of St. Mark Parish, Sea Girt, were married Oct. 16, 1965 in St. Andrew Church, Bayonne
Maura Jacinto and Hilario Calvo of St. Joseph Parish, Trenton were married June 28, 2014 in St. Joseph Church, Trenton
Barbara and Michael Cousins of St. Maximilian Kolbe Parish, Toms River, were married Aug. 14, 1965 in St. Aedan Church, Jersey City
Our Lady of Good Counsel, West Trenton • Francis & Patricia Maske, 25 Our Lady of Sorrows-St. Anthony, Hamilton • David & Jane Clemens, 1; George & Patricia Fort, 1; Jason & Deborah Burket, 1; Vincent & Nicole Di Meglio, 1; Jon M. & Elaine M. Adams, Sr., 25; Samuel & Linda Naro, 50 Sacred Heart, Trenton • Geraldine & Joseph Higham, 50 St. Ann, Lawrenceville • Thomas R. & Norma J. Finneran, 50; Barbara & Robert Sopko, 50; Joann & Richard Graja, 50; Paul & Patricia Moran, 50; Eugene & Joanne Farkas, 50 St. David the King, Princeton Junction• James & Maureen Tuohy, 25; Robert A. & Theresa M. Farkas, 50; Stephen P. & Carole A. Oberheim, 50 St. George, Titusville • David & Marie DeBlasio, 1; Ernest & Mary-Margaret Andreoli, 25 St. Hedwig, Trenton • Philip J. & Barbara J. Plumeri, 50; Dr. Chester B. & Eileen Kulak, 50 St. Joseph, Trenton • Maura Jacnlo & Hilario Calvo, 1; Adolfo & Zoila Martinez, 25 St. Paul, Princeton • Darren & Patty Alizio, 25; Mr. & Mrs. Joseph D. Olivieri, 25; Joseph & Marie Russo, 50 St. Raphael-Holy Angels, Hamilton • Robert & Mary Ann Hoch, 50; Robert W. & Janet E. Wassall, 50; Deacon Robert & Charlene Tharp, 50; Richard T. & Joan B. O’Grady, 50; Carl L. & June E. Reinhardt, 60 St. Vincent de Paul, Yardville • Gary & Rose Chianese, 50
Ann-Marie and David DeStefano of St. James Parish, Red Bank, were married Sept. 2, 1990 in Regina Pacis Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Marie and David DeBlasio of St. George Parish, Titusville, were married April 26, 2014 in St. George Church, Titusville
Jeanette and Edward Corrado of St. Aloysius Parish, Jackson, were married May 23, 1965 in Sts. Simon and Jude Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Nola and Philip DeRita of St. Dominic Parish, Brick, were married Oct. 18, 2014 in St. Anthony Church, Hamilton
Patricia and Frank D’Aurizio of St. Francis of Assisi Parish, Brant Beach, were married Oct. 17, 1965 in St. Mary Church, Paterson
Florence and Nicholas DeMayo of St. Aloysius Parish, Jackson, were married Aug. 21, 1965 in St. Thomas Aquinas, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Anna-Maria and Manfred Dickersbach of Sacred Heart Parish, Riverton, were married Aug. 7, 1965 in St. Charles Borromeo Church, Cinnaminson
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Cristobal & Glendy Lopez, 25; Frank & Carol Calabria, 50; Mario & Amelia Flego, 56; Anthony & Mary Cietello, 57 Church of the Nativity, Fair Haven • Shawn & Karen Ann Lenahan, 25 Holy Cross, Rumson • Jeffrey & Tatiana Salmon, 1 Holy Family, Keyport • Mr. & Mrs. Gene Bryson, 25; Michael & Frances Mazzaro, 50; Albert & Ann Marie Fuchs, 60 Holy Innocents, Neptune • Robert & Joanne Kaden, 50; Thomas & Regina Donohue, 60; Walter & Shirley Winrow, 60 Mother of Mercy, Asbury Park • Wanda & Alex Rodriquez, 1; Edwin & Blanca Chiriboga, 25; Gary & Diane Horbacz, 25; Daniel B. & Laurlee Ann Schumann, 58 Our Lady of Perpetual Help - St. Agnes, Atlantic Highlands • Thomas & Louise Welch, 25 St. Benedict, Holmdel • Richard & Marianne Bunge, 25; David & Suzanne Gestrich, 25; Richard & Nancy Francese, 50; Joseph & Kathleen Nestor, 25; Victor & Barbara Jelagin, 50 St. Catharine, Holmdel • Joseph & Kathleen Falci, 25; Benjamin & Barbara Tirabassi, 50; Lawrence & Ann Fascetti, 65 St. Catharine-St. Margaret, Spring Lake • Mr. & Mrs. James Healy, 25; Pam & Bill King, 25; Elizabeth & Richard Chatfield, 50; Bernard & Angela Moore, 50 St. Catherine of Siena, Farmingdale • Andrew & Mary Bott, 25; Dean & Annette Wright, 25; Anthony & Sheila InFante, 50; Isabel & Robert Amling, 50 St. Catherine, Middletown • Robert & Judith Hurley, 50; Eugene & Earline Cutolo, 52 St. Clement, Matawan • Andrew & Teresa Barr, 25; Thomas & Patricia Carew, 50 St. Denis, Manasquan • Thomas & Kathleen Jankoski, 25; Catherine O’Connor Coyne & William J. Coyne, 50;
Regina and Thomas Donohue of Holy Innocents Parish, Neptune were married Feb. 19, 1955
Mary and Anthony Enourato of IncarnationSt. James Parish, Ewing, were married Oct. 24, 1965 in St. James Church, Trenton
Angie and Rocco Ferretti of St. Dominic Parish, Brick, were married April 28, 1957 in St. Elizabeth Church, Linden
Christine and William Fischer of St. Veronica Parish, Howell, were married Sept. 22, 1990 in St. Veronica Church, Howell
Elizabeth and John Evans of St. Joseph Church, Keyport, were married July 17, 1965 in Sacred Heart of Mary Church, Jermyn, Pa.
Jane and Peter Gallagher of St. John Parish, Lakehurst, were married May 21, 1960 in Holy Name of Jesus Church, East Orange
Marie and Norbert Gambuzza of St. Leo the Great Parish, Lincroft, were married Oct. 16, 1965 in St. John Church, Guttenberg
Laura and Paul Fisker of St. Luke Parish, Toms River, were married Oct. 9, 1965 in St. Rocco Church, Newark
Ameila and Mario Flego of Christ the King Parish, Long Branch, were married June 13, 1959 in St. Ignatius Loyola Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Kathleen and Richard Eyerman of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish, Whiting, were married Sept. 21, 1963 in St. Bartholomew Church, East Brunswick
Alice and Robert Furbee of St. Charles Borremeo Parish, Cinnaminson, were married Oct. 20, 1956 in St. Joan of Arc Church, Philadelphia
Bernadette and Raymond Garguilo of St. Luke Parish, Toms River, were married July 21, 1990 in St. Charles Church, Staten Island, N.Y.
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Anne and Karl Fahringer of St. Veronica Parish, Howell, were married June 26, 1965 in St. Joseph Church, Hanover, Pa.
Theresa and Robert Farkas of St. David the King Parish, Princeton Junction, were married Aug. 28, 1965 in St. Hedwig Church, Trenton
JoAnn and Charles Donnarumma of St. Maximilian Kolbe Parish, Toms River, were married Mar. 3, 1990 in St. Joseph the Carpenter Church, Roselle
Nancy and Brian Donnelly of St. Joseph Parish, Toms River, were married Dec. 1, 1990 in St. Lawrence Church, Chester
Maureen and Neil Floor of St. Luke Parish, Toms River, were married Aug. 28, 1965 in St. Rose Church, Belmar
Judith and Robert Forte of Corpus Christi Parish, Willingboro, were married May 1, 1965 in Corpus Christi Church, Willingboro
Carol Jean and Jack Federico of St. Aloysius Parish, Jackson, were married April 26, 1964 in Regina Pacis Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Jean and Nicholas Giovine of Corpus Christi Parish, Willingboro, were married July 3, 1965 in All Saint Church, Jersey City
Marianne and Arthur Girgus of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish, Whiting, were married May 7, 1960 in St. Mary of the Assumption Church, Elizabeth
Ann Marie and Albert Fuchs Jr. of Holy Family, Keyport, were married April 23, 1955 in St. Michael Church, Union
Lindsay and Jordan Goldberg of St. Thomas More Parish, Manalapan, were married Dec. 5, 2014 in St. Paul Church, Princeton
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CELEBRATING TOGETHER • Couples marking one, 25, 50 or more years of marriage filled St. Robert Bellarmine Church, Freehold, for the Oct. 25 liturgy. Ken Falls photo
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elebrating two Masses for married couples marking milestone anniversaries in the Diocese, Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., thanked them for their fidelity and the commitment they made to one another in Christ through the Sacrament of Matrimony. “What a great joy it is for me as your Bishop to celebrate you, to celebrate your married life, to celebrate your commitment, to celebrate your great fidelity and the grace that God has filled your life with,” Bishop O’Connell said to the more than 200 couples from Monmouth and Ocean Counties who gathered for the Anniversary Blessing Mass that he celAFTER ALL THESE YEARS • St. Robert Bellarmine parishioners, ebrated Oct. 25 in St. Robert Bellarmine Richard and Pam Pezzullo, renew Church, Freehold. The first 2015 Annitheir vows after 25 years of marriage versary Blessing Mass was celebrated by during the Oct. 25 Mass held in the the Bishop for more than 70 couples from Freehold parish. Ken Falls photo Burlington and Mercer Counties Oct. 11 in St. Mary of the Assumption Cathedral, Trenton. Sponsored by the diocesan Department of Youth, Marriage and Family Life, the Masses recognized couples marking wedding anniversaries of one, 25, 50 or more years of married life. In the company of their families, fellow parishioners and friends, the couples renewed their vows before Bishop O’Connell. Local priests joined Bishop O’Connell at the altar and were on hand to greet the couples individually and offer them a blessing at the end of Mass.
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Among the concelebrating priests in the Cathedral celebration were Msgr. Joseph Roldan, Cathedral rector; Msgr. Michael J. Walsh, episcopal vicar for Mercer County, and Father Phillip C. Pfleger, episcopal vicar of Burlington County. In St. Robert Bellarmine Parish, concelebrating priests included Msgr. Sam Sirianni, pastor of St. Robert Bellarmine Parish, and Father Stanley P. Lukaszewski, whose appointment as episcopal vicar of Ocean County will become effective Jan 1. The Bishop, in his homilies, tied the day’s Scripture readings into the theme of marriage and offered poignant messages to the couples. For the Burlington and Mercer County couples Oct. 11, the Bishop reflected on the faith values that had stood the test of time of more than two millennia. He said, “We see people getting married in all sorts of places, on beaches, on cruise ships, jumping out of airplanes or even having their wedding ceremony in Las Vegas with ‘Elvis’ himself as the minister.” “You, however, decided to get married in the Church because you understand your marriage as a Sacrament, one of those seven outward signs instituted by Christ to give grace. You understood your marriage as something See Sacrament • A-6
rings at the renewal of vows as Bishop O’Connell blesses them, saying, “May these rings continue to be a symbol of their true faith in each other and always remind them of their love.” LOWER RIGHT: One of the more than 200 couples in St. Robert Bellarmine Parish, Freehold, seal their long-lasting love with a kiss at the Oct. 25 Mass.
PROMISE ONCE AGAIN • The anniversary couples in the Cathedral joined hands to renew their wedding vows before their families and friends. Craig Pittelli photo
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not just between the two of you, but between the two of you and God. That is why we say that the Sacrament of Marriage is a covenant; it is a covenant between you and God. “Perhaps there is a lesson in the Gospel for married couples,” stated Bishop O’Connell. “What do we hold on to? What do we refuse to give up? What keeps the grace of this sacrament in check? What is that ‘one thing more’ that even after 25 or 50 years, the Lord is whispering to us to let go of?” “Jesus has commanded us to love as he has loved…He loved until it cost him. He loved all the way to the cross and death. That is love. If he had stopped loving before Calvary then it would not have been love at all. But love, in the sense that Jesus means, is loving even when it means undergoing suffering for the sake of the other. That is real love, loving for the good of the other.” For the couples at the Oct. 25 celebration in Freehold, the Bishop recounted the Gospel which told of Jesus performing a miracle and restoring the sight of Bartimaeus, a blind beggar. The Bishop said, “The world has known Jesus for 2,000 years. We, as Catholics, have known him all our lives since our Baptism. As we have grown over the years, we have connected with Jesus: through our parents and family; through religious education; through the sacraments; through our marriages; through the Church; through our faith. It is to the altar that we bring our joys, our sorrows, our needs, our prayers, the things that help us to face life in this world. From this altar we receive Christ and take him out those doors into our marriages, our families, our communities, our workplace, our lives.”
SACRED COVENANT • Using a mix of Scriptural insight, topical humor and sage advice, Bishop O’Connell reminded the couples in his homilies that “marriage is a Sacrament… between the two of you and God.” Craig Pittelli photos
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LIVING SIGN • Bishop O’Connell blesses couples married 25 years, in St. Mary of the Assumption Cathedral, noting their long unions are “a sign that reflects the union of Christ with his Church.” Craig Pittelli photo “As we look back over one year of marriage, 25 years of marriage, 50 years of marriage or more, faith has made a difference, has made married life better, fuller, richer and more satisfying. Through it all, faith has saved us,” said Bishop O’Connell. “Today, we celebrate and bless you the married couples of the Diocese of Trenton…You are the witnesses of a life well-lived; it is our hope and our prayer for you today that God will continue to pour down happiness and health and blessings for many, many more years.” The Bishop asked the anniversary couples to stand, face each other and join hands as he led them in the renewal of their marriage vows. The stream of emotions was palpable as the women and men, some with tears cascading down their faces and oth-
LIVES OF SERVICE • During the Oct. 11 Mass in Trenton, Bishop O’Connell told couples celebrating 50 or more years of marriage they “have lived their vocation of love and service to their families, their communities and the Church.” Craig Pittelli photo
REMEMBER WHEN: Slideshows of the original wedding photos from this year’s couples
GOD’S GRACES UPON YOU • Msgr. Joseph Roldan, rector of St. Mary of the Assumption Cathedral, Trenton, imparts blessings on a couple following the Oct. 11 Mass held there. Craig Pittelli photo
ers with warm, knowing smiles, renewed their vows to their spouses. Asking the couples to touch each other’s wedding bands, the Bishop blessed the rings saying, “May these rings continue to be a symbol of their true faith in each other and always remind them of their love.” As they did on their wedding days, the couples shared a kiss much to the happiness of their family and friends who looked on with love. As the Liturgy of the Eucharist unfolded, the couples participated in the Presentation of the Gifts and during the concluding rites, each milestone group was called separately to stand for the Bishop’s blessing. To the couples marking one-year anniversaries, the Bishop prayed, “Bless these couples and continue to be their strength and their joy as they say yes to each day and to the vocation of marriage. May they be a sign of your presence for their family and friends.” Blessing the couples celebrating silver anniversaries, the Bishop said, “Bless these, your sons and daughters as they celebrate 25 years of marriage; a sign that reflects the union of Christ with his Church.” To those married 50 years or more, the Bishop offered, “They give thanks for the blessings you have given them as they have lived their vocation of love and service to their families, their communities and the Church.” At the conclusion of the two Masses the couples were invited to receive individual blessings by priests in attendance. Afterward the couples joined their families for a reception where they enjoyed the opportunity to share loving memories from years of married life and watch the photographic slideshows of the anniversary couples on their wedding days that
were specially created for the occasion. Peg Hensler, associate director, Department of Youth, Marriage and Family Life and coordinator of Marriage Ministries and Natural Family Planning, said, “I am always so pleased to see the large number of couples who’ve reached the milestone of 50 years of marriage or
more, and the reaction of the assembly as they are recognized for their steadfast commitment to each other. The enthusiastic, sustained applause at the Mass on October 25 for the 50+ anniversary couples demonstrated how much we all appreciate and need these true witnesses of lifelong marriage.”
FIRST ANNIVERSARY BLESSINGS • Msgr. Sam Sirianni, pastor of St. Robert Bellarmine Parish, blesses Nola and Philip DeRita from Our Lady of Sorrows-St. Anthony Parish, Hamilton, following the Oct. 25 Mass held in the Freehold church. Ken Falls photo
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or many of the married couples who took part in the Diocese’s Anniversary Blessing Masses Oct. 11 and 25, the opportunity to gather with Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., and have their marriages recognized and blessed made for cherished memories and an affirmation of their love and fidelity. Some shared reflections on their years together and even had advice for couples contemplating marriage. Earle and Barbara Hughes of Corpus Christi Parish, Willingboro, spoke of how meaningful it was to receive assurances from the spiritual leader of the Diocese in this “51st-and-a-half” year of their marriage. The couple, who proclaimed the First Reading during the Mass in St. Mary of the Assumption Cathedral, said they had marked their 25th anniversary year in the same way. Saying they felt “blessed and honored” to be present, they recalled the blessings they have received throughout the decades. “We’ve experienced so much in our lives,” said Barbara, counting among those blessings her five children, now between the ages of 50 and 35 and foster children as well. Their advice to those about to follow in their footsteps: walk together in faith. “That’s what brought us here today,” said Earle. “We wouldn’t have made it without faith. It helped us get where we are today.” Through everything, they both said, the Church has been at the center of life.
PROCLAIMING THE WORD • Ann Marie and David DeStefano, parishioners in St. James, Red Bank, who have been married for 25 years, served as readers at the Oct. 25 Mass. Ken Falls photo “It’s all about faith,” Barbara said. “That’s what kept us going, stretched us until we squeaked, pushed us to the limits and saw us through.” Their fellow parishioners, Nick and Jean Giovine, offered similar sentiments. “There have been so many trials and tribulations,” Jean recalled, adding “if you didn’t have faith, how would you survive?” “And, without faith,” Nick remarked, “you wouldn’t have patience.”
The Giovines noted that they see the Church sending out strong messages in support of marriage by way of the recent visit of Pope Francis to the World Meeting of Families and the Synod of Bishops in Rome. The Church, they agreed, is going in the right direction. Married 25 years, Dave and Mercedes Rizzo of St. Isaac Jogues Parish, Marlton, came as a family to the Anniversary Blessing Mass, bringing their four grown children – Brendan, Collin, Danielle and Shannon. The couple expressed real joy in celebrating with so many long-married couples. “It gives us something to look up to,” said Dave. They shared how important faith has been from the very beginning in their courtship and their marriage as they nurtured their long-term commitment to each other. By way of example, Mercedes reached back to their Pre-Cana preparations. In Pre-Cana, they presented scenarios that we might encounter including a child with a disability. We didn’t think it would be us,” she said, noting that Danielle has autism. “It turned out to be prophetic,” said her husband, who added that in a marriage built upon faith, the couple has a “better chance of weathering storms.” Speaking of those who came to the Mass, Dave referred back to the homily in which Bishop O’Connell spoke of marriage as a reflection of the covenant between God and mankind. “We see ourselves as couples with the love of God in com-
mon. It’s a binding force.” First anniversary couple Debbie Macalad and Jason Burkett of Our Lady of Sorrows-St. Anthony Parish, Hamilton, were happy to talk about the role faith plays in their marriage. “It’s what we both have in common; it’s what unites us,” said Debbie. Jason’s advice to newlyweds like themselves: “No matter what, stick with it.” Similarly, newlyweds Nola and Philip De Rita of St. Dominic Parish, Brick, reflected on what they have learned in their one year of married life. “I think we’ve learned how to pray with each other, how to become more patient and sit down and talk about things, let faith be our guide,” Nola suggested. ‘If you make God the center of your life, there is nothing you can’t accomplish. “The family is the backbone; it’s just crucial,” Philip added, as he looked around the church and the many examples of successful marriages standing before him. “It’s inspiring and joyous and something we aspire to.” The De Ritas advise young couples to “Be open to the Holy Spirit.” “Things change and as long as you are willing to let the Spirit move you, it’s all good,” Philip said. Married for 65 years, Nina and Fritz Rodgers of St. Rose of Lima Parish, Freehold, reflected on the significance of having a faith-filled marriage. “Our Lord has been there every moment, in
hard times, in bad times, in tragedies, it’s everything – our faith,” Nina emphatically offered. Her husband advised, “Never go to bed angry, and never stay angry at one another.” Ann-Marie and David DeStefano, who serve as youth ministers in St. James Parish, Red Bank, concurred. “A big blessing in our lives is that we minister together, we are catechists together, we are youth ministers together,” Ann-Marie acknowledged. “We serve God together and that strengthens our marriage.” After joking that his wife took his answer, David took a more serious tone, and offered this advice for couples: “Open your heart, let God guide you. He’ll never let you down.” Calling to mind the recent World Meeting of Families in Philadelphia and the Synod on the Family, Ann-Marie noted the importance of the family in the world today. “The family is the microcosm of the community-at-large; it’s the microcosm of what the Kingdom of God is supposed to be.” While each couple recommended various secrets to marital success, two things were prevalent among their suggestions – keep Christ at the center of your marriage and keep a sense of humor. “Always listen to your wife,” Al Petruccio of St. Robert Bellarmine Parish said of his wife of 57 years, Marie. In turn, Marie said, “And always love your husband.”
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Joseph & Patricia Tully, 50; John & Marguerite Lewis, 51; Robert J. & Claire B. Healy, 57 St. Dorothea, Eatontown • Louis & Rosemary Dienes, 50 St. Elizabeth, Avon-by-the-Sea • Robert & Kim Bongiarno, 25; Frances & Jimmy Byrne, 50 St. Gabriel, Marlboro • Michelle & Michael Leonard, 25; Walter & Maria Cucciniello, 25; Denise & Gary Zemanovich, 25; Patricia & William Kluge, 25; Margaret & Walter Weadock, 51; Francis & Marian Gracon, 51 St. James, Red Bank • David & Ann Marie DeStefano, 25; Marie & Dominic A. Trocchia, 66 St. John the Baptist, Allentown • Robert & Patricia Gervasoni, 50; John & Gabrielle Toman, 54 St. Joseph, Keyport • John & Elizabeth Evans, 50 St. Leo the Great, Lincroft • Henry & Barbara Debski, 50; Norbert & Marie Gambuzza, 50; Charles & Mary Louise Burden, 50; William & Patricia Kohl, 55 St. Mark, Sea Girt • Gary & Patricia Cademartori, 50; Bill & Kathy Giunco, 50 St. Mary, Colts Neck • Elaine & John Abels, 1; Christopher & Linda Pancila, 1; Michael & Laura Discenza, 25; Peter A. & Maria A. Stigi, 50; James E. & Susan L. Coleman, 50; Carol & Wally Bennett, 50; Theodore & Gloria Ziemienski, 60 St. Michael, West End • John & Patricia Valente, 25; Patricia & Fred Scerbo, 50; Matthew & Bridget Gowen, 60 St. Robert Bellarmine, Freehold • Clayton & Cara Scacco, 1; Nancy & William Conforti, 25; Catherine & Howard Crawley, Jr., 25; Lauren & Pellegrino LoFaro, 25; Richard Gonzalez & Yvonne M. Rodriquez-Gonzalez, 25; Jeanne & Robert Marinello, 25; Rosemarie & Anthony
Janis and Gabriel Iacino of St. Mary of the Lake Parish, Lakewood, were married Nov. 7, 1964 in St. Finbar Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Mary Ann and Robert Hoch of Sacred Heart Parish, Trenton, were married Oct. 23, 1965 in St. Raphael Parish, Hamilton
JoAnn and Richard Graja of St. Ann Parish, Lawrenceville, were married Aug. 21, 1965 in St. Raphael Church, Hamilton Twp.
Diane and Gary Horbacz of Mother of Mercy Parish, Asbury Park, were married Aug. 20, 1990 in St. Barnabas Church, Bayville
Cornelia and John Hargrave of St. Mary of the Lake Parish, Lakewood, were married April 20, 1958 in St. Gregory Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Bernadette and Kenneth Hughes of St. Dominic Parish, Brick, were married April 24, 1965 in St. Francs De Chantal Church, Bronx, N.Y.
Anna and Daniel Hartmann of St. Theresa Parish, Little Egg Harbor, were married April 14, 1950 in Sacred Heart Church, Jersey City
Kathryn and Jacob Hutchins of Corpus Christi Parish, Willingboro, were married Jan. 8, 1965 in St. Veronica Church, Delair
Maria and Leroy Hill of St. Rose of Lima Parish, Freehold, were married May 5, 1990 in CathedralMagistral de Alcala de Henares, Madrid, Spain
Marian and Francis Gracon of St. Gabriel Parish, Marlboro, were married June 6, 1964 in Sacred Heart Church, Jeannette, Pa.
Sheila and Anthony Infante of St. Catherine of Siena Parish, Farmingdale, were married Aug. 28, 1965 in St. Joseph Church, Keyport
Geraldine and Frank Jackson of Epiphany Parish, Brick, were married May 29, 1955 in St. Ann Church, Keansburg
Suzanne and Paul Janco of St. Theresa Parish, Little Egg Harbor, were married April 24, 1965 in St. Stephen Church, Perth Amboy
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Yvonne and Richard Gonzalez of St. Robert Bellarmine Parish, Freehold, were married May 27, 1990 in St. Benedict Church, Bronx, N.Y.
Carole and Francis “Dave” Gordon of St. Mary Parish, Barnegat, were married May 10, 1958 in St. Michael Church, Cranford
Claire and Robert Healy of St. Denis Parish, Manasquan, were married Oct. 11, 1958 in Blessed Sacrament Church, Elizabeth
Bridget and Matthew Gowen of St. Denis Parish, Manasquan, were married Dec. 31, 1955 in St. MaryStar of the Sea Church, Bayonne
Barbara and Earle Hughes of Corpus Christi Parish Willingboro, were married June 13, 1963 in St. Thomas Aquinas Chapel, Columbia, Mo.
Maryanne and James Healy of St. CatharineSt. Margaret Parish, Spring Lake, were married Aug. 25, 1990 in St. Catharine Church, Spring Lake
Kathleen and Thomas Jankoski of St. Denis, Manasquan, were married May 19, 1990 in St. Elizabeth, Avon-by-the-Sea
Ann Marie and Frank Hunt of St. Rose Parish, Belmar, were married Oct. 6 1990 in St. Elizabeth Church, Avon-bythe-Sea
Mary Ann and Frank Herron of Sacred Heart Parish, Riverton, were married Oct. 30, 1965 in St. Edmond Church, Philadelphia, Pa.
Betty and Joseph Jankowski of St. Charles Borromeo Parish, Cinnaminson were married May 8, 1965 in St. Charles Borromeo Church, Cinnaminson
Judith M. and Robert Hurley of St. Catherine Parish, Middletown, were married Oct. 23, 1965 in St. Andrew Church, Bayonne
Teresa and Frank Jasinski of St. Luke Parish, Toms River, were married May 19, 1990 in St. Ann Church, Keansburg
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Caroline and Matthew Kuhn of Sacred Heart Parish, Bay Head, were married Nov. 27, 1965 in St. Michael Church, West End
Patricia and Robert Jenkins of St. Rose Parish, Belmar, were married Oct. 30, 1965 in St. Michael Church, Union
Joy and Ronald Lieberman of St. Joseph Parish, Toms River, were married May 1, 1965 in St. Bernadette Church, Parlin
Dr. Chester and Eileen Kulak of St. Hedwig Parish, Trenton, were married June 26, 1965 in St. Hedwig, Trenton
Patricianne and James R. Johnson of St. Mary Parish, Bordentown, were married Aug. 6, 1960 in Sts. Peter and Paul Church, Trenton
Joanne and Robert Kaden of Holy Innocents Parish, Neptune, were married May 8, 1965 in Assumption Church, Roselle Park
Marilyn and Edward Kent of St. Theresa Parish, Little Egg Harbor, were married Oct. 9, 1965 in St. Katherine of Siena Church, Philadelphia, Pa.
Michelle and Michael Leonard of St. Gabriel Parish, Marlboro, were married June 2, 1990 in St. Mary Church, Rahway
Lauren and Pellegrino LoFaro of St. Robert Bellarmine Parish, Freehold, were married Sept. 8, 1990 in Regina Pacis Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Rosemarie and William Kunz of St. Francis of Assisi Parish, Brant Beach, were married Nov. 30, 1965 in Our Lady of Sorrows Church, Garfield
Lucille and Dan Longo of St. Mary Parish, Barnegat, were married June 30, 1990 in St. Philomena Church, Livingston
Theresa and Richard Lacey of Resurrection Parish, Delran, were married June 21, 2014 in Holy Name Church, Delran
Valinotti, 25; Rita & Vincent Marrano, 50; Daniel & Joan Olmizzi, 50; Albert & Marie Petruccio, 57 St. Rose, Belmar • Francis & Ann Marie Hunt, 25; Jody & Loretta Huss, 25; Robert & Patricia Jenkins, 50 St. Rose of Lima, Freehold • Antonio & Cinthia B. Garcia, 1; Calixto & Floriberta Huerta, 1; Mauro & Alma Escobar, 1; Maria & Leroy Hill, 25; Claudio & Patricia Bosa, 25; Thomas & Barbara Zakrzewski, 50; Fritz & Nina Rodgers, 65th St. Thomas More, Manalapan • Jordan & Lindsay Goldberg, 1; Richard & Janice M. Vanderbrouck, 50; Arthur & Nora Lee Schaufler, 50; Richard & Eleanore Tomkovich, 50; Ann & Nicholas Sciarrillo, 50 St. Veronica, Howell • William & Christine Fischer, 25; Linda & Walter Przybylski, 50; Karl & Anne Fahringer, 50; John & Alice Clark, 51; James & Edna Rooney, 51; Robert & Barbara Yuro, 53; John J. & Mary A. Burnetsky, 55 St. William the Abbot, Howell • Susan & Kevin Wiemken, 25; Joanne & Francis C. Scheideler, Sr., 50
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Patricia and William Kluge of St. Gabriel Parish, Marlboro, were married Dec. 8, 1990 in St. Columba Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Wendy and Domenic Marano of Our Lady of Perpetual Help Parish, Maple Shade, were married May 5, 1990 in First Baptist Church, Doylestown, Pa.
Laura and John Laurencelle of St. Aloysius Parish, Jackson, were married Aug. 1, 2014 in St. Aloysius Church, Jackson
Alberta and Wallace Kowalak of St. Aloysius Parish, Jackson, were married Sept. 25, 1965 in St. Anthony Church, Union City
MaryAnn and Joseph Lucia of St. Luke Parish, Toms River, were married Feb. 6, 1960 in St. James Church, Newark
Grace and Harold Lanzoni of Incarnation-St. James Parish, Ewing, were married Nov. 5, 1955 in St. James Church, Trenton
Pam and Bill King of St. CatharineSt. Margaret Parish, Spring Lake, were married Dec. 1, 1990 in Our Lady Mercy Parish, Park Ridge
Patricia and John LaVigne, Sr., of St. Justin Parish, Toms River, were married Oct. 23, 1965 in St. Joseph Church, Keyport
Patricia and Francis Maske of Our Lady of Good Counsel, West Trenton, were married Sept. 8, 1990 in Incarnation Church, Ewing
Michelle and Robert Mazur of St. Luke Parish, Toms River, were married June, 21, 2015 in St. Luke Church, Toms River
Elizabeth and Adriano Marinelli of Sts. Francis and Clare Parish, Roebling, were married April 24, 1965 in Sacred Heart Church, Mt. Ephraim
Francis and Michael Mazzaro of Holy Family Parish, Keyport, were married May 22, 1965 in Holy Rosary Church, S. Beach, Staten Island, N.Y.
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Linda & Iggy Antico, 50;Tony & Ruth Biele, 50; Nicholas & Florence De Mayo, 50; William & Geraldine Baird, 50; James & Peggy Mulvehil, 50; Giacomo & Carol Federico, 51; Andrew & Beatrice Bobotko, 62 St. Barnabas, Bayville • Betty Lou & Carl Baldini, 50; George & Connie Swanson, 50; Raymond & Jean Stenger, 51 St. Dominic, Brick • Kevin & Melissa McQuade, 1; Philip & Nola De Rita, 1; Michael & Leslie Curren, 1; Joseph & Rosemary Amendola, 50; Mary Lou & Natale Candido, 50; Anthony & Angelina Pettinari, 50; Kenneth & Bernadette Hughes, 50; Rocco & Angie Ferretti, 58 St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, Whiting • Barbara & Martin Newcombe, 50; Alfred & Patricia Zipoli, 50; Kathleen & Richard Eyerman, 52; Eugene & Alwine Mele, 52; Marianne & Arthur Girgus, 55; Richard & Margaret Grenville, 55; Victor & Bernice Kuz, 58; Joseph & Marjorie Papp, 65 St. Francis of Assisi, Brant Beach • William & Rosemarie Kunz, 50; Patricia & Frank D’Aurizio, 50 St. John, Lakehurst • Elizabeth & Raymond Blajda, 50; Peter & Jane Gallagher, 55; Stephen & Patricia Scribellito, 59; Nancy P. & Frank J. Zemo, 59; Vito & Patricia Azzollini, 60; Thaddeus & Joan Rebain, 64; Charles & Eva Grosso, 64 St. Joseph, Toms River • Mark & Susanne Salerno, 1; Angel & Teresa Castobal, 1; Victor & Merli Gonzalez, 1; Leopoldo & Nery Irineo, 1; Francisco & Fausta Castro, 1; Evelyn & Anthony DeSent, 25; Nancy & Brian Donnelly, 25; Joy & Ronald Lieberman, 50; Francis & Kathleen Burbage, 50; Charles & Susan Walton, 55 St. Justin, Toms River • Pat & John LaVigne, 50 St. Luke, Toms River • John & Kathleen Healy, 1; Frank & Teresa Jasinski, 25; Bernadette & Raymond Garguilo, 25; Anthony J. & Estelle J. Toscano, 50;
Angela and Bernard Moore of St. CatharineSt. Margaret Parish, Spring Lake, were married Feb. 27, 1965 in Sacred Heart Cathedral, Newark
Linda and Samuel Naro of Our Lady of SorrowsSt. Anthony Parish, Hamilton, were married Sept. 4. 1965
Eleanor and Stephan Neuenfeldt of Corpus Christi Parish, Willingboro, were married Sept. 4, 1965 in St. Cecilia Church, Pennsauken
Aida and Ricardo Morales of Cathedral of St. Mary of the Assumption, Trenton, were married May 26, 1990 in Cathedral of St. Mary of the Assumption, Trenton
Geraldine and Nicholas Povio of St. Gregory the Great Parish, Hamilton Square, were married Dec. 27, 1965 in St. Joachim Church, Trenton
Carole and Stephen Oberheim of St. David the King Parish, Princeton Junction, were married Oct. 9, 1965 in St. Sebastian Church, Woodside, N.Y.
Patricia and Paul Moran of St. Ann Parish, Lawrenceville, were married June 19, 1965
Nancy and Ed Morin of St. Gregory the Great Parish, Hamilton Square, were married Aug. 9 2014 in St. Mary Church, Westfield, Mass.
Peggy and Jack Pongracz of St. Mary Parish, Barnegat, were married Aug. 13, 1960 in St. Stephen Church, Passaic
Linda and Walter Przybylski of St. Veronica Parish, Howell, were married Oct. 2, 1965 in Our Lady of all Souls Church, E. Orange
June and Carl Reinhardt of St. Raphael-Holy Angels Parish, Hamilton, were married Oct. 1, 1955 in Annunciation Church, Chicago, Ill.
Mr. and Mrs. Joseph D. Olivieri of St. Paul Parish, Princeton, were married June 2, 1990
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Antoinette and Floyd Murray of St. Maximilian Kolbe Parish, Toms River, were married June 28, 1958 in Our Lady of the Most Holy Rosary Church, Perth Amboy
Barbara and Deacon Dan Meehan of Resurrection Parish, Delran, were married Oct. 29, 1960 in St. Martin of Tours Church, Philadelphia, Pa.
Maria (Sue) and Robert Mignemi of St. Aloysius Parish, Jackson, were married Nov. 6, 1965 in St. Frances de Chantel Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Angie and Anthony Pettinari of St. Dominic Parish, Brick, were married Oct. 9, 1965 in St. Elizabeth of Hungary Church, Linden
Peggy and James Mulvehill of St. Aloysius Parish, Jackson, were married July 10, 1965 in St. Michael Church, Monroe
Roberta and Donald Rissmeyer of St. Mary Parish, Barnegat, were married May 22, 1965 in St. Mary Mother of Jesus Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Pamela and Richard Pezzullo of St. Robert Bellarmine Parish, Freehold, were married July 7, 1990
Betty and Ralph Mutarelli of Visitation Parish, Brick, were married May 29, 1965 in St. Matthew Church, Edison
Marie and Thomas Reinhart of Sacred Heart Parish, Riverton, were married Oct. 2, 1965 in Corpus Christi Church, Willingboro
Barbara and Philip Plumeri of St. Hedwig Parish, Trenton, were married Nov. 27, 1965 in St. Hedwig Church, Trenton
Wanda and Alexander Rodriquez of Mother of Mercy Parish, Asbury Park, were married Sept. 6, 2014 in Mother of Mercy Parish, Asbury Park
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Joanne and Francis Scheideler, Sr. of St. William the Abbot Parish, Howell, were married May 15, 1965 in St. Francis Church, Ridgefield Park
Edna and James Rooney of St. Veronica Parish, Howell, were married Nov. 7, 1964 in St. John Church, Bronx, N.Y.
Alice and Robert Schildknecht of St. Maximilian Kolbe Parish, Toms River, were married Aug. 20, 1955 in St. Mary Church, Nutley
Gail and Michael Ryniec of Assumption Parish, New Egypt, were married Oct. 13, 1990 in St. Mary Church, South Amboy
Diane and Edward Steiniger of St. Maximilian Kolbe Parish, Toms River, were married Sept. 25, 1965 in St. Angela Merici Church, Bronx, N.Y.
Cecilia T. and Edwin F. Shinn of Jesus the Good Shepherd Parish, Riverside, were married Sept. 20, 1952 in St. Peter Church, Riverside
Tatiana and Jeffrey Salmon of St. Rose Parish, Belmar, were married July 11, 2014 in Cathedral of St. Mary of the Assumption, Trenton
Lee and Sara Shipman of St. Luke Parish, Toms River, were married June 19, 1965 in St. Anthony Church, Charleston, W.V.
Patricia and Fred Scerbo of St. Michael Parish, West End, were married June 27, 1965 in St. Joseph Church, Jersey City
Noralee and Arthur Schaufler of St. Thomas More Parish, Manalapan, were married July 3, 1965 in Our Lady of Lourdes, Mountainside
Barbara and Ben Tirabassi of St. Catharine Parish, Holmdel, were married June 15, 1965 in Immaculate Conception Church, Montclair
Andrea and Benjamin Suaco of St. Gregory the Great Parish, Hamilton Square, were married May 26, 1990 in Church of the Guardian Angel, New York, N.Y. Kathryn (Bonnie) and Charles (Buddy) Suhoskey of Epiphany Parish, Brick, were married April 4, 1964 in St. Ignatius Church, Kingston, Pa.
Barbara and Robert Sopko of St. Ann Parish, Lawrenceville, were married Nov. 14, 1965 in St. Mary of the Assumption Cathedral, Trenton
Gabrielle and John Toman of St. John the Baptist Parish, Allentown, were married May 27, 1961 in Sts. Joachim and Anne Church, Queens Village, N.Y.
Eleanore and Richard Tomkovich of St. Thomas More Parish, Manalapan, were married Aug. 22, 1965 in St. Casimir Church, Newark
Maria and Peter Stigi of St. Mary Parish, Colts Neck, were married Oct. 17, 1965 in Our Lady of Pompeii Catholic Church, N.Y.
Angela and Joseph Sheridan of St. Luke Parish, Toms River, were married Nov. 20, 1965
Charlene and Robert Tharp of St. RaphaelHoly Angels Parish, Hamilton, were married Oct. 2, 1965 in Incarnation Church, Ewing
Dolores and James Stevens of Assumption Church, New Egypt, were married Oct. 30, 1965 in Immaculate Conception Church, Trenton
Annabella and Nicholas Sciarrillo of St. Thomas More Parish, Manalapan, were married Nov. 6, 1965 in St. Rose of Lima Church, Newark
Carol and Casey Sadlowski of St. Mary of the Lake Parish, Lakewood, were married Nov. 6, 1965 in St. Matthew Church, Edison
Susanne and Mark Salerno of St. Joseph Parish, Toms River, were married April 12, 2014 in St. Gertrude Church, Island Heights
Joyce and Raymond Staub, Jr. of Assumption Parish, New Egypt, were married Nov. 13, 1965 in St. Hedwig Church, Trenton
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Lee Michael & Sara Shipman, 50; Angela Anna & Joseph Patrick Sheridan, 50; Paul & Laura Fisher, 50; Neil & Maureen Floor, 50; Joseph & Mary Ann Lucia, 55 St. Luke, Toms River • Robert & Michelle Mazur, 1 St. Mary of the Lake, Lakewood • Casimir & Carol Sadlowski, 50; Gabriel & Janis Iacino, 51; John & Cornelia Hargrave, 57 St. Mary, Barnegat • Dan & Lucille Longo, 25; Katheryn & John Cole, 50; Anthony & Eileen Miloscia, 50; James & Nancy Fay, 51; Walter & Rosemarie Dudek, 51; John & Margaret Pongracz, Sr., 55; Carole & Dave Gordon, 57; Roberta & Donald Rissmeyer, 50 St. Maximilian Kolbe,Toms River • Charles & JoAnn Donnarumma, 25; Michael & Barbara Cousins, 50; Edward & Diane Steiniger, 50; Robert & Rosemarie Durner, 50; Edward & Virginia Daly, 50; Carl & Mary Lee Benson, 51; Floyd & Antoinette Murray, 57; Silvio & Joan Adami, 60; Robert & Alice Schildknecht, 60; Fred & Mary Bohn, 60 St. Theresa, Little Egg Harbor • Randall & Margaret Altman, 25; Edward R. & Marilyn E. Kent, 50; Paul & Suzanne Janco, 50; Daniel & Anna Hartmann, 65 Visitation, Brick • Elizabeth & Ralph Mutarelli, 50; Eugene J. & Yvonne M. Cautillo, 50
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Marie and Dominic Trocchia of St. James Parish, Red Bank, were married June 5, 1949 in St. Anthony Church, Red Bank
Rosemarie and Anthony Valinotti of St. Robert Bellarmine Parish, Freehold, were married Oct. 27, 1990 in St. Thomas the Apostle Church, Old Bridge
Janice and Richard Vandenbrouck of St. Thomas More Parish, Manalapan, were married June 19, 1965 in St. Brendan Church, Clifton
Maureen and Jim Tuohy of St. David the King Parish, Princeton Junction, were married May 5, 1990 in St. Raymond Church, Bronx, N.Y.
Patricia and John Valente of St. Michael Parish, West End, were married Aug. 18, 1990 in St. Michael Church, West End
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Janet and Robert Wassal of St. Raphael-Holy Angels Parish, Hamilton, were married May 8, 1965 in St. Joseph Church, Bronxville, N.Y.
Amy Stella and David Vizzini of St. Katharine Drexel Parish, Burlington, were married Oct. 4, 2014 in St. Paul Church, Burlington
Rose and Joseph Wallace of St. Katharine Drexel Parish, Burlington, were married Oct. 16, 1965 in St. Paul Church, Burlington
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Barbara and Robert Yuro of St. Veronica Parish, Howell, were married May 12, 1962 in St. Rose of Lima Church, Short Hills
Barbara and Thomas Zakrzewski of St. Rose of Lima Parish, Freehold, were married May 1, 1965 in Our Lady of Czestochowa Church, Brooklyn, N.Y.
Louise and Thomas Welch of Our Lady of Perpetual Help-St. Agnes Parish, Atlantic Highlands, were married June 9, 1990 in St. Agnes Church, Atlantic Highlands
Annette and Col. Dean Wright of St. Catherine of Siena Parish, Farmingdale, were married Dec. 16, 1990 in St. Mary Church, Plainfield
Denise and Gary Zemanovich of St. Gabriel Parish, Marlboro, were married Nov. 10, 1990 in St. Joseph Church, Carteret
Nancy and Frank Zemo of St. John Parish, Lakehurst, were married Jan. 28, 1956 in Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church, Montclair
Elizabeth and George Zink of St. Joan of Arc Parish, Marlton, were married Nov. 6, 1965 in Annunciation Church, Bellmawr
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