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LIFE Resilient. Steadfast. Innovative. Mission-driven. These are but a few of the many attributes that faith leaders, educators and parents have recognized in the nearly 1,400 graduates from Catholic high schools in the Diocese of Trenton. After 15 months of pandemic-related disruption and uncertainty, this year’s grads succeeded in achieving their goals and growing in their faith. The Monitor Magazine joins in the celebration of the Class of 2021.

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oments before he would becom e Rjoy Ballacillo listened intentl a priest, the Rev. Mr. y to the First Reading from Jeremiah.

“Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born I dedicated you, a prophet to the nations I appointed you,” the Reading proclaims. “‘Ah, Lord GOD!’ I said, ‘I do not know how to speak. I am too young!’ But the

Lord answered me … To whomever I send you, you shall go; whateve r I command you, you shall speak. ” “When I heard that – that the Lord will always be with me – that gave me strength and courage to fulfill my minis-

try,” the 26-year- old said. Indeed, a supportive strength was palpable throughout St. Mary of the Assumption Cathedral, Trenton , as Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., celebrated the June 5 Ordination Mass of Father Rjoy Ballacillo. The voices of nearly 50 conceleb rating priests and more than 100 faithful joined the diocesan Festival Choir in songs of faith during the Mass, which was livestreamed on all diocesan media platforms. In addition, Father Ballacillo’s

family watched the broadcas t from the Philippines, as they were unable to travel due to pandemic restrictio ns. The new priest’s older brother – Father Roy Ballacillo, ordained for the Diocese of Trenton in 2017 – served as his vesting priest. “I’m reminded so much of Jesus and the Apostles, especially the brothers – Peter and Andrew, James and John,” Father Roy Ballacillo said. “For a time, I thought my vocation to the priesthood is just between me and our Blessed Lord. Today, I realize it’s not just me. It’s between us – me and Rjoy and our Blessed Lord.” Father Rjoy Ballacillo agreed. “I know that he will be there for me. He is my role model. I am always following his footsteps,” he said, reflecting on how he entered the seminary at age 11 and followed his brother to New Jersey to prepare for the priestho od. A PERSONAL GIFT

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Bishop O’Connell anoints with sacred Oil of Chrism and wraps with linen cloth the hands of Father Rjoy Ballacillo.

Before the ordination Mass, Bishop O’Connell bl Ballacillo will use in his priestly ministry.

what you preach … will lead you to counsel, to seek and to save the lost; will bring light to their dark places; will turn time into eternity as you mirror the face, the heart of Christ, who came to serve and not to be served,” Bishop O’Connell continued. “All this you will do, even when you stumble along the way, because of the gift you receive this day in love.” At the conclusion of his homily, Bishop O’Connell called then-Deacon Ballacillo to the Promise of the Elect, and he declared his intention to assume the responsibilities of the priest. He walked over to the Bishop and kneeled, putting his hands in those of his shepherd and promised obedience. Deacon Ballacillo lie prostrate on the floor of the sanctuary as the solemn chant of the Litany of Saints echoed throughout the Cathedral. He then once again kneeled before the Bishop so Trenton’s shepherd could impose his hands on the soon-to-be priest’s head, a

In his homily, Bishop O’Conne ll spoke on how the younger Ballacillo was chosen for the priesthood by God. “God wanted YOU to receive this gift,” he preached. “Believe that with every fiber of your being. … The gift you receive this day will bring the God of heaven and earth to the altar, to bread and wine at your hands; will guide the consciences of those who listen to your words and see your example; will make believers of those who doubt and strength en the faith of those who do believe.” Newly-ordained Father Rjoy “The gift you receive this Ballacillo receives day will a hug from his brother, Father reveal the truth of God’s Roy Ballacillo, Word through who also acted as his vesting priest.

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Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., addresses the senior class of St. Rose High School, Belmar, during the Baccalaureate Mass May 27. Vic Mistretta photo

ou have graduated from high school. In all the excitement that surrounds this great event in your lives, the Lord has put so much before your minds and hearts to celebrate. Graduation is a rite of passage, a moment when you mark the end of four years of school and the beginning of a new chapter in your lives. You leave A Message from behind your childBISHOP DAVID M. hood only to strike O’CONNELL, C.M. out on your own as young adults. Throughout your lives, the Lord has spoken to you often: through your parents, your teachers, your friends and your Church. You have been told what to do and have been given many words of instruction and advice how to do it. Now it is up to you. Yes, we will all continue to be a part of your lives and we will continue to give you advice. But no more bells. No one to wake you up. No one to tell you to get going. Now you must take those important responsibilities and make them your own. But before you do, let me take you back to the beginning. When you were born, your parents brought you to Church

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for your Baptism. The Lord spoke to you through them, inviting you to become a member of a larger family, the Christian family that is the Church. At your Baptism, your parents and godparents made promises for you to bring you up in the Catholic faith, to teach you the Catholic faith, to help you live your Catholic faith. They, like the Blessed Mother and St. Joseph, believed that the Lord’s words spoken to you through them would be fulfilled. And ________ _________ they brought you to Church, to Catholic school, to Confession, Throughout to Mass, to help you make those same promises for yourself in your lives the Confirmation. In each of those Lord has spoken things and all the moments in between, the Lord has spoken to to you often. you and fulfilled his word. ________ _________ As you celebrate graduation, don’t lose sight of all those things: all that has been in your life and the great sacrifices your parents made to bring you to this moment. Pray that the Lord will stay with you and help you take your faith into a happy, healthy and wonderful future. And continue to believe that Continued on 48

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n June of 2021, as the new Superintendent of the Catholic Schools in the Diocese of Trenton, I was honored to be asked to say a few words at the graduations of our high schools. It is always a scary endeavor A Message from

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to speak in front of an audience you do not necessarily know well. On top of that, you want to be impactful, uplifting, and most importantly short. As a speaker, you hope that perhaps the graduates and their families want to hear what you have to say, but you also realize it’s exceedingly hot and folks want to get on with their post-graduation celebrations. In searching for a way to deliver those impactful and pithy remarks, all the while trying to keep their attention with a quip or two for the few minutes I can hold their attention on a hot day, I thought about the following scenario: I have just

landed on an airplane from a trip. The flight attendant has come onto the airplane’s speaker to give us the lay of the land as we taxi to the gate. Using this as the premise, these are the sentiments I delivered to the graduating Class of 2021: On behalf of Bishop David O’Connell, I am honored to be with you today. I would like to thank and congratulate the teachers, administrators and the parents of the class of 2021. Your faith in us this year kept us going and ultimately led to the wonderful celebration today. Graduates, thank you for allowing me to visit with you on this joyous, but warm day. I wanted to give

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 Dr. Vincent dePaul Schmidt receives a commemorative poster from Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville, representing its 20,000 hours of community service. Hal Brown photo

ber. Giving you each an ice cream treat was a logistical nightmare. Therefore, I decided to give you the best gift of all that a superintendent could share…a short speech! I have a quick question for you… have any of you ever flown on a plane? (hopefully hands go up) Has anyone ever listened to the flight attendant when you land? (again, hopefully hands go up) If so, perhaps you will recognize what I am speaking about… On behalf of the Diocese of Trenton, let me be the first to welcome you to alumni status. The local time is X:XX. Please stay in your seats until the ceremony has come to a complete stop and the principal has turned on the light indicating that it is safe to turn your tassels and move around

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n ceremonies joyful and bittersweet, heralding the next steps on a journey of faith and hope, graduates across the Diocese of Trenton celebrated the successful completion of their Catholic high school education. Their eyes on the future, the 1,367 graduates from 11 parish, diocesan and independent schools in the Diocese were saluted for their accomplishments and encouraged to continue the good work they had begun with the help of their families and teachers, and the support of their peers. Recognized for all four years, they were especially commended for their dedication and determination during

In his homily at the St. Rose High School Baccalaureate Mass, which he celebrated May 27 in the school’s MAAC Center, Bishop O’Connell reminded the graduates of the role the Catholic faith played in their success and urged them to continue to rely upon it in the future. “Tonight is a rite of passage,” he said, “a transition marking the end of four years, of leaving behind childhood to strike out on your own.” For years, the Bishop said, students, parents and teachers have “told you what to do. You’ve received many words of instruction. Now, there will be no more bells,” to tell you when to wake up, he cautioned. “You must take on this responsibility.” Their parents had first taken that responsibility when

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“Your parents believed the Lord’s words, as spoken to you, would come true.” ______________________________________________ the 15 months of the pandemic. In Commencement ceremonies and Baccalaureate Masses, speakers and homilists praised the graduates for overcoming the difficulties of those months, noting how the Class of 2021 completed their course work in hybrid settings, filled out college applications without being able to visit their schools of interest, and practiced strict social distancing protocols before crossing the finish line in triumph. Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., referenced their achievements and extended his blessings on the graduates throughout the season.

A group of St. John Vianney High School, Holmdel, graduates smile for a photo. Vic Mistretta photo 4

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Msgr. Thomas Gervasio, diocesan vicar general, celebrates the June 5 Baccalaureate Mass for the graduating class in Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville. Hal Brown photo

they brought them as infants or small children to the church for Baptism, he reminded them. “Your parents believed the Lord’s words, as spoken to you, would come true,” he said. “They made a witness statement to the promises that this is your faith.” Bishop O’Connell urged the graduates to keep true to the baptismal promises their parents made in their name and those they themselves made at Confirmation. “Never lose sight of all the great things you learned at St. Rose and of the sacrifices your parents made” in enabling them to study there. “Pray that the Lord will stay with you,” he said. “The world is a big place where the future is uncertain. But

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Trenton Catholic Academy, Hamilton • 8

St. John Vianney High School, Holmdel • 12

Red Bank Catholic High School, Red Bank • 15

Donovan Catholic, Toms River • 18

Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville • 17

Villa Vicoria Academy, Ewing • 24

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Stuart Country Day School of the Sacred Heart, Princeton • 27

Mater Dei Prep, Middletown • 29

Holy Cross Preparatory Academy, Delran • 31

Christian Brothers Academy, Lincroft • 33

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Nicholas Xanthacos, a graduate of St. Rose High School, Belmar, and a national recipient of the Evans Scholarship, walks proudly to receive his diploma during the Commencement Exercises held June 1 at the OceanFirst Bank Center. Rich Hundley photo.

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But your future is not uncertain. God goes with you and faith makes you strong. As your Bishop, I urge you, don’t forget God and our faith, for any reason.” “When you go to college...take your faith with you.,” Bishop O’Connell implored the graduates. “Go to Mass…. You will meet people along the way who tell you, ‘why are you bothering.’ Believe the Lord’s words will be fulfilled.” “Graduation means now it is up to you!” he said.

PASSPORTS TO THE FUTURE In high school auditoriums, arenas and playing fields throughout late May and early June, graduates rejoiced with tassel and ring turns, cap tosses, warm handshakes and radiant smiles. The teens hailed from: Trenton Catholic Academy, Hamilton; Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville; Holy Cross Preparatory Academy, Delran; St. John Vianney High School, Holmdel; Mater Dei Prep, Middletown; Red Bank Catholic High School, Red Bank; Christian Brothers Academy, Lincroft; Stuart Country Day School of the Sacred Heart, Princeton; Villa Victoria Academy, Ewing; St. Rose High School, Belmar, and Donovan Catholic High School, Toms River. During their years of study, the graduates grew in their love of learning and Catholic faith, excelling not only in academics and sports but also in art, theater and the military. Some were recognized with notable awards and prizes, while others worked quietly and diligently to achieve their personal best. Their efforts were rewarded in many ways, not the least of which were grants and scholarships totaling more than $207 million. Teachers and administrators said that among the exceptional qualities of the graduates was their love for their school families and their dedicated service to the community at-large and those in need over the four years. Those they reached out to help included veterans, children, seniors and the disadvantaged among others, which continued as much as possible during the pandemic. Diocesan superintendent of schools Dr. Vincent de Paul Schmidt got a closer look at those efforts on June 6 when the Notre Dame High School Class of 2021 presented him with its traditional commemorative poster compiling all their service projects. Receiving the large, four-fold poster, Dr. Schmidt noted that the class had performed a total of some 20,000 hours of service for the elderly, poor and marginalized. Dr. Schmidt, who presented the diplomas, commended the students for their “awesome service” just before delivering a speech which included thanking them for “sticking with us” through four years of school where ser6 Class of

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vice to others is a core element of the curriculum. “You have not only survived but, based on what I’ve heard of your college acceptances, you have thrived…,” he said. “...You have developed your social consciousness, and your faith is going to continue to develop into a real relationship with Jesus Christ. Remember everything you were taught. Go out and make the world a better place tomorrow than it is today.” In his homily at the Baccalaureate Mass for the graduates of Christian Brothers Academy on May 14, Father Garry Koch, pastor of St. Benedict Parish, Holmdel, advised the young men seated before him to listen to the challenges St. Paul issued to his followers, and to “have strength and courage to follow the path to life and not the road to destruction. “Whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious, if there is any excellence, and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about those things,” Father Koch said. “Keep on doing what you have learned and received and heard and seen in me. Then the God of Peace will be with you.” Similarly, Msgr. John K. Dermond reflected on the theme of new beginnings in the homily he preached during the Baccalaureate Mass he celebrated for the Villa Victoria Academy community June 6, the Solemnity of the

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With diplomas in hand, the Red Bank Catholic graduates congratulate one another as they prepare to enter a new journey in their lives. John Batkowski photo

Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ. “We use the word ‘commencement’ for the graduation ceremony at almost every level of education, and the word ‘commencement’ contains the meaning of both an end and a beginning,” said Msgr. Dermond, who is a retired pastor and continues as a judge in the Diocese’s Tribunal. “Our Catholic Feast of Corpus Christi marks the gift of himself that Jesus gave at his Last Supper, at the end of his public life and the beginning of his greatest act of love.” Looking to the day’s three Readings, Msgr. Dermond noted how each had words “to sustain us in the beginnings and ends, and the ends and beginnings of our lives.” The First Reading, Exodus 24:3-8, tells about the covenant that the Lord had made with his people. “Those words confirmed the end of slavery and a new beginning of freedom for God’s people in ancient times,” Msgr. Dermond said. “In the beginnings and ends throughout life, it helps to remember God’s covenant of love with us and strive to heed and do all that God asks of us.” The words from the Second Reading, Hebrews 9:11-15, he said, “give us hope that in ‘passing through the greater and more perfect tabernacle,’ Jesus has assured us of beginning a new life beyond this creation when our life on earth ends.” “May God bless and sustain our graduates as another end yields to new beginnings,” he said.

A Donovan Catholic graduate participates in the school’s June 6 Baccalaureate Mass celebrated in St. Joseph Church, Toms River. Mike Ehrmann photo

FOLLOWING THE PATH On June 5, Madison Andris, Class of 2021, joined her

mother, Susan, Class of 1985 as an alumna of Delran’s Holy Cross High School. Honoring legacy families was part of the itinerary in many of the graduation events, with parents who were alumni even presenting their children with their diplomas. Both Madison and Susan shared that Holy Cross was Madison’s choice as a high school from the start. “I chose Holy Cross after hearing about all the great things there,” said Madison. Her mother shared some of the good points of the school, especially its ability to maintain continuity throughout the pandemic. She explained that before the novel coronavirus hit, Holy Cross already had cyber school, adding, “They never lost a day of school because of the pandemic. There was never a loss of education.” Throughout her four years there, Madison said the Holy Cross experience was consistently friendly and helpful. “There were a lot of great students and teachers who helped me transition from eighth grade to high school,” Madison said. Expressing sentiments undoubtedly shared by many graduates this year, Madison says that she feels ready to leave and well prepared for university. But, “I’m also sad to leave,” she said, adding that she is comforted by the fact that her teachers have told her, “If I ever need them, they are here to help.” June 2021  THE MONITOR MAGAZINE 

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Mirian Lopez-Sanchez presents TCA president Michael Knowles with a thank you gift. Joe Moore photos

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dare you to reach for greatness!” That was the call sent out by Cesia Ramos in her salutatorian address to Trenton Catholic Academy’s Class of 2021 during Commencement Exercises May 26. The challenge concluded a speech in which Ramos heralded the “major milestone” the class was celebrating after four years of a rigorous academic curriculum and “a major step in personal development,” and conferred their lasting legacy as members of the “Iron Mike Family” as alumni of the Hamilton school are known. “As we exit,” she said, “remember, this is not the end goal. It’s a transition, not a culmination. As we prepare to persevere with a strong work ethic and grow into wise scholars, [we must] keep our feet on the ground. We have so much ahead of us. We must remain resilient and pursue

everything without giving anything up.” The value of resilience was a resonating theme of the poignant two-day celebration, which began with a Baccalaureate Mass the day before. Following the Commencement’s moving candle lighting ceremony that celebrated the “mosaic” of athletic, academic and spiritual aspects of the school, TCA president Michael Knowles addressed the students on the subject of resilience. He shared, “the one word I would use to describe you as a class: resilient. You have been able to withstand everything that happened this past year,” he said referring to the effects the pandemic had on so much of life as well as the news that the school was going to close in June and re-open as a private Catholic school, Trenton Catholic Preparatory Academy. “You have endured it all and you did it without complaining,” Knowles said. “You focused on the goal. It was not an easy four years for anyone, but you continued to overcome the challenges,

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___________________ ___________________ “We cannot fully control anything in life apart from ourselves and our responses to the world around us. There will always be obstacles we have to overcome, and while we cannot always change the circumstances, we can choose to take each new challenge in stride.” Erin Stout, valedictorian ___________________ ___________________

Salutatorian: Cesia Ramos

Father Al Gamalo, school chaplain, celebrated Baccalaureate Mass for TCA on May 25.

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Valedictorian: Abigail Antognoli

Salutatorian: Susanna Testa

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St. Rose graduates embrace sense of community, vow to stay connected BY LOIS ROGERS  Correspondent

he St. Rose Class of 2021 marked the milestone of graduation with prayer, gratitude and a keen sense that their four years in the Belmar school have prepared them well for the transition from high school to adulthood. That was the sentiment expressed by salutatorian Susanna Testa in her address to the St. Rose community just after the Baccalaureate Mass May 27 celebrated by Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M. “Four years went by in the blink of an eye,” she said, but “never let us forget our roots and the values we have learned here.” Testa, who will enter Seton Hall University, South Orange, in the fall to study biology, said that among those values is the ability to take the initiative, which is always encouraged at St. Rose. It was especially vital, she said, during last spring when virtual instruction became necessary because of the coronavirus. “It was difficult adjusting during this period,” she said. “You really had to go out of your comfort zone. It was a learning experience. I’m very grateful to everyone for helping. I will always stay part of the community.” That sense of community was echoed by many during the Commencement ceremony June

___________________ ___________________ “That extra step. That one half of an inch. That is what we all need to remember as we enter a new journey in our lives. It’s the little things that matter. I once heard a quote that the difference between ordinary and extraordinary is just a little ‘extra.’” Abigail Antognoli, Valedictorian ___________________ ___________________  THE MONITOR MAGAZINE  June 2021

St. Rose graduates prepare to move their tassels left, a sign of the graduation rite of passage. Rich Hundley photos

Sam Jarmer, who sustained substantial injuries after an ocean dive in 2019, proudly displays his Yazmin Llore award for perseverance. 1 on the Long Branch campus of Monmouth University and the days following it. Graduate David Oliver reflected, “It was a welcoming, great community. I could talk to anyone in my grade. It was a very difficult year, but it brought us together more.” Words cannot adequately describe the Continued on 46

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Bella Ross is all smiles as she receives her diploma June 5 from Principal Steven C. DiMezza.

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Graduates: 198 Baccalaureate Mass: June 3, 2021 St. Robert Bellarmine Co-Cathedral, Freehold Commencement: June 5, 2021 Saint John Vianney High School Stadium Field, Holmdel Scholarships Received: $32 million

Valedictorian: Jonah Tartza

Salutatorian: Kayla Thuel

Bishop Ahr Award: George Anderson

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For Jennifer Kleinert, a 1986 graduate of SJVHS, the close friendships with classmates forged in high school have only grown over the ensuing decades. A quartet of classmates meet for dinner several times a year and take vacations together to mark milestone birthdays every five years. Kleinert foresees the same ever-growing bonds in the life of her daughter, Class of 2021 Continued on 48

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Red Bank Catholic principal Robert Abatemarco smiles as he leads the RBC Class of 2021 at their Commencement May 27.

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he 185 members of Red Bank Catholic High School’s Class of 2021 celebrated before family and friends during a Baccalaureate Mass and Graduation Exercises held outdoors May 27 on Monmouth University’s Kessler Stadium, West Long Branch. Msgr. Joseph N. Rosie, pastor of St. James Parish, Red Bank, served as principal celebrant of the Mass; the parish’s parochial vicars Father Daison Areepparampil and Father Vincente Magdaraog, concelebrated. In his homily, Msgr. Rosie reflected on the number of Commandments, challenging the belief that the number 10 was correct. “In my book, 10 isn’t the right answer. Jesus took the 10 and added a few more to that list,” Msgr. Rosie said. “The one he repeated most often was ‘do not be afraid.’” You are called to be light and salt to the world on our journey, he told the students, and must help others to persevere in Jesus’ way. “We may want to celebrate our uniqueness, for we all come with different gifts. You may think you did it your way, but that’s not what RBC is about,” he reminded the teens. “You must discover Jesus’ way, learn what it means to work together. Be that light, that salt. Share it with all who cross your path.”

Msgr. Joseph N. Rosie receives the gifts during the offertory of the Baccalaureate Mass for Red Bank Catholic on May 27. John Batkowski photos Following the Mass, and befitting the school’s Irish heritage, a bagpiper led the faculty and staff back onto the field; and the class of graduating Caseys, robed in green and gold, returned to their seats to the strains of Elgar’s “Pomp and Circumstance.” Red Bank Catholic’s associate principal, Karen Falco, and athletic director, Joseph Montano, assisted principal Robert Abatemarco in the

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Salutitorian: Olivia Morin Bishop Ahr Award: Andrew Simoes

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osa Mia Rosado was one of 209 members of the Class of 2021 who gave their mother a rose at the Notre Dame High School Baccalaureate Mass in recognition of how much parents contributed to their Catholic education. The day after the June 5 Mass, Rosa’s mom, Rosa Rosado, Class of ‘83, was one of 34 legacy parents returning the gesture by presenting diplomas to their children during Commence-

From left, Jillian Lee and Grace Lombardi participate in the Baccalaureate Mass. Hal Brown photos ___________________ ___________________ “Just as a penny has infinite possibilities to travel the world, to find itself in the purses and hands of thousands of different people, we too have infinite possibilities awaiting us.” Chase Ann Davino, valedictorian ___________________ ___________________

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Donovan Catholic students from the Class of 2021 pray during their Baccalaureate Mass held June 6 in St. Joseph Church, Toms River. Mike Ehrmann photo

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he extended family of Donovan Catholic High School, Toms River, celebrated the 178 blue-gowned graduates of the Class of 2021 June 6 and 7 in St. Joseph Church which shares its campus. Father Edward Blanchett, episcopal vicar of Ocean County, extended greetings on behalf of Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., to the students at the June 6 Baccalaureate Mass. Concelebrating with him were Msgr. Kenard Tuzeneu, pastor of St. Mary Parish, Barnegat; St. Joseph Parish parochial vicars Father Gerald Johnson and Father Naiser Cardenas, and Father G. Scott Shaffer, St. Joseph pastor and Donovan Catholic director. Father Shaffer reminded the students that life is full of storms, whether they be meteorological like Superstorm Sandy; medical, in the form of the ongoing pandemic, or the current political tumult. “To see what is real and true, we will need light unfailing,” Father Shaffer said. “We have voices on each shoulder, an angel and a devil; ___________________ ___________________ “At Donovan Catholic, we are taught that, ‘God created mankind in his image… God looked at everything he had made and found it very good.’ We are taught that we are dear ones, and those of you I have had the privilege of befriending have taught me that every person is uniquely impressive and worth knowing.” Mackenzie O’Connor, valedictorian ___________________ ___________________

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Students Mackenzie O’Connor and Jahdir Loftland are bestowed with the Griffin Award for student athletes by Dr. Edward Gere, principal, on left, and Father G. Scott Shaffer, pastor. Joe Moore photo which voice do we listen to? Take your lessons learned at Donovan Catholic to help you make the right choices. [ Jesus Christ] is the anchor around which our truth revolves.” At the June 7 graduation ceremony, principal Dr. Edward Gere reiterated the school’s mission statement: to educate its students to live their faith, show respect and serve others in a global society and pursue academic excellence in a college preparatory environment. “This has been our GPS,” Dr. Gere said. “Take that GPS with you, continue to live your faith, Continued on 47

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Following a longstanding tradition, one of 11 students of “legacy parents” – alumnae of St. John Vianney High School, Holmdel – receives her diploma from her mother. Vic Mistretta photo

Congratulations are in order for a Class of 2021 graduate of Holy Cross Preparatory Academy, Delran, during the school’s Baccalaureate Mass and Commencement Exercises held June 5. Hal Brown photo ____________________________

Graduates from the 11 secondary schools in the Diocese of Trenton were all smiles as they marked academic and faith-filled milestones before family, friends and faculty this May and June, illustrating once again that “Catholic schools have it all!” ____________________________ As Commencement concludes June 1 in St. Mary, Mother of God Church, a proud Mater Dei Prep graduate carries his diploma from the Middletown school. Vic Mistretta photo

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Graduates of Red Bank Catholic High School await the beginning of their Baccalaureate Mass May 27 with Msgr. Joseph N. Rosie, pastor of St. James Parish, Red Bank, and concelebrants. John Batkowski photo

Long-Awaited D Noah Gerber served as cross bearer while classmates Max Ferraro and Christopher DeSousa led the procession May 18 for Christian Brothers Academy, Lincroft. John Batkowski photo

Graduates of Stuart Country Day School of the Sacred Heart, Princeton, wear the Kente Graduation stole presented to them by the Black Alumnae Affinity Group. The cloth garment is similar to standard Graduation stoles and includes woven patterns of the traditional West African Kente cloth. Courtesy photo 22 Class of

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Trenton Catholic Academy’s Michael Elizondo and his classmates clutch their diplomas on May 27 in the school gymnasium. Joe Moore photo

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Villa Victoria Academy graduates Maxine Donnelly, Giavanna Cucarese and Isis Henderson sing during the Baccalaureate Mass celebrated by Msgr. John Dermond June 6. Hal Brown photo

A graduate of Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville, receives her diploma and a hug from her proud alumna parent during June 6 Commencement Exercises in CURE Arena, Trenton. Hal Brown photo

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he 21 young women who comprised Villa Victoria Academy’s 84th graduating class were sent forth with words of encouragement and sound advice during commencement exercises held June 6. Keynote speaker Immaculate Heart of Mary Sister Maureen Shaw first asked the young women to take inspiration from St. Francis de Sales who said, “Be who you are and be that well.” Citing that they are “women of integrity, value-centered and compassionate,” Sister Maureen, who serves on the faculty of Cristo Rey Philadelphia High School, said, “The world needs you. Continue to share these qualities with all you meet. You are well prepared for success.” For the all-girls private school in Ewing, the 2021 graduation began with a Baccalaureate Mass celebrated by Msgr. John K. Dermond, a retired priest of the Diocese who continues to serve as a Tribunal judge. At the start of Mass, the class’ two salutatorians, Leigh Machion and Elise Stankus, each had an opportunity to give an address. “Villa is our port and has been our home, but

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it is now time to set sail and go forth from our home to college and beyond,” said Machion, who commended her classmates on how they formed the “strongest sisterhood” she has ever known. Focusing on a faith perspective, Stankus gave thanks to God and reflected on St. Lucy Filippini, foundress of the Maestre Pie Filippini, the community of religious women who have staffed the academy since it was established. Stankus also recognized her classmates to whom she referred to as “strong, intelligent, faith-filled young women.” During the graduation exercises that followed the Mass, valedictorian Macey Bartels Continued on 47

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s the 47 young women of Stuart Country Day School of the Heart Class of 2021 took their places on the stage of Cor Unum Hall for their Commencement, their sense of commitment to a purpose-filled future was almost palpable. It would resonate almost immediately in the words of Vivian Chen, the senior class speaker: “Congratulations, we’ve done it!” Chen declared to her classmates, families, faculty and staff who had assembled for this joyous celebration at the Princeton school. “The final moments of our Stuart high school experience are upon us,” Chen said, and with them, the chance to share “our unbeatable energy” in every corner of the school one last time. Describing her fellow students with being known as “one Martin Arsenault, chair of the most supportive of Stuart’s religion de- and easy-to-talk to partment, addresses the classes at Stuart,” Chen graduating class. Courtesy urged the young women to keep that energy photos

going after graduation by meeting the future with perseverance, enthusiasm and social awareness. “We are going to face challenges,” she said. “It’s inevitable. Make your voice heard in the busy discourse … take what you’ve learned from the challenges you may have encountered at Stuart and apply it to your next endeavors.” “As we walk out with our diplomas,” Chen said, “remember that although we no longer will be students in the same building anymore, we are going to be part of something bigger. “We are a family, all from the same home, who will succeed.” Christine A. Leahy, president and chief executive officer of CDW, a leading multi-brand provider of technical solution information, followed Chen in a virtual presentation. She urged the graduates to use their skills, talents and energies to make a difference in the world. “Think of yourself in a no-idling zone,” she said, recommending that they become comfortable with taking risks and encountering diversity. Before the graduates headed off with their diplomas to begin their journeys, Dr. Patricia L. Fagin, Head of School, spoke to special qualities of the class in meeting the unique challenges of the last 15 months. Fagin said for this year of the pandemic, she turned to Leonard Cohen and his song, “Anthem” for inspiration. “I draw your attention to the refrain,” she said, urging them to dwell not on what Continued on 47

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he 90 blue- and white-gowned seniors of Mater Dei Prep recently gathered twice in Mary, Mother of God Church, Middletown, to joyfully bring their high school careers to a triumphant finish. During the May 27 Baccalaureate Mass, celebrant Father Richard Osborn, chaplain of Mater Dei Prep and the parish’s parochial vicar, called the graduation “a great moment to pause and reflect on what has come already in your life, where you are right now, and what is coming next. This is a time of transition, one of the largest transitions of your life,” he told the students. But, Father Osborn added, they must also consider their spiritual goals. He queried, “How have you grown as a disciple of Christ? How will you be a good, faithful, loving member of society? How will you allow that to grow and shape who you are? The Lord desires to be with you every step of the way.” Many smiles and tears of joy accompanied the students as they fulfilled a longstanding tradition: each presented a rose to their parents in gratitude for their love and support throughout their academic career as the musician played, “Because

You Loved Me.” The graduating class of Seraphs had distinguished itself in many ways. The students excelled both academically and socially during the school year. The class earned almost $150,000 in scholarship monies per student, totaling $13.3 million dollars. As part of the school’s Emerging Global Leaders Institute, seniors Khalil Elamin and Alexis Lombardo were among youth from across the nation who addressed the body during the U.N. International Day of Peace last fall at its New York City headquarters. In the realm of performing arts, the Senior

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Next to a portrait of Mater Dei founder, Msgr. Robert Bulman, Father Jeffrey Kegley addresses the graduates during the June 1 graduation.

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n what she described as “a year like no other,” principal Alice D. Penza lauded the accomplishments of the 72 seniors who composed Holy Cross Preparatory Academy’s Class of 2021. Despite having to deal with the circumstances presented by the COVID-19 pandemic, the class earned a total of 350+ college credits in the school’s dual college credit program and received more than $4 million in scholarships. During the Delran school’s June 5 Baccalaureate Mass and Commencement exercises that followed, Penza recognized the hard work and achievements of the students as they “grew socially and emotionally” while learning to navigate the

Graduates: 72 Baccalaureate Mass & Commencement: June 5, 2021 Holy Cross Preparatory Academy, Delran Scholarships Received: Approx. $4-5 million

Father Christopher Colavito, chaplain, offers a blessing to the graduates during the Baccalaureate Mass. mix of in-school and hybrid learning and social restrictions. “Thanks to the dedicated efforts of the faculty and staff, you met the challenges of the year,” she said, then commended the families cheering students and faculty on from the bleachers. “Families who sacrificed to send your children to Holy Cross, stand up and be recognized,” she said as applause resounded. Among the graduates joining in that applause was Colin Elliot, president of the National Honor Society at Holy Cross, who will be entering Villanova University, Villanova, Pa., this fall. Elliott expressed his gratitude for the support of. Penza and the “resiliency of the Holy Cross faculty and staff ” throughout the months of the pandemic.

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A graduate receives a congratulatory hug from his mother. Hal Brown photos

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he 208 graduating seniors of Christian Brothers Academy, Lincroft, were bid a heartfelt farewell May 18 during an outdoor Baccalaureate Mass and graduation exercise. Principal Ross Fales addressed the assembly, detailing the many extraordinary accomplishments of the all-boy school’s Class of 2021. He noted that the students had amassed $27.1 million in scholarships, performed 21,840 hours of community service, and joined the ranks of more than 11,000 graduates of the school’s 59-year history. Lasallian Brother Frank Byrne, president

of CBA, told the accomplished group they had grown into fine young men, and “taken to heart the mission of our school which is to raise young men to become morally responsible and intellectually mature for the betterment of the world.” Realizing their success was not achieved on their own, each young man bestowed a rose to the parents and guardians present, recognizing their “profound, unrecognized support.” In his Baccalaureate Mass homily, Father Garry Koch, pastor of St. Benedict Parish, Holmdel, advised the graduates to seek not only knowledge, but peace, “that sense of harmony and accord that comes from knowing and following God’s will for our lives. The challenge to be constantly at the service of one another,” Father Koch said, “will bring a peace that surpasses all understanding and experiences.” Fourteen alumni from 1971 were on hand to distribute the CBA challenge coin to each senior. This tradition commemorates the class’ 50-year

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___________________ ___________________ “The unyielding will and perseverance needed to achieve this honor is something that I believe CBA has instilled within me, and these are values that I hope to carry with me throughout the rest of my life.” Nicholas Geissler, valedictorian ___________________ ___________________ Nicholas Donadio received his diploma and a handshake from CBA president, Brother Frank Byrne, FSC, during the Commencement Exercises. John Batkowski photos

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Catholic schools mark

eighth grade graduations BY DAVID KARAS  Correspondent

strong academic foundation, recognition for accomplishments and excellence, celebrating the benefits of Catholic education, and a return to normalcy. These were all common themes among those celebrating the graduation of eighth grade students in Trenton Catholic Academy, Hamilton, and St. Peter School, Point Pleasant Beach. Both institutions held graduation ceremonies for a combined 56 young men and women, who will take the lessons they learned from their Catholic school education as they begin their high school studies in the fall. In all, there are 868 eighth grade students to graduate from the 27

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Catholic elementary schools in all four counties in the Diocese this year. “This year was extraordinarily challenging at so many levels,” said Michael Knowles, president of Trenton Catholic Academy, which held its Baccalaureate Mass on May 26 and graduation ceremony on May 27. “It was truly a feeling of a return to normalcy.” Knowles shared with each of the 39 graduates how proud he was of their accomplishments and related his hopes as they take the next step in their academic careers. “My prayer for our graduates is that they always remember how much TCA was like family,” he said. “The time they spent with us gave them opportunities to learn about academic matters and about them-

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 Trenton Catholic Academy eighth graders refer to their Commencement programs. Rich Hundley photo

selves. TCA gave our students a place to be themselves and to share their God-given talents with others.” The ceremony also carried a special significance for the institution’s Lower School. “Not only were they the latest class to graduate from Trenton Catholic Academy Lower School,” Lower School director Anne Reap said, “they were also the last class to graduate as the school will close at the end of June and re-open as an independent, private Catholic school in July. This is

Cindy Lima listens intently during the TCA Lower School commencement exercises May 27. Rich Hundley photo

a very special class.” In her speech to the graduating class, Reap recalled the “tenacious spirit” of the cohort, as they were challenged to complete their studies amidst a global pandemic. “I am certain their tenacity

 A St. Peter School graduate receives his diploma and a blessing from Conventual Franciscan Father Pedro de Oliveira, pastor. Mike Ehrmann photos

 The newly graduated Class of 2021 gather for one last picture June 4 after the Baccalaureate Mass and Commencement exercises.

will serve them well in high school and the years beyond,” she said. “I hope that they know they are loved – by their parents, their teachers, their school family and most importantly, by God.” St. Peter School marked the accomplishments of 17 graduates on June 4 with a ceremony that included the annual awards ceremony to recognize academic success, service, character and growth. “It was a joy to have this year’s graduation in person, inside St. Peter Church and with family and friends present,” said principal Tracey Kobrin. “After the challenges of this school year, it was particularly rewarding to see our graduates experience this momentous occasion.” Kobrin spoke about Catholic education, and the strong foundation it provides for students. “The benefits of a Catholic edu-

cation are many, including academic excellence, instilling values in a Christ-centered environment, (and) a safe, caring atmosphere where all are valued and encouraged to develop their gifts and talents,” she said. “I hope students will walk away with a strong foundation of faith, a commitment to serve others, lifelong friendships, and the knowledge and skills to be successful in future endeavors.” Erin Ballou, a parent of one of the

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Best Wishes to the

Class of 2021!

CONGRATULATIONS

Madelynn Slone Pyndus

Gabriella Nobile

on your graduation from Our Lady of Sorrows School in Hamilton.

on your graduation from Saint James School, Red Bank. History has its eyes on you!!!

We are so proud of you and wish you all the best in the future. Love, Mom, Dad and Michael

We are very proud of you.

Love, Dad, Mom, and Adam

CONGRATULATIONS

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on your 8th Grade Graduation from Our Lady of Sorrows School in Hamilton. We are so proud of all that you have accomplished. You have a bright future ahead of you. Good luck in high school.

We love you! Love, Mom, Dad, & Sammi

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We are so proud of your accomplishments. Follow your dreams & don’t forget to have fun along the way. Love, Mom, Dad, Sam, Grandma, Grandpa, Uncle Jeff, Freddie & Lulu

Congratulations Class of 2021! GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS.

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CONGRATULATIONS

Madeline Frohnhoefer

Carolyn Smith

Madeline, we are so proud of all you have accomplished at Mater Dei Prep, Middletown. We know you will continue that success at RIT.

on your graduation from Notre Dame High School! Lawrenceville

Follow your dreams and keep God in your heart! We are so proud of you!

Love, Mom and Dad

Love, Grandma, Grandpa & all the family

CONGRATULATIONS

Nicole Sophia Bruno

Nathan Okorie on your graduation from Our Lady of Sorrows School, Hamilton.

on graduating in the top 10 of your class from Steinert High School, Hamilton.

We are proud of you and wish you more future academic success.

We could not be more proud as you continue your journey at Villanova University.

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Celebrating our Class of 2021 for all of their accomplishments, consistently setting the bar high, serving as exemplary role models, and always exceeding our expectations.

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Lakewood’s GCU honors nearly 675 with degrees

BY EMMALEE ITALIA  Contributing Editor

ver four ceremonies on May 19-20, Georgian Court University, Lakewood, celebrated its 450 bachelor’s degree and nearly 225 master’s degree graduates from August and December 2020 and May 2021. “You can make a difference, wherever you go and whatever career path you take. I wholeheartedly urge you to do so!” said Marlene Lao-Collins, executive

she was awarded an honorary doctor of public service degree. “Embrace Georgian Court University’s core values of respect, integrity, justice, compassion and service – and intentionally live them out. Incorporating those values throughout our whole society … is key to protecting the dignity of all humans and ensuring that people will grow in community. It takes all of us to look out for one another.” “The graduates represented 11 states, a territory and eight countries, and ranged in age from 18 to 90,” said Tara M. Strickland, assistant editorial director for the GCU Office of Marketing and Communications. “Marion Thomas, believed to be the oldest graduate in Georgian Court history, was awarded a bachelor

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of arts degree in interdisciplinary studies last December and attended the May ceremony.” Eight newly ordained deacons for the Diocese of Trenton received their degrees and certificates from GCU this spring; five received master’s degrees, one earned a bachelor of arts degree, one earned a certificate in pastoral ministry and one a certificate in religious studies. Additional speakers for the ceremonies included poet and activist Alicia Cook, ’08 (ceremony 1); Judith M. Persichilli, New Jersey Commissioner of

Ashley Rosales, member of Our Lady of Guadalupe Parish, Lakewood, met and overcame personal challenges to earn her bachelor of science degree from Georgian Court University. Courtesy photo

Graduates march proudly toward Commencement at Georgian Court University, Lakewood. Courtesy photo

MONMOUTH UNIVERSITY CELEBRATES BACCALAUREATE MASS Catholic campus ministers and students of Monmouth University, West Long Branch, celebrated their accomplishments and praised God for his guidance during their academic career at the school’s annual Baccalaureate Mass held May 18 in St. Michael Church, West End. Father Mark Nillo, parochial vicar, and Catholic Chaplain of Monmouth University, served as principal celebrant and homilist of the Mass. St. Michael pastor, Father John Butler, concelebrated. Following Mass, friends paused for a photo: from left, Amanda Prascsak, vice president of campus ministry; Abigail Miller, president of campus ministry; Cristina D’Averso Collins, campus minister, and student Rachel Primavera. Also present but not pictured was Terry Ginther, diocesan chancellor and executive director of Pastoral Life and Mission. Matt Marzorati photo.

Health as well as vice chair of the GCU Board of Trustees and a member of St. James Parish, Pennington (ceremony 2); Annie Hanna Cestra, ’73, executive vice president and COO of Howard Hanna Real Estate Services who received an honorary doctorate of business administration (ceremony 3). Graduating student speakers for the four ceremonies were Brianna Griffin, bachelor of arts in nursing (ceremonies 1 and 3); Cindy Reinman, bachelor of science in nursing (ceremony 2); and Laura Burns, master of arts in administration and leadership (ceremony 4). The extensive class of nearly 100 bachelor of science in nursing graduates included several men, underscoring the continued growth of male nurses in the profession, Strickland noted. “In addition, the university awarded a posthumous degree to late GCU nursing student Britani Kramer, who would have graduated this month.” Herself a longtime nurse, Persichilli reflected on the role of nurses during

the COVID-19 pandemic, extolling the efforts of the soon-to-be nurses. “Nurses are vital to our health care system. Never has that been more true than today,” she emphasized. “COVID-19 has been an extraordinary, once-in-a-century pandemic. As I have told the team who has worked on this nonstop at the Department of Health, you are not just living through history. By your work, you are making history as we journey to restore a new normal to our lives.” More than 40 percent of the GCU graduating nursing class worked in hospitals during the pandemic, Persichilli pointed out. “You are a very special graduating class – I’m sure you know that. You joined the ranks of frontline caregivers, saving the lives of valued New Jerseyans: someone’s mom or dad, or brother or sister. Please know how grateful we are for your service that you gave.” During her speech to nursing candidates, Reinman recalled an experience during the quarantine period of the pandemic, when visitors were not allowed in

hospitals, and she introduced herself to a patient. “I entered … with my typical greeting, ‘hi, I’m Cindy, I’m a student nurse; I’m at your service. Is there anything I can do for you?’ She started to cry. She said, ‘I just found out I have colon cancer … I talked to my daughter on the phone, but it’s just not the same.’ “I didn’t know what to say,” Reinman continued. “Honestly, I was expecting to get her some ice water, maybe a few crackers. I simply took her hand and asked if she would like me to sit with her for a while. I sat. I listened. … I left that room feeling like, ‘wow – this is what it’s really all about.’ Later I heard that she told my preceptor, ‘God sent me a student today, and it was just what I needed.” GCU success stories abound, including that of Ashley Rosales, who graduated with a bachelor of science degree in natural science with a minor in biology. She set out to be an example to her four younger siblings when she

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Congratulations

Nicholas Cutrupi Class of 2021!

Carly Chmielewski on your graduation from Donovan Catholic High School.

Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville

With love and pride, today and always! Mom, Katie and Kira

We are so proud of you! Love, Mom, Dad and Danny

CONGRATULATIONS

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Catalina Lucia-Holliday

on your 8th grade graduation from St. Joan of Arc, Marlton.

On your graduation from 8th grade from Our Lady of Sorrows School, Hamilton. You made us very proud with all the countless accomplishments you have achieved. We cannot wait to see what the bright future ahead of you holds. Remember to hold your head high and be proud of the wonderful, kind, smart and beautiful young lady you are. We love you more than words can say.

We are so proud of you. God will be with you on your high school journey and so will we. We love you so much, Dad, Mommy, Robert, Grace, Pop Pop, Mom Mom and Pop Pop

Love, Mommy, Art, Nico, Louie and your “very big” family

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Brandyn Speicher, a member of St. Denis Parish, Manasquan, and graduating senior from Manasquan High School, participates in the outdoor Baccalaureate Service hosted by the Manasquan Area Ministerium. The ministerium has held the Baccalaureate Service for 136 years. Courtesy photo

Baccalaureate Masses, Services

keep grads’ focus on God BY MARY STADNYK  Associate Editor

n southern coastal Monmouth County, a dozen or so churches compose the Manasquan Area Ministerium that has worked to successfully sustain a 136-year-old annual tradition. Every year during graduation season, the ministerium invites all graduating seniors from Manasquan High School to attend a Baccalaureate Service where they are prayerfully acknowledged for their academic achievements. “It’s unique,” Father Bill Lago said of the ecumenical Baccalaureate Service. “It may be the only one of its kind certainly in the wider region, if not only one of a handful in the country.” Along with having a public high school that’s willing to host a religious service, Father Lago, pastor of St. Denis Parish, Manasquan, said “It’s pretty pow-

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erful” to see students, who are of different faiths all wearing their graduation gowns and participating in the Baccalaureate Service, and having people come together “to pray for the graduates.” “Talk about the strength of prayer and being able to share faith,” he said. The theme of the 2021 service was “Redemption in Light of the Pandemic” and some 60 students attended, including 12 from either St. Denis or St. Mark, Sea Girt. Three St. Denis parishioners had a part in leading the prayer service, which included a few students sharing their witness of how they relied on their faith during the pandemic, Father Lago said. In his address during the service, Father Lago reminded the students that, while they will continue to grow intellectually, they should also continue to grow in their respective faith traditions. “I want them to remember that wherever they are, God will be right

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there with them,” he said. While the Baccalaureate Service is a community-wide event held for students of all faiths who are graduating from one particular high school, there are a number of parishes from around the Diocese that celebrate Baccalaure____________________________

“...wherever they are, God will be right there with them.” ____________________________ ate Masses for graduating parishioners, whether they attend Catholic school or public school. The Masses are both a time for the communities to pray with their graduates and send them forth with blessings as they prepare to embark on new journeys in their lives. The Masses serve to remind the graduates to

Father John Butler, pastor of St. Michael Parish, West End, left, and Father Mark Nillo, parochial vicar, concelebrated a Baccalaureate Mass June 19 during which eight parishioners who are graduating this year were prayerfully honored. Mary Stadnyk photo

stay close to their faith and foster their relationship with God. Up the coast in Long Branch, St. Michael Parish is one of a number faith communities that hold a Baccalaureate Mass with parishioners who are receiving diplomas or degrees. “The graduates have put significant effort and time into their studies and activities, and it’s very fitting to recognize that effort and express appreciation,” Father John Butler, pastor, said. This year, there were eight graduates of the parish at the Mass on June 19, he said, noting that, with the exception of last year because of the pandemic, the annual Baccalaureate Mass has been celebrated since 2018. “The recognition and expression of gratitude, we hope, will encourage these graduates in the future and also encourage their younger siblings and others to put their talents to work in the classroom and extracurricular activities,” Father Butler said. He added how “amazed” he has been by the ability of this year’s graduates in having successfully lived through and excelled during an entire school year “in which every

aspect of their lives was disrupted by the pandemic. “I’m awed by the graduates’ resilience and accomplishments,” he said In attendance at the Mass were twins Nora and Liam Stewart, both graduates of Mater Dei Prep, Middletown, who are preparing for their next

academic step in Brookdale Community College, Lincroft. “It’s an honor to know my parish sets aside time to recognize the academic [achievements]of its parishioners,” said Nora, who will pursue nursing studies. “I am grateful to St. Michael Parish, St. Jerome School (West Long Branch, where she and her brother attended elementary school) and Mater Dei Prep High School for the opportunities provided to me throughout the years to develop and strengthen my Catholic faith.” Her brother Liam added that in having his parish and fellow parishioners “recognize me for my high school achievements really made me feel at home because it’s going to push me to strive even harder to achieve my goals.”

Father Butler greets graduating parishioner Francisco Espinosa. Mary Stadnyk photo

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Words OF

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ach year, commencement ceremonies offer the opportunity to celebrate the accomplishments and shared experiences of the graduating class. Along with the conferring of awards and diplomas, student speakers shared personal, anecdotal narratives and words of advice with fellow classmates, family and friends. Graduations also present an opportunity for school administrators and principals to share their own “words of wisdom” with their graduates and school communities. William Robbins, principal of St. Paul School, Burlington, focused his address during the June 11 ceremony on the next four years. “Please work hard in high school, but always remember to enjoy those special years. They will go much more quickly than you can imagine. Get involved in activities and study hard. You are prepar-

A graduate of Holy Cross Preparatory Academy, Delran, displays a personalized mortarboard for the school’s Commencement Exercises. Hal Brown photo ing yourself for your future,” he said to the eighth grade graduates who will enter high school in the fall. He reminded them to remain true to their character as they leave their elementary school years behind. “You will be missed at St. Paul School. Stay safe and healthy. Be good to your families and your friends and stay true to yourself. Care about each other. God bless you!” On June 11 when Maureen Tuohy, principal of Our Lady of Sorrows School, Mercerville, addressed the Class of 2021, she focused her message on hope in relation to the many challenges that were

faced due to the pandemic. “There is a quote from Pope Francis that is so relevant to this situation: ‘I plead with you – never, ever give up on hope, never doubt, never tire, and never become discouraged. Be not afraid.’ You never did give up, and this is one of my greatest wishes for you, as well as one of the lessons from the pandemic: always have hope, because things will get better, they will improve. Sometimes, when you are in the midst of a situation, it’s hard to see an outcome clearly or identify anything positive. That’s when hope is most important, and you need to hold onto it and never give up. You are strong, you have proven your resiliency, and you have people around you who love and support you. Always have hope, never become discouraged.” She also spoke to the Class of 2021 about the importance of their faith. “You will find when life is difficult, when situations seem uncertain, when you don’t have someone you can talk to, this faith in God will support you. Remember to talk to Jesus and keep him by your side, and continue to develop that friendship so that through the good times and the challenging times, you feel his presence, comfort and protection - you will be grateful you did.” The graduates of St. Paul School, Burlington, happily pose for one last class photo. Courtesy photo

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the field. You have just landed, and you have a 2 ½ to 3 month layover before the next part of your journey. Getting to this part of the trip has been like NO OTHER! But you not only survived; based on what I have seen by your college acceptances, you have thrived. Thank you for sticking with the journey and not parachuting out early. The next part of the trip is planned. You have received your boarding pass today/tonight and you are all packed. Your baggage is filled with all you need to succeed in the area of academics, you have developed your social consciousness, and your faith is going to continue to develop into a real relationship with Jesus Christ.

Remember everything you were taught here. Go out and make the world better tomorrow than it is today. Be a leader. Be Christ-like. “… and remember to put your seat backs and tray tables into their upright and locked positions.” Thank you, Class of 2021.

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persisted with humility and a desire to be a better version of yourselves. “Promise me that you will remember how much God loves you. When times get tough, turn to God. Remember how much your parents love you and we love you.” Regardless of the changes that were unfolding, Knowles assured the graduates that “you will always be Iron Mikes.” The Baccalaureate Mass was celebrated May 25 by Father August “Al”

Gamalo, TCA chaplain and parochial vicar of St. Gregory the Great Parish, Hamilton Square, for both the Lower School graduates and the seniors. In his homily, Father Gamalo acknowledged, “It’s hard to say goodbye but goodbye is very much part of life. Sometimes we choose goodbyes, and sometimes, they choose us. “The original meaning of goodbye,” he said, “is ‘God be with you.’ It is a blessing of love, not merely an end; an expression that touches hearts and brings us wonderful memories.”

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connection between St. Rose and Sam Jarmer and his family, said his mother, Jessica. Sam was working as a lifeguard in 2019 when he sus-

tained a spinal cord injury that left him paralyzed from the chest down. Since then, she said, the school has been a steady support for Sam, arranging a tutor and a schedule that would not interrupt his therapy, and principal John Tonero constantly calling to check on how things are going. The entire school community made their support for Sam clear during the two-day graduation celebration too, she said. “They gave him a standing ovation at the Baccalaureate when he received the Yazmin Llore award for perseverance.” And when they called his name at graduation, she said, everyone stood and clapped. “They’ve always reached out to him. He’s never felt disconnected.” Dennis Carey, vice-principal of student affairs and interim director of enrollment, offered strong praise for this unique class of graduates.

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“The St. Rose High School Class of 2021 has shown extraordinary resilience since the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic last spring,” Carey noted. “Despite losing one quarter of their junior year and spending nearly one quarter of the 2020-21 school year learning virtually, they have not missed a beat in terms of their academic and extracurricular accomplishments.” He continued, “They have made St. Rose High School proud and we sincerely wish each and every one of them nothing but success in their future endeavors.”

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support and nurture each other, and, in a world that seems to be less and less respectful of life, respect others.” Dr. Gere also recognized the 16 alumni parents in the congregation; “a new record,” he said to a round of applause. Despite the pandemic and virtual classrooms, Donovan seniors continued to engage in community service. Collectively, the graduates received more than $26 million in scholarships and grants to pursue higher education, and seven students were recognized for their participation in the prestigious International Baccalaureate program. The annual “Anything Goes” competition between classes during Student Spirit week enabled students to enjoy time as a community in healthy competition; in addition to athletic challenges, the students collected shoes to support senior Alyssa Lego’s nonprofit organization, “The Morgan Marie Michael Foundation,” which supports students with autism. Donovan Catholic PTA president Kathy Winch, whose daughter Madison was a member of the 2021 graduating class, reflected upon the many advantages the school had

offered the students, noting, “They learned service, community and discipline, and it prepares them for their future.”

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congratulated her peers for their hard work and dedication during the past year while navigating numerous challenges presented by the coronavirus pandemic, highlighting the $7 million achieved in scholarship grants and entry into some of the top schools in the country. Jen Cucarese, mother of graduate Gia Cucarese, praised Villa Victoria and said she believes her daughter will be well prepared for college because of the formation she received at a school that provided her with an excellent education and ability to form strong relationships. Graduating senior Leia Kadelak expressed her excitement about her plans to attend Franciscan University in Steubenville, Ohio, a university which, she said, is similar to Villa Victoria in its faith-filled environment and mission. Kadelak said she is “forever grateful” for Villa Victoria giving her an environment in which she could feel so comfortable and supported.

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has been lost but instead on “ringing the bells that can still ring.” Quoting Cohen’s lyrics, she said, “there is a crack in everything. That’s how the light gets through.” “There have been countless disruptions this year,” she said. “Much has happened to you. This is not the place where everything is perfect. …but I see a class that has always let the light through.”

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Seraph Players, part of the Mater Dei Prep Performing Arts program, had the opportunity to perform on the newly built J. Vale Outdoor Stage this past spring, keeping live performances available for audiences during pandemic restrictions. June 1 marked the first time a Mater Dei Prep alumna spoke to a graduating class. Danielle Juelis, who had addressed her classmates as valedictorian of the Class of 2014, gave the new graduates a glimpse into her career in the medical field. The seven years since graduation, and the impact of the pandemic both taught her a number of important lessons, she said. Juelis remarked, “The wisdom that I wish to impart on you is: take responsibility for your own life; never be afraid to ask for help; love friends and family unconditionally, and always cherish and be thankful for the time you spent at Mater Dei.” MDP parent Regina Donohue, mother of this year’s valedictorian, Grace, and rising junior, Ellie, reflected on the reasons she and her husband enrolled their daughters in Catholic schools four years ago. “We wish we had done it sooner,” Mrs. Donohue said. “We did it to strengthen their Catholic identity. Mater Dei Prep is such an important part of our family life. What a nurturing environment; we can’t imagine our lives without the Seraph community.”

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Court University, Lakewood. “I believe that Catholic schools are strong academically, but more importantly nurture the child socially, emotionally, as well as spiritually,” she

said. “To any parent that is considering enrolling their child in a Catholic school, I would tell them it is the best investment that they will ever make.” Her son, 14-year-old Brady, is also an altar server in the parish connected with his school. In the fall, he will begin attending the Marine Academy of Technology and Environmental Sciences, Manahawkin, and he attributes his acceptance to the competitive school to his time at St. Peter School. “I valued the unity of my class as we all made happy memories participating in many class events and school sports together. My teachers were very kind to me and my classmates, always willing to guide us and to lend us a helping hand in times of need,” he said. “I know that I am ready to move on to the next chapter of my life, because of the invaluable education that I received at St. Peter School.”

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enrolled in GCU. A graduate of Lakewood High School and member of Our Lady of Guadalupe Parish, Lakewood, Rosales maintained a fulltime job for the Lakewood Board of Education during her college years. In January before the pandemic hit, Rosales learned that she was pregnant. After going into labor during her summer class final, her professor allowed her extra time to finish when she was able to return. “Everybody was very helpful and understanding,” Rosales said. “In March my husband and daughter and I all tested positive for COVID, and the professors gave me extended time to finish my assignments. I was really sick, and couldn’t even sign in to class some days, and they were always checking on me to see how I

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was doing.” Rosales is currently pursuing her teaching license and hopes to go on to earn a master’s degree in biology. “GCU is really focused on their Mercy core values; all the classes are centered on them, and they do a great job applying them to the institution as a whole.”

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“Find your passion,” he urged, “have big dreams.” Principal Joanna Barlow sounded similar notes in her speech at Commencement Exercises. “Class of 2021, how far you have come and how much has happened,” she said. Referencing their final year and a half at the school during the coronavirus pandemic, she quoted from Scripture: “Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life” (James 1:12). “What a year it has been, from online to hybrid to final months in and out of re-opening,” Barlow said. “Today, remember all those who worked so hard to achieve the goal. Now, it is time to say goodbye. You have remained steadfast under trial; acted with maturity and faith. I will never forget your impact. I could not be more proud.”

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your faith will make you strong, able to handle whatever comes your way. Do not forget God. Do not forget your faith and all that you have learned about it. Do not abandon for any reason what the Lord has spoken, offered, promised and fulfilled in your lives so far. Whether you go to college or some other path, take your faith with you. Go to Mass. Receive the Sacraments of Confession and Communion. Remember your Confirmation promises to God and his Church. Do all these things, even though there is no one who tells you to. Do all these things, even though you will meet people who tell you not to bother. Don’t believe them. They do not know the truth or, worse, they don’t care about it. Believe that the Lord’s words spoken to you will be fulfilled. Your graduation will mean many things. But, most importantly, it means that it is now up to you. Go forth with God as your guide and your faith as your path through life.

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reunion, and graduates are encouraged to save the coin, then to present it to the new graduating class 50 years later. Brother Frank, who will depart the school after 12 years as president to become his order’s auxiliary provincial, told the class, “I am going out with you. Three things come to mind. In the words of the prophet Micah, I wish you nothing more than to ‘do what is just, love goodness and walk humbly with your God.’” The top two CBA graduates shared the lessons they learned about themselves while enrolled at the Lincroft school. Valedictorian Nicholas Geissler said, “The unyielding will and perseverance needed to achieve [first ranking] is something

CBA has instilled in me, and these are values I hope to carry within me throughout the rest of my life.” Grant D’Orsi, salutatorian, shared that his career at CBA had given him “the motivation to continue working at my full capacity in the future, because I know what I am capable of when I do.”

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graduate, Payton. “Being a graduate of SJV, it made me so proud to be able to present my daughter’s diploma to her,” Kleinert said. “Payton worked so hard, built so many great friendships and loves the school as I do, which all made it even more special. Kleinert praised the high school for having “a sense of family and a community that truly cares. The teachers, coaches, guidance and administration truly cared about the kids and they helped build her confidence that she can accomplish anything she puts her mind to.”

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distribution of the diplomas. “You are resilient, bright and adaptable,” Abatemarco told the class, which included three sets of twins. “Don’t concern yourselves so much about what you are going to do, but instead what problem are you going to solve?” Problem-solving was something that the Class of 2021 had become very familiar with. Over the last year, the class responded to the pandemic by pulling together to assemble and deliver care packages to medical staff. They also organized many fundraisers for the community, working within the constraints of pandemic restrictions.

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The students’ experiences were aligned with the noble heritage of the school, a symbol of which was the alumni candle standing tall on the stage. The candle was lit, inducting the graduates into the Casey Alumni Association while all sang the school’s alma mater hymn. “We were looking for a spiritual, faith-based education,” said Cathy Scaramuzzino, who teaches English at the high school and who now has had two sons graduate from RBC; Nick in 2018 and Alex in 2021. Noting her focus on advocating for students, she shared, “Over the years I can see the growth in them. They have good hearts, and RBC fortifies that.”

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Thanks to their efforts, he said, “our graduating class learned how resilient we are, and it strengthened our already strong bonds of friendship. I believe the knowledge and experiences learned at Holy Cross will not only prepare me for my next four years, but the rest of my life.” In a brief keynote address, senior class moderator Darian D’Alfonso also referenced the challenges the Class of 2021 faced when Holy Cross Academy was closed as a diocesan school in 2018 and reopened as a private entity. Then, a year later, the class had to combat the impact of COVID-19. D’Alfonso saluted the seniors for their ability to face the challenges that befell them. Together, she said, faculty, staff and students bonded. “We learned how to overcome change” and focus on optimism. Considering their success in dealing with fluid situations, she urged the seniors “from here on out” not to be afraid to face any situation with confidence. “When I look at you in your caps and gowns,” she said, “I see the vision for the future.”

Heading TO High School  The Sacred Heart School community in Mount Holly had two reasons to celebrate on June 11. It was the eighth grade class’ graduation day and it was also their parish feast day, the Solemnity of the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus. Courtesy photo  St. Charles Borromeo, Cinnaminson, eighth graders participate in their June 3 Baccalaureate Mass. Courtesy photo

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Two St. Gregory the Great School, Hamilton Square, eighth grade graduates lead the congregation in song during the outdoor Baccalaureate Mass. Courtesy photo

To Last A Lifetim The eighth grade class from St. Rose School, Belmar, prepares to enter into their parish church for the Baccalaureate Mass. Courtesy photos

A graduate from Our Lady of Mount Carmel School, Asbury Park, participates in the eighth grade Baccalaureate Mass. Courtesy photo

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A St. Ann School, Lawrenceville, graduate receives a diploma from Father Leandro Dela Cruz, pastor, and Salvatore Chiaravalotti, principal. Courtesy photo

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