The Courier, October 2013

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THE COURIER

October 2013

Roman Catholic Diocese of Winona

Opening My Heart to Life By Mary McClusky

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“Do you have kids?” my co-worker asked as he looked at an old family photo of me surrounded by nieces and nephews. He was helping me move into a new office, and my mind was focused on the many other duties that were piling up. He went on to mention that he and his wife had adopted twin sons from Guatemala. However, I was distracted and simply said, “that’s great” before moving the conversation along. As I turned my mind towards promoting the theme of this year’s Respect Life Program, “Open your hearts to life!” I realized what I had done. The phrase, borrowed from Pope Francis, reminds us that the culture of death begins with a culture of rejection. In seemingly trivial ways, we often place our desires over the needs of others. I had placed my to-do list ahead of my co-worker’s desire to share the details of his children’s adoption. As Pope Francis said recently, “We must all care for life, cherish life, with tenderness, warmth... to give life is to open our hearts, and to care for life is to give oneself in tenderness and warmth for others, to have concern in our hearts for others.” Christ calls us to open our hearts, sacrifice our own wants, and love others with generosity and mercy. After realizing my hurried response did not reflect that call, I went back

to my colleague and asked him to tell me his family’s story. I listened as he described the pain of his wife’s ectopic pregnancy and how they chose adoption over the unacceptable choice of IVF that was presented by their physician. The couple tackled mounds of paperwork and received visits from fire marshals and social workers. Even after they were approved for adoption, there was still a great deal of uncertainty. They accepted the risks associated with not knowing the history of their children’s biological parents and the challenge of accepting that an adoption could be mere months or several years away. The couple checked “yes” to accepting more than one child, including the possibility of siblings. The adoption agency told them they had never had twins from Guatemala because they usually don’t survive, so they were surprised a few months later when they received the call that they had been chosen to adopt twin sons. In February of the following year, they traveled to Guatemala to meet their sons and bring them home. “It was amazing. We were a family,” said my co-worker. “The adoption experience was a challenge, but it was worth it,” he went on to explain. Opening our hearts to life means loving those whom God puts in our paths, even when it seems inconve-

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nient or time-consuming. Listening to my co-worker’s story not only enabled him to feel supported and affirmed, but I also gained a great deal from the experience. I learned more about adoption and grew in my desire to advocate for adoption to others. And by loving the person in front of me at that moment, my heart Open Your Hearts to Life, cont. on pg.4

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End of Year of Faith Celebration On October 11, 2011, when Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI issued Porta Fidei, the Apostolic Letter proclaiming a Year of Faith to begin October 11, 2012, he encouraged, “May this Year of Faith make our relationship with Christ the Lord increasingly firm, since only in Him is there the certitude for looking to the future and the guarantee of an authentic and lasting love.” How is this certitude experienced? The words of Saint Peter shed light on this faith: “In

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this you rejoice, though now for a little while you may have to suffer various trials, so that the genuineness of your faith, more precious than gold which though perishable is tested by fire, may redound to praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ. Without having seen Him you love Him; though you do not now see Him you believe in Him and rejoice with unutterable and exalted joy. As the outcome of your faith you obtain the salvation of your souls” (I Peter 1: 6-9). During the Year of Faith, the Diocese—priests, deacons, religious, parish leaders, teachers, catechists, students and the faithful-at-large—has had the opportunity to rediscover the content of the faith at local and diocesan levels. With the universal Church, we have seen the election of our Holy Father, Pope Francis, who continues to shepherd the People of God amidst suffering and joy. The purpose for the Year of Faith Closing Celebration in the Diocese of Winona is to give Celebrating the End of the Year of Faith, YOF insert pg 1


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