The
COURIER
The Blessed Virgin Mary
May 2015
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Official Newspaper of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Winona, MN
Seven
lessons our Blessed Mother teaches us about Motherhood
As we spend time this month reflecting on the Queen of heaven and earth, we beg her for her intercession and assistance in being the children of God that we were made to be. She is a model for all women, and reflects the beauty of God through her life. Since this is the month to also honor our earthly mothers, what can we learn from Mary, from her humble and passionate life, about motherhood? Women, especially mothers, are one of the most self-critical groups of people. If we only knew the true standard by which to measure ourselves, our lives would be more peaceful, more hopeful, more full of grace and love. by: Theresa Martin, Associate Editor
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You will make mistakes and it’s okay. Mary was without sin, and on the way back from the Temple for Passover, she could not find Jesus, not for a few minutes but for a few days! She and St. Joseph did find him eventually and all ended well. How often do mothers beat themselves up with every little mistake they make? One forgetful moment or miscommunication and they
take themselves into an internal mental lashing at how awful they are at this mothering thing. Yet, through Mary’s example, we can see that it is okay. No, you are not perfect. God did not make you perfect; however, He did give you everything you need to be the best mom for your children! We must learn to love ourselves and be at peace even with our mistakes, having faith that God made you a mother and He does not make mistakes!
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Motherhood is risky; mothers are courageous. When Mary said “yes!” to God, she took a great risk. She didn’t know what her own mother would say, what Joseph would think or how the people in her town might react. God asked her to accept new life and she said “yes!” She knew the risks and yet trusted in our Lord. When a woman is open to life, she says yes to our Lord. Pregnancy is not easy. For some women, it is even quite risky. Also, raising a new child takes a risk. You do not know what will happen in this child’s life or if illness will come or if tragedy will strike. Yet, God asks a woman to be open to life. It’s okay to have a little fear; you are not alone. You show great courage just by accepting motherhood! Yet, when we trust God, He always provides for us. Seven lessons, cont'd on pg. 16
Bishop Quinn and Msgr. Melvin present George Weigel with the Immaculate Heart of Mary Award.
Immaculate Heart of Mary Seminary hosts annual Bishops and Rector's Dinner Author George Weigel was the recipient of the 2015 Immaculate Heart of Mary Award at the 12th Annual Immaculate Heart of Mary Seminary Bishops and Rector's Dinner April 24. More than 250 people attended the dinner, including 20 priests, 60 seminarians, and Bishop John M. Quinn (Diocese of Winona), Bishop Donald J. Kettler (Diocese of St. Cloud), and Bishop John M. LeVoir (Diocese of New Ulm). “The Immaculate Heart of Mary Award recognizes and honors a priest, religious or lay person's significant effort in assisting diocesan seminarians in the discernment and formation of their vocation as Diocesan Priests. Bishop Quinn chose George Weigel, because he is a person of faith and prayer that has contributed to the discernment and Bishops and Rector's Dinner, cont'd on pg. 16
INSIDE this issue
Women's Lenten Retreat Read more about the retreat's theme of the Redemptive Power of Suffering on page 14
Way of the Cross Procession Rochester's 16th annual Way of the Cross Procession information is on page 12
Touch and be Healed, Pope says Read about Pope Francis' Divine Mercy homily on page 2