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Seasons of life
My favourite season is Spring. The weather warms up but it’s not too hot, you can essentially smell the flowers blossoming, and there’s a fresh sense of excitement as we head towards the year’s crescendo.
It also happens to be wedding season, and I am in the season of life where there seems to be a wedding every other weekend.
I’ll be watching my best friend get married on the day this magazine comes out. I’ve been preparing my speech for the wedding, and as such have been reflecting on the journey of how her and her (as-oftoday!) husband met, how her and I met, and how these relationships have evolved and changed over the decade they have been together.
Maybe I’m feeling more sentimental than usual, but sitting back and reflecting on the value and perspective gained from relationships has been something that I’ve found quite poignant during the preparation of this edition of Aurora
The common thread in this edition’s stories is the profound impact others have on our lives. What may seem like a fleeting moment or an insignificant interaction can, down the road, reveal itself as a pivotal turning point in our journey.
I sat down with Fr Joseph Figurado who was generous enough to share his story about growing up in Sri Lanka during the ethnic war, and the relationships in his life that propelled him forward and eventually led him to moving to Australia as a missionary priest. The inspiring nonagenarian Joy Loas also shared her story. Joy has dedicated her life to serving others and even founded New Lambton’s Community Friendship Club in 1979, a space where people can come and find belonging.
And of course, there’s our lead story on Respectful Relationships which highlights how the Diocese is committed to supporting young people and their families navigate
healthy, safe relationships in an increasingly challenging world.
As both Bishop Michael and CEO Sean Scanlon speak about in their columns, there is significant power in connection. Championing differences and learning from others is what sets us up for success.
My biggest reflection from curating the articles in this edition is that there’s something to be received from everyone and something to give to everyone. Perhaps the relationships you have – whether personal, professional or support based – may change over time, but this gives you the opportunity to grow and teach what you have received from this one to others.
And perhaps I’m stating the obvious, but wouldn’t we all want to give positivity and hope so others can carry that forward? There is no limit on that.
Madie Leeming Editor
Silver jubilee reflections
An elderly priest recently commented to me that a priest’s 25th anniversary of ordination is a good time to reflect because it is usually about the halfway point in his life of active ministry.
I recall being very reluctant to answer God’s call to the priesthood. People have often asked me “why did you want to become a priest?” The truth is that I didn’t want to be a priest, but I sensed God wanted me to – so I did it. I figured that God who knows me better than I know myself, and who loves me and wants me to be happy probably has a better plan than I do so I placed my trust in him. It was the best decision of my life.
My first 25 years as a priest have not always been easy and sometimes it has been hard. But I recall my mother saying to me during my first year in the seminary that everybody’s life is hard. The great joy I have also experienced in my priestly life and ministry has taught me that perseverance through challenges is
frequently the hard road we walk that leads to happiness and fulfilment.
At the 25-year mark of my priestly ministry I have found myself thinking a lot about three things:
First, priesthood is not something you do on your own. A priest exists in relationship with the rest of the faith community, especially those he serves. I am conscious of and filled with gratitude for the many people who have been my companions and collaborators along the way. My parents and family, relatives, parishioners, other priests and bishops, religious sisters, teachers, volunteers, office workers. So many people have helped to form me as a priest and have worked with me to help spread the Gospel of Our Lord. As Saint Paul liked to emphasise, there are many
gifts but always the same Spirit; we are many parts, one body, one mission.
Second, the effectiveness of a priest boils down to his humanity: to his patience and kindness, to his love of God and neighbour. People can tell if their priest stops praying or stops loving them; there is something not quite right about him – he will lose his joy, and the people will notice.
Pope Saint John Paul II said, “in order that a priest’s ministry be credible and acceptable he must mould his human personality in such a way that it becomes a bridge and not an obstacle for others in their meeting with Jesus Christ the Redeemer of humanity” (Pastores Dabo Vobis 43).
Third, I need faith without fear. Some may think that the opposite of faith is
atheism, but it’s really fear that holds us back from having a completely trusting faith in God. The fear that can hold me back is the fear that God might ask too much of me – more than I’m prepared to give. This is where the example of the Virgin Mary and so many of the saints give me encouragement that God will never ask more than he knows I can give with the help of his grace.
I have been so fortunate to have encountered and experienced God in my life in the person of Jesus Christ. I hope that my life and ministry as a priest helps others to also know the tremendous joy and hope that comes from an encounter and enduring relationship with our Lord Jesus in the community of his Church.
Photo: Elizabeth Symington
Many Parts. One Body. One Mission.
For over half a decade, the Catholic Diocese of Maitland-Newcastle has lived by the ethos Many Parts. One Body. One Mission. We have a range of unique functions and complexities in our daily operations because of the different groups we serve. From our Catholic schools to social services, to child protection, to Catholic Community Fund and Early Education, each segment plays a crucial role in our mission to build connected Catholic communities.
It's natural for different teams of any organisation to have specific needs and strategic priorities, however at the heart, it is essential to remember that we are all part of a large whole. When one part of the body thrives, the entire body benefits. This is why the individual and collective experience across our agencies is so crucial to us fulfilling our mission.
While multifaceted, we draw on each other’s strengths for the good of those we serve.
Each agency, each team and each individual within our Diocese brings unique skills and experience. The nature of our work spans from our educators who inspire and nurture to our social services teams who bridge gaps and promote inclusivity, to our spiritual leaders who offer guidance and proclaim the Gospel. Rather than viewing these as isolated functions, our Many Parts. One Body. One Mission. initiative encourages us to operate free from silos and instead focus on their interconnectedness.
Our success is reliant on information sharing and leveraging the diverse talent of our workforce. Our mission to enable people to live their lives to the fullest is not just a statement; it’s the commitment that the Diocese has been built upon and it guides every action and decision we make.
From a business perspective, the true measure of success typically lies within an organisation’s workforce. It would be remiss to ignore that paychecks and benefits often play a large role in an employees satisfaction, however it’s important not to discount the power of a shared purpose and common goals. The collective drive from believing in one’s work is often a large enabler in finding fulfillment that goes far beyond what a workplace’s benefits can provide.
In the words of Saint Paul: “There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different ways the Spirit works. But the same God is working in all these ways and in all people (1 Cor 12:5).
When reflecting on the Diocese with this verse in mind, I think of our agencies that service various groups within society. I think of the different ways we measure our success and impact within these agencies. I think about the way our agencies adapt and pivot based on the needs of their customers. However, ultimately, I think how they are all underpinned by our vision of living the joy of the Gospel and sharing it with the world. This line of thinking extends far beyond the workplace too. Every person is one cog in a larger machine in every aspect of their lives; whether it be interpersonal relationships, professional relationships, or familial relationships. There is strength in unity and celebrating shared goals, however that may look for you. We are all a part of a body, and we need each other to thrive.
Photo: Peter Stoop
Photos: Peter Stoop
A place to call home
BY JANINE CURTIS
In the heart of Tighes Hill, a presbytery that was sitting empty less than a year ago is now a symbol of independence, freedom and new beginnings for five young men.
The presbytery was given a second life in late-2023 when Hunter Community Housing (HCH), St Benedict’s Inner Newcastle Parish and Muru Pathways came together to provide much-needed accommodation for people with a disability.
Talented graphic artist, Justin, was the inaugural tenant of the presbytery following completion of his animation studies at the nearby TAFE.
He said the share house environment has enabled him to focus on things that are important to him while giving him the tools to gain vital life experience.
“I’m enjoying the independence and learning routines like cooking and cleaning. I just like relaxing and doing my drawings and art,” Justin said.
Justin and his housemates can call this unique place home thanks to Muru’s vision to provide self-directed supports for people with a disability, enabling them to live independently and autonomously.
The accommodation became available last year when St Benedict’s Parish recognised that its vacant presbytery could be repurposed. The historic building comprises eight bedrooms across two levels and sits next to Immaculate Heart of Mary Church.
Newcastle City Pastoral Region
Moderator, Father John Lovell reached out to HCH, a registered community housing provider which was established by the Catholic Diocese of MaitlandNewcastle, who explored potential uses for the property.
An experienced provider of tenancy management solutions, HCH assisted Fr John with all the steps needed to get the property ready for advertising to lease to a potential tenant.
“HCH provided all the required information such as a lease agreement, regulations, safety considerations and contacts for trades,” Fr John said.
Travis Borg is a qualified social worker and established Muru Pathways in 2015 after identifying a gap in the market for accommodation for people wanting to live independently but who still required a level of support.
He came across the advertisement for the presbytery lease and could see it had potential to become a great place for Muru’s NDIS participants to call home.
He contacted HCH about his vision to utilise the property as an Individualised Living Option for people with intellectual or psychosocial disabilities requiring a low level of support.
HCH played a pivotal role in liaising between Muru as the prospective tenant, and the Parish as the property owner, to bring a shared vision to fruition. Following the signing of the lease agreement, Muru took possession of the keys late last year, marking the beginning of a new chapter.
To suit the needs of the new tenants, some minor modifications were needed. These included the installation of a second kitchen and a bathroom refresh, transforming the property into a welcoming home for up to six tenants.
Along with Justin, four other young men currently call Tighes Hill their home. They are gradually acquainting themselves with their neighbourhood, enjoying activities like fishing in Throsby Creek and playing basketball at the local park.
These independent living arrangements, coupled with a focus on personal interests, education and employment opportunities, are preparing the tenants for an eventual transition into mainstream housing.
Lee* has been a resident of the Tighes Hill property for a couple of months now. Lee has lived in a number of Muru properties across Newcastle, but is particularly enjoying the sense of freedom and independence this home offers.
A keen gamer, he likes the flexibility of having time to himself but also the company of others.
“It is a peaceful environment here, both the house itself, but also the neighbourhood. I like being outdoors and Tighes Hill gives me that option,” he said.
Fr John commends Muru’s participants as being excellent tenants.
“Many of our parishioners live locally. They have gotten to know some of the young men and enjoy seeing them out and about in the neighbourhood,” he said.
The parish also has a thriving community garden within the church grounds that is open to everyone.
“The garden provides a lovely meeting point and pastoral activity. There’s a strong sense of community here,” Fr John said.
“This really has been a win-win situation for all involved. We’ve been able to give new life to a historical building and deliver upon the mission of the Church while creating meaningful partnerships to produce much-needed housing for the community.”
To learn more about Hunter Community Housing services visit www. huntercommunityhousing.com.au
*name changed to protect privacy
Bishop Michael Kennedy’s Jubilee celebrations
Staff and community members gathered in Sacred Heart Cathedral on Wednesday 14 August to celebrate Bishop Michael's Jubilee, marking 25 years of priestly service.
The Mass also acknowledged fellow Jubilarians Bishop Emeritus Michael Malone (60 years), Fr Robert Searle (50 years), Fr John Tobin (40 years), Fr Terry Horne (25 years), Deacon Lawrence Caelli (25 years) and Deacon John Taylor (25 years).
During Bishop Michael's homily he reflected on his personal call to priesthood and the support of his family, friends and broader community. The mass was followed by a round of applause for Bishop Michael and other Jubilarians as we celebrated their ministries.
To read Bishop Michael's Jubilee homily, visit QR code:
Pope Francis Year of Prayer
As we move closer to the Jubilee of 2025, Pope Francis wants 2024 to be dedicated to prayer.
He encourages us to rediscover the great value and absolute need for prayer in personal life, in the life of the Church, and in the world.
May prayer be the compass that guides, the light that illuminates the path and the strength to sustain us on
the pilgrimage that will lead to entering the Holy Door.
Through prayer, may we arrive at the Holy Door with our hearts ready to welcome the gifts of grace and forgiveness that the Jubilee offers, a vivid expression of our relationship with God.
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National Child Protection Week 2024
Taking place from 1-7 September, National Child Protection Week invites all Australians to play their part to promote the safety and wellbeing of children and young people. This year, the theme is: ‘Every conversation matters’.
We can all play a part by creating stronger, safer neighbourhoods. This can be achieved by talking to your neighbours, checking in with friends, being a good role model, supporting and being kind to parents rather than judging or being competitive, offering to assist where possible, and speaking up if you see something that is unsafe.
As part of National Child Protection Week, our communities—including Catholic Schools, St Nicholas, CatholicCare, and Parishes, will be participating in the Decorate Your Space initiative. This involves communities decorating a space in a way that uniquely reflects their commitment to children’s safety and wellbeing in line with the theme of National Child Protection Week ‘Every conversation matters’.
To learn more about Decorate Your Space, National Child Protection Week, and access resources from the Office of Safeguarding, visit QR code:
World Mission Month with the official launch of Socktober
Following the success of last year's inaugural Socktober event at McDonald Jones Stadium, schools from across the Diocese will attend this year's event at the same venue on Tuesday 17 September. Organised by Catholic Mission and the Catholic Schools Office, this year's launch will focus on the theme 'Go and Invite Everyone to the Banquet' (Matthew 22:9).
This year, there is a particular focus on the Don Bosco Caring Center and the children in need supported by this church-run project. The centre in Mongolia was created to provide vulnerable children with a loving and safe environment where they can access education and ongoing support. It seeks to provide a safe and loving environment for the children to access education and discover themselves as they grow up.
From the launch, it is hoped that students and staff will be motivated and inspired to play their part as missionary disciples, on behalf of the people of Mongolia.
Season of Creation 2024: "To hope and act with Creation"
The Season of Creation is the annual Christian celebration to pray and respond together to the cry of Creation: the ecumenical family around the world unites to listen and care for our common home, the Oikos of God. The season’s “Celebration” begins September 1, the Feast of Creation, and ends October 4, the Feast of Saint Francis of Assisi, the patron saint of ecology beloved by many Christian denominations.
“Hope and Act with Creation” is the theme of the World Day of Prayer for the Care of Creation and is drawn from Saint Paul’s Letter to the Romans (8:1925), where the Apostle explains what it means for us to live according to the Spirit and focuses on the sure hope of salvation that is born of faith, namely, newness of life in Christ.
Early Childhood Educators/OOSH Educators Day
St Nicholas came together to celebrate OOSH Educators Day on 31 July and Early Childhood Educators’ Day on 4 September.
Educators play a pivotal role in supporting children to thrive and the team across St Nicholas Early Education and OOSH ensures children are cared for in a nurturing, safe and inclusive environment.
The impact educators have is paramount to the success of St Nicholas and as an organisation, St Nicholas is endeavouring to continue its efforts in ensuring educators feel valued and recognised for their daily commitment to providing quality education and care.
ACBC Social Justice Statement
Australia’s Catholic bishops say peace is possible if people commit to speaking the truth and redouble efforts to end war.
The Australian Catholic Bishops Conference (ACBC) has released the Social Justice Statement for 2024-25, entitled Truth and Peace: A Gospel Word in a Violent World.
Every year, the bishops seek to make a substantive comment on a key social issue and this year the focus is on the promotion of peace and the need for truth in public life.
The statement examines rising tensions around the world, the nature of truth, the spread of misinformation and disinformation, the arms race, domestic cohesion, the need for dialogue and education for peace.
It also lists practical action which can be taken to make a real difference.
Bishop Vincent Long, Chair of the Bishops Commission for Social Justice, Mission and Service, said: “The violence in Australia and other parts of the world make it all the more urgent that all who believe in Jesus Christ work together with everyone of good will, all who love truth, to show the world that there is a realistic way to peace, a genuine peace built upon speaking truth and building trust”.
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Championing respectful relationships
BY MADIE LEEMING
It’s everywhere in the news.
We're learning that we must be acutely aware of the risks of online use for children and adolescents. That we must be mindful of the sexualisation that’s present in the vast majority of fashion marketing, television advertisements and music.
The Federal government and opposition have both endorsed a social media ban for teenagers under 16.
Further, the Albanese Government committed funding in this year’s budget to addressing easy access to pornography for young people to tackle the extreme online misogyny which is fuelling harmful attitudes towards women.
The question remains; how can we help at a grass-roots level?
The Catholic Diocese of MaitlandNewcastle is taking a proactive approach to educating young people as well as parents, carers and teachers on the impacts that the online world presents.
Chief Operating Officer of Catholic Schools, Lisa Tierney, said following impactful sessions centred around respectful relationships with Melinda Tankard Reist and Daniel Principe at Catherine McAuley Catholic College,
Medowie, the Catholic Schools Office will roll out further sessions with Tankard Reist and Dr Marshall Ballantine-Jones across all schools in the Diocese.
"We're fully aware of the serious dangers and consequences of online use for our students. Our goal is to promote respectful relationships among them— whether it's with their peers, friends, family, or themselves,” said Ms Tierney.
“We want to take a proactive approach to educating young people as well as parents and carers on the impacts that the online world can have now, and into the future.
“Our firm focus on improving relationships utilises significant resources from the Catholic Schools Office. It’s one of the most important and hopefully impactful initiatives we will roll out,” she said.
In addition to the Respectful Relationships program, the Diocese is exhausting all avenues to support parents and carers in navigating the online safety of their children.
As part of National Child Protection Week, the Diocese’s peak parent body,
The Federation of P&F Associations has partnered with the Office of Safeguarding and the Cyber Safety Project to deliver a webinar. This webinar detailed valuable resources and actions that can be implemented to support young people in their online use.
Industry partners are also being consulted, with Prevention United’s Youth Advisory Group advocating for the positive power of social media when used correctly, facilitating connectedness, storytelling, engagement, creativity and sense of community.
They have called on the Government and policy makers to continue the conversation, ensure the voices of young people are heard, and develop evidence-based solutions to ensure that young people are safe online.
Ms Tierney said supporting our male students and empowering our female students won’t stop with information sharing and our active engagement with parents.
“This isn’t a tick-the-box exercise, this is us working to be on the front foot of a culture change and hopefully, it
will ensure our students have healthy relationships in all aspects of their lives far beyond their schooling years.
“Trying to disrupt these social norms is daunting and will no doubt be a challenge, but it is something our Diocesan Catholic Schools, our principals and all of our school staff are absolutely committed to,” said Ms Tierney.
As Scott Donohoe, Principal of Catherine McAuley Catholic College Medowie emphasised to all female students on the day they were addressed by Melinda Tankard Reist, “Every single one of you deserves to feel safe when you come to school, and if you don’t, I’m telling you in my position as Principal, I’m not going to accept that.
“This is about your safety – your psychological safety just as much as your physical safety. We are a school with strong values, and we will lead by those.”
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Championing girls into empowered women
How can we help our young people resist harmful messages from media and pop culture and aspire to respectful relationships?
This was the question behind the Diocese’s engagement of renowned author, media commentator and advocate for women, Melinda Tankard Reist.
As I turned up to Catherine McAuley Catholic College to sit in on a session Melinda facilitated with the female students, I didn’t anticipate being shocked.
After all, I’ve worked at the Diocese for a while, I have TikTok (albeit my algorithm is skewed towards home renovations and food recipes), and I grew up in the MSN, flip phone era.
However, listening to Tankard Reist’s insights on the social landscape young people are living in was a stark reminder on how little anyone removed from adolescence really knows.
Highly regarded for her work addressing sexualisation, objectification, harms of pornography and sexual exploitation, Tankard Reist spoke about boys in classrooms sexually moaning, groaning and barking at their female peers as a new trend amongst schools across the country.
She said young men’s exposure and accessibility to pornography is causing sexual violence against young women, in the form of strangulation, physical violence and rape threats. This isn’t a case of one bad egg, it’s a widespread problem.
Many parents don’t know this could be happening to, or at the hands of, their own child.
And what’s potentially most distressing, is Tankard Reist finds that these adolescent females have already given up hope that their male counterparts will ever treat them differently or change their behaviours.
She says that what she is seeing in schools is violent, unnatural behaviour, with boys making rape threats to girls, sexualising the parents of their classmates and significant increases in peer-on-peer harassment.
“Girls have a right to say no, and that’s what we’re trying to teach them. I want them to clarify their values, to enforce their boundaries, to understand they have a right to be safe. They have a right not to be sexually groaned at, moaned at, threatened with rape,” said Tankard Reist.
“They have a right to come to school and learn and enjoy hanging out with their friends and not be telling me in tears of the routine daily sexual harassment and intrusion that they endure at every school in the country.”
Tankard Reist says this is only one part of the problem; the sexualisation and value that’s placed in presentation instead of personality is another driver of this epidemic.
“It’s so important for parents and carers to stop and think if they’re allowing violent music? Violent video games? Are they allowing their sons to speak inappropriately to their sisters? Are they themselves modelling a respectful relationship?
“It’s not always what we say, it’s what we do, and parents need to act personally, but they also need to act collectively,” she said.
I asked Melinda if she had hope for things getting better.
She took longer to answer this question than she did any of the others.
“Hope… I must have it. I couldn’t get out of bed each day if I didn’t.
“There are very low moments, and right now I’m hearing the worst stories I’ve ever heard in 30 years of public engagement. I’m not going to minimise the pain of that.
“But yes, I do have hope that change is possible. We must keep doing the work.”
Championing boys into good men
BY TIM BOWD
It’s early on a brisk winter morning at Catherine McAuley Catholic College in Medowie.
Male students from Years 7 to 11 are filing into the school hall to hear from Daniel Principe, a youth advocate, speaker, and educator who focuses on helping young people navigate the digital world and form healthy relationships.
As a middle-aged male, an employee of the Diocese and most importantly, a father of two sons, I was interested and somewhat nervous to learn about digital literacy and the promotion of positive masculinity and sexual expression.
As the students settle in, I approach Principe to ask about having some time to chat after the session. Given his profile—he was on ‘The Project’ just days prior after all—I was slightly nervous asking. However, Principe immediately makes me feel at ease, saying, “Whatever you need will be fine,” despite his busy morning schedule.
Principe’s easy manner is apparent as he begins his session with the male students. His approach is very knowledgeable but also very fun. He recalls a story about when he went to high school, playing Snake on a Nokia 3310 as one of his first digital experiences. This approach
immediately connects him with the students, who can draw parallels to the online ‘gaming’ experience. Unfortunately, however, those digital experiences are much different for teenagers today.
That’s because adolescence in the modern world is tough. Young people today face challenges unlike any other generation, growing up in a digital world of pornography, sexist online content, sexbots, catfishing, and live-streamed violence.
The students now feeling at ease, add to this verbatim, telling Principe how they are being exposed to "jokes" and online content that, at its mildest, features women who supposedly belong in the kitchen, right through to threats about sexual assault and worse.
Principe’s session continues with discussion on the impact of online content on young people. He addresses the challenges posed by the current digital age, such as exposure to harmful content and the pressures of social media and provides practical skills to evaluate and navigate these influences critically. His aim is to empower young people to make more informed decisions and develop a healthier relationship with technology.
Central to his approach is being frank about harmful online behaviours, particularly those related to pornography. He acknowledges its existence while providing the boys with the tools and knowledge to help navigate this complex aspect of modern life.
Principe explains, “Unless we champion boys to challenge their cultural dictates, they won’t have the skills or tools to behave any differently. We need to radically shift the culture so that being upstanders and showing care doesn't come at such a social and emotional toll."
“We need to help young males unpack the messages they receive about masculinity and sex, give them the tools and opportunities to build a healthy identity, and provide inspiring examples of good men and respectful relationships.
“It’s our role to get young people to consider what a healthy man looks like—how he talks, how he acts, and how he makes others feel.
“We can’t expect boys to get it right on their own, we have to lead the way.”
A storyteller’s legacy
BY MADIE LEEMING
It’s not every day that one of Australia’s finest musicians, who’s worked with industry legends Prince and Led Zeppelin, performed for Queen Elizabeth II (twice), toured the world multiple times and performed on top of the iconic Sydney Opera House, ends up in a Catholic School in Aberdeen.
But that’s exactly what happened when decorated didgeridoo player, Mark Atkins, joined St Joseph’s Catholic College to open their yarning circle and celebrate NAIDOC week.
Leading the male students in a moving didgeridoo performance as a smoking ceremony marked the new chapter in the school’s history, Atkins was completely in his element.
His path to working with students isn’t conventional. With a career spanning over 45 years, Atkins will be the first to tell you there’s been many twists and turns leading him to where he is today.
Descending from the Yamatji people of Western Australia, Atkins is of mixed heritage; Aboriginal and Irish Australian.
“I grew up during a funny time. We were scared we were going to be taken away and assimilated into being European, and our way of life would be taken away,” said Atkins.
“I was fighting all the time. My schooling wasn’t like it is today. I started playing as drummer at about 10 years old and I got caught up in it.”
With his career kicking off in the 1970’s, Atkins said it was the ‘good old days’, that entailed all things rock’n’roll.
After a long stint living this lifestyle, Atkins found the need to ground himself, so went up north. This is where he first started playing the didgeridoo, a decision he says saved his life.
“I would have ended up in jail or dead. And now the didgeridoo has taken me around the world,” he said.
Around the time COVID hit, Atkins slowed down for the first time in decades. This allowed him to start working with children who had similar backgrounds to him.
“I was going out bush, cutting my own logs and getting back to basics. Doing
smaller, intimate gigs instead of big stages.
“I started doing these workshops with kids where I would just talk to them, about mental health and general things, I created a space where anybody could come and sit down with me,” he said.
Even when the world opened up following the pandemic, working with children and keeping culture alive remained a priority for Atkins.
“A lot of culture hasn’t been getting passed on. When you disconnect from the country, from the land, that’s that. That’s how things become extinct.”
Atkins is a legendary storyteller. His music, his shows and his art in all forms is centred around story telling.
“It’s something I can leave behind,” he said.
For a man who has experienced incomprehensible highs and his fair share of hurdles, there is plenty of
wisdom he’s acquired that can be passed on to future generations.
Year 12 St Joseph’s Catholic College student Griffith Lloyd said getting to play with Mark Atkins was a once-in-alifetime experience.
“To learn from someone who has a cultural background like us and has turned his life into such a success is inspiring for us all. It reminds us that the sky is the limit and that our culture can be our superpower,” Griffith said.
As for Atkins, his advice to future generations is simple.
“You need to be honest with yourself and respect yourself, because that way you learn how to deal with other people.
“And the most important thing is to follow your dreams. Don’t let anybody tell you what you can and can’t do. There’s more than one way over.”
Photos: Gemma Hunter
Joy spreads joy
BY ELIZABETH SYMINGTON
It’s
rare to find Joy Loas without a smile on her face.
The nonagenarian lives up to her name, having spent her life spreading happiness and making a difference through volunteering.
It started with knitting items for the soldiers in World War II and helping teach the “littlies” at her one-room, one-teacher small country school when she was a teenager.
At 17, she left home in Gulgong and moved to Gilgandra, where she worked as a telephonist – a position that set the stage for her lifelong dedication to helping others.
These moments of service sparked something in Joy and what followed has been decades of volunteering.
Her marriage in 1953 brought her to Newcastle, where she raised her two children and became deeply involved in her local community.
While the kids were at school, she volunteered in the Mother’s Club (now known as the Parent and Friends Association) and when they graduated, she became involved in the St Vincent de Paul Society – something that was rather revolutionary in 1971.
“St Vincent de Paul was virtually a male domain, and I think I was probably one of the first females that paved the way by becoming the regional president for Newcastle after three years.
“It was an honour.”
Just a few years later she was approached by the Uniting Church to become involved in a friendship club – a group for elderly people to help combat loneliness.
The ecumenical movement instantly appealed to Joy, so she went along to the first meeting and two days later she was asked to become a coordinator.
“After an hour's conversation with a friend, I decided to take on the role. So, we started the New Lambton Community Friendship Club in 1979,” Joy said.
“I'm the only surviving member of the original group but the Club is still functioning.
“In the first 12 to 18 months we had something like 106 members, and we had to close the books because there were too many at that stage of the game.
“I've probably seen hundreds of elderly people pass through the club over the 45 years.
“It is extremely special and so important for our community.”
Over the years, the club has flourished and fostered a sense of belonging among its members.
The club’s long-standing partnership with the Waratah Girls Choir is a testament to the strong community ties Joy has helped build.
For 35 years, the choir has been performing for the friendship club and plans to continue for as long as both entities exist.
When asked why she is so passionate about what she does, Joy’s answer was simple.
“I just love people,” she said.
“I’m bored if I'm sitting at home, so I'm out almost every day, flitting around like a butterfly.”
One of her favourite things to do when volunteering with St Vincent de Paul is to visit St Therese’s Primary School, New Lambton.
The students are big supporters of the charity through their Mini Vinnies Program.
Former School Principal and current Assistant Head of Catholic Schools Duilio Rufo said Joy would light up the school whenever she visited.
“I've known Joy for a long time, we're both in the same parish of Holy Trinity Blackbutt North and when I was Principal at St Therese’s she worked with us on a whole host of things,” he said.
“I'm totally in awe of her as a person and if I could say anything to her, I would say that I only hope that I can even do half of the work that she does to support other people.
“I'm just astounded by what she’s achieved.”
Joy’s incredible service was recognised earlier this year when she was awarded an Order of Australia Medal.
It’s something she will cherish forever.
“Being honoured with the medal felt
wonderful and is still feeling wonderful, but I keep shaking myself and thinking, why me,” Joy said.
“What makes me so special?
“But it’s magnificent and I feel very proud.”
Joy’s unwavering faith has been another cornerstone in her life. She’s served as a Special Minister of the Eucharist and remains active in her church community in several ways.
“My faith is my life,” she said.
“Just recently, when I got my Order of Australia, I was speaking with a retired Anglican minister and he said to me ‘you walk your faith’ and that has stayed with me.
“It was just lovely to hear because my faith really is important to me.”
It’s easy to see what will come next for Joy – she is going to keep embodying the spirit of community and service that has defined her life.
“I am going to keep volunteering for however long I can,” she said.
“At 92 years of age, I don't want to feel depressed thinking how much longer have I got left. Every day is an opportunity, and I am just going to keep going to the best of my ability.”
Joy’s secret to living a long and happy life involves three things – meditation, keeping busy, and living by this motto:
“More things are wrought by prayer than this world dreams of.”
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At 92 years of age, I don't want to feel depressed thinking how much longer have I got left. Every day is an opportunity, and I am just going to keep going to the best of my ability.
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From scared to safety
BY MADIE LEEMING
Seven
days.
Seven days is all it took for 21-year-old Sarah* to change the trajectory of her and her son’s life.
Seven days alongside a significant amount of courage.
When the person who Sarah thought would protect her and her 10-month old son was violent towards her, she knew she had to flee.
“Things were getting worse and worse. I had to leave,” said Sarah.
Already acquainted with CatholicCare’s Family Preservation Program**, Sarah had been in contact with her caseworker to obtain support with safety around the home and for parenting advice.
With this relationship already established, Sarah reached out to her caseworker as soon as things took a turn for the worst. She was immediately taken into the Staying Home, Leaving Violence program.
“I learnt through contacting the police and the support of CatholicCare that none of what was happening was ok and I deserved so much better than that.
“The CatholicCare team were amazing, I called them as soon as I fled the situation and they got me everything I needed straight away. It was insane,” said Sarah.
“I spent a week interstate for safety and as soon as I returned, CatholicCare got me into a temporary hotel and then helped me with a rental bond for a place.”
In seven days, Sarah had a new place to call home. It was the fastest turnaround CatholicCare has been involved with to date.
“There were so many different emotions that I had to keep rolling with. I did have my moments where I just needed to cry, but other than that, I was pretty strong minded. I knew it was the best decision,” said Sarah.
CatholicCare Team Leader, Nikki Reece, said the efforts from both Sarah and her caseworkers were amazing.
“The speed at which Sarah was able to relocate ensured that she and her son were safe in a very short amount of time. The safety of families is always our priority and we are so pleased that the support from our programs has had such a positive impact for this young family,” said Nikki.
It’s been a few months since that time, and Sarah has continued taking steps to positively alter the course of her and her son’s lives.
After receiving the NSW Government’s Victim Services Payment, Sarah obtained her licence and purchased a car.
Sarah’s Staying Home, Leaving Violence Caseworker Ashley said, “I’m really proud of Sarah’s ability to reach out and ask for support. It can be very difficult to do that. She has come such a long way and shown an enormous amount of resilience in the process.”
With further support from CatholicCare, Sarah was able to enrol her son into daycare and has just relocated into a two-bedroom house which she is ready to make a home.
When reflecting on her journey, Sarah said she is gobsmacked at how her situation has changed for the better.
“It’s so hard to leave. You want to, but it’s just so hard. I wish I knew how much support there was and that it was ok for me to leave because I didn’t feel safe. It’s just so much better on the other side and I’m so proud of how far my son and I have come.”
For more information on support services visit www.catholiccare.org.au or email ccenquiries@catholiccare.org.au *Name has been changed to
Valuable life lessons
BY BROOKE CROSS
St Clare’s High School, Taree students are learning essential life skills by helping community members who need support to access hot, nutritious meals.
Year Ten students have regularly volunteered at the Taree Community Kitchen for nearly a decade, and the program has no plans to slow down. Not only are students learning about the world around them, but volunteering also provides an opportunity to assist with food preparation, serve meals, and learn about the lived experiences of people in their local area.
Tanille Gardner, School Leader of Learning - Religious Education, says this initiative embodies the school's vision of helping others.
“The students' commitment to helping those who need it strengthens their faith and fosters a sense of unity and purpose within the community,” said Tanille.
“Volunteering is a practical way to teach our students the Catholic values of compassion, love and hospitality.”
Community Kitchen volunteer Carol Healy says their time at the Kitchen has been a positive eye-opener for many students.
“The experience is a bit of reality check as not everyone locally is as lucky as they may be, having a roof over their heads and enough food and clothes to live a comfortable life,” said Carol.
The people they support at the Community Kitchen come from all walks of life, and Tanille says this has been quite a shock for participants.
“Volunteering has changed their perception of people who need help. Some of the young people were quick to assume it was those experiencing homelessness or who didn’t work. However, they have met individuals who are having chemo and can’t cook; others are struggling to pay their bills but have a job and home. The experience has certainly been valuable in breaking down stereotypes,” she said.
Meg Norling, Volunteer Coordinator at CatholicCare, says the student's role in the kitchen is invaluable for both them and those who visit.
“Our friends who come for a meal love having the students there. I think they get quite touched by their help. It makes them feel like everybody cares, and they build connections with young people, which is lovely. The students bring such a positive energy to the place.”
Meg says that on arrival, many young people exclaim they do not know how to wash up, sweep the floor, or cook a meal. However, by the day's end, they are feeling accomplished.
“It has been wonderful to witness students leaving with a sense of pride about what they have learned and achieved. Some have shared, ‘I am really proud of myself.’ That's lovely for those kids to value their contribution as much as we do,” she said.
Student Mohammad Nooruddin says he was surprised by how many people in the Taree community needed help.
“It was a real eye-opening experience and a chance to learn first-hand about the social justice issues we discuss in class and truly understand what is happening in our community. I was surprised by how many meals they serve daily,” said Mohammad.
Tanille says while students may only participate in this program for a short time while attending St Clare’s, the skills and awareness this type of service brings to each individual lasts a lifetime.
“I love seeing my students evolve through this opportunity. They learn more about themselves, but it also teaches them that we should be doing something about the problems we see, not just recognising them. We can all learn something from that.”
The story of a fisherman’s son
BY MADIE LEEMING
It’s August 1973. In a small village, Pallimunai, in the Northern Province of Mannar in Sri Lanka, a young fisherman and his wife are devastated to find that their firstborn child had been born with fluid in his skull, ears and nose. This condition almost guaranteed he wouldn’t survive.
When a Holy Family Sister entered the room and asked the parents why they were crying, the distraught parents said their baby was going to die.
“Why are you crying?” she asked them. “Don’t you have faith?”
Sister Clement joined the parents to pray the rosary, reassuring them during this worship, something would happen.
While they were praying, a doctor who had just returned from his graduate studies in America came to the hospital.
By a stroke of luck, a miracle or God’s will, this doctor had learnt about the newborn's condition while in America and knew the exact two injections the baby would require to save his life.
He rushed to the room and administered one injection.
Twenty minutes later, he administered the second injection.
The baby immediately started responding.
Sister Clement told the parents, “God has given this child back to you. Now you must make a decision to hand him over to God.”
And so, the child’s destiny was born.
The couple named their son Joseph and life went on. More children were born, the fisherman continued fishing, the children climbed coconut trees and learnt to swim in the ocean.
Joseph made his first Holy Communion at age nine along with all
the village boys and girls. While all of the children wore traditional Sri Lankan attire, Joseph’s Grandmother insisted he wear a button-up shirt, suit jacket and tie.
An odd direction at the time, hindsight would prove this moment was once again preparing Joseph for his destiny.
In 1983 the Sri Lankan Civil War intensified. As the war continued to escalate, Joseph’s father had a gut feeling they were no longer safe, so he packed his family’s valuables and fled with his wife and five sons.
Soon after, the family moved into a Refugee Camp in the Shrine of Our Lady of Madhu, the National Marian Shrine at the heart of the Diocese of Mannar.
The United Nations High Commission for Refugees (UNHCR) Human Rights signage was the first English letters Joseph would ever see and learn.
While the camp was a peace zone, it lay between the army’s area and the rebel’s area. The camp was safe; but many people were killed by exchanging gunfire when they would go and fetch firewood from the jungle.
They learnt to time their trips after 11pm, during a full moon at night, to minimise their noise and to lie low under a tree in the jungle to avoid artilleries.
Thankfully, life went on.
As Joseph became a teen, he knew he would likely follow the path to becoming a fisherman, like his father.
It wasn’t until 1991 when Joseph was in his final years of school that he felt a calling to become a priest.
Joseph joined the seminary and completed his formation from 1991 to 2006.
During that time, he saw many different phases of the war, he was the Deacon during the Sri Lankan tsunami in 2004, he suffered more loss and more learning than most people do in a lifetime.
He was ordained in 2006 and lived as a monk until 2017. It took him seven years to make the decision to come to Australia as a missionary priest and leave his monastery life.
He landed in Sydney on 18 October 2017.
Joseph is now Father Joseph Figurado of All Saints’ Blackbutt South Parish.
He is a steadfast member of our own community, who has committed his life to “humble service with a smile.”
This personal motto is at the very heart of how Fr Joseph lives his life.
“I made the decision not to pass my hardships, wounds, and the death I have seen, on to others. I will keep showing up with a smile and laughter because that’s what drives me to make others happy,” Fr Joseph said.
Asked if he always knew he was going to be a priest, he reflects before answering.
“I’m sitting back after telling these stories, and I’m connecting the dots.
“There was the voice inside my head telling me to become a priest.
“There was my grandmother making me wear a shirt, suit and tie to my first Holy Communion. I’m dressing like that every day now. She never had any clue that I would end up here.
“Then there was the Sister who told my parents they must hand me over to God after my life was saved.
“I did like my fishing, but being a priest is my destiny.”
Through countless hurdles, tears, hardships, starvation, lack of electricity, lack of housing, war and loss, Fr Joseph has found purpose for it all.
“Each and every difficulty you encounter in your life will shape you. Form you. And make you stronger,” he said.
“Having personal pain in doing good for others, especially in my ministry to sick and dying, gave me the greatest push in my life.
“Whether that is the nature of God, everything comes to your life with purpose. You are born in this world with purpose.”
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Just keep turning up
BY ELIZABETH SYMINGTON
Becoming a foster carer might be a journey filled with a few tough times but imagine how much harder it is for the child.
For reasons outside of their control, they can no longer live in their regular home. They have no idea of what’s coming next, they just want to be loved and have a chance at success.
That child has done nothing wrong and is simply a victim of circumstance.
If you have space in your heart and home, even if it’s just for a weekend once a month, you have the power to change that child’s life.
This is exactly what encouraged Amy and her husband Scott to become foster carers with CatholicCare Social Services Hunter-Manning.
For the last three years, they have been carers to five-year-old Ben*. The vibrant and adventurous soul has brought so much colour and love to their lives.
“I had always thought I would be able to love someone else’s child if I needed to and thought that if I was able to, I would foster or adopt,” Amy explained.
“When I started looking into adoption, I realised there was so much need in the foster care system – there are so many kids out there that need a home, it's truly heartbreaking.
“My husband and I feel very fortunate in this life and felt we had the room in our lives and our home to provide a family for a child that needed it.”
Although it was a scary decision, something they spoke about for years, Amy has no regrets and is so thankful they opened their home to Ben.
The “lively little firecracker” is the perfect addition to their family. With three boys, Amy and Scott are kept very busy but they wouldn’t change a thing.
“He has come so far since he has been in our care. It’s amazing to see the progress and his little personality develop.
“When I think about how far he has come I feel so proud. I am proud of him and I’m so proud of myself and my family for not giving up.”
It’s not been without its challenges though. Amy says one of the hardest parts of their journey has been working through trauma-related behaviours.
“All kids are different but unfortunately, a lot of children in care are struggling with the effect of their trauma and the way it impacts all areas of their lives, including their behaviour and the way they connect to others,” she said.
“There have been high highs and low lows and that rollercoaster can be exhausting but it is worth it.”
Any negatives are all outweighed by one thing though – Amy and Scott are changing Ben’s life.
“Fostering is one of the hardest things I’ve ever done but also the most rewarding,” Amy said.
“It feels good to know that my boy now has a chance at a wonderful future, and we have been a part of that.
“And no matter what happens… at least he has known love, he has known stability, safety and acceptance.
“He has seen what a family looks like and that is no small thing.”
She adds that the support you receive from your caseworker will be vital to your journey in caring for the child.
Amy encourages people who are interested in becoming a foster carer to take the time to think about it before jumping in.
“It’s a massive leap of faith,” she said. “You must be willing to learn and ask for help – you cannot do this journey alone.
“Fostering will challenge you, stretch you and grow you in ways you have never even considered. But you might just surprise yourself with your capacity to give and just keep turning up.”
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Remembrance and Connection
BY LEANNE BECKHOUSE
As we pause in remembrance this September to acknowledge the devastation caused to victims, survivors, and the families of those who experienced child sexual abuse within the Catholic Diocese of Maitland-Newcastle, we are reminded of the importance of connectedness and compassion to support in healing.
For those that have been harmed or traumatised, healing is a complex and sometimes elusive goal. Although many people pursue healing at some stage in their lives, the question of how to achieve it can be overwhelming.
Many experts may suggest a certain approach, but as a Case Worker specialising in child sexual abuse, I have learned that this is a lifelong process, and everyone must follow their own unique path.
For many who have suffered religious based trauma, it can be hard to feel safe enough to reach out to others to achieve connection. For others, it can be hard to imagine why some people are unable to “let it go”. If we all work to find understanding and compassion whenever we can, together we may find a better way to move forward.
Larry* is a survivor who has taught me a lot about what it is to carry the
lifelong burden of childhood trauma and in particular, where connection and spirituality can aid in healing and growth.
He said many survivors struggle in isolation and darkness every day.
“There is a void in our lives, an emptiness that dulls the spark of humanity, and life becomes a grind to just endure,” Larry said.
“I see spirituality as providing meaning in my life. It provides me with a connection to others and points me towards a power greater than myself, whatever way you conceptualise that power.
“I am reminded by our First Nations brothers and sisters that when I look into nature, when I gaze at a starry sky and when I marvel at the light of the moon, I am being connected to something greater than me,” he said.
Larry, along with many other survivors, access the support of Zimmermann Service Healing and Support within the Diocese’s CatholicCare agency.
Zimmerman Service Healing and Support aims to provide psychosocial support and confidential assistance to anyone who has been impacted by sexual abuse within the Diocese.
Recognising that healing is a journey not an end goal, Zimmerman Service acknowledges the profound trauma experienced by many at the hands of trusted individuals. To build a safer world for future generations, we must continue to remember and learn from the past.
For more information on services contact 4923 0636 or email ZimmermanService@ healingandsupport.org.au
Support can also be sought from The Clergy Abused Network (C.A.N) by contacting 0408 909 950 or 0408 515 149.
*Name has been changed to protect privacy.
Perpetual Day of Remembrance
This year September 15, our Perpetual Day of Remembrance, is a Sunday. Resources to support the community's prayer response are available on the diocesan website. The range of resources enables everyone to participate in whatever way is most authentic, from lighting a candle and perhaps saying a prayer in your home, to joining with others at Mass on Sunday September 15.
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Mary Magdalene Award recognises faith-filled women
BY ELIZABETH SYMINGTON
However, the reason Bernadette won is clear – she’s been dedicated to her faith and Parish all her life.
encouraged us to be involved in the community,” she said.
Thirty-eight women who are grounded in their faith and dedicated to their community were recognised just a few weeks ago. It comes after a rigorous nomination and selection process for the 2024 Mary Magdalene Award.
More than 200 people gathered to celebrate these women at a special ceremony with Bishop Michael Kennedy at the end of July.
While every nominee was worthy of the award, the honour could only go to one.
The winner, Bernadette Newton from the Myall Coast Parish was shocked to win the award when, in
At a glance, she is part of the leadership team, is Vice President of a mass centre, looks after music in the church, writes rosters for the readers and community ministers, assists with liturgies at schools, alter serves once a month and mows the lawn around the church grounds with her husband.
When it comes to why she is so passionate about volunteering, Bernadette says it’s because of her family.
“I am also mindful that we are an ageing community, and a lot of people at my Parish just don’t have the energy or the health to be able to do what’s needed so it’s my time to step up and help out.”
When it comes to the other nominees, Bernadette wants to say thanks.
“They are such wonderful people so I must congratulate them on the work that they do and thank them so much for all their time and efforts,” she said.
Newcastle, particularly in regard to leadership, ministry, and decision making, all of which are works of service.
“It’s a pleasure to be able to acknowledge the women who enrich our Diocese, and I extend my gratitude to all of those who were nominated in 2024,” Bishop Michael said.
“Just as Mary Magdalene’s testimony and mission were foundational to the early Church, each of these women have offered significant contributions to the Church’s vitality and growth.”
“I was raised with a good grounding in my faith and my grandparents always
Bishop Michael Kennedy said the Magdalene nominations recognise women who are committed to the mission of the Church in the Diocese of Maitland-
Established in 2015, the Magdalene Award aims to celebrate and honour local women who demonstrate exceptional leadership within our Diocese and embody the spirit of Mary Magdalene.
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