I am certain that my wife would have left me for her lover, and, on reflection, I am also very sure that she has had a plethora of affairs. You are being just as double-dealing with her now as she was when cheatimg had the affair. To procreate another life. I discovered emails and, at the time, was devastated. Some of you will know my memoir, A Small Dog Saved My Life, which told how my rescue Maltese, Bonnie, helped me through the pain of divorce. More from Bel Mooney for the Daily Mail. At the moment, just my grown-up son and I live here, so it will be a big change. So we re-found each other. You have good reason to hate the man, but there is no justification whatsoever for destroying the happiness of a woman who has done you no harm at all. Ten weeks later, we cheating wife lying back together as if nothing happened. Your letter raises a specific situation but the thoughts behind it are universal. I am at a funny age — cheating wife lying — and have been married to the same woman fo