The Southbourne Link - December 2022

Dear Residents,

December 2022! Here at Modern Magazines we have had a good year and are determined that 2023 will go well. We moved location this last year and are settled in new offices. Plus, we bought a new business too. It has been busy and pretty exciting really. There are always challenges and we have faced them head on. We have two new staff who are doing great. Beth, who has been our graphic designer for the past twelve months is going off to have her first baby! We can’t wait to meet him. Pippa has created a whole new magazine in Weymouth with us, and we are very glad she joined the team.

Mel has worked with us for over 13 years now! Julie is into her 10th year of working with us, and Steph is into her 2nd year. We are a fantastic team. Chris the distribution Manager stays chirpy cheerful and is a real asset too!

All of our loyal advertisers are doing well and really want to thank you for your calls, bookings and purchases.

In fact all of us at Modern Magazines Wish you a Wonderful Christmas. Relax, enjoy time with family, friends and colleagues or indeed take some time out on your own and go for a long walk and take in the scenery. Wishing you all the Very Best, Debbie, Stephen & the Gang!

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Shake & Stir Vintage Music Festival Wins Event of the Year Award at DMB Tourism Awards

The popular Shake & Stir Vintage Music Festival, hosted in Southbourne each summer, was announced as the gold winner for the Event of the Year Award at the DMB (Destination Management Board) Tourism Awards. The award win was announced at the Gala Dinner hosted at Bournemouth Pavilion on 10th November 2022.

Launched in March this year, the DMB Tourism Awards celebrates businesses that show true excellence in making Bournemouth, Christchurch and Poole a great place to visit, live and work. The awards had 18 categories with category entries spanning across hospitality, education, retail, event, and transportation focussing on businesses and organisations who have been working to improve local offerings whilst attracting visitors to the BCP area

Thrilling vintage lovers, families, holidaymakers and locals for almost a decade, Shake & Stir attracted over 30,000 visitors to Southbourne last June. The popular music festival features vintage

fashion, vintage car displays, artisan traders and live music playing the sounds of the 1920s1970s. Shake & Stir was up against Bournemouth 7’s, the Farmer Palmers Christmas Twilight Event and Global Rainbow at Poole Lighthouse in the running for the Event of the Year Award which was sponsored by The Captain’s Club in Christchurch. Mandy Polkey, Managing Director of Stir Events CIC, leading the team behind Shake & Stir, commented: ‘We’re overjoyed to accept this award. We’ve worked really hard to create a unique and regular event that brings visitors into Southbourne every year and it’s just wonderful to be recognised for that. There’s a lot of love for Shake & Stir, it really is the people’s festival and we can’t wait to host the event again in summer 2023 and bring even more vintage-fun to BCP.’

‘Tim Lloyd, Managing director at The Captain’s Club, commented: ‘We were very thrilled to sponsor this award, and there were some very strong contenders so it was no easy task!

Shake & Stir proved to be the winner for us as the event provides so much for visitors to see and do, it has such a sense of community, and attracts vintage lovers from all over the country which is a great boost to local tourism. Congratulations to Mandy and the rest of the team for this amazing achievement, it is truly well deserved.’

Shake & Stir is set to return to Southbourne in June 2023 to delight locals and visitors alike with family friendly fun, live music and much more.

Sing When You’re Winning

Make no mistake, Gareth Malone is the national face (and bow tie) of choir singing. Through his television show, and its spin-offs, Malone has made the noble art of breaking into song cool again for everybody from shy school children to moody teenage boys, with emotionally charged and heart-warming explorations of how giving the vocal chords a workout can change lives for the better.

Returning recently in The Great Celebrity Bake Off and Celebrity MasterChef has given the choirmaster and presenter, 47 in November, an appetite for an alternative existence, even though his true passion is to exhale rather than inhale!

“I’ve never thought of it like that,” he laughs. “I’ve definitely enjoyed getting back into the reality TV side of things. I find it totally inspiring to see normal people do things that are

fantastically big and grand.

“And I count myself in that – in cooking terms I am very normal, so to challenge myself and try to do something impressive, which is exactly what we ask of people with music, has been a nice shift.”

Malone is of course best renowned for his work with The Choir, and the associated biproduct, The Military Wives, whereby he recorded with widows of British soldiers who had served in Afghanistan. The idea became such a touchstone that it spawned a number one single, Wherever You Are.

“As a choirmaster you are only ever a guide,” he says. “You have the energy and the persuasion and the techniques to pull the very best out of people, but none of those things are actually what makes a project work – it is all about the people who stand up and sing.”

What’s fair to say is Malone’s success has been hard fought. There have been no booming PR campaigns, no ‘kiss and tells’, and he certainly never felt the need to stand up in front of Simon Cowell for approval.

Malone was anointed with an OBE from the late

Queen Elizabeth II in 2013, a remarkable recognition for his work. “I truly appreciate my work being referenced in this way, and it was a great honour.

“I view the Military Wives project as the peak of that, because the national impact was so great. Sometimes, you can affect the life of one person in a seemingly small way and that can be powerful, but there is something so universal about that too. And there was a whole generation of widows who no-one was really thinking about.

“And that’s the great power of music - it goes beyond words. People who hadn’t even seen the series found out about it. It was life-changing for them and for me.”

Gareth Malone, the choirmaster who championed the voices of everyday people.

Go wild with online gift adoptions this Christmas

This Christmas, Dorset Wildlife Trust are offering the perfect gift for both people and wildlife with their red squirrel, seahorse, and barn owl adoptions. With so many of us looking for gifts that don’t include excessive packaging or plastic, these are a perfect choice for an environmentally friendly Christmas. These exclusive adoptions include a digital adoption certificate and a selection of fascinating facts about your chosen animal. What’s more, 100% of the adoption fee goes into vital work protecting these species and their habitats in Dorset.

There are only around 200 red squirrels living on Brownsea Island in Poole Harbour. Funds from these adoptions will contribute towards maintaining their habitat on the island, while proceeds from barn owl adoptions will contribute to conservation work on nature reserves including Lorton Meadows, where a popular barn owl webcam has kept track of barn owls nesting, breeding, and fledging for several years. In Dorset, we are privileged to have two species of seahorse. Proceeds from seahorse adoptions will support the

incredible work of the Dorset Marine Conservation Fund to help safeguard our beautiful coastlines and the marine wildlife that lives there.

Imogen Davenport, Dorset Wildlife Trust’s Conservation Director, said: “I can’t think of a better gift than protecting Dorset’s wildlife this Christmas. Proceeds from email adoption sales go directly into the Trust’s hard work across the county, maintaining and protecting habitats for these iconic species in Dorset.

This work is especially important as the UK has become one of the most naturedepleted countries in the world. To tackle the ecological and climate crises we face, we must come together, and adoptions provide a great way to do this by sharing a love of wildlife with family and friends.”

It’s more important than ever to protect endangered species in Dorset, and everyone can do their bit this Christmas. Find out more about how these adoptions help wildlife, and choose your perfect eco-friendly gift, at: dorsetwildlifetrust.org.uk/adoptions

Photo: Barn owls by Russell Savory

Siblings in Poole supported by STARs

Dorset’s disability charity, Diverse Abilities, has expanded its service for siblings of children and young people with special educational needs and disabilities.

STARs, standing for Supportive, Thoughtful, And Resilient, is a 12-week programme of support, advice, and activities for those aged eight to 16. It aims to reduce the pressure they are under by providing an environment where they can access support and advice, but also take part in activities, make friends, and just be themselves. The programme has been running in West Moors for 18-months and has now expanded to support siblings in the BCP area with regular weekly sessions held in Parkstone, Poole.

Clare Rochford, Children’s Team manager at Diverse Abilities, commented: “There’s a big gap in provision for siblings. Our STARs provision has been well received, and we are really proud of the support we’ve been able to give to siblings over the last 18-months. We are excited to be able to reach more siblings and to be able to support more families in the local area.”

The service has been expanded this autumn following funding from Children in Need.

The grant means that Diverse Abilities can reach more children than before. Clare has been leading the development of the service from her experience growing up with her sister who has a

rare genetic condition called Smith-Magenis Syndrome.

Clare added: “It’s important to give these children and young people a chance to build a support network, and realise they are not alone in the challenges they face. The chance to build this network means the benefit continues long after the 12 sessions have ended.”

One parent of the STARs service said: “I am really relieved that there was finally a special place for siblings, I have been looking for years. Life-changing for Matilda.

She had a lovely bond with some of the adults and the support she needed was there for her. School commented that Matilda would practically bounce into school the morning after her STARs session. For the first time, Matilda had something special to be part of, where her thoughts and feelings where recognised and supported.”

Visit diverseabilities.org.uk/stars to register and find out more about the service.

Stocking Fillers and Murder Mystery rillers

This month, four cracking reads for the busiest book-buying time of the year.

Grannysaurus is a roar-some picture book about unpredictable grannies, dinosaur discos and staying up late.

A boisterously funny new festive release from the duo, this is perfect for young dinosaur fans! Published by Harper Collins on December 8th

Never Give In: The 12 Commando Rules for Life by Scotty Mills

Pinch of Nom by Kate and Kay Allinson

The healthy eating phenomenon that is Pinch of Nom returns with another hundred scrumptious recipes – from fakeaways to desserts – that are both tantalising to the taste buds and good for the waistline.

Enjoy more of the food you love. Never feel like you’re missing out, from all-day breakfasts to scrumptious desserts, with crowd-pleasing foody fests so satisfying and delicious you’d never guess they are also slimming-friendly.

Published by Pan Macmillan on December 8th

Grannysaurus

by David Walliams

Bursting with David Walliams’ anarchic sense of fun and blessed with Adam Stower’s vibrant illustrations,

A sudden downpour while Scotty Mills was walking down a street in South London sent him diving for cover into the nearest shop. It turned out to be a recruitment centre for the Royal Marines and, after a few minutes’ conversation while waiting for the rain to stop, Scotty was hooked and signed up to join the elite force. It changed his life and set him on a new direction that would end up with him leading the Marines on operations around the world, becoming an Olympic flag bearer in 2012 and dining at Buckingham Palace with the Queen and the royal family.

Scotty shares his lessons of performance and resilience with the reader, inviting them into the secrets of elite culture. His compelling story is one that combines tragedy with remarkable insight about the

Wild Women: A Collection of First-Hand Accounts from Female Explorers by Mariella Frostrup

A collection of the greatest women’s travel writing selected by journalist and presenter Mariella Frostrup.

From Constantinople to Crimea; from Antarctica to the Andesthroughout history, adventurous women have made epic, record-breaking journeys under perilous circumstances.

In curating this collection of first-hand accounts, broadcaster, writer and traveller Mariella Frostrup puts female explorers back on the map. Her selection includes explorers from the 1700s to the present day, from iconic heroines to lesser-known eccentrics, celebrating 300 years of wild women and their amazing adventures over land, sea and air. Published by Head of Zeus on December 8th

power of human inspiration. Published by Simon & Schuster on December 8th

‘Pawsome’ news for the Dolphin Centre

The Dolphin Centre in Poole has announced that well-behaved dogs are welcome throughout the centre with 56 of its retailers now allowing dogs in their stores.

Participating stores include popular retailers H&M, Beales, Starbucks, Pandora, New Look, Pen Gallery, Grounded Coffee and many more in the centre, Falkland Square and Kingland Crescent. Customers can identify which shops allow canine companions with a paw print sticker displayed in store windows.

To ensure happy and safe shopping for all customers, dogs are required to remain on leads, and must not be left unattended in the centre. Customers are also required to clean up any accidental mess caused by their pooch and asked to respect the policy of retailers that are not participating in the dog-friendly scheme. As always, customers with guide dogs are welcome in every store.

John Grinnell, centre manager of the Dolphin Centre, said: “The Dolphin is a central hub for our community, and our new caninefriendly policy extends this offering to now include the county’s dog lovers. Customers can take a walk along the quay with their pooch and then stroll into the centre for a coffee, have a browse, and enjoy the facilities and events on offer, without the worry of leaving their dog outside.”

According to the Pet Food Manufacturers’ Association, a total of 3.2 million households in the UK acquired a pet since the start of the pandemic as of last year. With 38% admitting it’s just like having a new baby*.

John added: “Our pets are a huge part of our lives, and as research shows, this is more apparent now than ever before. With more businesses welcoming pets into the workplace, we think it’s important that the

public can enjoy their local centre with their dogs by their side.

My lovely dog Bruce comes to work with me every day, he really does boost morale within the team, and he especially loves the fuss.”

Participating Dolphin Centre retailers displaying the dog-friendly sticker, Include:

• Perfume Shop • Mobile Bitz

• Claires • Ernest Jones • Smiggle

• H.Samuel • Valentina • Clarks

• Toytown • Market Gallery • Pandora

• Trespass • JR fashion • Fragrance shop

• HMV • Beales • Clintons • Deichmann

• Bevs • Timpson’s • Starbucks • H&M

• Muffin Break • Hays Travel • Wilkinson’s

• Clipper • Cycle Paths • Shakeaway

• Delfino • WhSmiths • Saltrock

• Cornish Bakehouse • Vodafone

• Phoneshop • Viper • Bare Necessities

• Millets • Restored Retro • Pen Gallery

• HUX • Tidal Vape • Three • I Crack

• New Look • Grounded • Wild Roots

Participating Dolphin Centre retailers who accept dogs but do not display a sticker, include:

• Warren James • Body Shop

• Vision Express • JD Sports

• River Island • Eva’s • Paintshop Studio

• Greenslades • Tui • Skechers

To find out more information on the Dolphin Centre, visit: www.dolphinshoppingcentre.co.uk

Have Yourself a Very Eco-Christmas

It may be the ultimate consumer holiday, but Christmas doesn’t have to cost the earth – in either sense of the phrase.

The festive season is expensive and wasteful, and most of us will reference calming things down in the following year.

Yet that may not be totally necessary – not least if all the joy of Christmas can be experienced in a way that is good for the soul, the wallet, and the environment.

Here are five ways to go about achieving that:

1.

Re-deck the halls

One of the best things about Christmas decorations is that they are reusable, though there are still ways to make them even more sustainable.

Choose wooden over plastic ones, purchase them from local craft fairs rather than supermarkets, and invest in baubles and ornaments that are of a decent quality so they can be reused for years afterwards. In time you will have a sizeable collection of

unique trinkets that tell your family’s own Christmas tale.

2. Tree-t yourself

If you’re planning on buying a new one for this Christmas perhaps consider either a pre-loved fake one, or a potted real tree that’s designed to last beyond the festive season. Even better, you can now rent trees that can be replanted in January, helping cut back on the seven million that are dumped each year.

3.

Invent an advent

What if you provided your loved ones with advent calendars that were not only personalised, but also more environmentally friendly?

Online marketplace Etsy sells wooden calendars that are personalised and can be refilled every year. Or you can make your own out of old fabric, leftover cardboard boxes or even just envelopes with craft activities in.

4.

Wrap resourcefully

In a world that is becoming wiser and more sustainable, it is easier than ever to buy

wrapping paper that is either recycled, or easier to recycle –which means no glossy finish or glitter, I’m afraid.

Another option is using old newspapers, magazines or comics; or investing in cotton wrapping cloths, which are fast becoming a trend and will look stunning under the tree.

5. Feast mindfully

It’s easy to go overboard when it comes to Christmas dinner, but why not save yourself the hassle and stick to the basics.

Firstly, only make enough food for the number of people you have coming (though Christmas leftovers can be sublime!). Secondly, buy produce as locally as possible to save on food air miles. And finally, avoid purchasing products that feel festive but are actually not very popular… cheese footballs, I’m looking at you.

We may feel a profound connection to our children, but that doesn’t mean it’s always easy to communicate with them. Here are five tools which make the journey a little easier for both parties involved.

How to say ‘no’: Turning down some of our youngsters’ requests is a key part of their development, but only if done in the right way.

For instance, an obstructive ‘no’ is rarely going to garner a positive response. As well as being blunt, it leaves a child with little explanation as to the decision reached. Instead, parents are reminded of the benefits of using positive and negative wording. So instead of saying “stop hitting”, use “keep your hands to yourself”; or replace “no, you can’t have that”, for “why don’t we look at these?”.

How to say: ‘yes’: Children will be more understanding of the things they don’t have if they know there are many others that they have received or will get over time.

Having said that, it is also important to foster gratitude in your little one, so take time to count blessings and always encourage a sincere ‘thank you’ on the receiving of a gift.

How to scold: Firstly, try to steer away from shaming your child as this can affect their self-esteem over time. For example, calling a child ‘clumsy’ or ‘hopeless’ because they knocked their drink over at dinner can make them feel faulty. Instead,

saying, “I know that was an accident, but in future just try

to be more careful,” will shift attention towards focus and carefulness, which will offer your child a path forward.

Also, accompanying chastising with a hug, or by holding a hand, will soften the action and reduce the sense of discomfort a child may feel.

How to listen:

Empathy is a vital tool in communicating, and it can really help to see the problem through the child’s eyes rather than your own, as some behaviour that could be seen as problematic may be connected to a developmental need. For example, if you’re leaving your child with a relative or babysitter while you have a much-needed evening out, they might act up and throw a tantrum.

Instead of becoming angry, you could instead recognise the fear of abandonment and need for reassurance, leading to a calmer more pleasant night for both of you.

How to promote positivity: When faced with a decision you and your child disagree on, it can be helpful to ask what your child would like to happen or change. This prompts proactive problem-solving over helplessness and frustration, and is a tool that will serve them well throughout their lives.

Money on my mind... the Martin Lewis column

He’s the UK’s leading money saving expert - a journalist and presenter who has kept millions of pounds in people’s pockets as well as lifting the lid on the threats and dangers we need to be aware of as consumers.

In this month’s column, Martin Lewis looks at taking back control when creditors come calling.

I’ll come straight to the point this month - there is nothing more precious or valuable than our mental wellbeing, and there is no bill or invoice that should come before it.

I have worked with mental health charities and the Money and Mental Health Policy Institute to ensure people who find themselves in difficult situations are able to access not just financial assistance, but practical and emotional support too.

The truth is when people have existing mental health problems, the administration anxiety that comes with

bills, debt demands and ongoing financial commitments, can be very difficult to handle, to the point that they’re simply unable to deal with what’s in front of them. Even when in a good place mentally and financially, so many of us find processing everyday matters exhausting, so imagine the added difficulty when starting from a place of weakness.

Remember, we have the right to determine how we are approached and contacted by those we do business with. For some people receiving a text message informing them of something may represent a nightmare. For others, a text is the only way they wish to communicate; while some prefer to converse over the phone, or even face to face.

It’s essential we stand up and state our preferences, and organisations have to adhere

to these. That won’t necessarily mean the problem will go away… if you are behind on a bill, for instance; but it will bring back control to you and, from the outset, allow you to determine how you want to go about tackling a problem.

It was reported that 44% of people with mental health problems who fell behind on payments during the pandemic considered or attempted suicide; and if you macro that up to the UK population that would be two-and-a-half million people.

I’ll be honest and say that when I heard that figure, I didn’t find it surprising; but it does surprise and disappoint me that people still don’t feel they have the tools to fight back and retake control.

From recovery space to payment holidays, to freezes on interest or repayment plans, speak to your creditors in a way that is firm and fair, and you will likely get the result you want.

Green ngers… the Alan Titchmarsh column

He’s a brilliant presenter, accomplished gardener, talented novelist, and allround horticultural inspiration. This month, Alan Titchmarsh discusses how our gardens can become carbon sinks.

We know how effective plants are at drawing CO2 out of the atmosphere. That means that while our gardens are wonderful spaces for our sensual pleasure, they brilliantly counteract global warming and our fight against climate change. In other words, they become ‘carbon sinks’.

I was recently asked how our green spaces might change if the planet continues to hot up. Certainly, I am not a climate change denier, but I think for our own peace of mind we need to keep things realistic, and it’s not as if within 50 years we’re going to be growing bananas in Northumberland or anything like that!

What we can of course do in the short-term is style and

shape garden space to ensure we help the planet as much as we can. After all, the most basic way to

prevent greenhouse gases like carbon dioxide from entering the atmosphere (and warming up the climate) is by growing plants. And as gardeners, that’s what we do!

The best way to achieve this is by growing native plants. Non-native varieties can really take hold of a space, requiring harmful chemicals to control them, and leading to them being pulled up, exposing soil and releasing carbon.

We can also compost – it’s a great way of stopping carbon getting out in the first place.

It’s for this same reason that turning over soil is actually bad for your garden. Not only does it interrupt nature’s ability to let your earth matter settle into an organised pattern that benefits both plants and the creatures living in the soil, but turning over, or tilling, releases more carbon.

Beyond this, we can be more environmentally friendly by using organic fertilisers; and never be afraid to let your outdoor space ‘go wild’. Rustic gardens are the ultimate lowcarbon spaces, and that makes sense, because wild areas such as forests, wetlands and mangroves are the very best at protecting against the risks posed by climate change.

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The same applies to mulching, too. When you consider that over 80% of the carbon in your garden is released from the soil, by adding a layer of wood bark chippings, for instance, you are holding the carbon in the soil.

As ever, our gardens hold within them the power not just to transform our own lives, but the welfare of the planet too, and that is why we love them so much.

The Adventures of Daichi

The Modern Magazines Camper Van

Daichi drove us all the way to Anglesey, that wonderful island off the north coast of Wales, for a family break! How exciting, a week away after a very busy summer working in our new Ice-Cream parlour, Wafflicious in Weymouth. What is funny is that we could not get away… As soon as we opened the doors of the parlour that Friday, ready to show Chris how to use the till, so he could help Emma while we were away, we had wonderful customers wanting waffles, ice-creams, sundaes and milkshakes. Then to top it all we had a Birthday party unexpectedly arrive! A family of seven, as Harry the young boy of nine had enjoyed his waffle so much two days earlier, he could not wait to come back for his treat. Four hours late in setting off, but we were very happy and all smiles as we really do love what we do in the parlour. We arrived on Anglesey at 1am in the morning. We had stopped a couple of times en route of course as we gave up being ‘on time’ and decided to make the most of the journey together. Turning a situation around to one’s advantage can be a game in itself. We were meeting Stephen’s dad and sister and knew it would now be the following day before we would catch up with them. The first day was a little damp, but not wet enough to stop us going out for a walk. The old Menai, iconic bridge was closed just before we arrived. I love this bridge and remember fifty years ago, (oh my goodness – really!) my dad calling out

with delight that we were now on Anglesey! This bridge was opened in 1826 and was the first modern suspension bridge in the world apparently and initially made for cattle traffic as this was Anglesey’s main source of income. This one bridge reduced the time from Anglesey to London by nine hours! Did you know that this bridge is also mentioned by Lewis Carroll in “Through the Looking Glass”, chapter eight? The wind was quite strong that day and my legs did turn to jelly I have to say, when taking some photos looking out to sea across the Menai Straits. Fantastic views but not necessarily for the faint heated. In fact Rachel did wait patiently at the entrance with her lovely dog, Lottie.

Penmon Point in Llangoed, near Puffin Island was day number two. Again, I love this area and it brought back many memories of past days as a child climbing on the rocks and watching the puffins swirling around. This time of year there were none at all and in fact there are now only eight pairs of breeding puffins here. Unfortunately, rats, which swam from a shipwreck in 1816 reduced the size of the colony, from over 50,000 puffins to what they are today. By 1971 there were an estimated 500,000 rodents on the island. Incredible! In 1999 they were removed totally, and the sea birds are slowly coming back. Let’s hope they fully recover and we once again see swirls of ‘grunting’, mating puffins! It is such a great sound.

The Menai Suspension Bridge

Day three was a walk around Maelog Lake. What is fascinating here is that the sea is receding in this area and there are sand dunes inland. The sand dunes actually blocked off the water, which was once part of the sea. After years of fresh water entering, the lake became a freshwater lake and is no longer salty. Though we did not test it ourselves, the bevy of swans bobbing with their heads under the water pretending to be ostriches, seemed to be enjoying it. A meal at Oyster Catcher with fish and chips all round was highly enjoyed… even by Lottie the dog! For the afternoon I had a total trip down memory lane, and we drove to Trearddur Bay. I have spent many a holiday fishing on the rocks there and caught some good mackerel with Dad. The small bays further along were full of memories of rubber dinghies and swimming in cold water. Fun though! The following day we drove to Bodnant Gardens on the mainland. It may not be spring but the reds and yellows of the trees were just delightful. The house is still privately owned by the McLaren family. In 1948 Henry McLaren persuaded the National Trust to take over the running of the gardens which was only their second acquisition after Hidcote Gardens in Gloucestershire. It was a lovely day with afternoon tea in the grounds. After that a visit to Great Orme, the limestone headland on the other side of LLandudno and a trip on the tramway which opened in 1902! The weather

coming back up was hailstones, so a hot chocolate in the café at the top was well deserved. The views would have been magnificent… if it wasn’t raining… We enjoyed ourselves anyway, as we always do. The rest of the holiday was equally interesting with a trip to the Anglesey Transport Museum where there are over a hundred British vehicles from the 1920s! There is even a Hawker Hunter Jet to see… and, oh yes and the breakfast in the café was good too. Following that was a trip to Newborough Warren with the endearing Medieval church, St Eglwys Cwyfan, that gets cut off with the tide and is known as the “Little Church in the Sea”. The Rivals, a group of hills stand majestically opposite and were enshrouded with clouds, blowing around. Beaumaris Gaol created in 1829 was a place I remember well as a child. Visiting only of course. The story of the man hanged in 1862 who always professed his innocence and subsequently cursed the clock, which did not work until very recently. The treadwheel used as a punishment and in most gaols did not have a purpose but here it created running water for the sinks and toilets. It is a very atmospheric place. All in all we did a lot! We also ate, drank, had a swim in the pool as well as a game of air hockey, bar billiards and pool. We came home for a rest! Daichi drove us through the Llanberis Pass and Snowdonia on the way back. This is just awe inspiring. We stopped at the beautiful Swallow Falls where we had fun taking artistic photos of the rushing water. Holidays are definitely about having family fun and we certainly did that. Where will Daichi take us next I wonder…

By Debbie Corney

Autumnal colours at Bodnant Gardens

Daichi visits Beaumaris Gaol

The Festive Garden

Having a creative Christmas at home is about more than just a tree and a few bits of tinsel.

When surrounded by the aromas of food, or the warmth of family and friends, there is something incredibly satisfying when it comes to looking out onto a festive garden.

Here are a few suggestions to make your outside space joyful and merry this Christmas.

Light it up Lights are the number one addition to any Christmas scene, and with darkness descending ever earlier, their effect is longer-lasting.

As ever, subtlety is key – placed in jars, through vines or in woven baskets, lights inside will illuminate through the tiny gaps to spray decorative shapes and lines across your outside space. Also consider experimenting with green and red bulbs to create a new ambiance.

Light projectors are a great way of creating additional lighting and brilliant effects, as well. There are a wide variety of creative designs that echo the festive season, and these can be beamed onto walls or into dark garden recesses in order to bring a unique two-dimensional effect to spaces.

It’s also possible to buy in or even make Christmas orbs, and these can look absolutely enchanting when dotted around the garden or placed on the front steps of your house. They are particularly stunning when laid on freshly fallen snow (if we’re lucky enough to see some!).

Lights pulled across in a consistent line guide the eye and looks great, although it’s a good idea to make sure lights are set on a timer. Not only will you get maximum value out of the hours your garden is lit up, it will also ensure neighbours aren’t perplexed at your 3am lightshow!

Star quality

Using Christmas shapes hung around the garden will really move the indoors outdoors. Consider Moravian stars in Christmas trees, plus bows, reindeer silhouettes,

candy sticks, snowflakes and gingerbread men.

And of course, a selection of bright red Christmas baubles will make any tree, bush or shrub feel festive.

Just be sure that nothing you are hanging outside can endanger wildlife or curious critters.

Window to wonderland Finally, an easy cheat when looking to create a winter wonderland garden is to use Christmas elements in a window box. Done smartly, when looking out into your garden, your vision will catch these planted additions and shape the festive view.

In the same way, using fake snow around the edge of windows works as a brilliant border effect to the world outside.

A Design for Life… e Kevin McCloud Column

Designer, writer and television presenter, Kevin McCloud leapt into our consciousness with his vastly successful Grand Designs show on Channel 4. This month, the affable architectural business owner returns to the subject of sustainability, both in terms of what we make our homes with, and what we place inside them.

To me, the relationship between making things and sustainability is essential, and I fear, as Western society, we’ve lost touch with the value of made things… with the value of raw materials, of the energy required. I don’t just mean fossil fuel energy, but also the human energy that goes into the process.

I’m very struck by seeing people producing lighting out of bits of recycled industrial stuff, or those who can put together and sell furniture they’ve handcrafted in small workshops all over the country.

A fabulous trend in the past couple of decades has been the

encouraging of home production creation –

everything from picture frames to jewellery – and how the internet has given these people a platform that is truly global.

When you meet someone who has made something in their workshop, you get the opportunity to sample their passion, influences, their own inspiration for doing what they do.

People talk a lot about sustainability using words like carbon and energy consumption – all that technical stuff – yet sustainability also comes in the form of the value of the objects we place inside our homes too.

After all, we are five times less likely to

throw away something we have made compared to something we have bought.

It’s also true that the longer we have something the less likely we are to bin itthere are records from the Seventies that I’ve still got; there’s a belt I’ve had all my life. We’ve all got stuff we love that we don’t want to let go of!

Sure enough, when we see our friends we talk about these things, we share the stories. I can bore people into infinity talking about my belt, or my old leather chair, and that’s the exciting thing: stuff as it gets older, gets better; it attracts more stories.

What I’m saying is we need to continue to keep creating homes that are rich in their fabric, but that are filed with things of value as well, so that we can share those stories with people, make friends, and embed ourselves into a community. That to me is actually a big part of what sustainability is about.

Winter Warmers: Accessories

Six must-have winter warmer accessory trends for the current season.

1. Thighs the limit

One of this winter’s hottest trends, thigh high boots on the catwalk have been above-theknee and beyond. There was lots of leather from the likes of Louis Vuitton and Burberry, while the occasionally avantgarde Chanel presented thigh-skimming wellington boots. Though stylish and practical, the £2,000 makes them somewhat unsuitable for gardening.

Thankfully, there are more affordable versions on the high street so get out there and impress!

2.

Shine like a star

Beat the blues with a little shimmer and glitz this winter. It’s not the boldest look, but a flash of gold like Prada’s brushed leather pumps or Jill Sander’s leather mules – which almost resemble crinkled Christmas candy wrappers –will brighten up even the dullest outfit.

There have also been lots of silvery metallics in handbags – big and small – and even sequinned, chainmail-esque headwear at Erdem… ideal for a glam ‘knight’ out!

3. Take a hike

If you like to put comfort before style, then you will be thrilled to hear that hiking boots are officially on trend.

The rule is, the chunkier and sturdier the better, though preferably paired with a feminine skirt and, if you’re feeling really fancy, cashmere socks.

4. Sass up your socks

Talking of socks, things got really glam from the knee down at Christian Dior and Simone Rocha, who sent models out with socks sewn with beads and pearls, respectively.

Max Mara on the other hand (or foot), had sumptuously soft, long, red socks with ribbons sewn in; while Acne Studios went for the slightly more punk aesthetic, also known as: socks with holes in.

5. Cool for caps

high-end fashion, but this winter they play a starring role. No longer the reserve of sports brands, monogrammed head gear was all over the catwalks, with Givenchy going the extra mile in luxury with a black leather one – undoubtedly the peak of style.

6.

Go hobo or go home

Slouchy, sexy and compatible with almost any outfit, the hobo bag is back, and not only as lovely as we remember it, it has also had an upgrade.

caps

Baseball caps are not usually synonymous with

Monogrammed and suspending from a gold chain at Louis Vuitton, crushed and cutesy pink satin courtesy of Miu Miu; and boasting a sheepskin trim at Chanel… it’s a hobo, baby, but not as we know it.

Local Naturalist celebrated in art mural

A leading zoologist and marine biologist of the 19th century is to be celebrated through a new art mural, organised by BCP Council as part of their Poole regeneration programme.

Philip Henry Gosse grew up on Skinner Street in Poole in the 1800s and coined the word ‘Aquarium’ after he created and stocked the first public aquarium at the London Zoo in 1853.

His interest in marine biology was reflected in the many beautiful illustrations dotted throughout his publications.

Now Poole-based Paintshop Studio, led by Rick Walker and Sandra Ramos – are set to recreate his drawings in a mural on 58 High Street, Poole, with work due to finish this week.

Gosse’s distant relative Cllr Mark Howell, who represents Poole Town ward, will be there to celebrate the new mural.

Artist Rick said: “By recreating Gosse’s artworks, as true to his as possible but at a scale they have never been seen before, we’re showing them in an environment that is as alien as they would have appeared to human audiences when first published.”

The Gosse mural is funded by Historic England and Poole BID, as part of the Poole High Streets Heritage Action Zone programme (HAZ), run in partnership with Historic England and BCP Council.

The HAZ programme aims to give Poole High Street a new ‘lease of life’ fuelling economic, social, and cultural recovery following the impact of COVID-19, by transforming dilapidated buildings into new homes, shops and work or community spaces.

As part of HAZ, extra funding has been secured from Poole BID to deliver a range

of cultural activities to engage people in Poole’s heritage, including popup community engagement events, school workshops and a community play.

Councillor Philip Broadhead, BCP Council deputy leader and cabinet member for regeneration, said: “I’m excited our transformative plans for Poole High Street are well underway with this vibrant new art mural.

“The Gosse mural forms part of our plans to make the town centre more attractive to residents, businesses and visitors by revealing hidden histories, repairing and revitalising the historic environment supporting sympathetic development, and creating a legacy for the future care of the high street.”

Jacqui Rock, Poole BID Lead, said: “This has been an exciting project to work on because not only are we bringing accessible art to the high-street, but I am also happy to see that we are working with one of our local businesses from Poole Town.

“The finished piece will also demonstrate the wonderful heritage that Poole has to offer, which will be reflected in the artwork for many years to come.”

Poole Town Ward Cllr Mark Howell is related to Gosse. He said: “I’m proud to be related to Henry and it’s wonderful to see him remembered in this way. This mural will be something beautiful for Poole residents and visitors to enjoy, and will hopefully help young people to be inspired by their natural surroundings as Henry was.”

Magni cent Motors

Join us to celebrate some of the most iconic cars of the last five decades.

While motor manufacturing in the UK will perhaps never again rival the colossal quantities of cars being rolled out by the Germans, the Americans or the Japanese, our appreciation of the four-wheeled vehicle is one that few other nations can better.

That dedication to cars has led us to champion and cherish some iconic vehicles over the years.

With that in mind, here’s a car from each of the past five decades that deserves to be celebrated all over again.

THE SEVENTIES

Ford Escort Mk II

The Escort was essentially an off-road rally car in disguise, with over two million of the Mk I sold.

In 1974 came its sister and successor. Despite a tight budget meaning they’d have to use the same core structure from before, designers managed to configure a newer, more modern body shape.

The result was a manufacturing masterstroke, with another two million sold, before production ceased in 1980.

THE EIGHTIES

Volkswagen Golf GTi Mk2

The Volkswagen Golf GTi Mk2 was a classy and well-rounded vehicle – if expensive.

There were millions who craved it for the way the model tapped into the sporty suave market, with a brutish engine and instantly recognisable look.

Backed by an immaculate marketing campaign, this yuppie wagon epitomised an era where efficiency could also equal fun.

THE NINETIES

Ford Mondeo

Ford have always loved producing hatchbacks, estates and big family saloon cars; and in 1993 they trumped everything done previously, with the Mondeo.

This gamechanger’s combination of practicality and style meant it was labelled the ultimate saloon. It was smart, sensible and affordable, complementing luxury interiors with Ford reliability, and set the mark for the raft of copycat family cars that were to follow.

THE NOUGHTIES

Nissan Qashqai

The turn of the new Millennium saw the dawn of the SUVs, or Sports Utility Vehicle.

The Nissan Qashqai compact crossover vehicle made its first

appearance towards the end of the decade in 2007, and its impact was huge.

Nissan had previously dipped their toe into the SUV market with the X-Trail, but the Qashqai – seen as its baby brother – turned into a rather hefty sibling, setting the tone for the mid-sized family 4x4. Over three million have now been sold, with that milestone being hit at the Japanese firm’s Sunderland plant.

THE TENS

Tesla Model S

The five-door sedan remains the flagship model for Elon Musk. Introduced tentatively to the general public in June 2012, Tesla now have the capability of producing a million cars per year.

Only their own rate of production seems to stand between them and the aim of becoming the world’s most successful car manufacturer.

STAR GAZING

WRITTEN BY KATE EARL kateearlastro@gmail.com

Welcome to the December Stargazing Page, and wishing you all clear skies and a safe holiday season. Highlights this month include an opportunity to see all five naked eye planets in our evening skies.

International Space Station

The ISS can be spotted in the evening until the 8th. Viewing then switches to morning skies from the 17th, and anyone wishing to catch Santa returning home will need to look up around 5am or 6.30am on Christmas morning. To establish exact timings please refer to www.heavens-above.com or a similar webpage for up-to-date information, remembering to set the location to your observing area.

Events

The annual Geminid meteor shower peaks on the night of 13/14th December, although a bright gibbous Moon rising around 9pm will spoil the show. Unusually, the Geminid meteor shower occurs when the Earth passes through the trail of debris left behind by an asteroid, 3200 Phaethon, and not by a comet. The Winter Solstice takes place on Wednesday 21st December; marking the shortest day and longest night.

Mercury

The Solar System’s smallest planet is just visible during the latter half of December, looping around the much-brighter Venus. An unobstructed view to the southwest is necessary as Mercury will be low on the horizon and hard to spot (see figure).

Venus

Venus reappears in our evening skies, starting off low in the southwest, and although bright may be difficult to spot in the evening twilight.

Mars

Mars has risen by 5pm, and is the bright, orange-tinted object further to the east (left) of Jupiter. It is visible in the sky all night.

Jupiter & Saturn

Both gas giants are visible towards the south when darkness falls; Jupiter is the incredibly bright object much higher in the sky than dimmer, blue-white Saturn. Saturn sets by 8.30pm but Jupiter is visible until midnight.

Moon

December’s full moon occurs on the 8th. The moon is close to Jupiter on the 1st and 2nd, and lies between Saturn and Jupiter between the 26th – 29th (see figure).

Things to look out for...

Both Mars and Uranus will briefly disappear behind the Moon this month (known as an occultation). Uranus disappears behind a gibbous moon on the 5th around 4.45pm, and Mars behind the full moon just before 5am on the 8th. Uranus is a very faint night sky object and must be viewed with a small telescope or binoculars. Mars will be so bright that you should be able to see it with the naked eye.

Festive Tech

Six pieces of tech that could shape a whole new you in 2023.

FIZZICS DRAFTPOUR (around £100) There’s little argument as to what most of us prefer when it comes to the draft beer versus packaged option, yet now you can have both.

The Fizzics Draftpour enables a can or bottle to be inserted into the base of what is a slick and stylish looking contraption. You then use it like a beer tap, with the liquid streaming through the device’s MicroFoam technology, which enhances flavour, aroma and mouth feel.

The Fizzics DraftPour may just have revolutionised the home drinking draft experience, without the bulkiness or expense of a keg purchase.

BIOLITE FIREPIT+ (around £200)

If you know someone who likes to spend more time outdoors, even in the dirty depths of winter, the BioLite Firepit+ could be the perfect gift.

Useful for those who crave open-air, be in the garden or on a day out, this brilliant burner is powered by an efficient battery pack, offering a glowing, heatdriven experience that’s great for BBQs, or just for staying warm. It even has a USB port to charge other devices.

DJI MINI2 (around £400) No matter what angle or filter you might achieve with your top-of-therange camera or smartphone, you’ll never get the views a drone can… 400ft in the air!

The DJI Mini2 represents the latest breed of drone, and coming in under 250g it avoids many of the operator restrictions associated with heavier versions. Its folded dimensions are tiny (131x81x58mm) and it can easily withstand gusts of up to 25mph (level five wind resistance).

BLUEAIR PURE FAN AUTO (around £250) How clean is the air around you that you breathe? Thankfully, dust, smoke, pollen and more these can all be neutralised with an air purifier, with the Blueair rated as one of the best on the market.

Doubling as an air cooler, it can also help when the hot weather comes back round… however far away that may seem!

GARMIN DASH CAM MINI 2 (around £100) Garmin have evolved from a satellite navigation devices market leader into one of the best brands for dash cam technology, with their Mini 2 succeeding both in its 1080p footage capture, as well as

the fact it’s incredibly discreet, fitting, as it does, behind your rear-view mirror.

Insurance companies are rapidly talking up the usefulness of dash cam footage during motoring disputes, so this bit of kit could end up saving you thousands.

THERAGUN PRIME (around £250)

The Theragun Prime can target annoying knots, sore spots and general muscle discomfort, efficiently getting us back into good shape without the need, or expense, of visiting a physiotherapist!

Top Tip

Don’t expect perfection. Remember that trees are naturally wonky and flawed. Be sure not to over stir the cake mix; you want it light and airy.

Nigella Lawson’s Yule Log

Ingredients

(serves 12)

For the cake

• 6 large eggs (separated)

• 150 grams caster sugar

• 50 grams cocoa powder

• 1 teaspoon vanilla extract

• 5 teaspoons icing sugar (to decorate)

For the icing

• 175 grams dark chocolate (chopped)

• 250 grams icing sugar

• 225 grams soft butter

• 1 tablespoon vanilla extract

No one does Christmas like Nigella, which is why this glorious yule log is the ideal centrepiece for your festive lunch.

Introduction Method

1. Preheat the oven to 180°C/160°C Fan/gas mark 4/350ºF. In a large, clean bowl whisk the egg whites until thick and peaking, then, still whisking, sprinkle in 50g / ¼ cup of the caster sugar and continue whisking until the whites are holding their peaks but not dry. In another bowl, whisk the egg yolks and the remaining caster sugar until the mixture is moussy, pale and thick. Add the vanilla extract, sieve the cocoa powder over, then fold both in. Finally, gently fold in the egg whites.

2. Line a Swiss roll tin with baking parchment, leaving a generous overhang at the ends and sides, and folding the parchment into the corners to

help the paper stay anchored. Pour in the cake mixture and bake in the oven for 20 minutes. Let the cake cool a little before turning it out onto another piece of baking parchment. If you dust this piece of parchment with a little icing sugar it may help with preventing sticking, but don’t worry too much as any tears or dents will be covered by icing later. Cover loosely with a clean tea towel.

3. To make the icing, melt the chocolate in a heatproof bowl suspended over a pan of simmering water, then let it cool. Put the icing sugar into a processor and blitz to remove lumps, add the butter and process until smooth. Add the cooled, melted chocolate and

the tablespoon of vanilla extract and pulse again to make a smooth icing.

4. Sit the flat chocolate cake on a large piece of baking parchment. Trim the edges of the Swiss roll. Spread some of the icing thinly over the sponge, going right out to the edges. Start rolling from the long side facing you, taking care to get a tight roll from the beginning, and roll up to the other side. Pressing against the parchment, rather than the tender cake, makes this easier.

5. Spread the yule log with the remaining icing, covering the cut-o ends. Create a wood-like texture by marking along the length of the log with a skewer or sharp knife and finish with a dusting of icing sugar.

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