All Saints Church Wokingham Parish Magazine Christmas 2008 by David Hodgson

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At Christmas and the New Year we send messages of peace to one another. We celebrate the gift of peace with God and our neighbour which the birth of Christ brought into our world. Peace is a wonderful gift from God to celebrate at Christmas. But we cannot take it for granted. The international situation, especially since 2001, has shown us that. Jesus said that peace makers are blessed. What can we do to make peace and to share peace in our complicated world? We can begin where we are; in our own daily lives. We can seek God’s peace this Christmas and New Year. God’s peace is not a quiet retiring into cosy thoughts. Making and sharing God’s peace is a risky venture. It begins and ends with prayer; and it leads us into action. Is there a person in your life; or an area of your life, with whom there is no peace? Is there a part of the world which you care about, or have a connection with, where there is no peace right now? Could you offer a simple prayer of peace for that person or situation every day? Through those prayers God’s peace can grow, and your actions will grow more peaceful. Every day ask yourself: will what I plan to say and do today build peace or demolish it? Am I building true peace or building barriers against the needs of others to find peace? May this Christmas and the New Year bring you, and those whom you love, the blessing of God’s peace.

News from the Parochial Church Council meeting in November Churches Together in Wokingham future PCC affirmed the need for a new structure and constitution for Churches Together in Wokingham, in response to questions for consultation from CTW Child Protection Policy Margaret Raggett, All Saintsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; child protection co-ordinator and childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s advocate gave the annual report on the operation of our child protection policy. It was agreed that a checklist for leaders organising off-site visits would be prepared and that a standard risk assessment form for events would be produced. PCC endorsed the current child protection policy and thanked Margaret for her vital work in safeguarding children at All Saints. Youth Church team leader The Rector reported on discussions with the youth church leaders about future leadership of the youth church. Parish Magazine review Andrew McKenna, editor of the parish magazine and member of the group of Vision enablers for communication, presented the initial work done on reviewing the parish magazine which had been requested by PCC. PCC thanked Andrew for the report and for his work as magazine editor. It encouraged the group to continue their review work with a view to final proposals to be presented in spring/summer 2009. Church membership It was reported by Joyce Baldry, Electoral Roll Officer, that the church electoral roll now stands at 336 people on roll. Church Finances for 2009 Steve Smith, church treasurer, reported that the diocesan share allocation for this parish for 2009 would be ÂŁ122,902, an increase of 3.12% over 2008. Damage to church floor The churchwardens gave an update on progress to repair the damage to the floor of the nave. PCC was told this work is subject to faculty and repairs cannot be completed before Christmas (Personal summary, other items were discussed. Please see official minutes)

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The Revd. David Hodgson Vacant The Revd Michael Johnson The Revd. Colin James Sue James Jo Robinson John Smith Director of Music David Rance Head Server Chris Gillham Deputy Head Server Ruth Smith Tower Foreman John Harrison PCC Secretary Janet Alp Deputy PCC Secretary John Smith PCC Treasurer Stephen Smith Deputy PCC Treasurer John Alp PCC Treasurerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Team Margaret Hawkins Dickon Snell Gift Aid Co-ordinator Peter Whittaker Honorary Verger Vacant Electoral Roll Officer Joyce Baldry Stewardship Recorder Jim Creech Flower Guild Chairman Pam Gilbey Children & Youth Co-ordinator Margaret Raggett Parish Secretary Jo Asplin Clergy days off: David Hodgson Colin James Michael Johnson

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The Parish Office (0118 979 2797), in the Cornerstone, can be contacted about church related issues (Baptisms, Marriages, Funerals). It is open on Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday from 9.15 am to 1.00 pm and for urgent matters or by telephone on Monday and Thursday from 10.00 am to 12.00 noon. e-mail: parishoffice@allsaintswokingham.org.uk The Parish Office, Norreys Avenue, Wokingham RG40 1UE All Saints website: www.allsaintswokingham.org.uk The Cornerstone : For room bookings and general enquiries please phone 0118 979 7778. Monica Martin, Administrator, is in the office: Monday 2-5pm, Tuesday 12.15-4.30pm, Wednesday 2.30-6pm, Thursday 1.45 - 6.00pm. e-mail: info@thecornerstonewokingham.org.uk

WORSHIP Services at All Saints' Church embrace a wide range of formats. An outline is given below but for details and information about occasional services, see the weekly leaflet.

SUNDAY SERVICES 8.00 a.m. 9.30 a.m.

11.15 am.

Holy Communion. A said service with a brief address using the traditional language version of the Common Worship Order One Eucharist Parish Communion. The service is sung, with hymns, and follows Common Worship Order One Eucharist. Children are catered for in the Crèche and Junior Church. The last Sunday in the month is Parish Communion for the Whole Church and often includes Parade, children are present throughout, and contribute to the worship. Prayer for Healing with Laying on of Hands is offered regularly at certain Parish Communion services (see diary). Coffee is served after the service and this is the weekly 'social gathering' of the Congregation. Please come and meet us there if you are a visitor to the church or would like to get to know us better.

(1st Sunday) “11.15 Informal” An informal and contemporary child inclusive service

11.15am

(2nd Sunday) Holy Communion. A said service using the Book of Common Prayer.

11.15am

(3rd Sunday) No Service

11.15am

(4th Sunday)

Occasionally Baptisms will take place during this time Matins using the Book of Common Prayer, usually sung and including a sermon.

6.30 pm.

(1st - 3rd Sundays) Evensong using the Book of Common Prayer with sermon. Choral Evensong is sung usually on the first Sunday of each month (An alternative form of worship on 4th & 5th Sundays ; and Services of Healing)

WEEKDAY SERVICES Morning and Evening Prayer are said, using Common Worship Daily Prayer, at 9.00 a.m. and 5.00 p.m. each day from Monday to Saturday. All may, and are encouraged, to attend. These services may be led by a Priest or members of the Laity. Holy Communion is celebrated as follows: Monday Tuesday

9.30 am. 9.30 am.

Wednesday 10.00 am.

(Common Worship Order One) (Common Worship Order One with short address, followed by coffee) (Simple form of Common Worship Order One and short address (particularly for parents and child minders of babies and pre-school children)

Friday in various Residential Homes Major festivals are also marked by additional celebrations of Holy Communion. Please see diary, or for whole year’s dates, see leaflet “Days to Remember at All Saints”. !

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CONFIRMATION, WELCOME OR GROWTH GROUPS. Anyone interested in confirmation, a refresher course, or learning about the Christian faith is invited to join one of the Eureka! groups or a confirmation course - contact Barbara Smith on 979 4407. BAPTISMS are usually conducted at a special afternoon service on the last Sunday of each month; or occasionally in Sunday morning services if requested. Baptisms can be booked via the Parish Office (979 2797). WEDDING BOOKINGS. Clergy are available in the Cornerstone on Monday from 6.30 pm - 7.30 pm and on Saturday from 10.30 am 11.30 am on an appointment basis. Please book via the Parish O f f i c e on 979 2797 TRANSPORT. Pat Forsyth (979 7023) or Sue Farrington (978 2371).

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Flower Guild I hope that you have managed to see one of the many Christmas demonstrations that have been taking place at various local Flower Clubs and that you now feel inspired to create wonderful arrangements for Christmas. We will be decorating the church on Monday December 22nd from about 10.30am following the 9.30 Communion Service. Do try to come to the communion service, it is a special moment in the year when we actually worship together as a Guild and it is also a short time of peace and quiet before the day begins. The sign-up list of arrangements will be at the Guild meeting on December 4th or otherwise ring me later in the month and we can discuss what you might like to do. At the beginning of January I will be drawing up the Flower Rota for 2009. If you do not already arrange flowers in church but would like to ‘have a go’ please contact me and we can organise something suitable – if you are a beginner it can be the Lady Chapel on a week when there is nothing special happening, so don’t feel intimidated, and there is always someone who will be happy to help you. Pam Gilbey Dates for your diary Thursday December 4th Thursday March 5th Saturday March 21st Thursday May 7th

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! Parenting at All Saints This year, our Advent meeting will be an informal service in the Cornerstone. December 14th is the date of our annual sale of individual Christmas cakes in aid of Mothers Union charities. If you are unable to come on this day, you can reserve a cake by calling Valerie on 978 7363. The speaker at the MU diocese winter meeting will be the MU central chaplain, Rt. Rev. Richard Ingram, Bishop of Bedford. The deanery winter meeting will be held at St. John’s, Crowthorne on the morning of Monday 15th December. All welcome. In January, our branch meeting will be a Quiz Evening. For more information on any of the above or for a lift to meetings, please call 978 7363 or 978 2678.

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ALL SAINTS CHURCH SOCIAL COMMITTEE GREETINGS FOR CHRISTMAS! It has been really lovely having so many people attend the various events during autumn when we have been around to 'give a hand'. Now two dates left then we promise to hibernate at least until February or March! SUNDAY 14th DECEMBER

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A School Governor’s Story I am a Foundation Governor and Chair of the Governing Body of All Saints School. I should begin by explaining that I am responding to an ‘invitation’ from Anne King – and many of you will know just how difficult they are to refuse! I must also plead guilty to Selina’s charge in the last issue of the magazine. I do prefer to ‘hide my light under a bushel’ and perhaps that is not all bad. Quiet personal pride and satisfaction are fine, and equally service to the community which dwarfs my own modest efforts deserves to be recognised and celebrated, but I dislike very much the tendency of some to claim credit and kudos for helping their fellow citizens. I am happy to try to explain what I do and why I do it in the hope that others may wish to take up the rewarding challenge of school governance. When I responded to David’s announcement at a PCC meeting a few years ago that there was a vacancy for a Foundation Governor at the then Palmer School, I little knew what I was letting myself in for. It is a major commitment – which is why too many Governors are retired old buffers like me. I applaud the dedication of those who take on such a commitment at the same time as the awesome responsibilities of parenthood, and in many cases full time work as well. In essence I said ‘yes’ because in all humility I thought I might make a difference, and few others seemed willing to take up the challenge – very much the same reasons which led me to join the railway industry all those years ago. Also I have had a lifelong interest in education, especially Primary education, as the greatest potential factor in generating citizenship and a stable and positive society. In some ways the role of School Governor may be likened to that of a non-executive company director. The Headteacher is quite clearly the Chief Executive and the professional. The job of the Governing Body is to (a) set the strategic framework in which the school operates, including its aims, values and priorities; (b) be ultimately accountable for performance – academic, financial, health and safety, employment, adherence to legislative requirements; (c) to support but also to challenge and question the head and the staff. In a Church of England school the Foundation Governors are appointed by the Diocese and have the special responsi-

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!"#$%,#3-4%5/$(.% Dear Friends I wonder if any of you still has a Christmas present you were given when you were eight. That’s when I received my first Bible, Authorised Version of course. It is pretty battered now, but it still travels about with me in the glove compartment of my car. It was my granny who gave it me. And that was by no means the only way in which she influenced me positively towards the Christian faith. From time to time I have used this letter to recommend a book I have been reading. I never expected that I should be doing this in the case of the Bible, or more precisely the New Testament. Back in 1947 my granny didn’t have any choice of which version to buy. Today the choice is enormous and confusing. Each time a new one appears we are bound to wonder whether it is really justified. So we look at the “blurb” on the cover to see what’s special about the latest addition. And there we read, “Instantly accessible…A fine and quite distinctive addition to the ranks of scripture translations. As a guide to the kind of study that will nourish a robust and grown up faith, it will be hard to beat.” (Rowan Williams) “Nicholas King has succeeded in putting into English something of the raw power that the first Christians experienced when they heard or read the documents.” (Cormac Murphy-O’Connor) “Wonderfully refreshing. The translation hits you between the eyes… amazing new insights…A splendid piece of work.” (Desmond Tutu) Even the editor of the wonderful New Jerusalem Bible says, “Gripping and attractive…I hope that this translation will become an icon for the twentyfirst century.” And the reviewer in the Methodist recorder says, “This is dynamite! I anticipate this volume being open on my desk during sermon preparation for years to come.” And just to cap it Professor Christopher Rowland of Oxford says, “I was enthralled by it. I am sure that readers will find his translation and commentary highly stimulating and a book to which they will come back again and again. They are in for a treat.” So who is Nicholas King, and why is the New Testament he describes as

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“freshly translated” so special? He is a Jesuit based at Campion Hall in Oxford, and what makes his version special is two things. First, as the distinguished reviewers have already indicated, it is indeed fresh. Sometimes this may be a bit upsetting because King has deliberately set out to reflect the style and language of each of the New Testament authors. And some of them frankly were not literary geniuses. The result is that we are not in danger of thinking “I know this bit” and letting our mind wander off as we read. For example he will say “Look!” where we are used to finding “Behold!”. The “Blessed be…” of the Beatitudes becomes “Congratulations to…” One instance I find difficult to accept is his replacing “Truly I tell you…” by ”Amen. I tell you…” My problem is simply that Amen is a “religious” term which does not immediately convey much to the modern reader. But it would be amazing if there were no occasions on which one questioned a choice of word. The other feature is the brief commentaries after each little section of the text. These are full of interesting new insights and end with a question to readers about what it means for them, an asset if it were used in a group Bible study. Of course the words are printed across the whole page and not in in the usual two columns, a practice I find an impediment to reading the Bible for its meaning. And why else should we want to read it? This New Testament is published by Kevin Mayhew for a modest £9.99 or, if your eyes can cope with really small print, there is a version at £8.99. If making a renewed effort to read the Bible is among your New Year’s resolutions, perhaps this is the moment to drop a hint to someone who might like to follow the example of an old lady sixty-one years ago who gave her little grandson a Christmas gift precious beyond price! And by the way my copy of King’s new version is not hidden away in the car. It sits on my coffee table, ready at hand to be picked up and read. I wish you a blessed Christmas and peace in the New Year. With love and prayers. Colin

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Sunday

7 Advent 2 08.00am 09.30am 11.15am 06.30pm

Holy Communion Parish Communion 11.15 Informal Service Choral Evensong

14 Advent 3 08.00am 09.30am 11.15am

Holy Communion Parish Communion Holy Communion

06.30pm Sunday

Wed.

Thurs.

Sunday

Evensong (Sung)

21 Advent 4 08.00am 09.30am 11.15am 06.30pm

Holy Communion Parish Communion Nativity Service Evensong (Said)

24 Christmas Eve 3.00pm 6.00pm 11.15pm

Crib Service Nine Lessons and Carols First Communion of Christmas

25 Christmas Day 08.00am 09.30am

Holy Communion All Ages Communion (CW Order 1)

25 Holy Innocents 08.00am Holy Communion Parish Communion (n.b. not Whole 09.30am Church) 11.15am No Service 06.30pm Healing Service

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Epiphany 7.45pm Sung Eucharist

Sunday

Baptism of Christ 08.00am Holy Communion 09.30am Parish Communion 11.15am Eucharist (BCP) 03.00pm Holy Baptism 06.30pm Evensong (Sung)

Sunday

Epiphany 2 Stewardship Celebration 08.00am Holy Communion 09.30am Parish Communion with Laying on of Hands 11.15am No Service 06.30pm Evensong (Said)

Sunday

Conversion of Paul 08.00am Holy Communion 09.30am Parish Communion for Whole Church 11.15am No Service 03.00pm Holy Baptism 06.30pm Choral Eucharist

MUSIC LISTS - December 2008 January 2009 Sunday Service Hymns Music

Advent 2 - 7th December Eucharist: Archer - People's Setting

Final Voluntary

Lied (24 piĂ¨ces en style libre) - Vierne

Service Introit Responses Psalm

Choral Evensong The Lord will come and not be slow - Tye Plainsong 40

Canticles

Morley Fauxbourdon Setting

Hymns Music

Jesus Christ the apple tree - Elizabeth Poston

Final Voluntary

Prelude in G minor - PiernĂŠ

Sunday

Advent 3 - 14th December

Service Hymns

Eucharist: Archer - People's Setting

Music

Adam lay ybounden - Peter Warlock

Final Voluntary

Liturgical Improvisation No 2 - George Oldroyd

Service

Christingle in aid of Children's Society

Service Psalm Hymns Music

Sung Evensong: Plainsong Responses 68 vv1 - 19

Final Voluntary

Short Prelude & Fugue in E minor (BWV 555) - J S Bach

Sunday Service Psalm Hymns Music

Advent 4 - 21st December Eucharist (Healing): Archer - People's Setting Magnificat

Final Voluntary

The Modal Trumpet - Karam

Service

Said Evensong with Piano

Org DAR

The Lord will come and not be slow - Tye

DAR

The Christ Child - David Jaques

DAR

Psallite unigenito - Praetorius

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Monday Service Hymns Carols

Christmas Eve - 24th December 18.00 Nine Lessons and Carols

Org DAR/ MS

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Final Voluntary Service Carols

23.15 Midnight Mass: Archer - St Mark's Setting as special booklet

Final Voluntary

Carillon (24 piĂ¨ces en style libre) - Vierne

Tuesday Service Carols

Christmas Day - 25th December Eucharist: Peruvian Gloria - Kemp Archer - St Mark's Setting as special booklet

Final Voluntary

Postlude on "Adeste Fideles" - Eric Thiman

Sunday Service

Christmas 1 - 28th December Whole Church Communion (No Choir)

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Hymns Final Voluntary

March in G - Henry Smart

Service

Evening Healing Service

Sunday Service Hymns Music

Christmas 2 - 4th January 2009 Eucharist: Archer - St Mark's Setting

Final Voluntary

Prelude in G major (BWV 568) - J S Bach

Service Introit Responses Psalm Canticles Hymns Music

Choral Evensong As with gladness - Stanford Spedding 135 Brewer in D

Final Voluntary

Prelude & Fugue (Op 18) - CĂŠsar Franck

Tuesday Service

Epiphany - 6th January 19.45 Evening Eucharist: Archer - St Mark's Setting

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As with gladness - Stanford

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Here is the little door - Howells

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A Prayer Have you ever wondered if Jesus sang? We know that Jewish people sang in the synagogues, and the ‘directions’ for many psalms, such as ‘a song’ and ‘for the director of music’ give testimony that psalms are songs of praise to God as our Creator, Sustainer, and Redeemer. While we have an understanding that Jesus sang, there is only one place in the Gospels that records this: When they had sung a hymn, they went out to the Mount of Olives. Matthew 26:30 The occasion that is chosen to inform us of this in Scripture gives us much thought and direction. It was not as Jesus walked along in the sunshine, or even as he was sailing along on the Sea of Galilee with his disciples. It was at the Last Supper on the night when Jesus was betrayed. Of all the times and places, it was for us to remember him singing as he was led off to his death! This speaks to us and shows us how to follow the Lord in song when our hearts are heavy, when we’re facing disappointment and when we are aching and in pain. Psalms 115-118 were the usual Passover songs, so these could be the songs Jesus sang, and in singing them his words were songs of praise and worship, and also songs of prayer. It is good to sing to the Lord, and if Jesus sang on such a night it should inspire us to do the same when we are in difficulty. If it made a difference to Jesus then it surely will make a difference to us. Lesley Ludlow

Spirituality in Healthcare The following is an article written by the Rev Dr Russ Parker in a recent edition of the Acorn Christian Healing Foundation’s Acorn News. (www.acornchristian.org) “It’s official. Spirituality is to inform and resource how patients receive treatment within the National Health Service. The subject was placed second in importance in the Patient’s Health Charter during the John Major era and its importance has subsequently been ratified under the present Labour government. At the heart of this Spirituality has been the focus upon holistic care; ensuring that the patient is not subjected to the status of a disease being treated but a person receiving care. Indeed, Archbishop Barry Morgan emphasised this point in his recent speech marking the 60th anniversary of the NHS in Swansea He said that effective health care “has to recognise the importance of the personal in a world of targets, accountability and value for money”. Archbishop extended this humanising of care to staff who, like their patients, are in need of receiving respect and dignity in an increasingly mechanised society. However, before we can discuss ways of honouring and attending to the spirituality of patient need, we must understand what is meant by spirituality. A definition offered in a recent document by the Mental Health Foundation states that spirituality is”…that aspect of human existence that gives it its ‘humanness’. It concerns the structures of significance that give meaning and direction to a person’s life and helps them to deal with the vicissitudes of existence. As such it includes vital dimensions as the quest for meaning, purpose, self-transcending knowledge, meaningful relationships, love and commitment, as well as (for some) a sense of the holy amongst us”. All of these core values are set on a collision course when we become ill and find ourselves in hospital. A far country, where we are liable to be disorientated and in need of not just the best surgical

care but of being helped to understand ourselves and what may be happening to us. There is the sense of loss of connection with ourselves and consequently it is important that as a patient, we are respected and become involved in the healing journey in which we have been placed. Our need is both cure and care. It is here that we observe a parallel journey in the world of Christian healing. Christian healing, far from being just an issue of curing people of their sicknesses, is also about empowering people to walk in newness of life. Neither is it just an emphasis upon the ability of God to cure us by a supernatural act of grace but also about that same grace being found in the world and skills of professional healthcare. Two brief examples from the New Testament Gospels will help to understand these principles.. The first is the healing which Jesus bestows on a man who had attended a healing event for over 30 years. (John 5, 1-14) The reasons for selecting him above all other needy people there that day are not given but as we shall see, this seems to be a case of individual surgery rather than a universal diagnosis for those who are physically invalid. Following his sudden healing there comes a private moment of dialogue in which the man is encouraged to radically alter his moral life style or his spiritual disease will carry bigger penalties than his former illness. The concern is for the man to live a whole life rather just be glad he is not physically ill anymore. The second account is the healing of the ten lepers. (Luke 17, 11-19) All ten are encouraged to return home to Jerusalem and to seek out the priest who functions rather like a general practitioner. It is his responsibility to check that all contagion has been removed so that he can pronounce healing and the patient be allowed to re-enter normal as opposed to quarantined community. Here there is no immediacy of cure but the journey of faith which involves the expertise of the general practitioner. The interesting twist in this story is that one of the ten lepers would not be welcome at the door of the temple in Jerusalem because he was a Samaritan. The physical healing they all received exposed the deeply embedded racial prejudices which had been temporarily suspended when they shared the same life-threatening predicament. Yet when the Samaritan returns alone to Jesus, he is pronounced whole and not only cured. This underlines the importance of health and healing as not just being the removal of disease but the empowerment to walk in a greater maturity with an improved and greater connectedness with the

world around me: the very core of how spirituality has been defined within the NHS”. We wish you all a Happy and Blessed Christmas and Peace in the New Year. (Members of the group are Gill Allen, Maggie Bateman, Jack Hayley, Mary Hughes, Ann Penn, Joan Thomason, Joan Watts and Karen Wellman). Please let us know of any need of healing prayer support. Confidentiality is assured. The next Healing Service will be held on Sunday 28th December at 6.30 pm. The laying on of hands will be made available at the Parish Communion on Sunday 18th January

A big THANK YOU to James and Peter for pointing us in the direction of a number of great tracks in October’s issue. As a result I discovered “Something Borrowed” by The Streets. This includes brilliant quotes such as “Just when I discover the meaning of Life they change it”, “Memories are times we borrowed for spending tomorrow”, but my favourite is the refrain , “I came to this world with nothing and I leave with nothing but Love; everything else is just borrowed”. Another couple of albums I’m listening to at the moment : “East meets East “ by Nigel Kennedy and Kroke Band includes a number of haunting tracks reflecting eastern European culture; some incorporating traditional tunes or melodies. If you like this, “Sounds of the Vanishing World “by Kroke Band is also worth a listen . Lorraine Hodgson

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All Saints’ Fellowship To finish 2008 we will be having our CHRISTMAS GET TOGETHER in the Cornerstone on Wednesday 17th December – an opportunity to praise and an opportunity for fun. 7.45pm for 7.55pm. 2009 WEDNESDAY JANUARY 21st

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As always everybody is most welcome to come along. If you would like a lift please contact Anona Jones 9619120. All other Fellowship enquiries to Diana Clifford 9792614. BLANKETS Thank you very, very much for the wonderful response to our appeal of blankets for The Diana Brimblecomb Animal Rescue Centre. If you still have blankets, brushes or combs to donate please let us have them by the end of the year which is when the collection finishes. HAPPY CHRISTMAS

Did you know? In the All Saints hymn poll last month the hymn “All things bright and beautiful” was the hymn which received the most votes in the category of “hymn you never want to hear again”!

Christingle – 40 years of making childhood better In 1968, John Pensom of The Children’s Society first introduced the Christingle service to the Church of England as a symbol of Christ’s light and love. Forty years on, 6,000 churches, schools and groups join the celebrations each year from Advent through to Candlemas. With nearly 600,000 children involved last year, Christingle is a great way to introduce children to the Christian Faith. With over £1.2 million raised in 2007 alone, this generosity has directly supported The Children’s Society’s work, helping to make childhood better for all children in the UK. By being part of this wonderful celebration and raising money for the Children’s Society, you will enable us to be there for children in trouble with the law, guiding them away from a cycle of crime and custody. Children who feel forced to run away from home or care, helping them to avoid abuse, crime and prostitution on the streets. Disabled children, giving them the opportunities that other children enjoy. Refugee children, enabling them to rebuild their lives in new communities. Forgotten children like young carers, traveller children or children and young people whose parents misuse alcohol or drugs, ensuring their needs are not ignored. Thank you for your invaluable support and enjoy your special celebration. The Rt Rev’d Tim Stevens Bishop of Leicester Chair of The Children’s Society Trustee Board. Please join us at our Christingle service in All Saints’ Church Sunday 14 December at 3pm and support the work of the Children’s Society If you cannot come but still want to make a donation, please contact Dickon Snell (9781044)

A Mousical Story for Christmas I suppose you’ve heard of the story behind the composition of the carol, “Silent Night”. A mouse was supposed to have chewed its way through the bellows of the church organ thus rendering it useless for accompanying the Christmas services. So the organist and the priest set to work to write something that could be accompanied by a guitar and the result was this carol. I’m not at all sure if that story is true but what I’m about to relate is true. The organ at All Saints has three manuals or keyboards. A few months ago we discovered that the top manual didn’t work, so we called the engineer in. He discovered some broken wires inside the organ. Well, he said, it’s either vandals or mice. I wasn’t inclined to believe either. Vandals wouldn’t have taken the back of the organ off, snipped a few wires and then carefully put it back again. And mice who nipped wires cleanly? Nah! A week or two later the same thing happened to the bottom manual and then again to the top manual. We called the engineer in again. Yes, it’s definitely mice, he said, and their preferred colour is red! Red? RED?? Mice that can see colours in the dark and can cut red coloured wires into neat sections? Difficult as it is to believe, there was other evidence that mice prefer red. In the vestry there was a tin of metal polish with a red plastic top. The mice had chewed all the way round this top. The engineer solved the problem by replacing the red covered wire with yellow and using a thicker wire. So far we’ve had no more trouble. But Christmas is coming… David Rance

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STEWARDSHIP UPDATE Many thanks to everyone who has returned their Stewardship pledge forms (and also their database forms) so far. If you haven’t returned yours, we would love to receive them! For those of you who did not hear the presentation on Stewardship Sunday, or maybe have forgotten what it was all about, we thought it would be an idea to write it up for the magazine. It was easier to adapt the presentation that was given at 8am - the 9.30am one was full of action! The following was written and presented by Chris Westgate, a member of the Stewardship Team: “On our designated Stewardship Sunday this year we thought we’d give David a bit of a rest and let him off sermon-writing duties for a day. Stewardship - the word itself should probably be used with caution as it can conjure up all sorts of preconceptions, not to mention causing glazed eyes within thirty seconds at a distance of 50 yards; so we thought we’d like to do something a little different. To illustrate, the 9.30am is the main feature, and the 8am is the ‘making of’ a special feature, the one you can’t usually access from those fiddly DVD menus – though when you get to them they’re usually hopefully quite interesting. First of all, Jo and other volunteers spent some time making up a big pile of cash bags, and several cards with jobs or tasks on them. In a nutshell, the idea is that the bags represent the All Saints income for a year; I am going to give a speech about how, due to the current uncertainty over world finance, the PCC have appointed me to a new role: Guardian of the All Saints’ Treasury. I will explain how I am going to safeguard the finances of the All Saints Bank… sorry, Church, and I have five appointed “fund managers” to assist me. However, these fund managers, while unoccupied, get laden down with the tasks, and while the money is not being looked after, it gets used for various essential purposes around the church. I’d like to reassure you that there isn’t such a thing as a “Guardian of the All Saints Treasury”. Clearly, donations to All Saints are not stockpiled – there isn’t a big All Saints barn where all the treasure is stored. The skit

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at 9.30am is, of course, not intended to be a completely accurate summary of life at All Saints, merely a rather tongue-in-cheek representation. But there are certain grains of truth in there. For instance, it illustrates some of the many jobs that need to be done, and some of the significant and continuous financial outgoings that All Saints has. So looking at the money first. In our little illustration we will start off with a great big pile, and end up with nothing. So where will all the money go? Will it just vanish into thin air? Does the money All Saints gets as income just vanish into thin air? Well, of course, the answer is No. So where is it? It is, in effect, all around us. When we give money to the church, it’s fair to say we invest in the church. We have to be careful though; All Saints is not a business, and we don’t store up our treasures in a barn. But it does cost a goodly chunk of money to keep All Saints running. The PCC and all the people responsible for the running of our church must be good stewards and use resources efficiently, but we must all bear in mind that, ultimately, our church has only one source of financial income. And what of time and talents? In the illustration, the jobs won’t pile up; people will take them on. A small representative sample of the work that actually goes on will be used but and realistically people will end up doing more than one task, and not necessarily the task they originally thought they might be doing, but nevertheless will take them on willingly. Now it may be less obvious when someone makes a gift of their skills and time that it is an investment but, of course, there’s no way of storing time and releasing it again later; time is a transient gift that can only given or received at a particularly appropriate moment. Again, where does this resource come from? - from all of us; from the body of the church. I am going to start the 9:30 presentation by mentioning the credit crunch. In a time of uncertainty it is a natural response to be cautious, to cut down unnecessary expenses, to find the safest place for our investments. But as I’ve since said, All Saints is not a business. We should work together to make our church “recession-proof”, by continuing to invest rather than cutting back. You’ve heard the expression “safe as houses”. Well, although bricks and mortar are currently undergoing a downturn, what safer house could there possibly be for your continued and growing investments than God’s House?” From Jo Robinson

Ringing for All Saints Tide We always try to mark special occasions with special ringing – usually with a quarter peal before Sunday evening service. So we rang a quarter peal of St Clements College Bob Major before evening service on All Saints Sunday. This year All Saints Day fell on a Saturday, so we also rang a peal on the day itself. We put posters on the gates so that passers by would know why we were ringing for 3 hours on a Saturday morning, though since it began to rain just after we started, they might have been hurrying past with their heads down, and not stopped to read them. It is interesting to note that of the 73 peals rung at All Saints since 1903, six have been rung for All Saints Tide. In recent years they include the peal of Wokingham Surprise Major for the 800th anniversary of the church in 1990, and the first peal on the restored bells in 2005. John Harrison

The FINCHAMPSTEAD SUPPORT GROUP would like to thank all those who supported the Christmas Fayre this year at Warbrook House. We made an astounding £10,000 for the Duchess of Kent House Charity. Our CHRISTMAS COFFEE MORNING is on Wednesday 3rd December at the Church Centre, St. James' Church, Finchampstead at 10.30am. Proceeds from this event will go to Sue Ryder Care, Nettlebed. There will be a £5 donation to include coffee and warm mince pie and Margaret Finch will be demonstrating Christmas floral arrangements. We look forward to seeing you and your friends. Janet Gill

WHO IS MY NEIGHBOUR? From Churches Together Wokingham

I am writing to give you news of an important event to be held on Wednesday February 4th 2009 at Greyfriars Church, Reading between 6.30pm and 9.00pm Churches Together in England has recently published a major report entitled "Who is My Neighbour - A Church response to social disorder linked to gangs, drugs, guns and knives". I have been asked together with Churches Together in Reading to organise a launch evening for this project in the Reading area. It has already been launched in the House of Commons in July 08 and has received positive coverage in the National Secular and Religious Press. The principal author of the report, Bishop Dr Joe Aldred, Minority Ethnic Christian Affairs writes to say "It is now imperative that this report finds it way on to the agenda of local Churches. At the launch event I hope to engage with Church Leaders, Youth Workers, Local Government and Police Personnel working on the youth agenda and "ordinary" people who are interested in this area of ministry". In addition to a presentation by Dr Joe Aldred on the subject of the report there will also be an opportunity during this evening to hear of the local context and have an opportunity in plenary session to discuss how we can take the recommendations of the report forward. There will of course also be an opportunity to meet with others in this field and to exchange ideas and experience. Further details regarding this will come nearer the time. With best wishes and many thanks for your help. Honor Alleyne

'On Christmas Night' Carols for Choir and Audience Wokingham Choral Society, conducted by Alex Chaplin, invite you to join them at All Saints Church, Wokingham on Saturday December 13th at 7.30pm to take part in their popular Christmas carol concert. Doors open at 7pm so be sure to come early to ensure getting a good seat. This year they will once more be joined by a children’s choir from Keephatch Primary School. The retiring collection will be in aid of the Mayor’s charity, the ME2 Club, which helps children and young people aged 5 to 19 years old with special needs to participate in mainstream activities playing and socializing alongside other children. If you would like a pre-view of the concert come and hear members of the choir singing carols from 11am to 1pm on Saturday December 6th in the Market Square, Wokingham.

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CTW CHRISTMAS CELEBRATION PLACE St Paul's Church rooms TIME 7.45 for 8pm on Tuesday 2nd December All Welcome to enjoy the fun of Christmas together Bring & share finger buffet Coffee & Christmas punch will be available. Entertainment including St. Mary's hand bells Carol singing led by Lynn Hawkins - Salvation Army. Tearfund Christmas gifts & cards for sale and drama by "Stage Fright"

Celebrating Christian Unity Wokingham Churches are celebrating the week of prayer for Christian Unity with a buffet meal at The Bradbury Centre - The Methodist Church, Rose Street, Wokingham On Sunday 18th January 2009 at 6.30pm. The Celebration will be a time to give thanks & praise to God over a meal and an opportunity to see "Faith in Action across the Borough." The Mayors and Rt Hon John Redwood plan to be with us. For more information on this and CTW please see me or ring Jo Robinson 01189 789730

Visiting Guildford Cathedral Why? • The only new Anglican cathedral in Canterbury province in the twentieth century. • Glorious position on top of Stag Hill, so called as kings of England hunted here. • The view inside – clear view from west to east end, open, spacious with no choir stalls or organ blocking the view, with soaring arches and white marble floors. • Made of bricks formed from the clay dug out for the foundations. The Children’s Chapel, for bereaved parents, their friends and families, with a Book of Remembrance that has pages turned daily. How? Easily reached by road or rail, a direct train Wokingham-Guildford. The splendid hilltop site makes it easily visible for miles around. What else is there? • Over 1400 kneelers, each one different. • The Seeds of Hope, children’s garden, where bereaved children can follow the pattern of the seasons and find loving support when required. • Worksheets and outdoor trails for children. Separate gift shop and bookshop: worth a visit for Christmas shopping? Be aware The walk up from the station is demanding, but well worth the effort for that wonderful view. Bonus The classic horror film, ‘The Omen’, was made here and the huge golden angel weather vane was added specially for the film. The church liked it so much that they kept it: it’s now a beautiful landmark and also a utilitarian mobile phone mast! Su McArthur

Anglican Society for the Welfare of Animals Pets Studies have shown in recent years that caring for a pet can be good for your health. Research confirms that pet owners may have significantly lower blood pressure and cholesterol levels than those who do not own an animal. A recent study of 4,500 adults by the University of Minnesota found that cat owners had a 40 per cent lower risk of suffering a heart attack. Just 10 minutes in the presence of an animal is claimed significantly to reduce your blood pressure. According to the Mental Health Foundation the bond between an owner and a pet can be as strong as the connection with another human which increases our self-worth. In one study 70 percent of families surveyed reported an increase in happiness after getting a pet. Dr. Deborah Wells director of the animal behaviour centre at Queen's University Belfast says "Caring for a pet makes you feel better about yourself". Pets as Therapy (visit www.petsastherapy.org) is a charity that pioneered taking pets into hospitals to raise patients' spirits. It celebrates its 25th anniversary this year â&#x20AC;&#x201C; dogs and cats make 120,000 visits to hospitals, care homes and hospices each week. A little dog I used to have was one of the first to be a P.A.T. dog. After several months of taking him to Warren Lodge Care Home the effect of contact with him â&#x20AC;&#x201C; stroking and fondling â&#x20AC;&#x201C; had an amazing result on two elderly men who were bedridden. One who could not talk as a result of a stroke began to enunciate and started to talk, another who had Alzheimer's and shouted repeatedly at the opposite wall gradually quietened and started to talk sensibly! Human visitors had made no impression on them but contact with my little dog certainly did! Animals can detect certain health problems such as epilepsy, diabetes and seizure. Seizure alert dogs are trained to detect the signs of an imminent epileptic seizure and warn their owners giving them time to get to a place of safety. Dogs and cats can alert an owner that blood sugar levels are dropping dangerously low in people with diabetes. A friend of mine had a visit from someone with diabetes. She left her in

the sitting room while she went to the kitchen to make tea. A while later my friend's cat came into the kitchen miaowing and agitated then ran back to the sitting room. My friend followed her cat and found the visitor going into a diabetic coma. She gave her something sweet to raise her blood sugar level and revived her. Allergies are often linked to exposure to animals but they can have the opposite effect. Children who live with a cat or dog when young have a lower incidence of hay fever and asthma and are less lightly to develop animal related allergies. A five year study of 600 children showed that those who lived with pets had higher levels of self esteem and coped better emotionally if they were under stress. The University of Wales has estimated that in the U.K. the health benefits of pet ownership may result in savings to the N.H.S. of £600 million per year. Marcelle Williams

ARE YOU THE MISSING PERSON? If you are a caring person and would like to help those in the community who are less fortunate than ourselves, and enjoy a good social life as well, why not come along to one of Wokingham Lions Club’s meetings to find out more about us and what we do? We are well known for organising the Wokingham May Fayre – but due to this, and other successful events, we need more members to follow our international motto – “We Serve”. We meet at the Committee Room, Wokingham Town Hall on the second and fourth Wednesday of each month at 7:30 p.m. for 8:00. Or contact Wokingham Lions Club on 0791-007-5106 or 0118-978-1561 for further details.

Chef’s Corner: Christmas Stained Glass Window Biscuits 8 tablespoons plain flour 3 tablespoons butter 1 lightly beaten egg-white 3 tablespoons custard powder 3 tablespoons granulated sugar Crushed boiled sweets (clear fruit drops) about 2 of each colour Fun to make and a pretty and tasty result: Put the fruit drops into a stout plastic bag. Wallop them with a hammer to crush them! Rub the butter into the flour. Add the custard powder and sugar. Add the egg-white till it’s damp, not sticky: add a little water if needed. Roll out to 1 cm thick. Make biscuits using a shaped cutter or round glass. Carefully remove 2 or 3 little circles of dough to make holes, an apple corer does this well. Gently lift the biscuits onto greased foil on a baking tray. Fill the holes with the crushed sweets. Bake for 15 mins at Mark 3/325 degrees/170 degrees. The sweets will melt and reform into clear ‘windows’. Peel the biscuits from the foil when they are cold. Admire and eat! WOMAN'S WORLD DAY OF PRAYER (for Women, Men and Young People) The service for 2009 is on Friday 6th March and the theme is "In Christ There Are many Members Yet One Body" prepared by Christian women in Papua New Guinea. The service in Wokingham at 10.30am will be hosted by Rose Street Methodist Church and they extend a warm welcome to all. Full details in February magazine.

Baptisms 19 Oct 26 Oct 12 Nov

Marriages 25 Oct

Luke Daniela Martin Summer-Marie Hunt Rowan James Auty Charis Janet Bekker Gianna Christine Bekker

Benjamin James Brombley with Sarah Louise Goldsmith

Burials At Easthampstead Park Crematorium 7 Nov Milicent Eileen Betty Southern

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