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elcome to I Do, the 2020 Echo Press summer wedding guide. We hope this publication will be a helpful reference guide for planning your wedding day and preparing for marriage. Inside you’ll find articles highlighting the popular wedding gown styles for 2020, as well as tips for rescheduling your wedding, trends for the groom’s attire, ideas for wedding receptions and so much more. It also contains information on many businesses that specialize in wedding-related services or products. We hope this guide serves as a handy reference to help you plan your most important day! A Publication of the Echo Press www.echopress.com (320) 763-3133

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Inside

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Dos and don’ts for choosing your wedding gown................5 Best dressed men from classic to casual.......................................6 Wedding reception trends for 2020.....................................................8 Food and drink stations for your wedding reception.........8 Statement pieces for the groom.............................................................9 The art of love.........................................................................................................10 How venues are working with couples to reschedule weddings..............................................................................14 Tips for rescheduling your wedding.................................................15 Create your own wedding website....................................................16 Publish your engagement photo...........................................................17 COVID-19 shakes up proposal plans................................................18 Fresh color pairings for a spring or summer wedding...20 How to dress your bridesmaids............................................................. 21 Wedding day photos.......................................................................................22 Large-batch cocktails for your summer wedding...............25 Feature bright colors in your wedding..........................................26 Wedding event branding............................................................................26 The benefits of local vendors.................................................................. 27 Wedding directory............................................................................................28

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Dos and don’ts for choosing your

WEDDING GOWN

If the thought of finding the perfect wedding dress has you stressed, here are a few dos and don’ts that can help relieve the pressure and make the search a happy event.

Do start by finding the dress silhouette style that’s best for you. There are many details that can make for the perfect dress, but before you focus on those details, focus on your personal style. Select a dress silhouette that flatters your figure rather than whatever the dress trends are saying.

don’t

Don’t panic over the wedding dress sizing. The sizing of bridal gowns isn’t the same as average street wear. If you wear a size 4-6 in pants and tops, a wedding dress of comparable size will usually be an 8-10, and if you normally wear size 1416, the dress will likely be 18-20. Once you’re comfortable with that, pay attention to how the dress looks, not what the size label reads. It might be alarming at first, but you need to love how you look in the dress; size doesn’t matter.

don’t

Don’t schedule dress appointments late in the day. You, as well as the staff at the bridal store, will be more energetic and positive earlier in the day. Your consultant will be able to give you her full attention and it’s likely that the store will not be as crowded.

Do bring your camera along if the store allows it. After trying on many dresses, a photographic record of how you look in them will give you a much better idea of the styles that suit you.

don’t

Don’t forget to pay attention to the top of your dress. Remember, no matter how beautiful the hem and lower part is, it’s the top of the dress that people will notice the most and that will show most often in your photos.

Do try on as many dresses as necessary to select the right one. You may not think a dress looks good on a hangar, but dresses have an entirely different look when you wear it. Try on a variety to find the right one for you. Don’t feel forced to try on too many dresses. It’s possible to become overwhelmed with too many choices and too many salons.

don’t

Do ask lots of questions when trying on dresses. Ask yourself if you love the way the dress makes you feel and whether it will work for your style of wedding and the activities that will be included. Make sure that you don’t feel self-conscious about any part of your body in the dress and make sure you can sit down comfortably in it. I Do! Bridal Guide Summer 2020 5

Best dressed men

from classic to casual

Whether youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re leaning toward a classic look or checking out the lastest fashion trends, all grooms want their party to look their best. Here are some of the top styles for summer.

neutral tan

The classic neutral tones of a tan suit can coordinate with nearly every summer color palette and are good for both formal and casual weddings.

bold and bright

Stand out from the ordinary in a solid, bold color suit. These outfits lean toward a more formal feel rather than casual. If you want to stand out a little less, but still bring out the color, try pairing a colorful dinner jacket with black pants.

modern blue

Navy is still the most popular blue choice, but a more modern version can help bring out the hues of the bridesmaid dresses. Coordinate rich blue with tradi6 I Do! Bridal Guide Summer 2020

tional black bow tie and black shoes, or add blue accessories.

distinctive grey

The most popular option for summer weddings, grey gives men the option of keeping it subtle or can be used as a backdrop for just about any color and any wedding theme. Light grey handles outdoor weddings well, especially with warmer weather.

check patterns

A checked pattern is back in style again this season and many grooms are going with a bold, flashy pattern. You can sport a full checked suit or just a blazer, and, if you prefer, stick with a subtle pattern or just a checked tie.

double-breasted

Double-breasted blazers are a great choice for 2020 with their tailored, slim-fitting style, and many grooms are selecting this option to help them stand out from

their wedding party. Use a classic fabric and cut for a more subtle style.

pink is in

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wedding reception trends for 2020 What will your wedding reception look like? Will it be formal or casual, big or small? Here are some trends for 2020 that might spark an idea for you.

micro wedding

Small, intimate weddings are giving couples the opportunity to splurge on higher end, personalized touches since the budget can be higher per person. It’s also perfect for couples who prefer just a smaller group of loved ones. A micro wedding gives the couple a chance to spend quality time with all the guests as well as being more relaxed and informal.

edible flowers

If you are a flower lover, this special touch might be for you. Edible flowers can top your desserts or highlight your salad. They can even be frozen in ice cubes for drinks.

inclusive menu

Couples are making it a point to include everyone when planning menus, offering vegetarian options and taking in to account nut allergies. Providing a variety of cuisines as well as non-alcoholic drinks shows your thoughtfulness.

savory instead of sweet

Many couples are opting for tables of cheese, crackers, nuts and fruit rather than sweets, and it’s perfect for late night snacking. Charcuterie tables include a little something for everyone.

Food and drink stations for your

Wedding reception Are you looking for a way to make your wedding a little different? Any of these fun food or drink stations are sure to get your guests talking. SNACKS. Instead of passed hors d’oeuvres, create a fun snack bar. Pickles, charcuterie or even popcorn with various toppings are all great ideas for a laid back crowd. For a more luxurious touch, try an oyster bar or sushi station. DESSERT. Forgo the traditional wedding cake and offer your guests their choice of dessert. From donuts and pies to cupcakes and your favorite childhood cereals, anything goes. For summer weddings, cool down with ice cream, gourmet ice pops or sundaes. 8 I Do! Bridal Guide Summer 2020

eco wedding

Many couples are looking for ways to host responsible receptions by cutting back on unnecessary waste, using locally sourced produce, using paper straws rather than plastic and sharing wedding day flowers and decór with other couples using the same venue.

LATE NIGHT EATS. After several hours of dancing and drinking, your guests will be ready for a late night snack. Think French fries with different dipping sauces, grilled cheese sandwiches or even a make-your-own-taco bar.

DRINKS. While many weddings have a cocktail bar, you can also offer fresh juice, your favorite craft sodas or beers from nearby microbreweries. Or, a coffee bar complete with flavored syrups is a great way to encourage the party to keep going all night. DOUBLE DUTY. Some food bars can even do double duty as your wedding favors if you provide cute boxes or jars alongside your pickles, cookies, candy or anything else that’s easy to transport.

Statement pieces for the groom Accessories can create the look you want when putting together your wedding attire. Check out these ideas that are trending for 2020: Colorblocking. Whether it’s a black bowtie on a black shirt or a blue tie on a blue shirt, matching the two helps bring a modern look to your ensemble.

Ties. Solid color silk ties are a classic, but you can change it up with a floral or brocade design – the perfect touch for a classic blue or grey suit. Linen ties will add a soft difference in texture to your suit, and a bolder pattern – dots or stripes – will give you a more daring look. Pocket squares. A perfect way to add a little flash to wedding ensembles is the pocket square. You can select a solid in light or dark, as well as patterned. You can even pick a style that reflects your heritage. There are endless options to choose from.

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the ART of LOVE

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The advice I received was upstairs in my own head, saying, ‘I want to be with her forever,’ so I followed my own intuition.

MIKE MOLSTRE

September 2014 groom

rt is a passion for Allison (Leslie) Molstre. So much so, the customer success manager for Forum Communications Company in Fargo made sure her wedding reception reflected that part of her life. “We held our wedding at the Plains Art Museum in Fargo,” said Molstre. “The space screamed my simplistic side. “I love the architecture of the building and the overall beautiful essence of the space. Art is such an important part of me, I knew I wanted my reception to be in a bright and artistic space surrounded by wood and outdoor elements.” Since the reception was held at an art museum, there were a few logistics that the two needed to work around. “The museum has a few floors, so we did take advantage of that,” said Molstre. “We started out the reception on the first floor, where our friends and family waited for us to get off the trolley. “From there, we made our way to the second floor where we hired a very special band called Carluster Crumblebee Orchestra tucked away in the corner playing gypsy jazz music while guests dished their own food through a buffet company called Mosaic foods. We [also] hired DMills and the Thrills, another local band.” Molstre and her husband, Mike, were married September 14, 2014 at Olivet Lutheran Church, the same church both her parents and grandparents were married. Continue on page 12

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Continue from page 11 “We had a traditional ceremony,” she said. “This church was very special to me.” Mike Molstre had a hard time selecting a specific memory of the wedding as his favorite. “For me, it was honestly the entire day,” he said, “but if I had to pick, I would say seeing her for the first time, followed closely by exchanging vows.” Surprisingly, Mike hasn’t received any advice about marriage.

“However, I knew it was obvious for me. She was the person I want/wanted to spend the rest of my life with, so I was, and am, willing to do whatever it takes to ensure we are both happy! “The advice I received was upstairs in my own head, saying, ‘I want to be with her forever,’ so I followed my own intuition.” The couple met at the Windbreak bar in 2011 on New Year’s Day, starting out as friends. They eventually began dating

that February. “Many weekends, we would jump on the motorcycle and explore different towns,” said Molstre. “Now that we have two boys ages 2 and 4, taking off at the last minute is a big challenge.” The couple was engaged for a little more than a year, but Molstre said she planned for about four months. “I didn’t plan for the entire year,” she added. “It really was pretty simple as I knew what I wanted!”

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How venues are working with couples to

reschedule weddings

With gatherings across the country canceled due to COVID-19, event venues, especially those hosting weddings, have been some of the businesses hit the hardest. So, what are those businesses doing to navigate this difficult time and how are wedding venues working with couples who have had to change their plans? “Every venue is handling these challenges as best they can,” said Tami Bredeson, owner and president of Carlos Creek Winery. “Everyone is trying to meet the needs of their couples while preserving enough revenue to keep their doors open.” Bredeson noted that event-only businesses have lost 100 percent of their income and have had to lay off entire staffs. One key to survival for venues is being able to retain any events for 2020. To that end, many have been working with couples to mitigate the losses by both parties. “Couples who remain flexible and compassionate can really reduce their anxiety,” said Bredeson. “When it becomes apparent that couples will not be able to hold their wedding on their original date, the best option is to reschedule. This eliminates the loss of down payments to venues, caterer, photographer,

videographer, photo-booth, florist, DJ, etc. and helps support these small businesses who are trying to hang on.” Changing the date of their weddings has been very difficult for many couples who are struggling to reschedule as they wonder when, or even if, they will be able to celebrate as they had planned. “Will the people closest to them be able to attend?” said Bredeson. “Will that best man be able to fly in from Arizona? Will the grandparents be able to make the trip from Florida? “And for couples who planned on an exotic, destination wedding in a tropical location, they’ve had to quickly try and find a whole new plan. “One of our couples booked for this summer live in Germany and are unable to obtain visas to travel back to the U.S. and they don’t know when that will be possible again.” Most venues, including Carlos Creek, have been proactively contacting their couples. “[We] contact all couples two months prior to their date with a list of available back-up dates to choose from,” Bredeson said. “If a couple has to move their wedding to their back-up date, we work with them on reduced minimums, offer a free elopement package for their original date and include a case of

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custom labeled wine for thank you gifts.” Carlos Creek has been honoring its original pricing, or reduce the pricing if the couple is moving from a Saturday to a Friday or from high-season to off-season. “We hope these efforts will help lessen some of the anxiety they may be experiencing by moving their date,” she added. “So far, about 85 percent of our April-July couples have chosen to reschedule.” Many couples are embracing new dates that will make for unique themes. “One of our early spring couples, whose original off-season Friday date was priced significantly lower, ended up selecting Halloween for their new date,” said Bredeson. “They now have a high-season Saturday wedding for less than their original off-season rental fee and will enjoy a champagne toast and free appetizers, plus have five additional months to plan.” Many couples who had originally planned for a spring or summer wedding, are now embracing winter weddings. “Overall, our couples have been incredibly understanding for which we have been so grateful,” she said. When rescheduling is not possible, many venues, includ-

ing Carlos Creek, are offering “micro-weddings.” These celebrations are held with the number of guests currently allowed by stay-athome regulations and additional guests joining through live streaming. “We are seeing more and more requests for these as couples decide that traveling is just not the best idea for their group at this time,” Bredeson pointed out. The lastest guidelines from the governor have given couples and venues a more positive outlook and a confidence that the remaining weddings scheduled will be able to host their events. “We are anticipating a few adaptations may still be necessary, and are preparing our couples for these possibilities,” said Bredeson. Bredeson anticipates seeing some creative alternatives for receiving lines, as well as custom face masks, complete with the couple’s wedding date, as the hostess gift for 2020. “As far as 2021 and beyond, things look very busy,” she said. “Whether it’s couples displaced from 2020, or perhaps tired of quarantining separately, our bookings for weddings are up from the past couple of years.”

Tips for rescheduling

your wedding COVID-19 has impacted our lives in many ways, including the wedding plans of many couples. Each day, new information is available from the CDC and WHO, and it makes it difficult to make concrete plans. No matter where you are in the planning stage, the most important thing is not to panic. With a little flexibility, patience and compromise, you can still have a wonderful wedding. Here are some tips for navigating this unprecedented time. CONTACT YOUR WEDDING PLANNER. If you’ve hired a planner, get in touch and have them discuss a plan with you on what to do next. If you don’t have a planner, review your contracts with vendors to check out their policies on cancellations or postpone-

ments. KEEP THE SAME VENDOR TEAM. You may have to be a little flexible in regard to the day of the week that you hold your wedding. This could result in less of a financial impact. If you can’t make 2020 work, consider paying your vendors at least part of the cost now for next year’s event. Since they were counting on this income for this year, this could result in your vendors being more accomodating. MAKE THE DECISION SOONER THAN LATER. This will allow guests and vendors to make changes. If you wait until there are only 2-3 weeks remaining, guests may not be able to cancel plans and vendors may have already ordered the supplies.

UPDATE YOUR WEDDING WEBSITE. As soon as you have the details, make sure to update your wedding website so that guests who have been relying on it will be kept informed. DON’T WORRY ABOUT DISAPPOINTING PEOPLE. With circumstances being what they are, your changes can’t be helped. Some will be disappointed, but many will be glad that you’ve made

the decision and given them enought time to cancel. CELEBRATE YOUR ORIGINAL DATE. Even though you aren’t able to be married on your original date, celebrate that day. Make it a special day for just the two of you, whether you toast yourselves with your signature cocktail or you have a special meal ordered in.

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create your own wedding website Wedding invitations traditionally include a few different cards and a whole lot of information. If you’re planning a wedding and want to cut down on the amount of paper you send, a wedding website is the perfect way to communicate with your guests. What needs to be on the invitation. All basic information about your wedding needs to be on the invitation. This includes the full names of the bride and groom to be, the location of the wedding and the date and time it’ll take place. Traditionally, your parents’ names would also be included, but if you’re paying for your own wedding, you can take or leave this tradition. Include the URL to your wedding website so people know how to access it. RSVP cards. Your guests need a way to tell you whether or not they can make it to your wedding. You can include this with your invitation, or have people respond on

your website. Both options are acceptable, but keep in mind that some of your older guests may not understand the lack of a response card. What to put on your wedding website. Use the website to let your guests know about accommodations, the gift registry and directions to the venue. You can also include some photos of the two of you, introduce guests to your wedding party or add local fun facts for people from out of town. Building a wedding website is easy and often times free. Use one of the following host sites: •withjoy.com •minted.com •weddingwire.com •theknot.com •zola.com •appycouple.com

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WEDDING INVITATION ESSENTIALS Here’s a list of things you’ll need to include in your wedding invitations:

THE SAVE-THE-DATE CARD

This optional piece to the invitation should be sent out 6-8 months before the event. It’s especially important for destination or multi-day weddings and include the following: •The names of the bride and groom •The date of the event •The city in which the wedding will take place

THE INVITATION CARD

The invitations should be sent out 6-8 weeks before the wedding and should contain: •The date and time of the wedding •The location and schedule of the reception •Driving instructions •The wedding’s theme, if applicable •An indication of whether or not children are welcome •Contact info (email address, website, phone number)

THE RSVP CARD

It’s crucial to include an RSVP card with your wedding invitations so that invitees can confirm whether or not they’re able to attend the event as well as indicate if someone will be accompanying them. Be sure to provide a self-addressed stamped envelope.

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COVID-19 shakes up

proposal plans

By Celeste Edenloff

hen Andy Erickson and Hannah Finne started dating, it didn’t take long for Erickson to know Finne was someone special. He realized how special she was and that he was in love with her when they were out for his birthday and he saw the way she interacted with his close friend who has Down syndrome.

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“I knew right then and there I got me a good one,” he said as he smiled at Finne. Erickson and Finne started dating in April of 2018. In August of 2019, Erickson, who lives in Alexandria, started planning for how he was going to propose as he knew for sure, this was the woman he wanted to marry. He started looking at rings. They talked about marriage and Erickson knew the style of ring Finne liked, but the two of them did not shop together. This was his present to her and he wanted it to be a complete surprise. And it was. But because of COVID-19 and people being quarantined at home, Erickson’s original plans went by the wayside. The two of them had been planning a trip to Boston to see Erickson’s favorite band, the Red Hot Chili Peppers. The coronavirus happened and their trip was canceled – and the big moment in Boston wasn’t going to happen. Erickson was crushed – not only because he couldn’t see his favorite band of all time, but because he wasn’t going to get to propose to Finne like he planned. It was back to the drawing board.

Finne said she had no idea Erickson had been looking at rings or that he had actually purchased one. However, she did have a fleeting thought that maybe he could have been planning a proposal for their trip to Boston. But when the trip was canceled, Finne said she stopped thinking about it. For the proposal he was planning in Boston, Erickson had a photographer all lined up as he wanted to make sure he captured the moment so they both could remember it forever. He ended up getting a hold of a friend in Alexandria and asked if she wouldn’t mind helping him out because he was planning to propose. He wasn’t exactly sure of the plans yet, but knew the date and wanted to make sure she was open. She was. Because Finne’s family ended up planning a trip to visit the couple, the day got moved up one day and the planning began. Originally, Erickson had planned to just go for a walk with Finne and their dog, Griffey, on the trail by their house. However, after talking to his friend who

It was hands down the most stressful day of my life. ANDY ERICKSON

joking about the day he proposed to Hannah Finne

would be taking the photos, the plans changed. With the help of his friend and some texting back and forth with directions and maps, Erickson’s proposal was set to take place at a special spot along the Central Lakes Trail near Lake Brophy County Park. The spot was on top of a hill with a bench that overlooks a small body of water, trees and hills, and a beautiful open landscape. It would be the perfect backdrop for a proposal. The day arrived – Friday, May 8 – and Erickson was ready. He said he was nervous, but ready. “It was hands down the most stressful day of my life,” he joked. Knowing Finne’s family was coming that evening, everything had to go as smoothly as possible.

The time came to head out to the park. Without asking any questions, Erickson said Finne went along with all his plans. They grabbed the dog and off they went. There was a chill in the air, so Erickson put a vest on, but Finne didn’t put any type of coat on, which came into play as the two were walking to the special spot on the trail. At one point, Finne asked if she could put his vest on, but he had to decline as politely as possible as the ring was in the vest pocket. “I felt like such an a** telling her no and that she should have worn something,” Erickson said. “But I couldn’t let her because of the ring.” At that point, Finne said she still had no clue something was about to happen, and just brushed it off. She also didn’t

even realize that their dog, Griffey, had a special handkerchief around his neck with the words, “Please say yes.” She said she was completely clueless. As Erickson’s friend and her husband hid down the hill, in the bushes, camera at the ready, Erickson and Finne approached the area. Erickson and his friend had been feverishly texting back and forth so she would be ready, with Finne, of course, still having no clue what was about to happen. The photographer gave Erickson a thumbs up and within seconds, he was down on his knee and the proposal was happening. Finne said she was in shock and had so many emotions going on. She couldn’t believe what he was doing and as a few expletives came out of her mouth she asked, “Are you kidding right now? Is this happening right now?” In all the commotion and excitement and between the hugs and the tears, Erickson asked again and said to Finne, “Is that a yes?” to which she happily and excitedly said, “YES!” Although both of them don’t remember everything because it happened so fast, Finne did remember one thing. “You were shaking so bad,” she said to her now fiance. No firm plans have been made, but the couple said they would like a fall wedding in Alexandria. Erickson is from Bottineau, North Dakota, and Finne is from Elgin, but Alexandria is now their home. Erickson works at Geneva Capital and Finne, who is going to school for nursing at Alexandria Technical and Community College, works part-time as a paramedic for the Stevens County Ambulance Service in Morris. I Do! Bridal Guide Summer 2020 19

Fresh color pairings for a

spring or summer wedding

When it comes to your wedding, your color palette is one of the foundations that you build on for your special day. Here are a few of the color combinations for spring and summer highlighted by colorsbridesmaid.com to inspire you.

light blue & white

Cool and calm, pairing light blue with white give you a wonderful palette to work with for your wedding. You can use a subtle blue and white color combo for your flowers, or spice it up with bright accents and navy blue suits for the groom and his groomsmen. Add a white cake with small hints of blue, or change it up with a fun blue cake and colorful floral accents.

rose pink & grey

Light grey is a classic selection, and paired with rose pink, is an elegant selection for a summer wedding. Dresses in either color and tuxes in grey with rose pink-accented boutonnieres and bouquets will give you a perfect palette.

ice blue & hot pink

Imagine the soft look of a beautiful white wedding gown surrounded by pale, icy blue bridesmaids and accented with a sprinkling of hot pink flowers in bouquets. Centerpieces overflowing with white and hot pink will draw the eye, and hot pink

boutonnieres atop black tuxes will make a striking contrast.

purple & Pink

Two colors that work wonderfully together are purple and pink. Bridesmaid dresses in these two colors will look great standing next to guys in navy suits. You can add light purple ties for the men, then fill the bouquets with pink and purple flowers.

blush & grey

Always a classic, blush works for any season, but is beautiful when used against a backdrop of dark grey-suited groomsmen. Add in pale pink and greenery floral arrangements on tables topped with white or grey linens.

white & greenery

Strikingly classic, white is a wonderful backdrop for a wedding and by using greenery for your bouquets and table decor, you create the feeling of timeless elegance. Dress your groom and groomsmen in grey suits and use greenery as boutonnieres.

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How to dress your

bridesmaids Whether you have three bridesmaids or 13, you’ll need to decide what they’ll wear. Here are some options. Same color, same dress. For a classic look, ask bridesmaids to wear matching dresses. This option is best when the girls in the group have similar body shapes and skin tones. Different color, same dress. For a multicolored esthetic, choose a style of dress

and let your bridesmaids pick the hue they wear. If you prefer a more subtle approach, ask them to wear different shades of the same color. Same color, different dress. This is a great way to show off your bridesmaids’ personalities. You can even opt for convertible dresses. These can be worn as many as 20 different ways, so your girls will have no problem finding a look that suits them.

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KELSEY ROERING June 8, 2019 Lake Side Park, Graceville, MN Photo by Gina Lee Photography

TODD AND ALICIA FROVARP July 21, 2018 Elkâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Point, Fergus Falls, MN Photo by Sonia Strauch 22 I Do! Bridal Guide Summer 2020

AMBER AND CODY MAJESKIE July 28, 2018 Lake Victoria, Alexandria Photo by Jennifer Guenther

KELSEY AND MATTHEW PEDERSON August 24, 2017 Vintage Garden, Sabin, MN Photo by Renee Donnelly Photography

KARI LOVE-MAINAH AND BENTIL MAINAH June 15, 2018 • Clitherall, MN Photo by Sami Jo Photos, Fergus Falls, MN

STEPHANIE TETRICK August 17, 2019 Sacred Heart Church, Glenwood, MN Photo by Visionari Studios

JESSICA AND CHRIS COOK November 29, 2014 Cornerstone Church, Alexandria Photo by Advent Imaging, Paul Middlestaedt

KATIE AND TYLER DIETZ October 12, 2019 Cider Times Orchard, Osakis Photo by Ashley Thiel Photography

MORGAN AND WESTON GREGORY February 15, 2020 • St. Martin, MN Photo by Mataya Creations

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MADISON AND ETHAN DEAKINS February 22, 2020 Covenant Church, Alexandria Reception at Arrowwood Resort and Conference Center Photo by Vanessa Koep Photography

MEGAN AND JAKE NIENABER February 29, 2020 St. Lukeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Lutheran Church, Garfield Photo by When Photography 24 I Do! Bridal Guide Summer 2020

KELLY AND LUCAS MITCHELL October 20, 2018 St. Andrews, Greenwald, MN Photo by Jessica Cook Graphics and Photography

CRESCENT AND ERIC WESTBERG September 1, 2019 Glenwood Photo by Alexis Dooley Photography

Large-batch cocktails for your summer wedding

If you’re planning a summer wedding, big batch cocktails might be the perfect solution for your wedding. They save time and money, but are still a tasty addition to your reception.

strawberry rosÉ punch

An easy and refreshing drink, strawberry rosé punch needs just four ingredients: frozen strawberries, pink Moscato champagne or rosé wine, simple syrup and club soda or lemon-lime soda.

white wine sangria

Using whatever fruits you favor, just add dry white wine, brandy, sugar and lemon-lime soda and mix it up.

paloma punch

With grapefruit as the base, palomas are fizzy and refreshing. All you need is silver tequila, grapefruit juice, fresh lime juice and agave nectar, water and sparkling water. Garnish with grapefruit or lime wedges.

moscow mule punch

Refreshing and satisfying, Moscow mule punch is a mix of vodka, fresh lime juice, ginger beer and simple syrup. It can be garnished with a sprig of fresh mint.

margaritas

With frozen limeade concentrate, water, tequila, Triple Sec/Grand Marnier or oranges, you can make up a big batch of everyone’s favorite margaritas. Decorate with a slice of lime.

champagne punch

It takes just two ingredients for this summer refresher – your favorite champagne, prosecco or sparkling wine and some scoops of sorbet. Easy and tasty.

raspberry prosecco punch

With Chambord, Grand Marnier, simple syrup and prosecco or champagne, raspberry prosecco punch is elegant and delicious. Garnish with fresh raspberries, mint and sugar for the rim of the glass.

watermelon mojitos

Watermelon is in season, so just add simple syrup, mint leaves, lime juice and white rum. I Do! Bridal Guide Summer 2020 25

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Bright colors in your wedding

An increasing number of brides and grooms are incorporating bright colors into their wedding outfits and decor. Here’s how to do the same. CHOOSE THE RIGHT COLOR While red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo and violet look great on a rainbow, it may be overwhelming to use them all at your wedding. Instead, choose only one or two of your favorite colors.

Wedding event These days, a wedding makes use of so much more than just a basic invitation. Invitation suites, which include the invitation, reception card, response card, directions, accommodations card and weekend itinerary, have become very popular along with save the date cards. In addition, wedding event branding pieces, such

branding

as signage, menus and napkins, have become part of the repertoire. This year, features such as geometric cutouts, color-blocking, wax seals, custom artwork and watercolors, will be found on all paper products used for weddings. Brides have turned to Pinterest and Instagram for inspiration or everything from

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invitations, menus and custom monograms to cakes, allowing couples to customize their wedding brand. Welcome baskets or gift boxes for guests, particularly for destination weddings or events where the majority of guests had to travel far, are being personalized with itineraries, maps, local treats and small gifts tailored to fit with the couples’ brand.

Or, choose colors based on the meaning behind them and the feelings they evoke. For example, green is the color of renewal and balance, while blue calls to mind feelings of serenity and peace. USE COLOR JUDICIOUSLY Incorporating colors into your wedding doesn’t mean everything should be bright and bold. Instead, favor neutrals and use your chosen hue as an accent here and there. The bride’s bouquet, bridesmaids’ dresses, centerpieces and the groom and groomsmen’s ties are perfect places to inject a vibrant shade. For a look that’s rich and voluptuous, be sure to use different shades and textures of your chosen color.

The benefits of using

local vendors Local vendors are a smart choice when planning your wedding ceremony and reception. Once you make the decision on where you will hold your wedding, you can begin to look at local vendors. Being familiar with the area, local vendors will be able to handle the tasks involved with the wedding without needing directions. Wedding photographers, for instance, will know the best places to stage photos, while other vendors most likely have preexisting relationships with representatives of venues, keeping your wedding day less stressful. Shopping local also ensures more personalized service, as well as more individualized attention, than you might find with larger retailers. Keeping your wedding local allows your vendors to meet with you more frequently to make sure that your wedding is the way you want it to be. It also makes dropping off deposits, attending meetings, and making fitting appointments easier.

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Wedding Service Directory

ACCESSORIES, SUPPLIES & EQUIPMENT CENTRAL LAKES RESTAURANT SUPPLY 1228 N Nokomis St. NE Alexandria • 320-762-8435

CREATIONS AN EVENT STUDIO 1023 Broadway St. • Alexandria 320-846-1166 BRIDAL GOWN PRESERVATION AMERICAN CLEANERS & LAUNDERERS 221 S Main St. • Sauk Centre 320-351-4800 AMERICAN CLEANERS & LAUNDERERS 401 Broadway • Alexandria 320-763-4800 JACKIE J’S BRIDAL & FORMAL WEAR 520 Broadway • Alexandria 320-762-5163 THE SPECIAL EVENT BOUTIQUE AND BRIDAL 2715 S. Hwy 29 • Midway Mall Alexandria • 320-762-0633 specialeventbridal.com BRIDAL SHOWERS & BACHELORETTE PARTIES ARROWWOOD RESORT & CONFERENCE CENTER 2100 Arrowwood Ln. Alexandria • 320-762-1124

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CORRAL SALOON & EATERY Nelson • 320-762-2416 GARFIELD CITY HALL & COMMUNITY CENTER 101 Sanstead St. E. • Garfield 320-834-2238 www.garfieldmn.com HOLIDAY INN OF ALEXANDRIA Hwy 29 & I-94 • Alexandria 320-763-6577 LONG LAKE LODGE 16021 Long Lake Rd NW • Brandon 320-524-2755 • www.longlakelodge.net PRAIRIE OAKS CENTER 10927 Hwy. 29 • Parkers Prairie 320-808-7343 jenellbernardy@yahoo.com VFW 1102 3rd Ave E·Alexandria 320-763-9221 BRIDAL SUITE & DECORATING CREATIONS AN EVENT STUDIO 1023 Broadway St. • Alexandria 320-846-1166 CAKES ELDEN’S FRESH FOODS Corner of 3rd & Nokomis Alexandria • 320-763-3446

CATERING ON & OFF SITE BROADWAY BALLROOM 115 30th Ave E • Alexandria 320-763-6565 CORRAL SALOON & EATERY Nelson • 320-762-2416 NORTHERN LIGHTS BALLROOM & BANQUET CENTER INC. Hwy 169 N. • Milaca 320-369-4622 northernlightsbanquet.com 2014 Wedding Wire Couples Choice Award CHURCH DECORATING CREATIONS AN EVENT STUDIO 1023 Broadway St. • Alexandria 320-846-1166 DECORATING RENTAL EQUIPMENT CREATIONS AN EVENT STUDIO 1023 Broadway St. • Alexandria 320-846-1166 DIAMONDS & WEDDING SETS DIEKMAN’S JEWELRY 111 6th Ave. W • Alexandria 320-762-0309 HEDINE JEWELERS 611 Broadway Alexandria • 320-763-4940

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KARROW JEWELERS 628 Broadway·Alexandria 320-763-3334 PAFFRATH DIAMOND JEWELERS 410 30th Ave. E • Willow Creek Alexandria • 320-762-8735 FLORISTS CREATIONS AN EVENT STUDIO 1023 Broadway St. • Alexandria 320-846-1166 ELDEN’S DOWNTOWN FLORAL Corner of 3rd & Nokomis Alexandria 320-762-7292 downtownfloralco.com GIFTS & GIFT REGISTRIES DIEKMAN’S JEWELRY 111 6th Ave. W • Alexandria 320-762-0309 KARROW JEWELERS 628 Broadway·Alexandria 320-763-3334 PAFFRATH DIAMOND JEWELERS 410 30th Ave. E • Willow Creek Alexandria • 320-762-8735 GOWNS & DRESSES JACKIE J’S BRIDAL & FORMAL WEAR 520 Broadway • Alexandria 320-762-5163

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GOWNS & DRESSES THE SPECIAL EVENT BOUTIQUE & BRIDAL 2715 S. Hwy. 29 • Midway Mall Alexandria 320-762-0633 specialeventbridal.com GROOM’S DINNERS ARROWWOOD RESORT & CONFERENCE CENTER 2100 Arrowwood Ln. Alexandria • 320-762-1124 BROADWAY BALLROOM 115 30th Ave. E. • Alexandria 320-763-6565 CARLOS CREEK WINERY 6693 Co Rd 34 Just N of Alexandria 320-846-5443 carloscreekwinery.com CORRAL SALOON & EATERY Nelson • 320-762-2416 GARFIELD CITY HALL & COMMUNITY CENTER 101 Sanstead St. E. • Garfield 320-834-2238 www.garfieldmn.com HOLIDAY INN OF ALEXANDRIA Hwy. 29 & I-94 • 320-763-6577

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NORTHERN LIGHTS BALLROOM & BANQUET CENTER INC. Hwy 169 N. • Milaca 320-369-4622 northernlightsbanquet.com

PRAIRIE OAKS CENTER 10927 Hwy. 29 • Parkers Prairie 320-808-7343 jenellbernardy@yahoo.com JEWELERS DIEKMAN’S JEWELRY 111 6th Ave. W • Alexandria 320-762-0309

HAIR STYLISTS HAIR PROFILES SALON & DAY SPA 115 5th Ave. W Alexandria • 320-763-3414 hairprofilesdayspa.com/packages/ bridal-packages

HEDINE JEWELERS 611 Broadway · Alexandria 320-763-4940

INDOOR/OUTDOOR CEREMONIES ARROWWOOD RESORT & CONFERENCE CENTER 2100 Arrowwood Ln. Alexandria • 320-762-1124

PAFFRATH DIAMOND JEWELERS 410 30th Ave. E • Willow Creek Alexandria • 320-762-8735

CARLOS CREEK WINERY 6693 Co. Rd. 34, Just N of Alexandria 320-846-5443 carloscreekwinery.com CROOKED WILLOW WEDDINGS & EVENTS 11181 Co Rd 82 SE • Osakis 612-207-4040 crookedwillowmn.com

KARROW JEWELERS 628 Broadway · Alexandria 320-763-5833

JEWELRY DIEKMAN’S JEWELRY 111 6th Ave. W • Alexandria 320-762-0309 JACKIE J’S BRIDAL & FORMAL WEAR 520 Broadway • Alexandria 320-762-5163 KARROW JEWELERS 628 Broadway • Alexandria 320-763-5833

LODGING AMERICINN 4520 Hwy. 29 S • Alexandria 320-763-6808 ARROWWOOD RESORT & CONFERENCE CENTER 2100 Arrowwood Ln. Alexandria • 320-762-1124 BEST WESTERN 508 Twin Blvd. • Alexandria 320-762-5161 DAYS INN 4810 St. Hwy. 29 S. • Alexandria 320-762-1171 FAIRFIELD INN & SUITES BY MARRIOTT 4929 Sanibel Drive · Alexandria 320-763-0133 marriott.com/stcal HAMPTON INN & SUITES 2705 S Broadway • Alexandria 320-763-3360 alexandriasuitesmn.hamptoninn.com HOLIDAY INN OF ALEXANDRIA Hwy. 29 & I-94 • 320-763-6577 SUPER 8 OF ALEXANDRIA 4620 St. Hwy. 29 S. • Alexandria 320-763-6552 MAKEUP HAIR PROFILES SALON & DAY SPA 115 5th Ave. W Alexandria • 320-763-3414 hairprofilesdayspa.com/packages/ bridal-packages

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Wedding Service Directory MEN’S BRIDAL RINGS DIEKMAN’S JEWELRY 111 6th Ave. W • Alexandria 320-762-0309 HEDINE JEWELERS 611 Broadway · Alexandria 320-763-4940 KARROW JEWELERS 628 Broadway · Alexandria 320-763-5833 PAFFRATH DIAMOND JEWELERS 410 30th Ave. E • Willow Creek Alexandria • 320-762-8735 MOTHER’S DRESSES JACKIE J’S BRIDAL & FORMAL WEAR 520 Broadway • Alexandria 320-762-5163 THE SPECIAL EVENT BOUTIQUE AND BRIDAL 2715 S. Hwy 29 • Midway Mall Alexandria • 320-762-0633 specialeventbridal.com OUTDOOR WEDDING DECORATING CREATIONS AN EVENT STUDIO 1023 Broadway St. • Alexandria 320-846-1166 PARTY SUPPLIES CENTRAL LAKES RESTAURANT SUPPLY 1228 N Nokomis • Alexandria 320-762-8435 PAGEANT AND PARTY DRESSES THE SPECIAL EVENT BOUTIQUE AND BRIDAL 2715 S. Hwy 29 • Midway Mall Alexandria • 320-762-0633 specialeventbridal.com RECEPTIONS & DANCES ARROWWOOD RESORT & CONFERENCE CENTER 2100 Arrowwood Ln. Alexandria • 320-762-1124

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CARLOS CREEK WINERY Co Rd 34, Just N of Alexandria 320-846-5443 carloscreekwinery.com CORRAL SALOON & EATERY Nelson • 320-762-2416 GARFIELD CITY HALL & COMMUNITY CENTER 101 Sanstead St. E. • Garfield 320-834-2238 www.garfieldmn.com HOLIDAY INN OF ALEXANDRIA Hwy. 29 & I-94 320-763-6577 CROOKED WILLOW WEDDINGS & EVENTS 11181 Co Rd 82 SE • Osakis 612-207-4040 crookedwillowmn.com LEGACY OF THE LAKES MUSEUM & GARDENS legacyofthelakes.org Alexandria • 320-759-1114 LONG LAKE LODGE 16021 Long Lake Rd NW • Brandon 320-524-2755 www.longlakelodge.net NORTHERN LIGHTS BALLROOM & BANQUET CENTER INC. Hwy 169 N. • Milaca 320-369-4622 northernlightsbanquet.com PRAIRIE OAKS CENTER 10927 Hwy. 29 • Parkers Prairie 320-808-7343 jenellbernardy@yahoo.com VFW 1102 3rd Ave. E · Alexandria 320-763-9221 RECEPTION & DANCE DECORATING CREATIONS AN EVENT STUDIO 1023 Broadway St. • Alexandria 320-846-1166

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