Edmond Outlook JUNE 2010 by Outlook Magazine

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June 2010

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ARTS & Entertainment Artscape

28 Shopping Guide For Dads/ For Summer

Letters from Louise Fired from the Peanut Patch

28 Military Minded Protecting a Former President-Elect

10 Sports Married to the NBA

30 Inspiring Female Entrepreneurs The Pioneering Spirit

12 Best of Edmond Hearing Care by Hough & Anabelle's Galleria

32 OKGamers.com Connecting Through Controllers

18 Home & Garden Summer Lawn Care

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26 Health & Fitness Against All Odds 31 Around Town

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A rts & Entertainment

rtists don’t need a permanent display at the Louvre or even an art degree to experience the thrill of creating a personal masterpiece. Art is for everyone and all it takes to create your own is a little bit of time and perhaps a push in the right direction. “Most people will tell you right off that they are not artistic - they can’t draw. Art is more than a drawing or painting,” said Ines Burnham, program director for the Oklahoma Center for Arts Education. The center is a division of the College of Fine Arts and Design at the University of Central Oklahoma. “Art can be a photograph, a picture, a room design, a color combination on a sign, dancing in your living room with your kids or singing to ‘Glee’ songs,” Burnham says. “People can get involved by taking classes and workshops or by donating to help support the arts for others to enjoy.” The definition of art is as varied as the people who try to define it, and some type of artistic discipline is accessible to each person. There are many places in and around Edmond that help people discover a love for the arts. Paint Your Art Out in downtown Edmond offers those interested in dabbling in paint a chance to ease into the art form. Studio owners Renee Deakle and Kelly Garner provide the supplies and will even get aspiring painters started by sketching the subject for them. “We find people who have always wanted to paint and give them a starting place,” Deakle says.

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by Nathan Winfrey “We’ve had people leave the studio and say, ‘I never realized I could paint’.” Guests can even bring hors d'oeuvres or a bottle of wine and enjoy the casual environment. “Just relax and have fun with it,” Deakle says. “We don’t offer structured art sessions or classes. If you learn something, it’s totally by accident. But people do learn things.” Art is all around the Edmond metro. The House of Clay is another local haven, offering pottery classes in NW Oklahoma City. The Edmond Fine Arts Institute provides classes and a summer camp for kids through August 13. The Edmond Art Association is even hosting a spring indoor art show through June, held at the Edmond Public Library. In addition to traditional art, the Oklahoma Center for Arts Education focuses on design, dance, theatre, and music. “The brain is a muscle. As you expand it by viewing or participating in art, you exercise the muscle and it grows and becomes stronger,” Burnham says. “The more we learn, the more we become.” They offer workshops and conferences for educators, administrators, students, and the general public including private music lessons, campus visits and more than a dozen summer camps for ages 7 to 18. “Art is important because it allows us to think outside the box and be creative. It prepares our students to be more independent thinkers,” Burnham says. “On the other side of the coin,

it teaches students to work together as a team member - as in orchestra, band, choir, dance and theatre. They may have a solo part that can make or break a piece, but they also represent the group as a collective voice. Both qualities are important as these students grow and become leaders in the 21st Century.” So, you’ve finished your first creation, or ten – what now? “There are more businesses than people realize that would be willing to hang someone’s art in their establishment,” Deakle says. She says restaurants and places like pilates classrooms are often eager to showcase beginner art. Commissioned pieces are another great way for learning artists to get their work out to the public. “Take a chance and don’t be afraid. Most people have something inside of them that is artistic, but they just don’t see it as art. Art fosters creativity in all of us,” Burnham says. UCO regularly hosts student gallery openings and showcases. The shows are an opportunity to appreciate unique creative output from up-and-comers. For more information on participating in these events, call (405) 216-2586 or e-mail ocae@uco.edu.

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L etters from Louise

by Louise Tucker Jones

had no idea how to "shake" peanuts nor did I care. At ten years old I was just happy to get away from the house and not have to scrub dirty, bug-infested fruit jars for Mama's canning. After a half-mile walk, my brother, Jimmy and I arrived at the peanut patch. I don't know what I expected but whatever it was it didn't match what I saw. There were vines crawling all over the ground. The attached peanuts were covered with clods of dirt and creepy insects. Jimmy, a year and half my senior, had worked in the field with my father and older brothers so he came prepared with a pair of work gloves. I on the other hand, brought nothing except my lunch—a cold, scrambled egg sandwich and a fruit jar filled with ice water. After the owner guided us to a patch of the field, Jimmy dug his hands into the dirt and shook the daylights out of those peanut vines. I watched and frowned then shook a vine gingerly, getting a face and mouth full of dirt in the process. By noon, it was obvious to Mr. McElhannon that I was not an asset to his peanut patch so he sent me to his cotton field, another half-mile down the road, where I was handed a tow sack with an attached strap. I looped the strap over my small body and began plucking the soft, white cotton from the hulls. The sun was scorching hot and the thought of washing fruit jars at home didn't seem all that bad anymore. The rough bag still held a strong aroma of seed or feed, which I wasn’t sure.

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Finally, it was quitting time and I weighed in my little bag of “fluff.” The woman placed two coins in my hand and I stared in disbelief. I had worked all day and earned only two cents. I left the cotton field and trudged up the dusty road to the little country store where I was to meet Jimmy and Daddy. I was tired, thirsty and humiliated. Jimmy met me at the door while swigging down an ice-cold bottle of Royal Crown Cola, which he paid for with his earnings. I didn't even have a nickel for a bottle of pop. Suddenly, Daddy opened the squeaky, screen door of the store and walked inside. Jimmy ran to show him how much money he had earned. I held back. Finally, the inevitable question came.

"Daddy hugged me even closer. He was actually proud of me. Proud of my efforts and tenacity. " "How much money did you make, Sis?" Daddy asked. I stared down at my dirty shoes then brought my hand from behind my back and opened it to show him my two pennies. Tears pricked the backs of my eyes as I told Daddy about my day. I was certain he would be mad, but instead he roared with laughter and pulled

about the author Louise Tucker Jones is an award-winning author and inspirational speaker. Author and co-author of three books, her work has been featured in numerous publications. Mother of four and grandmother of three, Louise resides in Edmond with her husband, Carl and son, Jay. Contact her at: LouiseTJ@cox.net or www.LouiseTuckerJones.com.

me to his side. Then he turned to the other men in the store and told them of my grand adventure. "Hey, listen to this. Louise worked all morning at McElhanon's peanut patch. He fired her without pay then sent her to the cotton field where she worked all afternoon and was paid only two cents." Everyone agreed that was a lot of work for such a meager amount of money. Daddy hugged me even closer. He was actually proud of me. Proud of my efforts and tenacity. Throughout my life, Daddy remained my hero, blessing me with love, laughter and song. He gave me a heritage of hard work along with a strong faith in God. And though he never once told me his philosophy of life, I began to understand it at that little country store when I was fired from the peanut patch. Happy Fatherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Day to all the wonderful daddies who bless their childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s lives daily!

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S ports

by Nathan Winfrey

hree kids and hectic schedules can be a strain on any marriage – especially when the husband plays for the NBA on a team based in another state. Jennifer Nájera has been married to Dallas Mavericks reserve forward, Eduardo Nájera for 10 years. They met as college sophomores while Eduardo helped the Sooners through four consecutive NCAA tournaments. These days, Jennifer resides at their Edmond home with their children, ages 7, 5 and 2. Eduardo stays in their Dallas home during the season, which starts in September and can run until June if the team makes the playoffs. Jennifer and the kids visit him every weekend the Mavs are at home in Dallas. “It’s hard being away from him so much,” Jennifer says. “Family life is definitely tough in the NBA. They’re on the road; they’re tired from practicing. Mentally, they have to be completely focused on basketball, so it’s really hard to come in as a family and have his full attention.” Jennifer says Eduardo is great with the kids, but he has to make basketball a priority. She says it’s similar to other demanding careers – if the phone rings, he has to drop everything and go.

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“It’s neat to be able to say that my husband is an NBA player,” Jennifer says. “It’s still a lot of fun and the kids enjoy it.” Eduardo usually calls Jennifer in the mornings, when he gets out of practice and in the evenings to say goodnight to the kids. “We try to communicate throughout the day and we text,” she says. They recently bought a cell phone for their 7-year-old daughter, and she text-messages back and forth with her dad all day, talking and sending each other pictures. Jennifer is mostly a stay-at-home mom and part-owner of Funky Monkey Clothing, located in NW Oklahoma City at 14101 N. May Avenue. “It’s kind of like my fourth baby — my last baby,” she says. In the summer, Eduardo hosts basketball camps in Mexico. “He has a gift to work with people and teach them,” Jennifer says. “He’s really smart on the court; he always knows where the ball is. As a player, that gives him an advantage, but as a coach that’s even better.” In 2000, Eduardo became the first Mexican-born player drafted to the NBA and the second Mexicanborn NBA player in history. He played for the Maver-

icks until 2004, while Jennifer and their only child at the time lived in Dallas with him. When Eduardo was traded to the Golden State Warriors, they’d just found out Jennifer was pregnant with their second child and made a decision to be near family in Edmond. “We decided that we were going to make a base here and I’d travel back and forth with the kids,” she says. By the time that child was born, Eduardo had been traded to the Denver Nuggets. In 2008, he went to play for the New Jersey Nets. This year, he returned to the Mavericks. “Now that he’s back in Dallas, it’s much easier to go down there every weekend,” Jennifer says. She says there are a lot of perks to having a famous husband. Long waiting lists at nice restaurants seem to disappear when her husband

"It’s hard being away from him so much... Family life is definitely tough in the NBA."

is recognized. “It’s nothing major, but it’s nice,” Jennifer says. Eduardo and Jennifer were invited to a State Dinner at the White House in 2001. “When you have dinner at the White House, you don’t get to sit with who you came with. He was at table number one and I was at table 21,” Jennifer says. “I thought I was going to be at the back of the room, but it wound up being totally opposite.” Eduardo’s table was at the back of the room and Jennifer shared a table at the front with Laura Bush, former Redskins cornerback Darrell Green, Mexican President Vincente Fox and Clint Eastwood. Jennifer says she’s met many famous people during Eduardo’s NBA career. “The fans in Dallas are really good to him,” she says. “They appreciate the effort that he puts [out] on the court, diving for the ball and sacrificing his body. The wear and tear on his body after 10 years is certainly taking its toll. He fights for the ball, instead of crying about not getting it.” Jennifer says she’s glad Eduardo is able to play basketball. “He enjoys it and it’s nice that he can get up and look forward to going. I’m glad that he can do something he loves.”

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Best of Edmond

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by Rebecca Vidacovich

early all would agree that relationships are the most important thing in life,” says Dr. David Hough, PhD Audiologist and owner of Hearing Care by Hough. “Verbal communication is the prime means by which we build relationships.” Around one tenth of the population live with hearing loss and over one fourth of those are over age 65, according to Hough. “My father, Dr. Jack Hough, was a renowned ear surgeon and he called hearing loss the ‘silent hurt.’ Hearing loss usually creeps up slowly over the years, eroding the quality of living,” he said. Dr. David Hough has worked as an audiologist for nearly 20 years and has focused on hearing rehabilitation for the past 15 years. He was co-owner and manager of Audio Recovery at Hough Ear Institute until 2006. He and his family then moved to New Zealand for a year, where he enjoyed a “working sabbatical” as an audiologist. After returning to Edmond, Hough and his wife opened their current office in the spring of 2008. “It’s

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been great to tailor our business and I especially enjoy working with my sweetie,” he says. Located in the Timber Brooke Professional Center at 164th and Western, Hearing Care by Hough offers hearing assessment testing and rehabilitation in the form of hearing aids and hearing assistive technologies. Hough provides training programs to help improve listening habits and provide verbal strategies to proactively improve communication. Hough’s success in dealing with hearing loss is measured by the improvements made in the lives of his patient’s relationships. His goal is to help the patient regain fluid communication, hear, understand and maintain a social life. “We’re only satisfied when our patients are satisfied. We’ve worked hard to keep our business streamlined so we can focus our energy on serving our patients.” What motivates Hough to serve people with a hearing impairment is expressed well in their motto: “Communication is life.” “The hearing organ is a miraculous creation and the technology applied for rehabilitation is

complex and advancing monthly,” said Hough. “It’s imperative to trust your hearing health care with a professional – an audiologist or an ear, nose and throat doctor.” To schedule an appointment with Hearing Care by Hough, call 513-6465. Or you can visit his website located at www.hearingcarebyhough.com for more information.

dmond born, Janie Dowling has realized a long-time dream of running her own store. She opened Anabelle’s Galleria, a gift, jewelry and home decor shop with her daughter’s namesake. “It has always been a dream of mine to own my own business,” Dowling said. “I like to analyze and strategically make decisions for the business and I really enjoy seeing what impact my decisions have at Anabelle’s. It’s fulfilling to see my hard work pay off.” Through her various sales and management positions over the past 17 years, Dowling has learned how to efficiently run a business. Early in her career, she was fortunate to have a manager mold and train her in the retail industry. “I have been blessed with wonderful mentors in my life,” says Dowling. “As my staff grows, I plan to do my best to mentor them in hopes that I can give them some of the knowledge that has been given to me.” Dowling says she is fortunate to have a family whose business knowledge and experience inspires

by Rebecca Vidacovich her to be successful. “Support of family and friends can make a huge impact in ones business,” she said. “My family is my life.” Her three children are in the store often; Caleb and Parker help unload and unpack new products, while Anabelle loves to model merchandise. “I’m sure customers have seen them at some point or another,” said Dowling. “I get the opportunity as a mother to be around them more than if I worked for someone else.” As a business owner, Dowling says the best part of her job is the people. She loves to help customers find the perfect gift for someone or something special for themselves. “It is rewarding to see the enthusiasm on people’s faces when they find something they love,” she says. “I also enjoy searching for new products and merchandising the store. It’s exciting to be able to make buying decisions. I spend a lot of time trying to find perfect products that are not in every other store.” It’s important to Dowling to offer unique and timeless gifts, some of which are from local vendors.

“I like to support artists from our community. I think this and customer service is a small part of what makes Anabelle’s appealing. It is extremely important to me to make sure that everyone who comes to Anabelle’s has a fabulous experience.” Visit Janie Dowling at Anabelle’s Galleria, located at 2000 W. Danforth, or call 359-1189 for store hours.

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D ining Guide

by Rebecca Vidacovich

inding an eatery that offers healthconscience food at an affordable price for the whole family is like finding that elusive needle in a haystack… until now. Tropical Café, located at 304 S. Kelly Ave is loaded with love for all things natural, fresh and yummy. “Tropical Café is a dream of my wife’s. She always wanted to own her own restaurant,” said owner Patrick Mok. “When we first got married, we didn’t have much money, but I told her I would get the restaurant open by our first anniversary.” Their first eatery was a little store shop, about 900 square feet. She envisioned a restaurant that provided healthy options using the recipes she had created over the previous 10 years. Today, Tropical Café offers seven different categories of food, including crêpes, paninis, frozen yogurt, sushi, omelets, smoothies, sandwiches and more. “Panini sandwiches are a hot seller,” said Mok. With choices like Beef Pesto Rasifort, The Tuscany and Chicken Florentine it’s easy to see why they’re so

popular. The owners even use their own herb recipe to make homemade bread. Crêpes are another delicious option on the menu. “Crêpes are lower in carbs with .04 grams and make great sandwiches,” Mok says. Some of those sandwiches include, the Honolulu Veggie Hot Crêpe, Buffalo Chicken and Italian Ham. Their frozen yogurt is certified, 100% live culture and non-fat. Tropical Café offers an ever-changing variety of 21 toppings and fresh fruit choices. The frozen yogurt is also used in their 22 flavors of fresh fruit smoothies. There is no sugar added and each smoothie is all-natural, made with fresh ingredients. The dessert case at Tropical Café offers a large variety of treats using the Mok’s personal recipes. They also carry a full line of sugar free desserts. Sushi selections include the Angus Beef Teriyaki Roll, Tropical Roll, Tiger Roll, Spider Roll and more. The café is looking forward to expanding their sushi options by opening a sushi bar in the near future. They also hope to begin offering wine soon.

Tropical Café has even taken their delicious delights to the street by offering catered food – perfect for an upcoming wedding or celebration. Looking to help Edmond schools, the café is working towards hosting fundraising events and providing UCO students with work experience when the restaurant is ready to remodel. To view Tropical Café’s online full menu, visit www.oklahomatropicalcafe.com, or call 340-8956 for catering information.

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by Krystal Harlow New menu items are being added often at Colby’s Grill. With their already extensive burger menu which includes items like, the Mushroom Swiss and the Cowboy, they’ve also added the Cally Burger to their offerings. The Cally is decked out with mayonnaise, onion, fresh lettuce, tomato, bacon, cream cheese and avocado. Once a week, Colby offers a Chopped Ribeye Steak Burger. The burger, which is usually available toward the end of the week, features chopped ribeye steak, sautéed onions in A1 sauce, plus thick bacon and melted cheddar cheese. Stop by Colby’s Grill Monday through Saturday 6:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. at 511 S. Broadway.

Grilling outside this summer? Super Suppers makes it easy with their delicious, chef-designed entrees and extras. Try their Margarita Beef Kabobs marinated in citrus, fresh cilantro, chipotle peppers and tequila and then skewered with vegetables and ready to grill. Or try their Italian burger patties seasoned with Italian herbs and spices and top with Super Supper’s flavorful Pesto Aioli. Check out their full menu online at www.supersuppers.com or browse their Grab N Go selections on your way home from work. Super Suppers is conveniently located at 1333 N. Santa Fe Ave. or call in your order to 330-9156.

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The Famous "Sausage Cheeseburger" is a combination of Owens sausage and beef blended together, making this burger a "must have." For the biggest appetite, try the "Who's Your Daddy," a 2 lb burger with 7 slices of cheese, fried onions, raw onions, mustard, pickles, lettuce and tomato. Ron’s homemade award-winning chili is made daily, and is great poured over burgers or in a bowl with beans, onions and Ron's pepper cheese. Or try their newest creation, Ron's twist on a Reuben with a variety of side items or ice cold beer. 216 S. Santa Fe open Monday-Thursday 10:30 a.m. to 8 p.m. and FridaySaturday 10:30 a.m. to 9 p.m.

Yes, they’re known for the “Best Chicken Fry in the Universe,” but did you know that Chuck House also has amazing burgers? Try their Sirloin Burger, a ½ pound patty of ground sirloin rather than ground beef, topped with grilled onions, pickles, lettuce and tomato. Or make it an Ultimate Sirloin Burger with crispy bacon and melted cheese. Their signature Chuck House burger is also a favorite, complete with double meat, chili, melted cheese, and a tangy relish. Chuck House is family owned and operated and located at 700 S. Broadway in Edmond and at 4430 NW. 10th St. in Oklahoma City. To see their full menu, check out www.chuck-house.com.

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H ome & Garden

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he time is drawing near for days filled with children frolicking in the sprinklers and evenings spent relaxing underneath the setting sun. That time is called summer, and the essential component to any blissful summer activity lies directly under your feet. Oklahoma summer lawns are both a gift and a burden to some homeowners who want to enjoy their preferably green expanse without the bothersome side effects we all know far too well. When winter fades away, our yards rebound with tenacity. They begin to grow with an almost vengeance. Our excitement may be tested however, when those same lawns become overgrown with weeds or overrun by the various outdoor menaces afflicting Oklahoma landscape. A battle plan must be drawn up in order to achieve your desired lawn this summer. There are two main grass types typically found in local lawns, explains Andy Nelson, of the Edmond company, Nelson Lawn Service. He is speaking of the Bermuda and Fescue grass types, which most people choose to plant in their yards. There are many choices when it comes to the appearance of the grass and the corresponding ways

to achieve success. For those who have Bermuda and prefer their grass remains short, Nelson suggests scalping the yard at the beginning of the season. This means cutting the grass as low as possible. You can mow higher or lower depending on personal preference with either Bermuda or Fescue grass. Though, caution is necessary to ensure you do not cut too low.

“A lot of people will put Fescue sod in and never seed it in the fall and spring, and it ends up fading out.” “You know you’re cutting it too low if you’re turning it yellow,” says Nelson. Cutting a Fescue lawn too short can “burn it up pretty quick.” Nelson also encourages people with Fescue lawns to clean up the grass debris after they mow. “If you leave those clumps of grass it’s going to end up suffocating the Fescue and cause it to get fungus. It’ll kill whatever blades of grass are underneath.”

To keep your lawn healthy, Nelson emphasizes using the proper balance of water in combination with seeding your Fescue lawn. “A lot of people will put Fescue sod in and never seed it in the fall and spring, and it ends up fading out. If you water it correctly, seed it and fertilize it correctly, you can keep it thick and plush,” says Nelson. Though Nelson adds that Bermuda yards are more resilient, all yards are susceptible to weeds. His company handles a wide range of lawn care from landscape lighting and sprinkler systems, to weed control and pre-emergent spray. With spraying lawns, timing is key. “A common misconception is whenever someone hires a pre-

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Continued from page 19 emergent company to come in and spray, they wait until February or March. By then you’ve already got weeds. They’ve germinated and they’re already starting to sprout.” The best time for weed spraying Nelson says, is in the fall. Nelson assures that despite missing the opportunity in the fall, you can still get your lawn under control. He likens the process to being prescribed medication by a doctor. “You don’t want to take the first couple of pills and then stop because you start to feel better. You want to take it all the way through.” He recommends six applications a year. Another important factor to consider with lawn care is pest control. A main problem for

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Oklahoma is gophers and moles, says Brooke Britt. She and her husband, Tim own Oklahoma Termite Specialist and have been in the business for 13 years. Britt explains that the problem of these animals and the havoc they bring to a yard begins with an insect. “They’re feeding off of something in your lawn and it’s usually grub worms. If you treat the source of the problem, the animals are going to go somewhere else.” Another aspect that directly correlates with summertime leisure is mosquito control. Keeping mosquitoes at bay starts with controlling standing water, cleaning your gutters and taking control of

landscaping, says Rick Guy of Mosquito Control Services, located in Edmond. “Trim back bushes that are overgrown. Mosquitoes rest at the bottom of a plant and will wait for the cool time of the evening to come out,” says Guy. “Deny them a place to rest. Just half an inch of dirt in your gutter acts as a sponge.” Reduce the amount of standing water around your home and in your yard. Cutting back shrubbery will reduce the amount of shade and protection available to mosquitoes. If you have a serious mosquito problem, Guy recommends hiring a professional to spray the resting places where mosquitoes breed. This keeps them from laying eggs and the deadly spray will cover the mosquitoes when they try to rest in those areas. “Obviously you’re not going to rid the world of all the bugs, but we can do our part in helping to control them,” Britt says. Proper lawn height, weed control, pest control and landscaping are the perfect recipe for a summer lawn you’ll be sure to enjoy. Just add water!

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ine Living

by Laura Beam

efined outdoor living continues its explosive trend of exciting innovations, treating Edmond residents to resortstyle wonderlands just beyond their back doors. Sleek grills and outdoor kitchens sizzle with modern convenience and fire pits crackle with the cozy charm of a remote cabin retreat. Anchoring today's numerous outdoor amenities is nature’s vital element – water. In its many forms, water compels us to reconnect with nature and it can play the starring role in your ultimate backyard getaway. This season’s choice water features reflect all the fashionable, high-tech tastes of the day, but it’s important to remember that lifestyle and budget are key determinants in selecting an appropriate water feature for you and your family. Mike Freeman of Edmond’s Complete Landsculpture says a number of homeowners who want the relaxing sight and sound of moving water often opt for a low-maintenance water feature to accommodate their busy lifestyles. “Bubbling pots that cascade down into a collection pool or urns that recycle water” are two prevalent choices, he says. An array of "pondless" fountains and waterfalls are also popular. Their unsightly pump and reservoir mechanisms are cleverly hidden below ground, offering space-concious style and simple upkeep. Linda Shackelford, 30-year owner of TLC Nursery and Greenhouses adds, “They are a great choice because they are safe for children and easy to maintain, yet you still get the sound and movement of water.” No stagnant water and a choice of solar or electric power options add to their easy appeal.

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“In its many forms, water compels us to reconnect with nature & it can play the starring role in your ultimate backyard getaway.” Glass tiles are also one of the hottest trends this season, lauded for their prolific color selection and sleek texture. Especially in modern homes, glass tiles bring the home’s interior style outdoors, creating a consistent theme. Freeman says some of the best water features his company creates are those that “have nice color and texture combos, using glass tiles and natural stone.” He has seen a surge in the use of natural materials like copper, metal, stone, river rock and boulders which harmonize with the environment. “Many residents like slate coping,” he says. “The goal is to make it look like it’s been there forever.” For the more adventurous outdoor enthusiast, Koi ponds offer the ultimate intrigue. The movement of the colorful fish adds an extra dimension of serenity and beauty. It’s important to note that Koi ponds require expert planning to ensure proper filtration, circulation, oxygenation, plant life and sun exposure to control algae and to protect the fish. The ponds me also be heated in the winter.

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Continued from page 23 A number of local residents have recently experienced Koi thefts. Some fish can range in price from $200 to $1000 for larger species. Although theft may be a factor in some instances, Freeman advises that cats and raccoons can often be the culprits. To protect your Koi from unwanted visitors, install an open-weave mesh netting over your pond. The barrier adds a measure of safety and security while still allowing full view of your masterpiece. For quintessential resort-style living at home, nothing delights the senses and incites summertime freedom more than a sparkling pool. Waterfall ledges, fountains, underwater lights and earthy hardscapes dress today’s private pools in the finest luxuries. The heat and rust-resistant materials used at Wholesale Hot Tubs Recreation Warehouse create durable, family-friendly pools and hot tubs that require no exterior maintenance. Natural-colored pool acrylics that mimic nature’s hues have gained significant popularity, edging out the cobalt blue and teal of the 80’s. According to Freeman, of Complete Landsculpture, “nine out of 10 clients want user-ready pools

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with great aesthetics, but low-maintenance upkeep.” Beautiful and durable elements such as glass tiles and lower-maintenance saltwater pools score big with busy Edmond homeowners. Freeman also notes that 90% of his pool customers choose saltwater over chemical pools, opting for professional pool service companies to maintain them. Longtime pool and hot tub expert, Clyde Dowell of Wholesale Hot Tubs Recreation Warehouse offers one of the best guiding principles for pool purchasers: “Get the biggest pool that you have the space to fit. Family members will all show up." With such an impressive variety of design amenities to consider in planning a water feature, expert consultation and installation are paramount to achieve the oasis you envision. Visit any of these local resources as you plan your water garden: Complete Landsculpture (525 Westland Drive, 789-3511, or visit www.completelandsculpture.com), TLC Nursery and Greenhouses (105 West Memorial Road, 751-0630, www.tlcgarden.com), or Wholesale Hot Tubs Recreation Warehouse (525 West Memorial Road, 840-1446, www.whtrw.com).

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hen people see a bandage or a bruise, they often ask what happened. When someone asks Everett Jackson what happened to his hand, he doesn’t have just a story to tell. The black wrap that spreads from his wrist to his elbow is a testimony about the gift of life. Jackson, 36, is an author and a theology student. He has been undergoing dialysis for seven years and has been on a kidney transplant wait list for two years. “I just had to learn what my body can do and what it couldn’t, and just accept it,” Jackson said. While Jackson patiently awaited a miracle, Ronda Peterson, 47, an Edmond Public Schools bus driver, watched a TV show about organ donations, and was shocked to learn the disturbing statistics. According to data from the U.S. Department of Health, more than 105,000 people nationwide are waiting for an organ, eye or tissue transplant and more than 80,000 of them need a kidney. She also learned that more than 50 Oklahomans die every year while on the waiting list. Since then, little by little, Peterson began considering the possibility of becoming a living donor. One evening at church while standing at the door, Peterson and Jackson started talking. Jackson mentioned that he was on dialysis and that he hoped to receive a kidney soon.

“He was all upbeat and happy about it,” said Peterson. “I looked at him and said, well, if I’m a match, you can have one of mine.” Jackson was skeptical at first. Doctors advised him not to accept a kidney from a person at church or a relative, because if they donate simply out of compassion, they often change their mind right before surgery. Peterson insisted on doing the tests. Against all odds, the results showed they were a match. The transplant took place on February 15, 2010 and the surgery went very well. Doctors said the kidney was working in less than an hour, while in some cases it can take a couple of weeks.

“I looked at him and said, well, if I’m a match, you can have one of mine.” Her colleagues donated their sick time so Peterson could fully recover. “I work with a bunch of very wonderful people,” she said. “It’s people helping people.” “I have one kidney, he has one kidney, so I know he can feel just as good as I do,” Peterson said. Before the surgery Jackson couldn’t have any food that contained potassium and he had to watch

the amount of liquid he drank. He and his wife were afraid that every vacation they took could be their last. That’s all in the past now. He now has more time to spend with his family as they look forward to making long-term plans. “It’s not just one life that you’re changing. You’re changing someone’s whole perspective of life, their kids, their family,” Jackson said. Organ transplants are expensive. The donors are completely covered by the recipient’s insurance, but rehabilitation and anti-rejection drugs for the recipient may cost up to $2,500 per month. Many patients stay on dialysis or stop the procedure and slowly die because of the financial burden and physical pain. Jackson saw those scenarios first-hand with other dialysis patients he met along his lengthy journey. Jackson had to take about 50 pills each morning during the first month after surgery. “I hate to see the bills, but what else do I have? I’m not going to allow this to fail.” LifeShare supports organ donations in both life and death. Spokesperson Phil Van Stavern said the kidney “is by and large, the organ of greatest need.” He urges people to consider donating. The easiest way to become a donor is to indicate it on your driver’s license by answering “yes” to the question; "Would you like to be an organ and tissue donor?" By sharing their organs, Peterson and Jackson shared life and became a living miracle.

Peterson wants to stress that by being a living donor, you can save not only the life of the recipient, but you also open a spot on the waiting list for another patient. She was ready to donate anonymously to anyone, but Peterson would have missed the personal connection of getting to know Jackson and his family. “I feel like I have a new family,” she said. Jackson adds that by knowing his donor, he has a person to call to say ‘thank you.’

Ronda Peterson,

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ased in Haditha, Iraq on personal security detail, a typical day meant waking up early and going out in a convoy to wherever the battalion sergeant needed to go. It meant traveling on foot in patrols checking on other companies, IDs, bombs or ambushes and providing security for important officials and VIPs. After a long day and night convoying from Baghdad to Fallujah, Austin Hancock’s battalion had just two hours notice that a VIP was coming in: then-presidential candidate John McCain. Despite the long travel and fatigue, Hancock and his fellow soldiers headed out to provide security for McCain’s helicopter landing in Haditha.

As primary security for high ranking officers, Hancock’s battalion was assigned to protect McCain during his visit to Haditha. Marines were posted all over the city. Hancock and a few men were on the ground with McCain as the politician toured the city and met with locals and other dignitaries. The visit went smoothly and without any problems. Hancock said McCain seemed reasonable during his visit and respects the fact that McCain and his sons have served in the military. Hancock always wanted to be in the military, ever since he was a young boy growing up in Edmond. Although he “wanted to be airborne and jump out of planes,” the young man decided to leave college

in February of 2006 to join the Marines. “They have the best rep and are known for getting the job done,” Hancock said. He went on to become a lance corporal in antitank assault, learning how to shoot missiles at tanks from inside vehicles or on the ground. “Every Marine is always a rifleman first,” Hancock said while describing his initial training. After boot camp and training, he joined the reserves but was soon sent into active duty. He served in North Carolina and California before being deployed to Iraq in 2007. While in Iraq, Hancock was able to keep in touch with his family and friends via the Internet and felt support from back home. “America is pretty good about that right now,” he says. “Even if they don’t support it politically, they still support the troops. Just remember, there are still people out there.” His four years in the Marines have given him a new perspective on life. “At home you’re in your small-town bubble, but when you go overseas you find the world was bigger than you realized,” he said. Military service forces thinking outside the box and a bigger perspective on life, Hancock says. “Your own problems seem smaller in comparison and you realize there are others in the world that may have it a lot worse than you do.”

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“At home you’re in your small-town bubble, but when you go overseas you find the world was bigger than you realized.” One of the hardest parts of being in the military is learning to take orders and being micromanaged, he adds. While micromanaging may not always be necessary, extreme combat situations make it absolutely necessary. Hancock says serving in the military helps give young people a strong foundation in life and understanding rank structure and respect. To be a Marine, one must be open-minded and teachable, while at the same time having a mind of their own. “You want someone there who listens to everything you say, but who also gives back and is knowledgeable,” said Hancock. “You need feedback, but not confrontation; someone who can express themselves and bring assets to the team.” To aspiring Marines, Hancock says, “Stay openminded. Figure out what you really want to do and go after it. You won’t know until you do it.”

Austin Hancock, helped to provide security to John McCain during his time in the Marines

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hroughout history, we’ve seen testaments of the adventurous spirit and strength of women; women who fought for their rights, who rode buses and braved the elements while traveling west in covered wagons. Today, there is a new kind of pioneer; that of the woman entrepreneur. Look no further than to the business ventures of several admirable Edmond females and you will see that the spirit of the pioneer is still going strong. “I loved being home with my kids and spending time with them, but I’m also very much a career woman and wanted to open my own business,” says Christin Lynch, owner of the Edmond stores Lil Dudes and Divas and Pickles and Ice Cream.

“Get a good CPA firm, hire a lawyer and have a sound infrastructure.” Her first venture was Pickles and Ice Cream, a maternity clothing store. The idea came about while she was pregnant with her daughter. “I realized we didn’t have a whole lot of options as far as places to go shopping for maternity clothes in the Oklahoma City area,” Lynch said. She began talking with her friends and heard a lot of buzz about the Dallas location of Pickles and Ice Cream. She did some research and discovered it was a franchise. That began her career as a business owner, opening Pickles and Ice Cream in 2008. Lynch says she is glad she went the franchise route because she was offered a lot of help with the preliminary set up. Lynch was offered another opportunity to expand with the recent closure of the children’s clothing store

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by Lindsay Whelchel located next door to her business, named Lil Dudes and Divas. “It was just too perfect and so I went ahead and took it over,” she says. “It was a natural step.” Still, Lynch says opening and running a business is a lot of work. “I easily work 60 to 80 hours a week, but I love my job. I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world.” Business woman Umi Chahal, who owns Choice Hospice and Choice Home Health, has advice for women who want to open their own businesses. “Know the industry you want to go in. Whether it is through attending seminars, classes or mentoring other people in your industry, [anything] will help.” In her 20s, Chahal worked with patients at a nursing home. “It just bothered me that there was no place for these people to live in their own homes.” She began working with a home health agency and read up on alternative methods of care. She started Choice Home Health in 2001 and since then, it has won the Home Care Elite award placing it within the top 25 percent of home care agencies in the United States. Through her work in home health, Chahal says she recognized the need for end of life care and decided to start Choice Hospice in 2004. Chahal was recently awarded the Riata Inspire Distinguished Women Entrepreneur award for 2010. Along with acquired knowledge of the industry, Chahal attributes having a good staff to the success of her companies. It’s always a challenge to find the right people and right number of people in any business,” she says. “Even though that’s the challenge, it makes it very rewarding to have a good team. The service being delivered is measured by the people that deliver it.” And no one knows staffing needs better than Gina White. She began Millennium Personnel in

Umi Chahal,

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Christin Lynch,

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Edmond with business partner Regina Duvall in December of 1999. Her business is a clerical and administrative staffing company. “We find people jobs for a living and it’s very rewarding,” says White. “The basis for our business is to connect people based on their skills, background and what they’re looking for.” White says she had the courage to start her own business because she comes from a long line of entrepreneurs. Her advice to aspiring businesswomen is to surround yourself with great people. “Get a good CPA firm, hire a lawyer and have a sound infrastructure.” White assures that “if you get professional advice and the right advice, it’s worth the money up front.” Her business’ success has made all of the hard work worthwhile. “We set out to make our way because we had these skills and the experience and were happy to take the risk because we knew we could do it in our hearts. It was scary to take that first step and believe in ourselves but we did.” There’s that pioneering spirit.

June: Spring Art Show The Edmond Art Associationâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s annual art show will be held at the Edmond Public Library through June 30th. For more information, visit www.edmondart.org.

June 10-13: UCO Endeavor Games Watch and enjoy athletes with their talents in a competitive setting. Visit www.ucoendeavorgames.com for schedules.

June 17-19, 24-26: Oliver Held at the Mitch Park Amphitheater at 8 p.m., this play based on the Charles Dickens' classic novel costs $12 for adults, $6 for students and is free for ages 4 and under. For more information, visit www.summerstockok.com.

June 18-20: Red Earth Festival More than 1,200 American Indian artists and dancers will gather at the Cox Center to celebrate the richness and diversity of their heritage. Visit www.redearth.org for more information on event times.

June 26 - July 10: LibertyFest Organized by a group of over 500 volunteers, LibertyFest entertains over 125,000 spectators annually. For event information, call 340-2527 or visit www.libertyfest.org. Car Show Cars of all types are expected from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. at the UCO Campus on June 26. Kite Fest Team demonstrations, synchronized flying, kite making, candy drops and more at Mitch Park. Sunday, June 27 from 9:30 a.m. to 4 p.m. and Saturday, June 26 from 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. Lighted Night Flight after sundown. Rodeo Calf roping, steer wrestling, saddle bronco riding, barrel racing and more. Adults are $8 and kids are $5 at the Carl Benne Arena at 300 N. Kelly at 8 p.m. on June 26 and 27.

A Taste of Edmond All you can eat sampling from Edmond-are a restaurants at the Festival Market Place from 6:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. on June 27. This fundraiser ensures LibertyFest will continue for years to come. Tickets are $10 in advance, $15 on the day of and kids under 10 are free. Road Rally A scavenger hunt on wheels. Sign up for flights on June 27 that will leave from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Cost is $10 per vehicle at the City of Edmond Admin Building parking lot. Concert A mixture of music beginning at 7:30 p.m. in front of Mitchell Hall Theatre on July 1. Chalk it Up Chalk drawing contest with live karaoke, dunk tank, face painting and more from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. at the Festival Market Place on July 2. Parade beginning at 9 a.m. in Downtown Edmond on July 3. Parkfest at UCO Celebrate Independence Day with fun, festive activities, food, music and fireworks. Event begins at 5 p.m. on the UCO Campus on July 4. Fireworks Beginning around 10 p.m. at UCO on July 4. Miss Edmond Pageant Enjoy the glamour at Mitchell Hall at 7 p.m. on July 10, cost is $10.

July 5-8: Summer Horse Camp Cadence Equestrian Center will host horse camps for beginner and intermediate riders. For more information call 348-SHOW or visit www.cadenceequestrian.com.

July 10-18: Worlds Sitting Volleyball The 2010 tournament will bring over 600 athletes from over 20 countries to compete. Visit www.2010Worlds.com for tickets and schedules.

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n 2006, OKgamers.com sprang to life to fulfill a simple purpose: Saif Khan loved playing “Soul Caliber III” and needed to find a challenging opponent. He launched the website and soon he had all the competition he could handle. Khan realized he was onto something. He broadened the site to include a variety of games, from retro first person shooters to tabletop board games; and all types of gamers, from casual players to the hardcore elite. Four-and-a-half years later, OKgamers.com now boasts 2,500 members and frequent gaming tournaments. Each month, the site enjoys tens of thousands of hits.

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by Nathan Winfrey “The site is the best place in Oklahoma to meet fellow gamers, to commiserate, to find tournaments and to set up tournaments,” Cody Farrah, Edmond resident, says. “It’s completely free and everyone is welcome.” It’s become a nexus for Oklahoma gamers to connect and organize. Regular events are held across the state at places like Play N Trade at 33rd Street and Broadway. It’s a place to discuss games, anime, technology and more. Farrah, in his mid-20s, has been a member for more than a year. One of his favorite games is “Left 4 Dead 2,” a popular Xbox 360 title where players control one of four zombie apocalypse survivors in

New Orleans. It’s a cooperative first-person shooter game, which means Farrah is no longer battling against his friends, but working with them. “It has a great basis of teamwork; you really have to work together. It takes great leadership,” Farrah says. “Typically, players are calm and helpful because they’re working as a team.” He says “Left 4 Dead 2” is ideal because it tends to break down the stereotype that all gamers are male. “Guys are always going to outnumber girls, but I’ve seen a lot of girls play ‘Halo’ and I’ve seen a ton of girls play ‘Left 4 Dead 2’.” “It’s not just a guy thing anymore,” Farrah says. “I think that’s changing as time goes on. More girls are getting into it every day.”

Beloved first-person shooter games “Halo 3,” “Modern Warfare 2” and cartoony-fighting game “Super Smash Brothers Brawl” are also popular among gamers. Other combat games like, “Super Street Fighter 4” and “Tekken 6” are very popular as well. Expenses can be a hurdle, as each new game costs around $60 and gaming systems cost hundreds of dollars. Plus, some systems require fees for online play. “If you want the newest and greatest, you have to have a good job to support your habit,” said Farrah, who works as a store manager for a cell phone carrier. One shouldn’t be intimidated by others’ skill levels when deciding whether to get involved in competitive or cooperative gaming. There are tournaments for everyone, from people who have barely touched a videogame controller, to people who were practically born with one in their hands. “People are really friendly and always willing to help if you have questions,” Farrah said. Anyone can start a tournament at OKgamers, and some tournaments don’t even require the players to be in the same Zip code. Online play is a fast-growing trend in community gaming, but traditional, face-toface tournaments are still very popular. Another major aspect of OKgamers.com is their community service. The site has been approved by 1800volunteer.org for their work to help students get community service hours. Up to 200 volunteers

facilitate tournaments and help with the many conventions and large-scale events that OKgamers participates in. “It’s not just for gamers, it’s for businesses as well,” Farrah says. “We work with businesses and sometimes help them with charities,” The gamers participate as additional volunteers for charity events. They setup, tear down and do anything else to make the event run smoothly. They also participate in events like Gamers Against Violence. “We work with several volunteer systems to help them see that volunteering can be fun and about more

than just shoveling dirt,” Khan says. “It shows gamers that they can go out and improve their communities, and have fun doing it.” OKgamers.com has worked with the Tulsa Achievers program, which helps students go to college for free. They have also worked with hospices, churches and Oklahoma City Community College. June 18 through the 20, OKgamers.com members will volunteer at Tokyo in Tulsa, a Japanese and Pop Culture convention centered on Japanese Animation which will also showcase music, and creative art. Be sure to stop by the online message boards at OKgamers.com for more information.