Portfolio Abigael Arends 2015

Abigaél N.S. Arends

Portfolio Professional Career Development

2015 My name is Abigaél N.S. Arends.

I find happiness in my work; Personal, Professional & Spiritual Development. My passion is teaching & coaching people on all levels and in all areas of their lives. I am blessed with the ability of changing, inspiring and motivating each and every one I meet through my life’s journey. I enjoy travelling and expanding my knowledge to all.

My company’s slogan “Making Heaven on Earth!” is what we believe and do!

Seroe Blanco 349D . Oranjestad . Aruba

INTRODUCTION My name is Abigaél, my mom & dad consciously gave me my name which in Hebrew means “Fountain of Joy”. Finding out my life’s mission coincided with it. This is to bring knowledge & understanding in love and light and create leaders in the world. In my biography you will find a little bit of the broad experience and knowledge that I have gained through my years.

Not only in Aruba but from all the places I have been to in the world. I have come to the point where I wanted to work for my community for so long, for what I have seen and with the experience and knowledge that I can bring forth for mainly our students that go to further study in The Netherlands, other destinations and in Aruba. I would like to be working with you on improving the level of our people. After many projects that I have done I feel that I am ready to be working with this Government on various areas that may produce successful stories in our Community. I have worked with foundations on a continuous basis that hired my services in their successful programs. I have been hired continuously by companies looking for motivational speakers, self-esteem and team building, customer service, personal grooming standards, recognition, appreciation and many other specially tailored programs. I have also been hired for personal coaching on anger management, loss & fear of failing, how to succeed in life, professional coaching, and spiritual coaching.

BIOGRAPHY Abigaél Arends was born in Aruba, she is the only child of Mrs. Lucy Arends, and the third daughter of dr Rory Arends. Her primary, secondary and intermediate educations were done in Aruba, after which she attended two years of International Business Studies in Arnhem, Netherlands. In 2005 she embarked in her formation with International Self Esteem Project (ISEP), which meant traveling abroad on several occasions, to become an ISEP Leader in Aruba in 2007. Since then she has attended several ISEP courses dealing with personal development and life coaching. In 2015 She attended the ELOS Institute in Brazil which she completed 4 weeks intensive of 320 hours in the Warior Without Weapons Project.

Besides these Abigaél followed several additional courses in the areas of beauty, graphic design, administration, management and spirituality. As a very young girl she already showed a keen interest in office work and at times she helped her mother or father after school. At the early age of 13 she helped out at the Aruba Beach Club on Saturdays, assisting in various departments such as Front Office, Activities, Re-sales, and PBX operation. Before graduating at Colegio Arubano Evening School she worked at resort outlets at the Holiday Inn Aruba. While studying in Holland she also gained experience working in sales and office work for various companies. Back in Aruba she gained additional experience in sales, marketing, and administration with such companies as Yrausquin & Sons, De Palm Tours, Medstar Group, and Tiara Airlines. Besides her regular daily activities at the job, Abigaél was also involved in providing professional make-up classes in collaboration with Aruba Trading Co. and Revlon, and assisted Romar Trading in planning and executing a successful Bacardi Bartenders' Contest.

Abigaél's last position before venturing out on her own was that of Meetings, Incentives, Conferences & Events Manager at the world known hotel chain and resort chain RIU Palace Aruba. Here she successfully planned and executed hundreds of Wedding Events and Conferences for the resort's international guests. After two years with RIU Abigaél decided to start on her own and revived ELKA & Associates, a company established by her late mother, Lucy Arends, that was dormant for a number of years. ELKA is now an officially established and registered company with the Aruba Chamber of Commerce, with

"Self Esteem Project Aruba" as a subsidiary. As such Abigaél has been involved in many successful Self Esteem and Personal Development activities with various public and private sector organizations and companies, including participants of all ages, backgrounds and education.

"A leader is not selfish but will teach more individuals to become a leader on their own. This project is for us to create more leaders around the world and to have a better knowledge of life. Consequently we may live without concerns and/or fears and with more confidence in the human being" – Bob Mandel

MY PROFESSIONAL CAREER

My mom Lucy in her life’s journey took me everywhere as a child and later as a teener and if stimulated me to follow her footsteps. Forever since I can remember she had this quote in her office “The best minute I spend, Is the one I invest in people”. I did not understand what exactly she was doing, until people starting telling me” Your mom is an amazing woman, thanks to her I am at my best, she helped me in ways no other person has helped me before”. And when that sentence was repeated to me in more ways than one by many other clients or persons she talked to…That was when I became interested and in 2005 started my path together with her in the International Self-Esteem Project by mr. Bob Mandel. It was then that she found the calling and understood with the first seminar how amazing this project was and why my mom had changed her life and dedicated it to changing others to live a positive, conscious, responsible and successful life. I integrated myself in 2005 with the foundations that my mom invested her time and love in, reaching the youth. I realized that when I was helping her, the children and youth at that time were listening to us both and we made a great team, and that they confided in us to help them and listen to them. This was the Let’s Talk Foundation 2005. It was then that I said to my mom “I am ready and going to be an International Self-Esteem Teacher just like you”. I followed the International Self-Esteem Leadership Certification Program and graduated in 2008 as an International Leader based in Aruba. The Project requires us to travel each year to keep developing ourselves and bring new developments to others. In May 2012, I participated in the “Great Life Changes Program”, a seminar of the International Self-Esteem Project, in Bogota, Colombia, which teaches us on changes in all areas of our lives, how to recognize and how to deal with it.

In May 2013 I participated in the Prosperity & Success Program, a seminar of the International Self-Esteem Project, in Caracas, Venezuela. I also took an apprentice, Ms. Marimar Boekhoudt to accompany me for the trip and seminar to further

help her with her personal, professional & spiritual development and understand more of the work we do in the international programs.

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PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT DIVISION Self-Esteem for all ages (Study book available) Maximizing yourself for all ages There is Much More to live for in Life! for the youth Understanding Parental & Children’s Behavior (Parent & Child) Life Coaching for all ages Spiritual & Meditation Classes for all ages Healthy Habits for all ages Beauty & Make-up Classes for Ladies youth & adults

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GROUPS & BUSINESS DIVISION (all ages) The Value of Tourism by Dr. Rory Arends Customer Service & Hospitality Communication Personal Grooming Meeting Behavior Complaint Handling Anger/Stress Management at home, work & school Motivation Team Building Recognition & Appreciation Anti-Bullying Character Building Working Environment for Beginners Basics of Management

Based on our clients’ requests we are able to integrate various topics, which are in easy language, effective and interactive, speeches, workshops & trainings. Therefor we meet first with the client to identify all requirements. We coach on all levels of understanding. Our work is highly confidential and may be discussed with a third party only with the client’s permission, only if necessary. We do suggest to all concerned that it is very important to begin a cycle of sessions and continue till the end, due to personal processes that could come up and only handled in a professional way. All the homework given should be done as requested. We also do a follow up with the client every other month, to evaluate if more sessions are needed or another program of some kind is needed.

My mother: Mrs. C. Lucia.”Lucy” Arends

Born in Aruba, as first in a family of four brothers and one sister, died 2 January 2011 leaving a legacy to continue.

Married for 25 years to Roderick Arends and blessed with one daughter.

Educational background: Attended elementary school and secondary education in Aruba. Further professional education in Caracas, Venezuela.

Trained and followed courses such as Management Skills; Sales & Marketing; Public Relations; Quality Management Training and Facilitation Skills acquired locally and internationally. Was trained during 1997, 1998 and 1999 as a Quality Examiner and Quality Management in examining in the Malcolm Baldridge systems and other International Quality Examiners.

Attended on several occasions the Florida Sterling Awards workshops and special training in quality. From July 1998 to December 1999, took the formation in the Science of Rebirthing in Caracas (traveling monthly) at the Escuela International “Amor y Vida” Is certified as a Rebirther. In 2000 received certification by International Seminars and Leadership Training as a teacher for International Self Esteem Project (ISEP).

Professional Background Mid 70’s: Bilingual Secretary in Caracas, Venezuela. Late 70’s to Mid 80’s: Executive Secretary in the Hotel Industry varying from hotel to casino management. Mid 80’s to end 90’s: employed in the Time Share Industry in charge of a Sales Office and engaged as Public Relations and Marketing Representative for one of the Sun Development Resorts. Was also an investor’s contact for Sun Development. Was involved with the Aruba Quality Foundation as an examiner and did some in-house work for the foundation for a short period of time. January through December 2000: Rendered Office Management services to ATIA (Aruba Trade & Industry Association) on a part time basis. In January 2001: Initiated the Self Esteem Project Aruba with 5 days/3 hours’ seminars. Has been appointed by ISEP as National Coordinator for Aruba (2000-2002). Promotes and produces self-development seminars. Since 2002 works in private practice with counseling and breath-work for stress and personal growth. Is invited regularly for school and other institutions for presentation for self-esteem and motivation. Since 2001 she does lectures for schools, institutions. In June 2003 she initiated public lectures every Monday with interesting topics that relates to self-esteem and personal growth.

“Re-engineering” of career: After 21 years in the hotel & tourism industry decided to retire and to start the new millennium pursuing a personal dream of doing something good for the community. The goal is to bring awareness and a high level of consciousness to the island with the Self Esteem Project and its nine journeys. In the 80’s and more in the 90s, balancing the wheel of life was necessary. The spiritual became important. The last 5 years intensive work was done on the “self”. Studies include healing of the body, mind and spirit, Training and experiences are: Transactional Analysis, Excel, Yoga, Scientific Massage, Bio-Dance, Transcendental Meditation, Reiki I and II, Natural Healing, Group Meditation Practices, Feng Shui, Tantra, the Science of Rebirthing (Breath-work), Creator of Qualities of a Good Leader”, which workshop will be available in the second half of 2003. Creator of a workshop in nature called “Connect with the Sacred Within” and most recently in September 2002 created “Controlling Relationships”. In October 2002 started to facilitate for Business Integration Services with workshops on various issues dealing with people in the business place. In June 2003 initiated “Ban Topa Dialuna cu Lucy”, with a series of weekly public presentations of interested topics (Schedule: March-Nov.2004).

Continuous Learning Path Self-study in Quality Management; continuous study of many aspects of the human being; alternative medicine; Family Constellations by the Hellinger’s Institute; The New Age Study of Humanity’s Purpose; etc.----.

March 2004 obtained certification of Dr. Robert Detzler’s SRT (Spiritual Response Therapy) & October 2010 Family Constellations.

Father: Dr. Roderick G. “Rory” Arends

Born in Aruba as the younger of two brothers into the family of Dr. Coco Arends and Mrs. Sofia Arends, a piano teacher, Rory studied in Aruba for basic education. At the very young age of 14, he joined his only brother in Holland for higher level studies. Graduated from the Canisius College in Nijmegen, Rory returned to Aruba.

From basic formation at the Salle School in Aruba, Rory studied in Nijmegen, Holland where he graduated HBSb in 1958. He followed studies for public servant, while he studied Tourism with an ILO Scholarship in Austria where he graduated with honors in 1972. In 1982 he was recognized “honoris causa” by the Faculty of Tourism Science of the University of Naples, Italy. He was also recognized by International Public Relations, Italy, and is the recipient of the International Golden Helm in tourism. Rory performed from 1965 to 1989 in government tourism management, at the then “Toeristen Bureau” as Tourism Official and Deputy Director.

From 1986 to 1989 he was Director of the newly named Aruba Tourism Authority. Rory received many acclaims from local and international entities. On international and regional level, Rory was well known and was a brand name for Aruba. With numerous recognitions and acclaims to his name, a year after retiring from the public sector, he engaged professionally with the Aruba Hotel and Tourism Association as Chief Executive Officer. Ironically to say that he was one of the founders of the Aruba Hotel Association, that later expanded its membership to other tourism partners as well. Rory was invited in numerous occasions as speaker to important events and as panel member in local and international discussions regarding tourism. Reaching the retiring age, he left AHATA in 2000. Rory retired from AHATA with the intention to move to Holland in July 2000. However circumstances grounded him to his native Aruba andwhile keeping a low profile, his advice, opinions and ideas are sought regularly by those interested. When it comes to Rory and his broad knowledge combined with his poise and charisma, the ink to write pages long of history and anecdotes would not be enough. Rory as some people in the business quote is “an icon, a legend, a synonym or a brand name” for Aruba. He was in the news practically daily and still after so many years, people talk about him, greet him and praise him for his past services in tourism. You can feel that people love him and that his legacy is finally anchored in his book “Ayera, Awe …y Mayan – Turismo y Aruba”, launched in November 2012. Rory Arends, his work, his knowledge and the love for his island hopefully will inspire young Arubans to engage in tourism. The book immortalizes the great good practices and stories of tourism in Aruba, certainly when in 2009, Aruba celebrated its first 50 years in tourism and Rory played an essential role in its golden years.

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CRECIENDO FOUNDATION

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Noord & Dakota – Ms. Joase-Ann van der Biest, president of “Stichting Creciendo” hired my services in 2012 to work with the Ortopedagogische Centrum young ladies & gentlemen. Joasy & I go a long way back we have known each other for more than 15 years.

I met Ms. Marimar Boekhoudt (18 years) who I helped with personal & professional coaching in this journey and ever since she has grown up to find her way and guidance. At this moment she is working in assisting many projects and she has grown from an insecure among other negative character and being influenced by peer and family… to a bright future, confident, young & beautiful woman.

LET’S TALK ARUBA FOUNDATION

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Santa Cruz, San Nicolaas & Madiki Let’s Talk Aruba Foundation was officially founded in 2006 to acquire projects that prevent crime and motivate the youth and young adults that live in Aruba. Since 2006 Let’s Talk established a Boot by the name of Dart Camp with the slogan Discipline-Amor(Love)Respect- Tolerance. The Self Esteem Aruba Project also participated that year with Mrs. Lucy Arends as the International Leader in Self Esteem and Ms. Abigaél Arends as assistant leader, at that time in the middle of her studies as an International Self Esteem Leader in practice. Many of the participants that we have encountered throughout the years have a bright future, are independent and finished school. In 2013 Let’s Talk Aruba began again working hand in hand with ELKA & Associates N.V. on continuous programs for the youth and young adults. They are being taught many projects that ELKA has especially designed through the years of experience, dedication & certification.

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WOMAN IN DIFICULTY FOUNDATION

Madiki- Ms. Cendy Jean is a student at E.P.I. and invited me to do a Motivational hour for the International Woman’s Day. The purpose was to elevate the self-esteem of women living in Madiki district in various situations and celebrate their being alive, this turned out to be a great success. We should add that this district is where there is a high scale of social problems in the neighborhood in which they have decided to target a large group of women who needed support and motivation. At the end of the evening the women personally approached me to help them with various issues.

YOUTH PARLIAMENT FOUNDATION

Oranjestad- The president of Fundacion Parlamento Hubenil at some point attended one of my self-esteem motivational speeches, and hired me to do a Motivational workshop for the foundation’s Summer Course. The purpose was to stimulate the youth and help them with their Self-Esteem. Which in 3 hours speech we accomplished to have most of them been nourished with valuable information and instant exercise and helping them with their fear and self-confidence.

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RED CROSS FOUNDATION 2013

Dakota- Mrs. Marieta Wanopa hired me for a workshop for Red Cross Aruba to do a Motivational Workshop, based on very delicate matters that may lead to personal development for the new team members. The purpose was to give the whole team various situations and teaching with the self-esteem tools to deal with themselves and the people that may come to them for help.

STAR PROMOTIONS FOUNDATION 2013

Westin Hotel Star Promotions hired Ms. AbigaĂŠl Arends to elevate their self-esteem with an introduction to the program and giving them a group session. With positive results, And will continue coaching Ms. Stefanie for representing Aruba abroad.

MISS ARUBA FOUNDATION 2014/2015

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Marriott Resort Miss Aruba Foundation hired Ms. Abigaél Arends to elevate their self-esteem with an introduction to the program and giving them a group session. With positive results, And will continue coaching Miss Aruba Universe/ World and 1st Runner up for representing Aruba abroad.

ORTOPEDAGOGISCHE CENTRUM 2013

Dakota –The situation in the center was really bad and the boys were rebellious and out of control. So in order to do this I was hired to teach different subjects that changed these boys’ behavior in one month’s work.

CEDEHM 2013

Personal, professional and spiritual development of the women on our island “Aruba” is growing.

Abigaél Arends director of ELKA & Associates and Self-esteem–Aruba was invited by Mrs.Yamila Hoevertzs-Kock, to deliver speeches at the project “Breaking Chains”. “Breaking Chains” is a development project for the women of CEDEHM, an organization that assists

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women with their development in life. This group consisted of women that were and are living domestic violence, either physically, mentally or emotionally. The goal of the project was to help these women find themselves and get to know themselves for their own benefits. At the closing of the project, Minister Michelle Hooyboer-Winklaar gave words of gratitude to all the professionals and all participants for their beautiful work. AbigaĂŠl Arends was recognized by the minister for her contribution for the project.

LA CABANA BEACH & RACQUET 2013/2014

Managers, Supervisors & Staff. : You never get a second chance to make a first impression!

Housekeeping week motivational speaker

ARUBA AIRPORT AUTHORITY 2013/2014/2015

Continuous trainings were given to various departments. Directors, Managers, Supervisors & staff.

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ELMAR N.V. 2013

Personal & professional private coaching (Anger management coaching & adapting to change) was given to a supervisor. A two months coaching with successful results, both personally & professionally.

“Before I have met Abigaél, mi life was tormented; I could never stay in one place, or go anywhere alone. I was in fear and terrified of living. When finishing my work, I immediately went home immediately. At work I did not trust people I work with, and say them talking in a group, I thought that they were talking about me. Until the day that I met Abigaél, it all changed.

Here my life changed within 2 weeks’ time of the personal coaching, I have found myself, and my life is now complete. I can now deal with people, the feeling of trusting no one, has gone. And my innocence and funny things “me” that was lost for many years, now has come back, and I am so happy to have Abigaél as part of my family.

CENTRALE BANK2014

Health week –2 hours motivational sessions 2x different groups

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ALGEMENE REKENKAMER 2014/2015

Continuous trainings are given to the Directors, Managers, Supervisors & staff.

COLEGIO ARUBANO2014

Motivational Sessions were given to the H.A.V.O & V.W.O 500 students with immediate visible transformations.

COLEGIO SAN ANTONIO

Motivational Sessions were given to the M.A.V.O 150 students with immediate visible transformations.

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OASIS CARIBE MOVEMENT 2015 Oasis Caribe Movement is a caribbean movement that expands this philosphy in all the islands and they were looking for a specific person to be working and have the appropriate training to further represent Aruba.

So after a while of searching ,this wonderful opportunity came to me to represent Aruba, in the Oasis Caribe Movement.

Mrs. Veroesjka de Windt & Mr. Schoop of Oasis Caribe Movement in Curacao Curacao already came to Aruba to work in 2014 in the Vuyst and came to meet me and welcomed me and together visited the Community of de Vuyst again and further develop and brainstorm on more projects for Aruba.

Later I have been interviewed by Elos Institute Brazil and Elos Nederland, I have been between 700 people, only 58 were selected to participate to this program in the 5 weeks intensive program in Brazil in July/August 2015.

In September 2015, the Inner Circle whom is Kurt, Ana Maria, Veroejshka from Curacao, Ruben from Bonaire and me met in a 3 day intensive. There were different islands in the Caribbean that were invited to be part of the training and what is their mission they will take further for their island.

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WARRIOR WITHOUT WEAPONS 2015 My mission in life…

Creating a Heaven here on Earth…

Reaching to everyone that needs of my knowledge and expertise and assist them in growing and helping them re-discover themselves and embrace their potentials fully, using the different methodologies and philosophies that I have learned and also experienced through my years.

The world needs more of you…

Want to join me in making a difference?

Be part of the ELKA Team , ELSKA Foundation, Oasis Caribe Movement join us in helping the world, making it a better place for you and me!

Elos Instutuut Brazil has a Community Building Projects that they facilitate to selective people around the world and to further expand this knowledge and work towards a better world.

This program helped me integrate all the I already know into practice and also the chance to give some of my teachings to others. I have now a wonderful family of people from Brazil, Mexico, Spain, Amazonia, Greece, Zwitserland, Colombia, South Africa, Curacao, Japan, Germany, Bolivia and more…

And also been invited to be facilitating in South Africa and Greece for the coming year…

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Where we have prepared ourselves in all forms to give the best of ourselves, connect and work with the other and together as a Community Inspire and Build.

We have build together a Cummunity Park, Community Footbal Field and Community Center in 4 days.

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Back on my island… it’s our paradise…where happiness lives…

I have a plan…

Do you want to be part of it?

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