Do You Need Some Love Hacks to Help Your Relationship? themindguild.com/need-love-hacks-help-relationship September 18, 2017
So you are your partner have been bickering, so how about some love hack sto help your relationship? Psychologist Eli Finkel has examined the life loves of thousands of couples. He describes marriages and relationships in business terms. It is simply a matter of managing the supply and demand of relationship’s emotions. One key element that must examined by each person in a relationship is their individual emotional demands. For instance, many of them are expecting their partners to restore the emotional support and companionship that was previously provided by their families and even local institutions such as bowling leagues, churches, social groups, and the like. There is also the issue of dealing with busy lives having careers and children which means there are less time to spend with each other and solidify the relationship. Going back to the business analogy used earlier, you only have two choices. You can either reduce the emotional demands or you can increase your emotional supply. Obviously, you only have one choice really – increasing the emotional supply. Dr. Finkel introduced the idea of a ‘love hack’ which are proven methods that take relatively less time or effect, but provide small results. The good thing is that they do not require the cooperation of your partner – so each person in the relationship can use these as they see fit. (See Dr. Finkel’s book, The All or Nothing Marriage)
Love Hacks that will Strengthen your Relationship Picture Fights From Outside of the Event Where you choose to look from outside of any situation, you are guaranteed to get a fresh perspective – but you have to do it sincerely. The good thing about new perspectives is they will show you immediately if you are being unreasonable or not. They will let you know if your feelings are justified or if they are really about something else entirely.
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