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February 28 On Monday, Feb. 29, students gathered at the baseball field behind PHS to release balloons as a tribute to senior Derek Brumbaugh. Brumbaugh passed away the day before from injuries sustained in a car accident. The balloon release was organized by students and took place on the first day of spring sports practice which would have been Brumbaugh’s first day of baseball practice. Photo by Maddy Emerson
How one event linked two families together GINA MATHEW & KALI POENITSKE @GMMathew13 & @Kali_Poenitske
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fter stumbling out of the wrecked car, junior Aspen Lloyd opened the door to the backseat. Instantly, she knew he
was gone. On Sunday, Feb. 28, Lloyd was returning home from an afternoon showing of the production ‘Newsies’ in Kansas City with her boyfriend, senior Derek Brumbaugh. Derek was driving his Pontiac Grand Prix when he crossed the center line and collided with a Chevrolet Silverado on Highway 69 north of Arma. Both drivers were fatally injured and Lloyd was the sole survivor. “After I woke up, my body knew it was in an accident,” Lloyd said. “I saw the airbag in front of me. [When] I looked over, Derek wasn’t there. He had his seat belt on, but the impact was on the driver’s side, so he got thrown to the backseat. I knew I wasn’t supposed to, but I got out of the car because nobody else was. When I opened the backseat, I looked at him and his head was open. I didn’t touch him because I didn’t want to hurt him more. He started gasping for air, but I could tell he wasn’t there anymore.” Because her injuries were not lifethreatening, Lloyd was able to get out of the vehicle. “Honestly, I didn’t feel any pain. I didn’t cry until I got to the hospital. It hadn’t hit me yet.” Lloyd was transported to Via Christi Hospital via ambulance. On arrival, she felt overwhelmed with a sense of déjà vu. “[When] we got to the [hospital], I was put in a trauma room,” Lloyd said. “It was actually kind of weird because the bed they put me in was the bed that Derek took pictures of me in two weeks before for a photography contest. [After settling in], I realized I knew where I was at.” Multiple tests and scans later, doctors determined Lloyd had suffered a broken heel along with a floating bone chip and torn ligaments in her ankle. “Not only am I the sole survivor, but I only have a broken ankle and nothing internally hurt. I didn’t have any whiplash. My neck and back didn’t hurt from the impact and my seat belt didn’t leave a mark. It’s just crazy that I barely had scratches on me [besides] a broken bone. It is just crazy how little I had, but everybody else was so bad that they didn’t live.” Derek’s mother, Tami Brumbaugh,
was working in the ER as a nurse at the time of the accident. She overheard a call on the scanner and suspected her son’s involvement. “I initially heard the call go out at work right after it happened around 6 p.m.,” Tami said. “I have worked in the ER for about 35 years, but that was very frustrating to be on the other end and not having any idea where [the ambulance] was taking him. [My] first instinct was to go to the scene, but I knew better than that, so I left work and [went] home. At that point, I just had to sit and wait.” Despite premonitions, the Brumbaughs did not receive official notification of Derek’s passing until almost 8:30 p.m. At the same time, Aspen was receiving treatment at the hospital. She and her family were notified shortly after. “It was probably 9 p.m. before the doctor came in to tell Aspen that Derek had died in the car accident,” said Deana Thompson, Aspen’s mother. “[Doctors] told us not to tell her specifically, even though it was pretty obvious to her and I both that he probably had died. As soon as we all came in there, she said, ‘I know you’re going to tell me bad news.’ She was pretty sure of it.” Looking back, Lloyd is still able to recall her last words with Derek. “We were talking about the rumble strips on the side of the road,” Lloyd said. “I was wondering how they were made, so I got out my phone and was typing. That’s the last thing I remember.” Regardless of the cause of the accident, Tami remains comforted by one thing. “Aspen [told me] that he was not impaired while driving, which was very important to me,” Tami said. “That is something that has bothered me. Most people hear that a seventeen-year-old was in an accident and think they were drunk, on drugs, texting or fell asleep. He was a good kid, but I have no idea why he would cross the center line and, to this day, we have no idea. It was just at the last second [that] he went over and killed them both.” After receiving overnight medical attention, Lloyd was discharged from
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the hospital on Monday in time to attend a student-led balloon release at the high school in Derek’s honor. “I was glad to be there instead of still in the hospital,” Lloyd said. “I cried when I wrote my note on the balloon, but I was really happy to see everybody. I was just happy that I was there.” Aspen and Derek’s immediate families attended a private burial later in the week. The following Monday, a Celebration of Life event was held at Memorial Auditorium for the community to attend. “[Our family] talked about it the night [of the accident] at 3 a.m.,” Tami said. “As a family, we did not want to have a traditional funeral. Derek would never have wanted that. We all knew that the only thing for Derek would be a celebration. It made him sad to see people sad and he did not want unhappiness associated with this.” The attendance at the celebration surprised the Brumbaughs. “I never would have expected so many people to come,” Tami said. “We were initially just going to have it at the school, but it wouldn’t have been nearly big enough.” According to Tami, Derek’s - ASPEN LLOYD influence extended farther than his life. His organ donations could potentially help 50 to 60 individuals. In his honor, the Derek Curtis Brumbaugh Scholarship was established and will award $500 to the recipient. He or she must be in good academic standing and involved in one or more of Derek’s many passions such as theater, vocals, photojournalism or baseball. In addition to this, more than $1,100 was raised for the SEK Humane Society. “I have heard from people I don’t even know who heard or read about Derek,” Tami said. “It is just amazing. It is just unbelievable to me that people would be able to do that. That is way over and beyond what people need to do.” Another community contribution came from a local business. Over the course of three days, Piece of Cake Nutrition raised $850 for the scholarship fund by selling malts in
Even though his time stopped, my seconds are still counting on.
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Derek’s name. Lloyd also experienced outreach from the community. “My friends, teachers and people I didn’t even recognize showed up at my house,” Lloyd said. “I was never alone.” Having a strong support system has been beneficial to Lloyd’s recovery. “[Going back to school] hasn’t been too bad,” Lloyd said. “I just couldn’t get everything off my mind. People weren’t asking me questions, but you could tell they wanted to. I had a fairly good week, but I was just so tired and exhausted.” Lloyd feels Derek’s absence daily. “[My routine] has been different because [Derek and I] were together a lot. He always took me to school in the morning because he lived [so close], and we’d ride home together in the evening because we were in the same activities. We shared a locker, and I still use it. He always had jackets or his camera bag in there because he’d forget to take them home. I opened the locker the other day and it was just,” she paused. “Empty.” Derek’s family is also adjusting to his absence. “It will never be the same,” Tami said. “Never. You have your life preFebruary 28 and post-February 28. It will never be the same life.” Lloyd and the Brumbaughs remain close. “She is just like one of my kids, and I think I’ll always be that way with Aspen, no matter what,” Tami said. “I hope she always considers us her extended family. She will always be part of ours. We have shared something so huge, you just can’t forget that.” “We’re like a family,” Lloyd said. “I still go over all the time and spend the day with them. I went with the family and they got matching tattoos the other day. It was the one that Derek wanted really badly when he turned 18: a treble clef with a cross embedded into it.” Lloyd feels looking forward is necessary for her recovery. “Even though his time stopped, my seconds are still counting on,” Lloyd said. “It’s not really a thing you think about, especially at such a young age, but it was meant to happen. Life is still going to keep counting.” As for the future, Tami added, “Hopefully, Aspen will find her life partner. I hope I will go to her wedding someday and see her children. Derek wasn’t her life partner. She was his, but he was not hers.”