Recovering From Infidelity Will They Cheat Again?
written by: Coleta Stewart http://www.EmotionalAffairAdvice.com
Recovering From Infidelity - Will They Cheat Again?
Recovering From Infidelity - Will They Cheat Again? The affair cut you to the core of who are deep down inside and turned your life upside down. Despite the pain and the roller coaster emotions that you are experiencing, you and your spouse are recommitted to your marriage and you are both working hard at recovering from infidelity. But I'm sure you've spent many restless nights wondering what your spouse could possibly have been thinking to do what they did. Not only that, you also wonder if you will ever be able to completely trust him again and will he cheat again. Life doesn't come with any guarantees, so there is no way to know with absolute certainty whether your spouse will cheat on you again. Unless your spouse is a serial cheater, he most likely still loves you, he just lost his way temporarily. Good people can and do make horrible mistakes and be sorry and be a good person again. If your spouse has finally accepted responsibility and is really trying to work things out, there are things that you can do as a couple to reduce the likelihood of another affair happening. One critical element that may be sorely lacking in your relationship at the moment is communication. Recovering from infidelity – find that connection again Especially after first learning about the affair, communication between the two of you may be difficult and strained because the issue of the affair and hurt feelings seem to get in the way. Intimate conversation between you two has probably trickled down to almost nothing. Never the less, you need to rebuild that all important emotional connection with your spouse. Which means that the two of you need to start talking again, and not only about the affair details, but what is really going on inside you. You need to get to know each other all over again. As a couple resolve to be 100 percent honest and open with each other in all things. Adopt a strict no-lies policy in your relationship and not waver from it. Recovering from infidelity – communicating again Communication in a relationship is like communication in everything it takes work and participation by all involved, it is a two way street. Understand that communication goes far beyond the spoken word. You can express yourself in many ways without uttering a single word, and may not even realize what type of message you are sending to your spouse. So both of you need to work on strengthening your non-verbal communication skills by being open, honest, respectful and consistent with each other.
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Recovering From Infidelity - Will They Cheat Again? Few acts are more selfish than an affair, because it’s a transgression that reaches out and impacts and destroys the trust and lives of many people. You cannot change what has now entered your life, but you do have the ability to choose how you respond. Put forth the effort required to build a strong new foundation for your marriage to prevent an ugly affair from devastating your life once more. Recovering from infidelity takes time and work, but life can come back into focus and you can move forward to a stronger and closer relationship with your spouse and not spend time worrying about whether he will cheat on you again or not. Recovering from infidelity is possible. You can get past the cheating and build a better marriage right now and every day for the rest of your life. Start by downloading this FREE ebook here: http://www.emotionalaffairadvice.com/ and then follow the entire process so that you can restore the trust and save your marriage from divorce.
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