Emporia Living Sallie Edition 2017 by The Emporia Gazette

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NICKEL SHOOTING for the STARS Lauren Longbine shares what it’s like behind the glamour of Music Row

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MAKING a JOYFUL NOISE Worship leaders are bringing the community together through song

THIS is my FIGHT SONG

It’s a new chapter for 13-year-old Addie Ortega

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SALLIE SPOTLIGHTS Area businesses and professionals share what's up and what's new in their line of work

22 Kari's Diamond & Bridal Making dreams come true

34 ESB Financial Personal finance for Kids

44 Waters TrueValue Gardens and gifts

56 Coldwell Banker, Emporia Real Estate Finding Homes for Pets and Their People

68 Clover Cliff Ranch

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Get out & play disc golf

Lauren Longbine shares what it's like behind the glamour of Music Row

92 The Midas Touch Golden Tans/Theta Yoga

24 THE NICKEL FEEL

Local artist, Charlotte Nickel, uses painting to heal and inspire

36 QUEEN OF THE CROP

A woman in a man's world, Erica Weachter is forging new paths in farming

46 SMART HANDS

Evolutionary wellness

102 Newman Medical Partners

Medical care for all stages

84 THIS IS MY FIGHT SONG

Clarine Hibler brings life back to old spaces in Emporia

It's a new chapter for 13-year-old Addie Ortega

Kelly Maxfield brings the fun to Emporia

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Women in Emporia share what "success" means to them

Worship leaders are bringing the community together through song

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A catered experience

118 CrossWinds Counseling & Wellness Connecting with CrossWinds

Meet women from Lyon County who have made an impact in unconventional ways

IN SALLIE'S KITCHEN

Evora Wheeler is making a difference one pie at a time

120 SALLIE SOCIAL

A look back at the 2017 Social

121 SALLIE: EDITION

108 Brickyard 20 Ale House

HEY, MISTER!

HOME SWEET HOME

Janell North's signature style makes her home a unique reflection of her family

74 MAKING A JOYFUL NOISE

Women's health destination

82 Dynamic Discs

12 SHOOTING FOR THE STARS

72 Haag Pharmacy

Behind the scenes

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FROM the EDITOR Six years ago the thought of having a beautiful women’s magazine in our little town of Emporia, Kansas, was just a “gee-whiz” idea CW and I would talk about from time to time. We were just starting to get our feet wet in the magazine world and neither of us, honestly, knew much about any of it. But what I did know — and had to do quite a bit of lobbying for at first — was that if any magazine would work wildly here it would be one dedicated to ordinary women in Emporia who do extraordinary things! Looking back, we are extraordinarily thankful for our advertisers who simply took our word for it that first year of publication in 2013 when we told them Sallie was going to be an amazing magazine and one they could confidently support. We definitely had something to prove with that first edition! Well, this here, friends, is our 5th edition of Sallie! And that burden of proof still weighs heavy each year, no doubt. But with the support of our community it certainly makes it an honor to do it, and overwhelmingly worthwhile. A sincere “thank you” to the businesses and services who partner with Sallie year after year, entrusting us to tell meaningful and inspiring stories of women who make our town shine! Our cover story this year is one such woman: Charlotte Nickel. All I knew of her for quite some time was her paintings. I admired them often and recognized them instantly. They are unmistakeable. I had never personally met her, but somehow felt like I knew her through her paintings. When we finally did meet for her Sallie photo shoot, I felt like I had always known her. Sometimes that happens with people, especially women, I think. We connect in ways that men just don’t, or can’t (I’m not sure which). Anyway, after a couple hours in Charlotte’s home/studio, I admired her work even more….. and I decided I liked Charlotte…. a lot! Humble, gracious, unpretentious, vulnerable, simple, are all words that describe her. She’s what I think of when I think of a real artist. She paints from her soul — from the joy and the pain in her life. She paints because that’s what she’s made to do. Nothing more, nothing less. It’s refreshing. I hope you enjoy her story as much as we enjoyed telling it. She’s one of a kind.

Sallie is filled with many more stories like Charlotte’s, women who have found their “niche” in the world — even if it is just in a small midwestern town like Emporia — and do what they do well. Don’t miss the story on Erica Waechter, who’s most comfortable out in the country in a field of soybeans alongside her dad and brother. Or, Lauren Longbine who also makes a living in the country — country music. One of the most memorable stories was meeting a team of women from different churches in town who gathered to worship together in song one spring afternoon. And then there’s little Addie Ortega, who, at 13 years old, is just now figuring out what life as a teenager is like, after a long battle with cancer. It was a privilege publishing this edition of Sallie. We hope you will enjoy each and every page! Now…. sit back, relax and enjoy this year’s edition of Sallie. It’s nice to see you again.

Ashley Walker Editor and Publisher

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the CONTRIBUTORS SALLIE’S CREW: You may or may not recognize these names and faces, but their touch is all over this year’s publication. It is because of their hard work, creative genius and enthusiasm that Sallie is in your hands right now. We absolutely could not publish this mag without them and we are incredibly thankful that after five years they still know how to “bring-it” when it’s time for Sallie! In this year’s Sallie you will meet women who have found that they are at their best when they are doing what they were made to do, whether it’s painting, baking or analyzing a field of soybeans. In that same spirit, we asked a few of our contributors to share when (or where) they feel they are at their “best.” EDITOR AND PUBLISHER ASHLEY WALKER MAGAZINE DIRECTOR LACI RUSCO

Laci Rusco: Magazine Director Keeping up with my family, publishing our magazines and rescuing lost animals is when I am at my best.

Leann Sanchez: Regional Publications Manager I am at my best when I'm organizing or problem-solving to keep my job or family moving! Thats definitely my sweet spot!

ART DIRECTOR KELSEY BARKER CONTRIBUTING WRITERS JESSIE WAGONER MELISSA LOWERY REGINA MURPHY PHOTOGRAPHY ANNA HEDGES JASON DAILEY DAVE LEIKER

Kelsey Barker: Art Director My creative best comes from being inspired by everything — living, breathing, or not — around me!

Cassi Ellis Olinger: Marketing Associate Sundays are reserved for family fun. It's on these days, when we're all together, I find myself at my best.

DESIGN & LAYOUT JANELLA WILLIAMS ADVERTISING STAFF CASSI ELLIS-OLINGER RONDA HENERY TAYLER LYONS REGIONAL PUBLICATIONS MANAGER LEANN SANCHEZ

Anna Hedges: Photographer Nothing makes me feel more alive than being surrounded by the mountains or swept away in inspired conversation.

Ronda Henery: Marketing Associate Organizational skills keep my work and home life in balance; it is probably my best quality and helps me enjoy what I do.

PRODUCTION DESIGN MARGIE MCHALEY DAN FERRELL PHILLIP MILLER KATIE POTTER COPY EDITORS ASHLEY WALKER ZACH HACKER ONLINE Facebook.com/emporialiving

Tayler Lyons: Marketing Associate I am at my best surrounded by my family. They inspire me and push me to be the woman I desire to be.

Jessie Wagoner: Writer My best comes from laughing with my son, finding the joy in every day life and connecting with others.

For more information, please contact: 517 Merchant Street Emporia, KS 66801 620-342-4800 Sallie is a publication of

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the ADVERTISORS Affordable Room Groups �� 91 Amanda’s Bakery & Cafe �� 114 American Family Insurance, Nick Jacob �� 67 Bluestem Farm & Ranch Supply �� 80 BobbyD’s Merchant St. BBQ �� 51 Brickyard 20 Ale House �� 108 Broadview Towers �� 53 Brown’s Shoe Fit Co. �� 78 Cable One �� 67 Carpet Plus �� 90 City of Emporia �� 100 Clay A. Sligh, DDS �� 78 Cliff’s Super Service �� 114 Clint Bowyer Autoplex �� 31 Clover Cliff Ranch �� 68 Coldwell Banker, Emporia Real Estate �� 56 Commercial St. Diner �� 99 Cotton O’Neil Clinic �� 1 CrossWinds Counseling & Wellness �� 118 Dan’s Hands �� 113 Dr. Thomas A Kriss, DDS �� 53 Dynamic Discs �� 82 EK Real Estate �� 43 Emporia Anesthesia Associates �� 61 Emporia Arts Center �� 41 Emporia Chamber of Commerce �� 33 Emporia Convention and Visitors Bureau �� 65 Emporia Dermatology and Skin Cancer Center �� 63 Emporia Main Street �� 117 Emporia Orthodontics �� 67 ESB Financial �� 34 ESB Financial �� Back Cover Emporia State University �� 8 Evergreen Design Build �� 65 Flinthills Mall �� 91 Flint Hills Community Health Center �� 115 Flint Hills Technical College �� 55 Food for Students �� 91 Four Seasons Apartments �� 3 GeoTech, Inc �� 116 Goodwill �� 99 Guzman Tree Service �� 40 Haag Pharmacy �� 72

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Hannah Orthodontics �� 100 Hearing Group �� 11 Holiday Resort �� 116 Joseph Laudie Dental �� 63 Kari’s Diamonds & Bridal �� 22 King Liquor �� 7 Lyon County History Center �� 91 Lyon County State Bank ��Inside Front Cover Life Care Center of Burlington �� 101 Longbine Auto Plaza �� 6 Lyon County Title �� 114 M-N Carpet Store Inc �� 101 Marlin Flanagin, DDS �� 115 Maxout Entertainment �� 79 The Midas Touch Golden Tans/Theta Yoga �� 92 Modern Air �� 61 Morris County Hospital �� 113 National Teachers Hall of Fame �� 89 Newman Medical Partners �� 102 Newman Regional Health �� 81 Patton Putnam and Dean LLC �� 117 Plumbing by Spellman, Inc. �� 101 Prairie & Pearls LLC �� 116 PrairieLand Partners �� 90 Reflxns Salon �� 89 Regional Development Assoc. �� 21 Riddle’s Jewelry �� 2 Rollers �� 79 RV Doc �� 99 Ryan Kohlmeier, DDS �� 32 State Farm, Euler Insurance Agency, Inc �� 33 Sutherlands �� 51 The Sweet Granada �� 100 Tanner’s Carpet LLC �� 114 Thomas Property Management �� 42 Thomas Transfer & Storage �� 42 Thompson Family Dental �� 89 Topeka Ear, Nose & Throat �� 4 Tyson Fresh Meats, Inc �� 17 United Country Real Estate/Great Plains Auction �� 80 USD 253, Emporia Public Schools �� 19 Waters TrueValue �� 44 Williams Automotive �� 101

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Lauren Longbine’s “Dream Job” may have her rubbing shoulders with some of country music’s biggest talent, but behind the glamour and stardom is hard work and long hours. Written by Melissa Lowery 12 | EMPORIA LIVING

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Lauren celebrates at Brett Young's first No. 1 hit party.

auren Longbine's life may look glamorous on Instagram. Sheâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s often seen hanging out backstage at concerts, attending the Country Music Awards, going to dinner with celebrities â&#x20AC;&#x201D; but behind the scenes, she's spending hours on the phone and racking up more than 100 flights in a year to promote the work of country music artists. Lauren is Director of Southwest Promotions for Big Machine Label Group, an independent American record label specializing in country and pop artists. Big Machine is based on Music Row in Nashville, Tennessee, which is where Lauren now calls home.

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“I set my sights on learning as much as I could about radio and about promotion to set me up for my dream job...” — Lauren Longbine An Emporia native and daughter of State Senator Jeff and Gwen Longbine, Lauren graduated from Emporia High School in 2011, then moved to Lawrence to attend the University of Kansas. She realized early on that she wanted to be involved in radio and began making strategic decisions to reach her goal. “One of our best family friends is Mike Kennedy, former program director at Q104,” Lauren said. “I grew up going to concerts with my parents and the Kennedys. I caught the radio bug early in college, so I asked Mike to mentor me and teach me the radio biz.” Lauren's approach to her dream job included that mentorship with Kennedy, as well as education and experience. She studied journalism and strategic communications with a minor in business at the University of Kansas, where she graduated in 2015. During her junior year, she landed an internship in the promotions department at Warner Music's Nashville office. It was then that she knew she'd found her niche in the music industry. “I knew from the moment that I interned in promotions at Warner that's what I wanted to do,” Lauren said. “I set my sights on learning as much as I could about radio and about promotion to set me up for my dream job, which I ended up getting pretty quickly after I graduated college.”

Left, Lauren with Brett Young; right, at the Houston Rodeo with Florida Georgia Line and KILT radio station.

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Florida Georgia Line on their Dig Your Roots tour in Biloxi, MS.

Brett Young at their Cat Country Close Up show in Pensacola, FL.

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Florida Georgia Line is presented with plaques for their No. 1 hit single, H.O.L.Y. in Nashville.

During her final semester of college, Lauren interned at KBEQ in Kansas City and learned the radio side of promotions, then worked in sales for six months to gain valuable experience. In October 2015, she saw Big Machine was hiring in their promotions department, so she reached out and submitted her application. Her education and work experience caught the attention of promotions executives and within a couple of weeks, Lauren was moving to Nashville. The only catch — she wasn't getting the entry-level position she applied for; instead she was moving straight to an executive position, just six months after graduating from college. “It basically happened overnight,” Lauren said of the hiring process. “Everything I'd studied and worked at paid off so fast; it was a bit of a whirlwind.” As Director of Southwest Promotions, Lauren represents six artists: Florida Georgia Line, Brett Young, Ryan Follese, Drake White, Cassadee Pope and A Thousand Horses. “My number one job is radio promotion and getting songs played on the radio,” Lauren explained. “I'm making 30 or so calls per week, talking with radio stations and convincing them to play my artists' singles.” Of the 171 country radio stations in the country, Lauren is responsible for getting airplay on 37 stations in the Southwest and Midwest. Seventy of those stations are in major markets like Dallas and Salt Lake City, and when and how often they play a song determines where it ranks on the charts. “Every time you hear a song played on a radio station, it's because someone like me is calling and asking them to play it,” Lauren said. “It's sales more or less, getting my songs played on the radio as often as possible.” Lauren's job is more than phone calls, however. In 2016 she took more than 100 flights all over the country, checking in with radio stations in her markets or traveling with artists on tour. “Whenever I have an artist performing in one of my markets, I travel with them,” she said. “I make sure the radio station has tickets, arrange meet and greets, interviews, backstage access — whatever the artist needs to promote their music.” Building and nurturing relationships with her artists is another crucial part of Lauren's job. Whether it's taking an artist out to dinner or being there when an artist is sick on the road and needs to get to the emergency room — something that she experienced recently — Lauren is invested in the careers and success of her artists. “I'm making artists' dreams come true,” she said. “They're giving me their art and expecting me to make their dreams true. When you work in promotions, you're responsible for their success.” Lauren's hard work for her artists has paid off: in her first full year with Big Machine, five of the singles she promoted hit number one. So what does the future hold for someone who achieved her dream job six months out of college? “I'd like to be a national promotions director, but I'm also happy being where I'm at now,” Lauren said. “Either way, hopefully I'll still be getting number one records!”

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Favorite photo filter app and why: Instagram. Most of the time when I post photos on social media it’s via instagram, so having built-in filters and editing tools all in one app is super convenient. Favorite Game: Wheel of Fortune! I’m just practicing for my real life chance to be on the show. :) Favorite social media app: Instagram Most obscure app on your phone and what's it for: Evernote. I use this for all forms of note-taking… from meetings, to-do lists, grocery lists, budgets, etc. App most likely to be viewed waiting in security line at airport: Gate Guru. This app tells me what amenities and restaurants are in which airports at specific gates. Since I’m constantly traveling it’s nice to know exactly where I can find what I’m looking for in an airport. Favorite podcast: “Your Kick Ass Life Podcast.” Hosted by Andrea Owen, she talks about motivational life topics ranging from career, health and fitness, relationships and more. Favorite shopping app: Amazon. You can find literally anything you would ever need on Amazon. Life saver. Craziest place you've ever lost or left your phone: My phone is usually glued to my hands, because I work from the road most of the time and my whole life is on my phone from my email, travel apps, calendars, etc. I once left it in an airport bathroom and thankfully was paged to pick it up three minutes before I boarded my flight. App checked first in the morning: My Bible app for a devotional and verse of the day. Always start the day with positivity! App checked last before bed: Usually my alarm app to make sure I have five alarms set to wake up on time the next morning. An app you should use more, but don’t: The CNN news app… I should be more informed on current events and what’s happening in the world but most of the time it’s depressing news or politics so I ignore it altogether. Name of your favorite playlist: “Hot Country” on Apple Music. Top 3 people you text: My mom, my boss and my best friend. 20 | EMPORIA LIVING

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Cities listed in weather app: Nashville and Emporia. When I'm going to a new city for work I'll check the weather, but usually delete the city from the app after I leave. Otherwise I'd have 30+ cities in my app at all times! Most essential app while traveling: Waze. This is a navigation app and is hands down the best out of all of them. It always takes you on the most efficient route and gives alerts on traffic, construction, etc.

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From Left to Right: Stephanie Castillo, Marci Lindsay, Judy Herrera-Gosselin, Kari Stookey, Sarah Brock, Kathy Zwolenski, Rosa Castillo, Kyla Caricato.

MAKING DREAMS COME TRUE Kari Stookey, owner of Kari’s Diamonds and Bridal walks into a dream every day. As she unlocks the doors of her business, she is greeted by all things beautiful — elaborate, flowing wedding dresses and gemstones of every color, which she carefully crafts into custom-made jewelry. Yet, if you ask Kari the best part of her job, she would say it is helping make her customers’ dreams come true. From the moment a bride-to-be walks through the door, Kari and her devoted employees strive to make the wedding they have dreamed of become a reality. “Every little girl has this dream of what they will look like on their wedding day, and that carries over into adulthood,” Kari said. “When they look in the mirror they are waiting for that feeling they remember dreaming about as a little girl. We get to watch them have their dream come true.” THE DRESS Finding the right wedding dress is an experience a bride and those closest to her will remember forever. Some brides arrive at Kari’s with their mother or sisters; others arrive with their entire bridal party in tow. Whether there are one or 10 people with the bride, Kari’s strives to keep the focus on the bride while providing an intimate experience for the entire group. 22 | EMPORIA LIVING

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“It is about really listening to the bride, making sure they feel good and confident and more beautiful than they have ever felt in their life,” Kari said. “We want them to be in a private space which can help take the pressure off. We always try to make sure the bride knows that she is the most important voice to us. It is easy to get overwhelmed as the bride, so we really try to be an advocate for the bride.” Kari said each bride’s experience contains a bit of magic as they try on dress after dress. Each dress is beautiful, but she said there is always one magical moment for each bride when they step into the dress which is “The One.” “When you see them put on the right dress, you know, because you can see it on their face, in their eyes,” Kari said. “It is like they become one with the dress. They become a bride all of a sudden. It happens for everyone when they find the right dress. You can just see this twinkle in their eye that wasn’t there with any other dress. It is a beautiful thing.” When a bride says “yes to the dress,” the entire staff at Kari’s joins the celebration. Champagne is served and pictures are taken to preserve the moment for eternity. Each bride is special at Kari’s, but the staff is always particularly touched by those brides who are planning such a momentous occasion while having experienced a loss. So often brides include their closest family members in the preparations,

yet for those who have lost siblings or parents, it can be bittersweet to plan for a big day knowing those loved ones are missing. The staff at Kari’s take special care to respect the emotions of each bride and provide support as they can. “There was one bride the staff worked with and she had a twin sister named Kari — spelled the same way as mine — and she passed away,” Kari said. “So it was a very emotional time for her and she found her dress and it was just special. I think some of the most memorable are those brides who have a loved one missing. We try to fill the gap and be supportive and loving.” THE RING Many of the brides wearing dresses purchased at Kari’s are also wearing custom-designed engagement rings which their fiancees designed with Kari’s help. Kari utilizes computer-aided design to walk customers through the design process. With the program, customers can see a visual display of the ring throughout the design process. This allows them to pick stone size and cut, setting styles and even see what the ring will look like on the hand. The end result is a beautiful piece of custommade jewelry which will have meaning to the recipient for years to come. “They get to put that personal touch on it and make it one-ofa-kind,” Kari said. “It seems so much more special, I think, when you receive a gift that has been created by someone who loves you. It is a gift that has a story. The story that goes along with every piece is so special and can be passed along.” In everything Kari does, her focus is on helping people make their dreams a reality. As her happy customers leave, her relationship with them continues. “We get to go to a lot of weddings,” Kari said. “We love weddings. We keep in touch with our customers and we have people now who first came in for wedding rings and dresses and now we have designed mother’s rings or helped with push presents upon the birth of their children. I’m honored to be a part of their lives and a part of their story.”

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“ I love paint.

I really do. I love it.”

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itting in her sun-drenched studio Charlotte gazes at her palette of paint and cup full of color-stained brushes and whispers to herself, "I love paint. I really do. I love it." With each stroke of the paintbrush, the local artist creates beautiful works of art. Every brush stroke serves as a signature of sorts — a unique identifier which belongs only to her. Most of all, each painting is created with a stroke of joy. “I work out of emotional pain,” Nickel said. “And when it is finished, it is pure joy and rather healing.” Life hasn’t been easy for Nickel — her own mother struggled with depression. Many of Nickel’s memories of her mother are channeled into her paintings. A difficult marriage and divorce, job transitions, all life stressors which Nickel processes through each stroke of the paintbrush. “We all find a way to heal — for me it is painting,” Nickel said. As sunlight pours into her studio, she takes her place in front of the easel. A rainbow palette of colors sits before her as she begins to pray. In this time of prayer, she paints her best — letting God and her creativity pour from her. “When I go to the canvas it is where I pray,” Nickel said. “It is where I pray and communicate with God, at the easel. I pray until I’m released and the same happens with the canvas. When I’m released, I can feel the release into the work. When I’m praying I feel like at some point I touch God’s heart and He comforts me.” Some paintings take months for her to complete, while others rush forth in a matter of hours. Each painting is different, yet all have that unmistakeable trademark “Nickel feel.” Some are still-life paintings, filled with flowers, a blue teacup or Fiestaware. Others are abstract creations flooded with bright pinks, blues and greens. “Painting is a like a birth process really — it just takes time and feeling,” Nickel said. “The still-life’s are more contemplative, more like meditation. The abstracts are like intercessory prayer, really.” As impactful as the process of painting is for Nickel, the finished products also produce strong emotional reactions among viewers. Kaila Mock, Gallery Manager and Educational Outreach Coordinator at the Emporia Arts Center, said she was first exposed to Nickel’s paintings in her first year at the arts center. Nickel had brought a painting to be hung in the arts center, unfortunately Mock was gone for the day. “When I opened the door to the storeroom the next morning, I saw “Tidal Wave in Town” for the first time and it physically knocked me back and took my breath away,” Mock said. “I felt raw and beautiful emotions radiating from that painting and I fell in love with it.” The painting hung in the hallway at the arts center for some time. It was then moved to hang in Mock’s office, where she enjoyed it daily. Then Mock was in for quite a surprise from Nickel.

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“Charlotte was gracious enough to let me hang the painting in my office and, eventually, she surprised me by saying, ‘It’s yours. It’s meant to be with you,’” Mock said. “‘Tidal Wave’ is one of my most prized possessions, and at times when I’m feeling overwhelmed I take a moment to sit back, get lost in the brush strokes and then all is right with the world again. What an amazing gift for her to have given me, and I truly feel like every painting that she creates is an amazing gift to the world.” The emotions the paintings evoke are various, but a common theme emerges in terms of joy and hope. Even from some of Nickel’s darkest moments, beautiful arrays of colors have emerged to help her and others heal. Over the years, Nickel has painted numerous still-life paintings with the signature blue teacup or bright fiesta ware. It was only recently she realized why — those items remind her of her mother, who greatly enjoyed preparing a meal, welcoming guests and sharing beautiful food and flowers. Nickel continues to serve her own guests coffee out of the memorable blue cup. “She loved setting a beautiful table and she generally had flowers,” Nickel said. “I hadn’t been conscious of making these as, like, a memorial to my mom, but in a way they are. We always had a wonderful time at the table or in the garden. Those were the sweet spots.” The abstract paintings vary in color, but most include at least a dash of pink — one of Nickel’s’ favorite colors. Each color she uses evokes a deep feeling in her. The paintings are not so much about the image presented, but the feelings conveyed between artist and viewer. 30 | EMPORIA LIVING

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Charlotte holding her cat, Pickles.

Nickel’s’ passion for art began as a young adult — first with drawing, and then with painting. It wasn’t a natural gift, but a talent she cultivated over time. She recalls failing an art class in college; she considered throwing in the towel, but instead committed herself to learning all she could. “I remember thinking, ‘I want to be a painter, but I don’t think I will be good enough,’” Nickel said. “ Then I went to college and I was struggling. The first drawing class I failed and I had to do it over. That next semester I got it and I was just drawing and painting from there on out. I was very prolific at that time.” It also didn’t hurt that she comes from a long line of artists. Her grandfather at the age of 5 asked for a pair of scissors. He used those scissors and began cutting animals out of paper. He cut them out freehand, not drawing or sketching them ahead of time. “He had an absolute sense of anatomy and design,” Nickel said. “His daughter was also a painter; she went to the Chicago Art Institute when she was young. So I come from him and I have a fondness and respect for the Nickel name.” Her artwork has appeared in numerous galleries and graces the walls of many private collections throughout Kansas and other states. Most recently, one of her abstract works of art was turned into a wine label for Twin Rivers Wine and Gourmet Shoppe. Many of her works of art were on display at the Emporia Arts Center throughout the month of June.

To view or purchase works by Nickel, visit thenickelstudio.wordpress.com

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CONGRATULATIONS TO OUR TRUE GURUS WHO SAVED STONE BROKE NORTH LYON COUNTY JUNIOR HIGH

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A classic example of a woman in a manâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s world,

Erica Waechter is forging new paths in the field of agriculture.

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Farming and the image of the stereotypical farmer is rapidly changing — 29-year-old Erica Waechter serves as proof. Growing up on the family farm, Erica Waechter, daughter of John and Doreen Waechter, had a front-row view of farming. As a teenager, she grew, harvested and sold her own corn each season. She lended a hand during planting and harvest and even became quite famous in the family for her skills creating small square bales of hay. Yet, when she headed off to college at Kansas State University, she was ready to bid farewell to the farm and hello to something different: architecture. She still loves architecture, but as she took classes, she realized it just wasn’t the best fit for her. She craved time outdoors. She wanted to feel the ground beneath her feet. “I need to be outside,” Erica said. “I couldn’t stay tied to a desk. I need to be in the fields.” A few adjustments were made to her class schedule and she embarked on the first of several internships with Monsanto, a sustainable agriculture company. Monsanto delivers agricultural products which support farmers worldwide. The first internship with Monsanto sealed the deal for her — plant breeding was her passion. “It was in Illinois with Monsanto doing nursery breeding,” Erica said. “I fell in love with the science and technical side. We were doing things that were 10 years from being in a farmer’s field. It was then I realized this was what I had to be doing.” After working for a few years in Iowa, Erica felt the calling to return to Kansas and the family farm, located just Northwest of Emporia. The opportunity to work with her family each day while still doing what she loved felt right. Since returning a little more than a year ago she hasn’t regretted her choice at all — even though she wears multiple hats in the family business. FALL 2017 | 39

“I do a little bit of everything,” she said. “Invoicing, soil testing, scouting fields, ordering products, delivering parts. In a family business, it takes all of us.” Her brother, Johnny Waechter, said having Erica back on the family farm has been a big help. “It has been great having her back,” Johnny said. “She is very helpful around the farm and fills a variety of different roles. She handles a lot of the paperwork and payroll. Then the next day she could be bringing us seed or going somewhere after parts. The day after that she could be out running a tractor or swather.” Each family member plays a vital role in keeping Waechter Farms operating smoothly. Erica’s contribution doesn’t go unnoticed by Johnny. “Some of it seems like busy work, but it’s all important to me and allows me to focus on some of the more technical or physical aspects of the business,” Johnny said. Gone are the days of relying solely on the almanac and a glance at the clouds. Farming now includes the use of technology and investigation, two tools Erica is embracing as she settles back into life on the family farm. “I would say my speciality is finding problems out in the fields while scouting,” Erica said. “That’s really

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what I’m good at. I love seeing a problem and then investigating what is causing it to come up with a solution.” One major contribution to the farm comes in the form of testing — soil testing. Erica tests all the soil so she can properly make fertilizer recommendations from the results. The testing guides Erica in applying the proper nutrients to the soil to maximize production. As a new generation on the farm, Erica is embracing technology. She hopes to eventually have a drone which she could use during scouting to monitor the crops. Technology improvements allow farmers to monitor soil saturation, crop growth and a variety of other factors to increase production. She plans to continue implementing additional technologies which could benefit the farm. Technology in general is changing farming and is embraced by Erica. During her time at Monsanto, she saw how technology improved production. She hopes to continue implementing additional technologies which could benefit the farm. Erica is the first to admit farming isn’t the traditional career choice for a woman. Though she works in a profession dominated by men, she has noticed more women entering the field in recent years. Her hope is young women will consider

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I love seeing a problem and then investigating what is causing it to come up with a solution. farming, agriculture and the sciences in general as career options. She said there is without a doubt plenty of room and need for women in agriculture. “I think the STEM programs in schools are opening more girls up to the idea of working in agriculture,” Erica said. “It allows them to see they don’t have to be from a farm to work in agriculture. Whether it is biology, plant breeding, animals, there is a place in agriculture for women.” At the end of the day, when Erica hangs up her many hats and has time to reflect, one thing comes to mind — as a woman she can be anything she wants to be. She enjoys time with her friends and family during off times. Cooking and baking are among her skillsets — she makes a mean Key Lime Pie. Erica will soon become an aunt for the first time — a new role she is incredibly excited to take on. “Women in ag in general can be that gal that is driving a combine or be the one that is dealing with contracts, but they can also be the one that brings a meal to the field,” Erica said. “The same person can be all three of those or one of the three. I may wear a lot of hats or be a jack of all trades, but most of all, I keep true to being a strong woman.”

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A full garden center ready for planting.

GARDENS & GIFTS It’s your sister’s birthday, the party starts in less than an hour and you still haven't purchased a gift. Are you doomed? Absolutely not! You just need to make a quick stop at Waters True Value. Waters True Value has a large, diverse, gift and homegoods section — guaranteed to solve all your gift-giving emergencies. Need a gift for the foodie in your life? Waters has shelves of delicious options including dips, salsas, pickles, spices and rubs. Perhaps a dishtowel or adorable apron will serve up practicality as well as fun. Gifts for youngsters are in ample supply at Waters. Wooden yo-yo’s, spinning tops, puzzles and games are a wonderful way to take a step back in time and share some of your childhood favorites with the children you love. “We strive to be a child-friendly location,” Mark Shook, manager of Waters True Value said. “That is why we have the small shopping carts and the unique toys. I think the kids like our toys so much because we have some of those oldfashioned fun toys we all love.”

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There are also plenty of options for the tech-savvy children in your life — remote control helicopters, a box of pranks and fidget spinners can also be found. Baby items like stuffed animals, soft swaddling blankets and teething toys are tucked among gifts for the older children. “We have a little bit of everything,” Janet Brown, gift department manager said. “It is a treat for all of us when new shipments come. It is a little bit like Christmas as we open things and see all the new items.” Speaking of holidays — there is no shortage of holiday decor options at Waters True Value. Elaborate pumpkins and happy harvest decor abounds during the fall. Americana options are plentiful for Memorial Day and Fourth of July. Spreading Christmas cheer isn’t difficult with a beautiful Christmas ornament from Waters. Gifts aren’t always for others, which is why Waters is ready to help you gift yourself and your home with the best in lawn and garden options. Succulents galore, perfect perennials and annuals that provide a pop of color are all available at Waters.

Not sure where to start in the effort to make your home and garden beautiful? Staff will help you make your vision a reality. “People will come in with pictures or an idea in their head and we can make it happen,” Dee Wolf, lawn and garden manager said. “We will lay or sit plants out and arrange them so people can visualize what it will look like. We just really need to know if they are working in a shady or sunny area of their yard and what heights they are looking at. We can help them find the right plants for their project.” For those whose thumbs are more brown than green, Wolf also offers tips and help for gardening success. She encourages people to use mulch, which will reduce weeds — making gardening more fun and more aesthetically pleasing. “We can help answer questions,” Wolf said. “I have customers come in often with questions about different plants and struggles they are having. We can help.” When Waters moved to its new location — just more then two years ago — it allowed the store to expand in a multitude of ways. “We just didn’t have room in the old location for all of this,” Shook said. “Now we have so much more space to share those home goods and gifts. We have room to display the swings and patio furniture and outdoor kitchens. We are able to have a full greenhouse now. We want people to come in and enjoy shopping here for all their needs.”

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larine Podrebarac Hibler communicates with her hands. She gestures energetically when she speaks, she works with her hands as a hair stylist, she uses them to renovate old spaces. Her hands tell her story. "My hands are always paint-stainded, dirtstained. They're working hands," she said. "They're a true reflection of me." And no wonder — when she isn't making hair look beautiful at her salon, Studio C, or taking care of her family, Clarine is elbow-deep in renovation and decorating projects at her 100-year-old farmhouse-style home in mid-town Emporia. “The house is very old and it needed a lot of love,” she said. “We updated the plumbing and electrical, but I wanted to keep the parts that made me fall in love with it in the first place. It's still the same old house, without the cracks.” With an elk head mounted over the refrigerator and master bedroom walls taken back to the original plaster, Clarine's house is a mixture of elegant and rustic, masculine and feminine, unexpected and traditional. She claims she doesn't have a signature style — although she admits to being partial to taxidermied animals — choosing instead to let the space guide her when decorating. “I try to stay with the era of when the home was built,” she said. “I don't do the same thing twice. I go to the space and decorate to fit it, to what's appropriate for the home.” Indeed, her next decorating task could send her in the opposite direction completely. She and her husband are moving “just around the corner” to a home that better accommodates their blended family of seven children. “It's a stately home, so I'm trying to figure out how to make it crazy but still true to the house itself,” she said. Maintaining the history of a space is important. She wants to honor those who were there in the beginning while making it comfortable and usable.

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“I'd rather live in a house that doesn't look and act like anyone else's,” she says. “I want to walk into my home and think, in 1890, somebody was walking across this threshold.” Clarine's salon, located at 325 Merchant Street, is also filled with history. Built in 1916 with the help of Margaret Warren, wife of Emporia banker Frank Warren, the building served as the headquarters for the Social Service Club for almost 100 years. The “Social Service Club” name was coined by William Allen White who, along with his wife Sallie, supported the organization with publicity and financial aid over the years. Clarine moved her salon there in 2013 after occupying and renovating other locations downtown. When the Social Service Club folded in 2015, she jumped at the opportunity to purchase the historic building and make it her own. The main room is painted soft white to better accentuate the original wood floors and the huge gilt mirror and shiny chandelier that hang over her workspace. Taxidermied pheasants in flight and an antlered deer head adorn the walls. Floor-to- ceiling arched windows dominate the room, illuminating the space with natural light. Clarine opens the windows to let fresh air flow through when weather permits. Like today — it's a sweltering summer day in Kansas, but the breeze and a few fans are enough to manage the heat. “I've never lived in a house with central air conditioning, but I'm still alive,” Clarine said with a chuckle. “I grew up in an old house. I lived in a modern house one time and I had to get out of there.” Old houses and business spaces are Clarine's passion. It took her a while to realize it, but once she did, she turned her considerable energy and creativity toward renovating and decorating.

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She went to college on an athletic scholarship, but school was never Clarine's strong suit. An energetic child, she never outgrew her need to be moving and creating rather than sitting and studying. “I didn't do well in school — I was a C student — but I figured it out,” she says. “The emphasis was on going to college, but that wasn't for me. I didn't know then that this is what I love to do. I wish I'd known when I got out of high school, but I didn't know until I had my own home that my passion was for my homes and businesses. I found my purpose.” Looking back, she wishes she had attended “the vocational school” — now Flint Hills Technical College — to learn practical skills like how to install sheetrock and update an electrical box. “It's wonderful to be a rocket scientist, but it's wonderful to be smart with your hands, too,” Clarine said. “If you're digging a ditch or slapping paint on a wall, that's valuable, that's a different kind of smart. I wish I'd gone to the vocational school so I would've figured that out sooner.” But Clarine did figure out what she was meant to do, and taught herself to do it. She learned how to install sheetrock and rewire a lamp. She turned her creativity and energy toward decorating her first house and fell in love. “I'm fortunate to have good friends who are willing to teach me things I don't know yet,” she says. “Everything I've owned or ran myself has been an old building, an old space, that I've renovated and decorated. It's amazing what paint and a little ingenuity and creativity can do.” Clarine's creativity extends beyond her own spaces. She creates vinyl signs and artwork on repurposed items, spent about 10 years doing photography and creates magical centerpieces and other decorations for events. Mickey Bright, a longtime friend and collaborator, recalls a wedding she and Clarine were hired to decorate. The couple were teachers, so Clarine went to a library book sale and purchased piles of books. She then wrapped them in paper and used them as the base of the centerpieces. Adding machine tape was repurposed as garland. “Nobody knew what it was, but it was beautiful!” Mickey recalls. “Clarine is a big believer that you don't have to spend an arm and a leg to make something look great, and she has a great eye. It's become a cliché to say, but it's true — she can look at something and see it in a different and unexpected way. If you're willing to hang in there with her, it ends up being something really beautiful.” Mickey credits Clarine with helping her define her own style and encouraging her to push her boundaries when it comes to design. “I've learned a lot from being friends with Clarine as far as style. She's helped me define my taste. She's extremely talented, she really is.” Looking ahead to her next decorating challenge, Clarine thinks about why she puts so much time and energy into her homes. "It's fundamental," she said. "Your home should make you happy." “Besides your family and your children, your biggest investment is your home. Nobody should ever hate their home,” she said. “Whether it's new or old or big or small, your home is your palace. Every person who owns a home should be proud of it and want to take care of it.” FALL 2017 | 55

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Jamie Sauder with Cooper and Oakley, Yorkies

FINDING HOMES FOR PETS & THEIR PEOPLE The difference between a house and a home is love — which is why the agents at Coldwell Banker Emporia are passionate about finding homes for people and their pets. “All of our agents here love their pets,” Kristi Mohn with Coldwell Banker Emporia said. “I love my dog and would bring my dog to the office with me every day if I could.” Angela Blankley realtor at Coldwell Banker Emporia said pet ownership plays a large part for people as they search for the right home. “Usually the first thing people tell me is if they have pets,” Blankley said. “They will say ‘We need a big yard for our dogs.’ Their pets play a large part in the process of buying a home.” From large fenced-in yards to finding a sunny nook for their cat to enjoy, homeowners want the best for their pets. The agents at Coldwell Banker want to make sure every animal has a home to call their own as well. “Coldwell Banker founded the Homes for Dogs project nationally and has helped find homes for thousands of pets,” Mohn said. “We want to be involved because everyone deserves a loving home.” Since childhood, animals have been a part of Blankley’s family. She said through good times and bad she has been able to rely on her pets for unconditional love. Her hope 56 | EMPORIA LIVING

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is every person and pet can experience the same kind of nurturing relationship. Coldwell Banker Emporia is partnering with local animal organizations to help encourage pet adoption. “We want to help people and pets find their forever home,” Mohn said. “We are community-focused; all of our agents are involved in the community and attempt to make our community a better place to live. This is one more way we can help.” As much as home buyers want to find a home which meets the needs of their pets, home sellers are often concerned about how their pets may impact the sale of their home. Mohn said they hear frequently from sellers who are concerned about how well their home will sell because of their pets. She encourages them not to worry. “We have pets, we know what some of the barriers may be to selling a home with pets,” Mohn said. “We have tips and can give advice to help get a home ready. People shouldn’t worry — we will be honest with them and help them through the process.” When it comes to finding the right home for people or for pets, Coldwell Banker Emporia is the place to turn to. “We want everyone to have a home they love,” Mohn said.

Christian Keisler with Bella, Weimaraner

Angela Blankley with Elliott, Boston Terrier

SHOW-READY SPACES • Empty litter boxes daily

• Pick up after your pet uses the yard • Vacuum carpets daily to remove pet hair • Have carpets professionally cleaned if needed • Place pets in crates or take them with you prior to a showing Kristi Mohn with Ella, Australian Shepherd

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Signature Style Even as the sultry days of summer begin to wind down, the anticipation of fall is palpable. We start longing for the colors, the scents, the crisp and vibrant feel of the next season. For “Home Sweet Home” this year Sallie found a home in Emporia that not only capture fall in all it’s enchanting glory but may inspire you, our readers, to find your own way to make your home, yours. FALL 2017 | 59

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This is the home of Tim and and Janell North. They are both Emporia natives and have called Emporia home for nearly 50 years. Over the years, Janell has channelled her creative — sometimes quirky — side into making her home a reflection of the lives lived within it’s walls. Autumn, especially, is one of her favorite seasons to create a space where friends and family feel welcomed and comfortable. On the following pages, Janell shares a little about her style, what inspires her, and a few tips for making a home unique and personal. SE: What is your signature decorating style? My style is a quirky mix of treasures and momentos that I have collected from places I love and want to remember, like books and maps from New York; Seattle; Cartagena, Spain; Fredericksburg and Round Top, Texas.

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SE: What inspires you when you decorate for fall? Long before the end of the summer I am already dreaming of fall. I am inspired by the smell of the crisp air, fall candles and the vivid outdoor colors. I love working with the warm colors and how the sunlight changes that time of year.

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SE: What makes your style unique? The only thing about my style that might be unique is that my house never looks the same. I love keeping the look of my house fresh by rotating collections with the change of seasons.

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SE: Any common theme that runs through your home? The first thing that comes to mind is gingham! It’s sprinkled throughout my house, upholstery, dishes, ribbon…. I grew up with it and I’m sure that’s probably why I’m drawn to it. Perhaps it’s that connection to my childhood. I’m also attracted to certain things. I get them and they do accumulate. Some collections I have now are crosses, greenery and peace signs. Over the years my family and friends have faithfully seen me through certain phases, like Americana, stars, letters and numbers, and a Jimi Hendrix Woodstock period of decorating.

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SE: Does anybody or any show on HGTV inspire you? I really don’t watch television! Growing up I spent many hours looking at magazines and playing with the Betsy McCall paper dolls and making beautiful paper houses. I really haven’t changed much; and much of my inspiration still comes from magazines. (Some of her favorites include Country Living, Country Home, Mary Englebreit, even though it’s not published anymore, and Sallie Edition, of course!)

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SE: Where are some of your favorite places to shop in Emporia? One of my very favorites was The Sunflower Nook when it was open years ago. But now I shop for my Fiestaware at Second Love/Koch Gifts, my candles at Forget Me Not and I love browsing through Studio 11 and Poehler Antique Mall.

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SE: Do you have any decorating tips to share? My best decorating advice is let your house tell your personal story. Use ordinary things you love, like books, pillows and photos of your family. And have fun with your decorating and don’t worry about trends. They just come and go. Be yourself. Use what you love. You’ll never go wrong with that!

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REFRESH & RELAX Clover Cliff Ranch Bed & Breakfast, owned by Warren and Susie Harshman, offers visitors a chance to step back in time and enjoy the simpler things in life. A relaxing hike through the Flint Hills, a delicious meal served on the sun-filled veranda or moments to revel in 19thcentury gracious living. Each detail of Clover Cliff Ranch Bed & Breakfast is designed to ensure every visitor leaves feeling refreshed. The amenities offered at Clover Cliff has expanded with the recent addition of a new venue at Clover Cliff — the Pavilion. Nestled behind the main house, no expense was spared in its creation. The Pavilion includes a catering kitchen, bathrooms and a large stone fireplace. “It will seat 230 people at round tables,” Susie said. “Lardner Stone matched the stone on The Pavilion with the stone on the main house so it has the same look.” The Harshmans regularly receive requests for weddings, corporate retreats and community events to be hosted at

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Clover Cliff. The creation of The Pavilion was born out of their desire to provide more options for individuals who desired to host events at Clover Cliff. “The Pavilion is a wonderful addition,” Susie said. “We already have weddings scheduled.” Clover Cliff is a place where visitors from near and far are welcomed and made to feel at home. The Pavillion allows more people to enjoy Clover Cliff. “The community has been so good to us for so many years,” Warren said. “We think with The Pavilion we can offer that as a service to churches, high schools, community events. Just a really unique venue for many types of community events.” For individuals planning large events or for those couples looking for a relaxing weekend getaway, Clover Cliff Ranch Bed & Breakfast can meet a variety of needs. Free WiFi, televisions in every room and delicious breakfasts provide a feeling of modern convenience. Four-thousand acres of land to hike and explore, an 18-hole disc golf course, clear skies for stargazing

Warren and Susie Harshman, owners

and horseback riding allow guests to step back in time and cherish simplicity. The main goal for the Harshmans is ensuring each guest leaves feeling refreshed. “We have found a majority of people are overwhelmed with life,” Susie said. “There is so much stress and everyone is busier than they used to be. People just kind of need a refreshing. To come here and relax, get outside, see the stars — they leave rejuvenated.” To schedule a stay or event at Clover Cliff Ranch Bed & Breakfast, visit www.clovercliffranch.com or call 620-343-0621.

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size-fits-all recipe for success, especially for women. We measure success in so many different ways. This year we asked five ladies from the Emporia area to weigh in on what the word “success” means to them. Here is what they had to say:

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Vonna Nelson, 62

Mother of three and and wife to Jesse Nelson, Vonna retired this year from The Emporia School District where she was the discipline secretary for 28 years. I am 62 (will turn 63 next month,) I am married to Jesse Nelson, who is the girls basketball coach at Olpe High School. We have been married for over 40 years. We have three children: Jake who lives in Platte City, Missouri; Jaime, who lives in Emporia; and Jenika who also lives in Emporia. I have four of the greatest grand-children a grandma could ask for. My plans for fall include a few projects around the house, being outside enjoying the beautiful fall weather, doing special things with the grandkids and just enjoying life at a slower pace. Webster’s Dictionary defines “success” as: "the fact of getting or achieving wealth, respect or fame," or "the correct or desired result of an attempt." I have to say that I honestly don't agree with Mr. Webster. It is my belief that success is achieved by being happy. If you are happy, you are successful. Whether you choose to be a stay-athome mom or dad, a child care provider, a custodian, a food service worker, a construction worker, a teacher, banker, nurse, doctor, lawyer, professional athlete, politician or whatever it may be — if you are happy with what you are doing, you are successful. In the 28 years I spent at Emporia High School, I interacted with students in a number of ways. Whether it was assigning lockers, printing schedules or just lending an ear when they had a problem, I always felt good about what I was doing. I was happy helping students, and as a result of that I feel like I was successful.

Joy Frevert, 66

Mother of two and wife to the late Rick Frevert. Joy is a retired first grade teacher in Emporia School District. Success Success is all about trying… We've all heard the saying, "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again.” After 10 tries I got that perfect selfie... After nine tries I passed level 183 on Candy Crush, three stars... After eight tries, I found the document I was looking for, (in the first place I looked)... After seven tries, I threaded the needle for the thread, to work on the quilt my grandmother started "back in the day"... After six tries, I won two dollars and a free scratcher, well, maybe I should have put that one on 10 tries... After five tries, I started the lawnmower... After four tries, I opened the salsa jar... After three tries, I could tell a friend the birthdays of my two children, their spouses and four beautiful grandchildren... After two tries, I remembered the password to my PayPal account (yay, didn't get locked out)... After one try, I remembered the name of one of approximately 750 first graders that passed through my classroom door. Having them recognize me at the store is the best feeling... It takes zero tries to realize how blessed I am and thank God for my healthy life, my loving family and wonderful friends. Success

rOwn Words Paige Bjerkass, 20

Heather Rios, 40

Mother to six children and wife to Eswin Rios, Heather is a foreign language teacher at Village Elementary School.

Mother of three and wife to Eric Hess. Kari is a professor at Emporia State University Dept. of Nursing.

To me, success is unattainable. Success is something that I strive for every single day. I am never satisfied, because I can always do something new or something better. My limits are ever-changing and I am always capable of more than I think. I always find new ways to challenge myself. I have new goals every single day, and even if I achieve those goals, I have more to work on. And I have defeats here and there. But no matter what happens, there is always room to grow. One of my favorite song lyrics is, "Only fools are satisfied," by Billy Joel. And he got it right. I am never satisfied. I always want to do more and better myself. When I am 80 years old and lying on my death bed, and I have done good in the world and felt like I have accomplished things that I never thought possible, then I can say I was successful. But until then, every day is a new challenge and new day to push myself. And I will make mistakes. Mistakes are essential to success. Without mistakes or trials, my abilities to shine would not be shown. I use the idea of success to drive me. Everyday, every trial and every victory is one step closer to me reaching the ultimate goal of success.

When I was younger I had the belief that success was measured by one’s financial wealth — the size of their house, the distance they put between themselves and the town they were raised in, and the objects they acquired. I was mistaken. Success has many different looks and they are all equally vital. It is the child that could barely read a word, but with help learns to read a simple book. It is the immigrant who came to the United States with nothing and built a modest life for himself and his loved ones using hard work and unrelenting dedication. It is the woman who was told she may not walk again for many years, but proved everyone wrong by walking on her own within months. My husband and I have had our own successes in life. In June, I will be finished with my Master’s Degree, something I never thought I would achieve after having children, and my husband will graduate from college — a distant dream blocked by many obstacles that has finally become a reality. But my biggest success in life is my family. As I ride down the road with the window down — my husband in the driver’s seat and my children laughing and telling jokes in the background — it is at that moment that I truly feel successful in life.

While success may be something you acquire as an individual, I personally believe that the individuals who play a role in your daily routine affect one’s ability to achieve their accomplishments or success. There is no doubt in my mind that I would not be the person I am today if I hadn’t received the guidance, love and support given to me by my family. As a person of faith, the same goes for God. Without Him, I would not possess the talents I am blessed to have and, in turn, would not come remotely close to making my dreams my reality. To me, the single greatest determinant of success is happiness. In my opinion, since success is happiness, the most superior ingredient required for leading a successful life is undeniable acceptance of oneself. I find that there is no way to be truly happy if you are not confident in who you are because, as cliché as it sounds, there is really no way for others to believe in you if you don’t first believe in yourself: “The me I see, is the me I will be…” While I believe it’s easy to point out all you are lacking or wish you may have, I feel that overcoming adversity is what greatly determines one’s success. “If it doesn’t challenge you, it can never change you”- Fred Devito.

Student at Emporia State University, studying elementary education with a minor in math. Paige’s career goals include teaching and professional disc golf world champion.

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Pharmacist Jordan Kline, left, and owner Amber Haag.

WOMEN'S HEALTH DESTINATION As women, we spend the majority of our time taking care of others — work, children, pets — which is why Haag Pharmacy is focused on taking care of you as the patient. “We focus heavily on women’s health,” Amber Haag, pharmacist and owner of Haag Pharmacy said. “One of our other pharmacists is Jordan Kline. We are both busy with work and family, too, and thus we are both passionate about women’s health.” Haag and the staff at Haag Pharmacy are realistic. They know how complicated life can be. Finding balance and the time to take care of yourself can seem impossible, but Haag says achieving optimal health is possible. “We believe in working together — the patient, the doctor and the pharmacist — to find the best regimen and outcomes for the patient,” Haag said. Haag and her staff work with patients in a variety of ways with one goal in mind — optimal health. Haag regularly provides individual consultations for women regarding hormone replacement therapy as well as nutritional consults. Individual consultations allow Haag to learn more about the patient and what they are experiencing health-wise to create an individualized treatment regimen. Hormone therapy may not be 72 | EMPORIA LIVING

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for everyone but, Haag says women who come in for individual consultations leave more educated and better able to make the best decision for their health. “Hormones can be kind of alarming for some people, and that is where the education comes in,” Haag said. “I think most of the time after they go through the consultation they either feel really good about it or they decide to go in a different direction. Ultimately, it is the patient's choice and time after time we see tremendous results with almost all of our patients. An important factor Haag considers in all of her consultations is the overall nutrition of the patient. Good nutrition provides a solid groundwork from which to build. Without good nutrition, even the best healthcare isn’t good enough. “We can do all we want with hormones or medication, but if people are not eating right and living an active lifestyle it doesn’t get them to optimal health,” Haag said. “Hormones and medication are just a very small piece of a much bigger picture.” The big picture for women’s health recognizes that each woman is different and unique in her own way. Every woman experiences different stressors, is impacted by unique health issues and lives a differently lifestyle. Haag said the individual

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consultations allow her to learn about the whole person and help develop a plan which is realistic and allows the patient to achieve her health goals. At times, optimal health includes regrouping after a particularly difficult health complication, like breast cancer. Haag Pharmacy is the location for all mastectomy related products. Meredith Smith provides individual consultations for women following a mastectomy. She can assist with all postsurgical needs, including prosthetics and specialized garments such as swimsuits and bras. Haag said following a mastectomy women are not only struggling to regain their health and feel better physically, but also are attempting to feel whole again. Her staff is ready and willing to help. There is a private dressing area at the pharmacy to allow women complete privacy for specialized fittings and products can be specially ordered to meet all needs and expectations. “Insurance does take care of a lot of those products in most cases,” Haag said. “We do have a warm and welcoming environment so women can feel comfortable during fittings. We just really want to help them feel whole again.” As women move through each transition of life, their health needs change. However, Haag Pharmacy is available for women at every stage. “We would like to be the women’s health destination,” Haag said. “We always have someone readily accessible from the moment they walk in the door to help them with whatever they might need.”

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Making a Joyful Noise Worship leaders in Emporia are connecting congregations and the community through song.

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“You have to be able to follow where the Spirit may lead you and take the congregation with you.” —Sarah Jenek

When we gathered eight local worship leaders together at the First Presbyterian Church, it surprised no one when they began singing together, filling the space with glorious music. The harmonies and melodies are at times joyful, wistful and intimate. When the discussion turns to ministering to their congregations, their commitment to serving God through music is loud and clear. “We're ministering the Word of God through song” None of the women gathered today have extensive formal training in vocal music, but all of them are dedicated to using their gifts through the ministry of worship. “I really don't feel like a solo singer; I'm not a professional,” said Erica Manning, one of the worship leaders at Emporia's Church of the New Covenant. “But when it comes to God — you know, it says 'Make a joyful noise!'” So what does it take to be an effective worship leader? All of these women have thought and prayed about this question as they seek to share their gifts with their respective congregations. First and foremost, they agree, is a personal relationship with God. “It's about more than just having a pretty voice and singing to people,” Manning said. “Anybody can have a pretty voice, but if there's no anointing, then that's all it is — a pretty voice. Worship leaders have a responsibility to know God and to know His Word, because we're ministering the Word of God through song.” “You have to be able to follow where the Spirit may lead you and take the congregation with you,” said Sarah Jenek, who is a worship leader at Victory Fellowship, “and still be able to communicate with the band.” “That's true,” agreed Cheryl Doty of First United Methodist Church. “You have to be patient and flexible, because you're working with an AV team, too, so there's a trust factor between every member of the worship team.” Jannie Stubbs from Victory Fellowship chimes in: “You have to be able to communicate that connection to God with the congregation, otherwise it's just a performance. I read an article recently in which the author said 'the best advice I can give young worship leaders is to learn how to make that stage an altar.' That's where you go to worship God and you bring the people with you, you invite them into that sacred space. Worship connects us so people see that the message of Christ is real.” YOU HAVE TO BE AUTHENTIC The women all agree authenticity and connecting with the congregation are keys to a successful worship ministry. It is important to remember worship leaders are also seeking a stronger relationship with God, just like the rest of the congregation, they say; the people on stage are not that different from those singing along. “You have to be authentic,” said Rebekah Green, who also leads worship at Victory Fellowship. “If you're not comfortable in worship, then people will be uncomfortable worshiping with you.”

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“Absolutely,” agreed Melissa Herring from New Life Christian Church. “You have to be humble and transparent. I think a lot of people get an idea in their head that worship leaders are sort of perfect — holier than thou — which is so not true,” she says as the rest of the women laughingly agree. “Part of our job is connecting with the congregation so they can worship with us.” Being a part of — rather than apart from — the congregation facilitates worship. This means being involved beyond singing on Sunday mornings. “You can't just be on stage, then as soon as you're done singing, you're out of there,” Jenek said. “Having a relationship with the congregation makes them more apt to follow you into God's presence during worship.” Worship is an integral part of the body of Christ, according to Brent McCrory, pastor at New Life Christian. "And although the act of worship is more than just singing songs, there is something about singing that brings the congregation together," he said. “The thing about singing is that it’s something everyone can do. Not everyone is going to preach, or participate in the offering…..but singing involves the entire body. “It reminds us of the importance of one another, of the body, and that we are part of something bigger than ourselves.” WORSHIP KEEPS OUR COMMUNITY GOING Worship is a way to connect with those outside of the church as well. These women firmly believe worship extends beyond the walls of the church — it should overflow into the community. “Worship is a response to God, but you have to leave changed,” said Tina Barrett of Twelfth Avenue Baptist Church. “You have to go out into your community and be the hands and feet of Jesus. That is as much a part of worship as standing on stage and singing.”

“You have to go out into your community and be the hands and feet of Jesus.” —Tina Barrett

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In the past few years, these leaders have come together for community-wide interchurch activities such as fundraisers for Shiloh House, a residential ministry for women and children, and the Make a Joyful Noise 5K, which combines a traditional race with worship teams interspersed throughout the course. Emporia pastors, Brent McCrory and Al Areheart both find great encouragement from these community worship events. “The kingdom of God is so much greater than any one of our churches,” says Areheart, pastor at Twelfth Avenue Baptist Church. “There is a sense of unity and affirmation that is palpable when the ‘One Church’ of Emporia area comes together.” Even though there are so many different churches in Emporia, parishioners often forget that, for many of them, their goals really are the same. “But when you have different people gather together, it makes it more real,” says McCrory, pastor at New Life Christian Church. “It makes it more tangible.” USE YOUR GIFTS FOR GOD'S WORK Each of the women gathered today feel convicted and compelled to use their gifts as leaders on stage and off. They cite pastoral support as vital to their ability to step up as women in leadership roles within their congregations. “It’s so important to have pastors who support what we do,” Jenek said. “There are difficult seasons in ministry when it's important to have that pastoral support so you can be the leader God has called you to be.”

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Being a woman in leadership has its challenges, yet not doing so seems anathema to these women. They feel called to lend their voices and their unique traits as women to serve God, and rejoice in doing so. “In the past, I think women have been nervous about taking their God-given role because of social constraints,” Barrett said. “We live in a time now where it doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman, you can use your gifts for God's work.” “I agree,” said Melissa McCrory of New Life Christian Church. “Whatever gifts God gives you, it's important to step up and use them.” Although men are part of the worship teams at all of their churches, they agree women have a unique touch when it comes to serving God through music. “I think women are able to connect to more and different parts of God's heart than maybe men are in touch with,” Green said. “We have that woman's heart, and that's beneficial to all of God's creation.” “We're feelers,” Jenek agreed. But when you go beyond the musical gifts and working with AV teams and connecting with congregations, the song is a simple one. “You know, it's really just about giving glory to God,” Melissa McCrory said while the others nod and murmur their agreement. “That's what it all comes down to, giving glory to God.”

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Ann Jacob sinks a putt while playing a round with her daughter Abigail and Sidney B'Hymer.

GET OUT & PLAY DISC GOLF The disc golf craze has been sweeping the country for some time and Dynamic Discs wants women to know the sport can provide entertainment, health benefits and quality time spent with family. If you’re a woman and have been thinking of a new activity to get involved in, disc golf can be the sport for you. GOOD FOR THE FAMILY Ann Jacob and her family were looking for a family activity when they moved to town from the country. “We have some serious disc golf players in our neighborhood, so my kids became accustomed to the sport quickly,” she said. “Luckily for us, we had baskets and discs available to us from the get-go. Then for awhile, it became a weekly trip to Dynamic Discs to purchase something new. The coolest thing about disc golf is that anyone can play the sport. It's not always about your score, how far you can drive your disc or if you have the best gear. It's about engaging with your children in a positive way.” Karen B’Hymer and her family were introduced to the sport when friends asked her son to play in the Glass Blown Open junior tournament. 82 | EMPORIA LIVING

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“Not only did he enjoy the game, but the rest of us enjoyed it, too,” she said. “Then Dynamic Discs started offering clinics for throwing techniques, which was helpful. It was nice finding a sport the whole family could play. “There aren’t too many activities you can do as a family that don't cost money, while providing exercise. Best of all, disc golf allows us to communicate without distractions. We’ve had some good family conversations out on the course.” Jacob and her family have made special memories while attending disc golf activities in Emporia. “One of the coolest was sitting at the Emporia Country Club watching the professional disc golfers teeing off to their favorite songs blaring in the background,” she said. “My kids thought it was awesome to have the 'best of the best' disc golfers in our hometown while we were on the front row to watch it all. The block parties are also fun and there is nothing better than eating at food trucks, then trying to balance a sno-cone in your hand while competing in the Ring of Fire.” GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH Elisabeth Borg-Bowman, who is a self-proclaimed ‘disc golf

addict’ according to her Facebook page, said disc golf has saved her life. In 2011, she had a freak accident and fell one story, suffering three fractured vertebrae. "I broke my neck and had spinal surgery,” she said. “As I recovered, my disc golfing friends invited me to come walk the course just to exercise, even though I couldn't really throw. I realized I could flick a [disc] without aggravating the muscles that had been severed, and suddenly, I had a sport again. Instead of lying around like a turtle on its back, I was out, moving, playing, socializing and living. Disc golf saved my life." GOOD FOR FUN B’Hymer said she enjoys disc golf because it’s fun for everyone. “All ages and all skill levels can play,” she said. “You get to enjoy the outdoors and enjoy the beautiful parks we have in our town. I am by no means an expert on this sport. It provides exercise, stress relief and helps me work on my patience. I have a lot of room for improvement on my game, but disc golf is so much fun.” Jacob agreed the sport has provided many fun times and memories for her. “Like me, my son found disc golf to be so enjoyable,” she said. “While playing in a tournament several years ago, a photographer snapped an action shot of him while teeing off. That picture is now featured on a Dynamic Discs starter kit sold all over the country in sporting good stores. It’s been fun to see that and he thinks he is famous now.” GOOD FOR TIME WITH FRIENDS Borg-Bowman has made some incredible friendships through the sport of disc golf. “I started playing in the weekly women's disc golf league,” she said. “I convinced another friend to join me and she convinced her friend to sign up. The course layouts were long and hard, but the challenge of learning to play them was a phenomenal bonding experience for the three of us. Some of my best friends to this day are those I’ve made purely because of disc golf.” Borg-Bowman said the sport has also been a great confidence booster. “The disc golf community itself is wonderful and supportive in so many ways,” she said. “Jeremy Rusco of Dynamic Discs has played a big part in getting me and other women more involved. Playing the Glass Blown Open and Trilogy Oppna

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in Emporia were huge turning points for me. Winning the advanced women’s title in a playoff in front of a crowd at the 2016 Trilogy Oppna was a dream come true, because it was my first win in Emporia. “Disc golf has tested my mental, emotional and physical strength. Sometimes I think I should quit because I'm no good. Then I make a good throw or putt, and I'm back in the game.”

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This is My

If you 've driven through Emporia much in recent years, it's likely you've seen her name. Pink "Pray for Addie" signs are still spotted in lawns around town. But after tasting some victory in her seven-year battle with Leukemia, Addie Ortega is a teenager now, enjoying many things that she's missed over the years.

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In many ways Addie Ortega resembles a typical 13-year-old. She enjoys school, especially science. She likes Facetiming her friends and family on her iPad, rooting for KU sports and has gotten into watching the anime series, The Last Airbender. Also, like many teenagers, Addie likes to play the piano. One of her favorite songs to play is “Fight Song,” a song many girls her age know by heart and sing for fun. But for Addie, the song is much more than just a catchy tune. It’s an anthem of sorts for the 13-year-old, who, in January, celebrated a successful bone marrow transplant, the latest victory in her seven-years-long battle with Leukemia. Just like the song says, Addie has been a fighter for a long time and has no plans to stop now. Addie was diagnosed with Acute Lymphocytic Leukemia in November 2009 after exhibiting symptoms including low-grade fever and weight loss. Parents Darren and Jana Ortega took Addie to the doctor in Emporia a couple of times. Eventually they were told to take her to Children’s Mercy in Kansas City. At just 5 years old, she was diagnosed and treatment began right away. Her first round of chemotherapy was completed in January 2012 and Addie was officially in remission. Unfortunately, she relapsed in mid2013, and underwent another series of treatments and blood transfusions before completing treatment in November 2015. Last summer, Addie relapsed for a second time and spent the remainder of the year working toward remission so she could undergo a bone marrow transplant. Just after Thanksgiving 2016, Addie received bone marrow from a donor who was a 100-percent match. “We won't get to meet our donor until a year after the transplant, but I can't wait to meet her,” Jana said. “She gave a life-saving gift to Addie. We were so blessed that Addie had five matches right away, which is unusual. I think people want to help so badly, and that's one way they can help — by getting in the bone marrow registry.” So far, the transplant has been a roaring success. Addie's recovery was quicker than most — she was discharged just 24 days after the procedure — which Jana sees as a testament to the continued prayers of family, friends and supporters. “I truly believe it was the power of prayer through God's people that caused her to do so well,” Jana said. Through this entire battle, a community of supporters have lifted up Addie and her family. From fundraisers to help with travel and medical expenses, to neighbors mowing the lawn while the family had to be away for extended periods to gifts of homemade meals for the exhausted family, the Ortegas are grateful for every bit of support.

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“I'd like to share my story with people, maybe help other kids who have cancer know that they can beat it.”

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During Addie's stays at Children's Mercy, she was able to stay connected with her younger siblings, twins Brayden and Allie, age 10, even though they stayed in Emporia with their grandmother thanks to a thoughtful gift. “One of the things we didn't think about when all of this started was how important it would be for the kids to keep in touch,” Darren said. “Early on, the Newman School of Nursing had a fundraiser and gave Addie an iPad and another one to Brayden and Allie. We can be 100 miles apart, but when she's feeling good, she can Facetime them at their grandma's house or text them or send goofy pictures back and forth.” Addie also keeps up with her friends through Snapchat, and has even made a few new friends through the social media platform.

Fight Song by Rachel Platten

Like a small boat On the ocean Sending big waves Into motion Like how a single word Can make a heart open I might only have one match But I can make an explosion This is my fight song Take back my life song Prove I'm alright song My power's turned on Starting right now I'll be strong (I'll be strong) I'll play my fight song And I don't really care if nobody else believes 'Cause I've still got a lot of fight left in me Know I've still got a lot of fight left in me

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When she's at home, Addie enjoys playing basketball outside with her siblings and friends, and doing arts and crafts. She picked up knitting recently and knit herself a blanket. It's orange, her favorite color. Addie is also a talented artist. She draws and paints with watercolors, having learned by watching YouTube videos. “You can find videos about how to do anything,” she said. Addie and her younger siblings are homeschooled, which allows flexibility for extended medical stays. Addie enjoys science and betrays the first hint of a smile when discussing an experiment she conducted in the kitchen sink. “What were the two things you mixed together that time you caused an explosion in the sink?” Jana asked. Addie's lips twitch as she answers, “Baking soda and vinegar. I also had a balloon. I was trying to blow it up with the chemical reaction. And I did.” As much as she enjoys science, and with a mother who is a nurse, Addie doesn't see a medical career in her future. Instead, she envisions a career as a motivational speaker. “I'd like to share my story with people,” she said, “maybe help other kids who have cancer know that they can beat it.”

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EVOLUTIONARY WELLNESS The Midas Touch has provided the ultimate tanning experience for the past 15 years and has now evolved to set the gold standard in health, beauty and wellness. Manager Amy Ringler said seeing the transformation of the salon has been a wonderful journey. “We started out with sunshine and we know sunshine makes us feel good and look good.” she said. “Through the years, we held on to that idea. As an entrepreneur you watch trends. You look at the market and talk to the community to find out what people want and need.” THETA YOGA The salon has now taken women’s wellness to another level with the addition of several services, including Theta Yoga, which the salon has offered since 2015. “Theta Yoga is Emporia’s yoga studio,” Ringler said. “It’s a place Emporians can come to unwind. We offer different classes, levels and styles of yoga. We have different teachers who come with different certifications, who have practiced for years. I have been practicing over a decade and have been 92 | EMPORIA LIVING

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teaching for close to that. It comes with passion, knowledge and the mission to continue to further our knowledge with new workshops, certifications and guest teachers.”

BEAUTY ANGEL In addition to yoga, Midas Touch now offers Beauty Angel, a rejuvenating red light therapy service which promotes younger, firmer and healthier skin in 90 days. “The Beauty Angel has nothing to do with sunshine at all,” Ringler said. “It’s more of a firming and toning booth. It’s a skin brightening booth that minimizes age spots, sun spots, dark circles under the eyes, scars and stretch marks and helps hair and nails grow faster. It’s fantastic and has its own demographic.” FITBURN AND LIPO-FIT Continuing with the wellness aspect, Ringler said she brought in the FitBurn, a new infrared sauna and Lipo-Fit services for body contouring. “Both make you feel so great,” she said. “The FitBurn is a

30-minute session or treatment. It’s a time you get to give yourself to make you feel better. Some clients will come in and do a hot yoga class that they have chosen from the screen of the monitor, which has a pre-recorded workout library. If they’re wanting more relaxation, they can do that in a warm environment much like the sun, but without it shining on you. “The Lipo-Fit gives you the opportunity to target the area of the body that has been your trouble area. You can choose to shrink your tummy or thighs or any area that has been giving you trouble.” PROMOTING BEAUTY AND WELLNESS Ringler said the Midas Touch staff strives to accommodate the public with fun, educational and healthy ways to promote wellness and beauty. “Yoga has always been my North Star,” she said. “The yoga studio has my heart where the tanning salon has been with our family for 15 years. I’ve gotten to watch it grow and the community here is responsible for its success. The yoga studio came community first, instead of business first. There was a market for it — a community need — with people asking for more yoga. I’m so happy to help provide all of it from the look good, feel good of the tanning salon to the feel good, look great with the yoga studio.” When you hear the name Midas Touch, Ringler wants people to know it means more today than just tanning. “We started out as Midas Touch Golden Tans and it might still be what’s on the marquee out front,” she said. “Midas Touch has evolved to be the gold standard in wellness and beauty. I’m hoping Emporians will learn there’s a lot more to this space. We take our clients’ recommendations into consideration. We're not a corporate business, we are a community business."

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“If it wasn’t for Kelly Maxfield, Emporia just may not be such a fun place to live.” n Emporia native, Kelly is all about bringing good times to the town he’s always called home. Owner of Rollers skating rink and a DJ business, Maxout Entertainment, Kelly's profession fits his personality well. FALL 2017 | 97

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“Entertaining people comes easy for me,” he said. The variety his job offers and the opportunity to work with kids nearly every day is what he likes best, and why he does what he does. Kelly started skating at 2 years old when his dad, Terry Maxfield, bought an old building on West Highway 50 in the early 1970s and opened up Skateland. The Disco Roller Derby fever was in full swing. In the nearly 50 years of operation in Emporia, the rink was moved, remodeled and renamed — Rollers — but it continues to be in the Maxfield family. It is still one of the most popular places in town for end-of-school class parties, birthday celebrations, weekend skating sessions and fun for kids and families alike. As if skating wasn’t enough fun for the 40-yearold, Kelly spends many nights and weekends DJing for weddings, parties, events and, of course, school dances. Collecting music since he was 18 years old, his music library is huge, spanning decades to accommodate all kinds of tastes and event preferences. Personally, however, Kelly’s favorite decade is the 1990s. If you catch him with his earbuds in, it’s likely he’s jamming to The Beastie Boys.

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Front three: Helena Stormont, APRN-C, Mary Warden, APRN-BC, Marcia Hendricks, APRN-C. 2nd row: Patricia Crawley, MD, Krista Ohmie, PA-C, Anna LaSota, DO, Ryan LaSota, MD, Andrew Kneib, PA-C. 3rd row: Michael Lloyd, DO, Tim Harris, DO, Michael Yost, DO, Bryce Heitman, DO, Matthew Turner, MD, Mick Hurley, MD, Derek Brown, MD, Andre Oulai, MD. Inset photo: Dr. Jennifer Esau and Lindsey Garrett, PA-C

MEDICAL CARE FOR ALL STAGES Newman Medical Partners work hard to provide the Emporia community and surrounding areas with world-class care in a local setting. An extension of, but separate from, Newman Regional Health, this group of five clinics specializes in primary care physician visits (Family Medicine), child visits (Pediatrics) and other specialty services such as Cardiology, Surgical Specialists and Orthopedics/Sports Medicine. “Providing access to medical care locally is critical because it strengthens the community,” Lynn Doeden, Clinic Administrator, said. “Newman Medical Partners is made up of compassionate, knowledgeable and skilled providers who are all located conveniently in your hometown, eliminating the need to travel outside of Emporia for your health care needs,” she said. “All 102 | EMPORIA LIVING

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of our providers at Newman Medical Partners understand the importance of local referrals and strive to remain the number one choice of Emporia and the surrounding areas.” NEWMAN CARDIOLOGY When Newman Cardiology opened in 2013, it meant that local cardiology patients no longer had to travel an hour or more for care. Under the services of Dr. Michael Lloyd, Dr. Patricia Crawley, Dr. Mick Hurley, Krista Ohmie, Physician Assistant, and Mary Warden, Nurse Practitioner, the clinic offers diagnostics and specialty care for patients with cardiology conditions. In addition, Newman Regional Health is associated with Saint Luke’s Mid-America Heart Institute in Kansas City, Missouri, to help provide a comprehensive cardiology program for the Emporia community.

Dr. Oulai and Dr. Yost specialize in the diagnostic, medical, surgical and rehabilitative treatment of bones, muscles, joints, ligaments, tendons and nerves for adults and children. They treat a variety of orthopedic conditions and injuries utilizing cutting-edge surgical procedures and non-surgical techniques to ensure the best outcomes. “Our team of providers offer up-to-date surgical procedures with follow-up as well as treatment of a variety of orthopedic needs locally,” Helena Stormont, APRN, said. From sprains and strains to torn ligaments and joint replacements, or even injury prevention, the orthopedic specialists at Newman Orthopedics can help keep you and your family moving. NEWMAN PEDIATRICS At Newman Pediatrics, Dr. Derek Brown provides skillful and nurturing care to children of all ages – from infants and toddlers to pre-teens and adolescents. Combining up-todate scientific medical knowledge with practical aspects of parenting, Dr. Brown works closely with parents to provide a comprehensive care plan for their children, along with experienced advice regarding emotional and safety issues. “At Newman Pediatrics, we are committed to providing your children with the best medical care possible in Lyon and adjacent counties, and hope to establish a long and healthy relationship with your family,” Dr. Brown said. “As parents, you are part of your children’s health care team. Together, we will strive to maintain the emotional and physical health of your children so that they may reach their full potential.” “We’re a fresh program with old-fashioned values,” Dr. Lloyd said. “Old roads, old dogs, old folks and old ways still have a lot to offer in this sped up world we live in. We’re people who value people, providing advanced care with compassion in your neighborhood." NEWMAN FAMILY MEDICINE Emporia families have access to quality health care thanks to Dr. Bryce Heitman, Dr. Jennifer Esau, Dr. Anna LaSota, Dr. Ryan LaSota and Marcia Hendricks, Nurse Practitioner. Newman Family Medicine provides complete family medical care for everyone in your family, offering a range of preventive, urgent and chronic care services. Same-day appointments are often available for sick visits. “Our number one goal is to help you feel better when you are sick and maintain good health in between visit," Dr. Heitman said. NEWMAN ORTHOPEDICS The experienced team at Newman Orthopedics includes Dr. Andre Oulai, Dr. Michael Yost, Lindsey Garrett, Physician Assistant, and Helena Stormont, Nurse Practitioner, along with Andrew Kneib, PA-C, who assists the surgeons with surgical procedures.

NEWMAN SURGICAL SPECIALISTS Skilled surgeons Dr. Timothy Harris and Dr. Matthew Turner diagnose and treat medical conditions that require general surgery right here in Emporia. From breast cancer to hernias, they incorporate innovative therapeutic techniques and stateof-the-art surgical technology to ensure that you receive the most effective care possible. “Our goal is to provide compassionate, caring, state-ofthe-art surgical care close to home,” Dr. Harris said. Before recommending a treatment plan, the doctors evaluate your medical problem in relationship to your overall health, lifestyle, past treatment and future goals, answering your questions along the way. All five clinics and their teams work with Newman Regional Health to provide seamless, local medical care. Whether you're looking for a family physician, orthopedic surgeon or the nearest emergency services, Newman Regional Health and Newman Medical Partners have you covered, right here in Emporia. All the clinics are currently accepting new patients. To learn more about the services, Newman Medical Partners offers, call (620) 343-2376 or use the online search tool at www.newmanrh.org to find a doctor.

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Written by Jessie Wagoner

“Convention” is defined as a way in which something is usually done, especially within a particular area or activity. It’s not hard to believe that many unconventional women have called Lyon County home over the years. Sallie Magazine is partnering with The Lyon County History Center this summer and fall to celebrate these women, women who “skirted convention” in one way or another to forge their own path in the the world. In celebration of Sallie Magazine's 5th anniversary, "Skirting Convention: Tales of Unconventional Women" exhibit will be on display at the LCHS, 711 Commercial Street. The exhibit, sponsored by Sallie Magazine will be on display through the end of 2017.

ere is a sneak peek at some of those Lyon County women visitors will meet on exhibit. You may be surprised at some of the names on the list! “This exhibit is filled with awesome women,” Lisa Soller, curator at the Lyon County History Center, said. “Women who all at one time in their lives lived in Lyon County and went on to be known beyond Lyon County borders.”

Women from Lyon County have made impacts on the world in various forms. Some have been successful businesswomen while others have made their mark in the world of art and fashion. From tattoo artists to actresses, the exhibit celebrates them all. “Each of these women made some impact on the world and became well-known for their talents,” Soller said.

The women of the White family have made their mark nationally and internationally for a variety of reasons. Sallie White started out as one of the youngest teachers in the Kansas City school system, Sallie later met William Allen White, married him, and as a team, they bought and ran the Emporia Gazette. Sallie was known for hospitality, entertaining statesman, authors and publishers at their home, Red Rocks, on Exchange Street. She loved her life in Emporia. "I have been doing the thing I wanted more than anything else in the world," she said.

Mary Hatten White was a school teacher and allowed an African-American child in her classroom. This drew much criticism as it was before the Civil War, but White refused to budge and educated all children regardless of color.

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Barbara White Walker is also well known for her contributions to the publishing industry.

Kathrine Klinkenberg White was a nationally-known editor and publisher. She worked for Time and Life magazines and was known to edit all first drafts of her husband William Lindsay White’s works. She also had the opportunity to fly over New York City with Amelia Earhart.

Maud Wagner is known as one of the first female tattoo artists in the country â&#x20AC;&#x201D; yet she herself had no tattoos. She was also a circus performer and skilled contortionist. Soller said she is best known for skirting convention and being uniquely herself.

This mother-daughter duo became famous for their artistry. Rose Kretsinger was internationally known for her quilting and intricate quilt designs. Her daughter Mary garnered international attention for her exquisite jewelry.

Mona Malden traveled the world acting, but first graced the stage at Emporia State University. She married Karl Malden, also an actor. The couple was known for having one of the longest Hollywood marriages â&#x20AC;&#x201D; more than 60 years.

Thelma Hill lived in Emporia for 10 years before setting her sights on Hollywood. She acted in more than 100 movies and worked with stars like Laurel and Hardy and W.C. Fields.

Belle Livingstone This businesswoman was adopted by her parents after being found in a field under a sunflower. After growing up in Emporia, she ventured off to New York City and found fame and fortune running speakeasys.

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Mary Kretsinger Painting 1959

1880 Jennie Mitchell Kellogg, first woman to be admitted to the Lyon County Bar Association

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1895 Sallie and William Allen White buy the Emporia Gazette.

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1907 Maud Wagner became one of the first female tattoo artists

Mona Greenberg Broadway 1937

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Rose Kretsinger Drawing ca.1900

1924 Thelma Hillerman stage name Thelma Hill Film debut as a bathing girl in the comedy short, Picking Peaches

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1927 Kathrine Klinkenberg White hired by Time Magazine

Rose Kretsinger Drawing ca.1900

In celebration of

Magazine's 5th anniversary...

SKIRTING CONVENTION: Tales of Unconventional Women

exhibit will be on display at the LCHS, 711 Commercial Street.

The exhibit, sponsored by Sallie Magazine will be on display through the end of 2017. 1931 Isabelle Graham AKA Belle Livingstone Escaped a police raid of her speakeasy by running across the rooftop in red pajamas.

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1935 Rose Good Kretsinger Published “The Romance of the Patchwork Quilt”

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1932 Margaret Lowe Burke Opened Marlow Woodcuts in Americus

1937 Mildred Greenberg On tour with a traveling Broadway show

Sunflower Marlow Woodcut

1941 Barbara White Walker Book and movie "Journey for Margaret" released

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1969 Mary Kretsinger Works of art featured in the exhibition "OBJECTS: USA," which opened at the Smithsonian Institution before going on an extensive tour throughout the country.

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1944 Mary L. O’Brien Van Scyoc Simmonds Graduated with the WASP Class 44-10

Helen Ericson with Quilt 1970s

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SALLIE SPOTLIGHT

Owners: Patrick and Cathy Schreiner, Philip Wilson

A CATERED EXPERIENCE It's taken about three years, but Patrick Schreiner, Cathy Schreiner and Philip Wilson are nearing the completion of their plan for a full-service, multi-use nighttime destination in Emporia. “We believe Emporia is truly primed for a growth spurt, and a vibrant nightlife is part of that,” Wilson said. “We saw a need for clean, safe, value-driven establishments, for everyone, not just college students.” After purchasing and reinventing the building at 4th Avenue and Merchant Street, they opened Brickyard 20 Ale House in 2015 as a bar focused on bringing people downtown. Since then, they have expanded the interior space, re-opened the patio, started hosting private events and introduced the Safe Ride Bus to ferry patrons to and from Brickyard 20 safely. Now, they are preparing for the fourth, and final, pre-planned phase. “We worked together with Emporia Main Street and the historical preservation society to save the historical craftsmanship that brings the building to life,” Patrick said. “We're still working on some exterior elements — like the 108 | EMPORIA LIVING

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south-facing brick wall — while work continues on currently unused portions of the interior and, the last major project, bringing the kitchen online.” PHASE 4: THE RESTAURANT The final phase of the partners' plan is Brickyard 20 Restaurant, opening in late summer/early fall 2017. The menu is still under wraps, but they describe it as “classic American fare done in a gastro-pub style”. “The menu is very American. It's comfort food, smart food,” Wilson said. “With good sides,” Patrick added. “It's more than just fries on the side; we'll have options to make the whole meal memorable.” Brickyard 20 Restaurant will start with dinner service, with the potential to expand to lunch and brunch. Diners will be able to enjoy a meal and a beverage prior to enjoying the diversity of entertainment happening each night, including live music and comedy shows.

Changes at the bar are also being made with an eye toward improving the customer experience. Recently, Brickyard 20 Ale House introduced four popular cocktails on tap, shortening the wait time on some of the more labor intensive concoctions without sacrificing quality. “It was the opportunity for us to take what we knew our customers wanted and make it a consistent quality, served fast,” Patrick said. “We're adding three more this fall, then we'll have seven cocktails on tap.” Catering to the college students and younger crowd who frequent the bar, the restaurant will also offer a late night menu until 3:30 or 4 a.m. in the morning. “The idea is that prior to last call, people can order off the late night menu ,so they can hang out on the patio and eat some food after the bar closes, then hop on our bus and get a safe ride home,” Wilson said. “I can't think of anywhere else in the Midwest that has such a catered experience.” EMPORIA'S FULL-SERVICE EVENT SPACE With the opening of the kitchen, Brickyard 20 Ale House becomes a full-service event venue, offering multiple spaces for private parties as well as live music or DJ facilities and on-site catering. Whether a group wants to host a small event in the Red Room or take over the entire building for a large celebration, the building is designed to offer flexibility for a customizable experience. Philip's background as an event planner in Kansas City means he can take a person's vision and implement it for the ultimate celebration. “We have a reception booked for this autumn where the bride wants a balloon drop when they walk through, so we'll have a balloon drop in the middle of the room,” Wilson said. “The bus will pick up the wedding party after the ceremony and take them wherever they want to go to take wedding pictures, meanwhile their guests can be at the bar having hors d'oeuvres, singing karaoke and getting the party started, then the bride and groom can make their grand entrance off the bus before they head to the Red Room for dinner.” Completing the final phase of the Brickyard 20 Ale House project means truly becoming a full-service event facility, which was the original vision for the historic building. “We're excited about giving this old building new life,” Patrick said. “We wanted to be a vibrant addition to the nightlife in Emporia, but we also wanted to give people a unique, affordable facility for weddings, reunions, retirement parties – whatever they're celebrating. It's great to see that being realized.”

402 MERCHANT STREET, EMPORIA, KS 620-208-6084 | WWW.BRICKYARD20ALEHOUSE.COM

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If you’ve purchased a pie from Evora Wheeler, you’ll never forget it. Not only are they known for being the tastiest in town, but they do more than satisfy a sweet tooth. Evora’s pies have raised hundreds of thousands of dollars over the years to help make Emporia a better place to live.

Written by Regina

Murphy Photography by Anna Hedges

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vora is an Emporia treasure. There are few in the county who don't know her pies, which fetch hundreds at charity auctions and are frequent items at the Newman Regional Health Auxiliary's snack bar. Enquiring minds wanted to know, so I called Evora up and spent an afternoon with her as she prepared two pies for the Emporia Main Street auction that evening. Born during the Depression, growing up just south of Emporia, Wheeler was an only child. From those origins, Evora built a family, a career in real estate, a legacy of volunteerism rarely seen and a pie that will break open the tightest wallet. She learned to bake from her mother. “I asked her once how to make the pie crust,” Evora said. “And she said, 'I don't know, I just put the lard in there until it looks right.'” Evora eventually figured it out and has a no-fail recipe … in writing. She works up the flour, shortening and salt with a pastry cutter until almost pea-size. “Some people use an electric mixer,” she said. “But not me.” Evora uses cold water, as do most pastry chefs, to keep the fat from softening. She incorporates it a bit at a time with a spatula, trying to keep movement at a minimum. 112 | EMPORIA LIVING

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“It makes it tough,” she said. Dividing the dough into four balls, Evora flattened one into an oval disc, floured each side and began rolling it out with her rolling pin, which she got at the state fair in 1955. It's a simple, tapered, wooden dowel in the French style. “I really like it,” she said, “because it's graduated out and you can roll to any width you want to.” It's not the only vintage kitchen item that still serves: Evora has a magnificent collection of Fire King, Pyrex, Hamilton Beach and Norge. If it still works, why replace it? Once the crust is shaped and pre-baked, the custards prepared, pies filled and “meringued,” all this is left is to box and deliver — the same day, because these pies are made fresh. There are 15 or 16 different groups she supports with pies for auction, plus her monthly Auxiliary commitment, and Evora occasionally sells her pies by the order at $15. “I can help causes that way, that I could not by giving money,” she said. “I can make pies and, I guess, they bring anywhere from $100 - $350 is the most I've heard. Isn't that just crazy?” Crazy good! “I'm just constantly amazed at people calling me and wanting pies,” Evora said. “I'm not any different than anybody else. Now I hope the good Lord lets me keep doing things like this for years to come.”

Her favorite pie? "Oh gee, I don't have a favorite and I don't eat many sweets because it would put weight on," she said. “I don't think it's good for older people to get heavy, but I like all kinds of pies." Evora, who had been on her feet nonstop for an hour and a half, turned contemplative. "I see people my age or even younger and they can barely get around, and I think how blessed I am." "I have two philosophies, plus my faith in God," Evora said. "PMA: positive mental attitude and keep your mind and your body busy. So, I think that's why I do as well as I do.” Staci Hamman is the current chair of the Granada Theatre Board of Directors. “You don't get any better than Evora,” she said. “I can't even think about her without crying, she's so wonderful. She is so amazing — anything you need for any kind of a fundraiser, Evora is there. “I've served at the soup kitchen with Evora. I've scrubbed tables with her, I've served dinners with her, washed a lot of dishes with her. Everything she does is 100 percent. She's an inspiration.” And the pies? “Her pies are awesome — as a fundraising person, you always know if you have Evora's pies on the auction list that they're going to go high. I'm talking $200 or $300 at least.” Casey Woods is the executive director for Emporia Main Street. “Evora doesn't make a pie for just any event,” Woods said. “She has some favorites, and her pies are famous. People come to events just because her pies are there. They bid on other things, but then the pie bidding just goes crazy.” Which pie would Woods go for? “Chocolate — as high as I need to go. You do whatever is necessary. “It's not just the pies, she's been a person who has volunteered for decades. There's a lot of stuff that just wouldn't exist without Evora. There are a lot of Emporia traditions that, if you trace them back, they start at Evora Wheeler, and she continues to this very day to volunteer and do all sorts of great stuff. I hope to be like Evora Wheeler when I grow up.” Don't we all? What a world that would be.

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Evora's Recipes Evora's Pie Crust (makes four 12-inch crusts)

6 cups all-purpose flour (Evora uses Best Choice) 3 cups butter-flavor shortening (Evora uses Crisco) 1 Tablespoon salt 1 1/2 cups cold water plus more In a large mixing bowl, sprinkle the salt over the flour. Use a pastry cutter to cut the shortening into the flour. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I use butter flavor because it adds color,â&#x20AC;? Evora said. The pastry will coalesce into pea-size crumbs. Switch to a spatula to add the water in, a bit at a time, working gently until a dough forms. Switch to a fork to mash in any dry, unincorporated crumbs. Try to work the dough as little as possible, Finish the dough ball by shaping with hands, then divide into four portions and shape each into a ball. Keep unused dough covered with plastic wrap or a damp towel while rolling out each crust. Trimmings from a finished crust are incorporated into the next dough ball to eliminate waste.

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Evora's Recipes Evora's Custard Pie Filling

For a 12-inch pie (parentheses denotes reduction for a 10-inch pie)

4 cups milk, divided (3 ¾) 2 cups sugar (1 ½) 7 egg yolks (6) 5 Tablespoons cornstarch (4 ½) ½ teaspoon salt (same) 2 Tablespoons margarine or butter

1 Tablespoon vanilla extract For the coconut pie: ¾ cup flaked coconut, plus more for garnish For the chocolate pie: 4 Tablespoons Dutch process cocoa (3)

Separate the yolks from the whites and salt them. Combine the sugar and cornstarch and whisk into the eggs. Adding the milk one cup at a time, whisk thoroughly. Microwave 3 minutes; whisk well. Microwave another 3 minutes; Whisk again.

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Microwave another 3 minutes, whisk, then add the butter and vanilla extract; whisk to incorporate. For the coconut custard, stir in 3/4 cup coconut. Keep a couple of tablespoons more to sprinkle on top of the meringue. For the chocolate pie, put the cocoa in with the egg yolks and whisk, before adding the milk.

Evora's Recipes Meringue

12 egg whites (9) 1/2 cup sugar 1/8 teaspoon cream of tartar Whip the egg whites in a stand mixer, rotating the bowl while slowly adding the cream of tartar. Continue rotating while adding the sugar. Whip until stiff, glossy peaks form.

In Sallie's Kitchen celebrates the culinary history, present and future of Emporia. Regina Murphy has 30 years' experience in a variety of culinary settings and is the Features Editor of The Emporia Gazette. Her regular contributions include "Murphy's Menu" and "Grapes & Grains." Read the comprehensive version of her time with Evora Wheeler at emporiagazette.com.

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SALLIE SPOTLIGHT

Clarice Podrebarac and Dorothy Stevenson

CONNECTING WITH CROSSWINDS It has been a year since CrossWinds Counseling & Wellness changed its name and began an extensive rebranding campaign to increase visibility and promote services to Emporia and the surrounding communities. “The name change and rebranding has gone very well,” said Clarice Podrebarac, Marketing & Outreach Director. “We've had a positive response from the community, our staff, and the people we serve.” Clarice has been with the agency for 23 years, since earning a Bachelor's and Master's degrees in Vocational Rehabilitation Counseling from Emporia State University. A licensed clinician, 118 | EMPORIA LIVING

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she spent several years supervising community services, community support and school-based programs before transitioning to her new position. Spearheading the agency's rebranding is her first large project as Marketing & Outreach Director. The marketing campaign has allowed CrossWinds to connect with the community in different ways, leading to a 24 percent increase in new clients over the past year. Formerly known as the Mental Health Center of East Central Kansas, the rebranding showcases the variety of services CrossWinds offers. “We provide individuals with the tools they need to manage

their own wellness so that they can better cope with the circumstances of everyday life,” Clarice said. “Almost everyone needs help at some point in their lives; we're here to provide it.” A comprehensive study conducted by Guts Branding revealed both strengths and weaknesses. The recommended name change and shift in focus to overall wellness were needed to destigmatize mental health issues and better connect with the communities CrossWinds serves. “It was important to us to highlight counseling because that's more indicative of what we do,” Dorothy Stevenson, Development Specialist, said. “You're going along in life and all of a sudden there's a crosswind that blows you off your path and suddenly you're dealing with depression, anxiety, whatever. We're here to help you get back on your path.” One marketing technique has been particularly beneficial for the agency — mobile billboards in the form of a large fleet of vehicles emblazoned with the CrossWinds logo. The increased visibility often leads to discussions about mental health, bringing it out into the open and helping people feel more comfortable about a topic that has been deemed taboo for too long. “Clarice and I are both working mothers and can relate to the stresses that people are dealing with. I have dealt with postpartum depression after the birth of both of my kids and I know that having someone to talk to is so beneficial.” Dorothy said. “I hope that we are removing some of the stigma, and that people reach out and start the conversation with us.” Accessibility is another key factor in the agency's growth. Previously, staff were based in Emporia and traveling throughout the seven-county service area to meet with clients once or twice a week. It was clear that this practice was ineffective and costly; a change was necessary. “We realized that what we were doing wasn't providing the quality of coverage we strive for,” Clarice said. “So I developed a proposal to set up regional offices with a manager for each so our staff are stationed locally, meeting the needs of our clients five days a week.” CrossWinds has offices in Lyon, Chase, Coffey,

Greenwood, Osage, Wabaunsee, and Morris counties. This ensures consumers can access services without lengthy commutes. CrossWinds has also established school-based programs and is working on expanding services and coverage throughout the seven-county area. “Prevention is so important,” Dorothy explained. Of her nine years at CrossWinds, she spent seven years as a prevention consultant, prior to joining the Marketing team. “One half of mental illness starts by the age of 14, so if we can identify it early and help the kids and families learn how to cope, then that can make such a difference in their lives.” “We serve all ages, from the four year old dealing with a behavior disorder, to the 90 year old struggling with loneliness and depression,” Dorothy said. The National Alliance on Mental Illness reports that 1 in 5 people will experience a time in which they need help with their mental wellness. In the CrossWinds area, that equates to 16,000 people that would benefit from the services they provide, yet only 3,500 people a year reach out to them. The staff at CrossWinds have the services and resources to help individuals better cope with whatever life throws their way. It may be depression or it may be schizophrenia or anything in between. It may be something short-term like dealing with the loss of a parent or a chronic illness that needs consistent support. “We all go through times in our lives when we need some help, there are common everyday issues that everyone faces” Dorothy noted. “We want to destigmatize that and change how people think about the services we offer.” Streamlining processes and increasing efficiencies on the business side allows clinicians and therapists to focus on the real purpose of Crosswinds Counseling & Wellness – serving clients when they are in crisis and at their most vulnerable. “The need is ever increasing,” Clarice said. “Our goal is to be visible in the community so we can connect with before they reach their breaking point.” Chief Executive Officer said of Dorothy and Clarice “They are not just mothers, but they have personal experience with mental health issues and how they affect families. They have a great deal of experience helping people and I am very proud of their efforts. They are fantastic spokespersons for CrossWinds.”

1000 LINCOLN STREET, EMPORIA, KS 620-343-2211 | WWW.CROSSWINDSKS.ORG

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