Engaged Wedding Magazine - April 2009

engaged April 2009

WEDDING DRESS BLISS

Readers’ Corner

Readers tell us how they met

Light Up Your Love Fairy lights and lanterns

Seven Steps to a DIAMONDS CHOOSING THE Flat Stomach BEST DIAMOND FOR YOUR BUDGET

Showcasing four real weddings

PIECE OF MIND

Wedding Insurance

ALL THAT GLITTERS The fabulous Gold Coast

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Cover Credits: Photo by Rob Driessen

For those of you still in the planning stages, our advice this month covers everything from specialised wedding venues to wedding shoes, from holidaying on the Gold Coast to what you can do to get a flat stomach for your wedding day, from lighting and lantern magic to the slightly less sparkly, but just as important, wedding insurance.

Advertising Enquiries: Email: info@engaged.co.nz Phone: 09 8455925 Post: PO Box 137101, Parnell Auckland 1151 Hamilton Media Limited accepts no responsibility for material provided by readers or advertisers. All material supplied is assumed to have been provided with the consent of the appropriate copyright holders Engaged is subject to copyright in its entirety. All rights reserved in material accepted for publication unless initally specified otherwise.

We hear from our real brides with the countdown truly being on for our bride diaries and we find out how some of our readers met.

In addition to the fantastic “win a wedding dress” competition City Bridal and Simply Exquisite are running, there is also the opportunity to win an amazing photography package! Check out our competitions page for details!

Tim & Deborah

Notes from the Editors...

Wedding season is well and truly upon us, with many of you getting married in the last month or two. We hope you are all getting ready for our Bride of the Year competition (run by www. weddings.co.nz and covered by that site and Engaged). We can’t wait to see some gorgeous photos and hear your romantic wedding day stories. We still have a tear in our eyes when we read the entry from last year’s winner!

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THROUGH THE LENS

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PERSONALISED WEDDING WEBSITES

FAVOURITE FAVOURS Ideas for wedding favours

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BRIDE DIARY We follow two brides as they prepare for their wedding day

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PLUS: WIN A WEDDING DRESS VALUED AT $2000

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FLAT OUT Seven tips for a flat tummy

AND WIN A WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY PACKAGE

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LIGHT UP YOUR LOVE Amazing lighting ideas

TOE-TAPPINGLY BEAUTIFUL Gorgeous shoes for your wedding

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ALL THAT GLITTERS Honeymoon on the Gold Coast THREE OF A KIND Celebrating beautiful wedding dresses

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Wedding Shows April

May

Dunedin Wedding Show 5 April 2009 Edgar Centre, Dunedin www.weddingshow.co.nz

Christchurch’s Premier Wedding Expo 3 May 2009 Christchurch Convention Centre, Christchurch www.bridalshows.co.nz

The Wedding Show 19 April 2009 Aotea Centre, Auckland www.weddingshow.co.nz Auckland’s Premier Wedding Expo 19 April 2009 ASB Showgrounds, Auckland www.bridalshows.co.nz Bride & Groom Magazine Show 26 April 2009 Ellerslie Event Centre, Auckland

Nelson’s Premier Wedding Expo 17 May 2009 Trafalgar Centre, Nelson www.bridalshows.co.nz Bay of Plenty Wedding Expo 2009 24 May 2009 Tauranga Racecourse, Tauranga www.tauranga.co.nz/yourlife/events/ Bay+of+Plenty+Wedding+Expo+2009

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The Wedding Show ad Aotea Centre Sunday 19th April 2009 9am - 4pm

Over 2 floors of exhibitors Fashion Shows at 11am & 2pm Gift Bags for the first 100 brides through the doors including a FREE copy of NZ Weddings magazine.

Seminars run every 30 minutes. Hear from some

of Auckland’s

TOP Wedding Professional’s as they share with you all the tips, tricks and inside advice on planning your wedding. No seminars will be repeated, so bring a pen and paper, all of your questions, and get ready for a flood of information.

A $5,000 Diamond Ring One lucky bride will take home a $5000 diamond ring courtesy of Stonz Jewellers. Live draw at 1:30pm. You must be there to WIN it.

PLUS

Live demonstrations, Free bubbly, ‘IMPROVE A GROOM’

workshops for the guys and entertainment by ‘THE MERMAIDS’

Be in to Win the Ultimate Honeymoon Your chance to win the ultimate honeymoon in the stunning “Aitutaki Lagoon Resort and Spa” Discount ticket voucher and full seminar timetable available at www.weddingshow.co.nz

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B ride Diary Kylie & Hooksy Kylie and Hooksy met 18,000kms from home on a hot summers day in London at the NZ Food & Wine Festival (complete with their favourite NZ culinary delights the background). Six years and the sounds of Dave Dobbyn in back home, buying a dog later, after much travelling, moving pped the big question on and a house together, Hooksy po riwai. Kylie is a marketing their favourite west coast beach, Mu Hoosky has his own business manager with Goodman Fielder and as a builder. rried on the 12th of March, As Kylie and Hoosky were getting ma a, provided this entry. It’s a Kylie’s bridesmaid and sister, Davin night! bridesmaid’s perspective of the hens’ anising her hens’ night, I wasn’t “When Kylie put me in charge of org you do with 25 women? Would it entirely sure where to start. What do ering and a night on the town, be a day of beauty treatments, pamp little more racy – pole-dancing or did she want something more a lessons, and a male stripper..? ie and found out that she liked I decided to test the waters with Kyl party and karaoke (definitely no the idea of some sort of dress-up strippers allowed - whew)!!

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Twinkle, twinkle....

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admit it. I have an obsession with lanterns and fairy lights. Chinese lanterns, silk printed lanterns, tea lights in paper bags, candles in simple glass jars. Strung in trees, on wires, in bunches from the ceiling, individually at uneven intervals.

Tiki torches count too. And don’t get me started on candles (that’s for another issue!).

It may be a slight fascination with fire, but mostly I think that the light reflected from lanterns and fairy lights is magical and warm. It glows, just like your love should. OK, now that was a bit soppy (but only a bit, right?).

If you are like me, then you will most definitely be considering fairy lights or lanterns for your wedding. And if you are not, there are still a couple of things you should consider.

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Is it nerves making him pale?

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hink about last time you tried on a bikini in a tiny cubicle. Harsh fluorescent lighting probably had you running from the changing room, muttering about not being seen dead in any swimwear until you lose some weight and get a tan. The same principles work for wedding lighting: whilst your guests are not likely to run out of the reception, there are some lights will flatter you and your guests, making everyone look (and feel) good.

Whether you choose to use candles or specialised lighting, think about the difference between hard and soft lighting and how lighting directs the attention around the room.

Most people relax a bit more in dimmer light: it reminds them of the end of the day, giving that ‘after-work’ feeling as they escape from strong office lighting.

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Photos courtesy of La Lumiere www.fairylights.co.nz

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In the spotlight

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t is helpful to visit your reception venue at least once while it is dark outside. You can check out what lights the venue has: whether any natural light will stream in during the dusk hours, where the existing lights are focused, whether those lights can be dimmed, whether light from areas leading into the reception room will permeate the main area.

Lights can be used to draw attention to an area or, conversely, away from it. Lights at the edge of the ceiling illuminating the walls draw the eye away from the centre of the room. Spotlights will direct your eye to a particular spot. Read about what type of lighting can be used where and think what you want the effect to be before deciding on options.

Through rose-coloured lenses

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ust as some lights work for different purposes, there are some colours that just don’t do a venue or the guests justice. For example, olive greens can make a room look murky, which is probably not the look you are going for at a wedding reception.

For lighting that goes through the whole room try tones that go with all skin colours. Soft golden or pinky hues help to set a soft, romantic mood. These can be deepened to oranges or darker pinks when the dancing starts.

Or for a winter wedding, you may like to try a wall of icy blue lights, with flickering white lanterns on the tables.

Ask your lighting co-ordinator what they would recommend for the venue and how colour changes can be achieved. Many lights can be pre-programmed.

Lighting al fresco

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hilst daylight savings can limit the amount of time your lights will be used for, outdoor lighting and lanterns can be truly special. Think of a big, sprawling tree with fairy lights strung through it or strings of brightly coloured lanterns. The lights will look like they are floating above your guests’ heads.

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or highlighting a path. Paper bags with sand and a tea-light candle make cheap, effective lanterns for this purpose.

Power up

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heck with your reception venue if they have any limitations with respect to available power points or electricity loading. You will also need to do this at home – remember all the extra electricity you will be using for spare refrigerators, the band’s instruments and so on – the last thing you want is to literally blow all the fuses!

Expert Assistance If you decide that you need extra lighting after checking out the available lighting at your venue, you may need to contact a lighting specialist. Ask at the venue to see if they have any recommendations. Anyone who has worked at the venue will know what works and that will make it easier for them to make suggestions.

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The terms you need to know…

It can be slightly easier to make decisions about lighting if you know what you like and need. These are some common types of lights: A pin spot is a focused beam of light designed to shines directly onto something, for example, the cake.

A colour wash creates the effect of covering a specific area with coloured light. Think of a wall of icy blue light behind the head table.

Gobos are stencils that are put over a light, projecting a design or pattern, pretty much like the ‘bat’ light used in Gotham City. Whilst the bat light probably isn’t appropriate for your wedding, we are sure you can use your imagination to come up with some wedding-appropriate gobos!

For the greenies amongst us LED lights are proving popular. They use less electricity and don’t get as hot. Used for colour changes, in strands or for accent lights, some are even wireless – think of the possibilities!

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WIN YOUR WEDDING DRESS! City Bridal is giving you the chance to win a wedding dress to the value of $2000 from its City Bride range!

To enter, just print out the entry form, fill it in and drop it off at one of City Bridal’s stands at any of the following Auckland wedding shows: Bride & Groom Show Sunday 26 April 2009, Ellerslie Event Centre, Ellerslie Racecourse The Wedding Show (the Simply Exquisite stand) Sunday 19 April 2009, Aotea Centre, Auckland Central Auckland’s Premier Wedding Expo Sunday 19 April 2009, ASB Showgrounds, Auckland

Click here for the entry form PLUS: Visit www.weddings.co.nz for a chance to enter a second draw for another $2000 wedding dress!

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On Show This month Engaged talks to Lisa Charteris from The Wedding Show about her show at the Aotea Centre in Auckland on the 19th of April and the Dunedin Wedding Show on the 5th of April.

Engaged: Why did you start The Wedding Show? Aren’t all shows created equal?

I wanted to provide a show from a female’s point of view. I realised how important it was for brides to have a show that was just a little different: one that wasn’t designed for the masses. I

wanted to be proud of every supplier that was featured and to make sure it would be a show where brides could find worthwhile, interesting information about those high quality suppliers.

Engaged: How long have you been involved in wedding shows? I have been managing wedding shows for five years.

Engaged: What makes your show stand out from the others and what can brides expect from The Wedding

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Show on the 19th of April? We have some fantastic things on offer at the show this year...where to start?

Firstly, there are the prizes: Stonz Jewellers have provided a $5,000 diamond ring, which the brides can see and try on before the prize is drawn. The prize will be drawn at 1.30pm on stage (you need to be there to win it)! We also have a $2,500 entertainment package and an amazing honeymoon package to Rarotonga including accommodation, spa treatments - pure bliss!

Secondly, we are offering some truly informative 30-minute seminars, which we believe is a first for bridal shows! Brides (and grooms) can hear advice from Auckland’s top professional wedding planners, videographers, caterers, photographers, and theming specialists and will get the chance to ask questions after the seminar.

It’s a great opportunity for brides to ask those questions they always wanted to know in a ‘sales-pitch-free’ environment.

And there’s also a big possibility that brides find out something they didn’t know they needed to know! No seminars will be repeated, so brides should make sure they are there early, bring a pen and paper, all their questions and get ready for some of the best advice you will hear all year! For a full seminar timetable, go to www.weddingshow.co.nz.

Thirdly, and also a first, are our ‘Improve-a-Groom’ workshops. Sometimes the groom gets a little ‘lost’ in the wedding preparations and on the day, so these workshops are designed to give the guys advice on how they can stand out, what they can do to surprise their partner to make her feel like a goddess, tips on speeches and so on. Nick Logan, who is running the seminars, has asked brides-to-be what they want and, boys, here’s your answer!

And there’s more: two stunning fashion shows, live demonstrations, free magazines including M2 for the guys, entertainment from ‘The Mermaids’...

Engaged: So, are there show bags?

What kind of goodies can the brides nab at your show? We have had some fantastic products provided.

The first 100 brides in the door receive a gift bag containing products from the Simuolive ‘Olive’ range, Vera Wang fragrance and moisturiser, spa vouchers, make-up, a free NZ Weddings magazine.... And all brides get free Alan Scott bubbles!

Engaged: You are also doing The Wedding Show in Dunedin on the 5th of April. Tell us a little more about that. The Dunedin show is being held at the Edgar Centre and will feature over 60 exhibitors. We will be having fashion shows and the ‘Improve-aGroom’ seminars, but this show will also have something truly different: MoreFM has been running a radio promotion where couples have sent in their ideas for a unusual proposal.

The top five ideas were chosen and these proposals carried out (and videoed) in real life. The videos were placed on MoreFM’s website and the public got to vote for their favourite proposal. The winning couple were advised on Monday the 30th of March that they had won a $40,000 wedding package provided by the exhibitors at The Wedding Show and that they would be getting married at the show on the 5th of April!

This ring is up for grabs!

The Auckland Show is on at the Aotea Centre, Auckland on Sunday 19 April 2009 from 9am until 4pm. Free parking is available.

The Dunedin Show is on at the Edgar Centre, Dunedin on Sunday 5 April from 10am until 4pm.

Tickets are available at the door.

For discount vouchers and more information see www.weddingshow. co.nz.

The Wedding Show Timetable 9.00am: Doors Open The first 100 brides receive a gift bag PLUS a free copy of NZ Weddings Magazine.

10.00am - 3.00pm: Seminars Seminars running every half an hour until 3.00pm. Hear some of Auckland’s top wedding professionals share tips, tricks and inside secrets to give you the advantage in planning your wedding. Seminars will NOT be repeated, so get there early with a notepad and pen and plenty of questions!

11.00am: Fashion Show 1.30pm: Diamond Ring Draw The stunning $5,000 Stonz Jewelers Diamond Ring will be drawn live. If you’re not there, you can’t win it! Be there to claim the prize, or it will be redrawn.

2.00pm: 2nd Fashion Show PLUS: “Improve-a-groom” Seminars Morning and afternoon sessions, and limited capacity. This is a chance for your wonderful man to get even better! These are brief workshops designed to encourage grooms to ‘be the man’ when it comes to their wedding day. Ideas and inspiration to get him excited about planning your big day, plus tips on how to write the best speech of his life! live demonstrations free bubbly; and entertainment from ‘The Mermaids’

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The Specialist s I

n this month’s venue focus, we take a look at New Zealand’s specialised wedding venues.

These venues focus mainly on weddings or conferences. Set up to cater for these types of functions, they provide a very specialised type of service.

Know Thy Place

Being specifically designed to cater for large groups, the specialised venue staff know what works and what can (and can’t!) be done to make your day special. Can you have horses on the property? Would they be able to scatter rose petals in the entrance to the venue? Is there a place to string fairy lights?

Ask and you shall find out the answer immediately!

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Sole Focus

Without accommodation to reserve or wine to make, the specialised venue has one focus: your wedding. The wedding co-ordinator at the property will be dedicated to making your wedding special. Their reputation is on the line: a good reputation for organising and hosting a wedding is everything as they generally do not have other business income to fall back on. This ‘care factor’ extends to everyone at the business, which translates into excellent service for you!

Part y On

As the venue should only be having one wedding per day, there are no other guests (other than the ones from your wedding!) to consider.

Timing is Everyt hing

Specialised venues understand timing: they realise that the ceremony may go longer than expected or that photo time may run slightly over schedule. The staff at the venue can ensure that things run smoothly.

Also, many specialised venues are set up for you to have the ceremony, photos and reception in the one place. This means that you will get to spend more time with your guests!

wedding & events centre A Unique All-Weather Wedding and Function Venue.

Situated 35 minutes from Auckland, like a green jewel set amongst 20 landscaped hectares at Bombay, this secluded venue provides a one-stop facility.

Features include: - Chapel - Reception rooms for dining and dance - Numerous photograph settings - a photographers delight!

- Professional caterers who can design specific menus to suit your requirements be it Buffet, BBQ, Cocktail Style or Table d’Hote.

Phone: 09 2360510 Email: ngaire@footbridge.co.nz

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Limit at ions

Like hotels, specialised venues may have limitations on you using the services of outside providers, such as caterers or florists. Make sure that you check this before you book.

They also may have restrictions on alcohol provided for the wedding.

If you would like to bring your own wine or champagne, make sure you clarify the BYO policy and pricing.

Transport

Transport to and from the venue will only be a problem if the venue is located in an area outside the city limits. As a responsible host you should consider transport options and ask the venue what they would recommend. Hiring a bus is always preferable to having your guests drive after they have consumed a few!

Some Venues to Consider....

Mantells, Auckland Footbridge Lodge, Bombay Hills Trusts Stadium, Auckland The Commerce Club of Auckland, Auckland Auckland Conference Centre @ The Edge, Auckland

Komodo Parnell Function Centre, Auckland Nathan Homestead, Manurewa, Auckland Maraetai Beach Boating Club, Auckland Carringtons, Auckland Auckland’s Floating Pavilion, Auckland

Butterfly Creek, Auckland

Beaufords in Totara Park, Auckland

Montressor’s Function Centre, Auckland

Bucklands Beach Yacht Club, Auckland

Cassels, Waitakere Ranges

Auckland Club, Auckland

Alexandra Park Function Centre, Auckland

Harbour Function Centre, Auckland

Cotter House, Auckland Tipapa Special Events Centre, Whitford, Auckland Browns Bay Marine Centre, Auckland Sky City Auckland Convention Centre, Auckland

Auckland’s Waitakere Estate, Auckland The Wharf, Auckland Bruce Mason Centre, Auckland Castaways Functions and Events Centre, Waiuku, Auckland Ellerslie Event Centre, Auckland

St Matthews-in-the-City, Auckland

Romfords, Auckland

Riverside Matakana, Auckland

The Kelliher Estate, Puketutu Island

Rotorua Convention Centre, Rotorua

The Boatshed, Wellington

Energy Events Centre, Rotorua

Turnball House Large Gallery, Wellington

Waikato Stadium, Hamilton

The Woolshed, Wellington

Gails of Tamahere, Hamilton

Firth Hall, Wellington

The Station, Hamilton

Wellington Rowing Club Function Centre, Wellington

Woodlands Function Centre, Gordonton, Hamilton Wellington Airport Conference Centre, Wellington Wellington Conference Centre, Wellington Erskine Weddings and Events, Wellington

Botanic Gardens Begonia House Foyer, Wellington Miramar Links Conference and Function Centre, Wellington Christchurch Westpac Arena, Christchurch

Antrim House Dockside, Wellington

Christchurch Town Hall for Performing Arts, Christchurch

Te Papa Icon Function Centre, Wellington

AMI Stadium, Christchurch

Stella Maris Chapel and Conference Centre, Wellington Dransfield House, Wellington

Christchurch Convention Centre, Christchurch

Wilton house, Wellington

Shantytown, Greymouth

Caravella Lounge, Wellington Azzurra Room, Wellington

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Flat Out

Seven Secrets to a Flatter Tum!

Who doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t want a leaner stomach on their big day? We all look on in envy as some people maintain a slimmer belly throughout life and look stunning especially on their wedding day.

Well, we all know how important it is to eat right and exercise. That part is no secret. We know this is needed if we truly want to create a lean stomach as well as a healthy body. This article is not on how to exercise or eat right to reduce fat around your stomach, but rather share with you some tips to feel less bloated and start you on your way to a leaner belly so your wedding dress hugs all the right places (so yes, you must start eating right and working out too!).

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Cut back on salt and increase your water intake

Avoid salt and highly processed foods as the more sodium you eat the more you will retain water which makes you feel bloated and look puffy in the face (remember how you look after a dinner of instant noodles or pizza!). It can also contribute to a higher number on the scales as you retain this extra water weight.

To compensate for this, consume more water on a regular basis throughout the day and especially leading up to your wedding day.

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Gulping air

Eating too quickly, gulping down drinks and chewing gum are some of the things that can contribute to a bloated stomach. Make sure you eat in a relaxed environment, eat mindfully and chew your food thoroughly before swallowing. Avoid sipping drinks through straws, instead sipping from a glass or a small-mouthed sipper bottle.

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Stress

As your stress levels grow in the weeks leading up to your big day, be mindful of how this affects your tum. Have you had an important event in the past where you were really nervous? Did your stomach literally ache and you may have had to rush to the loo from all your nerves? When you are stressed, cortisol is released (a stress hormone) and this can cause your bowels and stomach to start contracting which leads to bloating.

Then the vicious cycle begins; you feel stressed, you crave comfort foods (high fatty and processed foods), get more bloated, create more stress and so on!

Look at various ways you can manage your stress levels, such as exercising, regular massages, talking to your girlfriends about any anxiety you may be feeling and reduce stress-related eating.

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Cut back on fruit (yes, you read correctly!)

You have probably heard of people being lactose intolerant, but some

people are also fructose (a sugar enzyme that is present in all fruits) intolerant. If you regularly consume a lot of fruit (several portions per day) then you may experience more gas and bloating after eating. Monitor your intake and see if it affects your stomach (and bowels!).

Adjust this accordingly for the days leading up to your big day.

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Lactose-Intolerant

Some people notice that they have more abdominal discomfort after consuming dairy foods. They have trouble digesting the milk sugar â&#x20AC;&#x153;lactoseâ&#x20AC;? as they do not make enough of an enzyme (lactase) that is needed to break down lactose. Lactose not broken down gets passed to the colon where it turns to uncomfortable gas.

If you find that eating or consuming dairy makes you uncomfortable, try switching to an alternative or keep a diary to monitor your reaction. As before, adjust your intake leading up to your big day if this is an issue.

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Move your body

To have a healthy body, you need to move it. This is no surprise, but you might not know that you should move your body regularly to combat constipation which is a big contributor to belly bloat.

Start exercising (walking is fine) for a minimum of 30-35 minutes at least 3-4 times per week. This will help your digestion (move your food through your digestive tract) function better and not to mention make you look and feel better on your big day.

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Gas causing foods

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cause gas are legumes, broccoli, cabbage, cauliflower, onions, citrus foods, eggs and fatty foods.

Also, when you start to increase your intake of fiber you may find you are more bloated and a bit more gassy than usual. Persevere and it will soon subside. Look at your eating and how it affects you and then be mindful of these things closer to your wedding.

This article was written by Nalisha Patel of Health Mastery. For your FREE report: â&#x20AC;&#x153;14 secrets to being a Radiant, Slim Bride on your Big Day!â&#x20AC;? go to www.healthmastery. co.nz/Brides.

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Celebrate

DJ.co.nz DJ by Nick Logan

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Insure Your

Love

As much as we hate to get super-serious, there are times when a frank, realistic talk about what can go wrong at a wedding is needed. But, as per our usual approach to life, instead of focusing on the problems, we focus on a very good solution: wedding insurance.

Step one: What does wedding insurance cover?

Cover varies from policy to policy and insurer to insurer, so it is important that you read the fine print. We try to explain the basics here…

There are a couple of insurance providers who have specific wedding policies: Insuranz Direct and Wedsure. These wedding-focused policies tend to cover not only cover for the major aspects of the wedding, but also the planning of the wedding. They provide cover for: ◊ Expenses incurred in cancelling the wedding; ◊ Expenses incurred in rearranging the wedding; ◊ Expenses incurred when a supplier fails to provide services or product; Page 36 : engaged : April 2009

◊ Legal expenses; ◊ Personal liability; ◊ Loss or damage.

Step two: What’s included in each item of cover and when does it kick in?

As advised above, each policy does differ. To give you an idea as to what is covered, we have set out some examples below based on the policy offered

by Insuranz Direct. These, however, are only examples and may have changed since this article was published. Accordingly, you need to make sure you discuss your own policy with the provider.

Expenses incurred in cancelling the wedding: Insuranz Direct’s policy will cover cancellation or postponement of a wedding due to events like an illness, adverse weather or the officiating registrar or minister not showing up. These reasons will trigger cover for any cancellation fees for a booked venue.

Expenses incurred in rearranging the wedding: There may be extra fees payable for rearranging a cancelled wedding and your policy should cover this.

Expenses incurred when a supplier fails to provide services or a product: In the current economic client, a lot of brides and grooms are concerned about booking a business to supply goods or services so far in advance. With many businesses struggling, the worry is that the business will still be operating at the time of the wedding. This category covers failure of pre-booked suppliers following bankruptcy or liquidation and will include reimbursement of any non-recoverable deposits and additional costs in arranging alternative (and equivalent) services.

Legal expenses: Legal expenses usually means the costs of taking legal action against someone responsible for personal injury or death at or in conjunction with your wedding.

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expenses that are incurred (with their prior written consent) in the investigation, settlement or defence of any claim made against you.

Loss or damage: This will vary from policy to policy, but for Insuranz Direct, loss or damage includes cover for loss or damage to ceremonial/bridal attire, wedding gifts (including cash and vouchers), rings, flowers, the cake, wedding cars and transport, photography and videography and marquee cover. Note, however, that some companies do not include the dress and rings under their cover as they assume that it is already covered by your home and contents insurance.

Make sure that you clarify this prior to taking out cover.

Step three: How much is covered?

Policy limits will vary, depending on the insurer and the level of cover taken out. Your needs will vary, depending on the cost of your venue hire, your dress etc.

For example, Insuranz Directâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s policy covers venue cancellation fees up to $30,000 and damage to your dress/bridal attire up to $15,000.

Work out how much you are paying for each item and see whether the policy you are considering will cover these costs in the event of something going wrong.

Step four: How much does it cost?

We all bemoan having to pay insurance costs: that is until something goes wrong. Wedding insurance premiums can be a lot cheaper than you think, especially given that the average price of a wedding in New Zealand is estimated to be in the order of $30,000. Mid range premiums of $300+GST represent only 1% of the total cost.

So, like all forms of insurance, it is a case of weighing up the cost of something going wrong with your wedding (either in the planning stage or on the day itself) versus the cost of the insurance. The piece of mind afforded by having insurance is also something that you should consider, especially since planning a wedding is stressful enough in itself!

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by Rob Driessen

After the amazing response that we received from last month’s “Love Your Dress” spread, we have decided to continue showcasing real brides with real dresses.

Over the next few months, we will be inviting selected photographers to submit a spread of their photos which they consider showcase their beautiful brides.

This month, we are fortunate to have a selection from Rob Driessen, a renowned photographer based in Wellington.

He has chosen to showcase four weddings, with three images from each wedding.

This provides a real insight into each wedding and illustrates the different character of each of the weddings.

Enjoy!

Previous page and next two photos: Kelly Deighton and Justin Matijasevich, married in Wellington on 29 November 2008. Kelly’s dress is from Brides on Thorndon in Wellington.

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These two pages and next page: Hayley Weldon and Ben Coulter, married at Pauatahanui on 1 March 2008. Hayleyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s dress is from Jan Yeh Couture.

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Previous three photos: Catherine Bryant and Frank Stacey, married in Carterton, Wairarapa on 28 February 2009. Catherineâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s dress is by Pat Williams.

Next three photos: Fleur Park and Hayden Hopgood, married at Terrace Downs, Methven on 8 November 2008. Fleurâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s dress is from Louise Anderson Bridal Designs.

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Personalised wedding websites are a great way to get all of the details of your wedding to your friends and family. What is a personalised wedding website? Well, they are just that - mini websites (based around a template) which you can personalise with all of your wedding details.

You can use them to post photos, videoes, blogs; publish stories on how you met or how your planning is going; let guests know which date to save; provide details and directions to the wedding ceremony and venue; create a wedding gift registry; invite people to the wedding and to keep a record of RSVPs; advise about accommodation options; decide on seating charts; let guests comment in your guest book... the list is endless!

There are lots out there to choose from. Some of them are free, while others charge for the service. It is worthwhile having a good look around before you commit to one - once you send the details to your friends and family, it will be inconvenient to change to another one. So make sure at the outset that the one you choose has all of the features that you think you might want.

We have been scouting around and have done a quick comparison of the five most popular personalised wedding sites to get you started:

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are pleased that we supported a less than buying one off the shelf. We it still didn’t cost the earth. local, up-and-coming designer and shoes were much more expensive On the other hand, my wedding se days seem to be made in China buying locally made. All shoes the ult. I wanted flat wedding shoes so and are relatively inexpensive as a res the garden path (during the outdoor that I could go from walking down ay without a care. A search in some ceremony) to dancing the night aw t left me a bit disheartened. I found big name shops and on the interne d gorgeous. I was sold and just wante one pair on the internet that looked buying. to make sure the size was right before got lost searching for the shop and I headed out one lunch break and Much to my amazement they had stumbled across another shoe store. after, but I resisted trying them on as a similar style shoe to the one I was other pair. After some searching I I had already fallen in love with the on the shoe my size. Unfortunately, found the shop I was after and tried , not comfortable. It had a hard toe such a beautiful looking shoe was and they had no more sizes slightly which my big toe pushed up to, ages, trying to make myself believe larger. I walked around the shop for er reading some shoe reviews that that they could be comfortable. Aft day, and if they are comfortable said to try on shoes at the end of the y will be comfortable right through when your feet are swollen, then the not. I was devastated. my wedding day. These shoes were

I headed back to the first store I After a hopeless bridezilla moment, They were amazingly comfortable, found and tried on the similar shoes. istant was the shoe maker and he and I came to learn that the sales ass in front. I was excited that this was made the shoes behind the shop porting local business. The shoes line with my sustainability idea of sup imported from China, but they were cost the same as the others I found e maker, and I arranged for him to custom-made to my feet by the sho dence that there was no way they move the strap slightly to lift my confi wedding dance. would accidently slip off during the ing invitations out and searching for Apart from finally getting the wedd s’ aids has started organising the hen shoes and rings, one of my bridesm king up some invitations to email and night. She has done a great job ma girls’ night out!” post out. I’m looking forward to a fun

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avours can range from monogrammed candles, champagne bubble bottles to something a little different like personalized napkins or even place mats with photos of the bride and groom along with the date. It is also fun to have edible favours.

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raditionally, wedding favours were five white sugared almonds representing health, wealth, happiness, fertility and long life, and the sugared almonds themselves represented the sweet coating the bitter, symbolic of married life. If you care about your guestsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; dental health then you might want to look at a more memorable expression of appreciation to your guests!

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hy not scatter Hershey kisses all over the table and let your guests nibble away at them? Or another option is pick a favourite sweet like M&Ms and take out the colour you want to use and package them in a clear bag with ribbon in your color theme.

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f money is tight, why not consider baking small shortbread biscuits dipped in dark chocolate and putting them on the tables in small colored boxes? The shortbread can be made a few days in advance and stored in air-tight containers. This is a particularly nice idea if you have a family member you want to honour through food; like if your family always has your grandmother’s cookies for special occasions but she is no longer alive to make them herself. Make sure you share your stories with the guests who might not understand.

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f your wedding has a theme you might be able to think of a food-related favour that goes with that theme. If your theme is ‘hot and spicy’ with Cajun food as your meal perhaps a tiny bottle of Tabasco would be a good idea – it’s something the guests

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y personal favourite is the chocolate truffle but you may wish to entice your guests with a beautifully presented gianduja gold dust heart, a whisky truffle fig or, for something a little different, hand-made mice in dark, milk and white chocolate. For more information on these items please contact Chocolate Brown, Queenstown.

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The prize cannot be exchanged for cash. The competition finishes at midnight on 26 May 2009 and the winner will be notified by email within 1 week of the closing date. The judgeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s decision is final and no correspondence will be entered into. The winner's details will be provided to Unique Wedding Photography Ltd for them to get in touch with the winner.

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Through the Lens

Showcasing Photographic Excellence

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Rob Driessen Photography

Website: www.rdphotography.co.nz Master NZ Institute of Professional Photography

Email: rob@rdphotography.co.nz Phone: 04 479 7769 Wellington

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Photography by Gary Hewlett Website: www.garyhewlett.com Email: info@garyhewlett.com Phone: 09 521 7269 Mobile: 021 439 538 Master NZ Institute of Professional Photography Auckland

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John-Paul Pochin Website: www.WeddingPhotography.co.nz

Email: John-Paul@WeddingPhotography.co.nz Mobile: 021 623 207 Nelson, Top of South Island

Veronica Gunn Photography

Website: www.veronicagunn.co.nz Email: photographer@veronicagunn.co.nz Phone: 04 976 4493 Mobile: 021 239 2991 BDes Photography, Hon. Wellington

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My FW has a two-year-old son from her previous relationship. We are not sure how he will be at the wedding... Should we have him there? You need to talk to your FW to see if she wants him there and also consider the child’s feelings: what if he sees the wedding photos in a few years and feels ‘left out’? If he is attending, perhaps one of his grandparents or aunties or uncles could look after him?

I would like to keep my maiden name as I have an established business and a lot of my reputation is based on my name. I am not sure my husband-to-be or my future in-laws are going to like that though. It is a good idea to discuss your thoughts with your partner and his parents and emphasize that you mean no disrespect. Explain your reasons. Also consider whether you could use your maiden name for business and your married name at social functions. At the same time think about whether any children will take your name or your husband’s or a hyphenated version. All of these things need to be talked through with your husband so that you are on the same page.

Things are a little bit tight for us at the moment and we don’t think we will be able to afford a honeymoon straight after the wedding. Can we wait until later?

Need Advice?

More and more couples are postponing their honeymoon to a time that suits them (and their finances!) better. Instead, you could have a night at a hotel the night of the wedding as a compromise and to do something special to mark the occasion. You might also want to check out the last issue of Engaged, where we talk about honeymoon gift registries - the ultimate gift!

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Should I send a thank you note to the celebrant? She did an excellent job. Of course! Everyone loves to receive a note of thanks! Some people would argue that payment for services is thank you enough, but if the celebrant made your wedding day extra special, then it would be a lovely touch to send a card.

What is the correct etiquette for wedding gifts? Should we take them to the reception? Traditionally gifts should be sent or delivered to the bride’s (or her parent’s) house. However, this option is not always convenient and many guests simply bring their gift to the reception. The reception should have a gift table available. Guests can leave the gift on the table for the bride and groom to open the next day (or later if they are going on honeymoon). The bride and groom should ensure that someone keeps an eye on the gifts. This may be a trusted relative or friend or one of the venue staff members. Gifts can be transferred to a safe, locked room at the venue if appropriate. Some etiquette books recommend that the best man check the table periodically for envelopes (containing money) and put those in a very safe place right away.

If you have any questions you would like answered, please email us at info@ engaged.co.nz.

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It’s kind of a long sto ry. We met ten years ago when we were both at High School - me at a girls ’ school and him at a boys’ school. He was dating one of my best friends and I just thought he was a nice guy and was happy for her (they had been friends for a long time). They were going out for ab out a year before deciding that they w ere better off as friends.

Since then he’d alw ays been around ou r group of friends. At th e same parties... 18th birthdays, 21sts etc...

I’d always had a little crush on him (and as it turned out this was a reciprocal crush).

He remembers engine ering to sit next to m e at the 18th and 21 birthday parties for m st y best friend (his ex an d still one of his best He apparently tried friends). to woo me with his kn owledge of Opera (s I’m a singer) and the ince Russian language (b ecause he thought th impress me). I remem at’s ber trying not to look at him or pay much because I thought he at tention didn’t like me.

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ong stretches of golden sand, fun parks galore, fantastic shopping, perfect weather...no wonder New Zealanders love the Gold Coast!

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ocated on the east coast of Australia, the Gold Coast covers an area from Coolangatta on the Queensland/New South Wales border to half-way to Queensland’s capital city, Brisbane. It has long been a tourist mecca for Kiwis, being only at short 3-4 hour flight away.

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e spent a week on the Gold Coast recently, checking out what’s new and some old, but improved, favourites.

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ne thing most people notice about the Gold Coast is the ever-present building work.

It seems like a new hotel, resort or apartment building is popping up every five minutes. A recent addition to the skyline is the giant Q1 Resort and Spa. Billed as the world’s tallest residental tower, Q1 stands at 322.5 metres high (or 80 storeys). It’s well worth a visit to the building’s observation deck, which has 360 degree views of the coast.

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rom Q1 you get an amazing view of the sandy beaches

the Gold Coast is famous for. The beaches are one thing that never changes: golden sands plus great surf plus sunshine equals a beach-lover’s dream holiday.

Waterides. Simulated surf beaches.

V8 supercars. Vampires (apparently really hot right now!).

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hat more can we say?

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ne thing many visitors overlook is the Coast’s amazing Hinterland area. Mount Tamborine is just 25 kilometres from the heart of the Gold Coast. Visit for the arts and crafts, markets, bush walks, horse rides, antiques and collectables or for hang gliding - the views are absolutely stunning!

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lightly further from the coast is Binna Burra, in the Lamington National Park. Bush walkers will love the native flora and fauna with 16 recommended walks. Adrenalin junkies will love the abseiling, flying fox and confidence course.

House of fun

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reamworld.

Movieworld.

Seaworld. Wet ‘n’ Wild. Australian Outback Spectacular.

Currumbin Wildlife Sanctuary. WhiteWater World.

Dracula’s Haunted House.

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oller coasters. Stunt shows. Giant drops. Towers of Terror. Dolphins.

Crocodiles.

Shark encounters.

Performing horses.

Waterslides.

Water sports

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nd don’t forget the water sports.

Aside from surfing, boaties can take advantage of the Gold Coast Seaway‘s 270km of navigatable waterways. Hire a tinnie, a jet ski, a BBQ boat, or for the ultimate fun weekend, a houseboat. You can even get married on the water in the Gold Coast’s floating chapel!

Shop 'til you drop

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or those of you wanting some serious retail therapy, you can’t go past the Gold Coast. Shopping at Pacific Fair is rivalled by discount shopping at Harbour Town and the markets at Carrara, and then there are all the malls in between: Robina Town Centre, Australia Fair, Westfield Helensvale to name a few.

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he Gold Coast truly does have it all!

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GETTING MARRIED IN Australia

Within 18 months of your proposed marriage, and no later than one month and one day prior to it, you must give a completed Notice of Intended Marriage form to the authorised marriage celebrant who is to conduct your marriage ceremony. All marriage celebrants should have the necessary paper work to perform your marriage. You will need your birth certificates (originals) and evidence that

any prior marriage has been dissolved by either death or divorce.

It is possible to shorten the minimum notice time for a marriage to less than a month if certain circumstances are met.

The marriage celebrant will issue you with a prescribed Form 15 marriage certificate after your wedding as evidence of your marriage.

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CURRENCY: 1 New Zealand Dollar = approximately 82 Australian cents LANGUAGE: English TIME ZONE: The Gold Coast in Australia 2 hours beind New Zealand (3 during New Zealandâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s daylight savings period) FLIGHT TIME: Approximately 3-4 hours flight time

The Ministry of Foreign Affairs and Trade provides advice on the security risks of travelling to certain countries. Before making travel arrangements, we suggest you check with www.safetravel.govt.nz.

Travel insurance is always recommended and you should check the details of your policy to ensure it covers your destination.

You have the choice of flying into Gold Coast Airport (OOL ) at Coolangatta or into Brisbane (BNE).

You should ensure your proposed celebrant is authorised as a marriage celebrant by checking the Register of Marriage Celebrants or the List of Authorised Marriage Celebrants.

Please ensure this information is correct at the time of your application by making enquiries with Australian authorities. You should also check www.nzembassy.com, www.dia.govt.nz and www.ag.gov.au.

Air New Zealand flies from Auckland to Gold Coast and from Auckland, Wellington and Christchurch to Brisbane.

Qantas flies from Auckland and , Wellington to Brisbane.

Virgin Blue fly from Auckland to Gold Coast and Brisbane, and from Wellington and Christchurch to Brisbane.

Jetstar will start services between Auckland and Gold Coast from 28 April 2009 and also fly Christchurch to Brisbane and Gold Coast.

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Competitions & Giveaways City Bridal is running an amazing competition - they are giving you the chance to win a wedding dress of your choice to the value of $2000 from their City Bride range!

To enter, you just need to print out the entry form from this issue of Engaged and take that along to either City Bridal's stand or Simply Exquisite's stand at any one of the Auckland wedding shows listed on the entry form. Too easy!

(Also note that there is a chance to go into a second draw for another wedding dress on www.weddings.co.nz!) www.citybridal.co.nz www.simplyexquisiteonline.com

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Win four great DVDs! We have a DVD pack containing ‘27 Dresses’, ‘Father of the Bride’, ‘Corpse Bride’ and ‘Monster-in-Law’ to give away.

Get wedding fever right on your own couch!

Unique Wedding Photography Ltd is running an amazing competition they are giving you the chance to win their Half Day Wedding Photography Package.

To enter, you just need print out the entry form from the this issue of Engaged and take that along to Unique Wedding Photography’s studio at 204 Broadway Newmarket, Auckland.

And for your second chance go to www.weddings.co.nz and answer the questions to win! www.uniqueweddingltd.com

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WINNERS!

Well, you’re all winners really, but here’s who won the competitions from the March issue of Engaged!

evolu Rose Hip Oil Rebecca Goldsmith, Kirby Meyrick, Jane Pilkington, Hayley Thorpe, Tania Mamea, Arlene Young, Angela Beaumont, Tania Wafer, Anisha Macleod, Heather Catterall, Kaylie Bradley, Amy Clements Ken Ring’s Predict Weather 2009 Kirsten Bamfield

How to Enter

To be in the draw for these great prizes is easy! We will be drawing the prizes on 28 April 2009 and everyone who is subscribed to receive our email newsletter at the time is automatically in the draw for all of the prizes on these pages (except for the City Bridal and Unique Wedding Photography Ltd competitions which you need to enter separately)...

If you are already signed up, you don’t need to do anything - you are in the draw!

If you haven’t signed up yet, go to www.engaged.co.nz and enter your name and email address to receive our email newsletter - it’s as simple as that!

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