BY ANN MEAD ASH
TCelebrating 50 years of service
o celebrate the 50 years that the Intercourse Library has been providing a variety of services to local cardholders, board members and library staff members are planning a full year of activities combined with the goal of raising $50,000 for the organization.
“In January, there was a kickoff event with doughnuts and coffee, and there’s a historical display with information (about the library),” shared Intercourse Library board of trustees member Tammy McCauley.
The creation of the library, which opened as a reading room in 1975, was originally spearheaded by the Intercourse Lions Club. The club sought and received permission from the Pequea Valley School District to use an empty one-room schoolhouse as a satellite location of the Lancaster Public Library. By 1988, the reading center had become an independent entity
named the Intercourse Public Library and boasted a collection of 21,000 items in 900 square feet. In 2001, the name was changed to the Pequea Valley Public Library. By 2004, the need for more space was clear, and a capital campaign was instituted, which resulted in a new 9,500-square-foot building located at 31 Center St., Intercourse, opening in 2007. In 2021, the board voted to restore the name Intercourse Library.
A branch library is located at 835 Houston Run Drive, Gap, in Salisbury Township.
During the month of February, the library will emphasize technology with an expert visiting each Friday to help those who need support with a new device. On Thursday, Feb. 20, at 9:30 a.m., genealogy website expert Sue Gregg will give a presentation. A special room in the library, which is dedicated to local history, may also be utilized for genealogy research by appointment. “(The room) has all kinds of really cool
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to Monica DePaul,
production of “The Hunchback of Notre Dame,” the musical based on the 1831 Victor Hugo classic contains an important lesson
for audience members. “I think they’re going to hear the lesson in such a beautiful way with gorgeous music,” said DePaul,
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BY FRANCINE FULTON
“I wouldn’t pass up the chance to make my girls feel special and important. They love getting to pick out new outfits and get all dolled up,” said Chris Martz when describing the Daddy-Daughter Dance offered annually at Freedom Life Church. “I just enjoy watching them get to cut loose and not have a care in the world. If they are having a blast, then I’m having a blast.”
“I enjoy the dance because it’s a special time with my daughters,”
added Josh Kauffman. “I enjoy not only seeing my girls smile, laugh and have fun but (also) love seeing all the other men enjoying the special moment with their daughters. It’s a blessing having a church that puts this on for men to connect in a special way with their daughters.”
This year’s “Enchanted” DaddyDaughter Dance will be held on Friday, Feb. 21, at the church, located at 789 Gap Newport Pike, Atglen. The event will be hosted by the FL Kids Team, the church’s youth group, and admission is free.
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Looking forward to celebrating the 50th anniversary of the Intercourse Library are (from left) Heidi Kunkel, Paris Smoker, and Tammy McCauley.
The cast of Cavod Theatre’s “The Hunchback of Notre Dame” rehearses a number from the show.
Freedom Life Church
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Girls are welcome to attend the event with their fathers, grandfathers or uncles.
The doors will open at 6:30 p.m., and refreshments will be available, and guests will be encouraged to stop by the photo booth for a memento of the evening. The party will follow on the dance floor, which will be located in the church auditorium.
When fathers and daughters were asked their favorite part of the Daddy-Daughter Dance, many expressed similar feelings as Martz and Kauffman.
“(My favorite part is) dancing with my daughter, (Addison), and watching her have fun,” said Herb Turk.
“I love to pick out a new dress and getting dressed up,” said Addison. “I get to dance with my daddy and my friends, too.”
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Julian Jenkins said he enjoys watching his daughters, Jaclyn and Joslyn, dance with their friends.
“(When I asked what their favorite part of the dance was), Jaclyn and Joslyn said everything - from the decorations to the food, even the little trinkets,” said Jenkins. “They absolutely love the photo ops with Dad, and food is (also) a big winner.”
Steve Bowman said he also enjoys the food and “when they play nice songs for dads and daughters to dance.” His daughter, Char, said her favorite part is the food and “getting to go out with Dad.”
Jon Miller attends the dance with his daughter, Maddie, who was less than a year old at her first dance.
“What I like the most is that even though Maddie is still considered a baby, my wife goes and picks out the prettiest dress for her and makes me wear a tie,” he shared. “I also liked the interaction of having all the other men there. The girls are still able to go and dance, and for me, I’m able to socialize with other men who don’t prefer to dance. But each year I look forward to taking Maddie to the dance; we know it will only get better the older she gets.”
Kurt Manges said he enjoys the one-on-one time with his daughter, Selah. “It makes her feel special, and (I enjoy) the fellowship with the other dads,” said Manges.
“I like the opportunity to have a daddy-daughter date more than just go out to dinner. An actual dance is cool,” added Nate Woods.
“I think the best part is having the opportunity to show my daughter how she should be courted when she becomes of age and allowed to date, which is 30 years old, by the way.”
For more information about the Daddy-Daughter
Dance and to preregister, visit www.freedom.life/ upcoming-events. A link to register is also available at www.facebook.com/ freedomlife.tv. Those with questions may email info@freedom.life or call 610-593-5959.
Girls enjoyed dressing up in their best outfits at last year’s event.
Homeschool program sets banquet
Crossroads Community Homeschool will host its fourth annual fundraising banquet on Thursday, March 13, at Springside Barn, 1294 Weaverland Road, East Earl. The event will feature dinner, entertainment, and fundraising to support the school’s mission of providing hands-on, Christ-centered education.
Doors will open at 5 p.m., with a silent auction running from 5 to 6:55 p.m. Dinner, catered by Yoder’s Catering, will be served at 6 p.m., followed by entertainment at 7 p.m. This year’s event will feature Jacob the Amish Comedian from “Don’t Tell the Bishop.” Jacob is a social media personality with thousands of followers
Program to focus on local artist
The Historical Society of Salisbury Township will meet on Thursday, Feb. 20, at 7 p.m. at the Salisbury Township Building, 5581 Old Philadelphia Pike, Gap.
The program will be “Discovering Susie Riehl.”
Gloria Mast, a local art historian and materials scholar, will speak about the artworks of Susie Riehl, an Amish resident of Salisbury Township who recently passed away at the age of 75.
known for his humorous take on Amish culture and daily life.
Tickets include dinner, entertainment, and access to the silent auction. Seating is limited, and reservations are required. All proceeds will benefit Crossroads Community Homeschool, supporting educational programs and student learning experiences.
Businesses and individuals are invited to contribute items or services for the silent auction. Sponsorships are also available.
To purchase tickets or to donate or become a sponsor, contact Mandi Sensenig at PTO@cross roadshomeschool.org or 717-392-9711. Donations and sponsorship commitments must be confirmed
by Thursday, Feb. 27. Crossroads Community Homeschool, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization founded in 2021, serves nearly 60 students from Lancaster and Berks counties through a hybrid homeschool model that blends academic instruction with hands-on, real-life learning experiences. Students participate in activities such as gardening, sewing, baking, self-defense, and archery, fostering responsibility, collaboration, and practical skills.
The school currently serves kindergarten through eighth-grade students and is preparing to expand in the 2025-26 academic year to include prekindergarten and the relaunch of high school classes.
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treasures,” noted McCauley. In addition, the library has education-based virtual reality headsets that can be used by school children and homeschool families by appointment.
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• Kohlrabi
• Broccoli
• Cauliflower
• Swiss Chard
• Kale
• Collards
• Spinach Plants
Movie Madness will be the theme for the library’s March celebration. Movie titles, dates, and times will be announced via the library website at https:// intercourselib.org.
A fundraiser dinner dubbed “Feast for the Future” will be held in April. “It will be a fundraising event for the future of the library,” explained McCauley, who noted that dinners have been popular in the past. The dinner will be held at the Olde Mill Restaurant in Intercourse. The meal will be prepared by Chef Ty and his team. McCauley pointed out that funds raised by the dinner
will be designated to cover a variety of needs, including programs, staffing, and building maintenance. “We will need to replace all the aging computers this year,” she stated, noting that the library carpets are nearly 20 years old. More information about the dinner will be available on the library website in the near future.
For May, the theme will be “Authors and Artists,” and organizers have lined up a few local creators to give presentations. Award-winning author Shawn Smucker will speak, as will family members of the late artist Milton Denlinger; Denlinger’s family will bring some paintings along. The library is also working with Osceola Mill House to hold an event focused on the art of Delores Hackenberger, who once lived at Osceola Mill. Watch the library website for dates and times for these events.
The Summer Reading Program will kick off in June with a Family Fun Day on Saturday, June 7. As in the past, the event will feature a scavenger hunt, rock painting, and free food, and young readers will be encouraged to sign up for library cards as well as to
participate in the Summer Reading Program.
In celebration of the Lancaster County Lafayette Bicentennial, the library has connected with Zachary Stoltzfus, who has a doctorate in modern European history from Florida State University, with a focus on French history. Stoltzfus will present a talk on Lafayette at the library on Saturday, July 12, at a to-be-determined time.
“Authors and Artists” will return in August with author John Wasserman, former game warden, talking about his books, which are popular with hunters and with members of the Plain community. The date of this event will be announced via the website.
To celebrate September, the library will focus on fall with a “Johnny Appleseed”-themed event involving apples and books.
The library’s Run for Reading 5K will return on Saturday, Oct. 11. Race-day registration and packet pickup will begin at the library at 8:45 a.m. The run will start at 10 a.m.
In November, the library’s 50th anniversary celebration gala will be
Fire company sets potpie dinner
Hand-in-Hand Fire Company, 313 Enterprise Drive, Bird-in-Hand, will host its annual chicken potpie dinner on Saturday, Feb. 22, from 10:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. or until sold out. Takeouts will be available beginning at 9 a.m. Potpie will also be available to purchase by the quart. Complimentary delivery will be available in a 4-mile radius at 11 a.m. and 4 p.m.
The chicken potpie recipe incorporates locally sourced, pasture-raised chicken; homemade stock enriched with local herbs
and botanicals; and freshmade pie dough noodles rolled on-site. The menu also include peas, pepper cabbage, applesauce, rolls with apple butter, homemade pie and ice cream, coffee and a cold beverage.
For those who dine in, there is a discount for children ages 3 to 10, and children under age 3 will be admitted at no charge. Proceeds of the event will help to provide funds for equipment and training materials for the fire company.
For more details, visit www.bihfire.com/pot-pie/.
Junior fair board to form
The New Holland Fair invites youths ages 13 to 18 to join the junior fair board. An organizational meeting will be held on Wednesday, Feb. 26, at 6 p.m. at 101 W.
Franklin St., New Holland. The junior fair board will meet for 60 to 90 minutes one evening per month beginning in March to prepare for fair week.
held. McCauley noted that the library has held gala events in the stacks since 2012, but this year’s gala will be held elsewhere.
Each year, the Intercourse Library partners with the Intercourse Merchants Association to host holiday festivities during December. In 2024, a dozen sheds were set in a circle on the grass at the library, and a variety of crafters sold their wares under a Christmas light display. Food trucks were also located at the library, and a cookie competition was held.
Catherine O’Sullivan, director of the Intercourse Library, stated that library usage increased significantly over the last year. “We had a 27,000 (item checkout) increase in circulation numbers for Intercourse and Gap during the calendar year of 2024 as compared to 2023,” she noted. McCauley added that the number of items checked out in the last year was nearly 207,500. “For us, that’s a lot,” reported O’Sullivan.
McCauley added that the growth points to the need for increased funds. “We need more staff and resources,” she said.
Amputee Support Group to meet
Lancaster Rehabilitation Hospital, 675 Good Drive, Lancaster, will host an Amputee Support Group meeting on the last Wednesday of each month from 6 to 7 p.m. in the day room. The next meeting will take place on Feb. 26. For more information or to sign up for updates, call Jessica Schenk, clinical liaison, at 717-406-3091.
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who noted that she expects the more than 40 cast members to be “incredibly engaged and give powerful performances.”
“The Hunchback of Notre Dame,” featuring songs from the Disney animated feature, will be presented at the Cavod Theatre, 641 W. Main St., New Holland, with a dinner theater at 6 p.m. on Friday, Feb. 28. The show will also be performed at 7 p.m. on Friday, March 7; at 2 and 7 p.m. on Saturdays, March 1 and March 8; and at 4 p.m. on Sundays, March 2 and 9.
The show opens with the pealing of the bells at the cathedral of Notre Dame in 15th-century Paris. Quasimodo, the deformed bell-ringer played by Ric Weaver, is kept captive by duplicitous caretaker Dom Claude Frollo, played by Caleb Heckman. When Quasimodo escapes for a day, he learns about the cruelty of the world outside his bell tower, and is rescued from a dangerous situation by a beautiful Romani woman, Esmeralda, played by Jacqui Schaeffer. Quasimodo is drawn to her, but he is not her only admirer.
Program to focus on spring gardening
Women’s Garden Club of Lancaster County will hold a meeting on Thursday, Feb. 27, from 1 to 3 p.m. at St. Thomas Episcopal Church, 301 St. Thomas Road, Lancaster.
Dana Mead, a Lancaster County Master Gardener, will present “Wake Up and Plan Your Garden.” Mead will speak about waking up a garden in the spring, including pruning, what plants to add or remove, and tips to benefit plants and pollinators.
Guests may attend for a donation. For more information, email Kathy at KRASgardener@yahoo .com. Information about the club is available by visiting www.womensgarden cluboflancastercounty.com or searching for “Women’s Garden Club of Lancaster County” on Facebook.
Both the handsome Captain Phoebus, played by Mitch King, and Frollo are smitten as well, and the three compete for Esmeralda’s favor. When Frollo decides to destroy the Roma, Quasimodo must take action to save his love.
The themes of the show represent a bit of a departure from Cavod’s usual family fare. “We have interesting challenges to find a show that actors will want to be a part of and that audiences want to see and (that meets) the values and standards of Cavod,” said DePaul, who added that while she loves lighthearted and fun shows, Cavod also endeavors to present cautionary tales.
“There’s a time and place for shows that will make you think, and this show is more that,” explained
DePaul, referring to the age-13-and-up recommendation for children attending. “The theme is that we are all capable of beautiful, wonderful things, but also of terrible things,” she said. “When we forget that, we’re in trouble.”
One challenge of staging the show was discerning the best set presentation. “(We had the problem of) how to create a cathedral, bell tower, city streets, a tavern,” said DePaul. To solve that issue, an unusual triangular staging was utilized. “To do set changes, we will have a three-sided set piece that will be turned,” she explained.
“The actors will be part of the story telling, explaining where we are as they move the set pieces.”
DePaul noted that a choir will provide the soundtrack
of what is happening on stage. “It’s very traditional - as if you went to Catholic Mass in the 1400s,” said DePaul, who noted that choir members have risen to the challenge of learning the Latin lyrics.
According to DePaul, the goal is to convey the lesson contained within the show by using the set, actors, and music to the fullest extent. “We are utilizing the set and the theater to immerse the audience in the storytelling in a way I don’t think we’ve ever done,” she noted, adding that actors will be singing and dancing through the aisles and doing the set changing. “I think it will be interesting and beautiful to watch.”
Tickets may be purchased at www.cavod.org or by calling 717-354-3355.
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Global headwear exhibition posted
The Phillips Museum of Art at Franklin & Marshall College will present the exhibit “The Global Language of Headwear: Cultural Identity, Rites of Passage, and Spirituality” through Thursday, April 24. The exhibit presents 89 hats and headdresses selected from a private collection of more than 1,300 pieces of international headwear.
The exhibition features hats from 42 countries across Asia, Africa, Europe, the Middle East, North America, and
South America, and it is a tribute to the diversity of the world’s cultures. With a few exceptions, the pieces are from the mid- to late 20th century, and many are still worn today in parts of the world for revelry, ritual, and the rhythms of everyday life. They exhibit a profusion of shapes, styles, and materials, as well as the ingenious use of embellishments. The exhibit is organized into five thematic sections: Cultural Identity; Power, Prestige and Status; Ceremonies and Celebrations; Spiritual Beliefs;
and Protection.
The exhibit was curated by Stacey Miller, an independent curator of ethnographic headwear. She has spent more than 30 years collecting and researching the cultural significance of hats and headdresses. Since 2000, she has delivered educational programs, lectured, hosted special events, and curated numerous exhibitions based on her collection. Her long-term vision is to establish a museum of world cultures as a way to promote cross-cultural interest and understanding.
Museum admission and programs are free. Phillips Museum of Art’s open hours through April 24 will be noon to 4 p.m. on Tuesdays through Sundays except during spring recess, Saturday, March 8, through Sunday, March 16. The Phillips Museum of Art is located in Steinman College Center, 628 College Ave., Lancaster. For more information, visit www.fandm.edu/ phillips-museum.
“The Global Language of Headwear” was jointly organized by Miller and International Arts & Artists, Washington, D.C.
Boating safety course posted
The U.S. Coast Guard Auxiliary Flotilla 19-04 of Lancaster will conduct a Pennsylvania Fish and Boat Commission-approved Safe Boating Course on Saturday, March 8, at the Hamilton Park United Church of Christ, 1210 Maple Ave., Lancaster. The course will be held from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m., with registration starting at 7:45 a.m.
Attendees who pass the test at the end of the course will be eligible to apply for a Pennsylvania Safe Boating Card. For further information, contact Rick Young at 717-538-1675 or rry100@psu.edu.
Thurs., March 20, 6:30 PM
Join us for an unforgettable evening at this year’s REAL Life banquet! This special event offers a unique opportunity to introduce someone new to our vibrant community. The night will feature powerful testimonies from individuals whose lives have been transformed by REAL Life, as well as a celebration of the connections that make our community truly impactful. Come reflect on how far we’ve come and get inspired for the exciting work still ahead. Your presence is a testament to the difference we’re making—together. Don’t miss it!
To save your seat or for more information, call 717-336-7797 or visit our website at www.reallcs.org.
Once married to the man who took the lives of innocent children in the tragic Nickel Mines School shooting, Marie will share how she experienced majestic deliverance, unending compassion, breathtaking forgiveness, and grace-filled redemption amid deep sorrow and destruction. Marie’s journey has been invaded with light that shines through her story into the darkest questions we all face—about our past, our value, our identity, and our powerlessness in this fallen world. Hear about the incomprehensible love God has for all of us, even amidst tragic circumstances, and the redemptive love of Christ. Accept the love that begs to be received. Come hear not just her story, but God’s story for you. For tickets or more information, call 717-336-7797 or visit our website at www.reallcs.org.
HURRY! Ticket sales end 3/4/24.
HURRY! Registration ends 3/3/25.
Keynote Speaker: Marie Monville
A Han child’s hat from China made of silk, cotton, and embroidery
A Kayapo or Mekranoti headdress from Brazil made of feathers, cotton, and reed
Extension to offer health-focused training
Penn State Extension has released an updated version of the Walk by Faith train-the-trainer educational program, offered in partnership with the Penn State Cancer Institute. A training for organizations will be offered on Thursday, March 13, from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. in the basement training room at the Farm and Home Center, 1383 Arcadia Road, Lancaster.
Walk by Faith is a community-based program designed to encourage a healthy lifestyle that includes walking, with the goal of helping participants become more physically active and reduce their cancer risk. The program can be tailored to fit the needs and wants of the community where it is being presented.
During the program, participants set and track personal health goals, supplemented by educational sessions intended to provide additional motivation
and support. The toolkit offers resources for educational and motivational presentations, guidance for setting healthy lifestyle and activity goals, and group activities to encourage physical activity and healthy eating.
The curriculum writers noted that local community organizations implementing the program can reach individuals of various education levels, employment types, and incomes. These community organizations also can provide social support and reinforcement to members, especially if they share a common goal of wanting to change health behaviors.
To register for the training, visit https://extension .psu.edu/walk-by-faith -instructor-training-for -organizations. For more information about the Walk by Faith program, visit https://extension. psu.edu/walk-by-faith -program-information.
CHRISTIAN FELLOWSHIP CHURCH: 758 Spruce Rd., New Holland 717-354-8428. “Building Community with Christ, to Impact a World without Christ” Pastor: Dr. Doug Bozung. Please go to cfcnewholland.org/visit for information concerning worship services, adult ministries, youth & children’s ministries.
LIGHTHOUSE CHURCH (AG): Located at 1279 Main St., East Earl, invites you to join us for a time of contemporary worship and biblical preaching at our 9am service on Sunday mornings and 7pm service on Wednesday evenings. Kids ministry for birth through 5th grade and youth ministry for 6th through 12th grade is available. Lead Pastor: Stephen Ritchey. For more information on our services and programs, visit us online at Lighthouseag.com
MIDDLE OCTORARA PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH: 1199 Valley Road Quarryville. Sunday Services: Sunday School 9 AM; Blended Worship 10:30 AM. 717-786-3402 Visit us online at www.middleoctorara.org
MT. EDEN EVANGELICAL LUTHERAN CHURCH: 1241 May Post Office Rd., Quarryville, (5 mi. South of Strasburg, 3 mi. North of 372). Rev. Margaret Rohnacher, Pastor. Sunday worship service 9:30 am. Limited handicap accessibility. 717-786-7565 mtedenlutheranchurch@gmail.com
OUR LADY OF LOURDES Catholic Church: 150 Water Street, New Holland, PA 17557 Father Steven Fauser, Pastor. Visit us online at www.ourladyoflourdesnh.com Sunday 8am & 10:30am. Saturday 5pm. Weekday Mass: Mon., Tues., Thurs. & Fri. 9am.
PARKESBURG WORD OF FAITH CHURCH Sunday Service 10 am & Wednesday prayer at 7:30 pm - at 501 Lenover Rd., Parkesburg, PA 19365. Call 610-593-2277 www.parkesburgwordoffaith.org
SALEM EVANGELICAL REFORMED CHURCH HELLERS (founded 1725 / Independent / Reformed / Member of Evangelical Assoc. EARCCC), 2555 Horseshoe Rd. Lancaster. Sunday Worship 9:25 AM, Sunday School for all ages 10:45 AM. Children Welcome! Communion 1st Sunday of the month. 717-656-9249 www.salemhellers.com
ST. STEPHEN REFORMED CHURCH
(Presbyterian Church In America): “A Beacon on the Hill.” The Word of God is central to our worship. Sunday worship at 8:15 and 10:30am with Kingdom’s kids and nursery provided for the 10:30 service. Sunday school for all ages at 9:30am. Choir sings the last Sunday of each month. Youth group on Sundays at 6:00 pm for grades 6th-12th. Lead Pastor: Rev. Dr. Andrew DiNardo. 249 East Main Street, New Holland. 717-354-7871. http://ststephenpca.org
Please Note: Updates can be made to your church’s listing for 1st issue date of each month only.
(Changes must be submitted by the previous Wednesday.) For More Information On Church Listings And Rates, Call Justin at 717-492-2533
BY JEFF FALK
Providing care for incapacitated wives and husbands is a huge commitment and an even bigger undertaking. The act can be physically, mentally and emotionally taxing.
But who cares for the caregiver? Oftentimes, that responsibility falls to the caregivers themselves.
Well Spouse Association is a support group that recognizes that caregiving husbands and wives are more effective when they are healthy.
“This is our therapy,” said Barry Applebaum, the founder of the Lancaster chapter of Well Spouse Association. “This is our respite. This is a way to talk to people who know what we’re going through. Sometimes it’s for the friendships that we make.”
“When you become a spousal caregiver, it’s uniquely different,” continued Applebaum. “It has unique challenges. That person was someone you communicated with. ... But it’s not the same person. You learn to love and care in a different way.”
The Lancaster branch of Well Spouse Association meets at 7 p.m. on the second and fourth Wednesdays of every month. The support group for spouses who are taking care of significant others meets via Zoom on the second Wednesday and at Wegmans, 2000 Crossings Blvd., Lancaster, on the fourth Wednesday.
There is a yearly membership fee associated with joining the group.
“Every person’s situation is different,” said Applebaum, a 66-year-old resident of East Lampeter Township. “Our spouses are sick and can’t get out,
so the Zoom meeting is convenient. Some people don’t want their spouses to know they’re doing this. It can be threatening. For most of us, the reality is our spouses are (present in this world), but they’re very different. We have to transport them, and some can’t talk well.”
Since its inception about nine years ago, the Lancaster branch of Well Spouse Association has had a membership fluctuating between three and eight spousal caregivers.
The members are caring for spouses who have had strokes, cancer, traumatic brain injuries, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS) and muscular dystrophy.
“The numbers of people who are spousal caregivers is staggering,” said Applebaum. “We’re this well-kept secret. Some contend that the average senior citizen is a spousal caregiver.”
“You reach a point that we call anticipatory grief where we grieve a loved one who is still here,” he added. “For many of us, when a spouse does pass, we grieve extensively. But others come to terms with it quickly because they’ve already grieved. People reach a point where they can’t (give care) anymore.”
In 2011, Applebaum’s wife, Susanne, an otherwise healthy 50-year-old dental hygienist, experienced a massive stroke. After attending Well Spouse Association meetings near King of Prussia; Cherry Hill, N.J.; and Baltimore, Applebaum decided to start a chapter closer to home.
“Our lives have never been the same since (the stroke),” said Applebaum. “We were going to travel and live our
lives. But it was all taken away from us. When you have no choice, you do what you have to do. I went for counseling, but at the end of the day, being around people who get it was more therapeutic. We are dealing with our (spouse’s) own specific disabilities, but we understand and support each other. We understand what we go through day to day.”
Headquartered in Freehold, N.J., Well Spouse
Association was founded in 1988, and the organization assists more than 25 support groups.
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“There was a point with my wife where I was doing everything and I burned out, and I ended up with my own health issues,” said Applebaum. “I want to maintain a sense of who
I am. (Well Spouse) keeps me in a world where I talk to people, and it keeps me relevant. We all go through these cycles. We have good weeks, and we have bad weeks. When I’m feeling down, I realize some people have it worse.” For additional information, call 717-413-6452.
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The Philadelphia-based Dalí Quartet was named Chamber Music America’s 2024 Ensemble of the Year and reaches audiences across the U.S., Canada, and South America with Latin American music. The quartet’s members are from the U.S., Puerto Rico, and Venezuela and have degrees from esteemed institutions.
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basic computer skills and the ability to work well with team members. Inside and outside work is available. Tasks may include preparing seed for planting, being a planter crew ground person, staking/tagging plants, and data collection.
To apply, send resume to: Email: alicia.stitzel@corteva.com
DRIVER NEEDED TO TAKE EMPLOYEE'S TO & FROM WORK, MORNING & EVENING, 5 DAYS / WEEK. NARVON TO INTERCOURSE. 717-768-0457
NEED A DRIVER? RETIREE WITH PICK UP TRUCK IN GORDONVILLE PA AVAILABLE CAN ACCOMMODATE 3 PASSENGERS COMFORTABLY CALL 620 587 0369
PT DRIVER Mornings/evenings, to and from work, Narvon, 717-587-1377
Small construction crew seeking a DRIVER, doesn’t need to work but trailer hauling skill will be needed. Broad Range Construction, 717-455-0033
STOLTZFUS MASONRY is Hiring! FT/PT CONCRETE-MASONRY CREW Paid Vacation & Overtime Available. Must Have Valid DL. 717-687-6955
Mechanical Trades
MASTER MIG WELDER Call: 610-384-6112
Sales
HARD-WORKING SALESPERSONS
Earn $2,500 to $10,000/mo., FT/PT. Call Mike for info. 717-669-1286
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ELDER CARE
ASSISTANCE FOR ELDERLY, caregivers provide hygiene assistance, meals, light housework in your home. Insured, Bonded, RN owned & operated. Call Visiting Angels, 717-393-3450.
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PA’s Largest Buyer of Toys & Collectibles 27 E Lancaster Street, Red Lion, PA Hours: M-W 8am-4pm, Th.-F by appt. 717-329-8167 • rhoward1771@gmail.com Toys Vintage or Modern, New or Used, Hess Trucks, Barbies, Diecast, Hot Wheels & Matchbox, Action Figures, Models, Trains, Sports Cards/Memorabilia, Movie/Music Memorabilia, Video Games & much more!
Lawn & Garden
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Pets
BLUE HEALER PUPPIES
Very alert, shots, dewormed, vet checked, $600. Call 717-768-7526
GOLDEN RETRIEVER PUPPIES, cute playful, shots, dewormed, vet checked. Ready 2/26, $350. #34014. 717-786-3969
ICCF CANE CORSO PUPPIES
1F black/brindle. Ears Cropped. UTD Vet checked. $875. 717-654-1075
JACK RUSSELL TERRIER PUPPIES, farm raised, vet checked, shots, dewormed, $175. 717-529-2011 x0
SHIH-TZU BICHON MIX PUPPIES, 11 wks. old, vet checked, shots, dewormed, cute, very friendly, 717-656-9838
WHITE BICHON PUPPIES
2F, 1M, B.10/24. UTD shots, very cute, lovely, $150. 717-445-6957
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BATH & SHOWER updates in as little as 1 DAY! Affordable prices - No payments for 18 months! Lifetime warranty & professional installs. Senior & military discounts available. 1-877-543-9189.
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!!OLD GUITARS WANTED!! GIBSON, FENDER, MARTIN, Etc. 1930’s to 1980’s. TOP DOLLAR PAID. CALL TOLL FREE 1866-433-8277
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WATER DAMAGE CLEANUP & Restoration. A small amount of water can cause major damage to your home. Our trusted professionals do complete repairs to protect your family & your home’s value! Call 24/7: 1888-872-2809. Have zip code!
WE BUY HOUSES FOR CASH AS-IS! No repairs. No fuss. Any condition. Easy three step process: Call, get cash offer & get paid. Get your fair cash offer today by calling Liz Buys Houses: 1-844-877-5833.
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SEASONAL
COAL/WOOD/PELLET STOVES & Inserts, New & Refurbished. Over 300 models in stock. $100-$800 & up. Buy/Sell/Trade. Call 717-577-6640
WINTER SPECIAL! FIREWOOD, Mixed seasoned hardwood. $210/cord delivered within 10 mi. of Parkesburg. TREE/SNOW REMOVAL | 610-857-2169
LOST & FOUND
FOUND AN ITEM? Place a FREE 15 word ad in your local issue to locate the owner of your found item. 1-800-428-4211
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SERVICES RENDERED
A LOCAL HANDYMAN PLUMBING • ELECTRICAL CUSTOM CARPENTRY Licensed & Insured • 610-547-7789
ABSOLUTE JUNK REMOVAL Free Estimates | 610-547-7789
AFFORDABLE ELECTRICAL SERVICES
• New/Older House Wiring • Sec. Cameras • Hookup for Generators • Hookup for EVs • New Elec. Services/Panel Upgrade. Fully Insd. | FREE ESTIMATES | PA01947 Call 717-875-7972
ANDY’S DRYWALL
Interior Remodeling, Hanging, Finishing, Framing, Painting, Basements, Additions, Insured. PA 022669. 717-587-4102
BOOT ROAD TREE SERVICE
Expert tree removal, stump grinding & Trimming. Fully Insured 610-656-5880
CLOCK REPAIR - TRAGER 717-786-7053
CONCRETE FLOOR COATINGS in DURALAST, EPOXY, METALLICS. We also offer Vinyl plank floor install. TRUFLOORS | 717-687-1300
DL PROPERTY MAINTENANCE
Deck/shed repairs • Landscaping • Mowing Patios • Powerwashing. 717-715-5230
DO YOU KNOW what’s in your water? Leaf Home Water Solutions offers FREE water testing and whole home water treatment systems that can be installed in as little as one day. 15% off your entire purchase. Plus 10% senior & military discounts. Restrictions apply. Schedule your FREE test today. Call 1-866-996-1526
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Grandfather, Wall, & Mantel Clocks Cleaned, Oiled, Repaired. We Make House Calls! Free Pick-up & Delivery 717-454-7925
HANDYMAN: Painting. Winter Clean Ups. Land/Hardscaping. Gutters/ Guards, Decks, Roofing. Mailboxes 717-826-3680. PA047811
JACUZZI BATH REMODEL can install a new, custom bath or shower in as little as one day. For a limited time, waiving ALL installation costs! Additional terms apply. Subject to change and vary by dealer. (Offer ends 3/30/25.) Call 1-844-826-2535
SERVICES RENDERED
JUNK REMOVAL
Basements, garages, attics, appliances. Five Star Property Service, 717-278-1030
SAFE STEP. NORTH America’s #1 Walk-In
Tub. Comprehensive lifetime warranty. Top-of-the-line installation and service. Now featuring our FREE shower package and $1,600 off for a limited time! Call today! Financing available. Call Safe Step: 1-833-356-1954.
SHEDS REPAIRS & REMOVAL
Sheds Roof • New Sheds. Wyomissing Structures, 610-743-5660
SILVER SPRING CONSTRUCTION
General Construction from Start to Finish Additions • Garages • Exteriors • Decks Site Prep. | 717-475-2924
STROKE AND CARDIOVASCULAR disease are leading causes of death, according to the American Heart Association. Screenings can provide peace of mind or early detection! Contact Life Line Screening to schedule your screening. Special offer - 5 screenings for just $149. Call 1-866-5188391.
STUMP GRINDING SERVICES
717-989-7938, leave message.
TONE’S SOLID CONTRUCTION
Remodel Basements Additions Decks • Fences, etc. We do it all! Insd./PA176621 | 717-984-3865
WE TRANSFORM YOUR kitchen in less time, with less stress, at an amazing value. Since 1979, Kitchen Magic, a family-owned business offering cabinet refacing, new cabinetry, and luxury countertop throughout the Northeast. Call today for a free estimate. 1-844-887-5145 (PA017137).
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ITEMS WANTED
ALWAYS BUYING Classic, Muscle & Sports Cars Jeff Gast, 717-575-4561
ANTIQUE PHOTOS, CIVIL War Items, Political Pins, Baseball, Old Paper Items, etc. Pre-1950s. Cash Paid. 717-682-3733
BUYING CLASSIC CARS, TRUCKS, SUVs **American and Foreign** Any Condition. Buying entire car collections. $$PAYING CA$H$$ Please call 717-5778206 KRMiller1965@yahoo.com
CORVETTES WANTED 1953 thru 2019 Jeff Gast, 717-575-4561
DONATE YOUR CAR, truck, boat, RV and more to support our veterans! Schedule a FAST, FREE vehicle pickup and receive a top tax deduction! Call Veteran Car Donations at 1-877-327-0686 today!
GET A BREAK on your taxes! Donate your car, truck, or SUV to assist the blind and visually impaired. Arrange a swift, no-cost vehicle pickup and secure a generous tax credit for 2025. Call Heritage for the Blind Today at 1-844-320-2804 today!
Yamaha, Triumph, BSA, and other foreign models. $$PAYING CA$H$$ 717-577-8206 KRMiller1965@yahoo.com
REAL ESTATE
EQUAL HOUSING OPPORTUNITY
All real estate advertised in this publication is subject to the Federal Fair Housing Act and the Pennsylvania Human Relations Act which makes it illegal to advertise a preference, limitation or discrimination based on race, color, religion, ancestry, sex, national origin, handicap (physical or mental) or familial status (people with children) or an intention to make any such preference, limitation or discrimination. This publication will not knowingly accept any advertisement for real estate which is in violation of the law Our readers are hearby informed that all dwellings advertised in this publication are required to be available on an equal opportunity basis.
*NOTE TO OUR CUSTOMERS* When placing your real estate ad please describe the property only not who you wish to occupy it.
For Rent
GORDONVILLE - 2BR, 2 BATH APT., Leacock Twp. $1,400/mo., 717-824-6674
TERRE HILL - NICE 2BR APT. W/D, Stove, Refrig., Dishwasher, Microwave, Ground level, Handicapped access., 2 parking spaces, $1,385/mo. + util., 717-808-5890
WEST CALN TWP. 2 BRs, 1 BA, 2-car gar., gas heat, CAC, no pets/no smoking, $1,800/mo. 610-384-7011.
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