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Christian Lollar practices his game...PAGE 8 The students’ voice since 1901 • Vol. 115 No. 7 • Thursday, September 27, 2012 • Check us out online

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Sex ‘boot camp’ doesn’t beat around bush “Loving ourselves is the most fundamental and basic sexual love affair we can have,” Lastique said. Frater and Lastique said Sex Ed Boot Camp is a safe and judgmentfree zone. A few students who volunteered for the event passed around a bucket for students to ask questions anonymously. After the presentation, Frater and Lastique answered the questions from students. “There was a lot of information that I’m really glad they pointed out,” said Noble Orajiato, junior communication major and student assistant for the Alcohol and Drug Abuse Prevention Program. “I was with my boss when I heard about the event and asked if I could help. I recommend this program to students who want the facts about sex without being lectured.” Many students found the open environment and comically-delivered honesty about sex and masturbation beneficial. “I definitely felt this program furthered students’ education on the human body,” said Brandon Wells, senior elementary education

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Sexologist Joni Frater (Left) demonstrates how to use a dental dam while practicing safe oral sex with assistance from Esther Lastique (Right) at Sex Ed Boot Camp Monday evening in Webb Hall. Jordan Storrer/The Bulletin

Bonner lecturer is survivor, not victim C harlie H eptas and R ocky R obinson news@esubulletin.com At the age of 12, Carissa Phelps, this year’s Bonner & Bonner lecturer, was abandoned by her mother and was forced into the world of child exploitation. She was taken in by a friend’s uncle, and after he sexually assaulted her, she was picked up by another man who forced her into prostitution. “It was the worst 10 days of my life,” Phelps said. “I was brutalized, raped, told that I was nothing, that I belonged to him. That’s why I share my story. It’s because I know there are young women like me, and young boys as well, who are vulnerable and are just waiting for that one helping hand.” Phelps, now CEO of her company Runaway Girl FPC in addition to practicing employment law in California, found help from a counselor and a math teacher in Juvenile Hall and turned her life around. She graduated summa cum laude from Fresno State in California and received her juris doctorate from UCLA. Today, she mentors children

from similar situations and speaks about her own experience all over the country. “I thought she was very interactive and very inspirational, and it took a lot of courage to get up and talk about what she had been through,” said Crystal Maurath, sophomore elementary education major. Phelps said that changing the language is one of the struggles the movement faces because child prostitution doesn’t properly describe the situation. She said that President Barack Obama was correct when he called it “modern day slavery” in his address to the Clinton Global Initiative Tuesday afternoon. “The evening when I left, when I was taken away from him, I was taken to jail and I was locked up and I just want that response to change towards kids,” Phelps said. Phelps said that legislature also was a challenge because even after escaping their past, the legal record of what happened can prevent the victims of exploitation from finding work, particularly work in the government.

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Carissa Phelps, CEO of Runaway Girl, Inc, describes her traumatic experience on the streets of Fresno, Calif. Wednesday evening in Albert Taylor Hall. Phelps founded the National Alliance to Improve Outcomes For Commercially Sexually Exploited Children in attempts to implement an effective system of assisting victims of human trafficking. Jon Coffey/The Bulletin

Students who attended Sex Ed Boot Camp, presented by sexologists Joni Frater and Esther Lastique Monday night in Webb Hall, walked away with the knowledge to lead happier and healthier sex lives – and then some. “Our goal is to fill in all the blanks of sex and sexuality,” Frater said. “We want to engage people and try to draw them out and they can grow from the experience. Knowledge is power, only if you know how to apply it.” Mary McDaniel, assistant director of Health Services at the Student Wellness Center, said the duo were very well-received when they came to campus last April and that having the program in fall would better benefit students. Frater and Lastique said Sex Ed Boot Camp is equally tailored for students who want to remain abstinent, students who are or want to be sexually active and students seeking or currently in a sexual relationship.

“Students sit through lectures all day. We don’t want students being bored or terrified while talking about this topic; we want a more open atmosphere where students can have fun while becoming more open and open-minded.”

–Mary McDaniel

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The Measure of a Man K enzie T empleton editor@esubulletin.com

Andrew’s Story

He came out as a transgender individual in spring 2011 to an audience at a drag show on campus. And since then, Andrew Leigh-Bullard, 23-yearold graduate library science student, has continued to live as the man he says he’s always needed to be. “I’ve known that I was different my entire life, but I never understood what it was until (March 2011),” Leigh said. “That was when I started putting the pieces together. I came out first to myself then to a couple friends, then family, then at P.R.I.D.E.’s Alternative Beauty Pageant, I came out to a room full of 50 people and never went back.” P.R.I.D.E., People Respecting Individuality and Diversity in Education, is a group at Emporia State that exists to support gender and sexual minorities. Leigh currently works as the graduate assistant for the office of Ethnic and Gender Studies and the Great Plains Center. Although he’s now living as a man and has found acceptance – for the most part – in the Emporia community, the road to Leigh’s new identity has been a bumpy one with equal parts highs and lows. The Transition Born Amanda Bullard, Leigh spent the first 20 years of his life alone and usually depressed. He knew at a young age that he wasn’t anything at all like other girls, which did not go unnoticed by his peers. A favorite taunt was, “It’s a man. Duh.” “Looking back, it’s actually a little ironic that they were picking up on something I had no idea of – they had something right,” Leigh said. Before coming to terms with his transgender identity and beginning the transition, Leigh “had a lot of problems,” said Luke Wolford, 30, a former ESU student and close friend of Leigh. “Amanda was not a happy person,” Wolford said. “She was depressive, never happy, hated herself, and I almost think threw herself into everything as a means of escape… she purposely kept herself busy, to the point of exhaustion, because she wasn’t happy with herself. Once ‘she’ decided to become ‘he,’ it’s really a whole different person.” Leigh began transitioning almost immediately after coming out. He was on hormones by June and had his name changed by July 2011. He chose Andrew because it means “male” or “warrior” in Greek, and that dual con-

Andrew Leigh Bullard, graduate library science student, speaks on issues regarding transgender individuals Tuesday night in Science Hall, room 72, at “Voices of Witness.” Leigh came out as a transgendered individual in spring 2011 at P.R.I.D.E.’s Alternative Beauty Pageant. Yohan Kim/The Bulletin

notation was what drew him to the name, he said. Leigh means “meadow” in Old English, but he wanted to keep his father’s last name, so he decided to hyphenate his surname as Leigh-Bullard. Once living as a man, Leigh’s personality changed entirely. His selfconfidence improved, and the depressive tendencies that once consumed his relationships with those closest to him disappeared. “Now that the transition has happened, he’s so much more selfassured, so much more well-adjusted,” Wolford said. “It was literally like watching someone go from 13 years of age to 20 years of age within a matter of months. The confrontational attitude really scaled back. Amanda constantly had a chip on her shoulder. The littlest things set her off. She was hyper aggressive with people close to

her, like she always had something to prove. Andrew is much more levelheaded, a lot more thoughtful, a lot more together.” Leigh said since beginning the transition his energy level has noticeably increased, and he finally feels awake and active. “So many different aspects have clicked or started to feel right,” he said. “I started to experience sexual attraction for the first time, really, when I got on hormones…I started seeing myself as an adult.” Today, Leigh stands a little over five feet and sports a neatly-buzzed haircut and glasses. The testosterone treatments are working, not only for his libido – his voice is a high tenor. And his optimism is almost infectious. Most of the interview, even the parts that are painful to talk about, is full of

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