Evanston Woman Magazine

Enhancing The Lives of Others

SAVING FOR COLLEGE What You Need to Know

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Driving the Retail Industry

DONNA MORE SHE WON A BATTLE AGAINST CANCER

NOW SHE WANTS TO BEAT CRIME VIOLENCE HATE AS

& COOK COUNTY STATE’S ATTORNEY

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"Justice Cobbs has extensive knowledge about the administration and operation of the court system and possesses the legal knowledge, legal ability, demeanor, and experience to serve as a Justice of the Illinois Supreme Court."

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Justice Cobbs is "highly intelligent, possesses a keen legal mind and has exceptional judgment and superb administrative abilities. . . I can think of no one more suited to assume a position of Justice on the Supreme Court of Illinois."

“Our Supreme court must fulfill two mandates under the Illinois Constitution: dispose of cases and administer the Illinois Courts. I am prepared to serve immediately upon election because I am the only candidate in this race with experience fulfilling both.”

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EDITOR’S CORNER

pring time is near… and you know what that means?

Voting is in session!! Congratulations to us women, especially in Northern Cook County. We show up! Yes, we do!! When I say we show up, it’s because we care, we understand, we know we can make a difference.

So please give yourself a hug, pour a glass of wine, and toast to us, women for making our community, a better place for all by voting.

I am moved by Donna More for creating a space to think about the arrest and release process that has been implamented in the system for people who commit a crime. Statics show that the number of people who have criminal history stem from mental health combined with lack of resources, and family support.

Thank you Donna for highlighting the importance behind building community resources on a grass routs level that will lends itself to growing a level of family support and expanding the resources for mental health.

I welcome each of you to join our community at GET HEALTHY EVANSTON! Family Fitness Health And Wellness Expo. For more information about the EXPO visit healthyetown.com.

GET OUT and VOTE! For information on early voting, and polling sites visit evanstonwoman.com

Cheers!

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Paid for by Citizens for Pam Stratigakis.

Issue 3 Volume 5

CONTENTS

DEPARTMENTS

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WELLNESS with with Intensive Intensive Karen Karen WELLNESS by

by Karen Karen Kopan.

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Meet Evanston Woman, Donna More. Donna is sharing her vision, passion, and dedication as Cook County State’s Attorney candidate.

LINDA DEL BOSQUE Editor in Chief AARON FOSTER Graphics

STAY IN TOUCH evanstonwoman@gmail.com | FB.com/evanston_woman | IG evanston_woman | 847.863.1174

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GIVING Evanston Evanston History History Center Center GIVING ETHS Shares Community Spirit.

10 MONEY Saving for College What You Need to Know with ` ` Zimmerman Wealth Management.

FEATURES 12 3 Men You Need to Know: Look Who is Driving the Retail Industry.

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ICU Orientation

he Intensive Care Unit (ICU) can feel like a foreign country.

The language can be hard to understand, the culture is very different from your own; the surroundings don’t look familiar; it is usually busy with a lot of noise and you are often at the mercy of strangers for help.

Here is some information that can help you acclimate to the ICU setting and advocate for yourself.

The ICU caregiving team is diverse with unique skills, knowledge and abilities.

Each member of the team has a different role to play and will ask many questions, specifically for their own particular specialty though they may be questions you’ve answered before, please bear with us.

The Intensive Care Unit is for people who are seriously ill, have life-threatening illnesses, or who require frequent monitoring. Each ICU nurse cares for only one or two patients, usually no more than 2, because each patient requires that much care. Each patient wears a monitor for their heart rhythm, a monitor to measure their breathing and oxygen level and can have invasive monitoring for blood pressure readings. Oxygen can be delivered through a cannula in the nose, a mask worn on the face or a ventilator through a breathing tube. The heart can be assisted by IV medication drips that are adjusted every few minutes and possibly with sophisticated machines that support the work of the heart.

If the situation feels overwhelming or very

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complex with many specialists, you can ask for a family meeting to gather with the doctors, nurses, the social worker and a few family members. Getting the big picture is often a daunting task and we are there to help you.

Gone are the days of paternalistic medicine where you are told what the plan is; now we have patient-centered care that includes the patient in determining what is important to you for your health. If surgery or a special procedure is recommended, informed consent is required. Be sure you are aware of the risks and benefits of the procedure, the risks and benefits of any alternative procedures and the risks and benefits of not doing the procedure. Ask questions about the risks. Ask what recovery will look like, for example, will you go home or to a rehab center or a skilled nursing facility? What might you need once you do go home, how much time will it take to recover, should a caregiver or a family member stay with you at home?

Because of the complexity of care, communication is essential between the healthcare team itself (“rounds”) and with the patient and family. Speaking with the patient and one or two key designated family members helps the flow of communication.

Recently I walked in a patient’s room and their visitor said, “Hi. I’m John and I am Diane’s son and her power of attorney for healthcare. You have a copy of her advanced directives scanned in the chart. I am the person you need to talk to for updates and

consent.” I had to pinch myself to make sure this was real. I was pleasantly surprised and wished all patients had this person with them, especially if you can’t speak for yourself.

Advanced directives are legal documents that 1) designate someone to speak for you if you are unable to speak for yourself (Power of Attorney for Healthcare) and 2) designates your wishes for care if you are facing a terminal illness, in a coma or severely brain damaged and not expected to recover and do not want to be kept alive by machines (living will). I believe that completing an advanced directive and talking about them with your family and healthcare provider is the most effective way to carry out your wishes when you are unable to speak for yourself.

I can guide you through these documents and conversations with your family so you are well prepared. Reach me directly at 847-901-3888 or karen@intensivekaren. com Karen Kopan Intensive Karen Doctor of Nursing Practice Degree.

Licensed Advanced Practice Nurse.

RN, Board Certified by the American Nurses Credentialing Center for Acute Board Certified Care. Nurse Critical Care Nurse.

Practitioner.

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GIVING

A Night at the Blind Pig Speakeasy An Evening to Enrich Evanston’s History

January of 1919, the Prohibition Amendment to the Constitution went into effect.

Evanston was already the epicenter for the temperance and prohibition movements, modeling and influencing national trends and opinions. In this centenary year, the Evanston History Center turns its summer gala into an opportunity for the community not only to view the “Dry Evanston: The Untold Story” exhibit, but to experience a little of the Prohibition Era vibe as our history comes alive!

Next year’s Summer Gala will be held Saturday, August 29th, 2020.

For more information visit evanstonhistorycenter.org

Rooftop Party Boosterpalooza Benefiting ETHS Sports, Arts, & Clubs

780 people enjoyed a beautiful evening that highlighted the community, food, and music of Evanston. Over $80,000 was raised, which allows the ETHS Boosters to support 100 teams in 30+ sports, 80+ clubs, and eight ETHS theater department productions. Your attendance the other night helped to make those events possible and gives ETHS students opportunities they might not otherwise.

Keep an eye out on the Boosters social media pages, please share and LIKE! For more information visit ethsboosters.org Photos Lynn Trautman | LT Photo.

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Welcome to the BEST Lakefront Space on the NorthShore.

This landmarked masterpiece is the only publicly owned lakefront building in Evanston.

It’s in Evanston. And it’s Yours.

Imagine the possibilities at your place on the lake to meet, create, learn, listen, dine, work, perform, celebrate, & play. Year-round.

YOUR DONATION OPENS THE DOORS.

We will be submitting a response to the City of Evanston’s RFP for a restored, financially-sustaining community house prior to the February 28, 2020 deadline. Donate so we can finally open the doors.

Send your Pledges & Donations to: evanstonlakehouse.org/donate Or mail a check to:

Evanston Community LakeHouse & Gardens (ECLG) 1003 Dobson Street, Evanston, Il 60202

Learn More at www.evanstonlakehouse.org

Join Us! Send an email to evanstonlakehouse@gmail.com

Evanston Community LakeHouse & Gardens (ECLG), a 501c3 whose vision is to “Restore and dedicate Evanston’s historic and publicly-owned community house on the lake for the benefit of all Evanstonians, with programming for Arts & Culture; Environmental and Cultural Education; Leisure, Recreation & Wellness, Community Gatherings & Events through collaborations and partnerships.”

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States Attorney

Candidate for Cook County States Attorney

Attorney Donna More SHE WON A BATTLE AGAINST CANCER. NOW SHE WANTS TO BEAT CRIME, VIOLENCE AND HATE AS COOK COUNTY STATE’S ATTORNEY.

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he’s on her home field in Evanston talking with a group gathered to hear her story and find out how she’d do things if she were to land her dream job as Cook County State’s Attorney and replace Kim Foxx.

“I am passionate about the criminal justice system,” she tells the diverse audience. “It’s a place where the law counts, where public safety and justice coexist, where we have the power to hold violent people accountable, and the discretion to give non-violent people second chances.”

More, who beat breast cancer earlier in the decade and says the “life-is-too-short” episode inspired her to follow her dream no matter the risks, doesn’t mince words about her plans if she is elected State’s Attorney. She believes that the system is tilted in favor of the rich, the famous and the politically connected.

Her views were formed early in life.

The family lived in Evanston and she is a product of ETHS. Mom graduated from Northwestern and taught school.

Dad was a lawyer who delighted in having his daughter at his side while he advocated in court for his clients, often giving voice to defendants in the criminal system.

“The first time I saw my Dad making an argument, I knew I was going to be a lawyer,” she says. “And when I graduated from Georgetown Law and landed a job in the state’s attorney’s office, I knew right then I wanted to be the top prosecutor.”

More, an experienced state and federal felony trial lawyer who has managed and won cases against murderers, rapists, and armed robbers, says the State’s Attorney isn’t charging cases, and the consequences can be devastating.

“We’re engaged in ‘catch and release,’ a phrase used by law enforcement to describe how they apprehend gunwielding carjackers, for example, and six-hours later they are back on the streets. Murder suspects are out on electronic monitoring in alarming numbers, and Sheriff Tom Dart doesn’t know where half of them are.”

“Foxx announced to gangs that she won’t charge thieves with a felony unless they steal more than $1,000 worth of merchandise from local stores. The policy has emboldened gangs so much so that Chicago has become the 4th worst city in America for retail theft.”

“This office should be about justice and fairness, not money and politics,” she says. “It must be led by an independent lawyer who isn’t influenced by the corrupt Cook County political machine or a billionaire’s ATM ... and I’m the only one running who answers that description.”

She vows to restore balance and integrity, asserting that criminal justice is a community effort that is based on trust, something sadly missing from the system today. The view comes from a year’s worth of conversations with police, victims, witnesses, advocates, pastors and others who have lost faith in the prosecutor’s office.

“This isn’t criminal justice to me,” More said, “This is malpractice ... and we’re paying the price in increased violence and crime. It has to be reversed.”

“The voters of Cook County want change,” she tells listeners, her 15-year-old daughter at her side.

“They need a new lawyer, one with experience, judgment and independence. I am the change agent they want.”

She pauses. The room erupts in applause. Her daughter wipes a tear and delivers a hug. It’s time for More.

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MONEY

Saving for College

A 529: An Account Specifically Made For College Savings Having children changes everything.

Suddenly you’re focused on their future as well as yours. Most families want to do everything to help their children succeed, and one way is to pay for some or all of college. Let’s explore one way to save for college:

Prerequisite: Like taking a 100 level course before the 300 level course, there is a prerequisite to hit before saving for college. First, take care of yourself get comfortable with your emergency and retirement savings. After all, your child can take loans for college, you can’t take a loan for retirement. Also, most would rather pay off student loans than pay for you in your old age (trust us, we see both circumstances).

If you aren’t comfortable with your retirement savings yet, review our previous article for Evanston Woman.

529 Plans College Savings Plans: If you believe you are ready to save for college, the best option is a 529 college savings plan. Why? Because any yearly investment growth is not taxed; additionally, the growth isn’t taxed if you withdraw it to use for education. That’s right, you never pay taxes on the investment growth if used for education.

Another advantage of 529 College Savings Plans: if you live in Illinois, you can get an Illinois income

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tax deduction for contributions of up to $10,000 per year ($20,000 per couple) to one of the Illinois sponsored plans. The Illinois Bright Start plan has solid investments and low costs. It is a good option for most people in Illinois. That said, each state has a 529 plan, and they don’t limit your student’s college choices. So you could, for example, live in Illinois contribute to a plan in Nevada (you would not get an Illinois tax deduction) and pay for college in Delaware.

With these plans, you open an account as the owner and contribute money for a beneficiary (your child).

You then invest your contributions from several choices offered within the plan. One way to approach this decision is using the age-based mutual funds offered in all plans.

They have funds for children of various ages (e.g. funds for children aged 0-2 or 3-5), which are great, simple options if you don’t feel comfortable making complex investment decisions.

529 FAQs:

Extra money – If you have extra money in a 529 (a good problem), you have options: You can change the beneficiary of the account to a relative (normally from one child to another).

You can save it for a child’s graduate

school.

You can withdraw the money, but you will pay taxes on investment growth AND a 10% penalty.

Scholarships – You can withdraw the amount of a scholarship without penalty (you still pay taxes on the investment growth). Or you can use the money for room and board and other qualified expenses.

Financial Aid – Yes, a 529 plan reduces your child’s aid eligibility.

However, when the assets are in your name, it reduces aid only by a maximum of 5.64% of the account value.

What else should I know?

There are two types of 529 plans: prepaid tuition plans and college savings plans. We find prepaid tuition plans restrictive and normally recommend savings plans (which we described earlier).

If you have questions, feel free to contact us through our website.

Otherwise, we’ll talk to you again soon with an upcoming article about teaching your children how to manage money responsibly.

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Joseph Meyers

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f you ask anyone in the Evanston area what is one of the best places to shop for home gifts to fashion, people would say, Ten Thousand Villages.

‘Ten Thousand Villages is more than a store.

We’re a global maker‑to‑market movement that breaks the cycle of generational poverty and ignites social change. We’re a way for you to shop with intention for ethicallysourced wares — and to share in the joy of empowering makers in ten thousand villages.

As a pioneer of fair trade, we do business differently, putting people and planet first.

That means you can trust that every handmade purchase and donation you make directly impact the life and community of its maker in a developing country.’

Joseph Myers really enjoys working with each of his customers and leading a team who oversees volunteers and an impeccable staff that provides excellent customer service.

The talent in creating a space to choose items that customers like makes it easy when one is shopping for a loved one. His talent in navigating men in shopping for their partner becomes a hobby, due to his passion for his work.

Knowing that each item that is purchased is made with care, and a vision. Ten Thousand Villages is more than a Fair Trade store.

Over a decade, Ten Thousand Villages has been serving the Evanston community, and today with Joseph leading the team in merchandizing, the storehouses the trendiest and up to date fashion for both men and women, specializing in spring dresses this season.

During the spring and summer, you can find Joseph at fairs throughout the Chicagoland area and North Shore. Growing customer interests goes beyond the basic footprint. In addition, almost every month a non profit organization will host an event to raise money for their organization. Combing community outreach, supporting women, and family, Joseph empowers the shopper, creator, and team member; making Ten Thousand Villages one of the most sought out stores in Evanston.

TEN THOUSAND VILLAGES (847) 733-8258 915 Chicago Ave, Evanston, IL 60202

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Ira Rose

fter returning from a trip to India, Ira Rose, the owner of Cottage Jewelry, had become intrigued with the beautiful gems and crafting of jewelry across the countryside of India. He bought various bracelets, necklaces and gemstones and returned to the states and sold these wonderful items at flea markets and art fairs.

Cottage Jewelry opened its doors in Evanston in 1975 as a small jewelry store in an old Pure Oil Gas Station building which resembled a small cottage. Today Cottage Jewelry is a thriving business on the corner of Chicago Ave. and Dempster St. Cottage Jewelry is a fine jewelry store specializing in engagement rings, designer jewelry, pearls, sterling silver and has a large selection of Antique and Estate Jewelry. Cottage Jewelry is also a center for custom made jewelry and has a Gemologist on staff.

Cottage Jewelry has been happily serving three generations of customers from Chicago and the North Shore. The commitment to customer service and good value is first and foremost at the store.

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The nature of the business has changed over the past 47 years and Ira has kept up with the times. The store has been recently remodeled and Cottage Jewelry is selling a vast array of both Natural Diamonds and Lab Created Diamonds as well as many other types of gems and metals to keep up with current trends. Cottage Jewelry also buys unwanted and estate jewelry. Ira has a saying, “If you’re not wearing it sell it or let us make it into some thing you will love!”.

When not at work Ira enjoys spending time with his family, including his two chocolate labs. You will often find the dogs at the store to greet you. He enjoys traveling, meditating, and volunteering his business skills to charitable ventures. This brings him much joy and has provided him an opportunity to follow his passion for service, gratitude and the opportunity to spending time with his family, 2 daughters and 2 dogs

In 2012, restless to try something new, John considered several franchise opportunities, but nothing seemed quite right. He was looking for a sign to point the way to his next venture when he found it two blocks from his Evanston home and in an area he knew and loved: a For Lease sign in the window at 1939 Central St. in Evanston. Formerly a women’s wear store, the space was completely built out. He signed the lease within 48 hours and headed to L.A. the next day for a buying trip. John opened Gracie’s on November 30, 2012.

A lot has changed from his early days in retail.

John takes cues from Gracie’s customers, who give him feedback on everything from fabric care, price, looks and styles. He listens, and he values and attempts to honor their feedback.

“I only buy what my customers tell me they are looking for. It’s as simple as that,” he said.

“Occasionally, I try something new to mix things up just for the sake of variety. So far, so good.”

John isn’t done exploring his creative side and has taken up abstract painting at the Evanston Art Center.

Come meet John at Gracie’s, 1939 Central St., Evanston, where you’ll often find his pup, Freddie, sleeping under one of the display tables or awake and eager to greet you.

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John Liberty

ohn Liberty, owner of Gracie’s on Central Street in Evanston, got an early start to his retail career. His grandparents owned a combination jewelry store and flower shop on the south side of Chicago and “put him to work” when he was just 6 years old. He learned his first lesson in retail when he sold a bunch of tulips at the wholesale price. His grandparents sat him down and explained the facts of store ownership.

John would go on to obtain Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees in Urban Planning. After graduation, he headed to Lake Tahoe, where he figured he’d work on a mountain while doing some skiing before putting his education to good use and finding a “real” job. But Tahoe hadn’t seen a significant snowfall, and there were no jobs. Instead, John was hired as a salesperson at a men’s and women’s store located in the lobby of Harrah’s Hotel and Casino. He put his childhood retail experience to use and soon was promoted to a junior-buying position for men’s wear and then to a senior position. He also bought men’s wear for the company’s outdoor shop (think Evanston’s Uncle Dan’s with skis).

After three years of skiing and working retail, John returned to Chicago and joined a consulting company that helped retailers with profitability by implementing finely attuned buying plans. He spent 11 years as a consultant before impulsively buying out one of his clients, Handle with Care, in Chicago’s Old Town. During his 17 years of ownership, sales increased six-fold. After selling the store in 2008, John returned to consulting. He also successfully completed his Teacher Training at Yogaview and now teaches Gentle Yoga and Multi-Level Yoga at Evanston Athletic Club.

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1939 Central St., Evanston, 60202

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COVER STORY Executive Chef, Matthew Wilde, At Whiskey Thief, Located at 616 Davis, Between Chicago Ave. and Orrington Near Fountain Square.

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eet E xecutive Chef, Matthew Wilde, with Whiskey Thief Tavern, located at 616 Davis St, between Chicago Ave. and Orrington near Fountain Square.

Born and raised in Minneapolis, MN, Chef Matthew Wilde’s interest in the culinary world was sparked at a young age. The son of an avid hunter, fisherman, and gardener, Mathew Wilde has always held a deep appreciation for fresh, locally grown produce and ingredients. Which ultimately fueled his interest in the world of culinary arts.

Chef Matthew Wilde graduated in 2000 with honors from the prestigious Le Cordon Bleu College of Culinary Arts in Minneapolis. Shortly after he traveled to Le Petit Pigeonnier in Chinon, France where he learned classic techniques and supercharged his passion for food. After returning home, Wilde brought his culinary methods and skills to a variety of fine dining establishments including Dakota Jazz Club, Lord Fletchers, Fhimas and La Belle Vie, where he worked under James Beard Award winner, Tim Mckee.

In 2007, Chef Matthew Wilde moved to Chicago and engulfed himself in the city’s progressive dining scene. While taking on numerous chef roles in some of Chicago’s hottest restaurants including 312, American Junkie, Black Bull, and Hubbard Inn, just to name a few, he became a notable “chef to watch”.

In the fall of 2019, Chef Matthew Wilde joined the leading team at Whiskey Thief Tavern, sharing his exceptional craftsmanship in the kitchen. His creativity and passion has led the way to new fare that has Evanston buzzing. Locals can indulge juicy burgers including the ever popular Bison Burger redesigned with wild mushrooms, black truffle and aged swiss cheese, while enjoying new whimsical twists on America’s comfort food such as Chicken and Waffles, blended with apples, scallions and spices served in waffle cones. In show of his support and new found love of the Evanston community, Chef Matthew Wilde has collaborated with other local businesses in hopes of taking Evanston’s dining scene to the next level.

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Considering A Divorce Before Retirement

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ndividuals over the age of 50 and approaching retirement may begin to consider their options for a major lifestyle change. The rate for couples choosing to go ahead with a “gray” divorce has increased twofold since the 1990s, based on studies conducted by the Pew Research Center.

Some couples may decide that dissolving a long-term marriage allows each individual to pursue his or her own goals without any restrictions. Financing a newly single lifestyle, however, may require dividing a variety of assets during a divorce proceeding.

Illinois divides a couple’s property under its equitable distribution system. As reported by Reader’s Digest, the court divides everything by what it considers fair or “equitable.” From the family court’s viewpoint, all properties and assets obtained during a marriage belong to both individuals, but they should not expect an equal or 50-50 division.

Splitting Property Between Two Spouses Some factors a judge considers when determining how to split property fairly include each spouse’s age, health and ability to generate income. An individual who will rely upon financial support or alimony may decide that selling property

and splitting the proceeds is fairer. Negotiating the sale of properties and splitting proceeds between two ex-spouses may, however, require several discussions before finalizing a divorce through the court.

Requesting A Payout From A Retirement Plan Some individuals may need to determine how to “cash-out” from a spouse’s employer-sponsored retirement plan. An individual has the right to a portion of a working spouse’s pension plan including a 401(k). As reported by Kiplinger magazine, federal law requires that a spouse request a qualified domestic relations order from an employer during the divorce procedure. An individual may request a percentage of the plan or a set dollar amount of a spouse’s workplace retirement fund.

For more information on preventive lawyering and the Divorce process in the Chicagoland area, an initial consultation is your next best step. Get information and legal advice you are seeking by calling P. Ann O’Connell, Evanston, Illinois 847-859-6222.

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LG’s New 8K TV

BY ROBERT ROSS

ike opening a window to a panoramic landscape, the new LG Signature OLED 88ZX—debuted at the 2020 CES in Las Vegas and recipient of a 2020 CES Innovation Award—brings important industry firsts to the category of state-of-the-art television. For viewers who appreciate size, the LG is the world’s largest OLED TV, with an ultra-large 88inch screen, and has plenty of high-tech behind the remarkable picture. Developed and produced by LG, the Organic Light Emitting Diode (OLED), which greatly enhances clarity and resolution, produces a display that is brighter, with outstanding black levels, higher contrast and faster refresh rates than the ubiquitous Liquid Crystal Display (LCD) flat panel screen technology commonly used in today’s TVs and computer monitors.

Advanced 8K Ultra High Definition (7680 pixels × 4320 pixels) offers the highest resolution; 33 million self-emitting pixels and 130 million sub-pixels provide four times the resolution of 4K. Unlike LEDs, each pixel can be controlled individually to create extremely precise images with more accurate color, infinite contrast and perfect blacks. On the 88ZX, images are rendered in great detail and in vivid color, evoking a palpable sense of three-dimensional realism, as if one were transported into a theater, stadium or concert hall.

LG Deep Learning AI provides access a selection LG Deep Learning AI provides access to a to selection of of popular artificial intelligence services across multiple popular artificial intelligence services across multiple platforms, including built-in Google Assistant, as well platforms, including built-in Google Assistant, as well as Amazon Alexa and Apple as Amazon Alexa and Apple .. AirPlay 2.

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And conversational voice recognition and an intuitive Home Dashboard allows users to control a wide variety of smart home devices directly from the TV. With a powerful output of 80 Watts, the 88ZX offers exceptional sound quality, augmented by an intelligent algorithm that can up-mix two-channel audio to deliver convincing virtual 5.1 surround sound, and features Dolby Atmos for an even more immersive sonic experience for movies and music. The TV intelligently sets ideal levels based on its positioning, and optimizes sound based on content type, making voices in movie soundtracks and news broadcasts more audible.

One notable attribute of this 88-inch TV is its ultra-thin profile.

The bezel surround of the screen is quite minimal, allowing the TV to almost disappear as a three-dimensional component, almost floating as if it were a sheet of paper. The sleek design features premium metal details, and is particularly suited to minimalist architectural interiors.

33 million pixels displayed on an 88-inch screen

TRUE HEALTH

Do You Have Chronic Pelvic Pain?

Here’s a constellation of symptoms guaranteed to make a guy miserable: urinary frequency/ urgency, painful and/or slow urination, perhaps there’s a little dribbling as you walk away from the restroom, and add to that, pain with or after ejaculation. Oh, and throw in some low back pain for good measure. Symptoms might dissipate only to return with a vengeance. Perhaps you notice it is triggered by intense physical or sexual activity, and that stress dramatically worsens your symptoms. You might have a deep ache in a testicle, or you describe a sensation of “a golf ball in the rectum” that just won’t go away. You visit the doc who prescribes antibiotics, perhaps several times. You notice improvement after the first course, but the problem returns.

Symptoms wax and wane, never truly resolving, greatly affecting your quality of life. You start to feel anxious and/or depressed anticipating the next bout. What is this phenomenon that literally has a grip on you?

Chronic non-bacterial prostatitis (or chronic pelvic pain syndrome) accounts for 90% of all cases of prostatitis according to the National Institutes of Health (NIH). It is believed that an initial infection may have set the wheels in motion, or perhaps a physical trauma is responsible. Injuries to consider: hard fall to the tailbone, a straddle injury on the crossbar of a bike, or overzealous weight training with loads that are too heavy. As a result from the injury, pelvic muscles spasm and inhibit circulation.

Besides antibiotics, common medical treatments include antiinflammatory medications and alpha blockers. Pelvic Physical Therapy can help sort out the various musculoskeletal causes contributing to the complexity of pelvic pain and start you on a healing path.

Self-management tips: Try to alleviate muscle tension with destressing strategies: hot baths or mild heat applied to the abdomen, slow abdominal massage, and mindful, slow, diaphragmatic breathing. Additionally, stretching exercises are helpful: inner thigh stretches; supported, sustained squats with the back resting against a wall; “cobra” yoga stretch for back extension. For more information on a treatment program tailored for you, consult with a specialist in Pelvic Physical Therapy Judith Florendo, PT, DPT Suzanne Badillo, PT, WCS 528 Kedzie St, Evanston IL linkpt.org 847-868-8396

www.linkpt.org (If you are interested in learning more about this issue and participating in a study at Northwestern University’s Feinberg School of Medicine: mappnetwork.org/mapp-dsites.html)

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EDITOR’S LETTER

Welcome to 2020

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hose iconic numbers historically symbolize clear sight.

This is EvanstonMan magazines first 2020 issue. The Universal time stamp of 2-0-2-0 represents opening eyes, leading us toward clarity. This EvanstonMan issue carries that conversation. Clear sight toward a better world is the goal.

Evanston is currently leading the country with the use of marijuana sales in the cities conversation about reparations. The city has always had a reputation of having productive conversations based on race and fairness.

Therefore, I watch black businesses grow here as Evanstonian’s know the secret that Evanston is a great place to live and raise kids.

In this issue of EvanstonMan, we shine the light on three of the retail game changers in Evanston. Game changing men who saw a need and created the opportunity to make a difference by raising the bar in fashion and jewelry.

We invited Joseph Meyers (Ten Thousand Villages), Ira Rose (Cottage Jewelers) and John Liberty (Gracie’s) to share their profiles. They each run one of the boutique shops that make Evanston worth driving to. The culture provides that upper tier feel while also presenting a welcoming environment.

In this issue we partnered with the Evanston Fire Department and will assist in its efforts to find more recruits. Evanston prides itself in creating true efforts to find diverse candidates.

So through our email lists and media marketing we continue that legacy.

Explore our Cover Story. A selection of dishes (pictured pg 5) was created to make your mouths water. The feature is a welcoming invitation and introduction to the new chef of Whiskey Thief. Read about Mathew Wilde: A World Class Chef, bringing the light of Gastro to Evanston.

I am proud to present this issue of EvanstonMan and look forward to the next issue where we begin our transformation toward the collection we will call Evanston Magazine. Thank you and I look forward to your joining me in the journey. Please email all comments to

Aaron Foster

Aaron Foster

Editor in Chief EVANSTONMAN Magazine

Please email all comments to Afoster@evanstonman.com

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Matthew Wilde Bringing The Light of Gastro to Whiskey Thief Evanston