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Lafayette’s ABSOLUT® Best Martini Competition and Gala 2016
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GOOD TIME WAS HAD BY ALL, as the Healing House: Hope for Grieving Children recently hosted their extremely popular ABSOLUT® Best Martini Competition and Gala.The annual fundraising event pits local restaurants against each other as they battle it out for the coveted title of “Lafayette’s ABSOLUT® Best Martini”. This year’s participating restaurants included Bon Temps Grill, Bonefish Grill, Charley G’s, Chuy’s Fine Tex Mex, Ruffino’s on the River, Southern Social Table & Bar, Walk On’s Bistreaux & Bar, and Zea Rotisserie & Grill
Over an eight-week period, the “Tini” Tuesday Tour visited each of the eight participating restaurants where patrons and Healing House supporters could savor this year’s signature martinis and cast their votes for the People’s Choice Award by way of tips and contributions. At the end of the eight week tour, Healing House supporters and competing restaurants gathered at the DoubleTree by Hilton Lafayette for the grand finale. Partygoers sampled martinis from all eight restaurants and cast their final votes for the Lafayette’s ABSOLUT® Best Martini – 2016, as they danced the night away to the gyrating sounds of Jet Seven.
THE PEOPLE’S CHOICE AWARDS were determined by totaling the tipped votes received during the tour along with money collected by voting at the gala. All eight teams did incredibly well with their unique Martini creations and the amount of money raised; and at the end of the night, the People’s Choice Awards went to:
THE JUDGES’ CHOICE AWARDS were selected by a panel of highly specialized local celebrities in a blind taste testing session that lasted for hours. And with the judges votes tallied, the winners of the Judges Choice Awards for Lafayette’s ABSOLUT Martini 2016 are:
All proceeds from the event benefited The Healing House, a local non-profit organization that provides grief support for children dealing with the loss of
1St Place: Zea [Creation: Purple Rain Martini with ABSOLUT Vodka]
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incredibly close, but we toughed it out and finally agreed on the top finalists.” says one anonymous judge.
2nd Place: Bonefish Grill [Creation: Fresh Raspberry Martini with ABSOLUT Vodka]
SEE EVENT PHOTOS ON PAGES 76 & 77 3rd Place: Bon Temps Grill [Creation: Tiki Tini Martini with ABSOLUT Vodka] With the Spirit Award also going to Zea!
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SEARCHING FOR THE
BROADMOOR POOL By Elizabeth Hesterly
The Coulee
UP GROWING IN THE ‘60s & ‘70s Who needed charts depicting the metamorphosis of a frog in our second grade class at Edgar Martin when we could see the transformation ourselves?
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Acres and acres of woodsy land loomed before us as we headed towards the coulee, a place that afforded us many hours of childhood fun.
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omehow I doubt I’m the only little sister who acted as lookout for her older brother along the coulee trails of south Lafayette. Walt, my brother, and Mason, our good friend, both sporting crew cuts and almond tans, accepted my pleas to accompany them in the woods just beyond our neighborhood. They were hunting for water moccasins, and I was yearning to go. We set out with nothing but summer shorts and canvas sneakers, and the boys had their new BB guns resting on their shoulders. Acres and acres of woodsy land loomed before us as we headed towards the coulee, a place that afforded us many hours of childhood fun. My best friend Pam and I often sat on the banks and caught tadpoles. Who needed charts depicting the metamorphosis of a frog in our second grade class at Edgar Martin when we could see the transformation ourselves? We caught tadpoles in each stage of development. We never once needed a classroom teacher to explain the life cycle of a frog. We had witnessed it firsthand.
Some of us in the neighborhood had younger siblings who followed us to the coulee as well. On those days we carried big sticks we found along the way, making noise and swooshing the grasses, hoping to root out any snakes waiting to ambush. Sometimes we encountered a snake, and he quickly complied with our request to leave us alone. We would watch it slither away, and the youngest children among us squealed at our bravery. We were proud. On these special outings, they required that I walk in front of them, looking for poisonous snakes and spotting their presence before the reptiles escaped. I was an important component of these hunting trips, and I performed my duties with precision. We caught crawfish in the coulee, too. Mud piles along the bank revealed their activity, and when we were sufficiently equipped, we used little nets to catch them. Dragonflies swirled around us, as did mosquitoes at dusk, and we were constantly aware of ants, reminding each other to watch our steps carefully. I loved discovering rabbits and their babies, timid and skittish, yet adorable with their wary and gentle eyes. But nothing compared to the excursions with my brother and his comrade. On these special outings, they required that I walk in front of them, looking for poisonous snakes and spotting their presence before the reptiles escaped. I was an important component of these hunting trips, and I performed my duties with precision. Water moccasins were our targets, and Walt and Mason took turns aiming and firing. Only rarely did one of the boys miss. It was thrilling.
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We’re not a family of hunters. That’s a rare thing in southwest Louisiana, I know. Yet our forays into the woods, walking towards the coulee, always the coulee, made me feel a bit like Tom Sawyer or Huck Finn. I felt accomplished. I felt adventurous. And I loved my brother who let me be his sentry.
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I once told a few of these snake hunting stories to my husband. He quickly posed that his friend Ricky, the bravest snake hunter in Lafayette, walked through infested areas with cut offs and bare feet. To hear the tale of Ricky’s prowess, no better snake hunter has lived in Lafayette before or since.
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I couldn’t argue. But I was happy to be second best, part of a snake hunting trio that roamed south Lafayette with serious smiles on our faces. Walt, Mason, and me.
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Nettie Mae Avec Domino But first, I wanted to share a post from grumpy@faceacadiana.com dat Facebook, by a Mr. Spark from Texas. Moving on. OK, I got to say congratulations to I get a lot of emails about many of these the US Olympic team for bringing home the gold!!! topics, so I thought this might amuse a few of my emailing characters. Here’s what he posted: And finally, a topic dat warms this ole bayou queen’s heart. The August flooding in South Louisiana has left "I took down my Rebel flag (which you can't buy on EBAY many people’s lives turned upside down.The flooding any more) and peeled the NRA sticker off my front window. of homes, schools, churches and businesses has I disconnected my home alarm system and quit the candychanged the lives of thousands of people forever. *ss Neighborhood Watch. I bought two Pakistani flags and However, what makes me proud to be a southerner put one at each corner of the front yard. Then I purchased is to see how quickly local people jumped to the aid the black flag of ISIS (which you CAN Buy on EBAY) and of their neighbors. From the Cajun Navy to college ran it up the flag pole. students to people I don’t even know, everybody just tried to help one another. And dat was nice.
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Diet Coke was only invented in 1982. When snakes are born with two heads, they fight each other for food. American car horns beep in the tone of F. Flying from London to New York by Concord, due to the time zones crossed, you can arrive 2 hours before you leave. A lion’s roar can be heard from five miles away. The citrus soda 7-UP was created in 1929; “7” was selected because the original containers were 7 ounces. “UP” indicated the direction of the bubbles. The largest number of children born to one woman is recorded at 69. A car that shifts manually gets 2 miles more per gallon of gas than a car with automatic shift. The highest point in Pennsylvania is lower than the lowest point in Colorado.
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Tupac Shakur was shot on September 7, 1996 in Las Vegas. Shakur was leaving a boxing match when an unknown assassin fired a volley of shots at him. He was rushed to a nearby hospital and was heavily sedated until his death nearly a week later, on Friday the 13th. The murder remains unsolved.
MTV hosts The 3rd MTV Music Awards.
The movie September was released.
The Battle on the Bayou is the name of the rivalry between the Louisiana– Lafayette Ragin' Cajuns and the Louisiana–Monroe Warhawks. Cajuns were victorious with a score of 24-20.
Los Del Rio’s Macarena (Bayside Boys Mix) swept the nation as the number one song.
The Oprah Winfrey Show is first broadcast nationally. Dan Marino throws his 100th career touchdown pass, the fastest QB in NFL history to do so.
In one of the biggest games at Cajun Field– on September 14th–38,783 spectators saw the Cajuns upset 25th-ranked Texas A&M, 29–22, the first victory for the Cajuns over a ranked opponent.
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What are the Saints' chances for a winning season in 2016?
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I feel the Saints do not have a very good chance of a winning season. I feel they will be plagued with injuries. They do not seem to have very good odds this year. However, if they were to have a chance, I feel the wide receiver, Michael Thomas is the player that could turn things around. The reason for this is because the public always chooses one person responsible for their success. It's almost like it is not the team that get them to win as a whole. It is always one player and I think he would be the one. – Vanesa Johnson Mollere Lafayette
Saints will have a pretty good season. However, it’s going to be easier to watch when they lose because that really cute player with the long hair and dreamy blue eyes is dressing out. – Yvonne Benitez Lafayette
I do think the Saints have a chance at a winning season. They need to STOP FUMBLING THE BALL! – Christine Blanchard Saucier Lafayette
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Be real...as a true Saints Fan I always believe we have a chance of a winning season. Until we don't, then there is always next year.
My brain says our Saints have a 65% chance of having a winning season, but my southern heart says they will beyond a doubt have a winning season! Of course I'm a Brees fan because he embodies the heart and soul of a true Saint team member. However, upon a bit of investigation, I Drew embodies what being think guard Tim Lelito from Louisiana and a Saints will prove to be very Fan is to the core. He has valuable this season. come here and let the culture Why, you ask...because and tradition embrace his soul. Sean Payton says so and He has become one of us—so that's what I've got to of course Brees is, as New go with! Orleans is, good for the soul. (And hopefully a key player for – Chris Cassidy, a winning season!) Lafayette Drew Brees (of course) but not just for his football skill. For everything he does for New Orleans and Louisiana. He has given us hope when we were hopeless, guided us out of the Katrina darkness, lead our team to a Super Bowl win, and supports his former teammate Steve Gleason in is battle with ALS.
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Celebrate the Grandparent-Grandchild Relationship YEAR, NATIONAL GRANDPARENTS DAY IS SEPT. 11TH. Most THIS Acadiana schools recognize Grandparent’s Day by inviting grandparents to have lunch with their grandkids on a designated school day. This year, take the extra initiative to celebrate the unique and important bond between grandparents and grandchildren throughout the year. Both parties benefit greatly from this relationship in a positive way. Celebrate that union with the following suggestions.
TIPS FOR CELEBRATING TAKE A FIRST STEP If the grandparent–grandchild relationships in your family haven't been ideal, you can begin with small steps, such as a phone call, or sharing a meal. MAKE THEM FEEL SPECIAL Think about what makes the grandparents and grandchildren in your family really feel special. What do they enjoy most? It may be as simple as a phone call, watching a movie, or sharing a meal together. Or it may require a bit more planning—like taking a trip to a favorite destination together. Whatever you do, make it significant to them. WRITE A LETTER TO YOUR GRANDPARENT Tell them how much you appreciate them. Telling them in person or on the phone is good, too, but a letter is something they can keep and go back to again and again. 18 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2016
HELP GRANDCHILDREN MAKE A SERIES OF CARDS FOR GRANDPARENTS Get the cards ready and into stamped envelopes, and mail them once a week or once a month to facilitate ongoing interaction. CREATE A MEMORY BOOK, MEMOIR, SCRAPBOOK OR FAMILY HISTORY This is a great way to capture grandparent's lives for grandchildren to keep. Taking time to do this ensures that your grandchildren will always have a record of your family history or stories. PLAN A WEEKLY OR MONTHLY DINNER. Gather the whole family and play games that all generations can enjoy together. Have the children cook for the family or do it together. They can learn family recipes this way. The best memories are made when laughing and having fun. TIP FOR GRANDPARENTS: Phone calls on big days. Kids have a lot of responsibilities and stress in today’s world. A phone call from Grandma and Grandpa on the day of a big game, a test or another important event in a grandchild's life can let them know they are important and loved. It might also ease some of their anxiety knowing they have outside support besides Mom and Dad, who also may be stressed. Sources: AARP and National Institute on Aging.
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Uber has been in Lafayette for more than a year now. A lot of people are utilizing the service but…some are still skeptical.
What Is Uber?
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Uber is a personal car service conveniently ordered through an app on your smart phone. You sign up to create your rider profile with payment information through your bank card or PayPal. All monetary transactions are handled electronically. When you need a lift, you simply open up the app and request a ride. Someone will be there within minutes. You will get a photo of the driver and the make/model of their vehicle. The application lets you track the driver’s route and you will be notified upon their arrival. Both the rider and driver’s location and route are tracked within the application.
Uber Drivers must clear a background check and have all supporting documents such as driver’s license, car inspection, insurance and current registration on file. Both the driver and the rider are prompted to rate each other using a 5 star rating system. If drivers fall below the average for the area, they will be terminated. Drivers use their own vehicle and it must be a younger model car, 2005 being the oldest but the age requirement varies by city.
Drivers set their own schedule by simply turning on the app showing availability and have the opportunity to decline or accept a rider. It’s a great way to earn cash and meet tons of people. Signing up is simple at www.uber.com. Use the invite code: THW47UE
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Millennials have embraced Uber and use it frequently, to get to and from work as well as for social purposes. One of the best aspects about Uber is that people are using it to have a safe ride home after a night of drinking. If you’re meeting the girls for dinner and/or drinks, Uber is the way to go. People from all walks of life find Uber to be a delightful experience when out of town on pleasure or business. Even when you’re in your hometown, sometimes you find yourself needing a lift because your car is in the shop. Friends and family aren’t always available. Uber is available 24/7, pending driver availability. Download the Uber app on your smart phone now. In the event you need a lift in the future, it’ll be already set up. Use this code to receive up to $20 off and/or your first trip free: THW47UE ** Promotions vary and change over time.
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Acadiana Resident Celebrates By Glenn J. Armentor
It is the best way our family can describe Rosemary Jordan. Her life began on August 1, 1916. Growing up in New Orleans, Rosemary can still reminisce about streets born of dirt, cobblestones and eventually asphalt, predating life before many people had automobiles. Married to George Jordan on November 17, 1932 at age 16, Rosemary remained a faithful and loving wife for 53 years until her husband’s passing in 1986. Rosemary began raising children while her husband left for the Navy during World War II. Eventually moving to Lafayette in the early 1950s, Rosemary bore the last of her four children at age 42 and continues to play a significant part in raising three generations of grandchildren. She resided in the same house for over 60 years in which she was known to host many dinners and kitchen dance parties. That was just how she rolled. Rosemary is a model of consistency. Family and friends always knew she could be found doing yard work on Mondays and Tuesdays, meeting with her ladies club on Wednesdays, shopping on Thursdays and Fridays, visiting with other family members on Saturdays, and attending church and resting on Sundays. This cycle repeated itself for three decades until one day she decided to hire the neighbor to cut the yard. That was at age 93. A fractured hip did not slow
her down four years ago either. After a couple weeks of therapy, family members received a call from the Physical Therapist stating that he was literally chasing her down the street and that she no longer needed her service. Rosemary was ready to get back to her routines. Growing up in New Orleans, Rosemary can still reminisce about streets born of dirt, cobblestones and eventually asphalt, predating life before many people had automobiles. As she recently quoted, it was at age 90 she took herself off the highway and age 92 when she stopped driving. Never one to give up a routine, Rosemary continued shopping until the passing of her last daughter a few years ago. She continues to celebrate festivals, Mardi Gras, Bach lunches and various community events. Now a healthy and vibrant resident of an Assisted Living facility, Rosemary is known as speedy Gonzales especially when it comes to meal time. She continues to travel and share a great many meals with her family. Preparing her 90th and 100th birthday parties gave her family another chance to really understand just how she has and continues to live her life, happy, active and full of life. PHOTOS: ELIZABETH ARMENTOR
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URINARY INCONTINENCE Don’t Suffer in Silence By Chris Fontenot, MD, FACS
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r. Fontenot is Board Certified in Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive surgery. Urinary incontinence, defined as unwanted leakage of urine, affects about 34 million people in the United States. It has many causes, and can affect men or women and can occur at any age.
Dr. Chris Fontenot is a member of the Society of Urodynamics and Female Urology and the International Incontinence Society. He is also a member of the American Urological Association, the LA State Urological Society, where he has served as Secretary and Historian, the Louisiana State Medical Society and the US Autism and Asperger Association.
Many women are afraid to seek treatment for incontinence, as it can be an embarrassing subject to discuss. Also there are many myths about diagnosis and treatment. For example, large incisions and long-term bladder catheters are rarely employed anymore. In fact, many patients are now treated with simple changes in daily routines, physical therapy or medication. There are many types of incontinence, determination of the type of incontinence is critical to treatment success. Usually, the type of incontinence is clear simply by history, but often different types many seem to co-exist. We will perform a physical examination which will offer clues as to the proper diagnosis and the treatment that will provide the greatest chance of success. Additional testing may include measurements of bladder urine, voiding diaries and sophisticated physiologic bladder testing. The fact is unwanted leakage of urine does not have to be a reality in anyone’s life. There is a vast experience and expertise, along with state–ofthe-art treatments available right here in Acadiana. So if you are experiencing urinary incontinence, make an appointment to at least obtain a correct diagnosis and discuss your options. You may find that obtaining dryness is a lot easier than you expected!
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ne of the greatest and most exciting additions to Lafayette’s This summer, the park also landscape is the newly named launched its first annual free “Moncus Park at the Horse Farm,” concert series, “GrassRoots,” 100 acres of beautiful parkland bringing the community together right in the middle of the city to celebrate great music in the on Johnston Street. After a park with regional musicians, community-led campaign saved local merchants, yard games, and the property from commercial lots of food and drink options. development, community leaders formed a new non-profit named This fall also marks the beginning Lafayette Central Park, Inc., to of the park’s first phase of lead an open process to gather construction on many of the input from local citizens on what features in the master plan from they envision for the park. The the community’s vision. Elements park’s master plan is beautiful, include tree houses and an Concert–goers enjoy local music in the park under the oak trees. and highlights some of the top adventure playground, a dog park, elements that residents dreamed of for the park, but also keeps much of a farmer’s market pavilion, an outdoor classroom under the oaks, and a minithe landscape natural, and highlights the already beautiful rolling hills, golf course. There’s sure to be something for everyone in the family! Phase 1 forested ravines, and huge live oak trees on the property. also includes a new entry drive from Johnston Street, a vehicular bridge over the Coulee Mine, and the park’s main parking lot, along with a rain garden for 2016 has been a very exciting year for the park, and in May, the new sustainable stormwater management. name of the park was unveiled at the second annual “Party in the Park” fundraising festival, honoring Mr. Jim Moncus and his wife, Ruth, for The park has collaborated with lots of local organizations, businesses, and their generous support of this great community project. A business school groups who've volunteered time and services for various park projects, visionary, Mr. Moncus' vision is to give back to the Acadiana community from invasive species removal, to sustainable pest control, to volunteering by supporting organizations and individuals that exemplify the values of for the park’s events. To get your office, organization, or church involved at hard work and dedication to make a difference in people’s lives. the park, email info@lafayettecentralpark.org today to find out how. 24 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2016
entertainment, and the best of our local cuisine. Get your tickets to this momentous celebration at www.lafayettecentralpark.org. As always, the Lafayette Farmers’ and Artisans’ Market happens every Saturday in the park from 8am until noon. The market boasts regional vendors coming from over 24 parishes to sell produce, art, jewelry, and other homemade goods. The unique shopping experience for the whole family includes a Cajun Jam that happens each Saturday during the market at 9am. If you haven’t been, it’s worth the trip! For more information about what’s in store for the park’s future, and to sign up for Lafayette Central Park’s newsletter, visit www.lafayettecentralpark.org.
Rendering of the future “Great Lawn” in the park. Several events are planned for the fall, including the first ever “Drive-In at the Park” on Saturday, October 8th at 7pm. Grab your friends and family and head to Moncus Park at the Horse Farm to watch a classic family film and grab dinner, drinks, and popcorn for this unique drive-in experience on the meadow. Also, the park’s Annual Gala, “An Evening Under the Oaks… Around the Fire,” is set for the evening of Wednesday, November 2nd from 6-9pm. The event will honor all those community leaders who are helping to make the park a reality. The event includes unique live and silent auctions, great Rendering of the future Prairie Pond and Sculpture Garden.
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DTA ! 33 YEARS OF CULTURAL CELEBRATION By Kate Durio, Downtown Lafayette
IT’S TRUE. We are the happiest city. We eat well. We take care of one another. And we know how to have a good time. One reason we are happy is our unparalleled music enjoyed for free every week in the spring and fall.
FREE MUSIC is something
we expect in Lafayette and it’s been made famous by Festival International, Festivals Acadiens et Creoles and Downtown Alive! (DTA!), all of which started as a celebration of culture to continue our traditions. At the start, we wanted to celebrate who we are and how we got here. We recognized then that it’s up to us to preserve what makes us, to insure we don’t lose it. Decades later, we have the most authentic culture anywhere and these events are still free. And free is always good, but now, it’s essential. Today’s economy is bad for all of us, forcing us to remember what matters most. Did you know that in the 1980’s, the worst time in our community’s economic history, we banded together to protect our culture? CODOFIL started. French Immersion started. Festivals Acadiens et Creoles started. Festival International de Louisiane started. DTA! started. And we need to again protect what carries us through the darkest times. As we lose jobs and work to keep homes or employees, it’s still free to come out on a Friday and dance worries away, and now that is more important than ever. And these events need you now more than ever too. It costs even
more now and other areas of town are now using concerts as a way to sell lots out in subdivisions, and they have deeper pockets. This purpose is painfully far from the heart of these older festivals and events and these private entities are lining their pockets instead of turning toward their neighbors. We’re happy to have so many opportunities to celebrate – but it’s our responsibility to know what we’re supporting. From the beginning, we understood how it worked. The festivals raise money through sponsors to pay for bands, insurance, venues, vendors, security, bathrooms, stages and much more. In return for this investment, when we’re thirsty, we don’t pack an ice chest, or go to the drive-thru daiquiri place on the way – we walk over to the drink booths and buy our drink from the festival, in exchange for free admission, because that’s how we keep it going. Or that’s how we should do it. We’re a proud people and it’s a shame for any local to come to these events with an ice chest. We need to hold ourselves accountable or risk losing what we claim to love. Maybe we’ve heard this message so much in the last 30 years that it’s tuned out and forgotten. But as an organizer, I can tell you we not only
DTA! Go There.
DOWNTOWN ALIVE! remember, we feel it. We notice every ice chest and Styrofoam cup. Do events like DTA! just go away to let private companies profit? Is it fair to not pay admission and not support these events here at home, but pay more when we go out of town? At Jazz Fest, for instance, admission is $70 per person per day. Admission to these festivals and events is always free for everyone. Jazz Fest beers are DTA! is produced by our non-profit, and does not receive funds from the government. Sponsors support the upfront production costs but we are reliant on beverage sales at the events themselves to stay afloat.
$7. DTA! beer is $4. Free music is something Lafayette is proud of, but are we prepared to protect it by simply supporting festival vendors? Now that I’m at the helm of DTA!, going 33 years strong this fall, I’m worried. I’m worried when I hear patrons say that, “the government is paying, so it’s my right to bring an ice chest." It’s not about right and wrong, it’s about supporting
the things we love. And we love our community Downtown. DTA! is produced by our non-profit, and does not receive funds from the government. Sponsors support the upfront production costs but we are reliant on beverage sales at the events themselves to stay afloat. And what happens if we make money after expenses? It goes right back into the community.
With the funds made from Downtown Alive! we enhance and promote all things Downtown. In the last three years, we have spent $48,000 on public art Downtown including grants that put money into the hands of local artists. We improve Downtown parcs, we installed the YLAFAYETTE sign in Parc Sans Souci seen by millions. We started a recycling program for all parc events, to reduce waste and remind patrons to be responsible. With DTA! funds, we also produce Movies in the Parc, 2nd Saturday ArtWalk and the Downtown Awards program that celebrates local businesses. When we promote Downtown, we’re promoting local and small business, since that’s what you’ll find Downtown. Your money stays here. And we’re proud of that. I know people are worried. We are all worried. But every beer, coke, water and t-shirt adds up for these
events in a big way. Look for me at DTA! giving you a thumbs up at the sight of your DTA! cup.
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your research, ask around, and then make the best judgment call for your well-being. Once you take the step to improve your life there are a few things to keep in mind, starting with the consultation. "A consultation is an opportunity for patients to evaluate surgeons," explains Dr. Joseph P. Lupo with Plastic & Reconstructive Surgery of Acadiana, "the surgeon should be open and honest with the patient about options, benefits, and possible risks." Dr. Lupo and his partner, Dr. Bennett Boustany Fontenot, say it's important to choose a surgeon who is trained in both General Surgery and Plastic Surgery. "We are double trained here," says Dr. Fontenot, "it's about safety and what's best for our patients."
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When you decide to schedule your consultation, there are a few things you may want to bring, such as your medical history. This should include medical problems in your family. Also, bring along any medications you are currently taking, including vitamins and supplements.
Write down all your concerns, ask pointed questions about safety, preparations, possible risks, downtime, and aftercare. Don’t be afraid to ask what might be seen as difficult questions, such as your doctor’s complication rate and contingency plans for problems.
"What the surgeon may need to know might be specific to your procedure but medical history and medications are always important," says Dr. Fontenot.
Angie Bryant went to Dr. Lupo for reconstructive procedures on her foot; she says nervousness was a real issue for her, "I was actually terrified, but he made me feel comfortable. My surgery was no sure thing, it was complicated. He did everything to answer my questions."
Body shape, anatomy, and overall health may affect the approach of the surgeon. Like Dr. Lupo and Dr. Fontenot, your surgeon should understand the intricacies of Microvascular Surgery and invest in technology. At Plastic & Reconstructive Surgery of Acadiana, they make use of the advanced Vectra Imaging System. Vectra can actually let them create a picture of what the outcome of surgery will look like before patients undergo a procedure. According to Dr. Lupo, "Vectra allows us and patients to be on the same page. We want them to know what's possible and realistic. It's about working together and building trust."
"I like it when someone comes in with a list of questions," says Dr. Lupo, "I always want informed and involved patients." Dr. Lupo and Dr. Fontenot say that patients being involved in their own care is crucial. They are trained in various techniques and make use of state-of-the-art technology, but that can only take procedures part of the way.
Body shape, anatomy, and overall health may affect the approach of the surgeon. Having an informed patient means they can be involved in their surgical plan, which was key for Angie. "We were dealing with something I don't think is done in this area. Dr. Lupo basically had to reconstruct the top half of my foot. He was very professional, but I felt I could approach him with questions. He's not only a great doctor but a great person." Go in with an idea of how you want to live after surgery. Plastic surgery is life changing; know what you want to get out of it. The surgical portion of plastic surgery may be the smallest piece of your relationship with your doctor. Choosing the right surgeon for your life is more important than the actual procedure.
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The best advantage of the blood type diet is that it can be used as a stepping stone to getting you closer to eating real food, which is beneficial for everyone.
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ot the man-type who would make all of your dreams come true, but your blood type. The Blood Type Diet which started in 1996 by Dr. Peter D’Adamo outlines specific foods that should be consumed and avoided depending on your ABO blood type. Dr. D’Adamo’s research has led him to conclude that an individual’s blood type is “the key that unlocks the door to the mysteries of health, disease, longevity, physical vitality, and emotional strength.” Some blood types recommend a near vegetarian approach, with less meat and significantly more vegetables, while others endorse a diet high in animal protein with specific vegetables and limited grains. Dr. D’Adamo suggests your blood type can:
• PREDICT SUSCEPTIBILITY TO CERTAIN TYPES OF DISEASES • DETERMINE HOW YOU WILL REACT TO STRESS • FORECAST BACTERIAL MAKEUP OF THE GI TRACT
Dr. D’Adamo supports the idea of becoming familiar with your blood type, and to use the knowledge about its nature to follow a dietary plan that is biologically compatible for your makeup.
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He claims eating the wrong types of proteins can cause negative effects on the body including decreasing metabolism, digestive disorders, and various cancers. While many people have anecdotally had success with improving health conditions with the blood type diet there have been no independent research studies validating the claims. All of the variations of the blood type diet outlined are based on real, whole foods approach to eating. For many people, following any of the diets outlined in the blood type diet would be appropriate for improved health and weight loss as they eliminate processed foods, which is a significant part of the standard American diet that leads to poor health. It is quite probable that eliminating unhealthy foods can attribute to the health benefits gained. While there are seven billion people on the planet, there are likely close to seven billion individualized diets that rather than the four outlined by the blood type diet. The best advantage of the blood type diet is that it can be used as a stepping stone to getting you closer to eating real food, which is beneficial for everyone.
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Legumes, Fruit, Olive Oil, Soy, Seafood, Vegetables, Pineapple AVOID: Meat, Dairy, Kidney Beans, Lima Beans, Wheat, Corn EXERCISE: Calming, centering exercises such as yoga and Tai Chi
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Beans, Legumes, Kelp, Seafood, Red meat, Kale, Spinach, Broccoli, Olive Oil AVOID: Wheat, Corn, Lentils, Kidney Beans, Dairy EXERCISE: Intense physical exercise such as aerobics, running, and martial arts
Type B BALANCED OMNIVORE: Meat, Dairy, Grains, Fruit, Vegetables,
Fish, Seafood, Select beans, Legumes, Greens, Eggs, Venison, Liver, Licorice Tea AVOID: Chicken, Corn, Lentils, Peanuts, Wheat EXERCISE: Moderate physical exercise with a mental component, such as hiking, cycling, tennis, and swimming
Type AB MIXED DIET: Lamb, Fish, Dairy, Tofu, Beans, Legumes, Grains,
Vegetables, Fruit, Tofu, Seafood, Greens, Kelp EXERCISE: Calming, centering exercises such as yoga combined with moderate exercise like cycling and tennis.
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PROTECTING KIDS with FOOD ALLERGIES
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The number of children with food allergies increased by nearly 50 percent between 1997 and 2011
THEY WERE WHEN YOU WERE A KID, YOU’RE NOT IMAGINING IT.
The number of children with food allergies increased by nearly 50 percent between 1997 and 2011, according to a study conducted by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). Researchers are working to discover why food allergies are on the rise in developed countries around the world. In 2011, Congress passed the FDA Food Safety Modernization Act to improve food safety in the United States. This act shifted the focus of food safety from response to prevention. The shift resulted in new guidelines for parents and educators to manage the risks of food allergies and severe allergic reactions. There might not be a cure for food allergies, but there are some steps you can take to ensure your child is safe at school.
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FORM A PARTNERSHIP WITH TEACHERS AND SCHOOL STAFF Communication is key when it comes to managing allergy risks. Introduce yourself to all the adults your child sees every day, from teachers and nurses to bus drivers, cafeteria staff and administrators. There are often misconceptions surrounding food allergies, so take this time to clear those up. Provide specific information about your child’s needs and how each staff member can support them each day, as well as in an emergency situation. HAVE A COLLECTION OF GO-TO SAFE SNACKS Food allergies can be scary, but don’t let food become an object of fear in your family. Allergies create an opportunity to teach your kids about safe eating. Find safe snacks to put in your child’s lunchbox or backpack, like Snyder’s of Hanover pretzels, which are now made in a peanut-free facility and safe for kids with peanut allergies. Kids with allergies often feel left out during times
with class treats, but storing wholesome and tasty options like these in their locker is the perfect solution.
not there, a medical ID lets others know what to do by listing your contact information and instructing to use an auto-injector or call 911.
copies of your plan and keep them in an easily accessible place. Let your physician, school staff and other parents know it is available.
TEACH YOUR CHILD TO MANAGE THEIR ALLERGIES
HAVE A PLAN FOR EMERGENCIES
Follow these steps to ensure your child is as safe as possible from their food allergens. To learn more about food safety, visit foodallergy.org.
Encourage your child to advocate for themselves when it comes to prevention. Find books about food allergies to read with younger children and help them practice with auto-injector trainers. When they’re ready, teach them to read food labels, speak up for themselves at school, avoid non-labeled or homemade foods and recognize the symptoms of a reaction.
You can download the Food Allergy & Anaphylaxis Emergency Care Plan from the Food Allergy Research and Education website. This plan outlines recommended treatment in case of an allergic reaction and has space for specific doctor notes and emergency contact information. It also includes allergens, symptoms and easy-tofollow treatment instructions. Print out several
Some common food allergens
HAVE YOUR CHILD WEAR A MEDICAL ID You can keep your kids safe when you’re around; but when they’re at school, camp or even a friend’s house, you can’t always protect them. Wearing a medical ID helps kids remember exactly what they’re allergic to. And if they have a reaction when you’re
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he kids are back in school, vacation is over and the heat and humidity of summer are leaving. As you begin to reorganize your schedule you might look to reorganizing your home also. So, while the youngsters are learning the rules of the classroom, let’s look at the rules of design and home building. First off – what are rules? Meant to be broken? Guidelines? Simple paths for simple people? Golden? There are “rules” and there are “principals” of design. If you have or want to have or think you have “good taste”… then follow the rules, listen to your mother, copy your neighbor, and by all means keep all the furniture on or off the rug. What I’m interested We are inclined to feel in is seeing comfortable, at ease, in the person a place that provides a reflected in safe haven – what is that the space they live in. place like for you? While I do not think there are really any absolutes to follow, it can make your work easier if you treat absolutes as hints and techniques developed through the experience of professionals. There are certain things to pay attention to when creating a home, there are certain things to avoid and there are some ideas that are just screwball. I don’t say “Dare to be different,” I say “Dare to be you.” The main thing about design is that it really is little more than editing.
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You will find your own style and begin to express it with panache if you just read the following. You'll start thinking differently, so beware: 1 Study some of the existing “rules” and decide which ones you like. Keep those that make you think “Yes” and don’t bother with the rest. You’ve been alive for a few years. You’ve surely snooped around and seen a few other peoples’ homes, and, I hope, you look around and notice the world you live in. 2 Some things work, some things don’t – pay attention to your gut instincts when you walk into a space; your intuition is your ally. 3 We are naturally inclined, being mammals, to flee a place that feels unsafe. The main function of the primal brain stem or ‘lizard brain’ is to keep you alive. If a place feels uncomfortable, ask yourself ‘why?’ Is it the ceiling height, the colors, the light, the amount of furniture? We are inclined to feel comfortable, at ease, in a place that provides a safe haven – what is that place like for you? 4 Give yourself time to experience yourself in your home; think about those places you feel really good in; look around and wonder at where you are and decide what works for you – not your mother or best friend or style magazine. 5
Be inspired to follow your own path.
“You know you have reached perfection of design not when you have nothing more to add, but when you have nothing more to takeaway.”
– Antoine de Saint-Exupery
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Create A Multi-Purpose Home Office Space
Instead of turning that spare bedroom into a space strictly
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are already living that dream and 37 percent of U.S. workers telecommute, according to Gallup. However, unless you're a full-time telecommuter or an entrepreneur running a business from your home, it may be hard to justify dedicating an entire room in your house for home office space. Today's home offices must be able to multi-task as efficiently and effectively as the people who work in them—and that's something you should keep in mind when making renovation plans. Instead of turning that spare bedroom into a space strictly used for work, why not consider improvements that will help the room multi-task? With a few smart upgrades, spaces such as attics, basements, spare bedrooms and other smaller areas can serve as multi-functional spaces for work, play, working out and socializing.
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TIPS FOR MULTI-TASKING OFFICES • GOOD LIGHTING is essential for any home office, but if you want to avoid the institutional look of traditional office lights, consider increasing the amount of natural light that enters your multi-purpose office space. Adding Energy Star-qualified, solar-powered, fresh-air skylights, like those from Velux America, is a cost-effective way to bring natural light, as well as passive ventilation, into any home office space. Solar-powered blinds in designer colors and patterns enhance the blended decor of a multi-use room, while allowing you to control the amount of light entering the room with a programmable touchpad remote control. Plus, a 30 percent federal tax credit is available to homeowners on solar-powered skylights, blinds and installation costs. • DIVIDE THE ROOM VISUALLY to define functional areas. You can do this in several ways, including using a folding screen to partition off the room's work area, or hanging curtains to conceal lesser-used sections of the room when they're not in use. You can also use the room's layout to create a natural flow. For example, tuck a desk and shelving into an attic dormer area as office space.
• MANY HOME OFFICES NEED TO DOUBLE as a guest bedroom. If working beside an inviting bed all day makes it difficult to resist the temptation of a nap, consider alternative bed styles. A daybed can be dressed up with pillows to serve as a sofa where you can comfortably read reports. Or, completely hide the sleeping area by adding a Murphy bed to available wall space.
• MAKE IT EASY TO REARRANGE furnishings in the room by putting your desk on coasters just like your office chair. Whenever you need the room to function as a workout space, home theater or social center, just roll the office furniture out of the way.
• IF YOU'RE TURNING A BEDROOM into a multi-purpose office, no one should need the closet for hanging clothes. Instead, convert the closet into a cozy spot for a workspace. You can place a small desk inside, or hang wide shelving that can function as a workspace for your laptop, printer and files. When you're not working, simply close the closet doors!
• ORGANIZATION IS CRITICAL whenever a room has to serve more than one purpose. If you don't have the space for filing cabinets, or simply don't like the way they look, bookcases and shelving can be a great alternative. Don't overlook the possibilities presented by extra wall space; you can layer shelves to maximize storage space above your desk/work area.
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MIDAS TOUCH OF MENUTIS By Marisa Olson
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ECADES BEFORE AMERICAN BUSINESS WOMEN COINED THE PHRASE GLASS CEILING, RUTH ANN MENUTIS HAD ALREADY SCALED
THE PROFESSIONAL LADDER AND SHATTERED THE BARRIER. However, becoming an entrepreneurial
pioneer in a male-dominated world never was the driving force of her ambition. For Menutis, success, quite simply, means doing what she loves: running her own business. Prevailing professional orthodoxy decrees that to be successful, one must know what one “wants to do in life,” to “focus” on a single path. Menutis never heard that advice, but if she had, would never have heeded it. Yet she serves as an amazing example to every small business owner. Menutis has risen to the top in several industries: as a nationally recognized fashion designer, head of a national retail clothing chain, president and CEO of a national snack food company, commercial real estate developer. She has elevated entrepreneurship into an art form, creating, imagining and re-imagining commercial landscapes and major real estate projects that drive economic development by empowering the small businesses within her sphere.
MENUTIS RELOCATES HER COMPANY, BRANDED WORKS, FROM THE FRENCH QUARTER TO THE OIL CENTER In the late 1950s, the Lafayette native left her home to begin a career in Houston, and eventually established her company’s headquarters in the French Quarter. For over three decades, she and her family lived in New Orleans, but Menutis longed for home, and in 2002 bought a second residence in Lafayette. After Katrina wiped out her company office and New Orleans investment properties, she relocated her company, Branded Works, to the Oil Center, completing her transition to the Hub City.
THE DRIVING FORCE BEHIND THE OIL CENTER’S ECONOMIC REVITALIZATION Without wasting a moment, she purchased, overhauled and set up shop in what is now the Travis Technology Center, a 33,000 square foot building she has filled to capacity with a multitude of small business tenants, revitalizing the Oil Center in the process. While renovation was underway at the technology center, she purchased a row of retail space on Heymann Boulevard that includes Café Bella, The Palmetto Club, Bon Temps Grill, and Ballin’s. Ten years later, the center functions as a bustling hub for the small business owners who share space alongside Menutis’ national operations. She views the center as an incubator for small business, and takes personal interest in her tenants’ growth and success. Jimmie Menutis joined his wife’s revitalization campaign, opening American Pop Art, also on Heymann. Son, Dimitri has condominium development projects underway on South College, and, with his mother, co-owns franchises for Raising Cane's Chicken Fingers and Pinkberry Yogurt, which they operate in several major airports including Boston, LaGuardia, San Antonio and LAX.
Plenty of people told me I couldn’t succeed. I didn’t listen to them. – R.A. Menutis, President and CEO Branded Works, Inc.
THE ORIGINAL MELLO JOY COFFEE GIRL The daughter of a Lafayette farmer, Ruth Ann Pellerin began her first job at KLFY-TV as station traffic manager while attending Judice High School. Every day after school, Pellerin drove her little green Chevy to the station, sometimes working as late as 10 p.m. The fifteen-year-old honor student was president of several student organizations, and demonstrated an early civic-minded awareness. Her curiosity, creative energy and buoyant joie de vivre seemed boundless. Paul Declouet, the station owner and Pellerin’s godfather, saw great promise in the precocious teen, and hoped to instill in her direction and aspirations for higher education and a professional career. His admirable, avuncular intentions received strong support from Pellerin’s parents. Pellerin’s mother had enrolled her daughter into elementary school at the early age of five, making Pellerin sixteen when she graduated from high school and entered college. While attending what’s currently known as University of Louisiana at Lafayette, she continued at KLFY as traffic manager, and also performed commercial spots for local sponsors, including Mello Joy. During the station’s live television show, Meet Your Neighbor, then hosted by Bill Cochran, she served Mello Joy coffee to guests and studio members, and so Ruth Ann became Lafayette’s first Mello Joy Coffee Girl. Looking back, Menutis laughs: “Sometimes, Bill would throw me a line and say, ‘How’s that coffee, Ruth Ann?’”
A CHANGE IN THE AIR When Trans-Texas Airways made its inaugural flight into Lafayette, two of the airline’s pilots appeared as guests on Cochran’s show. During break, they encouraged Pellerin to interview for a hostess position with Trans-Texas, giving her and other staff complimentary tickets for a brief flight that circled Lafayette. Before leaving the studio that evening, she asked herself, “Do I really want to do this job the rest of my life?” She wasn’t 100% sure, but gave it no more thought. She was dying to fly. The next day, she drove to the airport. After takeoff,
she peered through the small passenger window, looking down through the clouds. On the spur of the moment, she asked for an application and interviewed during the flight. She landed the job. When Pellerin told Declouet she was quitting to become a flight hostess, he was incredulous and lectured her to no avail. Dropping out of college and abandoning a bright future in broadcasting was a “dumb” mistake. Exasperated, he bellowed, “You will never amount to anything!” His words stung, but Ruth Ann Pellerin was determined to explore the world. She was eighteen.
LEAVING HOME Although saddened by their daughter’s decision to leave home, the Pellerins remained supportive and hopeful. Ruth Ann quickly packed and moved to Houston to embark on her new career as a hostess with Trans-Texas at Hobby Airport. She shared an apartment with her best friend, Pat Thorpe, and best friend’s aunt, Juanita, both of whom also worked for the airline as a stewardess and a check hostess. Pat and Juanita introduced the pretty bookworm to Houston’s glamorous nightclub scene. One evening while they were out on the town, Juanita brought a date, Jimmie Menutis, the owner of Houston’s premiere nightclub (appropriately named), Jimmie Menutis’ Lounge and Club. The club’s world famous acts included Fats Domino, Chuck Berry, Jerry Lee Lewis, Bo Diddley and Louis Armstrong. Menutis’ was the first desegregated music club in Texas, and the state’s only desegregated venue at the time. Menutis and Pellerin became acquainted. A year later, they would be married.
DESTINATION DALLAS Pellerin thrived in the big city, and was promoted to check hostess at Dallas Fort Worth Airport. Because a full-time position with the airline was only 17 hours per week, she took a second job modeling at Dallas’ Apparel Mart where she was introduced to some of the nation’s top fashion designers.
At the advent of the 60s, women’s fashion was undergoing radical transformation, and visiting designers in Dallas were eager to know the tastes of the younger generation, even asking their model’s opinions on prototypes. Menutis proved a true muse in more ways than one. Her insights heavily influenced their creations, and her instincts proved uncanny, as she seemed to possess an innate ability to modify designs that resonated with the stylishly discerning, modern young woman. Ironically, Pellerin had bought her first dress only after moving to Houston. Before then, all her clothes were intricately and beautifully handmade by her mother, an exceptional seamstress who enjoyed experimenting with fabrics. Pellerin had acquired her mother’s skill and creativity in design, which proved an invaluable advantage in her modeling, and naturally led to a new line of work.
MY BIG GREEK CAJUN WEDDING Before Pellerin was promoted again and moved any farther from Houston, Jimmie Menutis proposed to his Cajun sweetheart. She returned to Houston and converted to the Greek Orthodox Church, fully embracing her new family and community. The close couple recently celebrated their 56th wedding anniversary, and, for over four decades, Ruth Ann has been an active member of The Daughters of Penelope, a New Orleans’ civic organization dedicated to the promotion of Greek culture, philanthropy, education, and family.
A DESIGNER IS BORN In 1960, a traditional, Greek wife did not work outside the home, and Jimmie was old school. However, the world was changing, and Ruth Ann had made an early departure from convention, so she continued modeling, traveling and designing while raising a family. Jimmie came around, taking newfound pride in his wife when she opened Ruth Ann Fashions, a clothing boutique in Houston’s Towers Hotel. The upscale shop primarily featured Menutis’ own creations, but also a few lines by major designers such as Mr. Blackwell and Claralura of California, a brand owned by the Miami-based designer, Mel Warshaw. Like the designers Menutis had known in Dallas, Warshaw marveled at her flair for design, and sparked a collaboration that would
last several years. Each new fashion season, he flew her to his Miami atelier, involving her in the initial concept and complete design process for his lines, including Claralura and Miss Jane of Miami. It was a brilliant partnership. Menutis’ contributions were original and so admired by buyers that Warshaw opened a division in his company dedicated to Menutis, naming it, More by Ruth Ann, and giving her full creative license to design her own collection. Soon, More by Ruth Ann became more profitable than Warshaw’s Miss Jane line. “Consequently,” Menutis reveals, “[Warshaw] started putting all my ideas under his Miss Jane label.” Warshaw also introduced Menutis to the designer who created the collection for American Airlines’ annual fashion show, which cinched a contract designing fashions for their models on a national billboard. That year, Menutis’ designs won the The National Designers Award. She had come into her own as a nationally recognized American fashion designer.
THE PERILS OF SUCCESS Designing for Warshaw brought Menutis handsome royalties and due recognition. She garnered 3% of sales over $800,000 from a company that grossed $6 million annually. However, demand spiraled at such a dizzying rate that she could no longer keep pace, and yearned to spend more time with her family, and to concentrate on her own retail clothing business. Muse and designer parted company, but even after Menutis left the fashion business altogether, Warshaw still sought her inspired guidance on all his latest creations. Under the name Ruth Ann Fashions, she focused on developing her own clothing line, expanding from one to four Houston locations, then a fifth on Bourbon Street in the French Quarter. In the Quarter, business skyrocketed. She closed all her Houston locations except the flagship store and the entire family relocated to New Orleans. In a few short years, her presence grew from a single store with one employee to five locations with sixty-five employees. She expanded into eight locations on Bourbon Street, and two on Royal, where she set up company headquarters. Then, the chain went national when she opened a posh, Lexington Avenue boutique on Manhattan’s exclusive Upper East Side.
During the 80s and 90s, Menutis led the revitalization of the French Quarter, transforming 15 distressed commercial properties into lucrative office buildings. She conceived of and launched the first French Quarter Festival,and was the major impetus behind Hollywood producers such as Francis Ford Copolla filming motion pictures in the Big Easy.
The rapid rise and expansion of Ruth Ann Fashions proved so overwhelming that operations were becoming unmanageable, and the venture seemed on the verge of collapsing under the weight of its very success. Ever enterprising, Menutis devised a brilliant solution.
1980, she launched The Grove, opening a 42-foot square nut stand at the New Orleans International Airport. In ten years, she had expanded to ten major airports across the country. Just as her company was on the cusp of exponential growth, Host Marriott took note of the lucrative business and formed its own version of Menutis’ company. In its first year, the corporate
MANAGERS WITH BENEFITS Rather than selling her stores to other chains and retailers, Menutis proposed to her store managers that they independently own and operate their twelve, respective locations in exchange for a percentage of the profits. Menutis would teach them everything she knew about business. It was a win-win, and she seemed born for her newest role as an entrepreneurial mentor. The stores continued to prosper, each of the managers-turnedsmall business owners became millionaires, and Menutis had more quality family time with Jimmie and their three beautiful children, Jamie, Dimitri, and Marika. She transformed from employer to property owner, began acquiring investment properties, and rose to key leadership positions in New Orleans’ business and arts districts.
NEW ORLEANS’ EMBRACE During the 80s and 90s, Menutis led the revitalization of the French Quarter, transforming 15 distressed commercial properties into lucrative office buildings. She conceived of and launched the first French Quarter Festival, and was the major impetus behind Hollywood producers such as Francis Ford Copolla filming motion pictures in the Big Easy. She earned seats on numerous boards, including the New Orleans Chamber of Commerce, and presided as board president to the French Market Corporation and the Bourbon Street Merchants Association. The University of New Orleans chose her as its “Entrepreneur of the Year,” and asked her to teach classes in female entrepreneurship. Her touch was golden.
THE GROVE: A TALE OF DAVID VERSUS GOLIATH Having a keen eye for spotting trends, Menutis saw that the American lifestyle was growing increasingly hectic, but at the same time more health conscious, giving her the idea to form a healthy snack food business that would cater to busy air travelers. In
titan opened healthy snack food concessions in the same ten airports. It was going in for the kill. Menutis stood firm: “I wasn’t going to let them do that.” She fought back, ousting the competitor from her territory, and forcing it to shut all ten locations. The Grove rebounded, rapidly expanding to 100 locations in 16 airports, then branching into gas stations and movie theatres. When she sold the company in 2004, the little nut stand had transformed into a multi-million dollar juggernaut.
BRANDED WORKS Menutis turned her focus and energy to her other company, Branded Works, which she formed in 1994 as a joint venture with Hudson Group, an industry leader in airport concessions. Branded Works has acquired the rights to franchise Pinkberry Yogurt® and Raising Cane’s Chicken Fingers® in six major airports. As the company’s President and CEO, Menutis holds an interest in five of HG’s 100 airport locations, and frequents her stores in the Boston, New Jersey, LaGuardia, Charleston, Greenville and Burlington, Vermont airports.
NEW VENTURES Menutis has seized every advantage conferred by chance. Through the decades, her keen vision and unshakable tenacity have informed her decision-making, enabling her to recognize potential opportunities that others either overlooked or discarded. Today, Menutis focuses on running her company, assisting her children Dimitri and Jamie with their own ventures, mentoring small business owners, and above all, sharing quality time with her lifelong sweetheart Jimmie, now 92. Plans for the future include instituting Entrepreneurial programs for local high school juniors and seniors. Menutis is as beloved as she is successful, and her deepest wish is for others to experience the freedom and joy of running their own businesses.
CAREER
Dolly Parton once said, “Don’t get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life.” Given her career as a singer, songwriter, actress, author, businesswoman and humanitarian, I’d say she might know a thing or two about living a rich and full life.
Ask yourself, “If money were no object, what would
Are you feeling completely fulfilled with your life’s journey? Do you wake up refreshed and ready to hit the ground running … every single day? Do you radiate love, joy, happiness, and hopefulness? Or do you find yourself constantly hitting “speed bumps” along the way?
I do with my life? ” If your life is close to perfect in every way, you are indeed an inspiration to others! If you’re encountering speed bumps (or lumps), you can also be an inspiration to others…with a few tweaks. Learn to dream.
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DEDICATION: Are you dedicated to making your life the best life possible? Are you utilizing the skills you were born with, and have you honed those skills that you are passionate about? Are you focused on sharing your skills to help others?
RESPONSIBILITY: You have power and control over many things. Are you drowning in a “woe is me” world of self-pity? Or are you accountable for the things you can control?
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EDUCATION: Learn something new every day. Sometimes, it’s realizing that you’re smarter than you think! It might also be a lesson in humility, as the rug gets pulled out from under. Whatever each day brings, be open to learning life’s lessons…so you can realize the bigger dream. ATTITUDE: Are you smiling at the thought of a new day and new opportunities for goodness? Or do you need to turn that frown upside down? Seriously, a smile is the first step toward a great attitude for the entire day. You can do this — :-) MOTIVATION: What’s your motivation? Ask yourself, “If money were no object, what would I do with my life?” Ponder this carefully. When you come up with an answer, figure out what it would take to get there. That’s your motivation! Ex: Four years ago, my husband and I desperately wanted to travel, but we were drowning in credit card debt. Carefully and methodically, we came up with a systematic plan to eliminate our credit cards. Now we are able to travel (that’s our motivation) without the constant worry about money. Identifying the motivation is necessary for the dream to come true. As you DREAM, your life gets better and you will certainly inspire others. Just like those Values.com commercials (The Foundation for a Better Life), you will undoubtedly promote good values in others, including honesty, caring, optimism, hard work and helping others. Sounds like a great DREAM to me! About the author: Laurie J. James is one of 18 Master Career Directors globally. She co-founded and presided over the Professional Résumé Writing & Research Association from 2000-2004. PRWRA rebranded to Career Directors in 2005. Laurie has created 10,000+ job-winning résumés in her 30-year career. She is a credentialed résumé and LinkedIn profile writer, seasoned public speaker and award-winning career image coach.
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A Choice For Personal Safety By Savannah Ludwig
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hen you consider the fierce competition between news
organizations to grab the headlines with the most shocking content available, it’s no wonder most Americans think violent crimes are on the rise. Facts be told, they are not. According to numerous sources, violent crimes in America are actually decreasing— and have been for a number of years. Reassuring, right!? Well, not really, because the reality is that at any given time, anyone can fall victim to random violence. As we’ve seen throughout the country, the most seemingly peaceful community can be ripped apart in an instant when the unthinkable happens; a lone gunman with no warning opens fire in some random place, forever changing the lives of those involved. It is the fear of such a scenario that has sparked a national debate about how best to protect you and your family should such an unthinkable crime occur. And, what we feel is the driving force behind the rise in gun ownership by women. In the past, we [FACE] have written personal safety articles with sensible tips and techniques on personal safety such as staying
vigilant; shopping in groups, parking in well lit areas and keeping your cell phone handy should you need to call 911. For this article, we wanted to take the conversation to the next level by addressing gun ownership as a means for personal safety. We’re not going to get into a Second Amendment debate, but as Americans we are blessed to have the freedom to make those personal choices for ourselves. For those who are anti-gun no matter what, we respect your choice. However, for those who are considering a firearm purchase or want to learn more about the subject of gun ownership, keep reading, there’s a lot to learn before you can make an informed decision on the subject. NOW, the fact that you’re still reading should tell you something about yourself. Perhaps you already own a firearm, but you don’t know how to use it. Maybe you’ve thought about purchasing one for self defense but never knew where to start or perhaps you’ve found yourself in a personal or business situation where you
are vulnerable to attack, such as when you make the daily deposits for your business. Or, if there have been recent changes in your personal life and you find yourself dating or going out with new acquaintances. The scenarios and reasons for gun ownership are different for everyone, which is why most experts recommend starting your journey by asking yourself a series questions such as: • Why do I want to have a gun in my possession? • Is gun ownership practical for my lifestyle? • How would I protect myself if there was an intruder in my house? • Would I really use a gun for self defense if I had to? As women, these are really tough questions to ponder because it means facing our vulnerabilities. For our own peace of mind we
Natalie Foster, creator of Girls Guide to Guns summarizes the mentality of the emerging female shooter. She states, “Shooting gives us a sense of equality, a sense of safety, a sense of being in control of ourselves. That sense of control is empowering and is something we should seek in other aspects of our life.”
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Think about it. If you’re too intimidated to walk into a gun store (and we don’t mean some big box store), do you really think you’ll have the courage to pull the trigger in a moment of crisis?
tend to assure ourselves that "people are good" or "my neighborhood is safe" or "I’m always aware of my surroundings and can prevent something from happening." Of course we know that none of these things are completely true and it’s just unrealistic to think that law enforcement or a Good Samaritan can jump in to protect us in time, should something happen.
but don’t believe everything you read—the internet is filled with misinformation.
So you’ve asked yourself the tough questions and you’re still interested in moving forward?
After you know a few basics like the difference between a handgun (pistol) and a long gun (rifle or shotgun), most experts agree your first stop should be to a local gun store with a trained staff. They can debunk the myths of gun ownership; give advice on available training and education in your area along with recommending specific firearms for your specific need and skill level.
The next step should be a little self education. Do some online research, just to familiarize yourself with a few terms,
This may seem a little intimidating, but it shouldn’t be. Think about it. If you’re too intimidated to walk into a gun store (and we
HERE ARE A FEW TRUSTED WEBSITES LA STATE POLICE (Hand Gun - Concealed): www.lsp.org/handguns.html LA DEPT. OF WILDLIFE AND FISHERIES (Hunting Education): www.wlf.louisiana.gov NRA (National Rifle Assoc): www.women.nra.org 52 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2016
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LIFE AND LEISURE FACE Magazine visited 3 local gun stores to ask their experts for advice.
don’t mean some big box store), do you really think you’ll have the courage to pull the trigger in a moment of crisis? Taking our own advice, we [FACE] visited 3 local gun stores to ask their experts for advice on first time gun ownership, industry trends
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and what they thought women should know about the subject. Our first stop was to LAFAYETTE SHOOTERS AND WILDERNESS on Ambassador Caffery Parkway, where we spoke with Dan Jackson and Lauren Duhon. They stated that they have seen a spike in gun sales over the last six years or so. According to Dan, “when it hits close to home” [referring to recent incidents in Lafayette], that’s when we see an increase in sales. Lauren showed us some of the latest in fashionable purses and accessories for the concealed carry female. The purses are as stylish and include a special feature—a hidden compartment designed for safe keeping of a handgun that is also easy to access should you need your weapon quickly.
Our next visit was to DAVE’S GUN SHOP on Kaliste Saloom Road, where we met with store owner Jeremiah Deare [a retired Army Veteran], who we asked about the first steps a person should take in finding the right handgun for personal protection. Jeremiah stated that he and his staff make it a point to “fit a gun to a need." When a female client walks into his store for the first time, they discuss whether the gun will be for self defense, hunting, or sport shooting and they take it from there. Jeremiah mentions that often times the decision between the purchase of a revolver or semi-automatic weapon hinges on the strength of the user. Older women and those that are of smaller stature, tend to prefer the revolver because without the proper amount of strength and coordination, the slide on the semi auto is a bit difficult to maneuver. Our last stop was to DISTANT THUNDER USA. A woman owned gun store on S. Morgan St. in Broussard, LA., where we met Angela Deere. Angela along with her business partner Mark Greneaux are both retired military. Angela likes to refer to Distant Thunder as a “boutique gun shop.” They are a smaller store that deals with a somewhat specialized clientele. Angela states that most women are apprehensive when they first walk into Distant Thunder USA, so before they even begin to talk purchase, they put a gun in the prospective buyer’s hand and let them get a feel for different types of pistols. Once it is deemed that the client is comfortable with the basic operations and styles, they begin to figure out what weapon is best for the buyer.
THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE BUYING A GUN • EVALUATE THE INTENDED USE • SET A BUDGET • SHOULD I PURCHASE NEW
Older women and those that are of smaller stature, tend to prefer the revolver because without the proper amount of strength and coordination, the slide on the semi auto is a bit difficult to maneuver.
OR USED? • WHAT SIZE AND CALIBER? • HOW DOES IT FEEL? HEAVY, BALANCED? • WILL I NEED A CONCEALED CARRY PERMIT?
All three stores were very knowledgeable and offered great insight into what women should know and do when they become a gun owner.
choice, you should be well trained, outfitted properly and know all the laws as it pertains to your particular situation.
Gun ownership is one of the greatest responsibilities a woman can have. Gun ownership should not be a political decision but a personal one. You do have the right to own a firearm. Bear in mind, this article is not telling anyone to go out and get a gun, but should that be your
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FAMILY MATTERS
HOW TO WIN YOUR DIVORCE By Paula Bertuccini
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f you're reading this because you bought into the title, I'm sorry to get your hopes up. Anyone who has been through a divorce knows this is a fantasy. There is no "winning.” The truth is that when someone comes to me and wants to hire me to handle their divorce, I tell them they are about to have a very bad 6 to 18 months, depending on whether there are children involved
Louisiana Family Law Guide by Stephan Rue, It is written in “normal people speak” and is a good reference to answer everyday questions. The initial chapters tell you how to choose an attorney, how to control costs and how to prepare. Being able to refer to a guide will save attorney dollars.
Divorce is like a death. Expectations and plans for the future are abruptly destroyed. Even those that claim they can hardly wait for the divorce, from my experience at least, go through the stages of grief. It is as if the person they once loved is dying slowly and the future is now unknown. I warn clients that it seems to take about two years before life seems normal again. They will have to adjust to not being everyday parents and may have to leave their home. Household incomes that once supported one family must now support two separate households. They may be very poor, depending on their individual circumstances, at least for a while. I introduce the idea of splitting everything they own. So, after all the bad news, I want to know one thing—Is the divorce absolutely unavoidable? Every avenue should be exhausted before deciding that divorce is the best option for everyone involved. I recommend reading a lot of self help books and articles, seeking counseling together as a couple, as well as individually. Communication and positive self growth can make a marriage stronger by overcoming and working through things such as financial debt, mental health issues, addictions, adultery and other marriage killers. Attorneys should be the last resort. Attorneys are expensive. Avoid them if at all possible. We get paid by the hour which means that an unscrupulous lawyer may create controversy in order to keep billing.
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FOR THOSE WHO DETERMINE
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See an attorney before you declare your intentions to anyone. There are cost saving measures and ways to avoid some of the anxiety. Never file a divorce to try to get someone to change—99% of the divorces I file are completed. There is something about being “sued” for divorce which causes insult, defensiveness and vengeful behavior. I recommend A Louisiana Family Law Guide by Stephan Rue, available from me or wherever you obtain books. It is written in “normal people speak” and is a good reference to answer everyday questions. The initial chapters tell you how to choose an attorney, how to control costs and how to prepare. Being able to refer to a guide will save attorney dollars. Avoid social media! Your children use social media. Attorneys regularly use the posted information as evidence against you. Divorce is private and painful; don’t advertise. Do not put anything in writing you would not want Jesus or a judge to read. I recommend a book called Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder by Randi Kreger. If you are possibly dealing with someone with a personality disorder, this is worth knowing about because these people have predictable behaviors that drive litigation and you may be able to avoid some pitfalls or at least be prepared. Please try mediation. The more issues you can solve around a table, the more money you get to keep. Reread number 6.
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The court room is not a place where things are fair and just. That is a “made for TV movie idea.” Our local judges are wise but can never know as much as you know about your children, your finances and what you need. Why put important decisions about your life in the hands of strangers? The court room is also a terrible place for revenge. Our judges work hard to get people to meet halfway and if people dig in, the judge simply does what they think is best for the children. They have a limited amount of time for this.
10. Court is what I refer to as a “money suck”. The dockets are CRAMMED and the seats are hard. You wait your turn and our judges in Acadiana have more cases than you could ever imagine. You will be paying your attorney to wait along with you. Who wants to pay an attorney to play with Apps on their phone? Avoid court if you can. 11. Number 10 requires you be willing to compromise. Please note that I have rarely seen anyone leave court with everything they wanted. 12. Be willing to compromise. Focus on what matters most to you; compromising on less important issues may get you what you really want and need. 13. Never use your attorney as a friend or counselor. I jokingly tell clients it is cheaper to have someone killed (NOT A VIABLE OPTION; YOU WILL GO TO JAIL) than it is to hire me to fight on every issue. That one statement means I am the world’s worst counselor and why pay me for bad counseling? 14. To expand on Number 14, I disclose—and this sounds like the beginning of a bad lawyer joke—that I am only good for four things; 1)Writing your documents, 2) Arguing your case, 3) Enforcing your judgments and 4) Plain old advice and information. If you are telling me that someone was mean to you today, you are wasting your money.
15. Get a support system in place of friends, family and spiritual and/ or professional help. 16. I tell people at initial consults that you talk to me today as much as possible to find out if you can tolerate paying me money. It is a long, trying journey. Do not travel that journey with an attorney you would not want to have lunch with. 17. You have a right to have your phone calls returned, to approve substantive correspondence and filings, to be made aware of settlement offers and to get a thorough accounting of how your money is being spent. 18. Be smart when you communicate with your attorney or attorney’s office. Try to “save up” questions in notes and have scheduled meetings with set time limits so everyone stays on task and money is well spent. 19. NEVER use protective orders as a way to get custody or use of the home. That court service is meant for people who are in danger. Our judges and hearing officers are smart and those who abuse this process lose credibility. 20. I tell people I would rather have them refer to their friends and family to me than to make every dollar I can off of them. HOWEVER, how much it costs depends on how well you spend your attorney time, something in your control; but unfortunately also what the opposing party does, which is not in your control. 21. If I had to spilt my money with someone, I would want to keep as much of my half as possible. Mediate. Mediate. Mediate. Compromise. Compromise….. 22. Love is all it takes to make a family. 23. Do not call me if you are on a mission to destroy the other party. It is not what I do. faceacadiana.com | FACE 57
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DIVORCING WITH CHILDREN
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ADVICE GATHERED FROM LOCAL FAMILY LAW JUDGES •
Do not disparage or allow someone else to disparage the other parent. If you teach your child the other parent is worthless, you are telling them they are 50% worthless.
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Assume your children are listening to everything you say if they are in your custody.
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If you need a continuance for any reason, offer a temporary agreement with no prejudice, to address the other party’s needs instead of fighting about it.
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(In a typical divorce, one party is providing more of the day to day childcare while the other is working.) “Mothers” need two things: They need to know the children’s financial needs will be met and they need to know the other parent will be there for the hard things like emergency rooms and discipline.” Fathers” need to be respected and valued.
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(Not to exclude anyone, I use quotes) Often, “Moms” are important for nurturing, but “Dads” teach children how to explore the world and manage. BOTH ARE IMPORTANT.
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Putting major decisions in the hands of a judge (a stranger) should be a last resort.
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Children are not anyone’s property. They are little people who have a right to love both parents. The only people you have “rights to” are called slaves and slavery is illegal.
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Do not get hung up on the word “domiciliary” parent. It doesn’t mean what you think it means and it is not the end all, be all, of being a parent. If your attorney thinks it’s important, be skeptical. It becomes important only when you truly believe the other parent does not have the child’s interest at heart.
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Your child should be able to look down from a stage or across a sports field and simply transfer to the other parent for a custodial period without having to feel hatred between the parents. Just stop it. Treat each other the way you want your eventual teenagers to treat you.
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Try to align homework schedules, sleep schedules and discipline between the separate households. If a child is grounded at one home, they are grounded at the other. Make the transition smooth so the child knows what to expect. It is not telling you what to do in your home, it is called being a good parent.
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Sometimes parents have their children “testify” to the judge in a closed setting, which should be avoided whenever possible. When the judge asks what he/she can do to make things better the child often answers, “I just wish they’d get along.”
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Be skeptical when your child complains about the other parent. Children often use separation of the parents to manipulate one parent when they can’t get what they want from the other.
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Check out and use My Family Wizard, an online tool that gives you one place to share information about your child, post photos, report cards, anything really, as well as a calendar of important dates. It also records communications between parents that can be used in any future court proceedings.
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Don’t flaunt new relationships and never openly date in front of children until the divorce is complete. It is distasteful and confusing to kids going through a huge change in their life.
Children are not anyone’s property. They are little people who have a right to love both parents.
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FAMILY MATTERS
DIVORCING WITH CHILDREN
"I tell my clients that their children will feel as if the divorce is their fault, no matter how many times they are told it is not‌"
I tell my clients that their children will feel as if the divorce is their fault, no matter how many times they are told it is not, because children are egocentric and believe that they are the center of the universe and that they are responsible for the good and the bad. They are often the center of most of the controversy so they are kind of right. Many children need special help to deal with the drastic changes. There are innovative online, age appropriate programs and therapies and we have some very talented counselors and physicians in Acadiana who can help.
Before I was an attorney, I was divorced. I had small children. I failed to follow about 75% of these recommendations. When my children became young adults, they told me so. I cannot take that back and dearly wish I could. If you are reading this and contemplating divorce or sharing custody, you can prevent the worst of the trauma to your kids and keep your money for yourself. It’s that simple and yet it is so hard to be good sometimes. We must do better. Disclaimer: If you or your children are being abused, go directly to a shelter, the police or to a safe place. You have a right to be safe and a duty to protect your children.
About the author: Paula Boagni Bertuccini brings a unique depth of knowledge and insight to the Bertuccini Law Firm. Her background, legal training and broad life experience give her an exceptional perspective on the complex issues defined as Family Law. As a former Assistant Attorney General, Paula is experienced in pre-trial and trial preparation, appellate practice, mediation and settlement. She utilizes all of these skills to represent her clients in one of Lafayette’s only law firms dedicated entirely to Family Law. She is an advocate and advisor and has earned a reputation of being a tireless and effective representative for her clients and their children. 60 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2016
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Restoring SOFTNESS & SHINE GET A TRIM Regular trims (every 4-6 weeks) keep hair looking fresh by removing split and dead ends.
If you notice your mane is brittle, tangled and dull, it may need some TLC to repair sun and salt water damage.
DEEP CLEANSE Remove residue and build up with a clarifying shampoo. Use with caution as it can be drying and/or damaging to color treated hair. Research the product.
INVEST IN A PROFESSIONAL HAIR MASK Or make your own. Either way, the treatment should be done at least once per week and should infuse the hair with moisture. The sun and salt has probably dried out your hair causing it to tangle and break.
USE A LEAVE IN CONDITIONER A leave in conditioner will assist in restoring moisture quicker.
LET HAIR AIR DRY The heat will further damage hair so if you must use it, try a lower setting heat or cool air. 62 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2016
Hai r Car e Spending the summertime in the pool or at the beach can wreak havoc on your luscious locks.
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BEAUTY | STYLE
LIQUID FOUNDATION
vs.
POWDER FOUNDATION
I
consider myself to be the type of girl that enjoys wearing makeup on most days of the week! I like to wake up early, have time to myself and sit at my vanity to put my makeup on for the day. With my senior year of high school beginning soon, I wanted to get as much sleep as I could and didn't want to have to wake up an hour earlier to do my makeup, but, I also wanted my face to look as though I had makeup on. So, I was kind of in a predicament deciding whether I should wake up earlier to get the look I want or to just go without makeup on. Well, I found a solution! I've always watched tutorials and videos of others using something called "powder foundation" but I had never tried it myself. I always liked the way my skin looked when I used liquid foundation. With school creeping around the corner, I figured it was time to try something new that could speed up my makeup application in the mornings. Powder foundation was definitely the way to go. Here, I compare the two types of foundations, liquid and powder, to help you get an idea of both.
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LIQUID FOUNDATION I find that liquid foundation gives me more of a matte look, which I like especially when my skin is feeling a bit oily. It gives amazing coverage, filling lines and wrinkles helping them look less noticeable. Liquid foundations works for most skin types. You can easily find one that will work for your specific needs. There are so many different kinds to choose from such as ones that help your face stay matte, ones that help your face look dewy, and even some with SPF to provide sun protection for your face.
PROS
CONS
Excellent coverage
Takes more time
Keeps skin moisturized
Can get messy
Easier to apply and blend
May clog pores and cause acne
TRENDY CLOTHING FOR THE MODERN WOMAN KATE SPADE Utility, wit, and playful sophistication are the
POWDER FOUNDATION Powder Foundation has become my best friend recently; I have tried both mineral and pressed powder foundation and find that I get a lot more coverage when using a mineral foundation. It helps me get the look I want without the hassle and mess of liquid foundation. It takes patience, as you have to apply layer after layer until you get the look desired—but is well worth it when you see your skin looks flawless but also looks like you have no makeup on at all. I feel powder foundation would be best for oily skin types because it helps absorb and control your facial oils. Using it on dry skin can accentuate the dryness, causing dry patches.
New York.
LILLY PULITIZER
PROS
CONS
Offers colorful, bright,
Provides a more natural look
Requires a brush which can be challenging for beginners
and floral prints including
Absorbs oil so helps your face stay matte Can be reapplied throughout the day
May settle into lines and wrinkles
Not as messy
tumblers, addenda’s, mugs, cozies, notebooks, stationery sets, and more.
About the author: Madelyn Meaux lives in Lafayette and has a passion for makeup. This is an edited excerpt from her beauty blog, which can be found at www.meauxbeauty.blogspot.com.
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BEAUTY | STYLE
Fashion After 50
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By E. Schels
GE IS NOTHING BUT A NUMBER AND WHEN IT COMES TO FASHION, YOU SHOULD FOLLOW
Dresses
YOUR OWN PERSONAL STYLE.
Two of the most flattering styles are wrap dresses and those that fit snug at the top and flare out at the bottom—bell dresses if you will. Wrap dresses have an air of sophistication, especially those with a v-neck and three quarter length sleeves. Remember to always tie on the side, not in the front and do not make a bow. Bell dresses can disguise big hips and a less than perfect waist and are great for day lunches as well as parties.
Now, more than ever, women are looking and feeling younger due to the information age, advances in medicine and plastic surgery. Fifty is the new forty and is also a pivotal point in fashion for most women. Sweatpants with Bootylicious on the backside and cut off Daisy Dukes may be cute in your twenties but, in your 50s, it just looks like you’re reaching for lost youth.
The Little Black Dress Every woman should have a little black dress in their closet ready to go. Find the style that best fits your body type and makes you feel sexy. Less is more—it should be a simple dress that can be worn to casual, business and cocktail parties. Dress lengths should fall right at or right above the knee. Dress it up with a colorful scarf (or purse). I personally like to wear mine with red heels. 66 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2016
Cardigans Long and three quarter length sleeved cardigans are a wonderful wardrobe addition to be paired with pants or skirts. It should hit you right at your hips. They are perfect for chilly air conditioned office jobs and for Louisiana’s weather; waking up to cold temps only to be sweating by noon. It should flatter your body, so carefully pick out a perfectly sized one; it should be neither too tight nor too big.
Embrace your maturity by adding flattering pieces to your wardrobe that will make
Tank tops Tank tops create a modest, smooth look for women. Find a tank you like and buy a bunch in solid colors. You can wear them underneath anything! Buying a well-fitting one, a size down even, can double as a body shaping piece. It should be snug and long enough to tuck in.
Dark Jeans Jeans are an American staple in fashion. Dark jeans, either boot cut or skinny, can be dressed up or down. Take your time and find your favorite, most flattering brand.
Linens These are not your mother’s polyester pantalons! Linen pants are dressy casual and are great for the high temps we experience here in South Louisiana. Cream colored pants with a white top will look great against your sun kissed skin. Not to mention, they are super comfortable.
you feel both feminine and confident.
Flats Heels can start to become painful after a lifetime of wearing them and for some, it can cause serious medical issues that require surgery. There’s always the option to wear a wedge but, I suggest investing in simple flats. Fashion icon Victoria Beckham suggests flats and minimal jewelry, letting the fashion pieces speak for themselves. Using this list as a starting point, you will be well on your way to creating your own signature style. Visit local clothing boutiques to receive personalized style services. Clothing that fits well goes a long way so consider having your pieces tailored to fit your body if it’s in your budget. Think of fashion as an investment in yourself. Clothing that flatters will make your confidence soar!
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MIND | BODY | SOUL
By the time you're 50, your feet will have carried you for 75,000 miles.
HAPPY FEET Keep your feet looking and feeling their youngest
(BPT) – You exercise regularly, eat well, maintain an active lifestyle and take your medications as prescribed every day. You're doing everything you can to age gracefully and beautifully, but are you overlooking an aspect of self-care that's fundamental to overall good health‌your feet? By the time you're 50, your feet will have carried you for 75,000 miles, according to the American Podiatric Medical Association. You can be in otherwise great shape, but if you don't take care of your feet, you can end up feeling every one of those long miles! Feet that hurt or don't look their best can undermine your overall physical and mental well-being. Foot care should be something you practice on a regular basis. Some common foot problems you can treat on your own, while others might need professional care. Did you know, according to a recent study by Kramer Labs, fungus conditions are the second most-common foot ailment among adults 45 and older, right behind corns and calluses? As you age, conditions such as nail fungus, athlete's foot, corns and calluses become more prevalent.
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FOOT CARE TIPS • Toe fungus is more common in older people, so be alert for signs. The American Academy of Dermatology says a nail that turns white, green, yellow or brown, becomes thicker, and pulls away from the skin could have a fungal infection. Over-the-counter toenail fungus treatments like Fungi-Nail Toe & Foot can work to kill toe fungus and stop it from spreading before it becomes nail fungus. Its ClearGuard® moisture block technology forms a water-resistant barrier to lock in medicine so it won't sweat off and disrupt the healing process. • Athlete's foot is also a common foot problem among older people. If you already have poor circulation, diabetes or psoriasis, you may be more likely to develop a fungal condition. Watch for signs of athlete's foot such as itching, redness and burning; flaking, peeling and cracking of the skin. Keep nails short, dry and clean; change socks daily and avoid walking around barefoot in public places. If you do develop athlete's foot, over-thecounter anti-fungal treatments such as Fungi-Nail Toe & Foot can work to kill fungus on contact, stop its spread and restore skin.
TREATMENT OPTIONS • All those miles your feet have walked over your lifetime can add up to calluses and corns - especially if you've worn shoes that don't fit very well. According to the APMA, simple ways to treat corns and calluses include soaking your feet, filing the corn or callous and wearing padding in comfortable shoes. However, if yours are causing you pain or you have diabetes, poor circulation or another serious illness, you should have your feet checked by a doctor, the APMA advises. • If you run, jog or power walk for your health it's important to wear good shoes, and be aware of the signs of heel spurs. A heel spur is a bony growth that develops on the underside of the heel bone as a result of strain on the muscles and ligaments of the foot. Spurs may cause you no problems or can be quite painful. Common remedies can include simple stretching exercises, switching to better fitting shoes, and over-the-counter pain relievers. For severe or persistent pain, you should consult your doctor.
Taking steps to take care of your Taking steps to take care of your feet can help you maintain your feet can help you maintain your overall health - and have your
overall health– and have your feet feet feeling as young at heart as feeling the restasofyoung you. at heart as the rest of you. For more information about how Fungi-Nail(R) eliminates and For more information about how stops the spread of toe and foot Fungi-Nail(R) eliminates and fungus, visit www.funginail.com.
stops the spread of toe and foot fungus, visit www.funginail.com.
MAKE SURE YOUR YARD IS NOT A TARGET Mosquitoes carry disease — and need standing water to breed. A female can deposit her eggs in any amount of water, so make sure everything in your yard stays dry. Clean out gutters and empty items that hold water, such as flower pots, tires and children’s toys. To learn more about Operation Buzzkill, visit www.projectfrontyard.com/buzzkill
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MIND | BODY | SOUL Say goodbye to your
SAD DESK LUNCH Only one in five people actually ditch their desks during their lunch hour. (BPT) – You're running out the door, already late and thinking about that important 8 a.m. meeting. Lunch is the last thing on your mind. In fact, you usually just pick something up from the deli line or local fast food place and hurry back to your desk. Sound familiar? You're not alone. Only one in five people actually ditch their desks during their lunch hour. When you feel your stomach growl, it's all too easy to grab something from the vending machine or—if you remember—to pack a cold turkey sandwich. But there are plenty of easy ways to spice up your lunchtime routine at work. Here are some tips to improve your mediocre midday meal.
WALK AWAY FROM YOUR DESK Do you eat at your desk every day? You have a lunch break for a reason; so use it. You're busy and need a few minutes to recharge throughout the day. You'll come back refreshed and ready to be productive for the rest of the afternoon. Eating at your desk also means you're probably multitasking, not paying attention to your food. Leaving your desk will help you become a more mindful eater and you'll enjoy your meal more. Take a walk, socialize with coworkers, do something that gets you up and moving for at least 15 minutes. 70 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2016
FIND A NEW WAY TO PACK YOUR SALAD
BAKE UP A BATCH OF HEALTHY CHIPS Step away from the snack machine. You don't need those stale potato chips. You can bake your own with only six ingredients: • Thickly slice two pounds of potatoes and coat them with olive oil and one tablespoon of salt. • Season with cayenne and ground pepper. • Arrange the slices on a greased baking sheet and bake at 400 degrees for 30 minutes until potatoes are crisp and golden brown. • Spread them out on parchment paper, sprinkle with salt and enjoy. Pack a handful of chips in your lunch each day for more crunch and less guilt.
STRAY FROM THE PB AND J
Forget about soggy, wilted lettuce. One of the best ways to pack a salad is in a quart-sized canning jar. Put your dressing on the bottom, add in your lettuce, veggies and any other salad toppings. If you really want to kick up your salad game, Willow Tree Farm's new Sriracha Chicken Salad layers perfectly with leafy greens and adds a tasty spice to your salad. Everything stays separate until it's time to toss together. Simply pour the salad out into a bowl and you're ready to eat. Your salad will also last for a couple of days in the fridge, so you can make a few days' worth of lunches ahead of time.
MAKE YOUR LUNCH AT WORK
Peanut butter and jelly might be a staple, but it's time for a grown-up work lunch. You can find sandwich fixings that are not only easy and quick, but take your lunch to the next level. Try a gourmet chicken salad like the no-mayo Avocado Chicken Salad from Willow Tree Farm. It's a better-for-you option, saving you calories and fat, because it's made with Aveyo, a spread simply containing Hass avocado, white vinegar, olive oil, sea salt and lime juice. It takes the place of eggs and most of the oil, while still maintaining that classic creamy texture and flavor.
Are you always running out of time to pack a lunch? Choose a lunch you can throw together in minutes. A chicken salad wrap, tuna melt, pita pocket sandwich with hummus or a Greek yogurt parfait are all relatively simple, healthy meals you MAKE SAD DESK can prepare in the office. Keep the ingredients on hand and lunch will LUNCHES A THING be a no-brainer.
OF THE PAST!
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Moms in Acadiana may find themselves momentarily lonesome and then excited to embrace extra time to themselves.
By Kristi Guillory
I
T'S OFFICIALLY THAT TIME OF YEAR!
just can't let go and find ourselves grasping at
Kids are back in school and the chaos of first
every little string to stay connected to our children
days, new schools and new friends is quickly
while they are away from us. It can be rewarding,
fading into routine. Moms in Acadiana may find
though, as it allows parents to connect with other
themselves momentarily lonesome and then
parents and create friendships.
excited to embrace extra time to themselves. What's a stay at home mom to do with all these precious hours during the day? Clean? Finally catch up on laundry? Scrub the baseboards? Heck no. Unless that's what really makes you happy, then scrub away my friends!
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Many parents mentioned
self pampering.
Summertime is hard work as a parent. Planning activities and keeping the kids from getting bored and fighting takes a toll and some parents are ready to take a backseat and let someone else handle the drama. (Sorry teachers!) I know a couple
One thing most moms I interviewed mentioned
moms already had spa days planned and one of
wanting to do is
the stay at home dads I spoke with was excited to
volunteer. A lot of
parents often feel happy to volunteer and be
work on a home renovation project now that kids
involved at their child's school. Maybe we really
were out the house; out of the way.
"What's a stay at home mom to do with all these precious hours during the day? Clean? Finally catch up on laundry? Scrub the baseboards? Heck no."
Exercise was also a popular answer.
older children mentioned looking forward to
able to take a nap in peace during the day before
Many moms are planning to spend more time
lower grocery bills now that
at the gym while the kids are in school. A few
the kids weren't home eating everything out of
friend because the kids are now back in class.
parents even mentioned taking a class of their
boredom! Personally, I do not work outside the
But don't nap too long because there’s homework
own to learn something new and still others
home but I can relate. I've been to the store
and after school sports to worry about.
are planning to take on a part time job just to
just about every other day this summer for a
As for me, I've still got a little one to keep
pre-teen with a bottomless pit of a stomach!
me busy while the other two are in school so
He might get it from me. I digress.
there won't be any time alone for me just yet.
stay busy. Several stay at home moms were just happy thinking about
quiet time and not
the kids get home from school. Well nap away
I'll have to catch up on all that mom time in a One of my favorite answers from all the
having to referee all the fights between the
year or two. Until then, I'll just live vicariously
parents I interviewed was
through you. Well, maybe not the gym goers, but
kids. A few of the working parents with
mentioned how excited she was just to be
naps. One mom
definitely you nap takers!
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Monday, September 12, 2016 - 6:30pm - 9:00pm • Tee-Off Party & Auction at SOCIAL • $20.00 per Person Food/Drinks, Silent Auction, Raffle Baskets, Wine Pull and Celebrity Signing
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