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SEPTEMBER 2015
R E J U V ENAT I NG
STRENGTH
COURAGE
BEHIND THE SCENES
FASHION SEPTEMBER
2015
Lafayette’s ABSOLUT® Best Martini Gala 2015 A WINNING EVENT
Your BODY and MIND Outdoors September is
UPDATE YOUR RÉSUMÉ MONTH
Pete’s REOPENS
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Treating patients like family is the philosophy of Dr. Jay Appurao. Dr. Jay, as he likes to be called, believes that every detail of his practice should be tailored to making the patient feel like they are visiting friends and family, not walking into a surgical facility. With thirty plus years of combined surgical experience, including fifteen years of cosmetic surgery experience, Dr. Jay is a veteran of his craft. From the initial consultation, to the surgery itself, and including the six-month follow up appointments, Dr. Jay is personally present to answer any question, or concern. “Our staff is very close-knit,” says Office Manager, Micah Guidry, “We are very much like a family. We care about each other, and we care about our patients.” At La Belle Center for Cosmetic Surgery, Dr. Jay finds it productive to combine his artistic skills with surgical arts to obtain highly satisfying results. Dr. Jay performs all of the surgeries in the fully Accredited facility, with two state-of-the-art operating rooms. Dr. Vijaya Jayagopal, MD, Anesthesiologist, along with several Nurse Anesthetists, work to ensure safe anesthesia for all the patients. “We want everyone to know that from the minute they walk through the door, we’re here to take care of them,” explains Ashlee Trahan, Secretary and PR and Marketing Manager, “and sometimes patients come by years after their surgeries just to visit with us and catch us up on their lives, and see Dr. Jay’s new paintings!”
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CONTENTS 08 ACADIANA LIFE Geaux Team Geaux — Tailgating in Acadiana Pete’s Reopens Saving The Fairytale Aging in Acadiana ABSOLUT® Best Martini Gala Winner Grumpy Grandma 20 HEALTHY LIVING 3 Simple Steps to Meal Planning LCHCC Preps For Annual Soirée 24 HOME 5 Painting Projects For Weekend Warriors Rejuvenating Your Body and Mind Outdoors Hiring a Remodeling Contractor 30 LIFE AND LEISURE Getting Over Embarrassment Avoiding The EXes 44 FAMILY MATTERS Grandparents Raising Grandchildren Self Esteem — Ultimate Parental Challenge 49 CAREER Digital Marketing For Small Business September is Update Your Résumé Month 52 MIND | BODY | SOUL Simple Relaxation Tips 6 Steps to Contouring Your Face Styling it Up After Labor Day 65 SHOW YOUR FACE
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ACADIANA LIFE
Geaux Team Geaux AND BRING ME SOME MORE SAUSAGE OFF THE PIT!
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here’s no doubt Acadiana loves its football. Be it High School, College or Pro, rest assured that when game day rolls around, we’ll be brandishing our team colors like there’s no tomorrow. From jerseys, hats and aprons to napkins, koozies and foam fingers — we’re proud of our team and loyal to the core. This is Cajun Country, where family, friends, football and food come together like ducks on a pond to tailgate and pay homage to the home team. The game may not start until sundown, but by dawn’s light there will be a group of diehard fans setting up tents, lighting their pits and cooking down roux as they prep for a full day of cooking, feeding and entertaining the masses. For the old pros, the anticipation has been building for months. They’ve got their game day game plan memorized and the truck is loaded and ready to geaux! For the rookie tailgater, the difference between having a great day or being flat out miserable or embarrassed can be as simple as knowing a few basic rules, so listen up. This next part is for you. DRESS TO IMPRESS! Not really, wear your team colors, but dress smart and comfortable. Dress for the conditions (Hot, cold, wind or rain). NOTE: Under no circumstances is it acceptable to wear Purple and Gold to a UL game unless they are playing each other!!! PLAN AHEAD. Chances are you’ll be meeting friends at a designated spot, so coordinate with them to make sure you have the basics covered. From the menu to cooking utensils, drinks and clean-up supplies, failing to plan or forgetting something here can make for a long day. WHAT TO BRING? Ample water, ice, food & drinks, sunscreen, re-sealable containers and bags, wet wipes, trash bags, paper towels and plates, utensils, games for the kids and folding chairs. Remember, if you haul it in, you’re going to have to haul it out, so pack as much as you can in large plastic containers. WHEN TO ARRIVE? That depends. Are you in charge of cooking? Can you drive to your tailgating spot or do you have to carry everything in? How far from the stadium is your spot? Chances are you’ll need to be there at least 3 to 4 hours prior to the kickoff if you’re going to have time to help setup, cook, socialize, eat and get to your seats on time. GAME DAY ETIQUETTE: Tailgating should be enjoyable for everyone. Meet your tailgating neighbors, share your food, chat with visiting fans and share the love of Acadiana, then Geaux to the game and cheer for your team! 8 FACE | APRIL 2015
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ACADIANA LIFE General Manager, Crystal Guidry,
Pete’s
REOPENS
AS FAMILY SPORTS GRILL
AFTER MUCH ANTICIPATION, PETE’S ON JOHNSTON STREET IS ONCE AGAIN OPEN FOR BUSINESS. Long known for its friendly atmosphere, this one time Sports Bar has rebranded itself as Pete’s “Family Sports Grill”, a place where friends and family can gather for a great meal, watch the game or listen to music while the kids play in the designated game room. We [FACE] recently made an impromptu visit to see what’s changed. Upon our entrance, it was immediately clear that the Pete’s of old was new again!!! Still possessing the charm and flair that locals have always loved, the new Pete’s is a modern version of its historic self. It was clean and well lit. We were greeted with a smile and both the service and food we received could not have been better.
General Manager Crystal Guidry
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A few days later, we visited with General Manager, Crystal Guidry, to learn more about what people should expect at the new Pete’s. “We’re excited about the changes we’ve made and look forward to this new chapter in the Pete’s story,” said Guidry. “We’re a family restaurant, not just a bar. Our goal is to provide quality food and premium liquor in an atmosphere that can be enjoyed by the entire family.” [FACE] Other than the obvious remodeling, what specifically has changed and why? Guidry continued, “It was time for a change. In this industry, you either stay current or you fall by the wayside. It’s how Pete’s has been able to survive and thrive for over 45 years.”
Still possessing the charm and flair that locals have always loved, the new Pete’s is a modern version
As for what’s changed, we were told that (owner) Preston Guidry and his staff spent a great deal of time searching for vendors that could provide only the freshest produce and ingredients. Other than the updates to the facility, one of their main goals was to update and streamline the menu, making sure that many house favorites of old were included.
of its historic self.
“It was a challenge,” said Crystal. “In order to provide the quality food, drink and experience we are committed to, we had to evaluate, update, and revamp almost everything — from recipes to restrooms — nothing was off limits.” [FACE] So with all the updates, we just have to ask…What’s the deal with no phone number? With a grin, Crystal quickly replied, “That’s probably the number one question we’ve been asked in the past month. The answer’s quite simple. Because customer service is so important to us, we decided not to take phone orders during the soft opening. That, along with other services, will become available in time. You only have one chance to make a first impression, and we’re focusing on those people who are dining in with us.” Originally opening as “Uncle Pete’s” in 1968, Pete’s has established itself as a corner stone in Acadiana, standing the test of time by carrying on local traditions as a place for reminiscing and making new memories.
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SAVING the
AIRYTALE
Love, Marriage & Divorce
I
By: Savannah Ludwig
t starts as a fairytale. The relationship with your partner grows. The bond you develop has mutual respect, love, passion, and it leads to the inevitable joyous wedding. Friends and family are so happy and life is looking pretty good. This is the Honeymoon Phase… that wonderful time in the relationship when learning and sharing is free and uncompromised. It may last for months, even years depending on the situation, but eventually, every marriage experiences the Realization Phase. The reality phase of a marriage is when you learn things you didn’t known (or blindly ignored) about your spouse’s strengths, weaknesses and personal habits. This phase is crucial in the relationship because, even though you’ve discussed your common and individual goals, explored topics like buying a house, children, money, careers, budgeting and a thousand other things, until you’re actually in the moment dealing with real life issues, you’re not going to know how you or your spouse will 12 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2015
handle an issue in which you just disagree. Communicating (which means listening as much as you talk) and learning to work together should pay huge dividends in your long term relationship. No couple agrees on everything and not all issues can be resolved or compromised, but not communicating or trying to work through tough issues can put a crack in that fairytale before you know it. By year three, most people settle into their marriage. They adjust and adapt to the reality of being a family unit. The daily thrill of being together is probably worn, but the love isn’t, because married love is different from new love. You settle into feeling secure and comfortable with each other, your love becomes more mature and you’re proud of it. Then suddenly you’re blindsided by something completely out of your control. You or your spouse loses their job, a child becomes seriously ill, the family car is totaled, you discover a spousal indiscretion, a parent becomes ill and has to move in with you. It could be anything — but combine just one of them with the normal daily stresses and obligations and in the blink of an eye, you and your spouse are overwhelmed. You stop communicating,
harsh words are said, “we” becomes “I”, feelings are hurt and you lose focus on the most important thing of all, the family. Then it happens — one of you mentions the “D” word during an argument, you say something that’s mean and hurtful, doors get slammed and dad storms out of the house and then…it’s quiet. N O W W H AT ? Well, after cooling down and looking at the big picture, if there ever was a fairytale to be had in this relationship, you’d better start communicating quickly to save it.
assistance from a qualified Family Law attorney who can assist you with matters such as divorce, spousal support, child support, custody and visitation. Under no circumstances should physical, emotional or sexual abuse of any family member or spouse be tolerated in a marriage. If you have found yourself in this situation, feel threatened or fear for you or your children’s well being, call 911 immediately and ask for assistance. Every law enforcement agency in Acadiana has contacts to local shelters and support organizations that can help.
All marriages will have good and bad times and couples will sometimes struggle. If you’re going through a rough patch, seek help. Speak with a qualified marriage counselor, therapist or minister/ spiritual advisor, speak with a trusted friend or family member and, most importantly, speak honestly and openly with your spouse. Good marriages should be cherished and protected at almost all costs and having a family meltdown from time to time doesn’t mean it’s over… not even close. Marriage experts say that almost all marriages can be saved if there’s even the smallest amount of “Love” and “Respect” remaining for each other. However, if you’ve been completely honest with each other and tried to work through your differences but the marriage is void of love, respect and trust, then depending on your personal and religious beliefs, divorce may be the option for you. Should you choose to take this route, it is recommended you seek professional
“Conflicts are not a sign you’ve married the wrong person. They simply affirm you are human.” Gary Chapman Live – Love – Laugh
NOTE ~ This article is intended to provide general information, not advice. Its content does not necessarily express the views or opinions of this publication, its advertisers, employees, contributors or owners. Marriage and divorce are deeply personal matters and all decisions related to them should be researched and considered carefully by those directly involved.
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ACADIANA LIFE
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or many seniors, maintaining
AGING in Acadiana
an independent lifestyle is a
primary concern, even if it’s not in their best interest. As adult children with ageing parents, the responsibilities of providing short or long term care often falls in your hands. Being prepared before a time of crisis arises can remove some of the anxiety and worry from the situation. When it’s time to talk with your parent(s) about obtaining daily care, assisted living or nursing homes, these talking points can help create a more healthy discussion.
BEGINNING THE CONVERSATION • Raise the issues indirectly • Find small ways to bridge the issue • Share your own emotions • Set the right tone • Use communication that states your concern and avoids criticism • Avoid role reversal
FOCUS ON THESE KEY ISSUES • Where they live • Their everyday activities • How they get around • Their health • Their finances • How they pay for health care 14 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2015
With so many medical advances over the past few
DEALING WITH RESISTANCE
decades, Americans are living longer, healthier lives.
Your parents may not want to talk about these issues. Some resistance is normal. • Respect your parents’ feelings when they make it clear they want to avoid a subject. Try again later using another approach. • Consider pushing the issue if your parents’ health or safety is at risk. While your parents have a right to be in charge of their own lives, some crisis situations — such as health care expenses depleting a bank account — may call for you to intervene. If so, act firmly but with compassion. • Involve other family members or friends. You may want to hold a family meeting where everyone can discuss concerns and develop a plan to help. • Find out about community resources to help your parents remain independent, such as transportation or home health care, and share the options with them. Be prepared to let your parents make their own life choices, even if you don’t agree with them. You should set your own limits as to how involved you can be. If the living situation is unsafe, you may need to bring in a third party to intervene.
COMMON LIFE AND LIVING OPTIONS FOR THE ELDERLY NURSING HOME Nursing homes are private institutions providing 24 hour care to those individuals who cannot care for themselves.
ASSISTED LIVING Assisted living communities provide nursing care and supervision for the disabled and elderly who need assistance and monitoring but not 24 hour care.
ADULT DAY CARE Adult day care centers are designed for older adults who can no longer manage independently, or who are isolated and lonely. They enable seniors to socialize with others while still receiving needed care services. At the same time, they offer caregivers a break from caregiving duties while knowing their loved one is in good hands.
THE LAFAYETTE COUNCIL ON AGING is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to enhance the well being of the elderly by providing an expanding and innovative range of services delivered with respect, care and compassion; upholding the dignity and independence of the individual. Their programs are aimed at reaching those most in need of services and who find themselves alone, isolated, lonely and in need. The main goal of the Council is to keep the elderly living at home as long as possible and to enrich the quality of life. For additional information visit www.lad-coa.org.
SOME ACADIANA PROGRAMS AND FACILITIES PROVIDING LOCAL AND/OR REGIONAL ADULT DAY CARE SERVICES PACE® LAFAYETTE (Program of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly) is a nonprofit health and supportive services program designed to assist seniors who want an alternative to long term care placement. PACE® is sponsored by the Franciscan Missionaries of Our Lady Health System (FMOLHS) – the parent company of Our Lady of Lourdes Regional Medical Center – the Centers for Medicaid and Medicare Services (CMS) and the Louisiana Department of Health and Hospitals (DHH). Dr. Susan E. Nelson, Medical Director for PACE Baton Rouge/Lafayette, explains, “The PACE program is an All-Inclusive program that coordinates and provides all needed preventative, primary health, acute and long term care services for the eligible enrollees.” To be eligible for PACE®, enrollees must meet certain age, location and income requirements. For complete program details contact 337.470.4500.
THE CAJUN AREA AGENCY ON AGING is also a non profit organization catering to persons 60 years and older. The agency’s goal is to provide assistance to help the elderly living at home for as long as possible through service contracts with providers and monitoring. Parishes included are Acadia, Evangeline, Iberia, Lafayette, St. Landry, St. Landry, St. Martin, St. Mary and Vermillion. For additional information visit www.cajunaaa.org. Sources: Governor’s Office of Elderly Affairs – Louisiana: www.goea.louisiana.gov, Louisiana department of Health and Hospitals: www.dhh.louisiana.gov, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services: www.HHS.gov, U.S. Government: www.USA.gov, U.S. Government/Medicare: www.medicare.gov, National PACE® Association: www.npaonline.org, Franciscan Missionaries of Our Lady Health System-PACE-Lafayette: www.fmolhs.org, AARP Caregiver Resource Center: www.aarp.org, Lafayette Counsel on Aging: www.lad-coa.org, Cajun Area Agency on the Aging: www.cajunaaa.org.
Health and Supportive Services for Seniors PACE Lafayette (Programs of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly) is a non-profit health and supportive services program designed to assist seniors who want an alternative to long-term care placement. PACE Lafayette enables the aging population to live with dignity in their community. Join us to learn more about PACE’s philosophy of care and find out if you or your loved one is eligible for services.
For more information, please call PACE Admissions at 337-470-4500. 501 W. St. Mary Blvd., Ste. 200 • Lafayette, LA 70506 PACE Participants may be fully and personally liable for the costs of Unauthorized or Out-of-Network charges. As a participant of PACE Lafayette, you have the right to receive competent, considerate, respectful care from staff and contractors without regard to race/ethic origin, religion, age, sex, sexual orientation, mental or physical ability, or source of payment for your healthcare.
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ACADIANA LIFE
a community wide event to benefit
healing-house.org
Healing
the ultimate mixer
House
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like
to
thank
our
generous sponsors and the eight incredible restaurants
that
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Martinis
an overwhelming success.
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2015
Lafayette’s ABSOLUT® Best Martini Gala 2015 A GOOD TIME WAS HAD BY ALL, as the Healing House: Hope for Grieving Children recently hosted their extremely popular ABSOLUT® Best Martini Gala. The annual fundraising event pits local restaurants against each other as they battle it out for the coveted title of Lafayette’s ABSOLUT® Best Martini.
Over an eight week period, the “Tini” Tuesday Tour visited each of the eight participating restaurants where patrons and Healing House supporters could savor this year’s signature martinis and cast their votes for the People’s Choice Award by way of tips and contributions.
At the end of the eight week tour, Healing House supporters and competing restaurants gathered at the DoubleTree by Hilton for the grand finale. Partygoers sampled martinis from all eight restaurants and cast their final votes for the ABSOLUT® Best Martini – 2015, as they danced the night away to the sounds of KrossFyre.
THE PEOPLE’S CHOICE AWARDS were
THE JUDGES’ CHOICE AWARDS were selected by a panel of highly specialized local judges, who painstakingly critiqued each individual creations to establish who has the ABSOLUT® Best Martini – 2015. And the winners are…
determined by totaling the tipped votes received during the tour, along with money collected by voting at the gala. All eight teams did incredibly well, but the 2015 ABSOLUT® Best Martini according to the people is…
1st Place Ruffino’s on the River 2nd Place Walk On’s Bistreaux & Bar 3rd Place Social Southern Table & Bar ~ Spirit Award ~ Ruffino’s on the River
THIS YEAR’S EIGHT PARTICIPATING RESTAURANTS Bonefish Grill Café Vermillionville Charley G’s Mellow Mushroom Ruffino’s on the River
1st Place Bonefish Grill 2nd Place Southern Social Table & Bar 3rd Place Charley G’s
Southern Social Table & Bar Walk On’s Bistreaux & Bar Zea
All proceeds from the event benefited The Healing House, a local non-profit organization that provides grief support for children dealing with the loss of a loved one. If you are interested in learning about the services offered by the Healing House or how you can volunteer or support this wonderful organization, visit Healing-House.org or call 337-234-0443.
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ACADIANA LIFE My next letter say —
BONJOUR MY CAJUN FRIENDS! It’s me again — opinionated columnist and general know it all, Mrs. Nettie Mae Avec Domino.
Grumpy Grandma
WELL, it’s been a busy month for ole Nettie Mae…
…but before I can even give no advice, I got to thank my new best friend, Mr. Dr. Brad and dat Pinhook Chiropractical. Oh! That man put the touch on me and Poof! I could walk again! Sweet Jesus, dat man got the touch (and he’s kinda cute too)! But enough about dat.
Nettie Mae Avec Domino grumpy@faceacadiana.com
…now on with dim letters… DEAR MRS. DOMINO,
How come every time the phone ring my pacemaker speeds up, the kitchen light burns out and the house pops a fuse? I tried to fix it myself, but I can’t. What do I do? Signed ~ Confused in Kaplan Mais cher, thank you for contacting me about dat. Pas bon, I think you got 2 problems. First, stop waiting by the phone for you beau to call, das gonna make you heart race every time. Next, you gonna have to stop letting you neighbors run their extensions from you house for electricity. All das gonna do is pop dim lights and burn you wires. You better tell you neighbors to get their own generator.
DEAR GRUMPY, I’m so mad I could spit fire! I am sick and tired of seeing butts everywhere! You see, since I retired from the rice mill in 72, I spend almost every day working in my yard. I edge, mow, sweep, trim, blow, bag, mulch… I do everything to keep my yard up! But no matter how hard I try, no matter what I do, there they are…BUTTS! Butts on the ground, butts in the ditch, das all I see is Butts, Butts, Butts! Mon dieu Nettie mae, them butts is gonna be the death of me! Help! Signed ~ Befuddled on Bruno Rd.
Oh nonc… I know exactly how you feel. Ever since the Marlbro man died, I can’t stand to see nobody else’s butt either. Mais, you gonna have to put up one of those hidden cameras and watch for who’s doing dat. Then when you catch ’em on video, you call da law and tell them you got a litter bug. They gonna come right out. Ton Ami ~ Nettie Mae Ok, y’all, dat’s all I got time for today. You got something to tell me or need sum advice? Get yourself in the inter web and send me a email. Au revoir y’all,
Ton Ami ~ Nettie Mae
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HEALTHY LIVING
Now that summer is winding down and school is back in session, it’s a second chance this year to start anew. When it comes to eating, the most efficient way to successfully prepare meals is to plan.
sim p le steps to
MEAL PLANNING By Daphne Olivier
START WITH THE MEALS OR FOODS THAT YOU ALREADY PREPARE. Create a physical binder or an electronic folder if you are the techie type (I find that a physical binder that I can see and feel works better). Make a list of the ALL of the recipes that are the “tried and true favorites” of your household. You may want to divide it into breakfast, lunch, supper, veggies, sides, etc. WITH EACH MEAL OR FOOD ITEM, LIST THE INGREDIENTS NECESSARY TO PREPARE THE RECIPE. Although you may know exactly what you need to throw together a stir fry, when it’s
written down it will ensure you don’t forget to pick up something at the grocery store. The last thing you want is to prepare to make a Chicken Stir-fry and realize you don’t have soy sauce. BEFORE GROCERY SHOPPING, TAKE A FEW MINUTES TO REVIEW YOUR BINDER and plan what you will prepare and have available for the upcoming week. When making your plan, consider:
• Theme meals, such as “breakfast for supper night” or “Taco Tuesday.” • Nights when you may be getting home late. Incorporate leftovers, one of your pre-made frozen meals, or plan to use the slow cooker.
• Cook enough so you can incorporate what you cooked for supper to be used for breakfast or lunch the next day.
These simple steps will get you started. When you want to introduce something new, make sure you have enough time to prepare it, as the timing may be different than you imagine. If it’s family approved you can incorporate the food and ingredients into the binder. That’s one more meal you have to choose from! About the author: Daphne is a food passionista, farm girl wanna-be and registered yet unconventional dietitian with a private practice – My Food Coach. She focuses on unprocessed, real food and balancing the diet with your lifestyle. For more information about Meal Planning or to contact Daphne, visit www.myfoodcoach.tv. 20 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2015
Your HEART is in the RigHT place. THE CARDIAC SPECIALTY HOSPITAL FOR ACADIANA. Dear Neighbors, Michelle Crain COO, Heart Hospital of Lafayette
As a nurse for over 25 years, I’ve dedicated my life to bringing the best possible care to patients and their families. I can tell you without hesitation that the compassion and patient focus found here at the Heart Hospital of Lafayette is beyond comparison. Our founding physicians started with the goal of creating a cardiac specialty hospital like no other, and that goal has been achieved. Having the opportunity to join this innovative team, dedicated solely to caring for the hearts of our community, has truly been an inspiration to me. As Chief Operating Officer, it is my privilege and pleasure to work with such dedicated physicians, nurses and associates, each one taking great pride in making the Heart Hospital of Lafayette the best that it can be each and every day. While I am proud of the many awards and accolades our team has received over the years, the real story lies within each of the patients we’ve healed and the families we’ve touched. Our unwavering commitment to exceptional patient outcomes is the promise we are all proud to stand behind as Acadiana’s premier hospital for cardiovascular care. Lives changed. Moments recaptured. Years given back to the people of Acadiana. When you walk through our doors, you will know why we say Your Heart is in the Right Place. Sincerely,
1105 Kaliste Saloom Road 337-521-1000 hearthospitaloflafayette.com
Michelle Crain, RN, MSN, FNP-BC Chief Operating Officer, Heart Hospital of Lafayette
Visit hearthospitaloflafayette.com for a list of physician investors in this facility.
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HEALTHY LIVING
Lafayette Community Health Care Clinic Preps For Annual Soirée
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HE LAFAYETTE COMMUNITY HEALTH CARE CLINIC (LCHCC) WILL HOST ITS 18TH ANNUAL SILVER BELL SOIRÉE ON DEC. 2, 2015. This special event will celebrate 22 years
of providing Lafayette Parish’s working uninsured with medical, dental, and pharmaceutical services at no charge. The Clinic opened in October 1993 as the first free health clinic in Louisiana and has since served as the model for five other free clinics in the state. Donated funds stay within Because of the Clinic’s pioneering the community and are used visionaries, LCHCC is able to celebrate being at the heart of the directly for improving the community for over two decades.
physical and emotional health
This year’s Silver Bell Soirée will be held at River Oaks Catering and of working class citizens. Event Center, kicking off the holiday season! This social event will include hors d’oeuvres, drinks, music, and a silent auction. There is still time to show your support by becoming a sponsor. Skyra Rideaux, Executive Director, tells FACE, “The Clinic’s operations depend solely on volunteers and generous donations
from the community. We don’t receive any state or federal funding and rely on corporate sponsorships and private donations. Our primary fundraising event for the year is our annual Silver Bell Soiree. With preparations underway and the holiday season quickly approaching, we are still seeking sponsors for this year’s event. Corporate level sponsorships, private donations and ticket sales will enable us to continue to provide quality care to our neighbors in need.” Donated funds stay within the community and are used directly for improving the physical and emotional health of working class citizens. LCHCC is a volunteer-driven, private non-profit organization that offers free medical, dental, and prescription services to the working uninsured of Lafayette Parish. Join LCHCC for their annual signature event on December 2th for good food, drinks, and a worthy cause! For more information on becoming a sponsor or to obtain tickets to the Silver Bell Soirée, contact Stephanie LeBlanc at 504.909.8866 or email silverbell@lchcc.net. Community members can also mail donations to LCHCC, 1317 Jefferson St., Lafayette, LA 70501.
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PAINTING PROJECTS FOR WEEKEND WARRIORS
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MAKE
a statement. Pick your favorite pattern trends and bring them to life on one wall of the living room or bedroom. If you’re not ready to take on patterns, bold and bright colors will do the trick.
to make permanent commitments. Paint
Whether you’re a first time do-it-yourselfer or masterful weekend
is an easy, cost effective way to infuse
warrior, paint projects don’t have to be time-intensive or
color and patterns that transform the
overwhelming — a little paint and creativity can go a long way
aesthetic of a room or piece of furniture.
toward refreshing your space.
ENHANCE
your tired armoires. Play dress up with your furniture, and give armoire doors a makeover. Paint a colorful border around the front of the door and adhere adhesive hooks in the middle for a stylish, yet functional, new piece.
SKIP
store bought photo frames. Instead of purchasing frames for your gallery wall, paint basic shapes directly on the wall. Mount artwork or photos onto the painted backdrops for a picture perfect place to preserve your favorite memories.
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a lavish headboard for less. Save money and splurge on style by painting a “frame” on the wall just above your bed. Rectangular shapes work best for most beds and you can get creative by trying patterns such as stripes, chevron and diamonds.
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IT’S NO SECRET THAT SPENDING TIME OUTDOORS IS GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH AND WELL BEING. From breathing
R E J U V ENATING Your BODY and MIND Outdoors
the fresh air in your backyard oasis to taking advantage of our local parks and recreational facilities, getting outside does a body good. In the context of the nation’s obesity epidemic, parks and recreation spaces provide outlets for Americans to have much needed physical activity with swimming pools, bike trails and various sports fields. Some communities even feature parks with amenities to encourage year-round use.
Health is dramatically increased when people spend leisure time outside the home. Beyond the mental health benefits associated with physical activity, spending time outdoors is good for the body, as well. Countless studies show the health benefits of nature when people who have been suffering from stress, sickness, or a trauma can spend quiet contemplative time in gardens or take to the great outdoors to heal. Health is dramatically increased when people spend leisure time outside the home. At home, you can create a space in your backyard for yoga or consider planting a therapeutic garden. Away from home, find places that maximize opportunities for daily exercise like walking and biking, as well as places that optimize mental and physical restoration. 26 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2015
WAYS TO MAKE THE MOST OF OUTDOOR ACTIVE LIVING MIX IT UP
Mix up your routine so you take advantage of fresh scenery. Choose the path lined with trees or take a route that lets you appreciate the late season blooms in a manicured flower bed.
EXPLORE
Get fit by exploring. The park closest to home may be most convenient, but venturing out to discover new outdoor recreation areas is a great way to keep active while enjoying a daily dose of nature.
LEARN
Blend education and activity. Learning about the animals, such as birds, and all the vegetation that inhabit your favorite park makes it rewarding to enrich the body and the mind.
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HOME WHAT TO KNOW BEFORE HIRING A REMODELING CONTRACTOR By Savannah Ludwig
You’ve put it off long enough. It’s time to remodel. Here are a few questions to ask your potential contractor and topics to consider before signing on the dotted line.
How long have you been doing business in Acadiana? Are they a “Licensed Contractor” in Louisiana? Do they carry Liability Insurance and Workers Comp Insurance? Do all of their subcontractors carry Workers Comp Insurance? Will they itemize their bid by category (electrical, HVAC, plumbing, materials, etc…)? Will the bid be an estimate or a fixed price? Is a permit(s) required for your job? If so, who will be responsible for pulling them? Ask how long your project would typically take to complete and if there are any safeguards to protect you if it is delayed. All credible contractors should be happy to answer any of your questions prior to entering into an agreement. If not, or if the answers they provide raise red flags, consider looking for a different contractor.
No matter how large or small the project, make sure you hire the best contractor for the job. Making a poor choice could cost you everything!
To learn more about choosing a contractor, visit the Louisiana Licensing Board for Contractors website at www.lslbc.louisiana.gov and click the “Consumers” link.
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LIFE AND LEISURE
GETTING OVER
Embarrassment MOVING ON AFTER A HUMILIATING EXPERIENCE
EVERYONE experiences embarrassment at some point in their lives, but the difference between those who obsess over it and those who are able to put an embarrassing moment behind them is simply a matter of realizing the insignificance of a red-faced moment.
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TAKE CONTROL OF THE SITUATION. If you’re the first to laugh about it, others will likely follow. Your immediate reaction to your embarrassment will determine how others remember the situation. If you don’t make a big deal out of being embarrassed, it will be quickly forgotten.
REMEMBER THAT THE WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU. Sure, some people are going to get a laugh out of your embarrassing blunder and it may even circulate for a few days. But, chances are these same people have jobs, families, and worries of their own that will take them away from incessantly thinking about your most recent social blunder.
USE THE BLOOPER FOR YOUR NEXT COMEDY BIT. Imaging you’re tail gaiting, and everyone is pumping out stories from the good old days, laughing their heads off. Now you have something worthwhile to contribute – and it’s guaranteed to be the classic of the evening. You’ll be receiving so much attention that you’ll want to dig up other embarrassing stories.
CONSIDER IT YOUR 15 SECONDS OF FAME. Appreciate that people who did not know you even existed before your embarrassing moment, will now address you on a first name basis. If you’re lucky, you may get a cool nickname out of it.
KNOW THAT IN 100 YEARS OR LESS everyone who witnessed the event will most likely be dead — therefore, it will be as if your embarrassing moment never happened. Unless your moment of glory was documented on film, live in the comfort that someday it will be erased from history.
Oops, you’ve done it again. You’ve put your foot in your mouth, fell flat on your face, or the faux pas of all faux pas – you broke wind in church!
WAYS TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AFTER COMMITTING A SOCIAL FELONY
If you can learn to laugh at yourself, those embarrassing moments won’t seem like such a big deal. By all means, make amends if your momentary breach of etiquette has offended another person, but refrain from dwelling on the situation if you want to maintain your mental health. Remember that we all make our share of mistakes, and everyone gets embarrassed at one time or another. Take comfort in the fact that if people are laughing, they’re most likely relating. 30 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2015
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LIFE AND LEISURE
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OK MY DARLINGS, if you’ve been on Facebook (or any other social media site) for any length of time, chances are you’ve been found by an ex-boyfriend or worse. Perhaps, out of sheer curiosity, you’ve even searched for one of those long lost prince charmings yourself (?) Either way, you owe it to yourself to eliminate these clowns from your life. I mean, come on! You’ve already dumped or ditched them at least
Well, let’s see. First, there’s the “Zealot.” Religion, politics and even sports are this ex-boyfriend’s raison d’être. He’s easily identified by his outrage over something that he merely disagrees with. This guy “can’t believe that anyone would be so stupid as to vote for the other guy.” He’s into exclamation points and profanity. If religion’s his game, then hold on to your rosary. He’s got opinions and, whoa, they can be a mouthful. In any case, he’ll get under your skin in a bad way. Do you really need another annoyance in your life? Toss this guy like a spoiled jug of milk before he stinks up your house!
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Then, there’s the “Happy Loser” – He’s the hottest guy you ever dated, and that is tragic. Twenty years later, he’s a bald, portly shell of his formerly glorious self. He’s married to a saint of a woman who’s not as pretty as you are but “so amazingly beautiful,” according to the posts. He shares photos of the meals she’s made for him and the jewelry he’s bought her. It’s revolting, and yet — you devour it all with unrelenting jealousy. The temptation here is to lure him away. You want this attention (?)… even if he’s assistant manager at a radio station you’ve never heard of? Let the loser be happy. You can do better girl! Did you see his last tweet? “Sunday AM = Buffalo Wild Wings! YES!” (really?)
spark to reignite. I know the temptation is there but do yourself a favor and get out while the getting’s good! You can spot these Bozos a mile away. They’re predictable to the point of being scary. Don’t believe me?
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And finally, we’ve got the “Forbidden Fruit” He’s the most dangerous ex of them all, because there’s nothing wrong with him. He’s handsome, kind, intelligent. He’s does something high level with computers that you don’t quite understand. You and he may have never actually dated. The timing was never quite right. Now, you’re both happily married, and you have “so much to catch up on.” Long emails are exchanged, photos (taken just for him) are sent. You may have even called him, since he’d “love to hear the sound of your voice.” It’s just Facebook right? He’s so good with words, but trust me — those words will break your heart, girl. He expresses frustration that you and he were never together. He sneaks out of dinners with his saintly wife to just say “hello” to you.
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COVER STORY
undays are sacred
for Lynne Durel. “We go to church. We go to Target and we go home to cook.” Joey fires up the barbecue pit and Lynne handles all the sides, taking requests during the week from her seven grandchildren who have learned her specialties. Everyone gathers at the Durel home and the family spends the day talking politics and catching up on their lives. “If we didn’t schedule it, it wouldn’t happen,” Lynne said. With three professional children (Nicole, Jason and Natalie) and a city-parish president, schedules become complicated. So, Lynne carries on a tradition she remembers from her grandmother, the Sunday lunch. “It’s something I look forward to all week,” Nicole said. Joey and Lynne buy treats for the grandkids and hide them all over the house. “My kids are 16 and 14 and they still love looking for treats,” she said. A quiet, unassuming, humble woman with a sweet voice and kind eyes, Lynne epitomizes the supportive figure of her community and her family. However, behind the somewhat demure exterior of the “First Lady of Lafayette,” is a strongwilled, intelligent role model who has experienced a rather remarkable array of life events and achieved great things in her own right. She has nurtured both strangers and family and traveled all over Europe. She’s donned formal wear at events from Lafayette to Paris, Belgium, and even the White House. She has devotedly sat by the bedsides of both her daughter and mother in their time of need and is an essential source of support to her children. A woman who was hesitant to even sit at the head table when her husband was first elected, she co-chaired one of the most extensive campaigns in Lafayette’s history, the 250th commemoration of the birth of the Marquis de Lafayette, bringing her experience as a business woman, her intelligence and careful reasoning to the extensive planning. She may not seek the spotlight but those lucky enough to know her personally find themselves in the glow of a woman who leads in her own way — by the example of a life of generosity and integrity. Lynne remembers the day Joey gathered the family to discuss running for city-parish president. Having served as Chamber of Commerce President and experienced Leadership Louisiana, Lynne knew it had been in the back of his mind. “I guess he was ready,” she said. It was all go with the family, especially the oldest, Nicole. “I’m in,” Lynne remembers her saying. “It will be a fun adventure.” Lynne had some reservations. “As a mom you worry about how it will affect your children.” She knew being in the spotlight could be trying. That wasn’t her only concern. “Joey’s the vivacious one. He’s an open book. I’m more quiet, more reserved.” The idea of being in the fishbowl of political life was “a little terrifying,” Lynne said. But she wasn’t going to let that get in the way of Joey’s goals. She believed in him and knew he would be great at the job. Joey’s election changed their lives drastically. “It was a whole new world. I didn’t realize we would be going out so much,” Lynne said. So, she stepped out of the shadows, little by little, adjusting to public life and learning that socializing is not so hard when you get used to it. Lynne likes to tell a story of one evening, when they had four events to attend, one being a Firemen’s Ball, so they were in formal attire. Despite being guests at four parties, there was no time to eat, so Joey and Lynne Durel found themselves in a fast food drive-through at 11pm in an evening gown and tux.
She has nurtured both strangers and family and traveled all over Europe. She’s donned formal wear at events from Lafayette to Paris, Belgium, and even the White House.
Lynne and Joey were married their sophomore year in college and Nicole, the oldest of three was born a mere 13 months later. Lynne went to work as a vocational counselor for the Department of Labor. After completing her masters in social work, she counseled and trained people who required help finding jobs, education or training. “It’s very satisfying to help someone,” she said. “The person who cuts my hair was a summer worker for me,” she remembered. “I suggested cosmetology training and told her if she graduated she would cut my hair forever. And she still does.” Lynne found her work uplifting, knowing that she had a direct effect on people’s lives. As her three children got older and Joey needed more help managing their small chain of pet stores and Arby’s franchises, Lynne left her job and became a business manger. Her skills as a counselor translated easily to managing a young, often inexperienced staff, teaching them about customer service and the value of work ethics. She occasionally returned to the Department of Labor for 6-month or 1-year stints when they needed help. Looking back at the circumstances of her life, Lynne believes things happened for a reason. Just out of college, Lynne and Joey were considering moving to New Orleans when Lynne discovered she was expecting their first child. So, they decided to stay close to family. A few months later, her father was diagnosed with cancer. She worked with him in his dental practice and remembers that time as a blessing. Later in life, Lynne worked as a volunteer coordinator for Hospice. When her mother suffered a stroke, Lynne felt that she was uniquely prepared to care for her during the last two years of her life. “I feel like God has led me in certain directions,” she said. “When I look back at 61 and see the path my life has taken, the pieces of the puzzle seem to fit.” Natalie remembers watching Lynne care for her grandmother. “It was the most caring, most selfless thing I’ve ever seen in my life. My mom basically quit everything and took care of her mother.” She hired sitters to help her but would still set an alarm and wake up when it was time for her mother’s medication. “The sitters loved her,” Natalie said. “She would cook for them and take care of them, too.” Today, the pieces of the puzzle are coming together in new and exciting ways. As Joey prepares for what will surely be an active life, Lynne has taken a role in U.S. Senator David Vitter’s campaign for governor, joining her daughter Nicole, the deputy state director for Senator Vitter. Nicole was always the political one in the family, even before her father, she claims. “I always had a yard sign or a button. I was intensely interested in politics at an early age.” It’s a trait she may have inherited from her great grandfather, Clayton Joseph Guilbeau, Sr., who was sheriff of St. Landry Parish, “when St. Landry was the hot bed of politics,” Lynne explained, and a state representative. Lynne’s father became a dentist instead of a politician. But perhaps the political bug skipped a generation or two, giving Nicole a decisive bite and maybe a nibble on her quietly ambitious mother. 40 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2015
For Lynne, the experience has been educational in many ways. She was delightfully surprised to find diverse sub-cultures within the community. The Latino, Asian and Indian cultures, among others, greatly contribute to what makes Lafayette such a great place. Of course, Lynne learned about city government and how and why things can or can’t be done at a local level. She also enjoyed hosting and meeting a wide variety of people, including mayors from all over Acadiana and the rest of the country. Joey and Lynne love to travel and they have visited Lafayette’s sister cities in France, Belgium and Canada, maintaining relationships of education and culture. Many of these cities provided aid and support after Hurricane Katrina. One of Lynne’s favorite places, however, is Istanbul. The first time she and Joey went there for a business conference, they were waiting to board a plane in Houston when news came that the Turkish government had violently removed protesters in Taksim Square, an event many consider the birth of the Arab Spring.1 A friend called and protested, “Are you crazy? You’re not still going, are you?” But Joey and Lynne had obligations and meetings so they got on the plane. Lynne fell in love with the city and they took their family there on their annual vacation a few years later. When asked where she would like to travel once Joey is out of office, Istanbul was the top of the list. Seeing the Hagia Sofia, the Blue Mosque and terraces
After wondering if it was real or a joke, Lynne finally realized she and Joey had been invited to a state dinner at the White House. of Pamukkale was not the highlight of the past several years, though. She tells the story of eating a sandwich in her kitchen one day, going through the mail and coming across a heavy, white envelope. “From the President of the United States,” was printed on it. After wondering if it was real or a joke, Lynne finally realized she and Joey had been invited to a state dinner at the White House. It was the evening of a council meeting and Lynne rarely called her husband during a meeting. But this time, she couldn’t wait. “He must have thought it was an emergency because he called me right back. I told him, ‘I think we have an invitation to the White House. Can we go?’”
1 In May, 2013 what began as an environmental protest against the destruction of green spaces, turned into a larger protest against corruption and the authoritarian regime of Turkey’s Prime Minister Erdogan. This was the beginning of a wave of such movements that spread throughout the Middle East, what many have called, The Arab Spring.
“Of course we can go,” Joey responded. Lynne remembers sitting at a table with Lynne Cheney with Condoleezza Rice, one table over. They danced to an orchestra, roamed the rooms of the White House and enjoyed all the splendor of the state dinner. True to form, what Lynne leaves out of the story is that it was she who was the invited guest at the dinner honoring French President Nicolas Sarkozy — for her role as co-chair of the Marquis de Lafayette celebrations. 2 She had met the French Ambassador to the U.S., Jean-David Levitte as part of the preparations for the year-long celebrations and she and Joey opened their home to Levitte when he visited South Louisiana just after Hurricane Katrina. To paint a picture of a life of only privilege, opportunity, travel to exotic places and invitations to state dinners would be far from an accurate image. Lynne Durel has had more than her share of challenges — and she’s met each with a sort of determined selflessness and strength that has been an inspiration for her family and friends.
“I feel like God has led me in certain directions,” she said. “When I look back at 61 and see the path my life has taken, the pieces of the puzzle seem to fit.”
When Natalie, “a little bitty thing, only five feet,” was a senior in high school she was performing with her cheerleading squad, “She was the one they tossed around.” As Joey and Lynne sat in the stands, again in formalwear, on their way to an event, Natalie came down from a toss in the air. The other girls cradled her legs but her head fell and hit the gym floor. Lynne and Joey ran down as Natalie was having a seizure. At the hospital Natalie was screaming in pain. The doctors told them she had a concussion and were going to send her home. But Lynne knew better. “She was always a tough cookie. She would fall, bruise and get right back up. I never speak up but I knew from her screaming that something wasn’t right. I told the doctors, ‘no, she doesn’t act like this,’” At her insistence, they scanned her head and found a fracture. The months ahead were rough for Natalie and the family. She required constant care and a long recuperation. She graduated high school with the dedication of staff who escorted her from one class to the other. “She didn’t leave my side,” Natalie remembers about her mom. “I had to learn to read again. I had trouble with memory. I had to sleep on a pile of pillows. Mom was there by me every step of the way.”
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In March, 2005, the City of Lafayette and the Le Centre International took the lead in planning a year long celebration of the birth of Marie-Joseph Paul Yves Roch Gilbert du Motier, Marquis de Lafayette. Lynne Durel and Virginia Stuller co-chaired the committee, working closely with Le Centre’s staff. Over 100 events were held from Lafayette, Louisiana, to Baton Rouge, Washington, D.C. and Paris. Formal galas to lectures, reenactments, historical exhibits, performances and exchange trips to and from Lafayette, Belgium and France were part of the yearlong program. Philippe Justin, international trade manager for Le Centre International remembers Lynne as a reasoned, intelligent and reliable asset who always listened carefully before giving her opinion or making a decision.
“My mom showed incredible strength when Natalie needed her,” Nicole said. Natalie admits that she recently found out that doctors had told her parents that she would never complete college. They refused to tell Natalie that. “I have the most amazing parents in the world,” Natalie said. “They always told us we could do anything we wanted to.” The injury wasn’t going to change that. Lynne and Joey refused to allow her accident to be an excuse. Natalie did graduate from college. “They never gave up on me,” she said. “And I’m normal,” she said with a laugh, “and very capable.” In 2013, Lynne and her good friend Mazie Movassaghi were driving to Acadiana Mall to go for their daily walk. Lynne and Mazie met during the Marquis de Lafayette program and became fast friends. They’d spend their 45 minute walks talking non-stop about politics and family. That morning, just as Lynne was looking down at her phone (she wasn’t driving) thinking that one of her daughters might need a grandchild picked up, a truck crossed the medium on Ambassador Caffery and collided head on with their car, pushing it into another car. “I remember hearing Mazie say, ‘“There’s a truck coming at us!’” Lynne said. Both Mazie and Lynne were seriously injured. Lynne doesn’t remember much about the hours and days that followed until she was out of intensive care. Mazie broke her femur and Lynne broke 11 ribs in 13 places. She had a contusion that left her feeling dizzy and “just not right.” It took a long time to recover. “I had a lot of doctor appointments after that. Her family rallied to her aid as she had done for them so often, taking her to appointments. Both Mazie and Lynne had a fear of driving after the accident but they slowly overcame it. “I drive like a grandma now,” Lynne said. She and Mazie still walk in the mall as often as their schedules allow. “We won’t ride in the same car together on the way to exercise,” Lynne said with a laugh. The accident taught her that being in control can be an illusion. “I always thought I had control when I was driving. I realize things are totally out of your control. You can be the best defensive driver in the world but things happen in a split second.” For her children her recovery was a reminder of the impact she had on their daily lives. “I didn’t realize how much I relied on her,” Natalie admitted. “She picked up my kids, cooked for us two or three times a week. I wasn’t sure how I was going to manage without her,” she remembered. “She really is the most amazing woman in the world,” Natalie gushed about her mother. By all accounts Joey and Lynne were strict parents, raising their children with a clear sense of right and wrong. Lynne was the quiet, strong example, “The glue that holds us together,” Nicole said. “When she talks, we listen.” Preferring to be behind the scenes, the supporter, the caregiver, the worker bee, Lynne Durel is nonetheless a strong leader, showing the way for those who are around her with guidance, strength, compassion, energy and purpose.
FAMILY MATTERS
GRANDPARENTS Raising Grandchildren Grandparents have always played a role in the upbringing of their grandchildren. Their love, support and stability have helped numerous generations grow and prosper. However, the U.S. is experiencing a large shift in family dynamic as more and more grandparents are taking over the primary role as parents for their grandchildren. According to the 2010 National Census, 10.5% of children under 18 live with grandparents who are the householders. This is roughly a 52% increase from 1990. In Louisiana, that number is above national average with 14.3% of children under 18 residing with grandparents. Research shows that there are varied reasons contributing to this increase, including parental death, incarceration, substance abuse, financial struggle, single parenthood, pursuing higher education, abandonment, neglect, and illness. Regardless of how or why grandparents are assuming the role of parent or guardian, this paradigm shift is leaving many grandparents searching for resources and information on how to most effectively raise this next generation.
More and more grandparents are taking over the primary role as parents for their grandchildren.
Should you find yourself transitioning into the parent or guardian role of a family member, these helpful tips and resources may prove valuable. BE PROACTIVE. Seek legal counsel; meet with school officials and parish agencies to determine the legalities associated with being the custodial (Grand) parent for the child. RESEARCH. Become familiar with resources in your area. The internet provides a wealth of information for local assistance, including financial help for qualifying families. For example: • Department of Children and Family Services – Louisiana www.dss.state.la.us • Custody & Visitation Rights for Grandparents in Louisiana www. louisianalawhelp.org • Grandparents Raising Grandchildren – www.lagrg.org/helpingchildren NETWORK. Create a support system by seeking out other grandparents raising grandchildren in your area. PRACTICE SELF CARE. Don’t forget to take care of yourself. Your health is important; make time for yourself and continue doing things you enjoy in order to maintain wellness and happiness. LISTEN TO YOUR GRANDCHILDREN. The adjustments may difficult for you, and even more so for your grandchildren. Allow them time and space to process their feelings while being available for them to talk to you about how they are feeling. Seek professional medical assistance if you or your grandchildren are having a tough time coping with these feelings. ENJOY THE JOURNEY. Life doesn’t come with a handbook. You’re likely to make some mistakes along the way. Have a sense of humor and laugh often. CELEBRATE. You are commended for your dedication to your family and are making a huge difference in the lives of your grandchildren. Celebrate both your own and your grandchildren’s victories, no matter how small. You are in this together.
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FAMILY MATTERS
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SELF ESTEEM Game
The Ultimate Parental Challenge By Savannah Ludwig
Other than providing the basic necessities in life, many experts agree —
Praise your child’s efforts and accomplishments, but don’t overdo it.
Overbearing, authoritarian parenting styles can destroy a child’s self esteem.
So, what is
self esteem? It’s defined as confidence helping a child develop high in one’s own merit as self esteem may be one of an individual, sense of worth, abilities the most important things a or self respect. True self esteem is based parent or guardian can do. on direct experience of a person’s core consciousness. People with high self esteem do not need to determine their self worth by comparing themselves, either publicly or in their own minds, with others. As a parent, you have a huge impact on your child’s self esteem. By using your influence in the right way, you’ll be more likely to set them on a path to becoming responsible, competent and confident adults. These practical tips can be instrumental in helping any child develop high self esteem.
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Tell the child on a regular basis that you love them unconditionally.
Let your child take controlled risks. Teach them to become competent and self reliant. To do this, you’ll need to step back and let them experience failure and disappointment from time to time.
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Empower your children to help around the house by assigning age appropriate tasks. Have them assist with folding clothes, cooking, cleaning or setting the table. This helps them realize their contributions are valuable and appreciated.
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Praise your child’s efforts and accomplishments, but don’t overdo it. Compliments and accolades are important, but unwarranted or excessive praise can become problematic as it may show the child that they no longer need to push themselves to achieve higher results.
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Never compare your child to others. Everyone learns differently and no two people possess the same set of skills or talents.
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Be proud of your child. On a regular basis, tell them how fortunate and proud you are to be their parent.
All children need structure and discipline. How you choose to implement these strategies is your choice, but overbearing, authoritarian parenting styles can destroy a child’s self esteem and may cause long term feelings of inadequacy, fear, anxiety and depression. The complexities of raising a child could never be summed up in a simple article, but the fact that you’re reading this is a sure sign you’re on your way to being a good parent. If you find yourself in doubt of any parenting situation and have to think on the fly, remember the 3 F’s of effective parenting — Be Firm. Be Fair. Be Friendly.
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Sources: The Self Esteem Institute, Leslie Fieger; The Journey and The Quest, Child Development Institute.
5 FINANCIAL TIPS FOR THE NEW PARENT 1. Sure, we’ll take that hand-me-down Yes, you want to bring the baby home in cute new onesie, but after that, think secondhand. Anything (clothing, furniture, bikes) you are handed down is money you won’t have to spend.
2. Teach your kids the value of money Kids can start learning about money as early as 3 or 4. That’s when you want to start the grocery-cart dialogue about why we’re buying this raisin bran instead of that raisin bran.
5. Get your Life – Death paperwork in order
3. Needs vs. Wants Living by this rule will help you to get through the first few years of parenting without making the common error of spending money you really don’t have on things you could probably live without.
Now that little miss sunshine is born, you not only need a will and living will, but guardianship instructions should something catastrophic to you and your spouse
6. Life insurance
4. Ditch debt for love Research shows: Recently married couples who accumulate credit card debt fight more often about money. Having a baby is stressful enough. You don’t need finances to stress you out further. The family that saves together, stays together.
In most cases, the sudden loss of a parent can lead to extreme financial hardship. Speak with your insurance agent to learn what policies would be best for your situation. You’ll be amazed at how affordable some policies can be.
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Dr. Leonard Sax, MD PhD WHY GENDER MATTERS: what parents need to know about the emerging science of gender differences
Wednesday, September 23, 2015, 7:00 p.m. Holy Cross Catholic Church - Lafayette “Dr. Sax’s presentation was wonderful beyond words. We were blown away by the material, which was presented in a clear, sophisticated and thoughtful manner. We are grateful for Dr. Sax for sharing his immense expertise with us. Many families will benefit from the information he imparted.” “What an impressive evening! We have never before been to an event where 600 folks sat, spellbound for two and a half hours, laughing every 3 minutes and uttering ‘Wow’ every 5.”
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WOMEN IN BUSINESS
The Entrepreneurial Spirit of Acadiana
SKYRA RIDEAUX Skyra Rideaux is a graduate of Carencro High School and University of Louisiana at Lafayette. Skyra served seven years in the United States Navy and has a ten year professional background in marketing, public relations, policy and procedure development, and strategic planning. She is excited to serve her community as Lafayette Community Heath Care Clinic’s (LCHCC) new Executive Director. LCHCC provides Skyra with the opportunity to aid in providing medical, dental and pharmaceutical care to the working uninsured of Lafayette Parish. In addition to her new role, she is actively involved in several local non-profit organizations where she has focused on implementing new ideas and strategies to build relationships, increase awareness and engage the community. “My life’s mission is to find ways to use my talents and strengths to be of service to my community,” Rideaux says. “It gives me so much joy to know that everyday my job will be to make someone’s life better; there is no greater reason for waking up in the morning than that.” 1317 Jefferson St. | Lafayette LA | 337-593-9208 | www.lchcc.net
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REVEALING BEAUTIFUL SKIN
Kim Williams is the store manager of European Wax Center (EWC) in River Ranch. She has a true passion for customer service and believes that people deserve to be treated exceptionally well. Kim’s goals are simple – to focus on company growth and help team members provide impeccable guest service. After personally waxing for years, Kim discovered EWC and loved it so much she applied for the manager’s position. She states, “Once I used this wax and the skin care products, I was completely sold on them. The skilled wax associates go through an extensive corporate training curriculum, so why go anywhere else?” Originally from Louisiana, Kim has spent the last ten years in Texas working in the sales and service industry. She decided to return to the place she calls home, with nine year old daughter Karli, to be closer to family. Kim feels blessed to have a position in a great town with one of the best companies and owners. She plans to continue empowering a team of exceptional young women who help people look and feel great. 201 Settlers Trace Blvd. | Lafayette LA | 337-446-2330 | www.waxcenter.com/la-lafayette
ANDREA MARIE RAOS Andrea Marie Rao, NMLS # 1267633, is a Mortgage Banker with GMFS, LLC. She joined the GMFS-Acadiana team in the spring of this year. Originally from upstate New York, Andrea moved to Louisiana in 2007. She’s a recent graduate from the University of Phoenix with a bachelor’s degree in finance and a member of the International Honors Society, Delta Mu Delta. As an Ambassador with One Acadiana (formerly Lafayette Chamber of Commerce), Andrea enjoys networking with professionals and developing lasting business and personal relationships. She takes joy in becoming more involved in the growth and change happening in the Acadiana community. Andrea specializes in USDA, FHA, VA, Conventional, Jumbo and New Construction financing. She is available anytime to answer questions and work with clients on their goal of homeownership. She believes that every client deserves excellent service and an open line of communication throughout the loan process. 337-308-4804 | www.arao@gmfslending.com | www.gmfslending.com/andrea.rao 48 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2015
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CAREER
DIGITAL MARKETING TIPS TO EXPAND YOUR SMALL BUSINESS
Establishing a loyal customer base means monitoring your online ratings and reviews on a regular basis.
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hether you’re just starting a small business or looking to expand an existing operation, marketing your business can seem daunting. The key to marketing success is to establish your presence, drive leads to your business and expand your audience. It’s important to remember that today’s customers are more connected than ever before. Technology enables them to rely on mobile devices, web searches and other online tools to research businesses and make purchasing decisions. To ensure your business is effectively operating in today’s connected local economy, follow this advice: Mobile matters. Almost everyone today owns a smartphone. Yet you would be surprised by the number of businesses that have not optimized their websites for mobile devices. Not only do mobile responsive sites load faster and provide a better experience, they also help with your ranking in search engine results. Keep your online presence current. Think of your online presence as a business card you hand out to prospective customers. Google
your business from time to time to ensure your digital presence is current and cohesive across all online media. Create valuable content. Can’t think of what to say? Customers are often drawn to tip-based content related to your industry or product, such as best practices or top 5 tips. If you aren’t the strongest writer, find someone on your team who is, or seek professional help outside of your organization. Keep content fresh. Once you develop content, you need to keep it fresh. As a rule of thumb, you should update images on a quarterly basis. For blogs, update the content weekly. Reputation and reviews matter. A business owner who reaches out to customers for all feedback they provide — whether positive or negative — creates a powerful statement. Addressing or correcting any errors shows accountability for your business and can build loyalty. Small businesses often work within a limited budget. But don’t let pinched funds get in the way of smart spending. Products that boost your digital presence and performance can help your business get found and grow your customer base. faceacadiana.com | FACE 49
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#IntentionalPositivity September is UPDATE YOUR RÉSUMÉ MONTH IF A MILLIONAIRE OFFERED YOU $25,000
LETTERHEAD Name, physical address
(or PO Box), email, phone, and LinkedIn to immediately upload a compelling, relevant, profile link. phenomenal, and professional résumé worthy of WOWing any Fortune 500 CEO — could you do it? CAREER STATEMENT/SUMMARY September is International Update Your Résumé Month. Kids are starting school and most companies are budgeting for next year’s new hires. Having your résumé updated and readily available will prepare you for that next step. A résumé will not get you the job! I repeat: A résumé will NOT get you the job! However, a professionally written and presented résumé that closely matches the job advertised could get you in for an initial interview. The interview process is where you could be offered a job. The résumé merely opens the door. If you understand this process, it will help you greatly and cut down on your Ibuprofen intake. No two résumés are ever treated the same. However, most résumés do contain the same basic information appropriate for most jobs. Below are headings to include in a résumé. You are not limited to these, but this will help get you begin: 50 FACE | SEPTEMBER 2015
For example:
14 YEARS OF AWARD-WINNING REAL ESTATE SALES EXPERIENCE (Lucrative Book of Business) ADD A BRIEF SUMMARY AND SKILLS TO SUPPORT YOUR CAREER TITLE WORK EXPERIENCE Include challenges faced, how you handled problems and results. EDUCATION Certifications and additional training can be included here with dates and locations. Eliminate high school if you’ve had any training since then. AFFILIATIONS Are you a UL Alumni? Do you fundraise for Miles Perret Cancer Services? Have you donated time helping the children at the Healing House? Include any professional and community affiliations here. Showing
your commitment helps you stand out from your competition. How did you do? Did you breathe a sigh of relief knowing that you have a current and relevant résumé? Or are you a deer in headlights begging for assistance to get off the busy road? Standing out in the sea of competing résumés will keep you from ending up in the Dead Sea!
About the author: Laurie J. James is one of only 16 Master Career Directors globally. She co-founded and presided over the Professional Résumé Writing and Research Association from 2000-2004. PRWRA rebranded to Career Directors in 2005. Laurie has created 10,000+ job-winning résumés in her career. She is a local Dale Carnegie Performance Development Specialist, a seasoned public speaker and award-winning career image coach.
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MIND | BODY | SOUL
Simple Relaxation Tips Many health experts agree that good health starts from within. Unfortunately, too many people don’t make time to relax, depriving themselves of much needed inner peace. “We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves.” – Dalai Lama XIV
Set aside as little as 5 to 10 minutes a day for yourself and consider using these simple techniques to help relax. Find a quiet place where you can close your eyes for a few minutes and just slowly breathe, clearing your mind of any stresses and outside distractions. Rest your hands on your legs just above the knees. Mentally picture the stress leaving each part of your body as you concentrate on that part. Start with your head, noticing and mentally releasing tension in your neck, shoulders and arms, then mentally moving on to your back, chest and so on. Take deep breaths, in through your nose and out through your mouth. After guiding your relaxation exercise all the way from the top to the bottom of your body, continue breathing deeply with thoughts of wellness. With practice, you can reach a very deep state of mental relaxation in just a few minutes, after which you will feel noticeably rejuvenated and alert. Relaxation is an important part of good health, vital for maintaining clear mindedness and overall wellness. Make time for it every day, and develop a relaxation technique that deeply relaxes you quickly.
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BEAUTY | STYLE
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steps to CONTOURING YOUR FACE By Kisha F Kana Contouring is no longer reserved only for the rich and famous. Anyone can learn to enhance their features by highlighting and shadowing. A local makeup artist told FACE, “The trick is to fill in natural shadows for the chiseled effect and highlight the parts of the face the sun hits for a glow. Here’s how to brush up on some basic contouring skills. 1. CHOOSING FOUNDATION SHADES Pick a shade that’s two shades lighter than your skin (this will be your highlighter) and one shade darker than your skin (this will be your shadower). Prepare your skin for application by putting a layer of primer before getting started.
Map it out.
2. MAKE YOUR POUT POP Place a touch of highlighter at the top of the cupid’s bow and on the center of the chin.
Voila! Tout finit!
3. SCULPT YOUR JAW For definition, trace a stripe of highlighter from your chin to your earlobe with a line of your contouring (shadow) shade just below it.
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4. SHINE WHERE THE SUN DOES This step, sometimes referred to as “strobing” is about using highlighter to make a reflection along the length of your nose, brow bones, and upper cheek bones. Bonus points for highlighting between your brows. 5. CAST SHADOWS Suck in your cheeks, then shade above and along hollows, creating soft stripes that taper toward ears. Shade along the hairline, above the outer corners of brows. 6. EASE THE STREAKS Blend in shaded areas with a brush or wet sponge; start at the center and diffuse outward. Don’t even think about stopping until every single line disappears.
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BEAUTY | STYLE
UP Styling it A F T E R L A B O R D AY
HOW TO RENEW YOUR FALL FASHION SPIRIT ONE. First, clean out your closet. If you make it a habit at the
Say goodbye to flip flops and floaties and hello to hoodies and hayrides. With autumn just around the corner, it’s time to get ready for every fashion lover’s favorite time of the year.
beginning of each new season to take inventory of your wardrobe and get organized, then when the next season rolls around, you may only need to adjust a few things…and we all know the drill for cleaning out your closet: Make four piles — keepers, repairs, donations and clothes to be tossed.
TWO. Get ready to shop like you mean it. Set aside at least one afternoon, if not a whole day to get out and look at the new fall merchandise now streaming into stores. It may be tempting to spend a few nights online checking out the trends, but there’s nothing like trying on clothes to gauge how you look and feel in them. THREE. Stock up on basics. Since the sweaty, sticky months of summer seem to be hard on our clothes, and other basics like T-shirts and under garments, early fall is the perfect time to replenish. Layering is a key component of cool-weather dressing, so stock up on tights, camisoles and white shirts.
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FIVE. Talk to your hairstylist. You know you and your hair are sick of all the humidity that has just worn you both down. So make sure you see your hair stylist as soon as possible, and talk about some new options for a new season… hopefully, one that is a lot kinder and cooler to your hair.
SIX. Sign up for a makeup makeover. No more tanning! Instead, check out the new fall lineup of cosmetics and colors at your favorite local boutique or salon. Put yourself in the hands of a makeup expert and see what magic they can work on you…and your parched skin. SEVEN. Change your nail polish. It’s such a simple change, and let’s face it, you don’t have to spend a fortune on giving your nails a new lease on life. Pick up a bottle of your favorite nail polish in their newest line for fall or treat yourself to a shellac polish change at a local nail salon for.
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EIGHT. YES, you can wear white after Labor Day. Those white jeans of spring and summer are good to go all year round. The old rules have just about all been broken now.
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6. Chest or closet material 7. Builds 8. Table scraps 9. Neckline shape 10. Animosity 11. Dupe 12. Lottery 13. Acquire through merit 14. Ultimatum word 21. Israel's Barak 23. Food and water 24. Potpourri 25. Luges 26. Atlas feature 27. First prime minister of India 28. Treacherous 30. Narrow inlet 32. In shape 33. Diary bit 35. Live 37. Host 39. "___ don't say!" 41. Parent's sister 44. Reason to cancel school 47. Contiguous with 48. Vestiges
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64
51. Old finnish money 53. Appliance brand 54. Cod, Good Hope, or Canaveral, e.g. 55. Home of the Bruins 56. Spanish muralist 57. Decree 58. French 101 verb 59. Woodland animal 61. French possessive 63. Baton Rouge sch. 64. MSNBC rival
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