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THE MIRROR Independent student newspaper
Week of February 15, 2017
Vol. 42 Iss. 16
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Attendance Spike Highlights Siblings Weekend By Deanna Carbone Assistant News Editor
Information compiled from ‘The Maneater,’ Emory University and the Center for Disease Control
Counseling and Psychological Services Stresses Impact of Suicide in College By Juliana Sansonetti News Editor
chological Services to utilize,” said Birge. “I think it’s important for students to understand that those feelings of despair do pass.” When most people think of college, suicide is not typically the first Birge went on to explain that impulsivity is what is so dangerous to thought that comes to mind; instead, they relate college to a party atmo- those feeling hopeless and helpless. She cited a 1978 study conducted by the sphere. University of California at Berkeley of 515 people who were stopped from However, suicide is the second leading cause of death among college committing suicide on the Golden Gate Bridge between 1937 and 1971. The students according to a 2015 article in ‘The Maneater,’ the student newspa- study found that 94 percent of those who attempted suicide never again atper of the University of Missouri, coming only after car accidents. Suicide tempted to take their lives afterwards. is a higher cause of death among college students than even alcohol-related Birge commented on the supportiveness of the Fairfield community deaths, excluding driving under the influence. when it comes to suicide. The topic is an extremely important one at colleges and universities. “I think the students in our community take good care of one another,” Since September 2016, a comparatively high number of seven students com- commented Birge. “It’s not uncommon for a student to call counseling with mitted suicide at Columbia University in New York, according to The New concern for one of their friends.” York Post. Birge also cited the professional resources for suicidal members of the In order to raise awareness for suicide, Counseling & Psychological Ser- Fairfield community. vices, working alongside Campus Ministry and Fairfield University Student “We have a counselor on call 24/7, so if you have a concern about a Association, has organized an initiative that will take place on Feb. 22 called friend or even if you yourself are feeling suicidal, you can call Public Safe“You’re Irreplaceable.” The initiative is a suicide ty and Public Safety activates us right awareness and prevention campaign. away,” Birge added. “We want to heighten awareness not only Assistant Director of the Deof the issue but also of the resources,” said Dipartment of Public Safety John Ritchie rector of Counseling & Psychological Services spoke on DPS’s role in helping those Susan Birge. “We want students to know that who are entertaining suicidal thoughts. they can turn not only to counseling but also to “We are all required to be EmerCampus Ministry when they’re in dark places.” gency Medical Technicians and that Senior John Versaci feels like the Uniprogram has a component of dealing versity does a good job addressing the issue of with people in crisis,” said Ritchie. Director of Counseling & Psychological “Many of our staff members are also suicide. “RAs do counseling programs, the First Services Crisis Intervention Trained officers, Year Experience course teaches us about reattending a week-long intensive prosources on campus and they always have stress-reliever events to help stu- gram to help us recognize and defuse people in crisis. Our goal is to have all dents who have certain needs,” said Versaci. officers attend CIT.” Birge explained that, as part of the initiative, there will be boards all over Junior Jade Joannou believes that the University’s resources for dealing campus in places like the Barone Campus Center, the DiMenna-Nyselius Li- with suicide are well advertized. brary and the Leslie C. Quick, Jr. Recreation Complex where members of the “I always see those counseling signs and definitely for freshmen with community can write reasons they have for living on sticky notes that they FYE they always recommended the counseling services,” said Joannou. “I can then attach to the boards. This display is called “Reasons to Live.” think it’s pretty supported.” Additionally, there will be a 12:10 p.m. mass dedicated to those who However, Maggie Xie ‘20 believes that more can still be done. struggle with depression and despair as well as those who have died from “There’s a lot more about sexual assault than about anything else,” said suicide. Xie. “I’ve seen so many emails about that, but I don’t think I’ve seen enough There will also be a push for students, faculty and staff to wear stickers emails about suicide prevention, so I think it’s nice that they’re having somethat say “Save a Life” on them to raise awareness. These stickers also include thing like this.” the phrase “suicidal thoughts or depression can happen to anyone” and adBirge touched upon why this initiative is so important and what it all vertise for Counseling & Psychological Services. comes down to. “I think college can be a time of significant stress that may lead to feel“This is all about the value of a life,” Birge said. “There is nothing more ing overwhelmed, but there are many resources including Counseling & Psy- important than the preciousness of life.”
I think college can be a time of significant stress that may lead to feeling overwhelmed, but there are many resources, including Counseling & Psychological Services to utilize.
Siblings Weekend allowed Fairfield University students to share their home away from home with those closest to them. From Feb. 10 to 12, students and siblings were able to participate in a variety of events organized by the Fairfield University Student Association. Some of the activities included two movie nights in the Gonzaga Auditorium showing “Moana” and “Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them,” stuffing emoji slippers in the South Side Café in Faber and tie dyeing t-shirts in the Gonzaga Auditorium. According to Molly Strang ’18, director of programming at FUSA, 109 siblings registered for the weekend. A majority of those registered were siblings from the Class of 2020 and the Class of 2017. The attendance of the event has grown compared to previous years. Last year 96 siblings were registered. In past years, the average registration was only 40 to 50 siblings. Colleen Wilson, assistant director of student programs at the Office of Student Engagement, agreed with Strang’s statistics by saying that this Siblings Weekend was the best attended. “Siblings weekend has always been popular, but its popularity is definitely growing due to FUSA spending more time on the marketing and promotion of the weekend,” said Wilson. According to Wilson, one of the more popular events at Siblings Weekend throughout the years is the “make your own” fish tank event. Students and siblings are able to pick out their own fish, design their own tank and bring the fish back home with them. Another crowd-pleasing event was the trip to the Rockin’ Jump Trampoline Park. “I was surprised a lot of upperclassmen and
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Fairfield students and their siblings participated in the “make your own” fish tank event.