Families Dorset Sept-Oct 2012

Issue 1 September/ October 2012

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In this issue How to encourage reading Choosing after school activities Competitions Plus much more!

Families Dorset 1 The really useful localwww.familiesdorset.co.uk magazine for parents with young children

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Editor’s letter Welcome!

Hello and welcome to the very first issue of Families Dorset Magazine.

My aim is to provide a really useful and interesting bi-monthly magazine which provides local families with informative articles, features, events, activities and places to visit.

Let us know what you think - send us your comments, feedback and suggestions to editor@familiesdorset.co.uk or get in touch via facebook or twitter.

I very much look forward to hearing from you and delivering our second issue during the first week of November.

A big thank you to everyone who has helped in launching Families Magazine in Dorset.

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Contents News & Information

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Making the transition to secondary school

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Choosing after school activities

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Competitions

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How to encourage reading

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Families Dorset Editor: Sarah Carr Tel :07876 761 623 editor@familiesdorset.co.uk www.familiesdorset.co.uk Next issue: November/ December 2012 Booking deadline: 1 October 2012 Copy deadline: 6 October 2012 24,000 readers per issue Printed by Cedar Group Follow us on twitter @familiesdorset Follow us on facebook www.facebook.com/FamiliesDorset

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News & Information This autumn Macmillan Children’s Books are celebrating the 30 year anniversary of Rod Campbell’s classic book Dear Zoo. Over 5 million copies of Dear Zoo have been sold since it was published in 1982. To mark the anniversary, Dear Zoo is being published in a touch-and-feel format for the first time. It joins an extensive list of Dear Zoo books which includes Dear Zoo Buggy Book, Dear Zoo Noisy Book, Dear Zoo Little Library, Dear Zoo Activity Book and Dear Zoo Animal Shapes. Macmillan also recently released a Dear Zoo app which was highly commended at the Junior Awards and described as ‘A truly delightful addition to a well-loved format that has delighted a generation of babies and toddlers (and now has a nostalgic resonance for today's newest parents who may have read the original version when it was first published in 1982!).’

Check out www.dearzooshop.co.uk for more information.

Boost your child’s confidence with the help of NumberWorks’nWords Your child may just need a confidence boost, help with some basic skills, or an extension to what they are learning at school. Bournemouth NumberWorks’nWords can help them to do their best at school. NumberWorks'nWords primary goal is to make a difference for children by increasing their confidence, developing skills on how to learn, and to make learning Maths, English, and verbal reasoning fun. You will see your children’s confidence grow as they learn new skills and methods of learning. This all leads to success in school. Bo and Maya love attending Bournemouth NumberWorks’nWords to start their extra tuition sessions, once or twice a week. Their mums say, “they love it; they get handson learning with individual attention and we can see their improvement”. Regular participation in an after school programme demonstrates improvements in work habits, overall behaviour and general academic achievements. Evaluators in one study found that academic outcomes linked to after school programmes included better atitudes toward school and higher education aspirations; better performance in school and less disciplinary action. The tutors at Bournemouth NumberWorks'nWords are always happy to assess children's levels of Maths and English skills and discuss their needs without any obligation. Free assessments can be booked either by calling 01202 433673 or emailing: bournemouth@numberworks.com Bournemouth NumberWorks’nWords is located in the Southbourne Crossroads area, near the beach, at 107/109 Belle Vue Road, BH6 3DJ.

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News & Information Life is easier with Mummy’s Maid Whilst many mums would love to have a full time nanny, housekeeper, cook and personal assistant, the reality is that most people cannot afford such luxuries, but with Mummy’s Maid that much needed extra pair of hands is possible. Mummy’s Maid, provides families with short and long term household help that is designed to be used as and when the need arises.

Each contract is a minimum of two hours long so their clients are not tied into any lengthy contracts A fully vetted enhanced CRB checked individual goes into a client’s home and will take care of cleaning, laundry, general household chores and running errands. They also offer a child care service that can be used when a trusted sitter is needed but no one is around to help out. One of their most popular services is their new baby service which has been developed for women in latter stages of pregnancy or those who have just given birth. It offers them a chance to relax whilst we take care of all the household chores, or have some supportive childcare so they can catch up on much needed sleep.

For more information go to www.mummysmaid.co.uk or call 0845 463 0075.

Mummy’s Maid are currently looking for more caring individuals to join their team, if you have experience of running a home and caring for children, please send an email to info@mummysmaid.co.uk

Help your child get off to a flying start in the new term!

Research has found that at least two thirds of children fall behind in their studies over the summer holidays. This large gap in studying can leave a child feeling insecure in their ability, which in turn can lead to a lack of confidence during September.

The beginning of a new academic year is an ideal time to seek extra support.

Explore Learning is a network of maths and English tuition centres for children aged 5 to 14, designed to improve knowledge, confidence and enjoyment of learning.

With 63 centres located nationwide, they are the perfect way to help your child get off to a flying start in the new term.

Explore Learning, Castlepoint, Bournemouth 01202 233909 www.explorelearning.co.uk/bournemouth

Are you looking for a fun and rewarding job that fits around your family’s needs?

Well Little Pickles Markets could be the answer.

They were a huge success when they held their first market in Dorset before the Summer and they’re now recruiting for like-minded people to join their team and run markets across the county.

If you enjoy organising, meeting new people and looking for a new challenge with absolutely no out-lay then get in touch today.

Email: Selina@littlepicklesmarkets.co.uk for more information or visit www.littlepicklesmarkets.co.uk

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News & Information Monkey Music is a winner!

Children’s music group, Monkey Music, in Bournemouth and Ringwood has won a Silver Award for ‘Favourite Pre-School Class’ from the UK’s biggest parenting site, Netmums.com The UK’s premium pre-school music group, Monkey Music is run in Westbourne (Mon), Southbourne (Tues), Central Bournemouth (Fri) and Ringwood (Thurs) by local mums Esther Carne and Nicky Oughton. Voted by parents for parents, the Netmums Awards attract many thousands of votes from members around the UK with the aim of recognising the very best services for mums, children and young families.

Monkey Music’s Esther Carne said; “We were thrilled to hear we’d won Silver for the Favourite Pre-School Class in the Netmums Awards. Being voted for by parents means these awards really count. Parents tell me Monkey Music is a highlight of their child’s week, so it’s so lovely to be recognised in this way. Thank you to all the Netmums who have voted and supported us!”

Netmums founder Siobhan Freegard said; “All the evidence shows that fun pre-school activities help kids blossom and give parents a fun time too. That’s why we wanted to celebrate all they have to offer with these awards.

“Local mums and dads will be delighted to know they have some of the best classes in the country.”

If you’d like to know more about your local Monkey Music classes phone Esther on 01202 461943 or visit the Monkey Music website at: www.monkeymusic.co.uk

Bouncy Castles for all types of occassions Blue Gecko Events & Bouncy Castle Hire are based in the beautiful town of Lymington, with customers throughout the New Forest, Hampshire, Dorset, Berkshire & surrounding areas. They are very friendly & professional, with trained, uniformed staff, £5 million public liability Insurance, a member of the B.I.H.A (British Inflatables Hirers Alliance) & all inflatables PIPA tested & UK made. They have the highest quality & various sized units, from Toddler Ball Ponds, Under The Sea themed childrens bouncy castles, Rainbow Bounce 'n' Slide, Pirate Mega Slide, Adult mega De Luxe Bouncy castles, Sumo Suits, Penalty Shoot-Outs & so much more! All at very competitive prices & offer multi-day discounts & low prices for schools & charities.

They offer free delivery, cater for all outdoor use in gardens, schools, clubs, hotels & offer a free venue finding service & most of their fabulous bouncy castles fit indoors in school halls, church halls, Scout halls, Sports Clubs, Leisure Centres, Village halls etc.

So, book your party, celebration, Christening, Wedding, family gathering or for your Christmas school fetes now!

Visit our website is www.bluegeckoevents.com or email: info@bluegeckoevents.com or telephone Rayna Paull on 07563 458926.

Bespoke hand-knitted hats and gifts Carol Anne Knitwear offer high quality, bespoke hand knitted hats, clothing and blankets for premature and newborn babies and children up to the age of 3 years. Their range of beautiful hats and clothing make great photo props and fantastic gifts for that special little person. All products are made from the best materials available including acrylic, lambswool, merino wool and baby cashmere.

Carol Anne Knitwear is offering Families Dorset readers a 20% discount off all products, please contact Carol on 07795 833 351 or visit www.etsy.com/shop/carolcarr45 If you have news to tell our readers then get in touch, we would love to hear from you!

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Making the transition to secondary school How much to help and how much to let go

By Margaret Ansell The transition from Primary to Secondary School is an anxious time for parents. During the primary school years, it is fairly easy to support your child at school. You will probably know his teacher, other members of staff and parents, as well as being familiar with school policies and routines.

The thought of losing the control this familiarity offers is as daunting for parents as it is for children and you may well wonder how best to continue to support your child.

eg packing school bags etc. You may secretly want to savour these last few months of dependency but your child needs a taste of independence. If they are slow to take up the reins, don’t take over and don’t despair, they will get there eventually.

If your child will walk to school or travel independently on public transport, practice the new journey Start by travelling together but without interaction. Then move to simply following behind your child. Finally, let him do it alone and meet him there.

Travel at busy times. Allow your child to make mistakes and find solutions. This equips them with the skills to handle the unexpected like bus detours and road closures.

After the transition:

You may also worry specifically about your child’s ability to cope with the new environment and crucially, whether he or she will make friends.

Your anxieties may be eased by adopting strategies that help with the transition.

Here are some tips and tools which should help you prepare for and manage the early months:

Before the transition:

Shield your child from your anxiety.

They can make this transition. Critically, they need to know that you believe in them and their ability to deal with difficulties and challenges.

Relax the organisation Towards the end of year 6, step back from the organisation of your child’s school life

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Be There Make sure a parent or trusted carer is available before and after school -to provide food, notice if your child comes in late, listen to their successes and concerns and be aware of subtle changes in mood; someone to empathise and with whom to discuss problems.

Watch and listen, help out if asked but don’t take over. Become an Enabler rather than a Fixer.

school punctually. Don’t expect too much too soon, many won’t crack this for years!

Understand what homework they have and know when it has been completed and handed in. Agree a routine that will help your child to complete and hand in all homework on time, without devoting too much time to one piece and little or nothing to others. However, remember it is their homework not yours; help, encourage, motivate but accept their best.

Schedule time to relax. Your child will be exhausted by the effort of holding it all together. Tears are likely over the most trivial things and they may regress and demand more care. Trust that they can cope and make sure there is time for sleep, friends, homework, more sleep, watching TV, playing computer games and yet more sleep! Avoid weekend breaks and reduce extra-curricular commitments to the minimum. Now is not the time for your child to begin new activities or classes. And lastly, schedule time to relax yourself! All will eventually be well.

Support the development of friendships It is of great importance to older children that they mix socially and establish secure friendships and they need to do this whilst still young enough to turn to you for support when they make mistakes. Gradually they will learn to make informed choices about friends.

It’s appropriate for this age group to have access to a basic mobile phone and computer but the dangers of social networking should be discussed and boundaries agreed upon.

Support organisation and routines.

Create “To Do Lists” or “Timetables” for the fridge, agree places to keep bags, kit, and books. Label uniform and valuables.

Establish routines so they can get to

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The Hampshire Baby and Toddler Show 2012 F

Southampton’s premier Baby and Toddler Show is back for a third year and is sure to be a fantastic day out.

The event takes place at the City Cruise Terminal in Southampton on Sunday 4 November from 10.30am – 4pm.

The event offers parents and parents-to-be the chance to try, test and buy the very latest products, enjoy a demonstration session and take part in activities for parents and toddlers.

Our exhibitors include; clubs and classes, family portraits, baby knitwear and bespoke clothing, organic products, books and much more.

• Birthing solutions

• Taster sessions

• Childcare

• Baby feeding area

• Photography

• Baby & toddler classes

• Financial advice

• Music & movement

• Organic products

• Bouncy castle & soft play

• Expert advice

• Pushchairs & car seats

• Baby essentials

• Toys

• Charity raffle

• Free show guide

Our headline sponsor this year is Mothercare, who will be showcasing the latest in pushchair technology as well as offering car seat safety demonstrations. If you visit their stand on the day you will also receive a special 10% discount off any purchase or orders taken at the show.

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As well as the exhibition, there are lots of entertainment and taster sessions for everyone including; toddler football, baby yoga, music and movement, soft play, a bouncy castle, plus you can meet Peppa Pig! Our popular Face of the Show competition will run in conjunction with Kiri Chic Photography plus we have 1000 goody bags to giveaway and we’ll also be running a charity raffle in aid of Wildern Opportunity Group, based in Hedge End, who provide support for children with special needs.

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Facilities at the show include a baby feeding café, baby changing, a breast-feeding area and free parking. With everything on one level the venue provides easy access for everyone including pushchairs!

Advanced tickets are now available for £3.50 (£5 on the day) and can be purchased on the website; www.babyshowhampshire.co.uk. All advanced tickets holders will be entered into a draw to win one of two £250 Mothercare gift vouchers. Plus all visitors will receive a free family swim voucher to redeem at a choice of venues.

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Choosing after-school activities

By Elisabeth Dolton T.V. and relaxing. Leave some activities perhaps for the summer, when different interests can be tried, without the pressure of school demands.

After-school activities can provide enrichment, adventure and variety.

They can enhance knowledge and build character. Spend a bit more time choosing the right activity programme for your child and you will reap the benefits.

Consideration for special needs children • Consider your child’s interests, rather than their needs. Many regular activities can use technology or planning to help their participation, e.g. drama, athletics, cooking, academic Evaluate your child’s stamina. Check they have the energy for an extracurricular activity?

• Talk with the activity leaders about your child’s unique medical and communication needs. Provide them with emergency contact information.

As the new school year starts, so does the time to choose after-school activities, but take a quick look and you will find a whole range of classes available, from Scouts to Ballet, from French to Karate. How can we know which ones are the best for our child, offer value for money, and critically, which ones they will enjoy!

After-school activities definitely offer value to your children. Reports indicate those who participate in after-school programs have better school attendance, higher grades and loftier aspirations.

They’re less likely to get into trouble are at lower risk of obesity. It is also a great opportunity for children to develop social and leadership skills. The benefits are there, but under which classes?

Talk to your child and find out how they feel about the activity, and let them choose at least one club or activity themselves.

Help them choose activities that reflect who they are and what they want to learn, don’t impose your preferences. Explain that it’s important and fun to try new things, and remember switching activities is normal amongst children.

Always check out the quality of an activity.

Discipline-based activities that create a quality product over a period of time are

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great, e.g. putting on a play. Don’t think that high cost equal high quality, some activities are cheaper to run like football.

Staff members should be professionals with skills and experience.

Consider the mix of activities. The benefits of exercise are huge, so including a sport would be a good start. Extracurricular activities are ideal for children to explore and practice what it means to be a group leader, e.g. Brownies. If you are stuck between two similar activities, consider the usefulness, e.g. drum lessons might be cool, but the guitar might have wider applicability.

• Make sure family downtime is a regular part of the schedule. Sometimes your family needs to have nothing to do — as a group.

Remember the inclusion of children with special needs is beneficial to all. Special needs children achieve more, improve behaviour, and enhance motivation.

Children without special needs learn from working cooperatively and grow in confidence through helping others.

Finally, remember logistics. The afterschool programme affects you too.

Avoid signing on to too many activities that leave you scrambling from one to the next. No one will have fun doing anything if it means arriving late, leaving early, and going without dinner on Tuesdays and Thursdays. Look hard for places you can walk to, it reduces your carbon footprint while keeping you fit for free!

Finally do build in some downtime.

Children need to have independent play as well as the structured activities, so ensure time is built in for dinner, watching

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Clubs & Classes

Turtle Tots Dorset offer Baby and Toddler Swimming lessons and Aqua-Natal Yoga for pregnancy. Fun and progressive classes taught in warm water pools they teach you to teach your baby to swim and use the resistance of the water to give you, the carer a work out at the same time.

Classes are run in various locations in and around Bournemouth.

For more information contact Caroline Kelly on 01202 802670 or email caroline.kelly@turtletots.com. www.turtletots.com www.facebook.com/turtletotsdorset

Pavilion Dance has a range of weekly classes for children. From Mini Movers for under fives, to Funky Performers for 5 – 9 year olds and Music Video Dance for 8 – 13 years, the classes are the perfect way for children to dance and socialise. Breakdance for 5 – 9 year olds will give budding bboys and bgirls the chance to learn highenergy moves. Classes start from £2.50.

Tel: 01202 203630 www.paviliondance.org.uk

Baby Sensory is an award winning programme designed specifically for babies aged 0 - 13 months. The classes provide hundreds of simple activities designed to stimulate the senses and help with a baby's development. Baby Sensory classes include activities ranging from signing to fibre optic light shows, amazing light balls, bubbles and bells, and have unique themed sessions providing new exciting experiences every week.

Classes are being held in venues across the area on a weekly basis and are easily accessible for parents and carers living in the local community.

For further information contact Amy Moody on 07971 574565 or email poolewest@babysensory.co.uk

Monkey Music’s specialist teachers cater for children from as young as 3 months up to 4 years, gently encouraging social and musical skills in a stimulating and friendly environment.

Monkey Music uses 300 traditional and original songs, musical games and exciting movement ideas throughout the curriculum, with the children grouped in small classes according to their age.

For information about your local Monkey Music classes phone Esther on 01202 461943 or visit the Monkey Music website at: www.monkeymusic.co.uk

If you would like to feature in the next issue of Families Dorset then get in touch, we would love to hear from you!

Please email editor@familiesdorset.co.uk for further information.

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Should our kids eat less wheat?

For centuries wheat has been at the centre of our diets. Over the last 10,000 years, the earth’s population has doubled ten times, and wheat is one food source that has helped enable this. Wheat feeds more people in the world today than any other food. Yet nutritional therapists are starting to advise reducing our consumption of wheat, in some cases even eliminating it from our diets totally. Why? Wheat is a common part of our and our children’s diets. It is in almost every meal we have - cereal, bread, crackers, biscuits, cakes, pastry, and pasta. It is also recommended by many world governments as an essential part of our daily intake. However, wheat grown today looks very different from how it used to look. Chemicals are used to grow wheat today, as well as preservatives, and the most notable difference is how it’s processed. Today most wheat-based foods are highly processed, removing most of the nutrients.

Perhaps therein lays the reason, as wheat is increasingly being linked to common allergy, sensitivity, ADD and hyperactivity in kids, celiac disease, fatigue, weight gain and more. Wheat contains fibre and other nutrients that are beneficial for health and wellness. However, sensitivity to wheat and gluten (a large protein found in wheat) is increasing. Some people have a severe allergic reaction to gluten, known as coeliac disease, which affects as many as one in 300 in the UK. But wheat intolerance is also more prevalent. Symptoms occur after the body reacts to wheat and interferes with its normal processes, causing everything from irritable bowel syndrome to thyroid disorders, arthritis, diabetes, asthma and eczema. Indeed, many nutritional therapists believe too much wheat causes headaches, a feeling of ill health, bloating, tiredness and even depression.

There’s little mainstream scientific evidence to support this, but that hasn’t stopped nutritionists advising their patients to cut down on

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wheat intake or use alternatives to wheat such as spelt, rye, barley, rice and soy.

It is very easy to overdose on wheat and end up eating it for breakfast, lunch and dinner – toast, sandwiches, a pizza. Try cutting wheat down to one meal a day for the family, and eat the most natural and unrefined wheat such as wholemeal or wholegrain bread and whole-wheat pasta. While it may not necessary for most of us to cut out wheat completely from our diets, it’s worth the effort to reduce excessive wheat intake.

Wheat free lunch boxes Good quality proteins, complex carbohydrates and healthy fats are the key to a super wheat-free lunch box.

• Quality proteins - Deli meats, cheese and cheese spreads, salads (chicken, turkey, tuna), soup, yogurt, protein bars, hard-boiled eggs, falafel • Complex carbohydrates - Vegetables and fruits (celery, carrot sticks, sugar snap peas, broccoli, cauliflower), rice, whole grain gluten free bread and crackers, hummus, gluten free pasta with pesto and pinenuts, rice cakes with fun toppings (nut butters, jam, cheese) • Healthy Fats - Olive oil, raw nuts/seeds, dried fruit, avocados, olives

Yummy Vanilla Halloween Cupcakes...

250g softened unsalted butter 250g caster sugar 250g self raising flour 5 medium free range eggs 1 teaspoon of vanilla extract Put the butter and sugar in a mixer or bowl and mix until light and fluffy.

Add the eggs and the flour and mix, but do not over mix.

Add the extract.

Line 2 x 12 cupcake tins with cases and divide the mix between the 24 cases.

Put the cakes into a preheated oven of 180 degrees celsius for about 20 minutes or until the cakes is golden.

Take out of the tin and leave to cool on a rack.

For the Buttercream 250g unsalted soft butter 500g icing sugar 2 teaspoon vanilla extract small amount of colour paste..for these cupcakes I used orange sugarflair.

Add all the ingredients into the bowl and whisk on high until fluffy.

Put the buttercream into a piping bag, I used a star nozzle although you can just spoon the buttercream on.

Swirl the buttercream around the cooled cupcakes. This buttercream mix will cover all 24 cupcakes.

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Then go mad...add sweets, icing shapes, let your children have fun making icing shapes and decorating the cupcakes.....

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Competitions Win!

a safety bundle worth over £100 from Lindam

Lindam, the UK’s leading number one safety brand is giving 1 lucky reader the chance to win a bundle of safety goodies worth over £100 to celebrate their first Safety Day on September 6th 2012, launched to help raise awareness and reduce childhood accidents in the home.

The lucky Families winner will receive a safety prize bundle that includes a Lindam Clarity Digital Audio Monitor, PushLoc™ safety gate and the complete Xtra Guard™ home safety accessories, a prize worth over £100 that will leave homes safer and more secure for ever curious little ones!

Visit Lindam on Facebook to find out more about Safety Day, ‘The Difference A Minute Can Make,’ and find out how you can get involved with the campaign and help reduce childhood accidents in the home. Log on to www.lindam.com or find Lindam on Facebook at www.facebook.com/LindamUK. To enter please visit www.familiesdorset.co.uk/competitions CLOSING DATE MIDNIGHT 31ST OCTOBER 2012

Win!

a Dear Zoo bumper pack of books!

This autumn we are celebrating 30 years of the Rod Campbell’s classic picture book Dear Zoo. Author Rod Campbell also set up the Campbell baby book list and created the much loved Buster character among others.

Dear Zoo consistently features in the top selling children’s titles and lists of the classic/best children’s books - this year it was voted by UK librarians as one of their top 10 children’s picture book titles.

Families Dorset has a Dear Zoo bumper pack to giveaway to one lucky reader, which includes:Dear Zoo Little Library Dear Zoo Activity Book Dear Zoo Buggy Book Dear Zoo Noisy Book Dear Zoo Board Book Dear Zoo Animal Shapes Dear Zoo Touch and Feel

To enter please visit www.familiesdorset.co.uk/competitions CLOSING DATE MIDNIGHT 31ST OCTOBER 2012 September - October 2012

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a sign copy of Laura Wall’s Goose

There a Goose on the Loose!

Goose is a four title picture book series by Laura Wall, a talented young artist from Devon.

The series follows Sophie, a young girl, and her adventures with her new friend, Goose - who is indeed a goose! The series is aimed at children aged 4+ For more information about the Goose series contact Fiona Fox at Award Publications fiona@awardpublications.co.uk Families Dorset has 3 signed copies of Goose to giveaway.

To enter please visit www.familiesdorset.co.uk/competitions CLOSING DATE MIDNIGHT 31ST OCTOBER 2012

Win!

a Kindle with Metanium Everyday

Reading can be the perfect way to unwind after a busy day with your baby. Metanium Everyday Barrier Ointment is giving away a Kindle which can store over 1000 of your favourite books. It’s small, light and portable so you can even slip it in your changing bag – just in case you get a quiet moment!

2 runners up will win a specially designed set of baby body-suits, there’s seven in a pack.

Metanium Everyday Barrier Ointment has a unique double action formula to help guard against nappy rash. It helps seal in the skin’s natural moisture keeping the skin soft, smooth and supple. It’s gentle enough to use every day and at each nappy change.

In a recent Metanium Everyday product test with Mumsnet most testers said they would be likely to recommend Metanium to other mums.

Metanium Everyday from Boots, Asda, Tesco, Sainsbury’s, leading pharmacies and www.boots.com. www.metanium.co.uk To enter please visit www.familiesdorset.co.uk/competitions CLOSING DATE MIDNIGHT 31ST OCTOBER 2012

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How To... encourage reading Simple, quick guides to help you help your family

by Eliabeth Dalton Many of us know the value and enjoyment of reading. Good readers become better writers, better learners and well rounded individuals. Taking an active part in helping your children become interested in reading is vital.

Despite busy days, tired kids, limited time and many distractions, we outline five simple steps that can help.

Step one

Set up reading time every day Decide when and where a reading session will take place, which fits into your household schedule. 10 minutes is fine.

Encourage your child to read aloud. They don’t have to get every word right, and praise them often. If they are discouraged by their own reading, you read aloud.

The pleasure of listening to you read can restore their enthusiasm. Offer to read every other sentence, page, chapter, and have conversations and discussions about the content.

See the teacher and judge where they are: Find out what reading program the school follows, get to know the levels, and aim to supplement the program at home.

Prepare a timetable. Know what level your child is at and the next, with some idea of when it can be achieved. There is no race to be the first to read, it just puts things into context.

Step four

Plan specific reading linked activities: Extend your child’s positive reading experiences, e.g. If they enjoyed reading about dinosaurs, visit the natural history museum.

Make it fun. Children love sound effects, different voices, pulling faces.

Encourage activities that require reading, e.g. read a recipe, instructions, and directions, play games that require reading, use a reference book to look up something you have seen.

Step two

Visit the library and give your child their own library card. They can choose their own library book or listen in on story-time.

During reading time: Introduce the bookmark. Stop after a few pages and pick up where you left off at another time.

Provide an accessible, special place for children to keep their own books.

Use special incentives like an extra 5 minutes to finish a chapter, a promise to take them to see the film of the book, sticker charts and certificates.

Let them choose their own books. Don’t worry the books are too young or too easy, early reading success can came from several “non-traditional” sources such as comics.

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Helping reading for children with learning difficulties Books and Audio Follow a book as the audio book plays. Listen to a chapter, and then read it together.

Turn on the TV subtitles Sub-titles on your TV or DVD help increase sight word vocabulary, whilst developing a sense of flow of written and spoken language Make your child the star of their own audio book Your child can read into a recorder, then follow the book together during playback Everyone joins in Reserve thirty minutes each evening for family reading time. Each family member reads different material and then shares information about it, or take turns reading aloud from the same book.

Support their learning Help ensure your child doesn’t get behind in reading material necessary for school subjects, ask for help with obtaining textbooks on CD ROM. Together identify unfamiliar words you come across and show your child how to look up the meanings of words.

Step five

Be a role model: Let your children see you reading for pleasure. Read aloud everyday items menus, road signs, food labels.

Give books as gifts.

Leave books, magazines, and colourful catalogues around your home.

Write short notes for your child to read.

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Book Corner Hi kids, parents, grandparents, teachers – and book lovers everywhere!

I’m Ed and here is my Autumn book selection for you to enjoy. The books are all available online from Ed’s Reading Room at www.edontheweb.com.

Ed’s Reading Room is an exciting free online book and story club for primary children in homes and schools. Each month, recently published books are selected as Ed’s Books of the Month for Owlets (age 5-7) and Owls (over 7s). On the website, there are fun literacy activities to accompany each book, including wordsearches, quizzes, poetry and reviews, and there are new original stories in Edtime Stories. There are also lots of other fun online activities, complementary to the curriculum. Check out Ed’s Archive for Ed’s Books of the Month from previous months.

FOR AGES 5-7 YEARS

Medal Mayhem

by Tamsyn Murray (Simon and Schuster £4.99)

ED SAYS: ‘Harriet

Houdini, star of the television programme Superpets, is picked to take part in the London Animalympics. She begins training for the triple jump with the world famous athlete Calvin Cross. With such a fantastic personal trainer and with Harriet’s enthusiasm she should be well on her way to success but all does not run smoothly when the bunnynapping Maldini appears on the scene.

Will Harriet be able to hop, skip and jump to the gold medal?

‘This wacky character is great fun. Medal Mayhem is a laugh out loud story with fantastic illustrations throughout. It will entertain children reading on their own or reading together.’

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Super Soccer Boy and the Raging Robots

by Judy Brown (Piccadilly Press £4.99)

ED SAYS: ‘Harry and

his friends are excited to be going to a tournament at Wembley with lots of top players taking part. Harry can’t believe it when his favourite player is sent off the field and later other players also start to behave in very unusual ways. Harry notices strange things happen when the owner of one of the teams, Anton Antovich, is around.

Could Antovich be responsible? Harry has to use all his Super Soccer Boy powers to reveal Antovich’s plan.

‘This is a humorous and gripping story.

It is very well written and brilliantly illustrated by the author. If you enjoy it as much as I did, look out for the other books in the series.’

FOR AGES 7 YEARS PLUS

The Poisoned Honey Cake

by Caroline Lawrence (Orion £4.99)

ED SAYS:

‘Threptus is the apprentice of the soothsayer Floridius. He is trying to find information to help his master who fears he is losing his power of seeing into the future. Threptus angers the gods when he eats a honey cake that has been left as an offering to them. And he is poisoned – as well as already being nearly starved. Will he be able to survive this latest disaster?

‘This is a brilliantly written story that is action-packed and very funny – as well as being historically accurate. It is exciting and entertaining and will appeal to boys and girls alike.’

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The Abduction

by John Grisham (Hodder £6.99)

ED SAYS: ‘Theo

Boone is the son of two lawyers and at the age of 13 he has already acquired an amazing knowledge of the law. However the issue here is personal to Theo as his best friend April has disappeared from her home in the middle of the night and this time even Theo doesn’t have any answers. Will his powers of investigation be enough to discover what exactly has happened to April?

‘This adventure in the fantastic Theodore Boone series is fast-moving and full of suspense. It may well have you on the edge of your seat.’

Ed’s Reading Room is part of www.edontheweb.com, a DTI award-winning website. It was created by Maggie Humphreys, a teacher of more than 25 years, and Les Snowdon, who together are authors of several books on fitness walking and healthy eating.

You are very welcome to contact Maggie on 01753 730019 or by email at mgh@edontheweb.com about the website or about Ed on the Web Spelling Bees in schools.

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What’s On We aim to be as accurate as possible but the listings are compiled several weeks beforehand and may be subject to change. Please contact venues in advance to check details and prices.

Open daily til 3rd November Sandworld International Sand Sculpture Park, Weymouth 07411387529 www.sandworld.co.uk Displays of impressive detailed sand sculptures on an Ancient Greek theme with tributes to the Diamond Jubilee and Punch&Judy on show.

For Halloween they are running their popular “Pumpkin Carving” competition.

2 September Twice As Nice Market The Beaufort Community Centre 1:00pm - 3:00pm www.2asnice.co.uk Nearly new baby and children’s goods sale. From bump to baby and beyond.

For further information or to book a stall contact Emma on 07971 527095.

7 September Grand Steam Gala and Vintage Transport Rally Swanage Railway www.swanagerailway.co.uk A weekend of glorious steam with three visiting steam locomotives and all their resident steam locomotives in action, plus the Vintage Transport Rally at Harman’s Cross.

To 9 September Swanage Folk Festival www.swanageff.co.uk A weekend festival featuring dance displays, concerts, crafts, workshops and children’s activities. Many events are free including street processions and dance displays.

To 9 September

8 September

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Twice As Nice Market Stourvale Centre (Southbourne Children’s Centre) 10:00am – 12:00pm www.2asnice.co.uk Nearly new baby and children’s goods sale. From bump to baby and beyond.

For further information or to book a stall contact Emma on 07971 527095.

Wartime Military Vehicle Show The Tank Museum 10:00am - 5:00pm www.tankmuseum.org 01929 462359 The Wartime military vehicle show will allow visitors to see a fantastic collection of military vehicles privately owned by members of the Military Vehicle Trust Free children’s activities, talks & tours, armoured vehicle rides and craft, militaria & bookstalls to browse.

Heritage Open Day Corfe Castle 10:00am – 6:00pm www.nationaltrust.org.uk 01929 481294 Enjoy free entry to Corfe Castle as they take part in Heritage Open Day. Family Camp Weekend Enjoy a family adventure on Brownsea Island www.nationaltrust.org 01202 707744 This is a rare chance to spend the night on Brownsea Island. Take part in camping, a bbq and a night time sing-song! Charges apply and booking is essential, please call for more information.

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16 September Little Pickles Market Littledown Centre, Chaseside, Bournemouth, BH7 7DX 10:00am-12:00pm www.littlepicklesmarkets.co.uk Over 20 stalls selling good quality pre-loved children’s items from clothes to toys, books to DVD’s, travel systems, nursery furniture and much more.

Entry costs £1 per adult, children enter free

Look out for the November/December Issue To advertise call 07876 761623 or email editor@familiesdorset.co.uk

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7 October Twice As Nice Market The Beaufort Community Centre 1:00pm - 3:00pm www.2asnice.co.uk Nearly new baby and children’s goods sale. From bump to baby and beyond.

For further information or to book a stall contact Emma on 07971 527095.

13 October Twice As Nice Market Stourvale Centre (Southbourne Children’s Centre) 10:00am – 12:00pm www.2asnice.co.uk Nearly new baby and children’s goods sale. From bump to baby and beyond.

For further information or to book a stall contact Emma on 07971 527095.

14 October Family Circus Fun Day Lighthouse, Poole’s Centre for the Arts www.lighthousepoole.co.uk Lighthouse is throwing open its doors to celebrate its 10th Birthday as Lighthouse, with a Family Circus Fun Day that promises to be a great day out for all the family. Come and join in the circus fun and find out what goes on inside this busy arts centre.

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Autumn Half Term Events 27 October

28 October

31 October

Wimborne Food Festival 10:00am – 4:00pm www.wimbornefoodfestival.co.uk 07989 018114 A mini food festival aimed at entertaining youngsters.

Entry is free.

To 28 October

British themed crafts Highcliffe Castle 11:00am - 4:00pm www.highcliffecastle.co.uk 01425 278807 Fun British themed crafts to keep the children entertained during Half Term. Adult Admission to the Castle is £3, plus £2 per craft.

28th – 30th October & 1st – 2nd November

Wacky Wizards & Warty Witches Priest’s House Museum & Gardens 10:00am – 4:00pm www.priest-house.co.uk 01202 882533 Spooky fun for all the family. There will also be trails, quizzes and much, much more. Last entry 3pm.

Admission £1.50

Swanage Railway www.swanagerailway.co.uk A week of fun on and around the railway with steam trains and entertainment.

Attractions include a regular steam and diesel train services, exciting brake van rides at Swanage, colourful face painting at Corfe Castle and on-train entertainment.

To 4 November Halloween at Corfe Castle 10:00am – 4:00pm www.nationaltrust.org.uk Explore the spooktacular castle this Halloween, if you dare! Find the ghosts and pumpkins on the family trail and enjoy the other hair-raising activities on offer.

To 4 November The Home Of Halloween Adventure Wonderland www.adventurewonderland.co.uk Adventure Wonderland park is opened into a world of spooks and skellys with some fangtastic events thrown in.

To 4 November

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29 October Orienteering for Beginners Avon Heath Country Park 11.30am - 12.30pm www.visit-dorset.com 01425 478082 Decipher the language of maps and directions, then put your new skills to the test. All children should bring an adult. Booking essential. Cost: £3.50 Halloween Fun Children’s Events Farmer Palmer’s Farm Park www.farmerpalmers.co.uk 01202 622022 Low key spooky fun for little ones!

Pumpkin carving, story tellers and face painters.

To 4 November Tank Action Displays The Tank Museum 1:00pm www.tankmuseum.org 01929 462359 Watch in awe as tanks from as early as World War Two roll into action with thundering engines and life-like explosions!

To 2 November

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Spooktacular Kingston Lacy, Wimborne Minster, BH21 4EA 3:00pm - 5:30 pm www.nationaltrust.org.uk 01202 883402 Join in for some scary fun. Bring your own pumpkin. Enjoy spooky trails, story telling, apple bobbing and much more.

Eerie Evening Walk Brownsea Island 5:30 pm - 8:00pm www.nationaltrust.org.uk 01202 70774 Enjoy this rare opportunity to see the island at night. Learn about the creatures that come out when it gets dark and hear some of the scary tales from the island’s past! Then calm down with hot dogs and hot chocolate!

All Tickets £15 Halloween Fun at Monkey World 10:00am – 5:00pm www.monkeyworld.org 01929 462537 Each year on 31st October, Monkey World offers FREE ENTRY to the park to all those - adults and children - in FULL Halloween fancy dress costume!

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