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What’s On Christmas grottos, festive events, workshops, pantos and ice rinks

Christmas Shopping last minute gifts to tuck under the tree

Plus local news, mothers mean business, and shy children

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LONDON’S FAVOURITE CHRISTMAS SHOW Sadler’s Wells presents The Birmingham Repertory Theatre production of

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Special events and more every day in the Bank’s Museum

The live stage show based on Raymond Briggs’ The Snowman Music and lyrics

by Howard Blake © Snowman Enterprises Ltd 1982, 2012

It’s fascinating and fun!

“Sheer theatrical magic. Go see The Snowman and melt” The Times

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Admission free 10am – 5pm Monday to Friday. Closed weekends and public holidays. Entrance in Bartholomew Lane, London EC2R 8AH. Tel: 020 7601 5545 www.bankofengland.co.uk/museum

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HO HO HO we’re nearly there! Grubbing around in the loft to blow the dust off last year’s decorations (seems like yesterday we were last there); and waiting for the shops to cave in and discount the wrapping paper so we can tussle with the cats and sellotape to lovingly perfect our parcels to go under the tree. The Christmas cake has been made to Great Uncle Charles’ recipe (he was a baker by trade), and the cards are bought. When to post them? I usually wait until the first one to us plops through the letter box then we’re off - the Christmas season has begun!

We wish you all a very merry Christmas with your important people around you – enjoy each other.

Robina Cowan, editor

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IN THIS ISSUE 3-5 Local News and Views Young West End stars, award-winning local companies, pampering for mothers, Children in Need supports Charlton Toy Library’s outreach programme, and shopping in southeast London

6 Where’s Father Christmas?

We’ve found him! Good little boys and girls can meet the big man himself before he returns to the North Pole to fill a lot of sacks

7 Book Review Page Justine Crow’s guide to wonderful books to give, share and read this Christmas

8-9 Education News Christmas revision courses, Bromley High girls sing out, training teaching leaders, and the importance of language skills

10-11 Christmas Gift Guide Putting the hottest new massage therapy to the test, plus last-minute gift ideas

12 Mothers Mean Business We meet Rachael Haynes, who set up The Incredible Edible a very special children’s catering company

13 Family Life

The stars of Stagecoach 2013 has been another exciting year for Stagecoach Dulwich with students performing in the West End, at the Queen Elizabeth Hall, on TV and at The National Theatre.

Students had the opportunity to perform at the Queen Elizabeth Hall in February as part of the Children’s Book Awards, where they enjoyed the chance of meeting David Walliams who won one of the categories for his book Gangsta Granny.

Students from Dulwich also appeared at Her Majesty’s Theatre in June, performing The Demon Barber Of Fleet Street - an extract from Stephen Sondheim’s musical Sweeney Todd.

Ed Lyness is currently performing in Emil and The Detectives at The National Theatre, while his Stagecoach classmate George Hill is also on TV at the moment in the new Channel 4 comedy Man Down.

Meanwhile Stagecoach weekend classes and holiday workshops continue to be very busy and students have enjoyed taking part in the shows Our House, Starlight Express and Peter Pan. Principal Jonny Clines, who has been running the Dulwich schools for eight years says “Our classes offer a great mix of fun and hard work and I try my hardest to provide opportunities for the students that they will cherish.”

For details about Stagecoach Dulwich and other local Stagecoach schools, see the back page or go to www.stagecoach.co.uk.

Shyness is a perfectly normal trait in childhood, but what can we do when lives become restricted by shyness?

14-19 What’s On Families’ whopping six page guide to festive events, pantos, concerts and ice rinks for the whole family

20 The Back Page Local business contacts to make your life easier Front cover: Portrait by www.yourstrulyphotography.co.uk

Next Issue out: 10 January 2014, copy deadline early December Families South East, PO Box 11591, London SE26 6WB 020 8699 7240, www.familiesse.co.uk, editor@familiesse.co.uk © Families South East. We take every care preparing this magazine, but the publishers and distributors cannot be held responsible for the claims of advertisers nor for the accuracy of the contents nor for any consequence. Families South East is part of the Families group, established in 1990 and headed by Families South West. All franchised magazines in the group are independently owned and operated under licence.

‘Jingle Bells’ Christmas Workshop Funky Monkey Keyboard Classes are offering you the chance to drop off your little ones and either put your feet up for four hours or whizz around doing the last minute Christmas shop!

On Saturday 21 December, the fun packed One Hit Wonder workshop is back with a Christmas theme. Complete beginners or children with basic knowledge can learn how to play Jingle Bells on the keyboard, play musical games, create wonderful music based art and even make up their own tunes.

The workshop will run from 10am-2pm at St Philip and St James Church in Herne Hill. To book, call Ali on 0800 107 7949 or visit www.funkymonkey.info for full details.

The Pointer School (Blackheath)

A Prep, Pre-Prep & Nursery School for boys & girls between the ages of 3 and 11 • First Class examination results • Organic food • Breakfast club and after school care (8am-6pm) • Christian Evangelical in ethos • Numerous extra-curricular clubs (36 in total, from fencing to horse riding)

• Large variety of outdoor and PE activities • ‘The Brazilian Kickers’ teach football the Brazilian way • Holiday club (Christmas, Easter and Summer and Half-Term)

OFSTED: “OUTSTANDING IN ALL AREAS“ Telephone: 020 8293 1331

See OFSTED reports on our website

Email: secretary@pointers-school.co.uk

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Theatre tots at the abbey

New performing arts classes

Theatre tots added a very special client to their list when they were commissioned to write and produce a show about Edward the Confessor; former king of England, and the man responsible for building the first Westminster Abbey.

Theatre tots director Laura Sydonie confessed: “It was a tall order to fit 50 years of history into a 30 minute show with singing and dancing, all suitable for children under seven and their families”.

Composer Bex Hughes joined Laura in developing the show with performers Matt Reynolds and Dan Burman, producing a script which had to be approved by the Dean of Westminster Abbey, who also introduced performances in the Abbey gardens.

Theatre tots are now working on a new commission with Westminster Abbey and Westminster archives for 2014, based on Lord Cloudsey Shovell and the discovery of the meridian line in Greenwich. A large section of this story is based in southeast London, in Bexley and Crayford so will involve local research.

Theatre tots launched in 2007 with a few sessions in southeast London, and has grown to offer sessions to schools, nurseries and children centres; weekly parent and carer sessions; interactive touring shows; published books; parties and sessions for children with additional needs.

For information, call 0780 1072 776 or see www.theatretots.com.

East Dulwich Academy of Music and Drama is the newest place to go for the bright young stars of tomorrow. Offering each budding musician two and a half hours of inspiring music tuition for a very reasonable £25 a week, children learn not only a main instrument but also theory, aural, keyboard skills and play in an orchestral ensemble to support their overall musical development. Starting by offering brass, woodwind and keyboard lessons to children aged between 8 and 13, strings, vocal studies and larger world ensembles will follow soon after. Each child will experience the benefits of being part of an ensemble as well as the fun that can be had making friends and playing music socially.

For £10 per week children are able to study drama with an experienced and dynamic tutor. There are two drama groups, age 8-10 and 11-13. These groups receive 45 minutes’ drama tuition in preparation for their LAMDA exams (London Academy of Music & Dramatic Art). Both classes then come together each week for a further 45 minutes, to work on a performance piece to showcase the skills they are developing.

The Academy will launch on 11 January on Saturday mornings at Goose Green Primary School, supported by Goose Green Education Trust. The first session is free when enrolling for the Spring term.

To find out more, call 020 8693 3568 or see www.eastdulwichacademy.org.

Olé Kids are winners Lola Fernandez and Vanessa RamÌrez are understandably proud that their company, Olé Kids, has won the runner up award as ‘Fulham best business’ in this year’s Hammersmith and Fulham business awards.

While based in Fulham, Olé Kids work in the whole of London, bringing Spanish and Latin culture to families. The company also acts as a port of call to teachers coming over from Spain and who are initially a bit lost on how to get into the Spanish education system.

Locally, there are weekly classes in East Dulwich and Canary Wharf, and Spanish fun for families at Iberica restaurant at weekends. See page 5 and quote FSE for a free trial class: 020 7386 0376 www.olekids.com.

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Countdown to Christmas Mothers inc. will be celebrating their first birthday on 13 December with exciting prize giveaways; and with Christmas fast approaching, they are offering all Families readers a 15% discount off any treatment, valid until 22 December 2013.

The salon offers a range of treatments from massages, facials, waxing, manicures, pedicures and gel nails and best still, there’s onsite childcare so you can relax while being pampered in preparation for the festive fun.

As well as regular treatments, Mothers inc. also hold fabulous pamper parties for children, baby showers and hen nights with a range of packages to choose from, including food and drink packages.

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For more information or bookings, call 020 8693 4033 or call in to 124 Forest Hill Road, East Dulwich SE22 0RS. You can also see more at www.mothersinc.co.uk and keep up with special offers through Facebook and Twitter.

Vortex is a cult cinema club for grown ups, held at Doopo Doopo art gallery and boutique in Forest Hill. Curated by three local filmmakers, it screens short and longer independent movies, hand picked by local film producers, directors and event organisers, and enriched with live music from local artists.

Each event has a theme - on 19 December it’s Fancy Dress Night from 7pm. Best still, attendance is free. For the full line-up, go to www.vortexcinemaclub.co.uk or drop in to Doopo Doopo at 15 Dartmouth Road, SE23, 020 3632 5041.

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A unique and exciting way for your child to celebrate their birthday. Activities include everything from juggling and plate spinning to stilt walking!

A perfect interactive treat for all!

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Here's an interesting fact from the Centre for Local Economic Strategies (www.cles.org.uk): for every £1 you spend shopping with a local, independently owned business, as much as 70p stays within the local economy. This compares with only 5p for the same £1 spent out of town or online. So, for last-minute Christmas presents, do your bit for the local high street, put a smile on the face of your local shopkeeper, and enjoy picking out some lovely treats.

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MOTHERS INC “Because every day should be Mothers day”

• relaxing massages • facials • waxing • pedicures • manicures • gel nails • and more Pamper Parties for children & adults, baby showers & hen nights

Motherhood Workshops 124 Forest Hill Road, East Dulwich, SE22 0RS 020 8693 4033 or 07811 930 993 Email mothers_inc@hotmail.com

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Charlton Toy Library has secured funding to run its outreach programme for the next three years. This is thanks to Help a Capital Child, which kick-started the outreach programme with a grant of £2,178, and BBC Children in Need pledging to fund the project with a grant of £27,959 over the next three years.

The Outreach programme visits four women’s refuges in the area, taking clothes, books, toys and games to children who have often fled their homes and have nothing.

Fundraising continues to maintain the service at Charlton House where the library runs a low-cost borrowing service of toys, books, DVDs, CDs, baby safety equipment, dressing up clothes, games puzzles and lots more. It also runs play and stay mornings three times a week, along with free music and craft sessions for users. For more information, or to donate toys or funds, call 020 8319 0055 or see www.charltontoylibrary.co.uk

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Where’s Father Christmas?

WHIPPERSNAPPERS’ WINTER WONDERLAND

CRYSTAL PALACE MARKET

21 December, HAYNES LANE, Crystal Palace SE19, www.crystalpalacefoodmarket.co.uk Father Christmas will be in his grotto at Crystal Palace Food Market from 10.30am-12.30 and 1-3pm on 21 December as part of the special Christmas themed events taking place every Saturday in December.

Weekly family festivities feature activities for children, Christmas songs, a ‘Handmade Palace’ craft stall, a free prize draw to win a hamper filed with market produce, Christmas trees, wreaths and plenty of delicious seasonal fare, including meat, fish, cheese, festive cakes, and fruit & vegetables.

All this and Christmas food orders can be made in advance, online. Market open 10am-3pm.

7-23 December, The Park Keeper’s Lodge, DULWICH PARK, Dulwich Village SE21 7BQ, 020 8693 1682, www.whippersnapperschristmasshow.co.uk Father Christmas and his elves will be helping Whippersnappers raise money to support their work at the Lodge delivering activities for children with disabilities in 2014.

The setting is a magical ‘Gingerbread House, where guests will be served festive refreshments before entering Whippersnappers’ Winter Wonderland. Young visitors can dress up to help elves in a toy workshop, visit Santa’s twinkly classroom to decorate gingerbread tree decorations, meet Starfrost the Christmas fairy, make a miniature Christmas stocking, and enjoy a Christmas sing-along. And of course, no visit would be complete without meeting Santa himself in his grotto for some words of wisdom and a magical present to take home, before visiting the arts and crafts/ toy shop to collect their finished tree decorations and a framed sleigh photograph.

Children’s tickets £18.50, adults £5 - book first.

GREENWICH GROTTO Weekends to 22 December, GREENWICH MARKET SE10 9HZ, www.shopgreenwich.co.uk A funny elf will entertain children with magic and balloon fun while they wait their turn to talk to Santa and collect a Christmas gift bag. 12.30-5.30pm, £4 a visit.

Also in the market, every day from 9-24 December, there’ll be up to 150 craft and designer maker stalls plus independent shops filled to bursting with gifts, stocking fillers, original artworks, toys jewellery, beauty treats and festive foods.

Christmas Eve, listening to children’s Christmas wishes in his whimsical Grotto. Pre-booking is not required but it’s worth arriving early as queues may close early to ensure that everyone waiting gets to see Santa.

SANTA’S VICTORIAN GROTTO 14-23 December 2013, MUSEUM OF LONDON, London Wall EC2Y 5HN, 020 7001 9844, and MUSEUM OF LONDON DOCKLANDS, West India Quay E14, 020 7001 9844, www.museumoflondon.org.uk Meet Santa in his very own grotto set in 19th century Sailortown, tell him your Christmas wishes, receive a special present and have your picture taken with him. £7, book first on 020 7001 9844.

HYDE PARK WINTER WONDERLAND

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Until 5 January 2014, HYDE PARK, London, 0844 858 6755, www.hydeparkwinterwonderland.com Set across 20 acres of historic parkland, Winter Wonderland has the UK’s biggest outdoor ice rink, a giant observation wheel, funfair and thrill rides, Zippos Circus and Cirque Beserk, a Bavarian Village, traditional Christmas market and festive food and drink. Santa Land is a magical experience with rides, eateries and Santa himself! Visit Santa’s Toy Factory fun house where Santa and his elves are making gifts ready for the big day. Open 10am10pm daily, admission free. Skating and show tickets can be bought in advance.

30 November - 24 December, HAMLEYS Toy Shop, 188-196 Regent Street, London W1B 5BT, 0844 855 2424, www.hamleys.com Join in the magic this Christmas at Hamleys by having breakfast, brunch, lunch or high tea with Father Christmas. Enjoy a scrumptious feast, meet the magical elves and hear all about Santa’s enchanting life in Lapland. Then when it’s time for Father Christmas to leave, his special guests will receive a small gift to take home. Suitable for children aged 4-11, £45.00 per child.

CHRISTMAS AT CANARY WHARF Until 24 December, JUBILEE PLACE MALL, Canary Wharf E15 5NY, www.canarywharf.com Santa will be in Jubilee Place every weekend throughout December and from 14 December until

HARRODS Until 24 December, 87-135 Brompton Road, Knightsbridge SW1X 7XL, 020 7730 1234, www.harrods.com/grotto Get the season off to a magical start by visiting Santa’s Grotto at the Knightsbridge department store. All children receive a gift, and parents can buy a photo as a souvenir, www.harrods.com/grotto.

Out of town KEW GARDENS

Until 4 January 2014, KEW GARDENS, Kew, Richmond TW9 3AB, 020 8332 5655,www.kew.org/christmas Visit Father Christmas in his magical woodland grotto. £3 per child, every child receives a gift. Also enjoy the Christmas village with festive nibbles, Christmas shopping and live carols, plus a festive fairground and winter trail.

CENTRALE SHOPPING CENTRE 16-24 December 2014, Lower Mall, CENTRALE SHOPPING CENTRE, 21 North End, Croydon CR0 1TY, 0871 330 8070, www.centrale.co.uk Enjoy arts & crafts plus meet Santa and his elves.

WINTER WONDERLAND AT BLUEWATER Until 5 January 2014, Glow Events Centre at BLUEWATER Shopping Centre, Greenhithe, Kent DA9 9ST, 020 8133 3153, www.bluewaterwinterwonderland.co.uk The new and magical Santa’s Grotto, has

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penguins, arctic animals and enchanting characters on your journey to see Santa, who has a special wrapped gift for all young visitors.

Experience a world of winter fun with a stunning real ice rink, 40-metre snow slide, an ice climbing wall, 4D cinema and stacks of traditional rides and amusements.

SANTA’S SPECIAL STEAM TRAIN December weekends and 22-24 December, TENTERDEN TOWN STATION, Station Road, Tenterden, Kent TN30 6HE, 01580 765155, www.kesr.org.uk Climb aboard Kent and East Sussex Railway’s Santa Special for a return journey to Northiam Station. Look out for the pixies whose sacks are full of lovely presents. Every child up to the age of 16 will receive a gift to take home and put under the tree. At the end of the journey, everyone can meet the beautiful Snow Queen. Tickets include the one hour ten minute train ride, a present for each child, a ride on a miniature railway and a colour portrait with the Snow Queen to take home.

Tickets from £18, pre-booking recommended.

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The Bookseller Crow

is a fantastic, volume stuffed shop run by some of the most knowledgeable bookworms in the business.

Call in for the feel of a real bookshop, or if you’re too busy, pick up the phone or point your mouse at their website for a fast mailorder service. Justine Crow recommends this month’s best titles.

Ah, memories of Christmas Past. Shuffling through last year's cards, I am suddenly reminded of all the posed family pics that my old man put us through annually to print up as festive greetings. Possibly the most excruciating one is of me and my siblings in ballet shoes, arms in fifth, tinsel round our heads - the cuteness of my younger sisters serving only to emphasise the supreme awkwardness of a solemn twelve year old who really should be wearing a bra by now.

On another we are all raising a toast next to the Christmas tree, my glassy expression betraying the fact that I’d just got an electric shock when I'd plugged the lethal fairy lights in. Every Christmas, mantelpieces up and down the country featured a frightful Crow family scene that often included a six year old waving a schooner of sherry. I shudder to think of the collective snigger when the postman arrived.

THE DRUNKEN COOKBOOK by Milton Crawford - Square Peg rrp £7.99. Forty years on and it doesn’t take a therapist to work out why the first item I suggest goes under the non-drop is an entertaining guide on how to deal with the munchies when you’ve had a bevvy or three. The follow-up to the delightful Hungover Cookbook, whether you hanker after a Thai, Mexican or Indian, as the author notes, unlike driving, texting or neurosurgery, cooking is always improved by booze.

If you need to give something a touch more refined, cue Arfur Mullard, BEER - THE ENTHUSIAST'S MANUAL, Haynes rrp £21.99 in the customary under-the-bonnet style should suffice. Or how about the subtlety entitled DRINK MORE WHISKEY by Daniel Yaffe, Chronicle rrp £11.99. The author's surname sounding like one of my replies when I've had too much single malt, this has all the info and recipes an occasional tippler like, ahem, me requires. Hic. THE MODERN ART COOKBOOK by Mary Ann Caws - Reaktion rrp £25. Oooh, I like the look of this one. Which is just as well really, given that it is all about proponents of visual art and their relationship with the nosebag. Meanwhile, DINNER WITH MR DARCY by Pen Vogler, Cico rrp £16.99 promises “recipes inspired by the novels of Jane Austen.” With that title, I should hope so. You’d be so disappointed if it turned out to be about indulging in something meaty with Colin Firth, eh? Pass the sauce...

GREAT BRITISH BAKES by Mary-Anne Boermans - Square Peg rrp £20. Buns were big business in the old days - both the hot cross and regular sugared variety drew crowds of thousands to the village of Chelsea in the late 18th Century, causing near riots. For the person for whom the history is as interesting as the eating of it, this is an excellent gift, with letters and stories and recipes for lots of other delicacies and staples such as lace pancakes, taffety tarts (I’ve got to try one of those!) and gingerbread. There’s plenty here to keep this fruit fool drooling.

THE VERY BEST BAKING BOOK FOR CHILDREN - Usborne rrp £17.99. People are always asking for recommendations for children’s culinary tomes and I can’t praise this publisher enough. “Rigorously tested” it claims here. I should say. All over my ruddy kitchen. I’m still chipping the Brownie mixture out of the light-fittings from the last session.

So long as you don’t do anything daft and allow the little critters near anything creative like a pot of paint, THE BIG BOOK OF ART by Herve Tullet, Phaidon rrp £14.95 is a brilliant ring-bound, split paged primer from the king of tasteful preschool board books. You’ve only got yourself to blame if you actually let them try any of this stuff out.

And for older kids, ARCHITECTURE ACCORDING TO PIGEONS by Speck Lee Tailfeather (geddit?), Phaidon rrp £12.95 rather beautifully tells us the stories behind some of the world’s most iconic buildings from Frank Gehry’s silver squiggle concert hall to the Coliseum, which your children will be thrilled to learn is also knows as The Murder Ring.

If you are looking for a present for the teenager-stroke-Nick Hornby nerd in your life, the cheerfully entitled 1001 ALBUMS YOU MUST HEAR BEFORE YOU DIE by Robert Dimery, Octopus rrp £20 has just been published. I was chatting with the eldest’s DJ boyfie just this morning about music, as you do, and happened to mention that we were going to Jerry Dammers’ fund-raiser. “Oh cool,” he replied politely and then added, “Can’t stand the Specials - Ska is just about the only genre of music I can’t get on with,” before opening my fridge door to see what he could find. Clearly I shall be tearing out that particular page before I give it to him.

Rather cannily, Trasha’s dad brought home the companion 1001 MOVIES (ditto death), Octopus rrp £20, which is also fully updated and as a Christmas gift for her. Then he promptly left it on the kitchen table.

Whereby her brother came home from school and read it cover to cover. She’ll be able to tell, I told him. How? he smirked. The donut crumbs in the spine? I suggest, upward inflection fully adopted to ensure I really am down with the homies.

STORIES FOR CHILDREN by Oscar Wilde, illustrated by Charles Robinson - O’Brien rrp £12.99. The illustrator was as famous as the author back in the day doing drawings for Robert Louis Stevenson as well as Frances Hodgson Burnett. This is strangely simple yet sumptuous: “On what little things does happiness depend!” said our Oscar, and he was as on the money as ever.

JACK & THE BAKED BEANSTALK by Colin Simpson - Templar rrp £6.99. This is lovely too with rich city-scapes and a bumbling benevolent ogre who discovers that the key to happiness isn’t sitting upstairs on a lonely cloud counting the cash (though I for one would give it a go). Heck, I even love the end-papers - oceans of baked beans.

TOO NOISY! by Malachy Doyle & Ed Vere - Walker rrp £6.99. This is a jolly racket of a bed time story with some rather glorious pictures that follows Dreamy Sam as he trudges home in the dark scared out of his wits. I do like one that keeps ’em nailed to the duvet with terror.

THE LITTLE WOMAN WANTED NOISE by Val Teal & Robert Lawson, New York Review, rrp £6.99, continues the theme charmingly with parping from the old farm jalopy, dogs barking, rocking chairs creaking and kids playing.

ZUBERT by Charlie Sutcliffe - Tate rrp £11.99. Zany and extravagant, its style is American but it is set in Bloomsbury. Professing not to be even “slightly magic” like his friends the spinglefranks (do keep up), our eponymous hero has the unenviable task of hiding a herd of bison, some errant monkeys and a bunch of elephants from beady-eyed hotel inspectors, naturally.

HELLO MR HULOT by David Mervielle - North South Books rrp £11.99.

My picture book of the year is a comic strip depiction of the famous Jacques Tati creation. With stunning artwork and genuinely funny little tales squashed into two sides, the punch-line having a page to itself each time, this Brussels trained artist (and as any graphic novel aficionado big or small will attest those grubby, graffiti strewn cobble-stoned streets are the true home of the genre) has really captured both the philosophical and physical humour of a fine eccentric, with nary a ‘mot’ exchanged.

Finally, some suggestions for stockings: THE TALE OF RUSSELL THE SCARED CROW, rrp £5.99, self-produced by Matt Carr after getting fed-up with publishers being nervous they might get sued by a famous curmudgeonly film star - they should be so lucky! - where our feathered friend develops a fear of flying and takes a cheap flight in a sombrero instead; SIZZLES IS A STAR, Puffin, £4.99 and also a clever finger-puppet book from the Charlie & Lola sausage factory; for an alternative to the standard counting primer, NUMERO by Marion Bataille, Chronicle rrp £8.99 is an ingenious pop-up. For anybody between the ages of seven and fifty-seven, if you haven’t exterminated the telly yet, I suggest the DOCTOR WHO ESSENTIAL GUIDE TO FIFTY YEARS, Penguin rrp £12.99. And THE MISSING INK by Philip Hensher, Macmillan, rrp £8.99 may just have changed my mind about the dreaded seasonal greetings and even if I have been scarred for life by actually being a Christmas card on many occasions, I am now convinced that handwriting must not be sacrificed to the digital altar.

Finally, yes you read this correctly, WE’RE GOING ON A BAR HUNT

by Josie Lloyd & Emlyn Rees, Constable Robinson rrp £8.99, is a silly parody strictly for grown-ups so whatever you do kids, don’t try this at home. Right, seeing as this is clearly going to be a sober, sensible Christmas, I’d better put the pinny on and crack open the sherry.

Afterall, can’t go under it, can’t go over it, got to go through it - swishy swashy, swishy swashy...

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Education news Christmas revision courses Tutor House is offering a selection of revision workshops during the Christmas school holidays to give GCSE and international GCSE students an intensive exam boost and help with their revision techniques in all subjects for next summer’s public exams.

The workshops will consist of five days of intense one-to-one and group revision sessions with students being able to either revise the whole subject, or pick and choose to focus on their weaker units and subject modules; not only aiding students in revising for their exams but also providing additional support for those with special education needs if necessary.

The course runs from 16-22 December in Fulham, 10am-4pm each day with a break for lunch. Students can pick and mix their level of involvement by attending as many days during the week as they wish. Fees are £150 per person per day, and will be run by managing director Alex Dyer and his team of private tutors. For bookings or more information, call Tutor House on 020 7381 6253 or visit www.tutorhouse.co.uk.

Dieci Voices singing workshop Award winning choir, Dieci Voices, was invited to Bromley High School to deliver a one day workshop before showing off what the girls had learned in an evening performance.

Winners of BBC Radio 3’s Choir of the Year competition, Dieci Voices inspired the pupils to be confident in their own singing ability. Year 7 pupil, Heather Moore said: “I felt really privileged to work with professionals and I had no idea that we could learn such complex round songs so fast. The concert was great and I felt proud when I was singing with them.”

Bromley High School’s director of music, Caroline Daniel, said: “Dieci were an inspiration; their musicianship and skill raised everyone’s expectations of their own singing.”

Bromley High School GDST holds taster days, school tours, events and assessments throughout the year. To register or find out more, go to www.bromleyhigh.gdst.net/fse1.

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Hundreds of thousands of children in challenging schools will receive extra help from specially trained teachers after Schools Minister David Laws announced £10 million to help develop school leaders of the future.

The Department for Education money will more than double the number of so-called ‘teaching leaders’ working in schools from 766 currently to 1,706 by 2015.

Teaching Leaders is an independent education charity which addresses educational disadvantage by developing school leaders. The new government funding will extend the charity’s rigorous two-year training programme for teachers already working in schools defined as challenging, who have the potential to become outstanding leaders, such as heads of departments.

Teachers from the 2011 group who completed the programme have gone on to successful careers in education. Of those staying in education in the UK: • 97% are still working in challenging schools • 97 56% have been promoted within challenging schools • 97 25% have been promoted to the senior leadership team.

People who suffer from language difficulties as children may continue to suffer from various emotional and behavioural problems as adults, according to new research.

Childhood language impairment used to be seen as an early years difficulty, with children catching up gradually as they got older. However, new research shows that is not always the case and that many people experience communication difficulties into adulthood.

“Young people who suffer from language impairments are not easy to notice”, says Professor Gina Conti-Ramsden, Professor of Child Language and Learning at Manchester University. “They look like normal, typical people, and in fact they are.

They have many skills and are in fact bright, it’s just that the one thing they are not good at is language.

Language is difficult for them, just like playing the piano is difficult for some people.”

According to Professor Conti-Ramsden, more work is needed to make sure that young people with SLI (specific language impairment) get the help that they need: “Although speech and language therapy plays an important role in the provision for children with SLI, this generally tends to diminish the older the children become,” she says.

“Language difficulties often translate into problems fitting into modern life, such as maintaining relationships and getting jobs.”

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T I M E

Why it’s good to

love lava

By Robina Cowan

The hottest new spa treatment around is lava shell massage, so when I discovered that JH Skincare Clinic offers the treatment, I braved a cold winter’s day in November to try it for myself with clinic owner Janis Hendrickson.

Last minute

It’s beginning to smell a lot like Christmas...

So, the tree’s dressed, carols are playing on the radio - just add the Christmassy scent and let the celebrations begin!

True Grace candles are handmade in England and give a 40 hour burn time, with natural wax scented varieties to match your mood. Presented in soft smoked glass holders, they’ll look lovely on your mantelpiece. Individual candles are £24 each, or there’s a gift set including mini candles and diffusers at £40, with complimentary gift wrapping available on all orders over £30. Available from JH Skincare Clinic, 137 Kirkdale, Sydenham SE26 4QJ, 020 8699 1998, and online at www.jhskincareclinic.co.uk.

What is it?

Lava Shell Massage uses tiger clam shells with specialised massage techniques. The beautiful white and coral-coloured tiger shells are an eco-friendly seafood by-product from the South Pacific, where the therapy originated.

Each shell is buffed to a shine which gives a smooth surface to glide over the skin, with the ridged edges working more gnarly muscles if required.

For treatment, they are filled with a ‘teabag’ of dried natural minerals, sea kelp and algae. Like magic, a salt water solution activates the minerals, adding heat inside the shell to increase the effectiveness of the treatment.

Robo fish The lifelike Robo Fish are small and intelligent and packed with the latest aquatic, robotic technology.

Drop them in water and they’ll swim in five different directions, in a bowl, the kitchen sink or the bath.

Then they’ll stop when you take them out for a rest. No feeding or cleaning out required, Robo Fish are flying off the shelves, priced £9.99 at Wigwam Toys and Gifts, 109 Rosendale Road SE21 8EZ.

What does it do?

Janis explained that the combination of heat and minerals along with the massage is great for “people who are feeling run down, suffer aches and pains, feel the cold, have muscle tension and soreness. Or simply would benefit the experience of deep relaxation.”

Where it differs from hot stone therapy is that the shells retain their heat throughout the treatment, the constant temperature helping to increase blood flow and remove toxins within the cells and ease muscle tension. There is also a lot less noise using the Lava Shell massage as opposed to hot stone therapy: all I could hear was a soothing backdrop of low volume classical music, and my occasional sigh of pleasure.

What’s it like?

In a word - wonderful! The temperature is like sinking into a perfect bath; I could feel my body giving a big ‘aaah’ as the treatment began. Having gone in with the shivers and knotted shoulders, I came out with a smile on my face and a cosy glow.

More information Now celebrating its fourth birthday, the award-winning JH Skincare Clinic offers a range of non-invasive but effective facial, anti-ageing and skincare treatments and therapies, along with Gatineau and Coffee Berry skincare products and gorgeous True Grace candles, in a peaceful corner at the top of Sydenham.

For bookings, prices and package deals, contact JH Skincare Clinic, 137 Kirkdale, Sydenham SE26 4QJ, 020 8699 1998, www.jhskincareclinic.co.uk.

Gift vouchers are also available, so if you’d like a treat to look forward to in the new year, write ‘Hint Hint’ on a Post-it note and leave this page open...

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Nutty’s party music How about this for a stocking filler?

West Dulwich based Nutty’s Children’s Parties, owned and run

by Danny Nutt, has its own CD so every day can be party time.

The CD features nine catchy, original songs written and performed

by Danny, from nine different, much loved characters regularly performed at Nutty’s parties. Songs include: We Are Pirates Today (The Pirate Dan Song), Let’s All Be Wizards (The Wizard Dee Song) and many more!

For more information on Nutty’s Children’s Parties or to preview the songs, go to www.nuttyschildrensparties.co.uk.

READER OFFER The CD is usually £8.99, but as a special Christmas offer, you can buy a copy for just £5.99 inc. free p+p. Just email danny@nuttyschildrensparties.co.uk and quote ‘Nutty’s/Families offer’ to make your purchase, before the offer ends on 24 December.

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Christmas ideas Now That’s What I Call Music

Pop this in a teenager’s stocking and they’ll be rocking around the Christmas tree in no time at all.

Featuring 44 of the biggest singles of 2013, the chart-topping Now That’s What I Call Music! 86 (rrp £11.99) has something for everyone, with tracks from Katy Perry, Ellie Goulding, Bruno Mars, James Blunt, The Saturdays, The Wanted, One Direction and many more.

The best fun of course, will be when Daddy starts busting some moves to Dizzee Rascal’s Something Really Bad (feat. will.i.am) - not embarrassing at all...

Home-made dinosaurs Children can make their own Stegosaurus with this kit from Folly. Designed to appeal to both boys and girls, the kit has pre-cut shapes with holes punched around the edges and a selection of six coloured threads along with a plastic safety needle. It’s great for learning the basic principles of sewing and for teaching dexterity. £11.95 from Folly, www.follyhome.co.uk.

Anything left-handed Power on tap Set to be this year’s biggest ever seller, the Power Tap has gained worldwide attention - 6,000 were sold in the UK in the first five hours of its launch alone, not including the many thousands internationally.

The iTap charges up any USB-compatible device by simply turning the tap. It’s beautifully and stylishly crafted in a slick and beautiful white durable plastic, complete with LED lights that turn red when off and blue when on. £19.95 from www.prezzybox.com.

If you have a left-hander in the family (and we’ve got lots of ‘em!), head for Anything Left Handed and put them out of the misery of trying to adapt to a right-handed world.

Sadly, the central London shop is no more, but online the cause lives on, offering non-smudge pens, scissors, rulers, pencil sharpeners, bread knives, playing cards, golf clubs, guitars, and more.

If nothing else, it’s funny having a left-handed corkscrew in the kitchen drawer and watching a right-hander wrestling with it (or maybe that’s just us...).

As well as the online shop, the website has lots of useful and interesting articles, free newsletters and a blog, at www.anythinglefthanded.co.uk.

The Beano Chopper Covered front-to-back in classic Beano imagery with black and red grips, seat and back pads, this Chopper is just how Dennis and the gang would want it. £300 from Raleigh stockists.

Christmas for free It’s your story

Cooking with kids

Most children like being the centre of attention, and this Christmas they can star in their very own animated e-book.

It’s Your Story takes children on an adventure to the North Pole to see Father Christmas and his elves, complete with falling snow, glowing candles, a roaring fire and flying fairies.

Each e-story book incorporates the child’s face into the illustrations, including their name, friend’s name, home town and other information about them into the storyline. You can also add your own message, making it a lovely Christmas keepsake.

To create the story for free, go to www.itsyourstory.co.uk, click ‘E-Stories’ under More Products then simply upload a digital photo, fill out the information about your child and use the code FESTIVEFUN at the checkout. Itsyourstory will do the rest using the latest digital print technology and email you a link to view the e-story as many times as you want. This can be forwarded to friends and family for their enjoyment too.

The Cooking with Kids Christmas app shows how they can lend a hand in cooking delicious dishes, from Marcus Wareing’s mince pies to Lisa Allen’s Reindeer in Blankets.

The new recipe collection offers a balance of healthy meals, savoury and sweet treats, as well as a selection of vegetarian recipes. Each recipe is explained with clear steps, plus there are plenty of easy-to-follow child-friendly videos demonstrating some of the basic techniques such as plaiting bread and working with filo pastry. The app even has voice control functionality so families can cook without touching their iPad or iPhone. The Great British Chefs/ Tesco app is free to download.

Hit the ‘apps’ button at www.greatbritishchefs.com.

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Mothers Mean Business

Rachael Haynes

The Incredible Edible Rachael Haynes is a mother of three children who lives in Deptford.

In 2012 she set up The Incredible Edible to offer high quality catering for children’s events

FSE: Have you always been in the food business or did you have a different job before?

After leaving university all those years ago I went to work for a women’s bookshop on Charing Cross Road. I decided to go back to college to do some post-graduate studies and started working in a vegetarian café in New Cross - and loved it! I’d always had to take a turn cooking meals at home with my mum and I loved baking for fun. I also worked in a world food café in Covent Garden up until I had my first child.

I knew I wouldn’t be able to go back to working in café’s realistically as the hours just didn’t suit and I didn’t really want to leave my daughter.

When she was about a year old, I began volunteering for a housing charity. I fundraised for my own post within the organisation and carried on working with people experiencing housing difficulties for about eight or nine years; and again stopped this when I couldn’t bear another school holiday being absent from my now two children.

Somehow I gravitated to working in schools which was much more palatable.

FSE: Why did you decide to set up The Incredible Edible?

I wanted to be available for my children, and the best way for me is to be anchored in the home. I wanted to contribute by setting up a business that provides a lovely service for children and their parents where there is perhaps less time for them to really focus on the details as I can.

I’ve been working with children (other than my own!) for the past seven or eight years. I was an early years leader at my children’s school. It is a Steiner school so, among other things, there is a strong thread of bringing beauty and sincerity into a child’s life - that these things are essential to children and that they feel them intrinsically I wanted to bring some of that feeling into The Incredible Edible.

I have worked in mainstream schools with families and children who are experiencing difficulties emotionally and practically; I begun training as a children’s counsellor and play therapist and at this time in my life, with three children of varying ages, I love doing things that hold children at the centre.

FSE: How is your business different from other local catering companies?

My business is different in its ethos which I hope is reflected in the food and services provided. The Incredible Edible at its heart believes that all children deserve special things for special occasions and that well made, thoughtful food is not an exception.

FSE: How easy (or difficult) was it to get started?

I’ve worked at a pace that suits my family. With a 15, 9 and 2 year-old, their needs have dictated the

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pace. The idea for me is that my business is sustainable and has longevity so I have to work at a pace that means I can carry all my responsibilities. I put time and attention into hand-making most food at The Incredible Edible so it can be quite pressured. But I think when you enjoy what you’re doing it doesn’t feel difficult!

I think I have to be really aware of my limitations as well. I give my customers honesty by having conversations and being really clear about what is possible and what isn’t. company one day. She is deeply discerning and wants to go to catering college at the moment.

Mia my fifteen year-old, knows where the kitchen is because I’ve seen her in there... she’s an enthusiastic tester and a very important one as she has a dairy and gluten allergy, so when I say we provide dairy and gluten free alternatives these are done with thought and attention, otherwise I think Mia would be quite disappointed.

Noah is two and tends to eat and wear what you put in front of him - up until a few weeks ago he thought pen-lids and plant leaves were a part of taste testing...

FSE: Do you run the company on your own or are other people involved?

I run The Incredible Edible on my own - unless you include developing menus and testing them on friends and family’s children!

FSE: How do you source ingredients for the menus?

Our ingredients come from a range of sources.

We buy meat through a café in Brockley that lets us tag on to their larger order of organic, high welfare meat.

I find that supermarkets can be really helpful for getting fair trade goods and organic products for staple items.

We have an allotment which we share with my mum, so fruit, vegetables and flowers at certain times of year are really well grown without any chemicals. We didn’t grow much soft fruit this year so the jam for our scones came from a lovely pick-your-own-farm near Pepper Hill in Kent.

Meanwhile, the elderflowers for our cordial and the crab apples for our crab toffee apples all came from the same local park.

FSE: When you have time off for yourself, what do you like to do?

When I have time off I still love to cook! I love to practise my sugar paste flowers - I’m City & Guilds trained - as the fine detail work can be really therapeutic. After I had Noah I herniated two discs in my back and yoga has helped me recover, so I love to devote some time to practising yoga.

Sometimes when my partner takes them all out, I just love to sit and read.

FSE: Do you have a favourite shop/ café or park in southeast London?

I really like the laid back atmosphere at Pistachios Café on Hilly Fields. Noah and I go to an outdoor play group on Tuesdays and often hangout there afterwards. It’s really warm and welcoming. I love Sheel Pharmacy in Lewisham, it has an amazing range of healthy food, skin-kind and environmentally friendly beauty and cleaning products.

FSE: What is a typical menu, and which are most popular?

Lots of parents choose our Vintage Tea for their children because it’s a great menu with finger sandwiches, cheese scones, cup cakes with seasonal fruit and maple/ agave syrup marinated fruit in hand-made wafer cones.

Children love our beautiful jellies which we flavour with rose, lavender and other lovely things. They are also intrigued by our chocolate soup, so parents often ask if they can add things from one menu onto another menu. I’m totally flexible so am happy for people to mix and match.

FSE: Are your own children keen cooks or are they more interested in taste testing for you?

Tigerlily, my nine year-old is a fierce cook and is always coming up with menu ideas; if I let her, I think she might completely take over! We’ve agreed now that she should write her ideas down for her own

FSE: How can readers find out more about your services?

Readers can ring and chat to me. Even if they don’t want to use the service now but just want to have a chat to see what I do for future reference they can reach me on 0741 572 0763.

Or have a look at the website www.theincredible-edible.co.uk and get in touch via our contact page.

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Family Life

Say goodbye to

being shy

By E. Dolton

Christmas parties and family get-togethers at this time of the year can spell a worrying time if your child is shy Take Holly’s experience with her six year-old son Thomas, “Thomas is a lovely little boy but when he met anyone he hadn’t met before he was unable to speak, he lost all his manners and just looked at the floor.”

This is not unusual. Shyness is a perfectly normal trait in childhood, but when lives become restricted by shyness, we must take action as there is no question that shyness robs us of opportunities that other people take for granted. The good news is that there are a lot of practical things that can gently encourage a shy child to be more outgoing.

A karaoke machine or sing along DVD will encourage your child to be more adventurous with their speech and movement.

Record them pretending to be a news reader, or presenter interviewing their ‘celebrity’ friend.

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I’m shy, paranoid, whatever word you want to use

Mixing in society Start by inviting one friend over for half an hour at home, then moving to more friends, more time and then outside the home.

Children learn social skills from watching others so model the kind of interactions you want to encourage: be warm and friendly with people you don’t know, introduce yourself to new people, ask people for help, and compliment friends.

Johnny Depp

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Drama queens (and kings)

I was just genuinely shy. I’d always been a shy kid

Shyness doesn’t necessarily mean low self-esteem; it usually comes from fear or feeling worried about what other people think. Simple acting techniques from drama classes soon equip children with the ability express themselves more clearly in front of others.

Equally, presenting ourselves in a confident manner by sitting up straight and making eye-contact, even when we don’t feel like it, will make any child feel bolder because of the positive way others will react to them.

Elton John

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Perhaps the most effective way to help your child to be less shy is to talk openly with them about it. Refer to situations that are daunting and empathise “sometimes I feel worried about speaking up at work, but I always make and effort and feel good afterwards”.

Holly added that she “used to read books to Thomas that had themes of facing fears or overcoming challenges”.

Spot which situations trigger shyness in your child then role play them later at home, giving hints on how they can feel more courageous when next out in public.

“Thomas always felt nervous going to birthday parties, so we set up a party scene at home using his favourite toys and acted out the different scenarios: giving the party boy their present; saying hello to other children; asking the adult where the toilet is; saying thank you on leaving. It worked a treat”, said Holly.

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I know this sounds strange, but as a kid, I was really shy.

Painfully shy

Facing up to it

Dress rehearsal

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Jim Carrey

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Yes, and I had pimples so badly it used to make me so shy Michael Jackson

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Lights, camera, action Trying new activities in a gradual way helps overcome shyness. Holly always encouraged Thomas to try out new things. “I knew Thomas had achieved an improved level of confidence when in the end-of-term football lesson, he waited 30 minutes for his turn to kick a ball through the cones and straight into the goal - in front of everyone. He has really come out of his shell.”

Taking trays of nibbles round guests, being photographer at a family occasion, going into a shop and asking for the price are all great ways to take their mind off their shyness. But don’t force them into doing things that make them uncomfortable - play to their strengths. Your child’s shyness will vanish if he is encouraged to get better at things he already excels at.

Above all, being calm will sooth many a shy child.

Relax Kids (www.relaxkids.com) sell a range of CDs that provide ‘chill skills’ that relax children and as a result boosts their confidence.

Our attitude is crucial We all want our children to outgrow their shyness and the latest research indicates that how parents respond to shyness is what makes the difference.

Labelling our child as ‘shy’ would certainly be discouraged; they often turn into self fulfilling prophecies. In the same sense, we should always avoid dismissing any feelings of shyness eg “don’t be silly, big boys don’t get shy”. Comments like this lead children to feel that their worries are not valid, leading to anxiety.

Be supportive by combining empathy with confident assertions, “Ahh, I can see you’re feeling a bit worried, but I’m really confident you’ll be able to handle it”.

A child’s ability to comfortably relate to a wide variety of people is one of the most important ingredients to happiness and success. The thing to remember is that the majority of children will find their way through all of this with a bit of guidance, and will soon be waving their hands in the air to answer questions, belting out songs during group sings, and being the first in the queue for trying new things.

Sources www.bbc.co.uk/radio1/advice/factfile www.babycenter.com www.psychologytoday.com/blog

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THE SHARD

LONDON TRANSPORT MUSEUM

BANK OF ENGLAND MUSEUM

What’sOn

A WARTIME CHRISTMAS, 20-23 and 27-31 December. Visit the A Family in Wartime exhibition over Christmas and find out what London was like during the Second World War through run and instructive craft activities. Children will learn about the London skyline during the Blitz, making gifts and decorations within the A Family in Wartime space itself.

11am-4pm.

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NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM

Diary Dates for Grown Ups CRYSTAL PALACE CHRISTMAS FOOD MARKETS December Saturdays, HAYNES LANE, Crystal Palace SE19, www.crystalpalacefoodmarket.co.uk Crystal Palace Food Market is a community not-for-profit Transition Town project founded by local residents Karen Jones, Rachel de Thample and Laura Marchant-Short in May 2013. The market’s aim is to bring the best quality, locally sourced, low-carbon food, including meat, fresh fish, fruit

& veg, eggs, cheese, raw milk, artisan bread, cakes and hot food into the heart of Crystal Palace.

On December Saturdays, weekly family festivities will feature activities for children, Christmas songs, a ‘Handmade Palace’ craft stall, a free prize draw to win a hamper filed with market produce, Christmas trees, wreaths and plenty of delicious seasonal fare, including meat, fish, cheese, festive cakes, and fruit & vegetables. All this and Christmas food orders can be made in advance, online. Market open 10am-3pm.

Events & Attactions FREE FAMILY FUN DAY

TRANSPORT MUSEUM

8 December, JAMES WILSON COFFEE SHOP, 357 Norwood Road SE27 9BQ, 020 8678 6999, www.jameswilsoncoffee.co.uk James Wilson Coffee Shop is a new child-friendly spot where locals are meeting up to enjoy award-winning coffees, specialty teas, fresh sandwiches, cupcakes, cakes and brownies. On 8 December they are welcoming families for a fun day with a bouncy castle, entertainment and fun with Monkey Music. 10am-2pm, free admission.

LONDON TRANSPORT MUSEUM, 39 Wellington Street, Covent Garden WC2E 7BB, 020 7379 6433, www.ltmuseum.co.uk Museum open 10am-6pm Mondays to Thursdays and weekends, from 11am Fridays. Admission free for under 16s, £15 adults. Tickets are valid for 12 months’ unlimited admission.

ALL ABOARD! Let your under 6 ‘drive’ a scaled-down bus, train, tube or taxi , complete with passengers. They can also take control of the transport system, moving buses and trains around the museum’s miniature London.

FAMILY STATION, weekends and school holidays. Pick up a free coin bag and choose some activities to do as you explore the Museum.

Whether you fold your own bus and drive it between the vehicles, design your own poster-postcards or take photos through flickr frames, there is something here for families with children of all ages.

LOOK FOR LONGER, until December 2013. Enjoy playing a cryptic Underground game in the galleries where you try to find the 75 London Underground and DLR stations hidden within interactive graphics. You can also play at home at www.lookforlonger.com.

FAMILY EVENTS AT THE HORNIMAN HORNIMAN MUSEUM and gardens, 100 London Road, Forest Hill SE23, 020 8699 1872, www.horniman.ac.uk Museum open 10.30am-5.30pm daily, general admission free, charges apply for special exhibitions and the aquarium. The museum’s music gallery and hands-on base, regular weekend and holiday drop-ins and workshops allow family visitors to explore the collection through arts and crafts, music, stories and hands-on sessions. All this within 16 acres of beautiful green space.

HORNIMAN FARMERS’ MARKET, Saturdays until 21 December.

A locally sourced, locally sold farmers’ market selling vegetables, meat, fish, bread, flowers, hot food and much more in the glorious gardens.

9.30am-1.30pm, free entry.

SANTA’S GROTTO, weekends in December. Visit Santa in his magical Grotto! It’s the perfect chance for children to tell Santa what they want for Christmas. Each child will receive a special Christmas gift to take home.

Book first.

CHILDREN’S CHRISTMAS PARTY 14 December, BENJAMIN FRANKLIN HOUSE, 36 Craven Street, Covent Garden WC2N 5NF, 020 7839 2006, www.benjaminfranklinhouse.org With Christmas just around the corner, children will discover the magic of the holiday - 18th century style - with crafts and treats. Enjoy mince pies and deck the halls with a Christmas wreath to make and take home.

Suitable for 5-11 year olds, 11am, £5 per child, adults free.

VIEW FROM THE SHARD THE SHARD, London Bridge SE1 9RN, , 08444 997111, www.theviewfromtheshard.com/ The View from The Shard provides families with an unforgettable experience as it is the only place you can see all of London, all at once.

Whether it’s your first stop or last stop to watch the sunset and city lights turn on, it is the perfect place to nurture a child’s fascination with the history of London. From the spectacular 64km (40 mile), 360-degree view, families can spot both modern and historic landmarks, including The Houses of Parliament, The Tower of London, Buckingham Palace, the Olympic Park and Wembley Stadium. Open from 9am to 10pm daily.

Adult tickets from £24.95 when booked ahead.

KIDS GO FREE, 20 December - 3 January. Two free child tickets (ages 4-15 years) are available with the purchase of one full price advance or on-the-day adult ticket.

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BANK OF ENGLAND MUSEUM BANK OF ENGLAND MUSEUM, Threadneedle Street, London EC2R, 020 7601 5545, www.bankofengland.co.uk/museum The Bank of England Museum tells the story of the Bank of England from its foundation in 1694 to its role today as the UK’s central bank. Examine intricately-designed banknotes, feel the weight of a genuine gold bar and see the pikes and muskets that were once used to defend the Bank.

Children’s activity sheets provide fun for younger visitors. Open 10am5pm Mondays to Fridays, admission free.

DATES AND DESIGNS, 23-31 December except Christmas and Boxing Days. Add your own designs of gold, banknotes and other museum exhibits to a calendar to take home. All materials provided, from 10am.

IMPERIAL WAR MUSEUM IMPERIAL WAR MUSEUM, Lambeth Road, London SE1, 020 7416 5000, www.iwm.org.uk IWM London’s brand new First World War galleries mark the 100 year anniversary of the start of the first world war. Large object displays in the new atrium accompany shops and a cafe opening directly onto Geraldine Mary Harmsworth park.

A FAMILY IN WARTIME explores the lives of William and Alice Allpress and their ten children, and what life in London was like during the war.

A Family in Wartime is brought to life through interactive exhibits, photographs, recorded interviews with the family, archive film footage, paintings, personal documents and an intricate model of the Allpress family home. Admission free.

HORRIBLE HISTORIES: SPIES, until 4 January 2015. A major new family exhibition based on the popular children’s book series written by Terry Deary. Visitors will be immersed into the world of Second World War spy-craft, including codes and cyphers, disguises, camouflage, forgeries and gadgets. Tickets £2.95 children, £5.50 adults.

NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM, Cromwell Road SW7 5BD, 020 7942 5000, www.nhm.ac.uk Dinosaurs, volcanoes, precious gems and creepy crawlies - discover the diversity of the natural world through the nation’s finest collection of natural history specimens. Fascinating exhibitions display up to 70 million plants, animals, fossils, rocks and minerals, with a hands-on education centre where you can meet real scientists at work. Museum open 10am-5.50pm, admission free.

PUPPET STORIES, 24 December. The stories of Rapunzel and Goldilocks never cease to enchant children of all ages. Meet the main characters in a colourful puppet show. As well as interacting with these enchanting tales, you’ll learn some amazing facts about the natural world. Children will be encouraged to think about things like the strength and structure of hair, and can handle real specimens from the Museum’s collections. Noon-12.30pm and 1.30-2pm, free booking on the day.

CHILDREN AT THE V&A V&A MUSEUM, Cromwell Road SW7 2RL, 020 7942 2000, www.vam.ac.uk/families During any visit, families can pick up a trail from the Information Desk and explore the museum through puzzles, drawing and observation.

Suitable for 7-12 year-olds. There are also hundreds of exciting hands-on exhibits containing plenty to touch and try out. Museum open 10am-5.45pm daily, admission free Saturday BACK-PACKS. Pick up a back pack and explore the museum with fantastic jigsaws, stories, puzzles and games.

10.30am-5pm.

V&A MUSEUM OF CHILDHOOD Cambridge Heath Road, Bethnal Green E2 9PA, 020 8983 5200, www.museumofchildhood.org.uk This gem of a museum is fascinating for families with young children.

The collection includes dolls, dolls’ houses, puppets, teddy bears, games, childcare, clothing, furniture and art and photography.

Everyday drop-in activities include storytelling, arts and crafts, and trails. There’s dressing-up, role play and an under 3’s area, an indoor sandpit, and regular special events. If it’s sunny there’s an outdoor space to enjoy a picnic. Open 10am-5.45pm daily, admission free.

CHRISTMAS CRACKERS WORKSHOP 14 December, THE FOUNDLING MUSEUM, 40 Brunswick Square, Camden Town, WC1N 1AZ. www.foundlingmuseum.org.uk Inspired by the Foundling Museum’s collection of tokens, join artist Davina to create a cracker with a message and gift for someone special.

Drop-in. Free for children and up to two accompanying adults. 10.30am1pm and 2-4.30pm.

CHRISTMAS PAST Until 5 January, THE GEFFRYE MUSEUM, 136 Kingsland Road, E2 8EA, www.geffrye-museum.org.uk Authentic festive decorations transform the Geffrye Museum’s period rooms, giving visitors a magical glimpse into how Christmas has been celebrated in English middle-class homes over the past 400 years.

FAREWELL TO CHRISTMAS, 5 January. Join in with the Geffrye’s traditional burning of the holly and the ivy, with carol singing, stories about Epiphany and a taste of mulled wine and Twelfth Night cake.

3.30-5pm.

CHRISTMAS AT KENSINGTON PALACE Until 6 January, KENSINGTON PALACE, London W8 4PU, 0844 482 7799, www.hrp.org.uk/kensingtonpalace A season of fun and games at Kensington Palace is inspired by King William III’s winter palace of 1699 when Kensington was the venue for a month of sumptuous parties. Courtiers revelled in the Kings State Apartments enjoying seasonal games and festive music. Try your hand at the games of court in the King’s Gallery and the King’s Drawing Room.

The season will culminate in a Twelfth Night finale weekend on 4, 5 and 6 January.

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CHRISTMAS DESIGNS 15 December, THE DESIGN MUSEUM, 28 Shad Thames, SE1 2YD, www.designmuseum.org What better way to increase the holiday joy than by joining the Design Museum’s friendly Family Learning team for a one off Christmas special?

Expect glitter, fairies and all things festive. Drop in. Free with museum entry, 2-5pm

GOLDEN HINDE St Mary Overie Dock, Cathedral Street SE1 9DE, 020 7403 0123, www.goldenhinde.com GUIDED TOURS, 8, 15 + 22 December. Costumed educators bring the Golden Hinde and its history to life. Learn about life at sea and Drake’s voyage around the world.

CHRISTMAS FUN DAY, 14+21 December.

PIRATE FUN DAY, 28 December. Raise the anchor and fire the cannons before trying to find the hidden treasure somewhere aboard the ship.

11am-1pm.

BRITISH MUSEUM BRITISH MUSEUM, Great Russell Street WC1B 3DG, 020 7323 8181, www.britishmuseum.org Open 10am-5.30pm Saturdays to Thursdays, 10am-8.30pm Fridays.

Admission £10.

EL DORADO, until 23 March 2014. An exhibition exploring the complex network of societies in ancient Colombia - a hidden world of distinct and vibrant cultures spanning 1600 BC to AD 1700.

PASSPORT TO THE AFTERLIFE, 14 December. Use smartphones to follow a trail around the Egyptian galleries, solving clues about the ancient Egyptian Book of the Dead. Suitable for ages 7+. Free, drop in. 11.30am3.30pm ICE AGE ANIMATION, 22 December. Use stop-motion software and digital cameras to bring Ice Age animals to life through animation. Suitable for ages 7+. Free, booking advised. 11am, 2pm.

MUSEUM OF LONDON MUSEUM OF LONDON DOCKLANDS, West India Quay E14, 020 7001 9844, and MUSEUM OF LONDON, London Wall EC2Y 5HN, 020 7001 9844, www.museumoflondon.org.uk Open daily 10am-6pm, admission free. Regular programmes of weekend and holiday events and workshops help visitors find out more about London’s history, covering events such as the Great Plague, Londoners’ jobs and occupations, and Roman life.

A VICTORIAN CHRISTMAS, 14+15 December. From turkey to Christmas cards and crackers, the Victorians have shaped the way we celebrate Christmas more than anyone else. Join a festive walk to find out more.

11am-1pm, £10/£9.

ROYAL MUSEUMS GREENWICH National Maritime Museum, Queen’s House, Royal Observatory and Cutty Sark, Greenwich SE10, 020 8858 4422, www.rmg.co.uk Royal Museums Greenwich holds the world’s largest maritime collection.

It is housed in historic buildings forming part of the Maritime Greenwich World Heritage Site and incorporates the Royal Observatory Greenwich, the 17th-century Queen’s House, and Cutty Sark. The Museums works to illustrate for everyone the importance of the sea, ships, time and the stars and their relationship with people, and is also a major centre of education and research. Open 10am-5pm daily. General admission is free; some buildings, special exhibitions and events have an admission fee.

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ART AND THE SEA, 27 December - 3 January. The sea is constantly changing - it can be peaceful and gentle or strong and powerful. JMW Turner is one of the best known artists who painted the many moods of the sea. Find out more about him and the art of seascapes with activities exploring the museum’s world-famous paintings.

AN EVENING WITH THE STARS, 13+14 December. The popular after-dark experience at the Royal Observatory Greenwich including a show in London’s only public planetarium. 5.30pm and 6.50pm, tickets from £12.

CHRISTMAS STARS, until 23 December. This seasonally themed show looks at what the night sky has to offer over the Christmas period and beyond. 12.30pm, 2pm, 3.30pm, tickets from £12.

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CUTTY SARK CUTTY SARK, King William Walk, Greenwich SE10 9HT, 020 8858 2698, www.rmg.co.uk/cuttysark The world famous 19th century tea clipper offers visitors four levels to explore. Take in the views from the main deck and steer at the ship’s wheel, meet the crew who worked on board, explore the various cargoes from wool to whiskey, and see how tea was loaded on board through interactive displays, props, information boards and animations. Family friendly events run at weekends and during school holidays. Open 10am-5pm Tuesdays to Sundays, admission £6.50 children, £12 adults, from £20 families. Bundled tickets are available with the other Royal Museum Greenwich attractions.

EXPLORE SATURDAYS. Meet a character from the past and take part in an exciting performance that brings maritime history to life. Suitable for ages 6+. Noon, 1, 2 and 3pm start, free with admission ticket.

AHOY CAPTAIN! 8 + 27 December, 5 January. Meet Captain Woodget, Cutty Sark’s longest serving master, and hear tales of his voyages overseas. 11am, 12noon, 1.30 and 2.30pm.

TEA TREASURE CHESTS, 29 + 30 December. Tea was once a treasured possession, kept under lock and key. Make and decorate your own tea chest and have a go at making a tea bag to store safely inside. 11.30am1.30pm and 2-4pm.

PRECIOUS CARGOES, 4 + 5 January. If you could fill a ship with one thing, what would it be? Make a mini ship and fill it with something that’s important to you. 11.30am-1.30pm and 2-4pm.

CHRISTMAS AT LEEDS CASTLE LEEDS CASTLE, Maidstone, Kent ME17 1PL, 01622 765400, www.leeds-castle.com THE CHRISTMAS MARKET, 7-22 December. German market style chalets will offer handmade decorations, quality gifts, beautifully crafted traditional wreaths and festive garlands, plus tasty home made goodies from local suppliers. 11am-6pm daily.

HUSKY SLEIGH RIDES, 7+8, 14+15, 21-24 December. Take your child for an exciting husky sleigh ride, followed by the change to hug a husky and have a photo taken. £3 per child, no need to book.

FATHER CHRISTMAS VISITS, 7-28 December. Follow a trail of glittering woodland decorations around the castle and discover an enchanted forest grotto where children can meet Father Christmas. Those who have been good will receive a traditional gift to take home. £10 per child includes a quality gift, book first. Santa’s reindeer will be keeping him company outside the castle too, until 24 December.

CHRISTMAS DAY SWIM IN HYDE PARK 25 December, Hyde Park, London W2, www.serpentineswimmingclub.com While you are knee-deep in wrapping paper in front of a log fire, spare a thought for the members of the Serpentine Swimming club who will be preparing to swim their traditional 100-yard race for the Peter Pan cup. 9am on the south bank of the lake. Spectators welcome.

Theatre, Shows and Music THE PRINCESS AND THE FROG

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7 December, RIVERSIDE STUDIOS, Hammersmith W16 9RL, 01789 799 499, 8 December Lilian Baylis Studio, Rosebery Avenue EC1R 4TN, 0844 412 4300, www.lets-all-dance.co.uk Once upon a time there was a beautiful princess. She loved playing with her golden ball but one day she drops it in the pond. When a very friendly and very bouncy frog offers to retrieve it in exchange for her friendship, she is far from keen. But in the end the princess must agree to be his friend just to get her ball back. Slowly their friendship grows and the princess is rewarded in true fairytale style. This beautiful new ballet by Let’s All Dance combines all the ingredients to charm audiences young and old. An original score, gorgeous costumes and crystal clear story-telling draw you into the magical world of classical ballet, and make it accessible to all. A lovely production and a heart-warming tale with the theme of friendship at its core.

10-29 December, THE ALBANY, Douglas Way, Depford SE8 4AG, 020 8692 4446, www.thealbany.org.uk

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Percy the park keeper always feeds the animals in the park where he lives.

But one cold winter’s night, Percy finds his little friends shivering on the doorstep looking for somewhere warm to sleep. Squirrel, Fox, Badger, Hedgehog and friends warm their collective paws (and claws) in Percy’s home until they too are disturbed by a little something burrowing into the hut from below. A cosy Christmas tale based on the best-selling books by Nick Butterworth, full of songs to sing along to, furry friends to meet and blankets to be tucked up in. Ages 3-7, tickets £9.50 adults, £8 children under 12, family ticket £32.

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29 November - 5 January 2014, CHURCHILL THEATRE, High Street, Bromley BR1 1HA, 0844 871 7620, www.atgtickets.com With spectacular sets and costumes, ugly sisters and stepmother to boo and hiss at, Cinderella is fantastic seasonal fun for everyone aged 3 to 103! £15.90- £34.90.

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THEATREBUGS’ FESTIVE FUNDAY WORKSHOP 23 December, FRIENDS MEETING HOUSE, Independents Road, Blackheath SE3 9LL, 07531 804 424, www.theatrebugs.co.uk A jolly Christmas Workshop based on the magical story of ‘The Snowflakes Save Christmas’, with merry music, dancing, arts, crafts and festive games. There’ll also be a special appearance from either the Magical Christmas Fairy or the real Father Christmas himself, with an early Christmas gift for little ones. Come in your favourite festive costume - the Bugs will dress up too! 9.30am-12.30pm, ages 3 1⁄2-8 years, £25 per child, sibling discount available.

PUSS IN BOOTS Until 5 January 2014, GREENWICH THEATRE, Crooms Hill SE10 8ES, 020 8858 7755, www.greenwichtheatre.org.uk The classic tale of a poor young man whose fortunes are transformed with the help of a magical talking cat is brought to spectacular life in our latest pantomime extravaganza - but can Puss really outwit the evil goblin and survive with any of his nine lives intact? Tickets from £19.

SLEEPING BEAUTY 13-31 December, BROADWAY THEATRE, Catford SE6 4RU, 020 8690 0002, www.broadwaytheatre.org.uk Spin some dreams this Christmas with the premier pantomime production of the girl who pricks her finger and falls asleep for one hundred years before true love’s kiss awakens her. The classic fairy tale of Sleeping Beauty will be packed with comic calamities, slapstick humour and a host of creative characters to entertain everyone.

TREASURE ISLAND 2-22 December, GLYPT TRAMSHED THEATRE, 51-53 Woolwich New Road, SE18 6ES, 020 8854 1316, www.glypt.co.uk A thrilling theatrical voyage full of live music, sing-along sea-shanties and plenty of pirates! Experience the magical transformation of The Tramshed as the players batten down the hatches and get ready to set sail on a swashbuckling family adventure! For the whole family. Tickets from £6.

INTO THE FOREST 3-22 December, THEATRE PECKHAM, 29 Havil Street SE5 7SD, 020 7708 5401, www.theatrepeckham.co.uk An adaptation of Anthony Browne’s book that leads children to ask many questions about imagined characters. Starring young actors from TP’s Theatre School, the production is a highly visual version of the book, with original music and audience participation. Ages 4-11.

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ARTS THEATRE, Great Newport Street WC2H 7JB, 020 7836 8463, www.artstheatrewestend.co.uk DICKENS ABRIDGED, until 5 January 2014. A high speed, comic journey through Dickens’ greatest hits in just ninety minutes.

SEUSSICAL THE MUSICAL, until 5 January 2014. Join the Cat in the Hat as he takes a journey into the fantastical, bombastical and songtastical world of Dr Seuss.

6 December - 11 January 2014, SOUTHWARK PLAYHOUSE, Shipwright Yard, Corner of Tooley Street and Bermondsey Street SE1 2TF, 020 7407 0234, www.southwarkplayhouse.co.uk Journey with Jack through a raucous world of magical beans, milk squirting cows, tap dancing mice and, of course, giants! Age 7+, £10-£16.

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NATIONAL THEATRE, Southbank, SE1 9PX, 020 7452 3000, www.nationaltheatre.org.uk THE LIGHT PRINCESS, until 14 February 2014. A dark fairytale about grief, rebellion and the power of love, produced with music and lyrics by Tori Amos.

EMIL AND THE DETECTIVES, until 20 February 2014. Join young Emil as he says goodbye to his mother, leaves his small town and sets off on a journey that will change his life.

5-24 December, FAIRFIELD HALLS, Park Lane, Croydon CR9 1DG, 020 8688 9291, www.fairfield.co.uk It’s Christmas Eve in Santa’s North Pole HQ. The reindeer satnav is programmed and the toys are piled high on the sleigh - then chaos strikes! Rudolph is missing and the Elves are misbehaving. How will Santa ever deliver the presents to all the boys and girls? Help save the day in a show filled with songs, stories, snowflakes, a meet and greet with Santa and a free gift. Tickets from £10.

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UNICORN THEATRE UNICORN THEATRE, 147 Tooley Street SE1 2HZ, 020 7645 0560, www.unicorntheatre.com GET UP AT THE WEEKEND. Join the Unicorn Play Club every Saturday from midday. Take part in free activities in the foyer such as rocket building, cake decorating or even Olympic musical chairs.

CINDERELLA: A FAIRYTALE, until 5 January 2014. A dazzlingly original take on one of the best-loved fairytales of all time.

‘TWAS THE NIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS, 3-29 December. Leave your shoes and slippers by the fireplace and settle down to hear one man’s story about the night he met a certain twinkly eyed, round-bellied chap!

SOUTHBANK CENTRE Belvedere Road SE1 8PX, 020 7960 4200 / 0844 847 9944 www.southbankcentre.co.uk SLAVA’S SNOWSHOW, 17 December - 6 January. Experience a joyous dream-like world, unlike anything you have seen before. A world in which a cobweb envelops the audience and one tiny piece of paper begins a heart-stopping blizzard of snow. Age 8+, £20-£65.

WHITE, 18 December - 4 January. In the sparkling world of White, everything is ordered and white. But high up in the trees, all is not white.

Colour appears. First red, then yellow, then blue... Age 2-4, £6-£12.

FOLDS, 17-31 December. Suspend reality and watch four brilliant acrobat-musicians tumble through a madcap world of paper. £18.

BARBICAN THEATRE, Silk Street EC2Y 8DS, 020 7638 8891, www.barbican.org.uk/theatre TOLD BY AN IDIOT - GET HAPPY, 12-29 December. A mysterious noise is heard from a bag. An opera singer falls in love with a gorilla.

And the strangest egg sandwich ever is created in front of your very eyes. Performance, dance, music and visual comedy for ages 4+.

THE GRUFFALO AND THE GRUFFALO’S CHILD, 21 December. A delightful festive treat for younger children which ventures into the deep dark wood with the acclaimed animations of Julia Donaldson’s stories. 1.30pm, 4pm.

SLEEPING BEAUTY, 22 December. Cursed at birth by the evil fairy Carabosse, Princess Aurora descends into a deep slumber on the day of her 16th birthday. Only the kiss of a prince will awaken her.

WALLACE AND GROMIT’S MUSICAL MARVELS, 22-23 December.

Wallace and Gromit’s latest adventure sees everyone’s favourite hapless inventor and his faithful dog turn their hands (and paws) to the music business. 3pm, 10.30pm, 2.30pm.

THE NUTCRACKER 11 December - 5 January 2014, LONDON COLISEUM, St Martin’s Lane WC2N 4ES, 020 7836 0111, www.ballet.org Journey back in time to a frost-covered, gas-lit London and join Clara, her Nutcracker and the magician Drosselmeyer in this traditional festive tale for all the family.

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20 November - 12 January 2014, LYRIC THEATRE, Shaftsbury Avenue, 0844 412 4661, www.gruffalolive.com Join Mouse on an adventurous journey through the deep, dark wood in Tall Stories’ magical, musical adaptation of The Gruffalo, based the award-winning picture book by Children’s Laureate Julia Donaldson MBE and Axel Scheffler. Meet a wheeler-dealer Fox, an eccentric old Owl and a maraca-shaking, party-mad Snake! Mouse can scare these hungry animals away with tall stories of the terrifying Gruffalo, but what happens when he comes face to face with the very creature he imagined?

Expect songs, laughs and scary fun for children aged 3+ and their grown-ups, in a show that’s toured around Britain and the world. Let your imagination run wild!

Tickets from £14.

Until 5 January, PEACOCK THEATRE, Portugal Street WC2A 2HT, 0844 871 0091, www.sadlerswells.com When a young boy’s snowman comes to life on Christmas Eve, the two set off on a night-time quest for adventure, meeting penguins, reindeer and naturally, Father Christmas. Ages 2+.

BACH TO BABY CONCERTS 12 December St GABRIEL’S CHURCH, Warwick Square SW1, 20 December St LUKE’S CHURCH, Ramsden Road SW12, 17 December St JOHN’S FULHAM, SW6, www.bachtobaby.com The critically acclaimed classical concert series specifically designed for babies and carers to enjoy together. Treat yourself and introduce your wee ones to live classical music during the crucial years. Be amazed at how your child will appreciate the likes of Bach, Beethoven, and Brahms. 10.30am start.

CHRISTMAS CAROL SINGALONG 14, 19 + 21 December, ROYAL ALBERT HALL, Kensington Gore, London SW7 2AP, www.royalalberthall.com Clap your hands, stamp your feet and sing your heart out as irrepressible showman Jonathan Cohen leads you through another fun-filled jamboree of his most-loved carols and all-time Christmas hits. Tickets from £13.50.

THE GOOD NEIGHBOUR 6 December - 4 January 2014, BATTERSEA ARTS CENTRE, Lavender Hill SW11 5TN, 020 7223 2223, www.bac.org.uk There are long-forgotten mysteries lurking behind every creaking door of Battersea’s old Town Hall. Cobwebs cling to hidden doorways and secret passages, and from these old and dusty places an adventure is waiting to burst out and take over the building. Age 6+, £12£19.50.

SNOW PLAY 10 December - 11 January 2014, BLOOMSBURY THEATRE, 15 Gordon Street WC1H 0AH, 020 7388 8822, www.thebloomsbury.com What would you do if one year Winter decided to stay and moved into your house? That’s what happens in this snowy spectacular show where you are guaranteed a white Christmas, no matter what the weather or the time of year. £10-£15.

ROYAL OPERA HOUSE ROYAL OPERA HOUSE, Covent Garden WC2E 9DD, 020 7304 4000, www.roh.org.uk THE NUTCRACKER, 4 December - 16 January 2014.

A young girl’s enchanted present leads her on a wonderful adventure in this classic ballet, accompanied

by Tchaikovsky’s glittering score. Ages 5+.

HOW THE WHALE BECAME, 3 December - 4 January 2014. Ted Hughes’s magical stories are transformed into a captivating new Royal Opera commission by Julian Philips and Edward Kemp. Ages 5+

THE NUTCRACKER 11 December - 5 January 2014, LONDON COLISEUM, St Martin’s Lane WC2N 4ES, 020 7836 0111, www.ballet.org Journey back in time to a frost-covered, gas-lit London and join Clara, her Nutcracker and the magician Drosselmeyer in this traditional festive tale for all the family.

SADLER’S WELLS SADLER’S WELLS THEATRE, Rosebery Avenue EC1R, 0844 412 4300, www.sadlerswells.com MATTHEW BOURNE’S SWAN LAKE, 4 December 26 January 2014. Now firmly established as a modern day classic, this iconic production is perhaps best-known for replacing the traditional female corps de ballet with a menacing male ensemble. £32-£60 BOING! 20 December - 5 January. An energetic and enchanting piece of children’s dance theatre that captures the delirious excitement of waiting for Father Christmas to arrive on the most magical night of the year. Age 3+, in Lilian Baylis Studio, £7-£12.

MY BROTHER THE ROBOT 10 December - 5 January 2014, ROUNDHOUSE, Chalk Farm Road NW1 8EG, 0844 482 8008, www.roundhouse.org.uk Once upon a time in the future a little girl called Bobbie lives with her inventor dad in a house filled with technology. Bobbie has everything she needs – except someone to play with. Age 4+, £8-£10.

POLKA THEATRE POLKA THEATRE, 240 Broadway, Wimbledon SW19 1SB, 020 8543 4888, www.polkatheatre.com ALICE’S ADVENTURES IN WONDERLAND, Until 15 February 2014. When Alice falls down a mysterious rabbit hole she stumbles upon a magical fantasy world where anything can happen. A 21st Century spin on the much-loved children’s classic, Lewis Carroll’s charming characters spring to life in an enchanting show full of music, madness and mystery. Take tea with the Mad Hatter, meet the White Rabbit, grin with the Cheshire Cat and play croquet with the Queen of Hearts in ad adventure that’s bursting with laughter, imagination, original songs and stunning staging. Tickets from £11.

GORILLA, until 15 February 2014. When Hannah’s toy gorilla comes to life, dressed in her father’s coat and hat, they embark on a thrilling, moonlit adventure. Meet the world’s friendliest gorilla this winter in an adaptation of the classic award-winning picture book by former Children’s Laureate Anthony Browne, brought to life with puppetry, music and a giant sprinkling of Polka magic.

Ages 1-5, tickets from £8.

MATILDA THE MUSICAL Until December 2014, CAMBRIDGE THEATRE, Earlham Street, WC2H 9HU, 0844 412 4652, www.matildathemusical.com Inspired by the twisted genius of Roald Dahl and original songs by Tim Minchin, Matilda is the captivating musical masterpiece from the Royal Shakespeare Company that revels in the anarchy of childhood, the power of imagination and the inspiring story of a girl who dares to change her destiny.

CHARLIE AND THE CHOCOLATE FACTORY THEATRE ROYAL, Drury Lane, London WC2B 5JF, www.reallyuseful.com Roald Dahl’s deliciously dark tale of young Charlie Bucketand the mysterious confectioner Willy Wonka comes to life in a the West End musical directed by Academy Award winner Sam Mendes.

Tickets from £16.50.

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DULWICH PICTURE GALLERY, Gallery Road, Dulwich Village SE21 7AD, 020 8693 5254, www.dulwichpicturegallery.org.uk Museum open 10am-5pm Tuesdays to Fridays, from 11am weekends and bank holidays. Listed activities free for families with a gallery ticket or £3 per child.

ARTPLAY, first and last Sunday of each month. Creative drop-in workshops for adults and children, with a different activity each session.

Make anything and everything from bunting to block printing and all things in between. 2-3.45pm.

SIR JOHN SOANE’S MUSEUM, 13 Lincoln’s Inn Fields WC2A 3PB, 020 7440 4263, www.soane.org Tucked away in Lincoln’s Inn Fields at the heart of London, this magical, mysterious museum encourages young visitors to explore Soane’s treasures and develop new skills with specialist guidance. Sir John Soane (1753- 1737) was an inveterate collector, filling every nook and cranny of his beautiful home with items that fascinated him. From fossils to classical fragments from Ancient Egypt, Greece and Rome and from contemporary paintings to architectural models, drawings and literature, he intended that after his death both his house and its extraordinary contents should be used to educate and inspire. Free drop-in activities run on the third Saturday of every month, with activities for all ages and families can take part together from 1.30-4.40pm.

IT’S A WRAP! 21 December. Design and make your own unique Christmas wrapping paper and matching cards based on the beautiful exhibition of work by artist Alan Sorrell. 10.30ñ3pm / £25.

THE WALLACE COLLECTION THE WALLACE COLLECTION, Hertford House, Manchester Square W1U 3BN, 020 7563 9500, www.wallacecollection.org The Wallace Collection displays wonderful works of art collected in the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries by the first four Marquesses of Hertford and Sir Richard Wallace, the son of the 4th Marquess, in their main London townhouse. Family multi-media tours and trails bring the exhibits to life for younger visitors. Open 10am-5pm daily, admission free.

CRUMBS - IT’S CHRISTMAS, 15 December. Explore the paintings of Christmas in the collection and create your own edible Christmas Biscuit House, with artist Miranda Lopatkin. 10.30am-12.30pm or 2pm 4pm, £9.

A CRACKING WALLACE CHRISTMAS, 23 December. Make a fun Christmas cracker and belt out some carols with The Wallace Collection’s Education Department. Don’t forget to bring a cracking joke! 11am -1pm.

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SOMERSET HOUSE FAMILY EVENTS SOMERSET HOUSE, Strand WC2, 020 7845 4600, www.somersethouse.org.uk Free family workshops run on Saturdays from 2-3.30pm. Tickets available from 1pm from the information desk. Children aged 6-12 years must be accompanied by an adult.

FAMILIES AT THE TATE TATE BRITAIN, Millbank SW1, 020 7887 8888, www.tate.org.uk/britain Open daily 10am-5.50pm, and until 10pm the first Friday of the month.

Family trails are available daily from the Information Desks and are free for 5yrs and under. Go on a journey around Tate Britain and post your discoveries into your ‘Post it’ box as you go. When you get home, open up the box and show your friends what you found. Or you could follow the ‘Join up’ trail: play the listening game, search for shapes, patterns and talking hands, and make your own sculptures.

Every weekend the free Art Trolley encourages children to imagine and create, make colourful collages, style a wonderful sculpture or perhaps make a sketchbook and fill it with great ideas.

THE NATIONAL GALLERY TRAFALGAR SQUARE WC2N 5DN, 020 7747 2885, www.nationalgallery.org.uk Open daily 10am-6pm, Fridays to 9pm, admission free.

With over 2,300 paintings in the collection, there are hundreds of reasons to visit the gallery, along with free hands-on art workshops for families at weekends and during school holidays. No need to book, but places are limited and allocated on arrival up to one hour before the start.

Ice Skating NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM Until 5 January 2014, NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM, Cromwell Road SW7 5BD, 020 7942 5000, www.nhm.ac.uk Set within the museum’s breathtaking grounds, the Ice Rink is a charming winter wonderland in the heart of the city, where skaters twirl around a magical Christmas tree in the middle of the rink. Offering an array of entertainment and events for all ages, attractions include a beautiful fairground carousel, a junior rink for younger skaters and delicious Christmas themed refreshments. Tickets from £8 off-peak.

CANARY WHARF Until 16 February 2014, CANARY WHARF, Canada Square E15 5NY, 0844 847 1556, www.canarywharf.com Perfect for children and grownups, this year’s ice rink is bigger and better than ever, with all new skates and London’s only skate path which leads skaters on a glittering trail through fairy-lit trees to add to the excitement.

Visitors can take to the ice and make the most of over 250 shops, bars and restaurants too, with lessons from fully-qualified National Ice Skating Association coaches, and three hours’ free parking for weekend visitors.

Rink open 10am to late every day except 25 December.

SOMERSET HOUSE Until 5 January 2014, SOMERSET HOUSE, Strand WC2R 1LA, 0844 847 1520, www.somersethouse.org.uk/ice-rink Celebrate the festive season in style at London’s most glamorous ice rink. Skate School sets the standard for people of all ages and abilities to learn how to build confidence or improve their technique on the ice.

A Penguin Club for under 8s successfully guides children through their first tentative steps on the ice. Booking required in advance for lessons.

Open 10am to late, tickets from £7.50.

EYESKATE AT THE LONDON EYE Until 5 January 2014, EDF Energy London Eye, Riverside Building, County Hall, Westminster Bridge Road, London SE1 7PB, 0871 781 3000, www.londoneye.com Eyeskate in the shadow of one of London’s iconic landmarks, the London Eye, situated on the festive South Bank.

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Until 5 January 2014, TOWER OF LONDON, Tower Hill EC3N 4AB, 020 8241 9818 www.toweroflondonicerink.com

Until 19 January 2014, ROYAL PAVILION, Prince’s Street, Brighton, East Sussex BN1 1ED, 0844 847 2352, www.royalpavilionicerink.co.uk

London’s most dramatic open-air ice rink returns to the spectacular setting of the Tower of London. Located in the moat, the ice rink is set against the magnificent fortress battlements, providing a stunning setting for winter skating in the City. Beside the ice rink, an Ice Bar & Café provides a welcome place to warm up after your skate, serving a selection of winter drinks and festive snacks. Sessions 10am-10pm, tickets from £9.

If you fancy a skating day trip by the sea, head to the Royal Pavilion in Brighton where an 800 square metre rink has space for 250 skaters. For families, visiting the Royal Pavilion Ice Rink for a day out is an experience not to be missed during the festive season, conjuring up the very essence of Christmas, whether it be for Sunday lunch with Father Christmas or an early evening skate and supper. Under 8s skate free at the Penguin Club when accompanied by a paying adult. Open 10am-10.15pm.

HYDE PARK WINTER WONDERLAND Until 5 January 2014, HYDE PARK, London W2, 0844 858 6755, www.hydeparkwinterwonderland.com Experience the essence of Winter Wonderland as you don your skates and glide around the spectacular, glittering ice rink. Set around the Victorian bandstand and illuminated with over 100,000 lights, the Ice Rink provides a truly magical setting for ice skating. Other attractions include the iconic Giant Observation Wheel, fairground rides, Zippos Circus, Christmas markets and new Yuletide Market and Santa Land for the younger visitors.

HAMPTON COURT Until 12 January 2014, HAMPTON COURT PALACE, East Molesey KT8 9AU, 020 8241 9818 www.hamptoncourticerink.com Hampton Court Ice Rink invites visitors to glide around the ice in royal style within the setting of the magnificent Palace. Enjoy the winter sun as it glistens on the ice, and after dark, skate under the stars. The Palace is illuminated after the sun goes down, providing a magical fairytale scene to delight young and old. Open 10am-10pm daily, tickets from £9.

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