Families Hampshire North Sept/Oct 2016 by Families Magazine

ISSUE 16 | SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2016

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How to get back into a good routine this term

Help! My child hates school

...and lots more education advice inside

Your guide to the best local family events this autumn

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News and views How to get your child into a good routine Clubs and classes news 15 things you need to know when choosing a school How to cope with the nasty nits What’s on, Halloween events and firework safety

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Families visiting Christmas at Paultons will enjoy Rudolph’s Adventure, as they join the red-nosed reindeer on his journey to find Santa in time for Christmas Eve. Along the way, children will meet many of Rudolph’s animal friends and be greeted by Father Christmas himself at the magical grotto. Christmas at Paultons will be taking place on selected days from Saturday November 19 until Friday December 23, a ticket is the perfect pre-Christmas gift for children and parents to look forward to. Tickets start from £19.25 and include entry to Rudolph’s Adventure and Peppa Pig World, as well as a gift for the children. All visits must be pre-booked and certain rides will not be open, for further details and opening times go to www.paultonspark.co.uk/attractions/ christmas

England’s biggest festival of history

Every September some 40,000 volunteers across England organise 5,000 events to celebrate our fantastic history, architecture and culture. It’s your chance to see hidden places and try out new experiences – all of which are free to explore. This years’ Heritage Open Days will take place between 8th and 11th September - join guided walks, visit secret archives, discover hidden works of art – or simply soak up the sunshine in a garden of your choice.

Pencil Friday 31st March 2017 in your diary in big, bold writing because Wear A Hat Day is back for the eighth time and it will Register now and start planning your be EVEN HATTIER than last year. event. You will be sent an exclusive Brain tumours kill more children and pack of fundraising goodies – including adults under the age of 40 than any other leaflets, posters, balloons and any other cancer… yet just 1% of the national spend merchandise you ordered at the time of on cancer research has been allocated registering – in plenty of time for your to this devastating disease. Brain Tumour Wear A Hat Day. Research is the only national UK charity If you are stuck for ideas, the Hatter’s that funds sustainable research into Workshop online at www.wearahatday. finding a cure. org is brim-ming with inspiration: event Wear A Hat Day is the premier brain ideas, quizzes, additional poster designs tumour awareness event, and is a great and much more! Top 10 event ideas and way to show your support and raise fundraising tips are also available on the money for brain tumour research during website. a day of hat-filled fun and games. Buy a hat, make a hat, take a photo and share it So get those thinking caps on, and start counting down to 31st March. online #HATTASTIC

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you see and do, provide a commentary to your day together and listen and add words – this creates new vocabulary and focuses conversations.

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remember to do so slowly, taking the time to discuss pictures and point things out.

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Getting your child into a good routine As we move into the autumn and winter school term, it can be difficult to cope with changing weather and dull days. The long evenings of summer are over, the nights draw in and the mornings are dark. Getting your child settled into a good routine is essential if you are going to ensure they get enough sleep and are able to get up on time for school without too much effort and moaning.

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Plan your mornings

Most parents would agree; mornings are bad times! Everyone is tired and cranky and if you’re not careful, it can descend into chaos. So having a routine that is followed every school day can help immensely. Set an alarm for 15 minutes before you need to get the kids up and get yourself together in that time. Whether it’s that first cup of tea, a shower or choosing what to wear, make sure you have time for you first - and everything else will go that bit more smoothly. Avoid any electronic stimulation in the morning, so ban games, X-Boxes and the TV, as time can slip away when they are distracted.

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Make sure there are rules for where things are put when your kids arrive home each day. Let them know that they can’t just dump their gear anywhere! Those school bags, shoes and coats must go in a specific place so that there is no frantic searching in the morning, with everyone getting frustrated. Sticking to this routine makes for a happier family.

Make sure they know their routine too

Having a planner on view is a great way to avoid missing tutoring sessions, music lessons and play dates. A big calendar on the fridge means everyone can see what’s happening and when.

Why routines work

Children respond really well to a routine so you’ll thank yourself when they adapt to doing the right things at the right time each day. Have breakfast and dinner at set times, bedtime must be absolutely set in stone and homework should have appointed times too. Giving your kids too much choice over their own routine just leads to their spending too long on games or play and not enough for homework and helping with chores. By Sally J Hall

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Artspiration offers structured lessons designed to take your child on an artistic journey from an early age of 5 years. Along with the skills and techniques related to the Art subject, problem solving, critical thinking and decision making also form an integral part of their wholesome curriculum for the Beginners and Intermediate. Class locations include Basingstoke, Andover, Fleet and Winchester. Artspires have been gaining scholarships, Awards and Bursaries for their portfolio each year. For more information or to register your interest please email info@ artspiration.co.uk or call 01628 634418. www.artspiration.co.uk.

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Looking for a fun way to boost your child’s maths or English? Get your child off to a great start this term with MagiKats tuition workshops. Forget dry sessions of standardised sheets or staring at a computer screen. These are workshops where every individual is working at their own level and on their own materials with the consistent aim of supporting their school work. The materials are engaging and each student’s own mentor is involved with helping their tutees to learn – and enjoy it! To find out more, call 01252 479045, email fleet@magikats.co.uk or visit www.magikats.co.uk/fleet

Parents looking for new ways to keep their children active, happy and engaged have found the solution in the form of performing arts classes at Stagecoach Performing Arts. Stagecoach Basingstoke and Andover offer classes in singing, dancing and acting at Sherfield School, Costello School, Hurst Community School and Anton Junior School. They offer a two week trial during the autumn term for youngsters aged 4-18. Performance at Stagecoach is about more than simply learning how to sing, dance and act. Students develop the creative courage to unlock their potential, to stand up and be heard, to work well with other students and to embrace new ideas and possibilities.

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As they hone their new skills and work together to devise and rehearse performances, students become more self-assured, expressive, sociable and imaginative. All skills that will serve them well on the stage of life and help them tackle new situations with resilience, creativity and courage. To find out more please call principal Samantha on 01256 578009 or visit www.stagecoach.co.uk/Basingstoke Or Sarah on 01264 375457 or visit www.stagecoach.co.uk/Andover

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Try to keep everyone calm

Mornings can be fraught if your child has developed a school aversion, but it’s important to at least try and all remain calm (easier said than done we know!) If your little one associates mornings with being told off and stressed, it could add to their anxieties.

It might just be a phase

Many children have a phase when they’re not keen on school; this might resolve itself within a few days. Meanwhile if you’re sure they’re just ‘trying it on’, stand firm and make it clear that school is non-negotiable.

Fake illnesses can be a headache…

Mysterious maladies are a common manifestation of not wanting to go to school; although it can be annoyingly difficult to decipher whether kids are crying wolf or actually ill. If it could be the former, threatening a trip to the doctors/call to NHS Direct will usually either get illness fibbers to confess, or provide a miracle cure.

Consider the potential causes

Work on getting your child to open up when it’s not the ‘heat of the moment’ - so not when you’re late for school and they’re in tears. This can be challenging if they don’t even understand their fear, don’t want to tell you about it or struggle to articulate it at all. If they won’t talk to you, perhaps they will do so with someone else, such as their grandparents, or an aunt or uncle.

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Have a chat with their teacher to identify and work on any underlying issues going on in the classroom, playground or at home so you can carve out an action plan together.

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Support for severe cases should be available via your GP who might make a referral to Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS) or a private child psychologist. By Liat Hughes Joshi

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St Neot’s Preparatory School – A world of opportunity St Neot’s is a happy, vibrant community for boys and girls from 3 months to 13 years and is situated on the border of Hampshire and Berkshire in 70 acres of beautiful grounds and woodland.

New Nursery at The Grey House School A new Nursery allows children to start their journey with The Grey House School, providing opportunities to explore and discover in the beautiful, rural setting of West Green. Small class sizes at the school ensure that every child receives individual attention. A child’s creativity and imagination are captured through a varied curriculum including weekly swimming lessons. Formal teaching is supported and extended by workshops and visits which all serve to enhance a child’s education. The Grey House School believe in traditional values where children are all treated as individuals. They will have opportunities to demonstrate what they are already good at, and discover many new skills. New Nursery Open Day 17th September 10am – 3pm

Hook, RG27 8JG Tel: 01252 843418 greyhouseschool.com

St Neot’s are committed to providing a World of Opportunity in every aspect of school life. Stimulating learning environments ensure that engaged pupils work towards the highest academic standards whilst also enjoying a breadth of experience in sport, music, art, drama and dance. Emphasis is placed on developing independence, self confidence, curiosity and collaboration. Forest School and Outdoor Education programmes encourage children of all ages to develop these attributes, which are so vital in the modern world.

A new sports complex, comprising a sports hall, 25m indoor swimming pool, all-weather astro, cricket nets, hard tennis and netball courts, significantly supplement the Open Day extensive playing 1st October fields. Head’s welcome at Hook RG27 0PN 10.00am, followed by pupil lead tours Tel: 0118 9739650 stneotsprep.co.uk

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15 things to know when choosing a school Choosing the next school can be a daunting task. We want our child to be happy and successful, and the thought of making the ‘wrong choice’ is a huge weight to bare. Here are our top tips to help you through the process.

Make up your own mind. It's amazing how many parents never even look round a school because of what they've heard. A school that doesn't suit another family could be just right for yours.

Listen to your child's feelings as well as your own. Choosing your childs primary is down to just you parents; but your 10 or 11-year-old deserves a say.

Use open days wisely. If you can, go to a daytime visit (especially to a school that seems a strong contender) because you'll see it in working mode.

Nothing advertises a school like its pupils. Do they seem happy? Are they engaged? If you have time, pass by at going-home time. Are they well-behaved? How about the staff - do they seem fulfilled and cheery working there? Take opportunities to chat to them.

Listen to your instincts. If a school doesn't feel right, move on. You don't have to explain yourself or your reasons for doing so to anyone else (although you do, of course, need to discuss it with your child if your instincts are different).

Don't get bogged down in the detail: what you're aiming to get is a sense of the school. Does it feel happy, productive, calm? Is there a sense of order and caring? These things matter more than the nittygritty.

Pay attention to what's on the walls - and not just the artwork. What are children being warned about, or

encouraged to do? Are there any school visits being advertised? Which clubs seem to be thriving?

Look at the school's league tables, but don't pin everything on them. Read the Ofsted report too and pay particular attention to how the school has done over time. If it's had a dip, are there signs of improvement or suggestions that it could turn round?

Go to the head teacher's talk and take your notebook. This is an important part of the event: not only do you need to pick up on the head's attitude and values and what matters most to him or her, but you also need to pay special attention to anything that's said about the entrance criteria. Understanding that is the crucial next stage.

If you like a school, do your homework about whether your child fits its entrance requirements. However much you love the school, and however much you think your child would thrive there, you'll only get a place if you fulfil the criteria. Read the school's entrance policy through very, very carefully. If you don't fulfil the requirements, could you change something so you do? If not, move on: there's no point in wasting a choice or railing against something you can't change.

Keep telling yourself (because it's true!) that there is no perfect school. Every school has strengths and

What is Synthetic Phonics all about? Learning to read using phonics isn’t a new concept, but in the past, it has been used in combination with other methods, such as ‘look and say’ and predicting words based on pictures or context. At school, children quickly become familiar with ‘phonemes’ (sounds) and ‘graphemes’ (ways of writing down the sounds). In some languages, learning phonics is easy because each phoneme has just one grapheme to represent it. In the English language however, there are 44 phonemes, 120 graphemes and just 26 letters. The most important thing to get right when helping your child learn phonemes at home is to pronounce them correctly. This might seem obvious, but your child should learn to say the sound

weaknesses. There's more than one school that can be right for your child.

When the time comes to fill in the forms, allow yourself lots of time and do it extremely carefully. There may be supplementary forms, and there may be complicated arrangements for giving them in (especially if you're applying to faith schools). If you find it all too confusing, talk to your child's primary teacher or primary head, or call the education department at your local authority.

Have a plan of action for what you'll do if you don't get the school you're hoping for. Just having that plan will make you feel more relaxed. Remember that there’s a lot of movement in the first few weeks after places are allocated, and many children get in from waiting lists.

Don’t underestimate how much hard work an appeal can be, or how emotionally draining. That’s not to say don’t do it: just be prepared.

Remember that, at the end of the day, parents make more difference to a child's future than a school does. Even if your child doesn't get into your first choice of school your attitude to that could be a much bigger factor in what happens next for your child than the school itself. Have confidence, first and foremost, in your child. And trust that, together, you will work things out if and when you come up against problems.

at the beginning of ‘mat’ as ‘mm’ sound rather than ‘muh’. There are lots of websites to help with letter sound pronunciation, such as www.oxfordowl.co.uk. The more you can do at home to help children recognise and say letter sounds, the better. The speedier children become at recognising letter sounds, the easier it becomes to blend them together and learn to read. Using phoneme flashcards can be a helpful way to introduce the sounds. These can be bought or homemade. Play as many games as you can to reinforce the sounds such as; Phonics tray games, I-spy and Magnetic letters. There are quite a few decodable reading schemes available, such as Phonics Bug, Floppy’s Phonics, Big Cat Phonics, Yellow Door Phonics, which are all stocked by Reading Chest. For more information and to access a wide range of phonics reading schemes and others visit ReadingChest.co.uk.

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Headlice

An irritating problem

How to cope with those nasty nits It’s every parent’s nightmare; the notices go up at school: “a case of headlice has been reported, so please check your children’s heads”. Your child begins to scratch. How do you cope with headlice – and can they be prevented?

What are headlice? Headlice, also known as nits, are tiny insects that live in human hair and feed on blood. They are very small – they range from the size of a pinhead to a sesame seed, so it’s no surprise that they are difficult to see. Their discarded egg cases are white and look a bit like dandruff stuck to the hair. It’s often these empty cases, the ‘nits’, that you notice first, especially behind the ears and there may also be small, red, itchy bumps on the back of the neck, which is where the insects have bitten your child.

Are they obvious? One of the main problems with headlice is that they are tiny, so they’re difficult to spot and although most children will have tell-tale signs such as itching and the feeling of something moving in their hair, other children may have no idea at all. It’s often these children whose parents don’t realise they have headlice who will keep spreading it through the class, so even if your child displays no symptoms, always check regularly.

How to check Your best friend is now your nit comb. When you wash your child’s hair, apply plenty of

conditioner and comb through their hair in sections, making sure you don’t miss any areas. Look at the comb and check for small dots – they may be black, reddish brown, brown or grey. These are the lice. These should be removed under a hot tap in the basin or into a cup of hot water. Combing is your most important weapon against headlice, as even if you use a lotion or spray from the pharmacists, eggs may still hatch after you have treated the hair.

What to treat the hair with A pharmacist can sell you an over-the-counter remedy which you use in the hair. You have to treat all family members and most products will tell you to treat again after a couple of weeks to take care of any eggs that slip through the net; lice have a 30-day life span, during which a female can lay five to 10 eggs a day. Some lotions are not suitable for the under-twos or for pregnant and breastfeeding women.

Can I prevent them? Whilst there is some evidence that they dislike tea tree oil and lavender, you can’t really prevent an infestation. Sorry. By Sally J. Hall

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A new UK curriculum topic that is introduced in key stage 1, coding – is made easy with this step-by-step book. Showing children how to use code to create games and animations – from racing cars to virtual pets – it covers sprites, binary, debugging and more. Not sure what any of those terms mean? Get learning, too – this book is just as helpful for parents!

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Fairground at Night! Enjoy the special sights & sounds of a Traditional Steam Fair in the dark with all the lights on! Many unique rides from the golden age of steam!

We’ve scoured the area for local family events this September and October so you don’t Spot the have to! We take great care in compiling our dot for FREE events guide, but please contact venues events! before you leave home as things can change. Saturdays Owls by Moonlight

The Hawk Conservancy Trust, Andover, SP11 8DY. 01264 773 850 These magical ‘Owls by Moonlight’ evenings are held on Saturday evenings, at 7.00pm, throughout the autumn, and give guests the opportunity to see owls really awake and at their best. Wrap up warm and bring a torch, ready to step out in the dark with the owls. Places are limited so please book early to avoid disappointment. Tickets: Adults £33.50 / Children £19.95 - includes a light supper.

11 September Wedding Fayre

The White Hart Hotel, Andover SP10 1BH Local independent suppliers of wedding dresses, photography, fabulous cakes, delicious buffets, a great venue, help with the honeymoon, invitations, a special poem made specially for your day, make up, treatments and more. For information on the event or to book as an exhibitor contactinfo@awibc.co.uk

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The Harlington, Fleet, GU51 4BY 01252 811 009 Get ready to boogie at Disco Skate! All ages are welcome. 6pm to 9pm / £7.00 per person (Including skate hire).

17 and 24 September Fairground at Night

Hollycombe Steam in the Country, Liphook, GU30 7LP Step back in time to experience the magical nature of Hollycombe’s Edwardian fairground as the sights, sounds and smells all come alive as darkness falls! 7pm 10pm. Adults £16; Seniors £14; Children £12. Family tickets available. Tickets entitle return entry to Hollycombe on open days for one year.

18 September The Lake Run

Charlton Sports Centre, SP10 3LF In aid of Andover Food Bank. There will be two races – a 10K and a 3K Fun Run - to cater for all ages and abilities. The race will start at Charlton Sports Centre and finish in front of Charlton Athletics Pavilion. To enter register at www.runbritian.com

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19 September Mini professors

Basingstoke Library, Festival Place, RG21 7LS. 01256 478 670 Bring out the budding scientist in your little one at this free interactive session! These 40 minute-classes are especially tailored for young scientists. Experiments, singing and stories. Advance Booking Essential. 9.40am to 10.20am (for children aged 2-3 years). 10.40am to 11.20am (for children aged 3-4 years).

22 September WiFi Wars

The West End Centre, Aldershot, GU11 3JD Live comedy game show where you play along. Login with your smartphone and compete in a range of games, quizzes and challenges to win prizes! Hosted by comedian and regular video games commentator Steve McNeil. Suitable for ages 11+. 7pm / £15 (£13 concs, under 16 £10).

24 September The Rattler

Anvil Arts, Basingstoke, RG21 7QR 01256 844 244 See the true and original story of Rumpelstillskin - a family fun opera show and interactive story. For children aged 7 years and over. Includes puppetry, folkinfused music and interactive storytelling. 3pm / £10 (includes £2 booking fee).

24 September The Curious Adventures of Pinocchio

The Lights, Andover, SP10 1AH 01264 368 368 This brand new Lyngo theatre production is an adaptation of the epic tale of Pinocchio. Crickets, cats, foxes and, of course, the puppet who wants to become a real boy, will spring out of a collection of dusty, old, magic books while Patrick Lynch pulls all the strings and turns all the pages. Suitable for ages 5+ 11am / Tickets from £6.50.

30 September – 31 October The Big Draw Gilbert White's House, Selborne. Take part in this family fun art event. Draw what you

see in the parkland and museum and be part of a national drawing event! Drop in activity and all ages are welcome. Materials are provided and can be borrowed from reception. 10.30am to 5pm / Ticketed event.

1 -16 October Tudor Rose Festival

The Harlington, Fleet, GU51 4BY 01256 229 816 Experience the annual Tudor Rose Festival and showcase your talent in dance, speech and drama! A festival for children and young adults aged between 3 and 21. Dancers compete in a range of disciplines within either a classical or stage style. Spectators and new competitors welcome. Saturdays and Sundays from 9am to 9.30pm.

1 and 8 October Fairground at Night

Hollycombe Steam in the Country, Liphook, GU30 7LP See listing on 17th September for more info.

1 October Walk 4 PTSD Andover

Andover High Street, High street, Andover, SP10 1LH. 01264 771658 An awareness walk organised to help keep veterans PTSD in the public domain and to raise funds to help those who suffer. Starting from the White Hart Pub in Stockbridge and finishing at the Guildhall, Andover, the route will be 10 miles and the aim is to raise a minimum of £50 with a target of £100 per person. It is a gentle walk through the beautiful countryside surrounding the town of Andover.

2 October NCT Nearly New Sale

The Royal School, Hindhead, GU26 6BW. 01428 607977 Buy good quality pre-owned children and maternity items. Entry from 10.15am for members and general entry from 10.30am / Entry £1.

7 and 8 October Stick Man

The Haymarket, Basingstoke, RG21 7NE 01256 844 244 An award winning production that will delight family audiences, experience Julia Donaldson's 'Stick Man' live on stage. Presented by Scamp Theatre and packed full of songs, live music, dancing and puppetry. Suitable for ages 3 years and over. Fri 1.30pm & 4pm, Sat 10.30am & 1.30pm / Tickets: £15 (includes £2 booking fee). Group rate available.

8 October An Owls Life National Biology Week

Gilbert White's House, Selborne Take part in a workshop all about Owls and find out what makes them so special. Find out what owls eat and even dissect an owl pellet to see what their local diet is like! Discover how they hunt their prey and where you can find them. All materials included. Sessions from 10am to 12pm and 1pm to 3pm / Booking Required. £6 per child with accompanying adult free.

8 October Split Pin Paper Puppets

The West End Centre, Aldershot, GU11 3JD Have fun making something with your children. For ages 3+ with an adult. Create your own paper puppets! Decorate a range of woodland animal puppets made from paper and split pins to devise your very own theatre production with your children. 10.30am - 12.30pm / £3 per person. Please pre-book.

20 October Albee Vector the Sound Collector

The Phoenix Theatre & Arts Centre, Bordon, GU35 0LR. 01420 472664 An epic tale of love, adventure and a sound-hoover called Mustard. Find out how Albee and his love Andromeda survived kings, curses and cruelty on their quest for beautiful sound in the world. Suitable for ages 4+ This tour is presented by house. 1pm & 4pm / Adults £6, Kids £4, Family (2+2) £18

22 October Oliver Meech: When Magic and Science Collide

The Phoenix Theatre & Arts Centre, Bordon, GU35 0LR. 01420 472664 Oliver meddles with forces we barely understand, in a comedy magic show for the QI generation. Amazing tricks inspired by astounding science. It's the natural selection! A fun-filled fusion of magic, mind-reading and mirth for ages 7 plus. 7:30pm.

24 October The Artroom Witches Art and Craft Workshop

The Lights, Andover, SP10 1AH. 01264 368 368 The Artroom is really excited to be at The Lights over half term. Lots of art and craft fun for 6-11 year olds. The week has a distinctly Roald Dahl flavour and kicks off with The Witches! Look out for those witches - they might smell you out! A bit of arty fun will help you Morning session: 10am - 12:45pm. Afternoon session: 1:15pm - 4pm / Tickets £15.00.

24 October Vocal Workshop

Princes Hall, Aldershot, GU11 1NX 01252 329 155 Train to be a singing sensation with expert Ellie Verkerk. You will be guided through various techniques to improve and maintain the quality of your voice and work on songs that will be performed to parents at the end of the day. For ages 7 11yrs. Please pre-book. 10am4pm / £19.

25 October Take Home Timothy

Gilbert White's House and Garden and The Oates Collection, Selborne, GU34 3JH, 01420 511 517 Take part in this modelling arts and crafts workshop and create your very own tortoise! Find out all about tortoises and take your very own model home with you. Drop in activity, all ages are welcome. Sessions at 10am to 12pm and 1pm to 3pm / £6 admits one child and one adult.

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25 October Dance in a Day Workshop

Princes Hall, Princes Way, Aldershot, GU11 1NX. 01252 329 155 A must for all dance fans, and movers & shakers! Expert leader Sian will give you the opportunity to learn new dance moves and skills, meet new friends, build confidence and work on a number of short choreographed pieces that will be performed to parents at the end of the day. For children aged 6 – 10 years. 10am to 4pm / Ticket £19.00.

25 October The Big Draw

The West End Centre, Aldershot A free drop in day for all ages to create, draw and sew! Discover new and quirky characters and fill the gallery walls with your wonderful creations. Tutors Alice and Ginny will also be taking over the bar area and giving you all the opportunity to try some free hand machine sewing. Open to all abilities and ages! 10.30am - 4pm.

26 October Nature Drawing Workshops

Gilbert White's House and Garden and The Oates Collection, Selborne, GU34 3JH. 01420 511 275 Be inspired by the collections and create your own drawings. Work with a local artist to create your very own nature inspired drawings from the wildlife at Gilbert White's. All Materials included. 10am to 12.30pm and 1pm to 3.30pm / Booking Required. £6 per child with accompanying adult free.

26 October Nature Detectives

Basingstoke Library, Festival Place, RG21 7LS. 01256 478 670 Become Nature Detectives and find out just what - or who - the Halloween owls have had for lunch! Sessions last 90 minutes. Please give details of any allergies when booking. 10am / £6 (Adults Free).

26 October Albee Vector The Sound Collector

The West End Centre, Aldershot An enchanting piece of children’s theatre. Meet Albee, he collects sounds and he needs your help to make some new ones! Family fun for everyone aged 4+. 2.30pm. / £6.50.

27 October The Lion The Witch and The Wardrobe

The West End Centre, Aldershot Creative and fun-filled pottery sessions for ages 8 - 12 years. Please book. 10.30am12.30pm / £5 per person.

27 October Incredible Science

The West End Centre, Aldershot, GU11 3JD Meet Dr. Gareth and discover the fun to be had with science! Create electricity, use fruit as batteries and learn about chemical reactions. And of course, there will be exploding rockets! Under 8’s must be accompanied by an adult. Please book. 10am, 12.30pm and 3.30pm / £6.50 per person per session.

Anvil Arts, Basingstoke, RG21 7QR 01256 844 244 Experience the classic C.S. Lewis tale on stage. Open the wardrobe doors, push through the fur coats and enter the wondrous land of Narnia. Performances at 2pm and 6pm / Tickets: £14 (includes £2 booking fee). Groups discount available buy 10 and get the 11th free.

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27 October All Star Super Slam Wrestling

Princes Hall, Aldershot, GU11 1NX Learn theatrical skills, meet new friends and get confident on stage! Then perform to parents at the end of the day! For children aged 7-11 years. 10am to 4pm / Tickets £19.00.

Princes Hall, Aldershot, GU11 1NX 01252 329155 Superslam wrestling action returns with an explosive night of top class wrestling action to start the 2016 season. 7.30pm / £16, Concs £11, Family (of 4) £49.

29 – 30 October Museums at Night Autumn to Winter Sleepover Gilbert White's House and Garden and The Oates Collection Selborne, GU34 3JH. 01420 511 517 It's the annual sleepover event to celebrate Museums at Night! All materials, refreshments and breakfast included. £15 per child with accompanying adult free (no more than 1 adult per child). Booking required.

29 October Why the Whales Came

Anvil Arts, Basingstoke RG21 7QR, 01256 844 244 A family fun show full of mystery and intrigue! Children Gracie and Daniel have been forbidden to go near the mysterious and seemingly dangerous Birdman. But messages and clues intrigue them and, after being lost at sea in the fog and stranded on his tiny island, they begin to unravel the Birdman’s secrets, the villagers’ fears and superstitions and learn why the whales came to the island. Performance at 11am and 2pm. Tickets: £13

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Halloween events Pumpkin Carving Manydown Family Fun, Basingstoke, RG23 8PU. Tel: 01256 220 398

Get into the Halloween spirit with some pumpkin carving from 21st - 29th October. Everything on site is included in the price. This is an outstanding day out for whole family where you can experience the farm and animal handling! 10am to 4.30pm. (Don’t miss the voucher on page 5!)

Fairground at Night Halloween Hollycombe Steam in the Country, Liphook, GU30 7LP. 01428 724 900 Experience the fairground at night this Halloween on 15th and 22nd October! Come along dressed to scare. The fairground will have a spooky and magical theme with sights, sounds and smells that will come alive as darkness falls! 7pm to 10pm.

Mexican Day of the Dead Top of the Town, Basingstoke, www.topofthetown.org

From 12 noon till 8pm on Friday 28th October, come along to Basingstoke’s free alternative Halloween celebration inspired by the traditional Mexican festival known as Dia de los Muertos. Join in the family friendly activities during the afternoon including face painting, storytelling and craft workshops. Come back later to browse the beautifully illuminated night market and street food stalls or watch the town come alive with music and performers at the Mexican-themed evening party parade.

Witches and Broomsticks Basingstoke Library, Festival Place, RG21 7LS. Tel: 01256 478 670 Enjoy some Halloween arts and crafts on the 23rd October and make your very own broomstick! Create a mini broomstick made from real sticks and twigs with willow craft expert, Judith Needham - then join Basingstoke Discovery Centre staff to create a witch or wizard to ride it! Sessions at 1pm, 2pm and 3pm / £5 (Adults Free).

Wizard Weekend Watercress Line, Station Road, Alresford SO24 9JG Join in for Wizard Weekend from 29th – 30th October and watch the Watercress Line transform in to a place of magic and mischief on Halloween! Take unlimited rides on the Wizard Express steam train and walk in Harry Potter's footsteps over the famous railway footbridge where he received his Hogwarts Express ticket in the film and take a selfie! Come dressed as a witch, wizard or Halloween spook and find out about all things magical! Hold an owl or falcon on your arm, be brave and touch some hairy, scary, creepy crawlies, marvel at a haunting magic show, make and fly on a witch’s broomstick and get your face painted into something scary!

Firework safety As the Diwali Festival of Light and Bonfire Night fast approaches and with all the excitement of rockets and Catherine wheels among adults and kids alike, it can be easy to overlook the potential dangers of bonfire and firework celebrations.

Tips for choosing your fireworks Make sure the fireworks you buy are meant for home use, are suitable for the size of your garden and are marked with British Standard number (BS 7114).

You should also: Store fireworks in a metal box with a lid during the display Use a torch for checking instructions Use a taper for lighting fireworks Have a bucket of water close to hand Have a bucket or other container of soft earth to stick fireworks in Use a board or other non-flammable rigid surface for flat-bottomed fireworks Use supports or launches for Catherine wheels or rockets

Don’t forget the sparklers! Find somewhere safe that is open, but not too windy Remember to wear gloves so that you do not get burnt Get an adult to light the sparkler whilst you are holding the base of the stick Make sure that only one sparkler is lit at a time Remember that when they are first ignited they give off a very bright and heated initial spark Remember to hold the sparkler horizontally and as far away from your body and face as possible Once you have had fun with the sparkler (try writing your name) and it is no longer burning, make sure you put it in a bucket filled with water Never touch the end of the sparkler, even long after it has stopped burning Now that you’re clear on keeping your family safe; enjoy your Diwali celebrations on October 20th and Bonfire Night on 5th November!

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