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memory, exercise self-control and get organised will really help them develop the skills they need to succeed in life.

Education

These key skills underpin everything we do in life and it takes just a few minutes a day to boost them so your child learns more effectively and confidently. What’s more, growing these skills can be fun!

Lessons to learn before you’re 10

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e live in a world where it’s easy to become overwhelmed. So teaching young children to make good use of their working memory, exercise self-control and get organised will really help them develop the skills they need to succeed in life. It takes just a few minutes a day to boost these skills so your child learns more effectively and confidently. Developed by experts who understand how children’s brains develop and form, these key skills underpin everything we do and growing them can be fun! Try these starter activities to set your child off on the right path.

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Working memory - play Kim’s Game To set up, gather ten objects together on a tray. Give your child one to two timed minutes to look at the objects, then cover them up. Depending on age and ability, ask them to tell, draw or write which ones they remember. As they progress, add more objects or give them less time to remember them. There are ways to help brains recall objects; the trick is to make links and spot patterns. Give them these tips: To start with, count how many objects you’ll have to remember. Look to see if any can be linked together, by colour or by material, such as all plastic or all wood, by shape or by use; knife and fork go together, tools together, toys together.

Time management Time management

Organisation Organisation

Good habits created early on pay Organising time a great skill, but first need to grasp Organising time is a is great skill, but children dividends in Good laterhabits life! created early on pay dividends in late children first actually need to grasp how long might take five how long things take. Our ‘just a minute’ Help your child put together a homework kit so a or ten minutes and take. young brains may understandably fooled your child things actually Our ‘just a minute’ be Help put together a at hand before they start w stationery they need is into thinking passed. and might takeonly fivea minute or tenhas minutes homework kit so all stationery Teach yourthe child to get ready the night before, se Have funbrains using amay timer not to count how many of the following clothes and anystart extra kit they will need young understand this. they need istomorrow’s at hand before they things they can do in one minute: hops, writing their name working. Time homework. If it’s supposed to be thirty minu neatly, reading words loud,tostarting colouring-in page. Have fun using a out timer counta how spend longer on it. If your child is not finishing on t Show them a timetable of their day with blocks of playtime in Teach your child to get ready the night either the teacher needs to know or they need to f many of the following things they can which they can plan their own fun. before, setting out tomorrow’s clothes effectively. do in one minute: hops, writing their and any extra kit they will need. name neatly, reading words out loud,

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colouring-in page.

Show them a timetable of their day with blocks of playtime in which they can plan their own fun.

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Time homework. If it’s supposed to be thirty minutes, don’t spend longer on it. If they’re not finishing on time, either the teacher needs to know or your child needs to focus more effectively.

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At school, children are taught to read using synthetic phonics. They learn letter sounds (phonemes) in groups and then work on blending them to make words. The first group is normally ‘s, a, t, p, i, n’. Once children know these phonemes, they will be encouraged to blend them together to make words. Later, children learn that one phoneme can be represented by different letters, such as the sound in the middle of ‘rain’ can also be represented as ‘ay’ (play) and ‘a-e’ (tale). Phonics reading schemes, such as Bug Club Phonics, Red Squirrel Phonics, Big Cat Phonics, Floppy’s Phonics are carefully written so that children can sound out all the words using only their phonics knowledge. When helping your child learn to read, the most important thing is to encourage a love of books and reading for pleasure. Whilst phonics is an important learning tool, it is part of a much bigger picture.

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