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Topfamilyholidaydestinationsfor2025

Wonderingwheretoheadwiththefamilyin2025foryournext adventure?Whetheryouarelookingforwintersun,abucket listholidaytickedoffthelistoranepicroadtrip,hereare sometoppicksforfamiliesofallagesandstages.

AbuDhabi

Ifyou’replanningatriptothe UAEyoumightbewondering whichisbetter,Dubaior AbuDhabi?AbuDhabiis anincrediblychild-friendly destinationandagreatchoice forfamilieslookingforwinter sun.Offeringamorerelaxing destination,bettervaluefor money,lovelybeachesand plentyofkids’activities, fromfamousmuseumsand magnificentmosquestodesert safarisandbeautifulmangroves.

Croatia

Beyondthecapital,seaside destinationsandmajorcities suchasSplitorDubrovnik, Croatiacanofferunique experiencestofamilieswho prefertogooffthebeaten trackinlesser-knownbut equallybeautifuldestinations. Fromquaintvillagesnestled inthecountrysidetosecluded beachestuckedawayfromthe crowds,Croatiahasplentyof off-the-beaten-pathexperiences toofferfortheperfectsummer holiday.

Iceland

Iceland’sincrediblelandscapeisanendlesssourceofwonder nomatteryourageandexploringitwiththefamilywillcreate memoriesthatwilllastalifetime.InReykjavíkandthevicinity, you’llfindrestaurants,swimmingpoolsandthelargestvariety ofchildren’sactivities.HuntfortheNorthernlights,spotwhales, watchlivevolcanoesandtakeasoakinthewarmwatersofthe BlueLagoon!

Switzerland

Whetheryouarethinkingabout acrispwinterbreakorawarm sunnyholiday,Switzerlandwill leaveyouandthefamilywanting tocomebackformore!Withso manyexcitingmuseums,snow parksandslopes,action-packed ropeparksandtoboggan runs,pristinelakesandrivers, thewholefamilywillenjoy anunforgettabletripandyou canexplorethecountryfrom thecomfortoftheexcellent transportsystem.

USA

Fromdiscoveringyourfavouriterideattheworld’sgreatest themeparksinOrlando,learningtosurfintropicalHawaiian oceansortransformingintoacowboyatoneoftheWildWest’s ranches,thereisaperfectUSAfamilyholidayforyou!There aremanywaystoexploretheUSAwhichcanbetailor-madeto createyourownuniquefamilyholiday.

Mexico

Gorgeouswhitesandy beaches,deliciouscuisine, lushrainforestsandancient civilisationsmeanfamiliesare spoiltforchoicewithaholiday inMexico.TheRiveraMaya betweenCancunandTulum boastsadiverserangeof fantasticfamily-friendlyhotels, fromfun-filledbeachresortsto luxurytropicalhideawaysand withdirectflightsfromtheUKto Cancun,travellingtherecouldn’t beeasier.

SouthAfrica

OnlyonehouraheadoftheUK, familyholidaysinSouthAfrica offertheperfectcombination ofwildlife,explorationand relaxation.Fromzipping throughthetreetopcanopiesin TsitsikammaNationalParkto qualityfamilytimeonthewhite sandsofPlettenbergBayand spottingtheBigFiveonsafari, aonce-in-a-lifetimefamily adventureawaits!

SriLanka

Withavibrantculture,distinctivecuisineandmanydestinationsto discover,thereareendlessexperiencesthateveryonecanenjoy onaholidaytoSriLanka.FromtheUKsummerthroughtothe winter,thereisaperfectspottoenjoybeaches,cultureandwildlife. Combiningstunningnaturallandscapesandbeacheswithbustling citiesandancientculturalsites,SriLankaisacountrylikenoother.

AshleyLutzisaTravelCounsellorwithseventeenyears’ experienceworkingwithfamiliestofindinspiringholidays bestsuitingtheirwants,needsandbudget.Moreinfoat www.travelcounsellors.co.uk/ashley.lutz

HelloAutumn!

Well,it’sbacktoschoolalreadyand soonthenightswillstartdrawingintoo! Solet’smakethemostofitwhilethere arestillpleasantdaysandplentyof daylightleftandenjoysomefamily adventures.Toentertainthekids,why notpickanautumnchallengetohelp themmakethebestofthegreat outdoors?

Inthisissue,wehaveabumper‘backtoschool’educationfeature. Ifyouarethinkingaboutsecondaryschoolsforyourchild,takea lookatourarticleaboutthefeaturesofagoodone.Alsosupport yourchildwithspellingandlearnwhattodotohelpthemwhen failureanddisappointmentcomealong.

OurAutumnWhat’sOnguideispackedfullofgreateventsand activitiesthroughoutBirmingham,Solihull&SuttonColdfieldfor youtoenjoyasafamilyandincludessomereallyfunideasfor OctoberHalf-Term.

Halloweenisafavouritetimeofyearformanychildrensotoget theminthemood,don’tforgettocutoutandkeepourspooky craftactivity!Youcanalsotakealookatourtoptipsforenjoying Halloweenwithallagesofchildren.

Plus,there’ssomegreatparentingarticlesonmakingmoneyreal forkidsinacashlesssociety,fivemindfulquestionstoaskyour childabouttheirdayandTopfamilyholidaydestinationsfor2025.

Finally,inthisissue,wehaveTamatgotchidigitalpetsto giveaway!Applyinside.

Enjoythemagazine!

ChallengetheWild, changinglives

TheOutdoorGuideFoundation, startedbyJuliaBradbury andhersisterGina,launched TheWaterproofandWellies Campaign toraisefundstoprovideeverystateprimary schoolwithwaterproofclothingsothateverychildcan playoutdoorsinallweathers.

Recently, ChallengeTheWild donatedafunfamilyactivity breakintheForestofBowlandtoschoolsthathavealready receivedkitsfromtheFoundation,enablingchildrenwho perhapsotherwisewouldn’tbeabletotakepart,inactivities suchasrockclimbing,abseiling,orienteeringandhiking. ‘Towitnessthesechildrenandtheirparentsembraceallthat thegreatoutdoorshastoofferiswhywedowhatwedoat TheOutdoorGuide.I’meternallygratefultothesupportof ChallengetheWild.’ GinaBradburyFox TwoyoungambassadorsoftheFoundation,Aidanand Oliver,whohaveeachfundraisedforitthroughtheirown outdoorchallengesalsojoinedtheactivitybreaktomeet someofthosethattheyhavehelped. www.theoutdoorguidefoundation.org

Whylearningtoplayaninstrumentis theBESTthingyourchildcando

Choosinginstrumentallessonsforyourchildisn'tjustamusical decision,it'saninvestmentintheirmentalwellbeing,emotional intelligenceandjoy.In2019,astudyconductedbytheUniversityof Columbiaprovedthatchildrenwholearntoplayamusicalinstrumentdo significantlybetteracrossallsubjects.

Thisskillnurturescreativity,criticalthinking,socialskills,boosts confidenceandself-esteem,improvesfocusandconcentration,develops anunderstandingofwhatitmeanstoperseverewithpatienceand discipline,anditprovidesafoundationforhappinessinyourhome. Often,weseechildrenstrugglingwiththepressuresthatcomewith modernlife.Tobestprepareforthefuture,weneedtocombinecreativity withcognitiveprocesses.

MusicMonstersprovideasafeenvironment,fullofencouragementand warmth,forchildrentolearntoplaythepianothroughgamesandhidden learning.

Startyourfamily’smusicaljourneytoday!

USEYOURSENSES

It’sgreattoexploretheoutdoorsusingallofyoursenses. Imagineyouhaveearsaslargeasanelephant-howmany soundscanyouhear?Imagineyouhavelongtentaclearms likeanoctopus-howmanydifferenttexturescanyoutouch? Imagineyouhavethenoseofadog-howmanydifferent smellsareintheair?Imagineyouhavetheeyesofahawkwhatcanyousee?

TREASUREHUNTING

Atreasureisintheeyeofthe beholderandthenaturalworld hasmanytreasuresjustwaiting tobefound.Wanderoutand seehowmanyyoucanfind. Perhapslookfortreasuresthat spelloutthewordNATURE -maybeyou’llfindanut,an acorn,atwig…

NATURE’SLARDER

Intheautumnmonths,the hedgerowsandwoodlandsare abundantwithtreats.Perhaps you’llfindsomeblackberries, sweetchestnutsorsloesto takehomeandmakesome tastytreatswith.Remembernot totakeallofthemfromthetree orbushasthelocalwildlifewill wanttoenjoysometoo!

SMALLTHINGS

Autumnoutdoorchallengesforfamilies

Astheautumnapproachesandthenightsdrawinoncemore,itcanbeachallengetogetoutside.Butfearnot! TheOutdoorGuide (www.theoutdoorguide.co.uk)isherewithsomegreatsuggestionsforoutdooractivitiesfor familiestoenjoy.

SLOWITDOWN

Alltoooftenwe’removingtooquickly,focusingonour destinationratherthanwhereweare.It’sonlywhenwereally slowdownthatwestarttonoticeeverythingthatishappening aroundus.What’stheslowestanimalyoucanthinkof?Asloth perhapsoratortoise?Imagineyou’reoneofthem-moving slowlyandjustnoticingwhatishappeningaroundyou.

Sometimeswe’realltoobusy lookingatthebigpictureto noticethesmalldetailswithin it.Grabyourselfamagnifying glassandgoexplorethelittle thingsthatareallaroundyou inthenaturalworld.What’s thesmallestthingthatyoucan find?

MAPYOURPATCH

Mapsofferabirds’eyeviewof anarea,showingallthedetail ofwhat’sthere.Canyoucreate yourownmapofthearea whereyoulive?Whatarethe thingsyoucanseeasyouwalk alongthepath?Perhapsyou couldincludetrees,hedges, ponds,housesandroad turnings.

MAKINGARTWITHTHEPIECES

Asthetreesshedtheirleavesforanotheryear,collectthoseyou canfindthathavealreadyfallen.Clearingaspaceontheground asyourcanvas,useleavesandotherobjectsyoumighthave foundtomakeyourownworksofartforotherstoenjoy.

BIRDFEEDERS

Asweapproachthecoolermonths,yourlocalgardenbirds willbegratefulforextrafoodthatyoucanleaveoutforthem. Youcanmakeyourownbirdfeedersusingthingsyoufindin thenaturalworld.Openpineconesareperfectforthis.Mix someseeds,oats,driedfruitorperhapssomegratedcheese intosomesuet,lardorvegetableshorteningandthensmear itoverthepineconeandhangsomewherethebirdscan easilyreachit.

Fivemindful questionstoaskyour childabouttheirday

Communicatingwithourkidsissomethingmanyofus strugglewith.Weoftenthinkitisjustaboutwordsbutit’s muchmorethanthat.Ourchildrenareconstantlyconnecting withusonadeeperlevel,pickingupourbodylanguage,facial expressions,toneofvoiceandevenhowweinteractwith othersintheirpresence.Ifourwordsdon’tmatchourgenuine stateofbeing,ourkidswillseethroughit,potentiallyleading tomistrust.

Thekeyhereistobemoremindfulinyourcommunicationstyle bylisteningactively,beingpresentinconversationsandasking questionsthatdelvebeyondthesurfacelevel.Herearefive examplesofmindfulquestionstohelpyoudevelopastronger connectionwithyourkids.

Whatwerethehighlightsofyourday?

Askwiththesameenthusiasmachildhasforwatchingtheir favouritefilmorsportsteam’shighlights.Try:‘Comeon,what werethehighlightsofyourdayatschool?’andtrulylistento theirresponsewithoutjudgement.Engagewiththeemotions theyexpress,whetherjoy,excitementorevenfrustration.By avoidinglabelslike‘good’or‘bad,’youallowthemtosharetheir experiencesfreely.

Doyouknowwhathappenedtometoday?

Sharesomethinginterestingaboutyourownday.This encouragesthemtoreciprocatewiththeirownstories.Make yourstoryengagingandshowgenuineemotion.Youmightsay: ‘Youwon’tbelievewhathappenedtometoday!’andthenfollow upbyaskingfortheiradvice,regardlessoftheirage.They’ll appreciatethatyouvaluetheirinput.

Howisyourfriend?

Askingabouttheirfriendsshowsthatyoualsocareaboutthe peoplewhoareimportanttothem.Thisquestionislessdirect andfeelslesslikeaninterrogation.Ithelpsbuildabondbetween youbecausetheirsocialcircleisasignificantpartoftheir world.Byshowinginterestintheirfriends,youvalidatetheir relationshipsandexperiences.

Workonyourself

Childrenareincrediblyperceptive.Iftheyfeelresponsible fortheirparents’happiness,theymaybecomereluctantto communicatehonestly.Theyneedtofeelfreeandsafetobe themselves,withoutfearingtheymightupsettheirparents’ emotionalworld.

Akeystepinfosteringeffectivecommunicationwithourchildren istoworkonourselves—ourhappiness,peace,self-confidence andself-love.Whenwecreateasafeandbalancedenvironment, childrenfeelsecureenoughtoexpressthemselveshonestly withoutfeelingburdenedbytheweightofouremotions.

Askaboutsomethingspecifictheyweregoingtofacethat day

Showthemthatyourememberdetailsaboutwhattheyhave toldyou.Itcouldbeaboutanactivitytheyhadplannedora conversationtheyneededtohave.Byrecallingspecifics,you demonstratethatyoupayattentiontowhat’simportanttothem, fosteringasenseofbeingseenandvalued.

Sometimes,don’taskanything

Simplybepresent.Kissthem,smile,askacasualquestionlike: ‘Howwasyourday?’andthenjustbewiththem.Comment ontheweather,tellthemhowmuchyoumissedthemorhow lovelytheylook.Embracethepotentialsilence;sometimes, childrenneedaquiet,lovingpresencemorethanwords.Share experiences,laughterandaffection.

Whateverapproachyouchoose,refrainfromjudgingorteaching alessonimmediately.Thegoalistocreateasafespacewhere yourchildfeelsheard,valuedandfreetoexpresstheirtrue selves.Makesureyoutrulyhearthem,valuethemandaccept themforwhotheyare.

Byaskingmindfulquestionsandbeingpresent,youbuilda deeper,moregenuineconnectionwithyourchild,layingthe foundationforopenandhonestcommunication.

LorenaBernalisacertifiedlifecoachandspirituallifecoach andFounderoftheeventsandcoachingplatformLiveLove Better(www.livelovebetter.co.uk).

Droprigidexpectations

Parents’expectationsusuallygetinthewayofhonest communication.Insteadofevaluatingwhatourkidsdoor howtheydoit,weoftenjudgethemagainstourexpectations andstandards.Forinstance,ifweexpectourchildto completetheirhomeworkwellandontime,anythingshortof thatmayseeminadequatetous.

Totrulyconnectwithourchildren,weshoulddroprigid expectations.Trustintheirindividualityandcourageously releasetheneedtocontroltheiroutcomes,allowingthemto growandexpressthemselvesfreely.

EDUCATION

PrepandJuniorSchools

EdgbastonHighSchool forGirls

Edgbaston,Birmingham T:01214545831

www.edgbastonhigh.co.uk

OpenMorning:Sat21Sep 09:30–12:00

HallfieldSchool

Edgbaston,Birmingham T:01214541496

www.hallfieldschool.co.uk

OpenMorning:Sat28Sep 09:30–12:00

HighclareSchoolPre-Prep &Prep

Erdington,Birmingham T:01213737400 www.highclareschool.co.uk

NorfolkHouseSchool

Birmingham T:01214547021

www.norfolkhouseschool.co.uk

OpenMorning:Sat28Sep 10:00–12:45

PriorySchool

Edgbaston,Birmingham T:01214404103 www.prioryschool.net

St.George’sSchool

Edgbaston,Birmingham T:01216250398 www.sgse.co.uk

OpenMorning:Sat28Sep 10:00–12:00

TheBlueCoatSchool

Edgbaston,Birmingham T:01214106800

www.thebluecoatschool.com

OpenMorning:Sat21Sep 09:00–13:00

WestHouseSchool

Edgbaston,Birmingham T:01214404097 www.westhouseprep.com

NurseryOpenMorning: Fri20Sep10:00–11:30

WholeSchoolOpenMorning: Sat5Oct10:00–12:00

EversfieldPrepSchool

Solihull T:01217050354 www.eversfield.co.uk

OpenMorning:Sat5Oct 09:30–12:00

RuckleighSchool

Solihull T:01217952773 www.ruckleigh.co.uk

SolihullSchool

Solihull T:01217050958 www.solsch.org.uk

OpenMorning:Sat28Sep 09:30–12:00

TheShrubberySchool

SuttonColdfield T:01213511582 www.shrubberyschool.com

SeniorSchools

EdgbastonHighSchoolfor Girls

Edgbaston,Birmingham T:01214545831 www.edgbastonhigh.co.uk

OpenMorning:Sat21Sep 09:30–12:00

HallfieldSchool

Edgbaston,Birmingham T:01214541496 www.hallfieldschool.co.uk

OpenMorning:Sat28Sep 09:30–12:00

HighclareSchoolSeniors Erdington,Birmingham T:01213737400 www.highclareschool.co.uk

OpenEvening:Thu10Oct 16:30–19:00

KingEdward’sSchool

Birmingham T:01214721672

www.kes.org.uk

OpenMorning:Thu12Sep 17:30–20:00

KingEdwardVIHighSchool forGirls Birmingham T:01214721834

www.kehs.org.uk

OpenMorning:Sat21Sep 09:15–12:30

PriorySchool

Edgbaston,Birmingham T:01214404103

www.prioryschool.net

St.George’sSchool

Edgbaston,Birmingham T:01216250398 www.sgse.co.uk

OpenMorning:Sat28Sep 10:00–12:00

SolihullSchool

Solihull T:01217050958 www.solsch.org.uk

OpenMorning:Sat21Sep 09:30–12:00

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Whatdoesagood statesecondary schoollooklike?

Choosingasecondaryschoolisoneofthebiggestdecisions you’llevermakeforyourchild.Verylikely,yourtwopriorities arewhetheryourchildwillreachtheiracademicpotentialand whethertheywillbehappythere.Herearemytipsonwhatto lookfor.

Hot-houseorgreenhouse?

Istheschooleducationallyaspirationalandhowdoesthis manifest?Lookforrelaxedandrespectfulteacher-pupilrelations. Theyarekeytosuccessfullearning.Isthelibrarywell-stocked andbusy?Teacherrecruitmentandretentionischallengingall schools.Askpupilshowoftentheyhavecoverteachers.

Arepupilsregularlyassessed?Performancemeasuressuch as Progress8 (seewww.gov.uk)aregoodindicatorsofhowa schooladdsvalueastheymeasureacademicattainmentrates overtime.Arethereprogrammestostretchthemoreacademic children?Whataboutthosewithspecialeducationalneedsand disabilities?

Breadthofcurriculum

Thebeststateschoolsofferandvalueabroadliberalarts educationbeyondthestandardcurriculum.Forinstance,Bohunt SchoolinHampshire‘blewthesocksoff’the GoodSchools Guide withimmersionclassesinMandarin.Someofthebest stateschoolsinvestintopnotchsportsfacilitiesandcoaching, othershaveoutstandingcreativeorperformingartsspaces. Pickaschoolthatsuitsyourchild’sstrengths.Checkoutschool noticeboardsandtheschool’ssocialmediaforco-curricular activitiesandtripsthechildrenaredoingoutsidetheclassroom too.

Whenchoosinga secondaryschool

JudgeaschoolentirelybyitsOfstedreport: areport canquicklyfalloutofdateandonewordjudgementscannot paintafullpicture.Lookformorenuancedinformation.Other localparentswithchildrenalreadyattheschoolareagreat placetostart.

Taketoomuchnoticeofsocialmedia community groupgrumblesaboutaschool.Theseareusuallyledbya singulardisgruntledparent.

Beswayedbydinnerpartybraggingrights. The super-duperacademicgrammarschoolthateveryone’s talkingaboutmayormaynotbethebestplaceforyourchild toflourish.Equally,don’tchooseaschoolbasedonwhatYOU wouldhavelikedasachild.

Lie,cheatorchangeyourreligion togetyourchild intoaparticularschool!

Beputoffbyaschoolthatisn’tpristine. Lookinstead forcleanlinessandorderliness.Asktovisitthetoiletsthe pupilsuse–they’lltellyoualotabouttheschool’svalues!

Pastoral

Goodschoolshaveclearsystems.Everychildisknown;nobody slipsthroughthenet.Askifreportsandopeneveningsinclude pastoralupdates.Doestheschool’spraise/disciplinesystemflex tomeetindividualneedsandalignwithyourfamilyvalues?Ask pupilswhattheydoatbreakandlunch.Goodschoolsinclude spacesforchildrentoseekquietreflectionwhenneeded.

Communication

Goodschoolsalsocommunicatewellwithparents.Thetone ofschoolnewslettersandsocialmediafeedscantellyoualot, whileanactivePTAisasignofanengagedparentcommunity. Ifyoucan,passbytheschoolathometimeandobservepupil behaviourastheyleavethesite.Anothertoptipistotalkwith pupilshigheruptheschool.Wouldyoubehappyforyour childrentoturnoutlikethem?

MelanieSandersonisManagingEditorofTheGoodSchools Guide(www.goodschoolsguide.co.uk),whichcontainsfrank, impartialreviewsofschools.Itswritersvisitthousandsof schoolsannually,speakingtoHeads,teachers,pupilsand parents.

Autumnfunforallthefamily AguidetoWhat’sOnintheWestMidlands

OutdoorFun

BirminghamBotanicalGardens

Edgbaston

TheGardenshavesomethingforall agestoenjoy,including7,000plants, 4VictorianGlasshouses,children’s trailsandaplayground. HeritageOpenDay14Sep (10:00-17:00)FREE. www.birminghambotanical gardens.org.uk

BirminghamWildlifeConservation Park

Edgbaston Hometoauniquecollectionof animalsfromacrosstheworld.There areredpandas,lemurs,reptiles, meerkats,otters,birds,wallabiesand acollectionofmonkeys. birmingham.gov.uk/conservationpark CanalsideFarmGreatHaywood Staffordshire TakeapicturesqueCanalsideWalkor CycleRide,visitStaffordshireWildlife Trustandenjoyadeliciousafternoon teaonthecaféterrace.Autumn MarketontheFarm14-15Sep (10:00-16:00) www.canalsidefarm.co.uk

MartineauGardens Birmingham 2.5acresoforganicallymanaged landscapetoexploreincludinga naturetrail,formalgardenand children’s‘shipwreck’playarea. AutumnOpenAfternoon21Sep. www.martineau-gardens.org.uk

SuttonParkNatureReserve

SuttonColdfield

WrapupwarmthisAutumnandvisit oneofthelargesturbanparksin Europe.Fromplaygrounds, restaurants,sailing,bikeridingtokite flying.Agreatdayoutforthewhole family! www.birmingham.gov.uk /suttonpark

WinterbourneHouseandGarden

Birmingham Edwardianhistorichouseand botanicalgardenwithplentyof activitiesavailableallyearroundfor families.Children’sgarden,family trail,TeaRoom,giftshopand second-handbookshop. Under5sFREE. www.winterbourne.org.uk

WalsallArboretum

TownCentre,Walsall Accessiblewalkways,boatinglake andlakesidecafé,tenniscourtsand acresofopenplayingfieldsto explore.Plusachildren’splayarea withskateparkandsplashpad. FREEentry. www.go.wasall.gov.uk

OctoberHalf-Term (28Oct–1Nov)

SpookyFarm AshEndHouseChildren’sFarm Tamworth 21,22,28,29,30&31Oct Unlimitedtimeonthefarm,meet theWizard,getclosetosome creepycritters,pickandcarvea pumpkin,ghoulishgamesand spookycraftsplusaprizeforkidsin costume!Familyfriendlyevent, suitableforyoungchildren. www.ashendchildrensfarm.co.uk

SpooktacularChildren’sTrail MiddletonHall&Gardens Tamworth

23-31Oct(12:00–16:00)

Followthespookycluesaroundthe gardenstodiscoverthepassword thatwillreleaseyourtreat...ortrick! Includedinchildren’sadmission price. www.middleton-hall.co.uk

SolihullHalloweenFestival

SolihullHighStreet

25–27Oct(Fri/Sat10:00–18:00 Sun10:00–16:00)

NEWfor2024!Visitthecreepy HalloweenstallsliningtheHigh Street,MillLaneandMelSquare. Plus,children'sentertainmentand tastyfoodsandcraftfromaround theworld.

HalloweenintheWoods Parkridge,Solihull 28Oct(11:15–12:15)

Headintothespookywoodsand playgames,makemagicpotions andlearnwhichanimalsarebrave enoughtobeoutandabouton Halloween.ForPrimarySchool agedchildren,bookonline. www.warwickshirewildlifetrust.org.uk

HalloweenHalf-Term

SellyManorMuseum,Birmingham 28–Oct–1Nov(10:00–17:00) Hauntinglyfun,family-friendly Halloweenevent.Artsandcrafts, pumpkintrailwithpuzzles,spooky housetrailandunder5’strail. www.sellymanormuseum.org.uk

NationalTrust BirminghamandWestMidlands There’sheapsofHalloweenfunto enjoythishalf-termatourlocal NationalTrustproperties: BirminghamBacktoBacks, Roundhouse,WightwickManorand Gardens,ClentHills&MoseleyOld Hall.Eachpropertyhasitsown uniquefamilyactivitiessowhynot visitthemall.Seeindividual websitesfordetailsandprices. www.nationaltrust.org.uk

GoldenPutter CannonHillPark,Birmingham Challengethekidsto36holesof minigolfmadnessthisAutumn. Perfectforpeopleofallages. Wheelchair/pushchairaccessible. Brilliantwaytospendthedaywith friendsandfamily! www.cannonhillpark.co.uk

NPFBassetsPoleAdventurePark SuttonColdfield Kidsandfunfamilyactivities,ideal forkeepingactive,adventurouskids entertainedthroughouthalf-term. Paintball,LaserTag,Archery, Bushcraft,QuadTrekking,Jungle Escape,Gelballandmuchmore.All designedforchildren,age restrictionsapply. www.npfbassettspole.com

TheStickManOutdoorTrail NationalMemorialArboretum Staffordshire FREEbrand-newmile-longtrailfor youngvisitorstohelpTheStick Manonhisadventurebacktothe FamilyTree.Anadventurethrough acresofwoodlandfeaturinglotsof carvingstospotalongtheway. www.thenma.org.uk

Birmingham,Solihull

EverySeptember,thousandsofvolunteersacrossEngland organiseeventstocelebrateourfantastichistoryandculture.It bringspeopletogethertocelebratetheirheritage,community andhistory.Storiesaretold,traditionsexplored,andhistories broughttolife.It'stheperfectopportunitytogetthefamily togethertoseehiddenplacesandtryoutnewexperiences–all ofwhichareFREEtoexplore.

Visit www.heritageopendays.org.uk tocheckthedirectoryfor eventsnearyou…orwhynotexplorefurtherafield?There’ssome fantasticfamilyfriendlyeventsrunningacrossthecountry.

Theatre

BirminghamHippodrome

Birmingham

Hairspray

Mon16Sep–Sat21Sep

AgeRecommendation:7+

Disney’sAladdin Wed9Oct–Sun3Nov

AgeRecommendation:6+ www.birminghamhippodrome.com

CrescentTheatre

Birmingham

Greece

Thu28–Sat30Nov

AgeRecommendation:12+ www.crescent-theatre.co.uk

SuttonColdfieldTownHall

SuttonColdfield HarryPanto–TheUnnecessary SequelParodyPanto! Sat26Oct www.suttoncoldfieldtownhall.com

SymphonyHall

Birmingham

LifeonOurPlanet:Livein ConcertwithCBSO Fri4Oct

TownHall Birmingham

CharlieCook’sFavouriteBook Sat26–Sun27Oct

TheSnowman&TheSnowman andtheSnowdog(FilmwithLive Orchestra)

Sun15Dec(13:30)

Agerecommendation:3+

TheSnowman&TheBear,the Piano,theDogandtheFiddle (FilmwithLiveOrchestra) Sun15Dec(16:00)

Agerecommendation:3+ www.bmusic.co.uk

TheAlexandraTheatre

Birmingham

LordoftheDance Mon30Sep–Sun6Oct

AwfulAuntie Thu17Oct–Sat19Oct

AgeRecommendation:5+ www.atgtickets.com

TheCoreTheatre Solihull

MrSleepybum Sun10Nov www.thecoretheatresolihull.co.uk

TheRepTheatre Birmingham PiedPiper-AHipHopFamily

Musical Thu31Oct–Sat2Nov

AgeRecommendation:6+ www.birmingham-rep.co.uk

Museums& History

BlackCountryLivingMuseum

Dudley Gobackintimeandexplore26acres ofcarefullyreconstructedshops, housesandindustrialareasthat representtheBlackCountry’s fascinatingstory. www.bclm.com

DudleyMuseumattheArchives

Dudley Filledwithfantasticfossilsand guaranteedfun,enjoyawholehostof displaysincludinggeology, dinosaurs,historicfindsfromDudley Castle,localheroes,glassand artworkeveryThu,FriandSat. FREEentry. www.dudley.gov.uk

DudleyZoo&Castle Dudley Hometoalargecollectionof endangeredspeciesaswellasbeing thesiteofan11thcenturycastle-an importantgeologicalsite. www.dudleyzoo.org.uk

LapworthMuseumofGeology UniversityofBirmingham Goandseethefinestandmost extensivecollectionsoffossils, mineralsandrocksintheMidlands. Excitingfamilyactivities,educational talks,toursandarts&crafts activities. www.birmingham.ac.uk

SandwellMuseumsSandwell Variouslocations

Explorearangeofdifferentmuseums includingOakHouseMuseum(a half-timberedfarmhouse),Bromwich Hall(amedievalmoatedmanor house),andmore.MostlyFREEto visit.Seasonalactivities. www.sandwell.gov.uk/museums

SellyManorMuseum

Birmingham

Stepbackintimetodiscoverhowthe Tudorscooked,dressedandlived. Exploretheparlour,dininghall, kitchenandbedchamber.Dressup inreplicacostumesandsuitof armour.FREEchildren’strail. www.sellymanormuseum.org.uk

ThinkTank Birmingham

Fourfloorsoffuntoexplore,bursting withmorethan200hands-onhightechdisplaysalongsidehistorical collectionsandnaturalscience specimens.Funandeducational! Autismfriendlysessions. www.birminghammuseums.org.uk /thinktank

WestMidlandsPoliceMuseum

Birmingham

Learnabouttwocenturiesofpolicing history.Experienceanauthentic Victorianlock-up,hearabout pioneeringindividuals,interactive displays,dressupinpoliceuniforms andtakeyourownmugshot! www.museum.westmidlands.police.uk

MakeitaChristmastoremember,withaspecial screeningoffamily-favourite'TheSnowman' accompaniedbyaliveorchestra.

Thismagical,festiveshowwillalsoincludeanadditionalshort film,accompaniedlivebysomeoftheUK'sfinestprofessional musicians.

AllperformedwithintheiconicBirminghamTownHallon 15December2024.Choosefrom:

'TheSnowman'&'TheSnowmanandtheSnowdog'at1.30pm 'TheSnowman'&'TheBear,thePiano,theDogandtheFiddle' at4pm

Theshowalsoincludesafun,festiveintroductiontothe orchestra,andevenavisitfromTheSnowmanhimself! PerfectforthewholefamilytoenjoytogetherthisChristmas!

Agerecommendation:3+ Bookyourticketsonlineat https://bmusic.co.uk/events/the-snowman-tour

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Events

HaveAGoBrass SymphonyHall

8Sep(10:00)

Haveagoatplayinganinstrumentand hearthebestyoungbrassmusicians fromacrosstheUKshowcasetheir talentsinthisFREE,fun,family-friendly sessioninB:Eatscafé.

https://bmusic.co.uk/events /have-a-go-brass-2

NationalYouthBrass:BandofGreat Britain:Children’sBand SymphonyHall

8Sep(14:00,40mins)

FREEafternoonofbrass.Watchthe NYBBGBChildren’sBandshowcase theirrepertoirefromtheirrecent summercourseandconcert.

https://bmusic.co.uk/events/national -youth-brass-band-of-great-britainchildrens-band-2

AutumnOpenAfternoon MartineauGardens,Birmingham 21Sep

Tryoutsomeoftheactivitiesthattake placeintheGardens,includingTaiChi, greenwoodworking,ponddipping, plantingandmore.Refreshments availabletobuy.FREEentry. Allwelcome. https://martineaugardens.org.uk/event/martineau-gar dens-autumn-open-afternoon/ HocusPocus

SandwellValleyCountryPark 5Oct(17:00–22:30)

Grabyourblankets,chairs,familyand friendsandspendaneveningunderthe starswatchingtheultimateHalloween classicmovie,HocusPocus.Catering onsitebutpicnicswelcome.Family ticketsavailable.Fancydress encouraged!TicketsonEventbrite.

HorseoftheYearShow2024

NEC,Birmingham 9–13Oct

Thebiggestweekoftheyearfor equestrianentertainmentisback!The 75theditionofHorseoftheYearShow hassomethingforeverymemberofthe familytoenjoy,fromshowstoshopping, andofcourse…thehorses!Bookonline. www.hoys.co.uk

NewlandsBishopFarmPumpkin

Patch Solihull 12,13,19,20Oct

Kidscangrabawheelbarrowand embarkonapumpkin-picking adventure.Pluscarveonsiteandsave themessyclean-up!Testyourskills withaminigamearoundthefarmand winprizes. www.newlandsbishopfarm.co.uk

SpookyWellyWalk BentleyManor ChildcareCentre,Solihull 26Oct(17:00–19:00) FantasticeveningofHalloweenfun. Crafts,storiesandtreats.Don’tforget yourtrickortreatbuckets!£5perchild. HalloweenFun TheCoffinWorks,Birmingham 26Oct(12:00–15:00) WherebettertospendHalloweenthan anoldVictorianfactorypackedwith coffins!Extraspecialactivitiesrunning forfamiliesincludingaSorceryClass andGhostHunt.Childrenincostume visitFREEwithpayingadult. www.coffinworks.org

GetActive

RushUKTrampolinePark Stirchley,Birmingham

JumpintohappyatRushTrampolinePark,Birmingham!Theperfectdayout forthewholefamily,comerainorshine.Bouncersofallagescandefy gravityonthewall-to-walltrampolines,practicetheirtricksonthe72ftlong tumblelanes,diveintothegiantfoampitsorchallengetheirfriendsonthe dodgeballcourt.

CheckouttheNEWValoarena!Amixedrealityplaygroundwhereyoucan immerseyourselfinaworldofendlessfunandexcitement. Forthelittleones,ourToddlerTakeoversessionsprovideasafeand enjoyableenvironmentforages1-6.

OurMainCourtsalsohostchildren’strampolineparkparties,adult trampolinefitnessclasses,studentsocials,teambuildingdaysandactivities forSENchildren.

Kidsaged4+canjumptotheirhearts’contentduringOpenJumpsessions orenjoyacoolnightclubatmosphereatourweekendSunsetSessions. BookyournextpartyatRush!Chooseapartypackagefora100%-fun-zerostressexperience!Therearearangeofpackagestochoosefromtosuit everybudgetandneed,startingat£17perperson. www.rushuk.com

AckersAdventure

Birmingham

Getinvolvedwiththeactionat Ackers,includinglearntoskilessons (4+),tubingortobogganing,disc golf,sessionsforhomeschoolers andholidaycamps. www.ackers-adventure.co.uk

CliffLakes

Tamworth

TheUltimatewatersports destination!HometotheUK’s biggestAquaPark.Withan extensiverangeofinflatableslides, climbingwallsandtrampolinesover 5parks.PlusSUPandcoldwater swimming. www.clifflakes.co.uk

GoApe CannockChase (Staffordshire), WyreForest (Kidderminster), CoombeAbbey (Coventry)

Forthrill-seekingadultsandfunseekingchildrenexperiencethebest ofhighropeantics,forestsegways, netadventures,ziptrekadventure, axethrowingandmini-LandRovers. Activitiesvarybylocation.Book online. www.goape.co.uk

JuniorParkrun variouslocations

AFREE,funandfriendlyweekly2K eventforjuniors(4-14yearsold) EverySundayat9:00.Childrenmust beabletocompletethecourse withoutanadult. www.parkrun.com

Solihull

Skateforfun,learntoskate,booka partyortakethefamilytowatchan IceHockeygameandsupportthe SolihullBaronsthisAutumn.See websiteforfixturesandbooking. www.planet-ice.co.uk www.solihull-barons.net

RockUp

Birmingham

Enjoysomehealthy,action-packed funinasafeenvironment.Climbing walls(age4+),toddlerclimband play(upto5’s),verticalchallenges, highropes(minheight requirements)plussoftplayfor 0-5’s.Alsoavailableforgroup bookings,schoolsandparties. www.rock-up.co.uk

TheBearGryllsAdventure Birmingham Epicexperienceswhichwillpush youtoyourlimits.Fromindoor climbingwalls,highropes,zipline, archery,shooting,axethrowing, cagesnorkel,sharkdivetoiFLY, there’ssomethingforeveryone. www.beargryllsadventure.com

DaysOut

AshEndHouseChildren’sFarm

Tamworth

Hands-onfamily-friendlyfarm.Entry includesanimalfeed,tractor-trailer ride,pony-sit-onandlotsofanimal interaction.Outdoorplayareas available.Greatforchildrenparties! www.ashendchildrensfarm.co.uk

CadburyWorld

Birmingham

Enjoyadaychoc-fulloffunand discoverthestoryofhowtheymake CadburyChocolate.Interactive factorytourwithdemos,exciting rides,meetCadburycharacters.With plentyofchocolateytreats! www.cadburyworld.co.uk

DraytonManor

Tamworth

Thrillsandadventureforallthefamily toenjoy.TicketsincludeThomas Land,a15-acrezoo-hometoover 500animalsfromallovertheworld,a Vikingsareaandnauticallythemed AdventureCove.

HalloweenEvent 1Oct-1Nov www.draytonmanor.co.uk

LegolandDiscoveryCentre

Birmingham

Getcreativeandhavefunwithyour favouriteLEGOcharactersin Miniland,the4Dcinema,the KingdomQuestRide,LegoCity Softplayandsomuchmore. www.legolanddiscoverycentre.com

MonkeyForest

Trentham

Seenatureupclosewith140 fascinatingBarbarymacaquesto watchanddiscover.Plusanewplay areaforchildrentoexploreand replicatevariousprimatebehaviour. Funandeducational. www.monkey-forest.com

NationalSeaLifeCentre

Birmingham

Takeatriptotheaquariumwiththe UKsonly360-degreeoceantunnel andover60displaysoffreshwater andmarinelife.Quieterexperience sessionsavailableforSENDchildren andtheirfamilies. www.visitsealife.com/birmingham

WestMidlandsSafariPark

Bewdley

Four-miledrive-throughsafariwith over100differentspeciesthroughout thepark.Plusthrillingthemepark anddinosaurexhibit.Stayovernight inaluxurySafariLodgeforatotally wildexperience.SpookySpectacular 19Oct–3Nov. www.wmsp.co.uk

PlanetIce

Makingmoneyreal forkidsinacashless

society

Toayoungchild,moneyisamagicalcommoditywhichallows grown-upstogointoshopsandtakeanythingtheywant.And it’snotjustaboutunderstandingwheremoneycomesfrom andhowit’sused:inanincreasinglycashlesssociety,money isevenmoreofanabstractconceptforkidstograsp.

Inthedaysofcoinsandnotes,childrencouldseethatmoney wassomethingtangible,usedforgoodsandservices;andthat itcouldrunout.Nowthatwecanjusttapandgo, kidsdon’t evenseemoneybeingexchanged. So,it’sevenharderfor themtoseethatit’snotanunlimitedresource.Thisrequires parentstoputalittlemorethoughtintohelpingkidsunderstand howfinanceswork.Afterall,managingmoneyisalifelongskill, bringingarangeofkeybenefits.

Aswellasboostingtheirmaths,moneyteacheskidshowto controltheirimpulses,developpatience,delaygratification; andultimatelyspendwiselythroughoutlife.Indeed,according toresearchbyCambridgeUniversity,attitudestomoneyare formedbyaroundtheageof7.

Practicallifelessons

Kidsfirstgraspwhatmoneyrepresentsaroundtheageof6. Startbypayingthemtheirfirstpocketmoneyincoinstomake ittangible.Givethemasee-throughjarsotheycanseeit disappearwhentheyspendit.Whenyou’reoutandabout,try tousecashaswellascards.Eachtimeyoudouseyourcard, explainit’sthesameashavingthesameamounttakenoutof your‘jar,’akayourbankaccount.Astheygetolder,startsharing yourownspendingdecisionstoo.

Tipsforteachingyounger children

Paypocketmoneyasintherealworld: afixedallowance onthesamedayeachweek,justlikeawageandit’stheir responsibilityastohowtospendit.Thisteachesthevalueof moneyandthatit’snotanunlimitedresource.

Helpthemtracktheirmoneyonscreen: ifyougivethem aprepaiddebitcard,asmanyparentsdo,showthemtheir balanceonafamilytablet.Watchthenumbersgoupanddown together.

Letthemearn: comeupwithsomesmalljobsaroundyour homeandsetapriceforthem.Whenyoutransfertheirpay,let themseeitpopuponscreen.Thiswillshowhowworkearns moneyandhowmoneygetstransferred.

Playboardgames: Money-basedboardgameslike Monopoly and PayDay stilluseold-fashionedplaybanknotesandcanalso introduceconceptslikedebt,mortgages,taxesandsaving.

Talkaboutit. Forexample,whenyougotobuyanice-cream withthem,chatthroughthedifferentpricesforeachitem. Explainhowthehigherthecost,themoremoneywillgooutof yourbankaccount.Whenyougotopay,ratherthanjusttap, showyourchildtheamountdisplayedonthecardreadersothey linkwhatyou’rebuyingtothemoneyitcosts.

Explainthatifyouspentallyourmoney onice-creams,youwouldhavelessto spendonothermoreimportantitems youallneed,namelyfood,clothesand travel.

Pocketmoneyisoneoftheseventy fiverealworldscenariostackledinthe bookWhat’sMyTweenThinking? PracticalChildPsychologyforModern Parentco-authoredbyTanithCarey withDrAngharadRudkin,published byDKbooksandavailablenowfrom www.bookshop.org

Tipsforteachingolder children

Shareyourspendingdecisions Parentsoftendon’tsharewithchildrenhowmuchmoneythey haveorhowtheymakefinancialdecisions.Sokidsmaybelieve youhaveanunlimitedamountandonedaythey’llbethesame. Tohelpthemthinkresponsibly,calmlysharesomeofyourown moneymanagementdecisions.Whenyou’reoutshopping,chat throughyourchoicesandhowyoucompareprices.Youmight alsoshowhowyourpurchasesaffectyourbankbalance,sothey learnbasiccause-and-effect.

Talkaboutthedifferencebetweena‘need’anda‘want’ Inatap-and-gosociety,it’seasierthanevertouseacard tobuyanitemwithoutthinking.That’swhyit’simportantto introducesome‘friction’toslowdowntheprocess.Whenyou buysomething,talkaboutthedifferencebetweena‘need’anda ‘want.’Explainthat‘needs’areeverythingyourequiretosurvive, likefood,shelter.‘Wants’arecomplementaryadd-onswhichare nicetohavebutyoucanlivewithoutthem.

Overcoming disappointmentand failure

Whilststudiesshowthatchildrenlearnbetterwhenthey experiencefailure,noparentlikesseeingtheirchildupset ordisappointed.Itfeelsrighttowanttokeepthemhappy andcontentbytakingstepstoavoidanythingseemingly harmfultheyencounter,whetherthatbethroughdistraction, bargainingorevenwithaquickcredit-cardswipe.

However,whilstthesequickwinsfeelbetterorevenjustsimpler, safeguardingchildrenfromdisappointmentultimately hinders themfromdevelopingresilienceandconfidence toprogress fromchildhoodtoadolescenceandintheiradultlife.When childrenaregiventheopportunitytostruggleandsometimes fail,youarehelpingthemdevelopessentialsocialandemotional skills.

Whatisdisappointmentandfailure? Disappointmentisa naturalresponsetofailure.Itinvolvesthefeelingsofthwarted desire,lossanddiscouragementwhenchildrenfailtofulfiltheir hopesandexpectationsorthoseofothers.Childrenaregoing tofeeldisappointmentwhentheydon’tachievetheirgoalsor believethattheyhaveletyoudown.

Thestigmasurroundingfailureisasignificantissuethatimpacts achild’sdevelopment,confidenceandwillingnesstotake risks.Bothclosefamilyandsocietyplacehighexpectationson childrentosucceedacademicallyandsocially,whichcanoften leadtoanintensefearoffailure.Theemphasisoncontinual testinginoureducationsystemreinforcesanarrowdefinition ofsuccessandfailuretoo.Ifachilddoesnotreachcertain

Howtohaveahealthy perspective

Strategiestocombatthestigmaoffailure

Understandthatfailureisanaturalpartofthelearningprocess andseefailuresasopportunitiesforlearning.Praiseeffort andpersistenceratherthanjustresultsandwhilstshowing yourchildempathy,avoidofferingaconsolationprize.Model yourownhealthyperspectiveondisappointmentandallow yourchildrentoexperienceit,viewingstumblingblocksas opportunities.

Managingyourexpectationsofyourchildren

Viewyourchildasanindividual.Childrendevelopatdifferent ratessodon’tcompareorbetemptedtoprojectyourown challengesontoyourchildren-theyeasilypickupon yournegativity.Instead,beenthusiasticandpositive,offer encouragementandsupport.Focusonpositive,realistic expectationsandcelebrateeffortaswellasachievement. Helpyourchilddeviseeasily-achievablegoalsandseparate themintomanageablechunks,prioritisingclearandconsistent communicationandexpectations.Aboveall,validatetheir feelingswhichwillhelpthemdevelopperspective.

benchmarks,theyareoftenlabelledafailure.Thiscanleadto adownwardspiraleffectwithchildrenreducingtheirefforts, givingupeasilyandnottakingrisks.Childrenwhofallintothis spiralmaysubsequentlyhavelittleconfidence,self-esteemand motivationtoachievefuturegoals.

Sohowdowenotfeelcompletelydefeatedasparentswhen wehavetowatchourchildsuffer?

Placatingyourchildrendoesn’tallowthemtounderstandthe rootcausesandfigureouthowtonotfeeldisappointedinthe future.Ratherweshouldletthemflextheirmusclesandwith support,encouragethemtofindsolutionsthemselves.Ingiving ourchildrenthenecessaryskillstomanagedisappointment, itisimportanttovalidatetheirfeelings,showempathyandbe mindfulofhowyoureacttowardsyourowndisappointments.

LisaandCatherineareco-foundersofEmparenting (www.emparenting.co.uk),supportingchildren,parentsand familieswiththeinsights,skillsandtoolsneededtonurture thedevelopmentandwell-beingofthenextgeneration.

How toviewyourchild’s disappointments

AccordingtotheauthorAllisonArmstrong,‘manyparents todaytrytoohardtosmoothawaylife’sroughedgesinthe hopesofkeepingdisappointmentatbay.Childrenwithno experiencesolvinglife’slittlesetbackshaveamuchharder timewhenthey’refacedwiththebigones.’Shesuggests thatparentsshouldviewtheirchildren’sdisappointmentsas positiveexperiencesthatpreparethemforadulthood. ‘Childhooddisappointmentisactuallyapracticelapon thecoursetoadulthood.Ifyouruninterferencewhenever disappointmentthreatens,you’resettingkidsuptoruna marathonwithouteverlettingthemtrainforit’Allisonadds. Instead,reframedisappointmentasahealthyandpositive emotionthatplaysanessentialroleinchildren’semotional, intellectualandsocialdevelopment,equippingthemwith resiliencetomeetandovercomefailuresinadultlife.Albert Einsteinsaid:‘Failureissuccessinprogress.’Itisnotwhat wedoforourchildrenbutratherhowweguidethemon theirjourney,whichwillmakethemsuccessful,strongand confidentindividuals.

Howtobegreatat spelling

Forchildren,learninghowtospellisn’tjustaboutpassing schooltestsbutbeingabletowritewordscorrectlyintheir extendedwriting.Asadults,spellingisessentialforeffective writing,bothintheprofessionalworldandonsocialmedia.

Therearemanytoolsthatcanhelp,suchasautocorrect, predictivetextandevenAI(ArtificialIntelligence).However, childrendonothavereadyaccesstotheseatschoolwherethey areexpectedtospellindependently.Learningiskey.

Herearesometechniques:

Ensurethattheyknowallthe40+phonemes

Somechildrenneedrepetitionofthephonicstaughtinearly years.Childrenwillbetaughtthe26lettersofthealphabet, 44differentsoundscalledphonemesandthecorresponding graphemes(thewrittensymbolsthatrepresentasound).Making suretheyaresecureintheirphonicsunderstandingcanmakea differenceintheirabilitytospellwordsthatfollowpatternsand rules.

Learntheexceptionstotherules

Themanywordsthatdonotfollowpatternscanbeconfusing. Knowingwhatthesewordsareanddiscussinghowtheyare the‘tricky’wordsbringsthemtoyourchild’sattentionsothey aremindfulofthemwhenwriting.AlsochooseEnglishover Americanspellings.

Rhyminggamescanreallyhelp

Childrenfindsimilaritiesbetweenwordsandthisexpandsthe numberofwordstheycanspell.Forexample,iftheycanspell ‘rain’thentheycanspell‘gain.’

Lookingforwordswithinwords

Thisisagreatwayofbreakinguplargerwordsegtheword ‘independent’hasthewords‘in,’‘pen,’‘dependent,’‘dent.’Equally, mostwordscanbebrokenintosyllablesandeachsyllable usuallyhasavowel(orsometimestheletter‘y’).

Seeingtheshapeofthewordhelpsvisuallearners

Forexample,theword‘tall’hasonetallletterandashortletter followedbytwotallletters.

Memorygames

Rhymingisapowerfultooltoraise phonicsawarenessandhelpkids remembertrickyfacts.Forexample, ‘wakeywakeyriseandshine,7x7is 49’ .

Mnemonicsisanothermemory strategythatcanbeusedinall subjects.Itturnsinformationinto songs,acronyms,rhymesandother forms.

Thespellingof‘necessary’canbe rememberedwiththismnemonic: NeverEatCake,EatSalmon Sandwiches And RemainYoung. A quickinternetsearchshowsmany usefulmnemonicstohelpyourchild inlotsofsubjects.

Mnemonicsislikemakingupastorytohelpspellaword

Fortheword‘because’usethemnemonic‘bigelephantscan alwaysupsetsmallelephants.’

Thetraditionalmethodof‘look,say,cover,writeandcheck’ worksforsomechildrenbutcomeswithawarning

Notallchildrenrespondtothismethodandthewordsdon’t alwaysentertheirlong-termmemory.Practisingwritingtheword outhelpsyourchildbecomefamiliarwiththeshapeoftheword. Rainbowspellingisanothervisualwayoflearningspellings: maybeuseonecolourforaspecificsoundanddifferentcolours fortheotherletters.

Usingtechnologyandapps

Theapp SqueeblesSpellingTest startswithalistfromthe nationalcurriculumandyoucanuploadyourownwords. Childrencanthenpractisetheirspellingsindependently. Usedifferentmaterialstopractisewritingthewords withpaintorfoamorinsand.Scrabble-liketilescan beboughtfrommosthobbyshopsandaregreatforkinaesthetic learnersastheycanphysicallymovethelettersintothecorrect order.Equally,playinggameslike Scrabble and Hangman isalso helpful.

Ultimatelyamulti-facetedapproachwillbringthebestresults whensupportingyourchild’sspellingjourney.

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Rhymingandmnemonics

Boostingyourchild’scognitivedevelopmentthrough memorygameswillimproveconcentrationandfostertheir problem-solvingskills.

Kim’sGame involvesshowingchildrenarangeofobjects, hidingthemandseeinghowmanytheycanremember. Numbersequencememorygame helpswithnumerical memorybygettingyourchildtorepeatasequenceofnumbers andthenextendingiteachtime.

Storyrecall isexcellentforreadingcomprehension. Incorporatingthesegamesintodailyroutineswillhelpchildren tolearnhowtoretainimportantinformationatschool.

Makehanging pumpkinsfora twigtree

Weaskedourfriendsat Hobbycraft (www.hobbycraft. co.uk)foraspectacularlyspookyHalloweencraftactivity forparentstodowiththeirkidsandthey’vecomeupwith thesecutepumpkinstohangonatwigtree.

Instructions:

Step1: Printoffthepumpkin templateatwww.bit. ly/pumpkintemorget creativeanddrawout yourownpumpkin shape.Cutitout.

Step6: Takea15cmpieceof cordandglueittothe frontofthepumpkinto makeahangingcord.

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Youwillneed blackribbon,A4feltsheets inorange,greenandpink,softtoyfilling, blackcard,agluegun,scissorsandapen.

(Allmaterialsplustwigtreescanbepurchasedat Hobbycraft).

Step2: Useapentotraceyour pumpkintemplateonto afoldedpieceoffelt.Cut thisouttogiveyoutwo identicalpumpkins.

Step7: Tracethepumpkinstalk ontosomegreenfeltand cutouttwopieces.

Step3: Useahotgluegunto putalineofgluearound theedgeofonepumpkin andsticktheotheron top.Leavethebottom open.

Step8: Glueonepieceofthe greenfeltstalktothe frontandonetothe back,sandwiching thehangingcordin between.

Step4: Stuffthepumpkinwitha smallamountofthesoft toyfilling.

Step5: Usehotgluetoclosethe pumpkin.

Step9: Cutfacedetailsoutof someblackcardandadd tothepumpkinsfora spookyfinishingtouch.

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