Families SE November 2010

ISSUE NO. 125 ESTABLISHED 1996

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RUSKIN HOUSE SCHOOL Private Day Nursery Open for your convenience 7am - 7pm Monday to Friday – 51 weeks of the year

Call Greg Randall on

020 8670 6141

Celebrating our Silver Jubilee Established 1985 • All childcare vouchers and tax credits accepted • Nursery Education Funding for all 3 & 4 year olds • Nutritional well-balanced meals provided inhouse • We pride ourselves on our family orientated atmosphere • Offering children up to 5 years a safe, stimulating learning environment which will introduce them to a whole new world • Easy commute to major London British Rail stations.

Herne Hill station within walking distance.

Buses 68 & 468 stop outside • With qualified and experienced staff our school is like a Pandora’s Box, a source of new and wonderful experiences, at the same time preparing the attending children for a fulfilling, adventurous and successful life ahead.

Under New Management

We help with family problems, including: • Divorce • Separation • Civil partnership dissolution • Disputes about children • Inheritance disputes

Our experience includes dealing with substantial assets We aim to resolve disputes in a constructive and non-confrontational way We can also help with pre-nuptial and cohabitation agreements

Any questions regarding the nursery or if you would like to book a viewing

Please call 020 7737 4317 48 Herne Hill, London SE24 9QP Email: ruskinhouseschool@hotmail.co.uk

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DARKER NIGHTS and expensive times ahead - there are gloomy faces out there. At Families we’ll help you find your reasons to be cheerful. How about a fantastic family trip to Winter Wonderland in Hyde Park, £250 in Hamleys vouchers, a video camera or your family meals sorted for you? They’re all up for grabs in this issue’s competitions. Or shake off the cobwebs and take part in workshops and interactive exhibitions, many of which are free or low cost and listed in our What’s On Guide. Need ideas for this year’s Christmas presents? We’ve got those too. It’s enough to bring a smile back to those cheeks...

Robina Cowan, editor

2-3 Local News and Views Supporting local shops, new clubs for children, a music business for sale, and “Trafalgar Square - that’s in EastEnders, innit?”

4-5 Local Christmas Shopping Great gifts and personal service - our pick of seasonal goodies from southeast London’s best independent shops

6-7 The Great Gift Guide Expert advice on what will please your little ones come Christmas day, plus the chance to win £250 in Hamleys’ vouchers

8 Spotlight on Stagecoach A look behind the scenes of a local performing arts school

9-14 What’s On Workshops, festive fairs, events and exhibitions now on and coming up to brighten your autumn days

15 The Book Page Tales from Justine Crow’s bookshelf, with this month’s recommended titles

16-17 Education News The success of Thames Christian College, and news for classrooms

18-19 What’s New WIN, WIN WIN! We have some brilliant prizes to be won, plus useful new products, services and free help for parents

20 The Back Page Local business contacts to make your life easier

Front cover: Girl wears double breasted merino/ cashmere blend coat/ dress, bow beanie and scarf, all www.suehillhandknits.co.uk, 01825 830 551

Next issue out 10 December: copy deadline mid November

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Shop locally for less with a wedge More and more independent shops across London are signing up to the Wedge Card scheme, offering discounts to people who shop locally and keeping trade on the high street - where it belongs.

Wedge Card is the brainchild of Diana Bird and her father John Bird, founder and Editor-in-Chief of The Big Issue. It was launched in December 2006 and their idea is all about keeping local, independent shops alive and thriving because they make our communities buzz.

Shoppers can sign up for a card for £10 for a whole year, of which £1 goes to a local charity and the other £9 helps Wedge administer the set-up of the card and strengthen the community further. Most Wedge members find that they recoup the initial cost in just a few weeks.

Love Me Again in Hither Green has recently signed up to Wedge, joining over 1400 independent cafes and shops already in the scheme. To find them or sign up, go to www.wedgecard.co.uk.

The bug club A fun new club has been set up where families can join a monthly bug hunt, make insect and animal habitats, and take part in themed arts and crafts activities.

Sessions run on the first Saturday of the month at Frendsbury Gardens in SE4. The cost is £1 per child and 50p for siblings - under 12s must be supervised by a responsible adult. Take your wellies if it’s raining as the club will still be going ahead! £1 per child, 50p for siblings. For more information, email emafelix@hotmail.com.

Mayor’s scheme to make 5000 young musicians Youngsters across the capital have a unique chance to learn a musical instrument with the help of professional musicians from world-class orchestras, as part of a major scheme launched by London Mayor Boris Johnson.

The Mayor’s Music Education Fund is funding partnerships between local authority music services and top orchestras and institutions across the city, including the London Philharmonic and the BBC Concert Orchestras.

Six new partnerships have been created, involving 13 local authority music services, six orchestras and a music college. Over the next two years, these partnerships will give over 5,000 young people the chance to develop their skills on a musical instrument, play in a group with other students, and work and perform with some of the UK’s finest professional musicians in one of London’s many inspirational venues.

Timothy Walker AM, chief executive and artistic director of the London Philharmonic Orchestra said: ‘Through our outreach project ‘The Band’, the London Philharmonic Orchestra works with teenagers from our local community in south London and any young person who is passionate about making and performing music is welcome to join. The LPO believes that all young people should have access to music-making opportunities and we strive to engage with the widest possible audience. Thanks to the Mayor’s Music Education Fund, the LPO has been able to forge a new partnership with Trinity Laban Conservatoire of Music and Dance, Greenwich and Lewisham Music Services, Southbank Centre and The 02 to create ‘Animate Orchestra’ - a new ensemble and a new musical pathway for talented young people in the London boroughs of Greenwich and Lewisham. We hope to support children who have participated in wider opportunities, Saturday centres and other instrumental learning schemes and nurture them as young musicians through transition into secondary education.’ More information is on www.london.gov.uk.

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Dancers bring ‘glee’ to greenwich Two professional dancers are set to bring dance and musical theatre to children in Greenwich.

Zenith Dance is run by Mel and Anna, who have worked with Ricky Martin, Robbie Williams, the Osmonds, National Youth Ballet and more.

Children can learn to emulate their favourite Glee dance stars, working towards regular performances for friends and family. Classes are split into 7-10 and 11-16 year-olds, and are held on Saturdays.

Adult dance classes are also available. For more information, call Melanie on 07774 507 810, Anna on 07999 547 565, or see www.zenithdance.co.uk.

Successful music business for sale Local mother Jill Powell has been running Caterpillar Music classes in SE16 and SE1 since summer 2004, opening her first class just six weeks after taking the decision to buy the franchise and expanding ever since.

With her sons now in secondary school, Jill is returning to a career in science, as a medical writer, and is offering her successful Caterpillar Music franchise for sale. She told us: “In just four months I found myself taking seven classes per week. The classes are all during school hours, classes can be run in the school holidays or not, as I choose. This gave me the time and opportunity to be with my boys after school and in the holidays. I chose to run the classes alone, but the business is very easy to run in partnership with friends, other mums or family members - your own young children can even accompany you to the classes and have fun with you while you work.”

If this sounds like a great venture for you, call Jill on 020 7252 1178 for a chat about taking over her thriving franchise, or send an email to jill.powell@caterpillarmusic.com. For new franchises in other areas, call Caterpillar Music’s head office 0870 199 9090 or go to www.caterpillarmusic.com.

Naut out of ten British children reckon the Spanish Armada is a national dish, Walter Raleigh invented the bicycle and James Cook was the captain of Starship Enterprise, according to research released by the Sea Cadets. The research was carried out to mark the anniversary of Trafalgar Day and the Sea Cadets National Trafalgar Day parade on Sunday 24 October, celebrating 205 years since Admiral Lord Nelson’s British fleet defeated the combined might of the French and Spanish.

The worrying stats emerged from a study of 2,000 school children which found most of them are clueless when it comes to nautical history: • one in 20 kids believe the Spanish Armada is a tapas-style cuisine rather than the fleet of ships that sailed against the English •

one in six thought Raleigh was the brains behind the Chopper, not the adventurer responsible for bringing tobacco and potato back to our home shores

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14% believe Cook uttered ‘Beam me up Scotty’ in Star Trek rather than command the Endeavour in his first voyage of discovery to Australia and New Zealand

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six in ten youngsters didn’t know the Battle of Waterloo was fought in Belgium, with one in six opting for London’s train station as their answer instead

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three quarters didn’t realise Trafalgar Square is home to Nelson’s Column, with eight per cent reckoning it’s from EastEnders, while 15% thought it was a shopping centre or chocolate biscuit

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one in ten said Horatio Nelson was the captain of the French national football team in the 1990s and the same number said Christopher Columbus discovered gravity

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only three quarters could identify the English Channel as the body of water between England and France, with one in ten naming the North Sea and six per cent saying the Atlantic.

Captain Mark Windsor RN, Captain of the Sea Cadets, said: ‘’These findings highlight that for a lot of young people being part of a maritime nation is something they do not connect with or have much understanding of. As an island nation our relationship with the sea is a critical one since much of our food and trade passes over the oceans and our place in the world largely stems from our maritime heritage.”

While 5% of the children have never stepped foot in the sea, 46% said they would like to learn to sail and seven in ten said water activities would be a good and fun thing to do with friends.

Sea Cadets are open to 10-12 and 13-18 year-olds, offering wet and dry fun and adventure with the chance to learn new skills and make new friends. Locally, there are cadet groups in Greenwich, Beckenham and Dulwich, Bexley and Lewisham, Bromley, Southwark and Orpington. For details, call 020 7481 7371 or go to http://seacadets.ms-sc.org/. In the meantime, a trip to Greenwich Maritime Museum would be a good start!

Money’s too tight to mention A recent survey revealed that money worries are affecting parents’ relationships with their partners and children, particularly in households with an income of £28,000 or less.

According to psychologist Dr Linda Papadopoulos: “One of the most important things to do to help the family cope with financial concerns is to talk about it as a family, and work together to get through it. By involving the whole family, obviously in a way that is age appropriate for each child, this will give a sense of control and empowerment over the situation. It will also engender a more positive attitude in that you are working as a team towards a common goal.”

Turn2Us is a charity which offers free, confidential and accessible services, enabling people in financial need to access welfare benefits and charitable grants information quickly and easily - all in one place.

The charity comprehensive website contains a number of easy to use tools, such as a benefits checker, grants search and helps users find an advisor.

To cut through any confusion on the impact of the spending review on your family finances, go to www.turn2us.org.uk.

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Local Spotlight

HERE AT Families we firmly believe in supporting our local independent shops. Which other shops can offer both the festive season’s hot picks at the same time as quirky little one-offs made locally or sourced through fair-trade channels? Where else can you get the attention and the advice?

Get to know your local shopkeepers and they’ll set aside big brother’s must-have for you as soon as it comes in. Take little sister along and see what catches her eye. Great service, minimal travel costs, no delivery charges, and you might even have time for coffee with a friend if you plan it well enough.

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Alhambra Home & Garden

148 Kirkdale, London SE26 4BB Spanish homeware, unique gifts for adults and kids and a secret garden tearoom serving tapas and cake Crafts workshops and children’s parties, too!

Original gifts galore, packed into a bustling, busy shop. Owner Rebecca has filled her shelves to bursting with wonderful lavender doorstops, Snapdragon handbag mirrors and phone cosies, unique mosaic mirrors, fabulous Spanish rugs, throws and ceramics, funky Mexican cushions, tasty paella kits and organic Spanish ingredients, handmade hats and bags, designer jewellery from local ladies Bizou, quirky knitted toys, splendid soaps and cracking Christmas gift-baskets.

The shop hosts regular craft workshops for adults and is holding a shopping soiree on 3 December - see our What’s On pages or call in to the shop at 148 Kirkdale, Sydenham SE25 4BB, 020 3417 6385, www.alhambrahome.co.uk.

Ottie and the bea Everyone’s talking about the exciting new children’s shop at Blackheath Royal Standard. With a modern take on traditional toys and games, Ottie and Bea provides creative and imaginative gifts to suit all price ranges, and specialises in having fun with creative workshops and storytelling, set with a wonderfully theatrical backdrop.

The shop is open from 9am-5pm on weekdays and until 5.30pm on Saturdays, at 12 Old Dover Road, Blackheath Royal Standard SE3, 020 8465 5318, www.ottieandthebea.co.uk and on Facebook.

Local Shops

020 3417 6385 www.alhambrahome.co.uk

Here are our favourites (tell them we sent you):

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2nd Impressions, 10 Montpelier Vale, Blackheath, 020 8852 6192 Art Stationers and Toyshop, 31 Dulwich Village, 020 8693 5938 Beckenham Toyshop, 226 High Street, Beckenham, 020 8650 5355 Education Interactive, 10 Staplehurst Road, Hither Green, 020 8318 6380 Green Baby, 52 Greenwich Church Street, 020 8858 6690 Just Williams, 105 Grove Vale, East Dulwich, 020 8299 3444 Just Williams, 18 Half Moon Lane, Herne Hill, 020 7733 9995 Ottie and the Bea, 12 Old Dover Road, Blackheath Royal Standard, 020 8465 5318 Soup Dragon, 106 Lordship Lane, East Dulwich, 020 8693 5575

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Beckenham Bookshop, 42 High Street, Beckenham, 020 8650 9744 Bookseller Crow, 50 Westow Street, Crystal Palace, 020 8771 8831 Dulwich Books, 3 Croxted Road, West Dulwich, 020 8670 1920 Kirkdale Bookshop, 272 Kirkdale, Sydenham, 020 8778 4701 Review, 131 Bellenden Road, Peckham, 020 7639 7400 Tales on Moon Lane, 25 Half Moon Lane, Herne Hill, 020 7274 5759 Village Books, 1d Calton Avenue, Dulwich Village, 020 8693 2808

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Love me again Love Me Again’s new Christmas stock is full of perfect presents for young boys and girls. There’s the ever popular Sophie la Giraffe, the teething toy that’s already soothed 20 million babies. Babies Go CDs are a great gift for parents and children alike, with classics by the likes of Coldplay, Take That and Michael Jackson reborn as modern lullabies. Boys will love the wooden toy garage fully equipped with three floors of parking space, an elevator tower, helipad, gas station and car.

And not to forget the all time favourite, micro scooter, now available in blue and pink.

Little picture company The Little Picture Company is a magical world of art, filled with lasting treasures to inspire your child’s natural imagination.

Offering exquisite hand-finished limited edition and original artwork to decorate your child’s nursery or bedroom, the collection also makes a truly unique and timeless gift for new babies, birthdays, christenings and naming ceremonies.

Prints are beautifully wrapped, ready for you to slide into your favourite frame! Their artwork is printed to a range of environmentally friendly papers (including bamboo) and printed with animal-friendly inks.

Choose from their extensive online gallery or contact them directly to arrange a personalised commission, www.thelittlepicturecompany.org, 07590 607424.

A gift of learning If you’d rather have gardening know-how than bubble bath or a new nightie this year - or know someone else in the same boat; a gardening gift voucher could bring a bloom to your borders.

Plews Gardens Design offer gardening tutorials as an ideal gift for individuals or small groups, where the ‘classroom’ is your own garden, and the ‘lessons’ are in increasing your knowledge and pleasure of your own space. The range of courses include: The Edible Garden, The Practical Garden, and The Low Maintenance Garden, with a flexible choice of modules and sessions ranging from two hours to half a day.

For information, visit www.plewsgardendesign.co.uk or call 020 8289 8086.

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gardening tutorials garden design and consultancy Tel: 020 8289 8086 or 0777 6237288

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Fourway Pharmacy 12 Half Moon Lane, Herne Hill, London SE24 9HU • Moltex, Nature, Bambo and Tushies eco-friendly nappies • Buggiboards • Baby passport photos • Green toiletries, homeopathy, aromatherapy • Friendly and free health advice

Special offer!

Free pack of eco-friendly nappies when renting a TENS machine for labour!

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Couture cookies and cakes The Couture Cookie Shop’s new range of baked treats for the festive season are bold and bright in design, come in gorgeous gift packaging and can be personalised for loved ones. A rich fruit cake with your family name in print, Christmas cookies each embossed with the names of the children or a box of yuletide cupcakes for a special friend would all make special gifts this season. Have a colourful Christmas with a funky flower cake, retro red gingerbread men and twinkling stars on your cupcakes.

Best of all, these stunning edible creations are made with organic ingredients, no chemicals or preservatives, and taste even better than they look.

Order yours online at www.thecouturecookieshop.co.uk. Orders for Christmas close on Friday 10th December so book early to avoid disappointment.

Advent fairs Of course, ‘tis also the season for Christmas Fairs. Make a day of it and pick up unique gifts while winning a raffle or two and munching on home made cakes in aid of a local cause, while your children make decorations for your tree. See our What’s On pages for dates and details.

Beautiful & natural family photography, a perfect Christmas gift.

Call: 07747 795 407 Mention ‘Families’ for 15% discount!

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Alhambra Home & Garden, 148 Kirkdale, Sydenham, 020 3417 6385 Biff Childrenswear, 43 Dulwich Village. 020 8299 0911 Bunka, 4 Dartmouth Road, Forest Hill, 020 8291 4499 Dulwich Trader, 9 Croxted Road, West Dulwich, 020 8761 3457 Ed Warehouse, 1 Zenoria Street, East Dulwich, 020 8693 3033 Hope & Greenwood sweetshop, 20 Northcross Road, East Dulwich, 020 8693 9010 Jumping Bean, 45 Honor Oak Park, Forest Hill, 020 8314 4747 Jumping Bean, 47 High Street Beckenham, 020 8650 5889 Love Me Again, 37 Staplehurst Road, Lee, 020 8244 0172 Melange Chocolate Shop, 184 Bellenden Road, Peckham, 07722 650711 Moe’s Potting Shed, 109 Rosendale Road, West Dulwich SE21, 020 8761 2600 Smash Bang Wallop, 85 Church Road, Crystal Palace, 020 8771 5517 South of the River, 56 Westow Street, Crystal Palace, 020 8653 1669 Stardust, 294 Milkwood Road, Herne Hill, 020 7737 0199 Tomlinsons, 89 Dulwich Village, 020 8299 1260 Willow, 33 North Cross Road, East Dulwich, 020 8693 8292

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www.peternorthall.com A brand new shop for children creative and imaginative games, toys, party essentials, cups and plates, books, clothes and so much more regular storytelling and creative workshops “Welcome to Ottie and the Bea... not only does it look great...it is great.

I’m going to be shopping a lot... wonderful pressies” Facebook review

12 Old Dover Road Blackheath Royal Standard London SE3 7BT 020 8465 5318 e: shop@ottieandthebea.co.uk

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The Great Gift Guide

by Holly Wadsworth-Hill

THE NIGHTS have drawn in, there’s already a chill in the air and there’s more than one kind of wrapping-up on everyone’s mind. It can only mean one thing... Christmas is on its way.

With the big family get-together to look forward to, our fun-filled guide to all things festive will help make this year a Christmas to remember...

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Recent economic difficulties have triggered a new dawn of consumerism. Many of us are now concentrating on quality purchases that will stand the test of time. Nostalgia has unveiled tradition as the new vogue and whilst the latest crazes and popular characters certainly have their place, children are arguably more demanding and harder to please than ever before. There’s a reason why some of the old favourites are resurfacing and proving their worth to a new generation of inquisitive minds. Children like to be entertained but they thrive on interaction, they will happily watch but they learn quicker from doing, they benefit from competition but they enjoy team work. Classic toys are all this and much more and they really do have timeless appeal. With that in mind this year, why not focus on something they will love this Christmas but will treasure for many more to come.

Hamleys tale Stuck on the basics or searching for finishing touches? Take inspiration from the world’s most famous toy store.

Hamleys was established by Cornishman William Hamley, in London in 1760. Today it remains the world’s most wonderful toy shop, synonymous with theatre, magic and entertainment.

Here are their recommendations for Christmas presents that will light up little faces this year:

Boys of all ages need to be kept busy and love fun and games that they can really get stuck into. If he can burn off some energy, create mess and make some noise, he’ll be in his element!

Jet Plane Set. The Playmobil Jet Plane Set is great for developing thinking processes and encouraging creative play.

This exciting Playmobil play set is a hit with boys and girls alike. £55.

Wooden Garage. This brightly coloured garage has three levels, multi-storey graphics and realistic features throughout. There are loads of traditional role-play games and adventures to be had. £65.

T is for trouble and toddlers

Baby’s first Christmas Latest additions may be slightly oblivious to the seasonal chaos but you’ll remember their first Christmas forever and will be keen to make it extra special.

Nothing says ‘I love you’ like a keepsake or something they can cherish for years to come.

My First Dolly will be loved by all. She is so squeezably soft that little arms will adore snuggling up to her. Dressed beautifully, she has wild hair that little hands will love to touch and tug. £19.

Alphabet Blocks. Painted with bright colours, clear letters and imaginative illustrations these wooden blocks can help little children when learning letters, colours and much more besides. £17.

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Busy little hands are into all things naughty as well as nice, so classic toys should be at the top of the list. The educational benefits and development of imagination and play skills from these toys are extensive but cleverly masked behind the colour, fun and excitement that toddlers crave. And they’re both made from fsc wood.

Teaching Clock. Hamleys colourful Fun to Learn Teaching Clock helps teach time, number and letter recognition, as well as developing motor and problem solving skills through play. £14.

Wooden London Bus. The wheels on the bus go round and round! The top of this traditional big red bus opens to reveal 24 little wooden passengers and one cheerful driver.

Great for developing hand to eye co-ordination. £32.50.

Sugar and spice and all things nice - most of the time anyway! Creativity is a girl’s best friend; indulge her imagination with everything from dressing-up costumes, role-play sets and arts and crafts.

Dolly Tea Set. Time for tea, anyone?

This enchanting Hamleys tea set comes in a cute carry case, so it’s perfect for taking to friends’ houses and keeps everything safe and tidy when little ones aren’t busy entertaining. £10.

My Ballerina Doll.

My Little Ballerina Doll is so pretty, soft and cuddly, she’s perfect for hugs. From the Sweet Peas collection, the doll is great for encouraging imagination and nurturing role-play skills. £12.

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It’s all about quality time...

‘Tis the season to spend with your loved ones: keep things merry with fun and games for the whole family.

Games Chest. Enjoy a gaming adventure with this classic wooden gaming chest. Open the sliding drawers to reveal a smorgasbord of fun with 10 of the world’s greatest games. Includes chess, mancala, backgammon, solitaire, tic-tac-toe and lots more to entertain the very young and most experienced young-at-heart. £60.

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WIN WIN WIN! To celebrate 250 years of The Finest Toys in the World, Hamleys have teamed up with Families South East to give you the chance to win £250 of Hamleys vouchers.

To enter, log on to www.familiesse.co.uk and go to Competitions at the top.

Vouchers can be used online at www.hamleys.com or in one of their UK stores. The competition closing date is 8 December. See online for full Terms and Conditions.

Family Legal Services To arrange an initial free consultation please ring

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Checklist Assuming you’ve got the obvious like the turkey and tree under control, this checklist covers the trimmings. Must-have ingredients for the perfect Christmas: Sellotape - yes, you probably did already buy some but no, it won’t be where you left it and it’s not likely to be enough Batteries of all shapes and sizes - no one wants a room full of redundant, lifeless toys on Christmas morning Carrot, mince pie and a tipple for Santa and his merry team of reindeer they’ll need it after months of preparation and expense Breakfast - toast doesn’t cut it on Christmas morning: stock up on their favourites and don’t forget some strong coffee beans for the bleary eyed adults Pen and paper to hand - Father Christmas may be the hero of the hour but don’t forget to note down family and friends who’ve also treated the little ones in preparation for the writing of...

Thank-you notes - try making your own from discarded wrapping paper - a great way to wind them down after all that excitement!

Post-party clean up ammunition - your house will probably be chaos within 10 minutes of children waking up on Christmas morning. Put it back together again for guests with a hefty supply of recycling bags etc.

Music classes for babies and young children! ®

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Action songs and rhymes Music and movement Fun with percussion Musical games

For classes in: Blackheath & Greenwich, Dulwich & Herne Hill, Tel: 020 8764 5185 Forest Hill, Sydenham and Crystal Palace Tel: 020 8699 0977 Beckenham, Bromley, Chislehurst & West Wickham Tel: 020 8777 6700

Since 1993 thousands of children across the UK have grown up with Monkey Music. Our unique teaching curriculum was written by classically trained musicians, and introduces music to very young children in a way they can easily understand and enjoy.

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Rock ‘n’ roll - from 3 months Heigh ho – from 12 months Jiggety jig – 2 & 3 year olds Ding dong – 3 & 4 year olds

Top 10 Toys for Christmas 2010 We know a thing or two about toys but if you want guaranteed smiles or favourite aunt/ uncle status, you can’t go wrong tracking down something from this list. Be warned though, these toys are set to fly from the shelves quicker than Santa’s sleigh, so don’t miss out!

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Toy Story 3 Buzz Lightyear Action Figure

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Dr Who Sonic Screwdriver

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Ben 10 Ultimate Alien Disc Ultimatrix

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Beyblade Metal Fusion Super Vortex Battle Set

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Barbie Video Girl

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VTech Storio Animated Phonics Book

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Kung Zhu Hamsters

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Armouron Action Set

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VTech Kidizoom Video Camera

10. Monopoly Revolutions Board Game

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Spotlight on

Stagecoach 2010 HAS BEEN another great year for Stagecoach Dulwich with over 230 students attending classes in dance, drama and singing every weekend.

Jonny Clines has now been the Principal for five years and has been very encouraged by the resilience of the school in these less than ideal economic times.

When we caught up with him, he told us: “Seeing the students grow up with Stagecoach has been a great source of satisfaction for me. The school continues to be popular with all age groups and I am thrilled with the commitment and loyalty of the students.”

Stagecoach has produced some great shows this year. In the summer term, all 150 of the main school students performed in ‘Sister Act’ The students loved dressing up as nuns and gangsters and the shows were all entertaining and great fun.

On stage in the west end

Holiday workshops

Places are available in some classes for the spring term from January. For Dulwich, call Jonny on 0845 055 6368 or see www.stagecoach.co.uk/dulwich for full details; and see the ad below for more local schools.

Stagecoach Theatre Arts Schools run across the UK, providing weekly classes in singing, dance and drama for 4-18 year-olds. They also run an agency for young performers, producing a Spotlight directory which is accessed by casting professionals. Find out more at www.stagecoach.co.uk.

During the Easter holidays over 100 students performed in ‘ABBA - Thank you for the music’, with another stage-stomping production of ‘Hairspray - the musical’ in the summer holidays.

In June, Dulwich was one of 16 Stagecoach schools taking part in a special showcase performance at Her Majesty’s Theatre (the home of Phantom Of The Opera). They rehearsed for just one hour a week (for nine weeks) to create ‘Good and Evil’.

Using three songs from the Broadway musical ‘Jeckyll and Hyde’, the performers staged a dramatic and difficult piece that focussed on the terror and suspicion caused by the murderous Mr Hyde in Victorian London.

Feedback from parents was overwhelming, and students were fascinated by a behind-the-scenes tour to see how it all came together on the day.

Theatre trips Regular theatre trips also continue to be popular with students. In June 70 students went to see ‘Sister Act’ and in November they had fantastic seats for ‘Legally Blonde’.

Jonny sees this as an important part of the Stagecoach experience: “The students are always fired up by seeing a live West End show and they get to see all of the things we talk to them about put into practice.”

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Act, sing and dance at your local Stagecoach Here’s a way to spend weekends that’ll have 4-16 year olds buzzing. Enrol them in your local Stagecoach Theatre Arts school where they learn to act, sing and dance.

The skills they learn aren’t just for the Stage. Our students grow in confidence and self-esteem …..Skills for Life!

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Christmas and Holiday Workshops STUDIO FILM SCHOOL TV WORKSHOP 11 December, ALDERBROOK PRIMARY SCHOOL, Oldridge Road, Balham SW12, 020 7538 8521, www.studiofilmschool.co.uk Spend a day making a Christmas Special TV programme. Find out the secrets behind your favourite shows, learn multi-camera filming techniques as you create your TV set and run your own live broadcast. Ages 7 to 14 years, 10am-4pm, ÂŁ45 per child, ÂŁ40 for siblings.

ALADDIN WITH PERFORM 20-22 December, St STEPHEN’S MILLENNIUM HALL, College Road, Dulwich SE21, 0845 400 1277, www.perform.org.uk Take off on the adventure of a lifetime with Perform’s experienced theatre professionals. The three day workshop will combine live original music,

inspirational dance and quick-witted improvisation, with a a colourful mini performance on the final day. Ages 4-8, 10am-2pm each day.

DRAMA, MUSIC AND DANCE WITH THEATREBUGS 20+21 December, BLACKHEATH, EAST DULWICH and CLAPHAM, 020 7350 2995, www.theatrebugs.co.uk Fun-filled, half day adventures - jam packed with drama, music, dance and arts and crafts. Ages 31â „2 to 8 years. ÂŁ26 per child, sibling discount available.

20 December in Blackheath 9am-12pm, and East Dulwich 1.30-4.30pm.

21 December in Clapham.

Diary Dates for Grownups SE LONDON MUMPRENEURS EVENTS 07909 691605, www.selondonmumpreneurs.blogspot.com, email clare@motherslife.co.uk 9 November, HOW TO GET MEDIA COVERAGE FOR YOUR BUSINESS. Experienced journalist Nikki Spencer will examine opportunities available locally, nationally and in cyberspace and include practical advice on writing press releases and approaching publications. Robina Cowan from Families South East magazine will share her wisdom on what editors are looking for.

10am-2.30pm, The Rosendale, West Dulwich, ÂŁ55 includes a light lunch and tea or coffee; book first.

16 November, NETWORKING LUNCH with Sell It Mama. A networking lunch for mothers in business, offering the chance to make new business contacts, tap into the experiences of other like-minded mums and hear from speaker Galia Orme, founder of Choc Chick Raw Chocolate Ltd. 11.30am2pm, Crystal Palace, ÂŁ25 includes a two-course meal and tea or coffee, book first.

25 November, SOCIAL MEDIA WORKSHOP. Kate Spiers, founder of Wisdom London, will demystify the world of Facebook, blogs, Twitter and Tumblr, with practical insights about how it can be applied to your business. 11am-2.30pm in Lee, ÂŁ45 including a light lunch and tea or coffee; book first.

1 December, NETWORKING LUNCH with award winning guest speaker Sally Preston, Founder of Babylicious - frozen baby food. Make business contacts, tap into the experiences of other like-minded mums and hear from inspiring mumpreneur Sally Preston. 11.30 - 2pm in Blackheath, ÂŁ25 including a two-course meal; book first.

MASTERCHEF LIVE 2010 12-14 November, OLYMPIA, Hammersmith Road W14 8UX, 0844 581 1361, www.londonbbcgoodfoodshow.com See MasterChef presenters Greg Wallace and John Torode in action, along with celebrity chefs Michel Roux Jr, Rick Stein and James Martin, plus this year’s celebrity winner Lisa Faulkner. The three day feast of food will feature a MasterChef invention test, celebrity cook-offs, a huge farmers’ market with over 100 producers, recipes to take home and try, hot tips and the chance to buy yummy gifts and the latest kitchen gadgets.

Open 9am-7pm Friday and Saturday, 9.30am-5.30pm Sunday. Tickets from ÂŁ20.50 in advance.

MIDCENTURY MODERN 14 November, DULWICH COLLEGE, Dulwich Common SE21, www.modernshows.com Artists Dinos Chapman and Mike Nelson and furniture’s finest Sheridan Coakley, Matthew Hilton and Russell Pinch shop here. Top collectors and curators like Camilla Nicholls and Bruce Haines swell the ranks. The original

show gets bigger and bigger with 80+ dealers and designers showing a mixture of vintage and modern that has design aficionados drooling.

Because the organisers keep prices low for exhibitors and sellers, it’s the only event on the design calendar the design world has to pay to get into but they pay with a smile on their face and a flick of their difficult glasses, bless ‘em. 10am-4pm, ÂŁ7 admission, accompanied under 14s free, free parking.

CHRISTMAS CRAFT WORKSHOPS FOR ADULTS ALHAMBRA, 148 Kirkdale, Sydenham SE26, 020 3417 6385, www.alhambrahome.co.uk 15+22 November, CHRISTMAS MOSAICS. Make up to three unique Christmas gifts with Sally Earlham. In this two-part evening workshop, you will have the opportunity to create some smaller pieces, including small framed mirrors in a variety of pretty shapes, returning for the second evening to grout your creation. ÂŁ40 for both sessions; book first.

30 November, JEWELLERY MAKING. Join Bizou in making a beaded necklace and matching earrings for a loved on. 7-9pm, ÂŁ30 includes materials: book first.

We are looking for children between the ages of 2 and 12 years to assist us in a range of fun activities investigating how children see.

The Child Vision Lab is based at the UCL Institute of Ophthalmology in Central London.

We will refund any travelling costs up to ÂŁ20.

020 7608 6819 www.childvisionlab.org

WARDROBE RECYCLE 20 November, CHURCH OF THE GOOD SHEPHERD HALL, Handen Road, London SE12 8NR, www.thewifeswife.co.uk A new winter wardrobe without painful prices - what a good idea. Diary date Wardrobe Recycle, where you can pick up womenswear and accessories for less, sell on your own unworn or barely worn items - or both. A new wardrobe for winter, or a Christmas outfit in just two hours without the high street crowds! 2-4pm, admission ÂŁ1, creche available, register first online if you would like to be a seller.

LOOSE ENDS CHRISTMAS CRAFTS 25 November, St MICHAEL’S CHURCH HALL, Pond Road, Blackheath SE3, 020 8858 8889, www.looseends.co Behind every creative child is a mum or dad, desperate to have a go at cutting, sticking or stitching. For all you closet crafters, a new organisation called Loose Ends is running craft sessions and classes for busy people in southeast London.

First up is their Christmas crafts evening. In a one-off session of two and half hours you will be able to make a folding bag using a sewing machine, lovely fabrics, ribbons and buttons; needlefelted Christmas decorations; embroider a hand sewn piece to frame or to make into a brooch; or a crochet Christmas tree - and if you are a quick learner you will make Christmas tree bunting.

The sessions are small and friendly and creativity will no doubt be helped by the glass of wine and artisan cheese halfway through the evening.

7.30-10pm, ÂŁ25 includes materials, book first.

NCT NEARLY NEW SALE 27 November, St LAURENCE CENTRE, 37 Bromley Road, Catford SE6, www.nct.org.uk/in-your-area/lewisham Save money and stock up on high-quality second hand items including toys, books, buggies, cots, children’s clothing, maternity wear, games, and much more. Organised by and for Lewisham NCT branch. 11am-12.30pm, admission £1.

CHRISTMAS SHOPPING EVENING 3 December, ALHAMBRA, 148 Kirkdale, Sydenham SE26, 020 3417 6385, www.alhambrahome.co.uk A chance to browse and buy goodies including hand made soaps, ceramics, jewellery, children’s gifts, wall tiles, extra virgin olive oils and more, with complimentary tapas and sangria, with live music and special offers. 6-9pm.

NCT NEARLY NEW SALE: TOYS AND EQUIPMENT 4 December, St JOHN’S CHURCH HALLS, Eden Park Avenue, Beckenham, Kent Bargain priced bedding, maternity and nursery equipment, playpens, cots, stairgates, prams, pushchairs, buggies, plus toys, games, puzzles, books and children’s CDs and DVDs. Organised by Beckenham and Borders NCT branch. 10.30am-12noon, entry £1.

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Festive Fairs & School Fundraisers ST JOHN’S CHRISTMAS FAIR 26 November, ST JOHN’S SCHOOL, Maple Road, Penge Christmas gifts, cards, jewellery and toys from local traders. 7-9pm.

DECK THE HALLS CHRISTMAS FAIR 28 November, DULWICH COLLEGE, College Road SE21 The Dulwich College ‘Deck the Halls’ Christmas Fair has become one of the largest and most popular Christmas fairs in south London. Choose your Christmas presents and treats from over 100 stalls offering quality and original festive gifts for every budget, get your festive food and treats from the food hall and enjoy a variety of entertainment for all the family.

Whether it be a visit to Santa in his workshop, or watching a rugby match whilst enjoying hog roast, there’s something for everyone. 11am-4pm, all welcome.

MILLENNIUM PRIMARY SCHOOL CHRISTMAS FAIR 3 December, MILLENNIUM PRIMARY SCHOOL, 50 John Harrison Way, Greenwich Peninsula SE10 0BG Funfair rides, Santa’s grotto, craft and activity stalls, a BBQ, grand finale fireworks and much more. 3.30-5.30pm.

STAPLEHURST ROAD CHRISTMAS FAIR 4 December, Staplehurst Road, Hither Green SE13 Lots to see and experience, including delicious food from the new Italian Deli, lovely cakes from the ever popular You Don’t Bring Me Flowers, and many interesting stalls selling unique last minute Christmas gifts. Love Me Again Kids Boutique and the Education Interactive shop will also be open for business. All from 10am, nearest train station Hither Green.

Events & Exhibitions EGYPTIAN BOOK OF THE DEAD 4 November - 6 March 2011, BRITISH MUSEUM, Great Russell Street, London, WC1B 3DG, 020 7323 8000, www.britishmuseum.org Follow the ancient Egyptians’ journey from death to the afterlife in this fascinating exhibition. Exhibits include beautifully illustrated spells on papyrus and linen, amulets, jewellery, statues, mummies and coffins. Some of these objects are more than 3500 years old and the ancient Egyptians believed that they would help them on their journey to the afterlife. Enjoy an introductory film for young visitors, an interactive family trail through the trials of the underworld and discover more with the exhibition family multimedia guide. A full family events programme accompanies the exhibition. Prebooking recommended on 020 7323 8181. Under 16s free with an adult.

FAMILY EVENTS AT THE IWM IMPERIAL WAR MUSEUM, Lambeth Road, London SE1, 020 7416 5000, www.iwm.org.uk Museum open daily 10am-6pm.

7, 13 + 14 November, MUD, BLOOD AND POPPYCOCK. Find out what it was like to serve in the First World War by examining typical objects from the Museum’s Collections. As part of the ‘What is War?’ informal learning series this session will also tackle the difficult subject of memory and conflict, challenging some of the traditional myths of the war. 11amnoon and 2-4pm, free. Suitable for all ages with parental supervision.

7, 13 + 14 November, POPPY MAKING. Make your own commemorative poppy while discussing the concepts of the cost of war and remembrance. Part of the ‘What is War?’ informal learning series. 11am and 2pm starts, free. Suitable for all ages with parental supervision.

flypast. The procession starts at 11am from Mansion House, travelling down Cheapside to St Paul’s Cathedral for a blessing, then on to the Strand. The show finishes at 5pm with a spectacular fireworks display on the Thames between Blackfriars and Waterloo bridges.

DISCOVER DOGS 13+14 November, EARLS COURT 1, West Cromwell Road, 0844 581 1381, www.discoverdogs.org.uk, www.ykc.org.uk A weekend of dog-lovers’ fun, with grooming and handling competitions, a ‘dogstable’ course, superhero fancy dress, agility challenges, plus displays from charities such as Hearing Dogs for Deaf People, Canine Partners, and Dogs of the Disabled giving visitors an understanding of how dogs really enrich lives. Open 10am-5pm each day, under 12s free, 12-15 year-olds £7, adults £10.

LEE GREEN OPEN STUDIOS 13-14 and 20-21 November, VARIOUS VENUES, www.leegreenopenstudios.com A record number of 50 fabulous artists are opening their doors to the community, showing and selling a wide range of media including painting, jewellery, photography, ceramics, textiles, prints and sculpture. Visitors will have the opportunity to buy unique locally made Christmas presents, meet with artists working in the area and find out about their artwork and techniques. Talk to the artist; be inspired to be creative yourself, or commission your own individual piece of art.

On 13 November the Stark Gallery is running children’s painting sessions from 12noon to 2pm, and on 14 and 21 November Leegate Community Centre are running knitting and crochet tuition from 4.306pm. Local cafes are also exhibiting samples of artists’ work, providing rest and refreshment in between visits to studios and houses.

For the full line up, go to the event website or pick up a leaflet from any Lewisham library.

NATIONAL MARITIME MUSEUM Until January 2011 THE MINISTRY OF FOOD, until January 2011.

Seventy years ago the wartime government announced the introduction of food rationing - a control that was to remain in force for the next fourteen years. The British public adapted to a world of food shortages by lending a hand on the land and being frugal and inventive with food.

The exhibition features a wartime greenhouse, a 1940s grocer’s shop, and a typical kitchen complete with larder, gas cooker, and an ample stock of economy recipes, demonstrating that growing your own food, eating seasonal fruit and vegetables, reducing imports, recycling and healthy nutrition were just as topical in 1940 as they are today. Adults £4.95, children £2.50, family ticket £13.

LORD MAYOR’S SHOW 13 November, CENTRAL LONDON, www.lordmayorsshow.org An annual procession of groups from all over the world alongside military bands, charities, community projects and more, including a military

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NATIONAL MARITIME MUSEUM and QUEEN’S HOUSE, Greenwich SE10, 020 8858 4422, www.nmm.ac.uk 13 November, Diwali celebrations. A dynamic afternoon of music, dance and creative workshops for all the family, with a vibrant procession from the museum to the Royal Observatory. 11.30am-4pm, all ages, free.

Saturdays, meet a character from the past and take part in an exciting performance that brings maritime history to life. On the hour from noon to 3pm, ages 6+, free.

Sundays, discover stories of exploration and adventure on the high seas and make your mark through design, craft, illustration and music. All ages, 11.30am-1.30pm and 2-4pm.

MUSEUM OF LONDON MUSEUM OF LONDON, London Wall EC2Y 5HN, 020 7001 9844, www.museumoflondon.org.uk Museum open daily 10am-6pm, admission free. Regular programmes of weekend and holiday events and workshops help visitors find out more about London’s history, covering events such as the Great Plague,

Londoners’ jobs and occupations, and Roman life.

Wednesdays, MINI MOLES BABIES GROUP. Learn, play and explore together with other babies aged 6 months to walking and their carers.

Sessions include multi-sensory play, rhymes and songs. From 11am.

14 November, SMELLY ROMANS. A Roman cookbook was full of delicious foods such as stuffed dormice and milky snails! Join the art workshop and fill a Roman larder with spices from all over the world to take home. 12.30-2.30pm, drop in.

21 November, MARCHING ORDERS. Meet a company of Roman soldiers and take a closer look at their clothes, armour and way of life.

Ages 5+, 11.30am-4pm, free.

4-22 December, VICTORIAN SANTA’S GROTTO. Meet Father Christmas in his secret grotto in 19th century Sailortown. Tell him about your seasonal hopes and dreams then take home a special gift to kick off the festivities. There will also be a chance to have your photo taken with the man in red himself, which will be mounted as a festive keepsake to remember your visit. Book first. Grotto entry £5 includes a present (photograph extra)

MUSEUM OF LONDON DOCKLANDS MUSEUM OF LONDON DOCKLANDS, West India Quay, London E14, 020 7001 9844, www.museumoflondon.org.uk/docklands Thursdays, UNDER 5s STORYTIME. Meet in the galleries for stories, music and fun every Thursday during term time, and play in the interactive Mudlark gallery. From 3pm.

15 November, MINI MUDLARKS. Sing, rhyme and play together in the Mudlarks gallery. The session is for babies aged 6 months to walking and their carers, and offers stories and songs. From 12.45pm.

20 November, A DAY ON OLD LONDON BRIDGE. Enjoy an action-packed tale and recreate the sights, sounds and movements in the crowded thoroughfare of old London Bridge. Ages 4+, 12.301.15pm and 2.30-3.15pm.

MUSEUM OF CHILDHOOD V&A MUSEUM OF CHILDHOOD, Cambridge Heath Road E2 9PA, 020 8983 5200, www.museumofchildhood.org.uk Open 10am-5.45pm Mondays to Sundays, admission free.

Lots to do for children with trails, tours and creative Art Smarts, and a fabulous collection of toys from the past.

Until 14 November, BLING. Take a closer look at the diversity of jewellery in east London, and discover how the ornaments we use to decorate our bodies often have great personal and cultural significance. Every piece of jewellery tells a particular story and what we value is highly subjective. Gold and diamonds make expensive statements about material value whereas an inexpensive trinket might have some profound sentimental value associated with a place, a person or a time in our life.

Until 2 January 2011, DOLL FACE. A series of portraits by photographer Craig Deane, depicting a variety of dolls from the Museum’s extensive behind the scenes collection.

Until 9 January, CUT IT, FOLD IT, BUILD IT WITH PAPER. Drawn from Robert Freidus’ extensive collection this exhibition features nearly 200 examples of architectural paper models. There are architectural paper models produced specifically for adults, a model town, and paper models produced for children.

Until 20 March, LIVING WITH AUTISM. A series of small displays exploring some of the more challenging aspects of contemporary childhood, bringing them to greater attention. Living with Autism is a thought-provoking display taking a look at life through the eyes of children with autism, in collaboration with the National Autistic Society.

WINTER WONDERLAND 19 November - 4 January, HYDE PARK, London, 0871 620 7064, www.hydeparkwinterwonderland.com London’s most dazzling winter event is back for the fourth year, with magical treats for all ages.

You’ll find London’s largest ice rink, a Christmas themed Zippos Circus, giant observation wheel, roller coaster rides, hundreds of wooden chalets filled with unusual and handmade gifts, a ‘Cirque d’Hiver’ show with contortionists, Wheel of Death and battle of fire, a Rock and Roll Circus and festive, continental food stalls. Father Christmas and his entertaining elves will be in his grotto from noon to 6pm each day for a free visit including a special gift. Winter Wonderland is open from 10am-10pm daily except Christmas Day, admission free. Tickets for shows, performances, skating and the observation wheel can be bought in advance.

LEEDS CASTLE FESTIVE FAIR 20 + 21 November, LEEDS CASTLE, Maidstone, Kent ME17 1PL, 01622 765400, www.leeds-castle.com An experience for the whole family to enjoy, set in the picturesque grounds of the historic castle near Maidstone. Over 150 exhibitors showcase their wares in a heated and carpeted marquee, with stocking fillers and gift ideas, crafts and fashion, plus festive food and drink.

Children can make a Christmas card while parents browse the stalls.

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SANTA COMES TO ORPINGTON 27 November - 24 December, WALNUTS SHOPPING CENTRE, Orpington, Kent Parading through the High Street at 10.30am on 27 November, Santa will be pulled along the high street in his carriage by two magical unicorns before arriving at the Walnuts Shopping Centre. While the unicorns take a rest in the Market Square, Santa will unveil his magical Grotto, ready to welcome children and give each one a small gift.

Santa’s Grotto will be open from 10am-4pm every weekend until 19 December and daily until Christmas Eve, admission free.

1-24 December, HEVER CASTLE, near Edenbridge, Kent TN8 7NG, 01732 865224, www.hevercastle.co.uk.

Christmas bookings 01732 861701 or email bookings@hevercastle.col.uk Wednesdays to Sundays, 10.30am-4pm, castle and garden admission £7 children, £13 adults, £33 families.

Step through the wardrobe and join Peter, Susan, Edmund and Lucy in the magical world of Narnia. The castle will be sumptuously decorated with sparkling lights and welcoming log fires, with Mr Tumnus, Aslan and the White Witch in a series of tableaux recounting the adventures of Narnia.

Weekend GROTTO. Walk through frosty woodland pathways to find Father Christmas in his snow-covered grotto, where elves will be busy creating toys and little donkey William will take smaller children on a ride. Book first, £10 per child includes a gift of the same value.

2 December, CHRISTMAS CRAFT FAIR selling beautiful handmade Christmas gifts including jewellery, accessories, womenswear and childrenswear. 10.30am-3.30pm, admission £3.

VICTORIAN CHRISTMAS 5 December, CHIDDINGSTONE CASTLE, Hill Hoath Road, near Edenbridge, Kent TN8 7AD, 01892 870347, www.chiddingstonecastle.org.uk Find out how the Victorians celebrated Christmas and discover the different traditions of the rich and the poor households. There will be a variety of traditional Victorian games and yuletide storytelling, including the tale of Santa Claus, which became popular in England during the 1870s. In the castle’s activity rooms children can test their creative skills through arts and crafts workshops, and write their very own letter to Santa Claus in time for his visit on Christmas Eve. 11am-5pm, admission £4 children, £7 adults, £19.50 families.

FATHER CHRISTMAS AND SEASONAL CHALLENGE 5, 11, 12, 18, and 19 December, BODIAM CASTLE, Bodiam, near Robertsbridge, East Sussex TN32 5UA, 01580 830196, www.national.trust.org.uk/bodiamcastle Take part in festive fun and games at Bodiam Castle and enjoy a private visit with Father Christmas in his medieval grotto. Tucked away at the heart of the castle, the unique grotto will be beautifully decorated with traditional decorations and soft sparkling lights to create a magical atmosphere for visitors. Inside, Father Christmas will be relaxing in his armchair, waiting patiently to meet all the good boys and girls and hear their Christmas wishes before giving them a special gift to take home. Outside the grotto, in the crisp winter air, children will love exploring the castle ruins with the castle’s seasonal challenge, which takes them on a festive adventure to track down the different clues hidden throughout. Castle admission £3.20 children, £6.40 adults, £17 families. Father Christmas visit £7.50 per child (includes entry); book first.

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LAPLAND UK 4-24 December, BEWL WATER ESTATE, near Tunbridge Wells, Kent, 0871 620 7063, www.laplanduk.co.uk Visit Father Christmas when Lapland comes to Kent. Visitors take a trip through an arctic wonderland with real reindeer and huskies, decorate gingerbread in Mother Christmas’ kitchen, send a postcard from the North Pole post office, work with elves in the toy factory, skate on ice, meet the mystical Sami people, and feast on warming snacks and meals.

A personalised visit to Father Christmas himself in his snowy forest home completes the unique journey, with a high quality gift to take home. Time slot tickets £44.50 - £62.50; book first.

D-DAY DUCK TOURS First Sunday of the month, from Chicheley Street SE1 (behind the London Eye), 020 7928 3132, www.londonducktours.co.uk London Duck Tours is launching a brand new land and river sightseeing tour. Using the actual ‘Duck’ vehicles built for D-day, the tours take passengers back in time to London’s home front during the Second World War, through London streets before splashing into the Thames. In a lively, entertaining and informative adventure suitable for all the family, a professional character tour guide will reveal the capital’s most important Second World War sights including the Cabinet War Rooms, Houses of Parliament, Downing Street, and Buckingham Palace.

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BANK OF ENGLAND MUSEUM FUN BANK OF ENGLAND MUSEUM, Threadneedle Street, London EC2R, 020 7601 5545, www.bankofengland.co.uk/museum The Bank of England Museum tells the story of the Bank of England from its foundation in 1694 to its role today as the UK’s central bank. Visitors can examine intricately-designed banknotes, feel the weight of a genuine gold bar and see THE pikes and muskets that were once used to defend the Bank. Children’s activity sheets provide fun for younger visitors. Open 10am-5pm Mondays to Fridays, admission free.

13 November, LORD MAYOR’S SHOW. Face painters bring Ratty, Mole, Badger and Toad to life, turning young visitors into the well known characters from The Wind in the Willows, a former Secretary of the Bank of England. 11am-5pm.

29 November - 3 December CHRISTMAS CALLIGRAPHY. A professional scribe will demonstrate different writing styles that can be used on Christmas cards and gift tags. 10.15am-1pm and 2-4.15pm.

GEFFRYE MUSEUM EVENTS GEFFRYE MUSEUM, 136 Kingsland Road, Shoreditch E2, 020 7739 9893, www.geffrye-museum.org.uk Museum open 10am-5pm Tuesdays to Saturdays, from noon Sundays.

Saturday Special workshops and quizzes inspire creativity and provide amusement for children on the first Saturday of every month.

10.30am-12.30pm & 2pm-4pm.

23 November - 2 January, CHRISTMAS PAST. Recapture the magic of Christmas with a walk through the museum’s eleven period rooms which are decorated in authentic festive style.

Discover some of the rich and colourful traditions and celebrations of Christmases past which are often forgotten amid the hubbub of the modern festive season.

From feasting, dancing and kissing under the mistletoe to playing parlour games, decorating the tree and throwing cocktail parties, the displays illustrate how Christmas has been celebrated in English middle-class homes from 1600 to the present day.

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FLORENCE NIGHTINGALE MUSEUM FLORENCE NIGHTINGALE MUSEUM, 2 Lambeth Palace Road, South Bank, London SE1, 020 7620 0347, www.florence-nightingale.co.uk Uncover the lady behind the legend on London’s South Bank. The museum presents a vivid retelling of Florence Nightingale’s life and how modern nursing began. The museum’s unparalleled collection features highlights such as Florence’s pet little owl Athena as well as her lamp and medicine chest from the Crimean War. Engaging interactive exhibits as well as regular contemporary art exhibitions enhance the experience, visitors even use stethoscopes to hear the audio tour. Admission £4.80 child, £5.80 adults, £16 families.

CHILDREN AT THE V&A V&A MUSEUM, Cromwell Road SW7 2RL, 020 7942 2000, www.vam.ac.uk/families Pick up a trail from the Information Desk and explore the museum through puzzles, drawing and observation. Suitable for 7-12 year-olds.

There are also hundreds of exciting hands-on exhibits containing plenty to touch and try out. Museum open 10am-5.45pm daily, admission free.

Saturday BACK-PACKS. Pick up a back pack and explore the museum with fantastic jigsaws, stories, puzzles and games. 10.30am-5pm.

7 November, UTTERLY CLARICE BEAN. Join Clarice on a journey through the museum and discover some mischievous ideas for a story.

Use your ideas and lots of imagination to create and illustrate your own story using cut-outs and drawing techniques. 10.30am-5pm, drop in.

14 November, FANCY FASHION. Choose your favourite outfit from the V&A collection and design a fancy accessory to complete your costume.

10.30am-5pm, drop in.

21 November, WALKING THE LINE. One thousand lines have escaped in the museum overnight! See if you can spot some lines in design and use your discoveries to create an imaginary door to a fantasy world made entirely of lines. 10.30am-5pm, drop in.

28 November, QUILTS, SILKS AND STORIES. Become a design detective and search the V&A for fun shapes and patterns, then design and create a textile square to add to the museum’s great story quilt.

10.30am-5pm, drop in.

HMS BELFAST HMS BELFAST, The Thames (between London Bridge and Tower Bridge, www.hmsbelfast.iwm.org.uk Open 10am-6pm, admission free for accompanied under 16s, £12.95 adults.

Until 31 December, LAUNCH! SHIPBUILDING THROUGH THE AGES. A family-oriented exhibition using hands-on and computerised interactive displays and engaging film and footage. Discover the techniques of shipbuilding, from the ‘age of sail’ to modern prefabrication methods. A tour of this complex and huge warship take visitors from the quarterdeck up to the top of her bridge and all the way down through her nine decks to her massive boiler and engine rooms, well below the ship’s waterline.

CHURCHILL WAR ROOMS CHURCHILL WAR ROOMS, Clive Steps, king Charles Street SW1, www.iwm.org.uk The Cabinet War Rooms were created in 1938, as the underground storage areas of the Office of Works Building in Whitehall were converted to house the central core of government and to become a military information centre, serving the Prime Minister and the Chiefs of Staff of

the air, naval and land forces. Intended as a temporary site, the rooms became operational on 27 August 1939, a week before the German invasion of Poland and Britain’s declaration of war. This ‘temporary’ but timely measure served as the central shelter for government and military strategists for the next six years. Open 9.30am-6pm, admission free for under 16s, £14.95 adults.

SEA LIFE LONDON AQUARIUM SEA LIFE LONDON AQUARIUM, County Hall, Southbank SE1, www.sealife.co.uk/london Journey across three continents and get up close and personal with over 3000 of the rainforests’ most famous and feared residents from a pair of 6ft West African dwarf crocodiles to a family of highly toxic poison arrow frogs and over 30 lethal piranhas. And as well as the exciting new Rainforests of the World, the Sea Life London Aquarium is home to thousands of marine creatures from every part of the world including 46 sharks. Admission £12.50 children, £17.50 adults.

Put on your best hat and gloves and take a spin on ice over the festive season. Most seasonal rinks offer family sessions with guided help if required, and a rinkside cafe to watch the world (and the skaters) go by. Timed tickets can be booked through TicketMaster on 0844 847 1707 or www.ticketmaster.co.uk NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM, 5 November - 9 January CANARY WHARF, 13 November - 20 February WESTFIELD, 13 November - 2 January HYDE PARK Winter Wonderland, 19 November - 4 January LONDON EYE, 20 November - 5 January SOMERSET HOUSE, 23 November - 23 January TOWER OF LONDON, 27 November - 9 January HAMPTON COURT, 27 November - 9 January, 0844 871 8815, www.hamptoncourticerink.com Somerset House

NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM, Cromwell Road, South Kensington SW7, 020 7942 5000, www.nhm.ac.uk Weekends and school holidays HANDS-ON NATURE: CORALS. Visit the handling trolley in ‘Lasting Impressions’ and take a closer look at some interesting specimens with the help of the museum’s science educators.

2-5pm, free.

13 November, ANIMAL VISION. An interactive show with live animals demonstrating how eye adaptations in animals such as snakes, iguanas and chameleons allow individuals to escape and locate prey. Find out how bees and butterflies use ultraviolet light. Families with children aged 7+, 10.30 and 11.30am, 1.30pm start, free.

28 November, CRAFTY NATURE: OCEAN MAMMALS. Roll up your sleeves and join artists for exciting craft workshops in the Mammals gallery. Use interesting materials to make fun creations based on natural history themes. Under 7s, 11am-1pm and 2-5pm, free.

28 November, NATURAL PUPPET TALES. Join a storyteller and puppets for lively storytelling workshops based on discovering amazing facts about the natural world. Families with under 7s, noon and 1.30pm start, free - reserve a place first at the information desk.

Until 3 Jan 2011, THE MINISTRY OF FOOD. Discover how the British public adapted to a world of food shortages, and how growing your own food, eating seasonal fruits and vegetables, reducing imports, recycling and healthy nutrition were just as topical in 1940 as they are today.

Tickets £2.50 to £4.95, families £13. Book on 020 7416 5439 or through the museum website.

MUSEUM OF LONDON EVENTS MUSEUM OF LONDON DOCKLANDS, West India Quay E14, 020 7001 9844, www.museumoflondon.org.uk/docklands.

Also the MUSEUM OF LONDON, London Wall EC2Y 5HN, 020 7001 9844, www.museumoflondon.org.uk Open daily 10am-6pm, admission free. Regular programmes of weekend and holiday events and workshops help visitors find out more about London’s history, covering events such as the Great Plague, Londoners’ jobs and occupations, and Roman life.

FAMILY EVENTS AT THE HORNIMAN HORNIMAN MUSEUM and gardens, 100 London Road, Forest Hill SE23, 020 8699 1872, www.horniman.ac.uk Museum open 10.30am-5.30pm daily, admission free. Regular weekend

and holiday drop-ins and workshops allow family visitors to explore the museum collection through arts and crafts, music, stories and hands-on sessions.

DISCOVER GREENWICH OLD ROYAL NAVAL COLLEGE (next to the Cutty Sark), Greenwich SE10, www.greenwichwhs.org.uk Unlock the history of Maritime Greenwich, through artefacts, artwork, film and stories of former lives to bring the past to life. A permanent exhibition takes visitors on a journey from the College’s Tudor beginnings, through its naval past, as the Royal Hospital for Seamen and Royal Navy Staff College, right up to the present day. Special objects, including personal items from Henry VIII’s palace, as well as fascinating stories from monarchs, admirals and architects help chart the historic town’s development.

Activities for children and families play a significant part in the new destination, enabling families to maximise their visit to Maritime Greenwich and for children to explore and understand the history of the magnificent site.

ART AT SIR JOHN SOANE’S HOUSE SIR JOHN SOANE’S MUSEUM, 13 Lincoln’s Inn Fields WC2A 3PB, 020 7440 4263, www.soane.org/families.htm Tucked away in Lincoln’s Inn Fields at the heart of London, this magical, mysterious museum encourages young visitors to explore Soane’s treasures and develop new skills with specialist guidance. Sir John Soane (1753- 1737) was an inveterate collector, filling every nook and cranny of his beautiful home with items that fascinated him. From fossils to classical fragments from Ancient Egypt, Greece and Rome and from contemporary paintings to architectural models, drawings and literature, he intended that after his death both his house and its extraordinary contents should be used to educate and inspire. Free drop-in activities run on the third Saturday of every month, with activities for all ages and families can take part together. 1.30-4.40pm.

Theatre, Music & Shows FAMILY SUNDAYS AT THE ALBANY THE ALBANY, Douglas Way, Deptford SE8, 020 8692 4446, www.thealbany.org.uk Fun for all the family with the best in theatre for the under 7s. Enjoy lunch and the Sunday papers in the cafe and garden, then take in a show.

7 November, DISCO DAYZ, dancing for all ages up to 7, 2-5pm 14 November, THE SCARECROW, ages 4+, 3pm.

21 November, THE PAPER WASHI WISH, ages 4-7, 11am, 1pm and 3pm 7-24 December, THREE LITTLE PIGS. A family show suitable for ages 2-7. Tickets £7.50 children, £9 adults, £30 families.

CHILDREN OF EDEN 10-14 November, PUTNEY ARTS THEATRE, Ravanna Road, Putney SW15 6AW, 020 8572 0475, www.swanbankmusic.ticketsource.co.uk Taking its storyline from Genesis, the relationships between the Father, Adam and Eve have more to do with earthly families, their challenges and generational legacies. Tickets £12 children, £15 adults, with funds going to Trinity Hospice in Clapham.

NEW WIMBLEDON THEATRE The Broadway, Wimbledon SW19 1QG, 0844 871 7646, www.ambassadortickets.com/wimbledon 12+13 November, HMS PINAFORE. A fast and hilarious production of the famous comic opera, packed to the brim with toe-tapping tunes.

Tickets from £12.

16-20 November, CIRQUE DE GLACE - EVOLUTION. A thrilling,

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30 November - 4 December, ANNIE. The endearing tale of little orphan Annie is back, giving a whole new generation the chance to experience an enchanting musical about never giving up hope. Tickets from £10

PUSS IN BOOTS 17 November - 16 January, THE ARTS CENTRE, 6-7 Great Newport Street, London WC2 7JB, 020 7492 1593, www.artstheatrewestend.com Take the magical journey to fairyland to meet Puss in Boots and al her friends.

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PUPPET THEATRE BARGE, Little Venice, Blomfield Road, London W9, 020 7249 6876, www.puppetbarge.com All tickets £8.50 children, £10 adults.

6-21 November, THE TEMPEST. Shakespeare’s play is brought to life with sculpted wood and glass marionettes, beautiful lighting and specially composed music. Ages 10+.

11-12 November and daily 18-23 and 27 December - 2 January, A CHRISTMAS CAROL. Dickens’ seasonal tale told through marionettes and shadow puppets, special effects and dramatic lighting. Ages 4+.

Until 14 November, COLOUR HOUSE THEATRE, Merton Abbey Mills, Merantun Way SW19, 020 8542 5511, www.colourhousetheatre.co.uk Wonderful new songs and a sparkling, witty script for all the family to enjoy. Ages 3+, performances 2 and 4pm, tickets £7 children, £9 adults.

THE LITTLE BIG CLUB 13 November, Ashcroft Theatre, FAIRFIELD, Croydon CR9 1DG, 020 8688 9291, www.fairfield.co.uk The Little Big Club Live in Concert is a theatrical and musical extravaganza from Hit Entertainment and Premier Stage Productions, which brings together an ensemble of the world most popular preschool characters in one exciting adventure. Bob The Builder, Barney & Friends, Angelina Ballerina, Fireman Sam, Fifi Forget-me-not and Pingu feature on stage together for the first time ever. 1pm and 3.30pm.

HALF MOON THEATRE HALF MOON THEATRE, 43 White Horse Road, London E1, 020 7709 8900, www.halfmoon.org.uk All tickets £6.

13 November, FROM HERE.. TO THERE. A show all about the joy of building and knocking down, climbing over and crawling under, of hiding, of surprises and peek-a-boo; followed by a short play session after the performance. Ages 18 months to 4 years, shows at 1 and 3pm.

20 November, THE BUG AND THE BUTTERFLY. A heart-warming tale and a poem on six legs, inspired by the work of Frederico Garcia Lorga.

Ages 18 months to 3 years, shows at 11am and 2pm.

27 November, WHEN WE LIVED IN UNCLE’S HAT. It doesn’t matter where you live - who you live with is the important bit. With live music throughout, this story is a search for the most magical place - a home.

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Art Activities THE TIGER IN ASIAN ART 4 November - 12 February, ASIA HOUSE, 63 New Cavendish Street W1G 7PL, 020 7307 5454, www.asiahouse.org Today the population of wild tigers is only 3200, and the aim is to double it.

Asia House is showing exhibition of rare Asian paintings, sculptures, textiles and photographs. Aspects of the project are very much family orientated, with interactive rolling documentary films about the plight of the tiger providing a great way for kids to learn about this urgent issue.

27 November, TIGER FAMILY DAY. Story telling, mask making and other activities, plus workshops teaching brush painting and calligraphy, tiger mask dance and music. 2-4pm, admission free with donations welcome to the charities WildAid, Born Free and the Environmental Investigation Agency.

SOMERSET HOUSE FAMILY EVENTS SOMERSET HOUSE, Strand WC2, 020 7845 4600, www.somerset.org.uk Free family workshops run on Saturdays from 2-3.30pm. Tickets available from 1pm from the information desk. Children aged 6-12 years must be accompanied by an adult. Here are some highlights: 13 November, WATERCOLOUR WETLANDS. Many artists have tried to capture the sea, rivers and lakes in their paintings. Discover these in the Courtauld Gallery then create your own wet and wonderful watercolour landscape.

20 November, QUICK DRAW COUTURE. Take inspiration from the Dior exhibition and capture your favourite fashions as though you were reporting from the catwalk.

27 November, FIGURE IT OUT. Discover how to make sculptures of figures in action, inspired by artists of the past who captured the movement of dancers and sportspeople, and the skaters on the Somerset House ice rink.

DRAWING ROOMS 14 November, DESIGN MUSEUM, Shad Thames, London SE1, www.designmuseum.org Young architects can get creative, combining drawing and a variety of modelling materials to turn 2D drawings into a 3D models inspired designs by the designs featured in the museum’s John Pawson Plain Space exhibition. 2-5pm, ages 5-11, £4 per child, adult admission £8.50.

ARTPLAY AT DULWICH PICTURE GALLERY DULWICH PICTURE GALLERY, Gallery Road, Dulwich Village SE21, 020 8693 5254, www.dulwichpicturegallery.org.uk On the first and last Sundays of every month, adults and children are invited to drop-in for a different workshop activity each week. Make everything and anything from bunting to block printing and all things in between. 2-3-30pm, free with a gallery ticket or £2 per child.

FAMILIES AT THE TATE TATE BRITAIN, Millbank SW1, 020 7887 8888, www.tate.org.uk/britain Open daily 10am-5.50pm, and until 10pm the first Friday of the month.

Family trails are available daily from the Information Desks and are free for 5yrs and under. Go on a journey around Tate Britain and post your discoveries into your ‘Post it’ box as you go. When you get home, open up the box and show your friends what you found. Or you could follow the ‘Join up’ trail: play the listening game, search for shapes, patterns and talking hands, and make your own sculptures.

Every weekend the free Art Trolley encourages children to imagine and create, make colourful collages, style a wonderful sculpture or perhaps make a sketchbook and fill it with great ideas.

OUT OF ART INTO LITERACY Until 5 December, NATIONAL GALLERY, Trafalgar Square, London WC2, 020 7747 2885, www.nationalgallery.org.uk An exhibition celebrating the outcomes of two innovative projects involving local primary schools: Into the Frame, and Out of Art into Storytelling. Both projects enabled teachers to explore the potential of using National Gallery paintings to inspire their pupils’ discussion and writing both inside and outside the classroom. Examples of oral storytelling, animation, creative writing and mixed-media artwork from a selection of the participating schools will be on show. An accompanying film is available on the gallery website.

Every Sunday, families can enjoy free two-hour workshops at 11am for a journey through the collection bringing paintings alive, listen to a themed story on the magic carpet from 10.20am and 11.30am, and take a free family trail through the collection.

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20 November, THE PIRATE PRINCE. As Prince Rupert lay in his cradle, he was showered with glittering gifts. Little did he know he would end up exiled and a pirate. Join the storytelling session then make your own pirate ship.

10.30am and 1.30pm start, ages 3+, free.

20 November, REGENCY GAMES. Find out which games children played 200 years ago and make your own. A family art workshop suitable for ages 5+ and carers. 11.30am and 2.30pm start, free: collect a ticket an hour before the event starts.

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4 December, HOW THE KOALA LEARNT TO HUG. Great stories with a host of wild characters, songs, games and first class hugging. Ages 4+, performances 11am and 2pm.

MINI MAESTRO FAMILY CONCERTS St Martin-in-the-Fields Church, TRAFALGAR SQUARE, London WC2, 020 7766 1100, www.lmaorchestsra.com The Mini Maestro team bring music alive with storytelling, miming and exploration. There are specially adapted games of hide and seek and musical chairs, and a chance to hear the instruments close-ups as friendly musicians go walkabout in the audience.

20 November, BEETHOVEN’s 5th SYMPHONY, 4.45-5.30pm.

11 December, 4pm-5pm. PROKOFIEV’s PETER AND THE WOLF, 4-5pm.

FAMILY SHOWS AT THE LYRIC LYRIC HAMMERSMITH THEATRE, Lyric Square, King Street W6, 0871 22 11720, www.lyric.co.uk Saturdays shows at 11am and 1pm, tickets £6 children, £8 adults, followed by Messy Play sessions for £5.

13 November, TWINKLE TWONKLE. One night Stella and her little brother wish on a magical star and climb all the way to space on a telescope. Follow them on their adventure to find Peegasus the flying horse and a cow that jumps over the moon. Ages 4-7.

20 November, THE NIGHT PIRATES. Brave little Tom peeps out of the window to find girl pirates stealing the front of his house. Join them on

their daring adventure across the high seas to an island where Captain Patch and his really, rough grown-up pirates are guarding their treasure...

Puppets and song combine in this delightful adaptation of the much loved picture book by Peter Harris and Deborah Allwright. Ages 3-7.

27 November, UPSTAIRS IN THE SKY. Two delivery people arrive with a box addressed to the audience - a make-it-yourself kit. Let your imagination reach for the sky as you help tell a tale. Ages 3-7.

2 December - 2 January, SNOW PLAY. A delightful interactive show about playing in the snow, with the chance for the audience to get crafty and make a festive treat. Ages 2-7.

THE GRUFFALO 24 November - 16 January, GARRICK THEATRE, Charing Cross Road WC2H 0HH, 0844 412 4662, www.gruffalolive.com Follow the quick-thinking Mouse into the deep, dark wood in this magical and musical modern classic, based on the award-winning book

by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler. Tall Stories Theatre Company’s production is an exuberant smash hit starring the Mouse, a wheeler-dealer Fox, eccentric old Owl, a maracca-shaking Snake and the very creature he imagined - the Gruffalo. Tickets from £12.

DICK WHITTINGTON 27 November - 8 January, LYRIC HAMMERSMITH THEATRE, Lyric Square, King Street W6, 0871 22 11720, www.lyric.co.uk

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this highly popular television series for the stage, featuring beautifully true-to-life puppets, and takes place on a very special day. It is Peppa’s birthday and a chance for all her young friends to join in the fun, with Suzy Sheep, Danny Dog and Emily Elephant. This charming, original and imaginative show for pre-school children is full of brand new songs.

Tickets £14.50 children, £17.50 adults.

MoreWhat’sOn For even more What’s On listings, go to www.familiesse.co.uk The streets of Hammersmith will be paved with gold as traditional pantomime returns to the Lyric. Join Dick Whittington and his cat as they journey to find their fortune in a brand new show full of colourful characters, live music, laughter and the very evil King Rat. Ages 6+, tickets £10 under 16s, £10-25 adults, £50 families.

CINDERELLA 27 November - 30 January, COLOUR HOUSE THEATRE, Merton Abbey Mills, Merantun Way SW19, 020 8542 5511, www.colourhousetheatre.co.uk Poor old Cinders is desperate to go to the ball but those ugly sisters are having none of it! Will the fairy godmother help Cinders meet her handsome prince? Lots of fun and excitement in a great family show.

Tickets £7 children, £9 adults.

GET SANTA! 1 December - 15 January, ROYAL COURT THEATRE, Sloane Square, London SW1W 8AS, 020 7565 5000, www.royalcourttheatre.com All Holly ever wanted from Santa was to meet her real dad for the first time. And every year, Santa failed to deliver, bringing lots of useless presents instead. This year she decided to wait up and trap Santa.

A magical, musical and downright mischievous Christmas show with a fresh moral. Ages 7+, tickets from £8.

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dynamic father and daughter duo get a chance to fly, or will sums, dumplings and headmasters get in their way? Ages 4-7.

CINDERELLA 25 November - 9 January, GREENWICH THEATRE SE10, 020 8858 7755, www.greenwichtheatre.org.uk An all-singing, all dancing family spectacular. Tickets from £12.

WE’RE GOING ON A BEAR HUNT 30 November 18 December, CADOGAN HALL, 5 Sloane Square, Chelsea, 0220 7730 4500, www.cadoganhall.com A vivid and noisy adaptation of Michael Rosen’s award-winning book. Join the intrepid adventurers on their quest to find a bear; as they wade through the gigantic swishy swashy grass, the splishy splashy river and the thick oozy, squelchy mud! Expect catchy songs, interactive scenes and plenty of hands-on adventure - plus a few special surprises. Ages 3+, tickets £10.

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JACK AND THE BEANSTALK POLKA THEATRE, 240 The Broadway, Wimbledon SW19, 020 8543 4888, www.polkatheatre.com 19 November - 5 February, THE SNOW QUEEN. A brand new adaptation of Hans Christian Andersen’s classic fairy tale by Mike Kenny. Ages 6-11, tickets £8 children, £16 adults.

HANDA’S SURPRISE 20 November, TARA STUDIO, 356 Garratt Lane, London SW18, 020 8333 4457, www.tara-arts.co.

Travel to Kenya and follow in Handa’s footsteps as she journeys to see her best friend Akeyo in the next village. A blend of physical performance, puppetry, live music and song combine to create an intimate, magical production with audience participation. Ages 2-5, tickets £6.50 children, £7.50 adults.

MY DAD’S A BIRDMAN 25 November - 1 January, YOUNG VIC THEATRE, 66 The Cut, London SE1, 020 7922 2922, www.youngvic.org An uplifting tale by David Almond, author of the Carnegie Medal Award-winning Skellig.

The Great Human Bird Competition is coming to town, and Lizzie and Jackie have been building their nest and are preparing for take off. Will the

At Tumbletots we endeavour to provide the opportunities, through a challenging environment of active physical play, for children to fully explore and develop their physical capability, especially their motor skills of balance, agility and co-ordination, whilst at the same time stimulating the imagination and having fun. Classes also include music, songs and rhymes, and are split into different age groups starting at six months up to 5 years.

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RAIN DANCE 4+5 December, RIVERSIDE STUDIOS, Crisp Road, Hammersmith W6 9RL, 020 8237 2010, www.riversidestudios.co.uk A crisis faces the animals of the African savannah. Their waterhole is almost dry and a leader is desperately needed to find a solution before they are wiped out. The witty and sometimes outrageous tale of animal rivalry is presented by W11 Opera for Young People with a cast of school-age singers. Entirely professionally produced, the performance is a stunningly unusual musical event. Ages 5+, tickets £15.

UNICORN THEATRE, 147 Tooley Street, London SE1, 020 7645 0560, www.unicorntheatre.com 4 December - 5 January, MOUSE IN THE HOLE. Meet the Mole family in their cosy, underground home, lined with straw and strewn with sweet-smelling herbs. This is a messy adventure for all the senses where everyone will be asked to muck in - so don’t wear your best outfit! Ages 3-6, tickets £8 children, £10.50 adults, £30 families.

4 December - 23 January, BEAUTY AND THE BEAST. A new version of the classic story written by Phil Porter, with magic, music and moments to make your hair stand on end. Ages 7+, tickets £13 children, £19 adults.

1 December - 5 January, Cottesloe Theatre, NATIONAL THEATRE, South Bank SE1, 020 7452 3000, www.nationaltheatre.org.uk The enchanting and timeless fairytale, with music and magic. Ages 8+.

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3 December - 9 January, CHURCHILL THEATRE, Bromley, 0844 871 7620, www.ambassadortickets.com/bromley A big, funny panto starring Melinda Messenger, Don Gilet and Chris Till.

The production has comedy, audience participation, spectacular sets, song and dance, action and special effects.

4 December - 9 January, ORCHARD THEATRE, Home Gardens, Dartford Town Centre DA1 1ED, 01322 220000, www.orchardtheatre.co.uk Featuring the awesome Giant Blunderbore, the biggest giant in pantoland.

THE DINOSAUR’S FIRST XMAS + THEATRE TOTS WORKSHOP 17 December, St MICHAELS CHURCH, Blackheath SE3, 0780 107 2776, www.theatretots.com Joe the time traveller has been given the job of dancing back in time to give the dinosaurs their first Christmas, and it turns out to be the best journey he ever made. A 30 minute puppet-based show followed by a 30 minute workshop with three Theatre Tots leaders. 10am start, £10 one child, £18 two siblings, book first.

THE NIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS 7-24 December, AMBASSADORS THEATRE, West Street, Covent Garden WC2H 9ND, 08848 11 2334, www.theambassadorstheatre.co.uk A unique experience combining a live Christmas show with a 'grotto' experience where children can meet Father Christmas and receive a special gift. Tickets from £10, ages 2-7.

PEPPA PIG’S PARTY 2 December to 2 January, CRITERION THEATRE, Piccadilly Circus W1, 08444 847 1778, www.peppapiglive.com Peppa is a playful little pig who lives with her little brother George, Mummy Pig and Daddy Pig. Through everyday adventures she plays games, makes new friends and enjoys her absolutely favourite activity jumping up and down in muddy puddles. Peppa Pig’s Party recreates

4 December - 3 January, FAIRFIELD, Park Lane, Croydon, 020 8688 9291, www.fairfield.co.uk The classic happy ever after story, starring Gemma Bissix, Shirley Anne Field and Basil Brush. Lavish sets and costumes, great music, special effects, magical transformations, a splendid crystal coach and real white Shetland ponies make for an enchanting family treat. Tickets from £17.

BEAUTY AND THE BEAST 11 December - 3 January, BROADWAY THEATRE, Catford SE6, 020 8690 0002, www.broadwaytheatre.org.uk A brand new, magical and colourful production that promises to be an extra special family treat. With an actionpacked script, high energy dance set to modern music and plenty of comedy, this will be beast of a pantomime.

Tickets from £12.50.

HANSEL AND GRETEL 16 December - 1 January, Queen Elizabeth Hall, SOUTHBANK CENTRE, SE1, 0844 875 0073, www.southbankcentre.co.uk Head down to the forest as Kneehigh Theatre leads you through a spellbinding world of wit and wonder, earthly delight and eerie woods.

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VOLE IN THE WOODS 18-21 December, LONDON WETLAND CENTRE, Queen Elizabeth Walk, Barnes SW13 9WT, 020 8409 4400, www.wwt.org.uk/london Family fun with a wildlife-themed pantomime.

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is a fantastic, volume stuffed shop run by some of the most knowledgeable bookworms in the business.

Call in for the feel of a real bookshop, or if you’re too busy, pick up the phone or point your mouse at their website for a fast mailorder service. Justine Crow recommends this month’s best titles.

THIS YEAR I am being organised and am determined that the.. er.. short festive season of baubles and baby Jesus I cannot say the C word or it is 50p in the swearbox - will not sneak up on me like some scary government minister with a boning knife. For that reason, the spent sparklers not yet cooled in their bucket, the rocket sticks still littering the lawn, I have already located the deckos - not bad considering I am still yet to find nine-tenths of our belongings including bikinis and picnic kit a full twelve months after moving - stuck festive labels on the jars of produce I coaxed out of the greenhouse (that’ll be sixteen jars of mouth exploding chillis in olive oil then for the family to look forward to - payback for the jars of jellied tripe my dad hilariously gave to all of us one famous year), stockpiled the charity cards and joined the queue for stamps in the post office. Who knows, I might get served before December.

Meanwhile, as we all put our grandmas on eBay to pay for the coming weeks and henceforth, in efficient mood, I offer you some early gift suggestions in the run up without going all heavy on you with the much-missed Woolworths tastefree flashing lights (they will be in the next issue)...

THE EXTRAORDINARY COOKBOOK by Stefan Gates - Kyle Cathie rrp £19.99.

Yep. Same guy that brought you the mind-stretching telly thing on E numbers but it is as if the science did his head in after all that research and he ripped his clothes off and danced in the world’s naughtiest trifle instead. Where as the previous book was all facts and figures, this has luxurious gold endpapers and contains the most mischievously glamorous ingredients imaginable for the likes of Bloody Mary soup, barbecued oysters, flambéed lambchops and even chicken wrapped in gold leaf and when it comes to desserts, we are not talking own-brand Artic Roll. Alongside international dishes and quirky outdoorsy entertainments, it features food related whimsy such as vegetable instruments, interspersed with unusual ideas - one for the lads, cooking under the bonnet of your car (fire up the Aston Martin please dear) or, one for the gals, using your dishwasher to poach fish (then discard your dishwasher..). Boasting “meals your friends will never forget”, especially if you hand ‘em a hammer and a crab and a pair of snorkelling goggles, this doesn’t know whether it is a recipe book or a jolly activity manual for the easily bored. I do know that his Legendary Bum sandwich is not dissimilar to my own family’s famous bottom-cheek poached salmon (so-called after my sister’s wedding breakfast was sat upon, but served to the guests nonetheless). And judging by the photos, a lot more fun was had in the making of this foody frolic than in the analysis of carbonates and stabilisers that go into what we eat. Stuff that up your spending review!

LONDON LIGHT by Sandra Lousada - Frances Lincoln rrp £25. Still in grown-up territory (no really, we were), this is a sumptuous, if sober, depiction of light on our city’s contours. It is an unusual photographic approach that makes a change from the standard coffee-tabley aerial shots or vintage slides and banal London souvenir guides featuring post boxes and phone boxes.

BEST IN SHOW Knit Your Own Dog by Sally Muir & Joanna Osborne - Collins & Brown rrp £12.99. These are the kind of dogs I like. Knitted and cuddly and each breed spookily similar to the real thing, only you don’t have to take them out to the park and pick up their twirlies in a placcy bag on freezing mornings. Accompany imaginatively with a pair of knitting needles and a ball of it itchy wool and they can fetch their own present again and again.

TODDLER MANUAL - Haynes rrp £9.99.

A paperback edition of the series inspired by the car mechanic’s canon will be appreciated by anyone in possession of at least one or two of these particular types of run-arounds.

And it complements the SECOND BABY SURVIVAL GUIDE, Naia Edwards, Rodale, rrp £10.99, with everything that’s been forgotten after the first time (it’s how the brain is wired to maintain procreation, honey) as well as stuff that people forget to warn you about, like those horrendous post-partum contractions of the uterus that are characteristic of second and subsequent births days and days after the

event; plus extra advice on dealing with an older sibling’s insecurity, that in my experience was often and still is, manifestly murderous.

CHILD by Desmond Morris, Hamlyn, rrp £25, explores how the little critters emerge from toddlerdom and “start on the long road to independence” - that reaches near culmination with the proclamation by our sixteen year old that she is going to New York on a university fact finding mission, on the same day that George Osborne announced a return to Dickensian scroogery (ask him if he’ll lend you the airfare out of his inherited fortune, I replied).

THE GIFT by Carol Ann Duffy - Barefoot Books rrp £10.99.

Decorated with silhouette cut-outs by flavour of the moment Rob Ryan, this gorgeous book about growing up and growing on and growing old brought a tear to my eye. Though that could be the smoke from the bonfire of our hopes for the future.

THE CAT THAT WALKED BY HIMSELF & OTHER STORIES by Rudyard Kipling - British Library rrp £7.95. This splendid selection from the Just So Stories is only everso slightly lets itself down by being smaller - it seems that a grander scale would do the elegant illustrations greater justice. But it’s still lovely, just so.

INTERIOR DESIGNER DOODLES by Nellie Ryan - Buster Books rrp £9.99. An ideal gift for an arty kid, so long as they don’t actually draw on real furniture.

MONKEY NUTS, The Diamond Egg of Wonders by the Etherington Brothers David Fickling Books rrp £9.99. Once upon a time there was a brilliant comic collection published regularly in packs called The DFC Library, loved by big and small - my boy has carefully stored all the back issues passed on to him by an adult fan. The DFC no longer exists in old fashioned stapled form but the contributors continue in joyous print in these delicious smelling (the sign of quality! In books that is, not the homeless) cartoon albums. The stream of chortles from the aforementioned boy as he followed the bonkers adventures of Sid, Rivet and Chief Tuft long after lights off was a pleasure.

Another in the DFC series, VERN & LETTUCE by Sarah McIntyre, rrp £9.99 follows the slightly less frantic though utterly charming weekly exploits of a sheep and a rabbit whose neighbourhood of Pickle Rye Park and surrounding landmarks might just be familiar to you. Picture herbivorous Del Boy and Rodders, with cute ears.

RICHARD SCARRY’S BUSIEST POP-UP EVER! - Golden Books rrps £12.99.

I wasn’t going to include this because I don’t want anyone else to have it but to deny you such happiness crafted out of sublime simplicity in times like these would be pure cruelty. Can I be first to nominate Mister Frumble for mayor of London? We’d have a lot more fun than with BoJo or Ken. Keep your eyes peeled for more genius Scarry coming soon as Sterling are putting a load more out next year. Meanwhile, next month’s page will have a lot more picture books on it for your festive delectation.

1001 WAYS TO RELAX by Mike George - Watkins rrp £9.99. As a title, I can’t think of anything more beguiling or imperative in these times either. But does it live up to its promise? Number 181 says rather sweetly, ‘See life as a journey’ (as opposed to an endless shopping list) and another suggests, ‘celebrate wrinkles’ (okay, but how? with balloons?). The antidote to being hot and bothered by dripping cold water on the wrists was obviously not designed for a swimming teacher like me in the middle of winter with a class of six year old hooligans and number 690, ‘lend your car to someone’, is a gesture I don’t think Him Indoors will be making in order to reduce his blood pressure. But I am willing to give 327, ‘meditate on the migration of birds’ a chance. I could stand in front of the window for hours. In fact, for the benefit of scientific research, I am willing to give 1001 ways a try. Can I get started now? Only trouble is, you may have to wake me up in time Christmas - drat! There goes 50p again....

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Thames Christian College - a local success story JUST A FEW minutes’ walk from Clapham Junction, Thames Christian College caters for pupils of mixed ability, cultures and backgrounds. An independent secondary school, it started in September 2000 with 12 children and today teaches around 120 children aged 11 to 16 years (GCSE level). David Shaw has been finding out more...

Background Eleven years ago, Dr Stephen Holsgrove, director of an IT company and his wife Catherine - chair of the governors at Dolphin Primary School - decided that their own children were not suited to existing high-achieving private schools. Nor, as quiet, polite children, were they best suited to inner-city comprehensives.

They got together with Sue Rogers - who was head of Dolphin at the time - and her husband Tim, a respected head teacher, and set up their own school. With a budget of £12,000.

Since September 2000, the school has grown almost every year. Dr Holsgrove said he hopes to increase pupil numbers to 250 children over a three- to five-year period, bringing in a sixth form as well as more subjects.

As a relatively new school, set up by parents, Thames is specifically designed to produce an education ‘fit for purpose’ . This underlying principle involves people and values not just equipment and sports fields. The school puts its continued growth during the recession down to listening to the needs of parents and pupils, and providing an education and safe environment that parents value above almost anything.

Ethos If the school could be summed up in a single word, that word would be respect. The teachers have respect for the children and the children respect their teachers. Equally, the staff and management listen respectfully to the opinions of the parents. If something is wrong, they do their very best to make it better.

There are very clear, non-negotiable behavioural boundaries within the school, but above all, the staff honestly and seriously believe that each and every child is valued and they strive to help the children solve problems, overcome difficulties and prepare them for life in a 21st century world.

Class sizes vary from 20 or so in the first two years, down to 15 or below at GCSE level, where the students are divided into two groups. The

children are of mixed background and mixed ability - including gifted and talented and a few who have learning difficulties such as dyslexia.

Thames Christian College is set up to meet the needs of all these children, as well as those closer to the average.

Each child has their own set of targets and the teachers get to know each child individually to help them meet their targets. Where support is needed, it is provided by the substantial learning support team. Where children are bright, the teachers extend and broaden the subject matter, to teach beyond the confines of the curriculum. The whole environment is designed to make sure each child is stretched and supported to bring out their very best.

‘Outstanding features’ Ofsted In May 2010, Ofsted rated every aspect of the school’s provision as good, with some outstanding features. This inspection was under the new, stricter guidelines, introduced in November 2009.

In particular, pupils’ spiritual, moral, social and cultural development and their behaviour were both rated as outstanding.

On the day Families visited, the school was marking ten years since it was set up. For a change, the children had swapped their black blazers for their idea of the clothes they might be wearing in ten years’ time.

Successful students This summer’s GCSE students celebrated their outstanding results with 71% of students attaining A* - B grades and 83% attaining five A*-C grades (including English and maths), carrying on the tradition of pupils outperforming their predicted grades year on year. Stephen Holsgrove commented: “.. It was lovely to see lots of smiling faces upon opening the dreaded brown envelopes.”

Values are important

The founders share a deeply-held view that every child is created in God’s own image and they encourage the staff to help the children reach their full potential. The school teaches Christian values, and assemblies often have a Christian focus, but the school is happy to take children from other faiths provided they support the school’s ethos.

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are someone who finds school more of a challenge, because we will support them.” He added, “We are looking for children with the right behaviour and attitude.” and continued, “We have very high expectations of behaviour.” He explained that if teachers can put all their effort into teaching, rather than dealing with discipline issues, they can attend to the children’s needs and provide education tailored to each specific child.

Staff work in the real world The school has around 25 staff, some of whom split their time between real-world business activities and teaching, coming into the school for a few days each week.

This, said Stephen, ensures that the teachers are actively engaged in the real world, and can teach the skills needed to succeed there, as well as the more basic educational requirements of the curriculum. He said, “What I want to do is create a model of a school which is fit for purpose for the next ten years and beyond.” That means having a business model that works, as well as helping every child to learn about personal finance, getting them qualifications in use of computers and a range of other practical skills, all built around a positive, caring and empathetic ethos.” Stephen concludes: “We believe almost every child is good at something and we take time to draw out their unique potential.”

No catchment boundaries The all-inclusive fees are kept relatively low in order to allow a diverse range of children at the school.

Stephen said he sees the multi-cultural nature of the school as a strength: the school population reflects the multi-ethnic population of London.

“The world these children are growing up in is more multi-cultural than ever before and they are going to have to relate internationally far more than we ever did.”

While the school is currently almost full, there a re plans to expand. Anyone who can get to Clapham Junction can get to the school - for example students can travel from the southeast via the London Bridge to Victoria loop, or with a change at Waterloo East. Others travel in from north and west London, Surrey and the Croydon area.

More information Thames Christian College is in Wye Street, London SW11 2HB. All inclusive fees are kept relatively low - below £10k per year. For enrolment and fee details, call 020 7228 3933 or go to www.thameschristiancollege.org.uk.

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education news Educational Psychology Services

The yellow woods challenge Nursery, pre-school, primary and special schools throughout the UK are learning more about the environment and recycling with the help of the Yellow Woods Challenge.

The award winning eco-educational initiative, run by Yell, provides curriculumñlinked teaching resources including videos, lesson plans and interactive whiteboard materials, plus monthly e-newsletters with topical eco-ideas and activities. Schools can also win educational Woodland Trust prizes and up to £500 in cash by taking part in Kirk’s Recycling Competition by recycling old Yellow Pages directories.

Schools can find out more and sign up to take part at www.yellow-woods.org.uk.

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‘Bog standard’ award for schools A recent survey of 160 UK schools and school and specialist nurses has resulted in a universal call for minimum standards for school toilet facilities. School toilets are often neglected due to lack of funding, inadequate regulations and simply because other priorities get in the way. But they affect pupils’ education and their health.

Launching a new Bog Standard award, campaign manager Nickie Brander explained, “The School Toilet Award aims to flush out the bad toilets and recognise the good. Recent research indicates that 40% of secondary school pupils think their school toilets too disgusting to use and 38% of girls won’t use their school toilets. Bog Standard aims to encourage and support schools to make all school toilets meet the needs of pupils.”

Schools which take care to ensure that their toilets are cleaned properly, well stocked and in good working order, are being encouraged to enter. All successful schools will receive an Award certificate and use of the award logo on marketing materials. Run by the national charity ERIC (Education and Resources for Improving Childhood Continence), the award hopes to help the school gain recognition from parents and their local community for their efforts. Schools can enter by completing a self assessment form along with a pupil’s questionnaire on www.bog-standard.org.

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Calm, confident children According to research earlier this year by The Telegraph, more than 40,000 four to seven year-olds were expelled from school last year. The reasons ranged from bullying to violence, damaging equipment to tantrums and outbursts.

You may wonder, at such a young age, what have children got to be so angry about? Perhaps York University figured it out in 2009 when they discovered that some young children feel pressured by exams and peer relationships.

Relax Kids have a strong belief in encouraging children to recognise their individuality and embrace their strengths. They are a good source of ideas to help children be calm and confident: We can all help our children manage their anxieties in a number of different ways. Some may wish to share their stresses through talking; others may prefer to write it down. Whichever way, strong emotions are better out than in and managed productively, rather than coming out as antisocial behaviour.

Why not introduce a ‘positive diary’ where they can write down - or draw - the good things that happened that day? Choosing to record them in a book gives your child a reminder of all the good things that have happened recently. They will quickly learn that some days are better than others. You could also try including regular chillout time into your child’s schedule.

Do whatever fits you and your lifestyle. It could be anything from a brisk walk outside to baking a cake or watching a DVD. Have regular pyjama days and turn off your phones (obviously not on a school day). The more relaxed your household is, the more likely your children will be to approach you if they have any worries.

Another effective way to get your child thinking positively is to give them statements about themselves to take with them that day. It could be as simple as suggesting that they repeat to themselves “I am unique” or offering them an activity to keep their focus throughout the day, “Today I will beÖ as calm as a cat“. Be creative.

Offer complements. A steady supply of praise not only encourages good behaviour but helps people cope with the various challenges that life sends their way. If you have a positive, happy attitude, your children will develop a respectful attitude to you and other adults who behave in the same way, so keep setting a good example. Try “The way you (remembered all your games kit today) was wonderful” and “I noticed how well you were (playing with your little brother)” as examples.

So many of us make the assumption that our children and other people in our lives ‘know’ when we think they did something well, but how much better to tell them. A complement can really make anyone’s day and strengthen their mental health, so there is less need for the tantrums and mood swings.

Read more: Relax Kids have created a range of relaxation CDs, books and DVDs to help keep kids calm and confident through chaotic times. Visit www.relaxkids.com for more information, activities and exercises to try in your home.

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Young vegetarians

What’sNew useful products & services PO.P’s top hand-me-downs Polarn O. Pyret clothes are made to last. The quality fabrics are thoroughly tested to ensure they last for more than one child.

In October, Polarn O. Pyret launched a ‘Hand it Down’ campaign and invited shoppers to donate outgrown Polarn O. Pyret clothing to any of their large stores, in exchange for a voucher worth 10% off a new product of their choice.

The collected garments are on sale until 14 November in special Hand it Down sections of the six solus childrenswear stores. Prices range from £2.50 for a t-shirt to £20 for a snowsuit - while stocks last! Meanwhile, all proceeds from the Hand it Down sale rails will be donated to the children’s development organisation Plan International UK, one of largest children’s development organisations in the world, helping children and their families in 48 of the poorest countries to break the cycle of poverty.

Participating Polarn O. Pyret stores include those at Brent Cross shopping centre, Westfield in London and Windsor, the Bentall Centre in Kingston.

Check out the website www.polarnopyret.com.

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Talk to a midwife Baby charity Tommy’s is launching a freephone pregnancy information line, staffed by qualified midwives.

The helpline has been set up to focus on three specific areas: 1. providing emotional and bereavement counselling support for women whom have suffered a pregnancy loss or complication through premature birth, miscarriage or stillbirth 2. advice on how best to plan for a baby following a complication 3. lifestyle advice for women most at risk of pregnancy health problems due to smoking, stress, poor diet and obesity.

Jacqui Clinton, Health Campaigns Manager at Tommy’s, told us: “Tommy’s information line has always provided vital support for many mums-to-be, however with the PregnancyLine we can now specifically help women who have suffered pregnancy complications in the past and want to try for another baby, or need guidance in terms of healthy lifestyle choices. Furthermore, women who have lost a baby can turn to us for both emotional and practical support, from the comfort of their own home.”

An Asda Foundation grant has funded the training programme and the new free phone n umber.

PregnancyLine is open from 9am to 5pm on weekdays, 0800 0174 800, with more information at www.tommys.org.

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Cooking vegetarian meals can be simple and tasty, and a colourful new recipe booklet provides 23 step-by-step recipes, many of which were invented by young vegetarians and vegans.

With a copy of Viva!

Kids Cook Veggie, budding cooks can have fun rustling up a whole variety of meals including bean burgers; fishless fish and chips with tartar sauce; chilli non carne; pizza; sausage and pasta salad and more. Sweet things include colourful cookies, carrot cake, pancakes and a big birthday cake.

Editor Helen Rossiter, says: “It’s never been easier to cook your favourite meals veggie, as our new guide shows. If you want to encourage your family to eat more healthily and ethically, this is a great place to start.”

Viva! Kids’ Cook Veggie is £1.90 plus p+p by calling 0117 944 1000 and online at www.viva.org.uk/vivashop.

In the last decade, findings from neuroscience show that the earliest relationships shape the baby’s nervous system and the development of the brain.

Babies can’t talk but they can communicate, and being able to ‘read’ the clues babies are giving is part of building a strong relationship with them.

Baby Clues is an interactive online game that has been launched to help expectant mothers and fathers understand the gestures, movements and expressions that babies make from birth to indicate their needs. At the heart of the game is sound, nurturing know-how as Evie, the cartoon baby, invites parents to take a few minutes to get to know her.

Together with Evie’s feedback and video content showing a real baby, parents can work out their own baby’s unique way of communicating with them.

The game also challenges couples in a lighthearted and engaging way to answer questions about each other, to underline the importance of communication between couples before and after a baby’s birth.

Baby Clues has been developed by charity One Plus One, the UK’s leading relationship research organisation, which offers parents and couples ‘do-ityourself’ relationship support with articles, courses, exercises and a popular problem/ solution sharing forum. Log on to www.thecoupleconnection.net to play and find out more.

Win a high definition pocket video camera with Metanium

From birth to one year, babies change and grow rapidly. It’s a time when you don’t want to miss a single moment or spend time worrying about nappy rash.

Metanium Nappy Rash Ointment is licensed specifically to treat nappy rash. Its unique, gentle formula allows the skin to ‘breathe’ while protecting it from further irritation. Metanium should be used at the very first signs of nappy rash to help bring rapid and soothing relief from itching and chafing. Only a pea sized amount of Metanium is needed to treat the sore areas and it can be used from birth onwards. For useful information on managing nappy rash, go to www.metanium.co.uk.

Metanium 30g costs around £3.49 from most pharmacies and online at www.boots.com. Always read the label.

Metanium are offering one lucky Families reader the chance to win a pocket sized, high definition video camera (worth around £149) to capture all those magic moments. Ten runners up will each receive a Metanium Busy Baby Wall Planner worth £9.99 so you can keep track of your busy week.

Enter the competition online at www.familiesse.co.uk, or post your name and address to ‘Metanium Prize Draw’, Families South East, PO Box 11591, London SE26 6WB by the 1 December closing date.

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Single parents: you’re brilliant One in four families in the UK is now headed by a single parent. Many single parents tell the Gingerbread charity that they are fed up with attitudes that cast them as scroungers if they do not have a job, or as bad parents when the evidence shows most do a good job of bringing up their children. Six out of ten single parents are already managing to juggle a job with bringing up their children, and most of those on benefits are keen to work but can’t find jobs that fit with school times, or can’t find childcare.

As part of their new ‘You’re Brilliant’ campaign, Gingerbread has launched a new website providing expert help and information including vital money-saving tips, job-search advice and support with sorting out issues around separation. Centred around a forum for single parents, the website enables single parents to share information and support each other. Gingerbread’s free online membership provides access to a range of member benefits and discounts, all on www.gingerbread.org.uk. There is also a free Single Parent Helpline on 0808 802 0925, available from 9am-5pm Mondays to Fridays, with late opening on Wednesdays until 8pm.

Win a family ticket to winter wonderland After a phenomenal 2009 season which saw a staggering two million visitors, Winter Wonderland offers an amazing Christmas day out, with beautifully decorated attractions set out across 20 acres of historic parkland right in the heart of the capital.

Hyde Park Winter Wonderland will once again feature London’s biggest outdoor ice-rink, the iconic Giant Observation Wheel, new and exciting rollercoaster rides, the Angel’s Christmas market, Santa Land for kids, and free admission. For more details, see our What’s On pages.

We have a family of 4 ticket for one lucky reader. This is valid for the launch evening of 18 November and includes passes for all the rides and attractions.

Enter online at www.familiesse.co.uk, or post your name, address, a phone number and email address to ‘Winter Wonderland Competition’, Families South East, PO Box 11591, London SE26 6WB by Friday 13 November.

Win a Menus4Mums membership Menus4Mums is a fabulous online meal planning service for busy parents. Members get a new menu plan each week for dinners the whole family will enjoy, with recipe cards and a super-handy shopping list broken down into supermarket aisles. The meals take advantage of supermarket special offers to keep grocery bills down. All this from £6.95 for four weeks, with gift vouchers available for six or 12 months’ membership. Visit www.menus4mums.co.uk for more information and to download a free one week sample menu plan.

Menus4Mums are offering one lucky Families reader the chance to win a six month gift voucher, and three runners-up can win four week memberships.

Enter the competition online at www.familiesse.co.uk, or send your name, address and an email address to ‘Menus4Mums Prize Draw’, Families South East, PO Box 11591, London SE26 6WB by the Wednesday 1 December closing date.

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Great competitions on www.familiesonline.co.uk!

Win one of four Animatazz movie-making kits providing youngsters with tons of long-lasting, ultra-creative fun! (rrp £24.99, for ages 8 to adult) .

Four lucky readers will win KLOO®, a new and unique game set to take the language world by storm! (priced at £12.99 per deck)

To enter go to www.familiesonline.co.uk/Competitions november 2010 - families south east

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