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Welcome

So the new school year rolls around again and your child is heading off to school with bright and shiny new uniform and gear and hopefully a big smile; leaving you with perhaps just a little time on your hands to delve into our great Education feature and explore how to support your child’s learning this year. Whatever stage your child is at you’ll find something of interest, including how to understand learning styles, 11+ preparation and how AI can support dyslexia.

And it won’t be long before your child starts to get excited about half term and, in particular, Halloween, get inspired by our fab haunted house craft project and check out the What’s On guide (pages 12-15), it’s packed with local events to enjoy this autumn and October half term.

And, if you’re not looking forward to the nights drawing in and your thoughts are already turning to next year’s holidays, get inspired by the kind of destinations you could visit in 2024 for a great family break.

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What’s On

NEW Valence School Community Shop!

The ‘Friends of Valence School’ have secured the lease of a shop in Westerham that will provide a range of opportunities to raise the profile and enhance the work of Valence school and celebrate its success.

Valence School is a Kent County Council Foundation residential and day Special School for students aged 4 to 19 with physical disabilities, complex medical needs and associated learning difficulties. The school provides an education for 120 students and this provision will be a game changer for getting involved with the local community of Westerham.

Overlooking Westerham Green, the shop is centrally located with fully accessible entrances and a large care suite with a hoist to enable students to visit the shop for work experience, learning activities or increased social opportunities.

The shop will sell new and nearly new items that have been donated to the school, together with items produced by students. There will also be a chance for local artists and crafters to rent display space. Activity workshops and other community events will be planned on a regular basis.

For more information visit www.valenceschool.com

Over 90% of children get first choice primary school

Over 90 percent of primary school children were accepted into their firstchoice school. Similarly, more than 80 percent of secondary school pupils obtained their top choice.

Recently release data shows that nearly all children in England, 98.6 percent, received an offer to one of their preferred choices for primary school in 2023, while 95.6 percent of secondary school applicants also received a preferred choice according to recently released government data on applications and offers.

However, the proportion of secondary school applicants who received an offer for their first preference school experienced a slight decrease of 0.7 percentage points to 82.6 percent. This decline follows a 2.2 percentage point increase observed in 2022.

Find out more at www.bit.ly/DfEOffers

Children in England ranked fourth globally for reading

Primary school children in England have ranked fourth in the international rankings for reading.

The latest results in the Progress in International Reading Literacy Study - known as Pirls - saw England’s rank jump from eighth position into the top five.

Based on tests taken every five years, the study places countries in a global education league table. Singapore scored the highest result, with an average score of 587. Second was Hong Kong with an average score of 573, followed by Russia (567) and England (558).

The Pirls tests are taken by children ages 9 and 10, normally Year 5 pupils in England, at the end of the school year. Overall, girls were ahead of boys in their reading achievement in nearly all of the ranked countries but the gender gap has narrowed in the most recent testing round.

Find out more at www.iea.nl/studies/iea/pirls

Help your local food banks

The charity BanktheFood has launched a free app to help people connect with their local community and donate highpriority goods to food banks.

With food prices skyrocketing and food banks struggling to meet growing demand an app is now available that could make a difference.

BanktheFood connects you with your local food bank. Whenever the food bank runs low on essentials, the app sends you a list of their most needed items. But that’s not all - the app also sends you an urgent list of needed items when you arrive at the local supermarket, so you can easily pick up a few extra items to donate before you even reach the checkout. Over thirty four thousand people are already using BanktheFood, helping three hundred and fifty food banks in communities across the UK.

For an easy way to make a difference, consider giving BanktheFood a try. Find out more at www.bankthefood.org

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11+ preparation tips

If you have decided on selective secondary school education for your child and made your applications, the next step is entrance exam preparation.

The 11+ exam will almost certainly contain mathematics and English assessments as a minimum. Both of these will often contain questions on parts of the national curriculum your child has already covered in school. But not always. You may need to supplement their learning at home via online resources, targeted question books, past papers and online mock exams.

11+ preparation: more than maths and English

While English and maths make up the basis of most 11+ entrance exams, they are not the only exams that your child might sit. Some papers will contain a creative writing assessment. Some schools also test for reasoning ability. This can incorporate verbal reasoning, non-verbal reasoning, critical and applied reasoning and spatial reasoning.

Many independent schools also call in applicants for interviews or assessment days where students tour the school and take part in various activities. A lot of this content is not taught in schools so preparation outside school hours is vital in order to make sure your child is as prepared as possible. Start early and have a timetable. You might consider tuition, group classes or intensive summer courses but it’s worth working on the preparation at home too.

11+: state grammars versus independent schools

There is no set rule as to what the 11+ will look like for entry to your school of choice. The only thing you can be relatively sure of is to expect a mathematical ability test and an English test as a minimum.

Many state grammar schools use multiple choice assessments from exam boards including GL, CSSE, SET and Future Stories. All state grammar schools within a local authority often have the same test.

Independent schools can design their own papers which may include non-multiple choice questions. Some schools have grouped together to form a ‘consortium’ where your child takes just one test to apply to a variety of schools eg The London Consortium.

Consult the websites of your chosen schools for details on what the exams will include.

It’s always a good idea to ask the schools that you’ve applied for to add you to their mailing lists, so that you will be across any changes that are made to their exam format.

Jemma Z Smith is Director of The Education Hotel. For further advice on the 11+ process, visit www.educationhotel.co.uk

Before you start 11+ preparation

If you are new to the process, there are a few initial steps to take before you plunge into the world of 11+.

Firstly, research your area. In many parts of the UK, 11+ grammar schools do not exist, although there are a few schools around the country to which you can apply regardless of where you live.

Secondly, make sure that you are aware of the school registration dates: some of the dates to register with independent schools are over a year in advance.

Thirdly, be aware of the exam material. Schools do occasionally change what is included in their 11+ exams and you do not want to spend time preparing for an exam which is not going to be relevant for your target school.

Lastly, consider more than one school application. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket: if your child doesn’t get offered a place at this one school and starts Year 7 in a non-selective school, it’s much harder to subsequently find them a selective school place.

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Celebrating different learning styles

Just as none of us look the same, everyone is born with tendencies towards certain learning styles when developing literacy, language and motor skills. Recognising your child’s learning style is important in understanding how they access their learning, particularly if they appear to be struggling in certain areas.

Visual learners rely on what they see. Encourage them to use visual aids, sit at the front of the class and write down or draw information.

Kinesthetic learners learn best through doing and moving. They benefit from using tools, acting out or role-playing new information and having freedom of movement.

Auditory learners learn best through hearing and listening. Engage in discussions about what they are learning, read stories out loud and repeat information.

Solitary learners absorb information independently of other people. Let them make notes and recite back, provide quiet learning spaces and give opportunities for sharing their learning. Verbal learners respond well to written or spoken words. Play word games, use rhymes, acronyms and mnemonics, read their writing aloud, encourage discussion and debate.

Logical learners use logic and structures in order to learn effectively. Provide problem-solving tasks, challenge them to work things out for themselves and have them verbalise ideas and answers.

Identifying your child’s learning style

Observe how your child naturally interacts with the world around them and also note weaknesses: what types of tasks do they find challenging?

Watch how your child expresses themselves. Children will be more expressive through their natural learning style. Auditory learners express themselves best through words whilst visual learners are more apt to reveal their emotions through facial expressions. Kinesthetic learners use more body language and may seem unable to stop themselves fidgeting.

Consider your child’s interests. These will likely reflect their learning styles. Auditory learners usually show an interest in music and sounds. Visual learners often have interests both in reading, watching TV and looking at interesting objects. With kinesthetic learners, look for an interest in physical activities.

See how your child solves problems. Children lean into their learning styles. Auditory learners tend to talk through and discuss possible solutions whilst visual learners use their eyes to solve problems. Kinesthetic learners will usually try to solve problems with their hands.

Lisa and Catherine are co-founders of Emparenting (www.emparenting.co.uk), supporting children, parents and families with the insights, skills and tools needed to nurture the development and well-being of the next generation.

Being flexible around learning styles

As important as it is to understand and support your child with simple strategies to help them learn in the way that suits them best, it’s also helpful to encourage and embrace new ideas and a more flexible approach to their learning.

Recent research has concluded that teaching children to use one specific learning style over others may not be entirely beneficial within the classroom setting. Sticking to what you perceive as your preferred learning style can create limitations, giving a false belief that learning can only be managed in one particular way. The most important thing is for a child to have the time to self-reflect on how they learn best and to be encouraged to experiment with tackling problems from a variety of angles.

It is also important to note that over time a child’s learning styles can change as they develop and progress through their own personal growth and their educational journey. Every child is unique and learning style is just one part of the greater way that your child learns.

Why different learning styles?

While the information people receive might be the same, each of our brains processes information differently, influenced by several factors, one of which is learning style.

Your child’s tendencies and preferences for learning can be influenced by peers, cultures, age, their own experiences and available educational materials. What works for one child doesn’t necessarily work for the next.

Understanding the preferred styles of different learners can greatly impact their successes in the classroom as well as contributing to their own sense of personal development and achievement.

With the help of observant parents and teachers, children can benefit from understanding and engaging their natural tendencies. But, it is a rare child who solely works best with one style alone. By understanding and practising a range of different learning styles, a child will have a bigger ‘toolbox’ to call on, finding a combination that enhances their ability to understand, recall and use the information they learn.

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How can AI support dyslexia?

Recently, the parent of a dyslexic student expressed their concern to me about their son’s preference for writing essays longhand instead of using speech-to-text software. Despite being offered assistive technology, he found that writing and rewriting by hand helped organise his jumbled thoughts and process ideas effectively.

Assistive technology plays a significant role in education, supporting students in all kinds of ways. Spelling and grammar software, for example, is widely used and not just by individuals with dyslexia. It helps improve spelling, grammar, punctuation and sentence structure. These tools enhance the ideas generated by individuals and guide them to ensure accuracy.

Artificial intelligence (AI) takes assistive technology a step further. When asked a question, Natural language processing tool ChatGPT can provide multiple options and ideas, serving as a valuable starting point. However, some individuals with dyslexia, particularly those who struggle with reading, may find it challenging to sift through the responses. So, what can be done to maximise its usefulness?

Education specific AI tools

AI technology can help bring some order to students’ ideas and form them into coherent arguments. This is something that assistive technology cannot do alone. For example, if the student who prefers writing longhand had access to AI technology that could assist him both in writing up his thoughts and managing paragraphs into a logical order, it would greatly benefit him.

With repeated use, the student could acquire the necessary techniques himself and learn the organisation process independently.

Natural language processing tools like ChatGPT can suggest improvements, correct factual errors and enhance the readability of content. This can be especially valuable for dyslexic individuals who struggle with remembering and recalling details, such as in a history project where dates and facts must be accurate.

Overall, AI technology can be a powerful ally in education, assisting students with dyslexia in organising their thoughts and enhancing their overall learning experience.

On the other hand, an over-reliance on AI could inhibit a child’s ability to think creatively for themselves. Take our use of mobile phones for example. We no longer have to remember frequently dialed numbers until we lose our phones. How many numbers from your phone can you remember yourself? AI should therefore be used in moderation.

Usha Patel is a neurocognitive therapist at Raviv Practice London. If you are interested in learning more about what therapies and methods could be combined with AI to help a dyslexic child achieve their potential, visit www.ravivpracticelondon.co.uk

Using AI effectively with dyslexic children

While AI can be a valuable tool, there are a few considerations to keep in mind for students with dyslexia:

Personalised learning needs: Every student with dyslexia has their own unique learning needs and preferences. While AI can offer personalised recommendations and suggestions, it may not always cater to the specific learning styles, paces or individual needs of students with dyslexia.

Lack of contextual understanding: AI systems operate through algorithms and patterns derived from vast amounts of data. While they can provide information and generate responses, they may lack contextual understanding and nuanced interpretation. Emotional and social aspects: Learning involves not only acquiring knowledge but also emotional and social engagement. Although beneficial in certain aspects, AI cannot fully replace the emotional connection and support provided by human interaction.

Students with dyslexia have unique learning needs that require a personalised approach. Combining the benefits of AI tools with human support can create a more effective and well-rounded learning experience.

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Girlguiding and Scouts today Building resilience, confidence and wellbeing

Girlguiding has been a part of millions of girls’ lives for one hundred and thirteen years and counting. Set up because girls wanted an equal world with the same opportunities as boys, impressive progress has been made since it began. But things can still be tough for girls. With many facing high expectations and anxieties in every area of their lives, they can be limited by gender stereotypes and face barriers to accessing the things they need to feel happy.

In Girlguiding’s annual Girls’ Attitudes Survey, two in three girls and young women ages 11 to 21 said that being part of a youth organisation makes them feel accepted and more connected to others. Girls in Girlguiding are more confident than their peers, with nearly nine in ten saying they like being the way they are, compared with just six in ten who have never been in Girlguiding.

Youth groups such as Girlguiding and Scouts are equipping young people with transferable life skills such as leadership, money management and teamwork. A recent report from Demos has demonstrated how skills learnt from Scouting can make a significant difference to employability.

Guides today can still earn badges, in an updated programme which includes mindfulness, self-care and media criticism. Girls are also supported to develop emotionally, mentally and physically so they can make a positive contribution to their community and the wider world.

Empowering girls for more than a hundred years, Girlguiding is committed to doing the same today, with a keen focus on what drives, challenges and excites girls. Whether that’s the thrill of trying a new activity, singing around a campfire, enjoying the

Get autumn-term ready with a free Perform class

Perform classes use a mix of drama, dance and singing to bring out every child’s potential. Run by experienced actor-teachers, the classes focus on developing the 4 Cs: confidence, communication, coordination and concentration.

From September, ages 4-7 will take to the skies with Phileas Fogg as they go on an amazing adventure Around the World. Whether walking like a wallaby in the outback or revealing the legends of the Egyptian pyramids, the new term will be filled with globetrotting fun!

Meanwhile, ages 7-12 are going to the ball in a rags-toriches rock show, Cinderella Rocks. This hilarious version of Cinderella features struggling band, The Ugglies, in their quest to top the charts with charming music mogul, Simon Prince.

With all abilities welcome, the children will work towards an end of term performance for family and friends. The only requirement is to get ready to have the best fun of the week!

Visit www.perform.org.uk/try to book a FREE class in Ashford, Bexley, Faversham, Hempstead, Kings Hill, Langton Green, Miadstobe, Riverhead, Sevenoaks, Tonbridge or Tunbridge Wells.

NEW VENUE

There will be a new class venue starting in September in Ebbsfleet (Castle Hill Community Centre) on Thursday’s at 4pm and 5pm.

buzz of earning a new badge or emailing her MP about the issues she cares about; it’s a space where she can be herself, get creative, explore and most of all, have fun.

Meanwhile, Scouting embraces an inclusive Skills for Life strategy that encompasses teamwork, leadership and resilience and this has not gone unnoticed in the world of employment. The report highlighted that over half of Scouts felt ready for the world of work compared to a third of those who did not participate in any extra-curricular activities. With many employers struggling to hire people with teamwork skills or emotional resilience, these transferable skills are currently in huge demand.

For more information about joining Girlguiding visit www.girlguiding.org.uk and Scouts www.scouts.org.uk

Perform weekly drama, dance and singing classes

Perform classes are unique mix of fun drama games, dance and singing specially designed to boost confidence, communication, concentration and coordination. To book a FREE class visit www.perform.org.uk/try

Local classes available in:

Ashford: St Mary’s Community Centre, TN24 9LH

Bexley: St John Fisher Catholic Church Hall, DA5 1AP

Ebbsfleet: Castle Hill Community Centre, DA10 1AD NEW

Faversham: West Faversham Community Centre, ME13 7RH

Hempstead: Hempstead Valley Community Centre, ME7 3PD

Kings Hill: Kings Hill Community Hall, ME19 4LG

Langton Green: Langton Green Village Hall, TN3 0JJ

Maidstone: St Pauls Church, ME14 2AN

Riverhead: Riverhead Village Hall, TN13 2EL

Sevenoaks: The Parish Church of St Luke, TN13 1XT

Tonbridge: St John’s Church Centre, TN11 9HT

Tunbridge Wells: Christ Church Centre, TN1 1UT

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& CLASSES

Make a haunted house for Halloween!

We asked our friends at Art-K Art School (www.art-k.co.uk) for a wonderfully spooky creative project for the kids to make for Halloween and they have come up with this very scary, haunted house.

You will need:

ü Water colour paints, ü A4 and A5 pieces of card

Instructions:

ü Scissors

ü Black sharpie

ü Glue

Step 1: Draw the haunted house on card and use a black sharpie to outline it. Simplify it if your child is very young. Now paint in the outline.

Step 2: Fold an A4 piece of card in half horizontally. Create two flaps by cutting a three-sided panel either side of the fold. Bend the two flaps inwards.

Step 3: Copy and draw two pumpkins onto separate A5 pieces of card.

Step 5: Glue the painted pumpkins onto A5 pieces of card as shown.

Step 6: Draw and outline ghosts and tombstones on to the A4 piece of cards. Find some ghosts on the internet to inspire your child. Then paint.

Step 7: Open up the A4 piece of card to see the step in the middle that bending the flaps inwards has created.

You now have your haunted house with pumpkins and ghosts!

andCutout keep

Step 4: Outline and paint the pumpkins

Step 8: Glue the house onto this step and stick the card with the pumpkins in front of the house.

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2024 family friendly holiday destinations

Family holidays are opportunities to spend quality time together while making unforgettable memories. With cost always a factor though, booking ahead can offer the benefits of low deposits, discounts and even free child places. Plus you have more time to get excited and have something to look forward to! If you’ve not booked a family trip for 2024, here are some fabulous ideas.

Crete

Explore the largest of the Greek islands. For younger kids there are many quiet beaches and secluded coves. For the bigger ones, theme parks, aquariums and water sports are easy to come by. Should you squeeze in a chilled ‘adult day,’ laid back boat trips and snaking coastal walks promise spectacular sea and valley views. This island really does have something for everyone.

Abu Dhabi

Consider booking Abu Dhabi over Dubai for winter sun. It’s more relaxed, very well suited to families of all ages and has a less chaotic feel to it. Familyfriendly activities include Ferrari World, waterparks, snorkelling, diving, kayaking and relaxing sunset cruises. There is even a Warner Bros World!

Portugal

Explore beyond the Algarve on a fun road trip. Even in the summer motorways tend to be quiet, making it easy to explore a variety of regions, each with its own unique character. There are so many fun routes to explore which take in long golden beaches, hilltop medieval villages, famous vineyards, the natural beauty of the islands and delicious food.

Switzerland

This can be a magical, great outdoor destination for family holidays and breaks. Whether bathing in one of the many lakes or rivers, up high, climbing a mountain on a hike or cycling through unique landscapes, Switzerland is a paradise for summer outdoor adventures.

Sweden

Consider a family trip to Sweden in summer. You can relax and explore in equal measure. Enjoy the pure bliss of jumping into lakes, kayaking and swimming in the sea. Rest your head in a tent for some wild camping or book into a comfy boutique hotel. From staying in the unspoilt nature of Swedish Lapland to exploring Stockholm and its vast archipelago, Sweden is a dream for nature lovers and adventurous travellers.

Krk Island, Croatia

Connected to the mainland by bridge and also accessible directly by air, this island is lesser known and there’s no need for ferries. Krk’s natural beauty and numerous activities like scuba diving, go karting or simply just relaxing on one of the many lovely beaches and coves make it perfect for families.

Mauritius

For stunning scenery and beautiful beaches, year-round sunshine and enough breeze to keep young children cool, Mauritius is perfect both for summer and Christmas holidays. This wonderful island is extremely familyfriendly with plenty of hotels, restaurants and activities which cater well for families.

Thailand

For a long haul adventure, this is a great option. Travelling with children is easy, with welcoming locals and great domestic travel options helping you to explore with ease. From the hustle and bustle of Bangkok to the chilled out vibes of island life, there’s something for everyone.

Ashley Lutz is a Travel Counsellor with seventeen years’ experience working with families to find inspiring holidays best suiting their wants, needs and budget. More info at www.travelcounsellors.co.uk/ashley.lutz

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Is it ever okay to… give parenting advice to another parent?

Where do you stand on giving parenting advice to another parent? Should you try to help or steer clear altogether and give them the space to find their own solutions? If you are minded to have your say, we’ve got some suggestions to reduce the risk of sounding like a know-it-all. Two mums give their, ahem… advice!

We all know at least one baby who slept easily and fed beautifully from week one. If you are lucky in that respect, it is particularly tempting to offer advice but please don’t think you’ve discovered some amazing secret for solving all the problems of another parent.

Jumping in with advice can be the opposite of helpful; it may sound like you think you know the situation better than the parents. In reality, you can’t know all the factors at play.

It’s easy to blame ‘parenting’ when often there are biological issues that lie behind struggles with feeding, sleeping and meltdowns, many of which may not emerge for years. For example, developmental delays, sensory issues, hearing loss, ADHD, autism, eczema, reflux and allergies are just a few of the many (and sometimes invisible) possibilities. And it can take years for parents to figure out causes or find solutions. During that time, it’s typical for parents to feel judged, so while offering advice to an already sleep-deprived parent might make you feel better, it’s more likely to make them feel worse.

Advice, particularly when it hasn’t been asked for, can often land when energy levels are already low, putting the onus on the parent to have to justify why what has worked for you just doesn’t work for their child.

Anna, mum of two boys, from Devon

How to pick the right moment?

Timing is key: no matter how good the advice, it’s a bad idea to suggest anything after a particularly difficult night or right in the middle of any meltdown.

It’s important to see how the advice is being received, so avoid sending an email/text/WhatsApp or posting on social.

If in doubt, hold back. If someone shares a problem, chances are a non-judgmental listening ear and sympathy are actually more helpful than advice, however well-meant.

Getting advice at the right time and from the right people can be helpful. For example, when meeting up with other new mums to feed your baby and enjoy a coffee together, it seems natural to talk about what you’re going through and to compare experiences.

When you are all just figuring it out together, it feels less judgemental; more of a safe space in which to swap stories about small wins and epic fails. Just occasionally a golden nugget of advice will drop into your lap.

On the flipside, lots of parenting advice either won’t work for your particular situation or your child or it may be out of date. Granted, it can be irritating when advice is worded as if it’s a universal law applicable to everyone, therefore implying you are a ‘bad parent’ for not doing whatever it is. That said, it would be a shame to miss out on something useful just because of another person’s misplaced sense of conviction or poor timing.

I try to see advice as a potential tool rather than a rule and remind myself it’s in my power to be curious, to test and then reject or accept it. Even when the advice doesn’t work, ruling it out is one step closer to success. In this way I can see parenting as a process of constant refinements rather than a reflection on some kind of innate ability.

Sarah, mum of three, from Oxfordshire

What to share instead of advice?

Your own problems: in moderation. This helps the other parent feel less alone.

Things you are considering trying yourself but haven’t yet! So there’s no suggestion that you have the absolute answer. Useful gadgets/objects: keeps the focus on physical solutions rather than criticising actions.

Share your sources: mentioning helpful podcasts, books etc instead of offering specific advice (but only send a link if the person asks you to).

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‘Jumping in with advice can be the opposite of helpful.’
‘Just occasionally a golden nugget will drop into your lap.’

What's On

To promote your local event in the next issue, email the details to: editor@familieskent.co.uk

All listings are correct at the time of going to print.

Mon 11 Sep

Chartwell, Westerham, TN16 1PS www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Heritage Open Days return from 8 to 17 September with thousands of free events and experiences.

From historic houses to museums, to music halls, formal gardens to graveyards, places, spaces and communities will host hundreds of free events this autumn. Here are some local events:

Fri 8 to Sat 16 Sep

Canterbury Cathedral, CT1 2EH www.canterbury-cathedral.org

Discover the architecture of the Cathedral, explore the history of their Herbarium, or follow the journey of Queen Bertha and King Ethelbert, making Canterbury a UNSECO Heritage Site. FREE

Sat 9 Sep

Maidstone Museums, ME14 1LH www.museum.maidstone.gov.uk

See the beautiful 16th century wall painting of a grand picnic, which is normally hidden from sight in what is today the museum’s herbarium. Offering two tours, at 10am and 10.40am, spaces are limited so early booking is advisable.

Sat 9, Sun 10, Sat 16 & Sun 17 Sep

Margate Museum, CT9 1EN www.margatemuseums.org

Explore 2,500 plus years of the history of ‘Meregate.’ Learn more than ever in of the history of Margate. 11am-3pm. FREE.

Sun 10 & Sun 17 Sep

Herne Windmill, Herne Bay, CT6 7DR www.hernewindmill.co.uk

Discover Herne Windmill. Now a museum of milling technology with working machinery. 2-5pm, last admission at 4.30pm.

Free entry from 10am-4pm. With this year’s theme ‘Creativity Unwrapped’ join in the celebration. Please note that there are still only a limited number of house tickets for safety, so entrance is not guaranteed.

Sat 16 Sep to Sun 15 Oct

Brogdale Collections, Faversham ME13 8XZ

www.brogdalecollections.org

Come and see the wonderful orchards bursting with fruit, go on a tour of the National Collection and taste hundreds of varieties straight from the trees. Children will be able to join in with some apple campfire cooking, and traditional apple pressing and visit a fabulous face painter. 10am-3pm.

Sat 16 & Sun 17 Sep

Crab Museum, Margate, CT9 1EW www.crabmuseum.org

Europe’s only museum dedicated to the crab. Discover the secrets of these amazing creatures from the story of the giant Margate crab to what sooty crayfish has in common with fidget spinners. 11am-4.30pm. FREE.

Sat 9 and Sun 10 Sep

Monkton Nature Reserve Ramsgate, CT12 4LH www.monkton-reserve.org

The reserve has new adventure fun trails for families to enjoy. Search for beautiful sculptures or go on the hunt for brass rubbings, fairy houses and fossils. Learn about British wildlife whilst you enjoy crafts and games. 10am-4pm.

To find more local events visit www.heritageopendays.org.uk

Play n’ Grow Childcare

Play ‘n Grow Childcare offers a range of childcare options for ages 0 to 11. They offer nursery care at the Angel Centre (ages 0-5) and a Holiday Club for ages 2-11 at Bishop Chavasse.

For more information email Sarah at playngrowchildcare@gmail.com

Every Sat Love Your Local Market

Bligh’s Meadow Shopping Centre, Sevenoaks TN13 1DA www.blighsmeadow.com

Offering a range of local goods from breads to art and crafts stalls, Fun for all to explore and discover. 9am-4pm.

Ongoing

Trainmaster Venues across Kent www.trainmaster.co.uk

Train lovers can visit for an hour of play. Refreshments available. Venues across Kent. See the website for an event near you.

Until Sun 8 Oct Sculpture Trail Safari Leeds Castle, Maidstone ME17 1PL www.leeds-castle.com

Eye-catching sculptures made from bronze, stone, wood even recycled materials. Discover the beauty of this unique art form for everyone to enjoy. Included with admission.

Throughout Sep and Oct Jambs Owls Experience Hall Place & Gardens, Bexley DA5 1PQ www.hallplace.org.uk

Meet live owls and have the opportunity to hold one. £4 adults, £3 children.

Mon 4 Sep to Sat 21 Oct

Autumn Colour Eye Spy Ightham Mote, Sevenoaks, TN15 0NT www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Celebrate the season by finding autumn items in the garden of Ightham Mote.

Thu 7 to Sun 10 Sep

Craft Fair

Hever Castle, Edenbridge, TN8 7NG www.hevercastle.co.uk

Head to Hever Castle in September for a contemporary autumn craft fair organised by Craft In Focus. Over the four days you will be able to purchase direct from around 180 of the UK’s finest professional craft makers and artists at this craft fair based in the heart of the Kentish countryside.

Fri 8 to Sun 10 Sep

Artisan & Food Fair

Leeds Castle, Maidstone, ME17 1PL

www.leeds-castle.com

With over 80 artisan makers, 10 street food sellers, face painting for little ones, games, live music, this is sure to be one fantastic weekend for all. Book online.

Fri 8 to Sun 10 Sep

Heritage & Harvest Country Fair

Scotney Castle, Tunbridge Wells TN3 8JN

www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Enjoy falconry displays, have-a-go archery, boutique and artisan food stalls, wood-turning and many more for all the family to have fun.

Sat 9 Sep

Outdoor Cinema: Matilda the Musical Knole, Sevenoaks, TN15 0RP

www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Based on the Roald Dahl’s classic story enjoy the adventure of the extraordinary Matilda Wormwood, with comedy, drama, song and dance. 7.30pm. £15.

Sat 9 Sep

Autumn Plant Fair & Artisan Market

Reuthe’s the Lost Gardens of Sevenoaks, TN15 0HB

www.reuthes.com

Reuthe’s first Autumn plant fair offering an artisan market, rare and unusual plants for sale, children activities, live music and more. 10am-4pm. Adults £3, kids free.

Sat 9 to Sun 10 & Sat 16 to Sun 17 Sep

Walled Garden Music Festival

Tonbridge Castle, Tonbridge TN9 1BG

www.tonbridgecastle.org

Two weekends of a legendary festival in Tonbridge Castle. With amazing bands each day and other fantastic festivities.

Sat 9 to Sun 10 Sep

Salute to the 40s

The Historic Dockyard, Chatham ME4, 4TZ

www.thedockyard.co.uk

Feel nostalgic as the Historic Dockyard is transformed into a 1940s experience. Hundreds of reenactors with songs by Dame Vera Lynn and Glenn Miller. A market full of fashion essentials, accessories, homeware and free vintage funfair rides.

Every Fri from Sat 15 Sep to Fri 20 Oct

Nature Tots

Venue in Sevenoaks and Maidstone

www.kentwildlifetrust.org.uk

Explore, discover and learn with art and craft-based activities. Sessions run from 9.45-11.45am.

Sat 16 Sep

Mad Hatter’s Children’s Party

Reuthe’s the Lost Gardens of Sevenoaks, TN15 0HB www.reuthes.com

Be bonkers at this children’s party. With the best children’s games to play and a meet and greet session with Alpaca Nuzzle n’ Scratch. 4:307:30pm. £2-£4.

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Paws in the Park Kent Showground, Detling Hill, Maidstone ME14 3HS

www.pawsinthepark.net

Enjoy a weekend packed with superb arena entertainment and demonstrations, ‘have a go’ dog activities, plus superb shopping for your furry friends. All dogs are welcome and there are endless K9 activities to take part in. Book tickets online.

Sat 16 to Sun 17 Sep

Bluey & Bingo

Romney, Hythe & Dymchurch Railway, New Romney, TN28 8PL www.rhdr.org.uk

Bluey & Bingo at coming to New Romney. See them at intervals throughout the day and don’t forget to bring your camera. Book online.

Sun 17 Sep

Raver Tots Outdoor Festival

Maidstone Big Top Special Mote Park, ME15 7RN www.ravertots.co.uk

The ultimate family-friendly dance festival. With free fairground rides, a great line-up and a range of activities and entertainment from Paw Patrol official, stalls, games, arts and crafts, meet the Raver Tots dinosaurs and lots more. Pre-book.

Sat 23 Sep

Margate Harvest Festival

The Oval Bandstand & Lawns Margate, CT9 2HL www.theovalbandstand.co.uk

A showcase for growers and sellers of local food and produce. Browse the stunning range of arts, crafts, food, drink and live music. Free entry to show though a small charge to enter the competitions. 12-5pm. Limited car parking.

Various Dates in Oct

Pick Your Pumpkin!

Pumpkin Moon, Maidstone, ME14 3BE

www.pumpkinmoon.uk

Pick your own halloween pumpkin with over 100 different varieties to choose from. Food and drink available and fancy dress is highly encouraged. 10am-3.30pm. Booking is required.

Pumpkin Festival

Lower Ladysden Farm, Goudhurst, TN17 1JX

www.lowerladysden.co.uk

Grab your wellies and pick up a wheelbarrow and come and see pumpkins in all their glory. £2.50 per person (ages 3+) and the PYO Pumpkin Nights cost £5 per person (ages 3+). Pre-book.

Thu 5 to Sun 8 Oct

Tenterden Folk Festival Tenterden, TN30 6AN

www.tenterdenfolkfestival.com

An exciting mix of concerts, barn dance, ceilidh, morris dancing, craft fair and stalls, meet the guests and special events for all to enjoy. Tickets are available online.

Fri 6 to Sun 8 Oct

Fungi Fair

Emmetts Garden, Sevenoaks, TN14 6BA

www.nationaltrust.org.uk

The Fungi Festival is in full swing, with special family activities for half term. Join fungi-themed craft sessions, photography workshops, live music and food stalls (fee plus admission for some activities. See website for details).

Fri 6 Oct and Fri 3 Nov

Mini Deckers

The Historic Dockyard, Chatham ME4, 4TZ

www.thedockyard.co.uk

Come along for a tea and cake with other local mums. This free, babyfriendly coffee morning with plenty of toys and colouring for children.

Sat 14 Oct

Harry Potter Book Day

Victoria Park and Watercress Fields, Ashford, TN23 4QA

www.victoriaparkashford.co.uk

With a trail and golden snitch hunt around the park with prizes for those who complete it and extra treats for dressing up in Harry Potter related wear. FREE. 10am-3pm.

Sat 14 to Sun 29 Oct

The Amazing Riverhill Pumpkin Festival

Riverhill Himalayan Gardens

Sevenoaks, TN15 0RR

www.riverhillgardens.co.uk

With lots to do such as bring your own pumpkin carving in Riverhill grotto. Pumpkin hunt with some sweet treats at the end and see the wonderful pumpkin craving inspiration and autumnal colours along the way. Closed Mon and Tue.

Sat 14 to Sun 29 Oct

Trick or Treat

Quex Adventure Farm Park Birchington, CT70BH www.quexadventurefarmpark.com

Are you brave to enter the Spooky Woods, the Bewitched Pumpkin Picking Patch and The Slime Blaster Express? If you complete the trail you might just be rewarded with a sweet treat. Book early to avoid disappointment.

Sat 14 to Tue 31 Oct

Spooktacular Halloween Trail

Reuthe’s the Lost Gardens of Sevenoaks, TN15 0HB

www.reuthes.com

Reuthe’s Halloween trail is bigger than ever. Collect your trail sheet and then make your way around the gardens, where a prize awaits. 9am-3pm. £3-£5. Book online.

Sun 15 to Sat 28 Oct

Pumpkin Patch

Stanhill Farm, Dartford, DA2 7HD www.stanhillfarm.co.uk

Enjoy the spirit of Halloween and pick your own pumpkin to take home and carve. Head down to their enormous patch where you will find an array of pumpkins and a chance for a photo opportunity, surrounded by autumn colours. Mon to Sat: 9.30am-3.30pm. Sun: 10.30am–2.30pm. Booking essential.

Sat 21 to Sun 29 Oct

Halloween Spooktacular Kent Life, Maidstone, ME14 3AU www.kentlife.org.uk

Family-friendly halloween fun. With pumpkin carving, creepy corner, fun farm rides and daily fancy dress competitions. Go trick or treating this half term. Under 2s free. Adult and children £12. Booking essential.

Sat 21 to Sun 29 Oct

Ghosts at the Mote Trail Ightham Mote, Sevenoaks, TN15 0NT www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Boo! Can you find the ghosts hidden around the garden? Hunt down the naughty ghosts who are hiding around the garden. Craft activities available. 10am- 5pm.

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Sat 21 to Sun 29 Oct

Halloween Half Term

Dover Castle, CT16 1HU

www.english-heritage.org.uk

Gather your little monsters for a ghoulishly good day out at Dover Castle this half term. Follow the trail to solve creepy clues and gather round to listen to spooky stories. 10am-4pm.

Sat 21 to Sun 29 Oct

Halloween Half Term Fun

Hever Castle, Edenbridge, TN8 7NG www.hevercastle.co.uk

Spooky things are happening in Hever Castle. With a family-friendly Halloween themed trail, free pebble craft workshop and meet some spooky characters along the way. Also get a frightening face paint (weekends only and additional charge applies).

Sat 21 to Sun 29 Oct

Halloween at Leeds Castle Leeds Castle, Maidstone, ME17 1PL www.leeds-castle.com

From ghosts, ghouls and pumpkins, get ready for a spooky adventure and lots of fun for friends and family.

Sat 21 to Sun 29 Oct

The Big Draw Festival Knole House, Sevenoaks TN15 0RP www.nationaltrust.org.uk

The Big Draw Festival returns to Knole with ‘Drawing with Senses’. Take part in art and craft activities and enjoy a children’s spotter trail and workshops.

Mon 23 to Fri 27 Oct

Family Activities – Second World War

Royal Engineers Museum Gillingham, ME7 1UR www.re-museum.co.uk

Be transported into the Second World War. From making a ration book, identity card and gas mask box, learn and discover whilst having fun. £3 per activity per child.

Mon 23 Oct

Fizz Pop Science: What On Earth Is That?

Hall Place & Gardens, Bexley DA5 1PQ www.hallplace.org.uk

A fun-filled science session with mind exploding experiments.

Everyone can get hands on with a chemical reaction that will turn a simple gooey liquid into a more malleable and stretchy putty. £12 per child (first adult free), additional adults £12. 11am, 1pm and 2:30pm.

Tue 24 Oct

Scavenger Hunts Walpole Bay, Margate, CT9 3HF www.thanetcoast.org.uk

From 2pm take the shoreline challenge to find clues about our marine and bird life and coastal environment with a creative BeachART challenge. Ages 4-9.

Wed 25 Oct

Children’s Workshop Knole, Sevenoaks, TN15 0RP www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Let your child decorate their own wooden frame. Taking inspiration from Knole’s grand collection of frames and paintings. Booking is essential. Admission applies. 10.30am-12.30pm and 1.30-3.30pm.

Fri 27 Oct

Little Pumpkins Halloween Party! Mercure Maidstone Great Danes Hotel, Maidstone, ME17 1RE www.mercuremaidstone.co.uk

Spooktacular entertainment, full of activities, crafts, disco, and food. 12-3pm. Pre-book.

Fri 27 Oct

Fiendish Fun

The Alexander Centre, Faversham, ME13 8NZ

www.thealex.org.uk

Enjoy fin activities including pumpkin carving, face painting arts and crafts. £5 per child (pumpkin

Spooky Halloween fun at Quex Adventure Farm Park

Dare to venture to Quex Adventure Farm Park this Halloween?

Enjoy a family-friendly Trick or Treat Trail in the Spooky Woods, the Bewitched Pumpkin Picking Patch and ‘The Slime Blaster Express’.

Are you brave enough to face the Creepy Characters in The Spooky Woods? Survive their terrible tricks and you just might be rewarded with a spooktacular sweet treat.

Tickets include: the Trick or Treat Trail, a Halloween treat, one pumpkin per child, a trip aboard the Slime Blaster Express and access to Quex Adventure Farm Park facilities (weather dependant).

www.quexadventurefarmpark.com/trickortreat

included). 10am-12pm and 1-3pm. Spaces are limited, book now.

Fri 27 Oct

Kids Halloween Party Silvers, Margate, CT9 1DX www.facebook.com/ silversmargate

Halloween party, disco games and prizes for the best dressed. 12-1.30pm, 2.30-4pm. £5 per child, includes one free adult. Additional adults are £2. Book online.

Fri 27 Oct

Half Term Spooktacular

Children’s Showtime

The Stag Theatre, Sevenoaks, TN13 1ZZ

www.stagsevenoaks.co.uk

A spooktacular show with a whole lot of fun and laughter.

Sat 28 Oct

Family Fright Night

Reuthe’s the Lost Gardens of Sevenoaks, TN15 0HB www.reuthes.com

Join if you dare for Family Fright Night at Reuthe’s! A guided spooky walk and the guide will discretely warn adults prior to each jump scare. Book online. Ages 7+.

Sat 28 Oct

Frightening Faversham

The Alexander Centre, Faversham, ME13 8NZ www.thealex.org.uk

A spooky and Halloween activity workshop. Take a lid off history and see all the squirmy and slimy things beneath. 10-11:30am or 1-2:30pm. Ages 6+.

Sat 28 & Sun 29 Oct

Children’s Halloween Disco

Reuthe’s the Lost Gardens of Sevenoaks, TN15 0HB

www.reuthes.com

With spooky themed fun and games, a meet and greet with an Alpaca, ghoulish menu and much more! Book online.

Sun 29 and Mon 30 Oct

Dr Frankenslime’s Trick or Treat Express!

Spa Valley Railway, Royal Tunbridge Wells, TN2 5QY

www.spavalleyrailway.co.uk

With gruesome experiments, the mad doctor will create his famous, glow in the dark slime, where each child will get to take it home with them and activity packs for all the children on board.

Fri 3 Nov

Gunpowder, Treason & Plot: Murder Mystery Night

Ightham Mote, Sevenoaks, TN15 0NT

www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Can you figure out who did it? Travel around the house and question our cast of characters to see if you have solve the mystery before the night comes to an end. Family-friendly event.

Sat 4 Nov

Quex Park Bonfire & Fireworks Quex Park, Birchington, CT7 0BH www.quexparkfireworks.co.uk

Come and enjoy an unforgettable day of fun, excitement and the sheer joy of fireworks! Familyfriendly event with children’s fireworks, a fairground, bonfire, food & drink and live music. Prebook online and save with early bird tickets.

Sat 4 & Sun 5 Nov

Fireworks Spectacular Leeds Castle, Maidstone, ME17 1PL www.leeds-castle.com

This incredibly popular event combines fireworks to make you ‘oooh’ and ‘ahhh’, and music that you will want to sing and dance to all night long to your favourite Movie soundtracks. Get ready to watch in awe as the mesmerising fireworks show lights up the sky, and as a complementing full production of music, projections and lasers bring the Castle to life. Pre-book tickets online.

Enjoy some Halloween half term family fun at Hever Castle

Treat your little ones to a spine-tingling visit to Hever Castle this October.

Keep an eye out for letters scattered in the grounds to spell out a mysterious word in return for a small prize. Don’t miss the giant spider!

Don your creepiest costume to really get the most out of the family friendly Halloween themed trail.

Get creative with a free pebble painting craft workshop (included in admission charge). Dare to meet the vampire, vampire hunter or ghost roaming the grounds who will be retelling spooky stories. And, finish off your day with a frightening face paint (weekends only – additional charge).

www.hevercastle.co.uk

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THEATRE & SHOWS

Assembly Hall Theatre

Tunbridge Wells, TN1 2LU

Box Office: 01892 530613 www.assemblyhalltheatre.co.uk

16 Sep

Fireman Sam Live! Saves the Circus

Enjoy this all singing, dancing and action-packed show. Have the chance to become a fire-fighter cadet and watch the adventures unfold before your very eyes.

Gulbenkian Arts Centre

Canterbury, CT2 7NB Box Office: 01227 769075 www.thegulbenkian.co.uk

Sat 7 Oct

The Crockodogopig

Follow Crock as he sets out on a quest to retrieve his stolen Happy from the wicked Kangalouse. With live music, puppetry, comedy, and beatboxing. Ages 4+. £8.

Sat 14 Oct

The Lightbulb Princess

Can you help a very unusual princess solve an unexpected problem? With sparkles, catchy songs and electrifying storytelling. Ages 4+. £8.

Wed 18 & Thu 19 Oct

The Gruffalo’s Child

Follow the Gruffalo’s Child on her adventurous mission in Tall Stories’ enchanting adaptation of the much-loved picture book by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler. Ages 3+. £14.

Sun 29 Oct

Tiny Echoes

Albert and Halley are happy and wonder what the future might be. However, after a sudden and tragic loss, Albert travels the cosmos in an attempt to keep his one true love alive. Featuring a tale of love, loss, space and time. Ages 7+. 2pm.

The Alexander Centre Faversham, ME13 8NZ Box Office: 01795 591691 www.thealex.org.uk

Sat 28 Oct

Mama G’s The Magic Bookmark

A brand-new family panto adventure from everyone’s favourite dame. An utterly joyous and

heartwarming performance. Full of fun, interaction, storytelling, song, and puppetry. 11am.

The Granville Theatre

Ramsgate, CT11 8DG Box Office: 03330 096 697 www.thegranvilletheatre.com

Sat 21 & Sun 22 Oct

Stranger Sings!

This award-winning show is the twist on the hit Netflix series, so take a trip with your favourite gang in this fearless parody.

The Orchard Theatre

Dartford, DA1 1ED Box Office: 0343 310 0033 www.orchardtheatre.co.uk

Mon 18 Sep

Bring Your Own Baby Comedy

Laugh out loud with this baby friendly comedy club. Adults 18+, babies 15 months and under.

Mon 2 to Sat 7 Oct

Shrek The Musical

Shrek the Musical is a fun filled and hilarious musical comedy with a legendary cast. With fabulous songs, this is a musical for all ages. 2:30pm and 7:30pm.

Wed 11 to Sat 14 Oct

DAODS - Chitty Chitty Bang Bang

An out-of-this-world car that flies through the air and sails on the seas. When the evil Baron Bomburst of Vulgaria want the magic car for himself, the family joins forces with Truly and Grandpa Potts to outsmart the Baron and his henchman, the Child Catcher.

Fri 20 to Sun 22 Oct

Peppa Pig’s Fun Day Out

A brand-new live show for all Peppa fans. Full of songs and dance expect lots of giggles and snorts. An exciting and fun packed performance. From £15.

EM Forster Theatre

Tonbridge, TN9 1JP Box Office: 01732 304241 www.emftheatre.com

Sat 9 Sep

Sing-along Matilda the Musical Sing-along adaption of the awardwinning musical, Matilda. Be warned, the children are revolting! Tickets £10, £8 Concession, over 65 & Under 16 years (PG).

Discover the thrilling history of Canterbury Cathedral

UNESCO World Heritage Site, seat of the Archbishop of Canterbury and resting place of saints and royalty, Canterbury Cathedral’s thrilling history spans hundreds of years, telling the stories that have shaped England.

Whether admiring medieval stained glass windows including the oldest in Britain, marveling at carved tombs, seeking out dragons and grotesques, or exploring the stunning cloisters and grounds, there’s plenty to do.

And with new visitor experiences and Kids Go Free until 31 December 2023 (T&Cs apply). There’s never been a better time to visit.

Book now www.canterbury-cathedral.org

Sat 14 & Sun 15 Oct

Stick Man

What starts off as a morning jog becomes quite the misadventure for Stick Man: a dog wants to play fetch with him, a swan builds a nest with him, and he even ends up on a fire! How will Stick Man ever get back to the family tree? £14.50.

Trinity Theatre

Tunbridge Wells, TN1 1JP Box Office: 01892 678 678 www.trinitytheatre.net

Sun 17 Sep

Snug & Grub Catch a Bug! See the wonderful story with an array of colourful puppets, a spectacular crafted set and catchy music. 2pm.

Sat 23 Sep

Ultimate Dinosaurs with Ben Garrod

Ultimate Dinosaurs is the hit sold-out stage show starring dinosaur aficionado Dr Ben Garrod. Discover the deadliest predators that ever roamed the planet from Tyrannosaurus rex to Spinosaurus. An entertaining and educating performance. Fantastically interactive. Guarantee you learn something new. 2pm.

Sat 7 Oct

Olaf Falafel’s Super Stupid Show

Join comedian and children’s author Olaf Falafel for an hour of kid’s comedy which begins at 2:30pm. A well-crafted, goofy and hilarious show for ages 3+.

Hazlitt Theatre

Maidstone, ME14 1PL

Box Office: 01622 758611

www.parkwoodtheatres.co.uk

Mon 18 & Tue 19 Sep

Tales From Acorn Wood

Welcome to the tales from Acorn Wood, featuring Rabbit’s Nap, Fox’s Socks, Hid-and-Seek Pig and Postman Bear. With catchy songs, enchanting puppetr. All ages.

Malthouse

Canterbury, CT2 7JA Box Office: 01227 287234

www.malthousetheatre.co.uk

Sun 22 Oct

Dinosaur Adventure Live

Step back in time and join the intrepid rangers on a guest to recover the data crystal, restore power to the island and save the dinosaurs! Learn, discover and explore in this wonderful T-rex-iffic show. 2pm & 4.30pm.

Mon 23 Oct

Sleeping Beauty

A classical ballet brought to life. See the wonder and magic of live dance in this fairytale story. With mesmerising dancers, stunning costumes and Tchaikovsky’s sumptuous score for the whole family. 1pm and 3pm. Adults £14.25, children & concessions £17.25.

Sat 28 Oct

Top Secret – The Magic of Science

An action-packed show full of exciting experiments that will delight, educate and inspire the whole family. £13.25 Adults, £11.25 Children, £40 Family (2 adults, 2 children or 1 adult, 3 children).

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