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There’s a chill in the air, we’re edging towards winter and the Christmas season will soon be with us! Get ready to shop with inspiration for Christmas toys for the kids and family in our gift guide, which consists only of accredited toys tested by play experts and children.
Editor: Dale Harry Tel: 07958284983 Email: editor@familiesherts.co.uk Web: www.familiesonline.co.uk
In our Education feature, find out about multiple intelligences, choose an exciting, new chapter book for your child and discover the connection between growing sunflowers and maths skills. Those of you with a child with food allergies, find out how you can work with their school to keep them safe while they are there.
4 News 6 Education 9 Best books
10-11 Gift guide 12 Parenting 14 What’s On
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Christmas at Hatfield House Hatfield Park is delighted to welcome guests to its new festive experience – Fantastical Christmas Revels, hosted by Queen Elizabeth I. Experience the captivating allure of Queen Elizabeth I’s reign as you journey though meticulously crafted installations that pay homage to the Tudor period. This exclusive Christmas event is designed to enchant, educate, and transport you to an age of regality and wonder. There is so much to see and enjoy: The Carriage of Elegance; admire a life-sized Tudor carriage adorned with intricate details, reflecting the opulence of Queen Elizabeth I’s courtly travels. Mummers’ Merriment; encounter merry mummers as they perform their traditional festive plays. Musical Renaissance; immerse yourself in the melodies of the era, as musicians serenade you with tunes that echo through time and dancers sway to the music. Table of Abundance; a sumptuous banquet table laden with lavish decorations, reminiscent of the extravagant feasts enjoyed by royalty. Christmas Kissing Bough; stand beneath the festive bough, adorned with holly, ivy, and mistletoe, symbols of Tudor Christmas celebrations. The grand finale; a towering, imposing figure of Queen Elizabeth I herself, extending her royal welcome to one and all. Fantastical Christmas Revels from 30 November to 31 December, closed Christmas Day and Boxing Day. For more info and tickets visit – www.hatfield-house.co.uk/christmas/
a family ticket to Rapunzel at The SandPit Theatre! The critically acclaimed creative team that brought you Hansel & Gretel are back with more fun-fuelled pantomime madness; a joyful new twist on another old story, exciting and enjoyable festive entertainment. Rapunzel saves the day (and herself!) in this action packed, magical musical pantomime adventure at The SandPit Theatre, St Albans (www.SandPitPanto.co.uk). Let down your hair with a cast of kooky characters as they dance and sing through this unusual tangled tale; where people live in giant old boots and tall towers and where frog boys rap about enchanted ponds. HOW TO ENTER To be in with a chance of winning one of two family tickets (4 tickets per family) to the show, which runs 1631 December, answer the following question correctly: What is the name of the theatre that’s showing Rapunzel? a The GrassPit b The DirtPit c The SandPit Email your answer, name and contact details to editor@ familiesherts.co.uk. Closing date is 4 December. Terms and conditions online.
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information about the current level of your child’s maths ability. Depending on their performance, the result will also trigger recommendations and suggestions as to how AE Publications’ maths materials can help your child work to improve in year 5 or year 6. After your child has taken the test, you will be sent a link to view a video of a fully UK-qualified teacher working through the answers and the correct methodology. o take AE Publications’ free T online mathematics test for accurate information on your child’s ability, go to aepublications.co.uk
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Less play linked to rise in mental health problems Fewer opportunities to play and roam free has led to a decline in mental health among adolescents, new research suggests.
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The team behind the findings say the reduction in play stems from parents’ ‘good intentions carried too far’ as families are subject to more messages about keeping children safe and more emphasis on school achievement. The research was carried out by three prominent specialists in child development at the University of Florida, who say that children’s worsening mental health has ‘crept up on us gradually, over decades.’ Taking part in ‘risky’ play, such as climbing high in trees and activities which encourage personal responsibility, can help to develop self-confidence and reduce the risk of future anxiety, say the study authors, but children are being given fewer opportunities to engage in these sorts of activities. More info: www.bit.ly/FloridaUni Familiesonline.co.uk
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EDUCATION
Growing sunflowers and learning maths? By Usha Patel Parents often ask me how to get their child interested in maths because ‘they just don’t get it.’ Luckily, they can give their child a lot of help at home in just a few easy steps. Maths language It’s essential to keep maths language simple to build a strong foundation. Use words like ‘more’ for addition and ‘less’ for subtraction in everyday situations. For instance, you can introduce these concepts during meals: more roast potatoes, less sprouts! Repeatedly using these words alongside tangible materials helps children gradually grasp mathematical concepts. Maths talk There are many words to describe each mathematical function. When you teach your child the basic concepts of ‘more’ and ‘less,’ you are implicitly teaching them maths and how to think mathematically. By doing this, you are combining logic, sequence and memory. Having the basics in place can also allow you to introduce more words to describe the same function: ‘add,’ ‘together,’ ‘plus’ and ‘addition’ all mean the same. Develop sequential thought processes Sequential thought processes are fundamental to understanding logical thinking. Parents can encourage these by discussing daily activities and routines with their children. By reflecting on how one event follows another, children can grasp the concept of sequencing, which is a vital skill in mathematics. Establish logical thinking Children also need to develop logical thinking abilities. Fun activities like baking a cake or growing sunflowers can help introduce logic to young minds. These activities require following
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a series of linear steps. Discussing each phase from beginning to end helps children understand the importance of logical thinking, which can extend to organising their school bags or planning for sleepovers. Check memory Short-term memory is crucial for mathematical tasks. Insufficient working memory can hinder a child’s ability to hold and manipulate information during calculations. Playing memory games is an effective way to enhance memory capacity. For instance, counting games such as counting the number of cars on the way home can reveal memory strengths and weaknesses. Finally, learning should be fun. When we are relaxed, we are more predisposed to absorbing what we learn. The funnier the delivery, the quicker it will stick. If your child is struggling and your efforts need to gain ground, take some steps to put the fun back into maths! Usha Patel is a neurocognitive therapist at Raviv Practice London. If you need help to put fun into maths for your child, you can contact Usha at www.ravivpracticelondon.co.uk.
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EDUCATION
Understanding multiple intelligences By Zuzu Jordan
Look up the word intelligent in the thesaurus and you will find words like ‘smart’, ‘clever’ and ‘bright’. Traditionally in schools, pupils with regular high scores in academic or IQ tests are recognised as intelligent. Yet, as a society, we marvel at great artists, musicians and Olympians for their outstanding talent. How intelligence is measured is a debatable topic and leaves many people divided. Howard Gardner (a well know theorist) proposed that there are many types of intelligences. Logical relates to someone who can carry out mathematical problems, hypothesise and investigate scientifically. Linguistic describes someone who is considered word smart and can easily learn languages. Spatial refers to artists and architects who can visualise with their mind’s eye. Kinaesthetic is being able to use the whole body or parts of the body exceptionally well, such as a dancer or athlete. Musical refers to someone who can perform, compose and appreciate musical patterns. Interpersonal is working effectively with people, knowing their intentions and motivations. Intrapersonal refers to strong self-awareness and using this understanding in everyday life. Naturalistic is the ability to identify different species and work well with all things natural.
activities. What are they like outside? Do they naturally tap out rhythms in the car whilst the radio is playing? Celebrate what they CAN do so they develop a sense of pride. Does your child know which intelligences they lean towards? Play to their strengths. For example, if your child is spatially smart, ask them to draw what they are learning. If they show signs of naturalistic intelligence, give them sticks and other natural objects to create patterns and images. Children are required to learn to read. Choose books that tap into their interests and intelligences. Discuss your child’s strengths with their teachers. The more they understand your child’s leanings, the better lesson planning can involve multiple intelligences. Play games such as Junior Scrabble, Monopoly, making sound effects in a story, charades, puppets and role play or garden activities.
Children may show strong signs of intelligence in more than one area, perhaps with a tendency to a dominant one. Sometimes their intelligences may shift when exposed to different experiences and activities.
Nurture their particular intelligences with after school activities/clubs.
How do we support our children in harnessing their intelligences?
Read books that help children understand the importance of working on their intelligences, for example You are Awesome by Matthew Syed.
Not all educational establishments will fully cater for your child’s intelligences but parents can play a vital role by using some of these ideas at home: Start by observing what your child enjoys across a range of
Use online quizzes which help identify children’s intelligences.
Zuzu Jordan is a Mastery for Maths specialist who has taught primary aged children for sixteen years and is interested in early years and home learning. For free homework and home learning resources, find the Facebook page Edumateuk.
Bloom’s Taxonomy
Mind mapping
How do you know if your child really understands a topic? According to Benjamin Bloom, there are six cognitive processing abilities which reflect someone’s level of understanding: remember, understand, apply, analyse, evaluate and finally, create. To see if your child understood their topic on the Romans at school, you may look into whether they remember facts first, before eventually progressing to creating something such as an amphitheatre. As you move up the hierarchy, the cognitive process requires a deeper level of thinking and ultimately understanding.
Mind mapping is a useful way to organise information, helping children see connections between points around a central topic.
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Mind maps can include pictures and diagrams and can be ‘messy’ like a ‘brain dump’ or presented in a more organised format. Sub-topics break off the main topic like tree branches. The information is a summary of ideas in either a few words or a sentence. Children can create their mind maps by hand or use software which allows them to move the sub-topics around. Familiesonline.co.uk
EDUCATION
Seven of the best new chapter books for children By Sarah Campbell
From animal lovers to budding detectives, fantasy fans to comedians, there’s a book out there for everyone! Here are some of our recent favourites, perfect for your next reading adventure.
Around the world The Last Mapmaker Christina Soontornvat Set sail on the high seas with 12-year-old Sai in this extraordinary adventure set in a Thai-inspired fantasy world. As assistant to Mangkon’s most celebrated mapmaker, Sai seizes the chance to join an expedition to a land of dragons, dangers and riches beyond imagining. But Sai carries a secret that could ruin her dreams and she isn’t the only one. Ages 8+.
Animal lovers
Kids who love fantasy
Michael the Amazing MindReading Sausage Dog Terrie Chilvers, illustrated by Tim Budgen
Spellstone Ross Montgomery
A fun, illustrated early chapter book perfect for young dog-lovers! Michael’s dream is to become a global superstar but becoming famous is no walk in the park. How long will it take the other residents of Snuffles-by-Sea to recognise Michael’s amazing talents; and those of his trusty sidekick, Stanley Big Dog? Ages 5+.
One of our all-time favourite children’s authors delivers a brilliant new fantasy adventure. Evie is used to going unnoticed. But then she meets the mysterious Wainwright and is recruited to a secret magical organisation. Suddenly Evie finds herself at the heart of an ancient battle to protect the most powerful magical weapon in the world. Ages 8+.
Reluctant readers
Funny books
The Day the Hiccups Took Over Jo Simmons, illustrated by Lee Cosgrove
My Name is Sunshine Simpson G. M. Linton
Hilarious and super accessible, this is a book packed with madcap reading magic from one of our favourite funny authors. Frank has a big day ahead of him, with a trip to the dentist, a trumpet exam, a swimming contest and tickets to see his hero live on stage. But he wakes up with hiccups and they just won’t STOP! Can Frank turn calamity into a dramatic triumph? Ages 5+.
This book will make you both laugh and cry! Sunshine Simpson is a brand new best friend for independent readers. Grandad is always telling her to get out and find her own adventures but bad luck has a habit of coming her way. Sunshine needs to find her voice and show the world she can shine. Ages 8+.
Kids who love adventure
Budding detectives
The Thames and Tide Club Katya Balen, illustrated by Rachael Dean
The Case of the Lighthouse Intruder Kereen Getten
Clem and her friends are members of a mudlarking club, searching for treasures on the banks of the River Thames. Before they know it they’re on the weirdest, wildest adventure they could imagine on a mission to save underwater London! The first in a new series. Ages 5+.
Perfect for fans of Robin Stevens’ Murder Most Unladylike series, this is a gripping mystery. Fayson’s cousins recruit her to their top-secret gang but seem more interested in food, squabbling and falling asleep! So Fayson takes charge and tries to track down clues about the strange shadow that has been appearing in the island’s lighthouse. Can she solve the case? Ages 8+.
Sarah Campbell is co-founder of Parrot Street Book Club (www.parrotstreet.com), an online children’s bookshop offering a handpicked collection of high-quality children’s chapter books, plus an award-winning monthly book subscription for kids ages 5 to 14. Familiesonline.co.uk
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Christmas
Your Christmas Toy
GIFT GUIDE
Whether you’re a spontaneous shopper or a meticulous gift planner, you’ll want your choices both to hit the mark and become firm favourites. While age recommendations are useful guidelines for toy purchases, remember that not all children develop at the same rate. Do consider the child’s passions and hobbies. Do they love dinosaurs? Are they a budding artist or passionate about science? Once you have a clearer picture in your mind, it’s easier to get started. For inspiration, take a look at The Good Play Guide’s (www.goodplayguide.com) top picks for the festive season. You can rest assured that these accredited products Rock Stepper - Educational have been independently tested by play experts and most importantly, by children.
Playmat
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Paddington’s Campervan
Tonies Toniebox
Paddington and Bessie the Campervan are ready for an adventure. Paddington himself has a picnic hamper, blanket, cup of tea and, of course... a marmalade sandwich. Press Bessie’s grill to hear a ‘Beep Beep’ and a ‘Broom Broom,’ Paddington’s voice and fun music from the TV show. The campervan roof comes off so Paddington and his accessories can easily be packed and unpacked. Role-play toys like this help to build vocabulary and language skills as children give the characters voices and talk about what is happening while they play.
The Toniebox is an invincible musical storybox that children control. The box comes with one character, with addons available such as Peter Rabbit, Elsa (Frozen) and James and the Giant Peach. The figures help bring stories to life, also giving children a sense of independence as they choose which character they want to listen to and place the figure on the box. There are ‘Tonies’ that just play music and the option to record your own stories onto certain characters meaning children can listen to stories or goodnight messages from relatives who live far away.
(pre-school) £29.99
(baby to 10 years) £62.95
Cube Fun
(Ages 3-8) £14.95 Cube Fun are soft cubes with fun game instructions on each side, helping children enjoy being active and extending their vocabulary at the same time. The cubes are themed: on the Christmas cube, you can prance like a reindeer and twinkle like a star. Children enjoy playing this in a group and competing to do the best or most actions each time the cube is thrown. Great for rainy day active play.
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The Rock Stepper playmat supports early learning and development by introducing phonics, word formation and early maths skills. Shapes, letters, numbers, colours and pictures keep children of different ages engaged. Accompanying flashcards and access to an app bring another play dimension, prompting children to interact with the mat in different ways. The mat is well cushioned to avoid bumps and bruises if children take a tumble while playing. The reverse side has a stylish design on it, so you can turn it over when it’s not being played with instead of putting it away each time.
LocBloc Counting Blocks (pre-school) £20.89
This is a set of colourful building blocks in different sizes to stimulate a child’s imagination. They can use the wheel blocks to build a racing car, school bus or their own unique vehicle. Other blocks have facial expressions, so little ones can build figurines for pretend play scenarios; great for learning social-emotional skills. The sets come with play cards and stickers to develop number recognition, colour perception, counting and more. Familiesonline.co.uk
Christmas
Little Rebel Dolls My Ice Cream Shop Playset
Hey Clay
The My Ice Cream Shop Playset is great for imaginative role-playing and practising basic maths skills. With nine colourful flavours of ice cream scoops and three yummy toppings, little ones can assemble cones to match the play cards and practise their counting and pattern matching skills. Pretend play is a great way to develop emotional and social skills: open up the play guide to find interactive play ideas for developing skills like empathy and active listening or spin the game wheel for a fun activity.
Hey Clay mixes an engaging app and a box of air-drying clay for unlimited creativity. The cleverly thought out app gives clear step-by-step instructions on how to create a variety of models. Children love how simple the steps are to follow and also the extra games that come with the app. Designed to boost kids’ imaginations, the vibrant and soft modelling clay is great for sensory development and play-based learning, developing fine motor skills and creativity.
(pre-school) £27.99
(Ages 5+) £14.99
Hands Up!
(Ages 7+) £16.99 Hands Up! is a reaction speed card game where you compete to be the best security guard. Lots of twists and turns along the way make this game a fun, fast-paced contest where only the quickest thinkers prosper. Thieves have made their way into the museum and are attempting a heist. As a museum security guard, your mission is to catch the thieves and stop them in their tracks but you will need to be careful to avoid triggering a false alarm. Collect the most cards to become the best security guard. Hands Up! develops reaction and perception speeds, engages working memory and encourages problem-solving skills.
(Ages 6+) £24.99
Little Rebels are more than just dolls, they are inspired by iconic women including Marie Curie, Malala Yousafzai and Amelia Earhart. Linked to an app, each one can teach and empower the next generation of leaders. Scanning the dolls unlock hours of fun with videos, ebooks, colouring activities, trivia and augmented reality. The range provides strong female role models for children by representing inspiring figures throughout history. The dolls also make a great tool for helping children to develop knowledge and understanding of the world around them.
Discovering Stem Astronomy: Travelling to Space (Ages 9+) £27.99
This set will have older children occupied for hours as they learn about the mission to the moon and what it’s like to live in space, among other facts. They then have six space-themed models to build, including a space shuttle and rocket. There is also a quiz to test the new space explorer’s knowledge and the accompanying mobile app and instruction booklet are easy to follow.
Ollyball
(Ages 5-9) £17.99 The Ollyball has so much to offer. A lightweight ball that will encourage children to get moving and also get their creative juices flowing. Children first inflate the ball with the straw provided, then they can colour in the design with any type of pen, marker or crayon, before deciding which game to play with their friends. It’s incredibly lightweight and safer to use indoors than any other ball.
Giant Science Lab (Ages 5-9) £29.99
With this science set, children take on the role of a scientist and are engaged and empowered to run their own experiments and learn about scientific concepts There is a lab coat and goggles included to help budding scientists really feel the part and make their play experiences more immersive. The accompanying instruction booklet has very clear steps to support home science learning and encourages children to think about how they record and present their scientific findings. Familiesonline.co.uk
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PARENTING
Fairy tales as a therapeutic tool Why do fairy tales hold such timeless appeal for children? One reason is that children live so closely to the world of metaphor. At the foundation of all cultures lie rich oral traditions of myth, folklore, legend. Magical animals and young heroes fighting larger-than-life forces all spark a child’s growing imagination. Parents and carers continue age-old storytelling traditions when they instigate shared reading experiences such as bedtime stories. How can reading fairy tales together be therapeutic? Fairy tales can help children make sense of the existential challenges of life. When parents and carers ask a child how their day has been, often the response is simply ‘good.’ Not all children find direct questions easy to answer. Fairy tales offer a bridge to a child’s inner world through the use of metaphor. Crucially, reading a fairy tale storybook isn’t just about words. Add pictures and the characters’ challenges and responses come to life. A space to voice real and conflicting feelings If we break down a fairy tale, the story is usually simple. A character encounters a difficult experience, person or obstacle and is helped by a magic guide to overcome it. The hero grows through the journey. A child will naturally project their own self onto a story: ‘it’s not me, but I recognise what’s going on.’ Ironically, it’s the distance created by a fairy tale that can help children feel safe enough to express their own feelings. Resilience is not the absence of vulnerability, rather learning how to manage a range of feelings. When children truly feel heard and acknowledged, rather than hiding their feelings, they learn
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to digest and recover from difficult emotions, developing a core emotional resilience. Making sense of relationships and empathy-building The world of relationships can seem very complex to a growing child. Reflecting on a character’s feelings in a story can help a child make sense of their own. Even if most children don’t say it directly, fairy tales can help them make links to obstacles in their life. In entering the world of fairy tales, we activate children’s imaginations, including the ability to imagine what different characters are feeling. In doing so, reading fairy tales can help build empathy and compassion over time. Pia Jones is author of the Therapeutic Fairytales book series, illustrated by Sarah Pimenta (Routledge and CRC Press). She is also a workshop facilitator and integrative arts psychotherapist (UKCP), having trained at the Institute for Arts in Therapy & Education. www.silverowlartstherapy.com
© Sarah Pimenta
Therapeutic Fairytales series
Create a safe environment for reflective reading Shared reading experiences such as bedtime stories can help children and parents/carers connect in a relaxed way, especially when separated out from literacy goals. Tell children upfront that this is a different kind of reading experience from school, with no testing, no right or wrong. You’ll often see them visibly relax. Pictures can help reluctant readers to engage. Let children guide you with their interest. If they decide to stop at a page, pause and reflect with them. There’s no rush. With older children, parents/carers can ask what they think is going on for different characters. Have a conversation when children start to link stories to their own experiences; ‘Oh yes, this reminds me of…’ These links can help children build coherence in their own storytelling ability. Exploring themes inside a story can be therapeutic for both child and carer. Through metaphor, children can explore personal feelings and make sense of challenges. This special kind of reflective reading experience can help promote trust and safety in child/carer relationships. 12 November/December
Inspired by children’s natural affinity with fairy tales, Pia and illustrator Sarah Pimenta have developed their own set of Therapeutic Fairytales (Routledge & CRC Press) to help open up conversations in families around specific emotions and experiences. Into The Forest shows a boy with anxiety; The Sky Fox, a girl feeling lonely and The Waves, a girl suffering traits of OCD. A magic animal helper helps each child develop their own self-calming techniques through a nurturing relationship and an active connection with nature. Each story has been brought to life with sensitive, vibrant illustrations to help children recognise they are not alone in feeling like they do. Children often say: ‘Yes, this is just what it’s like! I can feel like this sometimes.’ These books are designed to open up conversations with children about the different emotions we all experience and how we can learn to support ourselves. Parents don’t have to model perfection; more an openness to themes and a willingness to share their own experiences when relevant and useful.
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HEALTH
Keeping children with food allergies safe at school By Kirsty Dingwall and Natalie Hopkins
Around seven percent of UK children live with a food allergy, with cases rising. At least one child in every classroom is now affected, according to charity, Allergy UK, with twenty percent of severe allergic reactions to food happening whilst a child is at school. So how can families and schools work together to ensure children are kept safe from their allergies? Know your allergens The top fourteen allergens are celery, milk, cereals containing gluten, molluscs (such as mussels and oysters), crustaceans (such as prawns, crabs and lobsters), mustard, eggs, peanuts, sesame, fish, soybeans, lupins, tree nuts (such as almonds, hazelnuts, walnuts, Brazil nuts, cashews, pecans, pistachios and macadamia nuts) and sulphur dioxide and sulphites ((if the sulphur dioxide and sulphites are at a concentration of more than ten parts per million).
Check whether learning materials, like junk modelling boxes, may contain allergens, as well as items like bird feeders that the school may have on site for bird food containing nuts.
Communicate with your child’s school Check with your child’s school that food catering and dining hall staff have been trained on safe food preparation for food allergies and ensure they understand what measures to take to protect your child. Establish a point of contact to discuss your child’s needs and voice any concerns.
Stay safe on school trips Join the trip if you can! It’s a chance to keep an eye on your child and gently suggest improvements with regard to allergy management off site. Understand the plan for the day and ensure your child knows who to speak to if they feel unwell.
Understand whether the school can implement rules in the classroom, such as no food sharing and hand washing after eating or handling food.
Natalie and Kirsty have set up the School Safe initiative, a FREE monthly allergy course for schools across the country which supports all members of staff, promoting safer snacking, allergy awareness and inclusivity. For more information, visit www.angelicfreefrom.co.uk/schoolsafe
Make sure you are clear where food is kept, where your child will eat and who will oversee meals or snacks, including any eating in classrooms.
Help your child feel included Often if a child can’t eat something their friends can, they feel different. There are ways their schools can help with this. For instance, using the same allergen-free baking ingredients for all children in a school cookery class.
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Kirsty’s son, Joshua, had multiple food allergies from a young age, while Natalie’s seven-year-old daughter, Ella, has life-threatening allergies to dairy, peanuts and pine nuts. Together, Kirsty and Natalie have set up the School Safe initiative, a FREE monthly course for schools across the country which supports all members of school staff, promoting safer snacking, allergy awareness and inclusivity. ‘Feeling included as a child is so important and a huge part of the training as it’s often missed for children with allergies’ says Natalie. The School Safe online course covers cover life-saving information on auto-injectors and the symptoms of an allergic reaction and how to keep children with allergies safe and happy in school. Pam Davey, Head of Bawnmore Community Infant School in Rugby says: ‘Staff often have misconceptions or preconceived ideas and it is only through training that this can be identified and staff can move forward in their thinking.’ For more information and to register, visit www.angelicfreefrom.co.uk/schoolsafe Familiesonline.co.uk
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Places to go Santa Spectacular at Willows Activity Farm St Albans www.willowsactivityfarm.com A fabulous day out for all the family. Take a trip through the magical winter wonderland where you’ll find Santa in his Grotto. Santa will give children a key to his toy shop where they can choose any gift they wish. Make your very own teddy bear with Create a Cuddle; get crafty and decorate a tasty gingerbread; watch a festive 3D film; sing along with the festive stage shows; enjoy our funfair rides; meet the reindeers and more! Meet Santa in his grotto at Van Hage Garden Centre Ware www.vanhage.co.uk Meet Santa and his little helpers and receive a very special gift. Santa’s grotto at Burston Garden Centre St Albans www.burston.co.uk See Santa in his grotto. Quiet sessions are available to book in the morning on certain days. Booking online is essential. Pop-up Christmas Gift Market at the Southern Maltings – 5 Nov Ware www.southernmaltings.co.uk Showcasing local high-quality art and crafts, ceramics, Christmas decorations and wreaths, toys, mini Christmas photoshoots and other local boutique businesses. Christmas Lights Event – 18 Nov Welwyn Garden City www.wonderfulwgc.co.uk ‘Tis the season to be jolly’. Fun for all the family. Enjoy street entertainment, musical performances, fun fair and more. Have your photo taken with one of the giant installations and upload it to social media to be in with a chance to WIN some incredible prizes. Winter Market in the Riding School at Hatfield House – 18 Nov Hatfield www.hatfield-house.co.uk Soak up the festive atmosphere in this Winter Market in support of the Isabel Hospice. From Christmas decorations to card and gifts, and not forgetting food and drink stalls, all ready for the Christmas season. 14 November/December
Christmas Lights Switch On – 18 Nov Hitchin Watch the spectacular lights switch on with a host of acts on stage, live music and Santa’s Parade. Market Place. 12pm to 8pm. Christmas Craft Fair at Mudlarks Garden Café – 19 Nov Hertford www.mudlarksgarden.org.uk Meet the finest local artist and artisan crafters. A free familyfriendly event. 11am to 4pm. Hertford Christmas Gala – 24 Nov Hertford Town Centre Live entertainment on stage and street entertainment. Retailers will be offering free goodies and samples throughout the event, and there is the Christmas tree light switch on. Knebworth Christmas Fair at Knebworth House – 24 to 26 Nov Stevenage www.knebworthchristmasfair.co.uk Christmas gifts and present ideas for everyone, also with festive food and drink. Hertford Castle Christmas Market – 24 to 26 Nov www.hertford.gov.uk/eventslistings A wonderful Christmas market offering homeware, crafts, jewellery, and much more! With the addition of fairground rides live entertainment, and food and drink stands to enjoy. Tots Tales at Verulamium Museum – 24 Nov St Albans www.stalbansmuseums.org.uk Listen to a story (The Something by Rebecca Cobb) and try out craft activities relating to the book. When a little boy’s ball disappears down a mysterious hole in the garden, he can’t stop thinking about what could be down there? Whatever it may be, he’s determined to find out! £5 per child. 10:30am-11:30am and 1:15pm-2:15pm. Hertford Christmas Gala at Hertford House – 24 Nov www.hertfordhouse.co.uk Come to Hertford House and see the cheeky, little elves entertain the children at intervals throughout the evening on this special day. No booking is needed.
Christmas Craft Fair at Fleetville Community Centre – 25 Nov St Albans A festive fair with items all made by local crafters. Homemade crafts, decorations, Christmas cards, artwork and festive plants. 10am-5pm. Stevenage Town Centre Christmas lights switch on – 25 Nov www.stevenagetowncentre.com Christmas lights, stage performances, meet Santa, snow globe, free face painting, and more. 12pm-5.30pm. Redbourn Christmas Market – 3 Dec Redbourn www.redbournchristmasmarket. com Indulge in a wealth of local crafts, fabulous food and entertainment. There will be over 100 wonderful stalls. Wander along the High Street, outside the Village Hall and around Cumberland Gardens to find a huge range of quality products, beautiful crafts and gift ideas, by local artists. 11am-5pm. Santa’s Magical Grotto at Aldenham Country Park Farm Elstree www.aldenhamcountrypark.co.uk Venture into Santa’s Magical Grotto and have the pleasure to meet the wonderful Mrs Claus. Go through the magical wardrobe to meet the big man himself and tell all of your Christmas wishes, before choosing your perfect gift. See website for dates. Harpenden Christmas Carnival – 26 Nov Harpenden High Street An exciting event featuring a farmers’ market, Santa’s Grotto, the Harris Funfair, food stalls, entertainment and the spectacular Christmas lights switch on at 5pm. Ready, Set, Dash! – 26 Nov Hemel Hempstead www.boxmoorsantadash.com A jolly and festive 5km fun run that’s perfect for the whole family. There’s even a 2.5km Elf Dash which is perfect for children! All in aid of local charities. 9am to 4pm. Replay Holiday Club St Albans 07913323608 Replay is a fabulous holiday club for children 4 to 11 years old. Lots of fun activities and crafts, indoor and outdoor space. Run by an enthusiastic and caring team.
Santa’s Grotto at The Old Rectory Farm Walkern www.themagicofchristmas.net Go on a magical mystery trail to reach Santa in his grotto. Open weekends and the week before Christmas. Rainbow Craft Fair at Walsworth Community Centre – 26 Nov Hitchin This monthly Craft Fair is very different from the usual. This is a very special Christmas fair, with lots of gifts to buy for loved ones this season. 11am to 3pm
Fantastical Christmas Revels hosted by Queen Elizabeth I at Hatfield Park – 30 Nov to 31 Dec Hatfield www.hatfield-house.co.uk Step back in time to the tudor festivities this Christmas. Embark on Queen Elizabeth I hosting the fantastical revels, a journey through time and tradition, where yuletide merriment meets regal majesty. Wander through the magical grounds and create cherished memories. Book now to celebrate Christmas fit for tudor royalty and experience yule Blessings from the tudor court. Batford lights switch on – 1 Dec Harpenden www.harpenden. thewearecommunity.co.uk A mesmerising and magical event that shouldn’t be missed! This event includes a wide range of festivities, from carols, mulled wine, mince pies, and craft activities. 4.30pm-6.30pm. Southdown Christmas lights switch on – 1 Dec Harpenden www.harpenden.gov.uk A wonderful local event in Southdown and a great way to start your Christmas celebrations. With stalls, Santa’s grotto, carols, fun fair, lantern parade and more. Lights switch on at approximately 6.15pm.
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WHAT’S ON The Snowman Tour at St Albans Cathedral – 2 Dec www.stalbanscathedral.org Two of the UK’s best-loved and iconic animated films, The Snowman and Wallace & Gromit: The Wrong Trousers, with a live accompaniment from a professional orchestra. Visit the Snowman himself, join everyone’s favourite cheese-loving inventor, and his trusty companion.
The North Pole Elves at Baldock Arts & Heritage Centre Baldock www.bahc.co.uk An interactive show for the little ones to enjoy. Elves, Sparkle and Tinsel, work for Mrs Claus. Their job is to collect as much Christmas cheer as they can as this is what powers the magical toy making machines! 11am-12pm and 1.30pm-2.30pm. Tickets £8.
HertsGrotto – 2 Dec Hertford www.hertsgrotto.co.uk Come to the beautiful courtyard of the Leaf Café Hertford and meet Santa.
Tree Planting at Balls Wood – 14 Dec Hertford www.hertswildlifetrust.org.uk Why not plant and tree (or several!). Go for a gently walk while contributing to the improvement of the habitat. Session starts at 11:30am. A free event for children and parents aged 5+.
Christmas Market at Standalone Farm Letchworth Garden City www.standalonefarm.com A fun-filled festive market with music, food and shopping. Watch as they transform the farmyard into a magical festive market. Little ones will be able to enjoy craft activities and meet the farm animals as well. Weekends 2-3 & 9-10 Dec. The Hub on Verulum St Albans thehubonverulam.com This fresh, multi-layered entertainment and leisure venue is a popular spot in the St Albans social scene. From live music to community events and independent cinema, there’s always something different going on – and there’s a packed festive season too. The venue also hosts pop-ups and Baby Club screenings showing Disney and Pixar classics. Food served all day. Christmas at Paradise at Paradise Wildlife Park Broxbourne www.pwpark.com Meet Santa alongside an array of Christmas decorations, a large Christmas tree and an aweinspiring fairy light tunnel to walk through. Don’t forget to visit Santa’s reindeer in the woodland walk too! Throughout December. Christmas Craft Fair at British Schools Museum – 2 & 3 Dec Hitchin www.britishschoolsmuseum.org.uk Beautiful artisan gifts, spectacular artwork to gaze upon and wonderful items made from local craftspeople. 10am-2pm. Christmas Bazaar at Woodhall Farm Community Centre – 9 Dec Hemel Hempstead Children under 9 can have the opportunity to meet Santa. Raffle tombola and children’s craft area. 1pm-5pm. Christmas Afternoon Tea at Hertford House – 9 & 16 Dec Hertford www.hertfordhouse.co.uk Treat yourself and the whole family to a festive, full of delights Christmas afternoon tea. From 1pm-3pm. Familiesonline.co.uk
Live Nativity Trail at St Albans Cathedral www.stalbanscathedral.org From 12pm-3pm. Journey through St Albans and meet the nativity characters along the trail. At each stop on the trail, you will get a stamp. Bring your fully stamped trail to the Cathedral to see the nativity scene brought to life like never before. Free. Dine with Santa at Knebworth House – 17 to 22 Dec Stevenage www.knebworthhouse.com A fantastic meal at Knebworth Barns complete with a visit from Santa. Christmas crackers and a colouring activity sheet to pass the time. Visit website for times and full menu. Christmas Music Day at St Nicholas School – 22 Dec Harpenden A fun filled music day for ages 7 to 14. From Christmas activities, games and music ensembles. Two sessions: 9am-11:30am and 12pm2:30pm. Kids Christmas Eve Disco at Hertford House – 24 Dec Hertford www.hertfordhouse.co.uk A fun-tasic party with lots of Christmas vibes. 2.30pm-4.30pm. Tickets are £8.50 per child and include a slushie.
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Abbey Theatre St Albans 01727 857861 www.abbeytheatre.org.uk 16, 17, 23, 27 & 28 Dec The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe Peter, Susan, Edmund and Lucy explore the unforgettable and magical world of Narnia. Off on a fantastic adventure to save Narnia from everlasting winter, they meet Mr Tumnus the faun, Mr and Mrs Beaver and even Father Christmas. Tickets £15. Concessions £13. 13 and under £9
The Alban Arena St Albans 01727 844488 www.alban-arena.co.uk 7-11 Nov Elf The Musical Elf the Musical tells the story of Buddy, a young orphan who mistakenly crawls into Santa’s bag of gifts and is transported to the North Pole. Buddy embarks on a journey to New York City to find his birth father and discover his true identity. 8-31 Dec The All New Adventures of Peter Pan – A Pantomime Sequel Famous faces join this incredible cast in this pantomime season. Get ready to fly back to Neverland once again. Trestle Theatre Company St Albans 01727 850950 www.trestle.org.uk 16 Dec Treasure Island This is Treasure Island as you’ve never seen it before, a silly, funny, festive family show in celebration of Lamphouse Theatre’s 10th anniversary. Get ready to be entertained! A silly-singalongsea-shanties and plenty of pirates this Christmas season. Jim lives in the Admiral Benbow Inn with Grandma, and she’s desperate for a real adventure. Ages 6 and above. £13, £11 concessions, family (x4) £44.
Sadler’s Wells, Peacock Theatre West End sadlerswells.com 18 Nov to 30 Dec The Snowman The magical story brought to the stage in spectacular fashion. Based upon the book by Raymond Briggs and the film directed by Dianne Jackson and produced by John Coates. Planet Ice Hemel Hempstead 08458 725 799 www.planet-ice.co.uk 6 Dec Wizard of Oz Be transported into Oz with some favourite songs, costumes and amazing lighting production. Performed by local skaters from Planet Ice. A show guaranteed to fill the hearts of young and old with the spirit of Christmas.
Samantha Hughes as Narcissia
Harry Hart
as Dame Dooy
Stefan Gough
as Herbie the Huntsman
Joseph Connor
Abi Fullard
as Prince Simon
as Snow White
Kids New Years Eve Disco at Hertford House – 31 Dec Hertford www.hertfordhouse.co.uk Celebrate the last day of 2023 with a disco themed party. Let your children dance, laugh and make new friends. Tickets are £8.50 per child which include a slushie. 3pm-5pm. Family Entertainment at Campus West Welwyn Garden City www.campuswest.co.uk Discover Welwyn Garden City’s premier family entertainment destination at Campus West. Enjoy movies, soft play, roller skating, bouncy castles, and Humphrey’s café lounge. Hours of fun over the month of November and into the festive holidays.
15 - 31 December 2023 Box Office: 01707 645005 wyllyoostheatre.co.uk
Wyllyoos Theatre, Darkes Lane, Pooers Bar, Herts EN6 2HZ
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WHAT’S ON Gordon Craig Theatre Stevenage 01438 363200 www.gordon-craig.co.uk 2 Nov The Nutcracker Featuring live Orchestra with over 30 musicians, this dazzling production filled with snow flurries, sweets, princes, magic, and love is a must. Tickets £38, concessions £36, under 16s £24. 9-11 Nov Rare Productions: The Little Mermaid Based on the classic Hans Christian Andersen fairy tale, and the wildly popular Disney film, this musical staging of The Little Mermaid features an array of sing-a-long songs. Tickets £21, over 60s £20, under 16 £19. 29 Nov to 21 Jan Sleeping Beauty Full of music, laughter, amazing special effects and plenty of surprises. Dreams really can come true. The Sandpit Theatre St Albans 01727 799565 www.sandpittheatre.co.uk/ SandpitTheatre.dll 16-31 Dec Rapunzel An action packed, magical musical pantomime adventure. Let down your hair in this most joyful and tangled tale; where people live in giant old boots and tall towers, where frog boys rap about enchanted ponds.
South Mill Arts Bishop’s Stortford 01279 710 200 www.southmillarts.co.uk 9 Dec to 2 Jan Cinderella Join Cinders as she goes on a magical journey from rags to riches, outsmarts her wicked sisters and stepmother and meets Prince Charming. Wyllyotts Theatre Potters Bar 01707 645005 www.wyllyottstheatre.co.uk 15-31 Dec Snow White Snow White, Dame Dotty, Herbie the Huntsman and the magnificent seven dwarfs. Performances are 1pm and 5pm daily. The Eric Morecambe Centre Harpenden 01582 767525 www.the-emc.co.uk 8 & 9 Nov There’s A Monster In Your Show There’s a Monster in Your Show… and he can’t wait to meet you! Tom Fletcher’s interactive adventures for big imaginations are leaping from page to stage. Standard Tickets £16.50. Children £14.50. 9-30 Dec Beauty & The Beast When the Prince is cursed to live as a beast in his magical castle his only hope is to find true love before the last petal falls. Plenty of audience participation.
The Old Town Hall Hemel Hempstead 01442 228091 www.oldtownhall.co.uk Sun 5 Nov Miniature Travelling Circus Prepare to be razzle-dazzled in this most delightful smallest circus in town. With beautiful puppets, nostalgic magic tricks and acts so tiny you may wonder how you can possibly see them! From performing mice to acrobatic fleas. Duration 40 minutes. Ages 3 to 6yrs. 5-24 Dec The Ballad of Rudy In this story Rudy doesn’t have a red nose; rather it’s his talent for exciting new music that sets him apart from all the other Reindeer. Together with a magical Jazz Penguin he goes on an adventure that teaches him that life isn’t about following the herd. For children age 5 and above. Campus West Welwyn Garden City www.campuswest.co.uk 6 Dec to 3 Jan
Robin Hood He steals from the rich and gives to the poor. Join our heroic archer, Maid Marion, and their merry band of outlaws in Sherwood Forest as they fight back against the money grabbing Sheriff of Nottingham. Broadway Cinema & Theatre Letchworth Garden City 01462 681088 www.broadway-letchworth.com 3 Dec The Snowman When a snowman comes to life an unforgettable adventure begins… Enjoy this classic film featuring a live performance of Howard Blake’s musical score specially adapted for brass band and performed by the Hitchin Band. Performances at 10am and 11.30am. 14-17 Dec Aladdin A whole new world! A story of good versus evil, heroes and villains, magical genies and a flying carpet.
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