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FREETakeMeHome Issue 151 November/December 2022 familiesonline.co.uk IN THIS ISSUE Seasonal Celebrations! Pantos and Christmas shows; Where’s Santa and more!

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If your child turns four this academic year, they’ll be starting Reception next September and now’s the time to make their primary school application. Exciting times!

Your child’s primary school and its community becomes a large part of your family’s life, so feeling happy about the choice is very important. Depending on where you live you might have just one, two or maybe three schools to apply to. Or there may be numerous schools if you live in a city. So how do you go about knowing which will be a good fit for you and your child?

The catchment area

School catchment area is a key admission criterion for schools. This is generally based on the furthest distance that a pupil was admitted to the school the previous year but boundaries can be extended or shrink, according to the variables of each intake year. For example, one year there may be a larger cohort of siblings or looked-after children taking priority or it may be a year with a high birth rate, so the map alone does not guarantee your top choice.

You can check each school’s catchment area through your local authority to establish whether you’re likely to fall within it. Think carefully before aiming for a school for which you’re not in the catchment area. You don’t want to waste one of your choices.

Consider your working week. If you’re commuting to work, how will you do that after school drop-off? Is there a train or bus nearby or space to park your car?

A good fit

Every school is organised and managed differently, so you’ll need to do some research to see what each school offers and what matters most to you. When you’re shortlisting schools, it’s important to visit to get a feel for each one. Go armed with lists of questions and an open mind.

Each school will have its own personality but so does your child. Are they loud or reserved? Smaller schools with just one-form entry might suit a quieter child. If your child has any special educational needs, you’ll want to know the school caters well for them.

Extras

What wrap-around care does the school offer? If it doesn’t suit your needs, are there sufficient alternative options? Find out which secondary schools pupils go on to and see how that impacts on your thought process. For example, if a high proportion of the pupils go to the best local secondary school, then that’s a plus.

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Choosing the right primary school
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Educating for the future

Children are often asked what they want to be when they grow up. From farmers to flight attendants, astronauts to doctors, the answers are always a mix of familiar careers. But astonishingly, over two thirds of children joining primary school this September will end up in jobs that don’t yet exist. Think back thirty years - there were no social media managers or Bitcoin traders!

Today’s workplace is rapidly changing. As Richard Riley, former Secretary of Education, said:

‘We are currently preparing students for jobs that don’t yet exist, using technologies that haven’t been invented to solve problems we don’t even know are problems yet.’

It’s a challenge and mainstream education will be required to adjust. Is an education system that focuses mainly on teaching children academic subjects outdated? Focusing on tests and exam results will not deliver for a future which will need creative, flexible problem-solvers who can collaborate.

The visionary educational pioneer, Maria Montessori, recognised this when she wrote,

‘Education must no longer be mostly imparting knowledge but must take a new path, seeking the release of human potentialities.’

In Montessori education, children are guided by a teacher trained in child observation and development. Classrooms provide open-ended, hands-on activities where children choose tasks appropriate to their stage of development.

With activities so targeted to each child’s individual needs and interests, children are engaged and motivated to concentrate, persevere and develop self-discipline. In addition, the activities are designed to encourage children to think flexibly and come up with creative solutions. In the early years, this may simply be how to unbuckle their shoes or share a snack. Later, it may be an exploration of the Jurassic period or a novel approach to solving quadratic equations.

Mixed-age classes with children aged up to three years apart is another key feature of Montessori education. Younger children learn from older role models and older children benefit from the experience too. In this mini community, children share resources, put things away ready for someone else after they have used them and help each other. This fosters social collaboration and builds emotional intelligence.

Louise Livingston has over thirty years’ experience in education and a background in educational neuroscience. She is Head of Training at the Maria Montessori Institute (www.mariamontessori.org), which offers Montessori teacher training, online short courses and the Maria Montessori School for ages 2 to 12 in London.

Local Academic support service and dyslexia assessor moves to new premises after almost 10 years in Eastcote… but don’t worry, they are still local!

For almost a decade The Learning Wheel specialist Maths and English tuition company has helped every child they support achieve their full potential by providing primary and secondary students between the ages of 4 and 17 with individually tailored programmes. Recently, the centre has relocated from Eastcote to a bright new premises in Northwood Hills.

Darshani Nardani, director of the centre, is a qualified teacher with almost 20 years’ experience across all key stages. In addition, she is a qualified (level 7 from UCL) SpLD Dyslexia specialist teacher and assessor - a service that is run alongside the regular tuition options available at the centre. She is also registered with PATOSS and the British Dyslexia Association.

Tuition takes place in a relaxed and nurturing learning environment where children are not scared to make mistakes and are taught to discuss the learning process, to solve problems and build on strategies that can be used in the future.

Call 0208 868 7672 to book an assessment or enquire about their services.

www.thelearningwheel.co.uk

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Resolving playground conflict

Playground conflicts can shape a child’s experience at school. When we show children how to manage them, they are learning vital life lessons about getting on with other people.

Conflict vs bullying Conflicts in the playground can flare up and be forgotten from one day to the next.

As parents, we can’t swoop in and save our children from uncomfortable or even painful situations while they are at school. However, we can equip them with their own skills to use when teachers are not immediately available to intervene. Using well-chosen words can change the course of a conflict and help equip children to deal with future ones.

Of course, it’s important to understand where conflict ends and bullying begins: bullying involves a repeated, intentional act to hurt someone; it can take many forms. All schools must have an anti-bullying policy should bullying occur.

Take action

When conflict occurs, explain to your child that ‘hotting up’ a conflict makes a disagreement worse and ‘cooling down’ makes it better; we can help children realise they have the power to influence and resolve situations.

Start by listing which behaviours can hot up a conflict, such as shouting, name-calling, invading personal space, accusing, lying and being physical. Then list the behaviours that can cool down a conflict: admitting to what you did wrong, saying sorry, saying what you would like to happen, using a calm voice and avoiding words such as ‘always’ and ‘never’ which can immediately make someone feel defensive.

Active listening is a fundamental skill in resolving conflicts. Help your children practise by asking them to listen and repeat instructions back and paraphrase what you have said. Encourage them to ask questions so they learn how to develop healthy dialogues.

Older children may have more complex conflicts involving social media. These require a slightly different approach. Childline (www.childline.org.uk) and UNICEF (www.unicef.org.uk) offer solid support and advice for those who are experiencing issues online.

Dealing with conflict provides an opportunity for growth, emotionally, socially and intellectually. By continuing to observe and give children a safe space to talk about any conflicts they have, we are providing useful safeguards against potential bullying scenarios.

Zuzu Jordan is a Mastery for Maths specialist who has taught primary aged children for sixteen years and is interested in early years and home learning. For free homework and home learning resources, find the Instagram page @edumate_uk

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EDUCATION Dyslexia Specialist Assessor Qualified Teacher AMBDA PG Diploma Specific Learning Difficulties (Dyslexia) Assessment Practising Certificate PATOSS, SASC, British Dyslexia Association 07930 557 870 Mrs Darshani Nardani (Hons) Dyslexia Assessment & Consultancy DBS Checked Learning The Wheel MATHS & ENGLISH TUITION For Ages 4 to 17 GCSE, SATs, 11+ thelearningwheel.co.uk 0208 868 7672 Based in Argyle House - HA6 info@thelearningwheel.co.uk

How language difficulties impact sibling communication

Winter is such a lovely time for indoor play. Families can get together over a deck of cards, blow the cobwebs off boards games and huddle together, fortifying bonds of togetherness and connection. The shorter days lend themselves to cosy nights indoors and are a fantastic time for siblings to enjoy quality time together.

But what happens when siblings can’t, or won’t, play together?

One of the most common barriers preventing sibling play is language difficulty. One of the children in question may have delayed speech or there could be a more significant cognitive impairment such as a diagnosis of autistic spectrum disorder. From a child’s perspective, having their attempts to play with a sibling refused can be hurtful and distressing. For their sibling, being unable to play for any reason can be a source of confusion, even trauma, because they don’t understand what is needed of them or perhaps even why the other child is so upset.

Using various tools and tips, it is possible to foster emotionally grounded play between siblings.

Communicating with an infant

Communication starts long before formal talking begins. When our children are babies, they will often look at us and return our smiles, which is the very start of what we call ‘receptive language skills.’ We point to objects and the growing infant points too, understanding that we are communicating about the same thing. It could be a plane in the sky or a duck or even another member of the family. This process is known as ‘joint attention,’ which a child uses to develop the ability to understand language and respond appropriately when asked questions.

For example, they may be asked what they want to eat and be shown a choice of toast or cake. They may not know the right word but they can certainly point to the food they want the most (probably cake!). This shows the infant can understand and decide.

If this development is delayed for any reason, it can become an obstacle to playing with a sibling. However, you can help this by modelling non-verbal play at different levels. For example, Hide and Seek can start with something much simpler, such as peek-a-boo. Throw

and catch can start with rolling and trapping a ball when sitting on the floor.

Snap card games can be played with fewer cards and in shorter bursts.

These modified activities nurture joint attention and receptive language skills. It is about scaling back ambitious play and getting co-operation.

The importance of feeling safe

When the more verbal child demands that the non-verbal child play with them, it can make the non-verbal child feel unsafe. They do not necessarily understand what is expected of them and they will often disengage.

Parents can help by modelling a softer, gentler tone for their more verbal child to use when they want to play with their sibling. The human voice plays an important role in creating safety, as shown by Dr Stephen Porges, who spent over forty years researching it before inventing the Safe & Sound Protocol (https://bit. ly/safeandsoundpro), a fantastic prelanguage tool often used by parents.

Usha Patel is a neurocognitive therapist who runs Raviv Practice London (www. ravivpracticelondon.co.uk) and uses the therapeutic programme, ‘iLS focus therapy’ to help children build their receptive language skills.

Charities to help parents

I Can (www.ican.org.uk) gives parents and practitioners the information they need to help children develop their speaking and understanding skills.

Afasic (www.afasic.org.uk) is a UK charity representing children and young people with speech, language and communication disabilities, working for their inclusion in society.

Words for life (www.wordsforlife.org. uk) offers activities and support for parents, children and young people to improve language, literacy and communication skills from home.

The Royal College of Speech and Language (www.rcslt.org) helps parents locate accredited speech and language therapists.

Calling all young Scientists! 020 3926 1207

Help us discover how babies & kids learn! We’re recruiting infants from birth through school age to take part in fun studies at Birkbeck’s BabyLab & ToddlerLab in central London. Our prime locations are easy to reach and we refund travel expenses. We also have online studies you can do from the comfort of home www.cbcd.bbk.ac.uk/online-studies

babylab @ bbk.ac.uk www.cbcd.bbk.ac.uk

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What's On Family Ice Skating

Sat 22 Oct – Sat 25 Feb

Ice Rink Canary Wharf (E14)

Skate beneath Canary Wharf’s twinkling skyline and treat yourself to one of London’s most captivating winter experiences as Ice Rink Canary Wharf returns for 2022. This year promises to be the most exciting year yet, and there’s no chance of rain cancelling play with the magnificent roof, lit up by the shimmering lights of a giant mirror ball, so come rain or shine, the British weather won’t stop this year’s fun winter day out.

www.icerinkcanarywharf.co.uk

Sat 29 Oct – Sun 8 Jan

Royal Pavilion Ice Rink (BN1)

Celebrate a greener Christmas this year with the Royal Pavilion Ice Rink. Stunning, twinkly, romantic, childfriendly…and ice powered entirely by Green Energy, Brighton’s Royal Pavilion Ice Rink is open to the public this season until 8 Jan 2023. We can’t wait to see you all back on the ice...

www.royalpavilionicerink.co.uk

From Sun 30 Oct

Skylight Tobacco Dock Rooftop Ice Rink (E1W)

Skylight Tobacco Dock will transform into a Winter Wonderland, complete with Europe’s only rooftop ice rink! Ice skating sessions are 45 minutes long, booked on the day of your visit, based on a first come first serve. Skate rentals provided but skate skills will be all on you! Sunday’s are family day.

www.skylightbars.com/tobacco-dock

Fri 11 Nov – Sun 8 Jan

Glide at Battersea Power Station (SW8)

Are you ready to Eat, Skate, Celebrate, Repeat? Opening to the public on 11 Nov 2022 and set against a backdrop of one of the capital’s most iconic buildings, the ice rink at Battersea Power Station will be the most magnificent open-air ice rink in the city. From the team who brought you the Natural History Museum Ice Rink and Hyde Park Winter Wonderland, it is set to be THE number one must-do activity this winter.

www.glidebatterseapowerstation. co.uk

Wed 16 Nov – Sun 15 Jan

Skate At Somerset House With Moët & Chandon (WC2R)

Skate at Somerset House with Moët & Chandon returns, promising a spectacular season of celebration in the heart of London. The magnificent ice rink, now with bigger skate space, transforms the neoclassical courtyard into the essential winter destination,

complete with a glorious 40ft Christmas tree, with specially curated decorations from Moët & Chandon, providing perfect picture moments.

www.somersethouse.org.uk/whatson/skate-somerset-house

Thu 17 Nov – Sun 1 Jan Skate at Bluewater (DA9) Located outside The Village, the popular rink sits under a clear roof, making it the perfect activity come rain or shine this festive season! Offering plenty of fun for guests of all ages, the Ice Rink will be running quiet sessions, as well as parent and toddler sessions for budding skaters. Penguin and seal skating aids will be available for little ones, as well as bob skates to help guests stay steady.

www.bluewater.co.uk/ice-rink-2022

Thu 17 Nov – Sun 8 Jan Hampton Court Palace Ice Rink (KT8)

Wrap up warm, get together with your friends or family and take in the magnificent views of this beautiful Tudor palace as you glide around this stunning outdoor ice rink. Skate under the stars with your loved one or make magical memories on a day out with the kids at Hampton Court Palace Ice Rink.

www.hamptoncourtpalaceicerink. co.uk

Thu 17 Nov – Sun 8 Jan Queen’s House Ice Rink (SE10) Head along to the Queen’s House Ice Rink this winter, as their magical open-air ice rink takes centre stage once again in the beautiful grounds of Royal Museums Greenwich. Set in a UNESCO World Heritage Site, the rink is surrounded by iconic architecture,

with views of Greenwich Park to the south and the glittering lights of Canary Wharf to the north, providing a backdrop of some of the best views in London.

www.rmg.co.uk/skate

Fri 18 Nov – Mon 2 Jan

Hyde Park Winter Wonderland Ice Rink (W2)

Glide into the festive season on the UK’s largest open-air ice rink. Head along to the heart of London’s Hyde Park, set under a picturesque canopy of twinkly lights and built around the iconic Victorian bandstand. The perfect place for a winter skate!

www.hydeparkwinterwonderland. com/things-to-do

Fri 18 Nov - Sun 8 Jan

The Ice Rink at Winter Village, Westfield London (W12)

Discover a magical winter wonderland where you can skate under the stars at the Ice Rink at Winter Village, Westfield London. It’s the most wonderful time of the year – and there’s no better way to get into the festive spirit than with a spot of skating at an atmospheric outdoor ice rink!

www.icerinkatwestfieldlondon.co.uk

What’s On CHILDREN’S THEATRE
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Where is Santa?What's On

LOCAL

Harlington Locomotive Society (UB3)

The Annual Mince Pie Run on 11 Dec sees Father Christmas arriving by train to meet the young visitors. Warm Mince Pies will be served from the Tea Bar, along with refreshments.

www.harlingtonlocomotive society.org.uk/special-events.php

Hillingdon Narrowboats Association (UB9)

Santa is back and his elves are running his Santa Boat Trips. Boats depart every 30 minutes 10am to 4.30pm on the first 3 weekends of December from The Boathouse, Summerhouse Lane, Harefield. www.hna.org.uk

Kenwood House (NW3)

Join in the festive fun with the man himself at Kenwood this Christmas. Meet Father Christmas as he tells festive tales amidst the yuletide decorations. Additional charge applies to see Father Christmas for all children, price includes a small present. 3, 4, 10, 11, 17 & 18 Dec. www.english-heritage.org.uk/visit/ whats-on/kenwood-audience-withfather-christmas

Ruislip Lido (HA4)

Santa is a very busy man around Christmas time, but once again, he has managed to find a space in his diary to visit the Ruislip Lido Railway. Santa will be at the railway in 2022 on: 4, 10, 11, 17 & 18 Dec. Your adventure will start from Willow Lawn Station and will carry you on an enchanting ride through the woods and around the Lido to Santa’s Grotto at Woody Bay Station. www.ruisliplidorailway.org

FURTHER AFIELD

Burston Garden Centre (AL2)

Go and visit Santa in his magical Christmas grotto between 19 Nov–24 Dec. Additional needs sessions are available, designed to provide a more relaxed and quiet environment for your child. These sessions are the first of the day, when the centre tends to be quieter.

www.burston.co.uk/event/christmasgrotto

Chelsea Physic Garden (SW3)

Father Christmas Storytelling at Chelsea Physic Garden on first 3 weekends in Dec.

Father Christmas will tell a story about his life in the North Pole, and his love for trees, plants and the planet in the festive Science Themed Grotto. Children will receive a lovely gift, and an opportunity to take a picture with Father Christmas.

www.chelseaphysicgarden.co.uk

Christmas Wonderland at Crews Hill (EN2)

Christmas Wonderland, train ride and Santa visit opens on 11th Nov. The magical train ride will take you to see Santa in his magical Ice Kingdom at the North Pole! Remaining in your carriage you finally visit the Elves toy shop where you finish your ride and choose your Christmas gift with love from Santa.

www.christmas-wonderland.co.uk

Kew Gardens (TW9)

Head along to Kew for the most wonderful time of the year as the magical winter trail lights up the evening skies. Journey through the mesmerising flickering flames in the fire garden, spot larger-than-life illuminations and say hello to Father Christmas along the way. Wed 16 Nov–Sun 8 Jan.

www.kew.org/kew-gardens/whats-on/ christmas

Knebworth House (SG1)

Dine With Santa at Knebworth Barns between 19 and 23 Dec. Give your family an early Christmas treat with a fantastic meal at Knebworth Barns. Enjoy a two course meal with Christmas crackers and a visit from Santa!

www.knebworthhouse.com/events/ dine-with-santa

Lauderdale House (N6)

Every year a magical Christmas grotto springs up in Lauderdale House as the man himself (Father Christmas, Santa Claus, Père Noël, Saint Nick) pays a special seasonal visit. Kids of all ages can meet him on Sat 10 & Sun 11 Dec. www. lauderdalehouse.org.uk/whats-on/ santas-christmas-grotto-2022

London Museum of Steam and Water (TW8)

On 10, 11, 17 and 18 Dec, Santa is taking a break from his busy schedule to visit the Museum! Follow Santa’s snowy footprints to discover him inside the Museum, and during your time with Santa, you’ll sing a song or two, be able to take some pictures and receive a special present! Tickets must be purchased in advance via the website, by Fri 18 Nov at midday. waterandsteam.org.uk/event/ho-hoho-2022

London Transport Museum (WC2E)

This Christmas, Santa is landing his sleigh at the Museum again! Between 25 Nov–2 Jan, visit the Museum for special family activities including a wintery trail, card-making workshop, interactive Routemaster-inspired sleigh and the chance to meet Santa and his elf in our magical winter wonderland. All festive family activities are free with your Museum tickets. Kids go free! www.ltmuseum.co.uk

Mead Open Farm (LU7)

Explore the Magical Christmas Walkthrough on your way to meet Father Christmas, choose a toy from his Toy Shop and build your own bear in the Make a Bear Workshop! Join in with the Tree Trimming Training show, make reindeer food and have a go at gingerbread decorating with Mother Christmas and Merry Berry! From 2–24 Dec. www.meadopenfarm.co.uk/specialevents/the-magic-of-christmas

Paradise Wildlife Park (EN10)

Meet and have your photo taken with Santa every weekend from 3 Dec & every day from 17 to 24 Dec. Entry to Santa’s Grotto is included with your day tickets. You will have the opportunity to meet and have your photo taken with Santa. Santa’s Grotto is a first-come, first-serve queuing system.

www.pwpark.com/events/christmas-atparadise

Royal Albert Hall (SW7)

Father Christmas once again returns to his secret London headquarters at the Royal Albert Hall, this year with one of his favourite books, ‘Tiny Reindeer’. You are invited to step inside a whimsical world where you’ll be greeted by Father Christmas and his merry Head Elf as they take families on a joyful journey in this charming Christmas storytime session featuring Chris Naylor-Ballesteros’ ‘Tiny Reindeer’, ending with each child taking home their own gift. 2–20 Dec.

www.royalalberthall.com

What's On Pantos & Family Shows

Artsdepot, N12 020 8369 5454

www.artsdepot.co.uk

Mon 5 Dec-Mon 2 Jan

The Smeds and The Smoos Soar into space with this exciting adaptation of the award-winning book by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler. Music, laughs and interplanetary adventures, from Tall Stories. Ages 3+

Sun 11 Dec

Comedy Club 4 Kids: Christmas Cracker

Expect the finest Christmas Cracker jokes, tinsel tomfoolery, festive funnies and even Santa doing stand-up! Starring Comedy Club 4 Kids’ regular host Tiernan Douieb hims-elf, and Howard Read of ‘Little Howard’ and CBBC fame. This show will be jam-packed with a whole heap of Christmas Comedy Fun. Ages 6+

The Beck Theatre, Hayes 020 8561 8371

www.becktheatre.org.uk

Wed 30 Nov-Sun 4 Dec

Aladdin

The multi-award winning British Airways Cabin Crew Entertainment Society would like to present their pantomime spectacular, Aladdin. This classic rags to riches tale is sure to delight audiences of all ages - so climb on board your magic carpet and be taken on a journey you’ll never forget.

Fri 9-Sat 31 Dec Cinderella

A hilarious family pantomime for all ages, with tons of slapstick comedy and stunning musical numbers. This year’s show comes with all the traditional pantomime ingredients as well as some added flair to bring it in to the modern era; it’s going to be a ball!

Cadogan Hall, London SW1X 020 7730 4500

www.cadoganhall.com

Fri 2 Dec

Tchaikovsky’s Nutcracker Gala

An enchanting display of classical ballet choreography, talented musicians, ballerinas, exquisite Nutcracker tutus and sparkling tiaras makes this a truly magical evening. 6pm performance is family-friendly and children of all ages are welcome. 8:30pm performance for ages 7+ only.

Thu 22 Dec

The Snowman™

The Mozart Symphony Orchestra returns for its annual performance of the timeless classic, The Snowman™, for which the film is shown on the big screen with a live

symphony orchestra providing the soundtrack. 13-year-old Alice Mackenzie sings the aria made so famous by Aled Jones.

Chickenshed, Southgate N14 020 8292 9222 www.chickenshed.org.uk

Sat 3–Fri 30 Dec Christmas Tales at Chickenshed

We all need a huge sprinkling of magic this year, so make way for this colourful, energetic and vibrant show. With puppets, singing, dancing and some larger-than-life characters, Christmas Tales is guaranteed to entertain the very youngest of audience (and grown-ups too!) Ages 0-7yrs

Compass Theatre, UB10 01895 673 0200 www.hillingdontheatres.uk

Thu 1–Fri 30 Dec Cinderella

Another magical show full of laughter, song, audience participation and, of course the regular panto penguin! Get ahead of the curve and book your seats early to avoid disappointment!

Fri 16-Sat 24 Dec

The Santa Show Santa is back again at Compass in a one-act musical stage play for children ages 2+, with the opportunity to meet Santa and receive a small gift, after the show.

Harrow Arts Centre, HA5 0208 416 8989 www.harrowarts.com

Sat 10–Tue 27 Dec Jack and the Beanstalk Pantomime

It’s the panto you’ve BEAN waiting for! Immersion Theatre are thrilled to return to Harrow Arts Centre with a GIANT amount of Fe-fi-fo-FUN as they

proudly present Jack and the Beanstalk, a magical pantomime of epic proportions! Packed with comedy, music, audience participation, and all the trademark ingredients audiences have come to love and expect from the annual pantomime, this hilarious and action-packed adventure promises to be our most joyous and festive experience yet, oh yes it does!

Puppet Theatre Barge, W9 020 7249 6876 www.puppetbarge.com

Sat 26 Nov – Sun 29 Jan

Little Red Riding Hood

The much loved story of Red Riding Hood is injected with humour and new twists to the tale in this specially commissioned version by prize winning author Deborah Jones. Performed using marionettes and shadow puppets, this production is perfect for adults and children age 5 + and not suitable for babies or pre-school children.

Sadler’s Wells Theatre, London, EC1R 4TN www.sadlerswells.com

Sat 19 Nov – Sat 31 Dec

The Snowman™

Featuring colourful sets and extravagant costumes, exuberant dancing and a heart-warming story. A magical stage adaptation of the much-loved picture book by Raymond Briggs, The Snowman™ will leave you with a sense of wonder and joy as you will be transported to the wintery wonderland of a boy and a snowman who comes to life.

Sat 24 – Sat 31 Dec

Let’s All Dance: The Nutcracker The Let’s All Dance Ballet Company presents their family festive favourite. Stunning dancing, lavish costumes, much loved music and crystal clear story-telling for young and old alike.

Southbank Centre Royal Festival Hall, SE1 020 3879 9555 www.southbankcentre.co.uk

Wed 14 Dec-Sun 8 Jan

Hey Duggee: The Live Theatre Show

The smash hit CBeebies series will be brought to life through innovative puppetry and storytelling in this new live show featuring a dazzling light show and exciting projection and includes a four-week run at Southbank Centre’s Royal Festival Hall. Hey Duggee: The Live Theatre Show is presented by award-winning theatre producer Kenny Wax and theatre and live entertainment promoters Cuffe and Taylor in association with Live Nation.

Trestle Theatre, St Albans, AL4 01727 850950

www.trestle.org.uk

Thu 29 Dec

Alice in Winterland

Join Lamphouse Theatre on a fascinating, funny, music-filled adventure down the rabbit hole this Christmas. Based on Lewis Carroll’s original story with new songs, lots of laughs and many many hats, this is Alice, with a difference! Ages 6+.

Watersmeet, WD3 01923 711 063

www.watersmeet.co.uk

Fri 9 Dec – Sun 1 Jan

Aladdin

Get ready to say ‘AHOY’ to CBeebies Swashbuckle star Joseph Elliot as the Evil Abanazaar and Love Island’s Amy Day who will be ‘coupling up’ with Watersmeet to play the Genie of the Ring in this year’s magical panto, Aladdin. Don’t miss this fabulous festive family treat - a stunning pantomime guaranteed to make all your wishes come true! This year’s GENIE-US pantomime will take you on a thrilling adventure for the whole family

Watford Palace Theatre, Watford WD17 01923 225 671

www.watfordpalacetheatre. co.uk

Sat 3 – Sat 31 Dec

Beauty and The Beast

This Christmas, support local and be a part of the heart-warming tradition that is the Watford Palace Theatre pantomime, starring Watford’s much-loved Dame, Terence Frisch. It’s unmissable festive fun for all the family (oh yes it is!), featuring catchy hit songs, award-winning sets and costumes, and non-stop laughter.

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Jack and the Beanstalk Pantomime at Harrow Art Centre

What's On listings for all the family

Wed 9 Nov - Tiny Troopers: Poppies (SW3) Sing, play and create with your little ones at these fun, sensory sessions at the National Army Museum, perfect for ages 2 to 4. Each month will have a different theme. The November session will be exploring poppies and remembrance. Each session lasts approx 45 minutes. 10.15-11am & 11.15am-12pm. www.nam.ac.uk/whats-on/tinytroopers-poppies-2

Wed 9 Nov-Wed 14 Dec -

Parenting Course for Separated Parents (online) This course is recommended for parents who have separated or newly separated and would like to co-parent. Both parents are not required to attend. Topics include: Understanding and acknowledging your needs and those of your children : Building self-esteem: Understanding children’s behaviour : Why a consistent approach works best : Listening skills : Effective communication : Dealing with feelings, and promoting positive discipline. Every Wed, 7-9pm. Call on 020 8863 7319 to register or email info@hopeharrow.org.uk www.hopeharrow.org.uk

Sat 12 Nov - Remembrance Day

Poppies (SW3) Head along to the National Army Museum this Remembrance weekend to reflect on the service of soldiers past and present. Craft a poppy and add it to the Remembrance Day installation, which will grow and bloom across the day. This drop-in activity is suitable for all ages. www.nam.ac.uk/whats-on/ remembrance-day-poppies

Sat 12 Nov - Lord Mayor’s Show (EC2R) Join in the fun at a rare weekend opening at the Bank of England Museum, as part of Lord Mayor’s Show! Watch the parade, then explore the galleries and enjoy a variety of activities for all of the family. 11am-4pm. www.bankofengland.co.uk/ museum/whats-on/2022/lordmayors-show

Sat 12 Nov & Sat 10 Dec - SENsory Sailors (SE10) Families with children with special educational needs and disabilities (under 13 years) are invited to a monthly session at the National Maritime Museum. Explore the collection, enjoy the opportunity to be creative together as a family, and meet other local families. 11am12.30pm, free, pre-book. www.rmg.co.uk/whats-on/nationalmaritime-museum/sensory-sailors

Sat 12–Sun 13 Nov - VegfestUK London (W14) The UK’s biggest indoor vegan gathering of the year VegfestUK London at Olympia Grand. With a vast array of new products, new vegan businesses, firm favourites from pre pandemic days and a whole host of exciting developments in the plant based world. www.london.vegfest.co.uk

Sat 12 Nov–Mon 2 Jan - Christmas at Waddesdon (HP18) With magical lights, the gardens aglow and dazzling displays inside the house creating a Waddesdoninspired wonderland. Experience the Christmas Fair (until 18 Dec), illuminations, and Winter Light Trail. www.waddesdon.org.uk/whats-on/ christmas

Sun 13 Nov - Family Workshop: Build Your Own ‘Operation’ Game (HA2) Inspired by the well-loved game Operation this magnetic fishing game is a fun family make where you can create your very own patient to pamper. This craft involves cutting, colouring, sticking and fiddling. At Headstone Manor and Museum. 11am, 12:15pm & 2pm. www.headstonemanor.org/events/ family-workshop-build-your-ownoperation-game

Mon 14 Nov - Toddler Takeover Day (HA2) A day for Under 5’s to take over the running of Headstone Manor & Museum. Toddlers will have the chance to be Security Guards, Curators Archaeologists and more! www.headstonemanor.org/events/ toddler-takeover-day

Thu 17 Nov - Museum Late: Go for Gold! (EC2R) Discover all things gold at this free evening opening. Kids and adults alike can make their very own money box to take home, shaped like a gold bar. 5-8pm. www.bankofengland.co.uk/ museum/whats-on/2022/museumlate-go-for-gold

Sat 19 Nov - LGBTQ+ Family Network (SE10) As part of their regular LGBTQ+ programming, the National Maritime Museum hosts a space for LGBTQ+ families to meet and get creative. Join in with artistled activities and LGBTQ+ histories. 10am-12pm. www.rmg.co.uk/whatson/national-maritime-museum/ lgbtq-family-network

Sat 19 Nov - Magic in the Museum (TW8) Ryan F. Lacey is a magician specialising in card magic. His tricks will delight anyone. Young and old! You’ll find him exploring the London Museum of Water & Steam and sharing some amazing tricks between 11am-12pm. www.waterandsteam.org. uk/event/magic-in-the-museum

Sat 19 Nov - Sea Shanty Festival 2022 (SE10) Visit Cutty Sark for a fantastic day of sea shanty performances and workshops in celebration of the tea clipper’s birthday. 10am-4.30pm. Free with entry to ship. www.rmg.co.uk/whats-on/cuttysark/sea-shanty-festival-2022

Sat 19 Nov - Families Workshop: Body Adornment (NW7) Make your own wearable creations using a wide range of materials and design techniques at the V&A Museum. Artist Anita Quansah will demonstrate and share her diverse creative skills in exploring the past and the present. There are two sessions, the 10:30am for ages 7-10 and 2pm for ages 10-13. www.vam.ac.uk

Sat 19 Nov–Sat 3 Dec - Festive Carolling for Families (HA5) Learn about tone, pitch, melody and tempo while singing a selection of festive family songs, prepared especially for the sessions. Ages 5+. www. harrowarts.com/whats-on/event/ festive-carolling-for-families

Fri 25 Nov - Rickmansworth Winter Fair 2022 (WD3) Rickmansworth library will be open as part of the Christmas evening. Access to all facilities, plus children’s activities. FREE, donations welcome. 6-7.30pm. www.hertfordshire. gov.uk/services/libraries-andarchives/library-opening-hours/ rickmansworth-library.aspx

Fri 25–Sun 27 Nov - Knebworth Christmas Fair (SG1) Enjoy festive shopping and fun as the Knebworth Christmas Fair returns to the Barns and Marquees at Knebworth House. The region’s biggest festive shopping event, packed with Christmas presents and gift ideas for all ages, plus festive food and drink. www. knebworthhouse.com/events/ knebworth-christmas-fair

Fri 25 Nov-Fri 6 Jan - Toys, Tech and Tamagotchis: Christmas Bestsellers of the 20th Century (W11) A new display at the Museum of Brands, featuring the top-selling Christmas toys of the 20th Century. Toys will include Star Wars, Simon, Atari Video Computer System and Bratz dolls. Children are invited to explore the Time Tunnel by helping fill the pretend Christmas Stocking, before creating their very own Christmas tree decoration. www. museumofbrands.com/#exhibitions

Sat 26 Nov - Family Workshops: Books you can wear (NW1) Join artists Helen Rousseau and Katriona Beales on a creative adventure inspired by the British Library’s Artists Books Collection. Learn how to fold, cut and thread paper in interesting ways. Let your imagination run wild as you turn everyday materials into wearable artworks. Take your wearable books for a walk around the Library and maybe even wear them home. Free, drop in, ages 5–11. www.bl.uk/ events/family-workshops-booksyou-can-wear-26-november-2022

Sat 26 Nov - War Games Live (SE1) A half-day festival taking place at the Imperial War Museum, exploring the phenomenon of war video games. Bringing leading designers, podcasters, journalists and gaming enthusiasts, this unique event will feature live performances, talks and gaming interactives with visitors granted after-hours access to the exhibition and retro game zone. 2-8pm. www.iwm.org.uk/events/ war-games-live

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Illuminature at WWT London Wetland Centre Fri 18 Nov–Sun 8 Jan – Illuminature (SW13) Explore WWT London Wetland Centre in a magical new light. Wrap up with your family and friends this winter and experience the wonder of wildlife at night. 4.30–9pm. www.wwt.org.uk/wetland-centres/ london/whats-on/illuminature-lighttrail

Sat 26 Nov & Sat 31 Dec - Safe Harbour (SE10) Safe Harbour is a series of free workshops at the National Maritime Museum, created to provide a safe space for foster and adoptive families with children under 13 years. Head along from 12.30pm, take a snack or lunch and say hello to other families. After refreshments, take part in creative activities inspired by the items in the National Maritime Museum. www.rmg.co.uk/whats-on/ national-maritime-museum/safeharbour

Thu 1 Dec - Mini Museum (HA2) Join Herga and Duck in The Great Hall at Headstone Manor and Museum for stories and adventures from their life in Harrow. From Harvest celebrations to Herga’s first train ride – children will discover a rich history that’s right on their doorstep. 10-11am. Suitable for under 5’s and their grown-ups! www.headstonemanor.org/ events/mini-museum/2022-11-03

Thu 1 – Sat 31 Dec - Twinkle Trail (HA2) Can you help find all of the decorations hidden around Headstone Manor Museum?

Celebrate the 12 days of Headstone! Fill in the sheet as you explore the site and you will get a festive prize when you have finished! www. headstonemanor.org/events/ twinkle-trail

Fri 2–Sun 4 & Sat 17–Sat 24 DecFestive Markets with Duck Pond (W4) Head along to Chiswick House and Gardens in the lead up to Christmas for shopping and festive cheer with Duck Pond Market. With artisan markets and Christmas music. Including live music from Rock Choir and exclusive return of Grow FM radio producers. 10am–3.30pm. www.chiswickhouseandgardens. org.uk/festive-shopping

Fri 2 Dec-Sun 1 Jan - Christmas

At Kenwood (NW3) A sensational light trail will be nestled amongst the grounds of Kenwood House to captivate visitors. Awe inspiring illuminations and installations will bring the night to life and transport visitors into an enchanting world of light and colour. Enjoy festive food, warming cocktails and a host of brand-new sights and sounds with friends and family. www.englishheritage.org.uk/visit/whats-on/ kenwood-christmas-at-kenwood

Sat 3–Sun 4 Dec - A Special Christmas Event at Chiltern Open Air Museum (HP8) Go and find out a little about how Christmas was celebrated in the past and see some of the Museum’s historic buildings traditionally decorated for Christmas. There will be a small artisan Christmas market and the Museum’s shop will be full of handmade products made by local crafts people! www.coam.org.uk/ events/christmas-event

Sat 3–Sun 4 Dec – Fulham Palace Annual Christmas Fair (SW6) Enjoy a variety of activities and amusements such as free storytelling sessions from ECOhistories, free crafts with Paperbirds and Glue Gang. Plus face painting, swing boats, traditional fairground games, a mini Ferris wheel and more! www.fulhampalace.org/whats-on/ events/christmas-fair-2022

Sat 3–Sun 18 Dec - Ho ho ho! (TW8) The magic of Christmas is coming to the London Museum of Water & Steam. Head along on Sat and Sun in Dec (until Sunday 18 Dec) for festive activities and help to spread a little festive joy! Musical Mark will be there on Sun 11 and 18 Dec at 12:30 for his wonderful story and song time.

www.waterandsteam.org.uk/ event/ho-ho-ho-2022

Sat 3–Sat 31 Dec - Become One Of Santa’s Elves This Christmas At Kidzania London! (W12) Take the kids to KidZania London where they can be specially trained to become part of the next generation of Santa’s little helpers. Learn the ropes and prepare for the big day at the best Elf School in the land, where kids can join the Nutcracker parade, design toys, songs and more! www.kidzania.co.uk

Sun 4 Dec - Pop Up Vintage Fairs London at the Old Hampstead Town Hall! (NW3) Just three weeks before Christmas it’s the perfect time for some festive retail therapy! This Grade II Listed Victorian building will be filled with the best vintage traders selling designer, affordable and on-trend vintage fashion from the 1930s-1980s, vintage partywear, accessories, vintage jewellery, vintage homeware, collectables and unusual Xmas gift ideas. www.popupvintagefairs.co.uk

Sun 4 Dec - Children’s Willow Christmas Sculptures (SW3) Get into the festive spirit as a family by making your own willow Christmas sculptures with Chelsea Physic Garden. All materials will be provided so you can create willow Christmas sculptures that will decorate your home for the rest of December. Enjoy a festive day at the Garden. www.chelseaphysicgarden.co.uk/ event/childrens-willow-christmassculptures

Sat 10 Dec - Family Barn Dance (NW1) Take all the family to Cecil Sharp House and take part in lively dances from Britain and beyond in a supportive and fun environment! Live music inspires the dancing and expert callers guide the moves with simple instructions. Groups should include a minimum of one adult for every four children. 3pm. Advanced booking recommended. www. cecilsharphouse.org

Sat 10 Dec - Chinese Astronomy (SE10) Join this live planetarium show at the Royal Observatory Greenwich, to explore topics in ancient and modern Chinese astronomy, including the sun, moon, stars and space exploration. 10.30am. Ages 7+. Under-5s will not be admitted. www.rmg.co.uk/ whats-on/planetarium-shows/ chinese-astronomy

Sat 10 Dec - Morning Explorers at the Museum of London Docklands (E14) Enjoy a festive edition of relaxed early openings in which families can explore the museum in an environment sensitive to the needs of children with an autism. The galleries will be open exclusively for morning explorers from 9-10am and you can visit Mudlarks childrens’ gallery from 10.10-10.40am. www.museumoflondon.org. uk/museum-london/eventdetail?id=304408

Sun 11 Dec - Duck Pond Market: Artisan Food & Craft (HA2) Go along to Duck Pond Market at the Great Barn at Headstone Manor Museum, with the best local artists, crafters, food producers and ethical businesses. There are locally made arts and crafts, gifts, vintage goods along with locally made food both to eat and take home. 10am-3pm. www.headstonemanor.org/ events/duck-pond-marketartisan-food-craft

Sun 11 Dec - Family Workshop: Sparkly Festive Mobiles (HA2) With the winter festivals fast approaching, go and help Jaquie design some beautiful sparkly mobile decorations to enhance your homes at this most festive time of the year. Your hangings can then be packed away to be used again next year. 11am, 12:30pm & 2pm at Headstone Manor Museum. www.headstonemanor.org/ events/family-workshopsparkly-festive-mobiles

Sun 11–Wed 21 Dec - Frost Fair Fun! (E14) Head on down to the Museum of London Docklands for festive frost-themed play session for under 5s. Imagine how the frozen River Thames was used for frost fairs in days gone by in this free drop-in play session for under 5s. Enjoy sensory exploration, role play your own food stall or put on a puppet show! www. museumoflondon.org.uk/ museum-london-docklands/ event-detail?id=294808

Wed 14 Dec - Maggie’s Royal Free Christmas Concert (NW3) Head along to The Parish Church of St John-at-Hampstead for a wonderful festive evening of entertainment and carols to raise money to support individuals and their friends and family living with cancer in North London. Doors open at 6.30pm for a 7pm start and drawing to a close at 8.30pm. www.maggies.org/our-centres/ maggies-at-the-royal-free

Wed 14 Dec - Tiny Troopers: Music (SW3) Sing, play and create with your little ones at these fun, sensory sessions at the National Army Museum, perfect for ages 2 to 4. Dec will be inspired by music. Session lasts approx 45 minutes. 10.15-11am & 11.15am -12pm. www.nam.ac.uk/whats-on/tinytroopers-music-4

Thu 15 Dec - Chipperfield Choral Society Carol Concert in aid of Cancer Research UK (WD3) Chipperfield Choral Society concert in celebration of Christmas, including some carols for all to sing Proceeds in aid of Cancer Research UK. 7.30pm at Christ Church in Rickmansworth. Pre-book. www.chipperfieldchoral.co.uk

Sat 17–Sun 18 Dec - Winter Lights (N3) Go and take Christmassy walk around the lit up gardens at Stephens House. The cafe will be open. 5.30-7.30pm. www.stephenshouseandgardens. com

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Barekind Bamboo Socks

These jolly Bamboo socks are great stocking fillers that save endangered animals too. Bright and colourful, they will brighten up your children’s feet, while 10% of the profits are donated to help save the animal on the sock. £7.50.

www.barekind.co.uk

Christmas GIFT GUIDE

Spread a bit of festive joy by being good both to your family and the planet this year. These gorgeous gifts for kids and adults will make everyone’s day without costing the earth.

Elf Letters

We’re all for an advent calendar that encourages children to read! This one has daily, personalised Elf letters directly from a North Pole Elf. Read the stories every day to find out what happens in the North Pole as Santa and the elves get ready for Christmas. £25.99.

www.elfforchristmas.co.uk

Nature Curious Subscription Boxes

Buttercup’s Nature Curious activity subscription boxes encourage children to explore the British wildlife on our doorsteps. Their eco-packaged worksheets and nature prints with augmented reality are designed and printed in the UK. £20 per month with bonus access to an online community.

www.buttercuplearning.com

Families has an annual subscription to give away! Apply at familiesmag.co.uk/go

Kabode Alphabet Children’s Bedding

This gorgeous natural children’s bedding from Kabode is designed to inspire big dreams. The Alphabet collection makes it fun for your child to learn their ABCs and the playful design is decorated with colourful letters. Made from 100% certified organic cotton. £44.95.

www.kabode.co.uk

Play Kits Subscription Boxes

The Play Kits imaginative subscription boxes help parents make the most of playtime and support pre-school brain development. Created with leading child development experts, these are built to last and are made with sustainable wood, organic cotton, non-toxic paint and baby-safe plastics. From £80.

Bake at Home Gingerbread People

Cake or Death’s Bake At Home Gingerbread People make the perfect gift for little bakers. Delivered through your letterbox, each kit comes complete with delicious ready-made gingerbread dough, a cutter and recipe card. £15.

www.cakeordeath.co.uk

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Lightening the mental load this Christmas

Christmas

one of the busiest times of the year for parents. The pressure to create the perfect experience for everyone builds into a behemoth balancing on a plate of mince pies, threatening to crumble at any minute.

The upward comparison with Insta-perfect mums and crafting geniuses, let alone the constant narrative in the press, on television and on social media, means the mental load reaches an all-time high during the festive season and it’s well documented that mums bear the heaviest burden.

The sheer volume of things to think about and do can quickly lead to high-stress, low mood and burnout and not enjoying a minute of Christmas.

It’s very British to need to present the perfect picture. But when you realise that you can’t control everything, including the actions of your extended family or your delivery man, it can be truly liberating!

How to create your ‘perfectly imperfect’ Christmas

Here’s a few tips on how to manage the mental load this Christmas and feel good about it too.

Grab a pen and paper and write a list of the top three things that mean the most to you this Christmas.

Focus on those first. Doing a few things well will feel so much better than spreading yourself too thin and doing lots of things, just ‘ok’.

Ask for and accept help - it’s a sign of strength, not a weakness.

Slow down to speed up. Running on caffeine at one hundred miles per hour is detrimental to your mind and body. Slowing down and taking some deep breaths or even indulging in a Christmas movie, will help you reset, re-energise and get some headspace.

Ask yourself what your children really want and need this Christmas and focus on that rather than succumbing to the pressure to spoil them or compete with peers.

Reduce your time on social media. It’s amazing how many hours you’ll get back.

Avoid too many excesses. Don’t deprive yourself of a glass of fizz and a few mince pies but counter them with a family walk in the fresh air or a healthy breakfast or lunch.

And don’t forget to give yourself the gift of self-care so that you can enjoy Christmas too.

Chloe Lowe is founder of @parentlistapp (www.parentlist.app), the app for busy parents who want to find joy in parenting.

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Lincolnsfields Playzone (WD23)

A soft play centre in Bushey for children up to the age of 11. Birthday party packages available. Open daily during school holidays, and Monday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday during term time. www.lincolnsfieldsplayzone.co.uk

Ninja Warrior Watford (WD25)

Our Ninja Warrior UK Adventure Park is a supervised activity and fitness venue inspired by ITV’s hit programme Ninja Warrior UK! A great place for supervised family activities and for keeping fit, we welcome you on your Ninja journey. No charge for spectators to come and watch your Ninjas from our Café area and treat yourself to our full range of hot and cold food plus a wide selection of drinks!

www.ninjawarrioruk.co.uk/watford

Little Coders

Coding class for children aged 4 to 6 years. Develop critical thinking, creativity, collaboration and communication. www.littlecodersclub.co.uk

Blank Canvas Art Club

Online, fine art classes for kids and adults from 6-106 teaching skills & techniques whilst encouraging imagination and finding your own style whatever your experience. Weekday afterschool kids classes. Adults evening or daytime classes suitable for beginners or refreshers. Email Suzi blankcanvasartclub@gmail.com www.Facebook.com/BlankCanvasArtClub

Integratedbrain - Improve Co-ordination for learning! (UB5)

Activities to help those with poor co-ordination, dyspraxia, dyslexia or fine motor difficulties. Small groups of 4/5 children working to develop better all-round motor integration. Call Usha Patel 07766 837 616 or email ushapatel.raviv@gmail.com www.integratedbrain.co.uk

Hatch End 11+ Tuition (HA5)

Hatch End 11+ Tuition is an established and successful tutoring centre offering a warm and friendly environment where children are encouraged and motivated to achieve their maximum potential whatever their ability. Their aim is to build children’s confidence and help them achieve high standards of work in an engaging and challenging environment 020 8421 3066.

www.hatchend11plus.co.uk

Little Big Leaders (HA8 & WD23)

Harrow Woodcraft Folk

Join our Elfin group (6 to 9 years). Meeting in Central Harrow. Tuesday evenings (term time): 6:30-8pm. Email harrowwoodcraftfolk@yahoo.co.uk for more details. www.woodcraft.org.uk

Holidaytime After school club is part of Activetime

Children’s Activities Limited (HA1)

Pick up from four local schools at the end of the school day, then take the children back to the club for a snack and the daily activity. Open Mon-Fri 3-6pm at The Cadet Centre, Harrow, HA1 2QA. Call 07575801623, email holidays@activetime.co.uk www.activetimedaynursery.co.uk

Willesden and Brent Chess Club (NW2)

Provides social chess for players of levels, set up Club competitions and tutor juniors. For the more competitive player they enter teams into local leagues and refer members to our county team. At Cricklewood Library, 152 Olive Road, NW2 6UY. Call Anthony on 07974 238357, email fulton790@aol.com www.willesdenchess.wordpress.com

Code Ninjas

Kids learn to code in a fun, safe, and inspiring learning environment, with a game-based curriculum that they love. Parents love it too, because their kids make real progress and gain valuable skills while having a great time. Everyone wins at Code Ninjas! www.codeninjas.co.uk

DiscoG Coding Academy (HA3)

Run weekly term-time classes and holiday courses and workshops for students aged 6 to 18. Join in to learn Computer Science, Coding, Robotics, AI and Machine Learning. Contact Gerard & Kat on 07767300940, email: info@discogcodingacademy.com www.discogcodingacademy.com

We celebrate the making of art by tapping in to the creativity, interest and enthusiasm of our students and providing the space, time and guidance for it to happen. Classes are taught from a purpose-built art studio, either in small groups or 1-2-1 private tuition. Skills and techniques are taught according to each student’s individual readiness. 90-minute afterschool art classes Monday, Wednesday, Thursday. Term-in-a-Week Painting Courses during school holidays. Private classes by arrangement. All ages from 7 y/o and upwards. All levels of experience.

Contact Lisa Marsh email: art1stanmore@yahoo.co.uk or FB Messenger @art1stanmore www.facebook.com/art1stanmore

Brain Train Tuition Centre (HA2)

English and Maths Tuition for Ages 5 to 16 years. Brain Train Tuition will help to improve your child’s academic and social skills, as well as building their confidence and a belief in their ability to succeed. call 0208 426 84250. Email: braintraintuition@gmail.com

Free Readers (various)

At Free Readers, your child’s academic success is their priority. They help children of year groups and individual needs, from ages 3 to 11. They offer enrichment or extra help in Reading, Maths and English, homework and test preparation. Individual teaching and attention in small groups is the preferred way to help children. They encourage them how to learn, enabling them to reach their full potential. www.freereaders.co.uk

BEGINNERS

Classes

Every Thursday at 5.00pm Preston Park Primary School College Road, Wembley, HA9 8RJ

Every Saturday at 9.00am Harrow High School, Gayton Road, Harrow, HA1 2JG

Every Saturday at 2.00pm St Helens

Green Lane, Northwood, HA6

www.tiskakarate

Maths/English or Phonics & Writing for 3.5 to 11 year-olds at our Saturday School, Summer and Winter School. Tutors support and challenge pupils to improve their learning and have a track record in enabling pupils to demonstrate progress in their mainstream setting and/ or in 5+, 7+ and 11+ examinations. Childcare vouchers accepted. Free trial lessons. Call 020 3637 6266. www.littlebigleaders.com

The Learning Wheel (Northwood Hills)

Maths and English tuition classes which target identified needs to improve achievement levels. They set goals for your child, monitor progress and provide regular progress reports. Cater for all levels from Reception to Year 11. www.thelearningwheel.co.uk

Raviv Practice London (UB5)

Catch up reading course. Improve reading age by 1 year in 3 months of home-based work. The computer interventions is similar to having a tutor in your home with daily monitoring and feedback. Call 07766 837 6168 info@ravivpracticelondon.co.uk (registered therapist). www.ravpracticelondon.co.uk

Street Dance Academy (various)

Teach children aged 5-18 yrs every weekend during school term time, with clubs in and around London, Hertfordshire and Surrey. Street Dance Academy also teach Adult Street Dance and Zumba Classes in Twickenham every Wednesday. Call 0800 0236 236. www.streetdanceacademy.co.uk

Elina Patrou Academy of Dance (HA7)

Ballet classes to develop poise, technique and expression through dance, for boys and girls aged 3-16 years with Royal Academy of Dance examinations. Online private ballet lessons available. call 07555 861561 or email elinapatrouacademyofdance@gmail.com www.elinapatrouacademyofdance.com

New Strathspey School of Dancing

Highland Dancing for fitness and fun. Children’s Saturday morning highland dancing class for 5-11 year olds, starting September 2022 at Knutsford School Hall, Watford. Full details of all classes ia available at www. rscdsherts.org/new-strathspey. Contact Sandy at shunt@ moose.co.uk www.rscdsherts.org/new-strathspey

HEALTH & WELLBEING

Divine Yoga (Borehamwood and Kenton)

In each of our classes yoga is brought to life using cre ative games and mindful movement ending in a relaxing mindful activity. Classes are for children 4-10 years, teens, families, schools and nurseries. Why not trial a FREE class? To book, email divineyoga143@gmail.com www.divineyoga.com/booknow

Etiquette and Emotions

Etiquette and Emotions offer live, interactive, and enjoyable workshops for children and teens aged 7-15 to elevate their emotional intelligence and social etiquette. Workshops are run by a certified children’s coach and include videos, discussions, and a quiz. Get 10% off! Use discount code: ee10off at checkout! www.etiquetteandemotions.com

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World of Children’s Yoga

New Weekend Family Yoga, for:

Learning & Development: Yoga for a confident, stable, calm, well-rested, focused state of mind, ready to receive learning.

Family Yoga with Pre-Schoolers (30 mins)

Family Yoga with Children (4-8 years) (40 mins)

Family Power Mornings to Boost Learning (8+ years)

Puberty & Change: Yoga for strength, flexibility, self-awareness, positive self-image and self-worth, emotional regulation

Dads & Lads Yoga (11+ years)

Mum & Daughter Yoga with Tweens (8-11years)

Mum & Daughter Yoga with Teens (11-15 years)

Yoga for Women: Yoga for balance, love, strength, healing, wisdom

This is where Yoga for Women and all ages comes in and I share yoga designed for a woman’s body, women’s cycles, women’s lives.

anjli@worldofchildrensyoga.com

Facebook & Instagram: @worldofchildrensyoga

Kids Yoga with Yana (Watford)

www.facebook.com/kidsyogawithyana

Yana is a qualified Kids Yoga teacher with a passion for empowering children to be the best version of themselves through yoga and mindfulness practice.

MD Massage Therapies

Massage has many health benefits - it helps to reduce pain, anxiety and fatigue, helps with repetitive injuries, increases range of motion, relieves stress and much more! Gift vouchers available. Intro 20% off first treatment. Email info@mdmassagetherapies.co.uk, call 07950 84674. www.mdmassagetherapies.co.uk

LANGUAGES & DEVELOPMENT

Baby Lab (WC1E)

Have fun for free with your baby making discoveries about brain development at the Centre for Brain and Cognitive Development. Birkbeck College. Travel expenses refunded. Call 020 7631 6258. www.cbcd.bbk.ac.uk

Phonics with Robot Reg (various)

Provide fun, high energy classes which teach early phonics skills to children 1 to 4 years. Fun, varied and educational classes. https://robotreg.co.uk

Gymboree Play & Music Watford

Sensory classes for babies, art and music classes, as well as Play & Learn classes for little ones who are on the move. They also offer a range of fabulously fun birthday parties. Find them upstairs in the Atria shopping centre at the top of the Queens Car Park. https://gymbo.co.uk/locations/watford

Monkey Music (Various)

Award-winning Monkey Music, trusted by parents since 1992, introduces babies and young children aged 3 months to 4 years to music with a unique four-stage curriculum tailored to each age group. Classes run 6 days a week, in Uxbridge, Eastcote, Northwood, Ickenham, Harrow, Stanmore and Watford. Call 020 8427 6595. www.monkeymusic.co.uk

Sing and Sign (Various)

Fun classes combining the benefits of baby signing with music to develop language, memory and attention skills. For babies 6 to 30 months. Email info@singandsign.co.uk www.singandsign.com

PQA (Pauline Quirk Academy) (various)

PQA provides outstanding performing arts tuition for 4 to 18 years. Each week students rotate through specialist sessions in Musical Theatre, Comedy and Drama and Film and TV taught by leading industry professionals. PQA is enrolling for September. Book a free taster session at your local Academy. www.pqacademy.com

Perform drama, dance and singing classes (various)

Confidence building weekly drama, dance and singing classes for 4-7s and 7-12s. Classes are designed to boost confidence, communication, concentration and coordination. Every child can try a free no-obligation class at www.perform.org.uk/try

Venues in Harrow, Eastcote, Ruislip, Pinner, Northwood, Stanmore, Kensal Rise, Cricklewood, Ickenham, Acton, Watford & Bushey. Call 020 7255 9120 or email enquiries@perform.org.uk/ www.perform.org.uk

Sharpe Academy of Theatre Arts (HA5, HA6)

Performance based theatre school for children aged 3-18 with venues based in Hatch End and Northwood. Weekly classes in Musical Theatre, Ballet, Tap, Modern, LAMDA and Acrobatics. www.SharpeAcademy.co.uk

Stagecoach (Various)

Training in three disciplines: drama, dance and singing. Great for building confidence, making new friends and beginning to hone talent and enthusiasm for performing, by having fun! Call Harrow 020 3504 0100, Harrow on the Hill & Sudbury Hill 01923 248 294, Stanmore & Harrow Weald 020 3504 2154, Watford 01727 768 738, Queen’s Park 020 7723 5861 or Northwood 01442 263 599. www.stagecoach.co.uk

TISKA Karate

Learn the art of Karate. Classes held weekly in Harrow, Northwood and Wembley. Families welcome, Ages 4+. 4 week free trial (07739 572487) patel.karate@icloud.com. www.tiskakarate-harrow.co.uk/ www.tiskakaratenorthwood.co.uk/ www.tiskakarate-wembley.co.uk

Watford Cycle Hub

Offering cycle repair services, maintenance courses and cycle training. They also offer advice and information about cycling and bikes, including local cycle routes and maps, news about locally led rides and opportunities. www.watfordcyclehub.org.uk

Aqua Vie

Regular after school weekly classes in Bushey during term times. Spaces for new babies, toddlers and adults on Tues and Wed. Learn mindful, effortless swimming in a calm environment in warm water. office@aqua-vie.com or call 01923 245 773 or 07814 987 153. www.Aqua-vie.com

Achieve Arts (HA5/NW7/NW11)

Achieve Arts is a performance centre teaching drama, speech and singing to children and young adults. Young performers work towards their LAMDA examinations in acting, verse and prose, public speaking and musical theatre whilst learning some key life skills. The exceptional teaching team have a wealth of experience and are invested in the students to Achieve their best. call 020 8087 2461. www.achievearts.co.uk

CLASSES FOR GROWN UPS

Woodcarving (Iver)

A small group who would welcome new members. Drop in for a chat! Meet Monday mornings 9.30am-12.30pm at Evreham Centre. Email webb1959@btinternet.com.

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