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Families SW – useful information for parents of 0-12 year olds in SW London

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More fabulous and useful articles, local

directory, reviews…

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Local news & information

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Education news

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Mums in business

Family tickets for Christmas shows to WIN! See page 20.

New blog: The Parent Practice provides

great tips on various topics, including: Do you let your children make mistakes?

How to keep your children safe on the Internet.

Download Families South West as a pdf

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or read it page-turning format online.

New Competitions all the time!

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Maggie researches the best things and places in SW18

Sell your unwanted baby stuff locally

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Peeping at postcodes

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Happy mums See what local mums do to light up their spirits (does not include children or husbands!)

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Baby page So you think you are green enough? We investigate.

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Arts and crafts Easy home-made presents

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One person to win £250 to spend in Hamleys! Plus other offers!

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We take every care preparing this magazine, but the publishers and distributors cannot be held responsible for the claims of advertisers nor for the accuracy of the contents nor for any consequence.

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To praise or not?

Are we praising our children too much for their own good?

Next issue: December 2010 Deadline: early November • “Families® South West” heads a group of magazines All franchised magazines in the group are independently owned and operated under licence.

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Competitions

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Pantomines and Christmas shows Pantos, Christmas Shows, Christmas markets, Ballets etc.

More online.

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Christmas hols activities Arts & craft, music, languages, ideas for a day out etc

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What's On

Diary dates, Drama, Events, Exhibitions and museums More Online

Paper used to print Families is from fullymanaged sustainable sources — meaning trees which are felled are continuously replaced. Inks are soya-based, which can be re-cycled.

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local news

compiled by Joanna Parry

Journey through the afterlife This November journey through the afterlife at the Ancient Egyptian Book of the Dead exhibition, opening this month at the British Museum. Follow the ancient Egyptians’ journey from death to the afterlife in this unique exhibition focusing on the Book of the Dead - a compilation of spells designed to guide the deceased through the dangers of the underworld, ultimately ensuring eternal life. Many of the examples of the Book of the Dead in the exhibition have never been seen before, with some of the oldest examples over 3,500 years old. Young Friends of the Museum are also invited to join an Egyptian-themed sleepover this winter - sleep in the gallery and participate in a variety of Egyptian activites.

Find out more or purchase tickets to the exhibition at www.britishmuseum.org or on 020 7323 8181. The exhibition is free for under 16s and Members.

How to have fun with live music!

Since 1991, Blueberry have been delighting children with music classes designed to stimulate, educate and entertain with the pure joy of hearing and making music. Come and join them at one of their 8 London venues for interactive, guitar-accompanied action songs, nursery rhymes, instruments and dancing. Their talented group leaders are all trained in the Blueberry method and really care about bringing out the best in your child.

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Ramblers put London on the map This autumn a new campaign is being launched by the Ramblers, Britain’s walking charity, to highlight the myriad of London’s walkways, including the popular Thames Path, that are under threat by massive development.

‘Putting London on the map’ urges councils of inner London Boroughs to safeguard the city’s historic footpaths before the ability to explore London on foot is lost forever, by creating a definitive map of London’s footpaths.

Backed by Janet Street-Porter and Turner Prize winner Grayson Perry, the Ramblers campaign says, “We want London’s historic and well-loved footpaths to be safeguarded just like our iconic buildings. Not only are our footpaths a crucial part of London’s heritage but they are also a vital service enabling people to get from A to B.” For more information visit www.ramblers.org.uk/Campaigns+Policy/map London.

Common Ground Cafe has Blueberry as a drop-in class on Wednesday mornings at 9.45, 10.30 and 11.14. Ideal for 6 month - 3+ year olds. www.blueberryplaysongs.co.uk info@blueberryplaysongs.co.uk 020 8677 6871

Posture for tots Joseph Pilates hoped that one day an older generation would bring awareness of the consequences of bad posture on health to a younger generation so as to create a healthy happier population. Local pilates teacher Zoe Ewart has made it her mission to bring postural awareness into children’s lives so they grow into well balanced bodies, avoiding the problems of future bad backs, digestive and respiratory problems and sleep troubles. Her classes are specifically targeted at 8 to 17 year olds and are held at Brockwell Lido on Wednesdays and Fridays at 5.45pm. Find out more at www.pilateens.com

Walk in the Park in the dark.....

2010 sees the fifth year of Syon Park’s Enchanted Woodland, a magical event which sees an illuminated trail laid out through the Gardens and Arboretum of Syon. As the path winds around the eighteenth century lake, a range of exciting lighting effects bring the landscape to life in a whole new way. The shapes and textures of Syon’s fine old trees are thrown into sharp contrast against the night sky, or reflected in the mirror of the lake before the route culminates at the magnificent Great Conservatory. A unique and magical event for young and old alike.

The event is open every Friday, Saturday and Sunday night from 19th November to 5th December 2010, Gates open at 5pm, with last admission at 8pm. Adults £5, children £2. Food and refreshments will be available every night. For more information and pictures of last year’s event, please go to www.syonpark.co.uk

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New Helpline from Tommy’s This autumn Tommy’s, the baby charity, is launching a midwife-staffed freephone PregnancyLine. With the help of funding from an ASDA foundation grant, PregnancyLine will focus on providing emotional and bereavement counseling support for women who have suffered a pregnancy loss or complication through premature birth, miscarriage or stillbirth, as well as offering advice on how best to plan for a baby following a complication, and lifestyle advice for women most at risk of pregnancy health problems due to smoking, stress, poor diet or obesity. The grant will also fund a training programme for Tommy’s midwives, focusing on these areas. Jacqui Clinton, Health Campaigns Manager at Tommy’s, says: “Tommy’s information line has always provided vital support for many mums-to-be, however with the PregnancyLine we can now specifically help women whom have suffered pregnancy complications in the past and want to try for another baby, or need guidance in terms of healthy lifestyle choices.” PregnancyLine 0800 0147 800. www.tommys.org

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Bop to the beat—choices, choices…

We all know that little ones love to dance, but did you know that music is the single most important tool in the learning and development of babies and young children, even in the womb? For over 16 years Tin Pan Annie and her band of brilliant musicians have been entertaining babies and children (and their grown-ups!) with music classes. Their programme is specifically written to get the maximum benefits from music, whilst having a great time.

Join in the fun with over a hundred different classes to choose from in South London, and new classes now open at St Thomas’ Church, Telford Avenue SW2 and All Saints Church, Prince of Wales Drive, Battersea. Book your class at www.tinpanannie.co.uk.

Or join in the magical journey of Bea’s Baby Music with Bea and her professional musicians singing, playing instruments and using puppets to enthral and educate your little one.

Bea will also captivate your children at a personalised birthday party, or make music a natural part of your child's life by booking piano lessons with her. www.babymusic.co.uk

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Bea’s Baby Music

Extra classes in Stagecoach Putney!

Since taking over as Principal in April 2010, Tina Muir has worked hard to create a school which is energetic, exciting, fun and hard working. Demand for spaces is high and she is excited to be opening a new 9.15am Early Stages class on a Saturday morning.

Contact Tina Muir 0845 2657050.

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After a successful summer term performing extracts from Wicked and Glee, Stagecoach Putney students are embarking on a new show. Students will be putting on a show, complete with lights, costumes and multimedia, using extracts and themes from We Will Rock You.

Frame their art South West London family portrait photographers Parklife, run by mum of 3, Annabel Bennett and her brother Phil Wilson, have recently created a new concept – kids artwork montage. Whilst having a clear out Annabel discovered a huge stash of colourful pictures brought home by her kids over the years. Unable to display or even keep them all, Annabel and her brother came up with the idea of montaging them – they photograph each picture and then use these images to create a stunning, colourful montage.

Each montage contains around 42 images and is beautifully presented in a 20 x 30 box frame, or the montage image can also be printed on a variety of products including postcards, bags, washbags, roller blinds and even wallpaper. For a fantastic Christmas gift for the grandparents, or even yourself, go to www.parklifephotography.co.uk.

Framed montages cost £350 and Families readers will receive a complementary set of 10 postcards printed with their montage (worth £30) when they order a kids artwork montage before December 1st. Mention Families Magazine when booking.

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Are you sick of sitting in your car in London traffic? Three South West London mums have recently launched a new company, Wheel Happy, committed to getting mums and dads with young children on their bikes. Check out their website www.babboe.co.uk for Babboe cargo bikes which enable parents to easily transport up to 4 young children around town.

New to the UK, the Dutch-designed Babboe is the coolest bike on the block – they are fun, stylish and a very convenient way to do the school run or go shopping. Babboe cargo bikes are available in both electric and non-electric versions, are safety tested for strength and durability and can be personalised with cool zebra stripes, colourful poppy flowers or even your own photos. Babboe bikes start at £1249 plus shipping and assembly, and Families readers are offered a free rain tent worth £139 when purchasing a babboe between November and January 15th 2011. www.babboe.co.uk

Tame those toddler tantrums

Do you sometimes find yourself in a stressful tantrum situation with your toddler? Do you find it impossible to get them to brush their teeth, eat their supper or get into their buggy? Then you need help with taming them! Local BAFTA nominated composer and mother of two Vicky Arlidge has written a fantastic CD of music specially composed to help parents avoid these nightmare situations and turn temper tantrums into fun and giggles. “This CD has been a great help for getting my 2 year old to do everyday tasks. We always brush Skylie's teeth to 'scary lion'. She quickly opens her mouth and lets me brush!” says Callie, mum to Skylar. So next time you struggle with hair brushing or nappy changing, check out Tunes 4 Toddler Tantrums, and make life easy again.

The CD costs £9.99 at www.tunes4toddlertantrums.co.uk

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Education news Compiled by Joanna Parry

Curl up with a book Every primary school deserves a library, says a new Charter launched by the School Library Association. Research shows that primary school libraries, where they even exist, suffer from a lack of trained staff, space and investment. They are often empty of books and deserted by pupils, but a good school library, says Tricia Adams, director of the School Library Association, “can make a broad contribution to the teaching and learning that happens within a school. It can be the creative and imaginative heart of the school, an oasis of calm, where new technology combines with old. A place where we can all learn how to navigate today’s information overload.” A well-supported and resourced primary school library should not only teach young children the literacy skills and judgement to become creative, curious and confident, but also provide an important community space for out-of-hours learning and a point of contact with families. It is where children Thames Christian College

Private school with a heart Families visited Thames Christian College again this autumn, exactly 10 years after it was first set up, in 2000. It was a group of parents who started the school, knowing that their own children were not suited to existing high-achieving private schools. From the beginning the school aimed to cater for mixed abilities. Each child still has their own set of targets and the teachers get to know each child individually. The whole environment is designed to make sure each child is stretched and supported to bring out the very best in that child.

Holland Park School library can become passionate about books and turn into readers. The Primary School Library Charter will help primary headteachers and governors set up and run a school library, as well as increasing the contribution their library makes to the school’s effectiveness and the pupils’ wellbeing and learning. To find out more about the SLA Charter go to www.sla.org.uk/primary-charter.

Speed is number one killer Kids Say Slow Down is the theme of Road Safety Week 2010, taking place 22-28 November.

The charity Brake, the organisers of the event, urge you to take part and help stop the many accidents on our roads.

Speed is the number one killer on our roads and the faster vehicles go, the less time they have to react and the harder they hit, causing numerous head and spinal injuries, lost limbs and deaths of children. In built-up areas traffic must travel at no faster than 20mph; it must go even slower outside schools and homes, so if traffic travels faster than this in your community go on, take part in the campaign and stop the menace of speeding drivers. Go to www.roadsafetyweek.org for ideas on how to get involved and campaign for slower speeds, whether you are a teacher, company, campaigner or road safety professional

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Collect those pens A new campaign has been launched in schools across the country encouraging students to upcycle used writing instruments.

Sponsored by Berol, Sharpie and Paper Mate in partnership with TerraCycle UK, (mentioned in this very magazine of course) the programme teaches pupils about sustainability while helping to raise funds for schools, charities and non-profit organisations nationwide. Collection centres will be established in 370 UK-based schools and for every writing instrument collected, 2p will be contributed to a school or charity of the participant’s choice. “Keeping one pen or marker out of landfill may seem like a small contribution, but multiply that by the estimated £208 million of writing instruments sold in the UK each year and it is a big opportunity to reduce waste to landfill,” said Gérard Danjou of Berol, Sharpie and Paper Mate. “It’s not only our responsibility but our moral obligation to do our part to help the environment.” The collected writing instruments will be dissembled and reprocessed to make a variety of new products, so get scribbling and start collecting! Do have a look, they do really nice things! www.terracycle.co.uk

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The founders share a deeply-held view that every child is created in God's own image and they encourage each child to reach his/her full potential. While lessons and assemblies reflect this Christian ethos, the school takes all kinds of other faiths. Stephen Holsgrove, Headteacher told us, “We prefer to teach our children within a framework of religious belief as it gives them a sense of purpose.”

Do go and have a look for yourselves! The school has a few places in year 10; one space in year 7 but years 8 and 9 have waiting lists. The allinclusive fees are kept relatively low – below £10k per year – in order to allow a diverse range of children at the school. In May 2010, Ofsted rated every aspect of the school's provision as good, with some outstanding features. Happy anniversary!

Located a few minutes' walk from Clapham Junction. Wye Street, London SW11 2HB, 020 7228 3933 OFSTED URN 132237 thameschristiancollege.org.uk

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Mums in Business Bags of style

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Many of us have used and loved Pink Lining mother’s bags, but did you know they are the brainchild of local mum Charlotte Pearl who, when she was pregnant with her first daughter and unable to find a bag she liked, decided to create her own? While working at Conde Nast and then

Most children will think they have landed in heaven when they discover this new gem in South West London. What About Me? is a new children’s hairdressing salon and Beauty Bar recently set up

by Vanessa and Anthony Lewis. When mum Vanessa, a hairdresser and beauty therapist, was told by her clients that they wished they had had somewhere to go for hairdressing and beauty advice when they were children, Vanessa’s idea started to take seed.

After winning over her initially-reluctant husband Anthony with her plans, the couple set out to open their own children-only salon, where children can feel relaxed and parents can breathe a sigh of

Ice in winter It may be chilly outside but there is never a season when kids don’t love ice lollies. A few years ago, Zoë Meredith and Sarah Smith met at a Spanish class for kids. Little did they know that less than a year later they would be running a thriving business together. “We were horrified at the amount of sugar, additives and preservatives in most children’s lollies,” says Sarah, “so we used to make our own. We realized there must be a gap in the market, so we took the plunge and Yummy Lollies – the first real fruit ice lolly company – was born!”

in fashion PR, Charlotte started to handstitch bags for herself. Soon her friends were asking her to make some for them and then, on a whim, Charlotte hung a few of her bags on a doorknob, photographed them and sent the pictures to the buyers of a number of department stores. Straight away, Harrods called to say they loved her bags, and Pink Lining was born! Now Pink Lining bags are stocked in over 170 stores nationwide, while Charlotte still juggles running her business with looking after her three young children without a nanny. In fact, she is often found working on her designs late at night when the children are in bed.

Now Pink Lining are launching a new brand, Rosebud London, in response to the need for a competitively priced Mother’s Bag that still ticks all the style boxes. The Rosebud bags are available in two fab new designs, they have the same hobo shape as the originals, with zip pockets and pouches inside, plus two insulated bottle holders on the outside of the bag, all for only £39.99.

Rosebud London bags are available exclusively in 54 Boots stores nationwide and from their website www.rosebudlondon.co.uk, but from January 2011 Mothercare will also be stocking them in 80 of their stores. Snap one up soon!

relief. Now, at this wow factor salon, with pink aeroplane or blue pedal car seats, high chairs and a sophisticated chair for the older ones, children can really enjoy having their hair cut, along with a glass of juice, a cookie and even a party bag to take home. Add in a Beauty Bar for 11-16 year olds, and everyone is happy! 181 Kingston Road, London, SW19 1LH, tel: 020 8544 0888, info@whataboutme.eu.

Simple tips for mums

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Do you struggle to encourage your child to eat fresh fruit? Then why not try a "Bonnie" breakfast! All you need are the following ingredients: raspberries, blueberries and strawberries each in a different plastic cup, one tub of Greek yogurt and a squeezable bottle of honey/agave syrup. Now, get your child to make layers of the fruit then yogurt in a plastic transparent glass then finish off with a squeeze of honey on top. This looks colourful, is fun to make and you can try different fruits. If you really want to impress the kids, let them eat it with a fun spoon – the type that is long and used for ice cream is best. During winter substitute the yogurt with warm porridge for a hearty breakfast.

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The pair had just two rules – the lollies had to contain nothing but 100% real fruit, and they had to be so delicious that children loved them! “The first few batches were a disaster, but after a few weeks of experimenting we had developed our first four delicious flavours.” Sarah, a facilities manager and Zoe, a dancer, now sell the preservative- and additive-free products in over 300 outlets nationwide. “I think the secret behind the success of Yummy Lollies is down to them being tasty and healthy,” says Zoë. “They help mums ensure their little ones are getting part of their five a day and are naturally sweet so that even the fussiest of eaters enjoys them.” So lick your way to five a day and get your hands on these tasty, healthy treats at Waitrose and Holland & Barrett stores. www.yummylollies.com

If you are leaving your baby with a new nanny or babysitter for the first time, try and wear a scarf of shawl for several hours beforehand.

The garment can be left when you leave so that if your baby wakes up, your nanny can drape it over his/her shoulder. Recognising your scent should comfort your baby and allow your nanny or babysitter to settle the child quickly and easily.

Tips from Mia Holman Director of Culture Kids www.culture-kids.com ®

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Maggie’s treasure trove: SW18 Earlsfield

Maggie O’Brien continues her search for the best things and places in SW London... this month SW18 Frankly, I initially thought of doing Earlsfield as a bit of an add on to Southfields, that was of course before I knew anything much about it. Some friends live there and I have been through it several times, but looking at it more closely, has been a real eye opener.

It has a thriving local community with a great Parish church, St. Andrews, about to open up its garden, a green space for all.

It has a theatre, a gorgeous character-filled Dickensian style bookshop, a very warm, cosy and active ‘indoor’ play area for children and lots more...

Tara Studio

It’s a Kid’s Thing

‘Tara Studio is an intimate cross-cultural theatre in south London which offers a diverse blend of cutting-edge, live performances from theatre to comedy, by dynamic young artists’.

This is how the theatre is described and honestly, it’s such a quirky, vibrant place, I wanted to move in!

Set up by Claire Robinson, mother of two, this great indoor play space for children is very popular for both the parents and their children. I asked Claire what inspired her to develop something like this.

"When my husband and I came up with the idea of It's a Kids Thing, it was always our dream to be a major part of the Community. Finding a site in the area that we lived, and 7 years on despite emerging competition, we also get visitors from all over South West London and Surrey. It gives us a real buzz that there are still people who enjoy the old fashioned things in life".

Katie Elston, Marketing and Press Officer at the theatre for 2 years, loves her job, loves the people and so enjoys being involved with all aspects of the productions. “It’s wonderful to be in such close contact with touring companies” says Katie. It was the first Asian theatre to be set up in London and although that was in the 1970’s, (sadly, after a racially motivated murder), the first performances were properly established in 2007, with Tara’s first season in 2008 and there’s been no looking back.

Artsbeat, is available to 14-23 year olds who want to perform or work behind the scenes in a professional theatre. Tara also works regularly with junior schools, touring with specially created classics such as The Tempest and The Merchant of Venice.

With comedy nights alternate weeks and a list of up and coming tours and projects, they are into everything. Look out for the London Jazz Festival coming up in mid-November; Cinderella - The Bollywood Pantomime and a very special major arts project ‘Sailing to Britain’ with a performance in 2012 on the River Thames! (See side panel for website which has excellent details).

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Claire is friendly, energetic and hands on, even making the carrot cake herself. When I talked to some of the parents, they were all impressed with the friendly, fun and inventive atmosphere.

Kelly Williams who has two children, Georgia 6 and Amelia, 11 months has been enjoying it since it opened. “I started coming as a first-time mum, had a bit of a sit-down, a coffee and time off and later on Georgia used the play area. It’s great from crawling upwards”, says Kelly. Moira, mother of 5 year old Katie and 10 month old Rosie says, “We like coming to ‘Funky Feet’, we’re local and it’s a safe environment for them to learn and explore.

So, whether it’s the two tier playzone, the ‘funky feet’ class, the art club, the availability of fantastic party hire, to name but a few, check it out for yourselves.

Monkey Music classes at Earlsfield library I met Darren, father of Lily, 16 months, and they had just been to a Monkey Music class held at Earlsfield Library. He was one of several people I’d come across who spoke very highly of this fun and interactive music session.

Founded in 1993, by Angie Davies, a new mother at that time herself, she set up the classes because of her own love of music and her knowledge that ‘babies easily understand and enjoy music’.

The library also has a story time and baby rhyme time, and is very close to the station.

Log on www.familiessouthwest.co.uk/Peeping to read about the postcodes we have peeped at in previous issues:SW1, 3, 6, 11, 13, 15 and 19

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The Earlsfield Bookshop This little bookshop wouldn’t be out of place next to the Old Curiosity Shop in a Victorian street. Once inside, it’s got second-hand books galore and with something for everyone, it’s worth a special browse when you have a chance, possibly on a Saturday morning, without a buggy, also do watch the very particular opening hours, mostly afternoons during the week.

Sugar Bag Blue This is a really exciting gift shop, beautifully set out and again a lovely place to browse for ‘that special gift’. “An absolute treasure trove”, according to Lulu and Isabelle MacCauslan who lived in the area until recently, and who always loved having a look around the shop.

Further Information: • Tara Studio – 356 Garratt Lane, London. SW18 4ES Box Office Tel: 020 8333 4457 www.tara-arts.com (Also look out for Oily Cart – interactive theatre for children www.oilycart.org.uk) • It’s a Kid’s Thing – 279 Magdalen Road, Earlsfield, London, SW18 3NZ Tel: 020 8739 0909 www.itsakidsthing.co.uk • Earlsfield Library – 276 Magdalen Road, Earlsfield, London.

Tel: 020 8871 6389 E-mail: Librairies@wandsworth.gov.uk • Earlsfield Bookshop – 513 Garratt Lane, Earlsfield, London, SW18 4SW Tel: 020 8946 3744 • Sugar Bag Blue – 567 Garratt Lane, Earlsfield, London SW18 Tel: 020 8946 6541 • Fara Kids – 551 Garratt Lane, Earlsfield, London, SW18 4SR Tel: 020 8879 7279.

• Belle Amie – 404 Garratt Lane, SW18 4HP belleamielondon.com

Fara Kids This is not your average charity shop, so it’s worth a special mention. “It has seasonal and imaginative displays and an excellent selection of stuff”, says Katie, who used to live locally. With everything from buggies to books to school uniform, it is a godsend to those of you who need to kit out for a new baby and is also a great meeting place. There’s an excellent notice board too. And all for a great cause, to provide for children in Romania.

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• St Andrew’s Church – St Andrew’s Court, Waynflete Street, Earlsfield, London. SW18 3QG Tel: 020 8879 3440 www.standrewsearlsfield.org (Brownies and Guides and Anoushka’s Yoga.

Also Mother & Toddler Group – Mon, Wed and Thurs drop-in £1).

• Mel’s Cafe Bar – 573 Garratt Lane, Earlsfield, London, SW18 4ST 020 8944 5718 • The Balloon & Kite Company – 613 Garratt Lane, Earlsfield, London, SW18 4SU. 020 8946 5962. www.balloonandkitecompany.com

The Balloon & Kite Company

• A 1 Tech.Net – 316 Garratt Lane Earlsfield, London, SW18 4EH 020 8870 0600 e-mail: info@a1tech.net /support@a1tech.net (Personally recommend as excellent).

Belle Amie “Inspired by friends and beautiful things. Belle Amie is an exclusive shop and eatery in Earlsfield, SW18. Coffee and food to lift your mood in a relaxed comfortable environment”, says Littish Beyleveld of Belle Amie which only opened in September.

“Coffee cake to die for”, says Val, “and the coffee is excellent”.

“A thumbs up from me too”, says Caroline, mother of Sylvie, 15 months and Sophie, 2.

Garratt Park Enjoys a well established One o’clock club where young children can enjoy a fun-filled afternoon with their parents/carers in a safe purpose built, secure outside area and fully equipped multi-sensory room for babies. The park has junior and toddler multi units, swings, see saw rocker and jumping pools, as well as ball games for 2-6 year olds and 8-14year olds.

• Cupcake – 18 Earlsfield Road, London, SW18 3DW Tel: 020 8875 1065 www.cupcakemum.com (Increasingly popular club for mums, partners and little ones).

• Lavang – Indian Cuisine – 493 Garratt Lane, London, SW18 4SW Tel: 020 8 870 8969 Indian cuisine. Great value buffet on Sunday 6-9pm.

• Amaranth – Thai Cafe & noodle Bar & takeaway. 346 Garratt Lane, Earlsfield, London, SW18 4ES Tel: 020 8874 9036 • The Wandle Pub – 332 Garratt Lane, Earlsfield, London. Tel: 0872 148 5401 Feel like a good pub? They also cater for parties etc.

• Hannah’s Place – 350-352 Garratt Lane, Earlsfield, London, SW18 4ES Tel: 020 8877 0799 www.hannahsplacerestaurant.com Homely, warm family run restaurant.

• Halfwayhouse – 521 Garratt Lane, Earlsfield, London, SW18 4SR Tel: 020 8946 2788 halfwayhouse@youngs.co.uk – Kids welcome.

• FACE – Body & Beauty 354 Garratt Lane, London, SW18 Tel: 020 8875 0077 www.facebodyandbeauty.co.uk • M.D.M. – Hair & Beauty – 416 Garratt Lane, Earlsfield, London, SW18 4HW Tel: 020 8946 6555.

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Dawmouse Montessori Nursery Schools WWW.DAWMOUSE.COM There are now two established Montessori Nursery schools in Fulham bearing the Dawmouse name. The original Dawmouse Brunswick in Haldane Road, SW6 7EU and Dawmouse St Peter’s at St Peter’s Terrace, SW6 7JS. Both schools offer a wide range of Montessori equipment and have outdoor play areas. They will offer a safe, stimulating and active environment in which children can have fun and achieve.

The broad curriculum covers all areas of the Early Learning Goals and includes science, drama, cookery and music lessons.

Project work will give the children scope for creative development as well as an increased understanding of their world.

We insist on our staff being Montessori trained teachers.

For a prospectus and a visit to view the schools please contact : www.dawmouse.com or speak with Miss Emma 020 7381 9385

Bilingual education since 1996 The French Nursery School For children from 2 years old to 5 years old.

(Toddler group from 1yr) Morning or afternoon sessions available Full time sessions 9h - 15h

SW7 Queen's Gate SW1 Knightsbridge Group of international nursery schools

The Belgravia Nursery School Bilingual Nursery school French/ English.

For children 2-5 years. (Toddler group from 1yr) Part time session 9h - 12h Full time session 9h - 15h • 15h35-17h

All schools have native language teachers, excellent facilities and lovely outside The Spanish Nursery School playground / garden.

SW7 and SW1 The Spanish out of school club for children from 2 to 5 years old.

Toddler Group from 1 year old

For a brochure please call Marie-Laurence Edmonstone 020 7259 21 51 marie-laurence@thefrenchnurseryschool.com

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Mum’s very own page

Whatever makes you happy dear!

By Kate Birch

We all need something to take ourselves out of ourselves. Something that is about more than just being a mum, wife, partner, employee or boss. Getting together with a group of friends is always cathartic but with just dinner or drinks there are, as Margaret puts it “always one or two people who dominate.” But, as she says “if there is an activity where you can all participate, it is a different sort of evening.”

To book club or not to book club When book groups first became popular, I could not have been more interested. An avid reader of just about anything since I was a child, I had let things slip after my children were born. Reading breaks had become sleep breaks or rubbish television breaks or no breaks at all as I tried to catch up on all I needed to do in a day.

So when I got the chance to join a book group I jumped at it. Unfortunately, I joined at exactly wrong time. After looking at To Kill A Mockingbird and a harrowing account of the Holocaust, I offered to host the next session. J M Coetzee’s Disgrace was proposed. It was another gut-wrenching tale and maybe I shouldn’t have been surprised when I received phone call after phone call on the day from mums sending their regrets. In the end it was just me and one other.

I like to think that the group came to its natural end. However, I never had the nerve to join another.

Happily most book club mums have been spared my experience.

The best things about my book club are that I have a really good time with people whose company I enjoy and also I read more novels than I otherwise would. I sometimes think we should be a little bit more serious about discussing the book and I think anyone who was serious about literary criticism would find it very frustrating! It is a very cosy book group, with lots of food, wine and chocolate involved! (Clare)

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Finding the calm inside Happiness with a group of friends can also come in a quieter, more spiritual form. About a year ago, neighbours Sue and Ann were chatting about how impossible it was to take any time out without feeling guilty. They thought that if they could just discipline themselves to get together and sit in a room quietly it could help.

According to Sue: “We wanted to keep it simple. The one thing we could do was to stop our minds running with a million things a minute.”

The group gathers around a real fire in a garden or a candle in someone’s front room. Sometimes they exchange thoughts, sometimes one of the group takes the rest through meditation, guided visualisation or breathing exercises. Sometimes they just sit there and “enjoy the silence.”

Sitting still: nothing more but it is very energising, and it fills us with the simple joy of being away from the hustle of our daily lives.

It is not about religion but it is definitely spiritual, connecting with spirituality; we all come from different religious backgrounds (or none for some).

Cultural jaunts

They are more conscious of “key times” in the year, of the Equinoxes and summer and winter Solstice. This September some of them attended an Equinox celebration with local meditation teacher Solara An Ra on Streatham Common Rookery meadow: “It was lovely, no TV, no gimmicks, connecting with each other and being outdoors; the simple things in life are always the best!”

If you are at all worried about the chatter overwhelming the debate take the example of a group of mums who have decided to take the idea of a book group one step further. Once a month they plan a cultural jaunt into town. It can be to a gallery, a museum, the theatre or the cinema. Being right up close and personal to the topic spurs the debate and distracts the group away from, well, distractions. And food, wine and chocolate can still play a part!

Often the group will concentrate on sending out good intentions, thinking about others, focusing, for example, on people in war torn countries. And sometimes one of them has had a tough time in her own life. As Ann puts it: “Because we are all mums, we can provide support and understanding.”

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Mum’s very own page Another mum found solace in it after “a very sad bereavement.” The singing and companionship made her feel “less heavy-hearted.”

And it is such fun! When Melanie had her 40th birthday party, we all, with very little persuasion, fell in with her idea of putting on a performance at it. Melanie got in Helen Hampton of Popchoir to coach us and help us with some (very simple) choreography. (Helen has worked with Michael Jackson, Queen and Bjork among others and now with us!)

I just thought ‘I always wanted to be in a band and this is the closest I can get to it. And my friends are all going to be appreciative no matter how bad we are.’

Well, they were appreciative, very much so. Even our (blissfully unaware) husbands did not make quick exits as we assembled at the microphones.

They even complimented us afterwards.

From the sublime to the ridiculousness that is the karaoke group!

But if quieter pursuits are not your thing and you are more of an exhibitionist, do what I do.

And here, I have to blame one friend who, a few years ago, thought it would be fun to get a group around the newly purchased SingStar mics for a bit of karaoke. For some of the mums it was a fate worse than well, childbirth, but the rest of us embraced it enthusiastically.

What started off as a disorganised bit of fun has become slightly more organised – core group of

eight, get-togethers every six weeks or so and outings to various karaoke clubs. Singing talent is not a prerequisite. We don’t take ourselves at all seriously (although Britain’s Got Talent beckons.)

We have all become closer and karaoke has seen us through highs and lows. After I broke my leg, it was my first outing. A lift was provided, as were shoulders to lean on, both figuratively and literally as I hopped up and down the steps.

Then I sang my heart out despite an aching leg and swollen feet.

It was one of the maddest and most joyful things I have ever done.

And that is the whole point. As different as all these groups are, what connects is that they are all about being happy and energised. They are about something other than family or working life, (although if you need the support, it will be there). Ultimately you go home feeling that, as Margaret explains, “instead of being a mum you are someone in your own right with your own hobbies and interests.”

Getting started: Bookgroup.info Use this informative web site to track down a book group in your area.

Nomad Books, 781 Fulham Road, London, SW6 5HA 020 7736 4000 www.nomadbooks.co.uk/bookclub.html. Regular book clubs open to all.

Popchoir, 0845 5 190 890. www.popchoir.com If you want to sing but as part of a larger group. Classes in Clapham & Putney (from January).

Red Monkey Lounge, 50-52 Battersea Rise, SW11 1EG, 020 7924 6288. www.redmonkeylounge.co.uk/sing/ Japanese restaurant with three “state of the art” karaoke pods downstairs.

Rock Choir™, 01252 714276. www.rockchoir.com. Pop, gospel and Motown. Choirs in Wimbledon, Kingston, Richmond, Teddington & Chiswick/Fulham.

Mindfulness combines meditation, breathing techniques and paying attention to the present moment. Check out The Mental Health Foundation's new online course with support from Bupa. www.bemindful.co.uk Solara An Ra. www.solara.org.uk Meditation teacher at Balham Therapy Rooms. Also leads Equinox and Solstice ceremonies in various venues in London and in sacred places like Glastonbury or Avebury.

And read The Power of NOW! by Michelle Falzon about enjoying the moment.

Go to www.familiessouthwest.co.uk/powerofnow

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Are you green enough for your baby?

Part 1

By Joanna Parry

Many of us try to be as green as we can when it comes to our babies. We dress them in organic cotton babygrows, buy natural sheepskins and some of us even use real nappies. But how green really are we? Recently there has been a spate of publicity about the potentially harmful toxins in baby toys, nursery furniture and cot mattresses, so how possible is it to reduce these toxins and truly ‘green’ your baby’s nursery?

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aising an eco-friendly baby is not only safer for baby but also reduces the impact on the environment. Most of us already recycle, we try to reduce our carbon impact and are aware of wasteful packaging. We buy fair trade baby products wherever available and we choose organic, locally grown vegetables to reduce our baby’s exposure to toxins like mercury, lead, pesticides and arsenic. And, whenever possible, we do our part to reduce air pollution and leave the car at home.

Nursery painted in Earthborn colours Lucy's Scarf and Eiderdown Claypaint. £23.96 for 2.5 litres.

All furniture shown in this image is by bobo kids, an interiors shop for children.

renovation stage, and while some methods require more effort and cash, others are cheap and easy.

• Floor: As a general rule a hard floor is best, although bamboo and cork are also ecofriendly options. If you do want carpet, choose one made with natural fibers such as organic wool or cotton and check that it has not been treated with unnecessary chemicals or glues.

Add natural wool rugs for softness and warmth.

But is this enough? “I already buy organic clothing,” says Alison. “I breast feed my baby and I use real nappies. What more can I do?” The answer is, a lot more.

Knowing the exact extent to which the air in your newborn's nursery is polluted may be more information than you want, or need, to know. But there is no need to panic. There are many ways to detox a nursery, particularly if you're still at the

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• Curtains: Use natural materials such as wool, cotton, linen or silk. Wash and air the curtains before hanging them up as even natural fibres are treated with substances to make them moth resistant.

• Electrical: Remove Wi-Fi, cordless phones, mobiles and wireless baby monitors from the baby's room or better from the house altogether. Children are more susceptible to electromagnetic waves which can be very harmful to development, even leading to longterm illnesses and damage to the immune system.

• Open the window and let the fresh air in. Also, reduce unwanted chemicals and pathogens the free and easy way by bringing plants into your nursery. Particularly effective plants that remove toxic chemicals from the air are areca palm, lady palm, rubber plant, dragon plant, English ivy, peace lily, gerbera daisy, snake plant, spider plant and weeping fig.

The eco nursery Newborns can spend as much as 80% of the first part of their lives in their nursery, so it is important to make it as green and nontoxic as possible. In short, to create an eco nursery. The Nesting Project is a recent testing campaign that invited parents who had just decorated their babies’ rooms to put samplers in the nursery before sending them off for analysis. The results were surprising, even frightening: the lab picked up a number of pollutants including formaldehyde and other VOCs (substances emitted from everyday products and materials, including household chemicals, solvents, varnishes and paints) arising from newly laid flooring or carpet, soft furnishings, clothing, bedding, textiles and toys. It went on to explain the harmful effects of VOCs, of which symptoms can include eye, nose, throat and skin irritation and allergic reactions, nausea, headaches, dizziness and respiratory problems.

are concerned about this get the professionals in, as stripping lead paint can release toxins.

Earthborn paint £23.96 for 2.5 litres • Walls: Choose low- or no-VOC paint and natural pigments made from ingredients such as milk casein, clay, bee's wax, and natural mineral dyes. Try www.earthbornpaints.co.uk for a wide range of colours. If you prefer wallpaper you can buy recycled or wood chip paper which is 'breathable' and doesn't have a negative impact on air quality. Use products made from recycled and reclaimed materials to decorate nursery walls. Lead paint is an age old problem, and some older houses may still have lead paint on the walls or window sills. If you

• If you're pregnant let someone else renovate! It doesn’t matter how green the products you are using are, it is still safer to keep away from them until the paint has dried.

Don’t forget to think green about what you put inside your nursery, too. Families reader Amy said “I was careful about what I put on my nursery walls, but I never stopped to think about the furniture.” It’s true, most of us don’t. We assume anything and everything we buy for our nursery will naturally be safe.

• Even cots can be green. Some conventionally-made cribs in manufactured wood products like hardwood plywood paneling, particleboard and mid-density

www.familiessouthwest.co.uk for more on babies and the environment

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Helpful websites www.nrdc.org - for information on how to protect your home, health and the planet www.simplesteps.org www.theecologist.org www.projectnesting.org/start www.naturalnurseryblog.co.uk/ www.ehow.co.uk/video_2050064_designfunctional-baby-nursery.html - for how to design a functional green nursery www.ecohouseagent.com/green-nursery.html

Suppliers Flooring – www.healthyflooring.org Walls - www.earthbornpaints.co.uk www.MyLittleEco.co.uk/ecopaint Furniture – www.thegreenfamilia.co.uk www.kiddisave.co.uk www.bobokids.co.uk Mattresses - www.abacaorganic.co.uk, www.greenbaby.com Bathing products – www.greenbaby.com Eco-nursery products www.hellobabydirect.co.uk fiberboard are sources of VOCs and harmful flame retardants. Solid wood treated with nontoxic varnish, oil or wax is best. Avoid chipboard wood (made using formaldehyde) or furniture plastic or a plastic coating as they may contain harmful softeners. A good example of an ecocrib is the adaptable Stokke Sleepi baby crib that easily converts into a toddler bed. Available from www.kiddisave.co.uk from £514.49.

Stokke Sleepi baby crib from £514.49.

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• Mattress: Choose a mattress made from natural materials from suppliers such as www.abacaorganic.co.uk or www.greenbaby.com. Many conventional mattresses use PVC as the mattress cover and foam treated with potentially toxic flame retardants as filling material. A better option is a mattress made from natural coir (coconut husk), hemp, organic cotton, natural rubber latex or organic wool, which is naturally fire resistant.

Next month - Are you green enough for your baby? – Part 2. Many ways to protect your baby from harmful chemicals and pollutants are free.

We’ll find out how to be as green as you can while not spending a fortune.

• Cot linen: It’s not just baby’s clothing that can be organic. Cot sheets, sleeping bags, blankets and towels are now available in 100% organic cotton. Don’t forget to wash all new linens before use.

Baby Royale Organic Baby Blankets - £34.99

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• Toys: Baby toys made from PVC plastic may contain phthalates, the suspected hormonedisruptors that have been linked to liver and kidney damage. Choose toys made of natural, non-toxic materials such as FSC wood, hemp and cotton, and check the manufacturer has used non-toxic dyes and natural oil finishes.

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Easy home – made presents

Paper plate angel - by Glitterbug You will need Paper plate Pen/pencil Scissors Tape or stapler Paints/crayons/pens glitter stickers for decoration.

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1) Draw a pattern like this on the underside of a paper plate.

Cut along the black lines and throw away the shaded section.

2) Decorate the angel with paints, glitter and Christmas table confetti.

3) Overlap the edges of the angel’s skirt and tape or staple it into place.

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Easy wrapping paper ideas Hand Prints Large sheets of white paper (or a roll of lining paper cut into lengths) covered in children’s hand prints, makes wrapping paper to treasure as much as the present you are wrapping.

Wrinkly paper Get the children to paint with watery paint on a sheet of paper. Cover it with cling film, scrunch the cling film up with your fingers to make lots of wrinkles and leave to dry.

Peel off the film to leave a great texture.

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Glitterbug tip of the month Keep a bag or box of any interesting bits and pieces. Old bits of wrapping paper, ribbons, feathers, old buttons, scraps of material, even the corrugated card outer from your Starbucks cappuccino can keep kids busy for hours.

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Easy home – made presents

Hanging handprint Rudolph You will need, Brown paper (or large brown envelope) Pencil Scissors Glue Hole punch Thread, string or ribbon Googly eyes (optional)

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1) Trace around your child's foot and both hands using brown paper or back of an old envelope.

2) Glue the hands as antlers to the top of the footprint.

3) Glue a red paper nose and googly eyes to the reindeer 4) Allow to dry, punch a hole in the top of the head and hang with thread, string or ribbon.

1 Ideas by Glitterbug For regular art and craft ideas, follow “glitterbugfun” on Twitter www.glitterbugfun.co.uk

Collage picture frame This picture frame was made from a rectangle cut from a cardboard box and covered with bits that would normally have been thrown away!

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TUMBLE TOTS At Tumble Tots we endeavour to provide the opportunities, through a challenging environment of active physical play, for children to explore fully and develop their physical capability, especially their motor skills of balance, agility and co-ordination, whilst at the same time stimulating the imagination and having fun. Classes also include music, songs and rhymes, and are split into different age groups starting at six months up to 7 years.

Venues: Contact: Times: Ages:

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Clapham, Dulwich, Blackheath & Battersea.

Julia Forrest.

Tel: 020 8464 4433 julia.forrest1@ntlworld.com Various—phone for details in your area.

6 months to 5 years.

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Competitions and give aways!!

Plan Christmas with Families South West! For a chance to win tickets to some of the best shows this winter and £250 of Christmas money to spend in Hamleys, log on to www.FamiliesSouthWest.co.uk/competitions

WIN a Family Ticket to see Get Santa at The Royal Court It’s Christmas Eve but Holly isn’t happy. All she’s ever wanted from Santa is to meet her real Dad for the first time. And every time, Santa’s failed to deliver, bringing lots of useless presents instead. This year she has a plan. She’s going to wait up and trap Santa when he arrives and get from him the only present she’s ever wanted.

1 December 2010 – 15 January 2011 Suitable for ages 7+ 020 7565 5000 www.royalcourttheatre.com Terms and Conditions apply. Prize must be taken before 15th January 2010.

A family ticket consists of 4 tickets with no more than 2 adults attending. Subject to availability. Prize is as stated and cannot be transferred or refunded. No cash alternative.

Closing date is 25 Nov. Winners will be notified immediately.

To enter go to www.FamiliesSouthWest.co.uk/competitions

WIN a Family ticket to Winter Wonderland After a phenomenal 2009 season which saw a staggering two million visitors, Winter Wonderland offers an amazing Christmassy day out, with beautifully decorated attractions set out across 20 acres of historic parkland right in the heart of the capital.

Hyde Park Winter Wonderland will once again feature London's biggest outdoor ice-rink, the iconic Giant Observation Wheel, new and exciting rollercoaster rides , the Angel's Christmas market, Santa Land for kids, and free admission. For more details, see our What's On pages.

We have a family of 4 ticket for one lucky reader. This is valid for the launch evening of 18 November and includes passes for all the rides and attractions. Enter online at www.FamiliesSouthWest.co.uk/competitions by Thurs 12 November.

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WIN £250 to spend in Hamleys To celebrate 250 years of The Finest Toys in the World, Hamleys have teamed up with Families® to give you the chance to win £250 of Hamleys vouchers.

To enter log on to www.FamiliesSouthWest.co.uk/competitions Vouchers can be used online at www.hamleys.com or in store.

Closing date for the competition is 8th December.

See online for full Terms and Conditions.

Win Family Tickets to the Snow Queen at the Polka Theatre!

Enter the spellbinding world of the Snow Queen....

From 19 November 2010 – 5 February 2011, Polka Theatre will bring to life on stage one of Hans Christian Andersen’s much-loved fairytales. The perfect treat for all the family, journey through a wintry world this Christmas in a magical story of friendship and discovery for all ages 6-11.

To enter log on to www.FamiliesSouthWest.co.uk/competitions Good luck! If you miss out on winning the prize this time, don’t forget to book your tickets via the Box Office by calling 020 8543 4888 or online at www.polkatheatre.com. A family ticket consists of 4 tickets and is subject to availability.

Closing date is 25th November.

Winners will be notified by 30th November.

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Parenting

To praise or not to praise …does it affect our children’s intelligence?

By Kate de Bass

I had an interesting conversation with a friendly grandfather last week, he told me he thought we over indulged our children not only with material possessions, but with praise to the point that it is meaningless to them. He divulged that his children had only been praised when it had been well earned and this was infrequently, so they lapped it up whenever given and were always striving for more.

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hortly afterwards I read a newspaper article about a new book ‘Nature Shock’ which opened with the statement: “Don’t praise them, argue with them, and never tell them to say thank you”. The article went on to quote the work of Carol Dwek, a Stanford professor, who has looked to prove that telling a child they are bright causes the opposite result – it doesn’t prevent underperforming, but can actually cause it.

The article warned of the dire consequences of praising our children: “In one study on 400 nine-year-olds in New York, telling them the six words“you are so smart at this” before a test reduced their scores by 20 per cent.

This after just a single sentence, let alone the barrage of praise that pummels a typical Western child at school and beyond”.* I might at this point have made a conscious decision to stop praising my children, and modeled my behaviour on the well-meaning grandfather’s thrifty hard earned offerings had I not done a course with The Parent Practice. During the ten-week course we learnt and experienced how descriptive praise can motivate and improve our children’s self esteem and confidence and discovered the influence it can have on our children is far reaching in many ways, including their academic success.

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praising children in the conventional way “You did well in your test, you’re clever” may have adverse affects, praising the effort they put into the process in a constructive descriptive way can improve their academic ability and success.

A social psychologist, Dwek recognised that children have two perceptions about their intelligence, the belief that it is a fixed trait that cannot be changed versus the idea that intelligence is a malleable quality, a potential that can be developed. These beliefs affect tasks that children take on, the effort they are willing to exert, their ability to cope with setbacks and ultimately their academic performance.

Dwek carried out a number of studies in schools that showed a child who is regularly told they are bright, clever, intelligent, smart, or brilliant tends to believe that intelligence is a fixed trait. They are more susceptible to worry about how bright they are, think they are stupid when they fail, tend to dislike and avoid effort, and are more likely to give up in the face of academic difficulty.

However, those that were descriptively praised for their effort developed a growth mindset, believing intelligence is something that can be cultivated, making children want to do just that. They are more likely to value learning over looking clever, enjoy effort and challenges and thrive in the face of difficulty. There are a number of fascinating interviews with Carol Dwek on YouTube about her studies and their results.

Read the Parent Practice’s blog on www.familiessouthwest.co.uk This month topic: Are our schools overly competitive?

As parents we are largely responsible, the messages we give our children can mould which of the two beliefs they will adopt. If our child does well in a test and we praise them with a direct message - “Well done you’re clever”, it may give them the fixed view about intelligence with all its vulnerabilities. However, if we praise in detail, the effort that went into preparing for and completing the test, they are more likely to foster the malleable view with all its hardiness and resilience.

Having adopted the skills and strategies I learned during The Parent Practice course I watch with wonder how the language I use with my children affects their self-perception and view of the world.

Thankfully, not only is their confidence blossoming, but so is my mine with regard to how I am doing as a parent. I now also feel better equipped to assess and make educated judgments about the wise words of grandfathers and scaremongering media hype.

•The Parent Practice run local courses, workshops and consultations for families. Please visit www.theparentpractice.com for more information. *Times2, Thursday January 28th.

Read the Parent Practice’s blog on www.familiessouthwest.co.uk This month’s topic: Are our schools overly competitive?

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Pantomimes Compiled by Sophie M.C.

THE ARTS CENTRE

HACKNEY EMPIRE THEATRE

6-7 Great Newport Street, London WC2 7JB 020 7492 1593 www.artstheatrewestend.com 17 Nov- 16 Jan. PUSS IN BOOTS A panto taking a magical journey to fairyland to meet Puss in Boots and all her friends.

291 Mare Street, London E8 1 EJ 020 8985 2424 www.hackneyempire.co.uk 27 Nov-9 Jan. JACK AND THE BEANSTALK A Giant portion of London No 1 Pantomime.

WATFORD PALACE THEATRE

CHURCHILL THEATRE

20 Clarendon Road, Watford WD17 1JZ 01923 225671 www.watfordtheatre.co.uk 25 Nov-1 Jan. ALADDIN A magical and magnificent adventure.

108 High Street, Bromley BR1 1HA 0844 871 7627 www.ambassadortickets.com/theChurchill 3 Dec-9 Jan. ALADDIN The traditional tale of Aladdin, the genie and the magic lamp.

GREENWICH THEATRE Croom’s Hill, London SE10 8ES 020 8858 7755 www.greenwichtheatre.org 25 Nov-9 Jan. CINDERELLA A spectacular pantomime!

MILLFIELD ARTS CENTRE Silver Street, London N18 1PJ 020 8807 6680 www.millfieldtheatre.co.uk 25 Nov-2 Jan. JACK AND THE BEANSTALK. A pantomime packed with larger-then life characters, music, dance and comedy.

THE COLOUR HOUSE THEATRE Merton Abbey Mills, Merantun Way, SW19 2RD 020 8542 5511 www.colourhousetheatre.co.uk

QUEEN’S THEATRE HORNCHURCH Billet Lane, RM11 1QT 01708 443333 www.queenstheatre.co.uk 4 Dec- 15 Jan. ALADDIN Classic panto.

THE ORCHARD THEATRE Home Gardens, Town Centre, Dartford DA1 1ED 01322 220000 www.orchardtheatre.co.uk 4 Dec-9 Jan. JACK AND THE BEANSTALK. Featuring the awesome Giant Blunderbore, the biggest giant in pantoland.

RICHMOND THEATRE The Green, Richmond, Surrey TW9 1QJ 0844 871 7615 www.ambassadortickets.com 10 Dec-16 Jan. THE SLEEPING BEAUTY With Brian Blesses. Show—stopping songs and dance, larger than life characters, colourful costumes and spectacular sparkling set. From £27.

THE ROSEMARY BRANCH THEATRE 2 Shepperton Road, London N1 3DT 020 7704 2730 www.rosemarybranch.co.uk 10 Dec-9 Jan. ROBIN HOOD Wild and wacky pantomime.

THE BECK THEATRE Grange road, Hayes, Middlesex UB3 2UE. 020 8561 8371 www.becktheatre.org.uk 11 Dec-2 Jan. SLEEPING BEAUTY Pantomime for all the family.

27 Nov – 30 Jan. CINDERELLA Poor old Cinders is desperate to go to the ball but those ugly sisters are having none of it! Will the fairy Godmother help Cinders to meet her handsome Prince? Lots of fun and excitement for a great family show!

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EDDIE CATZ 1st Floor, 68-70 Putney High Street, Putney SW15 1SF www.eddiecatz.com Wed 15 Dec. THE TOYTOWN CHRISTMAS. A fun filled interactive festive show with a special guest appearance from Father Christmas. £10 per child. includes a gift, a free play at Eddie Catz before or after the event and a 20% discount meal voucher to use for all food and drinks on the day! £1 per adult. 2.5 to 9yrs.

TARA STUDIO 356 Garratt Lane, London SW18 4ES 020 8333 4457 www.tara-arts.com 16-18 Dec. CINDERELLA – THE BOLLYWOOD PANTOMIME Performed by ArtsBeat TARA’s young People Theatre group.

With catchy songs and hip swinging Indian dance!

7.30pm & Sat mat 3pm. £6.50/£7.50.

NEW WIMBLEDON THEATRE The Broadway, Wimbledon, London SW19 1QG 0844 871 7646 www.ambassadortickets.com/wimbledon 17 Dec- 16 Jan. PETER PAN With brand new set costumes, amazing special effects and beautiful singing and dancing.

THE BROADWAY THEATRE Catford, London SE6 4RU 020 8690 0002 www.broadwaytheatre.org.uk 11 Dec- 2 Jan. BEAUTY AND THE BEAST A pantomime version of the classic tale of Beauty and the Beast.

THE LYRIC HAMMERSMITH THEATRE

RADLETT CENTRE

Lyric Square, King Street, London W6 0OL 0871 22 117 20 www.lyric.co.uk 27 Nov-8 Jan. DICK WHITTINGTON Pantomime for all the family.

1 Aldenham Avenue, Radletts, Herts WD7 8HL 01923 859291 www.radlettcentre.co.uk 11 Dec-2 Jan. JACK AND THE BEANSTALK. Traditional family pantomime.

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THE SHAW THEATRE 100-110 Euston Road, London NW1 2AJ 0844 248 5075 www.shaw-theatre.com 13 Dec-3 Jan. SNOW WHITE AND THE SEVEN DWARFS A ragsto riches pantomime full of surprises.

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Christmas Shows... (look under What’s On for more … )

THE EPSOM PLAYHOUSE

CRITERION THEATRE

BLOOMSBURY THEATRE

Ashley Avenue, Town Centre, Epsom KT18 5AL 01372 742 555 www.epsomplayhouse.co.uk 17 Dec-9 Jan. DICK WITTINGTON AND HIS WONDERFUL CAT Classic pantomime.

218-223 Piccadilly Circus, London W1V 9LB 0844 847 1778 www.criterion-theatre.com or www.peggapiglive.com 30 Nov-2 Jan. PEGGA PIG’S PARTY West End Premiere for the porcine favourite.

15 Gordon Street, London WC1H 0AH 0207388 8822 www.thebloomsbury.com 14 Dec-23 Jan. GEORGE’S MARVELLOUS MEDECINE Adapted from Roald Dahl’s amazing story. If you’re looking for fizztickling fun and wizzpopping magic for all the family, then don’t miss the show! £16.50/£19.50, family £64.

LONDON WETLAND CENTRE Queen Elizabeth Walk, Barnes, London SW13 9WT 020 8409 4400 www.wwt.org.uk/london 18 Dec-21 Dec. VOLE IN THE WOODS Family fun with this wildlife-themed pantomime

ROYAL COURT THEATRE Sloane Square, London SW1W 8AS 020 7565 5000 www.royalcourttheatre.com 1 Dec-15 Jan. GET SANTA! What Holly ever wanted from Santa is to meet We have a her real Dad for the first Family ticket time. And every time, Santa’s failed to deliver, to give away. bringing lots of useless See page 20. presents instead. This year she decided to wait up and trap Santa. A magical, musical and downright mischievous Christmas show with a fresh moral. £8 to £25. 7yrs+.

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HARROW ART CENTRE Uxbridge Road, Hatch End, Middlesex HA5 4EA 020 8416 8989 www.harrowarts.com 18 Dec-22 Dec. ALADDIN A panto classic brought to life by talented local people.

NEW PLAYERS THEATRE The Arches, Villiers Street, London WC2N 6NG 020 7930 5868 www.newplayerstheatre.com/london 28 Dec-8 Jan. ANASTASIA Join Dimitri, his outrageous mum Olga, The Grand Duchess, but beware of Rasputin.

ERITH PLAYHOUSE 38-40 Hight Street, Erith, Kent DA8 1QY 01322 350345 www.playhouse.org.uk 8 Jan-22 Jan. CINDERELLA a wonderful classic story come to life in this family pantomime.

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Portugal Street, London WC2A 0337 0870 737 0337/0844 847 1707 www.sadlerswell.com 1 Dec-9 Jan. THE SNOWMAN Stage adaptation of Raymond Brigg’s classic Christmas Tale. A magical night out. £12 to £32.

ARTS DEPOT 5, Nether Street, Tally ho Corner, North Finchley, London N12 0GA 020 8369 5454 www.artsdepot.co.uk 3 Dec-2 Jan. CATCHING FATHER CHRISTMAS Amy is staying up catching father Christmas but there are plenty of others in her house with the same idea.

A brand new magical show for all the family. £8/£10, family £32. 4yrs+.

BARBICAN Silk Street, London EC2Y 8DS 020 7638 8891 www.barbican.org.uk/theatre 15 Dec-2 Jan. FLYBOY IS ALONE AGAIN THIS CHRISTMAS Beguiling west-country artist and musician Matthew Robins performs episodes from his series of hand-crafted lounge folklore, as well as new material. Stories, songs, shadow puppets and live band. £15. 8yrs+.

Ballets ROYAL OPERA HOUSE Bow Street, Covent Garden, London WC2E 9DD 020 7304 4000 www.rho.org.uk 20 Nov-31 Dec. CINDERELLA The perfect way to enjoy some of the world’s greatest dancers bringing ballet to life. £16 to £110.

SADLER’S WELL Rosebury Avenue, London EC1R 4TN 0844 412 4300 www.sadlerswells.com 30 Nov-23 Jan. MATTHEW BOURNE’S CINDERELLA See acclaimed director Matthew Bourne’s wartime adaptation of the classic hit Cinderella. From £10.

HAMPSTEAD THEATRE Eton Avenue, Swiss Cottage, London NW3 3EU 020 7722 9301 www.hampsteadtheatre.com 10-31 Dec. BEAST AND BEAUTIES Featuring a beast with bad table manners and a goat that poos gold, the show retells classic stories including “Beauty and the Beast” and “The Emperor With New Clothes”. Grisly and gruesome, hilarious and hairrising, a wonderful show, not to be missed! 8yrs+

LONDON COLISEUM 33 St Martin Lane, London WC2N 4ES 020 7836 0111/ 0871 911 0200 www.eno.org or www.ballet.org.uk 10 Dec-30 Dec. THE NUTCRACKER New production by ENB Artistic Director Wayne Eagling, to celebrate the Company’s 60th birthday. This classical production promises to be a magical, memorable and unmissable Christmas treat. £10 to £65.

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Languages Le Club Tricolore St Colomba’s Church, Pont Street, SW1 Thursday 16, Friday 17, Monday 20 and Tuesday 21 December: Learn French while being involved in games, art and craft, cooking, songs, sketches and treasure hunts, all linked to a French Christmas. All levels, ages 5-11. Children go home happily with their creations, with increased confidence, better accents and with French buzzing in their ears!

10am-4pm. Call Teresa on 020 7924 4649, 07788 9967003, info@leclubtricolore.co.uk

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Arty Party

Fun with Fimo Clay

Wandsworth, Clapham, Balham and Wimbledon 20-23 December and 3-7 January: Brilliant art workshops - Come and make loads of Christmassy decorations and gifts for all the family.

Then join in a winter wonderland in the New Year.

9am to 3.30pm. £35 a day with a minimum of two days. Contact 020 8675 7055, john@artyparty.co.uk, www.artyparty.co.uk

Fun workshops in West London 16, 20 December and 5 January: Pud baking and other Christmas craft workshops – For children aged 6+. £45. Morning refreshments provided. Contact Clare McKnight on 020 8992 3767, fimofun@tiscali.co.uk, www.funwithfimoclay.co.uk

Paint Pots Artyard 318 Upper Richmond Road West, East Sheen SW14 7JN 16-23 December: Christmas present making workshops - Fun packed Christmas present making classes, exotic Christmas treats all wrapped up for you. The children will come home with handmade gifts you will love forever. 5 to 11 year olds. 10am-3.30pm. Spaces are limited so don’t delay. £38 per day. For more details visit artyard.co.uk and phone 020 8878 1336 or email info@artyard.co.uk

Chelsea Physic Garden 66 Royal Hospital Road, SW3 4HS Tuesday 21 December: Crafty Christmas Creations - create sensational seasonal decorations, presents and beautiful cards out of natural and recycled materials.

Ages 6+, 10.30am-12pm or 1-2.30pm. £5.50 per person. Children must be accompanied throughout the day. Essential to book in advance on 020 7349 6453 or email education@chelseaphysicgarden.co.uk.

At St Mary’s The Bolton’s Church Hall and Hyde Park location 13-17 December: Festive Fun Christmas Let your child make creative treats, presents galore and do some festive cooking! Call 0845 643 4442 to register or look at www.paintpotshouse.com

Smarty Paints Pottery Painting Studio 85 Nightingale Lane, SW12 Monday to Saturday 10am-6pm, Sunday 11am6pm. Paint your own personalised Christmas presents and tree decorations... baby prints look amazing on Christmas baubles! But don't leave it too late to paint as collection is one week later. £6 studio fee plus pottery from £5. 020 8772 8702, www.smartypaints.co.uk

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Putney 1st Floor, 68-70 Putney High Street, SW15, 0845 201 1268, Wimbledon 42 Station Road, Merton SW19 2LP 15 December: spectacular Christmas Pantomime - The Toytown Christmas.

Throughout the holidays there are plenty of dropoff sessions, including a gingerbread housemaking workshop with Cookie Crumbles, Playball sports camp, a Hannah Montana dance workshop, crafty Christmas sessions with Artybobs, and in the Wimbledon Salon a Divalicious spa manicure and pedicure morning for girls aged 6-11, Mini Diva lipgloss and perfume making, and a choc au lait spa morning.

Also, Santa Claus will be visiting both centres during December and welcoming children with presents too! All bookings are via the Eddie Catz online shop: http://shop.eddiecatz.com/

Music House for Children 306-310 Uxbridge Road, London, W12 7LJ Sunday 12 December: Carols by Candlelight A magical evening set under Bush Hall’s glittering chandeliers. Performances, carol singing, mince pies and mulled wine!

Monday and Tuesday 20 and 21 December: Yoo Hoo and The Icy Wind – Come and see what adventures Yoo Hoo the hedgehog has. For under 5s. 11am and 2pm. Prices for both carols and Yoo Hoo: adults £6, children £4, under 1 year free. 020 8932 2652, www.musichouseforchildren.co.uk

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Dulwich Picture Gallery Gallery Road, SE21 7AD Wednesday 29 and Thursday 30 December: Creature Comforts - Learn simple stitching techniques and fabric collage to create a slippery snake or a sausage dog scarf. 6-8 years, 10am12.30pm, 9-11 years 2.30 - 4.30pm. £18. Booking is essential on 020 8299 8732 or email s.atkinson@dulwichpicturegallery.org.uk

Notting Hill W11, Kensington SW7 and Putney SW15 Christmas holiday drama workshops for children. For dates and further information please contact Sasha or Melissa on 020 8969 3249 or 020 8767 5298 or visit www.allsortsdrama.com

Dulwich Picture Gallery Creature Comforts

Fulham, Barnes, Richmond, Kensington and Putney Monday to Wednesday 20-22 December: Whoosh away on a magic carpet! Help Aladdin and Princess Jasmine rescue the magic lamp from the evil Jafar! With live original music, inspirational dance and quick witted improvisation you can be part of a colourful mini performance on the final day of this two-day experience. From 10am-12 noon or 2.30-4.30pm, depending on location. For children aged 4 to 8 years. Contact Hanneke Rauch on 0845 400 4000, 0207 255 9138, pr@perform.org.uk, www.perform.org.uk

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High Street, Wimbledon SW19 Sunday 5 December: Christmas Shopping Day - See Father Christmas riding through the Village at noon. Join in the fun and festivities from 11am to 5pm. Many shops are offering discounts, drinks and nibbles.

Kew Gardens Kew Road, Richmond TW9 3AB Visit Father Christmas’ grotto, take a free guided walk through the winter gardens, see evergreen trees and the famous Holly Walk, take a horse and carriage ride along the Broadwalk, and come in from the cold in our historic, heated glasshouses and pick up beautiful gifts in the shops.

020 8332 5655, info@kew.org, www.kew.org.

Battersea Park Children's Zoo Perform Aladdin

Theatrebugs Barnes, Balham, Clapham, Fulham, Putney, Twickenham 20 and 21 December: One-day Christmas workshops – join in some fun, festive adventures and get stuck into some art and crafts. For children aged 3 to 8 years. 9am-12 noon or 1.304.30pm, £26.

Also Panto Tour: 15 December: Toy Town Christmas – a pre-school pantomime with lots of music and interaction and no scary characters! 4pm at Eddie Catz, Putney. 020 7350 2995, enquiries@theatrebugs.co.uk, www.theatrebugs.co.uk

11-24 December: Come and see Santa and follow a Christmas stocking trail. Entrance £6 + £1 for a prize.

Make sure you book to see him. Phone from 1 November on 020 7924 5826, www.batterseaparkzoo.co.uk

Wimbledon Village Stables Saturday 11 December: Carol Concert by Candlelight - in the traditional setting of the stable yard, with a special visit from Santa! Hot drinks, mulled wine and mince pies available. In aid of the Royal Marsden Hospital, 5.15 for 5.30 start.

020 8946 8579, admin@wvstables.com, www.wvstables.com

Upbeat Music Chelsea 20-22 December: Music heaven - Your children will sing, dance, play drums and electric guitars, make a CD recording, perform and much more – all while you are doing your Kings Road shopping!

10-4pm each day. Age 5 to 12 years. Call 07816 901396 for more information or email upbeatmusic@btinternet.com, www.upbeatmusiccourses.co.uk

Sports Central London Golf Centre Burntwood Lane, Earlsfield Monday 20, Tuesday 21 and Wednesday 22 December: Junior Golf Days - the perfect way to entertain your kids this Christmas and introduce them to this wonderful game! Lots of prizes to be won. 10am-2pm daily. £35 per day inclusive.

Packed lunch required. 020 8871 2468, www.clgc.co.uk

Ideas for a day out David Lloyd Kids Holiday Active No details ready as we go to press but they always offer an exciting structured programme of play, sports and arts & crafts for children aged 5 to 13.

For Raynes Park call 020 8544 9965 for details.

Try also David LLoyd Chelsea, Fulham and Kensington. www.davidlloyd.co.uk

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Leeds Castle 7 miles east of Maidstone, Junction 8 of the M20 motorway 11 and 12 December and then daily from 16-24 December: Father Christmas Visits - Bring the children to meet Father Christmas in his magical grotto situated in the Fairfax Courtyard at Leeds Castle.

Face painting (£2.50) available whilst they wait. £8.50 (includes a gift). Tickets must be pre-booked by calling 01622 880008. enquiries@leedscastle.co.uk, www.leeds-castle.com

Morden Hall Park Morden Hall Road, Morden SM4

Something for the grown-ups Dulwich Picture Gallery Gallery Road, SE21 7AD Sunday 14 November: Calligraphy for Christmas - Learn the art of calligraphy in Gothic Black Letter to personalise your own cards for loved ones. All materials supplied. 10.30am-4pm. £45, £40 concessions and Friends. Lunch not included. Booking essential.

Contact 020 8299 8732 or s.atkinson@dulwichpicturegallery.org.uk

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Weekend of 11/12 December: Come and see Father Christmas! 10am-4pm. £7.50 per child. Booking essential: 020 8545 6850 (lines open on Wednesday 3 November).

Thursday 23 December: Natural Crafts - festive hands on activities and crafts using natural materials in the Snuff Mill.

Thursday 30 December: Walk off your festive food - Follow a trail around the park to burn off some energy and have some family fun. £3 family ticket (up to 4 members) or £1.50 per person (both Thursdays).

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What’s on DIARY DATES EVENTS FOR CHILDREN WILDLIFE WATCH CLUB -WIMBLEDON COMMON. Meet on the first Sunday of each month at the information Centre, Wimbledon Common, near the Windmill.

10am-12pm. 8-14yrs. £1 registration fee and £2 per session. 020 8540 6154 7 Nov. “FONGI FORAY” 5 Dec. “NATURAL SEASONAL DECORATIONS MUSIC HOUSE FOR CHILDREN Bush Hall, 310 Uxbridge Road, London W12 7 LJ. 020 8932 2652, www.musichouseforchildren.co.uk This winter, expect a bolder and more enhanced music school, with more studio space, new classes and revamped clubs.

Loads of musical things to do and listen to.

For more info about classes please check the website.

Sun 5 Dec. CHRISTMAS FAIR

THINGS TO DO EN FAMILLE TRADITIONAL ITALIAN CHRISTMAS BAZAAR Chelsea Old Town Hall, King’s Road, London SW3 5EE www.ilcircolo.org.uk Tue 9 Nov. 10am-6pm. Gifts, Art and Crafts, Italian food and wine, clothing, linen and china. £3 Opening Ceremony by H.E. the Italian Ambassador in London. Evening reception from 6.30 to 9.30pm by ticket only.

ST MARY’S BARNES CHRISTMAS FAIR Church Road, Barnes, London SW13 9HL 020 8741 5422 www.stmarybarnes.org Sat 13 Nov. BARNES BIGGEST CHRISTMAS FAIR Inspirational gifts for all the family, launch of “What’s Cooking at St Mary’s’ cookbook”, and supervised children’s activities. Free.

ST BARNABAS CHRISTMAS FAYRE Corner of Lavender Gardens SW11 and Clapham Common.

13 Nov. 11am-3pm. Children’s nearly new, ice a cup cake, face painting, Father Christmas with gift. Home produce, plants, jewellery, bric-a-brac, Christmas cards. Vocality Choir. Lovely lunches, fresh cooked Norwegian waffles, mulled wine.

ST MARGARET CHURCH CHRISTMAS FAIR. Putney Park Lane, SW15 020 8789 5932.

Sat 20 Nov. 2pm-4pm. Contemporary jewellery and crafts, deli, cakes and refreshments, Christmas decorations, cards, tradecraft stall and much more.

OPEN STUDIOS AT WIMBLEDON ARTS STUDIOS Riverside Yard, Riverside Road, Earlsfield, London SW17 0BB, 020 8947 1183, www.wimbledonartstudios.co.uk

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25-28 Nov. Thu 25 & Fri 26 Nov 2pm-10pm, free, all welcome. Sat 27 & Sun 28 Nov 11am-6pm. Free, all welcome. Over 200 artists working across almost every discipline and over two buildings.

ST MARY’S CHURCH CHRISTMAS FAIR

By Putney Bridge SW15 07788 452 429 www.parishofputney.co.uk Sat 27 Nov. 10.30am-2pm. All kinds of Christmas gifts, homemade cakes, jams, and chutneys for food lovers. The children will be able to meet Father Christmas and enjoy lots of fun activities. Annual favourites as well such as tombola, books, DVDs, and a big raffle.

WANDSWORTH FRIENDS’ CHRISTMAS FAIR for local charity TRINITY HOSPICE Battersea Arts Centre, Lavender Hill, London SW11 5TN. Tue 16 Nov 6.30pm-9pm and Wed 17 Nov 9.30am-3pm. £5 for adults, free for children, free entry for all after 1pm.

The preview evening on 16 Nov will include wines, wine tasting and nibbles. Tickets will cost £10 each at the door or can be obtained in advance, at £9 each or £16 for two, by emailing thxmasfair@gmail.com.

With 50 stallholders selling a diverse range of items for the perfect Christmas present, plus a “Silent Auction”, wonderful homemade food and a “tree of Life” with prizes from £5 upwards.

CHURCH OF THE HOLY SPIRIT CHRISTMAS FAIR Narbonne Avenue, Clapham SW4. 020 7498 0837 Sat 27 Nov. 2pm-5pm. Crafts, kitchenware, clothes, jewellery, books, homemade cakes and jams, cards, decorations, teas and mince pies. Also: Tombola, hamper raffle, and the popular kid’s zone with Christmas crafts activities.

PIPPA POPINS NURSERY SCHOOL “CHRISTMAS ON THE GREEN” Parsons Green, Fulham SW6. 020 7731 1445 Sat 4 Dec. 11am-5pm. Galloping Horses Carousel’, Icerink, face-painters, a children’s entertainer, Jack Frost and the Ice Queen Stilt walkers, Father Christmas with his reindeer, Fulham Brass Band, Christmas carols by the Christmas Tree and a stunning selection of over 50 stalls: Nordic decorations, home accessories, sloe gin, hampers, mince pies, mulled wine and much, much more!

Sat 4 December from 10am -1.00pm. CHILDREN’S CHRISTMAS CRAFT EXTRAVAGANZA: Come along to the St Bede’s Conference Centre, St Anthony’ Hospital, London Road, North Cheam, SM3 9DX and enjoy a fun day with lots of free activities for children of all ages. Lots of free activities include cake decorating, making Christmas crackers, cards and bookmarks. Free visit to Santa with gift, games and singing. We also have face painting, a bouncy castle, a tombola and Christmas gift stall. Entrance £5.00 for adult and 1st child, £1.00 for all additional children. We would love to have you join us for a fun packed day to help raise much needed funds for St Raphael’s Hospice, caring for people in Sutton and Merton.

To pre-book your tickets or for more information please

Please always phone before setting out in case details

contact Louisa Hitchen on 020 8644 3857 or email louisahitchen@straphaels.org.uk.

WINTER CHRISTMAS MARKET DULWICH PARK FEATURING THE SNOW QUEEN & POP CHOIR. Contact: Pavilion Café 020 8299 1383 pavilioncafe@btconnect.com Sun 5 Dec. 10am-3pm. Delicious food, fun, carol singing, dancing, music, mulled wine and great gifts for sale.

Kids come in fancy dress.

EVENTS FOR ADULTS SALE OF NEW AND SECOND-HAND SKI CLOTHES 22 Northbourne Road, Clapham SW4 7DJ. 020 7720 4871 www.skirouge.com Tue 9 & Wed 10 Nov. 9am-7.30pm. Big reduction on last year’s stock plus this year’s new collection.

THE PARENT PRACTICE WORKSHOPS 020 8673 3444 www.theparentpractice.com Wed 10 Nov. 10am-12.30pm. CHILDREN’S USE OF TV, ELECTRONIC GAMES AND THE INTERNET – KEEPING SAFE AND HEALTHY 68 Thurleigh Road, SW12 8UD Thu 18 Nov. 7.30pm-10pm. BRINGING OUT THE BEST IN BOYS 5 Gwendolen Ave, SW15 6EU. £45pp, £75 per couple or £80 for two friends booking together.

REDI-TRAINING Teaching you to be Ready for Emergencies through Demonstration and Instruction.

020 7348 7117 www.redi-training.co.uk EMERGENCY CARE 10 Nov 10am-12noon and 16 Nov 7.30pm-9.30pm.

ACCIDENT & ILLNESSES 17 Nov 10am-12.30pm and 23 Nov 7pm-9.30pm.

MENCAP LOCAL KIDS FIRST MERTON’S FORUM FOR PARENTS OF CHILDREN AND YOUNG PEOPLE WITH DISABILITIES OR SPECIAL NEEDS. Chaucer Centre, Room B, Canterbury Road, Morden, SM4 6PX. Info & Bkg: 020 8687 4644, kids.first@swlondonmencap.nhs.uk, www.mertonmencap.org.uk/kidsfirst Wed 10 Nov. 10am-2.30pm. NUTRITION Practical advice on nutrition, recipes & diets which could improve your child’s behaviour, concentration, sleep and more.

Fri 26 Nov. DISABILITY EMPLOYMENT ADVISORS. 11am-1pm. Find out how your local Disability Employment Advisor can offer help & support in finding work & gaining new skills.

Thu 2 Dec. KIDS FIRST CHRISTMAS SOCIAL. 8pm11pm. Free buffet & refreshments. William Morris Function Room, 20 Watermill Way, Abbey Mills, SW19 2RD.

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PUTNEY AND FULHAM BRANCH NCT NEARLY NEW SALE 27 Nov. Dryburgh Hall, Putney Leisure Centre, Dryburgh Road, SW15 1BL. 3pm-5pm. £2. Nearly new baby and toddler equipment, clothes and toys. All welcome. For more info or to advertise your business in the goody bags or to take a table and sale your unwanted items: 07971 033320 or potter.pamela@googlemail.com FREE HOMEOPATHY WORKSHOPS The Awareness Centre, Abbeville 07970550281 www.kateburnett.co.uk 2 Dec. CHILDHOOD ILLNESSES

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PREGNACY YOGA CLASSES The Capoira School, Streatham Hill, SW16 07963 820 702 info@yogaembodied.com, www.yogaembodied.com Yoga and Vinyasa Flow Classes, Corperate Yoga, Workshops and One–to–One, Ayurvedic Consultations, treatments Massage and Pregnancy Massage Classes on Tuesdays and Thursdays 6.30pm-7.40pm.

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POLKA THEATRE 240 The Broadway, Wimbledon, London SW19 1SB 020 8543 4888 www.polkatheatre.com SHOWS To 12 Feb 2011. LOST AND FOUND From Oliver Jeffer’s acclaimed picture book. Once there was a boy and one day he found a penguin at his door.. A beautiful and touching tale of friendship. 3-5yrs. For a special toddler version (1-2yrs) please check the calendar on the website. £7/£9.

LOST AND FOUND CHRISTMAS WORKSHOPS: Tue 21 & Wed 22 Dec. 3-4yrs (Foundation) 9.45am-10.45am and 4-5yrs (Reception) 11.30am-12.30pm. A fun-filled, two day drama and craft workshop for fans of the picture book – perfect for getting in the mood for Christmas! £25.

19 Nov-5 Feb 2011. THE SNOW QUEEN A brand new adaptation of Hans Christian Andersen’s classic fairy tale by Mike Kenny. 6-11yrs. £8/£16.

THE SNOW QUEEN STORYTELLING AND CRAFT WORKSHOP: Thu 23 Dec 10am-12.30pm. 6-11yrs.

Enter the world of fairytales in this festive workshop. £15.

WORLD OF STORIES AND MUSIC Free storytelling from 10.30am on the first Sat of every month.

Bkg: 020 8543 4888 from the month before each event.

Sat 4 Dec. Liz Fost will tell the traditional story of Babushka.

HUGE SALE OF NEW AND SECOND-HAND SKI CLOTHES FOR ADULTS AND CHILDREN SKISUITS, JACKETS, SALOPETTES, GLOVES, SNOWBOOTS, GOGGLES, HELMETS, ETC. BIG REDUCTIONS ON LAST YEAR'S STOCK PLUS THIS YEAR’S NEW COLLECTION Tuesday November 9 and Wednesday November 10 9.00am-7.30pm At 22 Northbourne Road, Clapham, SW4 7DJ

www.skiderouge.com

Any enquiries ring Libby de Rougemont on

020 7720 4871 / 07939 051220 libbyderouge@hotmail.co.uk Do come and bring friends £2 entry for charity

TARA STUDIO 356 Garratt Lane, London SW18 4ES 020 8333 4457 www.tara-arts.com

THE COLOUR HOUSE THEATRE Merton Abbey Mills, Merantun Way, SW19 2RD 020 8542 5511 www.colourhousetheatre.co.uk Sat & Sun 2pm and 4pm. £7/£9. Parties £6.

To Sun 14 Nov. LITTLE RED RIDING HOOD Wonderful new songs and a sparkling, witty script for all the family to enjoy. It’s guaranteed to be full of fun and excitement! 3yrs+.

CHRISTMAS SPECTACULAR: 27 Nov – 30 Jan 2011. CINDERELLA Poor old Cinders is desperate to go to the ball but those ugly sisters are having none of it! Will the fairy Godmother help Cinders to meet her handsome Prince? Lots of fun and excitement for a great family show!

THE SOUTHFIELDS SCHOOL OF BALLET We offer imaginative Ballet and Jazz classes for children (boys & girls) from 21/2 years. The emphasis of the school is on fun, musicality and fitness, with the option to take Royal Academy of Dance (RAD) examinations.

020 8683 0222 classes held in Southfields and Wimbledon

Sibling Discount Join anytime Principal: Mrs. Eliane Gerhard, BA (Hons), LRAD

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Sat 20 Nov. HANDA’S SURPRISE Travel to Kenya and follow in Handa’s footsteps as she journeys to see her best friend Akeyo in the next village. A blend of physical performance, puppetry, live music and song combine to create an intimate, magical production with audience participation. 2-5yrs. £6.50/£7.50.

Ravanna Road, London SW15 6AW 020 8572 0475 showsboxoffice@aol.com or www.swanbankmusic.ticketsource.co.uk 10 Nov-14 Nov. SWANBANK MUSIC PRESENTS “CHILDREN OF EDEN” TO RAISE FUNDS FOR TRINITY HOSPICE. Children of Eden takes its storyline from Genesis but the relationships between the Father, Adam and Eve characters have more to do with earthly families; their challenges and generational legacies. A great musical for whole the family! £12/£15.

Trinity Hospice, a charity based on Clapham common North Side, was established in 1891 and is the oldest organisation of its kind in the UK.

HAPKIDO SELF DEFENCE Kicks for Kids & Self-defence for children ages 5 and upwards Ki breathing, Kicks, punches, throws, joint-locks, tumbles, jumps and breakfalls.

NEW: Classes for Parents and Adults and self-defence classes for Women Hapkido teaches: •Respect •Fitness •Discipline •Confidence •Control & sensitivity •Inner calm & peace •Defence •Strength & agility Instructor: Jon Bailie, 2nd Dan Qualified Hapkido Instructor and fully insured Classes available @ Balham Leisure Centre SW17, St Luke's Community Hall SW12, Broomwood Hall SW11, The Contact Centre SW4 and other venues

For all enquiries/bookings, please call on

07932 667 336 Private tuition/home visits also available

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effects and dramatic lighting, this is an exciting and magical experience for the festive season. 4yrs+.

HALF MOON THEATRE 43 White Horse Road, London E1 0ND 020 7709 8900 www.halfmoon.org.uk Tickets £6.

Wed 10 Nov 1.30pm & 4.30pm and Thu 11 Nov 4.30pm.

TIME FOR THE GOOD LOOKING BOY A young man tell us about his life, darting between relationships, independence and growing up at an electric pace.

Featuring rap and an original soundtrack. 13yrs+ Sat 13 Nov. FROM HERE..TO THERE 11am, 1pm & 3pm. A show that’s full of the joy of building and knocking down, climbing over and crawling under, of hiding, of surprising and peek-a-boo! There will be a short play session after the performance. 18mths-4yrs.

Thu 18 Nov. FARM BOY 1.30pm & 4.30pm. Based on

THE LYRIC HAMMERSMITH THEATRE Lyric Square, King Street, London W6 0OL 0871 22 117 20 www.lyric.co.uk Saturdays shows 11am/1pm £6/£8, then “MESSY PLAY” arts and crafts activities £5, 12pm & 2pm. £9 for Show and Messy Play Workshop. Add Messy Play to your family ticket for just £3 extra per child. Family ticket £25.

SATURDAY SHOWS & FAMILY SUNDAYS Sat 13 Nov. TWINKLE TWONKLE One night Stella and her little brother wish on a magical star and climb all the way into space on a telescope. Follow them on their adventure and find Pegasus the flying horse and a cow jumping over the moon. 4-7yrs.

Sat 20 Nov. THE NIGHT PIRATES Brave Tom peeps out of the window to find girl pirates stealing the front of his house. Join them on their daring quest across the high seas to Captain Patch’s island of treasure. 3-7yrs.

Sat 27 Nov. UPSTAIRS IN THE SKY Two delivery people arrive with a box addressed to the audience – a Make-It-Yourself Kit. Let your imagination reach for the sky as you help them tell their tale. 3-7yrs.

28 Nov. FAMILY SUNDAY: UPSTAIRS IN THE SKY 12noon & 2pm, them MESSY PLAY 1pm & 3pm.

CHRISTMAS SHOW: 2 Dec- 2 Jan. SNOW PLAY A delightful interactive new show all about playing in the snow. This magical wonderland will even give the audience the chance to get crafty and make your own festive treat. 2-7yrs.

NEW WIMBLEDON THEATRE The Broadway, Wimbledon, London SW19 1QG 0844 871 7646 www.ambassadortickets.com/wimbledon Fri 12-Sat 13 Nov. HMS PINAFORE A fast and hilarious production of this famous comic opera, packed to the brim with toe-tapping tunes £12/£22.

Tue 16-Sat 20 Nov. CIRQUE DE GLACE – EVOLUTION A thrilling, breath taking experience filled with music, colour, incredible costumes and jaw-dropping acrobatics. £10/£28.

Tue 30 Nov-Sat 4 Dec. ANNIE This endearing tale of little orphan Annie is back, giving a whole new generation the chance to experience this enchanting musical about never giving up hope. £10/£30.

PUPPET THEATRE BARGE Little Venice, Blomfield Road, London W9 2PF 020 7249 6876 www.puppetbarge.com £8.50/£10.

THE TEMPEST, by William Shakespeare. 6, 12, 13, 19, 20 Nov at 8pm and 7, 14, 21 at 3pm. With sculpted marionettes in wood and glass, beautiful lighting, specially composed music and the setting of the whole on a vessel, this show brings the audience in a magical and mysterious world which will not be forgotten. 10yrs+ CHRISTMAS SHOW: A CHRISTMAS CAROL, by Charles Dickens. 4/5, 11/12 Nov at 3pm. Daily 18 to 23 Dec at 3pm. Daily 27 Dec to 2 Jan at 3pm.

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Sat 20 Nov. THE BUG AND THE BUTTERFLY: A POEM ON SIX LEGS, inspired by the poetry of Frederico Garcia Lorca. 11am & 2pm. In a world where a dewdrop is the size of a swimming pool and a flower is as tall as a skyscraper, a bug falls in love with a butterfly. A truly heart- warming tale. 18mths -3yrs.

Sat 27 Nov. WHEN WE LIVED IN UNCLE’S HAT 11am & 2pm. It doesn’t matter where you live –Who you live with is the important bit. With live music throughout, a search for the most magical place- a home. 5yrs+.

Sat 4 Dec. HOW THE KOALA LEARNT TO HUG 11am & 2pm. Join a host of wild characters, experience some great stories, sing-along songs, superb games and first class hugging. 4yrs+.

Sat 11 Dec. THE PAPER WASHI WISH 11am, 1pm & 2pm. This tale features traditional Japanese storytelling.

There’s a hands-on papermaking experience after the show so prepare to get a little messy! 3yrs+.

CHRISTMAS SHOW: Sat 18 Dec. THE SLEEPING PRINCESS 11am & 2pm.

A fast moving re-telling of the classic fairytale. With beautiful puppets and featuring integrated British Sign Language throughout the show. 3-7yrs.

NATIONAL THEATRE South Bank, London SE1 9PX Info: 020 7452 3400 Box office: 020 7452 3000 9.30am-8pm Bkg online: www.nationaltheatre.org.uk CHRISTMAS SHOW: 1 Dec – 5 Jan. BEAUTY AND THE BEAST (Cottesloe Theatre) Following the celebrated production of “the Cat in the Hat” at the National Theatre and Young Vic, director Katie Mitchell brings to the stage this enchanting and timeless fairy-tale. Exploding with music and magic, this lively production is suitable for girls and boys aged 8 and up.

SOUTHBANK CENTRE Southbank centre, Belvedere Road, London SE1 8XX 0844 875 0073 www.southbankcentre.co.uk QUEEN ELIZABETH HALL 16 Dec-1 Jan. HANSEL AND GRETEL Head down to the forest this Christmas as Kneehigh Theatre leads you through a spellbinding world of wit and wonder, earthly delights and eerie woods. £15 to £27.50.

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What’s on 20 Dec-30 Dec. PETER AND THE WOLF LIVE Based on one of the most popular pieces of classical music for children, this show is a magical theatrical experience for the whole family.

With live performance from the Philharmonia Orchestra. £14 to £50.

RIVERSIDE STUDIOS Crisp Road, Hammersmith, London W6 9RL 020 8237 2010 www.riversidestudios.co.uk 4 & 5 Dec. W11 OPERA FOR YOUNG PEOPLE presents RAIN DANCE A crisis faces the animals of the African savannah. Their waterhole is almost dry and a leader is desperately needed to find a solution before they are wiped out. A witty and sometimes outrageous tale of animal rivalry. W11 Opera for Young People casts only school-age singers for each new opera it commissions every year.

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5yrs+.

UNICORN THEATRE 147 Tooley Street, Southwark, London SE1 2HZ 020 7645 0560 www.unicorntheatre.com 4 Dec-2 Jan. MOLE IN THE HOLE Meet the Mole Family in their cosy, underground home, lined with straw and strewn with sweet-smelling herbs. This is a messy adventure for all the senses to be enjoyed by all children from 3 to 6, their families and friends. Everyone will be asked to muck in, so please don’t wear your best outfit! £8/£10.50, family £30.

CHRISTMAS SHOW: 4 Dec-23 Jan. BEAUTY AND THE BEAST Writer Phil Porter (“Cinderella”, “The Flying Machine”) returns to the Unicorn with a brand new version of the classic story, containing magic, music, and moments to make your hair stand on end. 7yrs+ £13/£19, family £54.

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SHAKESPEARE’S GLOBE Bank side, 21 New Glove Walk, London SE1 9DT 020 7902 1400 www.shakespeares-globe.org 13-14 Nov. FAMILY ACTIVITY WEEKEND The perfect destination for visitors wishing to discover more about Shakespeare and the London in which he lived and worked. With live sword fighting demonstrations, Elizabethan costume dressing or printing demonstrations using a full-size recreation of a 17th Century printing press.

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PUMP HOUSE GALLERY Battersea Park, London SW11 4NJ 020 7350 0523 www.pumphousegallery.org.uk Workshops associated with the exhibition MAGIC SHOW, and part of PHOTOWANDSWORTH Booking: 8871 7572 or pumphouse@wansworth.gov.uk Sat 20 Nov. MAGIC LANTERN WORKSHOP 1.30pm2.30pm. Discover your creative visual mind and create your own interactive Magic Lantern. Take photographs of the park and use colourful art materials and you can explore the exciting world of the optical projection.

Wed 1 Dec. MAGIC SHOW 4.30pm-6pm. Discover the perfect introduction to the art of performing magic in this magician’s workshop. An interactive educational & fun experience.

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MINI MAESTRO FAMILY CONCERT Maria) An uplifting tale by David Almond, author of the Carnegie Medal Award-winning Skellig. The Great Human Bird Competition is coming to town! Lizzie and Jackie have been building their nest and are preparing for take off. Will the dynamic father and daughter duo get a chance to fly, or will sums, dumplings and headmasters get in their way?

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Lavender Hill, Battersea, London SW11 5TN 020 7223 2223 www.bac.org.uk CHRISTMAS SHOW: 18-31 Dec. THE GREAT ESCAPE – A BORROWERS TALE A participatory performance for 7-11yrs. Moving around the many rooms of BAC, children become super sleuths as they search for evidence of Borrowers (the small people that live under the floorboards) inspired by the original novel “The Borrowers” by Mary Norton. £5/£12.

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What’s on 13 Nov. WATERCOLOUR WETLANDS. Many artists have tried to capture the sea, rivers and lakes in their paintings. Discover these in The Courtauld Gallery and then create your own wet and wonderful watercolour landscape.

20 Nov. QUICK DRAW COUTURE Embankment Galleries, Somerset House. Take inspiration from the exhibition “Dior Illustrated: René Gruau and the Line of Beauty and capture your favourite fashions as though you were reporting from the catwalk!

Sat 27 Nov. Somerset House. FIGURE IT OUT! Discover how to make sculptures of figures in action; inspired by artists of the past who captured the movement of dancers and sportspeople.

23 Nov-23 Jan. ICE RINK. A great Family treat! 0844 847 1520 or online.

THE NATIONAL GALLERY Trafalgar Square, London WC2N 5DN 020 7747 2885 www.nationalgallery.or.uk FAMILY SUNDAYS Fun activities designed especially for Families to enjoy and learn together. Free hands-on art workshops at 11am & 2pm every Sunday. Meet in the Education Centre Foyer. Workshops last 2hrs.

FOR FAMILIES WITH CHILDREN AGED 5 TO 11YRS: NEW HANDS-ON ART-MAKING SESSIONS 11am, 12.30pm & 2.30pm every Sunday. Meet in the Education Centre Foyer (Orange St entrance).

28 Nov. SHAKE THAT BODY Explore your bones and movement in this paper construction workshop.

7 Nov. ELEMENTAL ESCAPADE Imagine the effects of earth, wind and air and create a colourful landscape.

14 Nov. RHYTHM REMIX ATTACK Recreate the rhythms of roses, horse and warriors in this construction workshop.

21 Nov. MASK ACTION Make your own hero or heroine disguise.

FOR UNDER-5-S STORYSCAPE. Every Sunday 10.30-11.15am and 11.30am-12.15pm Exciting interactive stories. 2-5yrs. Meet in the Education Centre Foyer.

MORE GALLERY FUN 7 Nov, 5 Dec. FAMILY WALK AND TALK 12.30pm1.30pm. An active looking adventure through the collection.

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TRAILS AND AUDIO TOURS Families can print it out from www.nationalgallery.org.uk/families or pick one up at Information Desks.

NATIONAL PORTRAIT GALLERY St Martin’s Place, London WC2H 0HE, 020 7306 0055, www.npg.org.uk/events Mon, Tues, Wed, Sat, Sun 10am-6pm. Late opening Thurs, Fri 10am-9pm.

FAMILY EVENTS: Meet in Main Hall 20 Nov. FAMILY STORYTELLING WITH ART ACTIVITY – THE PIRATE PRINCE 10.30am-11.15am.

Free. Make a pirate ship after the story of Prince Rupert.

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20 Nov. FAMILY ART WORKSHOP – REGENCY GAMES 11.30am-1pm. Free tickets available at the information Desk one hour before the event. Find out what games children played 200 years ago and make your own game. 5yrs+.

20 Nov. FAMILY STORYTELLING WITH ART ACTIVITY – THE PIRATE PRINCE 1.30pm-2.15pm. See above. 3yrs+.

20 Nov. FAMILY ART WORKSHOP – REGENCY GAMES 2.30pm-4pm. See above. 5yrs+.

NEW FAMILY AUDIO GUIDE Exciting new audio tours for families are now available to help young visitors enjoy the Gallery’s collection.

ASIA HOUSE 63 New Cavendish Street, London W1G 7PL 020 7307 5454 www.asiahouse.org 5 Nov-12 Feb. THE TIGER IN ASIAN ART Rare Asian paintings, sculptures, textiles and photographs. Today the population of wild tigers is only 3200, the aim would be to double it. Aspects of the project are very much family orientated. The exhibition has an interactive element with rolling documentary films about the plight of the tiger and is a great way for kids to learn about this urgent issue.

Sat 27 Nov. 2pm-4pm. ‘TIGER FAMILY DAY’ Story telling, mask making and other activities, plus workshops teaching brush painting and calligraphy, tiger mask dance and music. The exhibition is free but donations are welcome. All proceeds will go to the charities WildAid, Born Free and the Environmental Investigation Agency.

EXHIBITIONS & MUSEUMS NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM Cromwell Road, London SW7. 020 7938 9123. Open: MonSat: 10am – 5.50pm Sun: 11am-5.50pm.

Info: Mon-Fri 020 7942 5000. Sat & Sun 020 7942 5011.

Free. www.nhm.ac.uk NEW EXHIBITION: To 12 Dec. AMAZONIA Contemporary artwork from Lucy + Jorge Orta inspired by an expedition into the Peruvian rainforest, one of the most biodiverse areas on the planet.

The works, including sculpture, photography and video, highlight the importance of the natural world and examine the value of nature. www.bioderversityislife.net Free.

To 11 Mar 2011. VEOLIA ENVIRONMENT WILDLIFE PHOTOGRAPHER OF THE YEAR The world’s most prestigious showcase of wildlife photography is back with the latest winning entries from its annual international competition. Visually stunning and often thought-provoking, the images provide an insight into the beauty, drama and variety of nature. Gift Aid adm £4.50 to £9, family £24. www.nhm.ac.uk/wildphoto

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What’s on EVENTS FOR FAMILIES: check the full listing on www.nhm.ac.uk/whats-on Here some highlights: 6, 20 Nov. HANDS ON NATURE: OCEANS MAMMALS. Free. Using interesting material children can make fun creations based on natural history themes. Under 7yrs In the Mammals Gallery.

28 Nov. NATURAL PUPPET TALES. Free, to reserve a place visit the Central Hall information Desk. Lively storytelling workshops based on discovering amazing facts about the natural world. Under 7yrs.

SCIENCE MUSEUM Exhibition Road, South Kensington, London SW7 2DD. www.sciencemuseum.org.uk Open 10am-6pm. Info & bkg 0870 870 4868. Adm is free but charges apply to some special exhibitions, IMAX cinema and simulator rides NEW GALLERY: WHO AM I ? What makes you smarter than a chimp? What makes you smile? What makes you, you?

This new exhibition presents the latest in brain science and genetics through a mixture of interactive exhibits and objectrich displays. Visit now to discover yourself! Free.

LAUNCHPAD SCIENCE SHOWS Launch a rocket, turn your head into a sound box and control a magnetic cloud and play with 50 more brand new interactive exhibits demonstrating light, sound, electricity and magnetism and more amazing physics phenomena. Free. 8-14yrs.

FAMILY EVENTS-FREE: Weekends in Nov. SPACED OUT Come and discover the fascinating world of roaring rockets, amazing astronauts and smelly space poo! In the exploring Space Gallery on the ground floor. 5yrs+.

Weekends in Nov. ICY COOL ADVENTURE STORYTELLING Explore the wondrous wintry world of Iceland in this fun, interactive storytelling session. In the energy Briefing Room on the second floor. 7yrs+.

IMPERIAL WAR MUSEUM Lambeth Road, London SE1 6HZ. 10am-6pm. 020 7416 5320/5321. www.iwm.org.uk FAMILY ACTIVITIES 7, 13 & 14 Nov. MUD, BLOOD & POPPYCOCK 11am12noon & 2pm-4pm. Find out what it was like to serve in the First World War by examining typical objects from the Museum’s Collections. Free, all ages with parental supervision.

7, 13 & 14 Nov. POPPY MAKING 11am-12noon & 2pm4pm.

A chance for visitors to make their own commemorative poppies while discussing the concepts of the cost of war and remembrance. Free, all ages with supervision.

V&A MUSEUM OF CHILDHOOD Cambridge Heath Road, London E2 9PA, 020 8983 5200, www.museumofchildhood.org.uk Daily 10am-5.45pm. Free.

EXHIBITIONS: To 9 Jan 2011.

CUT IT, FOLD IT, BUILD IT WITH PAPER As well as beautifully designed and intrinsically detailed paper models created specifically for adults there will be simpler models produced for children, including much loved marketing promotions from the back of cereal packs. Visitors will be able to make their own paper models during family workshops and these will be added to a giant 3D cityscape based in and around the East End of London To 2 Jan 2011.

DOLL FACE Series of portraits by photographer Craig Deane, depicting a variety of dolls from the Museum’s extensive behind the scenes collection.

5 Nov-13 Mar 2011.

COLIN BOOTH: THE INSTITUTE OF PLAY Colin Booth created a major installation, architecturally inspired and responding to his own children’s play and the Museum’s collection of building blocks. He will use 3,000 individual blocks of tulip wood to create the sculpture. A selection of blocks will also be available for children to play with.

EVENT FOR FAMILIES: 27 & 28 Nov and 4 & 5 Dec. UP, UP, IN THE AIR 12noon-3pm. Enjoy a series of short mind (and body) bending performances by dancer and aerialist Ilona Jantti. Drop-in, all ages, free.

BRITISH MUSEUM Great Russell Street, London WC1B 3DG, 020 7323 8000, www.britishmuseum.org NEW EXHIBITION: 4 Nov-6 Mar 2011.

JOURNEY THROUGH THE AFTER LIFE: ANCIENT EGYPTIAN BOOK OF THE DEAD Booking: 020 7323 8181 www.britishmuseum.org/bookofthedead Follow the ancient Egyptians’ journey from death to the afterlife in this fascinating exhibition. Explore beautifully illustrated spells on papyrus and linen – the Egyptian Book of the Dead – and other objects including amulets, jewellery, statues, mummies and coffins. With film, interactive family trial, multimedia guide and a full family events programme.

Early bkg recommended: FAMILY EVENTS: Sun 7 Nov. PITCH A PERCUSSIVE MASTERPIECE 12.30pm & 3.30pm. Free.

Sat 13 Nov. KOREAN PAINTING AND CALLIGRAPHY 1.30pm & 3.30pm. Free.

Sun 28 Nov. THE ANCIENT ROMANS AND THEIR POO 1pm. A funny but true illustrated talk and book signing with Caroline Lawrence, award winning author of the “Roman Mysteries series”. Bkg advised.

Sat 4 Dec. ISLAMIC TILE PAINTING 11.30am, 1.30pm & 3.30pm. 6 yrs+. Free.

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GREENWICH NATIONAL MUSEUM AND QUEEN’S HOUSE National Maritime Museum and Royal Observatory are open 10am-5pm. Adm free. 020 8858 4422, www.nmm.ac.uk SPECIAL EVENT: 13 Nov. DIWALI CELEBRATIONS 11.30am-4pm. NMM and Royal Observatory, Greenwich.

All ages, free. Celebrate Diwali with a dynamic afternoon of music, dance and creative workshops for the family. Make your own lantern, contribute to a giant rangoli and discover more about the Moon and its significance at Diwali.

FAMILY EVENTS: EXPLORE SATURDAYS 13, 20, 27 Nov. 12noon, 1pm, 2pm, 3pm. Meridian Courtyard. From the Prime Meridian of the World jour costumed actors in this interactive family show to bring the Observatory to life. 6yrs+.

DISCOVER SUNDAYS 7, 14, 21, 28 Nov. 11.30am1.30pm & 2pm-4pm. NMM. Discover stories of exploration and adventure on the high seas and make your mark through design, craft, illustration and music. All ages.

PLAY TUESDAYS 9, 16, 23, 30 Nov. 10.30am, 11.30am, 1pm, 2pm. NMM. Young children can have fun with their families as they explore the Museum through making music, dance and drama. Under 5s. Timed sessions, collect free tickets from admission desk.

MUSEUM OF LONDON London Wall, EC2Y 5HN 020 7001 9844 www.museumoflondon.org.uk Weds 10, 17 and 24 Nov. 11am-12noon.

MINI MOLES BABIES GROUP Theses sessions are for babies aged 6 months-walking and their carers and includes multi-sensory play, rhythms and songs and an opportunity to meet others in a relaxed setting.

MUSEUM OF LONDON DOCKLANDS West India Quay, E14 4AL 020 7001 9844. www.museumoflondon.org.uk/docklands .

Sat 20 Nov. 12.30pm-1.15pm and 2.30pm-3.15pm.

A DAY ON OLD LONDON BRIDGE Enjoy an action packed tale and recreate the sights, sounds and movement in the crowded thoroughfare of old London Bridge.

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8944 0681 or 07961 428 596 E-mail: acs@amitygrove.com

JAMES ALLEN CARPET & UPHOLSTERY CLEANERS

Prompt reliable seven day service for deep down cleaning, removing dust, mites, dirt & stains

Group and individual lessons.

Learn to massage your child

Reliable Handyman • Garden maintenance and building work (fences, patios, sheds, etc..)

• Jobs around the house (carpentry, painting, fitting furniture, etc…)

• Computer maintenance (repair, teaching) £20/hour or packages possible.

Call Brian: 0774 513 6424

Massage is relaxing and brings loving closeness.

Learn simple techniques in your own home or your friend's.

Hands-on parent and child workshop by qualified massage therapist and aromatherapist.

Call Lorraine on 079101 14153 ITALIAN LESSONS FOR YOU! Experienced, trained and qualified teacher (Ditals certificate - degree in foreign literature and languages) All ages - All levels Laura 07940 423710

20 years experience. Free quote for any interior and exterior work at any time .

Any number of excellent recommendations on request.

Handyman

indoor & outdoor pools.

Please phone for details 01483 282471 or e-mail nancyshafee@tiscali.co.uk.

Cots, highchairs etc can be arranged too!

THERESIA HUBAR L.R.A.M and C.T.A.B.R.S.M

020 7584 3917 SW3. Will travel locally.

SPEECH SPECIALISTS

PIANO TUITION

Individual Tuition Public Speaking, Confidence Building, Interview Technique, Speech & Drama

Friendly, experienced and qualified teacher of children and adults.

Take exams or learn purely for pleasure.

SW8 & SW19 Studios Clare Price. LGSM, ALAM, SRD.

(020) 7735 3156

Different styles covered.

Home visits possible.

Mark Lester MA, CT ABRSM

020 8870 7830 www.marklester.biz ®

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Reliable, skilled and tidy General home maintenance, including: • Carpentry and painting • Garden clearance and fencing • Flatpack assembly and fitted kitchens Please call Nigel Fletcher for further details or free quotation. 07988 983273

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PIANO • MUSIC THEORY HARP TUITION

SW-based 020 8671 4221

City & Guilds Qualifications SAM FROST 07855 433 412

2 cottages in Cornwall

Piano lessons in your home!

Local, highly-qualified and experienced teacher.

Patient, friendly and professional.

Please call David 07780 636364

TUITION

AUSTINS

RELIABLE, FRIENDLY & AFFORDABLE SERVICE No Job too small

Vaugines (Luberon), 30 min from Aix/ Marseille. In the centre of an historical village a flat on the first floor, accommodation for 2 to 5 people.

One room with double bed, and mezzanine two small beds.

Huge living room looking on to the Durance valley.

Perfect pied a terre to visit and discover this part of Provence.

Price 400 Euros/week Deposit 250 Euros.

Please contact l.metge@hotmail.com Ring us 00 33 474 67 59 17 fax 00 33 474 67 50 29.

MUSIC

Painters & Decorators

Carpenter

Fifteen minutes from stunning sandy beaches of Polzeath, Trebarwith, Rock etc. Surfing, sailing & masses to do for all the family. Reasonable rent; cottage has 4 bedrooms, 1 bath, sitting/dining room, kitchen, parking, garden.

Near pub & shop. Enquiries: susanconnolly@aol.com.

adverts@familiesmagazine.co.uk

Est. 25 years

020 8741 4242

Spanish with Pedro.

Interior / Exterior Experienced, Reliable, Clean Fully Guaranteed / Insured FREE ADVICE & QUOTE 020 8462 4646 - 07802 535695

Home and business computers repaired & managed.

Consultancy and tuition also available.

Come all the family and learn

Call Pedro on 07956 699963

AMITY COMPUTER SERVICES

Traditional Cornish cottage in beautiful village of St Tudy, north Cornwall.

TO LET IN PROVENCE

PAINTING & DECORATING

John:- James & Lamont

HOLIDAYS

Contact us: PO Box 4302, London SW16 1ZS 020 8696 9680 Fax: 020 8696 9679

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