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A personalised educational journey with high academic standards delivered through an innovative yet robust marriage of Montessori practice and the National Curriculum.

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News & Views 8 Education

8 School News 11 Open Days 13 Creating good parent-school relations

15 The Importance of a

Good Vocabulary

Does your 7-year-old know 7,100 words?

16 Clubs & Classes News 18 What’s On

Including lots to do over Feb half term

22 New Year’s Resolutions

Is this the year not to make any?

23 Competitions 24 Eat Yourself Pregnant

Healthy diet advice

26 Support for New Parents 27 Can Reflexology Soothe

Your Baby 28 Find Your Dream Job in 2015 30 Family Holidays

30 Quirky places to stay in Britain 31 Try somewhere new this year To advertise: Tel: 0118 954 6893 adverts@familiestvw.co.uk Contact us: editor@familiestvw.co.uk Designed by: Graphic Resolutions 01438 871600 Next issue: March/April – Childcare, Easter Activities Booking Deadline – 1 February

Editor’s Letter Happy New Year and welcome to the latest issue of Families. Inside we have lots of ideas for shaking up your life in 2015 – whether it’s a change of career, a new baby or an exciting holiday adventure that you’re after.

Do you feel that you’re in the wrong job or want to change direction after being at home for a while? Then turn to page 28 for help with discovering your dream career.

Maybe you’re looking for somewhere a little different to stay this summer? You’ll find lots of inspiration within our holiday pages. Choose from chapels, tree houses, retro Airstreams and even train carriages (a big winner with the Thomas fans). Or ditch Devon and try heading for one of the exciting new destinations featured on page 31.

Mums-to-be won’t want to miss our tips on healthy eating for pregnancy, and once baby arrives you may find our page on reflexology very useful.

Finally, we would ask our readers to join us in supporting Wear A Hat day for Brain Tumour Research in March. More children and adults under 40 die from brain tumours than from any other cancer, yet it receives less than 1 per cent of research funding. You can make a difference by helping to raise funds. See their ad on our back page to find out more.

Wishing you all a wonderful 2015.

Karen and Jane Our front cover photo is courtesy of Sainsburys

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Families shut out from justice

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It’s resolution time and if you aim to quit smoking in 2015, Smokefreelife Berkshire could help you kick the habit for good. This Berkshire-wide Stop Smoking Service offers free weekly one-to-one or group sessions over 12 weeks, as well as a free weekly supply of nicotine replacement therapy.

Clinics are held locally in pharmacies, GP surgeries, markets, fitness centres, supermarkets, libraries, community centres, schools, mobile clinics and online.

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Thousands of families across England and Wales have been struggling to get justice following recent Government cuts, the Bar Council warns. The Ministry of Justice’s statistics for civil legal aid reveal that since cuts came into effect in April 2013 the number of people receiving legal representation on legal aid has plummeted, with the bulk of the cuts hitting family law cases. There has been a drop of 15,000 per quarter, equivalent to 60,000 a year, in the number of people receiving legal aid for family cases which go to court. On top of this there has been a fall of 40,000 per quarter, or 160,000 a year, in the number of people receiving advice on their family law problems.

“The legal aid statistics demonstrate the full impact of the cuts to civil legal aid, which is having a profound impact on the lives of many vulnerable people across England and Wales,’ said Nicholas Lavender QC, Chairman of the Bar. “We warned the Ministry of Justice that the cuts would mean that thousands of families would be denied access to justice and our prediction, sadly for those affected, has come true. The latest quarterly figures show that families facing serious issues, such as disputes concerning children, are effectively being shut out of the justice system. The human consequences of cutting a huge part of family law out of legal aid are clearly being seen.”

Wokingham libraries get better connected Library users in the Wokingham area are benefiting from improvements to the Borough’s I.T. services. These include Wi-Fi and new public PC’s within each library, all of which are free to use; and around three thousand eBooks, audio books and electronic magazines which can be downloaded from the library service without even leaving home.

Customers visiting the library can make use of family history databases online, access online academic journals, and search Encyclopaedia Britannica online all free of charge via the internet.

People wanting to use the Library Service can still continue to search for library books and renew their existing library books online, as well as accessing a range of IT based courses. The Home Library Service is also still available for those who aren’t able to get to their local library.

Why not search the online catalogue from the comfort of your own home to see what’s on offer: www.wokingham.gov.uk/libraries

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To mark this momentous milestone the Nature Discovery Centre, located in Thatcham, is organising a series of events to coincide with World Wetlands Day. The events start on Sunday 1 February with a guided wetland bird walk led by bird enthusiast Graeme Stewart and conclude on Friday 20 February with wetland walks for families.

Throughout half term there will be a great range of activities to enjoy including a willow dragonfly making workshop on Wednesday 18th, and a visit from Crocodiles of the World on Thursday 19th.

During February the Centre will be decorated with raindrop bunting, created by local Thatcham schools. The children will be creating a piece of poetry or writing on one side of the

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raindrop and a picture on the other side to illustrate what they like about wetlands.

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Baby College Whatever you do, (even if that is nothing), will have an impact on your baby’s development. We spoke to Julia Alsop of Baby College Wokingham/Reading about the importance of those early years.

“The first 3 years of your baby’s life is crucial for maximising brain development”, she told us. “Our carefully designed, fun Baby College programme, offers a carefully designed mixture of physical, multi-sensory and cognitive games, exercises and activities including music, dancing, signing, and much more - all designed to cover every aspect of your child’s development, from birth to 3 years old.

“Our structured programme provides your baby with a complete developmental workout. It helps to build the strong neural pathways that are vital for early brain development and all subsequent learning. At the same time Baby College also offers you a marvellous insight into baby development so you can learn all about your growing baby.”

Baby College classes are also a great way to meet new friends, whilst enjoying watching your baby grow and develop in response to the various exercises. Find out for yourself by emailing julia002@ babycollege.co.uk or visit the website www.babycollege.co.uk

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How one photo could save a life Childhood Eye Cancer Trust (CHECT) has launched a campaign to show parents how they can detect the early signs of eye cancer in children and potentially save their lives by simply taking their photo.

Flash photography is one of the easiest ways to spot the early stages of retinoblastoma, an aggressive, deadly eye cancer affecting predominantly young children.

A tumour in the eye can reflect back a white pupil in a photograph.

This means when a child with eye cancer has their photo taken, with a smartphone or camera using a flash, a white pupil can appear in the child’s eye in the image.

Look out for the campaign’s posters which will be displayed in GP offices, baby clinics and childcare centres. Made using innovative reflective ink, they show a close up shot of the eye of a real retinoblastoma survivor aged between 2 and 5 years old. People are invited to take a picture of the poster on their smartphones.

The pupil of the child’s eye will appear bright white in the photo, in contrast to the seemingly healthylooking eye in the poster.

For further information visit www.chect.org.uk/cms/

Pancake Day treats Instead of traditional pancakes on 17 February, why not try making these delicious Scotch pancakes? Also known as drop scones, they are quick and easy to make and definitely won’t get stuck to the ceiling!

Scotch pancakes Ingredients 175g self-raising flour 1 tsp baking powder 45g sugar 1 large egg 180ml milk, plus a little extra if needed Butter for greasing Method 1. Put the flour, baking powder and sugar in a large mixing bowl, and stir to mix. If using wholemeal flour you will probably need to add some extra milk at step 3.

2. Beat the egg and milk together in a jug.

3. Make a well in the centre of the flour and pour in the egg and milk mixture a little at a time, whisking as you go to make a smooth batter. Add extra milk if needed to give the batter the consistency of thick cream.

4. Heat a griddle or frying pan and grease with a little butter. Use a dessertspoon to drop the batter on to the surface, spacing them well apart. You should be able to fit 3 or 4 pancakes at a time. When bubbles rise to the surface, turn the scones over using a fish slice or palette knife and cook for a minute or two until the underside is golden.

5. As each batch is cooked, wrap in a clean tea towel to keep warm. Serve with butter and jam, golden syrup, chocolate sauce, blueberries, ice-cream or, our family favourite, banana and maple syrup.

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The number of 2 year olds eligible for free childcare is to double this winter, as around 40% will now be entitled to 15 hours of free early education per week, up from 20% last year.

“Giving a helping hand to families that need it most will mean thousands more children get a brighter start in life,” said Deputy Prime Minister Nick Clegg. “We are doubling the number of free childcare places for two-year-olds. All parents need to do to check if they qualify is contact their local authority or children’s centre.”

Childcare and Education Minister Sam Gyimah added, ‘We know that good quality early education can make a huge difference in levelling the playing field and improving a child’s life chances. This free childcare entitlement gives children crucial support that could make all the difference to how well they do at school and beyond. I encourage parents who think their toddler may be eligible to check this and make sure they don’t miss out.’ Find out whether your child is eligible at www.gov.uk/freechildcare

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Settling your baby into Nursery If you are soon returning to work and your baby or toddler is to start nursery you may be feeling apprehensive about the changes ahead. Our Lady’s Nursery in Crowthorne offer some words of advice and reassurance.

You and your baby are used to spending the majority of time together and now you are to be separated, with other people in charge of child care. However this is actually a very exciting stage in your child’s life as he or she will get to mix with children of the same age and, in some nursery settings, older children too. This helps in developing your little one’s self confidence and social skills and they will enjoy lots of fun throughout the day too!

Our Lady’s Day Nursery is housed within the main school allowing total integration and participation with the school, its activities and facilities.

The Settling-in Period To assist the settling in period for both parents and their children, many nurseries suggest one or two shorter sessions before leaving baby for a longer period of time. Little ones can familiarise themselves with staff and their surroundings making the transition of care run smoothly. Sam Kilcoyne, Nursery Manager at Our Lady’s Nursery, explains how it works. “Before your baby starts at Nursery, you will have ample opportunity to talk through your baby’s routine and the nursery routine. We will work very closely with you as a parent to understand your baby’s individual needs.”

Your Baby’s Key Worker Babies are assigned a key worker who will care for their individual needs and will keep records to track their development. When you collect your baby, you can expect their key worker to tell you about their day – such as what they have eaten, activities they have taken part in and how long they have slept. Learning about the fun and active time your baby has had will help to reassure you that they are being well cared for whilst you are at work.

Other Tips to Help the Settling in Period • Try not to pass any anxiety onto your baby; we understand the emotional turmoil you may be feeling but your baby can pick up on your anxieties.

• We are more than happy for parents to call during the day to check on their little ones’ progress, especially during those early days.

• When saying goodbye a quick handover is always best, staff are well versed in the art of distraction!

• Parents are initially welcome to bring to nursery a special toy or comforter and also to let staff know how baby likes to be settled or calmed.

To find out more about Our Lady’s Day Nursery visit www.olps.co.uk/daynursery/

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Your nearest centre is at Sainsbury’s in Calcot, so why not call on 0118 942 4002 and book a free trial, or visit www.explorelearning. co.uk to find out more.

Over-praising pupils can lead to low attainment A recent report by the Sutton Trust, ‘What Makes Great Teaching’, claims that lavishing praise on low-attaining students is not encouraging, but can in fact give a message of low expectations. Other commonly used teaching methods, such as streaming by ability, are shown to have little positive effect.

Professor Robert Coe, from Durham University said: “Great teaching cannot be achieved by following a recipe, but there are some clear pointers in the research to approaches that are most likely to be effective, and to others, sometimes quite popular, that are not.”

Charity Walk raises £15,000 During this term, over 425 Shiplake College pupils and staff embarked upon a 20 mile journey along the River Thames to raise money for five chosen charities. Walking the distance was an impressive challenge in its own right, taking over 6 hours to complete for many of the participants. Remarkably, some decided to make things more difficult by rowing, canoeing or even running the entire route. The first runner, a Year 12 pupil, got back to College in an incredible time of 2 hours 45 minutes.

All those who completed the challenge deserve great credit and they certainly earned the sponsorship which they collected for the five charities: Thames Valley and Chiltern Air Ambulance, Sue Ryder, Children on the Edge, Gap Africa and the Chiltern Centre. The pupils and staff raised a fantastic £15,000 in total.

Representatives from the charities recently attended a School Assembly to collect their cheques of £3,000 each (see above), and had the opportunity to speak to the pupils about the work of their respective charities and how the money raised will be spent.

New Arborfield secondary school on track Wokingham Borough Council is confident it is on track to deliver a new secondary school in Arborfield by September 2016. Plans are currently being developed with a view to building work starting this summer.

The school will be built as part of the redevelopment of the Arborfield Garrison and will cater for children from the new development and from the south of the borough. It will accommodate 1,200 pupils with the possibility to expand to cater for 1,500 children and provide sports facilities.

Should the opening of the new school be delayed, for any reason, existing garrison buildings are available for use and can be enhanced by more specialist facilities should the need arise.

Luckley House School to go co-ed from September It’s all change at Luckley House School as it prepares to welcome boys to its thriving community. The School believes the move to co-education, along with an education based on the Christian foundations of love and service and a secure and encouraging environment, will enable pupils to be even better prepared for university and their future lives.

There is an on-going multi-million pound investment plan in the School. Recent developments have included new science laboratories, a state of the art music centre, spacious art studios, improvements to the large sports centre, a fitness suite, food technology and textiles suites, new boarding facilities, common rooms and the Jubilee Building Library.

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A Performing Arts Centre is due for completion by the end of next year, and there are equally ambitious plans in place for the future.

This sustained development of facilities, alongside continued excellence in academic

standards, exceptional pastoral care, innovative sports provision, and an extensive co-curricular programme puts the school in the best position to become the leading provider of coeducation for families in the surrounding area.

The School firmly believes that the future strategic direction will meet the School’s and families’ needs in the years ahead, preserving the much valued ethos and heritage and securing an exciting and successful future.

Open Days are scheduled for Tuesday 17 March (morning) and Thursday 4 June (evening).

More information about the event and how to book is available at www.luckleyhouseschool. org or email Registrar@luckleyhouseschool. org Telephone: 0118 978 4175.

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Top 10 spot for Waverley Waverley Prep School were proud to celebrate their achievements with the publication of their Top 10 position in the UK Prep Schools table.

Waverley Prep School placed ninth nationally and was the highest placed school in Berkshire using this benchmark of percentage of children achieving a Level Five in the SATs examination.

Head Teacher, Tammy Howard commented, “This is a fitting tribute to our talented, hard working children and the dedicated staff of the school who have worked so hard to ensure that every single child is challenged and supported to reach their full potential. The children also performed exceptionally well in the Level Six examinations and 60% were awarded this exceptional grade.

“It is our small classes and specialist teachers which allow aspects of the senior school curriculum to be integrated, so that pupils can achieve these exceptional levels.”

Find out more at www.waverleyschool.org.uk

Susan Daughtrey Education, which has operated 11+ courses in Buckinghamshire with outstanding success for over 25 years, is delighted to announce it is now providing 11+ Courses at The Centre, Farnham Road, Slough for Year 4 and Year 5 CEM® 11+ candidates. The Year 4 course, which begins in January and continues to the October half-term break, will finish endon to the commencement of the 2015-6 11+ Course in November 2015.

Susan Daughtrey Education also provides professional ‘CEM®style’ 11+ Mock Exam sessions in Winnersh and Slough. Bookings can now be made online. Susan Daughtrey M.Ed, tutor and author, said ”Having helped students from Berkshire to prepare for the 11+ for many years, we are very pleased that Louise Mullier BA MSc PGCE, a talented and passionate local primary school teacher who has a degree from the University of Oxford, now offers SDE's 11+ Courses in Winnersh on a weekly basis.“ For more information, please visit www.sde11plus.com/ courses/berkshire, call 01753 780934 or email jdaughtrey@ sde11plus.com

Affordable independent education at Hemdean House Hemdean House offers a friendly and calm working environment and small class sizes of approximately sixteen boys and girls in the junior school and twelve girls in the senior school.

At Hemdean House, great emphasis is placed on pastoral care. The school seeks to identify, nurture and celebrate each child’s gifts and talents within a caring community based on Christian values; and cherishing the multi-cultural, multi-faith environment. Hemdean House develops an active partnership with parents, recognising that only with a full understanding of their child’s personality and enthusiasm can learning be made a true adventure.

Staff get to know every individual member of the school community and pupils know they have

an important contribution to make. Their confidence grows with the support and nurturing given by dedicated and experienced teaching staff.

Many pupils achieve Level 5 in English and Maths at the end of Year 6 and gain places in their first choice of senior schools, including successful admissions to Kendrick and Reading Schools.

GCSE results continue to be excellent, this year 71% of GCSE grades were A* - C, including English and Maths.

Pupils are well-equipped for the next stage of their education, as confident, respectful and self-motivated learners.

An entrance exam for entry to the Senior school is being held on Saturday 7 February.

To find out more contact the school by emailing office@hemdeanhouse.co.uk calling 0118 947 2590, or visit their website www.hemdeanhouse.co.uk

EXCELLENT in all categories, ISI 2014 JUNIOR SCHOOL OPEN MORNING 26 FEBRUARY Please join us for our Junior School Open Morning on Thursday 26 February, 9.30am – 12 noon Future Open Events in 2015: Little Willows Open Morning: 13 February, 10.00am – 12 noon Junior School Open Week: 2 – 6 March, 9.30am – 3.00pm For more information contact our Director of Admissions on 01491 651218 or admissions@cranfordhouse.net

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Bright future for St Edward’s Prep School St. Edward’s Prep School in Reading has joined the Wishford group of independent prep schools.

Principal Grant Mottram welcomed the news, saying, “This marks a very exciting new chapter for St. Edward’s. We are already enormously proud of our school and our boys, who achieve excellent academic results and leave us as well rounded children ready for the next stage of their education. Becoming part of the Wishford group gives us the freedom to do ever bigger and better things.”

Sam Antrobus, Executive Chairman of Wishford, added, “St Edward’s is already an excellent school, with a strong track record of successfully preparing boys for entry to senior schools including Reading School and Reading Blue Coat. We have no intention of changing the ethos that makes St Edward’s such a special place, but with the support we can provide, we believe there is so much more the school can achieve. I look forward to working with parents, pupils and staff to build on the school’s many successes.”

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Independent School Open Days Bracknell and Ascot

St Mary’s School, Henley-on-Thames

LVS Ascot (co-ed day & boarding, 4-18yrs)

01344 882 770 www.lvs.ascot.sch.uk Junior School Reception Class Tour Sat 24 Jan. Junior and Senior School Open Morning Wed 4 Feb. Senior School Tour Sat 7 Mar, Junior School Tour Sat 25 Apr, 9.45am-12noon with Heads welcome at 10am. To book please complete the online booking form www.lvs.ascot.sch.uk/booking_form or email registrar@lvs.ascot.sch.uk

Meadowbrook Montessori School,

Malt Hill, Warfield (co-ed, 18mths-12yrs) 01344 890 869 www.meadowbrookmontessori.org Contact the school for details.

The Marist Preparatory School, Ascot (girls only, 2½-11yrs) 01344 626 137 www.themaristschools.com Open Morning Wed 11 Mar, 9.45-11.30am.

The Marist Senior School, Ascot (girls only,

(co-ed day, 2-11yrs) 01491 573 118, www.stmarys-henley.co.uk Call the school to arrange a visit or taster day.

Shiplake College, Henley-on-Thames (day &

full/weekly/flexi boarding school, boys only 11–18yrs, girls sixth form) 0118 940 2455 www.shiplake.org.uk Open Morning Sat 21 Mar, 9.30am-12noon. Please book in advance online.

The Oratory School, Woodcote (Catholic day

3-18yrs) 0118 966 1000 www.SJCR.org.uk Fri 30 Jan, Thu 5 Mar and Tue 24 Mar. Prep (3-10yrs) 9.15-11am and Senior (11+yrs) 10.30am-12noon.

Heath (Catholic, co-ed day & boarding school, 2-13yrs) 0118 984 4511 www.oratoryprep.co.uk Open Morning Sat 7 Mar, 10am-12.30pm. Please contact the school office to confirm attendance.

3-18yrs) 0118 987 2256 admissions@theabbey. co.uk www.theabbey.co.uk Junior School and Nursery Open Morning Fri 6 Feb, 9.15-11am. Senior School Tours available on request.

The Abbey School, Reading (girls only,

Caversham Preparatory School,

3-16yrs & boys 3-7yrs) 01491 659872 www.cranfordhouse.net Junior School Open Morning Thu 26 Feb, 9.30am-12noon. Little Willows Open Morning Fri 13 Feb, 10am-12noon.

Personal tours and taster days also available.

Dragon School, Oxford (co-ed day 4-8yrs, co-ed day & boarding school 8-13yrs) 01865 315 413 admissions@dragonschool.org www.dragonschool.org Contact the school for details.

Radley College, Abingdon (boarding

school, boys only 13-18yrs) 01235 543174 www.radley.org.uk Please contact the school for details.

Rupert House School, Henley-on-Thames (day school, boys 3-7yrs, girls 3-11yrs) 01491 574263, www.ruperthouse.org Open Morning Fri 20 Mar, 10am-12noon.

(day, boys 11-18yrs, girls 16-18yrs) 0118 944 1005 www.rbcs.org.uk Open Morning Sat 25 Apr.

The Oratory Preparatory School, Goring

Our Lady’s Preparatory School and Day Nursery, Crowthorne (Catholic day

Cranford House, near Wallingford (girls

Reading Blue Coat School, Sonning

St Edwards School, Reading (boys only,

Reading

Oxfordshire

boarding, girls only, 11-18yrs) 0118 918 7333 www.qas.org.uk/bookonline Open Morning Fri 27 Feb and Sat 9 May, 9.30am.

11+ Taster Day Tue 24 Feb and Thu 30 Apr. Contact the school to reserve your place.

& boarding school 11-18yrs) 01491 683 500 enquiries@oratory.co.uk www.oratory.co.uk Open Morning Sat 16 May, 9.30am-12noon with headmaster’s address at 9.40am.

11-18yrs) 01344 624 291 www.themaristschools.com Open Morning Fri 27 Feb, 9.15-11.15am.

School, co-ed, 3mths-11yrs) 01344 773 394, www.olps.co.uk Open Morning Fri 30 and Sat 31 Jan, 9am-12noon.

Queen Anne’s School, Caversham (day &

Caversham (co-ed day school, 3-11yrs) 0118 947 8684 www.cavershamschool.com Contact the school for details.

Dolphin School, Hurst, Reading (co-ed 3-13yrs) 0118 934 1277 www.dolphinschool.com Open Morning Fri 27 Feb, 10.45am-12.30pm.

Hemdean House School, Caversham (coed nursery, infant & junior, girls only 11-16yrs) 0118 947 2590 www.hemdeanhouse.co.uk Year 7 Entrance Exam Sat 7 Feb, 9.20am-12.30pm. Open Morning Fri 6 Mar, 9.30am-12noon.

Leighton Park School, Reading (co-ed day & boarding, 11-18yrs) 0118 987 9600, www.leightonpark.com Monthly Open Mornings Tue 27 Jan, Tue 24 Feb and Tue 17 Mar, 10.15am-12.30pm.

Includes Head’s address and student-led tour.

Please register online or call 0118 987 9699 to book your place.

4-13yrs) 0118 957 4342 www.stedwards.org.uk Open Morning Fri 6 Feb and Fri 8 May, 9-11am.

St Joseph’s College, Reading (co-ed

South of Reading The Cedars School, Aldermaston (co-ed day, 4-11yrs) 0118 971 4251 enquiries@the cedarsschool.co.uk www.thecedarsschool.co.uk Open Mornings Thu 29 Jan, 9am-12noon and Thu 19 Mar, 9am-12noon.

Crosfields School, Shinfield (co-ed day prep, 3-13yrs) 0118 987 1810 pa@crosfields.com www.crosfields.com Open Morning Tue 13 Jan, 9-11.30am, with Head’s Address at 9.15am.

Eagle House School, Sandhurst (co-ed, day and boarding, 3-13yrs) 01344 772 134 www.eaglehouseschool.com Whole School Open Morning Sat 7 Mar, 10am-12.30pm.

St Neot’s Preparatory School, Eversley (co-ed day school with boarding options, 3 mths-13yrs) 0118 973 2118 www.stneotsprep.co.uk Open Morning Fri 27 Feb, 9.30-11.30am.

Wellington College (co-ed day & boarding

school, 13-18yrs) 01344 444 000 www.wellingtoncollege.org.uk Please contact school for availability on visitors’ days held on Saturday twice a term.

Yateley Manor School, Yateley (co-ed day

school with nursery, 3-13yrs) 01252 405500 www.yateleymanor.com

Open Morning Sat 14 Mar, 10am-12noon and Fri 24 Apr 9.45-11.30am. Please call to book your place. For individual tours please telephone or email the Registrar: registrar@ yateleymanor.com

West Berkshire Alder Bridge Steiner School,

Padworth (co-ed, 3-14yrs) 0118 971 4471 www.alderbridge.org.uk Open Morning Sat 7 Mar, 10am-1pm.

Elstree School, Woolhampton (boys 3-13yrs and girls 3-8yrs) 0118 971 3302, www.elstreeschool.org.uk Prep Open Morning Sat 28 Feb and Sat 9 May, 10-12noon. Nursery and Pre-Prep Open Morning Fri 27 Feb and Fri 8 May, 10am-12noon.

Pangbourne College, Pangbourne (co-ed, 11-18yrs) 0118 984 2101 www.pangbournecollege.com Contact the school for details.

St Gabriel’s School, Newbury (day school for girls 6 mths-18yrs and boys 6mths-11yrs) 01635 555 680, www.stgabriels.co.uk Open Morning Fri 27 Feb, 9.30am-12noon.

Wokingham Bearwood College, Wokingham (co-ed

day nursery, prep & senior school, 3mths-18yrs, boarders welcomed 11-18yrs) 0118 974 8300 www.bearwoodcollege.co.uk Senior School at work Open Days Tue 20 Jan, Tue 10 Feb and Tue 3 Mar, 10am-12noon.

Holme Grange School, Wokingham, (co-ed day school, 3-16yrs) 0118 978 1566 www.holmegrange.org Open Morning Fri 16 Jan, 9.30am-12noon.

Luckley House School, Wokingham (co-ed

day & boarding, 11-18yrs) Welcoming boys from 2015. 0118 978 4175 email: registrar@ luckleyhouseschool.org, www.luckleyhouseschool. org Open Morning Tue 17 Mar 9am-12noon.

Please contact the registrar to reserve a place.

Waverley School & Nursery,

Wokingham, (co-ed, 3mths-11yrs) 0118 973 1121 www.waverleyschool.co.uk Open Morning Fri 16 Jan, 9.30am-11.30pm and Sat 25 Apr, 10.30am-12.30pm.

Hemdean House School Boys from 3 – 11 Girls from 3 – 16 Is your child lost in a big class At Hemdean House we offer: Small classes Individual attention Experienced specialist teachers Above national average exam results Could we be the answer for your child?

The small school with big expectations Hemdean Road, Caversham , RG4 7SD Email:office@hemdeanhouse.co.uk

Tel: 0118 9472590 Website: www.hemdeanhouse.co.uk

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It’s good to talk Hannah Hunter offers some tips on how to create a healthy dialogue with your child’s school or nursery.

Research shows that the better your relationship with your child’s school, the more they will enjoy learning and do well. However it’s often impossible to know what really goes on at school – children are not very forthcoming when it comes to recounting their day. If they do raise any issues, or if you sense something is amiss, it can be difficult to know how to broach the subject with school.

As both a parent and a primary teacher, I know how hard it can be to strike the right balance. If you’re meeting a teacher outside of parents’ evening or class surgeries, it’s because there is a problem. These meetings can easily become tense, with both ‘sides’ on the defensive.

Here are a few tips for successful communication: • Assume the best of your child’s teacher.

They are trained professionals who understand the curriculum and child development. They ultimately want the same as you – a happy child who is learning.

• Let teachers know if there are problems at home. You don’t have to go into graphic detail, just tell them if something’s happened which may affect your child’s behaviour.

• Please don’t assume that your child always tells the truth! After all, teachers don’t automatically believe what your child tells them about home.

• Remain calm and neutral. “Little Johnny came home rather upset about xxx, I wondered what your take on it is…”, rather than “Why did you shout at Little Johnny like that?”

• Mediation. If you have issues with a teacher’s conduct, and feel upset or angry, it’s best that an additional member of staff is present.

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• Talk to the teacher first. Even negative feedback is appreciated. Going directly to the head is a bit like them phoning your boss whenever your child misbehaves!

• Remember that teachers are human.

They sometimes make mistakes, so try to forgive them for it.

Helping out in school A great way to get an insight into how things are run at school and improve your relationship is to volunteer. There are lots of different ways to get involved: • Become a parent helper. Helping out in class can be fun and rewarding.

Research shows that having a parent who volunteers improves a child’s experience of school. Organise a DBS (Disclosure and Barring Service) check and you can then volunteer regularly or as a one-off.

• Go on a school trip. If you’ve had the DBS check, this one is great for ingratiating yourself. On what is invariably a stressful day, a responsible parent helping out can be a lifesaver!

• Use your expertise. Maybe there’s a school club that would fit your skill set or interests. If not, you could talk to the class or even do an assembly. One volcanologist parent at my son’s school did a legendary presentation including exploding volcanoes.

• Join the PTA. Fostering closer home-school links, the PTA usually organise the school’s fundraising projects, from fetes to family quiz nights. Run by committee, they may include ‘class reps’ who pass on information to and from other parents in the class.

• Become a school governor. Comprising parent governors and other community members, this group of elected volunteers helps to make management decisions, such as running

buildings and budgets, supporting staff and setting discipline standards.

It can be time-consuming, particularly if the school’s results are getting worse or it’s going through a big change like appointing a new head teacher, or joining with another school.

• Join the Parent Council. Some schools have a Parent council, where parents meet to share ideas that are fed back to the school governors. This is great if you’re too busy to commit to PTA or Governors, but want to have an input.

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Education Wintertime at Jubilee Winter is a really magical time here at Jubilee Day Nursery. It begins when the outdoor Christmas Lights get switched on in early December, a fantastic display including a large Father Christmas, LED Snowmen, Penguins, Polar Bears, Toy Soldiers and even Trains.

The children love seeing the lights twinkling in the evening and early morning darkness.

This time of year we also look forward to a very special event in our winter calendar; our Winter Wonderland Walk. Where all our children’s parents, siblings and grandparents join us on a walk through our farmland, down to our private woodland area, affectionately known as Roughwood. There we sing carols and Christmas Songs around our Christmas Tree. There is hot chocolate, coffee and mulled wine so everyone can enjoy a crisp festive winter’s evening.

Disney’s Frozen is our theme for this years Winter Wonderland Walk.

Lets hope it’s cold enough for Olaf and his friends.

January and February also offer a fantastic opportunity for the children at the nursery to explore the cold and frosty outdoors. There is nothing they love more than wrapping up warm and being outside searching out frozen cobwebs, crunching their boots on frozen leaves and pretending to be puffing dragons! The children often walk to the woods in winter time to feed our animals too – and they even help break the ice when the duck pond gets frozen!

If you would like your child to be part of this amazing learning experience on a part-time or full-time basis please contact one of our nursery managers.

Call Lesley on 01189 701 600 Email info@jubileedaynursery.co.uk or Visit our website www.jubileedaynursery.co.uk

Paddock View, Rectory Road, Padworth Common, RG7 4JD

Call Sian on 01189 834 018 Email info@jubileegems.co.uk or Visit our website www.jubileegems.co.uk

Ark House, School Road, Padworth, Berkshire, RG7 4JA

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We are a small independent school for boys with small class sizes and a caring family environment that focuses on the individual boy’s academic, moral & physical development. Located in the heart of Reading, we are a school with a good reputation that strives to bring value for money for parents.

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The power of words Does your seven-year-old know 7,100 words?

Extensive research shows that a person’s vocabulary level is the best single measure for predicting future occupational success.

From Day Nursery through to Preparatory School, “pupils thrive in this warm and friendly community” – (ISI Inspection 2011)

Research into learning vocabulary has given us some startling data: • Gaps in vocabulary appear as early as age three, and widen thereafter.

• The extent of a child’s vocabulary at age five is so critical to the development of their perceiving, thinking, and understanding that it is used as a measure of these cognitive skills.

• The top quarter of pupils know about 7,100 words by age seven, and add about three new ones each day. The bottom quarter know only about 3,000; they acquire only about one word a day, so the gap continues to widen.

• Early gaps in vocabulary and in language and communication skills are seldom made up in school.

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Clearly, vocabulary acquisition must start early and some of the same research also reveals what parents can do to build vocabulary at home from an early age: • Provide a rich language environment. The more parents talk to their children from birth to age three, the greater their children’s vocabulary, rate of vocabulary growth, and chances of success in school.

• The early language environment should include teaching nursery rhymes.

Children who learn eight nursery rhymes in their first three years typically rise to the top rank of readers by age eight.

• Provide opportunities for different types of play. For instance outdoor play can help build vocabulary in nature and the physical world. Museums, parks, fields, gardens, a walk to the newsagents – can give you both time for relaxed conversation, and lots to talk about.

• Give your children and yourself the gift of daily reading. Read to your children for as little as ten minutes a day at a regular time. Three-year-olds who are read to every day tend to become five-year-olds who flourish in school.

• When reading to young children, engage them with questions and conversation. The vocabulary of most seven-year-olds is mainly oral. Most of this vocabulary is acquired at home and in the world, from being read to and from conversing with adults.

• Expose children to adult conversation whenever possible. Talk to them about events of the day and the realities of parents’ lives. Parents can increase children’s vocabularies by using less common words in helpful, instructive or explanatory ways in ordinary conversation.

• Ensure your children learn how to read. By school age, new vocabulary acquisition comes primarily from books. Children who read more have larger vocabularies. Allow your children plenty of time for quiet reading.

The more children read, the more they know and the better they learn.

Children who read more also read more efficiently. The amount of reading done by the most reluctant reader in a year can be done by a keen reader in two days.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR Janet Sherlock, BA LLb, is a mother of two and she heads the programme development team of language acquisition specialists, mathematicians and professors at Leaders are Readers.

01992 651 300 www.leadersarereaders.co.uk

The Abbey School

The independent day school in Reading for girls aged 3–18

“Motivated teachers engage inquisitive learners with challenging lessons that skilfully combine enjoyment with purpose.”

ISI inspection, October 2014

Junior School & Nursery Open Morning Friday 6 February 9.15-11.00am For times of Head’s talks and for more information please visit our website. For enquiries contact Admissions on 0118 987 2256 or email admissions@theabbey.co.uk

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Diddi Dance is expanding For classes of pure MADness, Birthday join MAD Academy Parties

A year after arriving in the area, Diddi Dance Reading and Wokingham have launched another new class with more to follow later in the year. Due to demand, a second Saturday morning session in Lower Earley has been added to the current programme of weekday classes.

“For working parents our Saturday classes offer the perfect opportunity for some precious bonding time with their toddlers,” says owner Andrea Bickford. “There’s always an amazing atmosphere, with mums, dads and grandparents all joining in and sharing the fun!”

Diddi Dance is the market leader in dedicated pre-school dance classes. By exploring multiple dance styles, the funky sessions are the ideal way to introduce girls and boys aged 2-4 years to the joy of dancing and to instil a love of physical activity from an early age. This term toddlers will be getting a feel for the Charleston, Tap and Salsa.

To find out more, please call Andrea on 07719 87 87 89, email andrea.bickford@ diddidance.com or visit www.diddidance.com.

too!

Call Trish on 0118 977 0050 or trish.nawacki@madacademy.com

Earley, Woodley, Caversham, Burghfield, Purley and Arborfield

Call Amanda on 07714 202951 or amanda.chivers@madacademy.com

Wokingham, Bracknell, Crowthorne, Sandhurst, Finchampstead, Winnersh and Binfield

Call Emma on 0118 979 2695 or emma.lelliott@madacademy.com Maidenhead, Marlow, Henley, Charvil and Twyford

Movement • rhythms • songs • instruments • games

madacademy.com Music And Dance and a whole lot of fun!

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Give your little star the chance to shine with Starmaker An exciting new chapter opens for Starmaker Theatre Company this month with the opening of its stage school.

Starmaker has been the area’s leading youth theatre company for 26 years, with a thriving membership of 11-18 year olds.

Now children from 4 upwards will have the chance to experience the Starmaker magic with expert tuition in singing, dance and drama on Saturday mornings at TPAI Studios, The Old Leisure Centre, Copthorne Hotel, Pingewood, Reading RG30 3UN. Starmaker Stage School offers a unique blend of quality and affordability. Run as a

charity administered by volunteers, Starmaker has lower overheads than a franchise or a profit-making company, so all its income is invested in providing the best quality teaching staff and a truly

excellent experience for its pupils. Separate classes are held for different age groups: 4-6 years, 7-10 years and 11+ to ensure every student gets the chance to shine.

Whether your child dreams of a career on the stage or just enjoys performing, Starmaker Stage School will nurture and inspire them, building confidence, improving co-ordination and teaching new skills.

For more details, or to register for a free trial session email stageschool@ starmakeruk.org, call 0118 988 7959 or visit www. starmakeruk.org/stageschool

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Berzerk launches ‘Little Char-Actors’ classes Berzerk Productions are launching brand new ‘Little Char-Actors’ classes for 4 to 6 year-olds in Pangbourne this January. The 40-minute sessions are designed to bring out the best in young minds with exercises based around imagination, listening, observation, movement, speaking, vocal and social skills. Later in the year the new classes will also be coming to Tilehurst, Caversham and Woodley.

For many years Berzerk have been running classes for this age group within local schools and have developed a syllabus that will focus on self-development and speech. There will also be projects and events to inspire the children.

For full information please email info@berzerkproductions.com, visit the website www.berzerkproductions.com or call for a chat on 0118 983 6072.

New venues for GR Swimming Every child, even the most nervous, can benefit from swimming lessons - gaining confidence in the water and developing a healthy respect for it. Learning to swim should be an objective each parent/carer has for their children. It is a life skill and too important to overlook.

GR Swimming School aims to teach all children to enjoy swimming with style, to build stamina and gain self-esteem. The School strives to create a friendly, safe and happy learning environment for children, hence its motto: ‘Seriously fun swimming lessons’.

GR Swimming has been the leading private swimming school in the area with 25 years’ experience teaching over 20,000 children to swim. Small classes for beginners, stroke improvers and advanced swimmers with both term courses and holiday courses available.

Classes are held at Brockhurst School, near Thatcham, Mary Hare School near Newbury, and at new venues Marist School, Sunninghill and Oratory School, Woodcote, Reading.

To find out more visit www.swimlessons.co.uk, call 01635 201 410 or email: rose@swimlessons.co.uk

New BilinguaSing classes in Wokingham and Reading Award-winning, Berkshire-based French and Spanish bilingual singing, music and movement class BilinguaSing is now coming to a town near you! BilinguaSing Wokingham is run by local businesswoman and mother of two Kate Sleeman.

Kate commented, “The best time for babies and children to start learning a second (or even third!) language is when they are learning their first. BilinguaSing is a unique language and music class which is different to the usual activities on offer. The songs are infectious (sung in both English and French / Spanish) and the props are engaging. Children embark on a magical journey where they will reach for the stars on a trip to the moon, swim with the fish in the sea or dance along a rainbow!’

All readers of ‘Families’ magazine can trial their first class for free!

For more information contact Kate on 07810 751645 via kate@bilinguasing.com or visit www.bilinguasing.com/wokinghamreading-twyford/

MAD Academy Wokingham under new management Amanda Chivers (pictured) took over MAD Academy Wokingham in August providing music and movement classes for babies and pre-school children in Wokingham, Bracknell, Binfield, Finchampstead, Crowthorne, Sandhurst and Winnersh.

She told us: “I am very excited about this new challenge in my life. I am a firm believer that music and dance can aid a child’s development and boost their confidence and am enjoying bringing those benefits to the children in my classes. I also love running children’s parties and theming them specially for the birthday child.

“Why not come and join us for lots of singing and dancing. We will be having fun learning colours, singing about animals, counting and signing in the baby classes plus so much more.”

Families readers can, for this term only, try their first class free – just bring along this article to the class.

For details of class times and venues please email Amanda at amanda.chivers@madacademy.com

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Classes available aCross berkshire & oxfordshire Ages 4-18

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What‘s On

Please always check before setting out in case details have changed since going to press.

Diary Dates Ongoing Events Every day – ODDS FARM PARK at Wooburn Common, nr Beaconsfield, 01628 520 188, www.oddsfarm.co.uk Open daily from 10am throughout the winter with indoor and outdoor play areas and lots of animals. From February half term onwards there are baby lambs and goat kids to bottle feed and if you’re lucky you might even see one being born.

Weekly – BIG SCREAM, TODDLER TIME & KIDS’ CLUBS at The Regal Picturehouse, Henley RG9 2BZ, 0871 902 5738, www.picturehouses.co.uk/Henley Big Scream Club runs on Fridays at 11am exclusively for parents with babies under 1yr so you can catch the latest film releases. For pre-school children Toddler Time on Tuesdays at 11am offers special 30-minute shows designed to introduce little ones to the big screen and for older children there’s Kids’ Club every Saturday showing a classic film at 11am plus prescreening activities.

• Turn to page 23 to find details of our competition to win Regal tickets.

From 17 Jan – TOYS IN TROUBLE SHOW at The Look Out Discovery Centre, Bracknell, RG12 7QW, 01344 354 400, www.bracknell-forest.gov.uk/ thelookoutdiscoverycentre Whilst visiting the exhibition, why not also enjoy this fun show which takes a lighthearted look at the science behind toys.

Eric the owl has a very naughty sister called Erica and she has messed up all of Eric’s toys, will you help sort them out?

Shows run at weekends and during Bracknell school holidays (subject to minimum numbers) and entrance costs just £1.85 per person in addition to the main exhibition admission price.

• Don’t miss the free child entry offer on the Discovery Centre ad on page 19 and why not enter our competition to win tickets to the Look Out Discovery Centre, see page 23.

January 8-11 Jan – THE SNOW QUEEN at the Kenton Theatre, New Street, Henley, RG9 2BP, www.kentontheatre.co.uk A dark and imaginative adaptation of this classic tale featuring haunting live music, grumpy goblins, magic mirrors, frozen souls and fearless fighters. The action will lead you through a wintry domain, where good battles evil, in the icy palace of the Snow Queen. Not suitable for very young children.

9 Jan – MERL TODDLER TIME ON THE MOVE at The Museum of English Rural Life, University of Reading, Redlands Rd, Reading, 0118 378 8660, RG1 5EX, www.reading.ac.uk/merl As MERL is closed until early 2016 for redevelopment, the Toddler Time sessions have moved next door to the Learning Hub, Building 24 on the London Road Campus. MERL staff and volunteers will be joined by Institute of Education staff for singing, stories and craft inspired by the MERL collections. Suitable for families with children aged 2-4. Park and meet at MERL. 10-11am. £2 per child, no need to book.

The Snail & the Whale at the Corn Exchange, 17-18 Feb 17 Jan & 14 Feb – NICK COPE: FAMILY MUSIC at The Corn

Exchange, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, 0845 5218 218, www.cornexchangenew.com Enjoy a delightful hour of songs and fun from singer/songwriter Nick Cope about everything from counting and animals to how plants grow. Suitable for accompanied children aged 8 and under. Tickets: £4.

20-21 Jan – TODDLER DAYS: SUPERHEROES at The Look Out

Discovery Centre, Bracknell, RG12 7QW, 01344 354 400, www.bracknell-forest.gov.uk/ thelookoutactivitiesfortoddlers Alongside the fun to be had in the handson science and nature exhibition, special activities will also be running just for toddlers. Activities include art and craft,

Open daily from 10am-6pm

0118 971 4002 info@buckleburyfarmpark.co.uk Latest research shows that just five minutes of exercise in a “green space” such as a farm park can boost physical and mental health.

Researchers at the University of Essex looked at evidence from 1,250 people in 10 studies and found fast improvements in mood and self-esteem from exercise in a green space

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At Bucklebury Farm Park, you can run, jump, swing, go-kart, ramble and relax in the fresh air all year round.

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What‘s On Be Amazed...

The Look Out Discovery Centre A Great Family Day Out, Whatever the Weather!

Hands-on Science fun for all the family

Open Daily 10am-5pm

- over 90 exhibits to see, touch and explore.

- 4th May 2015 Toys in Trouble shows 17th January school holidays. Bring this advert nell Brack and ends week at runs Show g adult*. Valid until 4.5.15 to get one free child with one full payin apply. *Terms and conditions

The Look Out Discovery Centre (Opposite Coral Reef) Nine Mile Ride, Bracknell, Berkshire, RG12 7QW Tel: 01344 354400 Email: TheLookOut@bracknell-forest.gov.uk

www.bracknell-forest.gov.uk/be Sign up to Perform’s Superhero course, 16-18 Feb

25 Jan – FAMILY FUN: STICK AT IT at The Nature Discovery Centre, Muddy Lane, Lower Way, Thatcham, RG19 3FU, www.naturediscovery.org.uk What can you do with a stick? Drop in between 2-4pm to find out! Have a go at a variety of activities, all made with the humble stick. £1 per child. Part of the Centre’s 20th anniversary celebrations, see page 5 to find out more.

25 Jan – RSPB BIG GARDEN BIRD WATCH at The River & Rowing Museum, Mill Meadows, Henley, RG9 1BF 01491 415600, www.rrm.co.uk The RSPB returns for another Big Garden Birdwatch. Lots of fun wildliferelated activities to enjoy, including making animal masks, dragonflies and bird feeders. Free with admission.

50% discount on admission for RSPB members.10.30am-3.30pm.

• Win tickets to the River & Rowing Museum, see page 23.

February 1 Feb – ROBIN’S WINTER ADVENTURE at South Hill Park Arts Centre, Ringmead, Bracknell, RG12 7PA, 01344 484 124, www.southhillpark.org.uk This uplifting tale of bravery, friendship and change tells of a young boy’s incredible journey with a feathered friend.

But will facing his fears be the biggest adventure of all? Told with puppetry,

Families

poetry, music and magical design for ages 4+yrs. Tickets £7, family £22.

2-27 Feb – FROM YOUR VALENTINE at Basildon Park, Lower Basildon, RG8 9NR, 0118 984 3040, www.nationaltrust.org.uk/basildonpark Enjoy a self-led trail with a heart shaped treat at the end. Can you spot the Valentine’s cards hidden in the garden? £2 per child. Open 10am-4pm. Normal charges apply.

5 Feb – HARRY POTTER BOOK NIGHT PARTY at various Wokingham libraries, www.wokingham.gov.uk/libraries Come dressed as your favourite character and enjoy crafts, games and more, for 7+yrs, £2 charge, please book.

Finchampstead Library 3.45-4.45pm, Lower Earley Library and Woodley Library both at 5.30-6.30pm, and Wokingham Library 6.15-7.15pm.

6 Feb – MERL TODDLER TIME ON THE MOVE at The Museum of

English Rural Life, University of Reading, Redlands Rd, Reading, 0118 378 8660, RG1 5EX, www.reading.ac.uk/merl Held at the Learning Hub as MERL is currently closed. 10-11am. See 9 Jan entry for details.

8 Feb – FAMILY FUN: WONDERFUL WETLANDS at The Nature Discovery Centre, Muddy Lane, Lower Way, Thatcham, RG19 3FU, www.naturediscovery.org.uk Drop in as a family between 2-4pm to find out about our wonderful wetlands and why they are so important. Join in with a self-guided trail and make a craft to take home. £1 per child. Part of the Centre’s 20th anniversary celebrations, see page 5 to find out more.

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Wednesday 18 February - 11am - 4pm Drop in throughout the day and make a willow dragonfly to take home. £1 per item

CROCODILES OF THE WORLD

Thursday 19 February - sessions throughout the day Come and learn more about crocodiles and the importance of wetlands across the world. £4.50 per person, booking essential

FAMILY FUN: WETLANDS WALK

Friday 20 February - 11am & 2pm Join us for a walk around our wonderful reserve and discover more about the importance of the wetlands on site. £5 per family, booking essential Contact us to book or for more info: ■ 01635 874 381 ■ ndc@bbowt.org.uk ■ www.naturediscovery.org.uk The Nature Discovery Centre Muddy Lane, Lower Way, Thatcham RG19 3FU

Latest events at www.familiestvw.co.uk/calendar

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play dough, face or hand painting and storytelling. On toddler days buy one drink and get another free to the same value. A great place to meet up with friends. £6.65 per parent and toddler and an additional £1.50 for an extra child.

• Don’t miss the free child entry offer on the Discovery Centre ad on page 19 and why not enter our competition to win tickets to the Look Out Discovery Centre, see page 23.

www.facebook.com/thelookoutdiscovery

Opening Times 10.30am – 4pm Tuesday – Sunday Closed Mondays

Managed by the Berks, Bucks & Oxon Wildlife Trust on behalf of:

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Half Term What’s On Half Term Fun

17 Feb Alice’s Amazing Additional Adventures - Alice in Wonderland inspired creative writing workshop with author Keith Sheppard. Books available for sale. For 8+yrs, £2 charge, please book. Woodley Library from 10-11am and Winnersh Library (0118 979 7519) from 2-3pm.

19 Feb Adventure Time - if you love the comic, Adventure Time, then come and create a 2-page comic spread using your own adventure story with comic artist Stef O’Brien, for 7+yrs, £2 charge, please book.

Maiden Erlegh Library (0118 966 6630) from 3.15-4pm and Finchampstead Library (0118 908 8176) 2- 2.45pm.

19 & 20 Feb Get Arty - drop in craft sessions for under 13s, £1.50 charge. 19 Feb Woodley Library 10.30am-11.30am and Lower Earley Library 2-3pm; 20 Feb Wokingham Library 10.30-11.30am.

From 11 Feb – BEALE PARK

WILDLIFE PARK & GARDENS RE-OPENS at Lower Basildon, near

Pangbourne, RG8 9NW, 0844 826 1761, www.bealepark.co.uk Beale Park opens for the 2015 season.

Enjoy the animals, play areas, Pets Corner, miniature railway, Little Tykes Village, toy exhibition, café and lots more in a picturesque Thames-side setting.

14 Feb – VALENTINE’S DAY at Cliveden, Taplow, SL6 0JA, www.nationaltrust.org.uk/cliveden Follow Cliveden’s special trail and create a love heart for the Valentine tree, with a chocolate treat. Ideal for accompanied children aged 4-11yrs. Drop in between 11am-3pm. £2 per child. Normal admission charges apply.

From 14 Feb – WELLINGTON

COUNTRY PARK RE-OPENS at

Wellington Country Park, Riseley, RG7 1SP, 0118 932 6444, www.wellington-country-park.co.uk 350 acres of beautiful park and woodland with play areas for all ages, miniature railway, animal farm, lake, crazy golf, nature trails, café and a full calendar of family events.

14-15, 18 & 21-22 Feb – HALF TERM STEAMDAYS at Didcot Railway Centre, Didcot, 01235 817 200, www.didcotrailwaycentre.org.uk Enjoy a ride in coaches pulled by one of the Centre’s Great Western steam locomotives. Plus all the usual attractions of this railway museum, home to many steam and diesel locomotives, passenger coaches and rolling stock.

16-18 Feb – PERFORM

SUPERHEROES HOLIDAY COURSE

at Wokingham Methodist Church Hall, Rose Street, Wokingham, Berks, RG40, 0845 400 1283 www.perform.org.uk An exciting drama course for 4-7 year olds with costumes, live music, scripts, improvisation and dance. After completing some specially designed Superhero training, the children will go on a thrilling adventure culminating in a mini Superhero musical show on the last day for friends and family. 10am-12noon. £100 (25% discount for siblings and reductions for groups).

• Book by 31 January and receive 10% off when you quote FAMI310115.

16-19 Feb – HALF TERM ACTIVITIES at Reading Museum, Blagrave St, RG1 1QH, 0118 937 3400, www.readingmuseum.org.uk Activities are inspired by the Museum’s Allen Seaby: Art and Nature exhibition. The Activity Cart will have a range of free simple paper craft activities plus: 16 Feb Printing: All Creatures Great and Small

Beale Park re-opens 11 Feb - try your hand at a simplified version of the block printing Allen Seaby worked with, drop in 1-hour sessions at 10am, 11.15am, 1pm & 2.15pm for 5+yrs, £3; 17 Feb Pony Rosettes - take a look at Seaby’s pony prints and make your own glittering rosette, drop in 1-hour sessions at 10am, 11.15am, 1pm & 2.15pm for 5+yrs , £3; 17 Feb Victorian Schoolroom Experience - meet a Victorian schoolteacher and re-learn the ‘3Rs’ in a 45-minute experience for adults and 5+yrs in a unique Victorian classroom, 11.30am, 1.15pm & 2.30pm, £1 per person, drop in, places limited; 18 Feb Make & Take: Rocking Horses - make a cheery card rocking horse to take away, drop in halfhour sessions between 10.30am-12.30pm & 1.30-3.30pm, £1; 19 Feb Arty Stationery - learn about Allen Seaby’s repeat pattern making and create your own stationery in this hands-on printing session, for 7+yrs, 2-hour sessions starting at 10am & 1pm, £7, must book. NB drop in events are very popular and places are limited.

16-20 Feb – JUBILEE JETS HOLIDAY CLUB at Ark House, School Rd,

Padworth Common, RG7 4JA, 0118 983 4018, www.jubileejets.co.uk Half-term holiday club for 5-11yrs set in beautiful countryside at Padworth Common. There is a wide variety of indoor and outdoor fun activities offered including woodland adventures, arts and crafts, animal care, cooking and lots more. Book online now using childcare vouchers or credit/debit card.

16-20 Feb – HALF TERM CRASH SWIMMING COURSES with GR Swimming at Brockhurst & Marlston House Schools, Hermitage, near Thatcham and Marist School, Sunninghill, 01635 201410, www.swimlessons.co.uk Small, friendly classes teaching beginners and improvers from 3½yrs and costing £55 for the week. For more able swimmers a snorkelling course, including stroke technique, is available for £65 (which includes a mask and snorkel to keep). Call or email rose@swimlessons.co.uk to book.

16-20 Feb – HALF TERM FUN at various Wokingham libraries, www.wokingham.gov.uk/libraries 14 Feb Love Bugs - come and hear the Love Bug story and make your own ladybird. £1.50 charge, just drop in at Woodley Library and Wokingham Library both at 10-10.30am.

16 Feb Famous Five - create a picnic collage, try a Famous Five treasure hunt and decorate Timmy the dog, for 8+yrs, £2 charge, please book. Wokingham Library (0118 978 1368) from 9.4510.30am and Lower Earley Library (0118 978 1368) 11-11.45am.

16-18 Feb Oliver and the Seawigs - hear a snippet from Oliver’s story, create your own seawig, sea monkey and other fun crafts. For 6-11yrs, £1.50 charge, please book. 16 Feb Twyford Library at 2-2.45pm; 17 Feb Spencers Wood Library 11.30am-12.15pm; 18 Feb Wargrave Library at 9.30-10.15am, Wokingham Library 11.15am-12noon & Woodley Library (0118 969 0304) 2-2.45pm.

16-20 Feb FREE HALF TERM CRAFT ACTIVITIES at various Reading libraries, www.reading.gov.uk/libraries 16 Feb Palmer Park - Dangly Monsters for ages 5+yrs with parental help, 10-11am, places limited so please book.

18 Feb Tilehurst Library - stained glass window craft, no need to book, 3-4pm, for 4+yrs.

19 Feb Caversham Library - Crafty Fun, drop in, 2.15-3.15pm, and Southcote Library - 10.30-11.30am, make a dinosaur picture for the wall, for 6-10yrs, please book.

20 Feb Battle Library - Teddy Bear Disguise crafting session, drop in, 3-4pm.

Whitley Library - heart shaped animals craft for 5+yrs, 10.30-11.30am, please book; and Reading Central Library Chinese New Year craft session for 5-9yrs, 10.30-11.30am, drop in.

17 Feb – WILD ONES: MAKE A BUG at Jennett’s Park Community Centre, Tawny Owl Square, Bracknell, RG12 8EB, www.bracknell-forest.gov.uk/ parksandcountrysidevents Drop in between 10am-12 noon and make bouncy spiders and sparkly, glasspainted bugs from recycled plastic and discover more about the mini-beasts that live in the country park. Best suited for 5-11yrs. £2 per craft.

17 Feb – TEDDY BEAR SLEEPOVER at Battle Library, 420 Oxford Rd, Reading, RG30 1EE, 0118 901 5100, www.reading.gov.uk/libraries Bring your teddy for a special sleepover, collect him on Thursday and see what adventures he’s had in the library, 5.30pm.

17-18 Feb – THE SNAIL & THE WHALE at The Corn Exchange, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, 0845 5218 218, www.cornexchangenew.com From the creators of the Gruffalo comes this story of a tiny snail’s amazing ride on the tail of a humpback whale as seen through the eyes of an adventurous young

Toddler Time on the move!

Fri 9th Jan & Fri 6th Feb • Drop-in • £2 per child • Families with children aged 2 to 4 Enjoy stories, songs and craft activities inspired by the countryside.

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Currently 1st Friday of the month only, due to redevelopment.

For details, call 0118 378 8660, email merlevents@reading.ac.uk or visit www.reading.ac.uk/merl

JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2015

Half Term What’s On girl. Together the snail and the whale go on an amazing journey, experiencing sharks and penguins, icebergs and volcanoes. But when the whale gets beached, how will the tiny snail save him? Storytelling, live music and lots of laughs for 4+yrs. Tickets: £10, £8 conc.

17-19 Feb – HALF TERM ACTIVITIES at The River & Rowing Museum, Mill Meadows, Henley on Thames, Oxon, RG9 1BF 01491 415600, www.rrm.co.uk 17 Feb Teeny Tiny Town - workshop for 4-7yrs, make a little person to take on a dancing journey to a magical world, 10.30am-12.30pm, £8.50, please book.

18 Feb Silk Painting - for 7-11yrs, learn new techniques and create a series of beautiful silk paintings inspired by the famous 20th century printmaker Julian Trevelyan, 10.30am-12.30pm , £8.50, please book.

18 Feb Busy Bees - workshop for 4-7yrs, enjoy bee themed activities and crafts, 2-4pm, £8.50, please book.

19 Feb Fables and Fairytales - enter a magical world of colour, excitement and adventure with enchanting tales and craft. Free with admission.

10.30am-4pm.

19 Feb Chinese New Year - join in the celebrations for the arrival of the Year of the Sheep. Make Chinese lanterns, lucky charms and more. Free with admission.

Drop in between 10.30am-12.30pm.

• Win tickets to the River & Rowing Museum, see page 23.

18 Feb – POP! A MAGICAL COMEDY SHOW at South Street

Arts Centre, 21 South Street, Reading, RG1 4QU, 0118 960 6060, www.readingarts.com Join hapless hero, Christian Lee, in this totally word-free clown and magic show for ages 3-8yrs and their families. Mr Bean meets Charlie Chaplin in a mindblowing feast of illusion, comedy and a massive balloon!

18 Feb – WILD WEDNESDAY at Cliveden, Taplow, SL6 0JA, www.nationaltrust.org.uk/cliveden Fun outdoors whatever the weather. See website for more details. Drop in between 11am-3pm. £2 per child. . Normal admission charges apply.

18-20 Feb – HALF TERM ACTIVITIES at The Nature Discovery Centre, Muddy Lane, Lower Way, Thatcham, RG19 3FU, 01635 874381, www.naturediscovery.org.uk 18 Feb Recycled Arts Workshop - join recycling enthusiast Jill Nicholas and make a willow dragonfly. Drop in between 11am-4pm. £1 per item.

19 Feb Crocodiles of the World Britain’s only crocodile zoo pays a visit with live animals and interactive experiences including crocodiles, alligators and caimans to inform and educate all ages. Sessions run throughout the day but booking is essential for this very popular event, £4.50 per person.

20 Feb Family Wetlands Walk - enjoy a family walk around Thatcham Reedbeds Nature Reserve and find out more about the wonderful wetlands on site, 11am-12.30pm & 2pm-3.30pm, booking essential, £5 per family.

Join in the Centre’s 20th anniversary celebrations, see page 5 to find out more.

18-20 Feb – ‘ON THE MOVE’ HALF TERM ACTIVITIES at REME Museum of Technology, Isaac Newton Rd, Arborfield, Reading, RG2 9NH, 0118 976 3375, www.rememuseum.org.uk Survive Sir’s mini assault course and water jump, march with a soldier, learn to salute and brave the big bug hunt. There’s a range of activities for children to do, from

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code cracking to truck making with quizzes, puzzles, marching and the infamous assault course - a change of clothes may be necessary! Suitable for accompanied 5-12yrs. 11am-3.30pm.

19 Feb – WILD ONES: BUG BUILDERS at Jocks Lane Recreation

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Ground, Off Binfield Rd, Bracknell, RG12 2BH, www.bracknell-forest.gov. uk/parksandcountrysidevents Build a stag beetle home in the woods, hunt for bugs and learn more about our amazing mini-beast engineers.

10am-12noon. Booking required on 01344 354 441.

www.kids-n-action.com Laser Tag parties and 8 Themed party rooms including: I’m Fabulous Pirate Superhero Princess Football Under the Sea Glow in The Dark –

25-26 Feb – OCTONAUTS AND THE DEEP SEA VOLCANO ADVENTURE

at The Hexagon, Queens Walk, Reading, RG1 7UA, 0118 960 6060, www.readingarts.com Visit amazing underwater worlds, full of adventure and surprises, in an action-packed interactive show starring Captain Barnacles, Kwazii, and Peso.

This brand new stage show brings the entire crew of the Octonauts to life on stage for the first time.

Nearly New Sales 7 Feb – MEGA BABY &

CHILDREN’S MARKET at

Nuffield Fitness Centre, Newbury Racecourse, RG14 7PN, www.babyandchildrensmarket.co.uk Over 40 stalls bursting with top quality near to new baby and children’s brands from birth to 8 years at up to 90% off the full retail price. Free parking, onsite cafe, kids and buggies are welcome. £2 admission price between 2-2.30pm then £1 admission from 2.30-4 pm. Kids go free.

15 Feb – BABY & CHILDREN’S MARKET at Meadway Sports Centre,

Conwy Close, Tilehurst, Reading RG30 4BZ www.babyandchildrensmarket.co.uk 2-4pm. Lots of stalls bursting with quality nearly new and new baby & kids items from birth to 8 years. Contact Nicki Mitchell - nicki@babyandchildrensmarket. co.uk or call 07809 628701.

28 Feb – BABY & CHILDREN’S MARKET at Finchampstead Baptist

Centre, Gorse Ride North, Finchhampstead, Wokingham, RG40 4ES, www.babyandchildrensmarket.co.uk 2-4 pm. Lots of stalls bursting with quality nearly new and new baby & kids items from birth to 8 years. Contact Nicki Mitchell - nicki@babyandchildrensmarket. co.uk or call 07809 628701.

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Berkshire’s BIGGEST and BEST Indoor Play & Party Centre

21-22 Feb – BIG WEEKEND at The Corn Exchange, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, 0845 5218 218, www.cornexchangenew.com Join the Young Corn Exchange for their Big Weekend as they take over the Corn Exchange for two days. There are some great family activities and workshops from singing and drama workshops to circus skills and a fancy dress disco. Event costs vary from free to £5.

28 Feb – LETTER THROUGH MY DOOR at The Watermill Theatre, Bagnor, Newbury, RG20 8AE, 01635 46044, www.watermill.org.uk A fun and exciting album and stage show full of catchy and toe tapping numbers perfect for 3+yrs and their families.

Created by musician, songwriter and storyteller, David Gibb, this new musical show features original songs as well as traditional children’s songs from across the world.

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Children’s Party Planners www.popinparties.co.uk

• Bear Making Parties • Fabric Painting Parties • Theme Parties Visit our website for current prices. or call us on 07764 849828 or e-mail: popinparties@tiscali.co.uk

Discover what’s in Wokingham Borough Libraries

• Borrow children and teen books, eBooks, story CDs, eAudio and DVDs • Find out information with our non-fiction books and also free homework help with access to the online Encyclopaedia Britannica • Storytelling, Rhymetime, Crafts and Book groups for all ages, along with special author events and more

If you would like details of your production or event to appear in the What’s On pages, please email editor@familiestvw.co.uk The deadline for the March/April issue is 1 February.

Latest events at www.familiestvw.co.uk/calendar

It’s free to join too!

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New Year, New You

Do you really need New Year’s resolutions?

Is this the year to resolve NOT to make any resolutions?

With help from Wendy Flynn.

The trouble with New Year’s resolutions – if you are rash enough to make them – is that they can often be a bit, well, harsh. Those promises to fit into a size 8 dress; eliminate the overdraft; give up alcohol, and to never shout at your family again (not ever) have a nasty habit of unravelling even before the celebratory fizz has gone flat.

It doesn’t help that January has to be the gloomiest month of the year. The festive season is well and truly behind us yet those pesky credit card bills just keep on dropping through the letterbox; and despite all the glossy holiday ads around, it’s still an awfully long time before we’re likely to see the sun again.

Now I am all for positive change and greatly admire the ‘can-do’ attitude of those who make a resolution and stick to it. My husband, for example, gave up smoking on the stroke of midnight 20 years ago and has never picked up a cigarette since. Unfortunately, he still thinks that giving up alcohol amounts to swapping beer for the rather dubious ‘health benefits’ of red wine, and the only exercise he gets is when I hide the remote control and he has to walk between the sofa and the TV to change channels – but I suppose nobody is perfect!

So if you want to make a New Year resolution – I am there with you in spirit – and will applaud you at this point next year if you have managed to stick to it. Psychologists, by the way, would recommend that the best way of holding firm to your resolve is to focus on one behaviour at a time. So if you’re currently trying to lose weight, give up smoking, run your first marathon and change jobs good luck to you, but your chances of success are not promising.

Once you have decided what it is you want to change, start by making a plan; set a series of small, interim goals to be achieved in a realistic timescale, and involve a buddy and ask others for support.

With that, and a dollop of willpower, success is within your grasp.

But for us lesser mortals – the SAD ones (with seasonal affective disorder) who will put off any resolutions until at least Spring, I am suggesting some guidelines for just getting through January.

• Be kind to yourself: Children respond better to understanding and compassion for their mistakes than to being berated – and so do we!

So this month give up beating yourself up, even if you eat a cream cake or three.

• Share a laugh with the kids: Put aside one ‘treat time’ each week to play a game with the children; snuggle up on the sofa with popcorn to watch a movie, or play chase in the park.

• Put things in perspective: Remember that each day of January takes you one step closer to summer. Everything looks better in sunshine and you will feel more energised. You might even get round to making that New Year resolution!

Wishing all our lovely readers a happy and healthy 2015 and success in all you attempt this year.

• Smile: As the song says ‘Pack up your troubles in your old kit bag, and smile, smile, smile’. Make it your mission to smile even when you don’t feel like it. Research suggests the act of smiling alone can help lift spirits.

• Gratitude and attitude: Just before sleep each night, think of three things you are grateful for that day. Anything that warms the cockles of your heart will do. Going to sleep with a smile on your face will put you in a better mood in the morning.

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JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2015

Great Offers from RIVER AND ROWING MUSEUM

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WIN a day of hands-on science fun

WIN a day with Ratty, Mole and Toad

The Look Out Discovery Centre is a fun place to visit with all the family and we have a family ticket for one lucky reader to win. The main attraction has over 90 hands-on science and fun activities, plus adventure play area, a gift and coffee shop and picnic area.

The centre is set in 1,000 hectares of Swinley Forest with bike trails and walks. Check their website for details of the science shows which are on at weekends and Bracknell Forest school holidays. Toys in Trouble runs from 17 Jan – 4 May 2015.

Win a family ticket for 4, worth £26, to the wonderful River & Rowing Museum in Henley. A local family favourite, the Museum with its gorgeous Wind in the Willows exhibition and regular calendar of exciting family days makes a great day out!

So come and meet Ratty, Mole, Toad and friends this spring or look out for one of their exciting themed activity and craft days and enjoy learning new skills from silk painting to birdwatching.

For more information call 01344 354400 or visit www.bracknell-forest.gov.uk/be

For more information call 01491 415600 or visit www.rrm.co.uk To enter just visit www.familiestvw.co.uk/competitions today.

Closing date 12 February.

To enter just visit www.familiestvw.co.uk/competitions today.

Closing date 12 February.

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£30 discount on new classes

Win tickets for you and a friend and your babies to Big Scream at 11am on a Friday followed by a snack lunch including tea or coffee and toasted sandwich in the Regal’s new café. Big Scream Club shows films exclusively for parents with babies under one year old so you can enjoy the latest releases accompanied by baby in a safe and comfortable environment.

No need to find a babysitter or worry about causing a disturbance next time you want to catch up on the movies. It’s also a great way to meet other new parents.

To celebrate new classes in Newbury in January, Perform are offering readers a special offer. Perform drama, dance and singing workshops are for 4-12 year olds and focus on helping develop children’s confidence, co-ordination, communication and concentration skills. Perform is not a stage school but will help give your child amazing social skills and the best fun of their week.

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WIN tickets to Big Scream plus lunch

Classes are held at St George's Centre, Andover Road, and St John of Evangelist Church, St John's Road, Newbury.

For more information call 0871 902 5738 or visit www.picturehouses.co.uk

For more information or to book a FREE TRIAL SESSION call 0845 400 1283, email enquiries@perform.org.uk or visit www.perform.org.uk

To enter just visit www.familiestvw.co.uk/competitions today.

Closing date 12 February.

Book a free trial session before 31 January 2015 and you will be entitled to a £30 discount. Just quote FAML100215.

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Health

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Eat your

Forget faddy diets, nutritionist Christine Bailey explains how to boost your chances of conceiving a healthy baby by optimising your intake of essential fertility nutrients.

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My research and experience as a nutritionist has shown me that nutrient dense, unprocessed food (and supplements as necessary) forms the bedrock of getting your body baby-ready and of making healthy eggs and sperm.

There is now much scientific evidence to indicate that micronutrients (vitamins and minerals) play a big role in getting pregnant – both naturally and through 12:44 assisted conception – with deficiencies having significant effects on fertility for both men and women. It is for this reason I wrote my latest recipe book Eat Yourself Pregnant with fertility expert Zita West.

Here are some of the top nutrients you and your partner need to give you the best chance of conceiving a healthy baby.

Divorce – Separation – Family Breakdown “When a relationship breaks down – It doesn’t just affect you, it affects everybody around you”

Berkshire Family Mediation works with families who want to reach an agreement with their ex-partner about:

• Mediation is quicker and cheaper than going to court • Legal Aid is still available for Mediation • We have Fixed Fees for legal services • Consultation with children

• The family home • The finances • Child support and maintenance • Listening to what Children have to say

To arrange an informal and confidential appointment with our Family Mediator call

0118 957 1159

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Most of us will be aware of the role of folic acid in preventing spina bifida in your baby, so it is essential that you get plenty both before and during pregnancy. However folic acid together with other B vitamins (especially B12 and B6) are also vital for the production of genetic materials DNA and RNA, not only of the egg but also the sperm. They are also involved in helping to lower a compound called homocysteine in our blood. Elevated levels of homocysteine have been linked to an increased risk of miscarriage.

Top Foods: For folate: leafy green vegetables, citrus, lentils, avocado, asparagus. B6: sunflower seeds, wheat germ, banana, avocado, milk, eggs.

For B12: eggs, dairy products, fish, meat and poultry

Zinc Zinc has been widely studied in terms of fertility for both men and women. It is an essential component of genetic material and a zinc deficiency can lead to reduced fertility and an increased risk of miscarriage. It is equally important for men: zinc is found in high concentrations in the sperm. Insufficient levels are linked to reduced sperm count.

Top Foods: pumpkin seeds, lean meat and poultry, shellfish particularly oysters

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Selenium is an important antioxidant that helps to protect your body from damaging chemicals known as free radicals. It is therefore helpful for protecting the egg and also important for sperm formation. Blood selenium levels have been found to be lower in men with low sperm counts.

Top Foods: brazil nuts, oysters, fish, sunflower seeds, pork

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While the genetic content of your baby’s DNA is fixed at the moment of egg and sperm fusion, its development and growth depends on particular genes being activated and amplified or suppressed at key points during pregnancy.

The relatively new science of epigenetics considers what the mechanism is for this control. It appears that chemical marks are laid down on the DNA that affect how cells copy themselves in turning genes on or off by allowing or preventing the gene from making proteins necessary for the process. These epigenetic marks are influenced by the environment of the developing baby and will not only have effects into its own life after birth, but can even carry forward in its genetic makeup to following generations.

So what you do and eat before and during pregnancy could have far reaching effects for your unborn family. Having the right nutrients at the right time is critical.

Vitamin C Vitamin C is also an antioxidant, and studies show that vitamin C enhances sperm quality, protecting sperm and the DNA within it from damage. It may also improve motility of the sperm by preventing them from clumping together Top Foods: citrus fruits, leafy green vegetables, kiwi fruit, red pepper

Beta-Carotene and Vitamin A Beta-carotene is the vegetable precursor to Vitamin A and safe during pregnancy. Beta-carotene is a powerful antioxidant, which helps to protect egg and sperm DNA from damage, which can affect the quality of both the egg, and sperm. Vitamin A is a vital nutrient for the production of healthy eggs and mucosal tissue. High doses in supplement form are not recommended during pregnancy.

Top foods: sweet potato, butternut squash, yellow fruits and vegetables, milk and dairy products, green leaf vegetables, fish, eggs

Iron Women in particular can be prone to low iron and anaemia especially if they experience heavy periods. Low levels may increase the risk of miscarriage.

Top Foods: meat, fish, eggs, green leafy vegetables, broccoli, dried fruit

Omega 3 Fatty Acids

Iodine

These essential fats have a profound effect on healthy hormone functioning and lowering inflammation in the body. If you have been following a low fat diet or avoid fish it is likely your diet will contain insufficient levels. It is also harder to obtain enough of the active components known as DHA and EPA if you are following a vegetarian diet since oily fish is the best source. For men essential fatty acid supplementation is crucial because the semen is rich in prostaglandins, which are produced from these fats. Sperm quality can be improved by having optimum levels of these fats.

Top Foods: oily fish (salmon, sardines, mackerel, herring, anchovies, kippers), flaxseed and chia seeds, walnuts, leafy green vegetables, tofu

Iodine is essential for the production of thyroid hormones and thus important for a women’s hormonal cycle control as well as for the development of the foetus.

Top Foods: sea vegetables, fish and shellfish, eggs

Vitamin E Vitamin E is another powerful antioxidant and has been shown to support fertility in men and women. It may be particularly important for ovulation and healthy sperm.

Top foods: eggs, leafy green vegetables, nuts and seeds, wheat germ, cold-pressed oils

Vitamin D Vitamin D is the workhorse of the immune system. It also supports healthy blood sugar balance and bone health. As the main source is sunlight the majority of people are low in this vitamin for most of the year. Low vitamin D deficiency is significant for male fertility, as it affects the motility of the sperm the sperm nucleus. It may also be associated with lower libido. As it is a fat soluble vitamin it is best to get your levels checked before supplementing. This can be done via your GP or through a home spot test kit (www.christinebailey.co.uk) Top Foods: oily fish, eggs, mushrooms Further information and healthy recipes to support fertility and a healthy pregnancy can be found in Eat Yourself Pregnant by Zita West and Christine Bailey (Nourish Books) www.christinebailey.co.uk

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Bumps & Babes

Help for new parents Life can change dramatically when you have a baby and it’s good to know there is support available if you need it. If you are looking for help with finances or just a friendly chat, read on.

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The NCT (National Childbirth Trust) is the largest parent’s charity in the UK and local branches offer lots of support for parents. Reading Branch currently has over 400 member families and reaches out to them in numerous ways - one of the most important being through the local Neighbourhood Contact scheme.

They told us: “We understand that in the first weeks of welcoming your baby at home, you may not always feel comfortable in going to our various weekly events such as Bumps and Babies or the New Parents Group. We have therefore re-launched our Neighbourhood Contact scheme, and have a brand new team eager to help out.

“Your Neighbourhood contact is a volunteer who remains available to you for additional support and whose key aim is to put you in contact with other new parents in the neighbourhood and to let you know what is going on locally.

“If you are a new NCT member, you should be contacted directly but non-members can email ReadingCoordinator.

NeighbourhoodContact@nct.org. uk for more information, you don't have to be a member to benefit from the NCT in Berkshire.”

Other local NCT branches include Wokingham, Henley & Twyford, Bracknell, Crowthorne & Sandhurst and Newbury. Visit www.nct.org. uk/branches and type in your postcode to find your nearest.

Free financial advice Having a baby can be a costly business so it’s important to know what benefits are available to you during pregnancy and beyond. The government-backed Money Advice Service has information on all the financial support available to parents and

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Local support from the NCT

their families during one of the most important stages of life.

From maternity pay and free prescriptions through to child benefit and working tax credit, you can find out which benefits you are eligible for and how to apply. Take a look at www.moneyadviceservice.org. uk/en/categories/having-a-baby to find out more.

Helping you towards a positive birth The Positive Birth Movement has grown rapidly since it was set up just 2 years ago and now boasts over 150 groups in the UK. Positive Birth Groups are free to attend. They offer a warm and welcoming place for all pregnant women to share experiences, thoughts and feelings about childbirth, to consider what they really want from the experience, learn about rights and choices, and challenge any fears.

Classes are run by birth professionals such as midwives and doulas or by women who are simply passionate about birth as a positive experience – and they usually offer tea and cake! There are several Berkshire groups, so go to www. positivebirthmovement.org to learn more and find one near you.

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Can reflexology help to soothe babies?

Sometimes it is easy to work out why babies are crying, for example hunger, a dirty nappy, wind or because they are tired, however sometimes there appears to be no apparent reason and nothing seems to soothe them. But an unpublished study from Denmark suggests that some simple reflexology moves on the feet of your baby may help reduce those screaming fits.

There may be times of the day when your baby may seem to cry a lot and can’t be comforted. Early evening is the most common time for this to happen and this can be hard for you as it’s often the time when you’re most tired and least able to cope. Excessive crying in an otherwise healthy baby is traditionally called colic which is relatively common in the first few months of your baby’s life.

However, it is important if your baby is crying for long periods that you see your doctor or health visitor to rule out any health problems such as milk intolerance or allergies.

If your baby suffers from periods of unexplained crying, the evidence now suggests that the sooner a parent or carer responds to a crying baby the sooner it will stop. Picking a baby up and placing it on your shoulder may be enough to comfort your baby but sometimes it’s not.

The Danish study was looking at the effects of reflexology on screaming fits for babies aged between 4 and 13 weeks. Each baby received four reflexology sessions over two weeks, and reflexology proved to be significantly superior to traditional medical treatments such as colic drops. Nearly half of the babies

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All babies cry, and some cry a lot; and this can be distressing and on occasions frustrating for all concerned. Reflexologist and Maternity specialist Sally Earlam explains how reflexology can help.

having reflexology reduced their crying to just half an hour a day.

What is reflexology?

Reflexology is a non-invasive and relaxing complementary therapy that aims to optimise both physical and emotional health. It works by massaging and stimulating specific points (usually on the feet but sometimes on the hands, face and ears) called reflex points. These points are believed to correspond to different parts of the body.

Reflexology to soothe crying babies There are a few simple moves that you can try on your baby, try and do

these moves for 5 minutes every day when your baby is calm. Reflexology for babies uses massage strokes over areas of the feet and only requires gentle pressure; lie the baby down, face up, make this a fun time with lots of smiles, or you could even sing nursery rhymes to your baby as you work on their feet.

Work on one foot at a time, use one hand to hold each foot, one at a time and the other one to make the following actions: 1. On the bottom of each foot use your thumb to make circular movements, working in a clockwise direction in the middle of foot – this mimics the direction the digestive system works in the body.

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2. Repeat the same move over the heel area 3. Use your thumb to gently push up from the base of each toe, up to the very tops of the toe.

4. Place your thumb in the centre of the foot and gently press in and hold for about 10 seconds.

These moves can also be carried out in the same manner on the hands.

During a screaming fit, try picking your baby up and placing on your shoulder, use one hand to support the baby and the other hand to perform the reflexology moves described on both hands and feet.

Having a newborn baby also can take its toll on you as a parent, so why not try some reflexology yourself; it is particularly beneficial in giving you ‘me time’ after the birth of your baby and can offer many benefits to you, aiming to optimise your health, aid relaxation, de-stress and improve the quality of sleep in post-natal women.

Where can I find out more about reflexology?

The Association of Reflexologists has an excellent website full of useful information, including a ‘find a reflexologist’ service, where you can put in your postcode and find a well-trained and insured reflexologist local to you. There are also interactive foot and hand maps and videos of real client’s experiences. To find out more visit www.aor.org.uk

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New Year, New You

Find your dream job in 2015 Are you a stay-at-home mum who’s looking to return to work but unsure what new path to take? Perhaps you’re a teacher who’s always dreamed of being a landscape gardener, or a lawyer who’s disillusioned with the legal world?

Whatever your background Fiona Clark, from Inspired Mums career and confidence coaching, gives her top tips on how to find a new career direction.

As a career and confidence coach, I’ve worked with hundreds of mums to help them change career and find work they love. So many of my clients come to me because they feel stuck in a rut, unsure of what steps to take to find work that fulfills and inspires them.

Some people secretly know what they want to do – but haven’t plucked up the courage to actually go for it. Others, however, haven’t got a clue – they just know they don’t want to do their current job or what they’ve done in the past. I always encourage mums to start from the point of ‘who am I and what do I want’. It’s essential to work out your career motivators, what skills you love using and the lifestyle choices you want to make.

If you have been out of the workplace for a while, knee-deep in nappies, it’s all too easy to lose sight of what skills you have to offer. In reality being a mum allows you to develop and acquire a wide range of new skills. Picture a normal day and I bet it involves highly developed organisational skills, endless patience and the ability to multi-task. One of the most important PAGE 28

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factors in finding your dream job is being clear on what you are naturally good at.

Rediscover your natural skills It’s easy to undervalue something when it comes easily to you but you need to start seeing them as skills to be proud of and focus on how this can help you find your dream job.

Take a moment to think about all your activities in a typical week – whether it’s with your family, when you help at school or take part in sport – and write down all the skills you use doing them. Next, list the skills you’ve used in previous jobs and life situations.

Now choose five core skills you enjoy using most and would like to use in your future career.

It’s crucial to identify these so you’re playing to your strengths and can enjoy work. Finally, think about how those skills can be used in different working environments – for example, can your project management skills be used to set up a consulting business helping others with big projects?

Boost your confidence Once you’ve identified your natural strengths, you should notice an immediate improvement in your confidence levels. Your inner gremlin will no longer be telling you ‘my skills are out of date’, or ‘my career break will put people off employing me’.

However if, at any point, any feelings of self-doubt return, here’s how to turbo-boost your confidence:

• Write down your inner thoughts – both positive and negative. You’ll soon realise whether you’re being kind or too harsh to yourself.

• Interrupt yourself every time you hear a negative statement in your head. Do something physical such as shaking your hands (to shake it off) or touching your head.

• Flip it. Replace any negative statement with a positive thought. Turn ‘I haven’t got the experience’ into ‘I have many relevant skills that will make me successful in that job’.

• Don’t just say it, believe your positive statement. Draw up a list of all the evidence that backs it up, for example, ‘I have developed budgeting and negotiating skills during my years as a stay-at-home mum.’

• Repeat it. Recite the new belief statement over and over to yourself and retrain your brain to believe it.

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New Year, New You Once these foundation building blocks are done, it’s time to do the ‘career brainstorm’, see box on right. This is where some clients panic and ask me ‘how do I come up with new ideas for my career?’

For situations like this, I always recommend using lots of different resources to stimulate your thoughts and generate new career ideas.

Here are my top tips on making the most of the resources available to you: • Attend industry events. If you’re attracted to a certain type of industry then attend relevant industry events, seminars, trade fairs or workshops run by people in this field.

It’ll not only provide a great networking opportunity, but will help inform you of the type of work they do and the roles that may be available.

• Read publications. Invest in trade magazines or publications that relate to the type of world you may like to work in. The articles themselves will be thought-provoking and informative and who knows – your next job might even be advertised in the magazine.

• Keep in touch with your network.

Ever thought someone in your network has a fascinating job or works in a great company? Now’s the time to invite them for a coffee and ask them questions about exactly what they do, the skills needed and how they got their job. Don’t just limit yourself to your immediate contacts, ask

Career brainstorm questions Want to do your own brainstorm?

Here are some thought-provoking questions to get you going… friends of friends and ex-colleagues who can put you in touch with relevant people.

• Keep connecting with LinkedIn. This particular social media tool is invaluable to help you find your next job creatively. So harness the power of LinkedIn – whether it’s by typing in key words to bring up interesting job adverts or researching companies you’re interested in. You can then see what types of roles people who work in those businesses do. By following these companies and joining discussion groups you will gain a clearer understanding of exactly what they do, their culture and the type of people that work there.

Good luck with this exciting new stage of your career and remember George Eliot’s inspiring words, ‘It’s never too late to be what you might have been.’

Fiona Clark is a qualified confidence and career coach who founded Inspired Mums to inspire women to reach their full potential at work. Contact fiona@inspiredmums.co.uk, tel. 07789 597209 or visit www inspiredmums.co.uk to discuss any of your career and confidence coaching needs.

Download Fiona’s FREE ebook For mums stuck in a career rut: 8 steps to finding work you love – it’s packed with tips, exercises and inspiring case studies to get you out of your rut and on the way to your new career.

• What did you want to be or do when you were younger? What attracted you to it?

• What would you do if you won the Lottery and could choose what to be or do?

• What hobbies/interests do you have or would take up if you had more time?

• What kinds of roles have attracted you on paper, even though you’ve never applied for them?

• Who in your network has a job that fascinates you?

What is that role?

• If you could try someone else’s job for a day, what job would you choose?

• What industry or organisation would you love to work in? In an ideal world, what would you like to do for them?

• What type of people do you want to be interacting with or helping?

• When you think about your favourite days in previous roles, what clues does that give to your future career?

Remember all the normal brainstorming rules apply – no idea is a bad idea; write it down however vague; and do NOT judge any of the ideas, that can come later.

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Family Holidays

Quirky places to stay in Britain A British holiday can be just as much fun as a holiday abroad. Travel expert Tabitha Symonds who runs the website www.oneoffplaces.co.uk, which features unusual places to stay across the world, has come up with five great properties.

Eco Living Get away from it all and spend some time in a two bedroom eco-house made of straw bales and sheep wool in a peaceful corner of East Yorkshire. It has all the necessary kit for young children. The Straw Cottage at Village Farm, Brind is 3 miles from Howden, an attractive market town with great charm and warm hospitality.

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p Tree Living Why not explore life up high and stay in this beautiful two bedroom Treehouse in Somerset, which has an octagonal master bedroom and living room? It’s super child friendly (they’ve got all the kit) and there is masses to do in the surrounding area including a safe enclosed garden on site, some farm animals and a hot tub!

Somerset is a fantastic location for a holiday and it has heaps of attractions for people of all ages. The Treehouse is a 15 minute drive from Taunton and gives easy access to the Quantock Hills, Exmoor and The Blackdown Hills.

This four bedroom converted train carriage is right on the seafront in Selsey, Sussex and sleeps eight comfortably. Toys and board games are also provided. There is a fenced garden and the beach on your doorstep. Selsey is the most southerly point of West Sussex, about six miles south of Chichester. There is plenty to do here, from fishing, diving, golfing, cycling and boat tripping, to visiting the lifeboat station or the Pagham Nature Reserve.

p Luxury Stay p Retro Camping Why not try an Airstream caravan holiday in Suffolk? It sleeps up to five – and is great fun for children. You can enjoy all the good bits of camping without any of the hassle. It’s a real slice of vintage Americana in Suffolk! This stunning airstream caravan site has made its home in Saxmundham, near the Suffolk Coast. The Airstreams are all individually designed and have been lovingly restored by the owners. The tree-lined site is completely surrounded by farmland and its only seven miles to the coast.

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This extraordinary conversion of a church is now a sleek and contemporary five bedroom house. It’s well equipped for children with a pool table, toys and games, etc. It has a beautiful Cedar clad balcony, vaulted ceiling, opaque glass floor and beautiful surroundings. The house occupies an elevated position overlooking the Tweed Valley and the Cheviot Hills, in the heart of the Scottish Borders, just an hour from Edinburgh.

Visit www.oneoffplaces.co.uk to discover over 1000 unique holiday properties, glampsites and quirky places to stay around the world.

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Family Holidays

Go somewhere new this year Hannah August, a travel professional and local Windsor mum from Move Mountains, comes up with some unusual holidays for us to dream about this year.

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The long journey to reach New Zealand may put some families off but once reached this wonderful destination is worth the air miles. The Kiwis are renowned for their indulgence of outdoor activities but there are plenty more less heart-pumping activities for all the family to enjoy – from swimming with dolphins and whale-watching kayak tours to exploring caves filled with glow worms and canoeing.

There’s also really ‘cool’ geology going on here with fascinating geysers, lovely relaxing hot springs and bubbling mud pools. And if your children are into volcanoes, look no further. The varied landscapes were used to fantastic effect in the Lord Of The Rings trilogy and enthusiasts have plenty of opportunities to revisit the scenes of the filming.

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South Africa is a brilliant destination for a family holiday. The Cape makes a good first port of call – starting an easy self-drive route from the vibrant metropolis of Cape Town, through the winelands and on along the Garden route to the Eastern Cape will give your family the perfect introduction to Africa.

There’s no real substitute to your child’s excitement as they first lay their eyes on that favourite wild animal in its own environment and South Africa’s various malaria-free game reserves make this all the more possible.

Imagine visiting penguins at Boulders Beach one day and diving with sharks at Gaansbai the next, before heading on to spot your first rhino…

Adrenaline-seeking families won’t be disappointed either – there’s a vast array of activities and excursions to choose from and because we’re on the same time zone there’s no real jet lag to worry about either.

Morocco

A mere three to four hour flight will deliver you to the most diverse country you can imagine, so close and yet a world away. Marrakech is the natural starting point to introduce your children to this cultural extravaganza from the mischievous monkeys and the snake charmers on Jemaa el-Fna to the vibrant souks with all their endless shopping opportunities. Within easy reach of Marrakech are the stunning Atlas Mountains – perfect for trekking in the valleys and soaking up a bit of mountain life.

This amazing country offers ample opportunity for families with children of all ages to do activities together and experience a totally different culture. The trick is to avoid the baking heat of summer and make the most of those very pleasant temperatures in late winter, spring and autumn – ideal for half terms. Morocco guarantees a full battery re-charge with tales to talk about for years to come.

Move Mountains will be more than happy to organise your family holiday to these or various alternative destinations. Call 01753 463400 or visit www.movemountainstravel.com

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