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Editor We have our party hats on at Families magazine this month as this issue marks our 10th birthday at the Solent East edition!

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In her first term as Principal of Fareham Stagecoach, Vanessa Watkins is looking forward to creating a friendly environment where students can have a fun and enjoyable experience, feeling welcomed and valued.

With an amazing experienced team of teachers that nurtures and encourages, their ongoing goal is to support children on their journey as they develop a set of skills that not only helps them to perform to their best ability, but to equip them for the rest of their lives, while providing lifelong memories and friendships. ‘’We have some exciting times ahead this term.’’ Says Vanessa. ‘’We are performing ‘Starlight Express’ and our Troupe are performing at Her Majesty’s Theatre in November with their version of ‘Annie’.

There’s never a dull moment!’’

Get your thinking caps on -The UK’s premier brain tumour awareness event will be back on Thursday 24th March 2016.

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World’s most colourful run comes to Portsmouth

Wonderland Now Booking for 2015!

Paultons Park have opened bookings for their popular Winter Wonderland and it is already filling up fast! Inside the Christmas Wonderland children step into a festive dream world, adorable animated characters greet you at every turn as you make your way through the enchanted winter snow scene. At the end of the journey children meet Father Christmas and receive an exciting present. With new 4D Experience of the kid’s favourite - Happy Feet.

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From 10-13 September, thousands of volunteers across the country invite you to experience local history, architecture and culture. After a spectacular 20th anniversary event in 2014, which saw a record three million visitors, Heritage Open Days 2015 is set to build on the successes with new funding, original events and a host of interesting properties taking place for the first time. Heritage Open Days is now wholly supported by the National Trust, with funding from Players of People’s Postcode Lottery, enabling the four-day festival of heritage to continue to grow and develop. Join guided walks, visit secret archives, discover hidden works of art – or simply soak up the sunshine in a garden of your choice.

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Half term at Goals The Soccer Scholar Academy at Goals Portsmouth are hosting Football Half Term Camps sessions for ages 5-12 and cater for a range of abilities. They have experience in running these events and are able to tailor them to each individual.

Sessions run from 10am-3pm with drop off from 9.15am and Goals can provide a hot lunch. For more info please call the centre on 0238010200 or the SSA on 07889196834

Run or Dye, the world’s most colourful 5km will be coming to Portsmouth on Sunday 20th September for a colourfilled run in the stunning grounds of Stansted Park. This multi-coloured event invites friends and families of all ages and fitness abilities to take part, inspired by the ancient Hindu festival of Holi, also known as the ‘Festival of Colours’.

Visit runordye.co.uk for registration.

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Been there, done that!

Ten mistakes that parents make when they’re new to school life

By Liat Hughes-Joshi

Mums and dads of older children share their top tips on what they would have told themselves when they were new to the school run.

Complaining to the teacher based on what your child told you happened…only it didn’t…

You take what your child has said as gospel, march into see the teacher, only to fall flat on your (red with embarrassment) face when you discover your little one has got completely the wrong end of the stick. Even the most switched on, truthful child can mishear or misunderstand sometimes.

Stay open-minded and communicate to the teacher that you appreciate what you’ve been told might not be what actually occurred!

Sweating the small stuff An interest in how your child is doing is healthy but getting overly-wrapped up with the minutiae of reading levels is less so. Who could tackle the hardest spellings at the age of five will not go on their CV, after all.

As Emma, mum to Jamie, 12, and Lucy, 9, puts it “I realise now that who was sitting on which table or reading which books wasn’t anywhere near as important as I thought it was then.

If your child is progressing and enjoying school, try not to worry.”

Getting embroiled in school-gate competitiveness Engaging with ‘Competitive Mum’ (there’s one in every class…) is a lose-lose situation. If your child is ahead of hers, she’ll hate you for it. If hers has one up on yours, you’ll end up inwardly fuming at her smugness. Do not participate in her FBI-style interrogations about whether your child has done grade 42 piano or is taking their platinum swimming badge yet.

If all else fails, adopt a vacant look and mutter “the reading scheme – don’t understand it”, or change the subject quickly – the weather, last night’s Eastenders, anything but school.

Freaking out about friendship fall-outs Reception children switch friends quicker than you can ask ‘who’s your best buddy?’ It’s completely normal and bust-ups are quickly forgotten. Provide a shoulder to cry on and offer

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reassuring advice. You could also arrange playdates with other classmates to build bonds.

Cath, recalls how daughter Ava, 7, fell out with her best friend: ‘I was ready to storm around to her house. Then I realised they change best friends every day. It wasn’t a big deal for her. “

Tackling other parents about problems Some little horror has been merciless to your child and your protective instincts are kicking in. But do not head over to give the other mum what for. She could have a different version of events and you’re unlikely to change her mind about who said or did what to whom. There’s also scope for a parental fall-out that will endure long after the kids make up. Cue an awkward few years at the school gate…

If the situation’s serious, raise it with the teacher and let them sort things out.

Losing sight of the fact the teacher has 29 other pupils to look after At ‘big school’, you aren’t going to be able to have the daily chat with staff you might have been used to at nursery or with a childminder. There could be 30 children in the class - if every parent asked for that ‘quick five minute catch up’ on a daily basis, ‘Miss’ would be there for 2.5 hours.

Sangeeta, mum to Maya, 6, says: “there’s an element of ‘no news is good news’. If they’re struggling or misbehaving, the teacher will tell you. You get used to not knowing so much about what they do.”

Expecting your child to be chatty and delighted to see you at 3pm Even little ones who were fine with full-time nursery can have the stuffing knocked out of them by starting school. With so much to learn, by home time many reception kids (and teachers!) are exhausted.

Alison, mum of Jack, 7, advises: “I wanted to catch up with him but he used to be so grouchy. Don’t sign up for any afterschool activities initially. Lots of early nights helped, too. Oh, and always have a snack waiting for them – he still comes out starving every day”.

Not teaching the basics Ask a reception teacher what they would like their new charges to be able to do and it probably won’t be about letters or counting. What they would like is for your child to be able to dress and undress for PE, use the loo independently and maybe recognise their name on their coat peg/ belongings.

Not naming absolutely everything of importance!

There’s a black hole in every primary school into which children’s belongings fall, never to be seen again. If you want to maximise chances of getting lost items back, add their name to everything. And be very wary when your child asks if they can take their favourite teddy/ toy into show the other children, as there’s a chance it will never be seen again.

Liat Hughes Joshi is a parenting journalist and the author of four books including 'New Old-fashioned Parenting' and '‎How to Unplug Your Child' (both published by Summersdale) and Raising Children: The Primary Years (Pearson).

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Open Day Events If you are considering Private School now or in the future, visiting during an Open Day is the best way to experience what each school can offer your child. Here some of our local schools tell us what we can expect, with details of their upcoming events.

Highfield & Brookham Schools Liphook, Hampshire, GU30 7LQ Tel: 01428 728000 Highfield & Brookham Schools are charming country Prep and Pre Prep boarding and day schools set in sumptuous 175 acre grounds on the Hampshire/Surrey/Sussex borders.

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Children at St John’s College thrive from when they join us in Early Years to when they leave us at Sixth Form. As a relatively small school we get to know our students well. We work with them throughout their Junior and Senior years to ensure they reach their own personal potential, whether that’s in the classroom, the sporting field, on the stage – or otherwise.

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Families Solent East celebrates 10 years!

We take a look back over the last 10 years at what’s been happening in the local area and at Families...

We cover: Bedhampton, Catherington, Clanfield, Cosham, Cowplain, Denmead, Havant, Hayling Island, Horndean, Lee-On-Solent, Locks Heath, Paulsgrove, Drayton, Emsworth, Fareham, Farlington, Gosport, Southwick, Stubbington, Titchfield, Portchester, Portsmouth, Rowland’s Warsash, Waterlooville, Westbourne, Castle, Southsea, and Wickham

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This issue marks our 10th birthday at Families Solent East magazine. Not only that, but 2015 sees in 25 years of Families Magazines Ltd overall.

The very first Families Magazine edition was launched in South West London in 1990 - it was a cut and paste affair in black and white — meaning scissors and glue, not copy and paste!

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The ever popular Peppa Pig world opens at Paultons Park!

In this issue we also welcome a new member to the families team - Sharon - who lives in Rowlands Castle with daughter Bethan.

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A week of commemorations here in Portsmouth for the 70th Anniversary of D-Day, remembering those who gave their lives with a weekend of parades, fireworks, Red Arrows and displays, topped off with a 1940’s concert of music and dancing and a fireworks finale. Families magazine has a bit of a makeover and Dinosaurs arrive at Marwell Zoo for the summer!

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Dyslexia

Dyscalculia

Dyslexia is the most well known and is any difficulty with reading. Of course, everyone finds reading difficult to some extent at first, so really it is all about degree. Many children will have some problems with ‘acquiring language at the word level’ as it is defined.

They may have poor spelling or write their letters back to front. Most children overcome this quickly, but some children get stuck and find it difficult to make progress.

Summary: Problems reading, writing, spelling and/or speaking.

Much more widely recognized than it used to be is Dyscalculia, which is a kind of ‘number blindness’ or difficulty with numbers. Some children just seem to find it hard to memorise number facts (2+2 =4) or have terrible problems with money or time. They may copy down numbers incorrectly when answering questions, and can’t seem to see patterns that might be obvious to others.

Summary: Difficulty with math problems, understanding time, using money.

Dysgraphia Not to be confused with this is Dysgraphia which is problems with writing. This could be a broad range of problems with everything from handwriting and forming letters, to organising and making sentences when writing.

Summary: Difficulty with writing, handwriting, Spelling and organising ideas.

Dyspraxia (Sensory Integration Disorder) If your child tends to fall over, have trouble balancing or buttoning a shirt and other practical skills, this may be described as Dyspraxia. This may also lead to problems with holding a pencil or neat handwriting, but it is a more global problem with how the brain processes and coordinates the body.

Summary: Difficulty with fine motor skills, hand–eye coordination, balance, manual dexterity.

Dysphasia/Aphasia Dysphasia or aphasia is difficulty with the spoken language. How we convey information through language is very complicated, but some children find it hard to tell a story or understand directions and instructions. These children may not be able to find the right word and won’t be able to chat fluently.

Summary: Problems understanding spoken language, poor reading comprehension.

The good news about all these issues is that people who study the brain now believe that it is much more ‘plastic’ or able to change than they previously thought. The brain can learn to overcome some difficulties with the right inputs.

Therefore it is great to identify issues early and start helping your child to overcome them as soon as possible.

Learning difficulties, and their accompanying academic challenges, can lead to low self-esteem, isolation, and behaviour problems, but they don’t have to. You can counter these things by creating a strong support system for children with learning difficulties and helping them learn to express themselves, deal with frustration, and work through challenges.

With thanks to Howard Jones of Kip McGrath Portsmouth for providing us with this article. Kip McGrath Education Centre sees children at many different points in their education. They offer a free assessment for tuition in Maths and English. Tel: 02392 755923 or email portsmouth@kip-mcgrath.com

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Dark Nights

what to say when your child claims 'I'm scared' at bedtime

By Kathryn Mewes I am sure you remember as a child the ‘delay tactics’ used to prevent bedtime. Times have changed but children haven’t.

They all push their boundaries and often the word ‘scared’ causes a strong reaction from a parent. The more you react the more the word ‘scared’ is used.

The dark is a baby’s favourite place and this doesn’t change as children get older.

Unfortunately sometimes we make the mistake. We are the ones that plant the seed in the child’s head.

We innocently make statements such as: “Don’t worry, I am here.”

“I will leave the landing light on and then you will be OK.” “It is OK the dark won’t hurt you.”

“There is nothing to be scared of.”

By doing this we are flagging up the possibility for concern. This alarms the child and before you know it they are saying: “I am scared, you need to leave the light on!”, “Don’t go, I need you here.”

What is the best approach?

Many children reach the stage of wanting to ‘change up’ the bedtime routine by demanding more stories or the light on, the door open, a drink, a snack – believe me I have heard them all!

have a chat in the pitch dark.

It is best to talk through the bedtime routine with your child once they are aged 18 months or older.

Talk while they’re in the bath “Now, after bath time we are going to stay upstairs. We are going into your bedroom to have 2 stories.

After story time we are going to have a big hug and then I will say ‘See you at breakfast time’. The light will be turned off and I will close the door as I leave.”

To children aged 3 and older let them know: ‘The only time children grow is when they are asleep.’

‘If there is light in your bedroom your brain tells your body it is daytime and then it is difficult to fall to sleep.’

‘The moment the room is dark your body relaxes, falls to sleep and starts to grow!’

It is so important to remain consistent. The moment you start letting your child dictate the bedtime routine things can start to go terribly wrong.

When they claim they are ‘Scared of the dark’ Sit in the room during the early evening with your child. They lay on their bed, you sit on the floor and

Talk about day trips gone by or family holiday memories. This gives them something to think about when bedtime comes around.

Explain to them about how our body can relax far easier in the dark.

State the fact that the bedroom is the same whether in darkness or light. Nothing changes when the light turns off.

Say to them “I love the darkness, my body instantly starts to relax.”

What to say to their comments as you leave They say: “I need the light on.”

Reply promptly: “Nothing to see at bedtime. Remember, your body grows when you sleep.”

They say: “Stay with me.”

Reply: “Lay and relax and think of the day we went to the zoo.

Name all the animals in your head.

I love you very much, see you at breakfast time.”

They say: “I am scared.”

Reply: “You are in your beautiful room, your cosy bed. That is a silly word to use at bedtime. Lay and relax and think of everyone in your class. Try and say all of their names and then all the teachers names in the school. See you at breakfast time.”

The key is to keep calm and not to over complicate the situation.

When your child claims they are scared promptly reassure them We need to turn our lights off to the world – that is how we rest and grow.

For further information and advice on guiding your child to sleep at night please read the book The 3 Day Nanny

by Kathryn Mewes or go to her website to find out about her bespoke service www.bespokenanny.com

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What’s On Your guide to all the best family events this September & October

Although we aim to be as accurate as possible, the events listed in our What’s On section are compiled several weeks beforehand and may be subject to change. Please contact venues in advance to check full details.

Spot the dot for free events!

2 September

Bat and Moth Evening

Queen Elizabeth Country Park, Horndean, PO8 0QE 023 9259 5040

Join the QECP Volunteer Rangers as they look for these fabulous winged night creatures. The meeting point is at the Annexe by the main car park. 8pm.

Pirates for Beginners

Gosport Discovery Centre, High Street, PO12 1BT. 0845 603 5631

Galleries for Beginners event with a pirate theme at the Gosport Discovery Centre. Pirates arts and crafts and story-telling workshop for children aged 5 years and under. Must be accompanied by an adult. 2pm start / £1 per participating child.

4 September

Meteorites and Space Rocks Southdowns Planetarium, Kingsham Road, Chichester, PO19 8RP. 01243 774400

Earth has been bombarded with space-debris since the dawn of time. But where, exactly, does all this stuff come from? The South Downs Planetarium in Chichester explores meteorites, space rocks and impacts. For children aged 6 years and above. 7.30pm. / £6.00 for adults, or £4.00 for children under 16.

Children's Workshop Sickert’s Townscapes

Pallent House Gallery, Chichester. 01243 774 557

Practical activities designed to be fun, develop creativity and help our younger audiences explore the Gallery. Booking is essential as places are limited. For children aged 8 years and over. 10.15am - 12.15pm / £10 per child.

ROMAN

ARMY WEEK Mon 26th - Fri 30th October 10am - 4pm

Come along & join the Fishbourne Roman Army & earn a day’s pay!

Victoria Park, Portsmouth, PO1 2BG. 02392 250 267

FREE fun for all ages! Come to the Portsmouth Summer Fair for fantastic family entertainment.

11am - 5pm.

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6 September

Make a Wild Animal Home Uppark House and Garden, Petersfield, GU31 5QR 01730 825 415

Have fun making a home for a small beastie to live in over the winter. 11am - 3pm / Free event (normal admission charges apply)

Our Galaxy, The Milky Way Southdowns Planetarium, Chichester, PO19 8RP 01243 774400

Family friendly show to learn all about our spectacular Milky Way. For children aged 6 years and over. 3.30pm / £6.00 for adults, or £4.00 for children under 16.

FORT NELSON FREE MUSEUM ENTRY

HOME OF THE BIG GUNS

Portsmouth Baby Show Fareham Leisure Centre, PO16 7JU. 0776 195 0724

A show designed to showcase the wonders of parenthood and what’s on offer to enhance your family life. 10.30am - 3.30pm / Adults £1 - Kids Go Free.

Summer Fete

Purbrook Heath Road, Waterlooville, PO7 5RU 023 9225 0001

Annual Summer Fete opposite for Rowans Hospice. Something for all the family! FREE entry. Car parking. 12.30pm - 4pm.

A massive Victorian Fort to explore | Cafe 1871 | Over 350 big guns on display | Daily gun-firing 1pm | School holiday activities

www.royalarmouries.org

5 September

Portsmouth Summer Fair

To see your event listed on the se pages call 02393 11756 1

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What’s On 10 September

19 September

23 September

Emsworth Cookery School, Emsworth, PO10 7UD 01243 371407 / 07733 262126

Fishbourne Roman Palace, Roman Way, Chichester, PO19 3QR. 01243 785859

Goodwood Racecourse, Chichester, PO18 0PS 01243 216610

Pre-School Cookery Classes

If you have a pre-schooler who loves to get involved in the kitchen then these hands on sessions should appeal. Each cook will create their own dish which will be boxed up to take home. Session includes a snack while the food cooks. For preschool children aged from 2 - 5 years. 1pm - 2pm.

11 September

Roald Dahl and Friends

Gosport Discovery Centre, High Street, PO12 1BT. 0845 603 5631

FREE Drop-in family event in the children's area at the Gosport Discovery Centre. Suitable for children aged 4 years and over.

4pm - 6pm. / FREE but donations are appreciated.

12 September Butserfest

Queen Elizabeth Country Park, Horndean, PO8 0QE. 01730 234 185

Butserfest is an alcohol/drug-free festival. Now in its eighth year, Butserfest has grown year-onyear and now has a reputation as one of the best festivals of its kind in the country. All ages welcome! Please note there is parking available at the park Visitor Centre. Children under the age of 7 are free, all other tickets are £24.90.

13 September

The Chris and Pui Show

Ferneham Hall, Fareham, PO16 7DB. 01329 231 942

CBeebies’ favourite double act is coming to town! 2pm / £12 for Adults, £10 for Under 16's, £40 Family Ticket (4 seats).

Taste of Wickham Festival

Wickham Square, PO17 5JQ

Free craft activities for kids and the free bouncy castle will be back. 4 local chefs are ready to demonstrate their signature dishes and local musicians will be there to entertain all day. Free park and ride from Westlands Farm Shop. 10am - 4pm.

18 September

The Northern Lights

Southdowns Planetarium, Chichester, PO19 8RP

Enjoy the spectacular Northern Lights or Aurora Borealis at this family friendly show 7.30pm.

Togi’s Team – Under our Feet

Find out what is under our feet and how it got there. Discover more about the excavation side of archaeology and try some different excavation techniques for yourself. Togi’s Team is a club for budding young archaeologists aged 6-12 years.

10am - 12.30pm / £15 per session.

Happy Valley Workshop Pallent House Gallery, Chichester, PO19 1TJ 01243 774 557

Practical activities designed to be fun, develop creativity and help our younger audiences explore the Gallery. Booking is essential as places are limited. 5-8 years, children must be accompanied by a parent/carer. 10.15am 12.15pm / £10 per child.

Children’s Annual Pet Show Emsworth Community Centre, Emsworth, PO10 7DD 01243 373805

All young people up to the age of 16 years may enter their pets for the show. Non-members £1 per pet, Members FREE. 2pm for 2.30pm judging.

Talk Like a Pirate Day

Gosport Discovery Centre, High Street, PO12 1BT. 0845 603 5631

FREE Family Fun Pirate Trail activity at the Gosport Discovery Centre, Gosport. Just drop-in and pick up a trail entry form! Avast Ye landlubbers! 10am - 4pm.

19 - 20 September Talk Like a Pirate Weekend Action Stations, Portsmouth Historic Dockyard, PO1 3LJ 023 9298 6410

“’Ooh arg, this is Pirate ‘Bilge to you ‘orrible lot and I’m here to tell you, it ‘be “Talk Like a Pirate” weekend hear in Action Stations.

Children must be accompanied by an adult. FREE with a valid museum ticket 10am – 5.30pm.

20 September

Stars, Moon and Planets Southdowns Planetarium, Chichester, PO19 8RP 01243 774400

A breath-taking tour of the night sky. Find out more about what there is to see on clear evenings in late spring and summer.

Suitable for children aged 6 +.

3.30pm.

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Autumn Racing

These two midweek meetings offer racegoers the perfect opportunity to bring family, friends or work colleagues to sample Goodwood’s delights.

Escape the office for a truly memorable trip to the world’s most beautiful racecourse.

Tickets from £10 with free admission for children.

25 September

The Cabin Club

National Museum Royal Navy Portsmouth Historic Dockyard, PO1 3LJ. 023 92988622

Join in with Naval-themed craft, songs, stories, soft play and water play in the Cabin family area, in the Victory Gallery. Free, Drop in activity for under 5s and their accompanying adults, no ticket required. 1pm - 2pm.

Mini Explorers Cabin Club

National Museum Royal Navy Portsmouth, Portsmouth Historic Dockyard, PO1 3LJ 023 9298 8622 Join in 10:30am - 12 noon for Naval-themed craft, songs, stories, soft play and water play in the Cabin family area, in the Victory Gallery. Free, drop in activity for toddlers and their accompanying adults.

26 September

Alien Antics Story Time

Gosport Discovery Centre, High Street, PO12 1BT 0845 603 5631 Enjoy a captivating alien storytelling workshop for children.

When aliens fly down to Earth, they don't just come to meet YOU... 11am - 12noon.

Paper Decorations

Make & The Craft Kitchen, Fratton, Portsmouth, PO1 5AA 02392 822 026

Arts and crafts paper decorations workshop for children aged 8 years and adults. 2-4pm / £10.

26 - 27 September

Sci-Fi and Fantasy Weekend Action Stations, Portsmouth Historic Dockyard, PO1 3LJ 023 9289 3338

A weekend dedicated to expanding your imagination with worlds old and new - featuring displays, games, costumes, droids and worlds that aren't as far from you as you once thought. 10am – 5.30pm.

27 September

The Harvest Moon and Tonight's Total Eclipse

Southdowns Planetarium, Chichester, PO19 8RP 01243 774400

Find out how to get the best out of the Total Eclipse on Monday 28th September. This show is suitable for children aged 6 years and over. 3.30pm.

Havant Scalextric Swapmeet Havant Leisure Centre, Havant, PO9 2AY. 01793 230 328

Scalextric returns to Havant, its 1957 birthplace and original place of manufacture until 1969.

10:30am / Adults £1, Under 16s Free. Email havant.scalextric@ gmail.com

Junior Cookery Classes

Emsworth Cookery School, Emsworth, PO10 7UD 01243 371407 / 07733 262126

Weekend cookery classes for younger chefs, starting with a British special to coincide with British Food Fortnight. For children aged 6-10 years old. 10 – 11.15am / £15.00.

3 October

Setting a scene Workshop Pallent House Gallery, Chichester, PO19 1TJ 01243 774 557

Be inspired by the Kenneth Rowntree exhibition depicting everyday English towns and country scenes. For children aged 8 years and over. 10.15am 12.15pm / £10 per child.

3 - 4 October

Mister Maker and The Shapes Live!

Kings Theatre, Albert Road, Portsmouth, PO5 2QJ 023 9282 8282

Join your ultimate arts and craft hero, CBeebies' Mister Maker, for his first ever live theatre tour!

Packed full of arty adventures there’ll be a big 'make' to take part in, super songs to join in with, a fabulous supporting cast, and not forgetting, The Shapes!

Yes, you'll be able to share the fun with Mister Maker's colourful all-dancing friends Circle, Square, Rectangle and Triangle too! This show is tons of arty fun for all the family! Mini Makers, get ready to make some amazing arty creations and book your tickets today! 10am and 1pm.

What’s On

Fort Nelson 4 October Lavant Street Market

Petersfield, GU32 3HH

Returning for 2015 - a busy and bustling one day market in the up and coming street in Petersfield centre. 10am - 3pm.

8 October

Hollywood Special Effects Kings Theatre, Portsmouth, PO5 2QJ. 023 9282 8282

Get closer to the action than ever before as this interactive and explosive family show takes you behind the scenes of your favourite films to discover the secrets of creating movie magic.

7pm / Ticketed event.

10 October Dino Day

Gosport Discovery Centre, High Street, PO12 1BT. 0845 603 5631 Meet the huge T-Rex Dinosaur on Dino Day. 10am - 2pm.

Paper Trail Family Day

The Spring Arts & Heritage Centre, Havant, PO9 1BS 023 9247 2700

FREE family open day. Explore the importance of paper with a series of fun, exciting, interactive events. 10am-4pm.

11 October

Season Finale

Goodwood Racecourse, Chichester, PO18 0PS 01243 216610

The Season Finale provides one final chance to experience racing at Goodwood in all its glory before the winter break.

Raise a glass in celebration as the racecourse bids farewell to 2015. Tickets from £10 with free admission for children.

12 October Toddler Tours

National Museum Royal Navy Portsmouth, PO1 3LJ.

Delving into our sensory Discovery Bag the museum is brought to life with singing, object handling and imagination.

A chance to explore the museum at your child’s pace with a different theme for each tour and play time in the Cabin area included. 11am – 12 noon.

17 October

Hurricane Boy

The Spring Arts & Heritage Centre, Havant, PO9 1BS 023 9247 2700

An imaginative tale of chaos and calm, Hurricane Boy is a delight of physical storytelling and live music. 2.30pm.

Saturday 3 & Sunday 4 October

18 October

023 9282 8282 www.kingsportsmouth.co.uk

Autumn Discovery Day

Petersfield Sustainability Centre, East Meon, GU32 1HR 01730 823 166

A free open day for all the family.

Explore the centre’s beautiful site and discover what they do to make sustainability come alive.

11am - 3pm.

The Basil Brush Show – The Full on Fox Tour 2015 Ferneham Hall, Fareham, PO16 7DB. 01329 824864

Basil has celebrated over 50 years in entertainment and The Basil Brush Show on BBC TV has been seen by millions of viewers all over the globe from 1968 to today. 11am & 2.30pm.

25 October

Junior Cookery School

Emsworth Cookery School, Emsworth, PO10 7UD 01243 371407 / 07733 262126

An Italian junior cookery class at Emsworth Cookery School in October. For children aged 6-10 years old. 10am - 11.15am / £15.

26 October

Dinosaurs and Beyond

Gosport Discovery Centre, High Street, PO12 1BT. 0845 603 5631

Discover how large meateating dinosaurs evolved into modern birds, their nearest living relatives. Examine feathers, claws, teeth, eggs and footprints in this exciting exhibition. 11am - 12.30 or 1.30 - 3pm.

26 - 31 October

Half Term with Alice

Gosport Discovery Centre, High Street, Gosport, PO12 1BT 0845 603 5631 To celebrate 150 years of Alice in Wonderland you can follow a trail around the library at Gosport Discovery Centre.

Petersfield on Monday mornings Fishbourne on Tuesday mornings Farlington on Wednesday mornings Havant on Thursday mornings Contact us for class times or view on our website Email: chichester.petersfield@monkeymusic.co.uk

Discovery starts here Please ask about our 2 Week Trial!

Our acting, singing and dance classes take your child on a journey of discovery.

They’ll love stepping into a new world and you’ll love the effect it has on their confidence and creativity.

stagecoach.co.uk/havant

0845 521 3730

stagecoach.co.uk/fareham

01489 666 323

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What’s On 29 October

31 October

Ashcroft Arts Centre, Fareham, PO16 7DX. 01329 223100

Ashcroft Arts Centre, Fareham, PO16 7DX. 01329 223100

The Big Roar

Travel back through the mists of time with a professional dance tutor and a designer to create an amazing performance in this full day workshop for children.

School Years R - 6. 9.30am 3.30pm / £18.50.

Fishbourne Roman Palace 26 - 30 October

28 October

Fishbourne Roman Palace, Chichester, PO19 3QR 01243 785859

Ashcroft Arts Centre, Fareham PO16 7DX. 01329 223 100

Roman Army Week

Get an army “tattoo”, try your hand at spear practice and earn your keep as a new recruit during Roman Army Week at Fishbourne Roman Palace this Half-Term (Mon-Fri). Sign up with the recruitment officer and learn to write your name in Latin before completing a range of tasks to “earn” a day’s pay. Activities include archery, sword practice and Roman costume. Complete the activities, and receive a certificate and a (replica) Roman coin as your first day’s pay!

27 October

Jurassic World

Ashcroft Arts Centre, Fareham, PO16 7DX. 01329 223100

Help make an amazing imaginative prehistorical landscape with its own erupting volcano. For children under 5 a parent or guardian will need to remain in the building throughout the duration. 9.30am - 3.30pm / £18.50.

Dinosaur Detectives

From the discovery of the first Ichthyosaur by Mary Anning by the shore, to the ‘cave strewn with bones’ by William Buckland, this show explores their story. They are the ‘Dinosaur Detectives’ piecing together the enormous bones. 2.30pm.

Fabulous Fossils

Ashcroft Arts Centre, Fareham, PO16 7DX, 01329 223100

Moonlit Memories Meander

Starting at Portsmouth Historic Dockyard. 023 9225 0001

A very special sponsored walk for children, accompanied by an adult, to raise money for The Rowans Hospice, Optional fancy dress theme is Superheroes!

6.30pm. Registration is £5 per child/sponsorship target of £25.

Hello Kitty Live

Portsmouth Guildhall, PO1 2AB 023 9387 0200 The World Premiere of Hello Kitty Live is touring the UK! Dance, sing and join in the fun with Kitty and her Friends.

10.30am and 2pm.

The Big Monster Draw

Help create a monster sized story board. 9.30am - 12.30pm / £2.

1 November

Fireworks at Explosion

Explosion! Museum of Naval Firepower, Gosport, PO12 4LE 023 9250 5600

Amazing explosive family firework display against the dramatic backdrop of Portsmouth Harbour with family entertainments, hands on activities and full access to the Museum. Fireworks start at 7pm.

3 November

Pop Up Flash Back

Waterlooville Library, PO7 7TD

Enter an imaginative world of memories through poetry and incredible pop-up books in this funny and heart-warming adventure of complicated families and growing up. 6pm. / £5 adults, £3 children.

Come along with your child and help them make their own dinosaur foot prints and fossils out of clay, to take home with you. All materials are included.

9.30am - 11am / £10 per child.

Shaun The Sheep

The Spring Arts & Heritage Centre, Havant, PO9 1BS 023 9247 2700

When Shaun decides to take the day off and have some fun in the Big City he gets a little more action than he bargained for.

FREE tea or coffee and biscuits during the interval! 1.45pm.

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Halloween ideas

Crafts and Decorations Trick or Treat Etiquette

By Justina Gapper

If you and your children are going trick or treating for the first time, here are a few guidelines.

What age can children start?

There’s no minimum age! Many parents enjoy dressing up and venturing out with their toddlers, whilst others take babies along in prams with older siblings.

What are the rules?

Only approach homes that have a visible “invitation” – whether it’s a pumpkin, lantern or other Halloween decorations displayed. Don’t knock if the lights are off and don’t knock more than once.

Alternatively, you may decide to knock only on doors of friends and neighbours that you have pre-warned of the visit!

Have fun with a few simple art and craft activities which will transform your home into a witch’s cavern or haunted house this Halloween. Add a lantern and some creepy treats to create the perfect setting for a spooky supper!

Halloween Lantern Create a stunning but easy-to-make Halloween lantern to decorate your garden or window. Amanda Wright from Storytelling Adventures in Richmond and Twickenham (www.bridgeac.com) tells us how.

Materials Glass jar, 2 pipe cleaners or pieces of garden wire, glue, tissue paper, patterned wallpaper or wrapping paper, scissors.

Instructions 1) Cut the patterned paper and tissue paper into strips of the same size.

2) Cut shapes into the patterned paper 3) Stick the tissue paper onto the back of the patterned paper and then stick the paper strips onto the jar.

4) Twist the two wires together into a crucifix shape. Turn the crucifix upside down so that the long end or ‘tail’ points straight up.

5) Place the horizontal wire that forms the cross of the crucifix around the rim of the jar, twisting the ends together to secure. Then bend the long’ tail’ up and over the top of the jar. Twist the 'tail' to the horizontal wire to secure the handle.

6) Place a tea light inside and your lantern is ready!

What if my children don’t like the treat?

Make sure your children are briefed to say “please” and “thank you” in addition to “trick or treat,” plus they should try to be appreciative of any treat they are given.

What’s the trick all about?

The word "trick" refers to the "threat" to perform mischief on the homeowners or their property if no treat is given.

These days it is uncommon to have raw egg splattered over your driveway by pranksters, but it’s safest not to answer the door to raucous groups of older teenagers, or if you suspect your visitors are not wellintentioned.

If you are asked for a “trick,” what should you do?

One harmless but funny idea is to get the homeowner to close their eyes and put their hand in a witch’s hat or toy cauldron filled with a gooey mess or plastic spiders, rubbery worms and insects.

Toilet roll characters!

Create mummies and bats out of toilet rolls, black paint and some bandage or toilet paper.

Get loads more craft ideas at mollymoocrafts.com

Hand print Spiders!

Create these simple handprint spiders – cut them out and hang them around the house with string. Make it a family activity to create spiders of all different sizes!

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Halloween Events 24 October - 1 November Spellbinding Staunton

26 October - 1 November The Exbury Ghost Train

Staunton Country Park, Middle Park Way, Havant

Exbury Gardens, Hampshire, SO45 1AZ. 023 8024 5750

Have lots of magical fun at the Park with creepy crafts, frightening face painting and spooky storytelling. Follow the witches and wizards trail and have a go at the Spell Scavenger Hunt. Small charge applies for some crafts and activities.

Crafty Commandos Royal Marines Museum, Southsea, PO4 9PX 023 9281 9385 Enjoy making some creepy crafts - Create your own skeleton crew mobile or decorate your own kitbag ready to pack full of treats and treasures. Suitable for all ages. FREE with a valid Museum ticket 11am – 3pm.

Halloween Festival Marwell Wildlife, Winchester, SO21 1JY 01962 777407

Design a pumpkin for carving and watch our animals explore and eat their pumpkin treats.

10am - 6pm / Normal admission prices apply.

26 - 30 October Wizards, Witches and Magical Mayhem!

Queen Elizabeth Country Park, Horndean PO8 0QE. 023 92595040

An enchanting Magical Themed Halloween experience, starting with some magical arts and crafts.

This is a 2 hour activity. Park open from 10am - 5.30pm. / £7 per child - booking is essential.

Enjoy some hair-raising and rib-tickling fun on the Exbury Ghost Train as it takes to the rails with skeletons, scarecrows and other ghoulish characters en route, Exbury dares you to experience their Halloween week ‘Phantomime’! Free goody bags will be given out as well as a new spooky trail so children can discover the Chinese Coffin Tree, the Ghost Tree and the Devil’s Walking Stick in the gardens!

Halloween Workshops Action Stations, Portsmouth Historic Dockyard, PO1 3LJ. 023 9298 6410

Calling all junior witches & wizards, come to Action Stations very own spooky activity area to decorate your own scary mask or to make your very own witch or wizard hat. 10am – 5pm / Admission prices apply.

27 – 28 October Halloween Magic School Gosport Discovery Centre, High Street, PO12 1BT. 0845 603 5631

Learn spooky secrets, mysterious magic and intriguing illusions at this 2 day magic school. 9.30am 3.30pm / Tickets £25.

27 - 30 October Creepy Crafts Petersfield Museum, St Peter’s Road, GU32 3HX 01730 260 756 Come and have fun, make new friends and create something to take home with you for Halloween! FREE entry for children. Adults - £2.

10:30am - 12:30pm.

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A day of celebrations on one of the spookiest days of the year… Samhain is one of the most important dates in the Pagan calendar as it marks the Day of the Dead, when the veils between this world and the next are at their thinnest. Normal admission rates apply for the afternoon activities / evening event is booking only at admin@ butserancientfarm.co.uk 10am to 4pm (last entry at 3pm).

28 - 30 October Half-Term workshops The Spring Arts & Heritage Centre, Havant, PO9 1BS 023 9247 2700

Ghostly Half-Term workshops for children. There’ll be a free tea or coffee for one parent per enrolled child. Children must be accompanied by an adult at all times. 10.30am - 12.30pm. / £5 per child.. For ages 5 – 12.

crafts* and face-painting*. Every child that arrives at the farm in spooky fancy dress (30th & 31st Oct only) will be allowed entry at a special rate of just £5.00 each (cannot be used in conjunction with any other offer). All this and a full schedule of hands-on farm activities. See our events page on our website for more details.

Wizard Weekend ‘Watercress Line’ The Railway Station, Alresford, SO24 9JG. 01962 733810

Watch the Watercress Line transform in to a place of magic and mischief! Walk in Harry Potter’s footsteps over the railway footbridge where he received his Hogwarts Express ticket; the famous film location from Kings Cross station that is now here at the Watercress Line!

Come dressed as a witch, wizard or Halloween spook and find out about bats, owls and all things magical! With craft activities, face painting*, Mr Wizard magic shows, witches Besom brooms* and daily shows from the FalconHigh display team.

A Spooky Night

29 October Museum by Torchlight

Stansted Park, Rowlands Castle, Havant, PO9 6DX 023 9241 2265

Royal Marines Museum, Southsea, PO4 9PX 023 92819385

Grab your torch, get dressed up and explore the museum under cover of darkness. Take part in a spooky secret mission and follow the Skeleton Crew trail.

30 – 31 October Frightful Fun at the Farm Longdown Activity Farm, Ashurst SO40 7EH. 023 8029 2837 See Silly Scott performing his Spooktacular Halloween Family Magic Show. Sat 31st October meet barn owls and lots of creepy creatures courtesy of The Creature Teachers. On both days there will be blood-curdling

Ghost trail in the Arboretum – Ghosts hiding big and small, do you think you can find them all?!

Come and enjoy a spooky night of family Halloween fun...if you dare! Can be pre-booked for one of two time slots at either 17:30 or 19:00pm / Tickets are £7 per person online/ £8 on the door | Family Tickets £30 (2+3)/ £35 on the door (under 3s FREE).

31 October Pumpkin Carving Ashcroft Arts Centre, Fareham, PO16 7DX. 01329 223100

Halloween fun for all the family.

10.00am - 12noon / £8 per child (includes materials).

Blood-curdling crafts* and frightful face painting* *Small extra charge

FRIDAY 30th OctOBER

Silly Scott and his Spooktacular Halloween Family Magic Show.

£5.00 entry for children in spooky fancy dress!** ** 30th/31st Oct only

SATURDAY 31 OctOBER st

Barn owls and lots of creeeepy creatures with

Farm open as usual throughout half term week.

Daily 10am - 5pm.

Off A35, Ashurst, New Forest T. 023 8029 2837 www.longdownfarm.co.uk

It’s A Real Hands-On Experience!

XXXXXXX For even more Halloween and Bonfire Night events please check our What’s on guide at

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OUR SUPER SCARY

HALLO SCREAM GHOST TRAIN

AT EXBURY GARDENS

Come and enjoy our rib-tickling train rides:

MON 26th OCT - SUN 1st NOV First train: 10.45am Last train: 3pm Pre-booking essential

Please call for more information: 023 8024 5750

Exbury Gardens & Steam Railway, Exbury, Southampton, Hampshire SO45 1AZ

Wizards, Witches and Magical Mayhem!

Mon 26 – Fri 30 Oct

Join us for an enchanting Halloween experience, including arts and crafts, a tractor ride to the enchanted forest and a magical story told by a professional story teller.

Booking essential for this two hour activity.

Price: £7.00 per child. ase visit To book ple .uk/shop ov .g ts an .h

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& steam railway

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Spellbinding Staunton

Sat 24 Oct to Sun 01 Nov, 10.30am – 3.30pm Have lots of magical fun at the Park with creepy crafts, frightening face painting, spooky story telling and the Spell Scavenger Hunt!

So much to do at Staunton Country Park!

• Let the kids loose in George’s Play Barn • Meet our friendly farm animals • Explore our rainforest experience

KIDS GO FREE!*

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30th - 31st OCTOBER IT’S TIME TO BOARD THE WIZARD EXPRESS!

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Hand in this voucher when you visit to receive *up to two free children with every full paying adult. Expires 01 Nov 2015 FSE02

www.hants.gov.uk/staunton www.hants.gov.uk

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