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Dear Reader, It is good to be back after such an extraordinary spring and summer! We have done our best to find as many events that are safe to attend this autumn as possible and we have put together a list of clubs and classes that are operating. As lots of parents start the search for schools this September, we have compiled a list of open days for you; many of which are virtual this year. Please do check before attending any events or classes in case of any local lockdowns and stay safe. @familiesCambMag

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News & views

Annual festival of people, places and community is open for registrations England’s largest festival of history and culture will return in September and this year, support from players of People’s Postcode Lottery means as well as experiencing local events, visitors can participate in activities much further afield and see even more hidden places.

For the first time, the Heritage Open Days (HODs) programme will comprise a mix of in-person and digital events; communities will be able to celebrate the stories of the places and spaces that are important to them while staying safe and adhering to current social

distancing measures.

Every year around 50,000 volunteers give their time and effort to help create the largest cultural grassroots festival in the country.

Last year 5,700 events were organised which welcomed more than 2.4 million visitors. This autumn, some venues and outdoor spaces will open for pre-booked events and visits by small groups, while others will offer virtual tours and digital experiences. www.heritageopendays.org.uk 11th – 20th September 2020

Shop with Confidence

With Mothercare gone from the high street and online (once the household name for everything baby, toddler and maternity) where will we go now? Boots could be the new place to shop with everything from nappies and toys to changing bags and nursing bras. We have selected just a couple of things available: Nuby Penguin Inflatable Seat £26.99, Boots This easily inflatable floor seat is perfect for travel and comes in a plush fabric with stimulating toys, a mirror on a detachable tray and a cloud squeaky toy to encourage babies to play and learn. Nuby’s Super comfy, inflatable seat will help teach your baby to sit upright as well as keeping them safely cushioned with the padded arms and head rest. Machine washable too.

Babymel Gabby Backpack Changing Bag - Dusty Pink £55, Boots Parent in style with this new Gabby backpack. Spacious, durable, and most of all - stylish. With a wide and secure zipped closure for worry free days out.

Key Features • Water resistant outer material and lining • Backpack straps with integrated stroller straps • Wide opening with zipped closure for security • Six internal and external pockets for all your essentials • Machine washable padded changing mat • Insulated bottle holder with drawstring closure

Creation of Imaginary Worlds More Common

Children are far more likely to create imaginary worlds than previously believed, according to new research.

A University of Oregon study found 17% of children ages 8 to 12 invented imaginary worlds in detail, with many sharing their creations with friends who added complexity.

While varying widely in content, all imaginary worlds included details about an environment (e.g. forests, lakes, caves), the inhabitants (e.g. bandits, goblins, animals) and mystical components, such as a fountain that sprayed honey.

The author, Professor Marjorie Taylor,says: “We can be really impressed by the creativity of children left to their own devices. It is important to give them some time free of a schedule because they will come up with things that they really enjoy and will share with others."

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BELIEVE IT OR NOT: LOCKDOWN IMPROVED RELATIONSHIPS

You may disagree, but a study suggests that lockdown strengthened many parent’s relationships with their children.

Research by the University of Essex found that around a quarter of parents reported that their relationship with their children had improved during the government’s stay-athome policy. Less than 5% said it got worse.

The results are based on research for the Understanding Society Covid-19 survey, a nationally representative study that collected data from 5,500 parents.

Many parents who said they had closer relationships with their children had helped out with home schooling. Nearly 40% of parents who reduced their work hours to look after their children said their relationships had improved. Only 6% said their relationships had become worse.

However, fewer lone mothers reported an improvement in their relationships, and slightly more said they had become worse.

More info: www.understandingsociety.ac.uk

PETER RABBIT RETURNS

Peter Rabbit 2 is due for release on December 11th, 2020. To commemorate Beatrix Potter’s adorable animal tales, world famous luxury toy brand Steiff has designed a collection of the most beloved characters This Steiff Peter Rabbit is a classic gift for children enchanted by the mischievous character voiced by James Corden in the film Peter Rabbit 2 The Runaway, due for release in December.

Iconic German toy manufacturer Steiff created the world's first teddy bear in 1902. It is now a heritage brand collected by toy and bear enthusiasts worldwide.

Steiff toys and keepsakes are often gifted to children to mark special occasions like births, birthdays christenings and Christmas.

Steiff’s original antique bears sell for thousands at auction. Brand-new designs like this Peter Rabbit plush range are suitable for children of all ages.

All authentic Steiff pieces still have the famous button in the ear, and limited editions come with a certificate of authenticity.

Pater Rabbit £89.99, Flopsy Bunny £92.99, Benjamin Bunny £89.99, available from www.steiffteddybears.co.uk Suitable from birth and machine washable at 30 degrees

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Most Children Sleep with Mobile Phone

Children are getting mobiles at an earlier age, with most now having their own phone by 7 years of age, according to an annual survey by Childwise, a leading specialist in research with children and young people.

The survey, based on interviews with 2,200 children in the UK ages 5 to 16, shows significant changes in the role of the mobile phone in young lives.

Mobile phone ownership is up - it is now the top device for children to access online content - and the average time spent on mobiles by children ages 7 to 16 is three hours and twenty minutes per day.

Of concern, 57% of children always have the phone beside their bed and 44% feel "uncomfortable" if they are without a phone signal. 42% say they keep their phone on them at all times and never turn it off.

More info: www.childwise.co.uk

Reception Testing Delayed till 2021

The government’s plan to introduce Reception Baseline Assessment (RBA) will be delayed until September 2021 because of the disruption caused by the coronavirus pandemic.

In September 2017, the Department for Education announced that a new start-ofschool assessment for children ages 4 and 5 would be introduced as a baseline measure to track progress during primary school.

Children who start Reception in September 2021 will be the first group to take the new RBA during the first six weeks of the autumn term.

The test is due to eventually replace key stage 1 SATs in providing the baseline on which pupil progress scores are based.

The new tests have been criticised by some teachers, Head Teachers and parents, who claim it is unnecessary, will cause distress and could damage children’s future learning.

More info: www.gov.uk/guidance/receptionbaseline-assessment

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Playtime with Dad May Improve Self-control

Children whose fathers make time to play with them from a very young age may find it easier to control their behaviour and emotions as they grow up, according to new research.

The study carried out by Cambridge University and the LEGO Foundation looked at how mothers and fathers play with children ages 0 to 3 and how it affects child development.

Although there are similarities, it found that fathers tend to engage in more physical play like tickling, chasing, and piggy-back rides, which researchers claim appears to help children to learn to control their feelings.

Professor Ramchandani, one of the authors of the study, said: “Physical play creates fun, exciting situations in which children have to apply self-regulation. You might have to control your strength, learn when things have gone too far – or maybe your father steps on your toe by accident and you feel cross.”

More info: www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0273229720300307

Children’s Laureate to Remain for Further Year

Cressida Cowell’s time as Children’s Laureate will continue for an additional 12 months due to the coronavirus outbreak.

The best-selling author of the How to Train Your Dragon series took the role in July 2019 and had been due to step down next year.

However, organisers BookTrust said the “exceptional circumstances” created by the pandemic meant Cressida will serve a threeyear term, staying until June 2022.

The role of Children's Laureate is awarded once every two years to a leading children’s author or illustrator to honour outstanding achievement in their field and to acknowledge their importance in creating the readers of tomorrow.

Cressida plans to continue with her ambitious campaign to make the magic of books and reading available to everyone by making a library in every school in the UK a compulsory legal requirement.

More info: www.childrenslaureate.org.uk

The Great British Beach Clean is back

Become a Citizen Scientist during the annual Great British Beach Clean from 18 to 25 September.

Register to adopt a 100m stretch of beach and organise your own beach clean, with your family, a group of friends or ‘bubble’ in line with government guidance.

The Great British Beach Clean is more than just litter picking - people become citizen scientists and carry out a litter survey, recording what they find on the beaches to help show a national and international picture of the most common forms of litter.

Even if you don’t live near the coast, you can still take part by joining the Source to Sea Litter Quest and spot (and pick up!) common beach litter items in your local area. Did you know that 80% of the litter on beaches around the UK has travelled there from our towns, parks and rivers? More info: www.mcsuk.org

AUDIOBOOKS IMPROVE LITERACY

Audiobooks can benefit children’s reading skills, according to new research published by the charity, the National Literacy Trust.

The report looks at the advantages of listening to a recording of a novel being read, and the impact on young readers.

The research suggests that listening to a recorded story requires the same mental skills as reading in print, so audiobooks can help with understanding words and remembering information. They can also give children access to a broader range of texts and engage readers who might be reluctant, struggling or developing.

Emily Best, from the National Literacy Trust, said: "Audiobooks can be the key to unlocking a child's love of reading. They enable children of all reading abilities and interests to access and explore the incredible world of stories, which are brought to life by a range of exciting voices, different accents and sound effects.” More info: www.literacytrust.org.uk Families Cambridgeshire 5

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Chestnut Nursery School At Chestnut Nursery School in Chesterton we are looking forward to welcoming more of our little ones back from September. It has been an unsettled time in the world but here our focus has been to keep the ‘normality’ of nursery life the same as it always has been. We recognise that children will have experienced a great deal of change in the past six months, we know the consistency of nursery and the children’s routines is of great importance. It is important that we recognise the changes that have happened and support our little ones to feel safe and secure.

For us, the next term ahead is about settling back into nursery life and bringing all those exciting and fun experiences to life again. Alongside the EYFS we follow our core curriculum ‘Little Scientists’ ‘Little Artists’ ‘Little Explorers’ and ‘Cooking Together’ which offer a wealth of wider opportunities to play and learn. We will be focusing on the children’s wellbeing – their personal, social and emotional development to support them to make sense of the world and manage their feelings.

Our outdoor classrooms are spacious and inviting with lots of opportunities to explore throughout the day. Whether it be cooking in the mud kitchen making potions, exploring the wonder of bubbles with water play, climbing and persevering on the obstacle course, biking round the track developing our motor skills or digging up the carrots or potatoes learning about the environment – there is every opportunity for fun and learning in all we do.

The children’s wellbeing is central to all we do at Chesterton. We believe that our children learn, develop and thrive in an environment where they are nurtured, happy and safe. We foster this environment with a team of staff who are passionate and committed to encouraging children to reach their full potential. We believe in embedding

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the skills and early learning which will provide them for lifelong learning.

At Chesterton it is a happy and positive place to be for both children and staff alike. We look forward to welcoming you to our Chestnut family!

If you would like to find out more about a place for your child at Chesterton please contact Helen Clutterham – Nursery Manager 01223 728390 chesterton@chestnut-nursery.co.uk

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Families Baby News

This issue of baby news is slightly different; having given birth to a beautiful daughter at the end of 2019 I thought you might appreciate my TOP TEN PRODUCTS for a newborn.

4. SNUZPOD

This bedside crib meant that my daughter could be right next to me during the night feeds and settled back off to sleep quickly , but also safe in her own space. www.snuz. co.uk

1. STOKKE CHAIR WITH NEWBORN SEAT The newborn attachment meant that I could safely put my daughter down while busy in the kitchen or while we ate our dinner - the seat lies flat so that if she drifted off to sleep she was comfy and secure. The seat grows with your baby through the different stages, so we just swapped the newborn attachment for the baby seat at 6 months. www.stokke.com

8. BABY BJORN BABY CARRIER This has allowed me to continue to walk my dog as my daughter could sleep snugly in the carrier while we trekked along the local bridal paths (which are not wide enough for a pram). As she has got bigger she has enjoyed being close and able to see what is around her, which isn’t so easy in a pram. www.babybjorn. co.uk/baby-carriers/baby-carrier-one-air

5. BRAVADO NURSING BRAS & EXPRESSING BRA This might sound odd, but the expressing bra was a lifesaver, allowing me to express hands free this meant that I could eat, read and drink or even cuddle my daughter while expressing. www.bravadodesigns.com

2. MEDALA DOUBLE BREAST PUMP

A must for any breastfeeding mum. One of the quieter pumps on the market and also compatible with all hospital parts should your baby end up being premature. (Medala rent pumps to mums for just £47 a month). www.medela.co.uk

3. EWAN THE SHEEP:

Replicates the womb sounds which is a great soothing sound for babies to help when getting them off to sleep, Ewan has become part of our bedtime routine. The latest model even has a cry sensor! Available on www.amazon. co.uk

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6. SERAPHINE NURSING VESTS

The vests are a great base layer for breast feeding mums so that when feeding out and about your post baby tummy stays completely covered! They look nice under a shirt too and adds extra warmth. www.seraphine.com

7. BJORN BABY BOUNCER My daughter loved this chair, it has three different height adjustments so that she could lay flat (great if she fell asleep and when she was newborn) and upright (great for feeding if visiting family and friends). Plus the chair folds completely flat, making it great for travelling and storing. www.babybjorn.co.uk/ baby-bouncers

9. CUDDLEDRY TOWEL

Bathing newborns can be a messy business, and when I bathed my boys I would end up soaked. This is a great towel that clipped round my neck so that I could cuddle my daughter in the towel while I dried her, which meant she was happy as she was close to me all the time. www.cuddledry.com

10. KENDAMIL ORGANIC MILK

I am a big advocate of breastfeeding, but for mums that can’t feed or end up having to supplement formula this is a great option. This has been made in the heart of the Lake District for over 58 years, the brand is committed to using the finest ingredients, all of which are sourced entirely from the UK. With The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge as customers it’s fit for a Prince! www.kendamil.com

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W hat’s On

places Things to do, to be to go and fun f had for kids o all ages in

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80TH ANNIVERSARY BATTLE OF BRITAIN AIR SHOW WEEKEND WHEN: 18, 19 and 20 September

WHERE: Imperial War Museum, Duxford

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Little Bugs Club – Great Fen

WHERE: Countryside Centre,

Ramsey Heights

WHEN: September / October

(Term time) Fridays: 10.30 – 12.00 A fantastic introduction to the natural world for pre-school children. Each weekly session is packed with activities, walks and games… be prepared to get mucky. www.wildlifebcn.org 01487 710420

Be part of this special three-day event commemorating the 80th anniversary of the Battle of Britain.

Admission: Adult £36; Child (Under 16); Free www.iwm.org.uk/visits/iwm-duxford

Messy Church

WHERE: Queen Mary Centre,

Wisbech WHEN: 10 October: 15.30-17.30 Monthly fun crafts, Bible stories and songs. Explore faith and enjoy a tasty home-cooked meal at the end.

FREE - donations welcome www.messywisbech.org.uk

Gardens WHEN: 11 October 10.00 – 16.00 Chippenham Park Gardens will be open to the public on Sunday October 11th for a blaze of autumn colour. The gardens, lakes and borders are still full of colour and charm late into summer and we have Bellflower Nursery selling a selection of plants.

Adult £5; Children FREE www.chippenhamparkgardens. info/opening-dates

Where’s Wally?

Spooky Museum Search Fre

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WHERE: The Fitzwilliam Museum

WHEN: 24 October – 1 November

The Fitzwilliam Museum are part of the national Where’s Wally? Spooky Museum Search, organised by Kids in Museums and Walker. Can you find Wally in their collections? Pick up an activity sheet and get a spooky bookmark if you do! Free www.fitzmuseum.cam.ac.uk

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Heritage Open Days WHERE: Cambridgeshire

WHEN: 11 – 20 September

Discover local, hidden gems.

Churches, museums, railways, gardens: lots of venues open their doors to the public.

Booking recommended. FREE www.heritageopendays.org.uk

Open Cambridge WHERE: Cambridge

Autumn Open Garden WHERE: Chippenham Park

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Partyman World of Play WHERE: Mercer Street,

Cambridge WHEN: September & October Huge indoor play frame with specially designed toddler area as well as baby areas for little guests under three years. With café as well as extra activities during holiday periods. Peak and off-peak prices. Membership available. Hire them for fun parties too! £6.45 for 1-3 years £8.95 4-13 years www.partymanworld.co.uk/ location/cambridge

WHEN: 11 - 13 September

Events celebrating city’s heritage, with talks and walking tours.

FREE www.opencambridge.cam.ac.uk 01223 766 766

PYO Pumpkins

WHERE: Lidgate Farm, Isleham WHEN: October

Check facebook for information, then go along to pick your own pumpkin. Farm also sells delicious cakes and has a small indoor play area.

07860 727089

Halloween Special

WHERE: Audley End Miniature

Railway

WHEN: 24 October – 1 November

Your little devils can board the haunted Halloween express and journey deep into the woods to visit the coven of witches together with their pumpkin friends.

Pre-book. £15 (under 92cm £7.50) www.audley-end-railway.co.uk

Archery

WHERE: Ferry Meadows Country

Park

WHEN: 15 September:

From 11.00 Pay and Play Archery sessions will run throughout the day, why not go down and have a go. Sessions will start at: 11:00, 12:00, 14:00, 15:00 and 16:00 each day.

For adults and children aged 8yrs+ £5 per person. neneparktrust.cloudvenue.co.uk

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FAMILY ORIENTEERING WHERE: Trumpington Meadows WHEN: 19 September 1-3pm

WHERE: Milton Country Park) WHEN: 10 October 1-3pm

An easy, fun way for juniors and families to try orienteering.

Three different courses and friendly advice to get you started.

Family groups £5; Adults £4; Children £2 www.waoc.org.uk

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Autumn Clubs & Classes

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Baby Sensory

(0 – 13 months) WHERE: Ely, Cambridge, Cambourne, Trumpington Weekly sessions Multi-award-winning classes specifically designed from birth; packed with sounds, smells, sights, textures, music, dance, signing and massage. £34 for 4 sessions £80 for 10 sessions or @home live online classes £20 for 5 sessions NEW CLIENTS - £8.50 for 1 no obligation trial session www.babysensory. com/en/ClassDetails/ cambridgecambridge@ babysensory.co.uk 07850 163930

Perform

Weekly drama, dance and singing classes WHERE: Hills Road Sports Centre: Wednesdays Newnham Croft Primary School: Saturdays Confidence building fun for 4-12s.

A unique mix of drama, dance and singing specially formulated to bring out every child's true potential. Classes are kept small to ensure lots of individual attention. No-obligation, FREE trial sessions. Call today!

020 7255 9120 www.perform.org.uk/try enquiries@perform.org.uk

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Gymnastics Academy WHERE: North Cambridge

Paxton Lakes Sailing Club

WHERE: Little Paxton

WHEN: 27 – 30 October (9.30 – 12.30 or 13.00 – 16.00) Official RYA training centre that welcomes people 8 years +, with large selection of boats and equipment available. Courses have maximum 12 places with qualified instructors to ensure personal attention.

Adult £125.00 Child £100.00 for 4 half-day sessions plus £6.99 for log book. www.paxtonlakes.org.uk/index. php/sailing-school

Academy, Arbury Rd A series of fun classes for young children: Creepy Crawlies and Wiggly Worms (6wks to crawling); Toddling Tigers (crawling to 2yrs); Jumpy Joeys (2-3yrs), and Marvellous Monkeys (3-4yrs).

Pre-book for term.

From £6.05/session paid termly www.cambridgegymnastics. co.uk finance@cambridgegymnastics. co.uk

Stagecoach Performing Arts WHERE: Cambridge and

Razzamataz

WHERE: Cambridge The Shirley

Centre Chesterton Performing arts training for Razz Tots (2-3yrs), Minis (4-5yrs), Juniors (6-8), Inters (9-11yrs) to Razz Seniors (12-18yrs), with access to talented performers through specialist workshops and classes. Small classes to nurture a child’s confidence and selfesteem, plus a lot of fun.

From £36 for 6 weeks. Free taster session available. www.cambridge.razzamataz. co.uk 01223 755113 or 07895 347239

Cambourne Bring out the best in your child and encourage them to develop excellent communication skills, grow in self-esteem and enjoy the benefits of improved coordination and fitness levels.

Term commences second week September.

From £25 for two-week trial www.stagecoach.co.uk 0800 915 0199

Half Term Cookery Fun WHERE: Cambridge Cookery WHEN: 27 – 30 October

Morning or afternoon sessions for parent and child cookery lessons.

Includes making tray bakes, pasta, Italian and curries. Great for younger kids or older teens.

From £40 www.cambridgecookery.com/ cook/classes

CGA Gymnastics Satellites WHERE: Bottisham, Cambourne,

Chesterton, Ely, Impington Cambridge Gymnastics Academy has a waiting list of over 2000 potential gymnasts! So, they opened 5 new satellite venues to make gymnastics accessible for more children. Enquire at each venue for availability.

From £6/hour www.cgagymnasticssatellites. co.uk

South Cambridgeshire Equestrian Centre WHERE: Barrington

A British Horse Society Approved Riding Centre with private and group lessons for 5 years + with or without riding experience.

From £20/half hour group lesson 01763 263213 or 07712 033862 www.scec.co.uk

Elite Swimming Academy

Weekly Children’s Swimming lessons WHERE: Venues across Cambridge With just 3 students per class and world class teachers, Elite Swimming Academy guarantee to have your child swimming years ahead of their time with a term time, weekly 30-minute lesson. www.eliteswimmingacademy. co.uk 01223 633 699

West Anglian Orienteering Club

WHERE: Milton, Trumpington,

Ferry Meadows Welcome members of all ages and abilities. Hold regular events with courses suitable for children and newcomers, many events have Training sessions for club juniors.

Also provide two junior training nights each term. www.waoc.org.uk/juniors

Yoga & Mindfulness

WHERE: Satyam Yoga Wellbeing

Centre, Cambridge Children and family sessions with physical stretches and postures, use of breath to support emotional regulation, and mindfulness. Check the venue’s website for dates and prices. www.satyamyogacentre. co.uk Info@ Families Cambridgeshire 9

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Helping your Child Deal with Change Change can be a challenge for both parent and child, and is very often a trigger for a range of emotions.

Right now,as the world continues its journey back to some kind of ‘normality,’ it is important that you can help your child deal with the many changes that will come with this, including returning to school.

Change, when not supported appropriately by a caring adult, can feel like a traumatic experience for a child. This can then manifest as emotional issues down the line, so it is important that a child is supported gently and feels seen and heard when change is occurring.

It’s useful to remember also that children connect through fun, so while it is important to talk about change and the feelings associated with it, it’s also necessary to balance this up with time to play. In essence, children need time to process the change but also time away from focussing on it.

With the new school year approaching, here are some tips that can support your child: DEAL WITH YOUR EMOTIONS FIRST. Be aware of your own anxiety around the changes you are dealing with. When you can hold space for your own emotions and know how to support yourself, it makes you more able to hold space for your child’s emotions and understand how to help them. Seek support for yourself, even if it is just a chat with a friend. Remember that it is okay to be honest about your own emotions with your child as that will create connection between you and help your child understand that their emotions are also experienced by others.

PREPARE YOUR CHILD. Talk about the forthcoming changes. Giving your child advance notice will help them be more prepared. Read books or watch television shows that your child can relate to about the changes they are going to be dealing with.

LISTEN TO YOUR CHILD. Validate their feelings. It’s okay for them to feel what they feel. Don’t be tempted to try to rescue them from their feelings or tell them not to worry. By just letting them express how

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they feel, many children will feel better and this will lead to finding solutions to their worries. Observe your child’s physical needs too. If your child exhibits increased anxiety it is also beneficial to reflect with them on stressful past events they dealt with successfully.

Samantha Francis is a mum of two, best-selling author and parenting and relationship specialist.

Settling in

The first half of this new term will see your child reconnecting with friends and classmates they may not have seen for months, getting to know a new teacher or even settling in at a new school.

Observe how your child feels around communication. Kids are often nervous about making new friends through fear of rejection and some role play might help them in the coming weeks. You could practise some conversation starters or developers to get them feeling confident about speaking to new people or getting to know other children better.

If your child has specific worries in their first few weeks back at school or is highly anxious about specific things or more generally, do share this with their teacher so he/she can support you both.

Teaching your child different types of mindfulness activities such as breathing and relaxation will also help them should they start to feel overwhelmed at school. These techniques can also be useful if they are struggling to settle to sleep at night. Remember that it’s best to practise the techniques fairly frequently in order for your child to be able to implement them confidently in stressful situations.

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Good School's Guide

Your Guide To Choosing A Secondary School Working out which secondary school will be right for your child isn’t easy. When so many in the county are highly regarded by locals (and a few not so much) - it can simply add to the stress. With so many opinions, not to mention results and league tables, how can parents possibly know what ‘the best’ school is?

Stumbling your way through the admissions process with minimal research could prove a high-risk strategy. You may end up with a great school but you could also miss spectacularly.

Canny parents save time - and worry - by knowing what information matters (and what doesn’t) and how to get hold of it.

Popular schools, whether state or fee paying, are often oversubscribed. With only a finite number of places on offer, there’s a balance to be struck between aspiration and the cold, hard reality of the admissions mechanics. If your child is one of a thousand others in search of a year 7 place, a tiny detail can have a huge impact. For state schools, you can find out what application numbers were like previous years via the admissions authority or the school itself. Living a few metres out of catchment area for a popular maintained secondary school or academy, or achieving a fractionally lower score in an entrance exam for a private establishment could be all it takes to miss out.

But, depending on which way you look at it, perhaps we should be grateful that in our part of the country – unless you plan on sneaking into a neighbouring authority - we don’t have to deal with the tortuous, drawnout admissions processes and waiting lists associated with grammar schools which occupy every waking thought of ambitious parents elsewhere in England.

When conducting research, can you rely on word of mouth? Dinner party desperation – courtesy of other parents’ views on schools

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– isn’t yet a recognised syndrome (though it probably should be). Yes, the grapevine can be brilliantly helpful - but always supplement it with your own research and drill down into any top line figures you’re given.

The government’s data dashboard makes comparing state schools a doddle. Particularly good is the way you can see not just how well pupils are doing but their journey there.

Brilliant children who end up with brilliant GCSEs show that a school is doing its job.

Students who start off middling and end up with stellar results is testimony to a school’s

Students who start off middling and end up with stellar results is testimony to a school’s commitment commitment to helping everyone achieve the maximum progress.

If you want more information about a particular school, you might be best off talking to someone who really knows their stuff.

You may find teachers at your current school know the lay of the land when it comes to secondary schools. Also, The Good Schools Guide reviews many good local state and independent schools. All are recommended by parents. If a school you have your eye on isn’t here, you may want to ask why.

Some schools are making up for lost time by holding numerous open days this autumn while others are sticking with ‘virtual open days’ for the time being. This is their opportunity to show off and they tend to grasp it with both hands. With every picture telling a thousand words, schools like to say it with a swimming pool or multi-million pound performing arts

centre. But check what exactly the message is – like who gets the chance to use the fab facilities. If they’re restricted to a small elite of top achievers, what happens to the also rans? When looking at a school online, try to not allow your judgement to be led too much by the standard of the presentation but more by the substance of what you’re being shown.

These online events and tours are still in their infancy for most establishments and are not always super smooth.

When you’ve found the right school(s), it’s essential you don’t make mistakes with your applications. With state schools, start with your local authority’s website for information such as schools’ contact details, open day dates and application forms. For schools that wholly, or partly, manage the admissions process themselves (including independent and faithbased state schools), their own websites are the place to start. Independent schools, tend to administer their own assessments which can often involve a written test - although many are not academically selective - and an interview.

The one thing you can’t change, regardless of research and preparation, is the type of child you have. Some children thrive on competition, others are unnerved by it. Some children need to be a five-minute walk from home, others would love a remote boarding school. Schools may specialise in sports, music, drama or technology and that should also be factored into your thinking. If that’s the big draw, go for it. But be honest with yourself and know that transforming a child with a yen for a small, low-key atmosphere into a happy extravert who thrives on corridor horse play and a cast of thousands isn’t an option. Go for a school that’s going to make your child happy – not you.

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Discover who we are...

We are offering Virtual tours through our website and personalised visits for children who are taking their first steps into Early Years, making the transition to Prep School, progressing into Senior School or taking their final steps into 6th Form.

For children in Year 6 who are looking to start Senior School in September 2021, entrance assessments will be taken over the coming months in line with social distancing guidelines.

Scholarships are available for Year 7 across a range of disciplines covering Academic, Art, Music and Drama. Sports scholarships are available in 3rd/4th and 6th Form.

Entrance Assessments for children who are in Year 6 and looking to start Senior School next year are now being carried out throughout September and October.

Contact our Admissions Team to discover more about entry to our School and details about our Scholarship Programme.

Email admissions@wisbechgrammar.com or telephone 01945 586750

Families Education Wisbech Grammar School Wisbech Grammar School is offering 'Virtual tours 'and 'personalised visits' catering for children who are taking their first steps into Early Years, making the transition to Prep School, progressing into Senior School and taking their final steps into 6th Form. We offer children the opportunity to explore, develop, and achieve their own personal success; both academically and pursuing a wide-ranging co-curricular programme. The pastoral care sits at the heart of our educational ethos and we are focused on ensuring our pupils have

the right support, enabling them to be happy, confident and successful.

Discover more about how to visit the School on our website and book your personal tour by speaking to the Admissions Team on 01945 586750 or emailing admissions@wisbechgrammar.com

St Mary’s School Ready, resilient and raring to go – St Mary’s has it covered!

St Mary’s School is the leading independent day and lockdown we were still St Mary’s, with live lessons and boarding school for girls aged 4-18 in Cambridge. even a virtual Sports Day. Whether our students are In our dynamic, nurturing environment we support learning face-to-face or online, we’ve got it covered. our girls to discover, develop and share their unique Visit us - Come and see for yourself what makes talents. From sports stars and performers, to creators St Mary’s so special, or join us for our virtual and thinkers – each girl is valued for her individuality Open Events Book at stmaryscambridge.co.uk/visit and unique potential.

JUNIOR SCHOOL Open Morning – 19 September When St Mary’s School shut to everyone except Online Open Morning – 26 September the children of key workers during lockdown due SENIOR SCHOOL Open Morning – 3 October to Covid-19, we ensured that the learning of our Online Open Morning – 10 October girls continued uninterrupted and we transitioned SIXTH FORM Open Evening – 15 October immediately to remote learning. Throughout Online Open Morning – 17 October

Independent School Open Days – Cambridgeshire HERITAGE SCHOOL

Cambridge, CB2 1JE 01223 350615 www.heritageschool.org.uk Open Morning: Saturday 10th October 10–12.00

KIMBOLTON SCHOOL

Huntingdon, PE28 OEA 01480 860505 www.kimbolton.cambs.sch.uk Senior School / Sixth Form Open Morning: Saturday 3rd October Prep School Open Morning: Friday 9th October

KING’S ELY

Ely, Cambridgeshire, CB7 4EW 01366 660707 www.kingsely.org Nursery – Year 6 Open Morning: Saturday 26th September 9.30-13.00 Year 7 and 9 Open Morning: Saturday 19th September 9.30-13.00 Whole School Open Morning: Friday 27th November 10-12.30

OAKS INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL

Cherry Hinton Road, CB1 8DW 01223 416938 www.oaksinternationalschool.co.uk If you wish to arrange a visit, please call or complete the contact form at www.oaksinternationalschool.co.uk/ admissions/visit-us/

SANCTON WOOD SCHOOL

Cambridge, CB1 2EZ 01223 471703 www.sanctonwood.co.uk Open Morning: Saturday 3rd October 9.30-12.00

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ST. CHRISTOPHER SCHOOL

Letchworth. SG6 3JZ 01462 650850 (Senior School) / 01462 650962 (Junior School) www.stchris.co.uk Please visit www.stchris.co.uk/ admissions/open-days/ for up to date information

ST. EDMUND’S COLLEGE AND PREP SCHOOL

Mount Pleasant, CB3 0BN Ware, SG11 1DS 01920 824247 www.stedmundscollege.org Virtual College Open Events: Saturday 26th September at 9.30am or 12pm, or Thursday 1st October at 6.30pm Virtual Prep Open Events: Saturday 26th September at 11am or Wednesday 30th September at 6.30pm

ST. FAITH’S SCHOOL

Trumpington Road, CB2 8AG 01223 352073 www.stfaiths.co.uk Take a tour of their website for further information about St Faith’s and view their virtual tours at www.stfaiths.co.uk/ news-media/school-videos/

ST FRANCIS COLLEGE

Letchworth Garden City, SG6 3PJ 01462 670511 www.st-francis.herts.sch.uk Open Morning: Saturday 3rd October 10 – 12.30 ‘School in Action’ Open Morning: Friday 9th October 9-12.30

SAINT JOHN’S COLLEGE SCHOOL

THE PETERBOROUGH SCHOOL

ST. MARY’S SCHOOL

THE STEPHEN PERSE FOUNDATION

Grange Road, CB3 9AB 01223 353652 www.sjcs.co.uk Please contact the Registrar, Mrs Mary Robb (admissions@sjcs.co.uk) for confirmation of the next Open Morning dates or to book a tour visit www.sjcs. co.uk/book-tour.

Bateman Street, CB2 1LY 01223 222907 (Junior) 01223 224167 (Senior) www.stmaryscambridge.co.uk Junior School Open Morning: Saturday 19th September 9.30 – 12.30 / Online: Saturday 26th September 9.30 – 12.30 Senior School Open Morning: Saturday 3rd October 9.30 – 12.30 / Online: Saturday 10th October 9.30 – 12.30 Sixth Form: Open Evening Thursday 15th October 17.00 – 20.00 / Online Open Morning: Saturday 17th October 9.30 – 12.30

Thorpe Road, PE3 6AP 01733 343357 www.thepeterboroughschool.co.uk Please visit www. thepeterboroughschool.co.uk/openday where you will find videos from students, staff and teachers introducing you to life at The Peterborough School.

01223 454722 www.stephenperse.com Nursery and Early Years Virtual Open Day Experience: Monday 28th September to Friday 2nd October

ROSEDALE HOUSE Virtual Open Day Experience: Monday 28th September to Friday 2nd October

Cambridge, CB2 7AD 01223 508900 www.theleys.net Open Morning: Saturday 3rd October

DAME BRADBURY’S virtual Open Day Experience: Monday 28th September to Friday 2nd October Senior School Virtual Open Day Experience: Monday 28th September to Friday 2nd October Sixth Form Virtual Open Day Experience: Monday 28th September to Friday 2nd October

Hills Road, CB2 8QF 01223 403800 www.perse.co.uk Pelican Pre-Prep and Prep School Open Mornings: Saturday 3rd October Upper School Open Morning (Year 7 and Year 9 Entry Only): Saturday 26th September Sixth Form Open Evening: Wednesday 21st October

North Brink, Wisbech, PE13 1JX 01945 583631 www.wisbechgrammar.com Virtual Open Days: To arrange a ‘virtual tour’ and ‘personalised visit’ please visit the school website or contact the Admissions Team on 01945 586750.

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THE PERSE SCHOOL

WISBECH GRAMMAR SCHOOL

All details are correct at time of printing.

All events require booking unless otherwise indicated.

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Delivering

Quality Gymnastics to the wider community

The Chesterton Academy

Monday - Chesterton Sport Centre 4.5 - 10yrs Gilbert Road, Cambridge, CB4 3NY

The Cambourne Academy

Tuesday - Cambourne Village College 4.5-15yrs Sheepfold Lane, Cambourne, CB23 6FR

The Ely Academy

Wednesday - Ely College 4.5-15yrs Downham Road, Ely, CB6 2SH

The Impington Academy

Thursday - Impington Sports Centre 4.5-15yrs New Road, Impington, Cambridge, CB24 9LX

The Bottisham Academy

Friday - Bottisham Sport Centre 4.5-15yrs 1 Lode Road, Bottisham, Cambridge, CB25 9DJ

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Clubs & Classes

Out of School, Not Out of Action

By Andrew Campbell

As children move through primary school, the number meeting the recommended amount of physical activity for healthy development and maintenance of healthy weight drops by an astounding 40%.

With children spending more and more time in front of screens, and the huge issue of childhood obesity, this poses parents with a challenge. How to find their children physical activities they enjoy, feel successful doing and, crucially right now, are available this autumn in a safe and socially distanced way? Bear in mind, that whilst government guidance on social distancing allows for certain sports activities to be pursued, there is likely to be limited availability in many areas.

To help you, we have put together the following checklist to out of school activities that promote fitness.

Dancing

Dance is a way for kids to express their creativity, imagination and emotions. Dancing can also increase your child's flexibility, range of motion, physical strength and stamina, as well as provide vital exercise.

Gymnastics

Gymnastics is a demanding sport that requires perseverance and discipline. It develops strength, speed, power, coordination, flexibility and balance. The sense of accomplishment gained from mastering complex physical feats helps children face their fears and find ways to overcome them. To find local clubs, visit www.british-gymnastics.org/discover

Badminton

A great way to get into racket sports, badminton helps develop coordination, agility and balance. It can be played indoors over winter. To find a local club, visit www.badmintonengland.co.uk/ badmintonscotland.org.uk/www. badminton.wales

Football

As well as being the most popular sport in the world, football is one of the most well-rounded sports developing a host of physical and cognitive skills. To find a local club, visit www.thefa.com/www.scottishjuniorfa.com/ www.fawtrust.cymru

Cycling

Cycling is part of growing up. It gives children independence and keeps them fit at the same time. Local cycling clubs offer expert coaching, some amazing cycling facilities as well as an opportunity to make cycling buddies. To find a local club, visit www.britishcycling.org.uk

Swimming

If your child has shown an aptitude for swimming during lessons,they may enjoy competitive swimming in a local club. By joining a club your child will not only enjoy regular exercise but get a feel for the thrill of racing. Bear in mind pools are re-opening slowly and some may not re-open this year.

To find a local club, visit www.swimming.org/ www.scottishswimming.com/ www.swimwales.org/find-a-club

Tennis

Tennis will help your child to develop valuable life skills; such as respect, fair-play and concentration. A great summer sport, it can also be played all year round and into adulthood. To get started in your local area,visit www.lta.org.uk familiesonline.co.uk

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stagecoach.co.uk/cambridge 01223 359974

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