Families Staffordshire Magazine for September to October 2013

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Issue 14 Sept/Oct 2013

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Independent School Open Days What’s On this Halloween

Distributed throughout Staffordshire’s ST postcodes

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A day in the countryside for all the family

Pony Parties Pony Ride Pony Experience We are now providing a new service offering Shetland pony parties & experiences suitable for the younger child aged 2-10 approx.

The ponies are well handled & friendly.

3miles from Leek directly off the A523 Leek to Ashbourne Rd Safety is paramount, your event will be supervised by experienced handlers and safety hats will be provided which all riders must wear.

Beaver Hall , Leek, Staffs ST13 7EZ Tel 01538 304433 www.beaverhall.co.uk

Spooky Half Term Fun Halloween Party

Meet the animals Woodland trail Farm trailer rides Toddlers’ play area Mini ride-on tractors Pony rides Adventure play area Seasonal attractions Refreshments available Picnics welcome

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School holidays need never be boring again!

Thu 31st Oct from 6pm Open from 11am ( last adm. 4pm ) OPEN haLF TERm

mon 28 Oct - Sun 2 Nov admission*: adults £4.50; Children £2.50 ( Grandparents go free! )

*Please note additional charge applies to

trailer rides, pony rides and some seasonal attractions

For more information call 07817 691352 or visit..www.ldfentertainmenthub.co.uk Lower Drayton Farm, Lower Drayton Lane, Nr. Penkridge, Stafford ST19 5RE

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Welcome Letter from the Editor

Welcome

Editor: Becky Fairclough e-mail editor@familiesstaffordshire.co.uk Families Staffordshire PO Box 3501 Stoke-on-Trent ST4 9JX www.familiesstaffordshire.co.uk Tel: 07900925444

Back to School AGAIN! We hope that you have all enjoyed your Summer holidays and are now re-charged ready for the new school year ahead. I must admit that it has been lovely not having to rush around every morning getting mine to school on time.

It’s a big year for us this year. My baby boy has started school. He is one of the last in Stoke-on-Trent to be receiving full time education at 3yrs old and I’m not quite sure whether I love it or hate it. The benefits of not having to travel backwards and forwards from school a million times every day are huge (I really don’t know how other parents manage it). However I am really missing not having my little bundle of fun around. He has been really excited to be starting with all of his pre-school friends so at least he won’t have the uncertainty of new surrounding and having to forge new friendships, he has his best friend Jack to share his new experiences with!

It’s also that time of year again when we like to look at clubs and classes and this year we have included information on Aiming High which offers clubs and classes to disabled children and their families.

I hope that you enjoy reading this issue and don’t forget to stay up to date with all of the Families news by ‘Liking’ us on Facebook www.facebook.com/ FamiliesStaffordshire.

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BECKY FAIRCLOUGH EDITOR

In this issue...

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News SIGN UP FOR HUMPHREY’S PYJAMA WEEK!

Midwifery Family Fun Day On 11th August 2013 the Maternity Unit at Queens Hospitals Foundation Trust, Burton-On-Trent, held a Family Fun day to help raise funds for equipment in the new birthing pool suite.

Children throughout the country are being asked to join former CBEEBIES presenter, Sid Sloane in helping to raise money for a children’s charity.

He is supporting The Children’s Trust in the massively popular Humphrey’s Pyjama Week and is encouraging nurseries, playgroups, primary schools and mother and toddler groups to get involved.

The exciting fundraiser runs from 7-11 October and for a voluntary donation of £2, youngsters, staff and parents can wear their favourite PJs for a day during the week. They can also organise themed events such as best dressed competitions and slumber party games. Why not register now to get a fundraising pack and start planning a week of pyjama fun! Participating nurseries, schools and groups will receive an event pack which includes Humphrey’s stickers, posters, party hats, a certificate for each child, and a story booklet.

Money raised will benefit The Children’s Trust in Tadworth which cares for children from throughout the UK who have complex health needs and disabilities and also provides rehabilitation for children with acquired brain injury.

To sign up or to find out more visit www.thechildrenstrust.org.uk/humphrey or e mail humphrey@thechildrenstrust.org.uk

The theme of the day was “All the fun of an English Seaside”. The public were asked to bring their inflatables, deck chairs and wind shields!

Activities throughout the day included; Donkey rides, children’s crafts, face painting, guided history tours, football with the Billy Brewer mascot, pirate adventures and much more.

20 members of staff turned out to supervise stalls and speak to members of the public at the event, where visitors were transported to the great British seaside for the day. The castle grounds hosted all manner of seaside attractions, ranging from paddling pools and a bouncy castle to donkey rides. Steve Cooper from Emergency Bikers was also there. There was even a band of pirates who added a sense of adventure to the day and the actors staged a shoot out for the delighted crowds.

Midwives Hanna Scorey and Joanne Shillito who organised the fun day said “It was fantastic. We were really pleased with the way it went, this is the first time we have ever organised an event like this.

There were more people than we could have wished for”.

The Maternity Unit is hoping to raise between £3,000 and £5,000 for new equipment. A quiet and tranquil home-from-home environment is planned. It is envisaged that the birthing experience will be improved with equipment that will promote and assist with freedom of movement and allow women to maintain comfortable positions whilst birthing.

New Pregnancy App - Ideal for Expectant Parents on the Go Tech-loving parents-to-be can now get all the information they need about their baby’s development and how to prepare for the birth, thanks to Pregnancy Planner, a new app for iPhone (priced £1.49 from the App Store).

Designed so that it provides personalised information based on the baby’s due date, the Pregnancy Planner app delivers a menu of daily, customised facts and progress reports, plus answers to common questions, useful checklists about what baby kit to buy, and suggestions for baby names.

For first-time parents, Pregnancy Planner provides a wealth of tips and answers to every day questions on a whole range of pregnancy topics, including which foods to avoid, which sports are suitable, advice on common pregnancy health issues, plus travel tips and even advice on sex during pregnancy.

The Pregnancy Planner app for iPhone is now available on the App store, priced £1.49

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Crazy Cupcake Decorating Parties.

For all occasions! We come to you.

Up to 10 children per party Prices from £70 including all equipment & tuition.

Cupcakes to box and take home!

Fun & stress free!

Contact Crazy Cupcakes on: 07411699174 www.crazycupcakeworkshops.co.uk

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Creative dance and movement classes for boys and girls 5 months to 4 years old in Stafford and Haughton.

For more information contact

Helen Yeomans of 07747 036422

momentum_dance_pilates@yahoo.co.uk www.momentumdancepilates.co.uk

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News We nurture…they develop.

We educate…they grow.

Give your child the best possible start in life, and join us here at St Dominic’s Priory School in Stone, Staffordshire.

St Dominic’s Priory School is an outstanding independent day school and nursery, educating girls from 3 months to 18 years and boys to 11 years, with boarding provision for girls from the age of 10. We are extremely proud of our long-standing reputation for high academic achievement.

Our boarding facility, which has been designed to a very high standard, provides for all aspects of a girl’s life and is her home from home; girls who would like to join us as boarders can do so as full, weekly or occasional boarders.

Every journey has a beginning and we look forward to welcoming you on a visit to our school. Experience for yourself what St. Dominic’s Priory School can offer you and your family.

Prospective pupils are invited to join in classroom sessions, tour the school and meet with current pupils and staff.

Join us at our Open Day on 12 October 9.30am to 1pm, or alternatively please call to make an appointment to look around the school and meet our headteacher on a date to suit you. Every day is an open day at St. Dominic’s and we would love to share our school with you.

Please visit www.stdominicspriory.co.uk for more information or call 01785 814 181

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NEW POTTY TRAINING BOOK & DRY LIKE ME PADS

Getting children out of nappies before they start pre-school can be a challenge, and it’s not uncommon for four year olds to start school without being completely dry.

For those looking for some support with potty training, there is a new, easy-to-use and beautifully illustrated book that is full of commonsense tips to make potty training easier. ‘How to Potty Train’ guides parents through each stage of potty training and combines fun sections for kids with advice for parents, so that they can learn together.

Also new for September are two new Dry Like Me potty training pads.

Like the original Dry Like Me pads, the new versions turn children’s ordinary pants into training pants, while still letting them understand when they have had an accident - which is an important part of learning how to get dry.

We have two Dry Like Me potty training prizes to give away.

Winners will receive a ‘How to Potty Train’ book and a box of four packs of Dry Like Me potty training pads.

To have a chance of winning simply visit our competitions page at www.familiesstaffordshire.co.uk/Competitions.

Competition closes 31st October 2013 Terms and Conditions apply.

For Details of local classes contact: Leese Mott 07967 286271 leesemott@singandsign.co.uk

www.singandsign.co.uk

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Education

Which secondary is right for my child

Joanna Moorhead on the 20 things you need to know when choosing ‘big school’

1. Make your own mind up. It’s amazing how many parents never even look round a school because of what they’ve heard. A school that doesn’t suit another family could be just right for yours 2. Listen to your child’s feelings as

well as your own. Choosing his or her primary was down to just you and your partner; but your 10 or 11-yearold deserves a say.

3. Use open days wisely.

If you can, go to a daytime visit (especially to a school that seems a strong contender) because you’ll see it in working mode.

4. Nothing advertises a school like its pupils. Do they seem happy? Are they polite? If you have time, hang around in the area at home time. Are they well-behaved?

6. Listen to your instincts.

9. Pay attention to what’s on the walls – and not just the artwork. What are children being warned about, or encouraged to do? Are there any school visits being advertised? What clubs seem to be thriving?

7. Don’t get bogged down in the

10. Look at the school’s league tables,

8. Think about your child’s talents

11. Where do pupils go on to from this school? You want to see at least some youngsters doing well academically and aiming for good courses at top universities.

If a school doesn’t feel right, move on.

You don’t have to explain yourself or your reasons for doing so to anyone else (although you do, of course, need to discuss it with your child if your instincts are different).

detail: what you’re aiming to get is a sense of the school. Does it feel happy, productive, calm? Is there a sense of order and caring? These things matter more than the nittygritty.

and interests and ponder carefully whether they’ll be catered for. But think too about what the school offers that might be harder to pick up at home. We’re a family of journalists, where literacy is easier for us as parents; so I’m glad my girls went to a school that specialised in maths and science, even though these weren’t their strongest subjects.

but don’t pin everything on them.

Read the Ofsted report too and pay particular attention to how the school has done over time. If it’s had a dip, are there signs of improvement or suggestions that it could turn round?

5. How about the staff – do they seem happy and fulfilled working there? Take opportunities to chat to them.

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Education 12. Go to the head teacher’s talk and take your notebook. This is an important part of the event: not only do you need to pick up on the head’s attitude and values and what matters most to him or her, but you also need to pay special attention to anything that’s said about the entrance criteria.

Understanding that is the crucial next stage.

13. If you like a school, do your

homework about whether your child fits its entrance requirements.

However much you love the school, and however much you think your child would thrive there, you’ll only get a place if you fulfil the criteria.

Read the school’s entrance policy through very, very carefully. If you don’t fulfil the requirements, could you change something so you do?

If not, move on: there’s no point in wasting a choice or railing against something you can’t change.

14. You’re bound to talk to other

parents, and you want to talk to other parents, but don’t get pulled along by their tide. Do your own research and develop your own views: knowledge is power.

15. Keep telling yourself (because it’s true!) that there is no perfect school.

Every school has strengths and weaknesses. There’s more than one school that can be right for your child.

18. Remember that there’s a lot of

16. When the time comes to fill in the

19. Don’t underestimate how much hard work an appeal can be, or how emotionally draining. That’s not to say don’t do it: just be prepared.

forms, allow yourself lots of time and do it extremely carefully. There may be supplementary forms, and there may be complicated arrangements for giving them in (especially if you’re applying to faith schools). If you find it all too confusing, talk to your child’s primary teacher or primary head, or call the education department at your local authority.

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Have a plan of action for what you’ll do if you don’t get the school you’re hoping for. Just having that plan will make you feel more relaxed.

movement in the first few weeks after places are allocated, and many children get in from waiting lists.

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Remember that, at the end of the day, parents make more difference to a child’s future than a school does. Even if your child doesn’t get into your first choice of school (and one in seven didn’t last year) your attitude to that could be a much bigger factor in what happens next for your child than the school itself. Have confidence, first and foremost, in your child. And believe that, together, you will work things out if and when you come up against problems.

Independent School Open Days St Dominic’s Priory School 21 Station Road, Stone.

Saturday 12th October 9.30am-1pm Simply call to book a visit on 01785 814181 www.stdominicspriory.co.uk

Yarlet School Yarlet, ST18 9SU Date to be confirmed this October For further details please call 01785 286568 www.yarletschool.org

Newcastle-under-Lyme School Mount Pleasant, ST5 1DB. 5th October 2013 For further details please call 01782 631197 www.nuls.org.uk

Abbotsholme School Uttoxeter, ST14 5BS Saturday 21 September 2013, 9.30am-4.30pm Saturday 8 March 2014, 9.30am-4.30pm For further details please call 01572 755122

Edenhurst Preparatory School Westlands Avenue, ST5 2PU Tuesday 8th October (09:30 - 12:00) Friday 29th November (14:00 - 16:30) Wednesday 29th January (09:30 - 12:00) Friday 21st March (14:00 - 16:30) For further details please call 01782 619348 www.edenhurst.co.uk

Dates not yet confirmed by: Brooklands School Ltd, Eccleshall Road, ST16 1PD. 01785 251399.

St Bede’s Preparatory School, Stafford, ST17 0XN. 01889 881277.

St Dominic’s School, Brewood, ST19 9BA. 01902 851154.

St Joseph’s Preparatory School, Trentvale, ST4 5RF. 01782 417533 Roch House Preparatory School, Abbots Bromley, WS15 3BW. 01283 840232 Smallwood Manor Preparatory School and Nursery Uttoxeter, ST14 8NS 01889 562083

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Education

School Blues–(bye bye baby)

by Lorraine Conkey – Stafford Reiki

Are you worrying about what will happen on that first day at the new school? Will they get lost in the seemly huge building with its mass of corridors? Will someone sit next to them at lunchtime and make friends in the playground?

All those thoughts go through your mind as you see them off at the door, onto the bus, out of the car, at the school gate. Little Jimmy is a babe no longer, it’s the same for some of us whether is the first day a primary, middle or high school.

Then there is that thought as you turn around if it’s Jimmy’s first day at primary school, what do I do now the house seems empty, the housework gets done in jig time, no one to make lunch for, no picking up random toys that have been discarded, no chattering; the house is quiet.

Don’t get down and depressed, you are still needed and always will be just the focus will change and develop in different ways You always said when you had the time you’d would do various things, the college course, go back to work, learn a new skill or craft, tidy the loft.

Accepting your children are growing up and will not always be there 24/7 for some is an extremely hard fact to face but instead of being Jimmy’s mummy, friend and teacher all in one, the acceptance that others will fight for a space in your child’s life and affection is a difficult time.

Now’s the time to make a plan Become a Volunteer

Learn a new skill

Take time to relax

So many local charities and community groups are crying out for volunteers like you; people who can spare a few hours whilst the children are at school. If you have been a stay at home mum whilst the kids were little, getting back into work can be a very difficult and daunting prospect, so why not brush up on your work skills whilst helping to make a difference to a needy cause.

Many colleges offer part time community courses in subjects such as Basic IT, crafts or even Councelling Skills. Courses range in price, so it is best to check with the college directly.

I know that the prospect of this seems almost alien to most parents. A battle of the conscience would be saying “how can I possibly relax when there is so much to do?”

There are so many different options ranging from helping out at your child’s school as a reading buddy to working in the office at a charity.

If you have an idea of the type of thing that you would like to do then great, but if not then you could contact somewhere like VAST (www.vast.org.uk) whos aim it is to develop, advance and promote the professional development and wellbeing of Voluntary & Community Sector groups in Staffordshire

Search for adult learning courses at the following websites:

www.stoke.gov.uk www.nulc.ac.uk www.staffordcoll.ac.uk www.leek.ac.uk

There will always be jobs that need doing, whether it’s an ironing pile to tackle, the lawn to be mowed, shopping to be done or the beds to be made. But you really do need to take time out for yourself.

You could try meditation, massage, yoga, Reiki or even just taking time to put your feet up with a cuppa. How often could you really do this with the kids at home?

Relaxation is key to wellbeing as it reduces stress levels, improves your immune system and your memory and more seriously decreases the risk of heart attack and helps to protect us from mental health problems.

Get some exercise You don’t have to pay for gym membership to get some exercise. Get on your bike or go for a walk. There are many cycle paths across the county.

Maps can be downloaded at www.staffordshire.gov.uk/transport/walkingandcycling/maps/cyclemaps.aspx Local walking groups and information can be found at www.walkingforhealth.org.uk/ For information on Stafford Reiki visit www.stafford-reiki.org.uk

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Step back into the 1940’s and join Alice Charity

MURDER! Set around the cobbled courtyard, Emma Bridgewater Factory will set the scene for our chilling event ‘Dying to Tell You’.

for a night of suspense, mystery and…

1940’s photo booth with costume accessories Discounted shopping Welcome Drinks

3 Course Dinner followed by tea/coffee Raffle 1940’s costume/black tie optional but highly encouraged The mystery will unfold between each course, but keep your eyes peeled at all times as you may just

catch yourself a killer!

Tickets priced at £35 per ticket (all money raised will go to Alice Charity) For more info and to book tickets visit www.alicecharity.com

To advertise in Families Staffordshire: Call 07900925444 or e-mail editor@familiesstaffordshire.co.uk

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The Benefits of Inclusion

By Rachael Ross, Chair, Portsmouth Down Syndrome Association When I went to school in the mid ‘70s and ‘80s, children with any form of disability were not actively encouraged into mainstream education. This absence of anyone with a disability was also reflected in the wider community.

Consequently when I left school, and for much of my early adult life, I had never even met or spoken to a person with a disability, leaving me awkward and unsure how to interact in their company.

Thankfully times have changed, and children with a wide variety of additional needs are now commonplace in mainstream education. Children like my son Max. Max is eight and happens to have Down syndrome. Until the 1970s it was still widely believed that children with Down syndrome were uneducable, and they were denied that most fundamental of childhood rights; an education. We now know that with right specialist support these children can learn alongside their peers, and today, more children than ever before are being successfully included in mainstream schools. That’s not to say that special schools do not play an equally important role. It has to be a decision based on what’s best for each individual child and their specific needs.

For Max, the benefits in attending mainstream education are huge. Speech and language issues are a significant problem for nearly all children with Down syndrome, and can lead to frustration and isolation if not tackled head on.

Studies show that when they attend mainstream school, these children develop at least two years faster with spoken language and literacy.

They also benefit from having positive role models. Max needs to be around his typically developing peers, not just for PE and playtime, but there needs to be meaningful interaction. He needs to feel that he is part of the class, part of the wider school community, with the same opportunities and responsibilities as the other children. Otherwise how can we expect him to interact successfully with society as an adult?

We are very fortunate that Max’s teachers have created a welcoming and caring environment where he is very much a part of school life.

When we visit, I am always overwhelmed by the genuine affection and friendship shown to Max by both staff and pupils. Many of the children have grown up with Max, and see it as nothing unusual that he is in their class working with them.

In turn, I’m sure the children benefit from being with Max. They learn to celebrate differences. They learn acceptance and patience, and will hopefully grow into more tolerant adults which will lead to a more accepting and integrated society.

Inclusion is helping to steadily improve society’s attitude towards Down syndrome, fuelled by more positive media portrayal. Several top retailers including M&S, Next and Boden have used children with Down syndrome in their advertising campaigns. Actors with Down syndrome have played characters in popular TV shows such as Glee and Downton Abbey. Individuals are becoming role models, and are themselves changing misconceptions, like Simon Beresford, who in 2007 became the first person with Down syndrome to complete the London Marathon, and now eight marathons later is an inspiration for people around the world.

More is being achieved than ever before, but there is a still a long way to go. Down syndrome is the most common cause of intellectual disability and yet funding does not reflect this. The situation has worsened in the recent economic climate, and parents are becoming increasingly frustrated by the lack of access to specialist support like speech and language therapy, which help enable their children to participate in mainstream education. As the Coalition Government plans to ‘end the bias towards mainstream’, there is a real risk that 30 years of slow uphill progress will be undermined unless there is adequate investment in training, research, resources and specialist support.

We have seen glimpses of what can be achieved as children with the right skills and support go on to lead more independent and productive lives, enter employment, and become valued members of their communities. But as yet, there has never been an entire generation of children with Down syndrome that has passed through the system with adequate and sustained support in all areas of need, continuing into early adulthood. Until this happens, we will never be sure of their true capabilities.

Rachael is the Chair of Portsmouth Down Syndrome Association (Footprints) which offers friendship, advice and a wide range of educational services to children, their families, schools and professionals in Portsmouth and across the South East.

To find out more visit www.footprintsds.org

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Clubs & Classes

Aiming High

Aiming High in Staffordshire funds a variety of short break activities and services for disabled children, young people and their families.

Lots of exciting Aiming High activities are available including family fun days, sports, music workshops and much more. The majority of these activities are free and are available to disabled children and young people up to the age of 17 years old and their families who are resident in Staffordshire. They provide a great little brochure of clubs and activities and the next one is due out any time now.

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“I have been taking my child to North Staffs Special Adventure Playground for quite some time. It’s nice to have family days as I can talk to other mums.”

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For further information on this service and for a copy of the brochure contact: Staffordshire www.staffordshire.gov.uk/aiminghigh or call 01785 278072 Stoke-on-Trent www.crossroadsstaffordshire.org.uk/aiminghigh.php or call 01782 268391 www.familiesstaffordshire.co.uk

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Clubs & Classes

Extra-curricular activities

By Ellen Arnison

Football or Ballet, Drama or Brownies - How do you know what, and how much, out-of-school activity is right for your child? ot long after your son or daughter disappears through Ask yourself if your the classroom door for the first time, the choice becomes child gets something bewildering. Their schoolbags come home stuffed with leaflets from the activity from this or that organisation promising all manner of benefits from enrolling in their classes. You may find yourself feeling guilty if you that they don’t get don’t sign up to everything. elsewhere and that it complements Please take a deep breath and relax.

Extra-curricular activities are not essential; what’s already many children do perfectly well without going on. them. However, there are some benefits

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from a few well-chosen groups, clubs or classes. With the best will in the world, school cannot teach all the skills you might consider essential for modern life. Swimming lessons, for example, or cycling proficiency are crucial for safety.

In addition, carefully selected activities can bring numerous other benefits that could help your child now and in the future. They will get a huge confidence boost from participating in an enjoyable activity they are successful at. A shy child, for example, may flourish in a dance class.

As well as learning new skills, more subtle benefits include fostering a sense of community, increasing self-sufficiency and allowing a child – particularly one in a large family – something they feel is their own. Club time can also allow one-to-one time for other children.

While these advantages are very real, care must be exercised when choosing activities. Too many and the wrong ones will only leave everyone fed up and exhausted.

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or example, an active youngster who is already in the football team might be better balancing their activities with music or drama than adding another sport. Equally a child timid in the classroom may get great gains from being in a choir if it boosts their confidence. A more tricky area is an activity you’d like your child to do when they’d rather spend their afterschool time at home relaxing. Only you can tell if they are genuinely exhausted by a day’s education or not. However, do take their views into account as there really is no point in forcing a child into something they hate. And some school stages are more taxing than others.

After-school activities affect the whole family. No one wants to spend all their time ferrying children from one activity to another while dinner that still needs to be prepared and other children become resentful. So only commit to out-of-school activities that fit comfortably into the schedule and budget. It may transpire that your time and money can be better spent on family activities at home.

When you do decide on a class or club – take some time to check it out. Find out how long it has been running, do other parents recommend it, are the staff Disclosure or CRB checked?

The easy choices are the ones your children are desperate to do.

Although beware of signing up for something just because your son or daughter’s best friend is doing it, this may not be a good enough reason.

While extra classes keep your children entertained and active, it’s also important that they have some unstructured time – even that they are allowed to feel bored. If they bounce from one organised thing to the next, they’ll never learn the important skill of amusing themselves.

Liat Hughes Joshi, author of Raising Children: The Primary Years says “If you decide to do none at all, you won’t be short-changing her if her after-school activity consists of nothing more than a TV programme, a snack and some good, old-fashioned playing.”

SEN activities

Children with special educational needs can benefit hugely from well-chosen extra-curricular activities.

Even with the best educational support, SEN children can often feel ‘less’ than their peers. They may be aware of their difficulties and differences and this can have a profound effect on their confidence.

Therefore an activity they can participate in successfully is a huge boost to their self-esteem. For example a dyslexic child, for whom school is a struggle, may blossom as a leading light in the dance troupe.

Equally there are other more educational and developmental benefits that make extra-curricular activities important. Dyspraxic youngsters, for instance, can find their co-ordination improves while doing karate or trampolining.

Clubs can be important social outlets for SEN children, perhaps giving them a chance to meet others facing similar challenges. The school or local authority will be able to advise about SEN groups in your area.

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Top Halloween Events Children’s Daytime Halloween Haunted Castle Ladybank, Staffordshire B79 7NA Sunday 27th October – Friday 1st November 2013

Be prepared to be scared this Autumn half term as a frighteningly great day out awaits. Make spells and play bogie marbles with the hags or seek out the executioner and find out his favourite form of execution! Enjoy a chillingly fun day out and come along in your own Halloween costume. Try out some spooky craft activities during your visit.

Time: Normal opening hours: 11.30am-4.45pm. (last admission 4.00pm.)

Admission Price: Adult £7.00, OAP/Concessions £6.00, Child 5+ £4.50, Child 2-4yrs £1.50, Child under 2years free. Family ticket (2 adults + 2 children) £21.

Craft activities are an additional charge of 50p No need to book just turn up.

Halloween Spooktacular at Shugborough Hall Stafford, ST17 0XB Thursday 31st October 2013 Gates creak open at 5pm

Halloween Halloween at Weston Park

Weston-under-Lizard, Nr Shifnal, Shropshire TF11 8LE Sunday 27th October 2013 There will be some seriously spooky goings on in the woods at Weston this Halloween!

There are two ways to travel to the Wild Woods this year; you can wrap up warm and climb aboard the Phantom Express for a train ride or jump on the Haunted Hayride and join the Old Hag for a journey with a difference - you will then be dropped off to find your way back following the Pumpkin Lantern Trail.

After the scary walk, enjoy a sausage sizzle and a cup of warming pumpkin soup and children can take part in Halloween craft making activities and do the ‘monster mash’ at the spooky disco.

Children are encouraged to come in fancy dress and there will be prizes for the best, with all the little monsters leaving with a ghostly goody bag of Halloween treats.

Ticket Prices: Family (2+2) £30.00 Adult £7.50 Child (4-14 years) £9.50 Adult + Child £16.00 Tickets include: Ride on the Phantom Express OR Haunted Hayride, spooky disco, craft making activities, sausage sizzle and pumpkin soup and a spooky goody bag for children.

For more information call 01952 852100

Dust off your broomsticks and dress up your kids as Shugborough prepares for the return of its spookiest Halloween ever.

The ghoulish mansion house and servants’ quarters will be transformed into a fun, haunted house and visitors are advised to watch out, as behind every corner lies a bump, a bang or an icy tap on the shoulder.In addition, visitors can have a shriek of a time on the garden ghost train and on a pumpkin trail into the depths of the Shugborough grounds. There will also be a fun fair (additional charges apply), a kids’ disco, free face painting, a variety of entertainment, trick or treating, apple bobbing and several traders selling gifts, food, toffee apples, roast chestnuts and warm punch.

Ticket Prices Adult (in advance) £10.00 (on the night) £12.00 Child(over 5s)/Concession (in advance) £7.50 (on the night) £9.50 Family(in advance) £30.00 (on the night) £37.00 (a family ticket is for 2 adults and up to 3 children) Tickets now available to buy online at www.shugborough.org.uk , or via the Box Office on 0845 459 8900.

Halloween at Lower Drayton Farm Penkridge, Stafford, ST19 5RE

Spooky goings-on down on the farm this October

On Saturday 26th October Fright Night celebration will see crowds entertained by fairground rides, while those brave enough may wish to take on the Zombieinfested Maize Maze, where hoards of the living dead will stalk unwitting visitors in the dark. The evening will culminate in a fireworks display of epic proportions while hot food & drink, a licensed bar and DJ will ensure the evening goes with a ‘bang’.

For younger children, the farm’s ‘Ultimate Family Fun Farm Adventure’ will open its gates all October Half Term week, giving children the chance to get out into the fresh autumnal air and enjoy meeting friendly animals, pony rides, farm trailer rides, the woodland walk, adventure and toddlers’ playgrounds and mini ride-on tractors.

There’s set to be an extra-special treat for kids on the evening of 31st October, when the farm plays host to a special Spooky Halloween Party - the farm’s resident witch will tell spooky stories from her woodland haunt, fancy dress will be encouraged, there will be a pumpkin carving competition and face painting alongside apple bobbing , pumpkin races and a ‘splat the bat’ game.

For further information, ticket prices and opening times visit www.lowerdraytonfarm.co.uk

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What’s on

Sept Saturday 7th September 2013 Festival of Fireworks at Catton Hall Walton-upon-Trent, Derbyshire, DE128LN The best annual fireworks display in the area, not to be missed.

For more information and ticket prices visit www. festivaloffireworks.co.uk or tel 01384 402255 Childrens new, nearly new and craft sale in aid of PreemiesUK The Scout HQ, Ironstone Road, Chase Terrace, Burntwood Staffordshire WS7 1LL Charity table top sale baby items/clothes etc, from birth to 12 years plus we now have crafts, face painter Please come join us help raise money for charity and you might get yourself a bargain at the same time.

Entrance 20p Refreshments will be on sale Fantastic Hamper Raffle Donation buckets Childrens free craft table 2pm – 4pm

Saturday 7th – Sunday 8th September 2013 The Britania Stadium Big Motor Show Stanley Matthews Way, Stoke-on-Trent, ST4 4G Looking for a new car/used car? A weekend of motoring with dealers showcasing new & used cards & more.

Admission to the Big Motor Show is free and there will also be free parking.

For more information and ticket prices visit www.stokecityfc.com/commercial/events or tel 01782 592212

Saturday 12th – Sunday 13th September 2013 Heritage Open Day at Emma Bridgewater Lichfield Street, Stoke-on-Trent, ST1 3EJ For more information www.emmabridgewaterfactory.co.uk or tel 01782 201328

Friday 13th September 2013 All Fired Up – at Gladstone Pottery Museum Uttoxeter Road, Longton, Stoke-on-Trent, ST3 1PQ The building tells its stories... a performance event in the courtyard of Gladstone Pottery Museum. Weaving original words from pottery workers, with poetry music and dance celebrating the Gladstone site and the pottery industry of Stoke-on-Trent.

FREE entry For more information visit www.stokemuseums.org.uk or tel 01782 235399

Saturday 14th and Sunday 15th September 2013 Battle of Britain Weekend at RAF Cosford Museum Shifnal, Shropshire, TF11 8UP The Museum will be commemorating the Battle of Britain, considered the most important event in Royal Air Force history, with a nostalgic family weekend of events and activities for the whole family to enjoy.

For more information visit www.rafmuseum.co.uk or tel 01902 376200

Saturday 14th September 2013 Dance with Dougie at Fenton manor Sports Complex City Road, Fenton, Stoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire, ST4 2RR Douglas Macmillan Hospice Danceathon and World Record Breaking Attempt. World Record Attempt for the largest gathering of people dressed as sunflowers. The record stands at 571 so we are aiming for 800 and trying to raise £40,000. Special live performance from X Factor finalist.

For more information visit www.dougiemacevents.co.uk or tel 01782 344304

Saturday 21st September 2013 NCT Nearly New Sale Birches Head High School, Birches Head Rd, Stoke-on-Trent ST2 8DD Top quality baby and children’s clothes and equipment at bargain prices.

11.30am – 1pm For more information visit www.nct.org.uk/nns

Oct Friday 4th October – Sunday 6th October 2013 Stone Food and Drink Festival Stone, Staffordshire, ST15 8JR Sponsored by Taste of Staffordshire, the focus of the 2013 festival will be, once again, to showcase the very ‘Best that Staffordshire has to offer’ – from the best food in the county’s larder through to artisan producers and the region’s star chefs Gate ticket £6 per day For more information visit www.stonefooddrink.org.uk or tel 01785 818289

Friday 4th October 2013

Autumn Fair at Trentham Gardens The Trentham Estate, Stone Road, Trentham, Stoke-on-Trent, ST4 8JG The Autumn Fair will be held in a marquee located in the Shopping Village car park. It will be packed with traders and makers offering colourful and unusual gifts, artisan foods and crafts.

In the adjoining marquee there’ll be fun workshops and demonstrations running throughout the day to keep all the family entertained. £2.50 entry to the Autumn Fair - pay on the day only.

Children under 16 FREE! For more information visit www.trentham.co.uk or tel 01782 646646

Alice Charity Murder Mystery Night – ‘Dying to tell you’ Emma Bridgewater Factory, Lichfield Street, Stoke-onTrent, ST1 3EJ Step back into the 1940’s and join Alice Charity for a night of suspense, mystery and… MURDER! Set around the cobbled courtyard, Emma Bridgewater Factory will set the scene for our chilling event ‘Dying to Tell You’. The night includes; 1940’s photo booth with costume accessories, Discounted shopping, Welcome Drinks, 3 Course Dinner followed by tea/coffee, prize giving and a top raffle.

1940’s costume/black tie optional but highly encouraged The mystery will unfold between each course, but keep your eyes peeled at all times as you may just catch yourself a killer!

Tickets priced at £35 per ticket (all money raised will go to Alice Charity) For more info and to book tickets visit www.alicecharity.com or tel 01782 627017

Saturday 28th September 2013

Saturday 19th October – Sunday 3rd November 2013

Staffordshire Autumn Arts and Craft Fair Stafford Rangers Social Club, Stafford, ST16 3UF Browse through jewellery, make up, candles, glassware and silk products, kitchenware, skin care products, wooden crafts.Toys, handbags and a huge amount of goodies to treat yourself or buy gifts for friends and family 12pm – 4pm For more information visit www.lrpartnership.co.uk

Scarefest at Alton Towers Resort Alton, Staffordshire, ST10 4DB Alton Towers Resort Scarefest 2013 promises to offer the most terrifying event to date! There is something for all thrill seekers and families, with tons of terrific rides, blockbusting attractions, amazing live shows, and weird and wonderful costume characters. Join us for our terrifying Scarefest event during 19th October - 3rd November and ride your favourite rides after dark! ..Scarefest tickets include: Theme Park - Rides and attractions are open from 10am, with most rides open in the dark until 9pm!

Entry to the famous Terror of the Towers Scare maze Visit www.altontowers.com for more info.

Saturday 21st and Sunday 22nd September 2013

Sunday 29th September 2013 Annual Chilli Festival at the Dorothy Clive Garden Willoughbridge, Market Drayton, Shropshire, TF9 4EU It’s going to be a scorcher! A fun packed day for families and children including a Chilli Eating Contest, Best Chilli Sauce Contest judged by spice expert, tv presenter, chef and culinary adventurer Emma Grazette, chilli crafts for kids, chilli inspired stalls, practical demonstrations and chilli/spice workshops.

DCG members free, non members £3.50 For more information visit www.dorothyclivegarden.co.uk or tel 01630 647237

While every care has been taken to compile the listings in this magazine, please remember that it is printed weeks in advance of the events. Therefore it is always best to call and check the events with the venue to avoid any disappointment.

Sunday 20th October – Sunday 3rd November 2013 Halloween Spooky Fun at the National Forest Adventure Farm Postern Road, Tatenhill, Burton upon Trent, Staffordshire, DE13 9SJ Enjoy a Halloween family day out at the National Forest Adventure Farm running over the half term holidays. Visit the spooky Barn and find the Mummies in the maze. Each day there will be spooky delights including Pumpkin Carving and Ghost Stories. You can also test your aim with Pumpkin Catapults and Corn Cannons. Come dressed as your favourite Halloween character to win prizes in our fancy dress competition. Hunt the mummies in the maize maze and visit the Creepy Haunted Barn.

For more information visit www.adventurefarm.co.uk or tel 01283 533933

Friday 25th October – Sunday 3rd November 2013 Halloween at Hoo Farm Preston on the Weald Moors, Telford, Shropshire TF6 6DJ For more information visit www.hoofarm.com or tel 01952 677917

Saturday 26th October – 31st October 2013 Halloween at Lower Drayton Farm Lower Drayton Lane, Penkridge, Stafford, ST19 5RE Spooky goings-on down on the farm this October (see page 13) For more information visit www.lowerdraytonfarm.co.uk or tel 07817 691352

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What’s on Saturday 26th October 2013 Big Time American Wrestling at the Victoria Hall Bagnall Street, Cultural Quarter, City Centre, Stoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire, ST1 3AD All Star Superslam wrestling delivers an explosive evening of top line action for all the family to enjoy! A brand new 2013 line up will make one of Britain’s longest established wrestling arenas, even better than before! So whether you have or have not seen this before, it will be fun for all of the family!

For more information visit www.atgtickets.com/shows/big-time-american-wrestling/ victoria-hall/ or tel 08448717649

Saturday 26th October 2013 Children’s Halloween Evening at Tamworth Castle Tamworth, Staffordshire, B79 7NA Hosted by the Friends of Tamworth Castle, come and enjoy the ghostly goings on around the Castle, fun for all the family. Free pumpkin lantern for all paying children.

This event will launch a week of ghostly activities at the Castle during the half term holiday.

Adult £6.00, Child £5.00, No Concessions Pre-booking is essential with full payment at time of booking.

For more information visit www.tamworthcastle.co.uk or tel 01827 709581 The Ghost Train at Churnet Valley Railway Kingsley and Froghall Station, Froghall, Staffordshire, ST10 2HA Dare you ride the Churnet Valley Railways “Deadly Shadows Express Train”!? Then come and join us for a spooktacular evening of fun and entertainment.

For more information visit www.churnet-valley-railway.co.uk or tel 01538 750755

Sunday 27th October - Friday 1st November 2013 Halloween Haunted House at Tamworth Castle Tamworth, Staffordshire, B79 7NA Be prepared to be scared this Autumn half term as a frighteningly great day out awaits. make spells and play bogie marbles with the hags or seek out the executioner and find out his favourite form of execution!

Enjoy a chillingly fun day out and come along in your own Halloween costume. Try out some spooky craft activities during your visit.

For more information visit www.tamworthcastle.co.uk or tel 01827 709626

Monday 28th October – Saturday 2nd November 2013 Cats at The Regent Theatre Piccadilly, Cultural Quarter, City Centre, Stoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire, ST1 1AP Adapted from TS Eliot’s Old Possum’s Book of Practical Cats, this wonderful blend of fantasy, drama and romance is set on the night that the Jellicle Cats meet for the Jellicle Ball in a sparkling fusion of music, dance and verse. With an amazing musical score that includes the timeless Memory, spectacular set designs, stunning costumes and breathtaking choreography, CATS is a magical musical like no other. One of the longest-running shows in West End and Broadway history, CATS has enchanted audiences in over 300 cities around the world – now you too have the chance to experience this legendary musical phenomenon.

Tickets priced between £15.00 - £39.50 For more information visit www.atgtickets.com/shows/cats/regent-theatre or tel 0844 871 7649

Monday 28th October – Friday 1st November 2013

Thursday 31st October 2013

Halloween Code Cracker at Wedgwood Museum Wedgwood Drive, Barlaston, Stoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire, ST12 9ER Josiah Wedgwood’s experiment books were all written in code, to keep the recipes for his clay and glazes safe and to avoid industrial espionage. Crack the code in our gallery trail that will lead you to some of Josiah’s favourite pieces.

Join us in the Darwin suite to create your own coded door sign. £2.50 per person For more information visit www.wedgwoodmuseum.org.uk or call 01782 371900

Halloween Hi-Jinx! at Greenway Bank Country Park Greenway Bank Road, Knypersley, Knypersley, Nr Biddulph, Stoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire, ST8 7QX There will be pumpkin carving, toffee apples, face painting, Halloween crafts and more.

Plus, a scary woodland walk, followed by a bowl of pumpkin soup to calm your nerves. Why not come in fancy dress, we will be! Meet at Greenway Bank Visitor Centre Advance booking required. £6.00 per person with a £3.00 deposit.

For more information visit www.staffordshire.gov.uk/environment/eLand/ Countryside/OpenSpaces/OpenSpacesGreenwayBank. aspx

Wednesday 30th October 2013 Half Term Activities at Staffordshire Regimental Museum Whittington Barracks, Lichfield, Staffordshire, WS14 9PY Museum staff and volunteers will give any visiting children the chance to get their hands dirty with some fun craft activities.Normal admission price applys. £1.00 donation per child if taking part in the craft activities.

For more information visit www.staffordshireregimentmuseum.com

Wednesday 30th and Thursday 31st October 2013 Halloween Hands On Horror at Stafford Castle and Visitors Centre Newport Road, Stafford, Staffordshire, ST16 1DJ Museum staff and volunteers will give any visiting children the chance to get their hands dirty with some fun craft activities.Normal admission price applys. £1.00 donation per child if taking part in the craft activities.

For more information visit www.staffordbc.gov.uk or call 01785 619619

Thursday 31st October 2013 Halloween Ghost Search at Tamworth castle Tamworth, Staffordshire, B79 7NA This is an event suited for those serious about paranormal investigation. The night will include a ghost walk around the Medieval Castle and then vigils conducted in reputedly haunted rooms led by mediums. Some equipment is provided but please feel free to bring any cameras or camcorders. On arrival a soft drinks bar will be available and during the evening a complimentary tea and coffee break with cake will be served.

A bar will not be available for this event. We would also advise warm clothing. Torches, cameras and rugs or cushions (for use during vigils) are also recommended. £26.00 per person, No concessions for this event.

Over 16’s ONLY For more information visit www.tamworthcastle.co.uk or call 01827 709581

or call 01782 302030

Thursday 31st October 2013 Halloween Spooktacular at Shugborough Estate Milford, Stafford, Staffordshire, ST17 0XB Dust off your broomsticks and dress up your kids as Shugborough prepares for the return of its spookiest Halloween ever.

In Advance: Adult £10.00, Child/Conession £7.50, Family £30.00.

On the Night: Adult £12.00, Child/Connession £9.50, Family £37.00 For more information visit www.shugborough.org.uk or call 01889 881388

Thursday 31st October 2013 Postman Pat at Stafford Gatehouse Theatre Eastgate Street, Stafford, ST16 2LT See Pat and his friends live on stage in an exciting new story - It’s Showtime Gatehouse Theatre, £12.50 / £10.50 Concession / Family Ticket £40 when purchased before 31/8/13.

After this date Family Ticket £42. Please note Family Tickets are only available via Box Office.

See more at: www.staffordgatehousetheatre.co.uk/ whats-on/family/Postman-Pat#sthash.FRDmcoo0.dpuf or call 01785 254653

Friday 1st November 2013 Fireworks Display at Trentham Gardens The Trentham Estate, Stone Road, Trentham, Stoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire, ST4 8JG Back by popular demand, the Fireworks at Trentham, organised in conjunction with the Rotary Clubs of North Staffordshire, will explode above the lake once again.

For more information and ticket prices visit www.trentham.co.uk or call 01782 646646

Monday 28th October 2013 Discovery Days and Trench Tours at Staffordshire Regimental Museum Whittington Barracks, Lichfield, Staffordshire, WS14 9PY Our uniformed guides will take you on a detailed tour of the museums trench and describe what life was like for British servicemen during the two World Wars. Parents and children will get the opportunity to try on some uniforms as well as handling weapons and equipment from the time.

Adults: £3.00, Children & Concessions: £2.00, Family £6.00 For more information visit www.staffordshireregimentmuseum.com

Monday 28th and Tuesday 29th October 2013 Little Bo Peep at Stafford Gatehouse Theatre Eastgate Street, Stafford, ST16 2LT Little Bo Peep has lost her sheep and doesn’t know where to find them. Her friend Little Boy Blue is doing his best to help find the woolly runaways but he keeps falling asleep.

Meanwhile, The Nursery Rhyme Man is in his kitchen baking a surprise cake for Little Bo Peep’s birthday. As he works a naughty mouse keeps stealing the ingredients.

Tickets £7, Family Ticket £24 Please note family tickets only available via the box office on 01785 254653.

See more at: www.staffordgatehousetheatre.co.uk/whats-on/family/ Little-Bo-Peep#sthash.zlLvaWLT.dpuf

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